1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Ay Is Brick and Jeffrey and this is your brand 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: new Second Date podcast. 3 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 2: Thanks so much for being here. 4 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: And yesterday's Awkward Tuesday was really a lesson on why 5 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: you should never hire your friends. Did it actually turned 6 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: out great for him? He wasn't doing the job, but 7 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: then somehow got promoted above her. 8 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 2: Whatever he's doing, he's doing it right. 9 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully she'll take the time to figure out that 10 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: she is happy for him in the end. 11 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: But we definitely got some comments on the situation Alexis. 12 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 13 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 3: Well, someone said in all caps, we need an update 14 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 3: from that awkward Tuesday, you. 15 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: Know what happens to her? And someone else said, I 16 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 2: love awkward Tuesdays. 17 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 3: Please consider doing awkward Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays. 18 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 2: I need one more awkward day in the week. Oh man, god, 19 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:45,279 Speaker 2: that would be a lot. 20 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then a lot of other comments saying why 21 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 3: is she happy for her best friend? And then other 22 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 3: people saying, wait, what kind of company promotes a guy 23 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 3: that sounds like he never shows up. 24 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 4: One person that said, hey, I hired my best friend 25 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 4: as my manager and I work with my husband is 26 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 4: my boss. 27 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 28 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 4: I was like, She's like, it's great, but I was 29 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 4: for now. 30 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 2: For now, it's a very very tight knit. Yeah, you 31 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: gotta be careful with that one. It's a careful balance then, yeah, 32 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: for sure. 33 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: Well, we always love reading your comments, So thank you 34 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: so much for being. 35 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 2: Here and for participating and for subscribing. We love that too. 36 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: We're going to start your brand new second date right now. 37 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 4: Second Date update. We've been doing second date updates on 38 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 4: our show for what now over ten years? 39 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, no longer. 40 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: Like one hundred years, fifty yeah, seventy five. 41 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 4: Somewhere around there. And it's interesting because when we first started, 42 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 4: we found it so weird that more and more people 43 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 4: were meeting strangers from online, and now we find it 44 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: odd that more and more people are choosing to go 45 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 4: back to meeting up in person again. Yeah, who wants 46 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 4: to do that? 47 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: It's so weird. We've kind of come full circle. 48 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. I met her at a bar and 49 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 4: we're like, was it scary? Yeah, exactly how I'm feeling 50 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 4: about today's listener who reached out to us Mia, she 51 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 4: needs our help. Mia, What were you thinking meeting a 52 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 4: guy in person? I must have been terrifying for you. 53 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 5: Well, I mean it was at a friends housewarming party, 54 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 5: so you know if there were a bunch of people there. 55 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: So you didn't you didn't scream and run until thirty 56 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: minutes into. 57 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 5: The Yeah, I mean he might be the one who 58 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 5: screamed and ran. I'm pulling into him. 59 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 4: Okay, you met him at a house party. You had 60 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 4: mutual friends there. Clearly what's the guy's name? 61 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 5: Uh, Owen is his name? 62 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: Can I ask real quick? 63 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: Was this like a mutual setup type of stitch? 64 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: No? 65 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 5: I don't think so. I mean she certainly didn't say 66 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 5: anything to me if it was Okay, stay with me 67 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 5: because it sounds a little nerdy. But he was dominating charades. 68 00:02:52,320 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 6: Yes, that word when you say house party, I was 69 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 6: picturing like beer paul games like that. 70 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: The game fish Bowls so popular. 71 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: I've had every party with my friend. You could drink 72 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,559 Speaker 1: fish Bowls at the same time you play. 73 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, there was a bit of alcohol going around for sure. 74 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 4: So tell us about the connection that you and Owen 75 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 4: like had that happen. 76 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 5: Well. I went up to him afterwards and was just like, Wow, 77 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 5: that was pretty impressive. You're really great at that, and 78 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 5: like I'm a terrible mime, and so I was like, wow, 79 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 5: you know, and then the very next day he reached 80 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 5: out to me through our mutual friend Julia. He got 81 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 5: got my number through her, I know, yay. 82 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he took an extra step to even make 83 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: it happen. 