Speaker 1: It's what app it's lip service at Angela. Ye, I'm
Speaker 1: Stephen Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire. Tierra Marie is here
Speaker 1: with us. Tire is a lip service veteran. I am
Speaker 1: like girl. Yes, I've been here from the start when
Speaker 1: I was a serious I remember I got you so
Speaker 1: drunken you had a showcase? Is something? Yeah I did.
Speaker 1: Did I get in trouble or something? Yeah? People was
Speaker 1: hit me the next day like, yo, why you got
Speaker 1: tiard before the showcase. Now that brings us to our
Speaker 1: tip of the day. We always have to start the
Speaker 1: show with the tip of the day, and today's tip
Speaker 1: is how do you handle when you date a man
Speaker 1: who has a drinking problem? Has anybody ever dated someone
Speaker 1: who has your drinking problem? When you feel like, okay,
Speaker 1: he drinks way too much, we get into arguments I
Speaker 1: can't handle it. But wait, wait, it's a drinking problem
Speaker 1: where he drinks excessively, or it's a drinking problem where
Speaker 1: he drinks once in a while, but when he drinks
Speaker 1: overboard and yell like I have done that. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: dated a guy like that. How do you handle that?
Speaker 1: Break up with his as they can't get it together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like you gotta get it together. You gotta don't know
Speaker 1: how to control yourself as an adult, and speaking from experiences,
Speaker 1: I've done that before. So I had to wake up, like, girl,
Speaker 1: get your ship together, Like, you can't be just out
Speaker 1: here drinking, like You're still accountable for your actions, you know,
Speaker 1: so whether you were drunk or not, Like, don't listen
Speaker 1: to Jamie Fox all the time. You can't just always
Speaker 1: blame it on the alcohol, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: you have to take accountability, So pace yourself and you know,
Speaker 1: be an adult when you drink if you like to drink, right,
Speaker 1: Have you never done anything so bad that you would
Speaker 1: like embarrassed to call the person the next day? Um?
Speaker 1: Probably the worst thing that I've done is like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like going too a rage, Like if somebody steps on
Speaker 1: my toe and then I'm like ready to fight and
Speaker 1: all my friends are like calm down, calm down now
Speaker 1: to nobody. Yeah yeah, and stuff like that. Yeah. Now,
Speaker 1: have you ever been with somebody that drinks too much?
Speaker 1: Tag you have? How do you handle that? How do
Speaker 1: I live with it? Every day? I mean, I mean
Speaker 1: what can you do? Can you stay with somebody and
Speaker 1: help them work through it or is it just a
Speaker 1: lost cause some people just drink. I smoke. The public
Speaker 1: really don't know that because I don't put it out there.
Speaker 1: We all know you smoke. Everybody, don't y'all know I smoke,
Speaker 1: cause y'all know, but you don't. Never see me on
Speaker 1: Snapchat with the blunt and my mouth for Instagram with weed,
Speaker 1: like I don't do all of that. So the general public,
Speaker 1: my friends and family, of course, y'all know I smoke
Speaker 1: about you. But you know, you know, everybody got their
Speaker 1: vices and you just gotta take you know, slipping moderation.
Speaker 1: I guess when when people what if he won't like,
Speaker 1: what if he just gets pits, he's drunk, embarrassing, you
Speaker 1: end up in an argument. What can you do? Is
Speaker 1: there any hope? I dealt with that and in a
Speaker 1: relationship too, but I can't. I don't have a solution
Speaker 1: for that. I don't. It's just a big problem. Um
Speaker 1: it's it's a fight, you know what I mean, And
Speaker 1: it's just it's a fight. It happens, then you deal
Speaker 1: with the aftermath of the fight, and then you move on,
Speaker 1: like but I'm not sure if that's a good way
Speaker 1: to deal with that. Now it's not because then it
Speaker 1: just it's going to keep happening. Because that's how I remember. Please,
Speaker 1: Oh you want to hear a story, y'all. You y'all
Speaker 1: know I got one story. Story satiago. Let's go. No. So,
Speaker 1: one time my boyfriend got so fucking drunk. We were
Speaker 1: living together. He got so drunk he went in the bathroom, right,
Speaker 1: and he came home and I was like, look at you.
Speaker 1: I was like, look at you. You get drunk like
Speaker 1: you in college. You're like a little fucking kid. Grow up.
Speaker 1: And he's like so trashed. He goes in the bathroom, right,
Speaker 1: So whatever, I'm in the living room. I noticed, like
Speaker 1: a long time goes by, So I'm like, let me
Speaker 1: go check on him. So I go and I knock
Speaker 1: on the door because that's a rule. I always when
Speaker 1: somebody's in the bathroom, got a knock on the door before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's something I teach my son, you know. They Yeah,
Speaker 1: they taught me that, you know when I was a kid.
Speaker 1: They take a ship, don't come in here, knocked, So
Speaker 1: check it out, knocked and he don't answer. So I'm banging.
Speaker 1: Now He's like what I'm like, I'm like, yo, get
Speaker 1: off the bathroom. I gotta use the bathroom. So I
Speaker 1: walk away from the bathroom. I sit down for like
Speaker 1: another twenty minutes. Still he hasn't came out the bathroom.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, I'm going in the bathroom
Speaker 1: now right. So I opened the bathroom. They got it's
Speaker 1: laying down on the floor, face first, and it smells
Speaker 1: crazy and there, and then I took a ship in
Speaker 1: the bathtub. He yo. So I started kicking him. I'm
Speaker 1: like yo, I'm like, yo, get up, get up. I
Speaker 1: swear tonight, tonight, I'm gonna do it tonight, tonight, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna kill you. I didn't look at it. I could
Speaker 1: smell it, Pete, I've seen it. I gagged. I was stressed,
Speaker 1: like I know when I first saw it. When I
Speaker 1: first saw it, I like I said, I gaged. I
Speaker 1: couldn't take it. It was. I got a weak stomach.
Speaker 1: So I got I walked out the bathroom, and I
Speaker 1: was I just I coached myself like I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: back in the bathroom. I'mau the snigger up right, So
Speaker 1: I go in the bathroom. I started kicking him. I
Speaker 1: forced him to get up. I put him in the bed,
Speaker 1: and then in the morning when he woke up, I
Speaker 1: told him. I was like, Yo, get up and clean
Speaker 1: the fucking bathtub. You took a ship in the bath
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna use. I wasn't gonna clean. Now, you
Speaker 1: got me. That's a grown us man by his mother.
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, go clean. He was like, what
Speaker 1: are you talking about. That's how bad it was. That's
Speaker 1: why I'm telling you this part. He did not remember that.
Speaker 1: They didn't remember what I was kicking the ship out
Speaker 1: of him together. If it was like salad, that I
Speaker 1: could pick it up with a paper towel, na, I
Speaker 1: would do it. No, it was a full man, all right.
Speaker 1: So he was another one, another one. I mean, I've
Speaker 1: never apparienced that, but I would assume that if it
Speaker 1: was salad, that would have get some paper towels. If
Speaker 1: I don't think I could leave it overnight. No, you're
Speaker 1: gonna get your podcast, You're gonna get the paper, and
Speaker 1: you're gonna coute yourself. How long I tell you sho again.
Speaker 1: I left. I woke up. Once he woke up, I
Speaker 1: waited him to wake up, and I left. I didn't
Speaker 1: come home for like two days. I was not playing.
Speaker 1: I love him there, I love him there, me and
Speaker 1: my son gone, are you crazy? And never came home.
Speaker 1: But come on, got that we're gonna cut that far
Speaker 1: had to be because that's your said. He Amen, we're
Speaker 1: gonna cut the sun's part too. At it at it?
Speaker 1: Did it happen often? Did it happen? Yes? He used
Speaker 1: to get drunk like that. Every time he got drunk.
