1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve camera. 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to Stuff Mom Never Told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: From house stup works dot Com. Hello, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: the podcast. I'm Kristen and I'm Caroline, and today we 5 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: are talking about the Playboy Club as opposed to Playboy 6 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: the magazine, which uh, I'm sure at some point and 7 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: stuff I've never told you, history of the future we'll 8 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: talk about um. And we were initially inspired to talk 9 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,279 Speaker 1: about the Playboy Club because of this show that got 10 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: a lot of buzz on NBC UM called called the 11 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: Playboy Lust's called the Playboy Club and as uh, as 12 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: fate would have it. As we were in this podcast 13 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: studio recording this episode, you're about to hear on the 14 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: Playboy Club, NBC was busy announce saying that they were 15 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: canceling the show, right, So just bear that in mind 16 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: as we make a couple of references to this show. 17 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: It's it's very it's not so much about the show though, 18 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: as about the actual history of the Playboy Club, right, Yeah, 19 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: We're just going to talk about the history of the 20 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: club and how it came about, where where it is 21 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: now and how maybe it really is not nearly as 22 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: glamorous as they portray it on television, right um, Because 23 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: Gloria's Steinum in fact called for a boycott of this 24 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: NBC show before it premiered, Um saying that it is 25 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: glamorizing this life, that is the life of the bunny 26 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: who worked at the Playboy Club, because there is a 27 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: difference right between bunnies and playmates, right yeah. If you 28 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: if you landed the cover, you were a playmate if 29 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: you were in the magazine. So basically, if you were 30 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: someone's bunny waitress, you would introduce yourself as I'm Bunny whatever, 31 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm Bunny Caroline, You're Bunny Kristen. But if one of 32 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: us got the cover, we would say hello, I'm your 33 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: playmate airline. So that was kind of an elevation, was 34 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: a step up. Well, Glory stein Um went undercover for 35 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks just as a bunny in training 36 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: and so um, when she heard about this NBC show, 37 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: she was up in arms and said, this is this 38 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: is terrible. Why are we glorifying the Playboy Club? Right yeah? 39 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: She said that it was actually really tacky, Um, you know, 40 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: with creepy men grabbing your bunnytail and whatnot, and that 41 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: waitresses were actually or bunnies. I'm sorry, let's let's not 42 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: forget to dehumanize these people. Um, that bunnies were actually 43 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: underpaid and had to deal with really terrible working conditions. 44 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: But not all bunnies, former bunnies would agree with Steinum. 45 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: As we will learn, right, but first let's start with 46 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: half did do didn't Did you do? Back in time? Yeah? 47 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: Have have kind of started Esquire actually, um, And then 48 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: he ended up to raise money to start Playboy. He 49 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: ended up hawking his furniture and he got initial investment 50 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 1: of about tin grand and started Playboy, which launched in 51 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: nineteen fifty three. And this is all going on in Chicago. 52 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: And by nineteen fifty eight, Playboy circulation had reached almost 53 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 1: a million, and he was already making four point two 54 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: million in revenue office magazine in just five years. Yeah, yeah, 55 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: that's crazy. Well, I guess people were picking up what 56 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 1: he was putting down. Those those were the days when 57 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: people could could actually start magazines. Yeah, exactly, and he 58 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: did it. He says that he perceived the need for 59 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: a healthier attitude about sex, so he put um naked 60 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: Women in magazine. Yeah, I thought this was an interesting 61 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: quote from Paul Gerbert, who was the executive director of 62 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: the Kinzie Institute UM. He said that Heffner's genius is 63 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: that he is linked sex with up upward mobility, right, 64 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: which will definitely see with the evolution of the Playboy Club, 65 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: which started um all because of an article of a 66 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: ran in Playboy and eighteen fifty nine about this place 67 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: called the Gaslight Club, right, yeah, bucks. Some waitresses were 68 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: of corsets, they walked around pretty much half naked, and 69 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: thousands of people wrote in regarding this article and Playboy 70 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: wanting to know how they could join, how they could 71 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: be members, how do I get in? And actually it 72 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:26,359 Speaker 1: spawned a great idea, you know, idea from Playboys promotions 73 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: manager Victor Lowndes and his girlfriend Elsa Torrance, who prodded 74 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: he to start a club like it. He wasn't super 75 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: keen on the idea, but you know, they talked him 76 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: into it, and Ilsa came in wearing a satin one 77 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: piece and some bunny ears, and that that helped convince them. Yeah, 78 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: the bunny costume was not heff Nur's idea. It was 79 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: all thanks to the girlfriend and then um, there's this 80 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: anecdote about her the first time she comes in wearing 81 