WEBVTT - Episode 78: Ft. Teairra Mari 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:04.440 It's what app it's lip service at Angela. Ye, I'm 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:08.039 Stephen Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire. Tierra Marie is here 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:13.160 with us. Tire is a lip service veteran. I am 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:17.280 like girl. Yes, I've been here from the start when 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:18.840 I was a serious I remember I got you so 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:21.480 drunken you had a showcase? Is something? Yeah I did. 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:25.639 Did I get in trouble or something? Yeah? People was 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:27.600 hit me the next day like, yo, why you got 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:31.600 tiard before the showcase. Now that brings us to our 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.120 tip of the day. We always have to start the 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.360 show with the tip of the day, and today's tip 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:37.320 is how do you handle when you date a man 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:40.840 who has a drinking problem? Has anybody ever dated someone 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:42.880 who has your drinking problem? When you feel like, okay, 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.519 he drinks way too much, we get into arguments I 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:49.760 can't handle it. But wait, wait, it's a drinking problem 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:52.639 where he drinks excessively, or it's a drinking problem where 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:55.760 he drinks once in a while, but when he drinks 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:58.000 overboard and yell like I have done that. Yeah, I've 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.720 dated a guy like that. How do you handle that? 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:04.560 Break up with his as they can't get it together. Yeah, 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.200 Like you gotta get it together. You gotta don't know 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:10.480 how to control yourself as an adult, and speaking from experiences, 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:13.800 I've done that before. So I had to wake up, like, girl, 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.800 get your ship together, Like, you can't be just out 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:20.240 here drinking, like You're still accountable for your actions, you know, 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:23.160 so whether you were drunk or not, Like, don't listen 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:25.080 to Jamie Fox all the time. You can't just always 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.200 blame it on the alcohol, you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:30.920 you have to take accountability, So pace yourself and you know, 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.400 be an adult when you drink if you like to drink, right, 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.600 Have you never done anything so bad that you would 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:39.800 like embarrassed to call the person the next day? Um? 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:42.840 Probably the worst thing that I've done is like, yeah, 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.760 like going too a rage, Like if somebody steps on 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:47.440 my toe and then I'm like ready to fight and 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.720 all my friends are like calm down, calm down now 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:55.600 to nobody. Yeah yeah, and stuff like that. Yeah. Now, 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:57.160 have you ever been with somebody that drinks too much? 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:04.320 Tag you have? How do you handle that? How do 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:08.760 I live with it? Every day? I mean, I mean 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:10.520 what can you do? Can you stay with somebody and 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:12.160 help them work through it or is it just a 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:16.000 lost cause some people just drink. I smoke. The public 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:17.639 really don't know that because I don't put it out there. 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:21.240 We all know you smoke. Everybody, don't y'all know I smoke, 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:23.040 cause y'all know, but you don't. Never see me on 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:25.840 Snapchat with the blunt and my mouth for Instagram with weed, 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.280 like I don't do all of that. So the general public, 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:30.000 my friends and family, of course, y'all know I smoke 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:35.600 about you. But you know, you know, everybody got their 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:40.480 vices and you just gotta take you know, slipping moderation. 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:42.880 I guess when when people what if he won't like, 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:46.640 what if he just gets pits, he's drunk, embarrassing, you 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:48.920 end up in an argument. What can you do? Is 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:53.760 there any hope? I dealt with that and in a 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:57.400 relationship too, but I can't. I don't have a solution 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:00.239 for that. I don't. It's just a big problem. Um 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:02.440 it's it's a fight, you know what I mean, And 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:05.000 it's just it's a fight. It happens, then you deal 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:07.079 with the aftermath of the fight, and then you move on, 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:09.560 like but I'm not sure if that's a good way 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.040 to deal with that. Now it's not because then it 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:18.080 just it's going to keep happening. Because that's how I remember. Please, 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.440 Oh you want to hear a story, y'all. You y'all 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:28.120 know I got one story. Story satiago. Let's go. No. So, 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:32.280 one time my boyfriend got so fucking drunk. We were 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:36.000 living together. He got so drunk he went in the bathroom, right, 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:38.160 and he came home and I was like, look at you. 