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Speaker 2: For tickets, go to Joe.

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Speaker 1: Gattoofficial dot com. To see all my door dates.

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Speaker 2: For Steve's go to punch Up dot Live backslash Steve

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Speaker 2: hyphen Burn. That's beat y r I need.

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Speaker 3: He makes it so easy to find him and now

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Speaker 3: onto the episode.

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Speaker 1: Were a ticket MND, Okay, here we go. I'm so excited. Hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening to two Cool Moms.

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Speaker 3: I'm Joe Gatto, I'm Steve Burn and with us today

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Speaker 3: is the lovely Kobe Ka.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. It's great to

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Speaker 1: see you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, see you the cool aunt.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we do colands. So when you're on aunt aunt,

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Speaker 1: what do you say? And yeah, okay An, you're very proper.

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Speaker 2: My father is very regimented with he's so Irish, like

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Speaker 2: the old school Irish where they're like insistent on every

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Speaker 2: syllable being pronounced correctly and you.

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Speaker 3: Say ultimate.

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Speaker 2: All right, Two color moms moms, I love it all.

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Speaker 1: Sudden, it's great, fantastic. Well, thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: joining us. I can't believe you did it.

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Speaker 2: This is so funny to have you here, which you've

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Speaker 2: been You've been talking about her since we started the

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Speaker 2: show about getting wrong.

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Speaker 3: I asked, she is one of the most interesting people

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Speaker 3: I've ever met in my life. I still yes, you

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Speaker 3: are so fun, so nice, super sweet, and I you know,

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Speaker 3: our our friendship began a long time ago when I

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Speaker 3: crashed one of your concerts because my wife is a super.

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Speaker 1: Fan and I knew your music as well, and he

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Speaker 1: was in your house.

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Speaker 3: We damned first first each other, and I knew you

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Speaker 3: were having a show, and I was like, Hey, you're

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Speaker 3: coming to New York.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to come see you. And You're like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I know. I'm like, how do you know me?

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Speaker 3: It's too low brow for Kobe, and and then yeah,

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Speaker 3: it was just Ever since then, it's been great and

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Speaker 3: you're wonderful. So I'm very excited to have you with

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Speaker 3: us to, you know, bring it down a notch for

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Speaker 2: By the way, you must like when you're touring as

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Speaker 2: much as you do, like you must get pinged quite

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Speaker 2: often from who's one of the odder celebrities you've gotten

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Speaker 2: dm from, like hey, I'm a big fan, and even

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Speaker 2: you were surprised by that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was surprised you knew me, Like.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean so I wish see I need

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Speaker 4: to be prepared with these questions.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I'm it just depends.

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Speaker 4: I feel like, like our friendship was so random, and

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Speaker 4: I truly was like the biggest fan.

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Speaker 5: I was like, are you kidding? I told my girlfriends because.

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Speaker 4: We watched your Guys show all the time and we

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Speaker 5: So I don't know, Like I think.

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Speaker 4: I DMed Casey Musgraves the other day to like, you know,

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Speaker 4: that's so cool.

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Speaker 5: It just feels nice.

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Speaker 1: When it always does.

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Speaker 5: You know, you're like, oh, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I get I get.

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Speaker 3: I get like all the time when people like recognize

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Speaker 1: Like it's it's very weird.

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Speaker 2: You make it seem like, yeah, dude, it's one of

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Speaker 2: the biggest show in the history of fifteen years, I know,

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Speaker 3: If you think about like but if you think about that.

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Speaker 3: It's still like you're in a vacuum, like you're on

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Speaker 3: You don't feel like it. Especially I did it with

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Speaker 3: It didn't really feel like it.

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Speaker 2: You know, how I feel is how you should really feel.

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Speaker 2: Like that's crazy, Like I had an obscure summer show

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Speaker 2: on TBS and you're like on television twenty four hours

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Speaker 1: Like you know me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Exactly, Yeah, yeah, come on.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm world famous, guys.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to break it to you, world famous

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Speaker 3: basic cable celebrity Joe Gatta, but.

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Speaker 2: I follow you and then you and Gavin du Graus,

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Speaker 4: But yeah, yeah, we're besties. We've worked together for I

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Speaker 4: don't know, fifteen years. We have a song together, we

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Speaker 5: We're just like besties.

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Speaker 2: So it's a great duo. And it's it's like the

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Speaker 4: How did that friendship for him we got? You know,

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Speaker 4: I think you just meet like in LA and doing shows,

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Speaker 4: And we were both fans of each other's music. I

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Speaker 4: And yeah, so it just kind of was one of

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Speaker 1: It's like a really fun, familiar big bro.

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Speaker 2: I'm a sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm a big bro because I'm round there.

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Speaker 2: You're older. No, you said brother sister, So I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I have to be the sister. Another question for you,

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Speaker 4: it's just fun to tour with people that you are

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Speaker 4: your own tour is really nice because it's just it's less,

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Speaker 4: So both it's a balance of both.

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Speaker 2: What's been your dream collaboration? What was the one where

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Speaker 1: This is it?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: Here we go today is one of the days. But

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Speaker 4: for music, I got to tour with John Mayer and

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Speaker 4: Cheryl Crow. Cheryl Crow sang on one of my songs.

