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Speaker 1: I'm sick of my boss's daily fat jokes about me.

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Speaker 1: So I got sweet revenge and suited ass.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that that does fat jokes and get him

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Speaker 2: out here.

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Speaker 1: You know what, you know what's really gonna weigh on him?

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Speaker 1: How bad I'm gonna soothe.

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Speaker 3: There's mother you know why he should cut out of

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Speaker 3: his diet. Oh those fat jokes.

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Speaker 2: That's right, Stop putting those in your mouth like a

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Speaker 2: couple of potatoes.

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Speaker 1: Let's let's let's switch it out with some compliment lettuce, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and some some kindness kale. That sounds like, uh what

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Speaker 1: Gary V's like? Uh have you seen Gary Visa?

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Speaker 3: It's like it's like a kale.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's like goodness draffe some empathy elephants. So

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Speaker 1: when I was nineteen, this happened, and I'm a plus

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Speaker 1: sized girl who's confident in my body. Hey, shout out

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Speaker 1: to you, a hey.

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Speaker 3: Get get that, get that, get it queen.

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Speaker 1: That Yeah, do that for. I've been working in the

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Speaker 1: same big chain restaurant since I was fifteen years old.

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Speaker 1: It was my first job, and it's one that I

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Speaker 1: would call higher end fast.

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Speaker 3: Food, Like what what are we talking about?

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Speaker 1: Probably like Chili's or like Applebee's or something.

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Speaker 3: I would say, like I was thinking, like, what's the one?

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Speaker 3: What do they do?

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Speaker 1: Like oh oh oh yeah, like Daruma or like Benny

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Speaker 1: Hannah or something like that.

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Speaker 3: I love like you how low? What it was?

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Speaker 1: Everyone knows that is shrimped onto the onto the fork

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Speaker 1: onion volcanoes. Now, when I got to college, I transferred

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Speaker 1: stores and began working at the same place in another city.

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Speaker 1: Everything was going great for about a year until we

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Speaker 1: get a new boss. You know, you know what goes

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Speaker 1: down when a new boss steps in fat jokes. Apparently

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Speaker 1: immediately he singled me out and told me I needed

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Speaker 1: to stop dressing the way I do because I was

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Speaker 1: going to quote lead men, lead men to harassing me. Really,

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Speaker 1: he said it.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: He would say this daily to me, and he would

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Speaker 1: also give me graphic stories of sexual assault he had

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Speaker 1: witnessed at our workplace because of leggings.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that is what.

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Speaker 1: That is good. Gravy, that is good. God, Like you

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Speaker 1: could say he got a dress policy call, but your

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Speaker 1: life story coming day like incessant. One day I stood

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Speaker 1: up to him and told him it's not appropriate that

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Speaker 1: he says stuff that he says to stuff, especially given,

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Speaker 1: especially given a lot of people that work for him

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Speaker 1: are under eighteen. That's so weird. Yeah, yeah, it's like

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Speaker 1: I don't know about you, buddy. Later into his first week,

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Speaker 1: he yelled at me for something minor and told me

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Speaker 1: I should just quit because he's going to find a

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Speaker 1: way to get rid of me.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, So I did she quit and quit? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Oh okay.

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Speaker 1: He transferred me to another store and came back, and

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Speaker 1: I came back under a new boss who was amazing

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Speaker 1: and understood what the previous boss had done wrong.

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Speaker 3: Amazing, Okay, figured out.

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Speaker 1: I worked without incident for a month, and then my

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Speaker 1: original terrible boss came back. Why, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 1: coming back, dude, this is what is going on.

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Speaker 3: Boss back from the desk.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, after he singled me out and tried to make

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Speaker 1: me uncomfortable by telling me I was going to get harassed, bro,

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Speaker 1: the dude, and the dude is literally like he's not

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Speaker 1: even sugarcoating it. He's like, I am going to harass you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just like times that I was telling you those

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Speaker 2: stories about what could happen, I'm going to make sure

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Speaker 2: they happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to harass you.

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Speaker 3: Every day on this job.

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Speaker 2: He literally is like the only person that's harassing her. Literally,

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Speaker 2: he don't worry out, watch out, someone's gonna harass you,

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Speaker 2: like proceeds to harass her.

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Speaker 1: What how about I got this cautionary hell, how about

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Speaker 1: I stay away from you? But this time I thought back, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: fight back, that's right. Put your duke so baby. I

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Speaker 1: told him straight up if he continued, I would sue

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Speaker 1: him and the company for doing nothing.

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Speaker 3: After I reported it.

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Speaker 1: Get that money, that's right, get it? Yeah, you want

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Speaker 1: to keep it that much? You want to keep this all?

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Speaker 1: You want it? You love the money. You want the

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Speaker 1: MAGI or saw you soon. He laughed at me and said,

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Speaker 1: go ahead. I would I would never get a dime

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Speaker 1: from the company. Okay, buddy, all right? Q Q to

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Speaker 1: malicious compliance. I quit on the spot that day and

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Speaker 1: contacted a lawyer who advised me to file a complaint

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Speaker 1: against the company with the ee O C whatever that

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Speaker 1: is for the EO for sexual harassment and retaliation.

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Speaker 3: How's it go? Yep.

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Speaker 1: After a long year of waiting, the company agreed to

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Speaker 1: a mediation by an outside neutral party. I negotiated and

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Speaker 1: was awarded fifteen thousand damages.

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Speaker 3: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hey, get that get get that money.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Ophie, you've got this, get get it, get it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what happened to him, but the company

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Speaker 1: must be pissed.

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Speaker 3: Of course, he.

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Speaker 1: Messed with the wrong pre law student. There you go, word,

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Speaker 1: there it is. That's that's the gravy. Don't mess the

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Speaker 1: law students, pre law students, the post loss. You're about

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Speaker 1: to get pre sued. Bitch, yeah, good bam.