1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: It's what app it's lip service at Angela. Ye, I'm 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: Stephen Santiago, I'm G. G. Maguire. Tierra Marie is here 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: with us. Tire is a lip service veteran. I am 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: like girl. Yes, I've been here from the start when 5 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: I was a serious I remember I got you so 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: drunken you had a showcase? Is something? Yeah I did. 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: Did I get in trouble or something? Yeah? People was 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: hit me the next day like, yo, why you got 9 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: tiard before the showcase. Now that brings us to our 10 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: tip of the day. We always have to start the 11 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: show with the tip of the day, and today's tip 12 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: is how do you handle when you date a man 13 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: who has a drinking problem? Has anybody ever dated someone 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: who has your drinking problem? When you feel like, okay, 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: he drinks way too much, we get into arguments I 16 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: can't handle it. But wait, wait, it's a drinking problem 17 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,639 Speaker 1: where he drinks excessively, or it's a drinking problem where 18 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: he drinks once in a while, but when he drinks 19 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: overboard and yell like I have done that. Yeah, I've 20 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: dated a guy like that. How do you handle that? 21 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: Break up with his as they can't get it together. Yeah, 22 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: Like you gotta get it together. You gotta don't know 23 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: how to control yourself as an adult, and speaking from experiences, 24 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: I've done that before. So I had to wake up, like, girl, 25 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: get your ship together, Like, you can't be just out 26 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: here drinking, like You're still accountable for your actions, you know, 27 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: so whether you were drunk or not, Like, don't listen 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: to Jamie Fox all the time. You can't just always 29 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: blame it on the alcohol, you know what I'm saying, Like, 30 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: you have to take accountability, So pace yourself and you know, 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: be an adult when you drink if you like to drink, right, 32 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: Have you never done anything so bad that you would 33 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: like embarrassed to call the person the next day? Um? 34 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: Probably the worst thing that I've done is like, yeah, 35 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: like going too a rage, Like if somebody steps on 36 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: my toe and then I'm like ready to fight and 37 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: all my friends are like calm down, calm down now 38 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: to nobody. Yeah yeah, and stuff like that. Yeah. Now, 39 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: have you ever been with somebody that drinks too much? 40 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Tag you have? How do you handle that? How do 41 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: I live with it? Every day? I mean, I mean 42 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: what can you do? Can you stay with somebody and 43 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: help them work through it or is it just a 44 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: lost cause some people just drink. I smoke. The public 45 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: really don't know that because I don't put it out there. 46 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: We all know you smoke. Everybody, don't y'all know I smoke, 47 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: cause y'all know, but you don't. Never see me on 48 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: Snapchat with the blunt and my mouth for Instagram with weed, 49 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: like I don't do all of that. So the general public, 50 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: my friends and family, of course, y'all know I smoke 51 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: about you. But you know, you know, everybody got their 52 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: vices and you just gotta take you know, slipping moderation. 53 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: I guess when when people what if he won't like, 54 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: what if he just gets pits, he's drunk, embarrassing, you 55 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: end up in an argument. What can you do? Is 56 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: there any hope? I dealt with that and in a 57 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: relationship too, but I can't. I don't have a solution 58 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,239 Speaker 1: for that. I don't. It's just a big problem. Um 59 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: it's it's a fight, you know what I mean, And 60 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: it's just it's a fight. It happens, then you deal 61 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: with the aftermath of the fight, and then you move on, 62 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: like but I'm not sure if that's a good way 63 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: to deal with that. Now it's not because then it 64 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 1: just it's going to keep happening. Because that's how I remember. Please, 65 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: Oh you want to hear a story, y'all. You y'all 66 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: know I got one story. Story satiago. Let's go. No. So, 67 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: one time my boyfriend got so fucking drunk. We were 68 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: living together. He got so drunk he went in the bathroom, right, 69 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: and he came home and I was like, look at you. 70 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: I was like, look at you. You get drunk like 71 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: you in college. You're like a little fucking kid. Grow up. 72 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: And he's like so trashed. He goes in the bathroom, right, 73 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: So whatever, I'm in the living room. I noticed, like 74 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: a long time goes by, So I'm like, let me 75 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: go check on him. So I go and I knock 76 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: on the door because that's a rule. I always when 77 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: somebody's in the bathroom, got a knock on the door before. Yeah, 78 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: that's that's something I teach my son, you know. They Yeah, 79 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: they taught me that, you know when I was a kid. 80 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: They take a ship, don't come in here, knocked, So 81 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: check it out, knocked and he don't answer. So I'm banging. 82 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: Now He's like what I'm like, I'm like, yo, get 83 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 1: off the bathroom. I gotta use the bathroom. So I 84 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: walk away from the bathroom. I sit down for like 85 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: another twenty minutes. Still he hasn't came out the bathroom. 86 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, I'm going in the bathroom 87 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: now right. So I opened the bathroom. They got it's 88 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: laying down on the floor, face first, and it smells 89 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: crazy and there, and then I took a ship in 90 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: the bathtub. He yo. So I started kicking him. I'm 91 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: like yo, I'm like, yo, get up, get up. I 92 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: swear tonight, tonight, I'm gonna do it tonight, tonight, I'm 93 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: gonna kill you. I didn't look at it. I could 94 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: smell it, Pete, I've seen it. I gagged. I was stressed, 95 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: like I know when I first saw it. When I 96 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: first saw it, I like I said, I gaged. I 97 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: couldn't take it. It was. I got a weak stomach. 98 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: So I got I walked out the bathroom, and I 99 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: was I just I coached myself like I'm gonna go 100 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: back in the bathroom. I'mau the snigger up right, So 101 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: I go in the bathroom. I started kicking him. I 102 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: forced him to get up. I put him in the bed, 103 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: and then in the morning when he woke up, I 104 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: told him. I was like, Yo, get up and clean 105 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: the fucking bathtub. You took a ship in the bath 106 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna use. I wasn't gonna clean. Now, you 107 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: got me. That's a grown us man by his mother. 108 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: I was like, yo, go clean. He was like, what 109 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: are you talking about. That's how bad it was. That's 110 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: why I'm telling you this part. He did not remember that. 111 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: They didn't remember what I was kicking the ship out 112 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: of him together. If it was like salad, that I 113 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: could pick it up with a paper towel, na, I 114 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: would do it. No, it was a full man, all right. 115 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: So he was another one, another one. I mean, I've 116 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: never apparienced that, but I would assume that if it 117 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: was salad, that would have get some paper towels. If 118 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: I don't think I could leave it overnight. No, you're 119 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: gonna get your podcast, You're gonna get the paper, and 120 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna coute yourself. How long I tell you sho again. 121 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: I left. I woke up. Once he woke up, I 122 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: waited him to wake up, and I left. I didn't 123 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: come home for like two days. I was not playing. 124 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 1: I love him there, I love him there, me and 125 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: my son gone, are you crazy? And never came home. 126 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: But come on, got that we're gonna cut that far 127 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: had to be because that's your said. He Amen, we're 128 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: gonna cut the sun's part too. At it at it? 129 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: Did it happen often? Did it happen? Yes? He used 130 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,559 Speaker 1: to get drunk like that. Every time he got drunk. 131 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 1: That's how he would do it. It wasn't no, no, no, 132 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: no no. It was just like things like that. He 133 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't remember. He would cross his car, he would types 134 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: of ship. This is real life. Yes, this is real. 135 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: This is a real drinking problem. He I mean, it 136 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: wasn't every day. That's why it's different when he would drink. 137 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: It's not like he can have two or four or five. 138 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: We talk about the difference between an alcoholic problem and 139 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: an alcoholic dicoholics, somebody who will wake us up everything. 