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Speaker 4: I'm actually doing a duet album, which I have not announced,

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Speaker 4: so this is probably too soon for me to be

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Speaker 4: so I think stuff like that, I love that, And.

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Speaker 2: Is there one still out in the ether, like a

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Speaker 4: Post Malone and cold Play, I think, like Chris Martin,

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Speaker 4: that would be amazing, both of those.

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Speaker 3: I just I did the jingle Bowl tour with iHeart,

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Speaker 2: From the movie.

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Speaker 2: Is really cute A like jingle Ball and stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: It's like, oh, if you guys have seen cold Play,

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Speaker 3: I befriended up Benson Boone through it. He's such a

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Speaker 2: On the side, they're like.

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Speaker 1: Thank god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It was in a fuel jumpsuit. He did a

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Speaker 2: end and all this is like trending, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: that's pretty pretty. That's like that's the difference between like

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Speaker 1: It's like, well, when you try to do that at

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Speaker 5: Hurt yourself?

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Speaker 1: You hurt yourself? So as far as like, so we

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Speaker 1: talk about our moms a lot because like we always

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Speaker 3: The friends that come through advice. So in like your

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Speaker 3: friend group, I know you have a lot of cool friends.

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Speaker 1: I've met a lot of them. They're wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Where do you fall in the coming for advice or

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Speaker 3: going to people for advice kind of thing?

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Speaker 1: Are you the voice or reason or you like, how

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Speaker 1: do you how does it shake effort?

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Speaker 4: I think I mean both for sure. I think it

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Speaker 4: depends like for girl girlfriends, you know, if you're going

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Speaker 5: There's like boy trouble stuff like that.

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Speaker 4: There's there's times where we vent to each other and

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Speaker 4: then there's times where it's like the ex that you've

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Speaker 4: gone back to way too many times. And as the

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Speaker 1: It could be sure you're out there trying to Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's where you just like turn the mic to

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Speaker 5: You know, you can't do it.

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Speaker 4: Hopefully they know the song if I want to, like,

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Speaker 5: You just cut the song.

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Speaker 3: Great hack that I'm super jealous of that ability and

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Speaker 4: But you have it with just people bursting into laughter

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Speaker 2: So yeah, we were pursuing of one emotion, right, It's

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Speaker 1: We write a song together?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: But what was the song that you wrote that I

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Speaker 1: Right. I just ashamed that bubble didn't catch on, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the I find out sometimes when you try.

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Speaker 1: What do you what you do? It's in your face.

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine that pressure to have to like make

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Speaker 3: For us, the granite, the granite's a big pressure cooker,

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Speaker 1: You know that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. Graned and be like, give me the thing here.

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Speaker 2: great have they been in terms of advice in your life? Oh?

443
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Speaker 5: Very so.

444
00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:52,080
Speaker 4: My dad's a music producer, and my parents were both

445
00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,000
Speaker 4: in the music industry, so they were the ones that

446
00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:56,320
Speaker 4: they knew I loved singing since I was a kid.

447
00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:00,199
Speaker 4: They their friends were obviously all in that industry. So

448
00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,440
Speaker 4: one of my mom's best friends, she was my vocal teacher,

449
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,719
Speaker 4: one of my dad's friends, and someone he worked with.

450
00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:08,600
Speaker 4: He ended up being my first producer, Michael Blue from

451
00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:13,159
Speaker 4: my first album in Bubbly. My parents were the reason that, like,

452
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,119
Speaker 4: I knew how to put a form a band, and

453
00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:19,199
Speaker 4: I found my manager because my manager knew my dad's

454
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,399
Speaker 4: business partner who was also in management, and he recommended

455
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Speaker 4: my manager, who I've had my entire career.

456
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Speaker 5: My parents were the ones that told me to be

457
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,280
Speaker 5: a songwriter. They knew I liked singing.

458
00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,320
Speaker 4: But they were like, you should also write songs because

459
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,399
Speaker 4: that's where it's at is being able to write what

460
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,439
Speaker 4: you feel. But then also you know the income of that.

461
00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:39,800
Speaker 4: They're always just like, you know, telling you how to

462
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Speaker 4: do it right, right, so.

463
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Speaker 2: You can't complain about giving them the fifteen percent of

464
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Speaker 2: the last taking how to take care of them.

465
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Speaker 4: No, that's the thing, like they if I would have

466
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:51,199
Speaker 4: had no knowledge of it whatsoever and no motivation, and

467
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 4: they were like, don't you know I was working at

468
00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,080
Speaker 4: like tanning songs and home Depot and things like that,

469
00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 4: and they were like, just like, stop working, focus on

470
00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 4: this if you really want to do it. So they

471
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,280
Speaker 4: gave me all the options in the world to have

472
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Speaker 4: this become a reality.

473
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Speaker 2: By the way, you worked at home Depot, Oh, yeah,

474
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 2: it was the best job.

475
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Speaker 4: Cashier, no decor, the knobs and cut blinds. Yeah, I

476
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,399
Speaker 4: cut blinds and I did I helped people.

