1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Strina, and. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: Today we have the woman behind bachelornation dot com, bachelination 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: news all that, Danny is here. Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. 5 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 3: Hi guys, so happy to be back. 6 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: Welcome back, guys. 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 4: We love when Danny comes on because she does she 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 4: takes over the hosting role. 9 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 2: She comes with all the tea, all the news, all the. 10 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 4: Details of everything going on in Bachelor Nation, and we 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 4: get to just have a little chill gab session. So 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 4: thanks for coming on today, Danny, and we'll be doing 13 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 4: some Bachelor news today. But before we do, Danny, this 14 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 4: is not your first time on Happy Hour. We actually 15 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 4: had you on with us earlier this. 16 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: Year, and yeah, sorry I didn't. I'm just gonna go 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: with that. 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 4: I just totally got lost because well, last time we 19 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 4: had you on, we were. 20 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: In we were in the studio. Yeah, we were in 21 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: studio in. 22 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 5: La So that and I grilled you guys with some 23 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 5: questions that I don't think you've been asked before. So 24 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 5: if people haven't listened to that episode, they definitely should 25 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 5: check it out because I think I got some tea 26 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 5: out of both of you all that people had not heard. 27 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 1: So you asked me a question. I think like the 28 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: first question you asked me, I was like, where the 29 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: fuck did you find that? What's like the deepest dive 30 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: you ever took on someone within batriination that you've had to, 31 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: like really go down a rabbit hole and you're like, 32 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: how did I get here? It was? 33 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 5: Honestly, probably that one with you two is probably the 34 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 5: deepest dive I've ever done. But I feel like I'm 35 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 5: doing those pretty regularly, especially with some of the leads 36 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 5: from early seasons that like I didn't necessarily watch in 37 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 5: real time. I will just find myself sometimes down like 38 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 5: a rabbit hole. I'll find myself everywhere being like, wow, 39 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 5: I didn't know that. I didn't know. Like, so yeah, 40 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 5: I go on Bachelor deep dives on the daily. It's 41 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 5: part of my job, quite literally, I believe it. 42 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 4: Well for our listeners, Danny, what can they find on 43 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 4: bachernation dot com Because for those of you guys that 44 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 4: don't know, Danny basically runs Bachelnation dot com. It's like 45 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 4: your one stop shop for everything Bachelor. So can you 46 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 4: give us a little shameless plug there? 47 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 3: Of course, it's got the latest Bachelor Nation news. 48 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 5: We have exclusive interviews with some of the leads, with 49 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 5: anyone who's kind of had big moments lately. 50 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: We chat with people who have had weddings, who have 51 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 3: had babies. 52 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 5: You can sign up to be in the audience there, 53 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 5: so if you have ever wanted to come to Men 54 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 5: Tell All, Women Tell All after the final rows, that 55 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 5: is the place to do it. You could also apply 56 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 5: to be on the show like that is literally where 57 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 5: you apply if you are interested in being on I 58 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 5: don't know, maybe the Golden Bachelorette, maybe next seasonnother Bachelor. 59 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 5: Get yourself a little application on the apply page on 60 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 5: bachelornation dot com. I also keep you guys updated with 61 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 5: all the big announcements we get them like in real time, 62 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 5: like when Joan was announced as the Golden Bachelorette Boom, 63 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 5: it was up on the front page at Bachelornation dot com. 64 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 3: So I know there are lots of fan accounts and 65 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:53,399 Speaker 3: things out there. 66 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 5: This is the official show page from the producers of 67 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 5: the show. 68 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 3: I run it. 69 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 5: We get all of the exclusive all the latest news, 70 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 5: so check us out over there. 71 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: When one does apply to be on one of the shows, 72 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: is there a tip that you could give them right 73 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: now that makes an application somewhat stand out. 74 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 2: Oh that's a good question. 75 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 3: Question, you know. 76 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 5: I love when people apply themselves and are like shameless 77 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 5: about it. I know a lot of people get submitted 78 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 5: by like friends, family, whoever. But I think it's really 79 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 5: genuine when people apply themselves and like can be really 80 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 5: honest and candid and like shameless about really looking for love. 81 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 3: So I feel like, just be yourself, do it yourself. 82 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 5: If it's something that you really want to do. I 83 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 5: feel like that's probably the best advice I have. I 84 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 5: know a lot of people get on the show in 85 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 5: a millions of different ways. Yeah, I feel like I 86 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 5: love hearing the stories about I know Maria recently was 87 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 5: talking about how she'd always really wanted to be on 88 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 5: the show and like really wanted to find love or 89 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 5: give herself the opportunity to find love in that way. 90 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 5: I know Joan talked about being in a restaurant one 91 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 5: night and looking around and seeing all these couples around 92 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 5: her at the restaurant and then like going home that 93 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 5: night and feeling called to apply herself. So I feel 94 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 5: like I love when people just like really put their 95 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 5: heart into it and apply themselves. 96 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 3: Again, I'm not on the casting team, so I don't get. 97 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 5: To pick, but like I love getting to like hear 98 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 5: those kinds of stories and see that. So yeah, just 99 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 5: like the always be yourself. But if you've ever been interested, apply, 100 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 5: you know. 101 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 4: I think that's great advice because I do think that 102 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 4: in the recent years, there's so many stories of people 103 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 4: either getting nominated or getting scouted on Instagram, on a 104 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 4: dating app. Joe got scouted in a like a Whole 105 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 4: Foods and there is this like shame around applying for 106 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 4: yourself of like, well does that mean like is that 107 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 4: like not as cool as if someone like reaches out 108 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 4: to me. But like if you're interested in doing the show, 109 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 4: like what's the worst that could happen? Like you just 110 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 4: don't get on the show, like put yourself out there. 111 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 4: You never know what could happen. I applied myself. I mean, 112 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 4: did I expect to hear back or plan on your 113 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,799 Speaker 4: own back? No, But like look where we are. 114 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 3: Now, you're literally married. 115 00:04:58,080 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it worked out. 116 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 3: To be honest, I'm gonna spill. I applied when I 117 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 3: was like right after college, and that is dandy. 118 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 5: So you never know my friends and I went to 119 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 5: an in person pasting like in I think we was 120 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 5: in Chicago because I went to school in Wisconsin, and 121 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 5: I was like, you know what, We're just gonna go 122 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 5: and have a good time. My whole group of friends 123 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 5: from my sorority and I went. So you never know 124 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 5: where it will take you. And now I work for 125 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 5: the show, so and I'm married and found love in 126 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 5: my own way, but like, it's just a fun experience, 127 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 5: and yeah, you never know where it can take you. 128 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 3: You could be like Joe and Strina and find the 129 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 3: love of your life. 130 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 5: You could be like me and somehow make your way 131 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 5: back to the show in some way, shape or form. 132 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: Nice. Should we get into the Bachination news what we're 133 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: going to break down? 134 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 5: Yes, I know, Joe, you have some experience with this 135 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 5: from Clickbait the Bachelorination News of the week from back 136 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 5: in the day. 137 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 4: And you know what, that was my favorite segment because 138 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: I used to listen to Clickbait, especially like in the 139 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 4: beginning of our relationship. I listened to every single episode 140 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 4: like religiously, and I loved the Bachelor Nation News breakdown 141 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 4: Bringing it back. 142 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: Our listeners were this episode, We're bringing back Chachination breakdown, 143 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: and we have four articles within Bachination that we're going 144 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: to talk about. 