WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Till Date Do Us Part 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.040 Ay Is Brick and Jeffrey and this is your brand 0:00:02.040 --> 0:00:03.160 new Second Date podcast. 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:04.320 Thanks so much for being here. 0:00:04.960 --> 0:00:07.680 And yesterday's Awkward Tuesday was really a lesson on why 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:11.560 you should never hire your friends. Did it actually turned 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:15.680 out great for him? He wasn't doing the job, but 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:17.400 then somehow got promoted above her. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:18.600 Whatever he's doing, he's doing it right. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:22.040 Yeah, hopefully she'll take the time to figure out that 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:23.520 she is happy for him in the end. 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:27.280 But we definitely got some comments on the situation Alexis. 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:27.560 Yeah. 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:30.320 Well, someone said in all caps, we need an update 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:33.120 from that awkward Tuesday, you. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:34.960 Know what happens to her? And someone else said, I 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:36.360 love awkward Tuesdays. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:40.040 Please consider doing awkward Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:44.520 I need one more awkward day in the week. Oh man, god, 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:45.279 that would be a lot. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:47.280 Yeah, and then a lot of other comments saying why 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:49.120 is she happy for her best friend? And then other 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.120 people saying, wait, what kind of company promotes a guy 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:53.400 that sounds like he never shows up. 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:58.440 One person that said, hey, I hired my best friend 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:00.720 as my manager and I work with my husband is 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:01.240 my boss. 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:01.880 Oh my god. 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:03.480 I was like, She's like, it's great, but I was 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:04.080 for now. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:08.039 For now, it's a very very tight knit. Yeah, you 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:11.880 gotta be careful with that one. It's a careful balance then, yeah, 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:12.440 for sure. 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.000 Well, we always love reading your comments, So thank you 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:15.920 so much for being. 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:18.480 Here and for participating and for subscribing. We love that too. 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:21.080 We're going to start your brand new second date right now. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:26.840 Second Date update. We've been doing second date updates on 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.319 our show for what now over ten years? 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:31.080 Yeah, no longer. 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:35.160 Like one hundred years, fifty yeah, seventy five. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.480 Somewhere around there. And it's interesting because when we first started, 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.399 we found it so weird that more and more people 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:46.240 were meeting strangers from online, and now we find it 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.400 odd that more and more people are choosing to go 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:52.520 back to meeting up in person again. Yeah, who wants 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:53.080 to do that? 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.440 It's so weird. We've kind of come full circle. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.160 Yeah, I know. I met her at a bar and 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:01.320 we're like, was it scary? Yeah, exactly how I'm feeling 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:04.800 about today's listener who reached out to us Mia, she 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:08.280 needs our help. Mia, What were you thinking meeting a 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:11.440 guy in person? I must have been terrifying for you. 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.359 Well, I mean it was at a friends housewarming party, 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.320 so you know if there were a bunch of people there. 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:22.080 So you didn't you didn't scream and run until thirty 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:22.840 minutes into. 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:26.919 The Yeah, I mean he might be the one who 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:29.720 screamed and ran. I'm pulling into him. 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:33.120 Okay, you met him at a house party. You had 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:35.320 mutual friends there. Clearly what's the guy's name? 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:37.920 Uh, Owen is his name? 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:40.320 Can I ask real quick? 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.320 Was this like a mutual setup type of stitch? 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:42.840 No? 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.919 I don't think so. I mean she certainly didn't say 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.960 anything to me if it was Okay, stay with me 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:51.840 because it sounds a little nerdy. But he was dominating charades. 0:02:52.320 --> 0:03:01.560 Yes, that word when you say house party, I was 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.680 picturing like beer paul games like that. 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:06.040 The game fish Bowls so popular. 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:09.560 I've had every party with my friend. You could drink 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:11.559 fish Bowls at the same time you play. 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:16.239 Yeah, there was a bit of alcohol going around for sure. 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:18.799 So tell us about the connection that you and Owen 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:20.000 like had that happen. 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:23.000 Well. I went up to him afterwards and was just like, Wow, 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:24.760 that was pretty impressive. You're really great at that, and 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:27.720 like I'm a terrible mime, and so I was like, wow, 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:33.160 you know, and then the very next day he reached 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:36.440 out to me through our mutual friend Julia. He got 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:39.520 got my number through her, I know, yay. 