477
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Speaker 5: I don't know. It was so fun.

478
00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,680
Speaker 4: So Brianna, my my best friend, she worked in returns

479
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 4: as a cashier. We had like we liked guys in

480
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:28,840
Speaker 4: like the paint department, and it was so fun.

481
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Speaker 2: We are the hottest home dep I've ever seen in

482
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Speaker 2: my life.

483
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Speaker 5: Back then, I know, everybody.

484
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:36,439
Speaker 1: Was looking for her.

485
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Speaker 2: It's like.

486
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Speaker 1: I did. I can't imagine. How long do you worked there?

487
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

488
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Speaker 5: I really in a short span of time, I had

489
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Speaker 5: like twenty jobs. I left place.

490
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Speaker 4: I got bored quick. But I think I was at

491
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Speaker 4: home Depot the longest. Oh yeah, I don't know how long.

492
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Speaker 5: Maybe a few months.

493
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Speaker 3: Do you walk in there and get nostalgic when you

494
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Speaker 3: smell the sawdust?

495
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Speaker 1: We did a lap around Home.

496
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Speaker 5: Deeper like a month ago. I totally.

497
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Speaker 4: And you know what's so funny is like my music

498
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 4: is always played in Home Depot like CBS and Home Depot.

499
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Speaker 5: I'm like, still work here.

500
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Speaker 1: I'm still in the depot.

501
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 3: I worked at Party City, which is a machine, and

502
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:20,199
Speaker 3: every every time I'm working, every time I walked in

503
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,119
Speaker 3: there because I had gone from multiple years after I

504
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 3: had had finished there, and I would just always walk

505
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,360
Speaker 3: in and I would have like notes, I'm like, oh, yeah,

506
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 3: your guys are out of the purple plates.

507
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Speaker 5: In the backs.

508
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Speaker 1: You know what you can bring us with purple plates?

509
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 2: They are too hot.

510
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Speaker 3: We were Party City, But I'm the same way with

511
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Speaker 3: nor Strom because I worked at Nordstrom. Yeah, every time

512
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Speaker 3: I go into North Strum it's always like, uh, you know,

513
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, uh, you work on commission, come on, come

514
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 3: on and get some Yeah.

515
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I always just love to shop.

516
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 3: But I always loved working at Nordstrom because I was

517
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 3: a platinum pace center, which is like one of their tears.

518
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 1: And I always like, yeah, I was a Nordy platinum

519
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Speaker 1: plate center.

520
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Speaker 5: What was that is that part?

521
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 1: It's like one of the like cells, like sales rights.

522
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

523
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 3: So they were like, you're a platinum pay setter and

524
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Speaker 3: you worked at north I was like, you could make

525
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Speaker 3: dreams happen.

526
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Speaker 1: Kid.

527
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Speaker 5: What was the worst job that you guys ever had

528
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Speaker 5: or like.

529
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't have many jobs I didn't like, but

530
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 3: I think my first job we talked about this one.

531
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,360
Speaker 3: I I used to scoop ice Is outside the Big

532
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Speaker 3: Apple Bizarre and Staten Island.

533
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Speaker 1: My dad knew a guy I like ICs, you know.

534
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I was I was an icy salesman at

535
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,679
Speaker 3: the Big Apple Bazaar and for this guy Tony that

536
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 3: my dad knew, and he used to pay me like

537
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 3: three dollars an hour under the table, and I remember

538
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,399
Speaker 3: he was just told me to go home and they

539
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 3: pulled a guy in the place and locked the door,

540
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 3: and my dad's like, Tony doesn't want you to work

541
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 3: there anymore.

542
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Speaker 1: So that was Yeah, that was a weird job. Yeah

543
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Speaker 1: that was fair.

544
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Speaker 2: That's a weird the best. I don't know. I I'm

545
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 2: not like, I'm like you. I didn't have a bad

546
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 2: one because it was like I I targeted a place

547
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 2: where I was like, if I'm going to work, I

548
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 2: want to enjoy it here. Yeah, and I played hockey.

549
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 2: You know, I still play hockey. But when I was

550
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 2: in high school, I was a rint guard and so

551
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 2: we you know, we on our high school teams. And

552
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: one night we we played till three in the morning,

553
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: and his bony drivers like, all right, I'm gonna wrap

554
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 2: it up here, so we'll see you guys in the morning.

555
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 2: And then we're like, let's go to the snack bark

556
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 2: just make stuff. So we made cookies and pizzas and

557
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 2: we fell asleep and the owner came in at like

558
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: eight in the morning and saw Otis Spunkmeyer oven was

559
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 2: still on. We had we'd gone through like a sleeve

560
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 2: of cookies and four pizzas and get the fuck out

561
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 2: and come back. And that was such a bummer because

562
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 2: I loved that job.

563
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 5: That job.

564
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 2: I went out a should we get in this?

565
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

566
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 2: All right, here's the first question, and I thought this

567
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Speaker 2: would be great.

