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Speaker 1: stop right here. And this message is from Bobby. Bobby says,
Speaker 1: Hey Granger, this is Bobby from Bismarck, North Dakota. Shout
Speaker 1: out to North Dakota fans. Big fan of yours and
Speaker 1: I have met you through meet and greets and cameo
Speaker 1: a couple times. Very excited for the new album. I'm
Speaker 1: in a very frustrating time in my life and i
Speaker 1: feel as if I'm stuck. I'm searching for some kind
Speaker 1: of advice to help clarify my gut instincts. I'm currently
Speaker 1: a power plant worker in western North Dakota. I've been
Speaker 1: grinding at it for eight years now. It pays exceptionally
Speaker 1: well and has been a financial blessing, but it comes
Speaker 1: with some real sacrifices. I have an eighty seven mile commute.
Speaker 1: I'm working twelve hour shifts with rotating days and nights,
Speaker 1: lots of overtime, waking up at three point thirty in
Speaker 1: the morning and getting home at seven point thirty at night.
Speaker 1: When I'm on the day shifts. I've always I'm always
Speaker 1: tired when I'm not home, and excuse me, I'm always
Speaker 1: tired and not home nearly as much as i'd like,
Speaker 1: moving closer to work is not an option. Long story short,
Speaker 1: I'm thirty one years old. I want to start a
Speaker 1: family with my wife soon. I don't want to be
Speaker 1: known as the dad that's always at work or always tired.
Speaker 1: I don't have many other options to work a normal
Speaker 1: life in my hometown without losing at least half of
Speaker 1: my income. How could I feel good knowing I would
Speaker 1: be taking a huge financial risk to quit my job
Speaker 1: to be the dad and the family man I want
Speaker 1: to be, But giving up the job that would provide
Speaker 1: everything that we want or need. It's time or money.
Speaker 1: I can't have both. Man. What a way to start, Bobby,
Speaker 1: What a way to start? So shout out, first of
Speaker 1: all to Bismarck, North Dakota. Anybody listen from there, and
Speaker 1: shout out to power plant workers. I know there's a
Speaker 1: lot of you guys. It's a perfectly legitimate question, Bobby.
Speaker 1: It's a question that I'm sure a lot of people
Speaker 1: will search for an answer for that their entire life.
Speaker 1: And that includes me, right, that includes me, And most
Speaker 1: people can fall into that category money or time. And
Speaker 1: I can tell you what I've learned in my life.
Speaker 1: You say, it's money or time. I can't have both.
Speaker 1: So at that point you say, well, which is more
Speaker 1: valuable money or time? And there is an undisputable answer
Speaker 1: to that. Time is infinitely more valuable than money because
Speaker 1: you could always make money, you could always have more
Speaker 1: of it, you could always spend it, you could always
Speaker 1: lose it, but you always you could always make more,
Speaker 1: or win more, or earn more, or inherit more somehow.
Speaker 1: But you can only have so much time. Time is finite.
Speaker 1: It is ticking away, and you and me and everyone
Speaker 1: else are on the clock and it never stops ticking.
Speaker 1: It will never stop. And you and me and every
Speaker 1: other human on this planet has an expiration date. Now,
Speaker 1: the key is none of us know when or where
Speaker 1: or how that expiration date exists. It is part of
Speaker 1: what makes it human, is part of the beauty of
Speaker 1: this world. Because if you take away that aspect, if
Speaker 1: you take away the finite time in our lives and
Speaker 1: it's just endless here on earth, then it takes away joy,
Speaker 1: It takes away hope, it takes away peace, because can
Speaker 1: you imagine on this earth an endless amount of suffering forever? No,
Speaker 1: what makes it special is knowing that We only have
Speaker 1: this precious time, this small window of time, and we
Speaker 1: mess up, and we try to fix it, and we
Speaker 1: mess up a little more, and we try to patch
Speaker 1: it up and fix it some more, and then we
Speaker 1: have some wins and we have some losses. But it's
Speaker 1: all confined in this one small unit of maybe eighty years,
Speaker 1: some people less. So you have to make a decision
Speaker 1: brother on time versus money, knowing that time is way
Speaker 1: more valuable. I want to dispute a couple of things
Speaker 1: that you said, Bobby. First of all, I want to
Speaker 1: throw out there that there is nothing fundamentally wrong with
Speaker 1: you continuing forever at this power plant. You're making good money.
Speaker 1: You got a little bit of a long commute. I
Speaker 1: could fix that commute, that eighty seven mile commute. Hey,
Speaker 1: you can knock out some podcast You could listen to
Speaker 1: some audio books. So right now I would suggest that,
Speaker 1: like right off the bat, utilize that eighty seven min
Speaker 1: I'll commute both ways right and hey, you could learn
Speaker 1: another language you could learn. Think of all the audiobooks
Speaker 1: you could listen to, whether that's nonfiction or fiction, or
Speaker 1: you want to learn some kind of trade or skill,
Speaker 1: or or engulf yourself in this podcast, or listen to
Speaker 1: a million of my albums. There's a lot of things
Speaker 1: you could do. I would say, whatever you do on
Speaker 1: that commute, don't waste that time. So right off the bat,
Speaker 1: make you a little power list like okay cool. It's
Speaker 1: say it's Sunday and you're going into work on Monday.
Speaker 1: Make a little list like okay, cool. Tomorrow my commute,
Speaker 1: I got eighty seven miles there and eighty seven miles back.
Speaker 1: What am I going to do? Okay, I'm going to
Speaker 1: listen to this particular audiobook on the way there and
Speaker 1: on the back on the way back to kind of decompress.
