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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex Pain's sugarl and

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Speaker 1: you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds,

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Speaker 1: where speaks thoughts it's given upgrades. I know it's giving

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Speaker 1: the girls are getting it together. This is so cute.

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Speaker 1: I love the purple light. I love the new Like

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Speaker 1: somebody was like, oh you all panel that was like,

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Speaker 1: you're taking this Nigeria stuff serious. Why would y'all make

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Speaker 1: the sign green? I said, first of all, yeah, she

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Speaker 1: did that. First of all, it started with everybody talking

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Speaker 1: about our chairs. So we finally got new chairs. But

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Speaker 1: you don't say now they're gonna say they're gonna find something.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: They always gotta say very much something they're gonna find.

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Speaker 1: But I love it. I hope y'all love the new

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Speaker 1: you know, temporary what what? What what? Nobody can see

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Speaker 1: that with me? Okay, good what? And I was like

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Speaker 1: this weet for talking Okay, I thought it's something like happening,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, the thing failed. It was like

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Speaker 1: over further, okay, what do you feel? But you can't

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Speaker 1: see it on the camera. We can just like okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut it out. I don't know, okay, So anyway,

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Speaker 1: So what if you went up to this week girl,

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Speaker 1: my stuff that I'm about to come out with, Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Super excited about that. We're about to go on a

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Speaker 1: long trip, a long journey, long journey. So yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty much preparing to go on our trip. My

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Speaker 1: birthday is coming up. Are you excited? Yeah? Of course,

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Speaker 1: I'm always exciting for me, I know, that's right. So

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Speaker 1: I have been like redecorating my apartment, which I'm super

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Speaker 1: excited about. So I decided that I'm gonna be an

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Speaker 1: organized girl, like you know the girls that buy the

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Speaker 1: say cereal. You know, they have cases for everything. Like

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Speaker 1: I decided that's gonna be me. So I'm going to

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Speaker 1: the container store and I'm about to do the food. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean seeing a whole bunch of those.

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Speaker 1: And my only thing though, is just really lasts probably

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Speaker 1: not I know for me, but it's gonna be a

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Speaker 1: good effort and it's a project that I want to start.

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Speaker 1: So I said, you know, I'm gonna go ahead and

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I feel like I had a

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Speaker 1: really chill week. I feel like we got a lot

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Speaker 1: excited about. Its busybody, you know, blessings. I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: really bro My mom coming out here in a few weeks,

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Speaker 1: gonna leave till September. Mary coming out here, she said,

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Speaker 1: it's a term she leave to September. And now that

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Speaker 1: I'm about to move to like a bigger space, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: she said, she got because my lead's about to be

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Speaker 1: So I just know she about to be really trying

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Speaker 1: extra space, extra room. Oh yeah, she said, it's going downpool.

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Speaker 1: She she wants to be ordered all the Boston market.

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Speaker 1: She loves some fifty Boston markets. Is there, like, do

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Speaker 1: I want to do like all senior citizens like Boston?

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Speaker 1: Stop calling her? Why her name is Barbara? I mean,

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Speaker 1: that is her name. At the end of the day.

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Speaker 1: You I love my mama, but she is, like she

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Speaker 1: probably tell you she has senior citizen. So it's not

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Speaker 1: like it's an insult, I know, but you could just

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Speaker 1: say older person. It just sounds what a difference in

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Speaker 1: calling them an older person in a senior citizen. The

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Speaker 1: Does she have the a R? She does. She actually

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Speaker 1: had me renew it like a few weeks ago. Discounts

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Speaker 1: be for real. Now she got a R. I mean ship,

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Speaker 1: we all god willing, were all gonna be senior citizens.

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Speaker 1: One of that big fat I know that's right. Shout

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Speaker 1: out to Boston Markey dough a arp. We love bar

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Speaker 1: gonna hold it down period. I love some behave. My

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Speaker 1: my mom, I'm gonna watch it. She's waiting for when

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Speaker 1: and Dreda talk about borrow. I was just wondering, y'all

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Speaker 1: the site. She always be reposting everything that I post everything.

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Speaker 1: I have my story hearing from my mom. Next mom,

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Speaker 1: she reposted everything. I know that's right, reposing everything, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think she want to wear that. She she'd

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Speaker 1: That's very much what my mom takes me too. A

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Speaker 1: few weeks ago, they was like, why did you bussy

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Speaker 1: Through lunch right, I'm was like, what the fuck is

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Speaker 1: those were good shirts, A lot of shirts with their stuff,

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Speaker 1: so great pictures. Yeah, the photo shoots that we're gonna

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Speaker 1: do this year gonna be fire facts. I have so

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Speaker 1: many ideas I do. I'm on creative direct No, I

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Speaker 1: haven't even told you. I got to tell you you

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Speaker 1: keep the secret, No, because I told Chad the other day,

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Speaker 1: but yes, yeah, my mom is super supportive. She's definitely

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Speaker 1: gonna be the Houston show. I think it's just because

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Speaker 1: but I'm just like she never listened to the show before. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like their mom, she listens to the show, so she knows. Well, Mama,

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Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, my mom knows what we're talking about.

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Speaker 1: But she's never actually like listened to it, like seeing

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Speaker 1: my uncles and my aunts. Remember when we had that

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Speaker 1: second part. Yeah, they said it was Super Bowl. We

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Speaker 1: is It's so funny that you say that, because remember

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Speaker 1: when we were in Nashville, my uncle was there, and

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Speaker 1: my y'all, my uncle is so sweet, like he I

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Speaker 1: it's like he walked up to say He's like, my

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Speaker 1: sweet baby. I'm not even gonna tell y'all when he

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Speaker 1: calls me. He's been calling me this. It's so embarrassing. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all, but y'all did not start calling

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Speaker 1: me this he calls he calls me mecklen Bird. What's

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Speaker 1: a mech don't know, but that's what he calls me. Hey,

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Speaker 1: my little tittlebug, Mickelen Bird. Teele Bug, tea bug is

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Speaker 1: don't be having nothing, know, not just a T shirt

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Speaker 1: you're talking about I lost three pounds, I said, not

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Speaker 1: that couchie, Not that couchie that you been doing set

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Speaker 1: Spider Man means Michael. She is not fa too long.

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Speaker 1: It's definitely giving overweight. When I posted them pictures of

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Speaker 1: They was only coming about the show, Kucie. That's because

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Speaker 1: Did you see Kobe Bagley's new video where she was like, yeah, huh,

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Speaker 1: I can never do that because the whole world is

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Speaker 1: gonna shut down, bitch, whole world. Shout out to Chloe Banner.

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Speaker 1: That was a cute video, but she was popping that

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Speaker 1: koochie so hard. Charon was about to brain and don't

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Speaker 1: play with me, Bro. I have never seen a coochie

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Speaker 1: pop so hard in my life. Even now, you're lying

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Speaker 1: because she's like srip club exactly. That goes to show

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Speaker 1: you how hard she was popping her couch in the camera.

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Speaker 1: They's so mean, I said, Chloe's getting too low. I

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Speaker 1: don't like when you say it's getting too loud referring

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Speaker 1: I say that because like when I say it's getting

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Speaker 1: not that loud. Speaking of I'm just saying, you gotta

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Speaker 1: what now said when he was on the show BIF Well,

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Speaker 1: I won't say this. If y'all Cochie is getting too

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Speaker 1: loud in a bad way, you have put us on

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Speaker 1: the little Bork acid suppositories. Oh yeah, and I started

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Speaker 1: using and they work so good. They work so good, y'all. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So yes, like a deep PhD. But now I've been

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Speaker 1: using this this brand called love Willness. I really should

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Speaker 1: be doing a free promo because they need to. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: so when I use this brand called love Willness, what

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Speaker 1: is it called the Killer. Yeah, the Killer, and y'all

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Speaker 1: So the word of the day, the word of the week.

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Speaker 1: things I don't want you around me? Because it's not

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Speaker 1: Like to me, it's just not that serious. Yeah, how

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Speaker 1: now how you feel about it? Well, I was gonna

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Speaker 1: about when a woman loves. When a woman loves you,

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Speaker 1: she will also spoil you, help with the bills, and

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Speaker 1: I do agree with that, like if I really fuck

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Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna say that because I definitely don't got it,

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Speaker 1: It is anyways. But no, I do feel like there's

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Speaker 1: just like cause it don't matter, Like I got you anyway.

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Speaker 1: It's being too loud, You're giving owl. But no, But

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Speaker 1: I get what you're saying because it's not even about

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Speaker 1: us being involved romantically. It's more because like that's somebody

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Speaker 1: I've dealt with, and I like, I'll fuck with you.

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Speaker 1: I would never want to see you down bad. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm paying all the bills. So I get what you're saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't you help him out? If you really fuck

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Speaker 1: I don't like nobody there got a financial situation. But

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Speaker 1: have been paying my rent, right, true, but six months

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Speaker 1: He said no, because you financially irresponsible. And at this rage,

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Speaker 1: I can't date no man, that's financially irresponsible. But however,

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Speaker 1: like if you needed to pay your carnal that your

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Speaker 1: it because I could give you a little twelve hundred

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Speaker 1: I know that's right. So yeah, but if I got it,

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Speaker 1: I couldn't continue to date him. I'm not saying that

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Speaker 1: what I was just gonna say, because at this point,

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Speaker 1: that's what I was about to say, because honestly, I

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Speaker 1: they be like, oh, they're gold diggers, they're money hunger there,

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Speaker 1: this and that. But honestly, where we are at in life,

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Speaker 1: So I'm not saying that you have to be worth

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Speaker 1: have to ask me for something, because one thing about me,

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Speaker 1: I never live outside of my means. I never do,

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Speaker 1: and I don't. I don't want to deal with somebody

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Speaker 1: who does that, because why are you living outside of

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Speaker 1: be surrounded with somebody like that. So for me, it's

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Speaker 1: it's about your mindset and your mentality. That's a turn

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Speaker 1: because that makes sense. But but what but if you

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Speaker 1: just don't exactly. That's why all this this new Oh

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00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 1: like apply pressure, I'm not gonna fuck with you, apply picture.

425
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 1: I don't even want to have to say that. Like,

426
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: you already know who I am, You know how I'm coming,

427
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: you know what I expect. I don't hide who I am.