568
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Speaker 3: Thanks to all our fans who reach out and send

569
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Speaker 3: our questions over two Coles Mom's pod at gmail dot

570
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 3: com or on the Instagram pod.

571
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Speaker 2: It's been a year and a half, still be able

572
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 2: to catch up with this. Okay, this first question, Uh,

573
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 2: coming out of the gates with from Riley, I thought,

574
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Speaker 2: obviously we the talent to koby here. You can help

575
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: with this. I need some music to pump me up.

576
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 2: What do your go to songs to get me to

577
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 2: get you hyped up?

578
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: I thought you're gonna say I need some help with

579
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 1: blinds recommend.

580
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: Okay sos to pump you up?

581
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 5: Uh, Walking on a Dream Empire of the Sun. That

582
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 5: one pumps me out.

583
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: That's that's the go to.

584
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Speaker 5: I feel like.

585
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,679
Speaker 4: It's one of them, like in that kind of in

586
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 4: that kind of mode.

587
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 5: Do you need me to give a list? Or are

588
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Speaker 5: you guys?

589
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 1: I don't I know it the other way?

590
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 2: I love you need me to give a list?

591
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 5: Is that not enough for you?

592
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: Fine?

593
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 2: Sorry?

594
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 1: Riley, that's all we've got for you.

595
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: Thanks, That's all the time we have Toko Mom's pod

596
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 2: by well yours.

597
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: I know, I've been with you a lot. When the

598
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Speaker 1: Killers come on, the Killers, Yeah.

599
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Speaker 3: That's probably I would probably say if I had to see.

600
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Speaker 3: We drive a lot, him and I because we were

601
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Speaker 3: in the car on the road and we play we

602
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 3: have playlists.

603
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 2: And he nineties nineties fun hip hop like like even pop,

604
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 2: like very everything.

605
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: Yeah so and he's very not so we made him

606
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Speaker 1: listen to for fun.

607
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 3: Like we just started playing all these songs and he

608
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 3: couldn't do anything about it because he was driving. And

609
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 3: we played like the Venga Bus like you know, like

610
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Speaker 3: the six like skins.

611
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 2: Crawling, like get out now.

612
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: This is something like that, which is what you guys

613
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: like it? Oh, dude, you really like.

614
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Speaker 2: Fe like I love l M F A.

615
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Speaker 6: Oh.

616
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Speaker 3: I think party rock and is probably my number one

617
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Speaker 3: I When that comes on, I just get in a

618
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 3: different money set them for party rock and like he

619
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Speaker 3: lets shot shot.

620
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's the guy generally likes it.

621
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, this is all of america popular songs.

622
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 2: It's not just me.

623
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Speaker 1: I'm I'm in the minority here, but in the majority

624
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Speaker 1: in America.

625
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Speaker 2: Yes, you should throw your after parties at out back

626
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Speaker 2: steakhouse with a bluets, but yeah, I would say bright

627
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 2: mister Brightside like that. That is one of the greatest

628
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 2: experiences I've ever had was when I opened for these

629
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Speaker 2: guys being Ah, They're in European tour and We're at

630
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 2: like the O two arena and I'm like, now, I'll

631
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,239
Speaker 2: never get a chance to do this again, so I'm

632
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 2: going to do this, so you pitch.

633
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 3: The idea was unbelievable because Steve open Versus is a

634
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 3: very funny comic, so we were doing the O two,

635
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 3: was super excited and he goes, he goes, guys, have

636
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 3: an idea. He's like, I want to I wanted to

637
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 3: sing mister Bright's side with the crowd. And we're like, what,

638
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 3: You're a comic. He's like, I just He's like he

639
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,239
Speaker 3: said that, I don't I never I don't think I'll

640
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 3: ever had this opportunity again.

641
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: And we're like, yeah, sure, go for it. We don't

642
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: care because we know he's funny and we know what

643
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: to work out.

644
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 3: So then he just is up there and he does

645
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Speaker 3: his set and he goes, he guys, just want to

646
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Speaker 3: I want to try something real quick, and then he

647
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 3: had cute it and it was like it was his

648
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 3: concert and the place went Now he went into the crowd.

649
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: Remember you went down into the crowd. You got so

650
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: overwhelmed by that.

651
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 3: He left the stage empty and we were in the wings,

652
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Speaker 3: but they were this weird thing in uh when you

653
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 3: perform there that they need for the union, you need

654
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 3: to take a break. So after our opener, there's a

655
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,239
Speaker 3: twenty minute intermission. Then we come out, which is very

656
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 3: different than what you normally do. So he comes out

657
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 3: and he's the stages down, he's going nuts, the cameras

658
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 3: on him, and it's the last thing, and we're.

659
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: All backstage, we're all hyped. I was like, let's go.

660
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,479
Speaker 1: When we ran out on stage and we sang at

661
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Speaker 1: the peak chorus.

662
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 3: The place started going nuts where and they're like see

663
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Speaker 3: in tut.

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Speaker 2: I mean they were at a crescendo. The crowded so far.

665
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Speaker 5: That's a good. Have you done it again? Have you

666
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 5: done it since?

667
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: Every time?