Speaker 1: That's how he would do it. It wasn't no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. It was just like things like that. He
Speaker 1: wouldn't remember. He would cross his car, he would types
Speaker 1: of ship. This is real life. Yes, this is real.
Speaker 1: This is a real drinking problem. He I mean, it
Speaker 1: wasn't every day. That's why it's different when he would drink.
Speaker 1: It's not like he can have two or four or five.
Speaker 1: We talk about the difference between an alcoholic problem and
Speaker 1: an alcoholic dicoholics, somebody who will wake us up everything.
Speaker 1: I think. I think there's just different levels to be
Speaker 1: an alcoholic. That's a different level. Yeah. Please, another time
Speaker 1: another time comes to him drink and I'm like, look
Speaker 1: at you, look look at yourself, look at you. It's disgusting.
Speaker 1: So he's like, so he goes and he like, what
Speaker 1: are dripping on the floor? On the floor. This man
Speaker 1: went to the front door of the house and pete
Speaker 1: at the front door. That's what I said, that Angela,
Speaker 1: But Angela, my friend, my good friend. That's exactly what
Speaker 1: I said to him. I said, what the funk are
Speaker 1: you a dog? I was like, look at this, I'm
Speaker 1: married to a dog. Do you ever feel man? I
Speaker 1: thought older? That was the serious relationship many with him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I did all that. No, No, I mean, like I said,
Speaker 1: we would go through that, have the fight. You know,
Speaker 1: it will be a fight, and then we would have
Speaker 1: to deal with the aftermath of the fight and move on,
Speaker 1: you know, because you don't want that to keep happening.
Speaker 1: You know, it would keep it happened a lot. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna I hated I hated him when he was drunk.
Speaker 1: He knows this. If he's listening to this, he knows
Speaker 1: I'm talking about him because from the beginning of our relationship,
Speaker 1: it's a totally different person when he drinks. From the
Speaker 1: beginning of our relationships, everything could be so great. Then
Speaker 1: we go out to have a good time. You get drunking,
Speaker 1: you know we hate each other. That I should have
Speaker 1: known that our relationship wasn't gonna work out because just
Speaker 1: one year into our relationship, two years into our relationship,
Speaker 1: I realized that I could not go out with him,
Speaker 1: We could not go out socially together, because everything was
Speaker 1: a problem. When you come home, moms, every time we
Speaker 1: will go out together, it would be a nightmare, like
Speaker 1: something that you're gonna get into an argument. Ever. Have
Speaker 1: you ever had a bad experience with a drunken man? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: What's the um? Let me think, girl, because I don't
Speaker 1: even want to say too much because y'all might know
Speaker 1: who I'm talking about him. We don't, No, I would
Speaker 1: like this guy would just get totally disrespectful. Like when
Speaker 1: he's sober, he's respectful. When he's drunk, he's a disrespectful fuck,
Speaker 1: Like he disrespects you in your face, like bit just
Speaker 1: laying on his lap board. My son's father came. We
Speaker 1: out of that again, exactly know, like he's laying on
Speaker 1: bitches lads, and let's just like respectful. I don't even
Speaker 1: I don't tolerate that, and you know that. But I
Speaker 1: love you when I know that you're inebriated, So maybe
Speaker 1: we could talk about it tomorrow, but that like given, um,
Speaker 1: I don't know what. You get tired of giving a
Speaker 1: guy a pass? You get tired? Yeah, mate, what because
Speaker 1: it seemed like does his name Ryan with ca sa?
Speaker 1: I plead the fist? What about you? GD? I know, listen,
Speaker 1: I feel like I've been there sometime. What's the worst
Speaker 1: expert of the room. You're crazy when you're drunk too, though,
Speaker 1: and so am I say, you know, I'm not all
Speaker 1: of us. I'm not saying that crazy ship. Yeah, let's
Speaker 1: take responsibility absolutely with him. He'll get so drunk and
Speaker 1: then we'll get into whatever it is and then he
Speaker 1: don't even remember, right, That's what pisses me off. But
Speaker 1: that's well know that they don't remember. They really don't remember. Yes,
Speaker 1: I blacked out, I mean not to but after time
Speaker 1: every time, but I don't think every time. I think
Speaker 1: they tricked up, remember pissing pieces, but they don't, or
Speaker 1: this happened out of that, and he'll be like, no,
Speaker 1: it didn't know. I didn't and I'd be like I
Speaker 1: was there, Yeah, other people were there, and there you're
Speaker 1: saying people he didn't say it, or that that's you know,
Speaker 1: whatever didn't happen, and that that's what pisses me off.
Speaker 1: Like get drunk, get funked up, whatever. But when you
Speaker 1: get to the point where you can't remember saying and
Speaker 1: doing things like how do what about when you sunk up?
Speaker 1: What can you do after? Well, we can't know. I'll
Speaker 1: say something about that. Oh no. Usually when I'm drunk
Speaker 1: and I do something stupid, which is nine out of
Speaker 1: ten times when I'm drunk, I say, I don't remember, yea,
Speaker 1: even if I do, like what, don't tell me, don't
Speaker 1: tell me. I don't remember nobody, I don't want to.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, no, no, that's the worst. I had
Speaker 1: some friends in this room drunk, so I had to
Speaker 1: really like control and cast myself when I drink. And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, y'all, it's an alcohol for everybody.
Speaker 1: Are you light or dark? What thinks to Angela? Yes?
Speaker 1: Vacca won't have me black crazy, black head? Okay? No
Speaker 1: vodka no good. I drink tequila. I like drinking. Don
Speaker 1: want to turn up and be crazy? Right? No? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: Vodka makes me turn up and be crazy. Doesn't see
Speaker 1: Vodka does everything wrong to me? It foks on my
Speaker 1: bladder like I can't. Poka is poison. It does't depend
Speaker 1: on what you drink too, because it's feel a certain way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like fequilla because I had some coffee and
Speaker 1: it it makes me like, oh I I don't want
Speaker 1: to go to sleep right dark for me is like okay,
Speaker 1: now I'm cool, I'm collected and I can I can
Speaker 1: enjoy myself, have a buzz and mure drink. Yes for sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, Now what would y'all do if your
Speaker 1: man makes a new friend who's attractive. Let's just say
Speaker 1: no friends. Friends is like a work thing though she
Speaker 1: shouldn't be a friend. She's like she's a co worker
Speaker 1: acquainted somebody they cool with, but they got to speak
Speaker 1: to each other. They were co worker together dinners because
Speaker 1: they have they don't have dinners. They don't have dinners.
Speaker 1: They have meetings and business chests where they got to
Speaker 1: travel together. I'll be there to I can come and
Speaker 1: we are going. You can't now, okay, So then because
Speaker 1: I get a little crazy when it goes, I have
Speaker 1: to cross that bridge when I get to it. But
Speaker 1: let's talk about that. Like, Wendy, what is the limits
Speaker 1: to your guy in a business relationship, you know, where
Speaker 1: they got to talk to each other, communicate, work on
Speaker 1: things together for certain hours. I think, um, we're certain
Speaker 1: like tones of speech, you know, like you know what
Speaker 1: that Yeah, no, no, no, that's not cool. Yeah no,
Speaker 1: that's not cool. It's not cool for you. Hell no,
Speaker 1: let me know. Yeah, I just it's a certain tone
Speaker 1: of a relationship or you know, business partnership, whatever it is.
Speaker 1: It's just a certain tone and that I won't tolerate
Speaker 1: because you've been in relationships where the guy obviously has
Speaker 1: to communicate with other women for what he does have
Speaker 1: to clothes that well, it's not so difficult because a
Speaker 1: lot of times, even though I'm busy, I'm very involved,
Speaker 1: Like you know, I've dealt with important men and I've
Speaker 1: been like, you know, okay, this is your solence. Oh
Speaker 1: she she, she calling you right now. Okay, we're busy.
