WEBVTT - How Do We Get It In...with No Babysitter??? feat. Sunita Mani 0:00:01.160 --> 0:00:01.480 Uh. 0:00:01.560 --> 0:00:04.240 You ever have those days where you just never get 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:07.640 to shower or do the things you'd like to do 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:08.240 for your body. 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:10.920 This is why I know I can never go camping. Hi, everybody, 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.520 welcome to adulta. So this is Jordan Carlos and I 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:16.079 could never go camping. In fact, I don't even like 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:18.720 to connect airplanes because that feels like camping for me. 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:22.200 Anytime I have to use a public toilet more than 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:23.560 like two times in a day. 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:24.360 Huh No. 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:26.360 That's why every time I go to an airport bar, 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:29.000 they're like, do you want six or nine ounces of wine? 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:30.600 I'm like, bitch, look at my face. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.879 You know there are enough anti bacterial wipes. 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:37.120 Give me the nine ounce. Just keep it coming. Act 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:38.919 like it's a coft a cup in a diner, at 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:40.640 a truck stop. I get serious. 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.320 The worst thing, though, is getting a little bit too tipsy. 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:47.720 The plane is delayed, and now you are tipsy and 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:53.800 have to sober up on a plane. That's the motherfucker wors. 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:55.760 It feels like you're living in Christmas story. Yes, like 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:57.600 you're in the Christmas path and the present in the 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:59.880 future and just like I just wanted a turkey to bring. 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:22.040 Yeah, Chris John Gabers gave me a edible once before 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:25.920 I made a transcontinental flight, and why why Well, I 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.640 thought it would be fine, and it definitely was not, 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:33.440 and so I basically saw God and my face melted. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.959 And then this lady was just like she's like, are 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:38.120 you okay? And all I could think to myself was 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:41.640 nobody loses their mind in comfort. Plus that's what held 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:43.520 it together. But I was sweating, and I was like, 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:46.800 I'll never do edibles again. Wrong, very wrong, but like 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:47.840 you need your own space. 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:51.320 I think if you're gonna do edibles because everything is 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:54.920 so unpredictable in a plane, you don't know how high 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:57.200 you're gonna have to go to like pass the turbulence. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:00.800 Like that's crazy, I will say, like two plastic cups 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:03.360 of wine. I'm ready to watch any movie and act 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:07.720 like it's good. You can show me any horrible movie 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:08.680 and I'll start crying. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:12.280 I was watching The Man named Auto. 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.760 The man named Yes, Yes, Tom Hanks, which. 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:17.240 Is like, yeah, the no old movies reab whatever is 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:20.160 Tom Hanks, So of course it's amazing. But the way 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:25.200 I cry, Jordan, people were asking me if I'm okay, 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.560 The way I was sobbing man. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:31.560 I was like, this is something he'll do his visual shit, 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:33.040 he'll do it to you, won't he do it? 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:34.720 Yeah? Won't you do it every time? Thirty six thousand 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:37.440 feet that's the Tom Hanks effect, all right. People on 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:39.480 the ground are like, I can live through this, Captain Phillips, 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:41.160 not such a big deal, babe. You put me up 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:44.080 in the stratosphere. It's like, yeah, water works. And by 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:47.600 the way, what's actually happening? Have you read this? Psychologically? 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:49.880 You're afraid of falling out of the sky and that's 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:51.880 why you're like at the seat of emotion And why 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:56.800 march at the penguins too, mo marchin? That'll mess with 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.480 your emotion? Yeah, it really does. 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:00.480 And plus like the stuff that's not supposed to be 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:01.560 that funny is hilarious. 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:01.839 Yeah. 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:03.480 I really want to be like one of those people 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:07.680 that have like all the screens out. They've got their phone, 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:09.560 they've got their iPad, and they got their computer. 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:10.760 There's always like a grid. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:13.920 They're always just like punning stuff is some sort of 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:16.480 like like what do you like you don't have like 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:18.919 five minutes to yourself, but being on a plane is 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:20.440 a busy person really just feel like you have a 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:22.639 good spot at Starbucks to do some work. 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:25.480 I'm impressed by them. Listen, I'm impressed by you. I'm 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:35.080 impressed by you. I'm impressed. Yes, we are mall cops. 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:38.040 We have segue here we are Okay. What I do 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:42.080 love about our guest. She is wildly hilarious. 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:47.680 And unusually humble for someone who is so talented that 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:53.160 it just blows my mind. And yes, ride that pony. 