668
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 2: For the on the tour. On that tour, we did it,

669
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 2: and we hit the lyrics up and you know, the

670
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 2: spotlight saw on you and the cameras follow you, and

671
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 2: I'm with these people. I hand him the mic I

672
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 2: take his beer. We're singing together. I'm going up four

673
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 2: more rows and it was a bless and then the

674
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 2: song peaks. These guys rush out and people are going nuts,

675
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 2: and I was like, that's what that's I mean, that's

676
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: what you got the closest.

677
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was really good. Everyone together, Yeah, which is cool?

678
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, with a thump and beaten.

679
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 5: That's great. I mean everyone knows that song. Everyone loves

680
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 5: that for sure.

681
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 6: Especially that's like that's like their YMC A something. It's like,

682
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 6: you know the song that hips me up before show?

683
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 6: Why am of course it does these days?

684
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: You know the macarena.

685
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. This is from Myra Myra's ass.

686
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: I'm having crazy dreams of lake. Do you remember your

687
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 2: craziest or scariest dream? Is it reoccurring? And how do

688
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 2: you cope with bad dreams? Oh?

689
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: Bad dreams is tough.

690
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 3: I'm trying to get my kids to get out of

691
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: My dad had taught me a trick back in the

692
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 3: day where he said, replace whatever was scaring you. It

693
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 3: was so weird it just stuck with me and I

694
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 3: don't know, he said, whatever scaring you in your dream,

695
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 3: replace it with a hippopotamus.

696
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like hip hop, like with a cartoon hippopotamous,

697
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: and he's like it we'll become scary.

698
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 3: So I was like, oh, all right, and then he

699
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,239
Speaker 3: was like he's like, you know, just think about that.

700
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 3: And then I would just always wait, cup like I

701
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 3: was being chased by like a shark or whatever, and

702
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 3: I'd be like, Oh, it's just like this purple hippopoonamous and.

703
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 1: In my mind he always talks like, oh, I'm going

704
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: to get you like that. Yeah, I was just like

705
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: this weird thing. So I'm trying to teach that to.

706
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 5: My kids, you know about it because so it works.

707
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 3: It worked for me, and I would do it and

708
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, just think of something silly and

709
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: replacing your dream.

710
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 5: That's smart.

711
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 3: So and that was a nice little trick for me

712
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 3: for like a recurring scary dream because I was having

713
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 3: a recurring dream for a while. I don't remember at

714
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 3: this point, but I remember the same dream was getting

715
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: me and then by the end of it was just

716
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 3: like a silly, silly, hippopoonamous kind of thing.

717
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 2: Wow, that's pretty wild. That's good advice.

718
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 5: It is really good advice.

719
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: You sound surprised, that's what I do yet.

720
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 2: Creative. It's it's smart, just like you know, allow yourself

721
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 2: to be bored. I've never heard that before, and I'm like,

722
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: I'm going to remember that. That's great advice. Still. Yeah,

723
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: do you have a recurring scary or frightening after this appearance?

724
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, I will have nightmares.

725
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 4: No, it's actually very weird. I don't remember any dreams really.

726
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 4: This second I wake up, it's gone.

727
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 5: Whatever. I don't know. I don't know how to.

728
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's something I know.

729
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 5: Because everyone's like, oh, I got to.

730
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 4: Tell you my dream or this nightmare happened. I'm like

731
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 4: they're like, did you I'm like, I got nothing. I

732
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 4: literally it's not there.

733
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 2: Even deep sleep, somebody wakes you up, You're still not.

734
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 5: Like it's instantly gone.

735
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 4: Like I know, I was dreaming about stuff and thinking

736
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 4: at the moment, and then the second I'm up, it's

737
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 4: like it's like erased.

738
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 5: So I know, I don't. I don't. I will check.

739
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 5: I will look into it. You seem concerned, What about you?

740
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: I I uh, yeah, I mean I definitely had a

741
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 2: when you were younger, I dream No. I I had

742
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 2: an experience a few years ago where I kept having

743
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 2: these dreams and I had been a part of a

744
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 2: murder and I got away with it and nobody knew,

745
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 2: and the heat was coming in on me like like

746
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: like I was going to get figured out right, and

747
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 2: it was crippling, like I would wake up like my God,

748
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 2: to the point where it was like so real. I

749
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 2: felt like I felt did I do something in my past?

750
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: And I was talking to my wife about it one time,

751
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: She's like, well, that's crazy, Like what do you think

752
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 2: it means? Because you've had I've had it multiple times,

753
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: many matings. And then I was just like, maybe this

754
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: is something I have to deal with her, like what

755
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 2: is it? And I had years ago when I was

756
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: on the road, Sorry, this is going to get go okay.

757
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 2: Years ago when I was I was at the Houston

758
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 2: Improvity just opened.

759
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: I murdered someone.

760
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 2: Well, no, I didn't murder somebody, but this day happened,

761
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: and I confronted this reality and I gave myself the

762
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: credence to pay attention to it. But what happened was

763
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 2: I was I was hanging out one night the club

764
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: had just opened. I hung out with this girl who

765
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: was bartending, and then feature at Brad and I hung

766
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 2: out with the waitress and the bartender. We had a

767
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 2: great night, and we come to learn that this girl,

768
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 2: it's her birthday and none of her friends called her,

769
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: and she was really in a depressed state and whatever.

