1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:01,480 Speaker 1: Uh. 2 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 2: You ever have those days where you just never get 3 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: to shower or do the things you'd like to do 4 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: for your body. 5 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 3: This is why I know I can never go camping. Hi, everybody, 6 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 3: welcome to adulta. So this is Jordan Carlos and I 7 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 3: could never go camping. In fact, I don't even like 8 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 3: to connect airplanes because that feels like camping for me. 9 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 3: Anytime I have to use a public toilet more than 10 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 3: like two times in a day. 11 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: Huh No. 12 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 3: That's why every time I go to an airport bar, 13 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 3: they're like, do you want six or nine ounces of wine? 14 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 4: I'm like, bitch, look at my face. 15 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 3: You know there are enough anti bacterial wipes. 16 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 4: Give me the nine ounce. Just keep it coming. Act 17 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 4: like it's a coft a cup in a diner, at 18 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 4: a truck stop. I get serious. 19 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 3: The worst thing, though, is getting a little bit too tipsy. 20 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 3: The plane is delayed, and now you are tipsy and 21 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 3: have to sober up on a plane. That's the motherfucker wors. 22 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: It feels like you're living in Christmas story. Yes, like 23 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 3: you're in the Christmas path and the present in the 24 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: future and just like I just wanted a turkey to bring. 25 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Chris John Gabers gave me a edible once before 26 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: I made a transcontinental flight, and why why Well, I 27 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 2: thought it would be fine, and it definitely was not, 28 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: and so I basically saw God and my face melted. 29 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 2: And then this lady was just like she's like, are 30 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 2: you okay? And all I could think to myself was 31 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 2: nobody loses their mind in comfort. Plus that's what held 32 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 2: it together. But I was sweating, and I was like, 33 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: I'll never do edibles again. Wrong, very wrong, but like 34 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: you need your own space. 35 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 3: I think if you're gonna do edibles because everything is 36 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 3: so unpredictable in a plane, you don't know how high 37 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 3: you're gonna have to go to like pass the turbulence. 38 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 3: Like that's crazy, I will say, like two plastic cups 39 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 3: of wine. I'm ready to watch any movie and act 40 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: like it's good. You can show me any horrible movie 41 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 3: and I'll start crying. 42 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 4: I was watching The Man named Auto. 43 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: The man named Yes, Yes, Tom Hanks, which. 44 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: Is like, yeah, the no old movies reab whatever is 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 3: Tom Hanks, So of course it's amazing. But the way 46 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 3: I cry, Jordan, people were asking me if I'm okay, 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 3: The way I was sobbing man. 48 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 4: I was like, this is something he'll do his visual shit, 49 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 4: he'll do it to you, won't he do it? 50 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? Won't you do it every time? Thirty six thousand 51 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: feet that's the Tom Hanks effect, all right. People on 52 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: the ground are like, I can live through this, Captain Phillips, 53 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: not such a big deal, babe. You put me up 54 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: in the stratosphere. It's like, yeah, water works. And by 55 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 2: the way, what's actually happening? Have you read this? Psychologically? 56 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: You're afraid of falling out of the sky and that's 57 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: why you're like at the seat of emotion And why 58 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 2: march at the penguins too, mo marchin? That'll mess with 59 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: your emotion? Yeah, it really does. 60 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 3: And plus like the stuff that's not supposed to be 61 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 3: that funny is hilarious. 62 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:01,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 63 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 3: I really want to be like one of those people 64 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 3: that have like all the screens out. They've got their phone, 65 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 3: they've got their iPad, and they got their computer. 66 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 4: There's always like a grid. 67 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 3: They're always just like punning stuff is some sort of 68 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 3: like like what do you like you don't have like 69 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 3: five minutes to yourself, but being on a plane is 70 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: a busy person really just feel like you have a 71 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 3: good spot at Starbucks to do some work. 72 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 2: I'm impressed by them. Listen, I'm impressed by you. I'm 73 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 2: impressed by you. I'm impressed. Yes, we are mall cops. 74 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 2: We have segue here we are Okay. What I do 75 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 2: love about our guest. She is wildly hilarious. 76 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: And unusually humble for someone who is so talented that 77 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 3: it just blows my mind. And yes, ride that pony. 78 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 3: And anyways, Sunita is the truth. She is kind, she 79 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 3: is fun, she is smart, she is hilariou. 80 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: Why do you sell right now? Smile? 81 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 5: I know I'm like quoting the Poopoo Pie movie. 82 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 2: Great. 83 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 3: Anyways, you guys, I hope you have so much fun 84 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 3: listening to the rest of this episode, as much fun 85 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 3: as Jordan is having right now. 86 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 4: So give it up. 87 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 2: Give it up for Sune the money. How can they 88 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: give it up? Remember we talked about this. 89 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 4: We did we talked about a time. 90 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: Oh that stays with me. Don't find a pound found found? 91 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 5: I like it. Don your hair SOI braiden? 92 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 2: Yep, just got them done yesterday, fresh set? 93 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 5: What you got a hat on the fresh set? 94 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 2: I gotta go? 95 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 5: You know, Oh you gotta do go. You better keep 96 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 5: it fresh. 