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.200 I was like, look at you. You get drunk like 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:43.080 you in college. You're like a little fucking kid. Grow up. 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:47.560 And he's like so trashed. He goes in the bathroom, right, 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:50.040 So whatever, I'm in the living room. I noticed, like 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:54.920 a long time goes by, So I'm like, let me 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:56.800 go check on him. So I go and I knock 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:00.440 on the door because that's a rule. I always when 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:03.120 somebody's in the bathroom, got a knock on the door before. Yeah, 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:06.240 that's that's something I teach my son, you know. They Yeah, 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:08.880 they taught me that, you know when I was a kid. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:14.720 They take a ship, don't come in here, knocked, So 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:20.560 check it out, knocked and he don't answer. So I'm banging. 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:26.680 Now He's like what I'm like, I'm like, yo, get 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:29.160 off the bathroom. I gotta use the bathroom. So I 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:31.680 walk away from the bathroom. I sit down for like 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:34.760 another twenty minutes. Still he hasn't came out the bathroom. 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.120 So I'm like, all right, I'm going in the bathroom 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:41.440 now right. So I opened the bathroom. They got it's 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:46.240 laying down on the floor, face first, and it smells 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.359 crazy and there, and then I took a ship in 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:58.920 the bathtub. He yo. So I started kicking him. I'm 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:02.440 like yo, I'm like, yo, get up, get up. I 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:06.320 swear tonight, tonight, I'm gonna do it tonight, tonight, I'm 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:09.880 gonna kill you. I didn't look at it. I could 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:13.560 smell it, Pete, I've seen it. I gagged. I was stressed, 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:17.039 like I know when I first saw it. When I 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:19.159 first saw it, I like I said, I gaged. I 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.960 couldn't take it. It was. I got a weak stomach. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.560 So I got I walked out the bathroom, and I 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:27.640 was I just I coached myself like I'm gonna go 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:31.640 back in the bathroom. I'mau the snigger up right, So 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:34.480 I go in the bathroom. I started kicking him. I 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:36.719 forced him to get up. I put him in the bed, 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.960 and then in the morning when he woke up, I 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:42.960 told him. I was like, Yo, get up and clean 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:45.480 the fucking bathtub. You took a ship in the bath 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:48.360 I wasn't gonna use. I wasn't gonna clean. Now, you 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:51.240 got me. That's a grown us man by his mother. 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:52.920 I was like, yo, go clean. He was like, what 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.680 are you talking about. That's how bad it was. That's 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:57.840 why I'm telling you this part. He did not remember that. 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:01.720 They didn't remember what I was kicking the ship out 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:03.360 of him together. If it was like salad, that I 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:05.480 could pick it up with a paper towel, na, I 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.680 would do it. No, it was a full man, all right. 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:11.280 So he was another one, another one. I mean, I've 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:13.360 never apparienced that, but I would assume that if it 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:15.560 was salad, that would have get some paper towels. If 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.880 I don't think I could leave it overnight. No, you're 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:20.520 gonna get your podcast, You're gonna get the paper, and 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:23.600 you're gonna coute yourself. How long I tell you sho again. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.960 I left. I woke up. Once he woke up, I 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:28.760 waited him to wake up, and I left. I didn't 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.520 come home for like two days. I was not playing. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:33.720 I love him there, I love him there, me and 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:36.320 my son gone, are you crazy? And never came home. 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:41.320 But come on, got that we're gonna cut that far 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.280 had to be because that's your said. He Amen, we're 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:52.640 gonna cut the sun's part too. At it at it? 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:59.480 Did it happen often? Did it happen? Yes? He used 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.559 to get drunk like that. Every time he got drunk. 