770
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: So we went and we left the condo. We're all

771
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: stand right across from the street, and we went and

772
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: bought like a sheet cake for her and brought it

773
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 2: back and saying happy birthday to her, and she seemed

774
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 2: to perk up, and then all of a sudden, she's like,

775
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 2: I'm out of here. I got to get out of her.

776
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 2: She just like turn on a dime and it got dark,

777
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 2: and we're like, you're too drunk. You can't drive, you know.

778
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: So I hit her keys, I did all this stuff,

779
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 2: and it just nothing would work. And it had been

780
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: about two hours, and I'm like, I can't do this.

781
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 2: I gotta go to bed, you know. So I went

782
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 2: to bed and Brad and the other girl were handling

783
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: the situation. Eventually she's I guess she told them I

784
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 2: feel fine, Now, can you just drive me into my

785
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: car and to sleep my car? And that'd said, So

786
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 2: Brad took her, and then as they were leaving, she

787
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: gunned it and went past them. I woke up the

788
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: next day and the club called me and she died

789
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 2: in a car accident, like a drunk driving car accident.

790
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 2: And so I had to stay that weekend and still

791
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 2: do shows. And I was just like I was. I

792
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 2: met her, I talked to her best friend, I spent

793
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: time talking to the mom on the phone, and then

794
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: I said, I'm not going on the road anymore. So

795
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 2: I stayed in New York City for like eight years

796
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: and just stayed at the seller. I didn't. I was like,

797
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: I can't go on the road, and so that's why

798
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: I was always doing like inter night shows and whatever.

799
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: But so then I don't think i'd ever give myself

800
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: the moment to reflect on it. And and so when

801
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 2: I went through kind of like my psyche and experiences,

802
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 2: is like, maybe this is it, because I always felt

803
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 2: like I didn't do enough and I felt I was

804
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: like guilt written with it. I can't believe we're talking

805
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: about this right now. But anyways, so that I I

806
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: just I kept like thinking about it and gave myself

807
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: the time to process it.

808
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: And that's important.

809
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 2: And yeah, and I think once once I did that,

810
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 2: I haven't had that dream since and that was probably

811
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 2: probably two years ago, but it would.

812
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: Be your brain is still like that deep stuff that's.

813
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 2: My subconscious or whatever. Just it was resonant and was

814
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 2: still bothering me and I and I just gave myself

815
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: the opportunity to say, you did everything you possibly could

816
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: have done that evening.

817
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's just that's just what's happening enough

818
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: the stairs. I mean, you did live everything you do.

819
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 3: But that's what's so interesting about when you think about

820
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 3: these people that do the dreams, like the journals and

821
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 3: all that stuff, and you go in through all these things,

822
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 3: it's like this, there's so much going on upstairs that

823
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 3: you don't even you didn't even go should be a songwriter.

824
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 3: You could have wrote a song about it.

825
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: Be therapy. I did. It's called Bubbly. Somebody else wrote. Yeah.

826
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: Now to get us back into comedy, were just can

827
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: play the bloopers from Schiller's list. Jesus Christ Stevens a

828
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: comedy podcast.

829
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 4: Change like you get deep, buddy, you don't know what

830
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 4: you get A very important yeah.

831
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this is a healing podcast.

832
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 3: More than anything, I hear from all seven people that

833
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 3: listen that they love that we're helping people.

834
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 2: You will say that, but I after the show is

835
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 2: I always get people that that are like I listened

836
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: to it's very nice. Sorry, this is coming to us

837
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 2: from Aaron.

838
00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: What do you do if you can?

839
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: If you could wake up as any celebrity for a day,

840
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 2: who would it be? Oh, that's interesting anyway for you

841
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:07,439
Speaker 2: to ask.

842
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 5: How you guys met. I don't think I know the story?

843
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: Can I Christless?

844
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? Chraigs lest he was looking for a roommate. No,

845
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: I did. We both had a show on His show

846
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: was on TBS and mine was on Truth.

847
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 3: It was the same network, and we met through like

848
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 3: the marketing kind of tour kind of stuff.

849
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 2: Well, i'll tell you what happened. His show just come out,

850
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: My show just came out. And then we would always

851
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 2: be on tour right in the summer. Yeah, so these

852
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 2: guys doing comedy clubs, we're doing comedy clubs. In the

853
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 2: second year we go out. We'd always tour. We'd call

854
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: each other and be like, hey, let's hang out, and

855
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 2: we're in comedy clubs and they're starting to do theaters.

856
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 2: And then the third year, we're still in comedy clubs

857
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 2: and they're selling out two shows at theaters. So I'm like,

858
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 2: guys wanting to get canceled. So we just constantly would

859
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: hang out. Yeah, and we.

860
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: Were graduated to like call him and checking in because

861
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 3: we didn't He lived in California at the time and

862
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 3: I was in New York. So whenever I was out

863
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 3: in New York, he was in you know, all we

864
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 3: would just check in and say hey.