84 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, he took initiative and we were just sort of 85 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 5: texting kind of casually back and forth, but pretty quickly 86 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 5: he turned it into a date. He was like, let's 87 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 5: go to this retro arcade bade. 88 00:03:58,720 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 2: They serve drinks there. 89 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like a bar, but then there's like you know, 90 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 5: old video games and there's like pinball and stuff. 91 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 2: What was it like between you YouTube? And it was 92 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 2: just one on one. 93 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 5: I thought it was really good. I mean we met there, 94 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 5: but he had dressed up. You know, he looked really 95 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 5: great and that's. 96 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 4: Kind of cute to the bar the arcade. 97 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean dressed up? 98 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 5: Did I get a tuxedo or no? Not like touch 99 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 5: but like I don't know, just like it puts some 100 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 5: karendu it. 101 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, the fact that he has pants on, that's a 102 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 4: big win or a. 103 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: Big loss, depending on what kind of date you're true. 104 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 4: If it's going that well, you might want them off. 105 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 5: So her first date, I'll take the pants. 106 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, fair, fair, So I mean, what were the 107 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 4: highlights or low lights? Like paint the picture for us? 108 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 5: Well, I'm really good at pinball, so it meant that 109 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 5: I kind of got to show off that time. 110 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, oh is this really a flex? 111 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a flipper queen. 112 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 5: She was. 113 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 4: I don't know, he took over the high score? Is 114 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 4: that where we're at where we're looking for in a 115 00:04:58,720 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 4: in a significant other. 116 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: I just think anytime someone can nerd out about something 117 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: that they're excited about is a positive passion. Is he 118 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: rooting you on at the pinball machine? 119 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 5: Totally? Yeah? And it's just really fun. He had that 120 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 5: same kind of energy as the first night that I've 121 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 5: seen him. Am just being really funny and really upbeed. 122 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 5: And he shows me this picture of himself from high 123 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 5: school that a friend had sent to him, and I'm like, oh, yeah, 124 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 5: you know he's kind of dorky then, but he goes, no, no, no, 125 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 5: look over there, the bartender has my same haircut. That's awesome. 126 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 5: You know, you can kind of just like poke fun 127 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 5: at himself. 128 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 1: And I thought, you got bartender in the photo and 129 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sorry, bartender in the arcade. 130 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: Has the same photo. 131 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: It has the same haircut as him in high school. 132 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 2: I thought the picture, I get it. 133 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 4: Okay, So you both went over to the bartender and 134 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 4: gave him a wedgie. 135 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 5: There was a nice kiss at my cars I was 136 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 5: leaving good. Yeah, I mean it seems like a really 137 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 5: good date. Like there there's no reflect but that was 138 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 5: six days ago. He didn't ghost me, but he's not 139 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 5: initiating any conversation, and he's like one word responses like 140 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 5: I'm like, hey, how was your days? Like good? 141 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, that feels so bad. Sometimes I'm like I 142 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 1: just wish they just leave you alone. Then yeah, you know, 143 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: like why why even write the one word? 144 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes I'll. 145 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 6: Say that, but then I'll follow it if I'm really 146 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 6: busy with being like good and then be like sorry, 147 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 6: it's short text. 148 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 4: I'm really busy. Like we'll talk to you know, like 149 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 4: just a clarify because it does feel kind of mia, 150 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 4: What did you think he meant by good? 151 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 5: Well, I'm distiggering. He doesn't want to hear from me, 152 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,119 Speaker 5: but he's not ghosting me because we have this mutual friend. 153 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 5: I asked her about it, and she's like, oh, he 154 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 5: didn't see anything to me, because you guys are going 155 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 5: to see. 156 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 4: Each other maybe, so all right, the vibe that he's 157 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 4: kind of politely trying to avoid you now, so we 158 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 4: need to figure out what's really going on. 159 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 2: We're not gonna let that happen. Well no, no, no, no. 160 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 4: Answer though that's his answer, like, oh, I'm not interested. No, 161 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 4: We're gonna make fun of him for that answer. 162 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: That haircut he had in high school exactly. 163 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 4: We're gonna bully him into a second date with you, 164 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 4: whether he wants it or not. When we come back, 165 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 4: call him and get you your second date update. 