145 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a news from this week. 146 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's always news going on in Bachernation. But since 147 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 4: we'll be diving into some of the big news stories 148 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 4: coming out in Bachriination and Danny is our bachelination news expert, 149 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 4: we're gonna let Danny take the wheel today and introduce 150 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 4: these stories to you guys. 151 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 5: Okay, So first up, there's a story that's been blowing 152 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 5: up on social media. If you guys know who Trista 153 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 5: and Ryan Sutter are, hopefully you do if you don't, 154 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 5: they're our first bachelorette couple. They have been married for 155 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 5: over twenty years. They have two I believe high school 156 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 5: age kids, a son and a daughter. They've been together forever, 157 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 5: deeply in love, probably like the OG bachelor couple that 158 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 5: people are obsessed with and ride for. Over the past 159 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 5: couple of weeks, people have been concerned about Trista and 160 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 5: her whereabouts because of some of Brian's social media activity. 161 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 5: He has been posting these black and white kind of 162 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 5: cryptic photos with really emotional captions like missing her, feeling 163 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 5: really sad, wishing he could talk to her, and the 164 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 5: comments from bacchclorin Nation bands have been concerned. People are 165 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 5: worried did something happen to her? Is something going on 166 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 5: in their relationship. Ryan has since clarified and said that 167 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 5: she's okay. There's some speculation that she's either away on 168 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 5: some sort of trip or maybe she's filming some reality show. 169 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 5: We don't really know exactly what's happening, but the posts 170 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 5: are what do you guys think of a post? 171 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 3: The post? I don't know if you've seen them, but 172 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: they're really heavy. 173 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 2: I think Joe like two days ago, was like are 174 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: you seeing. 175 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: Think? Yeah, well I saw yeah. 176 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 4: Joe was like seeing it on social media, He's like, 177 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: what is going on with this Tristan Ryan's stuff? And 178 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know, like hopefully they're okay. 179 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 4: And then I saw the post when I read the 180 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 4: article like from start to finish with all the captions, 181 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 4: And I don't follow Ryan on social media, so I 182 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 4: don't know what his like standard of posting is, if 183 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 4: this is like totally normal, if this is a little. 184 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 2: Bit unique for him. 185 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 4: But I was like, yeah, it's giving cryptic like it's giving, 186 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 4: it's giving she's not here for Mother's Day. 187 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 2: She's still not here. 188 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 4: I missed her, but like where is she is the 189 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 4: big question I feel like on everyone's mind, and like 190 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 4: why can't he talk to her? And how long is 191 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 4: she going to be gone for? When's she going to 192 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 4: be back? Like it's very ambiguous. Obviously it's very emotion forward, 193 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 4: but like zero facts about the situation, zero details. 194 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 3: I know, Joe, what did you think when you first 195 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 3: saw it? 196 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 1: Yeah? I well, so I've met Ryan a few times 197 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: in person. I mean I don't know him too well, 198 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: but just like we've we've met we were we actually 199 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: met them. I met her a few times when we 200 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: met them in LA when we all went to the Bachelor. 201 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 2: Mansion for the Golden Bachelor finale. 202 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and just such a down to earth, just super chill, 203 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: like really really nice guy. So for so to see 204 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: those kind of posts, I would instantly think like something 205 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: awful has happened, because yeah, like it's weird, like they're 206 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: in black and white, and he doesn't really strike me 207 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: as this type of Instagram poster I guess anyways, Like 208 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: that's not really his that's not like what he's giving off. 209 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: So that's initially where my head went. But then I 210 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 1: saw the rumors circulating that she's potentially on Special Forces, 211 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: which that's the rumor, we don't know if that's true, 212 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: and that is more of an intense reality show. So 213 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: I guess if I match up those cryptic posts with 214 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: potentially being on that show, that makes more sense, because, 215 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: like you said, he's come out and already said like 216 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: nothing's wrong with her. 217 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 4: So yeah, and Special Forces is a very intense show. 218 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 4: I mean, we've seen like clips of it, so I 219 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 4: can imagine like if I was sitting at home and 220 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 4: I couldn't talk to Joe and I knew he was 221 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 4: on that show or any reality show can be an 222 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 4: intensive filming process, but that one is especially unique. I 223 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 4: would probably be sitting at home with some anxiety about 224 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 4: like what he's going through and not being able to 225 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 4: talk to him and all of that. 226 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 2: And it is the Spring. 227 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of reality shows film in 228 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 4: the spring, So even if it's not Special Forces, I 229 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 4: feel like it would add up if she was on 230 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 4: something right now, filming something. 231 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I heard rumors about like Traders as well, 232 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 3: you know. 233 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Traders films in the spring. Too. 234 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously we don't know there is another bachelorette. 235 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 5: Ali Fetataski man I was also like away filming something 236 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 5: right now, so people are like, maybe they're together. 237 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 3: I don't know. But yeah, Ryan. 238 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 5: Did come back, I believe, like a day or two 239 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 5: ago and said that he is not like a social 240 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 5: media guy and that he was kind of just like 241 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 5: posting his and that he usually just posts his dog 242 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 5: and has a blue collar job and this isn't his thing. 243 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 5: So I think, yeah, he realized pretty quickly that a 244 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 5: lot of people still do follow him, and he was 245 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 5: touched by the fact that people still really care. 246 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: But yeah, some of the posts were quite. 247 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 5: Sad, you know, and like, I want to know how 248 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 5: you're doing. I really wish I could talk to you. 249 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 5: I want to know how your day was. I want 250 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 5: to hear your voice. And he did clarify that they're okay, 251 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 5: their marriage is okay, everyone is fine. So I am 252 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 5: glad to hear that because I was concerned at first, 253 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 5: two before he kind of clarified, because I think a 254 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 5: lot of people had the same reaction as maybe Joe 255 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 5: did at first, like oh, this seems out of character 256 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 5: for him, because it kind of started in like the 257 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 5: beginning of this month and feels like it's carried on 258 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 5: now through the month, and so hey, I mean, if 259 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 5: she's on a show like that, clearly she's doing well 260 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 5: because she's still there, so that's good news. 261 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 3: And if she's on some sort. 262 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 5: Of like wellness vacation like live, I hope she's ever 263 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 5: a treat. 264 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 4: If she's on something where it's like I'm disconnected on 265 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,199 Speaker 4: a wellness tree. But you know what, I will say, 266 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 4: the post seem really cryptic until the fact that he's confirmed, 267 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 4: like nothing is wrong, like she's okay, everything's okay. Looking 268 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 4: at them from a new perspective, like they're really sweet, 269 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 4: Like it's it's actually like so emotional seeing and hearing 270 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 4: just like this love and care that he still has 271 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 4: for his wife after all these years, just like missing 272 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 4: talking to her every day, Like the things that he's saying, 273 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 4: knowing that they're not coming from a place of like 274 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 4: they're in like something wrong is going on, It's like, 275 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 4: oh wow, that's like very touching. I'm sure she's gonna 276 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 4: come back and see that and her heart's gonna be 277 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 4: so warm. 278 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 5: She did comment on one of them. She commented on 279 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 5: the Mother's Day one with like hearts and crying emojis. 280 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 5: I'm not sure if she did that herself or someone 281 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 5: has her instat. 282 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 4: Maybe someone was like, get in there and comment on 283 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 4: this pole you're getting divorced. 