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: this kind of homemade sat and get up and he 82 00:04:56,240 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: Heffner hikes up the um the leg line, basically making 83 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: it extremely high cut. Too emphasize and exaggerate the length 84 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: of the women's legs, right, let's make them a little 85 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: more naked. And of course, um that they all had 86 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: very large bust lines, regardless of whether or not the 87 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: bunnies actually could fill them out, right, because they could 88 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 1: use you know, all sorts of things to uh to 89 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: fill out those those bunny costumes. Right. Gloria's Dynham and 90 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: her essay about her infiltration experience actually has a list 91 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 1: of things that bunnies with stuff there tops with She 92 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: herself got her top stuffed and I say got her 93 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: top stuff because someone else did it for her. Um 94 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 1: with a dry cleaner bag that other people used, cotton 95 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: and clean X and whatever else. And he would have 96 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,799 Speaker 1: to do a bunny dip when you were serving a client. 97 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: Otherwise it was a specialized way to to um and 98 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: bunny dip and it's not really working basically like gracefully 99 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: squatting down so that your your breast stuffage doesn't end 100 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: up on the table right, a graceful squat. It sounds terrible. Um. 101 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: But the first club, which it opened in Chicago, and 102 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 1: it was a membership club, and so it sort of 103 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: made it more exclusive. You got a key to indicate 104 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: that you remember, and it was a fifty dollar fee 105 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: for residents and twenty five dollars for out of towners. Yeah. 106 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: And the first club open in nineteen sixty and by 107 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: nineteen sixty one, Time magazine calls the Playboy membership key 108 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: the closest thing to five Beta Kappa from Yale, and 109 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: they sold more than fifty thousand in the first year. 110 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say that, but I 111 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: mean maybe is it really that I don't know, Well, 112 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,119 Speaker 1: this is nineteen sixty. You know this is a big deal. 113 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: I mean the gap think about the reaction to the 114 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: gas Like club, and the Playboy Club has even more cash. 115 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: A U would you like me to describe the decor um? 116 00:06:55,600 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: Hugh Heffner apparently loves the color orange, and so there 117 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: was a ton of orange. It was very masculine. There's 118 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: lots of teak chrome avocado. Um described as a sort 119 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: of Danish modern look, that was very big at the time, 120 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,559 Speaker 1: which makes me think of it as just a really 121 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: sleazy ikea. Um and and speaking of you know, actually 122 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: maybe it kind of is like a sleazy ikea because 123 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: everything on the menu, all the food, the steaks and drinks, 124 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: everything totaled up to a dollar fifty. Right, you know 125 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: you can go an Ikea, get yourself with some cheap 126 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: meatballs strength to walk through that place. And I can't 127 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't care what you say. It 128 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: was kind of sleazy because think about how many people 129 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: have touched that stuff. I mean, that's just Jeremy. That's 130 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: not sweezy. It's one and the same in my head. 131 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: So back to come back to the Playboy Club. Back 132 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: to the Playboy Club. Yeah, so half um he was 133 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: going for a bachelor pat aesthetic. He said that the 134 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: clubs were a combination um club apartment sort of to 135 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: give in a home away from home, you know, if 136 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: your home had half naked women walking around in it. 137 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: But that's not to say that the men did not 138 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: bring their wives along on the weekends. There was one 139 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: former bunny talking about how it was very important, um, 140 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: if you had one one client that you would serve 141 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: all the time. Like men who were higher paying members 142 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: like to have their own bunny who would serve them 143 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: whenever they came into the club. But then on the 144 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: weekend they would bring their wives in and um, so 145 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: as to allay any of their fears, the wives fears 146 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 1: that there might be something um untoward going on to 147 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: the Playboy club. That bunny would always make nice with 148 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 1: the wives and bring them swizzlesticks to take home to 149 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: the kids, just a little presents to keep swizzlesticks in 150 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: the costume in the dry cleaner bag. Exactly, it's actually 151 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: dry cleaner bag full of swizzle sticks right. Well, now, 152 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: they wanted to make sure that the wives weren't threatened 153 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: because they want to the husbands to be able to 154 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: keep coming and be like, look, I'm not your competition. 155 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm just you know, a glorified waitress, so don't worry 156 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: about it. Um. And in nineteen sixty three, that's when 157 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: Gloria Steinham auditions to become a bunny. Because you really 158 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: you didn't need much much experience to be a bunny. 159 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: You just had to be between the ages of eighteen 160 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: and twenty three, and you just needed to be beautiful, 161 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: charming and refined. So Caroline, you and I be Shoein's 162 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: who were if weren't so dag um old. If there's 163 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: anything anyone says about me, it is that I am refined. 