97 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: Well. The hat matches to shoes. You know what I'm saying. 98 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 2: I like it. 99 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: I love that for you. I got my hair braided? 100 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 3: What two, three, three, four, three weeks ago? 101 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: The answers in my eyes, and yes it was about 102 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 2: three or four weeks ago. But you you look can't. 103 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 5: Be fucked up. No, I have to get my hair done. 104 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: It sucks when you have to get your hair done, 105 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 3: especially when it's like braided and it's just you know, 106 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 3: it just starts pulling, slipping and shit. 107 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 2: But it looks good. Your hair looks great. What doesn't 108 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: her hair look good? Everybody? Oh my god, the quid? 109 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 2: I need the quid. That was the right look. I 110 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 2: know that you went to the Caribbean. That must have 111 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 2: been nice. 112 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 5: I did. I took a vacation. 113 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I went to Grand Cayman Island, which is crazy 114 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 3: because I'm not like an old rich white dude because 115 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 3: that's where they go and hide their money. But does 116 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 3: this really great hotel called Palm Heikes in Grand Caman Island. 117 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 5: They are not paying me money to do this shit. 118 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 3: They should, But this is why I like it. You 119 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 3: can go and not be a rich person and still 120 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 3: feel rich. And it's one of those islands because my 121 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: mom's from Jamaica, my dad's from Haiti. So like, I 122 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 3: love those places, but I can't go all the time, 123 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: Thank you. I can't go all the time because I'm 124 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 3: like one, I can't bring two boxes shit for everybody too. 125 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 3: Is it gonna be safe? And so Grant came in 126 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 3: very safe. Also, the hotel is run by these really 127 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 3: cute queer guys. It was wild being the Caribbean and 128 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 3: seeing like queer couples and families. 129 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 5: I said, this is what it's supposed to fucking be. Yeah, 130 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 5: so palm heikes. 131 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 3: If you are queer questioning or whatever the fuck you 132 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 3: is and you want to go to the Caribbean and 133 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 3: like shake whatever titties you got, palm heikes. Grant Caman 134 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 3: was great. It was also nice being away with my husband. 135 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 3: Like having sex in a hotel room is great. You 136 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 3: ain't gotta clean anything up, just walk away, leave a 137 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 3: little tip on the dress up. 138 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 5: Come back. Oh it's great. 139 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 3: Just like I realized, do you eve any pictures of 140 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 3: your kids in your bedroom? 141 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 142 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 5: I gotta play some differently. 143 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 2: You gotta turn them down. You gotta turn them down. 144 00:06:55,200 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 2: That's right. Yeah, they're on the wall. I mean, oh okay, 145 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 2: turn him around right? Oh my goodness, Yeah, that's that's 146 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:08,039 Speaker 2: that's kind of weird. But sex and hotel rooms. Sex 147 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 2: and hotel rooms is a little tough. You ever put that, 148 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 2: You ever put that like sign out front, it's just 149 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 2: like do not disturb. 150 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 3: No, you better walk in and see this. No, I'm sorry, 151 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 3: you better walk in and see vs. 152 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 2: Yikes. Yeah, that's amazing, okay with that. 153 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 5: In fact, I keep it a little jark. 154 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 155 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 2: I love every part of it. Okay, good metaphorically, So 156 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: tell me more, like what did y'all do? 157 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 3: Like you don't know, you know what what happened? My 158 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 3: husband he loves to like do activities and ship and 159 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 3: so he wanted to get like a wave runner as no, 160 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: he wanted to go snorkeling. I'm like, I'll wait for you, 161 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: like you know, once in a while, I'll do something. 162 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 3: But it really was just like three and a half days. 163 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 3: So I was like, I'm gonna sit and drink and 164 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 3: eat and fuck and go home. 165 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 2: That could have been I'm. 166 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 5: Is it Sunday school? What the fuck? See what happens 167 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 5: when there's one bar open. 168 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 2: I just love that. That sounds like an amazing trap song. 169 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 6: It's like e anpha askar alpha efare. 170 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 2: We now write for rap shit. Okay. 171 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 5: It was very nice. Also, like doing a little elbowl 172 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 5: in another country. Oh that food tastes so good. 173 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,199 Speaker 2: You're like, oh my god, oh, oh my god, I'm 174 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: actually going in the same place. I'm excited. That's right. Yeah, yeah, 175 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 2: you might for gotta go. That's right, that's him, You're going. 176 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: That's the reason why I got a call and they 177 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 2: were like, we want you to do stand up there 178 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, are you serious. Yeah, they 179 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 2: won't be hand up there. 180 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 5: That's amazing. 181 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I ain't ash Yeah yeah yeah. My like between 182 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 3: the freckles and the backfat, I'm like, don't ask me ship, 183 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, like my work was 184 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 3: finding a fucking bathe suit to look good. 185 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 5: Stop. 186 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: But that's so nice. It's gonna it's very fucking fun. 187 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 3: I'm excited for you. 188 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, you know what. 189 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 5: Here's one thing in your fucking forties. 190 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and also in my late thirties, every cocktail I 191 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 3: order on vacation should come with the side of thumbs. 192 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 3: The fire between my tits. It was it's so bad. 193 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 3: People are doing shots. I'm like, huh, how you make 194 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 3: that medicine go down? Honestly, can't swallow anything like that anymore. 