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:42.840 Yeah, and he took an extra step to even make 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:43.400 it happen. 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:47.080 Yeah, he took initiative and we were just sort of 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:50.240 texting kind of casually back and forth, but pretty quickly 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.920 he turned it into a date. He was like, let's 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:58.480 go to this retro arcade bade. 0:03:58.720 --> 0:03:59.680 They serve drinks there. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.440 Yeah, it's like a bar, but then there's like you know, 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.960 old video games and there's like pinball and stuff. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.720 What was it like between you YouTube? And it was 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:08.400 just one on one. 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:11.360 I thought it was really good. I mean we met there, 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:13.720 but he had dressed up. You know, he looked really 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:15.000 great and that's. 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:17.120 Kind of cute to the bar the arcade. 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:18.440 Yeah, what do you mean dressed up? 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:21.200 Did I get a tuxedo or no? Not like touch 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:23.080 but like I don't know, just like it puts some 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:23.680 karendu it. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:25.440 Yeah, the fact that he has pants on, that's a 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:27.240 big win or a. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.440 Big loss, depending on what kind of date you're true. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:31.560 If it's going that well, you might want them off. 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.760 So her first date, I'll take the pants. 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:37.440 Okay, okay, fair, fair, So I mean, what were the 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:39.680 highlights or low lights? Like paint the picture for us? 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:44.359 Well, I'm really good at pinball, so it meant that 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:46.400 I kind of got to show off that time. 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:50.680 Yeah, oh is this really a flex? 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:51.960 Yeah, she's a flipper queen. 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:52.760 She was. 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:56.440 I don't know, he took over the high score? Is 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:58.560 that where we're at where we're looking for in a 0:04:58.720 --> 0:04:59.720 in a significant other. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:03.080 I just think anytime someone can nerd out about something 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:07.120 that they're excited about is a positive passion. Is he 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:08.960 rooting you on at the pinball machine? 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.440 Totally? Yeah? And it's just really fun. He had that 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.600 same kind of energy as the first night that I've 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:18.440 seen him. Am just being really funny and really upbeed. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:22.000 And he shows me this picture of himself from high 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.760 school that a friend had sent to him, and I'm like, oh, yeah, 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.839 you know he's kind of dorky then, but he goes, no, no, no, 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:33.240 look over there, the bartender has my same haircut. That's awesome. 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:34.640 You know, you can kind of just like poke fun 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:35.160 at himself. 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:37.919 And I thought, you got bartender in the photo and 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:42.680 I'm like, I'm sorry, bartender in the arcade. 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:43.320 Has the same photo. 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:45.800 It has the same haircut as him in high school. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:48.479 I thought the picture, I get it. 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:50.880 Okay, So you both went over to the bartender and 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:57.960 gave him a wedgie. 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:03.599 There was a nice kiss at my cars I was 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:07.880 leaving good. Yeah, I mean it seems like a really 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:12.159 good date. Like there there's no reflect but that was 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:18.160 six days ago. He didn't ghost me, but he's not 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:22.640 initiating any conversation, and he's like one word responses like 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.000 I'm like, hey, how was your days? Like good? 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:29.880 Oh, yeah, that feels so bad. Sometimes I'm like I 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.359 just wish they just leave you alone. Then yeah, you know, 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.479 like why why even write the one word? 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:35.520 I mean, sometimes I'll. 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.280 Say that, but then I'll follow it if I'm really 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.280 busy with being like good and then be like sorry, 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:39.920 it's short text. 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.920 I'm really busy. Like we'll talk to you know, like 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.520 just a clarify because it does feel kind of mia, 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.040 What did you think he meant by good? 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:48.760 Well, I'm distiggering. He doesn't want to hear from me, 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:51.119 but he's not ghosting me because we have this mutual friend. 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:52.520 I asked her about it, and she's like, oh, he 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:58.000 didn't see anything to me, because you guys are going 0:06:58.040 --> 0:06:58.520 to see. 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:01.160 Each other maybe, so all right, the vibe that he's 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:04.080 kind of politely trying to avoid you now, so we 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:05.600 need to figure out what's really going on. 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:09.279 We're not gonna let that happen. Well no, no, no, no. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.560 Answer though that's his answer, like, oh, I'm not interested. No, 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.000 We're gonna make fun of him for that answer. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.200 That haircut he had in high school exactly. 0:07:17.200 --> 0:07:19.840 We're gonna bully him into a second date with you, 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:22.000 whether he wants it or not. When we come back, 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:24.000 call him and get you your second date update. 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:25.080 Go get him. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:32.360 We'll do it next second date update. Every man knows 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:37.160 if a woman tells you it's fine. Yeah, things are 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:41.600 not fine at all. So when our listener Mia texted 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:44.800 her date Owen, asking how his day was going, and 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:53.960 he replied good, she knew instantly yikes. Good, that's bad, right, Mia? Yeah? 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:54.680 I think so. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.920 Yeah, I'm laughing because every single person in the room 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:00.400 is totally following along. The girls are like, yeah, that's right, 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:01.520 that's true. 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:04.480 Doesn't everyone agree with that? 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.560 I mean even I have to agree, but come on, 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:07.840 that's a little better than fine. 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:08.720 Though, there's hope. 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:12.360 It's just it's weird because your arcade date, the way 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:15.480 you described it to us sounded like it went just fine. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.840 Like I would go as far to say it went good. 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:20.320 But maybe that's bad. 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:22.520 I don't know it went great because there was a 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:23.280 kiss at the end. 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:29.400 Yeah, that is undeniably, But who knows what words mean anymore. 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:31.600 So it's safer to just call Owen and ask for 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:33.000 his thoughts directly on it. 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:35.320 You know, sometimes you got to read between the lines. Jeff. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:37.360 It's not just black and white all the time. 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:40.280 Oh, I see what you're saying. I'm reading in between 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.360 the lines of that sentence. Right, should you be? Yeah? 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:46.559 Want you this message. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:49.400 I don't know what to do other than just dial 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:55.120 Owen's number and pray that he answers. Okay, Nia, good 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.240 luck to us on this. 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:57.920 Good luck to you. What about me? 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.320 It's more about her than than you or me. 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:03.400 You have to read between the lines of what I said. 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:05.200 To take literally. 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:08.640 I only wanted to mention it. You know what, It's fine. 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:21.040 I'm just gonna out to the number. Here we go. Hello, Hey, 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:21.600 is this Owen? 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.440 Yes, Zone, who is this hey man? 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:26.840 Thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're called Brook 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:27.960 and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:29.880 Hey, Owen, welcome to the show. 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:33.440 How's it going, Owen, I'm saving that one. 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:35.480 That's pretty good clever. 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:36.320 Owing you there? 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:39.400 Uh yeah, I just what's going on? 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:42.080 Sorry? Hey man? So, yeah, this is it's a segment 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:43.600 we do. It's called a second Date Update. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:46.119 Okay, Okay. 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:47.800 I don't know if you're familiar with it. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:50.640 But I'm not familiar with it now. 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.480 Okay, Well, just to clue you in, it's basically where 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.760 we help out our listeners. If they've gone out with 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:58.400 somebody on a date recently and they're not getting a 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.840 call back for a second meet up, they come to 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:02.720 us to try and reach out and figure out if 0:10:02.760 --> 0:10:03.760 there's a reason why. 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:06.240 Okay, okay. 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:09.760 And so we heard through the grapevine that you are 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:11.319 really good at charades. 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:14.160 Oh, which it is so disappointing this is a radio 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:15.880 show because there's no way for us to tell. 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:18.520 Yeah, we can't you prove it. 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:23.520 So where about trades now, I'm sorry, it's still pretty random. 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:24.960 Yeah, So I know that's a little bit of a 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:27.480 deep cut. But we heard that from Mia, the girl 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.040 that you went on a date with after the housewarming 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:30.920 party you met her at? 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.680 Did you like Mia? Do you guys have a good time? 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:38.000 The date was pretty good. But a few days later 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:39.880 I did look her up on social media? 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:44.439 Okay, okay, yeah, that's very normals. How does that change things? 0:10:45.840 --> 0:10:48.840 Look, I don't know if I'm comfortable telling you guys. 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:51.920 I mean, it's on social media. It's obviously not something 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:52.920 she's trying to hide. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:54.559 What did you see, like a. 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:56.560 Picture or a post? 