865
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 2: But we jailed because Vince Vaughn through this Nashville Comedy Festival.

866
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: And when Vince was putting it together, He's like, who

867
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 2: should we get. I was like, you got to get

868
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 2: these guys in practical jokers. I got this great show

869
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 2: and we did this after.

870
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 5: Party Vince Vaughn.

871
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, at the like bud Light Lounge, right, So we're

872
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:16,720
Speaker 2: going on the bud Light Lounge.

873
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: I was just space sponsored by bud Light. So I

874
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: got called the bud Light Lounge for the Nashville, you

875
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: know of festival.

876
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,280
Speaker 2: But I got all these like friends that I loved,

877
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 2: and so you know, I remember one night is like me,

878
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 2: Colin Jost and you guys and a bunch of other

879
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: comedians and me and Colin are and like Vince and

880
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 2: Peter Billings ley course of the story, were standing on

881
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 2: this band catte and we got the whole play singer

882
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 2: like piano man and stuff. And then Joe gets the

883
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 2: Jokers and they go on the other side, and now

884
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 2: it becomes like a sing off between this side and

885
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 2: that side of the room, and Joe's orchestrating the whole thing.

886
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 2: Then Joe's in the middle of the room and he's

887
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: got a shirt off, He's got the whole place dancing,

888
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: and then it's going him up afterwards. And I had

889
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 2: known Joe yeah, and then I'm like, man, we got

890
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 2: to get a drink. And Jo's like, no, I don't drink.

891
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, you mean tonight He's like I don't drink.

892
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 2: I'm like you're sober. He's like yeah, I just don't drink.

893
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, you do that sober that this is you.

894
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 3: Minutes he was just he couldn't wrap his head around

895
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 3: it because he had had a couple and.

896
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 1: He was like, wait, wait, wait, you've never been drunk. No, wait,

897
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: wait are you drink?

898
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 2: What do you doing?

899
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: You got to be doing something. I'm like no, I'm

900
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: just being me.

901
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: And then he got Sally. He's like, your fraid I

902
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 3: don't believe you don't. I was messing with him and

903
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 3: he started interrogating everything. It's railed this whole night.

904
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 1: It's just me came.

905
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 2: It's like a vegetarian. It's like, wait, she did you

906
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 2: eat fish? I couldn't stop. And then that's when I

907
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: was like, this dude's the coolest. I loved everything.

908
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 3: And then when we went on tour in London and

909
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: he came with us, but it was like eleven days

910
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 3: together or whatever, and we spent.

911
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: A lot of time together and we're in the upper deck,

912
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: like talking.

913
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:46,439
Speaker 2: To everybody else.

914
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 5: You've known each other for years.

915
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's my Gavin.

916
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 6: I know.

917
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: Who's your celib for a day?

918
00:37:59,440 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 5: I don't know.

919
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know the answer it, but yeah,

920
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 4: I feel like Oprah would be an interesting one because

921
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 4: she knows so many fascinating people and the questions that

922
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 4: she asked and like the information and knowledge that she gets.

923
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 5: I feel like that would be I feel like I

924
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:15,280
Speaker 5: would come back.

925
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 3: If you have their brain to like yeah, yeah, yeah,

926
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 3: I look like I feel like I wouldn't be just

927
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 3: be in the mirror just like looking at myself.

928
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 2: I'd be elon for a day.

929
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: If you take it from that perspective, whose mind do

930
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: you want?

931
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 2: That's crazy?

932
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 1: Oprah? Yeah, for sure, I think that'd be kindest.

933
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: But Oprah Oprah is great because she's she's discovering, right,

934
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: she's unearthing, whereas Elon is the opposite. He's he's moving

935
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 2: forward with literally burrowing holes in the boring company, electric cars,

936
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 2: going to Mars, an amazing video game play like and

937
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: all this stuff. Can you imagine what his dreams are like?

938
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: Oh god, I feel like he dreams when he's awake.

939
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, dreaming machine.

940
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

941
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Well at one more, yeah.

942
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Last question, Let's make it good? Okay, okay,

943
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: Well this is from lindsay.

944
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: Well, you have choices in front of you.

945
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 2: You say, let's make it a good one.

946
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 1: Then you go, well, so.

947
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 3: Make a different one if you don't like you true, okay.

948
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 5: Don't like it for sure?

949
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 2: All right? Well this this is something I think that

950
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 2: anybody who is who tours as much as any of

951
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: us do would be privy to. This coming from Andrew, Hi, mommy,

952
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 2: is I recently got into a long distance relationship. She's

953
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: in Florida, I'm a Connecticut with the hopes of someday

954
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: moving to Florida. Do you guys have any recommendations on

955
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: the best way to make a long distance relationship work?

956
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: Interesting? Did you have to do long distance ones that

957
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: were like true long.