166 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 5: Go get him. 167 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 4: We'll do it next second date update. Every man knows 168 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 4: if a woman tells you it's fine. Yeah, things are 169 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 4: not fine at all. So when our listener Mia texted 170 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 4: her date Owen, asking how his day was going, and 171 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 4: he replied good, she knew instantly yikes. Good, that's bad, right, Mia? Yeah? 172 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: I think so. 173 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm laughing because every single person in the room 174 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 4: is totally following along. The girls are like, yeah, that's right, 175 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 4: that's true. 176 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: Doesn't everyone agree with that? 177 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: I mean even I have to agree, but come on, 178 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: that's a little better than fine. 179 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: Though, there's hope. 180 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 4: It's just it's weird because your arcade date, the way 181 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 4: you described it to us sounded like it went just fine. 182 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 4: Like I would go as far to say it went good. 183 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 4: But maybe that's bad. 184 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: I don't know it went great because there was a 185 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: kiss at the end. 186 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, that is undeniably, But who knows what words mean anymore. 187 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 4: So it's safer to just call Owen and ask for 188 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 4: his thoughts directly on it. 189 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes you got to read between the lines. Jeff. 190 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: It's not just black and white all the time. 191 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 4: Oh, I see what you're saying. I'm reading in between 192 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 4: the lines of that sentence. Right, should you be? Yeah? 193 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 2: Want you this message. 194 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 4: I don't know what to do other than just dial 195 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 4: Owen's number and pray that he answers. Okay, Nia, good 196 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 4: luck to us on this. 197 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 5: Good luck to you. What about me? 198 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 2: It's more about her than than you or me. 199 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 4: You have to read between the lines of what I said. 200 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 2: To take literally. 201 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 4: I only wanted to mention it. You know what, It's fine. 202 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna out to the number. Here we go. Hello, Hey, 203 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 4: is this Owen? 204 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 7: Yes, Zone, who is this hey man? 205 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 4: Thanks for answering. We're a radio show. We're called Brook 206 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the Morning. 207 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 2: Hey, Owen, welcome to the show. 208 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 4: How's it going, Owen, I'm saving that one. 209 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: That's pretty good clever. 210 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 4: Owing you there? 211 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I just what's going on? 212 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 4: Sorry? Hey man? So, yeah, this is it's a segment 213 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 4: we do. It's called a second Date Update. 214 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,119 Speaker 7: Okay, Okay. 215 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 4: I don't know if you're familiar with it. 216 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 7: But I'm not familiar with it now. 217 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, just to clue you in, it's basically where 218 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 4: we help out our listeners. If they've gone out with 219 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 4: somebody on a date recently and they're not getting a 220 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 4: call back for a second meet up, they come to 221 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 4: us to try and reach out and figure out if 222 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 4: there's a reason why. 223 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 7: Okay, okay. 224 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 4: And so we heard through the grapevine that you are 225 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 4: really good at charades. 226 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: Oh, which it is so disappointing this is a radio 227 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: show because there's no way for us to tell. 228 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, we can't you prove it. 229 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 7: So where about trades now, I'm sorry, it's still pretty random. 230 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I know that's a little bit of a 231 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 4: deep cut. But we heard that from Mia, the girl 232 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 4: that you went on a date with after the housewarming 233 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 4: party you met her at? 234 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 2: Did you like Mia? Do you guys have a good time? 235 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 7: The date was pretty good. But a few days later 236 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 7: I did look her up on social media? 237 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yeah, that's very normals. How does that change things? 238 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 7: Look, I don't know if I'm comfortable telling you guys. 239 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: I mean, it's on social media. It's obviously not something 240 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: she's trying to hide. 241 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 2: What did you see, like a. 242 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 4: Picture or a post? 243 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 7: Okay, I guess I'll just tell you guys. So she 244 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 7: was in like a wedding dress, doing like wedding things, 245 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 7: doing what wedding things? I mean I didn't see her 246 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 7: like with a groom or anything, but she was there 247 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 7: in the wedding dress. 248 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: Whoa? 249 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 4: And so how are you're reading that? As she's obviously married. 