284 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 3: But yeah, he did write something like that. 285 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 5: He's like, I write what's on my mind at the moment, 286 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 5: you know, I write about feelings without like regard for 287 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 5: how they'll be interpreted on the internet. So he said, 288 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 5: we're fine, just this fine. I just miss her. We 289 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 5: miss her, which is sweet. I think it was paired 290 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 5: with like the shift in aesthetics to black and white 291 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,959 Speaker 5: on his feed that like maybe got people nervous, because 292 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 5: when I see a black and white seed or post 293 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 5: and feed, my heart stops sometimes and I'm like, oh god, 294 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 5: I hope everyone's okay. Like sometimes people post that when 295 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 5: they are trying to share something more like solomn or 296 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 5: so totally. Yeah. So I think that maybe it's because 297 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 5: he seems to be going for like a new black 298 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 5: and white vibe. Maybe on his Instagram do with you 299 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 5: if you scroll back, he kind of does have some 300 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 5: black and white photos going on, So I mean. 301 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: I also think it. I also think it makes sense too, 302 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: that he could be somewhat desensitized from the fact that 303 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 1: he does have a large Instagram following just because he's 304 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: he's had it for so long. And then like it 305 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: happens to all of us where we kind of just 306 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: fall in this trap of posting what like we usually 307 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: post and there's not like the social media engagement isn't 308 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 1: as high. But then all of a sudden, when you 309 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: do post something that people are like, WHOA, what's going on? 310 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 1: You realize, oh shit, like a lot of people just 311 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: saw that. It's the same thing as when Sarah and 312 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: I talk about like, oh I said that on the podcast, 313 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: I didn't realize people listen, Yeah, you're. 314 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 4: Doing so frequently sometimes you get the sensitized to the 315 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 4: amount of people that are paying attention to it. And yeah, 316 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 4: having met him, he really just seems like this like 317 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 4: down to earth normal dude. I think there are people 318 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 4: in this world, not in like a negative way, but 319 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 4: maybe would be like ooh, like let's play into the 320 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 4: fact that she's gone like stir the pod a little bit, 321 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 4: like have people talking, and that can be a fun 322 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 4: game to play. 323 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 2: But like, he's not that dude. 324 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 4: So I feel like he was just like sharing his emotions, 325 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 4: sharing his feelings. Probably forgot that so many people are 326 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 4: still like paying attention to him and his relationship, and 327 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 4: was like, damn, I really struck a chord with my followers. 328 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think we just got to keep in mind 329 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 5: because I've met trist and Ryan too that like he's 330 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 5: like a fifty year old dad. 331 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 3: Who lives in Colorado, you know what I mean, like 332 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 3: think about how they use social media. I don't think 333 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 3: he thinks about the. 334 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 5: There are like two hundred thousand people narrowly who follow him, 335 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 5: So yeah, that's. 336 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 3: That's kind of what's going on there. I just wanted 337 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 3: to clear up all is good with Trista and Ryan. 338 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 5: We are excited to see what she's been up to 339 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 5: when she comes back, excited to see like what he 340 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 5: posts when they reunite, because I'm sure it will also 341 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 5: be really sweet and emotional, given how I don't know. 342 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 3: Thoughtful he's been with these posts while she's gone. 343 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 5: So yeah, if I think, if you remember from the 344 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 5: time on the show, he would like write her love 345 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 5: letters and stuff too, and so this is in line 346 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 5: with what he does. 347 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 2: This is like an expressive person. 348 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 3: Maybe that's his love language. 349 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, And I will say, like when Joe went 350 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 4: unfilmed The Goat, which is out right now on Amazon Prime. 351 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 2: He filmed it last year. 352 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 4: He was gone for quite a while and I could 353 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 4: talk to him very like infrequently, and it does make 354 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 4: you like kind of like I can relate to Ryan 355 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 4: in that way of being like, oh, like I missed him, 356 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 4: Like I want to talk to him. 357 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: I can't, So like, yeah, wherever. 358 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 4: I'm excited to see the reunion of these two being 359 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 4: gone because she's going to come back and be like whoa, 360 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 4: Like what did I miss? 361 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope it wasn't one of those things where 362 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 5: like he wasn't supposed to say that she was away for. 363 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 4: Real, I'm sure the last thing at Trista's Bengo card 364 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 4: was coming back to Ryan stirring up Instagram drama. 365 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 3: People worry, truly, especially. 366 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 4: Just like you know, I'm worried about like her daughter 367 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 4: getting to dance on time versus like Ryan talking about 368 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 4: her being gone on Instagram. 369 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 3: Totally totally, I love it. 370 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, Well that's the blook to Trista with whatever she's doing, 371 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 5: and we look forward to their reunion. Okay, So our 372 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 5: next story is about our beloved Rachel Nance from Joey 373 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 5: season of The Bachelor. I did want to note for 374 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 5: those of you that are listening, there are some mentions 375 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 5: of sensitive topics regarding sexual assault. So if that is 376 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 5: not something that you are comfortable listening to, maybe just 377 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 5: fast forward a couple of minutes skip ahead. Just want 378 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 5: to put that out there, because Rachel did talk about 379 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 5: her journey with sexual assault and the hate that she 380 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 5: received online during Joey's season airing of the show. She 381 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 5: also talked about opening up about her family's beautiful culture 382 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 5: and the unfortunate backlash she received after that while the 383 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 5: show was filming. In a really beautiful, touching essay that 384 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 5: she penned for Today dot Com, she wrote about it, 385 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 5: I believe in some sort of like celebration of AAPI 386 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 5: heritage month and also just like a celebration of her 387 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 5: time on the show coming to an end. So I'm 388 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 5: not sure both of you had a chance to read 389 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 5: it yet, but it was really touching and moving, and 390 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 5: she talked about how her experience with sexual assault led 391 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 5: her to becoming a nurse, which she really just wanted 392 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 5: to help people, and her time on the show her 393 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 5: purpose going into the show was to find love, and 394 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,479 Speaker 5: then she kind of through the process recognized that her 395 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 5: purpose was greater, and her purpose was to help people, 396 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 5: including herself, embrace herself as she is, Embrace her culture, 397 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 5: embrace her beauty, embrace her heritage. 398 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 3: So it was a really beautiful essay. 399 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 5: I really do encourage everyone who's listening, if they haven't 400 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 5: read it in full, to read it in full, because 401 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 5: Rachel's an incredible human and getting to hear the words 402 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 5: from her is really special. 403 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 3: But I just wanted to bring it up here today 404 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 3: so we could shine a light on her. 405 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely. We had her on Happy Hour and she 406 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: was She was one of my favorite guests from definitely 407 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 1: from Joey season, and she had gone through a lot, 408 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 1: and we had her right off of right off of 409 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: the show, and she was receiving so much unnecessary hate 410 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: that we did address on the podcast. But yeah, I 411 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: just thought she was so personable and just such a 412 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: warm and nice person. So yeah, I mean, I think 413 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: Rachel's great. 414 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 415 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 4: I liked the messaging about what her purpose going on 416 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 4: the show was versus when she came off. How that 417 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 4: perspective has changed because I think so many people go 418 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 4: on the show with that same intention of like, well, 419 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 4: my purpose is to hopefully find love, my hope is 420 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 4: purpose is to make connections or you know, to travel 421 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 4: and put myself in a unique situation. And I think 422 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,480 Speaker 4: that everyone probably comes off the show with a different 423 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 4: understanding of maybe what their purpose was or how the 424 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 4: show played a role in their life and their growth 425 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 4: that they weren't expecting. I kind of want to start 426 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 4: asking people that on the podcast, because I do think 427 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 4: it's like a really insightful thing that she brought up about, 428 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 4: like that change in purpose and perspective first from going 429 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 4: on the show versus like coming off of it, because 430 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 4: I also think it's very similar going on, but everyone 431 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 4: comes off with such a greater, more unique purpose than 432 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 4: they expected. 433 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,919 Speaker 1: And I think for her, it's like it would have 434 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: been really easy for her to just be like I'm 435 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:53,400 Speaker 1: heartbroken and I'm not getting you know, she's getting love, 436 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 1: but I'm also getting hate on social media and for 437 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: its just kind of to be an overall negative. 438 00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 2: Expressing through this. 439 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 4: I didn't up finding love and now I'm getting verbally 440 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 4: abused on the internet. 441 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 1: So the fact that she was able to turn it 442 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 1: around and do it so quickly and then and be like, yeah, 443 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 1: and I found I actually did have a purpose for 444 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: being on the show, and then this is how I'm 445 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: going to use it. I think is the healthiest and 446 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: the best way you could go about it. 447 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really reflective. 