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:04.160 That's how he would do it. It wasn't no, no, no, 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:07.400 no no. It was just like things like that. He 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:11.000 wouldn't remember. He would cross his car, he would types 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:14.080 of ship. This is real life. Yes, this is real. 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:17.080 This is a real drinking problem. He I mean, it 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:23.000 wasn't every day. That's why it's different when he would drink. 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:25.320 It's not like he can have two or four or five. 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:29.440 We talk about the difference between an alcoholic problem and 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:33.800 an alcoholic dicoholics, somebody who will wake us up everything. 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.000 I think. I think there's just different levels to be 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:43.400 an alcoholic. That's a different level. Yeah. Please, another time 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:47.200 another time comes to him drink and I'm like, look 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:50.480 at you, look look at yourself, look at you. It's disgusting. 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:55.640 So he's like, so he goes and he like, what 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:59.520 are dripping on the floor? On the floor. This man 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:02.760 went to the front door of the house and pete 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:08.400 at the front door. That's what I said, that Angela, 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:11.960 But Angela, my friend, my good friend. That's exactly what 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:13.800 I said to him. I said, what the funk are 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.240 you a dog? I was like, look at this, I'm 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:22.920 married to a dog. Do you ever feel man? I 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:29.360 thought older? That was the serious relationship many with him? Yeah, 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:32.680 I did all that. No, No, I mean, like I said, 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.079 we would go through that, have the fight. You know, 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:36.880 it will be a fight, and then we would have 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.280 to deal with the aftermath of the fight and move on, 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:42.400 you know, because you don't want that to keep happening. 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:44.439 You know, it would keep it happened a lot. I'm 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:47.080 not gonna I hated I hated him when he was drunk. 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:49.360 He knows this. If he's listening to this, he knows 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:52.199 I'm talking about him because from the beginning of our relationship, 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:55.439 it's a totally different person when he drinks. From the 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:58.080 beginning of our relationships, everything could be so great. Then 0:08:58.120 --> 0:08:59.920 we go out to have a good time. You get drunking, 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:02.520 you know we hate each other. That I should have 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:04.920 known that our relationship wasn't gonna work out because just 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:08.079 one year into our relationship, two years into our relationship, 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:10.199 I realized that I could not go out with him, 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:14.240 We could not go out socially together, because everything was 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.120 a problem. When you come home, moms, every time we 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.640 will go out together, it would be a nightmare, like 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:22.319 something that you're gonna get into an argument. Ever. Have 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:25.719 you ever had a bad experience with a drunken man? Absolutely? 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:31.040 What's the um? Let me think, girl, because I don't 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:33.439 even want to say too much because y'all might know 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:40.760 who I'm talking about him. We don't, No, I would 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:44.720 like this guy would just get totally disrespectful. Like when 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:50.240 he's sober, he's respectful. When he's drunk, he's a disrespectful fuck, 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:53.760 Like he disrespects you in your face, like bit just 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:58.480 laying on his lap board. My son's father came. We 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:03.760 out of that again, exactly know, like he's laying on 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:07.000 bitches lads, and let's just like respectful. I don't even 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:09.199 I don't tolerate that, and you know that. But I 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.520 love you when I know that you're inebriated, So maybe 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:16.679 we could talk about it tomorrow, but that like given, um, 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.319 I don't know what. You get tired of giving a 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:33.280 guy a pass? You get tired? Yeah, mate, what because 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.360 it seemed like does his name Ryan with ca sa? 