428
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: I don't hide my expectations. Nine times out of ten,

429
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 1: if a dude is trying to holler at me, he's

430
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: either already followed me on Instagram or he knows my

431
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: Instagram or something like that, So you already know what

432
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm about. I don't do mediocre shit for my friends.

433
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 1: I don't do mediocre shit for myself, So why would

434
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: you date me trying to do some mediocre as shit?

435
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: So you already know what I require. So I feel

436
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: like if I have to tell you, oh, get me

437
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: flowers or oh uh, surprise me with a trip, like

438
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: you just not the man for me. Like I know,

439
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 1: like a last situation I was in, I was dealing

440
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 1: with somebody who kind of like didn't really like to

441
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: travel like that, like he didn't care to travel. I

442
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: know that's not gonna work for me. I like to travel.

443
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: I want to go. I feel like, honestly, after we

444
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: get off tour, like I want to take like a

445
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: month long vacation, like seriously, like I want to be

446
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 1: off for literally a month and unplug outside. But no,

447
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. That's the type of shit

448
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: I want somebody to be on like a break. And honestly,

449
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 1: I told myself, I'm gonna start taking myself somewhere like

450
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: one weekend out of the month, not saying it has

451
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: to be a big vacation, but you know, go to

452
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: Malibu for a weekend, go to DC for a weekend,

453
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: like it could be a domestic trip. Like I just

454
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,360
Speaker 1: want to go and do things. So if you don't

455
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: like to do that, then you don't need to approach me. No,

456
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: I agree, Like I think taking solo trips and doing

457
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,159
Speaker 1: stuff alone is so important. Like even when I went

458
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: to Columbia, you know recently or whatever to give I

459
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: sees done, Like I kind of enjoyed being by myself.

460
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 1: You know, a bitch is joining her vacation. When she

461
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: played Tim's in the background, this is the piece that

462
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: you cannot find, and they bitch, I was, this is

463
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: the piece that you cannot sudden, I would have been

464
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: in the video. Get you know what happened to me

465
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 1: this morning's side note bitch hell ha Like, but I'm

466
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: just saying like, I enjoyed yeah out myself, and I

467
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: need to start doing things like that more safer. Yeah,

468
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: So this is what happened to me today. I knew

469
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 1: that I had grew up listening to too many mixtapes

470
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: with the police playing in the background. Y'all. Why was

471
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 1: I driving down the street and it was a whole

472
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: ambulance behind me with their sirens on. I thought it

473
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: was the song. I was like, damn, why they got

474
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: a soiren in this song? Then I looked up. I

475
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: was like, it's the ambulance behind me. I was like,

476
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: oh shit, Like literally they were riding behind me like

477
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: honking their horn, and I really did. I thought it

478
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 1: was the song. There wasn't. Really. I was like, okay, yeah,

479
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 1: I'm get old. That's how I was like, okay, I

480
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 1: need to stop. No, yeah, you do need to stop.

481
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I definitely feel like that's very important. Like

482
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: somebody who has the same interest as you, but applied

483
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: pressure to the person that you like. Let the person

484
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: that you like know what you like I will say,

485
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: I hate when people post I don't like to ask

486
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 1: because it's too close to begging. It's not about asking,

487
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: But how am I supposed to know how to love

488
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: you and your love like which if you don't tell me.

489
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: So if I say, hey, I would like it if

490
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 1: you send me flowers, you know, once a week or something.

491
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: That's not me begging. It's me telling you how I

492
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: like to be appreciated and loved, because how do you know?

493
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: You may date somebody who expects flowers weekly and then

494
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: we break up and you go to the next girl

495
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: and she hates flowers, but you don't know that because

496
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: you didn't talk to her. So I hate the same.

497
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: I don't like to ask because like begging. Now, I

498
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: feel like if I have to ask twice, then we're

499
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 1: getting to begging territory. But the initial conversation, I can

500
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: let you know what I expect and what I like period.

501
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 1: So I have a question if you tell somebody that

502
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: like you want something and then they don't get it

503
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: right away, and then you have to say it again,

504
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: but then they gid it, do they kind of turn

505
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: you off a little bit? Okay? So I am a

506
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: very thoughtful person like my friends. Literally you say something once,

507
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: it is getting done, period. So I have dated men

508
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: that I straight up know that they're forgetful, like they

509
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 1: just have a lot of shit going on, and I'll

510
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 1: be like, hey, don't forget, and they'll be like, oh shit,

511
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: my bad, and they get it, and then I've gave it.

512
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: Some men that I know that you didn't forget. You

513
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: just don't want to get it, and you like trying

514
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 1: to prolong it so you don't have to do it.

515
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: So I think it's all about knowing that person. But

516
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: even still, so even with the person who you know

517
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: that they didn't really want to get it and then

518
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: they still went ahead and got it, are you still

519
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: gonna fuck with them? I mean, yeah, but your time

520
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 1: is limited? Limited pool okay, because why are you acting

521
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 1: like this? I hate stingy people. I don't like sege

522
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 1: because I'm such a giving person, like you can have whatever,

523
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: like you can have whatever, So stingy people and me

524
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: don't mix because but I'm a little I'm a little conditional.

525
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 1: Though I'm not gonna lie what you mean. I'm only

526
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: not seeing you with the people that's not seeing you

527
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: with me. I am dead. It's the truth. I'm like,

528
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:53,959
Speaker 1: you have never seen a sneak. But then again, let

529
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: me not say that what because I don't be singey

530
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: with you at all. That's all I about saying, and

531
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 1: I never mean never at all. Maybe, but I really

532
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: love you though y'all don't understand. Like it's like it's

533
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: like five people that have like a space in my heart,

534
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: the whole that I have on you. It's like literally

535
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: five people that really truly have like a space in

536
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: my heart, and lex is one of them. I hold,

537
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: so lets can get whatever she wanted from me. I'm like, yeah,

538
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: so yeah, but I mean but honestly yeah, with most people,

539
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: though it is on some like well what you mean,

540
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: I'm not giving you this because you didn't get me that.

541
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: It's it's very much like this and it's not even

542
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 1: on some different task sheet. But I just can't see

543
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: because I am a giving person and I'm not gonna

544
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: see her and act like it ain't been times that

545
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to buy a sheet or do sheet for

546
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: somebody who didn't really do she for me. But the end,

547
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: in the back of my mind, it's like, why am

548
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: I going to invest that type of money in you,

549
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: and you wouldn't do it invested in me. See for me,

550
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: I think I'm a little we you know, we're always

551
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: have been different about this. I'm the type of person

552
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: whenever I got it and I can do it, I'm

553
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: gonna do it. I don't expect nothing in return whatever, No,

554
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: not for whoever. Like people that I'm like I fuck with,

555
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: like you know me, I never used to give you

556
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: a birthday gift, not because I didn't want to. It's

557
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: just because I couldn't afford one, you know. So as

558
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: soon as I got some money and then I was like, ooh, bitch,

559
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: I can't wait. I'm gonna get you a good fucking

560
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: gift this year, you know what I'm saying. So it's

561
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: like whenever I got it, I'm my gift this year.

562
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: Oh brother, I can't wait to call your eggs. I'm

563
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: about to text that Nick actually let me text him

564
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: right now. I can't wait till y'all get back together.

565
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: It's strict over there too far. But no, I'm not

566
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: as I won't say that your tip for tap, but

567
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: as far as like giving to people like I don't

568
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 1: expect nothing to return if I if I gift you something.

569
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: It's just something. I want to do it for you

570
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: because I like just making people feel good and I

571
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,239
Speaker 1: like for people to be Maybe it's an ego thing too,

572
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: What what you mean this? Ha's a lot of people

573
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like if I give a homeless person

574
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: twenty dollars, I don't expect nothing big. Yeah, But for me,

575
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: it's more like it's kind of like if I gonna

576
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: feed the homelies or you know, I feel like I

577
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: don't expect anything back from that, right, But honestly, but

578
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: if I do something for you, I don't expect. I

579
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: don't like when I get you like birthday gifts. I

580
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: don't even care if the birthday gift you give me

581
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: is the same bouts or anything like that. Yeah, And

582
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: I was kidding when I said that, but I just

583
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: feel like that she hurt my feelings though, Like I'm

584
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: not gonna lie like if I bought somebody a gift

585
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: for their birthday, and especially if I watching something really nice,

586
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: any of your birthday come around and you don't buy

587
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: me nothing, because I understand that everybody's financial situation needs

588
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: a different right. So just because if I bought you

589
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: a fifteen hundred dollars, Gill. I'm not necessarily expecting you

590
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 1: to buy me a fifteen hundred dollars Gill. I'm not

591
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: good to know. Go ahead. I don't just say good

592
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: to know, deflys to everybody else but you. Hell so

593
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: these are conditions that you was talking about only because

594
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: we pay I know, dollars.

595
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 4: What but it.

596
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: Like if I wat you with eighteen hundred dollars and

597
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: then my birthday comaradi, you can't even give me like

598
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: a card with like a like twenty dollars ten dollars

599
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: gift card in me at least. Yeah, yeah, I always said,

600
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: you know, so tacking when people show up to like

601
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: birthday dinners or something with nothing in hand, like nothing,

602
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: It's just like a card is three dollars my net worth.

603
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: A card is three dollars flowers. Like literally, even when

604
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 1: we took your mama out for her birthday, I showed

605
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: up with a beautiful but like that's what I paid

606
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: for the dinner. We we barbaranted shopping earlier that day,

607
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: so fast barbaranted up on our brunch boots girl, she

608
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: has some pork child, however, she has some brunch boots song.

609
00:31:55,720 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: She put that right, she put that, I pray, I said,

610
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: I pray. I paid for them brush booths. And then

611
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: know what we gotta do since you and my mom's

612
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 1: birthdays on the same day, and obviously we have to

613
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: work this year, but next year we need to go

614
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: on a trip, like a family trip like me, you

615
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: on our mom, like my sister, like a girl's trip.

616
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: But birthdays like yeah, like that would be so fun,

617
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: So we don't do that next year. But anyways, but yeah,

618
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: I just I get from my heart. I don't expect

619
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: anything back. But like I said, maybe sometimes I'm not

620
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: gonna lie. It's kind of like an ego thing for me.