Speaker 1: Let me answer it, let me talk, let me you
Speaker 1: know directly, because women don't give a funk sometimes when
Speaker 1: they don't, but at least I know. So now, bitch,
Speaker 1: if you want to cross that line, then now I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have to. Yeah, you know what's up? And you
Speaker 1: looked me in my eye and you were lying, ass bitch,
Speaker 1: So now you have to deal with the rap. Can
Speaker 1: you're not pointing at me when you say what about
Speaker 1: to stuff you've had to deal with? That YouTube? G
Speaker 1: I mean like, I feel like it's a difference between
Speaker 1: somebody having a friend and working with them, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? I don't. I don't think I would
Speaker 1: be over right okay with somebody with my man having
Speaker 1: private time with a new friend, whether they're working together
Speaker 1: or not. If you want to, if you guys have
Speaker 1: to meet up at night where there's dinner involved, I
Speaker 1: can come with you, or you can have other friends
Speaker 1: there where I know you know, it's just a common
Speaker 1: work thing. You know what I mean. I'm crazy. I
Speaker 1: couldn't even imagine. Would you rather not know? No? No,
Speaker 1: I would rather, like she said, be involved. You know what,
Speaker 1: do you ever lie about things because you know your
Speaker 1: man will get up set? We all do? I feel
Speaker 1: like that you lied about things seeing man because you
Speaker 1: know he's not gonna like it. You know me, I
Speaker 1: I don't tell my man anything exactly how I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't don't, but I'm gonna ask. That's exactly I think.
Speaker 1: If I was dating somebody, um, you know seriously that
Speaker 1: it has more. You know, who understands my lifestyle, who
Speaker 1: works in entertainment like I do. I think I would
Speaker 1: be able to be more open about certain relationships with them.
Speaker 1: But you know, when my last relationship was just somebody
Speaker 1: who you know, who's just a regular person, doesn't work
Speaker 1: in entertainment. So you know, I don't feel like I
Speaker 1: could have been honest him about certain relationships because he
Speaker 1: wouldn't understand it, you know what I mean. He would
Speaker 1: give me problems for everything. Yeah, that's a I would
Speaker 1: take him to certain events and he would have a problem,
Speaker 1: like I gotta change if I'm going to be with
Speaker 1: him because this is what he wants. I always quit
Speaker 1: smoking for guys, and I always quit down. I might
Speaker 1: bend a little bit, but not too much. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I've been a little just I compromised. I tried to
Speaker 1: compromise good. Yeah, so I'm not like so stubborn about
Speaker 1: who I am and what I want. I think it's
Speaker 1: good if it's better for you. Yeah. Absolutely, I would
Speaker 1: never change for somebody, But if I felt like, you know,
Speaker 1: where he's ready, it's actually be something that would benefit me.
Speaker 1: Even if if I'm not with your ass. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I might still take those changes on into my next chapter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I did that. I think I changed for
Speaker 1: the better. He wanted me to change, and I feel like, like,
Speaker 1: what things about you change? My demeanor changed a lot,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not as aggressive as I used to be,
Speaker 1: and I also became more private I used to, you know,
Speaker 1: when the beginning of Twitter, I used to my every move,
Speaker 1: my every thought, my everything, and it's just like some
Speaker 1: you know, I'm really really to myself now. Um. I
Speaker 1: improved on the way I communicate with people as well.
Speaker 1: You know, I showed more interests and like gratuity and
Speaker 1: appreciation to things. For me thinking about it, I'm so
Speaker 1: submissive when I'm in love. I've changed so much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: read that and be like why did I? I think
Speaker 1: when I start regretting it as when I started going
Speaker 1: back to the player that I am meant to be exactly,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what am I doing that? That's not even
Speaker 1: Do you feel like people have like a the wrong
Speaker 1: idea about you from watching you on TV? Absolutely? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like people want to hang out with certain people that
Speaker 1: they tell me, Like, I didn't know what to expect
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, you know, I guess to know
Speaker 1: me is to love me, you know, or to love
Speaker 1: me is to know me. That's because I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: t's gonna be on love and hip Hop When you
Speaker 1: first started, you know, a whole different person, right. I
Speaker 1: was like, damn girl, I mean but no, but Angela,
Speaker 1: let's be honest. Yes, and I'm a don't start now.
Speaker 1: I won't be now on type of person. I give
Speaker 1: you what you give me all the time. I'm nice,
Speaker 1: I'm very nice. But when you start with me, then
Speaker 1: I don't know a middle, you know. And that's something
Speaker 1: that I'm working on, right because I don't want to
Speaker 1: be on national TV not knowing the middle as a
Speaker 1: fucking twenty nine year old woman, you know. So I gotta,
Speaker 1: you know, get it together. I'm still working on a
Speaker 1: work in progress. Are you single now? I am single? Okay?
Speaker 1: Are you dating anybody? Every time you asked here, she
Speaker 1: always does have like some special boot because you seem
Speaker 1: like a relationship kind of girl. I am a relationship
Speaker 1: kind of girl. But you know, I'm just you know,
Speaker 1: playing the field and music. Yeah, body language is like no,
Speaker 1: watch the next season. Yeah, I mean right now, I
Speaker 1: am just playing the field and focused on my music. Okay.
Speaker 1: You know, I want to release an album, so that's
Speaker 1: what I'm focused on. Okay, do you know where the
Speaker 1: album is gonna be at yet? Have you? Are you
Speaker 1: going to be independent? Um? I don't know yet. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm like in the discussion with a couple of different
Speaker 1: situations and also so being independent, So I don't know
Speaker 1: if I want to because I feel like I could
Speaker 1: make more money being independent, So but I feel like
Speaker 1: I could get more exposure being on a label. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like this pros I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know. Yeah, I'm still trying to work
Speaker 1: that out with myself ideally, Like if you could be
Speaker 1: on a label, where would you like to be? You
Speaker 1: know what? In this day and time? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but maybe somewhere that's an independent like
Speaker 1: distribution label. You know. I don't want to say any
Speaker 1: names because I don't want to. All right now, people
Speaker 1: have an emailion questions, so I printed somebody out all right,
Speaker 1: mm hmm, let me try to find a good one
Speaker 1: for you guys. Damn, that's like all four page letter.
Speaker 1: I end not listening. I have a bunch of people
Speaker 1: asking questions. Girls. Some of these are a little weird,
Speaker 1: and I don't understand why we have to all right,
Speaker 1: So this is one woman says she's been in an
Speaker 1: honor and relationship with the guy for three years. She
Speaker 1: said she's known him since she was twelve. That's history, right.
Speaker 1: How does she know? I don't know? She said. We
Speaker 1: broke up in February. He's cheated multiple times, giving me
Speaker 1: an STD more than once, had two abortions that he
Speaker 1: didn't pay for it. Girl, jump his ass. Ain't nothing
Speaker 1: else to say the same, that he changed, she said
Speaker 1: in February, this happened, Yes, she said, I want, but
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I should put myself in that
Speaker 1: situation again. Should I give him another chance? I should?
Speaker 1: I count my losses and keep him count your losses.
Speaker 1: But she should have kept been moving where she's gonna
Speaker 1: wait from H and V Like No, No, she needs
Speaker 1: the next Stephanie. No, but let's admit it. We've all
Speaker 1: stating relationships with guys that have treated us shitty. Yes
Speaker 1: we have, but the three STDs and back at least
Speaker 1: pay for my boy. She goddamn it. At least don't
Speaker 1: get at least pay for me to get numbed up.
Speaker 1: I paid for the abortion before I got to take
Speaker 1: the exactly. Come on, can you imagine being with it now?