Speaker 1: I don't want to think too much on the way back,
Speaker 1: so I'm going to go to like a class sick
Speaker 1: nonfiction and try to dig into like a classic writer
Speaker 1: and just kind of relax, decompress a little bit after work,
Speaker 1: and utilize that. Don't don't listen to political radio or news.
Speaker 1: It's like sports talk radio. I mean, it's fun every
Speaker 1: once in a while to get into that. I love sports,
Speaker 1: and I get addicted to listen to politics, but it's
Speaker 1: not good for the brain. So don't dive to Don't
Speaker 1: use all eighty seven miles to just waste away listening
Speaker 1: to random radio stations and ran. You know, like, really
Speaker 1: focus in on that time, and that's for now, that's
Speaker 1: what you could start today. I understand your concern. You're
Speaker 1: still you're still super young at thirty one, and you're
Speaker 1: ready to start your family. I always tell people it
Speaker 1: is never the wrong time after you're thirty to start
Speaker 1: that family. It's never. What I mean is it's never
Speaker 1: going to be a better time in your life than
Speaker 1: right now for you in terms of your relationship with
Speaker 1: your wife and your relationship with your work, because that
Speaker 1: could always change. It's always changing. So hey, go ahead
Speaker 1: and start that family, and then you have you still
Speaker 1: have a lot of time to figure out what you're
Speaker 1: gonna do at work. It's it's legitimate that you're thinking,
Speaker 1: and it's actually proof that you have a lot of
Speaker 1: integrity that you're actually thinking this far ahead about your
Speaker 1: family and your future and the dad and the husband
Speaker 1: that you want to be that you're aspiring to be. Brother.
Speaker 1: That is, there's so much integrity in that because you're
Speaker 1: already thinking as the provider and the molder and shaper
Speaker 1: of your children, as a father, that's present and there,
Speaker 1: and so I already know that whatever happens in your life, Bobby,
Speaker 1: you're gonna be just fine whether whether or not you
Speaker 1: work this job and your heart worker and that's that's
Speaker 1: what you do or not, because you're the kind of
Speaker 1: guy it's going to make that decision that, hey, I
Speaker 1: am going to keep this job because I want my
Speaker 1: kids to live in this community and go to this school.
Speaker 1: And in order to do that, for them to have
Speaker 1: to be set up to succeed, they're going to need
Speaker 1: this kind of education and to get that kind of education,
Speaker 1: I need to be working this job to make this
Speaker 1: kind of money. That is a legitimate reason to stay.
Speaker 1: And then if you're worried about it, then you go,
Speaker 1: all right, I am going to be when I'm home,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be super present. I'm going to be
Speaker 1: super focused. I know that I'm going to be. I'm
Speaker 1: going to be tired, but I'm not. When I'm home,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be scrolling around on my phone,
Speaker 1: wasting away on social media or or some kind of
Speaker 1: email chain that I get stuck in, or watching some
Speaker 1: mindless TV show. When I'm home, I'm going to be
Speaker 1: focused on my wife and my kids. Hey, it's not easy.
Speaker 1: It's not easy to say that. I struggle with that
Speaker 1: too when I'm out on the road and I'm working,
Speaker 1: and I have the same struggles you do, because I think, man,
Speaker 1: is it worth being out on the road. You should
Speaker 1: I stay home more, be home with my kids. And
Speaker 1: then I try to justify it by saying this, I
Speaker 1: want my kids to grow up and go. Dad worked
Speaker 1: really hard. Dad was very passionate about what he did,
Speaker 1: and he put us first. Not necessarily. That doesn't have
Speaker 1: to mean Dad switch jobs so that he didn't have
Speaker 1: to work so much so he could be around us
Speaker 1: all the time. That doesn't always equate to Dad was
Speaker 1: looking after us, because sometimes that means Dad was looking
Speaker 1: after us so much that he worked extra hours and
Speaker 1: he worked really hard, and when he got home, he
Speaker 1: was all about us and he was so involved in
Speaker 1: our lives. And then he provided us with a lifestyle
Speaker 1: that we might not have been able to have if
Speaker 1: he hadn't have worked so hard. So you see, there's
Speaker 1: this there's this push and pull, and that's what I'm
Speaker 1: trying to tell you that there's not a right answer
Speaker 1: to I'm not gonna sit here and go, yeah, Bobby,
Speaker 1: quit your job, man, quit your job and get something local,
Speaker 1: because you've already said there's not very many good options.
Speaker 1: But what you can do since you you could first
Speaker 1: of all say yes, time is more valuable than money,
Speaker 1: and so when I do have time, I'm going to
Speaker 1: take every minute and invest it back into my family
Speaker 1: and myself, whether that's on my drive time, whether that's
Speaker 1: on my days off when I am home, or whether
Speaker 1: that's getting as much vacation time as I can for
Speaker 1: my boss. But there's a million reasons you're asking the
Speaker 1: right questions. I think you're absolutely in the right direction.
Speaker 1: And please do a follow up on me in this podcast.
Speaker 1: Will you write back in five, six, seven months from
Speaker 1: now and let us all know what you ended up doing.
Speaker 1: And then I'll read this back on this podcast and say, hey,
Speaker 1: we have an update from Bobby in North Dakota and
Speaker 1: this is what he's decided to do. But I'm sure
Speaker 1: we're all really interested to find out. And I'm proud
Speaker 1: of you man for keeping your head straight and keeping
Speaker 1: it in the right place. See what else we have here?