195 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 2: Do you drink in the pool? Do you like to 196 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: like drink and the kind of stuff? Yeah? 197 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I like to sit on a noodle? 198 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 2: Yes, go on, and what about a tation thing like 199 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 2: you like to float? Then we really. 200 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 5: Should get some more show. But listen, Yeah, you know, 201 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 5: I feel like I work very hard. I never take 202 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 5: a vacation. 203 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 2: Yeah you don't. 204 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 5: I don't. 205 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 2: You need to take more? Okay, this is what this 206 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 2: is about. This is a big intervention for you. We 207 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 2: want you to Yeah, well it could have been at 208 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 2: a nice place. I was. I saw your eye gs, 209 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: you were out there thriving. I was so happy for you. 210 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 2: I was like, look at it. 211 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, there's this quote. 212 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 3: I always say, the tools that you need to survive 213 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 3: won't be the tools you need to thrive. So it's 214 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: like a different set of skills to like, you worked 215 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 3: for it, now fucking figure. 216 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 5: Out how to enjoy it like outwardly, you know what 217 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 5: I mean? So, like, vacations are new for me. 218 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 3: I'm used to like bring the kids on, taking care 219 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 3: of them, bringing my parents, taking care of them, and 220 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 3: so it was nice just to be like, I'll have 221 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 3: the tuna crudo again. Yeah, I don't want the glass 222 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 3: of it. Was like, give me the fucking bottle. 223 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 2: Vacation, yes, yes, yes, Michelle, Yes, all right, so we 224 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: should get to our next guest, our next guest. Yes, 225 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 2: you might have seen her and everything everywhere all at once. 226 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: Perhaps you've seen that, yes, among one of the things. 227 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 2: Please give it up for the very talented, animazing Sunita money. Yes, yes, yes, 228 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: it's well what a get. 229 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 5: What is going on? Not much? Just not much? 230 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 2: How much at all? You're doing so much? 231 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 5: Like I guess. Yeah, it's been like really up and down. 232 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 7: I gotta say I'm in like a lull right now, 233 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 7: a moment of rest, which is hard. 234 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 5: It is kind of hard to like turn off. It is. 235 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 3: People don't realize when you're in this business you have 236 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 3: to always be on, always be prepared. You'll get an 237 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 3: audition a PM. Please put yourself on tape tomorrow. It 238 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 3: can fucking change your life. It's only seventeen pages. Please 239 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 3: do it now. Memorize it, memorize it all and then 240 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 3: we fucking do it. It's like an emotional tap dance, 241 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 3: and you know what, my knees are fucking tired. And 242 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 3: so when there's nothing to look forward to, you're like. 243 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 4: Oh, what do I do? 244 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: I guess I just clean my closet against But yeah, 245 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: there's always gonna be something else too, And I feel 246 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 3: like that's the great part and the terrible part about 247 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 3: this business is that you never know what's gonna happen. 248 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 5: Right, It's like a weird thing to make peace with. 249 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 3: That's me when I get into the car with my kids, 250 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 3: I never know how it's gonna go. 251 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm also a catastrophizer. You guys, I'm fine. 252 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 3: You want to be friends with a catastrophizer because we've 253 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 3: already thought about everything before it even fucking happens. 254 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 5: Okay, you're a good mom. 255 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 3: Then yeah, I'm driving over the White Stone Bridge with 256 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 3: two little ones in the back. If some fucking fuck 257 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 3: face fucking does some thing, how am I gonna get 258 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,319 Speaker 3: both of them out of the fucking car seats while 259 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 3: we're going to bitch? 260 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 7: I think I'm fine, kind of like you said, I'm fun. 261 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 7: I'm also fun. It's like amazing to have healthcare in 262 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 7: the Union, but if you don't work, you lose your 263 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 7: health care. Like, yeah, it's kind of crazy, that's really 264 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 7: It's hitting me in this like lot where you're just like, yeah, 265 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 7: you want to take it in and you want to 266 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 7: be like rest is okay, and I want to work 267 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,959 Speaker 7: on other things and like live my life. And then 268 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 7: you're like, wait, I also want to go to the doctor, 269 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 7: and like, yeah, I need health insurance. 270 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 5: That's a weird thing. 271 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're an artist, it feels like you eat 272 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 2: what you kill. You have to keep making money in 273 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 2: order to you know, have the ability to go to 274 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 2: the doctor. But I was just in Canada and I 275 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 2: saw this. I remember one day I saw a fifty 276 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 2: year old man with a skateboard. He was definitely kicking 277 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 2: fifty in the ass, and I was like, that man 278 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 2: has universal health care. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like, 279 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,199 Speaker 2: and they complain up there, They're. 280 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 3: Just like we have to wait, oh for hours to 281 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 3: see a doctor. 282 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, you don't have to pay what the fuck? 283 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 2: You know? We have to wait to earn money to 284 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: see a doctor? Asshole? You know, like they have it 285 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 2: so good up there, folks do, and. 286 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 3: You can't stop breathing, and I feel like in that respect, 287 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 3: you can't stop dancing, like you have to keep entertaining. 