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:48.120 I plead the fist? What about you? GD? I know, listen, 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:52.760 I feel like I've been there sometime. What's the worst 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:58.439 expert of the room. You're crazy when you're drunk too, though, 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:01.280 and so am I say, you know, I'm not all 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:05.200 of us. I'm not saying that crazy ship. Yeah, let's 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:08.760 take responsibility absolutely with him. He'll get so drunk and 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:10.920 then we'll get into whatever it is and then he 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:14.400 don't even remember, right, That's what pisses me off. But 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:19.679 that's well know that they don't remember. They really don't remember. Yes, 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:23.040 I blacked out, I mean not to but after time 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:26.400 every time, but I don't think every time. I think 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:32.439 they tricked up, remember pissing pieces, but they don't, or 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:33.719 this happened out of that, and he'll be like, no, 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:35.280 it didn't know. I didn't and I'd be like I 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:40.000 was there, Yeah, other people were there, and there you're 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:43.760 saying people he didn't say it, or that that's you know, 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:46.360 whatever didn't happen, and that that's what pisses me off. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.640 Like get drunk, get funked up, whatever. But when you 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:52.360 get to the point where you can't remember saying and 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.520 doing things like how do what about when you sunk up? 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.160 What can you do after? Well, we can't know. I'll 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:01.800 say something about that. Oh no. Usually when I'm drunk 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.959 and I do something stupid, which is nine out of 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:06.880 ten times when I'm drunk, I say, I don't remember, yea, 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:12.640 even if I do, like what, don't tell me, don't 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.800 tell me. I don't remember nobody, I don't want to. 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:19.720 I'm sorry, No, no, no, that's the worst. I had 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:25.319 some friends in this room drunk, so I had to 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:28.360 really like control and cast myself when I drink. And 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:32.560 I'm gonna tell you, y'all, it's an alcohol for everybody. 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:36.839 Are you light or dark? What thinks to Angela? Yes? 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:42.599 Vacca won't have me black crazy, black head? Okay? No 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:46.839 vodka no good. I drink tequila. I like drinking. Don 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.280 want to turn up and be crazy? Right? No? No, no, no, no, 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:56.520 Vodka makes me turn up and be crazy. Doesn't see 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:59.360 Vodka does everything wrong to me? It foks on my 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:03.720 bladder like I can't. Poka is poison. It does't depend 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:07.560 on what you drink too, because it's feel a certain way. Yeah, 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:09.880 I feel like fequilla because I had some coffee and 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:12.360 it it makes me like, oh I I don't want 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:17.400 to go to sleep right dark for me is like okay, 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:20.080 now I'm cool, I'm collected and I can I can 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:27.320 enjoy myself, have a buzz and mure drink. Yes for sure. 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:29.679 Yeah all right, Now what would y'all do if your 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:32.480 man makes a new friend who's attractive. Let's just say 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:37.679 no friends. Friends is like a work thing though she 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:40.760 shouldn't be a friend. She's like she's a co worker 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.200 acquainted somebody they cool with, but they got to speak 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:48.920 to each other. They were co worker together dinners because 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.240 they have they don't have dinners. They don't have dinners. 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:54.360 They have meetings and business chests where they got to 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:58.199 travel together. I'll be there to I can come and 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:05.040 we are going. You can't now, okay, So then because 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:08.319 I get a little crazy when it goes, I have 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.000 to cross that bridge when I get to it. But 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.840 let's talk about that. Like, Wendy, what is the limits 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:18.480 to your guy in a business relationship, you know, where 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:21.080 they got to talk to each other, communicate, work on 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:26.520 things together for certain hours. I think, um, we're certain 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:30.560 like tones of speech, you know, like you know what 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:34.760 that Yeah, no, no, no, that's not cool. Yeah no, 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:36.920 that's not cool. It's not cool for you. Hell no, 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:45.320 let me know. Yeah, I just it's a certain tone 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:51.520 of a relationship or you know, business partnership, whatever it is. 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:55.360 It's just a certain tone and that I won't tolerate 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.680 because you've been in relationships where the guy obviously has 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:59.720 to communicate with other women for what he does have 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.720 to clothes that well, it's not so difficult because a 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.640 lot of times, even though I'm busy, I'm very involved, 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:08.600 Like you know, I've dealt with important men and I've 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:11.280 been like, you know, okay, this is your solence. Oh 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:14.240 she she, she calling you right now. Okay, we're busy. 