Speaker 1: Have you hear voices in the background, This a busy,
Speaker 1: busy day at the Yegey Farm. We are buzzing, man.
Speaker 1: We are trying to get these orders out. We got people,
Speaker 1: we got alarm system people here installing things. We got
Speaker 1: phone calls being made. It's always crazier at the form. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go here to This is Austin. Let me see.
Speaker 1: I see if I can find out where Austin's from.
Speaker 1: Now I don't know it, says Hey Granger. I hope
Speaker 1: all is well with you. My name is Austin. I'm
Speaker 1: currently seventeen. I'm turning eighteen towards the end of October.
Speaker 1: I recently got interested in your podcast, and I'm hoping
Speaker 1: for some good life advice. Like I said, I'm almost eighteen,
Speaker 1: finishing high school in May. I have zero interest in college. Rather,
Speaker 1: I really want to get into two blue collar work,
Speaker 1: specifically alliance repair, which I have done a lot of
Speaker 1: internships in. I know that pays good and I really
Speaker 1: enjoy it. I've been dating this girl for almost two years.
Speaker 1: We get along absolutely great, agree on everything big, small
Speaker 1: and political. I'll love her family and she loves mine. Likewise,
Speaker 1: her family loves me and my family loves her. Christianity
Speaker 1: is a big part of both of our lives, and
Speaker 1: if everything goes as planned, we want to get married
Speaker 1: in about a year, I'd be nineteen. We have no
Speaker 1: intentions of having any children at any point in the
Speaker 1: foreseeable future. I have a couple questions. One, what are
Speaker 1: your tips for a young adult slash teenager wanting to
Speaker 1: start their life? What should I be focused on in life?
Speaker 1: Anything I should be doing or avoiding to have a
Speaker 1: successful life. I have no interest in partying drugs all
Speaker 1: that which most people do during their late teens and twenties,
Speaker 1: and I'd rather start working a full time job, which
Speaker 1: I mentioned before. In your opinion, how does one know
Speaker 1: when it's the right time to get married? Do you
Speaker 1: think people should wait until their thirties to get married
Speaker 1: like most people suggest? Any advice about becoming an adult
Speaker 1: would be great. Thanks? Ye yee, all right, Austin, great questions, Buddy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dig in here with you, and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: first of all say that, just like I told the
Speaker 1: last question, budd, your heart is in the right place.
Speaker 1: You're absolutely thinking right. It sounds like you've got a
Speaker 1: great girl, you have a good path for you for
Speaker 1: your future. I think that's amazing. But I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: ahead and pump the breaks right now in the marriage thing.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pump the break right now. And that does
Speaker 1: not I know that that's not the answer you wanted
Speaker 1: to hear. And I know you built this girl up
Speaker 1: and she sounds like she's awesome. You love her family,
Speaker 1: she loves you, her family likes you. Guys agree on everything,
Speaker 1: you have the same religious beliefs. But the biggest problem
Speaker 1: is when you're planning on getting married, you're going to
Speaker 1: be nineteen, and that there you have so much life.
Speaker 1: You have so much to I don't want to say
Speaker 1: so much to learn because I don't want to act
Speaker 1: like I know more than you. But you have so
Speaker 1: much more to experience, and it is not fair to
Speaker 1: either one of you to cut that experience short and
Speaker 1: jump into marriage. Because you're going to have marriage the
Speaker 1: rest of your life. You're gonna have that opportunity. You're
Speaker 1: maybe gonna have her. I mean, there is nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with dating this girl for a long time at your age.
Speaker 1: If you're thirty years old asking me this question, I'd say, buddy,
Speaker 1: let's do it, let's do it, let's get married. But
Speaker 1: you are putting a disadvantage to yourself and to her
Speaker 1: by depriving her of her twenties with her friends, so
Speaker 1: that she can go out and have girls' nights and
Speaker 1: experience life and mess up and make up for the
Speaker 1: mess up and learn from the mistakes, and then and
Speaker 1: find out how to be a woman, because she is
Speaker 1: going to be completely different at eighteen than she is
Speaker 1: when she's thirty one. She is going to be a
Speaker 1: different person. And you are too, in so many ways.
Speaker 1: You're going to be a different person. And Amber and
Speaker 1: I talk about this all the time. I got married
Speaker 1: when I was thirty and we laugh. We go back
Speaker 1: and forth and we laugh, and we say, this wouldn't
Speaker 1: have worked if you met me when I was nineteen
Speaker 1: because I was a different person. I didn't know how
Speaker 1: to handle adversity like I do now. And none of
Speaker 1: this is a knock on you, dude. You sound like
Speaker 1: a very mature guy. You got a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: figured out. It sounds like you're ahead of your years.
Speaker 1: But there is nothing that could take the place of
Speaker 1: this next decade coming up your twenties. Nothing could take
Speaker 1: the place of that. And you will deprive yourself if
Speaker 1: you jump into wedlock too early. And this is a time,
Speaker 1: the only time in your life because you've been you've
Speaker 1: been a young kid and then you're a teenager and
Speaker 1: you're just entering your adult life now and you're going
Speaker 1: to deprive yourself of that adult life and not have
Speaker 1: not have that ability to be selfish. And there's that
Speaker 1: word like everyone's like, oh, dude, you should never be selfish.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, you need. You have to be. You deserve
Speaker 1: to be right now, to be selfish. And the last
Speaker 1: question I had from Bobby is the opposite of what
Speaker 1: you're asking. See, Bobby has to be he has to
Speaker 1: be not selfish. He has to be the provider. He
Speaker 1: has to be put himself and his dreams and his
Speaker 1: goals and his money and his life second to his family.