621
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: Though I'm not gonna lie. This is the Leo jumping

622
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: out of me because there was a TikTok that went

623
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: viral of this guy who said, you know, I've been

624
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: married for X amount of years. Whenever I go, if

625
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: you want to feel good, go buy your wife some

626
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: luxury things. He was like, I go to the Gucci

627
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: store and when I walk in there, they know I'm

628
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 1: gonna spend money, and that makes me feel good, you know.

629
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: They they cater to me. That make me feel good,

630
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: and also I get my wife something in the process.

631
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: So to me, that was like more of like an

632
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: ego thing, like you want your ego strokes a little bit.

633
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's right or wrong, because they

634
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: was having a whole debate about that. But for me,

635
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: I like for people to feel like, damn, lex, you

636
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: really fuck with me, like you really that bitch? Y'all

637
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: here you're making that money and I'm like, yeah, I

638
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: got you whatever you need. But it's only like a

639
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: few people that can really get that out of me,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna do whatever for them, and I don't

641
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642
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643
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Speaker 1: don't care like whoever I if I get you something

644
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Speaker 1: and then my birthday come around and you don't give

645
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Speaker 1: me a card. You can't even give me a card.

646
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: I got your card, well, like a ten dollars gift card.

647
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Speaker 1: They need ten dollars. I got you ten dollars. Old

648
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671
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Speaker 1: come on this topic of dating men, money, all this

672
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: stuff there was something else that actually went viral on

673
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: the other day. We go calm down, calm because you

674
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: ain't smiling over there. You better show them pearly whites smile.

675
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: Smile right though. Oh I okay, So I wanted to

676
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: talk about this because it wouldn't viral and everybody's been

677
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: talking about it, and I actually had a good conversation

678
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 1: with my homeboy about it. So she was basically saying

679
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: in the video, stop moving to Atlanta. Your husband isn't here.

680
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: And she was saying, you know, the guys here, they're

681
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: either bisexual, they're either down low, or if they are

682
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: one hundred percent straight, they have you know, ten people

683
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: that they're dealing with because the ratio of men to

684
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: women is so off. So then another lady had stitched

685
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: the video and she was like, yeah, I agree, I

686
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: moved to Charlotte, I think she said. She said she

687
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: moved to Charlotte, you know, because Atlanta the dating scene

688
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: was too bad, and she moved to Charlotte and it

689
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: was just not it was just not good. And her

690
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: dating life has got better since she moved to Charlotte.

691
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: So I set all this to say, first of all,

692
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 1: this is where y'all go wrong. Yet, why are you

693
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: moving anywhere for a man? She says. She moved to

694
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: Atlanta to find her little man. It wasn't happening. Then

695
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 1: she moved to Charlotte. Why are y'all changing your locations

696
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 1: for a man? To me, that's when you're getting I'm

697
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 1: not moving nowhere for a man. The only thing that

698
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,800
Speaker 1: can make me move is money either cause, and I

699
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: am just a person. I believe in fates and things

700
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: like that. Though I'm not gonna say that I wouldn't

701
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: move somewhere for a man that I'm dating. Yeah, I'm dating.

702
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: I would never if somebody told me, oh, girl, DC

703
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: is what a nigga's at, I'm not gonna be like,

704
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: oh well, let me pack off DC. What No, Like

705
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: if I was in a relationship and my man was

706
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: like my man, my man, because baby, I would pack

707
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: my shop the Houston right now. But that's what I'm

708
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: saying is to more somewhere in the hopes of a

709
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: man is all wrong. Now as far as the dating

710
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: life in Atlanta, Yeah, your husband ain't here. He aint

711
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: he ain't here. And I say that because I okay,

712
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: So let me also say, you know, he might be.

713
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 1: I say that by our husband's ain't here. Our husbands

714
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: ain't here, but also your husband might be here. But

715
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: I'm keep it fair. Your wife ain't here either. Let's

716
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: keep it fair. Let's keep it fair because I'm tired.

717
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: You know what. I'm probably gonna regret this. But we

718
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: talk about men all day every day. But a lot

719
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,479
Speaker 1: of you bitches is full of shit too. I said,

720
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: God damn it, I city a lot of you bitches

721
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: isna Like, yeah, I have to say it because you

722
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 1: know what, Me and you have private conversations and we

723
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: be like the fuck is you hold oom? Bro? Let

724
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: me say something. Weird. Bitches be weirdos, bitches be what's

725
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,320
Speaker 1: the word I'm looking for? No, it's not even to

726
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,240
Speaker 1: pick me. They feel entitled. A lot of women feel entitled.

727
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: Let me say this. We have built this platform on you, baby.

728
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: We love a bd B, we love to go out,

729
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: we love to have a niggas spend on it. But

730
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 1: that's because we know who we are, and we know

731
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: who we what we bring to the table A B

732
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: P B exactly. So for to say that, to say

733
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Speaker 1: that B emphasis on the BP saying okay, uh so

734
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: B BP A big, big, big big. So with that

735
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 1: being said, I feel like I've always had these standards

736
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 1: because I know who I was, I know where I

737
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: was going, and I know what I brought to the table.

738
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 1: A lot of these women out here be demanded so

739
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: much with nothing, literally nothing. And when I say nothing,

740
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: I mean you ain't got no personality. Huh. Yeah, I'm

741
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: mad because you all ain't got no personality. You holes

742
00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 1: can't carry a conversation, y'all don't keep y'allself together. The

743
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,439
Speaker 1: walk in the bathroom, you gotta ring around your sink

744
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: or ring around tool. Yeah, we're talking about loud. You

745
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: got this, it's getting too loud. Not the club they got,

746
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So I'll just be like, how

747
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: and this is not just directed towards women, it's the

748
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: men too. I'm putting everybody, but I'm saying, like, let's

749
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: not all just say it's just the men. I mean,

750
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: it's just women out here struggling, because I do feel

751
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: like it's hard for men. It is a trash ass

752
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: place today period. The dating pool out here, mhm, it's

753
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: so trash. It is pen side of chlamydia, the side

754
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: of that club, you know, what I'm saying, Wait, is

755
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: the clup gonna exactly know? But it got all that.

756
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: It just it's so trash dating out here. Like, first

757
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: of all, let's talk about the ratio, the ratio of

758
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: me and to wo meen. Isn't it like it's like

759
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: seventeen to one? Oh? I thought it was like seventeen

760
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: I read, but I read something. But it was a

761
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: long time ago, so I don't know if it's changed now,

762
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: but I know it was that for a while in

763
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: a certain county. Bitch, probably all the counties seven because

764
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 1: them niggas be in every county, So seventeen to one.

765
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: That's crazy as fuzz, right, so everybody out here, right,

766
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: everybody out here be fucking the same niggas. Everybody be

767
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 1: fucking with the same niggas. And because of that, because

768
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,439
Speaker 1: it's not that many niggas, I feel like the men

769
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: that do live out here, especially the ones that are

770
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 1: well off, that are successful, they have money, they just

771
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: feel like they could do whatever the fuck they want

772
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: because they know that they like the minority. And then

773
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: a lot of the women allow that because they don't

774
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 1: have shit, they don't be having sit And that's about

775
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: to say a lot of the beaches are not allowed

776
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: the sheep because they don't be having she going on.

777
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 1: Lex is so respectful, she'd be kind of out with

778
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 1: me and not like these beaches because period, So like,

779
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 1: they don't be having nothing going on. The should be

780
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: requiring all types of ship from niggas. Don't even be

781
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 1: having a postle PC, don't be having a card nothing.

782
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 1: I was actually shocked when I moved here and I

783
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: was about my one lash and some yeasies. They're gonna

784
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: have them. They don't have the easy easy phone runners period.

785
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: They always gonna have the Gucci slides to a bad

786
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: bitch love the you know not the Gucci slides, the one,

787
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: the throng ones, the red with the look they feel like,

788
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 1: you get a bitch one pair of Gucci slipper. She'd

789
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: be like, I require the world and a fool. Yes,

790
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: they love never full, but everybody, bro, why is you

791
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: when the club would have never fall on? You're going

792
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,359
Speaker 1: to jail, missy. They'd be like this, excuse me, Yes,

793
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: I require the most. I require the most and be

794
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 1: hitting everybody. If you're in the club would have never

795
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: fall on. Let me tell you something. I see you

796
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: you're going to jail. You're going to fucking jol But

797
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like, I feel like as bad

798
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: as the dating is out here for men, it is

799
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: for women as well. But like I said, it's hard

800
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: for us because you know what I will say, there

801
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: are a very few pool of men that are actually,

802
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: like really really good men like they are, but I

803
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: feel like it is hard for them because the piggies

804
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: are slim for them as well, you know what I'm saying. Now,

805
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: I do believe there's I always say this. I think

806
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: there's more good women than there are good men. I

807
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 1: do believe that. But it's still a lot of ain't

808
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: ship people out here. So just like that, though it's

809
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: the home of the ancient people, it's the home of

810
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: the ancient people. Saw they saying, Oh your husband out

811
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: here with the wives aren't here either. But then again,

812
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like sometimes people, some

813
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 1: people just don't have look in certain areas. So I

814
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,879
Speaker 1: feel like maybe with us, like maybe we just haven't

815
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: had no look. Oh I know, we ain't had no look.

816
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: Every nigga I dated out here, I won't say they've

817
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,919
Speaker 1: been trash, but it's just been like whatever I could

818
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: do without. But I know my words. I can't think

819
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: of one nigga that iday instance I've been in and

820
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I missed him, like I feel you

821
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: know that I never do I miss him Like damn,

822
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: that was a good kid. Yeah, I let him go.

823
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: I let a good one go to be a chill.

824
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 1: Now the pool, Big Pool, I can honestly say that

825
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: I've never it's the BP episode big Pussy. I feel

826
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: like that should be one of my ex names, Big Pool.

827
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not doing this with you today,

828
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: not Lord, give it to Jesus, give it to GS.