288 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: You have to keep grinding in order to make it happen. 289 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 2: So do you feel like afraid to rest? Or do 290 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 2: you do you feel like you need to be like 291 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: nose to grindstone, Like what are you gonna do? A 292 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 2: You're gonna actually rest? Sit in that moment? 293 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 5: It's really hard. 294 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 7: I'm like trying to but also I'm trying to like 295 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 7: take it as a gift. How often do I get 296 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 7: to think about my. 297 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 5: Future or like long term plans? 298 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 7: I do feel like we're also thinking about the next 299 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 7: thing or like that next audition. It's going to change 300 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 7: your life. But it's to zoom out too and not 301 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 7: just think. So what's the word micro? I guess sure, 302 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 7: kind of not think about myself so much and just 303 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 7: try to like be a little more spaced out in 304 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 7: time in a way, you know, like so mushrooms. 305 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 3: So like, do you have time to watch shows that 306 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 3: you've done? Like I loved you in Glow? 307 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 5: Oh so cu cu I don't really rewatch my stuff? 308 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 5: Have you seen yourself in Glow? I mean when it 309 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 5: came oh, very good. It's like hard to rewatch for 310 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 5: watch myself. 311 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 3: We have I believe we have an actor slash director 312 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 3: that was also in Glow. 313 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 7: In the world we do, we do in the audience 314 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 7: the voice of Kimmy Gayes. 315 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 3: Also you want to only Kimmi gy what everybody? 316 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 5: Kimmy absolutely? Rosenblatt. 317 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got the entire cast is here you guys. 318 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 2: Good to see you. 319 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 5: This is your life. 320 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 2: No. 321 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 3: When I look back at that moment in time, Glow 322 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 3: like especially like the female led and shows like Oranges 323 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 3: and New Black, and then like later Tales in the 324 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 3: City not so female led, but you get it, like 325 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: very diverse, like other platforms just weren't doing shit like that. 326 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 3: Like I remember watching Glow growing up. Yes, I remember, ye, 327 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 3: I aged well, but I remember watching that shit and 328 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 3: to see people I know and love out there doing it, 329 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 3: it felt like you guys were actually doing your stunts. 330 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, it was so fun. 331 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 7: We had like three ish weeks of wrestling training before 332 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 7: we would start the web alone, the wedgies alone, and 333 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 7: they were like we could freely pick them. 334 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 5: It was amazing. Ye, we were like queen. Yeah, it 335 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 5: was like clown school. 336 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 7: It was like acting training in this grand like Greek 337 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 7: theater kind of way, because I didn't like really go 338 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 7: to acting school. But to like have a wrestling coach 339 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 7: Chava Garrera Junior, like legend, a guess in the audience 340 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 7: of recognition, yes, legend teach us like how to take 341 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 7: up space was so like everything was a metaphor about 342 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 7: how to like live your life, like you can have 343 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 7: this whole superhero inside and like beam this confidence and 344 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 7: fall and get back up and fail and people support 345 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 7: you like so much trust and so much like intimacy 346 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 7: and like hands in your vagina. 347 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 5: And like the best way. It was so nice, My favorite. 348 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 7: Can I just say when you were saying, like shooting 349 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,959 Speaker 7: that it's set in nineteen eighty five based on this 350 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 7: like Original Wrestling League, the Gorgeous Ladies of Wrestling, but 351 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 7: shooting it in twoenty sixteen, and like being on set, 352 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 7: Kimmy will remember this when the election results were rolling 353 00:17:55,160 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 7: in Oh fuck, and we were shooting a wrestling match 354 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 7: between Liberty Bell and the Russian Cat, Yes Zoya and 355 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 7: Liberty Bell, like that was happening. That was just like happening, 356 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 7: ye set in in fiction while we were just like 357 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 7: watching in like leotards with our ass hanging out and 358 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 7: like glittering eyelashes, just watching like every state role it's 359 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 7: like red and it just being like what is happening? 360 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 7: Like nineteen eighty five on top of twenty sixteen was 361 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 7: just this really meta experience, but like we were in 362 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 7: the bubble of it being okay, the feminists like bubble 363 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 7: protecting each other, and it was just like so uplifting 364 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 7: and so you know what. 365 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 3: I'm taking that frustration out in the leotard and a wedgie, right, 366 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 3: and we. 367 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 7: Got exactly amazing. 368 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love that. Oh my, really empowering. Oh one clap. 369 00:18:54,640 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 3: I know, it's fine, it's fine. You're just talking about bakes. 370 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 3: Have you and your man gone somewhere together? 371 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, l oh el he's always traveling. Yeah, but 372 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 7: our latest trip together was to India, which he had 373 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:17,360 Speaker 7: never been and I hadn't been in like ten years. 374 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 7: And it was like a double date my parents and 375 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 7: just like me and Kenny and my parents. Oh my god, 376 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 7: I have two older siblings, so it wasn't like just 377 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 7: the two of us and me And what. 378 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 5: Nationality is your husband? Arian? Cowboys? Why did you say. 379 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 2: I didn't watch that match. I know that strain. 380 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, yeah for white. 