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:01.960 Okay, I guess I'll just tell you guys. So she 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:05.120 was in like a wedding dress, doing like wedding things, 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:09.040 doing what wedding things? I mean I didn't see her 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:11.959 like with a groom or anything, but she was there 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:12.800 in the wedding dress. 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:14.240 Whoa? 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:18.360 And so how are you're reading that? As she's obviously married. 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:20.920 You don't just put on a wedding dress usually, well, 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:22.040 modeling people. 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.440 Do wedding dress Wednesdays at the office, we do that, 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:28.120 some wedding dress Wednesday. Why was that to hold Jeff's vail? 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:30.120 How are you reading that? Owen? 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:32.040 I'm not sure exactly how to read it. 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:33.000 Yeah, but that's so weird? 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:34.840 Like you are you think about it? 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:38.480 Ohen you got her phone number? From your guys's mutual friend, Like, 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:41.439 why wouldn't your mutual friend have given you a heads 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:42.640 up if she was married? 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:43.800 Yeah, there's no chance. 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:48.080 I did speak to our mutual friend and she's only 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:51.320 known her for a few months. So okay, he doesn't 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:53.520 know about it. I mean, I don't know if that 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.800 means it did or didn't happen. We're not sure. 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:56.840 Well, you can't write her off. 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:58.239 You got to just ask her. 0:11:58.480 --> 0:11:59.840 You know, I don't really want to be a part 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:02.640 of any kind of drama. I mean, if she got married, 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:04.960 I mean, if it's new or old, it's just not 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:06.520 something I don't think I'm going to be into. 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:08.840 But you don't know what it is yet. 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:11.120 Yeah, And the good news is these second date calls 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:15.080 usually very low drama. And we can prove that to 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:17.840 you by introducing you to Mia on the other line 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.240 of this call, who's been quietly listening the entire time. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:26.160 Oh and why is she on the phone. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.320 Well that's kind of how we make this segment work, 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.000 is briving them quietly listening to hear the reason they're 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:32.840 not getting called back. 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.040 But you need to tell me stuff that if I'm 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:36.280 going to say stuff like that. 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:38.040 Well, that's going to make it more dramatic. I'm trying 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:41.959 to give it low drama on the line, Brar. 0:12:42.080 --> 0:12:44.520 It's on her social media. She knows it's there. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:45.880 Yeah, you could have said much worse. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.319 Yes, now she has a chance. 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:50.040 To explain, So go ahead and me a jump in. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.760 And what's the deal with your wedding dress picture that 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:53.600 you have online? 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:59.280 Okay, I did do a photo shoot in a wedding dress. 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:02.280 Why why what's the point of that. 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:04.599 She's like, it was for a wedding that I was 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:09.880 but you know, a wedding, yes, but I'm not married. 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:13.040 It was sort of a wedding without a groom, you know, 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:16.720 like I want to get married sometime. I love love. 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:21.040 And my friend was like, look, you have been wanting 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.040 this for so long and you're not doing anything about it. 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:26.160 You need to do more to manifest it in the world, 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:29.640 you know, to like put the desire out there. So 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:33.040 I just did this little wedding and a photo shoot, 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:36.200 had a little party, like we cut cake, I dance 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:40.840 with my dad. I mean, yeah, it's like I wanted 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.920 to party and I wanted to like just put it 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:47.880 out into the world that I'm ready for that's I mean, 0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:48.600 what is Owen? 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.720 Okay? Yeah? Oh, and that's not weird right herself? 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:53.200 Yeah, I think that's pretty weird. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:58.120 Really, I mean I'm not conventional, that's for sure. Yeah, sure, 0:13:58.360 --> 0:13:59.040 but weird. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.480 I mean she's infesting, right, they always say like boards 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:03.000 and stuff. 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:04.720 Look, it seems like you're a little bit on the 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:06.240 fence about this. Where is your head? 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:06.920 I don't know. 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:09.880 I mean I could see both sides, Like it's a 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:13.400 lot to give any other single person all at once. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:14.920 I think you need to edit the caps on that 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:17.720 photo to say I am not married, you know. 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:23.080 I don't know that that helps. 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:22.080 My future wedding. 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:24.720 I don't know, Owen, where are you at with this? 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:27.440 Well, I don't know. I mean, like you said, the 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.880 guy or guys that you're gonna date, you're gonna see this. 