829
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,479
Speaker 1: Means y'all is your girl XP and it's your girls

830
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 1: ray in the cold. I think a lot of people

831
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: don't realize the physical symptoms that come with being depressed,

832
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 1: like headaches, teeth grinding, even digestive issues like a lot

833
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: of things come with being stressed out. Yes, absolutely, so

834
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: that's why you need better help. It's online therapy that

835
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: offers video, phone and even live chat sessions, and you

836
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,520
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837
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: And if you don't, you know, vio with your counselor

838
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: the first time you can always get another one. They

839
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: make it super easy for you. Yes, I know me personally,

840
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: like I'm a overthinker. Everything stresses me out. I have

841
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 1: anxiety really really bad. So I was like, you know what,

842
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: let me try this. It's always been a financial thing

843
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: for me. And I was like, you know what, Better

844
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Speaker 1: Help is affordable. You know, we have a code with

845
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Speaker 1: them now and they also offer financial aid. So I

846
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Speaker 1: was able to try it out, and it's helped me

847
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,360
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848
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Speaker 1: under control, my stress is down. So everybody needs to

849
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: give it a try. Yeah, absolutely, I mean same for me.

850
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: I was always really apprehensive about doing therapy, just because

851
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't I didn't know about going into

852
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: an office and meeting somebody in person. But one thing

853
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Speaker 1: good thing about Better Help. I started it during the pandemic,

854
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Speaker 1: and you know, I would always talk to my counselor

855
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Speaker 1: online and it was just really easy and convenient for me,

856
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857
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862
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: So we're gonna stay on this topic of like dating

863
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 1: is shit. So today we're gonna talk about to get

864
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: that out, like because I'm mad today. Ship motherfucker's got

865
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: me fucked up today. I'm on everybody ass today. Everybody

866
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:12,240
Speaker 1: can get it, you bitches, you niggas, toddlers, uh singing

867
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: citizens as Drea would say, ah, y'all gonna get this work,

868
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: my mama, Like, now, why am I.

869
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: You?

870
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: I did not say they can get it. They can.

871
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: So anyway, tell what you said, I love Barbara down,

872
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: don't tell her talking about her RP car No, I said,

873
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to use it. So first of all,

874
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about forcing sexual chemistry today because

875
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: this is what goes on. Tell me you know what,

876
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: this is what I'm not gonna do. Y'all know the

877
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 1: memes that old people saying with the curse of writing,

878
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 1: and it'll be like a picture in the middle that

879
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: be like shining and shit. No, Barbara, You're going to jail.

880
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: Stop making for a barbar she trying anyway. No, I'm

881
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: not stop saying that I'll be making for an U.

882
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,240
Speaker 1: I don't, y'all. I love my mama. She's just funny

883
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: to me because like she just be learned, like she

884
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: just learned how to tax like about five years ago.

885
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: Please call me girl, go to hell. So I want

886
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 1: to talk about forcing sexual chemistry because that's another problem

887
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: with the dating scene. Now. I can't speak from, you know,

888
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: a man's point of view because I'm not super super aggressive,

889
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:40,280
Speaker 1: Like I only get sexual whenever we've made that connection

890
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: like that, we have that kind of rapport where we

891
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,879
Speaker 1: talk to each other like that. Let me tell y'all

892
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: what recently happened to me. So I had met a guy.

893
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: He was definitely given BDB energy, very attractive, he was

894
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: older right up my alley, like everything was perfect. So

895
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,439
Speaker 1: we were like texting one day and he was just like, Oh,

896
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: I can't wait to kiss on them lips. Oh I

897
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: can't wait to suck on your neck and lock on

898
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: them toes and suck that nat cap. Well he didn't

899
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: say all that, but y'all know what I'm getting at.

900
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: Why are y'all being so sexual? But I just feel

901
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 1: like this men, I just like I'm speaking to the

902
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: man right now, because y'all need to die that shit back. Okay,

903
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: let a woman let you know that she's into you.

904
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: For me, if I'm like into you and I'm feeling

905
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: you like sexually, when I'm on a day, like I

906
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: start being kind of touchy philly, when I'm laughing and

907
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking, I'm putting my hand like I just get

908
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: a little touchy phelly.

909
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 6: I do.

910
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: Exactly. That's what it's given because when I when I

911
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: like you, I cannot keep my hands off of you.

912
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: But I don't know that until I've spent time with you.

913
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: So to be texting this person that I had literally

914
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: just met and you're already making like sexual in windows,

915
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: I fuck no, that's why my plan period. So when

916
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: you're doing all this to me, it really turns me off.

917
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: Like sexual chemistry should be now we do, we're gonna

918
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: were gonna make one up, were gonna have one ready,

919
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: We're gonna have one ready. But I feel like sexual

920
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: chemistry should be natural. Let that develop, And honestly, I

921
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 1: feel like in that area for the most part, I'm

922
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: not speaking for everybody. I can only speak for me,

923
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: and I know that you're like this as well. It

924
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: has to grow. It has to grow. So if you're

925
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: like starting, what was that? I got scared? Amen? Brother,

926
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: that's what we get for talking ship.

927
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 5: That's all right, y'all, rain down, no man.

928
00:49:54,360 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: Okay, amen, Okay. So anyways, what was I saying? Oh,

929
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: like I feel like forcing sexual chemistry, you're like doing

930
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 1: too much. So when you're dealing with somebody, you have

931
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 1: to let that ship grow. You have to let that

932
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: ship like you don't cook a little bit bit. Men

933
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: have no fucking patience. But you don't understand that turns

934
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: women off. Like if I'm on a date with someone

935
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: and you're just being overly sexual and doing too much, like,

936
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: let me open the door for you to that, like,

937
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:30,439
Speaker 1: be a gentleman. Be a gentleman. How do you feel

938
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: about that? Don't try to force me. I don't force nothing, right,

939
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: I don't force relationships. Ponytail, Oh I get you see

940
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: this motherfucker right here? This is not a baby hair,

941
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:56,280
Speaker 1: bitch grown hair. This is given but insane. So anyways,

942
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't force nothing. I just don't believe in forcing relationships,

943
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 1: forcing situations with people. I feel like, as a woman,

944
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: when a woman wants to have sex with you, you

945
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: will know. Literally, you're going to know. It's the vibes

946
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: are underdonable. Sorry, the vibes are undeniable. You're gonna know

947
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: what want mean? What the vibes are undeniable. I told you,

948
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 1: y'all she'd be moaning. Don't even know it. You gonna

949
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 1: know when somebody want to have sex with you. Yeah,

950
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: if they don't, just wait, just chill, if you chill

951
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 1: and sit, Wait, did I a girl wants you more

952
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,479
Speaker 1: when she feels like, damn, he's not pressed for Because

953
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 1: if a nigga is pressed for the pussy, it makes

954
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: me feel like you just thirsty, and it gives that

955
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:52,879
Speaker 1: you're giving this meat to everybody. Yes, you doing meat

956
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: to meet with everybody. I like women like to feel exclusive.

957
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: Let me say something really quick and I'm gonna tie

958
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 1: this in. So crazy right now, So a documentary just

959
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: dropped on Netflix about Abercrombie and Fitch. Right, So, if

960
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 1: y'all remember Abercrombie and Fitch, how crazy it was when

961
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 1: we were in high school. Like, if you didn't have

962
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,960
Speaker 1: on Abercrombie and Fitch, you were not that girl, You

963
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: were not that nigga. You are not nothing. So basically

964
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But basically it came out

965
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: that the guy that was the CEO, how he marketed

966
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 1: it was like exclusivetivity, like exclusive. If you weren't white

967
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: and looked like a model, an abbed up or a

968
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: skinny blonde hair chick, you shouldn't be wearing Abercrobie and Fitch.

969
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: You couldn't work for the company. So I say all

970
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 1: that to say, people like to feel exclusive, you know

971
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It got so popular because people want

972
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: to feel like they're part of a society that nobody

973
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: can be a part of. Feeling exclusive was one of

974
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: the best feelings ever. I don't care what nobody say.

975
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: Why do you think people go to the club and

976
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: they go to sections only? Now people will not go

977
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: to I do that. If I go to the club

978
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: and I don't have a section, I'm not going. People

979
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: like to feel exclusive. So it's the same thing in dating.

980
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: So if I feel like we're on a date, a

981
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:09,879
Speaker 1: first date, and you're like being so sexual, I feel like, okay,

982
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,359
Speaker 1: this is what you do with everybody. I don't feel

983
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: special anymore. So it makes my interest just go down,

984
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: you know what he said? Anyways, So I feel like

985
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 1: that song. So I feel like the feeling of feeling

986
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: exclusive is what people want. Cause on your the first day,

987
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: you're pretty much like, this is the audition process. So

988
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: you're showing people like, oh, this is what I want

989
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: to show you, this is what I want to do,

990
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: and you know, how can I make you like me?

991
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: So everybody kind of does the same thing on first dates.

992
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: You know, it's like an audition process. So on your

993
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: audition process, you're not pulling out all the stops. You're

994
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: not pulling out all the stops. So I feel like

995
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: forcing that sexual shit too soon, you scaring them. Yeah, facts,

996
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that. If a dude forced

997
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: his sexual chemistry with me on a first day, I'm

998
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 1: not gonna keep talking to him. I'm not either, Like,

999
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 1: I just feel like you're thirsty and you just be

1000
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: trying to get anybody pussy. I really do feel like that,

1001
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:19,200
Speaker 1: and he probably do. Ain't hard to get anybody pussy

1002
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: out here, really, and I honestly I don't. I always

1003
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 1: say this, I hate I hate people who are extremely

1004
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 1: I hate people who are extremely horny, Like, why are

1005
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 1: you so horny when you part of the hand No

1006
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: you're you are the horniest person in this room. No,

1007
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm man, you low throwing shage. You were like a boat,

1008
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: all right, But I keep it to myself. No you don't, Yes,

1009
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: I do. I don't ever sweet horny shit. I don't

1010
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: ever post horny shit. I say horns to you exactly

1011
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 1: because I keep it to myself, because I have couth.

1012
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: You got cool with my words today, I'm doing you

1013
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: got cooth. But on eighty five, you know we known

1014
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: as the ass eaters. Somebody point me to the best

1015
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: ass eater. First of all, let me just say I

1016
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: watched that clip the other day, the Booty whole song.

1017
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: That's a fucking classic. And I don't know why less you,

1018
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: I don't know why I agree to that. I have

1019
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: never ate ass in my love being said that Boody,

1020
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: that Booty a classic. That's a fucking classic. You know

1021
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 1: what Chance told me one day? What he said, Yeah,

1022
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: when y'all need this song, any lost thing he wanted

1023
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: to sign, y'all, I was like, I don't see it,

1024
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: but I'm a first the booty hall really got assigned.