Speaker 1: You are the opposite right now. You need to put
Speaker 1: yourself first, your life, your dreams, your goals, your job
Speaker 1: that you're thinking about getting into. What did you say
Speaker 1: you wanted to get into Appliant's repair. You need to
Speaker 1: put that and your goals to jump into Appliant's Repair
Speaker 1: first and you need to focus on that and make
Speaker 1: sure that you win. Number one. It's you. It's all
Speaker 1: about you. Austin, and then a few years go by
Speaker 1: you could still keep the same girlfriend. A few years
Speaker 1: go by and you decide to marry her. You are
Speaker 1: now second. Your goals for Appliant's repair are second to hers.
Speaker 1: Your time with your friends is now second to hers,
Speaker 1: and you can't deprive yourself of that right now. I
Speaker 1: know that you said you have no interest in partying
Speaker 1: drugs at all, which most people do in their late
Speaker 1: teens and twenties. I'd rather start working a full time job,
Speaker 1: which I mentioned before, and man, you got your priority set.
Speaker 1: It's great that you have no interest in partying in drugs,
Speaker 1: it's great, but you're also making that decision at seventeen
Speaker 1: years old. And it's impossible to predict when you're seventeen
Speaker 1: how you're going to act in your twenties. And it's
Speaker 1: very admirable that you that you already know that you
Speaker 1: want to turn against bad things in your twenties, but
Speaker 1: you're going to suppress that before you even get there,
Speaker 1: instead of being twenty three years old and having a
Speaker 1: couple of too many drinks and then going WHOA, that
Speaker 1: was bad. That was a bad idea, And you are
Speaker 1: making that decision as a single man and not as
Speaker 1: a married man with a baby on the way. There's
Speaker 1: a big, big difference. And then when you're thirty one,
Speaker 1: thirty two, and then you got a baby on the way,
Speaker 1: you go, Yeah, I've had a few drinks too many times,
Speaker 1: and I've been to a party and I've made a
Speaker 1: couple of mistakes, and I'm glad I will never do
Speaker 1: that again, because you never want to wake up and go.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm forty five years old. I've never
Speaker 1: done anything bad. I've never even had a drink, and
Speaker 1: I wonder if maybe I should have been out to
Speaker 1: like my buddy's house and gone and got in the
Speaker 1: tailgate of a truck and had a few too many
Speaker 1: beers and woke up passed out next to the campfire.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's good. I'm not advocating for that.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying anything like that. I'm just saying, you
Speaker 1: don't want to wake up at forty five and go.
Speaker 1: I suppressed that because I thought that's I thought that
Speaker 1: that was wrong. Does that make sense at all? Maybe
Speaker 1: I'm maybe I'm not making sense, but I think the
Speaker 1: bottom line, austin your head is straight. You sound like
Speaker 1: a great guy, you could do whatever you want. You
Speaker 1: do not have to listen to me, but I would
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Speaker 1: Joe says, Hey man, love the podcast, Love the Music.
Speaker 1: My girlfriend of two years is being deployed and will
Speaker 1: be gone until late next year. We haven't spent very
Speaker 1: much time away from each other, and seeing as we
Speaker 1: live together, my question is, with you being on the
Speaker 1: road so much, what's your secret to keeping good communication
Speaker 1: with your wife and family even when it's not easy
Speaker 1: to Joe, first of all, want to say to your girlfriend,
Speaker 1: thank you for her service. Thank you for the sacrifice
Speaker 1: that she's making for all of us so that I
Speaker 1: could have freedom of speech on this podcast, and we
Speaker 1: could maintain a lifestyle that is unprecedented in world history
Speaker 1: because of people like your girlfriend. And I always like
Speaker 1: to throw in girlfriend's boyfriends spouses, they fall into that category. Two.
Speaker 1: So Joe, thank you for your service as well. This
Speaker 1: is going to be a tough time and there's no
Speaker 1: way around it. What you're entering right now is statistically
Speaker 1: it kind of leans towards people breaking up. So as
Speaker 1: long as you know that statistically, you're going you're fighting
Speaker 1: uphill battle and you want to set up your foundation
Speaker 1: with her if you truly love her, you want to
Speaker 1: set up your foundation as strong as you can get
Speaker 1: it knowing that nothing is going to break. So beyond
Speaker 1: communication like that's that's down the road on your steps
Speaker 1: to do. First step is you sit down with her
Speaker 1: and I would look her in the eye and say, Babe,
Speaker 1: I want to tell you before you leave. I would
Speaker 1: take her two hands and I'll look her right in
Speaker 1: the eye and say, Babe, I want to tell you.
Speaker 1: I know you're leaving. I will not forsake you. I
Speaker 1: will not mess things up because I love you and
Speaker 1: I want to prove that to you. I want to
Speaker 1: prove that I am your man, you wherever you go
Speaker 1: in the world, whatever happens. If we talk every day, awesome.
Speaker 1: If you skip a couple weeks, if we don't hear
Speaker 1: from each other, I want to tell you you could
Speaker 1: trust me. I got your back. I will not lie
Speaker 1: to you. I will not sneak around on you. I
Speaker 1: will not mess up this relationship. Now, Joe, you got
Speaker 1: to say that if you mean it. If you don't
Speaker 1: mean it, I don't know enough about you through this.
Speaker 1: If you don't mean that, just let's make this easy
Speaker 1: and just cut this off right now. Let me just
Speaker 1: say that, cut this off right now. If you don't
Speaker 1: mean that, if you can't say those words and absolutely
Speaker 1: mean it, then just say, babe, let's take some time off.