140 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: I think. I think there's just different levels to be 141 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: an alcoholic. That's a different level. Yeah. Please, another time 142 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: another time comes to him drink and I'm like, look 143 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: at you, look look at yourself, look at you. It's disgusting. 144 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: So he's like, so he goes and he like, what 145 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: are dripping on the floor? On the floor. This man 146 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: went to the front door of the house and pete 147 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: at the front door. That's what I said, that Angela, 148 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: But Angela, my friend, my good friend. That's exactly what 149 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: I said to him. I said, what the funk are 150 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: you a dog? I was like, look at this, I'm 151 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: married to a dog. Do you ever feel man? I 152 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: thought older? That was the serious relationship many with him? Yeah, 153 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: I did all that. No, No, I mean, like I said, 154 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 1: we would go through that, have the fight. You know, 155 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: it will be a fight, and then we would have 156 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: to deal with the aftermath of the fight and move on, 157 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: you know, because you don't want that to keep happening. 158 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 1: You know, it would keep it happened a lot. I'm 159 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: not gonna I hated I hated him when he was drunk. 160 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: He knows this. If he's listening to this, he knows 161 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 1: I'm talking about him because from the beginning of our relationship, 162 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: it's a totally different person when he drinks. From the 163 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: beginning of our relationships, everything could be so great. Then 164 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: we go out to have a good time. You get drunking, 165 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: you know we hate each other. That I should have 166 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: known that our relationship wasn't gonna work out because just 167 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 1: one year into our relationship, two years into our relationship, 168 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: I realized that I could not go out with him, 169 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: We could not go out socially together, because everything was 170 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: a problem. When you come home, moms, every time we 171 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: will go out together, it would be a nightmare, like 172 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 1: something that you're gonna get into an argument. Ever. Have 173 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 1: you ever had a bad experience with a drunken man? Absolutely? 174 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: What's the um? Let me think, girl, because I don't 175 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 1: even want to say too much because y'all might know 176 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: who I'm talking about him. We don't, No, I would 177 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: like this guy would just get totally disrespectful. Like when 178 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: he's sober, he's respectful. When he's drunk, he's a disrespectful fuck, 179 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: Like he disrespects you in your face, like bit just 180 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: laying on his lap board. My son's father came. We 181 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: out of that again, exactly know, like he's laying on 182 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: bitches lads, and let's just like respectful. I don't even 183 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: I don't tolerate that, and you know that. But I 184 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: love you when I know that you're inebriated, So maybe 185 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:16,679 Speaker 1: we could talk about it tomorrow, but that like given, um, 186 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 1: I don't know what. You get tired of giving a 187 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: guy a pass? You get tired? Yeah, mate, what because 188 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: it seemed like does his name Ryan with ca sa? 189 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: I plead the fist? What about you? GD? I know, listen, 190 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I've been there sometime. What's the worst 191 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:58,439 Speaker 1: expert of the room. You're crazy when you're drunk too, though, 192 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 1: and so am I say, you know, I'm not all 193 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: of us. I'm not saying that crazy ship. Yeah, let's 194 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: take responsibility absolutely with him. He'll get so drunk and 195 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: then we'll get into whatever it is and then he 196 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: don't even remember, right, That's what pisses me off. But 197 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 1: that's well know that they don't remember. They really don't remember. Yes, 198 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: I blacked out, I mean not to but after time 199 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: every time, but I don't think every time. I think 200 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: they tricked up, remember pissing pieces, but they don't, or 201 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 1: this happened out of that, and he'll be like, no, 202 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: it didn't know. I didn't and I'd be like I 203 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: was there, Yeah, other people were there, and there you're 204 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: saying people he didn't say it, or that that's you know, 205 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: whatever didn't happen, and that that's what pisses me off. 206 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: Like get drunk, get funked up, whatever. But when you 207 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: get to the point where you can't remember saying and 208 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: doing things like how do what about when you sunk up? 209 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: What can you do after? Well, we can't know. I'll 210 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: say something about that. Oh no. Usually when I'm drunk 211 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 1: and I do something stupid, which is nine out of 212 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: ten times when I'm drunk, I say, I don't remember, yea, 213 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: even if I do, like what, don't tell me, don't 214 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: tell me. I don't remember nobody, I don't want to. 215 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, no, no, that's the worst. I had 216 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 1: some friends in this room drunk, so I had to 217 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: really like control and cast myself when I drink. And 218 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, y'all, it's an alcohol for everybody. 219 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: Are you light or dark? What thinks to Angela? Yes? 220 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,599 Speaker 1: Vacca won't have me black crazy, black head? Okay? No 221 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 1: vodka no good. I drink tequila. I like drinking. Don 222 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: want to turn up and be crazy? Right? No? No, no, no, no, 223 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: Vodka makes me turn up and be crazy. Doesn't see 224 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: Vodka does everything wrong to me? It foks on my 225 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: bladder like I can't. Poka is poison. It does't depend 226 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: on what you drink too, because it's feel a certain way. Yeah, 227 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: I feel like fequilla because I had some coffee and 228 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: it it makes me like, oh I I don't want 229 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: to go to sleep right dark for me is like okay, 230 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: now I'm cool, I'm collected and I can I can 231 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 1: enjoy myself, have a buzz and mure drink. Yes for sure. 232 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 1: Yeah all right, Now what would y'all do if your 233 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: man makes a new friend who's attractive. Let's just say 234 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 1: no friends. Friends is like a work thing though she 235 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: shouldn't be a friend. She's like she's a co worker 236 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: acquainted somebody they cool with, but they got to speak 237 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: to each other. They were co worker together dinners because 238 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: they have they don't have dinners. They don't have dinners. 239 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: They have meetings and business chests where they got to 240 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 1: travel together. I'll be there to I can come and 241 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: we are going. You can't now, okay, So then because 242 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 1: I get a little crazy when it goes, I have 243 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: to cross that bridge when I get to it. But 244 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 1: let's talk about that. Like, Wendy, what is the limits 245 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: to your guy in a business relationship, you know, where 246 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: they got to talk to each other, communicate, work on 247 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: things together for certain hours. I think, um, we're certain 248 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: like tones of speech, you know, like you know what 249 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: that Yeah, no, no, no, that's not cool. Yeah no, 250 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: that's not cool. It's not cool for you. Hell no, 251 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: let me know. Yeah, I just it's a certain tone 252 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: of a relationship or you know, business partnership, whatever it is. 253 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: It's just a certain tone and that I won't tolerate 254 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: because you've been in relationships where the guy obviously has 255 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: to communicate with other women for what he does have 256 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: to clothes that well, it's not so difficult because a 257 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: lot of times, even though I'm busy, I'm very involved, 258 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: Like you know, I've dealt with important men and I've 259 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: been like, you know, okay, this is your solence. Oh 260 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: she she, she calling you right now. Okay, we're busy. 261 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: Let me answer it, let me talk, let me you 262 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: know directly, because women don't give a funk sometimes when 263 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: they don't, but at least I know. So now, bitch, 264 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: if you want to cross that line, then now I'm 265 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: gonna have to. Yeah, you know what's up? And you 266 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: looked me in my eye and you were lying, ass bitch, 267 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: So now you have to deal with the rap. Can 268 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: you're not pointing at me when you say what about 269 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: to stuff you've had to deal with? That YouTube? G 270 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: I mean like, I feel like it's a difference between 271 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: somebody having a friend and working with them, you know 272 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: what I mean? I don't. I don't think I would 273 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 1: be over right okay with somebody with my man having 274 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: private time with a new friend, whether they're working together 275 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 1: or not. If you want to, if you guys have 276 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: to meet up at night where there's dinner involved, I 277 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: can come with you, or you can have other friends 278 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: there where I know you know, it's just a common 279 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: work thing. You know what I mean. I'm crazy. I 280 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: couldn't even imagine. Would you rather not know? No? No, 281 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: I would rather, like she said, be involved. You know what, 282 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 1: do you ever lie about things because you know your 283 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 1: man will get up set? We all do? I feel 284 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: like that you lied about things seeing man because you 285 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: know he's not gonna like it. You know me, I 286 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: I don't tell my man anything exactly how I don't know. 287 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: I don't don't, but I'm gonna ask. That's exactly I think. 