1025
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: He said, you know, I don't see what you see

1026
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: and look at us now. It's too loud, child, love

1027
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: us down now, he was like that booty, he was like,

1028
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 1: he don't, this is so funny, but no, Yeah, I

1029
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 1: just feel like stop for yeah, stop forcing ship, let

1030
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: things wrong. I feel like let the woman you know,

1031
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 1: let you know whatever she's ready to take it to

1032
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 1: that like y'all introducing that send me a selfie. Stop

1033
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,720
Speaker 1: asking bitches to send you picture, send me a picture

1034
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:19,440
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Stop doing that. You scaring me holes, Like

1035
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 1: we're literally putting on so much game right now, Like,

1036
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 1: stop saying sexual things that she's never said anything sexual

1037
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 1: to you. Stop asking her for pictures. Like if a

1038
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 1: girl is interested in you, she's gonna send you news

1039
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: up provoked. But what if I don't want, Like, I

1040
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 1: don't know, what if I don't want the holes scaring

1041
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,320
Speaker 1: the hole? I mean, you scaring the wifeies too. You

1042
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 1: scared the pigmies. You scaring everybody when you text a

1043
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: woman and start like you can scare a pick me

1044
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: as a man, you can't. You can't yo, pick me,

1045
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 1: pick me, choose me? Like what mean I like whatever

1046
00:56:55,360 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 1: you like? Remember from coming to America? What's tever? You like? Move?

1047
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: You can't care the kidneys, but you can scare the

1048
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: wifies and the hubs. Okay, what's up y'all with your

1049
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: girl Lex And it's sugarl dre and the cold. Y'all

1050
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Speaker 1: So now we're gonna break down. We're gonna do a

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Speaker 1: real quick breakdown today of the show The Ultimatum on Netflix.

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00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 1: So basically this show was about couples giving their incident.

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00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: There are significant others ultimatum like are we gonna get

1074
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: married or not? If not, let's move on. Shaw was

1075
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: a great show. I feel like it really got into

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00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: like relationships and seeing the ends of relationships. Like people

1077
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: always want to be relationship goals, but when you really

1078
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: look at a relationship, especially when you're living with someone

1079
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 1: and it's coming from somebody who lives with their X before, like,

1080
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: it's fucking work. So I just want to say that

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00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: first off. So I'm gonna talk about giving people ultimatums.

1082
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: Why would you give somebody an ultimatum. If you have

1083
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: to give somebody an ultimatum, they don't want to do it.

1084
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: Like if I have to tell you, hey, do this

1085
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: or I'm gonna leave, They're most likely going to leave.

1086
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 1: I'm a person. If you give me an ultimatum, I'm

1087
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: gonna do the opposite of what you want me to

1088
00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: do because you got me fucked up. I wouldn't give

1089
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 1: nobody an ultimatum every right, Yeah, then I feel like

1090
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm like controlling your free will. Mm hm right, Like

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00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: you said, like if you do it, you're not doing

1092
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: it because you really want to do it. But I

1093
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: gave you a decision to make. Like, Okay, either you're

1094
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: gonna do this, so you're gonna lose me. Well, Nigga

1095
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: might not necessarily want to lose you, right, but he

1096
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be happy though, right. So that was exactly

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00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: what happened with one couple. Okay, So there's a couple

1098
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: on there called His name was Za and his girl's

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00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 1: name was Ray. So Ray was a girl that gave

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00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: him the ultimatum. She was like, marry me or what?

1101
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: But I knew something was off with her in the beginning.

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00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 1: They were like, what do you love about day and

1103
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: she was like she couldn't name nothing. So fast forward.

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01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: By the end of the show, she broke up with him,

1105
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: but he was like, I want to marry you. I

1106
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: want to marry you. I want to marry you. But

1107
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 1: it wasn't that he wanted to marry her. He just

1108
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 1: didn't want to lose her because that was all he knowed,

1109
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 1: Like that was all he knew. He didn't have a

1110
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: lot of family. He was kind of like dependent on

1111
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: her emotionally, and that's another thing. They was all between

1112
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: the ages of like twenty three to like the women,

1113
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: I'll say twenty three to like twenty eight. They had

1114
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 1: one guy on there who was like thirty. His name

1115
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: was Nate. He was trying to get down with anybody.

1116
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 1: He gave his girlfriend the ultimatum. He was like, marry

1117
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Speaker 1: me and have kids, and.

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01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 2: She was like no.

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01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: The girl they didn't even get past the first episode

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Speaker 1: because he ended up proposing to her and she said no, no,

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Speaker 1: she said yes. But the only reason he proposed to

1122
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Speaker 1: her is because the girls that he thought was gonna

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Speaker 1: pick him didn't end up picking him. Because the purpose

1124
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 1: of the show is they're supposed to pick somebody else

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01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: to live with for three weeks and live together and

1126
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: see if this is the person I want or do

1127
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 1: I want somebody else. So everybody that he thought was

1128
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: gonna pick him didn't end up picking him. So he

1129
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 1: ended up proposing to his girlfriend. He wasn't the catch nade.

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Speaker 1: It was giving You wasn't that girl I got. I

1131
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: woke up and you was still not that grul So yeah, nay.

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Speaker 1: The only reason he proposed to his girlfriend because he

1133
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: saw another couple get proposed first girl. It's just a

1134
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: fucking miss. You have to watch it. It's so it's

1135
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 1: full of drama. Y'all know, I love Miss, And honestly,

1136
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 1: I feel like giving people a ultimatum is the corniest

1137
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: shit ever. It is like, because at the end of

1138
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 1: the day, somebody don't want to be with you. I mean,

1139
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 1: you have people time to grow. Y'all are in y'all's twenties.

1140
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: That one girl on the show was literally twenty three.

1141
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 1: This girl, April, Oh my god. April was so like,

1142
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, I have to be married. I have

1143
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: to have kids right fucking now, like I have to.

1144
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: And her boyfriend was just kind of like. He ended

1145
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: up dating the girl Ray, which they didn't end up

1146
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:04,919
Speaker 1: working out because Ray got a girlfriend now hot the girl,

1147
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: the tea was hot, the tea was hot girl. A

1148
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: lot just went on. But I feel like when you

1149
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: put pressure on people that chases them away. Like sometimes

1150
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: people just want to grow with you. Like if you're

1151
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: twenty three, twenty four, twenty five, you're still growing. I'm

1152
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: thirty two and I'm still fucking growing. I mean I

1153
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: feel like you're literally gonna grow until you die, right exactly.

1154
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 1: So the Ultimatum on Netflix is such a good show.

1155
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 1: But stop giving people ultimatums. Yeah, they should be trained.

1156
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: I wish your nigga wood m like a Keechen Cabney.

1157
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 1: You and two changes are going to jail locking both ya,

1158
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: that's what you say. Two trains be saying some wild shit.

1159
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 1: But that was like a good bar if you think

1160
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 1: about it. And I wish your nigga wood like a

1161
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Speaker 1: Keachen Cabney to change. Why think aboudy this deep? That

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Speaker 1: was deep? That was some profile she Would you have

1163
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: thought about that? Would you have said that? Yeah? Exactly.

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Speaker 1: But you know they used to call me no, okay,

1165
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Speaker 1: they did not used to call you ye, shout out

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Speaker 1: to chains. What's up y'all at your girl x k

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Speaker 1: now we're gonna get into the the that I hate

1185
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: because what is going on? That was given Niki, You're

1186
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: going to jail because you know, I hate when people

1187
01:04:55,680 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 1: do that. I like, when what is happening? What is happening?

1188
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 1: You have been honestly, you have been laughing this whole episode,

1189
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 1: and it's been so hard for me to focus. What

1190
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 1: guys like, I'll just been talking to you like this,

1191
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 1: I'll just see them should responsive? Okay, So my bop

1192
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: of the week, So y'all know, my favorite artist I

1193
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: say this all the time is Tiana Major nine. So

1194
01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 1: she dropped a project recently. One of my bops was

1195
01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: already on there that I talked about. It was hold on,

1196
01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm pulling it up, y'all. It's called Trypiece. I made

1197
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: that my bop a week a few weeks ago, and

1198
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 1: she actually dropped a very very small EP. So I

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01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: think my girl is in love. When I listen to music,

1200
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's something that you're going through right now.

1201
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:55,439
Speaker 1: So she has one song on their Call on God

1202
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: and she was just like, I love my nigga on God.

1203
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: Basically that's what she's saying, like, whatever I got you

1204
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 1: on going, Yeah, it's not hood at all. You know.

1205
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: She's very R and B. But she has a song

1206
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Speaker 1: called two Theater featuring Smino, and it's definitely giving summer vibes.

1207
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 1: I love it. She's basically talking about like being in

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Speaker 1: a car with your nigga and y'all just listening to

1209
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: good music and y'all vibing out. It's such a summer

1210
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 1: vibe song. It's just a feel good you know. Like

1211
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 1: the project is very short, it's only three songs and

1212
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 1: an outro, but I feel like she got somebody. She's

1213
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 1: definitely feeling right now. But either way, that's the vibes

1214
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Speaker 1: me on this summer. We outside and we with our

1215
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: booze period, cause you can do both simultaneously. That's another

1216
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Speaker 1: word for y'all. Ass I have been educated this episode. Okay,

1217
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 1: what's your Bob? So Tiana Major nine fool Me Once

1218
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 1: EP A two seater featuring Smino. It's about period. That's

1219
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 1: why I was beastly rocking. I don't know. Oh that

1220
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 1: album's so hard. Thirty I don't know mind thirty is

1221
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: definitely not starting. They would be mama so yes. So

1222
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 1: he has this song which, like I guess, kind of

1223
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 1: be gonna viral on so called What's my Name? Yeah,

1224
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: the same my Name sample. Yes, it's with Queen Naja.

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01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 1: I thought was to hold my Hands, Oh, with Queen

1226
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 1: Naja and Coeenly Ray. Yes. So it's so funny though,

1227
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: because he, like, I guess a statement had came out

1228
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: like beyond the song, you like, she talked at driving

1229
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 1: to pull up the partition. Now, miss Mama, you know

1230
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: you get down, you know you get down. But she

1231
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 1: said clean that ship, period, and guess what he did. Indeed,

1232
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 1: because if Beyonce said don't ever stay dick, I wouldn't say.

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01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. I don't even know what that is,

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01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: ma'am said, one never heard of it, never heard of it.