164 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: So Steinham made the cut and she wrote about her 165 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: experience in an essay called a Bunny's Tale, which was 166 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: published in Show magazine. And for anyone who hasn't read 167 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: Steinham's essay, you can think of it as if you 168 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: were to take Upton Sinclair's The Jungle and set it 169 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: in the Playboy Club. There you have it. It was 170 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: a horror story. Interesting, yeah, she's saying, because they claimed 171 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: that you could make a thousand dollars a week. Stein 172 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: Um says no, because there is this week long training 173 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: period all the bunnies had to go to get paid 174 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:14,719 Speaker 1: for it. You pretty much had to work every day, 175 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: all day to make two hundred or three hundred bucks 176 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: a week. Those costumes were not comfortable. Steinhum says that 177 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: she lost something like ten pounds in two weeks just 178 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: from sweating. Sweating and well that and not being able 179 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: to eat on your shift. There are all these rules 180 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: and the bunny manual that you had to follow. The 181 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: dictated how you smoked drink eight, interacted with customers, et cetera. 182 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,199 Speaker 1: And you know how you delivered drinks, which was the 183 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: bunny did we already talking, you know, bending over backwards 184 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: and doing the graceful squad to deliver deliver a cocktail? 185 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: You couldn't if you were dancing on the floor with clients, 186 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: you could not. There could be no fiscal contact, which 187 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: is why non touched dances such as the twist and 188 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 1: the watusi or big big Bunny favorites. Um. But the 189 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: biggest revelation that Gloria Steinem had ad from working at 190 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: the Playboy Club was the whole objectification angle. She came 191 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: away from it saying, um, you know that we as 192 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: in women are all bunnies, all being judged based on 193 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: their um are physical appearance being objectified by men. Um. Yeah, 194 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: underpaid having to look all sexy all the time like 195 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: we do. But at the same time, though some other 196 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: bunnies at the time I didn't agree with stein um um. 197 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: For instance Trish Murphy, who was a former bunny. She 198 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: was talking recently to Vanity Fair and she says, the 199 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: feminists used to stay to us, you're selling out, You're 200 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: being exploited, but we never felt that. We felt that 201 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: we were the first women we knew who bought their 202 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: own apartment of single women, and to me, it was 203 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: emancipation and it was empowering, right, And they actually uh 204 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: touched on that in the show. In the first episode 205 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: of the Playboy Club, there is I think there's one 206 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: or two bunnies who actually say something along those lines, 207 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: if I'm making more than my husband or I'm making 208 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: more than my father, and I mean, you know, that's 209 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: great if if this gives UM women an ability to 210 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: be independent that they wouldn't otherwise have. However, it's I 211 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 1: think it's unfortunate that they had to go this route, 212 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: but you know it's it's wonderful that they found independence somehow. Yeah, 213 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: I mean, and you have to think about it, like 214 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,719 Speaker 1: putting it into the context of it being the early sixties. UM. 215 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:24,839 Speaker 1: The sad fact was there really weren't that many, um 216 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: that that many employment outlets available to women. UM And 217 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: for for instance, I thought this was kind of funny. 218 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: This was This is an excerpt from the nineteen eight 219 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: Bunny Manual, which was the rule book that all of 220 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 1: the new Bunnies would would get and it says our 221 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: bunnies represent varied backgrounds. Among them are ex school teachers, secretaries, actresses, dancers, 222 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: models and co ed wow, all male fantasies, all and all. 223 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: I mean like, that's that's it, that's your that's your 224 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: employment umbrella. At the time, well, Katherine Lee Scott, a 225 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 1: former Bunny and author of The Bunny Year, um, she 226 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: wanted to quiet the haters and she basically said that 227 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: there was a joy and there was an innocence to it. 228 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: That these were college girls and girls trying to launch 229 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: their careers and work their way through school. It could 230 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: be your daughter, it could be your sister. And she 231 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: says that's what she thought that people found threatening about 232 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: it was that here were these girls not necessarily like 233 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: drop dead model, actress, gorgeous, but these were girls who 234 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: were really trying to get ahead and make some money, 235 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 1: and that they it wasn't necessarily sleazy and you know gross, 236 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 1: They weren't hookers. They were enjoying what they did, right. Um, 237 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: But I mean we do have to acknowledge, you know, 238 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: a point that Steinham brought up, especially when she was 239 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: calling for the boycott of you know, the way that 240 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: the men would treat the bunny is just being constantly 241 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: objectified and sexualized. And it's interesting that the Bunny Manual 242 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: explicitly prohibits any kind of mingling, fraternizing, socializing, or physical 243 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: contact with clientele. But the untold story behind all that is, 244 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: while you know, when they're on the clock, the women 245 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: were certainly not allowed to even give their last names 246 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: to patrons at the club, But after hours they were 247 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: kind of expected to go to these parties and hobnob 248 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: with these these men like helf and Victor Lownes and 249 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: other cronies of theirs, and probably were expected to, um, 250 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: you know, to engage in other extracurricular activities. Yes. Well, 251 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: actually Victor Lown's wife is a former bunny and she 252 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: called the experience liberating. So I guess everybody has a 253 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: different opinion. Glorious Steinham would definitely disagree, and I'm sure 254 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: there are others, but um, I mean, one bunny said 255 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: that she could make a thousand dollars a week and 256 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: that she didn't even She and some other bunnies didn't 257 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: even cash all their paychecks all the time because they 258 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: were rolling in dough. And that's probably why almost every 259 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: time at least hearing the heyday of the Playboy clubs 260 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: really in the in the sixties and maybe in the 261 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: early seventies when the new clubs are opening up, there 262 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: would be hundreds of women who would audition for and 263 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: you actually had to audition, um for these these bunny jobs. 264 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: Although and uh Steinham's description it sounded like she kind 265 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: of just walked in. I read her essay and it 266 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: sounded like she just came in and filled out the 267 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: application and got got a look of approval from someone 268 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: and they were like, just show up here via bunny, 269 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: be a bunny. Um. But maybe we should mention a 270 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: few notable x bunnies, including Steinham, because there is a 271 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 1: theme of obviously using the Playboy Club as a means 272 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: to an end. No one really was like, I mean, 273 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: I can't wait to develop a life, lifelong career at 274 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: a bunny. Well, and also you couldn't develop a lifelong 275 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: career because you would age out. I mean, if they 276 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: were looking for girls between the ages of eighteen and 277 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: twenty three. Um, it was kind of understood, sort of 278 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: like it was for flight attendants at the time that 279 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: if you're you know, I mean, we'd probably be crusty 280 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: old crabs at the Bunny Club. Yeah. Probably. Well, I 281 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: just wouldn't put up with that. I can't walker, I 282 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: can't walk around on high heels that long. I'm sorry. Um, 283 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: but yeah, you mentioned a means to an end, and 284 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: that's what Carol Cleveland called it. She Oh my god, 285 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: I love her. She for all you Monty Python fans 286 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: out there, was in almost thirty episodes of The Flying Circus. 287 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: And if you're still not clearing which one she is, 288 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: she's you know, the woman on Monty Python, Blonde adorable. Um, 289 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: she played Zuoit in The Holy Grail. She's fabulous and 290 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: she she did she called Bunny is m U a 291 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: means to an end and it did. It got her 292 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: acting career going. Um. And then we also have Debbie 293 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: Harry Blonde who worked at the Playboy Club for a 294 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: while before she started rocking out. Um. And then there's 295 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: Lauren Hutton who worked there for three months that it 296 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: was a good experience. Um. We have Patricia Quinn as well, 297 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: who is Magenta from the Rocky Horror pictures. Yeah, the 298 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: famous disembodied lips on the Rocky Horror in the in 299 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 1: the beginning credits. Yeah, Um, but the Playboy Club really 300 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: lost its luster in the eighties. I mean it started 301 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 1: it started to get pretty cheesy. And really by that point, um, 302 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 1: the idea of women walking around these bunny costumes was 303 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 1: I mean just kind of kitchy to begin with, but 304 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: not very scandalous. No, yeah, how cheesy was it. It 305 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: was so cheesy that they actually started bringing in male 306 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 1: rabbits who did not who did not wear tails or ears. 307 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: They had different kind of uniform And this is when 308 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: they tried to Um, Playboy tried to rebrand its clubs 309 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 1: because the clubs lost something like three million dollars. They 310 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: were failing so hard and they were trying to attract 311 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 1: a broader female clientele. So they bring in these, uh, 312 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: these male servers to accompany the female servers, and they 313 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: wore an array of costumes, including sleeveless tuxedo shirts, um, 314 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: some kind of wrestling unitard hot and then my favorite, 315 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: which was described as sort of yachting cap that at 316 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: the time was most closely associated with Darryl Dragon of 317 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: Captain and Neil is there. So wait, were these all 318 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: these all word at the same time? Because I'm hoping not, 319 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: because when I think of a sleeveless touch tuxedo shirt. 