958
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 4: Distance, not where we lived far apart? But yeah, i'd

959
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 4: say with touring, I think. I think what a lot

960
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,439
Speaker 4: lot of people I've heard say, and what I would

961
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 4: try to do is not go more than two to

962
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 4: three weeks before, like without seeing each other, because it

963
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 4: can you can lose that connection and it's hard just

964
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 4: to you know, talk on the phone and update each

965
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 4: other on each other's days. So I think that's the

966
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 4: advice that I had always felt worked, or that I

967
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 4: would hear work with people.

968
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, spend a couple of days there, a couple of weeks.

969
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you can. Obviously it can't always, but pretty consistently.

970
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I think you do longest. I don't.

971
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I meant did a year and a half. She

972
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 3: was in Cali, I was in New York. Is another

973
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 3: thing that's the good thing about that is there on

974
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 3: the same time zone. It's even worse when you're two

975
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 3: different times, right.

976
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's worse.

977
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 3: But she I would say, the thing that really helped

978
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 3: was when you were spending time together, don't make it

979
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 3: feel like a vacation, like really, get to make it

980
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 3: feel like you're dating, you know, like somebody's gonna be

981
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 3: out of town, right, so I'll be like, oh, I

982
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 3: gotta go show you this. You never been younger, maybe

983
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 3: the first time, but then the second time, like just

984
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 3: you know, go to dinner, talk, hang out, spend time.

985
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 3: I think you really do the real stuff that's gonna

986
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 3: that helps you build better. And I think everybody does

987
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 3: a long distance now with FaceTime, he has got such an

988
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 3: upper hand her and I would doing like phone calls

989
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 3: and whatnot. Like I think it's just so different. Yeah,

990
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 3: FaceTime definitely helps with it, but I think make the

991
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 3: time that you spend together feel real, not like playtime.

992
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,280
Speaker 3: And I think it's important.

993
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I think you also have to be super

994
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 2: secure because there's gonna be Yeah it's a long distance,

995
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: like yeah, she's going to go out with her friends. Yeah.

996
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 2: So just like I remember when I first started to

997
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 2: date my wife, Like I would be like, I'm in

998
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: Miami for two days and I call her Friday, and

999
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 2: then she hear from me Sunday and she's like, hey,

1000
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 2: how was it. It's like, oh, she didn't even sweat

1001
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 2: me away. And I think when when I realized how

1002
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 2: cool and secure she was with herself, that's when I

1003
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: that's when you, I think, as a decent human being

1004
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 2: saying well, don't violate that right, like really respectful. Because

1005
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: she's respecting the fact that she knows you're going to

1006
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 2: be a good guy, then you should you you have

1007
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 2: the obligation to be a good guy, right. So I

1008
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 2: think that's when that kind of turned for me where

1009
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, I'm Miami, Miami, and she never

1010
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 2: even gave a second thought. And I wasn't do anything crazy.

1011
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: It was just my show is at midnight. I'm done

1012
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 2: at three, Yeah, because Inami, I'm in Miami. I'm doing

1013
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 2: blow Yeah for sure.

1014
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: So you're up till seventy. I am easy.

1015
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1016
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 3: And I think the flipping that is true too. I

1017
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 3: think this you provide the security is important too. Right

1018
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 3: now you have to you have to like yeah, exactly,

1019
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 3: you have to go over and be like, hey, you

1020
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 3: know I missed you, you know this is where I

1021
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 3: was or whatever.

1022
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 1: You just got to do to make sure that other

1023
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: person's okay with Yes, well, this has been fantastic. Cobe,

1024
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: You're the best. Thank you so much.

1025
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 2: Thanks for making time you guys.

1026
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 5: I love you guys. I love when you come to town.

1027
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 4: I didn't know that you lived here, so now we

1028
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 4: got to see each other more often.

1029
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: But now I'll be jealous. I feel insecure.

1030
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: This is my Miami.

1031
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 5: Will make you feel bad.

1032
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 2: We love to come see you. Now. Are you out

1033
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 2: on the road touring? Are you gearing up for another album?

1034
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 2: What are you working on currently? Yeah?

1035
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 4: I have a new album coming out in July. I

1036
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 4: have more songs coming out before that, so like every

1037
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 4: month until then, and I have some shows here and there.

1038
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 4: But yeah, the album is what I'm working on and

1039
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 4: coming out.

1040
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 2: Is there a working title or I can't.

1041
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 5: Say anything yet? When is this coming out? By the way,

1042
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 5: this will be on a couple of weeks, so I

1043
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 5: can't tell you and.

1044
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 1: You can't tell you all have to say that part.

1045
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine. I have new music coming out this year.

1046
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: This year, yes, and a tour to follow. I assume

1047
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:11,439
Speaker 2: as well.

1048
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 5: There should be. That is the plan they.

1049
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: Want me to but I don't really want to leave

1050
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:16,240
Speaker 1: my house.

1051
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 5: I'm gonna I'm gonna do some touring. It's just not booked.

1052
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: Yet, but I promise I will come see you.

1053
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 5: I know you will like you better come to and

1054
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,879
Speaker 5: I will be there. Thanks for making all of us laugh,

1055
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 5: because you guys are the best.

1056
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 4: You guys are funny and cool, and I had a

1057
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 4: great time to thank your girlfriend.

1058
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 2: Now take care of I'm the most please