448 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 5: She talked about that conversation that she had about the 449 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 5: purpose with the show one of the show's therapists that 450 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 5: they provide, and she talked about how like this wasn't 451 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 5: the first experience that she had experiencing racism, but like 452 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 5: she got so emotional during the women tell All because 453 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 5: she felt like it kind of all came up from 454 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 5: her whole life all at once, and for the first time, 455 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 5: with like all of the women from her season and 456 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 5: the people in the audience rallying around her, She's like, 457 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 5: for the first time, I didn't feel alone, you know 458 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 5: what I mean in that moment, And I think it 459 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 5: was really beautiful to see and it was cool to 460 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 5: see her kind of discover that purpose in real time almost, 461 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 5: And I think that's why she had so many feelings 462 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 5: in the moment and has been able to continue to 463 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 5: share in such a polished, beautiful, elegant way after and 464 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:08,199 Speaker 5: take such a positive from a really difficult thing to 465 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,640 Speaker 5: go through that, like Joe said, could have led her 466 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 5: to kind of have maybe regrets about going on the show. 467 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 5: But in the essay, she wrote that she has no 468 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 5: regrets about going on the show. And I think about 469 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 5: so many others who have gone on the show, Like 470 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,719 Speaker 5: I know, Abigail just released or announced that she's releasing 471 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 5: her book, which is so incredible because like she went 472 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 5: on the show looking for love just like everybody else 473 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 5: and ended up finding love on Paradise. 474 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 3: But I don't think she realized how. 475 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,160 Speaker 5: Many people she was going to touch, not only in 476 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 5: the death and hearing lost community, but just disability community overall. 477 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,399 Speaker 5: And I think about like the impact that someone like 478 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 5: Rachel has right now and will continue to have for 479 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 5: many years to come, with. 480 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 3: So many people who see themselves in her or see 481 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 3: parts of themselves in her. 482 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 5: And maybe we'll feel more brave, maybe we'll feel stronger, 483 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 5: maybe we'll yeah, just feel empowered by her being able 484 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 5: to take something that was negative and turn into a positive. 485 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 5: And you know, I love, love love our Bachelor Nation fans. 486 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 5: They're like why we all get to continue to do 487 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 5: what we do. But it is also a continued reminder 488 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 5: that these are real people who are like having real 489 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 5: life experiences, and I think Rachel really reminded us of 490 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 5: that this time around. Like her family opening up and 491 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 5: showing their culture so beautifully on the show was a 492 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 5: brave thing to do and a really awesome thing to 493 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 5: do and an educational thing to do for so many 494 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 5: people who haven't been exposed to her family's background that 495 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 5: I think it's a reminder that we should be like 496 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 5: celebrating that and embracing that. And the fact that she 497 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 5: had to, you know, even like put safety filters on 498 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 5: her Instagram for certain words, is such a shame. That's 499 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,679 Speaker 5: not what any of this is about, you know, Like 500 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 5: we want to be lifting these people up. And so 501 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 5: I was really glad that Rachel had the platform to 502 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 5: do so, because she did it in such a yeah, 503 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 5: beautiful way that I could have never. 504 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: So yeah, I agree, I are agreed. 505 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, we are going to shift gears. 506 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 5: Another friend of ours from Joey season, our girl Daisy, 507 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 5: has gone public with a new new ish I suppose relationship, 508 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 5: new old relationship. Okay, So she just this past week, 509 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 5: I believe, has revealed that she officially has reconnected with 510 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 5: her college boyfriend. 511 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 3: His name is Thor, and she talked about it name 512 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 3: his name is. 513 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 2: He doesn't look. 514 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 4: Like a Thor Sehoto there was one like I know Colin, 515 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,120 Speaker 4: or like a Jacob like something. 516 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,239 Speaker 5: Like yeah, his parents must be like really cool. And 517 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 5: also to have named someone Thor like that many years ago, 518 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 5: they must have been like a big Marvel fan. 519 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 2: Do you think it's like based on Marvel. 520 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know where else the name 521 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: comes from, like Thor is, yeah, the Marvel is there. 522 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 1: When I heard Thor, I think of yeah, you think 523 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: I think his. 524 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 4: Name, No, for sure, That's the only thing I'm picturing 525 00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,399 Speaker 4: when I hear Thor. 526 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 2: She must have heard this his. 527 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 4: Whole life, like yeah, I'm every year for Halloween if 528 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 4: I was have just. 529 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 3: Like you've got to. So they went to San Diego 530 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 3: State University together. I think that she. 531 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 5: Talked about it a little bit on Beca Tillia and 532 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 5: Tanya rad Scrubbing in podcast. She did mention that they reconnected. 533 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,160 Speaker 5: She had been talking like a little more vaguely about 534 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 5: someone she had reconnected with from her past or she 535 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 5: was dating again, but she confirmed with them that it 536 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 5: is Thor. He is like a member of a famous 537 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,719 Speaker 5: racing family, like off road kind of racing, and I 538 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 5: believe that's what he does with his life too. 539 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 3: I don't know exactly what his career is, like car 540 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 3: racing like yeah, yeah, like off road. 541 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: Like off roading, like ATV. 542 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that kind of stuff that seems to be well 543 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 4: ATVing is different than race cars. 544 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 3: It's not a car. It looks like these like monster 545 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:53,199 Speaker 3: trucky kind of thing. 546 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 2: Oh okay, like off on. 547 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 5: The dirt though, you know, I'm not like an expert 548 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 5: in car things, but it's what's on his Instagram, Okay. 549 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 5: And yeah, so we don't know a whole lot about 550 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 5: how they reconnected yet, but it does seem that they 551 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,879 Speaker 5: are really happy. Daisy was sharing about it, saying that 552 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 5: they didn't date for very long when they were in college, 553 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 5: but they were good friends after and their friend group 554 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 5: is still really close, so it kind of just happened naturally. 555 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 5: After that she you know, wrapped her time on the show, 556 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 5: they decided to give it a go, and they're giving 557 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 5: it that go and it's going really well. 558 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 2: How long are they broken up for? 559 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 5: It's been like over four years because Daisy, I think, 560 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 5: has been out of college for some time now, so 561 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 5: he said it was like and they didn't date for 562 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 5: very long. She said that he did break up with 563 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 5: her when they were dating, but they just like both 564 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 5: weren't out of place to have a relationship. 565 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 3: They were just like very much in college. 566 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: How long did they date the first time? 567 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 3: She said it wasn't very long. She didn't say six months? 568 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 2: Eight months? 569 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 3: What's a college relationship, you know? 570 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh it was casual. He wasn't like her boyfriend. 571 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 3: I don't know what college is like those those titles 572 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 3: can be loose like. I'm not sure she didn't. 573 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 1: I think it makes sense. I think it all it 574 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: checks out. 575 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,199 Speaker 4: They searched up this off roading thing, so this is 576 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 4: what it looks like. If it's like looks like small 577 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 4: monster trucks in the desert racing around. 578 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 2: This is so cool. I just didn't I didn't even 579 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,439 Speaker 2: know this was a thing. Did you know this was 580 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:20,679 Speaker 2: a thing? 581 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? 582 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 2: What did you call it? ATVing like two minutes ago? 583 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: Off whatever, It's all the same shit. 584 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 5: I think that's what he does. I think his family 585 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 5: comes from like a lineage of that. But yeah, she 586 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 5: did also talk about how like they're still trying to 587 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 5: figure out like how public they want their relationship to be, 588 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 5: because she doesn't feel like she like owes it to everybody, 589 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 5: you know, to like share everything. But he's super supportive 590 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 5: of like whatever she wants to do, but was definitely 591 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 5: surprised when like, yeah, people started to like talk about 592 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 5: it and know who he was, and so I think 593 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 5: that's maybe why she decided to talk about it herself. 