250 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 6: You don't just put on a wedding dress usually, well, 251 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 6: modeling people. 252 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 4: Do wedding dress Wednesdays at the office, we do that, 253 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 4: some wedding dress Wednesday. Why was that to hold Jeff's vail? 254 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 4: How are you reading that? Owen? 255 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 7: I'm not sure exactly how to read it. 256 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's so weird? 257 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: Like you are you think about it? 258 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: Ohen you got her phone number? From your guys's mutual friend, Like, 259 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 1: why wouldn't your mutual friend have given you a heads 260 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: up if she was married? 261 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no chance. 262 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 7: I did speak to our mutual friend and she's only 263 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 7: known her for a few months. So okay, he doesn't 264 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 7: know about it. I mean, I don't know if that 265 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 7: means it did or didn't happen. We're not sure. 266 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 2: Well, you can't write her off. 267 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:58,239 Speaker 1: You got to just ask her. 268 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 7: You know, I don't really want to be a part 269 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 7: of any kind of drama. I mean, if she got married, 270 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 7: I mean, if it's new or old, it's just not 271 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 7: something I don't think I'm going to be into. 272 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: But you don't know what it is yet. 273 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, And the good news is these second date calls 274 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 4: usually very low drama. And we can prove that to 275 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 4: you by introducing you to Mia on the other line 276 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 4: of this call, who's been quietly listening the entire time. 277 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 7: Oh and why is she on the phone. 278 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 4: Well that's kind of how we make this segment work, 279 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 4: is briving them quietly listening to hear the reason they're 280 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 4: not getting called back. 281 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 7: But you need to tell me stuff that if I'm 282 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 7: going to say stuff like that. 283 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 4: Well, that's going to make it more dramatic. I'm trying 284 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 4: to give it low drama on the line, Brar. 285 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: It's on her social media. She knows it's there. 286 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you could have said much worse. 287 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 2: Yes, now she has a chance. 288 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 4: To explain, So go ahead and me a jump in. 289 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 4: And what's the deal with your wedding dress picture that 290 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 4: you have online? 291 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 5: Okay, I did do a photo shoot in a wedding dress. 292 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 4: Why why what's the point of that. 293 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,599 Speaker 1: She's like, it was for a wedding that I was 294 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: but you know, a wedding, yes, but I'm not married. 295 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 5: It was sort of a wedding without a groom, you know, 296 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 5: like I want to get married sometime. I love love. 297 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 5: And my friend was like, look, you have been wanting 298 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 5: this for so long and you're not doing anything about it. 299 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 5: You need to do more to manifest it in the world, 300 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 5: you know, to like put the desire out there. So 301 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 5: I just did this little wedding and a photo shoot, 302 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 5: had a little party, like we cut cake, I dance 303 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 5: with my dad. I mean, yeah, it's like I wanted 304 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 5: to party and I wanted to like just put it 305 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 5: out into the world that I'm ready for that's I mean, 306 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 5: what is Owen? 307 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 4: Okay? Yeah? Oh, and that's not weird right herself? 308 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that's pretty weird. 309 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 4: Really, I mean I'm not conventional, that's for sure. Yeah, sure, 310 00:13:58,360 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 4: but weird. 311 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 6: I mean she's infesting, right, they always say like boards 312 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 6: and stuff. 313 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 4: Look, it seems like you're a little bit on the 314 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 4: fence about this. Where is your head? 315 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. 316 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: I mean I could see both sides, Like it's a 317 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: lot to give any other single person all at once. 318 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 3: I think you need to edit the caps on that 319 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 3: photo to say I am not married, you know. 320 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that that helps. 321 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 4: My future wedding. 322 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, Owen, where are you at with this? 323 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 7: Well, I don't know. I mean, like you said, the 324 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 7: guy or guys that you're gonna date, you're gonna see this. 325 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 7: So that could put a lot of pressure on a person. 326 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 4: Okay, clearly we need to get you into a tuxedo 327 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 4: and have you slow dance with your mom for you 328 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 4: to really understand what's going on here. 329 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 5: I just feel like my doing this means I got 330 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 5: the party, so it actually takes the pressure off of 331 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 5: any guy that I'm dating. 