381 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 5: Oh he's here, he's here, he's here. Yeah, he's here, 382 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 5: he should be. Let's see what. 383 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,199 Speaker 7: Oh he's sitting next to Kenny Gateway, Kenny Warren in 384 00:19:59,240 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 7: the house. 385 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 2: A jazz musician. Right, that's right. 386 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 5: Did your research? 387 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 2: That's so cool. No, I knew that. I knew that 388 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 2: because you and I had a conversations. 389 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 3: Were actually that I've been occupied. 390 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 2: I thought it was I thought it was the most 391 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 2: It was burned in my brain because it was the 392 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 2: most romantic way to meet somebody, which was like at 393 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 2: bar Barbs over here, and like he was playing like 394 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 2: whatever instrument. 395 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 5: He plays, what is it a clarinet? I wish I 396 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 5: could do it? 397 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: Did he play trumpet? 398 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 5: A clarinet? Impression? It's the trumpet. 399 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: I mean, that's so cool. I would love to be 400 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: on a fire escape in a muscle shirt playing trumpet, 401 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:52,239 Speaker 2: like you know, that's that's that's really beautiful. And so 402 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 2: you met when he. 403 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 5: Was Did he take the trump to India? 404 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 2: Yes? 405 00:20:56,480 --> 00:21:00,719 Speaker 7: And here's that he brought it on our honeymoon. We 406 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 7: have a third in the relationship and her name is Trumpet. 407 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 7: But no, it's it was beautiful because it's such a 408 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 7: like cultural connection to any like to everyone and everything. 409 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 5: It was amazing. 410 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 7: There's like a video I have of him just like 411 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 7: playing the trumpet on the roof of like the clothes anyhouse. 412 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 5: Roll that beautiful bean footage. 413 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 7: My little cousins were just like so excited and into it, 414 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 7: and it was very sweet. It was like a very nice, 415 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 7: Oh my God, bringing together. 416 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 5: I love that. We're gonna answer some questions now. And 417 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 5: I feel like this isn't read it? Yeah, you read it. 418 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 7: Where the hell are all these hot Brooklyn people finding 419 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 7: their clothes? 420 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 2: I thought that was. 421 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 5: Whenever I go thrifting, I have no luck? 422 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,679 Speaker 7: How do I be stylish? 423 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 5: Wow? 424 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 7: Rights, Like sounds like we've covered it. 425 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 2: Part of the question. But I think sometimes going to 426 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 2: a neighborhood where like wearing vintage or whatever it is 427 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,919 Speaker 2: isn't fashionable, then going to those three stores is more 428 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 2: helpful because the people have passed him up. What I'm 429 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: trying to say is go to bay Ridge. 430 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 5: You're going today. 431 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 3: Places not the A Places I love my friends that 432 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 3: are stylish, and I asked them to come with me, 433 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 3: or I'll send them pictures in the dressing room or 434 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 3: I'll like legit, go to Pinterest or ig influencers, because 435 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 3: it really is about your body shape too, right, and 436 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 3: like what. 437 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 2: You feel comfortable wearing. 438 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, I like to hit people up. Take your friend, 439 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 5: that's very fashionable. I've always been like a weirdo. 440 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 7: I used to like cut his neck holes out of 441 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 7: pillowcases and armholes and like, yes, I think like Dobby 442 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 7: the Elf did that and Harry Potter love it. I 443 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 7: was like, I love these pillowcases that we have and 444 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 7: this is like high school. 445 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 5: I would like make my own clothes. I don't know. 446 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 7: I've always been really interior like fashion stuff. 447 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 2: I love that making your own You. 448 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 5: Know who did that too, Jennifer Lopez really yeah? 449 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 4: And looking at Empire. 450 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 2: Okay, this question is how can we bring the spice 451 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 2: back with three kids in a small space, opposite work 452 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 2: schedules and no babysitter. It's not gonna happen. I hate 453 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 2: to tell you that. What do you think, Michelle, no babysitter, 454 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: three kids. Already you had a good time, you know 455 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 2: what I mean? 456 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you did it. You got. 457 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,679 Speaker 2: Three in the city. That is wild. Where do you 458 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: put three children in. 459 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 3: The city on top of each other, can you do 460 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 3: a quickie while they're like watching Patrol Malana? 461 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 462 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 3: We're like, can you bring a friend over? Okay, okay, 463 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 3: you watch the kids? 464 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 5: What's wrong with you? 465 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 2: Literally you just said can you bring a friend over? 466 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 2: End of sentence. 467 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 5: I was like, OK, it's about to finish. I got 468 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 5: you go shad a lipsies? 469 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, like a friend or a cousin. I think you 470 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 3: got to split them up, right, that's a lot. The 471 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 3: three kids is a lot for little one person. 472 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 5: It is? 473 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 7: Is it like totally crazy to talk to your kids 474 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:13,880 Speaker 7: and tell them what's up? 475 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 5: Like we we have. 476 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:20,919 Speaker 7: To Actually, you guys need to take care of yourselves. 477 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,199 Speaker 7: The peanut, butter and the jelly are on the table. 478 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 7: We need forty five minutes. 479 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 5: I don't know minutes. I don't know what shower. We 480 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 5: have to take a long shower. Yeah, we have to 481 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 5: take a long shower. And can you tell the straight 482 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 5: up be careful if you want to fuck? You might 483 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 5: have the fourth Very good points. 