594 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: Well, I think it checks out too. I think for 595 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 1: so many people that go on this show, I feel 596 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: like the show really helps open them up to their 597 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 1: own feelings and being vulnerable. And I think when you 598 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 1: come off the show, even if you do end up 599 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 1: being heartbroken at the end, you are usually ready to 600 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 1: take that next step and to be in a real 601 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 1: long term relationship. So that Daisy has now rekindled with 602 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: an X and it looks like it's serious makes total 603 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: sense to me. 604 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 605 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,680 Speaker 4: I feel like people that come off the show either 606 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 4: have looked back on their past relationships and been like, 607 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 4: oh my god, it's so much clearer why these aren't 608 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:42,360 Speaker 4: for me, or maybe are encouraged like veer back towards 609 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 4: one because like you do do a lot of self reflection, 610 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 4: both on yourself and on your dating a relationship history 611 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 4: while you're on the show, and it's such a learning experience. 612 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 4: And I feel like people come off the show either 613 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 4: like I'm really ready more than ever to be in 614 00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:00,080 Speaker 4: a serious relationship, or like they go the opposite way 615 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 4: and they're like living up their single life and they're like, WHOA, 616 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 4: I need to take some time for myself. But I 617 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 4: feel like there was rumors for a hot minute that 618 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 4: she was dating someone and that she got back together 619 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 4: with an X. So I'm glad that she kind of 620 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 4: came out and confirmed it because I feel like there 621 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 4: was talk about it for a hot minute before she 622 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 4: was like she is she back? 623 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 2: Is she not? 624 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 4: Like we know she like she's not the Bachelorette, but like, 625 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 4: is there a man involved? 626 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 2: What's going on? 627 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's possible that maybe that's why she was not 628 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 5: wanting to do the Bachelorette, you know, like who knows 629 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 5: how soon after they reconnected. But I also do love 630 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 5: when someone like Daisy, who has really blown up since 631 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 5: the show, like has become such a like beloved Bachelor 632 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 5: Nation member and internet star in her own you know, right, 633 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 5: It's cool to see her go to someone like from 634 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 5: her life that she just really loves and connects and 635 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 5: cares about that like shows me that I'm sorry to 636 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 5: use a bacheloration trope, but like it's very right reasons coded, 637 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 5: you know, like she really just genuinely wants to be 638 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 5: with someone in fine love. And it's not like she, 639 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 5: you know, left the show and is downating the most 640 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 5: famous person in the world. You know, it's like she 641 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 5: really just seems to have wanted to find that person. 642 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 5: And it's cool to see her reconnect with someone that 643 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 5: clearly has been impactful in her life and has she's 644 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 5: remained friendly with in that way. 645 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 3: So I think it's cool and I'm happy to see 646 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 3: her happy. 647 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 5: I also saw those rumors and stuff about her maybe 648 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 5: reconnecting with someone I know. I didn't want to cover 649 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 5: it at all until she confirmed it because who knows. 650 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,239 Speaker 5: Maybe they were like figuring it out, you know, like 651 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 5: they deserve, Like she said, she doesn't know how public 652 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 5: she wants to be with the whole relationship, so I 653 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 5: think that they deserved a minute to kind of like 654 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 5: figure out what they wanted their relationship to be and 655 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 5: how they wanted it to work. 656 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 3: Despite how famous and public her whole life just became. 657 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, he has a famous name, so. 658 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's giving Ari. Like what was Ari's last name? 659 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 4: Wasn't he from like a race car driving family? 660 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 661 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, Well now I'm just saying Thor not the last. 662 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 5: Thor and Daisy is like a new movie title. 663 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 4: No, that's the Hallwork movie for sure. Thor and Daisy 664 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 4: and the Christmas Tree par like, oh my god. 665 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 3: Wedding invitation one day. 666 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 2: No, no, but I'm happy for it. 667 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 4: I do agree with you, like it is kind of 668 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 4: nice to see, you know, she blew up so massively. 669 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 4: I'm sure there's people in her DMS reaching out trying 670 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 4: to connect. She could easily be like, you know what, 671 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 4: I'm gonna like have a little fun like see what's 672 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 4: going on out there and the dating scene, and just 673 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 4: to hear that she kind of reconnected with someone from 674 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 4: her past who like she's friends with they have mutual friends. 675 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 4: Like I feel like the whole like j Loo Benoffleck 676 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 4: thing is screaming like don't go back to an X 677 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 4: these days, but like I feel like this is a 678 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 4: unique situation where yeah, like they dated four years ago. 679 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 4: It was like casuals in college and like now they've 680 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 4: kind of found their way back to each other. 681 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 2: So I think that's sweet. I hope it wow. 682 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 4: And I think it's like something every couple in the 683 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 4: semi public I has to talk about, is like the 684 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 4: boundaries of how social media is going to play a 685 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 4: role in that. And I think it's totally fair if 686 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 4: she wants to like blow up her Instagram page with 687 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 4: him or like not show him at all. 688 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's valid. 689 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 5: I also think that there are specific circumstances in which 690 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 5: it's like cool to go back to an next and 691 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 5: I think someone like you dated when you're really young 692 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 5: is one of those exceptions in my opinion, because like 693 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 5: as long as no one did anything nefarious and like 694 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 5: hurt each other and you know, no one was like 695 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 5: it doesn't sound like there was anything like that that 696 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 5: went down between them. It seems like they were just 697 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 5: young and not ready for something serious. I have a 698 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 5: friend a couple that are friends and they dated like 699 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,239 Speaker 5: in college and then they kind of like went their 700 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 5: separate ways, really grew up. Five years they were apart, 701 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 5: and then they found their way back to one another, 702 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 5: and it kind of sounds like a similar situation. So 703 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 5: they are very happy and in love and live together, 704 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 5: and so I feel like. 705 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 3: It's totally possible. 706 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 5: I don't like always recommend going back to an next, 707 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 5: but this seems like one of those circumstances where sounding. 708 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 2: So good one hundred percent I agree. 709 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, Okay, We've got one more story for y'all this today. 710 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 3: We have some big news this week. 711 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 5: Former bachelor Colton Underwood is expecting his first child with 712 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 5: his husband, Jordan Brown. 713 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 3: We're so excited for them. 714 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 5: I know this has been a road for them, Like 715 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 5: Colton has been really open about experiencing some male factor 716 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 5: infertility and his sperm count being really low. He talks 717 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 5: about it on his podcast, he's talked about in interviews. 718 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 5: Obviously being a queer couple, they have a different road 719 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 5: to parenthood than any hetero couple would or a lot 720 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 5: of hetero couples would, But they are now in the 721 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 5: process of working with their surrogate and they're really excited. 722 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 5: They have a baby boy coming this fall, which we 723 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 5: are so excited for him. I feel like anytime you 724 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 5: hear about a new life coming into the world, it 725 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 5: is such a blessing, And especially with Colton and his husband, 726 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 5: I know they had to work really hard for this. 727 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 5: They also just celebrated their first wedding anniversary, so it's 728 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 5: just like a time filled with so much love for them. 729 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 5: And I was really really happy to see this news. 730 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I so Colton was he was 731 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: on my season. I haven't talked to him in a while, 732 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: but I'm friends with Colton and I'm I'm really happy 733 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 1: for him. I feel like every time, I feel like 734 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: every six to eight months, he's posting something that's like 735 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: like a major life change. So yeah, very happy for him. 736 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 4: He's had a couple of years of like just multiple 737 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 4: big announcements. 738 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. I haven't met his husband, but yeah, really happy 739 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 1: for them. And I'm sure, I'm sure that whole like 740 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 1: the fertility and going through all that cannot be easy. 741 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: I know it's very from what I heard, it's very expensive. 742 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 4: Well, it says in the article that they spent thirty 743 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 4: five thousand dollars. I know, not three hundred and fifty 744 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 4: I'm missing a zero, three hundred and fifty thousand dollars 745 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 4: on the entire fertility process, from like getting an egg 746 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 4: donor to getting a surrogate, to probably like the doctor's appointments, 747 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 4: dealing with like the sperm count all of that. So, 748 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,959 Speaker 4: like it is a lengthy process and it is an 749 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 4: expensive process. 