288 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: If I was dating somebody, um, you know seriously that 289 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: it has more. You know, who understands my lifestyle, who 290 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: works in entertainment like I do. I think I would 291 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: be able to be more open about certain relationships with them. 292 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: But you know, when my last relationship was just somebody 293 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 1: who you know, who's just a regular person, doesn't work 294 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: in entertainment. So you know, I don't feel like I 295 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: could have been honest him about certain relationships because he 296 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't understand it, you know what I mean. He would 297 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: give me problems for everything. Yeah, that's a I would 298 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:24,880 Speaker 1: take him to certain events and he would have a problem, 299 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: like I gotta change if I'm going to be with 300 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: him because this is what he wants. I always quit 301 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 1: smoking for guys, and I always quit down. I might 302 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: bend a little bit, but not too much. Yeah, but 303 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: I've been a little just I compromised. I tried to 304 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: compromise good. Yeah, so I'm not like so stubborn about 305 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:55,719 Speaker 1: who I am and what I want. I think it's 306 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 1: good if it's better for you. Yeah. Absolutely, I would 307 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: never change for somebody, But if I felt like, you know, 308 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 1: where he's ready, it's actually be something that would benefit me. 309 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 1: Even if if I'm not with your ass. Yeah, you know, 310 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 1: I might still take those changes on into my next chapter. Yeah, 311 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 1: I think I did that. I think I changed for 312 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: the better. He wanted me to change, and I feel like, like, 313 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: what things about you change? My demeanor changed a lot, 314 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: Like I'm not as aggressive as I used to be, 315 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 1: and I also became more private I used to, you know, 316 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 1: when the beginning of Twitter, I used to my every move, 317 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 1: my every thought, my everything, and it's just like some 318 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 1: you know, I'm really really to myself now. Um. I 319 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: improved on the way I communicate with people as well. 320 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: You know, I showed more interests and like gratuity and 321 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: appreciation to things. For me thinking about it, I'm so 322 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: submissive when I'm in love. I've changed so much. Yeah, 323 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: read that and be like why did I? I think 324 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: when I start regretting it as when I started going 325 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: back to the player that I am meant to be exactly, 326 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, what am I doing that? That's not even 327 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: Do you feel like people have like a the wrong 328 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: idea about you from watching you on TV? Absolutely? Yeah, 329 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: Like people want to hang out with certain people that 330 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 1: they tell me, Like, I didn't know what to expect 331 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, you know, I guess to know 332 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: me is to love me, you know, or to love 333 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 1: me is to know me. That's because I was like, okay, 334 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: t's gonna be on love and hip Hop When you 335 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 1: first started, you know, a whole different person, right. I 336 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 1: was like, damn girl, I mean but no, but Angela, 337 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: let's be honest. Yes, and I'm a don't start now. 338 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: I won't be now on type of person. I give 339 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 1: you what you give me all the time. I'm nice, 340 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: I'm very nice. But when you start with me, then 341 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: I don't know a middle, you know. And that's something 342 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 1: that I'm working on, right because I don't want to 343 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: be on national TV not knowing the middle as a 344 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: fucking twenty nine year old woman, you know. So I gotta, 345 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 1: you know, get it together. I'm still working on a 346 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: work in progress. Are you single now? I am single? Okay? 347 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: Are you dating anybody? Every time you asked here, she 348 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,440 Speaker 1: always does have like some special boot because you seem 349 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: like a relationship kind of girl. I am a relationship 350 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 1: kind of girl. But you know, I'm just you know, 351 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: playing the field and music. Yeah, body language is like no, 352 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: watch the next season. Yeah, I mean right now, I 353 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: am just playing the field and focused on my music. Okay. 354 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 1: You know, I want to release an album, so that's 355 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 1: what I'm focused on. Okay, do you know where the 356 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: album is gonna be at yet? Have you? Are you 357 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: going to be independent? Um? I don't know yet. I'm 358 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: I'm like in the discussion with a couple of different 359 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: situations and also so being independent, So I don't know 360 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: if I want to because I feel like I could 361 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: make more money being independent, So but I feel like 362 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 1: I could get more exposure being on a label. You 363 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like this pros I 364 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: don't I don't know. Yeah, I'm still trying to work 365 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: that out with myself ideally, Like if you could be 366 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,879 Speaker 1: on a label, where would you like to be? You 367 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 1: know what? In this day and time? I don't know. 368 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, but maybe somewhere that's an independent like 369 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 1: distribution label. You know. I don't want to say any 370 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 1: names because I don't want to. All right now, people 371 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 1: have an emailion questions, so I printed somebody out all right, 372 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: mm hmm, let me try to find a good one 373 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: for you guys. Damn, that's like all four page letter. 374 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: I end not listening. I have a bunch of people 375 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: asking questions. Girls. Some of these are a little weird, 376 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: and I don't understand why we have to all right, 377 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: So this is one woman says she's been in an 378 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: honor and relationship with the guy for three years. She 379 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 1: said she's known him since she was twelve. That's history, right. 380 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 1: How does she know? I don't know? She said. We 381 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 1: broke up in February. He's cheated multiple times, giving me 382 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: an STD more than once, had two abortions that he 383 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 1: didn't pay for it. Girl, jump his ass. Ain't nothing 384 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 1: else to say the same, that he changed, she said 385 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 1: in February, this happened, Yes, she said, I want, but 386 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I should put myself in that 387 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: situation again. Should I give him another chance? I should? 388 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 1: I count my losses and keep him count your losses. 389 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 1: But she should have kept been moving where she's gonna 390 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,640 Speaker 1: wait from H and V Like No, No, she needs 391 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 1: the next Stephanie. No, but let's admit it. We've all 392 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: stating relationships with guys that have treated us shitty. Yes 393 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:39,360 Speaker 1: we have, but the three STDs and back at least 394 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: pay for my boy. She goddamn it. At least don't 395 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: get at least pay for me to get numbed up. 396 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 1: I paid for the abortion before I got to take 397 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:52,959 Speaker 1: the exactly. Come on, can you imagine being with it now? 398 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: Because it's one thing when you're going out on your woman, 399 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: but Sam, you protect yourself. Why you gotta come and 400 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: bring me back with your I'm sorry, yes, exactly, you 401 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: look dirty? Not many times, and believe me, little three times. 402 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 1: It's going to be a fourth, fifth and the six. 403 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: I mean it. It was only only in February. You know, 404 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: it's not enough time to really completely change from all 405 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: that bullshit. I feel like an STD is a deal 406 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 1: breaker if you give me, because that could have been 407 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: a it could have been in terrible that's a deal break. 