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:57.760 And anyways, Sunita is the truth. She is kind, she 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:00.400 is fun, she is smart, she is hilariou. 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:08.760 Why do you sell right now? Smile? 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:10.920 I know I'm like quoting the Poopoo Pie movie. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:11.200 Great. 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:16.200 Anyways, you guys, I hope you have so much fun 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.400 listening to the rest of this episode, as much fun 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:20.760 as Jordan is having right now. 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:22.080 So give it up. 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.359 Give it up for Sune the money. How can they 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:26.240 give it up? Remember we talked about this. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:27.400 We did we talked about a time. 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:42.160 Oh that stays with me. Don't find a pound found found? 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:44.000 I like it. Don your hair SOI braiden? 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.480 Yep, just got them done yesterday, fresh set? 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:48.520 What you got a hat on the fresh set? 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:49.359 I gotta go? 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:51.640 You know, Oh you gotta do go. You better keep 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:52.320 it fresh. 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:54.200 Well. The hat matches to shoes. You know what I'm saying. 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:54.920 I like it. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.080 I love that for you. I got my hair braided? 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:00.520 What two, three, three, four, three weeks ago? 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.440 The answers in my eyes, and yes it was about 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.760 three or four weeks ago. But you you look can't. 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:09.720 Be fucked up. No, I have to get my hair done. 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:11.520 It sucks when you have to get your hair done, 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:14.360 especially when it's like braided and it's just you know, 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:16.240 it just starts pulling, slipping and shit. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:18.400 But it looks good. Your hair looks great. What doesn't 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:22.200 her hair look good? Everybody? Oh my god, the quid? 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:24.400 I need the quid. That was the right look. I 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:26.040 know that you went to the Caribbean. That must have 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:26.480 been nice. 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:27.719 I did. I took a vacation. 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:30.760 Yeah, I went to Grand Cayman Island, which is crazy 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:32.800 because I'm not like an old rich white dude because 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:34.880 that's where they go and hide their money. But does 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:38.200 this really great hotel called Palm Heikes in Grand Caman Island. 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:39.560 They are not paying me money to do this shit. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:43.599 They should, But this is why I like it. You 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.680 can go and not be a rich person and still 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:50.600 feel rich. And it's one of those islands because my 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:52.560 mom's from Jamaica, my dad's from Haiti. So like, I 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:54.760 love those places, but I can't go all the time, 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.120 Thank you. I can't go all the time because I'm 0:05:57.160 --> 0:06:01.560 like one, I can't bring two boxes shit for everybody too. 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:04.280 Is it gonna be safe? And so Grant came in 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:10.000 very safe. Also, the hotel is run by these really 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.840 cute queer guys. It was wild being the Caribbean and 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:15.760 seeing like queer couples and families. 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:19.200 I said, this is what it's supposed to fucking be. Yeah, 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:20.760 so palm heikes. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.520 If you are queer questioning or whatever the fuck you 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:25.920 is and you want to go to the Caribbean and 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:29.200 like shake whatever titties you got, palm heikes. Grant Caman 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:31.479 was great. It was also nice being away with my husband. 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:35.440 Like having sex in a hotel room is great. You 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:42.080 ain't gotta clean anything up, just walk away, leave a 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:43.479 little tip on the dress up. 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:44.919 Come back. Oh it's great. 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:48.040 Just like I realized, do you eve any pictures of 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:49.200 your kids in your bedroom? 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:50.440 Yeah? 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:51.919 I gotta play some differently. 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.160 You gotta turn them down. You gotta turn them down. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:07:00.320 That's right. Yeah, they're on the wall. I mean, oh okay, 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:04.160 turn him around right? Oh my goodness, Yeah, that's that's 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:08.039 that's kind of weird. But sex and hotel rooms. Sex 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:10.040 and hotel rooms is a little tough. You ever put that, 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:11.920 You ever put that like sign out front, it's just 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:12.680 like do not disturb. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:18.040 No, you better walk in and see this. No, I'm sorry, 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:20.360 you better walk in and see vs. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.400 Yikes. Yeah, that's amazing, okay with that. 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:29.320 In fact, I keep it a little jark. 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:35.920 Yeah. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:46.120 I love every part of it. Okay, good metaphorically, So 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:47.800 tell me more, like what did y'all do? 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:51.760 Like you don't know, you know what what happened? My 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:58.040 husband he loves to like do activities and ship and 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:02.040 so he wanted to get like a wave runner as no, 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:06.000 he wanted to go snorkeling. I'm like, I'll wait for you, 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:09.400 like you know, once in a while, I'll do something. 