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Speaker 1: All right, so here's a question, guys, should we really

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Speaker 1: ever blame the other woman or the other man. Now,

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Speaker 1: every time we hear that someone was left they were

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Speaker 1: cheated on with another man or woman, folks, always we

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Speaker 1: always blame the person. We always blame that person first.

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Speaker 1: Then they blame the significant other, the spouse. We always

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Speaker 1: blame the woman first, I mean, and that's down through history.

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Speaker 1: So the question is who really should get the blame.

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Speaker 1: I think there's enough blame to go around quite fright, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you know this is crazy, but normally the woman

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Speaker 1: is always the blame. I mean, when you think about it,

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Speaker 1: down through history, people mostly blame the woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So then the question is like, okay, so if you're

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Speaker 3: in a relationship and you leave that relationship to get

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Speaker 3: with someone else, whose fault is it. Is it the

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Speaker 3: new person's fault, you know, the woman's fault, or is

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Speaker 3: it the man's fault.

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Speaker 2: For leaving and reading his significant other? Mean you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But he had to have had your saying, a relationship

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Speaker 1: with this other person before he left his significant other,

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Speaker 1: right yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he was blame.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, Well you know, look, whoever is in the

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Speaker 4: supposed committed relationship is to blame for breaking the commitment.

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Speaker 5: That's you know, Look, you're not You're not. Look, you

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Speaker 5: can't blame the other person. The other person ain't promised

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Speaker 5: you nothing. The other other person didn't take no vows.

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Speaker 5: The other person didn't promise you nothing. Your directed anger

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Speaker 5: should be at the person who broke the commitment, to him,

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Speaker 5: who broke your trust. That's your problem now you can

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Speaker 5: feel it. Now.

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Speaker 6: If you see him, you're gonna have problem with him.

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Speaker 1: Because she knew that you were in a relationship, why

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Speaker 1: didn't she leave you alone? That that's the other argument,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, that's the argument. The other side, Well,

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Speaker 1: she knew we were in a relationship, why was she

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Speaker 1: in it?

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Speaker 2: And she already knew he had a girl?

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Speaker 6: Or like, why did he pursue it? Is the big yes.

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Speaker 5: But because if it wasn't her, it would have been

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Speaker 5: somebody else, right, Because if he's in the pursuit of

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Speaker 5: the women business, it doesn't matter that it's her. If

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Speaker 5: it's not her, it's gonna be somebody else, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: because he in the pursuit game.

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Speaker 1: But the women so most of the time gets blamed,

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Speaker 1: get blamed for that women do. She knew we were

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Speaker 1: in a relationship that women don't usually blame the men

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Speaker 1: if the men cheat, I mean after the fact. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but and they go so far as to take the

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Speaker 1: man back that is cheated on. Yeah, yeah, but the

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Speaker 1: woman is outcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're done. So you said, blame the person that

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Speaker 2: with the commitment. I agree with that. Yeah, I do too.

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Speaker 2: That's how it pursue. That's how it should go, but

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Speaker 2: it doesn't often go that way. You're right though, the.

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Speaker 7: Captain, Well, I blame my best friend from breaking out,

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Speaker 7: breaking up what what relationship I had? He dated he

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Speaker 7: ended up messing around with my girlfriend a long long

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Speaker 7: time ago.

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Speaker 6: But I blamed his I did, Junior. Don don't say that, Tommy.

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Speaker 2: You know everything that's a personal on this show. But

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Speaker 2: you know who it is.

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Speaker 6: We comediate, that's how we we we this therapy. There's

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Speaker 6: jokes that come from that. This highway.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I come.

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Speaker 8: Back and then I catch them kissing on the Captain like, oh,

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Speaker 8: don't But they looked at me like, you're gonna put

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Speaker 8: that in the kitchen.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna put that in the kitchen.

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Speaker 6: I told, I told you.

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Speaker 2: Were there.

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Speaker 4: You know, you know, he looking like like.

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Speaker 8: Looking like, are you gonna put that down right there?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: I's called you kissing my girl? Yeah? What you went

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Speaker 2: to the store or something. Yeah, and you left them

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Speaker 2: alone in the house.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and your boy when you come back, you over

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Speaker 8: the door. You know, they'll say, oh, man, you got

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Speaker 8: to be kidding me. But he looked at me and all,

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Speaker 8: what's up?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 6: What's up? Man? You're gonna put that in the kitchen

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Speaker 6: now you live.

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Speaker 8: You're gonna put that in the kitchen like the Drakes

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Speaker 8: is going in the kitchen right.

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Speaker 2: Now, Coca Co.

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Speaker 6: If you whooped this back there, like I said, we

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Speaker 6: wouldn't even talking about.

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Speaker 2: Everything is violence.

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Speaker 6: That's how you get paid. If I walk into my

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Speaker 6: house and my pardner.

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Speaker 5: Kissing my girl on the couch y, it's finna be

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Speaker 5: some hel up in here. Yeah, it's finna be some

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Speaker 5: real hell up in here, because dog, my house dog,

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Speaker 5: and you think less of me.

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Speaker 6: You don't even have enough respect for me.

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Speaker 5: You already disrespected me with my girl, and so she

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Speaker 5: disrespected me with you. But you gonna come in my

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Speaker 5: house like I ain't nothing. Oh no, dog, I promise

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Speaker 5: you me and your at wall.

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Speaker 1: But see, and that's normally what happens, Steve, that's normally

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Speaker 1: what happens.

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Speaker 2: That's not that's normally what happens. What you just said.

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Speaker 1: But earlier you said it's the responsibility of the one

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Speaker 1: who's in the commitment.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but see, no, if you here, you see and

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Speaker 6: see their exception.

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Speaker 2: It's a double standard. No, I get it, but I'm.

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Speaker 6: Saying, ain't no double standardship.

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Speaker 2: This is what Okay, go ahead, finish your thoughts.

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Speaker 6: Now listen to me. Now we in this here.

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Speaker 5: But now if you my dude, and I know you see,

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Speaker 5: now we got to go into man cold.

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Speaker 6: Man code is you'll do your boys.

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Speaker 3: Girl.

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Speaker 5: There's too many women out here, something available. So now

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Speaker 5: you over here in mind, then you in my house.

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Speaker 2: That's what happened to hers.

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Speaker 6: Why wasn't that my house?

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Speaker 2: It was her house?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Well, oh, I was a comedian, you know, I just

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Speaker 7: thought I ain't had nobody.

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Speaker 2: I was with her just for shelter. But it was

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Speaker 2: your friend.

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Speaker 6: You don't understand.

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Speaker 8: We had to stay at places.

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Speaker 2: This is true, man.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, where you where you? Girl? I love her poor places.

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Speaker 6: When I was homeless, man, I probably told about six.

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Speaker 2: Girls and they believe I wasn't old.

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Speaker 6: With him because I had. They let me stay that.

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Speaker 5: I love you nice thought they come home, I'll be

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Speaker 5: cooking everything.

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Speaker 8: You'd be doing everything.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and just just know that Junior, we can still

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Speaker 5: he's still riding side right.

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Speaker 2: All right, we gotta go. You're listening, Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 2: Show