Speaker 1: Because it's one thing when you're going out on your woman,
Speaker 1: but Sam, you protect yourself. Why you gotta come and
Speaker 1: bring me back with your I'm sorry, yes, exactly, you
Speaker 1: look dirty? Not many times, and believe me, little three times.
Speaker 1: It's going to be a fourth, fifth and the six.
Speaker 1: I mean it. It was only only in February. You know,
Speaker 1: it's not enough time to really completely change from all
Speaker 1: that bullshit. I feel like an STD is a deal
Speaker 1: breaker if you give me, because that could have been
Speaker 1: a it could have been in terrible that's a deal break.
Speaker 1: What if she was pregnant when she had at CD,
Speaker 1: that's really like, I don't know, No, no, girlfriend, move forward.
Speaker 1: The coucher losses. Ten months is a long enough time
Speaker 1: to you know, to have a nice pillow to move
Speaker 1: on on, like, go another time months, baby, and you'll
Speaker 1: be somebody that you hate having sex with. Hell no, no,
Speaker 1: not even for money. Yeah, no, work my ass off.
Speaker 1: Work to rather work hard and get right. You just
Speaker 1: slightly dislike it. It's just not that great, and you
Speaker 1: know what's wrong? And have sex with this guy? Y'all know,
Speaker 1: I think that's all a part of love. Though it's
Speaker 1: part of to talk about me he rest in peace.
Speaker 1: Always got to talk about that little dick, dead guy,
Speaker 1: R dick tell me about l D T Yeah, R
Speaker 1: l D This neck on the Hennessy bottom? Oh hell no?
Speaker 1: How long was it? The neck of the girl? Okay,
Speaker 1: now that's not no, that's horrible. I where I was?
Speaker 1: That the whole that whole thing though, just but even
Speaker 1: the length. But are y'all wet with or length? I
Speaker 1: like a fair share of both. But if I had to,
Speaker 1: I'm long. Yeah, I'm gonna take that thing heavy. I mean,
Speaker 1: my my first choice is lame and girl, but if
Speaker 1: you like, if if I have to, I still need
Speaker 1: a little left. But girl, like I could go, I
Speaker 1: could take I like seven inches with a lot of
Speaker 1: girlf is nice, but ten answers, nine inswers and a
Speaker 1: lot of girls about her was definitely a che chaser
Speaker 1: when it comes to that, like I'm all about nothing's
Speaker 1: worse than a long, skinny dick. That's terrible. That well,
Speaker 1: that ain't even long, and we were together. We were
Speaker 1: only together for eight months, but it was a it
Speaker 1: was a relation, crazy relationship, and I just to make
Speaker 1: it put in mud. But you could have stayed with
Speaker 1: him longer. You think like you could have stayed with him? Nah, bro,
Speaker 1: he was the reason why I moved to Atlanta. I
Speaker 1: had to get the funk away from his crazy. His
Speaker 1: little dick made you moved to Atlanta. I got it,
Speaker 1: wasn't it was crazy as he was crazy. How you're
Speaker 1: gonna be crazy with it? He has little dick syndrome.
Speaker 1: You can't be normal with a little dick. It's just
Speaker 1: like Napoleon in syndrome. You're a little dick as he
Speaker 1: wouldn't see. Have you ever said something to a guy
Speaker 1: that you feel bad? You said later, Yeah, because my
Speaker 1: mouth is reckless, girl, all kinds of chick, because you know,
Speaker 1: when you attack a guy's dick or they're wallet, then
Speaker 1: they're feeling some kind of like yeah, so I've said
Speaker 1: some things, you know, well your salary every Yeah, yeah, girl,
Speaker 1: I've said something along those lines. And then I've been
Speaker 1: like damn, And when we've been trying to work it
Speaker 1: out and he's like, well, you said this and he
Speaker 1: holds on tour forever and that's why we ain't together.
Speaker 1: That's how you a bit. You keep bringing up ocean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like what did you did? You feel bad? That's what
Speaker 1: I say, But yeah, I felt bad. Yeah, because if
Speaker 1: I wanted to work it out with them. But it's
Speaker 1: like you hit me low, I'm gonna go even lower.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna hit you really wear you trying
Speaker 1: to see you can see. Yeah, but that's that's not
Speaker 1: a person person. That's for you. You know, if you're
Speaker 1: going to for tat like that, what about your step
Speaker 1: you ever said? I know you did? Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: guys are so sensitive about everything. They'll say the worst
Speaker 1: things to you and you say the littlest thing like
Speaker 1: you never made me come and they die. They're they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I want y'all makeup. It's like, I don't
Speaker 1: know why you want to sensitive? We were fighting, calm down,
Speaker 1: but I regret it. I like or or your dick
Speaker 1: is little because they never let it go. They just
Speaker 1: never let it go right. I'm trying to think, try
Speaker 1: to just to be careful that. But what about if
Speaker 1: you say a guys, if you call it a guy,
Speaker 1: different name, not during that just regular like you slip
Speaker 1: his name, like if he has a name like you
Speaker 1: like keep the conversation moving like it didn't happen. No,
Speaker 1: I mean you're just like like I would just keep
Speaker 1: talking and act like it didn't happen. Now. See, I
Speaker 1: always catch myself, So if I'm about to call you
Speaker 1: see when your name is John, I'll be like, still,
Speaker 1: it's it. That's good catching myself all the time, though,
Speaker 1: But what if it yeah's catching yourself. Yeah, but what
Speaker 1: do you do, like if it just comes out like
Speaker 1: she said, I just act like it didn't happen, and
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I didn't say that, You're crazy, not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. That's happened to me a few times. It's
Speaker 1: not like damn, but like like like names like Will
Speaker 1: and Bill or something like that. I don't know if
Speaker 1: that was a good. Yeah, Sean just was watching The
Speaker 1: Fresh Prince and were talking about Will Smith and that's
Speaker 1: why I called you Will my bad right, Yeah, you
Speaker 1: just gotta make some ship up. But God's Will be
Speaker 1: so mad over that like that. Guys are more sensitive
Speaker 1: than than we are. Absolutely, well, no, slowdown, it it
Speaker 1: might called you the wrong names. Yeah, you're right, don't lie,
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't keep bringing it up. I will maybe
Speaker 1: I would, all right, right, alright, even you'll be like,
Speaker 1: so was that bitch Keisha? We're right, We'll ask Keisha
Speaker 1: to deal with like alright, right, now, here's another question.
Speaker 1: So I've been dealing with this guy for twelve years.
Speaker 1: We've only had a sexual relationship until around year four.
Speaker 1: He started having feelings and said he loved me. We
Speaker 1: talked and agree to keep things how they were. I
Speaker 1: started dating someone else about six years ago. Now we're married.
Speaker 1: We have been for three years. My side dude has
Speaker 1: always been around and knows about my husband. Now that
Speaker 1: I'm married and giving him less attention, he's professing his
Speaker 1: love and wanting me to leave my husband. He's doing
Speaker 1: things he knows he shouldn't do, like texting or calling
Speaker 1: at the wrong time. Of course, my husband knows nothing
Speaker 1: about him. I have no plans on leaving my husband,
Speaker 1: but I'm scared my side dude may say something about
Speaker 1: our relationship. What should I do? That sounds like a
Speaker 1: fatal attraction, first of all, and he should play his position.
Speaker 1: A pussy woman talking about her side dude, her s
Speaker 1: who as Nigga. Okay, so she's not sign Nigga's a
Speaker 1: whole pussy punk as nigga. And those are those are
Speaker 1: the guys that you can never cheat on your boyfriend with,
Speaker 1: the guys that it's just an automatic him because she
Speaker 1: had known him before she knew her husband always had
Speaker 1: this relationship. But you know whatever, like people change, you
Speaker 1: can't always trust people. Just because you once trust them
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you can always trust them. But you trust
Speaker 1: somebody knew what somebody you know? I don't know, I
Speaker 1: would say I don't. Oh that's hard because somebody that
Speaker 1: you know, she ain't Mary, may have more feelings for
Speaker 1: you and they get sensitive like he did. But somebody
Speaker 1: knew you can't trust. You can't because you don't know them. Right.