1235
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:07,320
Speaker 1: When the queen speaks, you listen, so what that's the

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01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:16,560
Speaker 1: words you choose? That is so dirty? Gotta whispreae but no.

1237
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 1: Cardi B just dropped a little adrill song too, and

1238
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 1: it's fire. It's called shake It. It's with some other

1239
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 1: don't I'm sorry, I don't know the artist's name, but

1240
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:27,560
Speaker 1: they're all like from New York and it's fire like

1241
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:31,559
Speaker 1: I love when Cardi B be on her like gutta ship,

1242
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:33,640
Speaker 1: like don't forget like Cardi you know she you know

1243
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 1: what she'd be doing her She popped, Meg dropped a

1244
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:43,080
Speaker 1: little snippy playing with my girl. She she ashof, Well

1245
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 1: she didn't drop it yet, she dropped, and I tweeted,

1246
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 1: let me say this, I think a lot of people

1247
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:52,680
Speaker 1: forget about but you still gotta watch these sheep exactly.

1248
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 1: It's given me the whole verse action was given my

1249
01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: life story in my life, well, let's let me say

1250
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 1: this about Meg, because a lot of people were talking

1251
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 1: about her. Flow was still the same, and Meg knew

1252
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 1: what she was doing. When you have a vision for yourself,

1253
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:11,080
Speaker 1: you know what you're doing. You gotta make those pop records.

1254
01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 1: You gotta do this if you want the awards and

1255
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 1: the accolades, and you want the endorsements and you want

1256
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 1: to make money. Mag gott a fucking deal with Cheetos, bruh,

1257
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:20,680
Speaker 1: and she had one with her pots, Like you know

1258
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:22,479
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like she knew what she was doing.

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01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 1: But now she can really rap and do what she

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01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 1: wants to do now because the fan base is there.

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01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: Once you solidify your fan base and you got it,

1262
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:31,800
Speaker 1: you can do whatever the fuck you want to do.

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01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 1: So everybody I was talking about her, she come and

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01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,519
Speaker 1: Tina Snow is back, period and I'm here for it

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01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 1: exactly period. So yes, so y'all know. Now it's time

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01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: to get into our favorite segment, which is pour your

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01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: heart out. Do you have any questions. I don't feel

1268
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: like I need to do my radio like the radio choice.

1269
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: If you have any questions, make sure you send them

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01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:02,200
Speaker 1: in to ask for mine gmail dot com. That's as

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01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 1: K p O R and my n d s at

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01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:09,720
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. Let us know if we you know,

1273
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:18,680
Speaker 1: or go ahead take it away. Damn they're gonna be like, oh,

1274
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 1: this loud bitch bag. I'm like, y'all, what's y'all? All

1275
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 1: right now? Okay? Question one? Hey y'all. I'm an EMT

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01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:33,280
Speaker 1: in Georgia. When I was doing my student clinicals. On

1277
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 1: my first day, I met this fine paramedic. After talking

1278
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: for a week, we ended up having sex and it

1279
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 1: was amazing. Everything between us was perfect for a month,

1280
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 1: and then he randomly ended things between us. Come to

1281
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: find out, he has a girlfriend who was out of

1282
01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: the country for medical school for six months and Cissy

1283
01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 1: Pool gave him a pass to do whatever, but she

1284
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 1: came back and he had to dead everything. I saw

1285
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 1: him at the hospital and it was like some movie shit.

1286
01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: We both just looked at each other and smiled. We

1287
01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 1: started texting it again, but then his girlfriend texted me

1288
01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 1: three days untwo us rekindling and said, Blank isn't who

1289
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 1: you think he is. And I know you don't want

1290
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 1: no drama behind a nigga. You let fuck in record time.

1291
01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm not threatening you, I'm warning you to fall back.

1292
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 1: After I received that text, I never heard from him

1293
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 1: or her again after that. All of my friends told

1294
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 1: me to leave the situation alone, but I'm a leo

1295
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 1: and I couldn't let that shit go, so I called him.

1296
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: He works night shift, so I knew when to call,

1297
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 1: but the nigga was actually at the crib with her.

1298
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,920
Speaker 1: We ended up talking, and I let him know that

1299
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 1: I just got my license and I was gonna apply,

1300
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:36,560
Speaker 1: but this man had told me, I'm happy for you,

1301
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:38,960
Speaker 1: but I think it's best if you don't, because my

1302
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: girl actually works here on night shift. Y'all. His bitch

1303
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 1: works at the same service. Apparently she knows my name

1304
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: and what I look like, But I know nothing about

1305
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 1: this woman, not even what she looks like, so I

1306
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 1: can't even keep my head on swivel. Would y'all still

1307
01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:55,040
Speaker 1: work there and get to the bag and ignore them

1308
01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: and act like nothing else happened, or would you say

1309
01:11:57,479 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 1: face and apply to work somewhere else. Honestly that you

1310
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 1: made it weird for no reason because he told you

1311
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 1: he wanted to leave you alone. I don't even know

1312
01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:12,640
Speaker 1: why you called him like you text him, the girlfriend

1313
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 1: text you back. You should have did it again. That

1314
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:16,840
Speaker 1: ain't no you know what it is some leo shit,

1315
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 1: But I don't have a big, huge ego when it

1316
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: comes to shit like that. Like if a nigga leave

1317
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: me alone and that's what you choose, Hey, I don't

1318
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:25,719
Speaker 1: feel less about myself because I'm that bitch, I would

1319
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 1: move on very happily. Thank you, So girl, just move on.

1320
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 1: I feel like if your safety isn't like you feel

1321
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: like you're not safe there, I would move on. But

1322
01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 1: I would just work, mind your business, leave them alone,

1323
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 1: stop contacting him, stop contacting her, or whatever the situation

1324
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 1: may be, and just move on. I don't like not

1325
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 1: knowing what the beach looked like. I don't care. I

1326
01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 1: don't care what you look like because I'm worried. I'm

1327
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: like not because I like, okay, I'm just saying like

1328
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 1: I want to know what you look like because yeah,

1329
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: like if you're watching me, I need to watch it. Yeah,

1330
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 1: if you're watching me, I need to watch you. Like

1331
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 1: what the fuck? You might walk up to me one

1332
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:10,920
Speaker 1: day and like you a patient and stand me. I

1333
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 1: got scared. You should be just like you should be

1334
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,599
Speaker 1: That's why I said, if you feel like you're safety,

1335
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 1: it's in danger. I feel like you know, like, yeah,

1336
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:25,760
Speaker 1: I don't like that because girl women be crazy behind Yes,

1337
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 1: and she behindy to send you a fucking message. She says,

1338
01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not threatening you, but it's a warming Yes.

1339
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 1: She said, I wanted you to fall back. And then

1340
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 1: this bitch, you know what you look like? What you

1341
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 1: don't know what she looked like? And y'all be in

1342
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 1: the same vicinities. She's probably another word of the week vicinities.

1343
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:45,960
Speaker 1: You be at the bathroom washing your hands. You don't

1344
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 1: even know she's looking at you, right next to you.

1345
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 1: She in a stall looking through that Craig Yeah, hands, yes,

1346
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:56,600
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying, Like, I just don't like

1347
01:13:56,680 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 1: she like, like, just stay safe. Do you know what

1348
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 1: I look like? I need to know what you look

1349
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 1: like so I could be ready. I'm b But honestly,

1350
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 1: maybe you can ask around, like who his girlfriend is

1351
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 1: because somebody on the staff. No, obviously if they all

1352
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:14,720
Speaker 1: kind of you know, in the same industry industrys, be

1353
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,080
Speaker 1: small girl, I would ask around find out who the

1354
01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:21,719
Speaker 1: girl is. Okay, go ahead. Question two, dear Lex Andrea.

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01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 1: I'm a single, twenty five year old woman. I work

1356
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 1: in corporate, have my own place, and I'm currently working

1357
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:30,520
Speaker 1: on getting my car. I need to find a big clipballer,

1358
01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 1: okay girl. Since my last relationship, I've had a two

1359
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 1: nice stand that fizzled out. But I think people are

1360
01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: really intimidated to approach me because my toxic ex is

1361
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: still hovering around my social circle. Any tips on building

1362
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:47,640
Speaker 1: back your roster after leaving a toxic four year relationship.

1363
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 1: I watch this podcast religiously every Saturday with my morning

1364
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: blunt and mint tea. Please don't ever stop, because I've

1365
01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: been converted to a poor girl and I don't want

1366
01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: to think about my life without this podcast. Looking forward

1367
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:03,720
Speaker 1: to more live show dates this year so I can

1368
01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 1: make a trip to finally meet child in person. But

1369
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 1: for now, singing love all the way from the Cayman Island.

1370
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: That's right. I feel like if your ex, if people

1371
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 1: are scared of you because your ex, then that's us.

1372
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: Like you need to really talk to your ex and like, hey,

1373
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 1: move on, like cause I'm trying to move on obviously,

1374
01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 1: that's what you're trying to do. Yeah, if your ex

1375
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 1: is like hanging around and honestly, maybe find a new

1376
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:31,640
Speaker 1: so maybe find a new circle to hang out in, Like,

1377
01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: try to find new friends and new people. Like I'm

1378
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:36,160
Speaker 1: not saying that you just got to stick to them

1379
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 1: and just completely dump them, but I feel like, try

1380
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 1: to explore and meet new people that your ex doesn't know,

1381
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 1: and you know, you might find somebody else that you like,

1382
01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 1: excited nigga that I ain't scared of him, and I'll see,

1383
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: oh my bag, a girl that ain't scared of him

1384
01:15:56,800 --> 01:16:00,639
Speaker 1: or her? Yeah that too, But honestly, like I don't

1385
01:16:00,760 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 1: like to because people get weird. People get weird, and

1386
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:12,400
Speaker 1: she gets dangerous. You know, see, you're promoting violence. Violence.

1387
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 1: I'm not promoting violence. It might not even get violince,

1388
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:19,679
Speaker 1: but it might. It might. And you know, we write reviews.

1389
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: We don't want nobody to write a review from the hospital, bitch.