750 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, there are a lot of straight couples that deal 751 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 5: with that's kind of stuff too, but I know even 752 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 5: more common obviously in the queer community. And yeah, Coulton 753 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 5: has said that they have a fertility team of nine people. 754 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,799 Speaker 5: In the article he talked about that, and so that's 755 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 5: a lot of that's a big team again, yeah, having 756 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 5: to do IBF. I know, he talked about how they 757 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,719 Speaker 5: found their egg donor as well, and you have to 758 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 5: pay for the eggs as well, because that is not 759 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 5: like as simple as donating sperm. It's a little bit 760 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 5: more of an invasive process. And so they found an 761 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 5: egg donor that they really connected with. They talked about 762 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 5: how they didn't care at all about what this person 763 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 5: looked at. We really wanted someone that was like adventurous 764 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 5: and spontaneous. And they have created a bunch of embryos 765 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 5: and right now they don't know who their surrogates, who 766 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 5: the sperm that the spur surrogate is carrying the moment. 767 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 1: That is now is that a conscious choice that they've 768 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: made to just not know or did they or they 769 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: just I. 770 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 4: Think it's a conscious choice that they have made, because 771 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,840 Speaker 4: I'm sure you could say, like, okay, the first because 772 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 4: they say they are intending on having two children. One 773 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:20,399 Speaker 4: will be Colton's biological son, one will be Jordan's biological son. 774 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 4: But they don't know what sperm was used for the 775 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 4: first one this child. So but they also said that 776 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 4: they feel like they'll be able to tell. Yeah, so 777 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,240 Speaker 4: that'll be interesting. I can't imagine not knowing. 778 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 1: Well, Colton's like six six, so he's a big blond. 779 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 4: I think eye color plays a role here as well, 780 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,479 Speaker 4: like if the baby has doesn't have Colton have blue eyes, 781 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 4: Like if the baby has blue eyes, ye have, but. 782 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 1: So many I feel like I feel like majority babies 783 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:51,879 Speaker 1: come out with blue eyes. 784 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 5: Well baby, your ipover the ipower isn't like settled for 785 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 5: like six months to a year. 786 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 3: Eyes kind of changed. 787 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, and hair color I guess too, Like a 788 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 2: lot of babies. 789 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: Are born blonde and then they go Adams also has 790 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: light here. I think he's got great here now. 791 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 3: But yeah, they. 792 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 5: Did say that they plan on having two kids, and 793 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 5: so whoever sperm wasn't used this time will be used 794 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 5: next time. And so I think if they end up 795 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 5: not being able to like quote unquote tell, they'll they'll 796 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 5: figure it out. They'll ask you know, their fercility team 797 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 5: of nine people to know which one, and I guess 798 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:26,919 Speaker 5: when they have another kid, they will use the other 799 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 5: person's I know, like we were talking about this beforehand, 800 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,359 Speaker 5: but Neil Patrick Harris and his husband have twins and 801 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 5: they used I believe sperm from each of the dads 802 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 5: for the twins, and they still don't know which one 803 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 5: was which, and they don't want to know which one 804 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 5: was which. 805 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 4: So I just like really feel like that's giving mama 806 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 4: mia and like the kid is going to be like, 807 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,840 Speaker 4: which one of you is my biological dad? But also 808 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 4: like then they're gonna be like but I don't care 809 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 4: because like you're both my dad's. 810 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 5: It's nature versus nurture too. I feel like kids so 811 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,960 Speaker 5: often just like take on the environment they're in. Like 812 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,359 Speaker 5: I think nurture for me in my family was so 813 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 5: much stronger than nature, you know what I mean. 814 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,800 Speaker 4: And then Colton said he believes in nature over nurture. 815 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 4: He believes like that's why they were really keen on 816 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 4: finding an egg donor with certain personality traits because he 817 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 4: feels that that will play a big role in the 818 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 4: child's personality. But I've always I'm so intrigued by the 819 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 4: whole donor process because everyone is looking for something different, right, 820 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 4: Like some people are like I just want these genetic traits. 821 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 4: Some people are looking for personality. But I've always like, 822 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 4: I don't know, Like imagine someone's coming in and they're like, yeah, 823 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 4: this is who I am. I'm like, very adventurous and 824 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:36,400 Speaker 4: very spontaneous. 825 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,760 Speaker 2: But I also sometimes feel like people. 826 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,799 Speaker 4: Don't have a very accurate opinion of themselves, or like 827 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 4: they see themselves one way and other people see them 828 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 4: another way. So it's like, am I just gonna trust 829 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 4: this person? Like they think they're adventurous and spontaneous, but 830 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 4: like maybe if I spent like two years straight with them, 831 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 4: I'd be like, that's not who you are all. I 832 00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 4: don't know, I'm overthinking this'ly. 833 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,280 Speaker 5: Put a lot of trust in the donor process, whether 834 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 5: that's sperm or egg. But I feel like I'm just 835 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 5: really excited for Colton and his husband to get to 836 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 5: like showcase a cool way of building their family and 837 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 5: a cool like LGBTQ plus family because I feel like, 838 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,360 Speaker 5: I mean it is obviously so common. 839 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 3: There's millions and millions in the world, but to. 840 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 5: Get to see it on a platform like his, to 841 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 5: get to share his experience with not only male factor 842 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 5: of fertility, which is something that not a lot of 843 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 5: or male factor infertility that's something that not a lot 844 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 5: of people talk about, but also getting to see like 845 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,320 Speaker 5: how a gay couple builds their family. 846 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 3: You know, there's millions of ways they could do it. 847 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,280 Speaker 5: They could adopt, they could have a surrogate, they could 848 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 5: if it's two women, one could carry, they could do 849 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 5: reciprocal IVF Like, there's a million ways to do it. 850 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 5: And so I think it's cool that just like for 851 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,880 Speaker 5: Colton and his audience and the Bachelor Nation audience to 852 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,399 Speaker 5: get to like hear about his story and hear about 853 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 5: how they're building their family in their own really unique. 854 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,840 Speaker 3: Way, because I feel like it's not talked about publicly enough. 855 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 5: And yeah, especially someone like Colton, who you know, was 856 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 5: like a football star and was the Bachelor, It's just 857 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,040 Speaker 5: really beautiful to see him come into himself and to 858 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 5: see him build this really beautiful life with his husband. 859 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 3: I'm like loving getting to I. 860 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,800 Speaker 5: Like Joe said, every few months Colton has like something 861 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 5: new and big going on, and like I'm living for. 862 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 3: All of them. 863 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 5: I love getting to see this side of him. He 864 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,279 Speaker 5: seems like so authentically right now. 865 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:20,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, And I do think that for till Like, 866 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:24,439 Speaker 4: there's so many different fertility journeys, and I think being 867 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,400 Speaker 4: able to have them be so open about theirs is 868 00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 4: just it's great. 869 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 2: You know. 870 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,840 Speaker 4: I feel like everyone gets pregnant in different ways and 871 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 4: goes about having children in different ways. 872 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 873 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope it will help others, you know, in 874 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 5: similar situations. And I hope it will help like inspire 875 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 5: other families to look into like many different ways to 876 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 5: build their family. And I yeah, I'm really excited for 877 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,319 Speaker 5: Colton and his husband. I can't wait to see their 878 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 5: little baby. It's going to be really cute. It's like 879 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,839 Speaker 5: a boys club. There's going to have three of them. 880 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,280 Speaker 3: It's gonna be really cute. 881 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 2: Did they talk about how they picked their surrogate at all? 882 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 3: They did. 883 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,160 Speaker 5: They said they have like a it's almost like an 884 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 5: online dating kind of thing. 885 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 3: They said it was like you could see different like profiles. 886 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 5: I think it was like a concierge surgeon service that 887 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 5: that's kind of like what they do. Wait, did you 888 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 5: say surrogut or donor surrogate surrogate. That's actually a good 889 00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 5: question because that was for the donor process. I'm sure 890 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 5: about their surrogate. A lot of times surrogates are really private, 891 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 5: you know, like they don't they don't share or I know, 892 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 5: like Claire Crawley talked about her surrogate when she had 893 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,960 Speaker 5: one and was like, we are still really really close 894 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 5: with her, I like sent her updates and things like that. 895 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,759 Speaker 5: I'm actually not sure if Culton talked about how he 896 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 5: found the surrogate, but maybe it's through another one of 897 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 5: those like kind of services. 