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.320 But it really was just like three and a half days. 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.360 So I was like, I'm gonna sit and drink and 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.360 eat and fuck and go home. 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.400 That could have been I'm. 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:24.280 Is it Sunday school? What the fuck? See what happens 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:25.640 when there's one bar open. 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:29.120 I just love that. That sounds like an amazing trap song. 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:41.520 It's like e anpha askar alpha efare. 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:41.600 We now write for rap shit. Okay. 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:44.520 It was very nice. Also, like doing a little elbowl 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.959 in another country. Oh that food tastes so good. 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:50.199 You're like, oh my god, oh, oh my god, I'm 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:52.760 actually going in the same place. I'm excited. That's right. Yeah, yeah, 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:54.840 you might for gotta go. That's right, that's him, You're going. 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:56.480 That's the reason why I got a call and they 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.120 were like, we want you to do stand up there 0:08:58.120 --> 0:08:59.600 And I was like, okay, are you serious. Yeah, they 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:00.559 won't be hand up there. 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:02.440 That's amazing. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:07.520 Yeah, I ain't ash Yeah yeah yeah. My like between 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:09.560 the freckles and the backfat, I'm like, don't ask me ship, 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:13.040 you know what I mean? Like, like my work was 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:15.000 finding a fucking bathe suit to look good. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:16.040 Stop. 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:20.200 But that's so nice. It's gonna it's very fucking fun. 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:20.920 I'm excited for you. 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.320 Yes, yes, you know what. 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.040 Here's one thing in your fucking forties. 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:28.920 Yeah, and also in my late thirties, every cocktail I 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.160 order on vacation should come with the side of thumbs. 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:39.520 The fire between my tits. It was it's so bad. 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:44.600 People are doing shots. I'm like, huh, how you make 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.840 that medicine go down? Honestly, can't swallow anything like that anymore. 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:49.320 Do you drink in the pool? Do you like to 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:51.400 like drink and the kind of stuff? Yeah? 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:52.600 Yeah, I like to sit on a noodle? 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:01.200 Yes, go on, and what about a tation thing like 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:05.640 you like to float? Then we really. 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:08.880 Should get some more show. But listen, Yeah, you know, 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:12.160 I feel like I work very hard. I never take 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:12.680 a vacation. 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:13.560 Yeah you don't. 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:14.120 I don't. 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:16.800 You need to take more? Okay, this is what this 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:19.480 is about. This is a big intervention for you. We 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:20.960 want you to Yeah, well it could have been at 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:28.960 a nice place. I was. I saw your eye gs, 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:31.000 you were out there thriving. I was so happy for you. 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:31.920 I was like, look at it. 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:34.360 Yeah. Yeah, there's this quote. 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:37.400 I always say, the tools that you need to survive 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:40.040 won't be the tools you need to thrive. So it's 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.160 like a different set of skills to like, you worked 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:43.680 for it, now fucking figure. 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:45.880 Out how to enjoy it like outwardly, you know what 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.240 I mean? So, like, vacations are new for me. 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.120 I'm used to like bring the kids on, taking care 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:52.560 of them, bringing my parents, taking care of them, and 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:54.760 so it was nice just to be like, I'll have 0:10:54.840 --> 0:11:00.559 the tuna crudo again. Yeah, I don't want the glass 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:02.240 of it. Was like, give me the fucking bottle. 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:08.040 Vacation, yes, yes, yes, Michelle, Yes, all right, so we 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:10.240 should get to our next guest, our next guest. Yes, 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.920 you might have seen her and everything everywhere all at once. 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:17.800 Perhaps you've seen that, yes, among one of the things. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:30.000 Please give it up for the very talented, animazing Sunita money. Yes, yes, yes, 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:34.440 it's well what a get. 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:39.640 What is going on? Not much? Just not much? 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:42.679 How much at all? You're doing so much? 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:48.520 Like I guess. Yeah, it's been like really up and down. 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:52.120 I gotta say I'm in like a lull right now, 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:55.520 a moment of rest, which is hard. 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:58.440 It is kind of hard to like turn off. It is. 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:01.120 People don't realize when you're in this business you have 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:03.960 to always be on, always be prepared. You'll get an 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:07.400 audition a PM. Please put yourself on tape tomorrow. It 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:10.040 can fucking change your life. It's only seventeen pages. Please 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.880 do it now. Memorize it, memorize it all and then 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:15.720 we fucking do it. It's like an emotional tap dance, 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:18.320 and you know what, my knees are fucking tired. And 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:21.680 so when there's nothing to look forward to, you're like. 