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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the twelve first

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Speaker 2: day follow ups of Christmas has voted on by you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we countdown all the way to the number one first

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Speaker 2: day follow up that you voted on.

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Speaker 3: Jr.

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Speaker 2: Is on the phone today for a first date follow

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Speaker 2: up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in a

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Speaker 2: second we're going to call her and see if you'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe you get

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Speaker 2: him another date. But first, JR. How long has it

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Speaker 2: been since you heard from Marie?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man, a couple of days? I guess maybe a week now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you try to hit her up?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've called a couple of times.

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Speaker 4: I didn't leave a voice message every time I called

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Speaker 4: because I didn't want to sound crazy or whatever.

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Speaker 3: But she just hadn't called back. I got nothing.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 4: It was awesome, so we moun on the apps. I

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Speaker 4: just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,

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Speaker 4: she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature,

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Speaker 4: you know, with her friends.

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Speaker 3: I mean the second we started talking, it was like

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 4: Telling her about how always wanted to ride a horse,

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Speaker 4: but I've been like real afraid to try.

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Speaker 3: And she laughed at it, you know, but like it

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Speaker 3: was that.

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Speaker 4: Cute kind of laugh, and then she was like really encouraging,

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Speaker 4: and we decided that actually our first meeting would be

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Speaker 4: for me to go horseback riding.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a cool first day.

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Speaker 3: It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She

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Speaker 3: was amazing.

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Speaker 4: She was like like my personal cheerleader. She was just

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Speaker 4: so warm and energetic and and I mean she was

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Speaker 4: gorgeous too. I just, oh, I can't get it out

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Speaker 4: of my mind. It was amazing. And after we rode horses,

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Speaker 4: we you know, we went home to shower and we

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Speaker 4: changed and.

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Speaker 3: Then we met up for dinner.

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Speaker 4: And oh my gosh, I'm smiling.

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Speaker 3: So hard right now just thinking about it. Like it

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Speaker 3: was things, things are going great.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: We we even kissed before we went into the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: And that's a good sign, really good sign.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: That's usually it's like if you're lucky after dinner.

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Speaker 3: You know, this was right away, and you.

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Speaker 4: Know, set the tone for some real romance, and after dinner,

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Speaker 4: you know, we kissed again and I told her that

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Speaker 4: I was gonna call her this week with a plan

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Speaker 4: for another adventure.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's just amazing. This is so good, So.

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Speaker 2: You're really into her.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like the date went great, though, to have

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Speaker 1: a two part date and kisses, it feels.

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Speaker 2: Like there's really great momentum. What could have gone wrong?

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Speaker 2: You think?

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Speaker 4: You know, the only thing that I can really think

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Speaker 4: of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that,

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Speaker 4: like sometimes I say.

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Speaker 3: The wrong thing at the wrong time.

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't mean to, but like, we were

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Speaker 4: sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like

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Speaker 4: a designer handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,

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Speaker 4: she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make

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Speaker 4: a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So

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Speaker 4: I remember saying like, hey, where are you on OnlyFans

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Speaker 4: or something like, you know how you afford that fancy stuff?

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Speaker 3: She It was like the only.

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Speaker 4: Point where I forget all that romance is she looked

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Speaker 4: just like cold, and then she kind of played it off,

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Speaker 4: but she's like, I'm just I'm a good thrifter.

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Speaker 3: And there was a little awkward moment there, you know, I.

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Speaker 4: Moved on from it and I told her, you say, hey,

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Speaker 4: I'm mean to offend you or anything, and I told

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Speaker 3: And that was the only moment that kind of that

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Speaker 3: I can think of that was like, oh, is that

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Speaker 4: Did I really ruin it by putting my foot in

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Speaker 4: my mouth again?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land. You got

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Speaker 2: to tell that one right, just right. You gotta tell

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Speaker 2: well yeah, maybe that's why she's not calling you back.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she's house, why she's ghosting you, and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, oh my gosh, please yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song come back, and get

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up next right, little of today's

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Speaker 2: first date follow up. If you're just joining us, Jr.

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Speaker 2: Is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Marie

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Speaker 2: and so in a second we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she's house why she's ghosting him. But before

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Speaker 2: we do that, Jarah, why don't you catch us up

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Speaker 2: on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so went on the best first day I've ever had.

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Speaker 4: We broke one of my fears, going horseback riding. We

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Speaker 4: kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out

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Speaker 4: of a movie as far as I'm concerned. And I

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Speaker 4: may have put my foot in my mouth, but I think.

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Speaker 3: It went really well overall.

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Speaker 4: And I can't get her to get back to me,

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Speaker 4: and I really want to go on another adventure with her.

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Speaker 1: But your foot in your mouth was there because you

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Speaker 1: asked her if she was on only fans because she

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Speaker 1: had nice things.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was a joke, right right? All right, man,

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Speaker 2: are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Marie. Please.

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Speaker 3: This is her.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Marie, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show

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Speaker 2: him Marie. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 2: I'm Victorian. Hey, how are you good things? How are

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Speaker 2: you great? Thanks for asking? Have you ever heard of

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Speaker 2: the show before? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I love the show?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Thanks great? Do you like the first a follow ups?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yes, congratulations Because this is a first day fall up.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, you're gusting somebody. And they emailed us about you.

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Speaker 2: Do you know who that would be?

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Speaker 3: Yes Jr?

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Speaker 2: Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told us about

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Speaker 2: your date. He said he really liked you, and he's

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Speaker 2: not sure. Why are you ghost sing him? Do you

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Speaker 2: point telling us?

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Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, I'm so marrious. Well I really liked

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Speaker 5: him too, but and and the date was great and everything,

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Speaker 5: but to be honest, he was asking some personal questions

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Speaker 5: and he seemed like he was crying a little good.

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Speaker 5: I couldn't tell if he was joking or not, but he,

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Speaker 5: you know, it was getting a little too close to

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Speaker 5: finding out a secret, honestly. And I I just don't

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Speaker 5: go out with guys like that.

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Speaker 2: Like inquisitive, like guys like that. Do you what do

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Speaker 2: you mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know, I like to

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Speaker 5: keep my privacy, you know, like my personal business is

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Speaker 5: my business.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you mean by that?

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Speaker 5: Well? You know, I just I want a guy to

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Speaker 5: like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.

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Speaker 5: And I, you know, I'm not sure if he's like

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Speaker 5: creepy or not.

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Speaker 2: You don't know if he's creepy or not why.

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Speaker 5: Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my

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Speaker 5: bag that I mean, I'd like to have my stuff,

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Speaker 5: And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and

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Speaker 5: and and it made me think, is that how he

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Speaker 5: saw me?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: Is that why he's okay?

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Speaker 1: So you feel like he put two and two together

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Speaker 1: and you're usually low key about it.

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Speaker 2: You probably knew how people that want to date you

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Speaker 2: because of that.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 5: that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured

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Speaker 5: it out and that's why he asked me for a date.

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Speaker 3: Ohha, whoa, whoa, Wait a minute, So you you are

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Speaker 3: on Only Fans.

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Speaker 2: He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: No, oh my god, Oh my goodness, old hi, Oh

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Speaker 5: my gosh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I swear I did not know you were on there.

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Speaker 3: I was just making a joke.

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Speaker 2: That is a bad time joke.

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Speaker 5: I thought that you that you for sure knew I

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Speaker 5: was on and that's why you asked me out. So

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Speaker 5: you really just saw me on the app and genuinely

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Speaker 5: just wanted to go out with me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you seem so sweet. It's one percent for like

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Speaker 4: who you are.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry.

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Speaker 3: It is cool that you have an only fans.

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Speaker 5: You do, You're cool with it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't care about that. I'd never judge you

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Speaker 3: for that, you know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, if you want to keep it a secret,

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Speaker 4: maybe you know, don't bring out the fans stuff.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You were doing so well. This is just another one,

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Speaker 2: this moment.

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Speaker 3: I like, what can I say? Yeah, no, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I was so stupid.

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Speaker 4: I was just trying to do I danced in person,

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Speaker 4: but you guys can't see that.

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Speaker 3: And it was supposed to be a joke and I

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Speaker 3: suck at that.

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Speaker 2: But you rode a horse j r.

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Speaker 3: You did Yeah, and she was amazing. I never would

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Speaker 3: have done it if it wasn't for Marie. Like it

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Speaker 3: was great. It was you were my little You're my

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Speaker 3: hero that day, Marie. It was great.

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Speaker 2: You guys are actually really cute.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. You are really sweet, Air and I and

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Speaker 5: I do really like.

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Speaker 2: You, Marie. Would you like to go on another day?

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Speaker 2: Which are We'll pay for it really?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh my gosh, please please say yes, Please say yes.

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Speaker 3: I swear already whoever you Yes, great, okay, Sorry