Speaker 1: So hey, ladies, if you don't get married, just be faithful.
Speaker 1: I mean that's the point again. Yeah, exactly right. But
Speaker 1: so you you you think a better side, dude, is
Speaker 1: somebody knew or somebody your part? No, definitely, if somebody side,
Speaker 1: would it be somebody you knew for a long time
Speaker 1: before you probably, like you said, somebody knew because they
Speaker 1: don't know everything about trains know what I'm saying you
Speaker 1: don't know where I live. Bitches, don't be bringing your
Speaker 1: side see your house where your husband's sleep, Like that's
Speaker 1: just no, you know, so you could train a new side, dude,
Speaker 1: like she said, like you don't know where I live?
Speaker 1: You know you do? You have to think about getting
Speaker 1: ahead of it and saying something to your husband like this.
Speaker 1: I saw a movie like that. I forgot what movie
Speaker 1: was that. It was a movie where it's nigged. It
Speaker 1: was like a DVD movie. I think we'll Golden Brooks
Speaker 1: or some ship. Remember, but yeah, I saw a movie
Speaker 1: like that. I don't know. I think you probably should.
Speaker 1: But what would you tell the truth? That? Would you
Speaker 1: tell half truths? I plead to do because you could
Speaker 1: just probably it's just a guy trying would tell half
Speaker 1: true Now would you need to know basis, I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what you need to know, you would say, because
Speaker 1: once you bring it up, then there's more questions and
Speaker 1: more questions and more questions. It is, Oh, your man
Speaker 1: wouldn't have to trust you again, right, that's just But
Speaker 1: what if you're like, yo, he's crazy, then he's going
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, I need to find out who
Speaker 1: he is and he's going to be trying to stop him.
Speaker 1: Somebody might die. Why are why are you bringing this
Speaker 1: up to your boyfriend? That's what I said, because but
Speaker 1: that's why you must with a new guy. And once
Speaker 1: you feel like he's starting the catch feelings, you drop
Speaker 1: him and you pick up another new one. Black boom boom?
Speaker 1: Did he even give it? What is yours about? Yes?
Speaker 1: You know we're the best, black out, the best, That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You know, you get the summer fifth.
Speaker 1: It was last my second Okay. I was like, so
Speaker 1: your birthday was on the weekend Friday. Yeah, you guys
Speaker 1: are so cute that tears. Yeah, we really get you
Speaker 1: ready for capricorns? Yeah okay, okay, well at least we
Speaker 1: all get alongst we get along with everybody. We're just amazing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: here's a good one, and were I totally understand other sagests,
Speaker 1: but go ahead. I'm currently dating a chick with two kids,
Speaker 1: ages four and nine. We've been dating for eight months.
Speaker 1: I really love it, but her kids are so damn bad.
Speaker 1: They disrespect me and they have no discipline something like relationship.
Speaker 1: But I can't stand her kids. What should I do? Oh? Damn?
Speaker 1: He need to move on because you know a mother's love.
Speaker 1: You know you can't tell my simple and you can't
Speaker 1: discipline her kids anyway. How would you feel like if
Speaker 1: you were dating a guy and he tried to discipline
Speaker 1: your child. No, I don't have kids, but you got
Speaker 1: to go, bro, I wish tell me how I will
Speaker 1: stab a man before I let him discipline my child.
Speaker 1: You got me fucked up. He has a father who
Speaker 1: can discipline, and I will discipline him. Trust me, I'll
Speaker 1: do it good. Even I don't even like for my
Speaker 1: son's grandparents to discipline him because I remember when I
Speaker 1: was a kid. You know, I'm I'm I'm Puerto Rican.
Speaker 1: It was okay for everybody to hit us, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. My uncle just said, that's my aunt,
Speaker 1: you said as my grandmother, you said us everybody my
Speaker 1: sister used to be me up all the time, like
Speaker 1: it was okay. I'm not playing that. I'm not playing that.
Speaker 1: I tell them, listen, he is. He is higher than y'all,
Speaker 1: so respect him, okay, like that? Like that, treat him
Speaker 1: like that. Kids that can never work. You guys saying
Speaker 1: my son is really good. If I was with a
Speaker 1: guy with badass kids, I would probably because I would
Speaker 1: never would I wouldn't try to discipline someone else's kids.
Speaker 1: I would move on and within period. I mean, I
Speaker 1: would probably be with him, but I would be like, listen,
Speaker 1: I can't with your kids. So you handling your business
Speaker 1: with your kids, I'm going to handle my business because
Speaker 1: he's a guy too. Though it's different because yeah, and
Speaker 1: the kids are always around. Yeah, that's true. So with
Speaker 1: the guy, they're not. She talked to the girl before
Speaker 1: him because I feel bad, that's all these questions. My
Speaker 1: first answer is you gotta go, and it's not gonna work.
Speaker 1: Get a new one, you know. I feel like I
Speaker 1: feel like he should, you know, like like really seriously
Speaker 1: talk to her, you know, and tell her like, listen,
Speaker 1: I can't take your kids are disrespecting me, you know,
Speaker 1: like can we do something about yeah, exactly, If after
Speaker 1: that that doesn't, you know, if that doesn't, if it
Speaker 1: doesn't improve after that, then you know, what can you do?
Speaker 1: You gotta move on the kids. If she's any kind
Speaker 1: of a mother, and you know, the kids are gonna
Speaker 1: come before, you know what I mean, kids or the
Speaker 1: dad hears like what you doing? I agree with that
Speaker 1: kids is acting like that I agree with that. To
Speaker 1: call a supernanny, yeah, to men with our kids because
Speaker 1: I'm too opinionate. I'm it's very rare, honey, it's very
Speaker 1: very rare. And um, I'm just too opinionate. It's so
Speaker 1: I just would prefer that. But all right, here's the
Speaker 1: next question. I'm a gemini. I often feel like I
Speaker 1: get too attached to people too fast. Okay, rather it's
Speaker 1: with girlfriends or whether it's with girlfriends or guys, I
Speaker 1: often can't tell. Often can't tell rather if I have
Speaker 1: an actual deep connection with someone or from just being
Speaker 1: my attaching self. Right now, I'm talking to a guy.
Speaker 1: We've only been talking for a month. He says he
Speaker 1: likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship yet.
Speaker 1: I understand why he feels that way, but I really
Speaker 1: feel like I'm developing strong feelings for him. I've even
Speaker 1: had cases with females I think we are best friends
Speaker 1: and they only call me a friend or just a
Speaker 1: coworker or classmate. What do I do to keep myself
Speaker 1: from getting too attached to people? Like? Stop getting too
Speaker 1: that's something to say that. Don't we trying to blame it.
Speaker 1: Don't be trying to dated. Look that ain't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with you being a Gemini. First of all,
Speaker 1: let's start there. Yeah, why did she started like that?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she lonely. She probably the only
Speaker 1: child that ain't got no friends and she loaned. I
Speaker 1: ain't no couple, don't be so people's attach. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't like friends like that. They first eating and they
Speaker 1: feel like they're in a relationship after seeing somebody. You
Speaker 1: are not supposed to want to be in a relationship
Speaker 1: with that person. And if that person doesn't want to
Speaker 1: be with you after month, you should understand, like Sherry,
Speaker 1: a man is supposed to want you a little bit
Speaker 1: more than you want them. I don't here. I can't
Speaker 1: see myself dating someone for a month and see me
Speaker 1: wanting to want knowing that I want to be in
Speaker 1: a relationship. I mean whether I'm like, we got to
Speaker 1: be in a relationship or not. But you're not. You're
Speaker 1: not in a month, You're not like okay, but that's attached,
Speaker 1: like she Maybe she's not. That's a cleany person that
Speaker 1: doesn't have anything doing a Gemini. Yeah anything like that.