1390
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:28,240
Speaker 1: We ain't. What I'm saying is but with somebody who

1391
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 1: ain't scared of them, it's funny people. I'm not scared

1392
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 1: of nobody, Okay, are you No? I answered for y'all

1393
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 1: scared of nobody. She ain't never scared. I used to

1394
01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 1: call a lix crushian. So I'm outside the club. And

1395
01:16:47,280 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 1: think yo scared. Now that's what they did call she'd

1396
01:16:55,840 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 1: be lying by all the other set. Yeah, it's like y'all,

1397
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:06,360
Speaker 1: y'all see the vibe be like this, I walk in

1398
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 1: like that.

1399
01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 7: In a.

1400
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:17,719
Speaker 1: All right question? Three? Hey, ladies, this podcast is my podcast. Okay, sorry,

1401
01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 1: this podcast is my motivation. Y'all are so beautiful and

1402
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 1: I die laughing listening to y'all. I have been dating

1403
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:26,440
Speaker 1: this guy for a year now. We are not exclusive,

1404
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 1: and he recently told me that he has two kids

1405
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: on the way with two different women. I knew about

1406
01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:33,320
Speaker 1: the other girls while we were messing around, and I

1407
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:35,920
Speaker 1: didn't mind because he's not my man. He tried to

1408
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 1: get me to have threeesomes, but I always said no.

1409
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 1: Although my feelings are hurt about the ghetto twins on

1410
01:17:40,880 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: the way, the sex is immaculate and the best I've

1411
01:17:42,800 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 1: ever had. I admit that I do have feelings for

1412
01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: him to a certain extent. Should I stop messing with

1413
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 1: him due to the fact that kids are coming, or

1414
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: keep getting that dick and my my business. If it's

1415
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 1: just sex, I would just keep fucking until you find

1416
01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 1: somebody else to replace him. But if your feelings are involved,

1417
01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 1: don't do it. She said, My feelings are hurt about

1418
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: the Ghetto twingians, about the twins on the way right,

1419
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you're feelings, get the ghetto

1420
01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,640
Speaker 1: Twins on the way. But I feel like if you

1421
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 1: can keep your feelings in check, you know, because I'm

1422
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 1: the person I hate being lonely too, I get it,

1423
01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 1: like sometimes you just want a little dick, You want

1424
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 1: a little cuddle, you want a little So if your

1425
01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:22,720
Speaker 1: feelings aren't involved, like deep deep, you can keep you know,

1426
01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:24,800
Speaker 1: fucking him until the next good man comes along. But

1427
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,719
Speaker 1: if you feel like you're gonna be jealous, the girls

1428
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:29,920
Speaker 1: are gonna be there, the twins, the Ghetto Twins gonna

1429
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 1: be there. They're not going nowhere. So if you can't

1430
01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:34,840
Speaker 1: handle that emotionally, I would cut it off. And I

1431
01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:51,760
Speaker 1: feel like, hmmmmmm, let me treat it lightly. Why you

1432
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:55,400
Speaker 1: knew about these two girls, these two other women, So

1433
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: I feel like you kind of knew that there was

1434
01:18:58,479 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 1: a reason because I'm gonna big got on triplets if

1435
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:03,840
Speaker 1: you would have kept playing, Yeah, like you knew about him,

1436
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 1: so you can't really be mad because it's not like

1437
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: he lies to you, Like it's not like you ever

1438
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 1: thought you was the only one and then you found

1439
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:12,560
Speaker 1: out not to say the only one. But it's not

1440
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 1: like you thought. No, yeah, it's not like you thought

1441
01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 1: you was the only the only one that was fucking

1442
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 1: this mean you knew he was fucking two other women.

1443
01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 1: So I feel like if he was honest with you

1444
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:24,479
Speaker 1: when he told you that, you really can't be mad

1445
01:19:24,520 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 1: at the outcome, right, because I was honest with you. Honest,

1446
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:32,040
Speaker 1: he was honest with you, So I understand your feelings

1447
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: are probably hurt. So you, I mean, she gotta do

1448
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 1: whatever she feels like. It's bad, but you still need

1449
01:19:42,560 --> 01:19:45,040
Speaker 1: to move on. You still need to be dating other people. Yeah,

1450
01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 1: she definitely needs to be dating other people. But I

1451
01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 1: just feel like if it was me in that situation

1452
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 1: and the nigga kept it one hundred with me, I

1453
01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have kept fucking with him if I knew

1454
01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:59,000
Speaker 1: he was fucking not one but two out Hell yeah no,

1455
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: not okay. Anytime I ever ended up in a situation

1456
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:05,559
Speaker 1: where somebody was fucking somebody else and I found out

1457
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 1: about it, I didn't know that you was fucking right,

1458
01:20:09,400 --> 01:20:12,000
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't have been fucking you wrong because that's nasty.

1459
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 1: It's just anywhere to be honest facts. But this telennah M,

1460
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:27,920
Speaker 1: this Satlena. It's all right, God kay push number FO.

1461
01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 1: All right. First, I want to say that you two

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Speaker 1: are literally angels and have helped me out of so

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01:20:33,120 --> 01:20:36,800
Speaker 1: many of my depression episodes. I've been a listener since

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Speaker 1: to Window on Wednesday days, and you both are beautiful, smart,

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Speaker 1: and have such pure hearts and personalities. The man I've

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Speaker 1: been dating for the past two years gave me HIV.

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Speaker 1: I just found out two days ago. I had no

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Speaker 1: symptoms or anything. I am devastated. This is someone that

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Speaker 1: I gave my entire soul to. I never cheated on

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Speaker 1: him or anything. I have been nothing but loyal to

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Speaker 1: a man who was not only unfaithful, but was also Rickles.

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Speaker 1: I'm scared that I'll ever be I'm scared that I'll

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Speaker 1: ever be able to have more kids. I only have

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Speaker 1: one now. I'm scared that I'll never be able to

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Speaker 1: date again. I'm so pissed off that I'll have to

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Speaker 1: remain on medication for the rest of my fucking life

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Speaker 1: in order to stay alive. I feel crazy because part

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Speaker 1: of me wants to try and work things out with

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Speaker 1: him since we both have fucking HIV. I figure, why not?

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Speaker 1: Because who the hell else will want me? Right? I

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01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:28,200
Speaker 1: don't know what to do or what to think. My

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01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:30,240
Speaker 1: mind is all over the place, and I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: to be strong for my child. Damn. That's deep, because honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do in that situation,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like you wouldn't. Yeah, I would't neither,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like the trust has been broken, Like

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01:21:43,439 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 1: the trust has been broken, And honestly, I don't know

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Speaker 1: for sure, but I think there are like communities out

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Speaker 1: there of like people. They are positive and they like,

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01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 1: you know, they share their So I feel like maybe

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Speaker 1: you should just find a community of, you know, people

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01:21:57,680 --> 01:21:59,760
Speaker 1: that have been through similar things and maybe find somebody

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01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 1: that you can trust and they'll teach you like how

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Speaker 1: to date and how to navigate with you. Because yeah,

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Speaker 1: fuck the nigga. Yeah, I wouldn't be working shit out

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Speaker 1: with the nigga at all. There ain't be somebody that

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Speaker 1: I can't. It's like leg said, it's plenty of communities.

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Speaker 1: It's plenty of groups that you could join for people

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01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: who have HIV and stuff support groups. They will help

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Speaker 1: you get through it, and those people are so heavy too,

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01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 1: you could find somebody else within. From my understanding as well,

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01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:33,720
Speaker 1: one of my family members has HIV, and from my understanding,

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01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:36,920
Speaker 1: if you take your medication every day the way that

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01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 1: you're supposed to, then your viral load is undetected, so

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01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: you can't transmit it to other people and you will

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01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 1: be surprised. It was this lady I actually seen on TikTok. Y'all,

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Speaker 1: why y'all let me make a TikTok. Probably go on

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01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 1: TikTok all the time. Now, I made a TikTok, and

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01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 1: like I'll be getting in a black hole on TikTok

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01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:57,040
Speaker 1: just looking at she and I came across these ladies Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could, I mean TikTok. I wish I

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Speaker 1: can remember her name. She has HIV. She lives in Houston,

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01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 1: and she said her viral load is undetected, and she

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01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,080
Speaker 1: be dating dudes and she be letting him know that

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01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:09,639
Speaker 1: she has HIV and they still be cool with dating

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01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:12,760
Speaker 1: her because they know that she can't transmit and she

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01:23:12,920 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 1: be dating people who don't have it. So I just

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01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:19,639
Speaker 1: feel like it's it's why, no, it's probably like easier

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01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:21,680
Speaker 1: for us to say these, but I just feel like

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Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world, you know what

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01:23:23,640 --> 01:23:28,839
Speaker 1: I mean. You probably could date and like who's educated

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01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:31,600
Speaker 1: enough and open minded enough, Like you'll be fine. But

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01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 1: I don't think you need to fuck with him no

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01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 1: more because trusted he cannot be trusted. He can't like

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01:23:37,400 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 1: hell no, I beat your hell out. He'll know he

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01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 1: was getting too loud. He was because why would you

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01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:47,680
Speaker 1: do that? He was just being reckless. But shout out

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01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:49,800
Speaker 1: to you girl, no seriously, And I think there is

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Speaker 1: ways that she can still have children. I don't like you, okay,

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01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 1: fuck him no, but you can That's what I was

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01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 1: gonna say to It goes back to what I was

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01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:02,960
Speaker 1: just saying, like if apparently, if your viral load is

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01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:07,519
Speaker 1: not like high, then you can have a child without HIV.

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Speaker 1: You have six with somebody that doesn't have it and

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01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:13,759
Speaker 1: not transmitting to them. And then so the girl on TikTok,

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01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:16,840
Speaker 1: she said that people that she has dated they will

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01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:19,800
Speaker 1: take PREP. Okay, now I've heard of prep, befo. If

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01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 1: you're taking PREP and then her your viral load is undetected,

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01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 1: then it's really a very low chance that you were transmitting. Yeah, y'all,

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01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:32,559
Speaker 1: y'all know, I'll be doing I Love TikTok because it's

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01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:36,920
Speaker 1: about your watch, it's about your knowing exactly. I'll be

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01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 1: on skincare TikTok, like y'all see all over. I don't

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01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 1: have no makeup on today. I just have like this

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01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:44,120
Speaker 1: is my summer look. I'm really I have to steel

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01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:45,600
Speaker 1: her on and live blost and a little bit of

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01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:52,280
Speaker 1: my scare of just just because like I are you,

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01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm like using a new product. So it makes my

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01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 1: skin really oily, but it's but it's bringing out like

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01:24:56,920 --> 01:24:59,240
Speaker 1: all my impurities right now. So I'm going through a process.