Speaker 1: Whenever you get back, we'll try to rekindle it. If
Speaker 1: you truly love her, if this is the woman that
Speaker 1: you're going to marry, then I would give that little
Speaker 1: speech to her, and you would hope that she can
Speaker 1: give that speech back to you. That is better than
Speaker 1: that'll set you up for any kind of communication that
Speaker 1: you're gonna have in the future. And then once you
Speaker 1: got that, once you got that trust, then you're not
Speaker 1: sitting around wondering like haven't heard from her? Or she's
Speaker 1: thinking I haven't heard from him, what's she doing? Whose
Speaker 1: house is he at? What party is he at right now?
Speaker 1: That just get all that out of your head, so
Speaker 1: then the communication is much more easy. You can even
Speaker 1: skip a day you don't hear from her, she doesn't
Speaker 1: hear from you. She's not worried. She's not thinking you're
Speaker 1: out cheating on her, you know, because she trusts you.
Speaker 1: So start with that, and you're asking what's the secret
Speaker 1: to me and Amber? That's where it starts. I trust
Speaker 1: her and she trusts me. Period, we ain't gonna mess up.
Speaker 1: I will not mess up on her, She will not
Speaker 1: mess up on me. We trust each other. So I'm
Speaker 1: not sitting around on the bus when I'm on tour
Speaker 1: going why does she not answer me? And I texted
Speaker 1: her seventeen minutes ago. I know she's around her phone.
Speaker 1: Why is she not messaging me back? Or she's and
Speaker 1: she's not thinking that about me, Like I know he's
Speaker 1: off the stage by now and he should be texting me.
Speaker 1: And the reality is that happens sometimes maybe I got
Speaker 1: off the stage, maybe my phone ran out of battery,
Speaker 1: maybe I'm I got into something with my tour manager
Speaker 1: and we couldn't make it back to the bus, and
Speaker 1: I got stuck in the green room and the parking
Speaker 1: lot was full, so I couldn't go to the bus.
Speaker 1: I didn't make it back to the bus. Blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. I didn't get to my phone, and I
Speaker 1: didn't get to text her before she went to bed.
Speaker 1: That ain't no big deal. Amber doesn't worry about that
Speaker 1: because she knows I'm fine. I am not messing things up.
Speaker 1: That's just what she knows. So you see my point, Joe,
Speaker 1: set it up where that's the foundation, then communication will
Speaker 1: be easy FaceTime if you can text, phone calls and
Speaker 1: just don't make it where it's the ultimatum, like, hey,
Speaker 1: if I don't hear from you every day at six pm,
Speaker 1: then there we're going to have a big problem. I
Speaker 1: see that around me all the time. I see that
Speaker 1: with guys around me, and I see guys that get
Speaker 1: stuck in this rut where every time the scene changes
Speaker 1: in their life, they got to call the girl again,
Speaker 1: like all right, babe, we're getting to the gas station.
Speaker 1: I'll call you when we get back out of the
Speaker 1: gas station again. Bye, Hey babe, we're back back out
Speaker 1: of the gas station. And then oh, we're gonna walk
Speaker 1: into the hotel lobby. Let me give you a call
Speaker 1: whenever I get into my room. Hey babe, I just
Speaker 1: made out of the the lobb but meant to my room. Dude,
Speaker 1: that is exhausting. Don't be that guy, None of y'all.
Speaker 1: Don't be that. You don't doesn't need to be that way.
Speaker 1: There's nothing you need to say to that person if
Speaker 1: you just talked to them three minutes ago. There's nothing
Speaker 1: new to say. That's just a trust issue. That's worrying
Speaker 1: about where that person is because you don't trust them.
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? I answered your question probably the
Speaker 1: opposite of how you thought I was going to answer it,
Speaker 1: in completely backwards way. But to me, that foundation before
Speaker 1: she leaves is the key. Joe. Let'll skip around here.
Speaker 1: Let me skip it on the questions once again. Guys,
Speaker 1: if you want to email me Grangersmith Podcast at gmail
Speaker 1: dot com, shoot me a message. If I don't get
Speaker 1: to your question. Now, hold up, I'm holding them in
Speaker 1: a pin here. I'm holding them in this file. So
Speaker 1: you actually don't I said at one point, send another
Speaker 1: one you don't even need to do that. These aren't
Speaker 1: going anywhere. I'm not deleting them. They're just going to
Speaker 1: be here till I get to it, and I will
Speaker 1: get to it. Okay, here's one. This says Hey Granger,
Speaker 1: my name is Dylan from Shawnee, Oklahoma. Shout out to Oklahoma.
Speaker 1: I've been I hope you and your family are doing well.
Speaker 1: I have been a faithful follower of you for at
Speaker 1: least the past two years, maybe longer, and subscribe to
Speaker 1: both of your YouTube channels. My question comes from something
Speaker 1: you said last week about your hiring criteria for your
Speaker 1: band and crew. My question is this, have you ever
Speaker 1: thought about doing a type of internship or something similar
Speaker 1: for those people who have interest in working in the
Speaker 1: music industry so they can get a taste of what
Speaker 1: it's like before making their career choice. I know, as
Speaker 1: a firefighter slash e MT, I always encourage those people
Speaker 1: interested in my career to do a ride along or
Speaker 1: two so they could see what it's like. No, it's
Speaker 1: not always like it is being on you know, the
Speaker 1: heroes portrayed on TV. Thank you for all the music
Speaker 1: and being vulnerable, and I'm super excited to get the
Speaker 1: new album. Keep up the good work. Ee, yeah, Dylan,
Speaker 1: we do think about that. We do think about internships now.