408 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: What if she was pregnant when she had at CD, 409 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:38,919 Speaker 1: that's really like, I don't know, No, no, girlfriend, move forward. 410 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 1: The coucher losses. Ten months is a long enough time 411 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: to you know, to have a nice pillow to move 412 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: on on, like, go another time months, baby, and you'll 413 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: be somebody that you hate having sex with. Hell no, no, 414 00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:00,959 Speaker 1: not even for money. Yeah, no, work my ass off. 415 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: Work to rather work hard and get right. You just 416 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 1: slightly dislike it. It's just not that great, and you 417 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 1: know what's wrong? And have sex with this guy? Y'all know, 418 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: I think that's all a part of love. Though it's 419 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: part of to talk about me he rest in peace. 420 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: Always got to talk about that little dick, dead guy, 421 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: R dick tell me about l D T Yeah, R 422 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 1: l D This neck on the Hennessy bottom? Oh hell no? 423 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 1: How long was it? The neck of the girl? Okay, 424 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: now that's not no, that's horrible. I where I was? 425 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 1: That the whole that whole thing though, just but even 426 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 1: the length. But are y'all wet with or length? I 427 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: like a fair share of both. But if I had to, 428 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 1: I'm long. Yeah, I'm gonna take that thing heavy. I mean, 429 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:01,919 Speaker 1: my my first choice is lame and girl, but if 430 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: you like, if if I have to, I still need 431 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: a little left. But girl, like I could go, I 432 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: could take I like seven inches with a lot of 433 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: girlf is nice, but ten answers, nine inswers and a 434 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: lot of girls about her was definitely a che chaser 435 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to that, like I'm all about nothing's 436 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 1: worse than a long, skinny dick. That's terrible. That well, 437 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: that ain't even long, and we were together. We were 438 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 1: only together for eight months, but it was a it 439 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,719 Speaker 1: was a relation, crazy relationship, and I just to make 440 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: it put in mud. But you could have stayed with 441 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,439 Speaker 1: him longer. You think like you could have stayed with him? Nah, bro, 442 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: he was the reason why I moved to Atlanta. I 443 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: had to get the funk away from his crazy. His 444 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: little dick made you moved to Atlanta. I got it, 445 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: wasn't it was crazy as he was crazy. How you're 446 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: gonna be crazy with it? He has little dick syndrome. 447 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 1: You can't be normal with a little dick. It's just 448 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: like Napoleon in syndrome. You're a little dick as he 449 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't see. Have you ever said something to a guy 450 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 1: that you feel bad? You said later, Yeah, because my 451 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 1: mouth is reckless, girl, all kinds of chick, because you know, 452 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 1: when you attack a guy's dick or they're wallet, then 453 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 1: they're feeling some kind of like yeah, so I've said 454 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: some things, you know, well your salary every Yeah, yeah, girl, 455 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: I've said something along those lines. And then I've been 456 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 1: like damn, And when we've been trying to work it 457 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: out and he's like, well, you said this and he 458 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 1: holds on tour forever and that's why we ain't together. 459 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 1: That's how you a bit. You keep bringing up ocean. Yeah, 460 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 1: like what did you did? You feel bad? That's what 461 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,479 Speaker 1: I say, But yeah, I felt bad. Yeah, because if 462 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to work it out with them. But it's 463 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: like you hit me low, I'm gonna go even lower. 464 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna hit you really wear you trying 465 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: to see you can see. Yeah, but that's that's not 466 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: a person person. That's for you. You know, if you're 467 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: going to for tat like that, what about your step 468 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,719 Speaker 1: you ever said? I know you did? Yeah. I mean, 469 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 1: guys are so sensitive about everything. They'll say the worst 470 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 1: things to you and you say the littlest thing like 471 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 1: you never made me come and they die. They're they're like, oh, 472 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 1: you know, I want y'all makeup. It's like, I don't 473 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: know why you want to sensitive? We were fighting, calm down, 474 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: but I regret it. I like or or your dick 475 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 1: is little because they never let it go. They just 476 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: never let it go right. I'm trying to think, try 477 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,719 Speaker 1: to just to be careful that. But what about if 478 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: you say a guys, if you call it a guy, 479 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: different name, not during that just regular like you slip 480 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: his name, like if he has a name like you 481 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 1: like keep the conversation moving like it didn't happen. No, 482 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: I mean you're just like like I would just keep 483 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 1: talking and act like it didn't happen. Now. See, I 484 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 1: always catch myself, So if I'm about to call you 485 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,439 Speaker 1: see when your name is John, I'll be like, still, 486 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: it's it. That's good catching myself all the time, though, 487 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: But what if it yeah's catching yourself. Yeah, but what 488 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 1: do you do, like if it just comes out like 489 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 1: she said, I just act like it didn't happen, and 490 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I didn't say that, You're crazy, not 491 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 1: gonna lie. That's happened to me a few times. It's 492 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: not like damn, but like like like names like Will 493 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 1: and Bill or something like that. I don't know if 494 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: that was a good. Yeah, Sean just was watching The 495 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 1: Fresh Prince and were talking about Will Smith and that's 496 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 1: why I called you Will my bad right, Yeah, you 497 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: just gotta make some ship up. But God's Will be 498 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: so mad over that like that. Guys are more sensitive 499 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: than than we are. Absolutely, well, no, slowdown, it it 500 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: might called you the wrong names. Yeah, you're right, don't lie, 501 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 1: but I wouldn't keep bringing it up. I will maybe 502 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: I would, all right, right, alright, even you'll be like, 503 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: so was that bitch Keisha? We're right, We'll ask Keisha 504 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: to deal with like alright, right, now, here's another question. 505 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: So I've been dealing with this guy for twelve years. 506 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 1: We've only had a sexual relationship until around year four. 507 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: He started having feelings and said he loved me. We 508 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: talked and agree to keep things how they were. I 509 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: started dating someone else about six years ago. Now we're married. 510 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: We have been for three years. My side dude has 511 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 1: always been around and knows about my husband. Now that 512 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: I'm married and giving him less attention, he's professing his 513 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: love and wanting me to leave my husband. He's doing 514 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 1: things he knows he shouldn't do, like texting or calling 515 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: at the wrong time. Of course, my husband knows nothing 516 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: about him. I have no plans on leaving my husband, 517 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: but I'm scared my side dude may say something about 518 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: our relationship. What should I do? That sounds like a 519 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 1: fatal attraction, first of all, and he should play his position. 520 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 1: A pussy woman talking about her side dude, her s 521 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: who as Nigga. Okay, so she's not sign Nigga's a 522 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 1: whole pussy punk as nigga. And those are those are 523 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 1: the guys that you can never cheat on your boyfriend with, 524 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: the guys that it's just an automatic him because she 525 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: had known him before she knew her husband always had 526 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: this relationship. But you know whatever, like people change, you 527 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 1: can't always trust people. Just because you once trust them 528 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: doesn't mean you can always trust them. But you trust 529 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 1: somebody knew what somebody you know? I don't know, I 530 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 1: would say I don't. Oh that's hard because somebody that 531 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: you know, she ain't Mary, may have more feelings for 532 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 1: you and they get sensitive like he did. But somebody 533 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: knew you can't trust. You can't because you don't know them. Right. 534 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: So hey, ladies, if you don't get married, just be faithful. 