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.320 Let me answer it, let me talk, let me you 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:20.640 know directly, because women don't give a funk sometimes when 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.680 they don't, but at least I know. So now, bitch, 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.600 if you want to cross that line, then now I'm 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:32.840 gonna have to. Yeah, you know what's up? And you 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:35.080 looked me in my eye and you were lying, ass bitch, 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:37.200 So now you have to deal with the rap. Can 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:43.320 you're not pointing at me when you say what about 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.040 to stuff you've had to deal with? That YouTube? G 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:49.560 I mean like, I feel like it's a difference between 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.640 somebody having a friend and working with them, you know 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:55.280 what I mean? I don't. I don't think I would 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:58.080 be over right okay with somebody with my man having 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:01.360 private time with a new friend, whether they're working together 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.520 or not. If you want to, if you guys have 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.360 to meet up at night where there's dinner involved, I 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:08.480 can come with you, or you can have other friends 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.600 there where I know you know, it's just a common 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:15.440 work thing. You know what I mean. I'm crazy. I 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:20.320 couldn't even imagine. Would you rather not know? No? No, 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:23.800 I would rather, like she said, be involved. You know what, 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:25.720 do you ever lie about things because you know your 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:29.480 man will get up set? We all do? I feel 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:32.040 like that you lied about things seeing man because you 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:34.600 know he's not gonna like it. You know me, I 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:39.120 I don't tell my man anything exactly how I don't know. 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:48.920 I don't don't, but I'm gonna ask. That's exactly I think. 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:52.000 If I was dating somebody, um, you know seriously that 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:56.200 it has more. You know, who understands my lifestyle, who 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:58.680 works in entertainment like I do. I think I would 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:02.360 be able to be more open about certain relationships with them. 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:06.080 But you know, when my last relationship was just somebody 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.560 who you know, who's just a regular person, doesn't work 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:12.080 in entertainment. So you know, I don't feel like I 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:15.280 could have been honest him about certain relationships because he 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:18.640 wouldn't understand it, you know what I mean. He would 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:22.520 give me problems for everything. Yeah, that's a I would 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:24.880 take him to certain events and he would have a problem, 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.000 like I gotta change if I'm going to be with 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:31.280 him because this is what he wants. I always quit 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:37.640 smoking for guys, and I always quit down. I might 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:42.440 bend a little bit, but not too much. Yeah, but 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:46.680 I've been a little just I compromised. I tried to 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:51.800 compromise good. Yeah, so I'm not like so stubborn about 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:55.719 who I am and what I want. I think it's 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:58.680 good if it's better for you. Yeah. Absolutely, I would 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:00.560 never change for somebody, But if I felt like, you know, 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:03.760 where he's ready, it's actually be something that would benefit me. 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:06.440 Even if if I'm not with your ass. Yeah, you know, 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.440 I might still take those changes on into my next chapter. Yeah, 0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:12.680 I think I did that. I think I changed for 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.720 the better. He wanted me to change, and I feel like, like, 0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:18.520 what things about you change? My demeanor changed a lot, 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:21.600 Like I'm not as aggressive as I used to be, 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:24.440 and I also became more private I used to, you know, 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:26.640 when the beginning of Twitter, I used to my every move, 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:29.440 my every thought, my everything, and it's just like some 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:33.440 you know, I'm really really to myself now. Um. I 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:35.960 improved on the way I communicate with people as well. 