Speaker 1: I would assume that a ride along if you're thinking
Speaker 1: about being a firefighter, a ride along is super important.
Speaker 1: If you're thinking about being the in the music business,
Speaker 1: a ride along in the tour bus is that's easy
Speaker 1: work from us, So that that that would probably make
Speaker 1: you addicted to it a little bit more. The reality
Speaker 1: is you don't start firefighters starting the in the truck.
Speaker 1: Musicians don't start in the bus. You start in a crappy,
Speaker 1: stinky van, And that would be a better way to
Speaker 1: get into what it's like to get into the business
Speaker 1: as a band or a musician getting into a terrible
Speaker 1: van and driving across the country that way, trying to sleep,
Speaker 1: bouncing down the road while your drummer's driving. But we
Speaker 1: do think about that, we think about internships. We actually
Speaker 1: haven't done anything now, especially during this COVID time. But
Speaker 1: our bunks and our bus situation is always limited, and
Speaker 1: if you throw another person in the mix, that really
Speaker 1: it throws off the dynamic of the crew, you know,
Speaker 1: to kind of puts it off balance a little bit.
Speaker 1: So what we would rather do is have like a
Speaker 1: weekend show and bring somebody to the show and then
Speaker 1: they stay in a hotel and they kind of get
Speaker 1: to be part of the day and the show day,
Speaker 1: but they don't do actually traveling overnight. So yeah, that's
Speaker 1: definitely something in the works. And I've also asked my
Speaker 1: tour manager Chris to consider interns for him to do
Speaker 1: some of his because he has a lot of just
Speaker 1: daily work, paperwork and stuff like that. So I've encouraged
Speaker 1: him to reach out to intern companies and maybe get
Speaker 1: some people to help him out. This one is from
Speaker 1: Dana says, Hey Granger, First of all, thank you for
Speaker 1: your music and your podcast and your videos. You make
Speaker 1: my week better and I look forward to every single
Speaker 1: one of them. I'm so thankful that you allow us
Speaker 1: a glimpse into your family, the good, the bad, and
Speaker 1: everything in between. It allows us to feel like we
Speaker 1: know you. Thank you, Dana, I appreciate that so much.
Speaker 1: Says to my question, have you ever thought about reaching
Speaker 1: out to Black Rifle Company about collaborating with them a
Speaker 1: eeee coffee flavor? Perhaps with them being veteran owned. I
Speaker 1: feel it would be a great fit for you and
Speaker 1: pretty please make a yee gun Holster. That's Dana from Illinois,
Speaker 1: and then she says pronounced Renee with a D. So,
Speaker 1: as I've been saying it wrong, I will now say Denay.
Speaker 1: Thank you Denay, and sorry that I mispronounced your name
Speaker 1: until until I read that at the end. My daughter
Speaker 1: was the one who told you they were there as
Speaker 1: her favorite song last year in Milwaukee. She told you
Speaker 1: about her uncle, my cousin, who'd just gotten back from Afghanistan,
Speaker 1: and you had Remington on the setlist that night, but
Speaker 1: you changed it for her, so she still talks about it.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Yeah, thank you Denay. Yes, I do know
Speaker 1: those guys at Black Rifle Coffee Company. We know them
Speaker 1: very well. Matt Best, who works with them, has been
Speaker 1: in the Haller music video and we have a podcast
Speaker 1: planned with Black Rifle Coffee with their podcast that they have.
Speaker 1: Matt Best is going to come beyond this podcast and
Speaker 1: I'm going to be on theirs and maybe we will
Speaker 1: collab on a yee coffee flavor. So comment below. Yee
Speaker 1: coffee from Black Rifle is something you'd be interested in
Speaker 1: and what do you think that would taste like? That's
Speaker 1: the question, So in your comments, man, what do you
Speaker 1: think yeege coffee would tastes like? Thank you to nay.
Speaker 1: I think that's a great idea. Sorry for mispronouncing your name.
Speaker 1: Alexander says, Hey there, Alex from Oklahoma. Will there be
Speaker 1: a return of Donnie Cowboy love all your stories and
Speaker 1: helpful advice? Yee thank you, alex Yeah, dude, Donnie Cowboy,
Speaker 1: I'm Donnie. He is one of my characters, along with
Speaker 1: Earl Dibbles and Bobby Wayne and Freddie and Dwayne, and
Speaker 1: Donnie is one of my favorites. You guys might know
Speaker 1: him from the song Parked out by the Lake or
Speaker 1: some other videos that Donnie's had. Donnie is He's one
Speaker 1: of my favorites, and he hasn't taken off like Earle did,
Speaker 1: And so it's hard to kind of beat a dead
Speaker 1: horse when Earl Dibbles just always does well. We put
Speaker 1: out content with Earle, people like it. You put out
Speaker 1: content with Bobby Wayne or Donnie and some of these
Speaker 1: other guys, and sometimes it takes a little bit for
Speaker 1: that to gear up. And so it's hard for me
Speaker 1: as a content creator to put too much time into
Speaker 1: things that I know don't work as well as others.
Speaker 1: That being said, yes you could count on a return
Speaker 1: of Donnie, but I'm just kind of explaining why you
Speaker 1: don't see more of Donnie. But he's one of my favorites.
