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Speaker 1: do second date updates, but they're scared to use their name.

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Speaker 1: For whatever reason, they want to remain anonymous. Like the

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Speaker 1: guy on the phone for today's second Date update won't

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Speaker 1: even tell me what his name is. I said, fine,

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Speaker 1: we'll give you an alias. How about Farkeley the name?

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Speaker 1: And he said no, He said he didn't like the

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Speaker 1: name Farkeley. Yeah, because he sounds like a golden retriever.

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Speaker 1: But we can call him Dennis. So quote Dennis is

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Speaker 1: on the phone, en quote, what's up, Dennis Hiler? Guys,

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Speaker 1: how are you doing? Good man? First of all, why

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Speaker 1: real name? Well, you know, I just defer not to

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Speaker 1: have that information out there. You know, it's a public

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Speaker 1: form here on the radio, you know, just prefer to

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Speaker 1: keep it secretly. Dennis can I just ask you right

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Speaker 1: off the bat, you're not married or anything? Right? No, No,

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Speaker 1: you're not married. So why don't you tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about the girl that you want to call today?

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Kathy? Is that her

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Speaker 1: say that's that's name. Well, I'm going to have to

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Speaker 1: Kathy's not here right now. I don't know how to

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Speaker 1: help you. Well, say she'll respond to Kathy. Okay, Hey,

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Speaker 1: all right, where did you meet Kathy? Or can we

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Speaker 1: know that? So? Well? I met? I met her? Where

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Speaker 1: she works? Okay? And where does she work? Um? It's

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Speaker 1: store in downtown Erie. Okay? And do you do you

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Speaker 1: work at said store as well? Dennis? Um? I would

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Speaker 1: rather not say. What are you going to answer for us? Then?

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Speaker 1: We would like to get a little information from you.

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Speaker 1: So far, you've told us that you met a girl

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Speaker 1: whose name could possibly be Kathy. We don't know your name,

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Speaker 1: do my best to answer as much as I can. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: say this, I'll say this much that I did meet her.

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Speaker 1: I did. I did speak with her, and I uh,

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Speaker 1: that's all. I just, you know, I have to be cautious. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what did you guys do for your day? I know,

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Speaker 1: because I have no information. Dennis. Are you concerned at

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Speaker 1: If you miss the first part of today's second date update,

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Speaker 1: it's one that's shrouded in mystery. Dennis is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: That's not even his real name. He asked to go

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Speaker 1: But what did she say, Dennis? What were her words?

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Speaker 1: She said, let's save it for next time. Let's save

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Speaker 1: it for next time, which means that she was probably

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Speaker 1: planning on another date. But now she hasn't called him back,

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Speaker 1: and he's wondering why. And we're gonna get her on

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Speaker 1: more information about your date, Dennis. Well, we'll see. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's really not that much more that she could tell

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Speaker 1: one are my friends don't like hearing stories from me.

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Speaker 1: It's like, how would your day? Yeah? It was all right,

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. Oh I'm good. I'm sorry. Who

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Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh um, Sorry, can

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Speaker 1: And this is gonna be hard for me to tell

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Speaker 1: He wouldn't give us any information and acted like everything

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