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:40.760 You know, I showed more interests and like gratuity and 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:44.359 appreciation to things. For me thinking about it, I'm so 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:49.960 submissive when I'm in love. I've changed so much. Yeah, 0:18:50.200 --> 0:18:54.520 read that and be like why did I? I think 0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:56.560 when I start regretting it as when I started going 0:18:56.640 --> 0:19:02.640 back to the player that I am meant to be exactly, 0:19:03.200 --> 0:19:06.920 I'm like, what am I doing that? That's not even 0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:10.520 Do you feel like people have like a the wrong 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:14.000 idea about you from watching you on TV? Absolutely? Yeah, 0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:17.280 Like people want to hang out with certain people that 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.679 they tell me, Like, I didn't know what to expect 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:22.320 and I'm like, okay, you know, I guess to know 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:25.080 me is to love me, you know, or to love 0:19:25.160 --> 0:19:27.120 me is to know me. That's because I was like, okay, 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:28.720 t's gonna be on love and hip Hop When you 0:19:28.760 --> 0:19:31.159 first started, you know, a whole different person, right. I 0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:33.879 was like, damn girl, I mean but no, but Angela, 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:37.560 let's be honest. Yes, and I'm a don't start now. 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:40.080 I won't be now on type of person. I give 0:19:40.160 --> 0:19:42.440 you what you give me all the time. I'm nice, 0:19:42.520 --> 0:19:46.440 I'm very nice. But when you start with me, then 0:19:47.040 --> 0:19:50.520 I don't know a middle, you know. And that's something 0:19:50.600 --> 0:19:52.639 that I'm working on, right because I don't want to 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:55.040 be on national TV not knowing the middle as a 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:58.640 fucking twenty nine year old woman, you know. So I gotta, 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:00.920 you know, get it together. I'm still working on a 0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:04.280 work in progress. Are you single now? I am single? Okay? 0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:06.879 Are you dating anybody? Every time you asked here, she 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:09.440 always does have like some special boot because you seem 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:11.879 like a relationship kind of girl. I am a relationship 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:14.359 kind of girl. But you know, I'm just you know, 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:22.280 playing the field and music. Yeah, body language is like no, 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:29.240 watch the next season. Yeah, I mean right now, I 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:33.000 am just playing the field and focused on my music. Okay. 0:20:33.040 --> 0:20:35.640 You know, I want to release an album, so that's 0:20:35.640 --> 0:20:37.680 what I'm focused on. Okay, do you know where the 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:39.920 album is gonna be at yet? Have you? Are you 0:20:40.000 --> 0:20:43.080 going to be independent? Um? I don't know yet. I'm 0:20:43.200 --> 0:20:46.080 I'm like in the discussion with a couple of different 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:50.399 situations and also so being independent, So I don't know 0:20:50.800 --> 0:20:53.040 if I want to because I feel like I could 0:20:53.040 --> 0:20:56.320 make more money being independent, So but I feel like 0:20:56.359 --> 0:20:59.320 I could get more exposure being on a label. You 0:20:59.359 --> 0:21:01.440 know what I'm saying. So it's like this pros I 0:21:01.480 --> 0:21:03.560 don't I don't know. Yeah, I'm still trying to work 0:21:03.640 --> 0:21:06.560 that out with myself ideally, Like if you could be 0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:08.879 on a label, where would you like to be? You 0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:10.520 know what? In this day and time? I don't know. 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:14.200 I don't know, but maybe somewhere that's an independent like 0:21:14.400 --> 0:21:18.040 distribution label. You know. I don't want to say any 0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:24.160 names because I don't want to. All right now, people 0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:27.639 have an emailion questions, so I printed somebody out all right, 0:21:29.119 --> 0:21:33.000 mm hmm, let me try to find a good one 0:21:33.080 --> 0:21:37.280 for you guys. Damn, that's like all four page letter. 0:21:37.320 --> 0:21:38.760 I end not listening. I have a bunch of people 0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:41.600 asking questions. Girls. Some of these are a little weird, 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:43.359 and I don't understand why we have to all right, 0:21:45.320 --> 0:21:47.600 So this is one woman says she's been in an 0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:49.840 honor and relationship with the guy for three years. She 0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:52.879 said she's known him since she was twelve. That's history, right. 0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:55.159 How does she know? I don't know? She said. We 0:21:55.200 --> 0:21:58.119 broke up in February. He's cheated multiple times, giving me 0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:01.520 an STD more than once, had two abortions that he 0:22:01.600 --> 0:22:04.800 didn't pay for it. Girl, jump his ass. Ain't nothing 0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:09.360 else to say the same, that he changed, she said 0:22:09.400 --> 0:22:12.879 in February, this happened, Yes, she said, I want, but 0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:14.600 I'm not sure if I should put myself in that 0:22:14.680 --> 0:22:17.280 situation again. Should I give him another chance? I should? 0:22:17.280 --> 0:22:19.359 I count my losses and keep him count your losses. 0:22:19.400 --> 0:22:21.400 But she should have kept been moving where she's gonna 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:24.640 wait from H and V Like No, No, she needs 0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:29.119 the next Stephanie. No, but let's admit it. We've all 0:22:29.200 --> 0:22:32.480 stating relationships with guys that have treated us shitty. Yes 0:22:32.760 --> 0:22:39.360 we have, but the three STDs and back at least 0:22:39.400 --> 0:22:41.280 pay for my boy. She goddamn it. At least don't 0:22:41.280 --> 0:22:45.560 get at least pay for me to get numbed up. 0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:47.880 I paid for the abortion before I got to take 0:22:47.960 --> 0:22:52.959 the exactly. Come on, can you imagine being with it now? 0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:55.520 Because it's one thing when you're going out on your woman, 0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:58.800 but Sam, you protect yourself. Why you gotta come and 0:22:58.920 --> 0:23:04.280 bring me back with your I'm sorry, yes, exactly, you 0:23:04.400 --> 0:23:09.560