Speaker 1: And anyone else listening if you haven't heard, oh, you
Speaker 1: just google Donnie Cowboy or go to YouTube Donnie Cowboy,
Speaker 1: but you could find his work. And if you know
Speaker 1: Earl Dibbles, who's beer and dip, Donnie is coffee and
Speaker 1: cigarettes to Earl's beer and dip. And he loves nineties
Speaker 1: country music. I know a lot of people just like
Speaker 1: Donnie as well. There's a lot of family members just
Speaker 1: like Donnie. Thanks for the question, Buddy, let's scroll, I
Speaker 1: got here we go, Johnny Nichols, Johnny says Granger. I
Speaker 1: know you've toured Texas extensively. What's your favorite barbecue joint
Speaker 1: and what's your go to beer? It's Johnny from Iowa Colony, Texas.
Speaker 1: What's up, buddy. Shout out to the Texas folks. Shout
Speaker 1: out to Texas barbecue folks. It's so funny because we
Speaker 1: get these discussions about barbecue so much because we could
Speaker 1: get to travel the country and we see the Carolina
Speaker 1: folks who are so serious about their barbecue. The Memphis
Speaker 1: folks are so serious. The Kansas City folks are so serious.
Speaker 1: The Texas folks are so serious. It's hilarious to go
Speaker 1: back and forth and people say that they have the
Speaker 1: best barbecue, when in reality, it's just all personal preference.
Speaker 1: Because to me, if you go to the best life,
Speaker 1: you go the best burnt end place in Kansas City,
Speaker 1: you're gonna sit down and you're gonna go, oh my god,
Speaker 1: these burn ends are incredible. And then your cruise over
Speaker 1: to Memphis and you go to what's it called Rendezvous
Speaker 1: for all your Memphis people. Rendezvous, I think that's what's called.
Speaker 1: You get the ribs there and it's like those little
Speaker 1: dry ribs, incredible. And then you go out there to
Speaker 1: Carolina and you get you a good old pool pork
Speaker 1: with some of that thick honey sauce and all the
Speaker 1: crazy fixings they do in Carolina barbecue. I mean, they
Speaker 1: don't go they're not shy with the fixings in Carolina,
Speaker 1: and it's incredible. And then you come to Texas and
Speaker 1: it's once again totally different. But if you go to
Speaker 1: the best place, it's incredible, and they're all it's different,
Speaker 1: and it's almost not even the same food category. And
Speaker 1: I know they all end with BBQ, but it's not
Speaker 1: the same. It's very different. So I'm here to advocate
Speaker 1: that I love barbecue, and I love the best of
Speaker 1: all of those places, and it's hard to even compare.
Speaker 1: That's like saying, like football and baseball, they're just so different.
Speaker 1: They're totally different sports. And you can't compare the these
Speaker 1: details and the long drawn out innings of baseball to
Speaker 1: the tightly timed quarters of a football game. It's totally different.
Speaker 1: That being said, Johnny to your question, I judge Texas
Speaker 1: barbecue in my mind by their brisket. So I love
Speaker 1: Louis Mueller's brisket in Taylor, Texas. I love Blacks in Lockhart, Texas.
Speaker 1: I love Heart eight out there and was that out
Speaker 1: there in Stephenville. There's a handful of them. And really,
Speaker 1: if you catch any of the best places, I've never
Speaker 1: been to Franklin's in Austin, by the way, but if
Speaker 1: you catch any of the best places on their best
Speaker 1: day when they have a really good cut, it could
Speaker 1: be the best barbecue you've ever had. But I typically
Speaker 1: will judge a Texas based barbecue point by their brisket
Speaker 1: and you can do the You could do the pool test.
Speaker 1: Basically you take you take like a pencil pencil linked
Speaker 1: slice of that brisket and you hold it up and
Speaker 1: it should that brisket should stand up on its own
Speaker 1: weight without falling. But if you take your other hand
Speaker 1: and you just kind of barely pull on that brisket
Speaker 1: on that pencil pencil thickness, it should easily come apart,
Speaker 1: like like bread, like white bread comes apart that easily.
Speaker 1: You should hold stand up on its own but come apart,
Speaker 1: and it should have a nice pepper bark on it.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not all about crazy rubs and crazy sauces.
Speaker 1: To me, a piece of brisket should live alone without
Speaker 1: sauce and with only with pepper seasoning, without craziness. So
Speaker 1: if you could do that, and you could hold up
Speaker 1: on the brisket test with pepper pepper bark, and then
Speaker 1: anything else after that is gravy. Yeah, ignore the pun.
Speaker 1: You could have great sauce, so you could have great sides.
Speaker 1: But Texas Barbeque has to nail the brisket, and I
Speaker 1: would go to Louis Mueller's and Taylor Texas to get
Speaker 1: mine right now. That is not a paid sponsorship. Take
Speaker 1: a quick break. We'll be right back checking emails from
Speaker 1: Granger Smith podcast at gmail dot com. This question comes
Speaker 1: in from Jennifer says, Hey, Grangeer, this is Jennifer from Maryland.
Speaker 1: Let me first say I love you and Amber and
Speaker 1: watching you you make life easier. I knew of you,
Speaker 1: but never watched much about you until the passing of Riv.
Speaker 1: The journey since then, well, you guys have handled it
Speaker 1: with grace. I recently went through a separation after twelve
Speaker 1: years together. My step son is thirteen years old, so
Speaker 1: you could see I've been in his life a long time.