535 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 1: I mean that's the point again. Yeah, exactly right. But 536 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: so you you you think a better side, dude, is 537 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 1: somebody knew or somebody your part? No, definitely, if somebody side, 538 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 1: would it be somebody you knew for a long time 539 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: before you probably, like you said, somebody knew because they 540 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: don't know everything about trains know what I'm saying you 541 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: don't know where I live. Bitches, don't be bringing your 542 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 1: side see your house where your husband's sleep, Like that's 543 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 1: just no, you know, so you could train a new side, dude, 544 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 1: like she said, like you don't know where I live? 545 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: You know you do? You have to think about getting 546 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: ahead of it and saying something to your husband like this. 547 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,120 Speaker 1: I saw a movie like that. I forgot what movie 548 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: was that. It was a movie where it's nigged. It 549 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 1: was like a DVD movie. I think we'll Golden Brooks 550 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: or some ship. Remember, but yeah, I saw a movie 551 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 1: like that. I don't know. I think you probably should. 552 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 1: But what would you tell the truth? That? Would you 553 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: tell half truths? I plead to do because you could 554 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 1: just probably it's just a guy trying would tell half 555 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 1: true Now would you need to know basis, I'll tell 556 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: you what you need to know, you would say, because 557 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: once you bring it up, then there's more questions and 558 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 1: more questions and more questions. It is, Oh, your man 559 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't have to trust you again, right, that's just But 560 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: what if you're like, yo, he's crazy, then he's going 561 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: to be like, oh, I need to find out who 562 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: he is and he's going to be trying to stop him. 563 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: Somebody might die. Why are why are you bringing this 564 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 1: up to your boyfriend? That's what I said, because but 565 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 1: that's why you must with a new guy. And once 566 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: you feel like he's starting the catch feelings, you drop 567 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: him and you pick up another new one. Black boom boom? 568 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: Did he even give it? What is yours about? Yes? 569 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 1: You know we're the best, black out, the best, That's 570 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You know, you get the summer fifth. 571 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 1: It was last my second Okay. I was like, so 572 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: your birthday was on the weekend Friday. Yeah, you guys 573 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: are so cute that tears. Yeah, we really get you 574 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: ready for capricorns? Yeah okay, okay, well at least we 575 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: all get alongst we get along with everybody. We're just amazing. Yeah, 576 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 1: here's a good one, and were I totally understand other sagests, 577 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 1: but go ahead. I'm currently dating a chick with two kids, 578 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 1: ages four and nine. We've been dating for eight months. 579 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: I really love it, but her kids are so damn bad. 580 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 1: They disrespect me and they have no discipline something like relationship. 581 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: But I can't stand her kids. What should I do? Oh? Damn? 582 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: He need to move on because you know a mother's love. 583 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 1: You know you can't tell my simple and you can't 584 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 1: discipline her kids anyway. How would you feel like if 585 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: you were dating a guy and he tried to discipline 586 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: your child. No, I don't have kids, but you got 587 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: to go, bro, I wish tell me how I will 588 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: stab a man before I let him discipline my child. 589 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: You got me fucked up. He has a father who 590 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 1: can discipline, and I will discipline him. Trust me, I'll 591 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 1: do it good. Even I don't even like for my 592 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: son's grandparents to discipline him because I remember when I 593 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 1: was a kid. You know, I'm I'm I'm Puerto Rican. 594 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 1: It was okay for everybody to hit us, you know 595 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,879 Speaker 1: what I mean. My uncle just said, that's my aunt, 596 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: you said as my grandmother, you said us everybody my 597 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 1: sister used to be me up all the time, like 598 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 1: it was okay. I'm not playing that. I'm not playing that. 599 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:35,919 Speaker 1: I tell them, listen, he is. He is higher than y'all, 600 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 1: so respect him, okay, like that? Like that, treat him 601 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: like that. Kids that can never work. You guys saying 602 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 1: my son is really good. If I was with a 603 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: guy with badass kids, I would probably because I would 604 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 1: never would I wouldn't try to discipline someone else's kids. 605 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,040 Speaker 1: I would move on and within period. I mean, I 606 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 1: would probably be with him, but I would be like, listen, 607 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,240 Speaker 1: I can't with your kids. So you handling your business 608 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: with your kids, I'm going to handle my business because 609 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: he's a guy too. Though it's different because yeah, and 610 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: the kids are always around. Yeah, that's true. So with 611 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: the guy, they're not. She talked to the girl before 612 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: him because I feel bad, that's all these questions. My 613 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 1: first answer is you gotta go, and it's not gonna work. 614 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,360 Speaker 1: Get a new one, you know. I feel like I 615 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,800 Speaker 1: feel like he should, you know, like like really seriously 616 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 1: talk to her, you know, and tell her like, listen, 617 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 1: I can't take your kids are disrespecting me, you know, 618 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: like can we do something about yeah, exactly, If after 619 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 1: that that doesn't, you know, if that doesn't, if it 620 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 1: doesn't improve after that, then you know, what can you do? 621 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 1: You gotta move on the kids. If she's any kind 622 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 1: of a mother, and you know, the kids are gonna 623 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 1: come before, you know what I mean, kids or the 624 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 1: dad hears like what you doing? I agree with that 625 00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,120 Speaker 1: kids is acting like that I agree with that. To 626 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: call a supernanny, yeah, to men with our kids because 627 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:14,359 Speaker 1: I'm too opinionate. I'm it's very rare, honey, it's very 628 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: very rare. And um, I'm just too opinionate. It's so 629 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 1: I just would prefer that. But all right, here's the 630 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 1: next question. I'm a gemini. I often feel like I 631 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: get too attached to people too fast. Okay, rather it's 632 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,880 Speaker 1: with girlfriends or whether it's with girlfriends or guys, I 633 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: often can't tell. Often can't tell rather if I have 634 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: an actual deep connection with someone or from just being 635 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,839 Speaker 1: my attaching self. Right now, I'm talking to a guy. 636 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 1: We've only been talking for a month. He says he 637 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship yet. 638 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: I understand why he feels that way, but I really 639 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: feel like I'm developing strong feelings for him. I've even 640 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 1: had cases with females I think we are best friends 641 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 1: and they only call me a friend or just a 642 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,560 Speaker 1: coworker or classmate. What do I do to keep myself 643 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:54,719 Speaker 1: from getting too attached to people? Like? Stop getting too 644 00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: that's something to say that. Don't we trying to blame it. 645 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 1: Don't be trying to dated. Look that ain't got nothing 646 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 1: to do with you being a Gemini. First of all, 647 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 1: let's start there. Yeah, why did she started like that? 648 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she lonely. She probably the only 649 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,320 Speaker 1: child that ain't got no friends and she loaned. I 650 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 1: ain't no couple, don't be so people's attach. Yeah, I 651 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: don't like friends like that. They first eating and they 652 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: feel like they're in a relationship after seeing somebody. You 653 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,720 Speaker 1: are not supposed to want to be in a relationship 654 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 1: with that person. And if that person doesn't want to 655 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 1: be with you after month, you should understand, like Sherry, 656 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: a man is supposed to want you a little bit 657 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 1: more than you want them. I don't here. I can't 658 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 1: see myself dating someone for a month and see me 659 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: wanting to want knowing that I want to be in 660 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,360 Speaker 1: a relationship. I mean whether I'm like, we got to 661 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 1: be in a relationship or not. But you're not. You're 662 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:05,320 Speaker 1: not in a month, You're not like okay, but that's attached, 663 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 1: like she Maybe she's not. That's a cleany person that 664 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:11,320 Speaker 1: doesn't have anything doing a Gemini. Yeah anything like that. 665 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 1: That's she's just a cleany person and she needs to work, work, 666 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,440 Speaker 1: on herself because that ain't cool. I hate cleaning brands too, 667 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,920 Speaker 1: like clean you friends who are like, well, where are 668 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: you at? Why you ain't calling me? Like girl, I'll 669 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 1: talk to you, yeah, but you bothn't said, oh, I 670 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:34,239 Speaker 1: wasn't invited somewhere something where you at? I'm on my way, girl. No, 671 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: I'll call you if I want to be around your 672 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 1: glass tonight. And maybe it slipped my mind to call you. 673 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,320 Speaker 1: You know, it's maybe I wasn't invited here. You know 674 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, So chill. I still love you. I'll 675 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 1: talk to you when I talk to you. I feel 676 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 1: like I get attached to people fasts too, but not everybody, 677 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 1: come on right everybody? No no, no, no, no, no no. 678 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 1: And you don't even like the word she needs to 679 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,440 Speaker 1: practice being I think, yeah, she needs to practice and 680 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 1: joint time we click. But I'm not attached to you. 681 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,120 Speaker 1: But we click, yeah, you know. And I don't mind 682 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,319 Speaker 1: saying that I'm attached to my best friends or even 683 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 1: even yeah somebody. But I mean, even when I'm attached, 684 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 1: when I say I love this person, this is my 685 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 1: best friend, I'm not trying to be around them all 686 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: the time. I'm not calling you all the time something happens. 