484 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 2: Absolutely good question. Great question. I think what you do 485 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 2: in that instance? I say played eight Like that's like 486 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 2: the best. Yeah, I'll throw them in the basement. They'll 487 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 2: watch Moana it'll be great and you can go and 488 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 2: have another kid. 489 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 5: Here's the next question. 490 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,640 Speaker 3: What's the line between being a a friend and stopping 491 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 3: them from making a big mistake? 492 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: Oh my god? When you can see the train wreck 493 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,920 Speaker 2: just happening, just barreling off. 494 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 5: God, I mean, I think it's there. 495 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 3: If it's physical, Like, if it's physical, then I'm gonna 496 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 3: step in. But I feel like, you know, it's like 497 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 3: watching your kids jump off as something I'm supposed to, 498 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 3: you know, for like the fourth time, you know what 499 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,440 Speaker 3: I mean. It's like, well, that's part of their journey too, right, 500 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 3: And what will be great is to lend them your 501 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: ear for the next year because they're gonna really have 502 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 3: to process that shit. 503 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, have you ever have you ever had to like 504 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 2: jump on a grenade and like just tell a friend, like, 505 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: jump there's grenades and you jump on that. Just see 506 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 2: it again, jump on a grenade like a grenade. I 507 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 2: guess we just eat footnotes, all right. So I step 508 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 2: in and say, like, I. 509 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 7: Feel like there's one I like couldn't hide it, like 510 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 7: I didn't have a poker face or whatever, Like I 511 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 7: couldn't be the friend who was gonna listen for the 512 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:01,640 Speaker 7: next year, and. 513 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 5: I was She's like, do I good? 514 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 7: No? 515 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 5: Bad? 516 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 7: Like I've had that experience once and that was kind 517 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 7: of that was the one, and I feel like I'm 518 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 7: gonna step off, you know, I'll just I'll just be 519 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 7: chill and let let the train wreck hafe be there because. 520 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 3: What happens too is like when it's that toxic and 521 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 3: you step in, then all of a sudden you're the 522 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 3: new thing in their relationship and you're the new thing 523 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 3: to blame and. 524 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 5: It's just like you bitch. 525 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's just better for people to like 526 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 3: figure it out and just to be there. 527 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 5: You know, I'll be there to buy you around. Good friend. Okay, 528 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 5: that's question. This isn't pink. Just to let you know 529 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 5: this pen is pink. 530 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 7: How long do you date someone as in go on 531 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 7: dates until you have the conversation about becoming their boyfriend? 532 00:26:54,680 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 5: Oh, relatable question. They're hyping up their own question. What sorry, 533 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 5: I was so distracted. Can you ask that question again? Yes, 534 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 5: now that it's not a cold read, I'll go faster. 535 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,119 Speaker 7: How long do you date someone as in go on 536 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,719 Speaker 7: dates until you have the conversation about becoming their boyfriend? 537 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 2: That's a yeah, I don't know. 538 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: Don I feel like it should be almost like just 539 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: the understanding, Like I think if you have to have 540 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: a conversation. I think if you're if you go like 541 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:29,920 Speaker 1: on two or three dates and you have to have 542 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: a conversation about what are we are? 543 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 2: It just go somewhere else. 544 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, god people, Okay. 545 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 2: It cannot be organic. You have to have nine dates 546 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 2: and on the tenth like a punch. 547 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 3: You can't assume that someone is down like you're down. 548 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 3: Like people have different definitions of what being in a 549 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,719 Speaker 3: relationship is, right, So I feel like if you are 550 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 3: on a third day and you guys are calling each 551 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 3: other like up to and at the bottom of the day, 552 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 3: if you're texting each other like put your food or 553 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 3: some shit, you know what I mean? Like after the 554 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 3: third day, if you feel like, oh, we really like 555 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 3: each other, like have a little conversation. But honestly, I'm 556 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 3: not Steve Harvey. I can't tell you that you know 557 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, definitely after you have sex. Please 558 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 3: don't be bowed up with someone and not know what. 559 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 5: They feel like. Right, that's crazy. 560 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 2: Ten dates is a lot and that's a lot of dates. 561 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,439 Speaker 5: Does it say ten dates. 562 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 2: I think it said, like how many dates? 563 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 5: Where's the number? 564 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 7: No number, just like you've been going on dates and 565 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 7: how long? Oh do you wait until you have that conversation? 566 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 3: Well, now if you're feeling it doing yeah, that's right, Yeah, 567 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 3: you're feeling. 568 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 2: It, just get help do it right at this show. 569 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 5: I'll tell you this. 570 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 3: The second time I saw my husband then boyfriend, we 571 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 3: weren't even like boyfriend girl. We didn't even put that 572 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 3: shit on it because it was supposed to be one 573 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 3: night stand. 574 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 5: Like he went back to Amsterdam. 575 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 3: It was like months later, and I was like, Okay, 576 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 3: I'm gonna take this trip to come see you because 577 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 3: you asked, but I'm I bring my best friend. 