Speaker 1: That's she's just a cleany person and she needs to work, work,
Speaker 1: on herself because that ain't cool. I hate cleaning brands too,
Speaker 1: like clean you friends who are like, well, where are
Speaker 1: you at? Why you ain't calling me? Like girl, I'll
Speaker 1: talk to you, yeah, but you bothn't said, oh, I
Speaker 1: wasn't invited somewhere something where you at? I'm on my way, girl. No,
Speaker 1: I'll call you if I want to be around your
Speaker 1: glass tonight. And maybe it slipped my mind to call you.
Speaker 1: You know, it's maybe I wasn't invited here. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So chill. I still love you. I'll
Speaker 1: talk to you when I talk to you. I feel
Speaker 1: like I get attached to people fasts too, but not everybody,
Speaker 1: come on right everybody? No no, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1: And you don't even like the word she needs to
Speaker 1: practice being I think, yeah, she needs to practice and
Speaker 1: joint time we click. But I'm not attached to you.
Speaker 1: But we click, yeah, you know. And I don't mind
Speaker 1: saying that I'm attached to my best friends or even
Speaker 1: even yeah somebody. But I mean, even when I'm attached,
Speaker 1: when I say I love this person, this is my
Speaker 1: best friend, I'm not trying to be around them all
Speaker 1: the time. I'm not calling you all the time something happens.
Speaker 1: For my god, girl, I had to call you and
Speaker 1: tell you this, you know, But I'm it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: certain friends for certain things too exactly and im and
Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm thinking trying to imagine because that's
Speaker 1: the total opposite of myself. I don't. I'm not. I
Speaker 1: like being by myself. I thought, well, yeah, I thought, wow,
Speaker 1: I need some lonely time. Wants to be at home
Speaker 1: by myself. It was in my Spanish music. And you
Speaker 1: know there's a lot of water exactly water, water weed
Speaker 1: by myself. And you know, you know, I know people
Speaker 1: who needs to have somebody around them all the time.
Speaker 1: They can't be by themselves. Still I don't understand that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just can't understand that. So that's what I say
Speaker 1: for this girl, she needs to practice some self time,
Speaker 1: you know, like like take a bath, sitting there for
Speaker 1: our security, to enjoy the things that you can do,
Speaker 1: drink a glass of tea like you know, it's just
Speaker 1: things that I enjoy doing by myself. Watching My Guilty
Speaker 1: Pleasures on TV that I would never tell y'all that
Speaker 1: I watched, you know, given example here, Okay, y'all, go,
Speaker 1: first important thing. Okay, so she brought up the lesbian
Speaker 1: important thing. So okay, I'll say, you know I watched
Speaker 1: you know, certain she's watching im. Okay, what's the categories here?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I hate to say this. Tell us, oh,
Speaker 1: y'all and judge me. A sex. No, but it's not. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's what I like doing. I can look at you serious, yes,
Speaker 1: but I don't like anal sex. I can't. That's seeing
Speaker 1: that big gaping asshole. And yeah it's sexy. Is far
Speaker 1: to see a girl getting killed in the ass, like
Speaker 1: just getting her whole life. But I don't want it
Speaker 1: for myself, Like I know, I've tried it and I
Speaker 1: was to have a heart attack. No stop, like my
Speaker 1: my whole body head. I feel like the body needs
Speaker 1: to be built for that, Like you need to have
Speaker 1: a boose booty. I'm not a booty. It's crazy, Like
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm going to do you enjoy watching
Speaker 1: it a year because you wish you could do it.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that's what it is subconsciously. What about gay
Speaker 1: mail point? I like it. I like it a thing.
Speaker 1: I guess it's a whole asping, you know, but it's
Speaker 1: not even like a turn you on type of thing.
Speaker 1: It's just like amazing. Yeah. I even like women watching
Speaker 1: guys fucking guys in the ask for Dodos. I like
Speaker 1: that because I'm weird. What kind of point don't you like?
Speaker 1: If you had to say, I just don't like fake
Speaker 1: scripted ship. I like for it to feel real, like
Speaker 1: when they're coming in the office and it's the fake
Speaker 1: secretary or the schoolgirl or the teacher, Like I'll be
Speaker 1: like girls, yeah, like the delivery guy. Yeah. Like you know,
Speaker 1: if you can make it look real, then I will
Speaker 1: be interested. But I don't like the fake scripted ship.
Speaker 1: So that's me. And but what category? Um like, what
Speaker 1: don't you like to see? Um? I don't like to
Speaker 1: see regular Yeah, I don't like regular se Yeah, when
Speaker 1: they're just like I don't like it's like like regular
Speaker 1: feel of sex. Yeah, no regular like for me. I
Speaker 1: like my parts to be intense. Me too, I'm very intense.
Speaker 1: I even sometimes watch and I don't want this, but
Speaker 1: I watch a little gang bang in there bang group sex.
Speaker 1: I like that kind of stuff to watch gang Bang
Speaker 1: Bang Bang every the glory, y'all. You know, UM have
Speaker 1: I I think I have probably in the past, but
Speaker 1: it doesn't It doesn't totally turn me on. Yeah I
Speaker 1: was younger, but yeah that's me, My me time. Have
Speaker 1: you ever wanted talking about the last team? I was
Speaker 1: supposed to be at work, but I'm here watching porn.
Speaker 1: I'm late. Has that happened? No, okay, so this has
Speaker 1: happened to me. I've masturbated before, and like when I'm masturbate, like,
Speaker 1: I get really tired and I want to like later,
Speaker 1: going to sleep for a minute, and then I'm I'm
Speaker 1: letting late for something. Yeah, I have masturbated. I'm tired.
Speaker 1: I don't say that. I'd be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I want splay. I'm on my way. Have you ever
Speaker 1: baby masturbated before your man came over and then you
Speaker 1: didn't feel like having sex? No, if my my nigga
Speaker 1: is coming, then hey, I'm ready. Now, I like to
Speaker 1: masterbate before before the dick comes over, because yeah, he
Speaker 1: comes out, is ready? Okay, So you masturbated, but do
Speaker 1: you comeau? I'd like, will not masterbate, I'd like to come? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you come Okay. We never report back on that one
Speaker 1: because I never tried it, and they'd be like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, like, wow, baby, your pussy so well, Like,
Speaker 1: how does he make you so harty? Have you ever
Speaker 1: masturbated a not come? Yeah, and when you're drunk or
Speaker 1: like sometimes yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, and then it's
Speaker 1: just like, okay, I forgot much and your your ship
Speaker 1: looks you know now I'm a little bit Yeah, this kid,
Speaker 1: I've become nune before. We need some help. If I
Speaker 1: got to masturbate until I'm numb, somebody's got to come over, yeah,
Speaker 1: well or not or not. That's I mean, it's just like,
Speaker 1: I mean, you're trying to get there, you almost get there,
Speaker 1: you almost are there, and it's just like, damn, it's
Speaker 1: not there. So you keep trying and it's like you're numb.
Speaker 1: It's wrong. It sucks. That sounds it's so bad. It
Speaker 1: is so bad when you so bad. And do you
Speaker 1: guys think about like another man when you're having sex. Ever,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Sometimes when I'm getting my pussy
Speaker 1: a I will think of porn. Porn. I want not
Speaker 1: a hapn fast you know what I mean that is,
Speaker 1: that's not what I do the same thing because I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna like that. I think it's for a man,
Speaker 1: it's they're trying not to coming for a woman. We
Speaker 1: try to come. It's like we gotta do would become
Speaker 1: they're lazy in a second and now or other times
Speaker 1: that when you come or you're like I'm done. No,
Speaker 1: I mean I don't. Once I come, like, you gotta stop.