687 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: For my god, girl, I had to call you and 688 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,719 Speaker 1: tell you this, you know, But I'm it's like, you know, 689 00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 1: certain friends for certain things too exactly and im and 690 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm thinking trying to imagine because that's 691 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,000 Speaker 1: the total opposite of myself. I don't. I'm not. I 692 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,439 Speaker 1: like being by myself. I thought, well, yeah, I thought, wow, 693 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,319 Speaker 1: I need some lonely time. Wants to be at home 694 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: by myself. It was in my Spanish music. And you 695 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: know there's a lot of water exactly water, water weed 696 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,280 Speaker 1: by myself. And you know, you know, I know people 697 00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: who needs to have somebody around them all the time. 698 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 1: They can't be by themselves. Still I don't understand that. Yeah, 699 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,359 Speaker 1: I just can't understand that. So that's what I say 700 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 1: for this girl, she needs to practice some self time, 701 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,840 Speaker 1: you know, like like take a bath, sitting there for 702 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 1: our security, to enjoy the things that you can do, 703 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 1: drink a glass of tea like you know, it's just 704 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,800 Speaker 1: things that I enjoy doing by myself. Watching My Guilty 705 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 1: Pleasures on TV that I would never tell y'all that 706 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 1: I watched, you know, given example here, Okay, y'all, go, 707 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:43,880 Speaker 1: first important thing. Okay, so she brought up the lesbian 708 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: important thing. So okay, I'll say, you know I watched 709 00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: you know, certain she's watching im. Okay, what's the categories here? 710 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I hate to say this. Tell us, oh, 711 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:03,919 Speaker 1: y'all and judge me. A sex. No, but it's not. Yes, 712 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 1: that's what I like doing. I can look at you serious, yes, 713 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:14,919 Speaker 1: but I don't like anal sex. I can't. That's seeing 714 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,520 Speaker 1: that big gaping asshole. And yeah it's sexy. Is far 715 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 1: to see a girl getting killed in the ass, like 716 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 1: just getting her whole life. But I don't want it 717 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: for myself, Like I know, I've tried it and I 718 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: was to have a heart attack. No stop, like my 719 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 1: my whole body head. I feel like the body needs 720 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,400 Speaker 1: to be built for that, Like you need to have 721 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: a boose booty. I'm not a booty. It's crazy, Like 722 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,320 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm going to do you enjoy watching 723 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 1: it a year because you wish you could do it. 724 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,879 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that's what it is subconsciously. What about gay 725 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 1: mail point? I like it. I like it a thing. 726 00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:00,919 Speaker 1: I guess it's a whole asping, you know, but it's 727 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 1: not even like a turn you on type of thing. 728 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 1: It's just like amazing. Yeah. I even like women watching 729 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 1: guys fucking guys in the ask for Dodos. I like 730 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,239 Speaker 1: that because I'm weird. What kind of point don't you like? 731 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 1: If you had to say, I just don't like fake 732 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,400 Speaker 1: scripted ship. I like for it to feel real, like 733 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: when they're coming in the office and it's the fake 734 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: secretary or the schoolgirl or the teacher, Like I'll be 735 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: like girls, yeah, like the delivery guy. Yeah. Like you know, 736 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,000 Speaker 1: if you can make it look real, then I will 737 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: be interested. But I don't like the fake scripted ship. 738 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: So that's me. And but what category? Um like, what 739 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 1: don't you like to see? Um? I don't like to 740 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 1: see regular Yeah, I don't like regular se Yeah, when 741 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 1: they're just like I don't like it's like like regular 742 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:55,040 Speaker 1: feel of sex. Yeah, no regular like for me. I 743 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 1: like my parts to be intense. Me too, I'm very intense. 744 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 1: I even sometimes watch and I don't want this, but 745 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 1: I watch a little gang bang in there bang group sex. 746 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 1: I like that kind of stuff to watch gang Bang 747 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 1: Bang Bang every the glory, y'all. You know, UM have 748 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 1: I I think I have probably in the past, but 749 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 1: it doesn't It doesn't totally turn me on. Yeah I 750 00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:33,759 Speaker 1: was younger, but yeah that's me, My me time. Have 751 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: you ever wanted talking about the last team? I was 752 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,239 Speaker 1: supposed to be at work, but I'm here watching porn. 753 00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm late. Has that happened? No, okay, so this has 754 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 1: happened to me. I've masturbated before, and like when I'm masturbate, like, 755 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 1: I get really tired and I want to like later, 756 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 1: going to sleep for a minute, and then I'm I'm 757 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 1: letting late for something. Yeah, I have masturbated. I'm tired. 758 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:01,920 Speaker 1: I don't say that. I'd be like, oh my god, 759 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,799 Speaker 1: I want splay. I'm on my way. Have you ever 760 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: baby masturbated before your man came over and then you 761 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,880 Speaker 1: didn't feel like having sex? No, if my my nigga 762 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,759 Speaker 1: is coming, then hey, I'm ready. Now, I like to 763 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:16,719 Speaker 1: masterbate before before the dick comes over, because yeah, he 764 00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 1: comes out, is ready? Okay, So you masturbated, but do 765 00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 1: you comeau? I'd like, will not masterbate, I'd like to come? Yeah, 766 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 1: you come Okay. We never report back on that one 767 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,359 Speaker 1: because I never tried it, and they'd be like, oh 768 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 1: my gosh, like, wow, baby, your pussy so well, Like, 769 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 1: how does he make you so harty? Have you ever 770 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:53,520 Speaker 1: masturbated a not come? Yeah, and when you're drunk or 771 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 1: like sometimes yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, and then it's 772 00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: just like, okay, I forgot much and your your ship 773 00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 1: looks you know now I'm a little bit Yeah, this kid, 774 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 1: I've become nune before. We need some help. If I 775 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: got to masturbate until I'm numb, somebody's got to come over, yeah, 776 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 1: well or not or not. That's I mean, it's just like, 777 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you're trying to get there, you almost get there, 778 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:26,359 Speaker 1: you almost are there, and it's just like, damn, it's 779 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,799 Speaker 1: not there. So you keep trying and it's like you're numb. 780 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,480 Speaker 1: It's wrong. It sucks. That sounds it's so bad. It 781 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: is so bad when you so bad. And do you 782 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: guys think about like another man when you're having sex. Ever, 783 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Sometimes when I'm getting my pussy 784 00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 1: a I will think of porn. Porn. I want not 785 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:52,320 Speaker 1: a hapn fast you know what I mean that is, 786 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 1: that's not what I do the same thing because I'm 787 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,399 Speaker 1: not gonna like that. I think it's for a man, 788 00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:58,320 Speaker 1: it's they're trying not to coming for a woman. We 789 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,399 Speaker 1: try to come. It's like we gotta do would become 790 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,760 Speaker 1: they're lazy in a second and now or other times 791 00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: that when you come or you're like I'm done. No, 792 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,120 Speaker 1: I mean I don't. Once I come, like, you gotta stop. 793 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 1: You gotta get your mouth off. You have, but I 794 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 1: can take the dick. You gotta get your mouth off. 795 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: But that's a great time to stick the dick in 796 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 1: after you perfect time, perfect time. That's great. You're thinking me, 797 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 1: I got my tongue all down your throat and I'm 798 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:26,040 Speaker 1: looking all over your face because I want to take 799 00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:29,239 Speaker 1: to all that ship. Yeah, that's fun, good time, good time. 800 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 1: I gotta try to like somebody like to spitty on you, 801 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,960 Speaker 1: like yes, And I don't like that. You don't like that, 802 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: and I don't like the smell of like it. It's 803 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 1: like that starts off disgusting. Yeah, yeah, I can't. And 804 00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,200 Speaker 1: you know, but after you have sex, you are supposed 805 00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:52,359 Speaker 1: to get up and pee. I didn't know you don't. Yeah, 806 00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 1: what if you ain't got to be you have to 807 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 1: kind of like you will, it'll come out. You get 808 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 1: some water. Yeah, used the bathroom. I don't have to 809 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,799 Speaker 1: be do you like to not be able to walk 810 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 1: after you have sex? I like how the sex was. 811 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, because sometimes niggas doing too much and 812 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,880 Speaker 1: you can't walk for no reason, and it's just like, 813 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 1: I didn't even enjoy this, and I can't walk now, 814 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 1: and I don't like. Yeah, I don't even get almost. 