Speaker 1: I'm struggling with the connection we used to have when
Speaker 1: we live together. I try to visit three times a week,
Speaker 1: do activities with him, always get food, we talk, we
Speaker 1: play video games. But it seems his opinion of me
Speaker 1: has changed since I decided to end things. His opinion
Speaker 1: of me has changed since I did decide to end
Speaker 1: things for everyone's happiness. We are coming on a year
Speaker 1: since I've moved out, but I have helped with school
Speaker 1: appointments financially, but I do not know how to navigate
Speaker 1: with him. I know the relationship may not be like
Speaker 1: it was before due to changes, but I want the
Speaker 1: best we can get now, even if it's different situations.
Speaker 1: Great question, Jennifer, and I'm trying. I was trying to
Speaker 1: really dive in to when you just you said you
Speaker 1: decided to end things for everyone's happiness, So every no
Speaker 1: one has reasons for separation. Unfortunately, it's very normal. What
Speaker 1: you're going through is probably pretty common, and there's probably
Speaker 1: a lot of people on this podcast that could relate
Speaker 1: to a story similar to yours. Thank you for the
Speaker 1: question and trusting me with your answer. Here's my first thought.
Speaker 1: My first thought as well, I said, my first thought
Speaker 1: is I think you're asking the right question and your
Speaker 1: heart is in the right place. And I love when
Speaker 1: you guys ask me questions and you show your heart
Speaker 1: right off the bat. It allows me to navigate the
Speaker 1: question better when I know that, Okay, your heart's in
Speaker 1: the right place. So what I see from this question
Speaker 1: is I see a thirteen year old boy more than
Speaker 1: anything in the scenario. And you have to understand you
Speaker 1: know this, Jennifer, that if regardless of the separation, you
Speaker 1: would be having trouble connecting to a thirteen year old
Speaker 1: boy regardless, right, I mean, imagine how you were connecting
Speaker 1: with him when he was four or five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven.
Speaker 1: But everyone knows that something happens when you're thirteen. You change,
Speaker 1: you go through puberty, you're entering into adolescence manhood, and
Speaker 1: you're in a really awkward stage. And add a separation
Speaker 1: to that, and he's confused. He's just not He's not
Speaker 1: mentally developed enough to handle the magnitude of what's happening
Speaker 1: at home. And so what I'm trying to say is
Speaker 1: what is happening to you is natural and normal and
Speaker 1: completely ordinary in your situation, and it doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: it has anything to do with you right now or
Speaker 1: anything you can do to fix it. You're going there
Speaker 1: three times a week, you're doing any activities with him,
Speaker 1: You're getting food, you're talking, you're playing video games. It's
Speaker 1: you have to be completely open to him and empathize
Speaker 1: with him about this separation. Meaning, hey, buddy, I know,
Speaker 1: I know it's got to be tough, right, I know
Speaker 1: it's got to be so tough that me and your
Speaker 1: dad separated. And I just want you to know that
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry and I want to I want to
Speaker 1: be there for you in this weird time. And if
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk about it, that's fine. If
Speaker 1: you don't want to, if you don't want to bring
Speaker 1: it up at all, that's fine. But I want to.
Speaker 1: I want to let you know that I want to
Speaker 1: be a part of your life forever because I helped
Speaker 1: raise you and I want you to know that no
Speaker 1: matter what you do, I am going to be there
Speaker 1: for you and Jennifer I in my opinions, as parents,
Speaker 1: and you are his parent, even though not biologically his parents.
Speaker 1: Our duty is to be there for the child forever,
Speaker 1: no matter what. But that is not reciprocal for the child.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not a rule. It's not necessary for
Speaker 1: the child to have undying, unending, never ending love for
Speaker 1: a parent because they didn't choose that situation. The parents
Speaker 1: did in some way, and you did, certainly by entering
Speaker 1: too into a relationship with a one year old little
Speaker 1: boy baby, and your dad entered into it by conceiving
Speaker 1: this child with the other woman. But the only one
Speaker 1: that's innocent and all this is the boy. He had
Speaker 1: nothing to do with any This is just his life,
Speaker 1: so he could choose. He could completely be justified in
Speaker 1: choosing that he doesn't really care about you, Jennifer, but
Speaker 1: that should not affect your relationship with him or how
Speaker 1: you feel about him. Continue to pursue him, continue to
Speaker 1: go over there three times a week to do activities,
Speaker 1: to get food. Even if he's apathetic and doesn't it
Speaker 1: acts like he doesn't care. Because you're slowly making a
Speaker 1: difference by proving with actions not words, that you are
Speaker 1: there for him, and one day he might be. It
Speaker 1: might take all the way to twenty two years old.
Speaker 1: He's gonna go da gum, Jennifer. Never gave up on me.
Speaker 1: They're all my idiot teenage years through separation with my dad.
Speaker 1: This woman never gave up on me. And it'll click
Speaker 1: and then that's it. He'll accept you forever and that's
Speaker 1: what it is. But it might take some hard years.
Speaker 1: It might take some times when you go, hey, do
Speaker 1: you want to go out to eat? You want to
Speaker 1: play video games, you want to go do to anything,
Speaker 1: and you're thinking, gosh, he hates me. He hates me.
Speaker 1: Now the answer, he's just thirteen. He's thirteen, and he's
Speaker 1: going through a lot and he doesn't know how to
Speaker 1: process it. So just stay on him, keep chipping away,
Speaker 1: be relentless. If this is what you want, pursue him.
Speaker 1: He deserves that. He's had a tossed up childhood, so
Speaker 1: he deserves you staying and good on you for even
Speaker 1: wanting this. So stay on him, be relentless, pursue him,
Speaker 1: and he'll open back up to you. I'm gonna end
Speaker 1: with that one. Thank you guys so much for listening
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