Speaker 1: You gotta get your mouth off. You have, but I
Speaker 1: can take the dick. You gotta get your mouth off.
Speaker 1: But that's a great time to stick the dick in
Speaker 1: after you perfect time, perfect time. That's great. You're thinking me,
Speaker 1: I got my tongue all down your throat and I'm
Speaker 1: looking all over your face because I want to take
Speaker 1: to all that ship. Yeah, that's fun, good time, good time.
Speaker 1: I gotta try to like somebody like to spitty on you,
Speaker 1: like yes, And I don't like that. You don't like that,
Speaker 1: and I don't like the smell of like it. It's
Speaker 1: like that starts off disgusting. Yeah, yeah, I can't. And
Speaker 1: you know, but after you have sex, you are supposed
Speaker 1: to get up and pee. I didn't know you don't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what if you ain't got to be you have to
Speaker 1: kind of like you will, it'll come out. You get
Speaker 1: some water. Yeah, used the bathroom. I don't have to
Speaker 1: be do you like to not be able to walk
Speaker 1: after you have sex? I like how the sex was.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because sometimes niggas doing too much and
Speaker 1: you can't walk for no reason, and it's just like,
Speaker 1: I didn't even enjoy this, and I can't walk now,
Speaker 1: and I don't like. Yeah, I don't even get almost.
Speaker 1: I don't like. Carrie Bradshaw remembers on Charlotte's wedding, she me, yeah,
Speaker 1: and he was like rabbit, yes, yes. Her back was
Speaker 1: a little messed up. She was like, what are some
Speaker 1: things that we think about doing sex? Like do you
Speaker 1: ever just lay there and be like this is whack?
Speaker 1: Oh man? Yeah, Like sometimes I lay there and I'll
Speaker 1: make fake noises like but I'm really like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: You know when the sexist trash, when the sexiest trash,
Speaker 1: I turned up the speech. I turned up the talk
Speaker 1: and get him to get I'm excited. She starts over
Speaker 1: doing it. You know what it is. She's trying to
Speaker 1: get away. Oh my god, You're dick is fucking incredible,
Speaker 1: Oh daddy. And then I love when the girl started saying,
Speaker 1: oh my god, please come come, please come. Then you're like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: just come. Yeah. Sometimes I will say that I don't
Speaker 1: want you to come right now, say you deserve come
Speaker 1: right now, you deserve it. This is your pussy, it's
Speaker 1: all yours. And she was not to say it just
Speaker 1: like that. And when they asked this your pussy, that's
Speaker 1: my And then you know, we don't give a funk
Speaker 1: because after we're we just like roll over like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be man, I gotta do so what you want
Speaker 1: to do. And you know the worst is if you
Speaker 1: roll up and get on your phone, you'd be like girls,
Speaker 1: all right, you know, he did a good job. If
Speaker 1: y'all cuddle after, oh my god, if I want to
Speaker 1: cut it with you, after that, you did a phenomenal job. Yes,
Speaker 1: when you wake up inside of each other like and
Speaker 1: the and the look of if you fall aslee put
Speaker 1: your head on his chest after that's love so good. Okay.
Speaker 1: Somebody asked a question. Okay, well there's a few of
Speaker 1: them because we put it on Twitter. All right, if
Speaker 1: your boyfriend is pressing you to do you know, how
Speaker 1: do you kindly tell him no for the fiftieth time.
Speaker 1: I'm trying not to leave him, but I don't want
Speaker 1: to leave either time. No, no, you want some of
Speaker 1: this old man? No no, this is how you get
Speaker 1: your man to stop asking you to zoom. Ain't ready? Guys?
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Say? Man? Are you so upset with
Speaker 1: want to suck me in my assh? Are you gaya
Speaker 1: will never get a like? You know that's gay? Like?
Speaker 1: Why would you want the asshole? If you can have
Speaker 1: the vagina, you know you must be gay. Have you
Speaker 1: ever thought about that? Have you ever thought about being
Speaker 1: with a boy? Oh? Here's somebody? Okay? Never asking? Destiny
Speaker 1: wants to know. How can you tell if a guy
Speaker 1: really loves you or just your sex? Is y'all only fucking?
Speaker 1: Or no? Are your dates only like meet up to
Speaker 1: have sex? Or do you guys have intimate conversation? You
Speaker 1: spend time with each other outside of the bedroom, and
Speaker 1: sometimes you have at all? Did you wait it all?
Speaker 1: I don't know, I see because sometimes listen not get
Speaker 1: it twisted. I fucked on the first night, but with
Speaker 1: somebody that I connected with and we ended up being
Speaker 1: together even case and rhymes with guy. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't even know that you know, I'm It's just
Speaker 1: that the rhymes with guys. Yeah no, yeah, like first
Speaker 1: night and turned into something you know what I'm saying, So, yeah,
Speaker 1: well what about now? This is how I feel about that,
Speaker 1: because sometimes guys really don't know how to date, and
Speaker 1: sometimes you have to initiate it. Like sometimes they think
Speaker 1: just sucking you is like we date because they don't
Speaker 1: make an effort. So I really feel like sometimes you
Speaker 1: have to teach guys what to do if they didn't
Speaker 1: have no real girlfriends like that before you or anybody
Speaker 1: that has like help them learn how to treat them.
Speaker 1: Women got to be like you gotta get learned, like
Speaker 1: you if y'all just had sex, but you're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: what are you doing that? You want to get something
Speaker 1: to eat or I want to see this movie. Just
Speaker 1: kind of put it out there and see if he
Speaker 1: does want to do other stuff and nothing like. That
Speaker 1: episode was called Buddies. I remember that episode every episode. Yes, no,
Speaker 1: she was messing with this guy and he finally asks her,
Speaker 1: like you want to know She finally asked him, like
Speaker 1: you want to go get some food? And he was
Speaker 1: like like they were both so weird about it even
Speaker 1: getting and they didn't even like each other. But that
Speaker 1: is a good way to test it out, you suggested,
Speaker 1: and if he wants to follow up and do it,
Speaker 1: then it's going to happen. If not, that's just even.
Speaker 1: If you guys put the effort up and you go,
Speaker 1: then you you don't have that connection, then it is
Speaker 1: what it is. Right, we're just fun buddies and that's fine.
Speaker 1: All right now, I'm here's one more. If a guy
Speaker 1: puts you in doggy style position the first time you
Speaker 1: have sex, does that mean it's sex and no real feelings?
Speaker 1: I like the style. I think I initiate it. I
Speaker 1: think I was like that. I'm flipping over and ask
Speaker 1: looking stopped. Alright, alright, let's do the run down. You
Speaker 1: go and you're sucking the dick, right, and then it's
Speaker 1: time to put the condom on. While he's putting the
Speaker 1: condom on, you turn around. Isn't that what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to do? Exactly? That's what you want. Yeah, you think
Speaker 1: you're gonna be a missionary. You guys are making out,
Speaker 1: kissing and then he just turns you around. N't know.
Speaker 1: I'm down with guy's been forcing me to do a missionary.
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I can just man. Guys always want
Speaker 1: to make out while we're having sex and look me
Speaker 1: in the eyes. But he only want to do Should
Speaker 1: you be offended? No, I'm happy. No, you should probably
Speaker 1: be offended. I don't want to see your face and
Speaker 1: I haven't met a guy, right. It depends on who
Speaker 1: the guy is, too, because if he's just my but
Speaker 1: eat the nigger, I don't want to kiss you or
Speaker 1: see you either, So I'm gonna turn around for you. Guys,
Speaker 1: I even if I'm the one who only wants to fund,
Speaker 1: they always like, no, don't you want that's your buddy?