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Speaker 1: So I really can't were makeup right now, Wallace. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: but honestly, people be having me fucked up. Like I

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Speaker 1: actually went viral on Twitter with no makeup on two Well, no,

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01:25:09,280 --> 01:25:12,760
Speaker 1: I went viral yesterday because I had posted a video

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01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:17,639
Speaker 1: for real exactly. I posted a video on my story

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Speaker 1: the other day and I was like, oh, no makeup,

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01:25:19,640 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: no filter, This's how I'm coming this summer. And this

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01:25:21,960 --> 01:25:24,439
Speaker 1: girl was like, do you know that the camera has

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01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 1: automatic filters? Right? Just letting you know, I said, bitch, please,

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01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,040
Speaker 1: I have recorded myself. Plenty of homes on tour mines

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01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:37,519
Speaker 1: when crazy. If somebody had left the comments under the

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Speaker 1: YouTube video, you had resplendent to them and they thought

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Speaker 1: it was me, remember, oh yeah, And she was like going,

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Speaker 1: I would love for y'all to come on here with

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01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:49,759
Speaker 1: no makeup and no weave on Beach. We got plenty

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01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:53,680
Speaker 1: of videos. If you squirwled back, we got plenty of

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Speaker 1: videos with no makeup.

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Speaker 7: No.

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01:25:55,560 --> 01:25:58,120
Speaker 1: I actually did a skincare video a long time ago.

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01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:00,120
Speaker 1: I had my natural hair and I had no make

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Speaker 1: up and I was literally washing my face. And if

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Speaker 1: you're a Patreon member, I never do patrenon episodes with

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Speaker 1: makeup on. So it's just so crazy, Like y'all can't

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01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:10,400
Speaker 1: just because we like to be dolled up and dressed up,

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01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,680
Speaker 1: but y'all they do this to all women. I want

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01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 1: people to understand, I wear a weave because, like I'm

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01:26:15,960 --> 01:26:18,799
Speaker 1: a baby, but not only did I wear a makeup

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01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:22,519
Speaker 1: because I'm a Babbage, not because I need it, right,

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01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 1: it's just go without either one. When I didn't used

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01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:26,240
Speaker 1: to wear weave bach, I didn't wear it because I

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Speaker 1: couldn't afford it. But I'll say this, it's an aesthetic

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01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:31,360
Speaker 1: that I like. I like to look a certain way.

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01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 1: This is my aesthetic. I shaved off all my hair

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01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:36,560
Speaker 1: and I wore that for a while. That was the

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01:26:36,680 --> 01:26:38,840
Speaker 1: aesthetic I was going for. Right now, I want the

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01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 1: two ponytails. When I used to be up on Instagram

1586
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:43,640
Speaker 1: when I mean not Instagram, and I used to be

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01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 1: up on our YouTube channel with my little pony tails

1588
01:26:46,000 --> 01:26:51,840
Speaker 1: and bud. But I'm just saying when I used to

1589
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:54,040
Speaker 1: be up on here with my real hair, it was

1590
01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,840
Speaker 1: because literally I just couldn't afford to get five hundred

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01:26:56,840 --> 01:27:00,599
Speaker 1: dollars six hundred dollars weave every few weeks. Now I can't,

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01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 1: So I'm a word is right exactly. So I think

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01:27:03,120 --> 01:27:05,439
Speaker 1: people give weird energy. But honestly, this is how I'm

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01:27:05,439 --> 01:27:09,160
Speaker 1: coming all summer. A little bit of concealer lip gloss

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01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:12,760
Speaker 1: next week, I'm yeah, I mean we can't. I mean

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01:27:12,760 --> 01:27:14,679
Speaker 1: I need to know make up today. This is literally

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01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:18,080
Speaker 1: just concealer, mascular and lip gloss. Like this is all

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01:27:18,160 --> 01:27:20,080
Speaker 1: my skin, Like I said, I'm a little oily today,

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01:27:20,240 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 1: like I said, because my skin is purging right now.

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01:27:22,520 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 1: But that's I'm in the skincare TikTok, Like I really

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01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:29,680
Speaker 1: am just like I'm loving the skin. So that's what

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01:27:29,760 --> 01:27:33,720
Speaker 1: we're doing. It's great. Thank you. My sister saw the

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01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:40,920
Speaker 1: sin gonna fall out though. Okay, I wanted to sing this.

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01:27:42,360 --> 01:27:44,760
Speaker 1: Can we sing what I say? What I sub Yeah,

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01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:47,920
Speaker 1: we can sing whatever you want to sing, because this

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01:27:48,000 --> 01:27:48,599
Speaker 1: is a good one.

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01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:50,360
Speaker 2: I know.

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01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:52,920
Speaker 1: I may be young, but.

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01:27:54,479 --> 01:27:59,519
Speaker 4: I've got feelings too, and I need to do what

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01:27:59,680 --> 01:28:03,840
Speaker 4: I like doing. So let me go and just listen.

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01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:07,960
Speaker 4: Oh your pageople look at me. Ah, I let's a out.

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01:28:08,320 --> 01:28:10,600
Speaker 3: But if I have a thing, it okay for me

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01:28:10,680 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 3: to the world. I was saying, a little girl donna

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01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:18,439
Speaker 3: step into the club. Well, I'm just trying to find

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01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:19,520
Speaker 3: up because.

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01:28:19,439 --> 01:28:22,280
Speaker 1: This is what I love. Yeah, get it, get it,

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01:28:22,479 --> 01:28:23,040
Speaker 1: get it, get it.

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01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:31,479
Speaker 6: Whoa get it, get it, get it, get it, get

1619
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:34,640
Speaker 6: it and get it, get it, get it, get it,

1620
01:28:34,720 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 6: get it, get it, get it.

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01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:43,280
Speaker 2: I know I may come off quiet, may come off shy,

1622
01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:48,360
Speaker 2: but if you look at to see this die, what's

1623
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:51,120
Speaker 2: practical and like what the hell?

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01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:54,800
Speaker 1: Who cans? All I know is I'm so happy and

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01:28:55,160 --> 01:29:08,679
Speaker 1: this and there get it giddy, get it? Giddy? Yeah boy?

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01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:19,599
Speaker 1: Oh can I hold it? Not controling? Oh?

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01:29:23,560 --> 01:29:28,800
Speaker 7: I really wanted tonight with you. I really want to

1628
01:29:28,880 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 7: do what your home I really wanted tonight you. I

1629
01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:39,320
Speaker 7: really want to do what your homit to.

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01:29:41,000 --> 01:29:55,240
Speaker 1: Period. Get Brittany K Brittany A. Brittany A see that

1631
01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:59,000
Speaker 1: it was going viral on Eastern when she was doing

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01:29:59,080 --> 01:30:04,880
Speaker 1: to this and Brittany. First of all, I wanted to

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01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:07,720
Speaker 1: say that because Brittany Spears is pregnant and I love

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01:30:07,800 --> 01:30:09,559
Speaker 1: that for her. I feel like she is in her

1635
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:13,519
Speaker 1: bag doing what she does. But don't get it twisted, Brittany,

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01:30:13,640 --> 01:30:19,679
Speaker 1: is that girl exactly you Renney. But she said that's

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01:30:20,000 --> 01:30:28,040
Speaker 1: what she said. And I just want to say because

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01:30:28,160 --> 01:30:31,280
Speaker 1: I was talking about Brittany's Spears this morning to my homegirl,

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01:30:31,360 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 1: because we were talking about hard work and shit like that.

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01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times when people like

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01:30:37,800 --> 01:30:39,320
Speaker 1: make it in the industry, people be like, oh, but

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01:30:39,360 --> 01:30:42,320
Speaker 1: they're not talented, they can't sing, they can't do this.

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01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:45,479
Speaker 1: But after that, you can't take hard work from people.

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01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:48,559
Speaker 1: Y'all may feel like somebody's not good enough. You're funnier

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01:30:48,600 --> 01:30:50,280
Speaker 1: than them, you can sing better than them, you can

1646
01:30:50,320 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 1: act better than whatever, but you don't understand why they're

1647
01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:56,599
Speaker 1: there and you're there. It's because God hard and hard

1648
01:30:56,720 --> 01:31:01,400
Speaker 1: work every time. Stop taking people's work ethic away from them,

1649
01:31:01,640 --> 01:31:03,599
Speaker 1: because if you work hard, maybe you'll be there too.

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01:31:03,960 --> 01:31:06,600
Speaker 1: So people want to say Britney Spears wasn't talented, but

1651
01:31:06,760 --> 01:31:09,000
Speaker 1: she could dance her ass off. Maybe she wasn't the

1652
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:11,560
Speaker 1: best singer, but she worked her ass off and she

1653
01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:14,040
Speaker 1: was the pop princess for a while. What did you

1654
01:31:14,160 --> 01:31:16,960
Speaker 1: see that? This is bring? Somebody had posted on the

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01:31:17,040 --> 01:31:20,160
Speaker 1: bug or something, but she I think she said it too.

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01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:24,320
Speaker 1: She had, she like wrote a paragraph about it. That's

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01:31:24,320 --> 01:31:28,760
Speaker 1: how she's gonna give birth. That's how she took it.

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01:31:33,160 --> 01:31:36,040
Speaker 1: I love Brittany. Shout out to Britney Spears. And you

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01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:37,479
Speaker 1: got anything else you want to add?

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01:31:37,600 --> 01:31:39,600
Speaker 5: My sister, Damn.

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01:31:41,439 --> 01:31:45,760
Speaker 1: Girl, you about like half a What is all the water?

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01:31:46,080 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 1: You got a fourth? You got a fourth left? What's that?

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01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:52,720
Speaker 1: Ye left? And you want to judge me because I'm

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01:31:54,800 --> 01:32:00,200
Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week, by y'all, Brittany didn't need

1665
01:32:00,280 --> 01:32:06,439
Speaker 1: to be done exactly like you like you said you

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01:32:06,520 --> 01:32:12,280
Speaker 1: said because I was annoying. That was a great song. Wow,

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01:32:15,320 --> 01:32:18,920
Speaker 1: he said, I'm sucking.

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Speaker 2: We