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.320 So that could put a lot of pressure on a person. 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:36.640 Okay, clearly we need to get you into a tuxedo 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:38.520 and have you slow dance with your mom for you 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:40.360 to really understand what's going on here. 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.960 I just feel like my doing this means I got 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.640 the party, so it actually takes the pressure off of 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:47.640 any guy that I'm dating. 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:51.880 Sure, nodding, see if you ever get married doesn't even count. 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:55.000 Then, Hey, second weddings count. People have second wedding. 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:58.480 Do you divorce yourself then and then start over. It's 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.000 not a legal marriage, Jose, don't have to worry about 0:15:01.160 --> 0:15:03.840 all the minutia. It's okay. The bottom line we're trying 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:07.200 to figure out is fake wedding pictures aside. Do you 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.480 feel like you have a connection with each other? 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:12.920 You guys sounded so cute together, like you bonded, You 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:14.840 had great you had great chemistry. 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:16.920 You got to the bottom of this really quickly, good 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:19.320 first kiss, And if any of that is true, then 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:22.320 it's worth pursuing another date, and we would pay for it. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:25.200 I gotta be honest with you. I don't think this 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:27.040 is going to work out between us, and I'm just 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:28.120 gonna bow out. 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:35.600 Ah, he's got cold feet. 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:37.080 Owen, she's good at pinball. You can't forget that. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.840 She's actually great at pinball. And I wish you would 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:41.120 have posted that on social media. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:44.760 But she still can. If you're willing to give her 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:47.760 a shot, she'll just be in a wedding dress. 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:50.440 Oh and I had a really fun time on our date. 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:53.520 I thought we had a really good connection. And I 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:56.280 just don't know why this feels so weird because I 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:58.640 want to be married and that's not that unusual. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.680 Well, I mean, the picture is a little bit unusual, 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:04.400 especially the photo of you dancing with your dad and 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:06.440 cutting the wedding cake and throwing the bouquet. 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.280 I bet you had a lot of likes, so that's true. 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:11.080 My wedding photo has got me so many likes. 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:13.920 Maybe I should take something. 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:15.760 But all in I mean, this is the last time 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.800 I'll ask, will you give me one more chance? It 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:22.360 sounds like you're asking give me. I'm down on one knee. 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:27.680 Will cakena to be your lawfully wedded date date for 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:30.400 one night? One more night, and we'll pay for it. 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:40.640 I hate to say it again, but but just no. 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:42.000 Well I don't have to wonder anymore. So thank you. 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:47.680 You maybe make your social media private and that way 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:49.960 you can explain it before people see it. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.120 Mikeelan to put it out in the universe. It's not 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:54.320 to be private. It's going to be out there public 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:58.120 for everybody to see. And maybe that's my screening mechanism. 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:00.840 If a guy can't handle it, then not right for me. 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:02.120 Okay. 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:05.399 Her new handle is when Mia gets married. 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:10.600 Oh yeah, for the next twenty years of dating me. Yeah, 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:16.159 Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I don't I don't know 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:20.440 if I can do these much longer. Why I get 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:23.800 too invested, So when they say no, I feel like 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:25.080 I'm getting rejected. 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:27.760 For a second, Yeah, I do kind of feel like 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:30.639 she should have got a date or she should still. 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:32.480 I can also understand his side, though. 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:34.040 It's a lot to see that. 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:36.560 Like if I saw a dude in a tux pretending 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:39.040 to have a wedding on Instagram after I went out 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:40.080 with them, it'd be hard for me. 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:42.399 But it is a bummer because me I was and 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:44.679 I'm going to actually use Brooks words here. She was 0:17:44.880 --> 0:17:47.919 just being her authentic self. Yeah, she said, I'm not 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:50.199 going to hide my real ambitions. I'm just gonna put 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.120 it out into the universe and see what comes back 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:52.359 to me. 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:54.480 I agree with that, but I didn't never use those words. 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:56.680 But yeah, you've used those words at some point. Yeah, 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:00.760 we'll edit it together. Yeah, And I just really hope 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:04.280 that Mia finds love and stays far far away from 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:07.040 our show as long as possible, because I can't take 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.479