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:22.600 Oh, what do I do? 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:26.520 I guess I just clean my closet against But yeah, 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.280 there's always gonna be something else too, And I feel 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:30.280 like that's the great part and the terrible part about 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.640 this business is that you never know what's gonna happen. 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.600 Right, It's like a weird thing to make peace with. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.840 That's me when I get into the car with my kids, 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:42.520 I never know how it's gonna go. 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:45.160 Yeah, I'm also a catastrophizer. You guys, I'm fine. 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:48.960 You want to be friends with a catastrophizer because we've 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.040 already thought about everything before it even fucking happens. 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:52.560 Okay, you're a good mom. 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:56.600 Then yeah, I'm driving over the White Stone Bridge with 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:58.520 two little ones in the back. If some fucking fuck 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.880 face fucking does some thing, how am I gonna get 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:02.319 both of them out of the fucking car seats while 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:03.280 we're going to bitch? 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:09.560 I think I'm fine, kind of like you said, I'm fun. 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:31.840 I'm also fun. It's like amazing to have healthcare in 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:34.640 the Union, but if you don't work, you lose your 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:37.600 health care. Like, yeah, it's kind of crazy, that's really 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:40.840 It's hitting me in this like lot where you're just like, yeah, 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:42.400 you want to take it in and you want to 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.800 be like rest is okay, and I want to work 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.959 on other things and like live my life. And then 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:50.280 you're like, wait, I also want to go to the doctor, 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:52.679 and like, yeah, I need health insurance. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:53.280 That's a weird thing. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.000 Yeah, when you're an artist, it feels like you eat 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:58.240 what you kill. You have to keep making money in 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:00.839 order to you know, have the ability to go to 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.000 the doctor. But I was just in Canada and I 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.720 saw this. I remember one day I saw a fifty 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:07.760 year old man with a skateboard. He was definitely kicking 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:09.680 fifty in the ass, and I was like, that man 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:13.199 has universal health care. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like, 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.199 and they complain up there, They're. 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.440 Just like we have to wait, oh for hours to 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:18.280 see a doctor. 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:20.920 I'm like, you don't have to pay what the fuck? 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.880 You know? We have to wait to earn money to 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.480 see a doctor? Asshole? You know, like they have it 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.320 so good up there, folks do, and. 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:31.600 You can't stop breathing, and I feel like in that respect, 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.240 you can't stop dancing, like you have to keep entertaining. 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.880 You have to keep grinding in order to make it happen. 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:39.760 So do you feel like afraid to rest? Or do 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:41.200 you do you feel like you need to be like 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:42.760 nose to grindstone, Like what are you gonna do? A 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:44.840 You're gonna actually rest? Sit in that moment? 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.000 It's really hard. 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:49.720 I'm like trying to but also I'm trying to like 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:52.760 take it as a gift. How often do I get 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:54.160 to think about my. 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.120 Future or like long term plans? 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:58.600 I do feel like we're also thinking about the next 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:00.600 thing or like that next audition. It's going to change 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.920 your life. But it's to zoom out too and not 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:07.680 just think. So what's the word micro? I guess sure, 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.840 kind of not think about myself so much and just 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:15.080 try to like be a little more spaced out in 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:18.520 time in a way, you know, like so mushrooms. 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:21.680 So like, do you have time to watch shows that 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:24.080 you've done? Like I loved you in Glow? 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:30.360 Oh so cu cu I don't really rewatch my stuff? 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:34.000 Have you seen yourself in Glow? I mean when it 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:38.440 came oh, very good. It's like hard to rewatch for 0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:39.680 watch myself. 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.800 We have I believe we have an actor slash director 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:43.640 that was also in Glow. 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:46.120 In the world we do, we do in the audience 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:48.840 the voice of Kimmy Gayes. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.480 Also you want to only Kimmi gy what everybody? 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:56.760 Kimmy absolutely? Rosenblatt. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:00.640 Yeah, you've got the entire cast is here you guys. 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:01.680 Good to see you. 