320 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: I think of Chris Farley and Patrick Swayzy and SNL. 321 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 1: So maybe just some you know, it could be over. 322 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: They could be the Unitard over the sleeveless shirt with 323 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 1: a jaunty captain into Neil angele Um. Needless to say, 324 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: the Empire Club in New York City did not do 325 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: so well, right, Yeah, Heathan Lounds actually agreed that they'd 326 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 1: become too successful. They sort of watered it down. They 327 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: lowered the prices so you know, Joe Schmoke could walk 328 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: on end and be sitting next to some fancy pants guy. 329 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 1: And yeah, they just tried to be all things to 330 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:52,879 Speaker 1: all people. They changed up the menu. There was something 331 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 1: about frozen stickers bars that makes me think of George Costanza. Um. 332 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, the the last American club closed in nine eight, 333 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: and that was in Lansing, Michigan, which actually surprised me. Lansing. 334 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: That says a lot about sort of how how much 335 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 1: the Playboy Club spiraled into this just kind of cheesy, 336 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: you know, sexy Applebee's rip off because they started to 337 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: you know, like you said, they oversaturated their own market, 338 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 1: so they're left with places like Lansing. Hey, no offense, 339 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: no offense to all right, don't mess with the mitten. 340 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: And then the last international club close in n not 341 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: than in two thousand six they reopen and yeah in 342 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 1: Las Vegas, and everything comes back around. You know, I'm 343 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,199 Speaker 1: hoping that the avocado green doesn't come back around. I 344 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: hope it stays. Keep it cheesy, keep it, keep it cheesy, yeah, 345 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: or or you know. Philis Stiller talked about how helf 346 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: was the only person she knew who would actually hang 347 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 1: rugs on the wall and were orange fury shag rugs. 348 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I think if there is one, if there 349 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: is one positive thing that we can say about the 350 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: history of the Playboy clubs, especially in in the sixties. UM, 351 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:12,239 Speaker 1: aside from some of the bunnies who reported making a 352 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 1: ton of money, making more than their father's making more 353 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: than men at the time, that's that's great for them, 354 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 1: and we gotta, you know, we gotta give it to 355 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: hef Um. He was very pro civil rights, and he 356 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: incorporated black writers into his magazine, black performers on his 357 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: TV shows and doing stand up and music at the clubs. 358 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: And also, um, there were black bunnies as well, although 359 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: they were chocolate bunnies, which is very derogatory, and they 360 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,640 Speaker 1: actually referenced that I noticed you in that first episode. Yeah, 361 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,959 Speaker 1: it almost seems I was watching the first episode, and 362 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 1: I doubt I will watch anymore of the Playboy Club. 363 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: And it seems like they actually lifted a lot from 364 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: Gloria Steinham's essay because she mentions this red head with 365 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: a baby voice in her essay, and there was a 366 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 1: red head with a baby boys in the show. But 367 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 1: obviously the redhead has a very intricate storyline. But you know, 368 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: I'll never know what happens. And lots of secrets, so 369 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: many secrets. Where do they keep them in those tiny costumes? Um? 370 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 1: You know? Actually yeah. Speaking of the show, one NBC 371 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,719 Speaker 1: exact calls it a fun soap opera, and the show's 372 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: executive producer says it's about empowering these women to be 373 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: whatever they want to be. And you know, I've I've 374 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: heard you have nurse say similar things about about bunnies 375 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,719 Speaker 1: and about playmates. Um, I'm not you know, I'm not 376 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: entirely on board with that, assessed note. I mean, do 377 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 1: I think that I think that it's a little overblown 378 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: to be honest, to call for boycotting the Playboy Club 379 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: simply because you know, if if we're going to put 380 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: our effort behind um, you know, boycotting things on television 381 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 1: that portray women poorly. I think that there is just 382 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: a menu of reality television shows that should get the 383 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: acts first. But I also see where Steinum is coming 384 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: from in terms of not wanting to sort of glorify 385 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: and fetishize this very misogynistic chapter. Right, yeah, and history, Yeah, 386 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: you're you're they're glamorizing these clubs that made women walk 387 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: around and bathing seeds basically, but they're also sort of 388 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: glamorizing a time in history that why why are we 389 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: going back and and being like, oh my god, this 390 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: was so amazing. At least Madmen, I feel like it's 391 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: a little more it shows sort of the underbelly maybe, 392 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 1: whereas maybe the Playboy Club is like, oh yeah, everything 393 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: was great in the sixties. It was so it was 394 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: just covered in and satin and glitter and everything costs 395 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 1: a dollar fifty. Yeah. 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