578 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 5: That's a guy. 579 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 3: We're gonna share a hotel room. He's my big brother. 580 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 3: You better be comfortable with it. Like I was putting 581 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 3: all all these reasons for him not to be into it, 582 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 3: and at the end of it seven days later, I 583 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 3: was like, this is crazy. You are my world and 584 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 3: I said a feeling yeah, and he's like, oh my god, 585 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 3: me too. 586 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 5: I'm like do you love me? 587 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 7: Wow? 588 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 5: Wow? Putting it out there though. 589 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 3: I get fucked that and he said I have feelings 590 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 3: of love towards. 591 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 2: You, which is a beautiful gesture. 592 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 5: I said, that's not. 593 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 3: Good enough, that's amterdam. I'm in New York, you know. 594 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 3: I said, do you love me? 595 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 5: And he's like, I definitely have feelings of love towards you. 596 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 3: And I say, you have to say it. He's like, 597 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 3: are you making me say it? And I'm like yes, 598 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 3: and so he said it. And it's fifteen years later. 599 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. Man, you gotta tell these motherfuckers. 600 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 5: Sometime, the situation. 601 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 3: You know, you guys tell these motherfuckers sometimes, and that's okay. 602 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 5: It's the same space. You love me. You're never gonna 603 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 5: do any better. 604 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 2: It's the best. 605 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 5: Yes, Yes, that's right. 606 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 2: You have to try. You have to try. I think, 607 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 2: you know. I with my wife, I gave it time, 608 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 2: not like the number of dates, but like time. And 609 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 2: after like three months, I said, I was like, I 610 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 2: really I love you. And then she dumped me and 611 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 2: and then I bought a car that I couldn't drive 612 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 2: because it was stick, and then she taught me how 613 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 2: to drive the stick and she did I'm not talking 614 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 2: about sex, I'm talking about actual clutches, and and so 615 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 2: we got back together that way. So I mean I 616 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 2: I'd say just in the car, didn't it's like very cramped. 617 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 2: H and it's not what you think it's going to 618 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 2: be like in the movies, you know what I mean. 619 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: You're like, oh, that parking break, Yeah, that's a break. 620 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 2: It's a major yeah, butthole and then but not not 621 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 2: a fun way all right. So the point is what 622 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 2: is the point? The point is you have to you 623 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 2: have to try, you have to say something. You have 624 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 2: to take a risk. No risk, No, you can't really 625 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 2: like to say, what's the weather report going to be 626 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 2: on an outdate? You know, like you have to just 627 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 2: like take a stab and see if it happens. Even 628 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 2: if you do get dumb, guess what, you can get 629 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 2: back together. It can happen, you know, should happen. 630 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 5: Thank you laughing at the advice. 631 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 2: You know what. 632 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 5: We've done. 633 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 3: Guess what's the most adult thing you want to do 634 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 3: for yourself that you haven't done yet? 635 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, spotlights on you. 636 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 5: Okay, that I haven't done yet. 637 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 7: I will just say looking into the dex credits for 638 00:31:55,840 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 7: leasing an electric vehicle, that's like it's a good like 639 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 7: buying a car, an electric one for the environment. 640 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've never bought a car before. 641 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 2: Where do you plug one in in New York City? 642 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 7: And that's really where I'm starting. That's the big question. 643 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 7: We don't have a garage or a house. But what 644 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 7: if I just went to Whole Foods regularly, yeah. 645 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 5: And made it my own house like parking lot. 646 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 647 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 7: In five years, it'll it'll work out, you know what 648 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 7: I mean, The infrastructure will be there. 649 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. 650 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 5: Well I'm excited for you. I can't wait to see 651 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 5: what you write. 652 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, it's time. It's gonna be I mean 653 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 3: about it and everything everywhere all at once. Sorry I 654 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,320 Speaker 3: forgot to ask how the fuck was it was? 655 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 7: The It was amazing and it was like the last 656 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 7: day before the pandemic shutdown. We'd like did we were 657 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 7: stuffing like hot dog fingers in our mouths, being like 658 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 7: is this serve? 659 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 5: And then the pandemic happened. 660 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 3: It's so funny how like every job is almost linked 661 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 3: to like what's happening in the world. 662 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 5: It's so true, you know what I mean, it really is. Yeah, 663 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 5: it's like the script of your life. Did you go 664 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 5: to the oscars? 665 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 7: I didn't, That's okay, I mean, I'm like those are 666 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 7: like some of my best friends. I'm so so thrilled 667 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 7: for them, the Daniels and a lot of the cast. 668 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 5: So it's yeah. 669 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 7: I was just like, were you in a Little John video? 670 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 7: I was same, directors. 671 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 5: Turned down for what music video? Are you a video? 672 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 1: Hoo? 673 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 7: I had to tell that to my now husband. I 674 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 7: was like, when we were dating, he was like showing 675 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 7: me videos, like music videos. 