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:03.800 This is your life. 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:03.960 No. 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:08.280 When I look back at that moment in time, Glow 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.400 like especially like the female led and shows like Oranges 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:13.280 and New Black, and then like later Tales in the 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.360 City not so female led, but you get it, like 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.520 very diverse, like other platforms just weren't doing shit like that. 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:22.840 Like I remember watching Glow growing up. Yes, I remember, ye, 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:26.840 I aged well, but I remember watching that shit and 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:30.120 to see people I know and love out there doing it, 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.800 it felt like you guys were actually doing your stunts. 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:36.000 Yes, yeah, it was so fun. 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:39.440 We had like three ish weeks of wrestling training before 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:43.800 we would start the web alone, the wedgies alone, and 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.120 they were like we could freely pick them. 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:52.760 It was amazing. Ye, we were like queen. Yeah, it 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:54.440 was like clown school. 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:58.000 It was like acting training in this grand like Greek 0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:00.200 theater kind of way, because I didn't like really go 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:03.360 to acting school. But to like have a wrestling coach 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:07.480 Chava Garrera Junior, like legend, a guess in the audience 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:12.640 of recognition, yes, legend teach us like how to take 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:16.960 up space was so like everything was a metaphor about 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:19.240 how to like live your life, like you can have 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:22.439 this whole superhero inside and like beam this confidence and 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:26.840 fall and get back up and fail and people support 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:31.000 you like so much trust and so much like intimacy 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:34.199 and like hands in your vagina. 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:38.600 And like the best way. It was so nice, My favorite. 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:40.840 Can I just say when you were saying, like shooting 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:42.959 that it's set in nineteen eighty five based on this 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:46.359 like Original Wrestling League, the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling, but 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:51.000 shooting it in twoenty sixteen, and like being on set, 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:55.119 Kimmy will remember this when the election results were rolling 0:17:55.160 --> 0:18:00.159 in Oh fuck, and we were shooting a wrestling match 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:05.760 between Liberty Bell and the Russian Cat, Yes Zoya and 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:10.119 Liberty Bell, like that was happening. That was just like happening, 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:14.520 ye set in in fiction while we were just like 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:18.840 watching in like leotards with our ass hanging out and 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:22.640 like glittering eyelashes, just watching like every state role it's 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:26.800 like red and it just being like what is happening? 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:30.800 Like nineteen eighty five on top of twenty sixteen was 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:35.399 just this really meta experience, but like we were in 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:39.280 the bubble of it being okay, the feminists like bubble 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.200 protecting each other, and it was just like so uplifting 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:43.560 and so you know what. 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:46.360 I'm taking that frustration out in the leotard and a wedgie, right, 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:46.720 and we. 0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:49.800 Got exactly amazing. 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:53.879 Yeah, I love that. Oh my, really empowering. Oh one clap. 0:18:54.640 --> 0:19:00.359 I know, it's fine, it's fine. You're just talking about bakes. 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.760 Have you and your man gone somewhere together? 0:19:03.280 --> 0:19:10.080 Oh yeah, l oh el he's always traveling. Yeah, but 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:14.240 our latest trip together was to India, which he had 0:19:14.280 --> 0:19:17.360 never been and I hadn't been in like ten years. 0:19:18.040 --> 0:19:20.640 And it was like a double date my parents and 0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:24.240 just like me and Kenny and my parents. Oh my god, 0:19:24.320 --> 0:19:26.399 I have two older siblings, so it wasn't like just 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:27.679 the two of us and me And what. 0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:34.200 Nationality is your husband? Arian? Cowboys? Why did you say. 0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:40.200 I didn't watch that match. I know that strain. 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:46.840 Yeah, sorry, yeah for white. 0:19:45.880 --> 0:19:53.120 Oh he's here, he's here, he's here. Yeah, he's here, 0:19:53.200 --> 0:19:54.560 he should be. Let's see what. 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:59.199 Oh he's sitting next to Kenny Gateway, Kenny Warren in 0:19:59.240 --> 0:19:59.960 the house. 0:19:59.880 --> 0:20:02.000 A jazz musician. Right, that's right. 0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:04.240 Did your research? 0:20:04.359 --> 0:20:06.119 That's so cool. No, I knew that. I knew that 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:08.040 because you and I had a conversations. 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:15.640 Were actually that I've been occupied. 0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:18.000 I thought it was I thought it was the most 0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:19.520 It was burned in my brain because it was the 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:22.120 most romantic way to meet somebody, which was like at 0:20:22.400 --> 0:20:26.359 bar Barbs over here, and like he was playing like 0:20:26.720 --> 0:20:27.840 whatever instrument. 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:31.960 He plays, what is it a clarinet? I wish I 0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:32.879 could do it? 0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:33.840 Did he play trumpet? 0:20:34.680 --> 0:20:37.520 A clarinet? Impression? It's the trumpet. 0:20:37.800 --> 0:20:41.000 I mean, that's so cool. I would love to be 0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:43.240 on a fire escape in a muscle shirt playing trumpet, 0:20:44.320 --> 0:20:52.239