815 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 1: I don't like. Carrie Bradshaw remembers on Charlotte's wedding, she me, yeah, 816 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 1: and he was like rabbit, yes, yes. Her back was 817 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,400 Speaker 1: a little messed up. She was like, what are some 818 00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 1: things that we think about doing sex? Like do you 819 00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:44,720 Speaker 1: ever just lay there and be like this is whack? 820 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 1: Oh man? Yeah, Like sometimes I lay there and I'll 821 00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:53,000 Speaker 1: make fake noises like but I'm really like, oh my gosh. 822 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:56,760 Speaker 1: You know when the sexist trash, when the sexiest trash, 823 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 1: I turned up the speech. I turned up the talk 824 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,920 Speaker 1: and get him to get I'm excited. She starts over 825 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 1: doing it. You know what it is. She's trying to 826 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 1: get away. Oh my god, You're dick is fucking incredible, 827 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 1: Oh daddy. And then I love when the girl started saying, 828 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:21,319 Speaker 1: oh my god, please come come, please come. Then you're like, okay, yeah, 829 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,680 Speaker 1: just come. Yeah. Sometimes I will say that I don't 830 00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 1: want you to come right now, say you deserve come 831 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 1: right now, you deserve it. This is your pussy, it's 832 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,920 Speaker 1: all yours. And she was not to say it just 833 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 1: like that. And when they asked this your pussy, that's 834 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 1: my And then you know, we don't give a funk 835 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:50,520 Speaker 1: because after we're we just like roll over like I'm 836 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 1: gonna be man, I gotta do so what you want 837 00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: to do. And you know the worst is if you 838 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,280 Speaker 1: roll up and get on your phone, you'd be like girls, 839 00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 1: all right, you know, he did a good job. If 840 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 1: y'all cuddle after, oh my god, if I want to 841 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,319 Speaker 1: cut it with you, after that, you did a phenomenal job. Yes, 842 00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:20,360 Speaker 1: when you wake up inside of each other like and 843 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 1: the and the look of if you fall aslee put 844 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:31,319 Speaker 1: your head on his chest after that's love so good. Okay. 845 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,440 Speaker 1: Somebody asked a question. Okay, well there's a few of 846 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: them because we put it on Twitter. All right, if 847 00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,319 Speaker 1: your boyfriend is pressing you to do you know, how 848 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,359 Speaker 1: do you kindly tell him no for the fiftieth time. 849 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 1: I'm trying not to leave him, but I don't want 850 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 1: to leave either time. No, no, you want some of 851 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:57,920 Speaker 1: this old man? No no, this is how you get 852 00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:00,760 Speaker 1: your man to stop asking you to zoom. Ain't ready? Guys? 853 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:05,080 Speaker 1: Are you ready? Say? Man? Are you so upset with 854 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 1: want to suck me in my assh? Are you gaya 855 00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:15,840 Speaker 1: will never get a like? You know that's gay? Like? 856 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: Why would you want the asshole? If you can have 857 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 1: the vagina, you know you must be gay. Have you 858 00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,440 Speaker 1: ever thought about that? Have you ever thought about being 859 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:29,360 Speaker 1: with a boy? Oh? Here's somebody? Okay? Never asking? Destiny 860 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:30,799 Speaker 1: wants to know. How can you tell if a guy 861 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 1: really loves you or just your sex? Is y'all only fucking? 862 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 1: Or no? Are your dates only like meet up to 863 00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 1: have sex? Or do you guys have intimate conversation? You 864 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 1: spend time with each other outside of the bedroom, and 865 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 1: sometimes you have at all? Did you wait it all? 866 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:57,839 Speaker 1: I don't know, I see because sometimes listen not get 867 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 1: it twisted. I fucked on the first night, but with 868 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,960 Speaker 1: somebody that I connected with and we ended up being 869 00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:14,440 Speaker 1: together even case and rhymes with guy. No, no, no, 870 00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:18,800 Speaker 1: I don't even know that you know, I'm It's just 871 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:24,879 Speaker 1: that the rhymes with guys. Yeah no, yeah, like first 872 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,799 Speaker 1: night and turned into something you know what I'm saying, So, yeah, 873 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 1: well what about now? This is how I feel about that, 874 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,320 Speaker 1: because sometimes guys really don't know how to date, and 875 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,799 Speaker 1: sometimes you have to initiate it. Like sometimes they think 876 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 1: just sucking you is like we date because they don't 877 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,440 Speaker 1: make an effort. So I really feel like sometimes you 878 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,960 Speaker 1: have to teach guys what to do if they didn't 879 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,520 Speaker 1: have no real girlfriends like that before you or anybody 880 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 1: that has like help them learn how to treat them. 881 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 1: Women got to be like you gotta get learned, like 882 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 1: you if y'all just had sex, but you're like, yeah, 883 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,919 Speaker 1: what are you doing that? You want to get something 884 00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,880 Speaker 1: to eat or I want to see this movie. Just 885 00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,400 Speaker 1: kind of put it out there and see if he 886 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: does want to do other stuff and nothing like. That 887 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:13,600 Speaker 1: episode was called Buddies. I remember that episode every episode. Yes, no, 888 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,960 Speaker 1: she was messing with this guy and he finally asks her, 889 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:18,719 Speaker 1: like you want to know She finally asked him, like 890 00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:20,120 Speaker 1: you want to go get some food? And he was 891 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:23,919 Speaker 1: like like they were both so weird about it even 892 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 1: getting and they didn't even like each other. But that 893 00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,120 Speaker 1: is a good way to test it out, you suggested, 894 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: and if he wants to follow up and do it, 895 00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,040 Speaker 1: then it's going to happen. If not, that's just even. 896 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,920 Speaker 1: If you guys put the effort up and you go, 897 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:39,400 Speaker 1: then you you don't have that connection, then it is 898 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 1: what it is. Right, we're just fun buddies and that's fine. 899 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 1: All right now, I'm here's one more. If a guy 900 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 1: puts you in doggy style position the first time you 901 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:49,720 Speaker 1: have sex, does that mean it's sex and no real feelings? 902 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: I like the style. I think I initiate it. I 903 00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 1: think I was like that. I'm flipping over and ask 904 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:09,480 Speaker 1: looking stopped. Alright, alright, let's do the run down. You 905 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,279 Speaker 1: go and you're sucking the dick, right, and then it's 906 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,759 Speaker 1: time to put the condom on. While he's putting the 907 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:18,880 Speaker 1: condom on, you turn around. Isn't that what you're supposed 908 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:23,719 Speaker 1: to do? Exactly? That's what you want. Yeah, you think 909 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna be a missionary. You guys are making out, 910 00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:32,680 Speaker 1: kissing and then he just turns you around. N't know. 911 00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:36,320 Speaker 1: I'm down with guy's been forcing me to do a missionary. 912 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I can just man. Guys always want 913 00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,400 Speaker 1: to make out while we're having sex and look me 914 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:46,479 Speaker 1: in the eyes. But he only want to do Should 915 00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: you be offended? No, I'm happy. No, you should probably 916 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 1: be offended. I don't want to see your face and 917 00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:57,920 Speaker 1: I haven't met a guy, right. It depends on who 918 00:53:58,000 --> 00:53:59,800 Speaker 1: the guy is, too, because if he's just my but 919 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 1: eat the nigger, I don't want to kiss you or 920 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,840 Speaker 1: see you either, So I'm gonna turn around for you. Guys, 921 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,719 Speaker 1: I even if I'm the one who only wants to fund, 922 00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:13,080 Speaker 1: they always like, no, don't you want that's your buddy? 923 00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:15,440 Speaker 1: Don't you want him to want more? Like even if 924 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 1: you don't know I, oh, ma'am, I don't. Don't you 925 00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 1: want to be like, don't I've had but he want 926 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:29,200 Speaker 1: to turn into something more, buddy like, No, that's but 927 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,840 Speaker 1: but that's the thing, even when you don't want it, 928 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:33,759 Speaker 1: even though you don't want it, you still want them 929 00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:35,919 Speaker 1: to want more. Like if they know, if they're just cool, 930 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,840 Speaker 1: would just always being the side person? And well, maybe, okay, 931 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,480 Speaker 1: maybe it's a difference, because y'all know how us women are. 932 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 1: Maybe it's a difference if they ask for it and 933 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 1: then you're like, no, I don't want that, But if 934 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 1: they don't, then maybe you're like, you're like, you don't 935 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:54,000 Speaker 1: want more, you know what I mean, And we're complicated creatures, 936 00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,239 Speaker 1: so I can get that. I'm not gonna lie. It's 937 00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,879 Speaker 1: sweet satisfaction when you don't want more from a guy 938 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 1: and he wants more from me. All right, when you're 939 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 1: with a guy and he's sucking up. Do we all 940 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,360 Speaker 1: have a guy that we just called to make us 941 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,400 Speaker 1: feel better? See, I don't. I wish I had my 942 00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:17,320 Speaker 1: roller deck. Don't keep like that because even the guys 943 00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,239 Speaker 1: that I can call, like when I want something, what 944 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,200 Speaker 1: I want is what I want and I don't want 945 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:25,080 Speaker 1: nothing else, you know. So it's like I can't call 946 00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 1: anybody to feel that voice. Yeah, tunnel vision. I feel 947 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,120 Speaker 1: like everybody has that somebody in this that you can 948 00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: call in case of emergency that you can't call, but 949 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:40,800 Speaker 1: you're always wants to call that that you can. You 950 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 1: want to see it, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, exactly, 951 00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:45,320 Speaker 1: even if you're not doing nothing, but it's just a 952 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:51,759 Speaker 1: nice little body. That's what I mean. You can, but 953 00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 1: you might not always want to. But yeah, we all 954 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,480 Speaker 1: got that, I hope. So yeah, you say, now I 955 00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,080 Speaker 1: do I definitely have one guy that, no matter how 956 00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:03,040 Speaker 1: miserable a man is making me feel, no matter what. 957 00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 1: Once I get some of that, it's like, why am 958 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,160 Speaker 1: I even thinking about guys like this is the best 959 00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:12,719 Speaker 1: guy ever? Like nobody else matters, Like I'll never be 960 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:21,279 Speaker 1: faithful as long as he's around and he's to the curve. Yeah, yeah, 961 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 1: we're for you. You know, he's just I feel like 962 00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,879 Speaker 1: he's just that one special person that helps me get 963 00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,279 Speaker 1: over any drama that I ever have with a guy. 964 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,959 Speaker 1: And he loves his role. He's prayed out it. Yeah, 965 00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:41,520 Speaker 1: get paid for this. So Terra, let's let's talk about 966 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:42,800 Speaker 1: what we can expect for you coming up. I know 967 00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:44,600 Speaker 1: you're trying to get this album done. Yes, I'm trying 968 00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:47,520 Speaker 1: to get the album done and we're shooting. Uh. We 969 00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 1: just got picked up first season four of leven Hip 970 00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,840 Speaker 1: Hop Hollywood. So that's my main focus is using this 971 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,640 Speaker 1: platform for my advantage and you know, bringing out my 972 00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:58,840 Speaker 1: music because that's what people want to hear from me. 973 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:01,440 Speaker 1: They are a lot of people rooting for me that 974 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,959 Speaker 1: I didn't even know, so you know, it's more reason 975 00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:06,839 Speaker 1: for me to get my ship together. You haven't loved 976 00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:08,960 Speaker 1: to laugh from season one, Yes, because I know it's 977 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,560 Speaker 1: an adjustment. Yeah you know. Well, you know I did 978 00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,360 Speaker 1: season two of New York, but I wasn't like a 979 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 1: main castmate. So and and Emily. You know, Emily is 980 00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 1: one of my best friends and I was on there 981 00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 1: with her, and um, you know, since then, I've grown 982 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:27,880 Speaker 1: into a young woman. I was like twenties two on there, 983 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:32,160 Speaker 1: and now I'm twenty nine. Friends yeah, yeah, yeah, So 984 00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,800 Speaker 1: at Hollywood, it's just a whole different ballgame for me 985 00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,640 Speaker 1: because it was like everything was in my backyard. My 986 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:41,560 Speaker 1: ex best friend, well my best best friend at the 987 00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: time was on the show. My ex boyfriend was on 988 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: the show. You know, people that I knew, my ex 989 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,440 Speaker 1: assistant was on the show. So it was like I 990 00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:51,240 Speaker 1: wasn't ready for the ship that was about to come. 991 00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:57,080 Speaker 1: So I reacted them yeah yeah, And I said, yeah, 992 00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 1: but I think, um, I think that um ex best 993 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 1: friend is coming back next season. I don't know, but 994 00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,360 Speaker 1: I think, so you want her back. Um, you know, 995 00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,040 Speaker 1: it's it's no bad blood. I don't have beef with anybody. 996 00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,520 Speaker 1: Like I said, don't start none, won't be none. Um. 997 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 1: You know, I don't like when people expect a certain 998 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:15,680 Speaker 1: level of loyalty if they don't give it right. You 999 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I think it'll be interesting. 1000 00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:22,800 Speaker 1: Just stay tuned. Would you still work with young Berg? Now? No, 1001 00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,800 Speaker 1: because he's a lying, you know person. You know know 1002 00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 1: what if he was like, I want to make up 1003 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:31,120 Speaker 1: his banging ass beat? No he has said that, yeah, 1004 00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:35,680 Speaker 1: and he has. It's I can get banging beats from anybody. 1005 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,320 Speaker 1: But when you listen to somebody and then they force 1006 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:43,200 Speaker 1: you into saying something that's not right about your friend, 1007 00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,240 Speaker 1: that's not all right. I could never trust you again. Yeah, 1008 00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,480 Speaker 1: So what if that ray J? What if he's like, 1009 00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 1: let's do a song together? No? Hell no? Hell no? 1010 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 1: So you can't separate business? Why would I want to 1011 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 1: do a song with? Some people? Can? Some people are like, well, 1012 00:58:58,120 --> 00:58:59,920 Speaker 1: I can separate, but I don't want to do a song, 1013 00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,520 Speaker 1: were right? J? Like that's not doing nothing for you, 1014 00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 1: not for me, you know, and it won't do nothing 1015 00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,800 Speaker 1: for him Either're like, no, we still who are you 1016 00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:17,640 Speaker 1: working with? Um? Season something? You said it just saying 1017 00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,320 Speaker 1: my music is good, like it's founding her legs a 1018 00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:27,080 Speaker 1: little hearty And she said that sounds like something y'all 1019 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:36,280 Speaker 1: are trying it now say no, what you're making me blush? Angela, 1020 00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:41,280 Speaker 1: it's about you. No, Tierra, I appreciate you so much. 1021 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,160 Speaker 1: Once again, I told you she's a lip service veteran. 1022 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:47,480 Speaker 1: So yes, I always enjoy this. Yes, I always enjoy this. 1023 00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 1: We come up here, we have drinks, we have girl talk, 1024 00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:52,840 Speaker 1: and it's always a good time. You learned a lot 1025 00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:56,920 Speaker 1: about and I miss you. Yes, all right, well let's 1026 00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,480 Speaker 1: lip service on Angela. Ye, I'm Stephane in Santiago. I'm 1027 01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:04,600 Speaker 1: and what y'all doing for New Year's? Anybody got there 1028 01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:06,680 Speaker 1: to be at your house? Yeah, we're gonna be with you. 1029 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 1: So you're going to be in New York? Yeah, I 1030 01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:10,320 Speaker 1: don't know. I was thinking at all going on myn 1031 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:14,000 Speaker 1: and Brownstone y'all. Maybe I'll come, yeah, because I haven't 1032 01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,360 Speaker 1: made any like official plans yet, so maybe i'll come. 1033 01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:20,840 Speaker 1: And I haven't done New Year's even It'll be chill, 1034 01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 1: That's what I feel like. I don't want to do 1035 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 1: nothing that's like a big protection. Well last year don't 1036 01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 1: count because I slept through the I feel like we 1037 01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 1: could just wear a hoodie and jeans. Stephanie was with 1038 01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 1: me last year. You know what, maybe if we did 1039 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 1: that like something different. Maybe our our year will be different, 1040 01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 1: Like we just weren't a hoodie and jeans to bring. Yeah, 1041 01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,920 Speaker 1: and then it's just like damn, Like this year was 1042 01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,240 Speaker 1: so prosperous for me and I like it. It was 1043 01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:52,360 Speaker 1: we're hoodie and last year was probably the most stressed 1044 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:54,880 Speaker 1: downlines in New Year's and I had a great year. 1045 01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: This year is really good. Think sometimes it's people think 1046 01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 1: that New Year's has to be like the best night 1047 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 1: of your life. It's just so like too much day. 1048 01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:11,240 Speaker 1: I've been disappointed a few times. It's another night. We 1049 01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 1: just go out and maybe I get a little more 1050 01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:20,280 Speaker 1: fucked up than usual, celebrate a little bit everything normal, right, Well, 1051 01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:25,160 Speaker 1: we will figure it out. I'm looking forward. Happy holidays, 1052 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:26,520 Speaker 1: Happy holidays,