898 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,840 Speaker 4: Right, But that's interesting that the egg donor was like 899 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 4: almost like a dating profile. 900 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:45,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, such, Yeah, yeah. 901 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,800 Speaker 5: I do recall him, yeah, talking about that in the 902 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,400 Speaker 5: article and how it was kind of like a it 903 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 5: was it must be real kind of fun to do 904 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 5: that with your partner, you know. 905 00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 2: That's cool. 906 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:55,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really cool. 907 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 908 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, So that is the update on Coulton. 909 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,760 Speaker 5: We're very excited for him or wish him and Jordan 910 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,880 Speaker 5: and they're growing family all the best. 911 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 3: And that's the latest Bachelor Nation tea. I hope you 912 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 3: guys feel caught up to speed. 913 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 5: I hope you guys feel like you are cued in 914 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 5: on everything that's happening. 915 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 3: We're sending love to everyone. 916 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 5: I you know, we like it's been fun to like 917 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,399 Speaker 5: chat about everyone, but I also feel like it's again 918 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 5: a good reminder, like we're sending positive vibes to all 919 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 5: these people all the time. We're keeping it love and 920 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,359 Speaker 5: positive in our comments and things like that. So yes, 921 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:36,359 Speaker 5: all right, we also have a fun game to play, 922 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 5: because you know, I like love games and I. 923 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 4: Love Oh my God, and y'all want to forgo, we're 924 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:41,920 Speaker 4: playing a game. 925 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:43,120 Speaker 3: So yeah, before I go. 926 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 4: I always we do a game with our guests at 927 00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 4: the end of every episode, and I always get so 928 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 4: stressed when we have to be the ones in the 929 00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 4: hot gay. 930 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just gonna be some Bachelor Nation opinions. We're 931 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 5: just gonna do some rapid fire questions with you guys, 932 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 5: kind of like how you do with other folks that 933 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:01,040 Speaker 5: come on your podcast. So for I know you guys 934 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 5: are rewatching a lot of seasons of the Bachelor right 935 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 5: now with Happy Hour. Do you have a favorite lead, 936 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 5: a favorite Bachelor or Bachelor atte this to watch? Obviously, 937 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,800 Speaker 5: you know a lot of them personally, But do you 938 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 5: have a favorite one to watch? 939 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:18,359 Speaker 1: Oh, so we only we've only watched We only rewatched two. 940 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 2: We watched the first episode of Peter, the first episode 941 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:21,919 Speaker 2: of Ben. 942 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I guess if we're gonna go. I mean, 943 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,240 Speaker 1: this is rapid fire. I'm Pete. I like watching Pete. 944 00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:29,960 Speaker 2: I think Joey. 945 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:31,799 Speaker 4: I know it's easy because he was the most recent, 946 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,359 Speaker 4: but he might be one of the most unproblematic bachelors 947 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,440 Speaker 4: in a while, Like when I think back through like 948 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 4: even like Ben, who is such an amazing bachelor, like 949 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,359 Speaker 4: telling two women at the end he's falling in love 950 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 4: with them, Like he had some like iconic controversial moments. 951 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 4: I feel like Joey's one of the few that's come 952 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 4: out like really clean. 953 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: Well, watching watching Ben that first night, I was like, 954 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:56,799 Speaker 1: I actually want to watch more of him because you 955 00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: you saw him like slowly step out of his shell, 956 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,799 Speaker 1: just like that night one. Like as the episode went on, 957 00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 1: like he got more and more like charismatic and comfortable, 958 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh, this guy's gonna be fun 959 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 1: to watch. Yeah, as the season goes on. 960 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 2: We had a great interview with Ben. 961 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,959 Speaker 4: If you haven't listened to it listeners, You guys should 962 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 4: go check it out because he was so young, but 963 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,319 Speaker 4: he was telling us about how he was like I 964 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,839 Speaker 4: was twenty five being like I'm going to be single 965 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 4: forever and I just need to like accept that. Like 966 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,239 Speaker 4: it was a really interesting interview. But anyway, we yell 967 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 4: at our guests all the time because it's supposed to 968 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 4: be rapid fire, and they give them answers and look 969 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:33,760 Speaker 4: at us having a full. 970 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 5: Conversation that's okay. Do you have a Bachelor Nation couple 971 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,360 Speaker 5: that has surprised you? Like who you really didn't expect 972 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 5: to hit it off, but has. 973 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 1: Uh that has hit it off that surprised us? 974 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 2: Oh you know what this? 975 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:52,840 Speaker 4: I actually I have one Christina Mandrel and Bryden. 976 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:54,440 Speaker 3: That's who I was going to say. They were in 977 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 3: my brain. I was like, if you guys didn't have one, yes, 978 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,759 Speaker 3: they are so cute. 979 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 2: Because they totally make sense. 980 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 4: Yes, But like, would I have independently been like, you 981 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 4: know who the two people we should like set up are? 982 00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if I would have thought about it. So, yeah, 983 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,760 Speaker 2: they surprised me. They seem really happy. 984 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to say, I'm going to say Ashley. 985 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 2: I and Jared they had a journey. 986 00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, is there someone that you would love to see 987 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 5: as a lead? Either maybe that hasn't been a lead yet, 988 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:25,799 Speaker 5: or maybe that has that you'd love to see have 989 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,280 Speaker 5: another go Hmmm. 990 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:29,960 Speaker 1: I mean I would have liked to see Maria as 991 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 1: the lead. I think she would. I think she would 992 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:33,359 Speaker 1: have been. 993 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,879 Speaker 4: Cut you know who I would have loved to see 994 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,680 Speaker 4: as a lead, even more now knowing her. She'll never 995 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 4: be the lead because she's now married with a kid. 996 00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 4: But I know that she was close a couple of times. 997 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 4: Was is Tia Booth? I think Tia would have been 998 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,480 Speaker 4: so fantastic and her time just kind of like never came. Unfortunately, 999 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,480 Speaker 4: she was close a few times, and I think that 1000 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,280 Speaker 4: she would have been terrific. 1001 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 5: Yes, she would have That's a good answer. I like 1002 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,799 Speaker 5: always I think about this question a lot in my 1003 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,399 Speaker 5: free time. I'm like, who would I like to see 1004 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 5: as a lead? 1005 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 2: What would you like to see? Oh, I even if 1006 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,319 Speaker 2: they're like in a relationship, like, who's someone you're like. 1007 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 5: Well, because she's still single, I always be curious to 1008 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 5: see Demi Burnett as a lead. I feel like she's 1009 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,399 Speaker 5: just so unique and says whatever, is on her mind. 1010 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,680 Speaker 5: And I also think it's cool that, like she's got 1011 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,399 Speaker 5: a really interesting background, and I feel like Demi could 1012 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,399 Speaker 5: be someone that could be interesting to see in that role. 1013 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 5: But yeah, I think about that all the time, Like, 1014 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 5: who would I'd like to see. 1015 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:29,439 Speaker 3: As the lead? 1016 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I actually I this is like a weird thing 1017 00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 4: to say because you're my husband and I don't want 1018 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 4: you to date other ones, But I always, I actually 1019 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:37,319 Speaker 4: think you would have been a great lead. 1020 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,759 Speaker 1: Joe, Thank you, You're welcome, thank you. 1021 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,280 Speaker 5: Okay, if you could pick five single people from Bachelor 1022 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 5: Nation to go on Bachelor in Paradise, I want to 1023 00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:54,120 Speaker 5: know who you would pick Jesus single, Like, let's let's 1024 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 5: come up with like a dream Paradise scenario. 1025 00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: Sorry, no, nothing, all right, I'm gonna go. I'm just 1026 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 1: gonna just rattle them off. I'm gonna go Clayton eckerd. 1027 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,160 Speaker 2: W oh good one, good one, Joe. 1028 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 1: We'll do Maria. Yeah, let's go Rachel from this current season, 1029 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:32,879 Speaker 1: give me Xavier from Charity season. I'm gonna do. Hope, 1030 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:33,879 Speaker 1: what do I guture out? 1031 00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 3: Four? 1032 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,760 Speaker 2: You're at Clayton, Maria, Xavier, and Rachel Rachel? 1033 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: Okay, and then five would be bring back Lace again. 1034 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 3: Bring she's in her single mom era. Yeah, I love that. 1035 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 3: That's a great great cast editions. 1036 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,880 Speaker 4: I think Katie Mo would be fun to bring back. 1037 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:07,319 Speaker 4: I believe she's single. I think I'm trying to think 1038 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 4: who else is single right now. I mean I would 1039 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 4: love to see Peter Webber on it again. 