676 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 5: He like like rap videos, and I was like, there's 677 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 5: something you should know about. 678 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 7: And I had to show him this video because it's 679 00:33:54,760 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 7: like really popular and people would like not people team 680 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 7: teenagers will stop me on the street and be like, yo, 681 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,879 Speaker 7: you dope, And it was so validating and so cool. 682 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 5: What were you doing in the video? 683 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 7: Oh? 684 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,640 Speaker 5: I was like, tworking violently. 685 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 7: It's this ridiculous video where my like, my only salvation 686 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 7: is to violently like twerk my ass on this other 687 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 7: character in the video. 688 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,439 Speaker 2: Because there's no reason to turn down? 689 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 5: Is that how you like? 690 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, there's no other way? Yeah you know, yeah, what 691 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:38,800 Speaker 7: are you gonna turn down for? 692 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,959 Speaker 5: What can she do? 693 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 8: Tell everybody? 694 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,320 Speaker 2: Oh? 695 00:34:53,800 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 4: Oh boy? 696 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did it naturally. 697 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:02,280 Speaker 4: I didn't even. 698 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,799 Speaker 2: It sounds like we just came off splash mountain or 699 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 2: something like Ooh, We're so ready. 700 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 8: We're so ready. 701 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:18,040 Speaker 5: Listen you guys. 702 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 2: That was a very fun That was a very fun show. 703 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 2: We learned a lot about Santa. She's just a very 704 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 2: authentic person, you know what. 705 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 3: Somebody told me on set one time we were like 706 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,719 Speaker 3: in between setups where you like move camera angles, and 707 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 3: so we had about seventeen to twenty minutes of downtime 708 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,879 Speaker 3: and I went to my showrunner immediately, I'm like, should 709 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,800 Speaker 3: we rewrite the scene for next week or whatever? 710 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 4: She's like, take a break, and I'm like, no, I 711 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:43,280 Speaker 4: want to be productive. 712 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 3: And one of them executives from A twenty four said 713 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 3: breaks can be productive, and that blew my mother fucking 714 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:57,040 Speaker 3: maya ya yay, because I'm like, okay, what happens when 715 00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:00,400 Speaker 3: we are just allowed to sit, you know, just sit 716 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 3: in our own space, in our thoughts, and like, what 717 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 3: the fuck can we come up with? 718 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 4: And I remember MICHAELA. Cole saying when did she went 719 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 4: to bath Toad? 720 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 3: I don't remember what award she won for I May 721 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 3: Destroy You, but she said that she unplugged, truly unplugged, 722 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,440 Speaker 3: went away and she was like, the things that come 723 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 3: up when you are quiet are the things that will 724 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 3: be important to share in Hollywood in New York. You know, 725 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 3: if you've got a hustle around your job, but you 726 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 3: really forget that you have this brain, right, yeah, and 727 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 3: you have memories, you have core memories, and you have 728 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 3: wishes and wants. You forget how to enjoy them, how 729 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 3: to see them through. And so when Sanita was talking 730 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 3: about writing and it's a world that she's creating and 731 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 3: she doesn't know on the outside looking in, I was 732 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 3: very excited for her because I know that space. 733 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,360 Speaker 4: But when you're in the eye of. 734 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 3: The storm, it's fucking scary at shit because you're like, well, 735 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 3: them commas in the bank accounts don't give a fuck. Yeah, 736 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 3: but really trusting that you have everything you need and 737 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 3: you could always clip some coupons, Well yeah, it might 738 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,399 Speaker 3: just work the fuck out. 739 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,319 Speaker 2: I appreciated it. It was It was very refreshing. It 740 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,960 Speaker 2: was because she has so much going on. I'm so 741 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,919 Speaker 2: I was like, thank you for that. Yeah, I see 742 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 2: her and her success. I'm like, okay, cool, Yeah, I'm 743 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 2: gonna be ayright. Yeah. 744 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 4: Everywhere is it the name of the movie again? 745 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 2: Everything? Everywhere, all at once. 746 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,319 Speaker 5: Yeah. I wrote a joke about that movie for that. 747 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 2: I remember. 748 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 3: If everything everywhere was all at once, why was that shit? 749 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,479 Speaker 3: Three and a half hours? Hey, y, all right, you guys, 750 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,760 Speaker 3: thank you so much for hanging with us. What a crazy, 751 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 3: wild episode. Sorry if we laughed too much, Sorry if 752 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:39,720 Speaker 3: there was air horn, just kidding. 753 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 4: You're welcome, motherfucker. Have a good evening. The froze ain't 754 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 4: gonna make itself. Gotta go. 755 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,240 Speaker 2: This has been an exactly right production. 756 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,320 Speaker 4: Our senior producer is g Holley. 757 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 2: Our associate producer is Alex Cheat. 758 00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 5: This episode was mixed by John Bradley. 759 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:01,760 Speaker 2: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner. 760 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 5: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton. 761 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 2: Theme song and live show DJing is by Don will 762 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 2: Our live. 763 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,640 Speaker 5: Show producer is Marion Ways. 764 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 2: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel. 765 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 5: Photography by Reis vander Most. 766 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 2: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hardstark and Daniel Kramer. 767 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 5: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod. 768 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 2: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com. 769 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 3: Mmmm