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Speaker 2: Warning, the following episode contains explicit language and sexual themes.

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Speaker 3: Listener discretion is advised.

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Speaker 4: This is a scary case.

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Speaker 3: Actually tell me what you mean by that.

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Speaker 5: This is scary because the implications are pretty profound, I think.

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Speaker 4: So let's assume everything.

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Speaker 6: This is Robin Drake, who spent twenty two years working

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Speaker 6: Russian counterintelligence for the FBI. You heard from him in

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Speaker 6: the first episode of this podcast. I've circled back to

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Speaker 6: get his thoughts from an intelligence perspective on what he's

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Speaker 6: heard so far.

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Speaker 5: Let's assume everything Aliah has said is true. That would

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Speaker 5: mean that this country is won by warlords. That each

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Speaker 5: one of these generals is a fieftom under themselves, and

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Speaker 5: they're all serving the greater warlord Putin, and they each

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Speaker 5: have their cadre of enforcers that are in uniform, that

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Speaker 5: are under state kind of control. I'm only analyzing the

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Speaker 5: information she provided, but they're not as a nation state

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Speaker 5: trying to counter drugs. They as warlords are going after

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Speaker 5: their adversaries, and if it's a general that's at the

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Speaker 5: top of yours, that means a general on the top

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Speaker 5: of another. So in other words, this to me looks

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Speaker 5: like a feudal system of a bunch of fiefdoms trying

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Speaker 5: to take out each other's supply chain and monetary structure.

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Speaker 4: That's kind of scary if you're thinking about it.

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Speaker 5: This is actually the truth of how this nation state,

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Speaker 5: a world power is supposedly being run.

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Speaker 4: So it's either one or the other.

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Speaker 5: Either she's making all us up, or this country is

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Speaker 5: a country of warlords.

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Speaker 7: To jolly, I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 4: How to do jut to? This is.

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Speaker 6: Episode sixteen, chapter thirty three, down word spiral.

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Speaker 7: He put me into the car. I drove away, and

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Speaker 7: I felt like something died inside of me. I felt

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Speaker 7: to tell myself, no, no, no, I will see him again,

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Speaker 7: But they didn't feel like I will really see him again.

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Speaker 6: Aliyah had just left the home of Vladimir, her former

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Speaker 7: The driver. He drove me to Moscow and he opened

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Speaker 7: I drank some water and I just went back to bed,

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Speaker 7: and I was just sleeping, sleeping, sleeping, recovering. You know,

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Speaker 7: sleep was the best recovering medicine. I just wanted to

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Speaker 7: forget everything. I was thinking about the bladder or a lot,

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Speaker 7: about what he's done for me, about Cornell, and about

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Speaker 7: you know, my former commander. Then I didn't go out

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Speaker 6: Her friend invited her to a party, and against her

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Speaker 7: I knew I couldn't do it, but yet I did it.

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Speaker 7: And I remember, like first time, for like so long,

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Speaker 6: Despite everything she'd seen, Leah quickly found herself swept into

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Speaker 7: And then at some point I just couldn't understand why

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Speaker 7: What Vladimir told me about the big life and the

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately, Leah never saw Vladimir again.

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Speaker 7: So his driver, his friend, he called me. He said,

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Speaker 7: he said he is his dad. And for a quite

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Speaker 7: Are you okay? And I asked what happened how? And

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Speaker 7: I said, when it's the funeral and He's like, well

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Speaker 7: And he switched over the phone. And I couldn't even cry.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 7: It was almost like the last my hope of the future,

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Speaker 6: Leah soon fell sick, a combination of the psychological toll

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Speaker 7: I have a very high fever. I couldn't walk. It

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Speaker 7: And he told me, do you remember I gave you

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Speaker 7: So ninth of July in two thousand and four, according

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Speaker 6: Alia Rosa is reading an article on the death of Vladimir.

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Speaker 6: It's still a mystery what happened, but she believes that

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Speaker 6: There are a lot of unanswered questions left at the

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Speaker 6: end of Lea's story, so I asked her about a

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Speaker 6: few of them. In the last episode, we discussed your

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Speaker 5: To keep you in a state of chaos personally, emotionally, psychologically,

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Speaker 6: What is a hero? Is it Black Widow? Is it

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Speaker 6: The third is that most stories of abuse don't have

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Speaker 5: All these things in here do happen, and these are

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Speaker 6: Not necessarily the story, their story? And what is healing?

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Speaker 6: It's being heard, So thank you for listening. To Die

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Speaker 6: and the Money at the Heart of Organized Crime. And

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Speaker 6: Matt Tipton Army r Your veteran and internal medicine doctor

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Speaker 6: trained in chemical and radiological weapons response.

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Speaker 4: Wow, that was a very Russian story.