1040 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,319 Speaker 2: I think he would be so good. 1041 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Peter. 1042 00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,880 Speaker 2: I kind of think if there's like anyone else. 1043 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,479 Speaker 1: Peter replaced Lace, replace laced Peter. 1044 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,400 Speaker 4: I mean there's a lot of there's a lot of 1045 00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 4: single people, Like I think Andrew Spencer is always really 1046 00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:30,760 Speaker 4: fun to watch. 1047 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,879 Speaker 3: I'd like to see Andrew and Greg on the. 1048 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 4: Andrew and Greg on the same season would be fun 1049 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 4: with Victoria. 1050 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:40,640 Speaker 2: With Victoria also throw her and Peter I want. 1051 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a lot there's actually a lot of like 1052 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 4: good single people. 1053 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 2: To do a Paradise season with. 1054 00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 3: I think that's like it sounds like a really fun 1055 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 3: All Stars. 1056 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,399 Speaker 4: I like the idea of Clayton though, because he would 1057 00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 4: be I think he would thrive in Paradise. 1058 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 3: I think you'd have a great time. 1059 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, last one out of any like Bacchlorination 1060 00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,880 Speaker 5: kind of like Lore News Show, Do you have a 1061 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 5: Bacheloration hot take? 1062 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 2: Do I have a Bachelor Nation hot take? 1063 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:15,440 Speaker 3: Like unpopular opinion? 1064 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:16,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do. 1065 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 3: Let's hear it. 1066 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:22,080 Speaker 1: Film Golden in one and cast people from one area 1067 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: of the country. That's my that's my unpopular opinion. 1068 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 4: I don't know if that's unpopular, but I mean, yeah, 1069 00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 4: it's definitely an opinion, like cast them all in Florida. 1070 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 1: Cast them all from Florida, yeah, or just from one place. 1071 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,400 Speaker 2: Hmmm. 1072 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:44,879 Speaker 4: I don't know if like it's an unpopular opinion. I'm 1073 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:48,920 Speaker 4: trying to think, Danny, do you have one? 1074 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 3: I do. 1075 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:54,120 Speaker 5: I thought about this I and I actually don't hate 1076 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,920 Speaker 5: when I know it's like obviously not the goal of 1077 00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,320 Speaker 5: the show ever, but like I don't hate when couples 1078 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 5: break up. And I think that's kind of a hot 1079 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:05,280 Speaker 5: take because there are so many beautiful, successful couples, marriages, families. 1080 00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,160 Speaker 5: But I also think that, like it is reality, and 1081 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,479 Speaker 5: part of reality TV is like real life, and real 1082 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:17,240 Speaker 5: life also comes with breakups and divorces, and that's just real. 1083 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,520 Speaker 5: And anyone who says it's like scripted or not real, 1084 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 5: it's like, well, it doesn't always work out, And so 1085 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,440 Speaker 5: I kind of think it's like I never am rooting 1086 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,360 Speaker 5: for that ever, ever ever, But like I also like 1087 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,799 Speaker 5: when couples are willing to talk about it reflect on it. 1088 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 5: I think like JP and Ashley Rosenbaum have done such 1089 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 5: an amazing job at like continuing to co parent, and 1090 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:39,320 Speaker 5: people were so myself included, like devastated when they split. 1091 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 5: But I also think that, like they both seem really 1092 00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,200 Speaker 5: happy now and thriving, and they have like a really 1093 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 5: beautiful family still, and so I don't think it's like 1094 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 5: the end of the world per se, which I guess 1095 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 5: is a hot take because obviously the goal was always 1096 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 5: like finding love, and I look at people like you two, 1097 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 5: and I'm. 1098 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,920 Speaker 3: Like, that is the goal, but it's also not always reality. 1099 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,160 Speaker 5: And so I guess my hot take is that like 1100 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,600 Speaker 5: not that I yeah, like like that, but it's it's 1101 00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 5: okay when I don't. I don't like, my life doesn't 1102 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,320 Speaker 5: come crumbling down, you know, Like I think it's like that's. 1103 00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 3: Part of that's part of relationships in general, not just 1104 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 3: relationships that come from the show. 1105 00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that take because I do think so 1106 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,440 Speaker 4: many people are like, oh, the show doesn't work if 1107 00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,280 Speaker 4: they don't end up together for the rest of their lives. 1108 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,480 Speaker 4: But it's like that is just life. Like people date 1109 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 4: and then they break up. People get married and they 1110 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,879 Speaker 4: get divorced, and like there's so many relationships that are 1111 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,600 Speaker 4: you know, maybe have ended in divorce or separation, but 1112 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:34,040 Speaker 4: lasted a really long time. Like they were a success 1113 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,800 Speaker 4: like they found love like Ashley and jpr great example, 1114 00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 4: they have kids together. They're like, you know, maybe didn't 1115 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,439 Speaker 4: work out for forever forever, but like that doesn't mean 1116 00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 4: that they weren't a success story. Like yeah, look at 1117 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 4: the like they wouldn't have their beautiful children. 1118 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, people sometimes can focus on the negative in those situations, 1119 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,319 Speaker 5: but I like to like spin it and even if 1120 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,400 Speaker 5: the even if it isn't a long lasting relationship, like 1121 00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,440 Speaker 5: kind of talking about what we talk about with Rachel's like, 1122 00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 5: there's still purpose there. Like I don't look at that 1123 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,360 Speaker 5: as something that's like, oh, that's a quote unquote failure 1124 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 5: like to me, or like the show quote unquote doesn't work, 1125 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 5: Like to me, that's an opportunity for people to like 1126 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 5: grow and find what they really are looking for. And 1127 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 5: it doesn't mean that they didn't really value their time together. 1128 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 5: And so yeah, I guess that's kind of a hot 1129 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 5: take that it's just like it's okay when that happens, 1130 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,400 Speaker 5: and there still can be a lot of beauty and 1131 00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,040 Speaker 5: love and growth that comes out of it, just like 1132 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:31,880 Speaker 5: any relationship anywhere. That's the kind of relationships that happen 1133 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 5: that come from the show. They're very real, which comes 1134 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:35,440 Speaker 5: with good and bad. 1135 00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, what a positive. 1136 00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 2: Well, my hot take is not as positive. 1137 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,360 Speaker 4: I'm going to say that everyone out there that says 1138 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 4: like I don't want the drama, I'm just here for 1139 00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:52,880 Speaker 4: the love stories is not being honest with themselves because 1140 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:57,279 Speaker 4: this franchise is built on both drama and heartbreak and 1141 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,480 Speaker 4: feuds and fighting as much as it is built on 1142 00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 4: love and romance. And I do feel like you need 1143 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,759 Speaker 4: both elements for the show and the season to be 1144 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:13,360 Speaker 4: successful and exciting and enjoyable. And people love to hate, 1145 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:15,560 Speaker 4: like that's part of the fun. Is like it's sometimes 1146 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,440 Speaker 4: it's not that deep. It's like, oh, this person drives 1147 00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:19,799 Speaker 4: me crazy, like they're the villain or whatever. And I 1148 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,839 Speaker 4: mean some people take it too far into the next 1149 00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,960 Speaker 4: level on social media, but like people that are like 1150 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 4: I see comments that are like I don't want the drama, 1151 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 4: Like I just want the love. But like I truly 1152 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,360 Speaker 4: don't think the show would be as successful if the 1153 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 4: drama wasn't a part of it. And I think the 1154 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 4: drama can make it fun sometimes. 1155 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1156 00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, I also think that they should make like a 1157 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,479 Speaker 4: competition show like I think the French. 1158 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 2: I should just keep expanding into. 1159 00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 3: Oh, like Bachelor Winter Games, like the Olympics. 1160 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:49,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want like Bachelor pad. 1161 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to be a thing. That's true. Yeah, 1162 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,279 Speaker 3: let's make money shows money involved in that. 1163 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll go back. You compete for money. I already 1164 00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:57,439 Speaker 2: found love. 1165 00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 3: Yeah that's true. 1166 00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, bring bring back like mad, like a couple of Olympics, 1167 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:02,760 Speaker 5: and you guys can go win some money. 1168 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 2: That'd be pretty cool. 1169 00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,359 Speaker 1: Well, Danny, thank you so much for coming on BET 1170 00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 1: your happy hour. Truly, it's always great when you come 1171 00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 1: on because you do all the work and you're great 1172 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:16,920 Speaker 1: to talk to. So thank you so much. We really 1173 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:17,719 Speaker 1: appreciate it. 1174 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, having me this was so fun. 1175 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, turning the tables today, we loved having you in. 1176 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,200 Speaker 4: A big thank you to all of our listeners. Be 1177 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,279 Speaker 4: sure to subscribe. We have new episodes every single week 1178 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 4: and plenty of recap episodes and special guest interviews once 1179 00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 4: Jen season premiere, so you won't want to miss out. 1180 00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 1: Thanks guys and make sure you subscribe and talk to 1181 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 1: you later. 1182 00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 2: Talk to you later. Bye,