Speaker 1: Don't you want him to want more? Like even if
Speaker 1: you don't know I, oh, ma'am, I don't. Don't you
Speaker 1: want to be like, don't I've had but he want
Speaker 1: to turn into something more, buddy like, No, that's but
Speaker 1: but that's the thing, even when you don't want it,
Speaker 1: even though you don't want it, you still want them
Speaker 1: to want more. Like if they know, if they're just cool,
Speaker 1: would just always being the side person? And well, maybe, okay,
Speaker 1: maybe it's a difference, because y'all know how us women are.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a difference if they ask for it and
Speaker 1: then you're like, no, I don't want that, But if
Speaker 1: they don't, then maybe you're like, you're like, you don't
Speaker 1: want more, you know what I mean, And we're complicated creatures,
Speaker 1: so I can get that. I'm not gonna lie. It's
Speaker 1: sweet satisfaction when you don't want more from a guy
Speaker 1: and he wants more from me. All right, when you're
Speaker 1: with a guy and he's sucking up. Do we all
Speaker 1: have a guy that we just called to make us
Speaker 1: feel better? See, I don't. I wish I had my
Speaker 1: roller deck. Don't keep like that because even the guys
Speaker 1: that I can call, like when I want something, what
Speaker 1: I want is what I want and I don't want
Speaker 1: nothing else, you know. So it's like I can't call
Speaker 1: anybody to feel that voice. Yeah, tunnel vision. I feel
Speaker 1: like everybody has that somebody in this that you can
Speaker 1: call in case of emergency that you can't call, but
Speaker 1: you're always wants to call that that you can. You
Speaker 1: want to see it, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: even if you're not doing nothing, but it's just a
Speaker 1: nice little body. That's what I mean. You can, but
Speaker 1: you might not always want to. But yeah, we all
Speaker 1: got that, I hope. So yeah, you say, now I
Speaker 1: do I definitely have one guy that, no matter how
Speaker 1: miserable a man is making me feel, no matter what.
Speaker 1: Once I get some of that, it's like, why am
Speaker 1: I even thinking about guys like this is the best
Speaker 1: guy ever? Like nobody else matters, Like I'll never be
Speaker 1: faithful as long as he's around and he's to the curve. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're for you. You know, he's just I feel like
Speaker 1: he's just that one special person that helps me get
Speaker 1: over any drama that I ever have with a guy.
Speaker 1: And he loves his role. He's prayed out it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: get paid for this. So Terra, let's let's talk about
Speaker 1: what we can expect for you coming up. I know
Speaker 1: you're trying to get this album done. Yes, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get the album done and we're shooting. Uh. We
Speaker 1: just got picked up first season four of leven Hip
Speaker 1: Hop Hollywood. So that's my main focus is using this
Speaker 1: platform for my advantage and you know, bringing out my
Speaker 1: music because that's what people want to hear from me.
Speaker 1: They are a lot of people rooting for me that
Speaker 1: I didn't even know, so you know, it's more reason
Speaker 1: for me to get my ship together. You haven't loved
Speaker 1: to laugh from season one, Yes, because I know it's
Speaker 1: an adjustment. Yeah you know. Well, you know I did
Speaker 1: season two of New York, but I wasn't like a
Speaker 1: main castmate. So and and Emily. You know, Emily is
Speaker 1: one of my best friends and I was on there
Speaker 1: with her, and um, you know, since then, I've grown
Speaker 1: into a young woman. I was like twenties two on there,
Speaker 1: and now I'm twenty nine. Friends yeah, yeah, yeah, So
Speaker 1: at Hollywood, it's just a whole different ballgame for me
Speaker 1: because it was like everything was in my backyard. My
Speaker 1: ex best friend, well my best best friend at the
Speaker 1: time was on the show. My ex boyfriend was on
Speaker 1: the show. You know, people that I knew, my ex
Speaker 1: assistant was on the show. So it was like I
Speaker 1: wasn't ready for the ship that was about to come.
Speaker 1: So I reacted them yeah yeah, And I said, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I think, um, I think that um ex best
Speaker 1: friend is coming back next season. I don't know, but
Speaker 1: I think, so you want her back. Um, you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's no bad blood. I don't have beef with anybody.
Speaker 1: Like I said, don't start none, won't be none. Um.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't like when people expect a certain
Speaker 1: level of loyalty if they don't give it right. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I think it'll be interesting.
Speaker 1: Just stay tuned. Would you still work with young Berg? Now? No,
Speaker 1: because he's a lying, you know person. You know know
Speaker 1: what if he was like, I want to make up
Speaker 1: his banging ass beat? No he has said that, yeah,
Speaker 1: and he has. It's I can get banging beats from anybody.
Speaker 1: But when you listen to somebody and then they force
Speaker 1: you into saying something that's not right about your friend,
Speaker 1: that's not all right. I could never trust you again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So what if that ray J? What if he's like,
Speaker 1: let's do a song together? No? Hell no? Hell no?
Speaker 1: So you can't separate business? Why would I want to
Speaker 1: do a song with? Some people? Can? Some people are like, well,
Speaker 1: I can separate, but I don't want to do a song,
Speaker 1: were right? J? Like that's not doing nothing for you,
Speaker 1: not for me, you know, and it won't do nothing
Speaker 1: for him Either're like, no, we still who are you
Speaker 1: working with? Um? Season something? You said it just saying
Speaker 1: my music is good, like it's founding her legs a
Speaker 1: little hearty And she said that sounds like something y'all
Speaker 1: are trying it now say no, what you're making me blush? Angela,
Speaker 1: it's about you. No, Tierra, I appreciate you so much.
Speaker 1: Once again, I told you she's a lip service veteran.
Speaker 1: So yes, I always enjoy this. Yes, I always enjoy this.
Speaker 1: We come up here, we have drinks, we have girl talk,
Speaker 1: and it's always a good time. You learned a lot
Speaker 1: about and I miss you. Yes, all right, well let's
Speaker 1: lip service on Angela. Ye, I'm Stephane in Santiago. I'm
Speaker 1: and what y'all doing for New Year's? Anybody got there
Speaker 1: to be at your house? Yeah, we're gonna be with you.
Speaker 1: So you're going to be in New York? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I was thinking at all going on myn
Speaker 1: and Brownstone y'all. Maybe I'll come, yeah, because I haven't
Speaker 1: made any like official plans yet, so maybe i'll come.
Speaker 1: And I haven't done New Year's even It'll be chill,
Speaker 1: That's what I feel like. I don't want to do
Speaker 1: nothing that's like a big protection. Well last year don't
Speaker 1: count because I slept through the I feel like we
Speaker 1: could just wear a hoodie and jeans. Stephanie was with
Speaker 1: me last year. You know what, maybe if we did
Speaker 1: that like something different. Maybe our our year will be different,
Speaker 1: Like we just weren't a hoodie and jeans to bring. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then it's just like damn, Like this year was
Speaker 1: so prosperous for me and I like it. It was
Speaker 1: we're hoodie and last year was probably the most stressed
Speaker 1: downlines in New Year's and I had a great year.
Speaker 1: This year is really good. Think sometimes it's people think
Speaker 1: that New Year's has to be like the best night
Speaker 1: of your life. It's just so like too much day.
Speaker 1: I've been disappointed a few times. It's another night. We
Speaker 1: just go out and maybe I get a little more
Speaker 1: fucked up than usual, celebrate a little bit everything normal, right, Well,
Speaker 1: we will figure it out. I'm looking forward. Happy holidays,
Speaker 1: Happy holidays,