332 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 4: Sure, nodding, see if you ever get married doesn't even count. 333 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 2: Then, Hey, second weddings count. People have second wedding. 334 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 4: Do you divorce yourself then and then start over. It's 335 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 4: not a legal marriage, Jose, don't have to worry about 336 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 4: all the minutia. It's okay. The bottom line we're trying 337 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 4: to figure out is fake wedding pictures aside. Do you 338 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 4: feel like you have a connection with each other? 339 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: You guys sounded so cute together, like you bonded, You 340 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 1: had great you had great chemistry. 341 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 4: You got to the bottom of this really quickly, good 342 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 4: first kiss, And if any of that is true, then 343 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 4: it's worth pursuing another date, and we would pay for it. 344 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 7: I gotta be honest with you. I don't think this 345 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 7: is going to work out between us, and I'm just 346 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 7: gonna bow out. 347 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: Ah, he's got cold feet. 348 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 4: Owen, she's good at pinball. You can't forget that. 349 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 7: She's actually great at pinball. And I wish you would 350 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 7: have posted that on social media. 351 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 4: But she still can. If you're willing to give her 352 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 4: a shot, she'll just be in a wedding dress. 353 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 5: Oh and I had a really fun time on our date. 354 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 5: I thought we had a really good connection. And I 355 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 5: just don't know why this feels so weird because I 356 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 5: want to be married and that's not that unusual. 357 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, the picture is a little bit unusual, 358 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 4: especially the photo of you dancing with your dad and 359 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 4: cutting the wedding cake and throwing the bouquet. 360 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: I bet you had a lot of likes, so that's true. 361 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: My wedding photo has got me so many likes. 362 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 2: Maybe I should take something. 363 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 4: But all in I mean, this is the last time 364 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 4: I'll ask, will you give me one more chance? It 365 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 4: sounds like you're asking give me. I'm down on one knee. 366 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 4: Will cakena to be your lawfully wedded date date for 367 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 4: one night? One more night, and we'll pay for it. 368 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 7: I hate to say it again, but but just no. 369 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 5: Well I don't have to wonder anymore. So thank you. 370 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: You maybe make your social media private and that way 371 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: you can explain it before people see it. 372 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 5: Mikeelan to put it out in the universe. It's not 373 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 5: to be private. It's going to be out there public 374 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 5: for everybody to see. And maybe that's my screening mechanism. 375 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 5: If a guy can't handle it, then not right for me. 376 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 2: Okay. 377 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 1: Her new handle is when Mia gets married. 378 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, for the next twenty years of dating me. Yeah, 379 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I don't I don't know 380 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 4: if I can do these much longer. Why I get 381 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 4: too invested, So when they say no, I feel like 382 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 4: I'm getting rejected. 383 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 6: For a second, Yeah, I do kind of feel like 384 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 6: she should have got a date or she should still. 385 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 1: I can also understand his side, though. 386 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 2: It's a lot to see that. 387 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: Like if I saw a dude in a tux pretending 388 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: to have a wedding on Instagram after I went out 389 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: with them, it'd be hard for me. 390 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 4: But it is a bummer because me I was and 391 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 4: I'm going to actually use Brooks words here. She was 392 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 4: just being her authentic self. Yeah, she said, I'm not 393 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 4: going to hide my real ambitions. I'm just gonna put 394 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 4: it out into the universe and see what comes back 395 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 4: to me. 396 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: I agree with that, but I didn't never use those words. 397 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 4: But yeah, you've used those words at some point. Yeah, 398 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 4: we'll edit it together. Yeah, And I just really hope 399 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 4: that Mia finds love and stays far far away from 400 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 4: our show as long as possible, because I can't take 401 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:09,479 Speaker 4: any more rejection. I can't do it. 402 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 2: So wow, you're so fragile. 403 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 6: Remember, he finds a guy who just has a tux 404 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 6: in his picture. 405 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 4: That would be great, Do it on somebody else's show. 406 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 4: Remember you can listen to all of our second Date 407 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 4: updates wherever you get your podcasts, on Apple, on Spotify, 408 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 4: We even have them up on YouTube. Join in the 409 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 4: millions who listen each month just by searching Brooke and 410 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning.