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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on giving them like

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Speaker 1: Could I have played the role of where is my car?

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Speaker 1: but even more importantly, always remember where you're trying to go,

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Speaker 1: many mornings as I possibly can. It's important because that's

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Speaker 1: They are going to be a lot of things that's

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Speaker 1: now and put your eye into future. You know, God

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Speaker 1: syndicated show. He gives me a syndicated show. Now I

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Speaker 1: slow down. Did not you ask for this? Do I

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Speaker 1: He said that too, But old, no, you don't want

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Speaker 1: That's just in case you have not because you ask not.

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Speaker 1: And if you just sometimes you just don't know. I

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Speaker 1: is Steve Harvey Morning Show. Bet Shirley Strawberry Colin for

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Speaker 1: Course on your mind. Yea, let me just ask you something.

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Speaker 1: We'd run that brank back. Nephew. What you got start

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Speaker 1: the delivery guy man with the refrigerator. Well yeah, listen,

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Speaker 1: these little new ass people he own fashion. You can

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Speaker 1: have a male friend, all right, go ahead and get

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Speaker 1: you one. I'll tell you what. But hey better now,

422
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Speaker 1: won't you though, because you're gonna hear about it? All right?

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Speaker 1: You heard from the clo Nicky and oak Cliff as

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Speaker 1: we move on, says my mother and I fell out.

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Speaker 1: My mother and I NICKI old Cliff it word, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I was looking at your voice, I mean at your face.

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Speaker 1: I was like, all right, Nicki, Nicki, Nicki, Nicki in

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Speaker 1: an open cliff. Okay, my nikif too, says my mother

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Speaker 1: and I fell out because she owes me money for

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Speaker 1: a vacation we took over the holidays. She wanted to

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Speaker 1: go visit her sister, so I bought our plane ticket.

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Speaker 1: She has money, but she's always saving for a rainy day. Well,

433
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Speaker 1: it's raining on my end and I need my money,

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Speaker 1: she said. It's the least I can do for her,

435
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Speaker 1: after all she's done for me. I'm so irritated. Should

436
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Speaker 1: I count this as a total lawney? Well, you can

437
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Speaker 1: lose the money or lose the relationship with your mother.

438
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: Is it really that big a deal? Now your mother

439
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: saves money for a rainy day? Do you know who

440
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 1: she's saving the money for? Whose rainy day? For her

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00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: rainy day? Now you having a rainy day? But now

442
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna fall out with your mama over airplane ticket?

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00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 1: Did you understand my mama had slapped me dead in

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Speaker 1: my mouth. I'm talking about nineteen years old, haul off

445
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Speaker 1: slapped me dead in my mouth. Do you know I

446
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Speaker 1: was over there the next day eating because my dad

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Speaker 1: had said, you know we have them dinner over here

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Speaker 1: in the house tomorrow. I can't tell my father I'm

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Speaker 1: mad at my MoMA. No Hardma didn't hit me before

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Speaker 1: man girl and woke up in white folks were standing

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Speaker 1: over me. I'm trying to tank. Why did you We

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Speaker 1: woke up at the doctor, woke up looking at machinery.

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Speaker 1: Can you hear me? All right? Moving on to Georgia

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Speaker 1: In Columbia, Georgia says, I've got a problem with the

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Speaker 1: man I'm thing on the side because he's always buying

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Speaker 1: the expensive gift and I don't have anywhere to keep

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Speaker 1: dashing gifts jewelry, shoes and clothes or his thing. And

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Speaker 1: my husband knows I don't make that kind of money.

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Speaker 1: Is it rude to ask my side dude for cash

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Speaker 1: instead not leaving him alone? I don't. That's not the situation, wow,

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Speaker 1: Not the lady you have and a man on the side.

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Speaker 1: And part of the reason why you still dealing with

463
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Speaker 1: this man on the side is not only cause of

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Speaker 1: what he'd do to you, it's also because of what

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Speaker 1: he'd do fund you. So now, no, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: help you. No, I'm not gonna tell you you're going

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Speaker 1: to offend him if you ask for just can you're

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Speaker 1: asking for can all right? Thank you? Turn on his

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Speaker 1: investment coming up and say at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: who will have some entertainment news for you? Right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to morning show. ABC has suspended Whoobee

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Speaker 1: Goldberg from the View for two weeks after us saying

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Speaker 1: she said that the Holocaust was not about race. Now

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Speaker 1: this is in a statement, ABC News President Kim Goodwin said,

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Speaker 1: effective immediately, I'm suspending Wooby for two weeks for her

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Speaker 1: wrong and hurtful comments. While Whoopee apologized, I've asked her

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Speaker 1: to take time to reflect and learn about the impact

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Speaker 1: of her comments. The entire ABC News organization stands in

479
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Speaker 1: solidarity with our Jewish colleagues, friends, family, and communities who

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Speaker 1: made the comments on Monday's episode of The View during

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Speaker 1: a discussion of a Tennessee school boards ban of Mouth,

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Speaker 1: a nonfiction graphic novel about cartoonists Art Spiegelman's father's experience

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Speaker 1: surviving the Holocaust. Let's be truthful, will be said. Let's

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Speaker 1: be truthful about it because the Holocaust isn't about race.

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Speaker 1: It's not about race, It's about man's inhumanity to man.

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Speaker 1: The comment was condemned by such Jewish organizations as the

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Speaker 1: Anti Defamation League and the US Holocaust Museum. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think what Whoopie was trying to say, but did

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Speaker 1: it the wrong way, because when you don't understand the

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Speaker 1: actual way that people feel about it, the Holocaust was

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Speaker 1: definitely against humanity against man. That definitely was Whoopie Goldberg

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Speaker 1: was using the terms in terms of race in like black, white, Asian.

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Speaker 1: She was probably trying to say it that way, that

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Speaker 1: it wasn't about you being an Asian or an African

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Speaker 1: or a Native American. And I think that's what she

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Speaker 1: was trying to say. The problem with this statement is,

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Speaker 1: and I love Whoopie Goldberg, man, She's always been a

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Speaker 1: stellar person to me, and I've never heard her say

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Speaker 1: it just and that's why she would apologize because I

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Speaker 1: think she was saying it wasn't about race in terms

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Speaker 1: of how you can look at a person and know

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Speaker 1: their race, you know, because you got right, but you

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Speaker 1: got race, creed, religion, and uh, that's probably where she

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Speaker 1: meant it. But you know, and I think, you know,

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Speaker 1: that's why it's just a suspension because I think that's

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Speaker 1: what she was trying to say. I don't know it

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Speaker 1: either way one way or the other. I'm just based

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Speaker 1: on what you just told me right here. But knowing

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Speaker 1: the Whoopie Goldberg that I know she gets it. She

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00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: gets it. Yeah, yeah, because her and I have had

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Speaker 1: a conversation because I do not understand any rift between

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Speaker 1: Blacks and Jews. I just don't understand any rift there

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Speaker 1: because if any two people should understand anybody, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would think those two groups. That's why I don't.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't get a rift between African Americans and Native Americans. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Whoopy said what she should have said, Steve, this is

517
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Speaker 1: what Whoopie said. I should have said. It is about both.

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Speaker 1: The Jewish people around the world have always had my

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Speaker 1: support and that will never waiver. I'm sorry for the

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Speaker 1: hurt I've caused. So she said it should have been

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Speaker 1: about man's in humanity to man, and she says it

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Speaker 1: should have been about both, but she did not say that,

523
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Speaker 1: but it was. It was. I mean, seriously, it was

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Speaker 1: one of the most inhumane things. Those two things, the

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Speaker 1: Holocaust and slavery. Jesus go to both of those museums

526
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Speaker 1: in Washington, DC. Go to both of those, and you

527
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: are devastated. I'm telling you, tom Me, those oh my

528
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: greatest atrocities against a people. But I've gotta tell you

529
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: something else too, though, man. And this is crazy because

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Speaker 1: Shirley turned me on to the series Yellowstone. She's been

531
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Speaker 1: telling me to watch Yellowstone. I finished all four seasons,

532
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Speaker 1: all right, because it's stop. That's all I do. I

533
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: don't watch it. Ain't no sports on TV yet. You know,

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Speaker 1: super Bowl ain't here. Yeah, you know. I watched the

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Speaker 1: games and I go back to Yellowstone. I don't like

536
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: basketball season too. After the All Star Game, so you know,

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Speaker 1: I got time Yellowstone. What they did to Native Americans,

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Speaker 1: I'm listened to me, man, And I put that up

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00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: there because I was never thinking about it. But the

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Speaker 1: atrocity against Africans, against Jews, and against Native Americans, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, what they did to Native Americans. Man, it

542
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Speaker 1: was unthinkable what they've done and what they continued to do.

543
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Speaker 1: But what they continue to do to black people is

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Speaker 1: unthinkable too. I've never seen it. Man. This country has

545
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: done so many things to people. What did the guys

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Speaker 1: say on Yellowstone? He said, what is fair? The little

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00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: boy on Yellowstone? In the final episode. He said, but

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Speaker 1: that's not fair, because he was telling what happened to

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Speaker 1: the Native Americans. He said, what happened was he said,

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Speaker 1: he said, while they're not anymore buffalo, he said, because

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Speaker 1: they wanted to kill the buffalo. And so Kevin Constant,

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Speaker 1: he said, the little boy said why they want to

553
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Speaker 1: kill the buffalo? And he stopped and he said, here's

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Speaker 1: the truth. Because the Indians lived on the buffalo. They

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00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: followed the buffalo. The buffalo was their life blood. If

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Speaker 1: they got rid of the buffalo, they would get rid

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Speaker 1: of the Indian. So they would just send troops out

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Speaker 1: to just kill buffalo. Just kill him, kill him, kill him,

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Speaker 1: kill him, kill him, kill him, kill him, so that

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Speaker 1: the Indians wouldn't have a life blood. I'm sitting here

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Speaker 1: going listen to this. And the little boy said, that's

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Speaker 1: not fair. He said, you know what fair is when

563
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Speaker 1: a person does something to you and then you can't

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Speaker 1: do nothing about it and you have to just accepted.

565
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: He said, that's what fad is. I would I'll be damned,

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Speaker 1: And that's America's definition of fair. That's right, all right.

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Speaker 1: Steve's coming up at twenty minutes after the hour Bomb

568
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Speaker 1: threats at HBCUs. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show here we are in Black History Month,

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Speaker 1: and you got to ask the question, what's going on

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Speaker 1: a growing number of historically black colleges and universities have

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Speaker 1: had to lock down or postpone classes due to bomb threats.

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Speaker 1: At least thirteen HBCUs have reported bomb threats. It is scary,

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Speaker 1: it is horrifying. According to USA Today, there are calls

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Speaker 1: for federal law enforcement to investigate. Homeland Security is providing

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Speaker 1: President Biden with updates. I mean, this country, with these

577
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Speaker 1: constant racially violent threats is just unbelievable. Everywhere you go.

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Speaker 1: Our children can't go to school, they can't go to

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Speaker 1: the universities without being terrorized. And again, this is just

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Speaker 1: the beginning of Black History Month twenty twenty two. It's

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Speaker 1: it's the country we live in. It's the United States

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Speaker 1: of America. I mean, look, I was watching something online

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Speaker 1: the other day. I don't think it was on d

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Speaker 1: L side of somebody's side. There was a white guy

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Speaker 1: on there ranting and raving that white people are the

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Speaker 1: most discriminated against group of people in the world. And

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Speaker 1: that was his claim that was his rant. The moment

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Speaker 1: something happens to them, it's a catastrophe. But stuff can

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00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: happen to other people repeatedly, over and over and over

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Speaker 1: and nothing being said. If they get a moment, not all.

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Speaker 1: But if there are some whites who if they get

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Speaker 1: a moment to point a single incident that they can

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Speaker 1: say it's discrimination, Oh, here it comes. It's a national

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00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: atrocity affirmative action. Where they started saying you had to

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Speaker 1: hire a certain amount of black people. I've been on

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Speaker 1: a job interview where a guy told me, oh one.

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Speaker 1: As soon as I said down, he said, I'm just

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Speaker 1: I said, yeah, I'm here for the job interview. He said,

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Speaker 1: we feel our quota already. We don't have to hire

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Speaker 1: any more blacks. He told me that. Wow, in the seventies,

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Speaker 1: he told me that I got him. Walk my ass

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00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 1: right up out of that. We don't have to hire.

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Speaker 1: He didn't want to hear how it was best for

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Speaker 1: the job. I've been telling you right here, we have to.

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Speaker 1: We've dealt with church bombings. They come into our place

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00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 1: of religion. They had our schools bombing right now. They

607
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: got the Willie Lynch letter. After slavery, they found a

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00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: way now where if a black person can't show employment,

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00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: they get imprisoned right after slavery. So now they can

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Speaker 1: put you in these concentration and get free labor out

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Speaker 1: of you. Anyway, we didn't even pass the Voters Rights

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Speaker 1: Act this year. Happy Black History Month, man, miss me.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna switch gears and go to Steve's voicemail eight

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Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now to check

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Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail, and if you would like to leave Steve

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Speaker 1: a voicemail, call eight seven seven twenty nine Steve and

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Speaker 1: you could hear your message on the radio. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: here we go. This is a call about men in

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Speaker 1: the relationship tie. My name is said Kayla william I'm

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Speaker 1: Tay three years old, calling in from our figures to

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Speaker 1: bad us. I'm listening to your guy's conversation right now

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Speaker 1: about men enclosure and it's not usually the woman is

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Speaker 1: the man. And I'm literally going through this like right now,

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00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: like where a guy came into my life with somebody

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Speaker 1: who I knew from high school. Trusted him out of nowhere.

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Speaker 1: He's just like guy that didn't gonna work. And I

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Speaker 1: want to go back to the point of did you

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Speaker 1: know that I was quote unquote too much when you

631
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 1: came into my life? Because mind you, a lot of

632
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: times men will set up this facade of women to

633
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 1: be attentive and women who will be supportive and listening,

634
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: and then once that woman started exercise and not support

635
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: now it's too much. Now you can't uphold it. It's like,

636
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 1: why are you showering me and candy talking to me

637
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: all this week? And then you play you don't want

638
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: a relationship, Just make it makes sense, that's all. Then

639
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: you got it so much. I hope you guys have

640
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: a last glorious day. Wow, very well said young lady. Here,

641
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: let me help you with this part right here. You

642
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: gotta understand, when you enter into a relationship with the man,

643
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: for the first two weeks, you're going to meet the

644
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: most attentive, best representative of himself you could possibly meet.

645
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: Most dudes have got the two week game mastered, what

646
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: to say, how to be because you can, as you

647
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: use the word facade, you can keep up a facade

648
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 1: for two weeks two weeks. It's two weeks is really good.

649
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: It's hard to do that over ninety day stretch. No,

650
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: it really is hard to pull that off over a

651
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: ninety day stretch. It's been done, but it's harder. And

652
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: so to protect yourselves women, before you give into this,

653
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is too good to be true.

654
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: You have to develop the questions and the test to

655
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 1: find out early if it is too good to be true.

656
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Speaker 1: And that's why I created the ninety day rule. All right, Stephen,

657
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Speaker 1: we have another call from a woman about men being

658
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 1: the provider. I just heard you say, Steve, I got

659
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: to tell end that women wants security. When a man

660
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 1: meets a woman is game on. I'm really sick of

661
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 1: women who look for security and a man. The word

662
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: says God bless a child who has their own. No,

663
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: that's not in the word, but the saying goal, God

664
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Speaker 1: bless the child that has his her own. And also

665
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: the word does say if a man wants to eat,

666
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 1: he has to work. If a man don't work, he

667
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: don't eat. That goes for a one man. Also, I've

668
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: never looked for a man to be my security. God

669
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,479
Speaker 1: has been my source. I just retired from my job.

670
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,439
Speaker 1: After forty two years, God has blessed me to take

671
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,839
Speaker 1: care of myself. I'm so sick and tired of women

672
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: who look to a man to take care of her.

673
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 1: What I want from a man is loyalty, love, understanding, communication.

674
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: I want to believe that I can believe in him

675
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: because I want to. I don't get with a man

676
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: because of what he can do for me. Never have,

677
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: never will never will. I love the Black Man. I

678
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: love you, Steve Harvey. Happy belated birthday, Hello to all

679
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 1: of your crew, Stay safe, be blessed by by You

680
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: know what. She made some valid points, but I want

681
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,320
Speaker 1: to show her something. I stand by what I said

682
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: what a woman looks for. She's not arguing that point.

683
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: She's telling about her standpoint. What a woman looks for

684
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: in a man is security. But the things you describe

685
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: that you want are forms of security. Loyalty is security.

686
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: You want to be You want to know that your

687
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: heart is safe with him. You won't love. You want

688
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: to feel like you belong to somebody, like like you're

689
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: somebody somebody. You want a person that can communicate with you.

690
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: That's security. You want understanding, You want to believe in him,

691
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: that's security. System, and then you need to package that

692
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:40,919
Speaker 1: up with when your chips is down, will he be there?

693
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: See y'all please stop that. Everybody looking for security Now,

694
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Your source is God and you've been

695
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: on your own for forty two years. What you said

696
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: and the whole thing you wanted a man, That's what

697
00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: security is, baby, That's what it is. Women on security

698
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: and secure. Theres a lot of things and financial is

699
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: one over and financial is one over. Yeah, if you

700
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 1: want to leave a voicemail Force Steve call eight seven

701
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: seven twenty nine, Steve, you might hear your message on

702
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: the air. Coming up next a prank phone call with

703
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: the nephew. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve

704
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour,

705
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today

706
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: the subject caught on camera. Caught camera that in just

707
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: a little bit. But right now it is time for

708
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 1: the nephew and today's prank phone call, which you got

709
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: Force Navy. Well what you want? How you want? Well,

710
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: we know it's gonna be stupid, So hey, God that

711
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 1: how do you want it? How does it feel? Coming up?

712
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 1: I'm sorry the book a Tupac Book A Tupac Living

713
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: in the fast Lane. I'm for real, all right, we're

714
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: gonna turn to the Book of Ignorance. Verse five reads,

715
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: your baby got my baby's name. That is the Book

716
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 1: of Ignorance. Top to five, verse four junior it says,

717
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: your baby got my baby's name. All right, stay with

718
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: me if you would, cat dog, We're gonna run that.

719
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: Thank you. Hey man, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach

720
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: a Patricia. Patricia, Who is it? How you doing? Listen? Um,

721
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: my name is Floyd, Floyd. I want to give you

722
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: a call. Your your daughter, she all teens middle school? Right,

723
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: what's your name again, Floyd? Okay? What can I just

724
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 1: fight you? Well, like I said, your your your daughter,

725
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: she goes she do go to middle school, right, yeah, okay,

726
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 1: Now her name, her name is Dereka. Okay, Well, he's

727
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: something wrong. It's something no, no, no, not nothing wrong.

728
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't mean the alarm you're like that.

729
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: But let me see. Well, here's the situation. My daughter

730
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: actually goes to middle school along along with with your daughter. Okay,

731
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: and and it's it's a bit of a problem that

732
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: that that has arisen that me and my wife just

733
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: found out about. Okay, some issues Derek and your baby

734
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 1: in in some kind of like trouble or something. No, no, no, no, no,

735
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: nothing like that. But I don't fool with nobody at

736
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: a school. She don't mess with nobody. She owned the

737
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 1: honor roll and everything. I don't have no problems out

738
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: of Dereka, right, okay, I no, call me, let me know.

739
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, miss miss Patricia, what the problem is. See,

740
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: my daughter name is Dereka. Okay, so, and and it

741
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: just blew me and my wife away that it was

742
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: another Dereka that went to school. Okay, all right, I

743
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: don't know too many Derecas. That's a unique name. That's cute, okay,

744
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: right right, Well, here's the problem. And my wife actually,

745
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: you know, when it was time to name my child,

746
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: we thought we was really picking a name that nobody

747
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: would have a pick out for their daughter. And to

748
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 1: have another Dereca in the school. That blew us away.

749
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: And I guess the real reason why I'm trying to

750
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: call you, miss Patricia's see if if if there's something

751
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 1: maybe we can work out, you know, maybe uh like

752
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: your dead name or nickname. She can be called by

753
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: in opposed to both of them being Derek. You really

754
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: want our child to be the only one with this name? Okay, wait, wait,

755
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: wait wait now you calling me? Are you asking me

756
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: to change my baby's name? Well, I mean you you

757
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: ain't really got to legally change I mean, but just

758
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: start calling us something else, you know? No, No, wait

759
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: a minute, So what you naming police or something? Do

760
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: you know how many and Louis and Patricia's out there?

761
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: What if I asked everybody in the United States to

762
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 1: change their name from Patricia? You're crazy that it and

763
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: I understand that you must be all drugs. Not. What

764
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is you know this, This is

765
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: something that we really have. Our baby girl was this

766
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: name and we didn't want nobody else to have this.

767
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: So does your Dereka have a middle name? She can? You? No,

768
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her Dereka like we've been calling your name,

769
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: your baby d D. Let's call your baby d D.

770
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: Did you change y'all? Y'all change y'all baby name at

771
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: the school? I'm not calling I'm not calling my name.

772
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: I don't give me what you call it, but I'm

773
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 1: not changing my baby name. He looks. Okay. Look, I'm

774
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: trying to call you and handle us like adults, you know,

775
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: but you've seen to see you're gonna push my fund

776
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 1: to take me to another level. Honestly, you ain't calling

777
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 1: me trying to handle us. He does ask me to

778
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 1: change my baby name, call my baby something else at

779
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: the school because y'all want your baby name to be

780
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: Derek and the only Dereka in the school. Hey, you

781
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: have many other kids at the damn school got the

782
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: same name. I understand that, but from my baby girls,

783
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: it ain't schools to be like that. I'm sorry, I'm

784
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: fooluping that baby girl and your wife, but you know

785
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: I'm not changing my baby damn name. Y'all call y'all

786
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: baby d No. And I'm trying to do is get

787
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: it rectified that we can call you get my phone number.

788
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm not a school. Ain't you my number? I got

789
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: your number. Don't worry about how I got it. The

790
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: problem is that what we're talking about right now. If

791
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 1: call we what can we start calling your child? I

792
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: don't give it. I know that school ain't called number. Listen, man,

793
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: all I'm trying to do is thig out what can

794
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: we start calling your daughter, don't the cuts she's been doing.

795
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: Call you and your wife down. Need to go out

796
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 1: to the statistics office and get chill there. Of the name,

797
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: I kind you have to sum out the kind of

798
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 1: name beha. But my days keep the same day on name.

799
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you. I've been trying to

800
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: be calm with you. Nor shall put if you anna

801
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: find something else to call on, and I'm gonna go,

802
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all over you know number? How do

803
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: you get my n Don't worry about how I got

804
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: the number. Listen to what I'm trying to tell you.

805
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: If you don't find another name, I'm gonna start getting

806
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: the kids to call your daughter something else. You're just

807
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: going to call my daddy starting I trot to I'm

808
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: with an embody who called my buddy stop. Next, you're

809
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: going to change your baby name. I want my baby

810
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: name to beat the Dereka. Yeah I didn't get them.

811
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: It's my princess is supposed to be the only one

812
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 1: named Dereka. Had a chain call your baby stopping else

813
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: at the school. I'm going out of these kids starting

814
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: tomorrow at school calling your daughter. I'm going else I'm

815
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: not staying. I'm just starting with you. Like this. Number

816
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: him off my phone and don't call my right. Let

817
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I got one more thing I

818
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: need to say to you. You listen to me? What

819
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: are you listening to me? I'm listening to you. What

820
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:38,399
Speaker 1: this is, Nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.

821
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. I get huh wait,

822
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 1: oh little oh yeah, girl, ain't brank me on this.

823
00:49:56,080 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You are sorry. I'm gonna give her

824
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: your that is Oh. I'm so sorry. You got my

825
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: nerves bad this morning. Lord, have mercy, Lord, I gotta

826
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: kiss my breath. I got one more thing I gotta

827
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: ask you, darling, what is What is the baddest I'm

828
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land, Steve

829
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:28,320
Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. I listen to y'all every morning. Crazy y'all, crazy, Lord,

830
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: have mercy. Y'all got my blood pressure up? This mon

831
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:36,720
Speaker 1: I love y'all. I listened to y'all show every morning. Lord, Henry,

832
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: they find the Lord at the end. Oh, Lord, y'all

833
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: got my pressure up. I want my baby to be

834
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 1: the only Dereka in the school. You understand that. Call

835
00:50:54,880 --> 00:51:03,439
Speaker 1: your baby something else here crazy Now. I wish Jeff

836
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 1: would have came in. I'd have lit it. I'd have

837
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: let Jeff butt up. If you part two, I'm on

838
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,399
Speaker 1: in here, jump and get some of this. I got

839
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: your wife going through. Come on, Come on, Jeff, come on,

840
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: come on, Huntsville, February what ten, eleven twelve, the neph

841
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: you've come to town. What Stand Up Live Comedy Club?

842
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: Stand Up Live Comedy Club, Huntsville, Alabama, February ten, eleven twelve.

843
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: I will be there, Okay, tickets don't see right now.

844
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: And stupid as on the way, just as just as

845
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: stupid as just prank wood. Multiply that by twenty. That's

846
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: what you're gonna get out, your boy. Okay, I promise

847
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: you coming in there to act a dog go food

848
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: star native food. That's what my daddy used to say,

849
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 1: or star native food. I don't know what that meant,

850
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: and I still don't know what that means. Just acting

851
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 1: a star Native food down there at that school. That's

852
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 1: what you did today. That's what I'm gonna do in Huntsville.

853
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask a star Naded food. Are five shows

854
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: two on one on IT two Friday two, Sarady back

855
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: on the plane on Sunday, Super Bowl, super Game or

856
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call this Sunday night. Okay, Bill,

857
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: everybody comes. Is everybody comfortable with my stupid? That's all

858
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: I want to know. Keep it? Yeah, long as you

859
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 1: claim it and keep it. I know, don't nobody on

860
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: this show won't none. I know that. Coming up next,

861
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 1: it is the Strawberry Letter. Subjects caught on camera. We'll

862
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to the

863
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

864
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

865
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

866
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

867
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

868
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

869
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: just never know because it could be your letter today.

870
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it forty

871
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Subject caught on camera. Dear

872
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty two year old married woman,

873
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: but I've separated from my husband. I've been married four

874
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: years and I was in a long distance marriage because

875
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: my husband works almost three hours away. He was offered

876
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 1: a job that he couldn't refuse, so I told him

877
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: to take it with him being out of town during

878
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: the week. I got a home security system installed with

879
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 1: four cameras. I put one camera in the basement and

880
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: one in the main living area, one at the back door,

881
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: and one at the front door. I put the alarm

882
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: app on my phone so I could watch the cameras

883
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 1: while I was at work. On a Tuesday, about a

884
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 1: month ago, I was at work and I got an

885
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 1: alert that the alarm was going off. Then it was reset.

886
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: It sent chills up my spine because I was the

887
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: only one in town and the only person that could

888
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: have reset my alarm. I looked at the cameras and

889
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: I saw my husband in our basement and a woman

890
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: was with him. The woman sat down as my husband

891
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: went upstairs. He came back minutes later with his garment bag.

892
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: Then he kissed the woman and they walked out the

893
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: basement door. I called him, and he lied and said

894
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 1: he was at work and about to go to lunch

895
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 1: and he would call me back. I told him to

896
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: quit lying because I know he's in town and he

897
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: had a woman in our house. I asked him why

898
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: he didn't tell me he was in town, and why

899
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:38,800
Speaker 1: he would bring a woman into my house. He hung

900
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: up on me. That night, he called and said he

901
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 1: had a business event to attend, so he needed his tucks,

902
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: and he used the basement door out of respect for

903
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: me so the woman wouldn't be all over our home.

904
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: He said he was going to take some time away

905
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: from me to work on himself. It has been almost

906
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: a month since he's reached out to me, so I

907
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: filed for a legal separation. Still no word from him.

908
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: Is my marriage over? Yes? I'm sorry, but it is.

909
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:16,720
Speaker 1: It's over. I mean he was caught red handed on tape. Period.

910
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: Everything you saw in that camera was true and real,

911
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: no matter what lies He thought of later and told

912
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 1: you he had a dinner to go to so he

913
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: needed a text. He had a business event to attend,

914
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: so he needed a tech, and he didn't want the

915
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: woman all over your house. Lies. Lies, lies, lies, lies.

916
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: It's evidence clearly in his behavior that you saw on tape,

917
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 1: not what he says, So don't let him play you.

918
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: Do not be fooled. He came back to town. He

919
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 1: didn't tell you, brought another woman to your house, kissed

920
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: her in your house, and then they left out together.

921
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: You're his wife. He completely disrespected you. He betrayed your trust.

922
00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry you had to see this and

923
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: that you had to go through this. He's wrong. You

924
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 1: did a good thing by filing for a separation. I say,

925
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: just go on and finish up the deal, file for

926
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:10,879
Speaker 1: a divorce. He was hardly ever there anyway, and he's

927
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: not coming back. You haven't heard from him for a month,

928
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:17,399
Speaker 1: So I say, good out now, Steve. I really don't

929
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 1: understand this letter. I'm sorry. I don't caught on camera

930
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: to what we're talking about. Yeah, what's what's the letter for?

931
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 1: It starts off with I via stuff in it to me,

932
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 1: Stephen Sherley. I'm a forty two year old married woman,

933
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: but I'm separated from my husband. Now. Curiously, in this letter,

934
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:41,240
Speaker 1: she never said why she was separated from her husband.

935
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: But I'm separated from my husband. We all know what

936
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 1: that means. And then she says I've been married four years.

937
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: It was and I was in I was, so this

938
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: separation is what they've decided. I was in a long

939
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: distance marriage because my husban husband works almost three hours

940
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:04,800
Speaker 1: away and he was offered a job he couldn't refuse,

941
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: so I told him to take it now, with him

942
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: being out of town, doing the weakest woman to put

943
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: a camera system in the house in the basement, the

944
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:15,399
Speaker 1: front door, the back, doing all this hill and now

945
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: while he was at work on Tuesday, about a month ago,

946
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 1: she ain't got an alert on the lawn was going off.

947
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: Then it was reset, As she said, send chills up

948
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: her spine because I was the only one in town

949
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: and the only person that could have reset my alarm,

950
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: where you're not the only person that could reset the

951
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: alarm because he got reset. I looked at the cameras

952
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: and I saw my husband in our basement and a

953
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,840
Speaker 1: woman was with him. The woman sat down as my

954
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 1: husband went up stairs. He came back minutes later with

955
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 1: this garment bag. Then he kissed the woman and they

956
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: walked out the basement door. I called him, and he

957
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: lied and said he was at work and about to

958
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: go to lunch and he would call me back. That

959
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:01,959
Speaker 1: was the lie he told. That was the only lie

960
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: he told in this letter shell. Because I'm going to

961
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: surprise you. I'm going to surprise you, Shell. I told

962
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 1: him to quit Lyne because I know he was in town.

963
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 1: He had a woman in our house, and I asked

964
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: him why he didn't tell me he was in town

965
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 1: and why he would bring a woman into the house.

966
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: He hung up on me. That night, he called me

967
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: and said he had a business event to attend, so

968
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: he needed his tucks and he used the basement due

969
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: out of respect for me, so the woman wouldn't be

970
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: all over the house. He said he was gonna take

971
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 1: some time away for me to work for himself. It's

972
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: been almost a month since he reached out to me,

973
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: so I filed for divorce. Still no word of him,

974
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: and as my marriage over legation. Yeah, she filed for

975
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: legal separation. Shirley, you were saying that he lied about

976
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: coming home with the tucks and all like this like him, Well,

977
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 1: he was on camera. He never denied that after he

978
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: found out he was on camera. But the reason he

979
00:58:57,360 --> 00:58:59,959
Speaker 1: came in the house could have very well been true.

980
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: To get the tuxedough, No, that's really going because all

981
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: they did was kissing, go out the dope. It could

982
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 1: have been a tuxedo. It could have been a business meeting.

983
00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 1: He told her the truth. The problem is the truth

984
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: wasn't enough. Yeah, the fact I mightn't even tell her

985
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: he was in town. Oh I got more. Okay, all right,

986
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at

987
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject of today's strawberry

988
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 1: letter caught on camera. We'll get back into it right

989
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, All right, Come on, Steve,

990
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is caught on camera.

991
00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 1: Caught on camera, says it all. This woman put all

992
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: these cameras in her house. Her and her husband are

993
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:51,200
Speaker 1: currently separated. She gets an alert on her phone that

994
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: says the candle alarm has been reset. Well, she's thinking

995
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 1: her husband out of town, but he's in town. She

996
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: looked on the cameras. He in the basement with a woman.

997
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: She calls him. He kisses her and walks out with

998
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: a garden back. He calls her and asked where he

999
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: had He say he at work, fit to go to lunch.

1000
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 1: He lied, he lied, So she called him up and said, no,

1001
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 1: you wasn't. I saw you in the house with this

1002
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: woman and you kissed her. Click. He hung up he

1003
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: hung up because he was off balanced, because he needed

1004
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 1: to regroup. So he's busted. Yes, So now he calls

1005
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: back that night and said, all right, hit the deal.

1006
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 1: I was in town. I had a business meeting to

1007
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 1: go to, so I needed to come home and get

1008
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 1: my tux seed though, and out of respect for you,

1009
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 1: I didn't want this woman all over the house, so

1010
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 1: I came through the basement. Though. That's the truth, because

1011
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 1: he wasn't denying that there wasn't a woman at the house.

1012
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: He wasn't denying he didn't picks up. He only left

1013
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 1: with a garment bag that was probably the tuxedough and

1014
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: it was probably business me. He did not lie to her.

1015
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: The problem is the truth. You should believe the truth.

1016
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 1: You saw it. Shirley's right. This marriage is over. Is

1017
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 1: my marriage over? And you haven't heard from him in

1018
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: a month, but I bet she has. Oh yeah, hell yeah,

1019
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: he's wrong, Dad. Wrong. Is not her fault in any way.

1020
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 1: But now that you know the truth, what you're gonna do.

1021
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 1: It's time to move on. Is my marriage over? Yes,

1022
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: it's over. So let me show you something. This has

1023
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: nothing to do with the letter Shirley or calling anybody

1024
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 1: ask me a question, and I'm gonna show you how

1025
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: to lie. The sheer lying capability. Watch watch the quickness

1026
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 1: and creativity. Okay, Shirley, you and I are in a relationship.

1027
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 1: Ask me anything, and I'm not gonna tell you the truth.

1028
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: I don't care how simple anything it is. Go ahead

1029
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: on your hair. That No, that's a patch right there.

1030
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: I had that put on. I was trying on a

1031
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 1: half piece and I left some glue on it. And

1032
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 1: that's the glue from that hals from blue Quick where

1033
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: it come so natural to you? Next question, we're in

1034
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 1: a relationship. Did you did you drive your car to

1035
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: work today? No? I drove it, parted away and then

1036
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: I dropped it off at the Jiffy lou And and

1037
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: then I took I took a ubon in the work

1038
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: and I just go back around now and are you

1039
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: Are you planning on working out today? I'd love to

1040
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 1: work out with you. Oh no, I ain't gonna be

1041
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:10,959
Speaker 1: able to work out today because I tweaked my back

1042
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 1: because when I was leaving the Jiffy Jiffy Lube, I

1043
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: slipped in some all tied boy tied in that's what happening.

1044
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 1: That's you know, and it's so unnecessary. You will lie

1045
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 1: when the truth will do? What? What? What? What? What? Why? Not?

1046
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Speaker 1: But why can't you just tell the truth because you

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01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 1: had to practice this in case you really need it.

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Speaker 1: We can handle the truth. Oh no, you can't the

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01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 1: way we handle Oh no, you can't. If you can't

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01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: handle our reaction to your truth, you're a lie. Couldn't read?

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01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: Can I ask that? What is? Yeah? Oh? Here you

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01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 1: call them? Who is that on the camera with you? I?

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01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: Who is that on? Who is that on the camera

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01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: with me? Yeah? I'm talking to you. Who is that

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01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: on the camera with you? Baby? What camera? The camera

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01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: that I'm looking at? Who is that on the camera

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01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: with you? Right? Fair? Wait a minute? Wait? Where do

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01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 1: you think I am? What? Shall any more questions? When

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01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 1: a committed relationship, you can ask me anything? What is

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01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: the point of lying? Though? I don't get why is

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01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 1: it so important to you? But but but but wait, minuto,

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01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Why I got to lie?

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01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 1: Ask yourself that I ask you why? I know why

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01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 1: you like to distract? Why I got to lie? Though? Reaction?

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01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: Let's see right there? See how you are okay, you

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01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 1: see how you try to flip it don't try to

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01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: if you're going to accuse me of doing I am

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01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:03,439
Speaker 1: and I am and I'm not doing it, and you're

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01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: gonna accuse me anyway, You got as where from the

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01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:14,200
Speaker 1: back of your head. All right, listen, I'm gonna say, hey,

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01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna spend some time with myself and you need

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Speaker 1: the divorce Hiper. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letters

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01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,760
Speaker 1: Steve r FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out

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01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up in forty

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Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour sports Talk with Junior. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steven Show. All right, time

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01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 1: now for Junior and sports Talk. But you got Junior.

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Speaker 1: First of all, can we just say congratulations to miss

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Speaker 1: Angela Roi. She is joining ESPN as a special correspondent

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01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 1: dealing with sports related issues of race and culture and

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01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 1: social justice issues. Congratulations and come on, Quinnie, I think

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01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: that is a beautiful girl, another black woman. Come on,

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01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: I really do. And I'm trying to tell you Angela,

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01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 1: I have a crush on you, so I will be watching.

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01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:09,040
Speaker 1: I know that I will. Yeah, I just just one

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01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: of my crushes. Got another job, that's all I know. Yeah, yeah,

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01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: are you famla. No, I'm not, but I'm familiar with

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01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 1: talking about crushes out loud on the radio. Okay, I

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01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 1: do it all the time. It's just a crush. I

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01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: can't she didn't want me? Yeah yeah, Bell Hold up though,

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01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: but did you hear Tommy say he do it all

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01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: the time? Yeah? See how that sounds. Just that's throwing

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01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: that out there. Yeah, you know, you want to start

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01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 1: practicing some habits you get good at. Just start practicing

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01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:49,080
Speaker 1: dogs yeahs in case, Yeah, I got you, I got you.

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01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: Man to that food, right, yeah, I said all the time. Yeah, yeah,

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01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: he just let that go. That ain't what Yeah, he

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01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: didn't even think about No, I didn't. He didn't think

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Speaker 1: about it all. Also, a man, super Bowl ten days away? Man,

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01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 1: what is you gonna be doing for the super Bowl?

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01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 1: What kind of party you have? Like? How do you

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01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 1: have your super Bowl parties? Sit up? Well, I don't.

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01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of friends, but I don't

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01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 1: have on my house. So you know, I'm gonna have

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01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: something at the house, like, you know, probably have my

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01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: sons come over, you know. Yeah, you barbecuewing for your

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01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 1: own super Bowl part? Do you do? You got you

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01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:27,560
Speaker 1: got the equipment for I know you. Now, if it

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01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 1: was nice outside, that would be slick. Super Bowl party

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Speaker 1: outside with the TVs and cook out. Yeah, but I

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01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:40,040
Speaker 1: don't know how the weather gonna be thirteen. Yeah, just

1112
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 1: like winter. You got to start buying wings. Naw, do

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Speaker 1: you have? Yeah, we gotta have wings. You. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: call Rick Ross up. I'm probably gonna be I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: probably do thighs. Yeah, you got, you got, you got connections.

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01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 1: You got to worry about wing. You know some of

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01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: these wing places. I've never been to Ross's wing place,

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01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 1: so I ain't talking about that, but I've go to

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01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: some wing places and they wings be real, real, little

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Speaker 1: extra crunches don't be no better than a real big

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Speaker 1: though dog that's ready. That's better than being don't Yeah,

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Speaker 1: are you saying they're not chicken? Wings? Animal? I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be confused with eating chicken or pigeons. You know,

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Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll talk about more sports. Former NFL

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Speaker 1: coach accuses the league of racial discrimination. We'll get into

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01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Okay, So Steve, what is the problem with

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Speaker 1: the NFL and not hiring black coaches. I'm sure you

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01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 1: have some ideas on that, and this is the league

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01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 1: that's dominated by black players. Of course, we all know

1132
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 1: that now. Former Miami's Dolphin coach Brian Flores has filed

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01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:16,280
Speaker 1: a proposed class action lawsuit against the NFL and three

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Speaker 1: of its teams, alleging racial discrimination. In the documents filed

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Speaker 1: on behalf of Flores in Manhattan Federal Court, the former coach,

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Speaker 1: who was fired by the Dolphins despite a winning season,

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01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 1: he that in mind too, it was a winning season,

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01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 1: contends that his interview with the Giants was nothing more

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01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 1: than a move to satisfy the Rooney Rule, which now

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01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: requires teams to interview at least two external minority candidates

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01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 1: for all head coaching vacancies. Flora said that the league

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01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 1: is racially segregated and the NFL is managed like a

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01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:56,639
Speaker 1: plantation boom. I mean, he goes on to say stuff

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01:09:56,640 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 1: about the the owners sitting in their luxury suites on

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01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: days and the players get have to take vicious hits

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01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:08,000
Speaker 1: and suffer debilitating injuries to their bodies and their brains,

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01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 1: while the owners make billions of dollars. Uh, there's a lot. Well,

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01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 1: the NFL has a problem now because it's a class

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01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:23,799
Speaker 1: action lawsuit and it has to be addressed. You can't

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01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:27,080
Speaker 1: you can't just shoot this under the rug. The other

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01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 1: problem is that maybe some other people that's gonna come

1152
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:35,400
Speaker 1: out the wood working sign up for this. Brian Flores

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01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:42,480
Speaker 1: will never coach in the NFL again. But because because no,

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01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:47,559
Speaker 1: because of the brother. Let me ask you a question.

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01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: Have you seen Colin Kaepernick throw another pass in the NFL? Dog?

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01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:56,680
Speaker 1: Once you go up against that shield, you're finished. Now.

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01:10:56,720 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: They paid Colin, and Floren's gonna get he gonna get paid.

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01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 1: But it's gonna be some years though, and they're gonna

1159
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:08,680
Speaker 1: wait until this ain't a major story anymore. But you

1160
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 1: know what, man, I should post my comedy routine I

1161
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: wrote for NFL Honors because I wrote a huge joke

1162
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 1: about this, because I decided two years ago to dress

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01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 1: it with human and I cut a deal with the

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01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 1: NFL on behalf of the black players. And I was

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01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:31,840
Speaker 1: I was cutting deals with them, like, you know, just

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01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: give us certain things, man, and we'll be willing to

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01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: exchange it for y'all. Like if you give us one

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01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 1: white place kicker and holder, because you've never seen that

1169
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:55,600
Speaker 1: in the NFL. We gonna give y'all two cornerbacks. And

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Speaker 1: I wrote it as a joke, and the audience was

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01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: dying laughing, but it was to a rest the seriousness

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Speaker 1: of the issue that's in the NFL. It always has

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01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 1: been an issue and always will continue to be. Now,

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01:12:10,560 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 1: these owners are all white men, billionaires. We got that. Yeah,

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01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 1: but I can't knock you for being that. I can't

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01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: knock you for owning a franchise. I can't knock you

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Speaker 1: for trying to run it as a business. The problem

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01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: is you're hiring practices. It doesn't represent your league, and

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01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:36,879
Speaker 1: we're the only that's the only sport that doesn't represent

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01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:39,720
Speaker 1: the makeup of the league. If you look at basketball,

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01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 1: basketball does a lot better job of hiring black head

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01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: coaches and black coaches and to fit any thing. Hockey

1183
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: don't have that problem. Coach well, yeah, yeah, it ain't.

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01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,639
Speaker 1: But a few black hockey players. Hockey don't have that problem.

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01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:03,880
Speaker 1: Baseball has done a better job of hiring and representative

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01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 1: on the field. The football has not done a good job.

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01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 1: In the Rooney rule where you have to hire two

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01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 1: minority candidates for every head coaching job has still not

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01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: resulted in any more coaches being high. As a matter

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Speaker 1: of fact, since the Rooney rule is less. I want

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01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:23,320
Speaker 1: and it's just I want to believe this guy will coach.

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01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:25,840
Speaker 1: I want to hope that he will coach again. In

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Speaker 1: oh Now, come on, part We'll have more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Carla is here with today's music news. What you got, Carla. Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: so no plans coming out high, no plants for Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day just yet? Well, get ready. A versus battle is

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Speaker 1: set Anthony Hamilton versus music Soul Child. Now they will

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01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:03,680
Speaker 1: face off on Monday, February fourteenth, Valentine's Day. That's a

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01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,639
Speaker 1: night of R and B and romance. That's real nice.

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01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:09,679
Speaker 1: So it'll be in La and you know, as usual,

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01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: you can see the versus battle on the Gram Trailler Uh, YouTube, Facebook?

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01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: What's up, Tommy? You raise your hand. I'm just I

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01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 1: catch it on the backseat. Okay, you're gonna pull out

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01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:26,599
Speaker 1: your phone and don't really be a hard one, even

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01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: though my affinity is leaning towards Anthony Hamilton because of

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01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 1: our relationship. Yeah, y'all are cool. Yeah, but I love music.

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Speaker 1: Soulchilde hits Man. Yes, he nothing to be played with. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I know. I don't really be torn on versus. We

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01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:56,000
Speaker 1: know former Versus Battle host Ah good. We'll be watching

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01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: the R and B singers Anthony Hamilton's music Soul Child

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Speaker 1: on February fourteen, Bound Time's Day and more announcements for

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Speaker 1: the Super Bowl performers Mary Mary along with the Youth

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01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:10,879
Speaker 1: Orchestra Los Angeles. They will perform the Negro national anthem

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Speaker 1: at the super Bowl. Lift every Boy. Yep, So we

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Speaker 1: got more coming, Thank you, Carlo. We'll have more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after, and we'll play a round it would you rather?

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Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening Morning show? All right, guys,

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01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:31,799
Speaker 1: it's time for a round of would you rather? Would? Shelley?

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01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:35,439
Speaker 1: Before you do it, just on this first one, huh

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01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:39,560
Speaker 1: A or B. We have to randomly pick A or

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01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:43,320
Speaker 1: B and then explain why that si as So, Timmy,

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01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:45,479
Speaker 1: you on A or B on this one, I'll take

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01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 1: B junior A, I take I take b also, okay,

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01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 1: let me now, let me get over he help Janie.

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Speaker 1: Let me let me take a also, okay, go ahead, Shelly?

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01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 1: All right? We would you rather be rich but not

1230
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,760
Speaker 1: skilled at all in the bedroom at all? Or be

1231
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:12,640
Speaker 1: would you rather be smaller in size and really know

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01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 1: how to please your partner? That fits perfectly, so not

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01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 1: me that you pick. Hey, you'd rather be smaller inside

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01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:37,960
Speaker 1: and really know how to please? Well, you know what

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01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 1: I want to please my mate, and I know what

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01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 1: it takes to please my mate. And size is not everything.

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01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:48,639
Speaker 1: You know, it's not. It's not the size on the show.

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Speaker 1: See to even make that comment when you hear a

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01:16:54,000 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 1: man tell my size ain't everything. I ain't picking a

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Speaker 1: head no more, Come on you, alright, the next one.

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01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:11,439
Speaker 1: I just wanted to try that, all right? Would you

1242
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 1: rather eat sweet potato pumpkin pie or a pickled pig

1243
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 1: ear sandwich? White people's favorite, Black people's favorite. I'm going

1244
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:30,720
Speaker 1: I'm going with a together put it all together in

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01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 1: the world potato was you thinking about what? Or a

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01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 1: pickled pig ear sandwich? No, don't eat that sweet potato

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01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:53,800
Speaker 1: pump I'm hot before. Yeah, I've had a pig that

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01:17:53,960 --> 01:18:01,960
Speaker 1: sandwich before God and we put that hell for what

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01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 1: was we thanking? What was we thank this damn slave?

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Speaker 1: And saying, oh man, all right, all right, that's it

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Speaker 1: for would you rather today? Coming on? Yeah? Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and then we'll have

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Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Here

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Speaker 1: we are, guys, our last break of the day on

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Speaker 1: this Thursday. It's been a good day, yes, man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: learned a lot, shared a lot, laughed a little bit,

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Speaker 1: you know. Um, you know it's kind of funny. Man.

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Speaker 1: As I've gotten older, you know, somebody works in me

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Speaker 1: was saying, man, you keep talking about this sixty fifth birthday?

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Speaker 1: What's up with that? And I was just because I'm

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Speaker 1: just so appreciative of the milestone, you know, because it's

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Speaker 1: just like it's not like I didn't see it coming

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Speaker 1: or I didn't believe I'd get here. It's just that

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Speaker 1: I remember being younger thinking sixty five was I couldn't

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Speaker 1: even imagine it. I couldn't even think about it because

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Speaker 1: it just seemed so far. I was twenty, I was think,

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Speaker 1: sixty five, what are we talking about that for but

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Speaker 1: you know what it got here? Do you know when

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Speaker 1: I was forty, man, I was giving very little thought

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Speaker 1: to being sixty five, But you know what it got here?

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Speaker 1: I was fifty. I really hadn't given too much thought

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Speaker 1: to being sixty five, but it got here. Y'all. You

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Speaker 1: gotta start making decisions today based on the fact that

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Speaker 1: it's coming, that it's going to get here. You know what,

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Speaker 1: too many people do, too many too many people make

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Speaker 1: right now decisions based on today, like there's no future

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Speaker 1: at all. But listen to me, that's a strong possibility

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Speaker 1: that it will get here. And so even though we're

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Speaker 1: not to weary ourselves about the future, you do have

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Speaker 1: to give credence to the fact that one day it

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Speaker 1: could get here. And so you can't make decisions based

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Speaker 1: on jess right now today. On the other hand, let

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Speaker 1: me say this about that what makes it hard for

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Speaker 1: people to become successful is because they understand and they

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Speaker 1: allow this to come into play. I can't see myself

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Speaker 1: all the way through. You have an ambition to be

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Speaker 1: a millionaire, you just can't imagine how to make the million,

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Speaker 1: and so that daunting task freezes most people from doing

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Speaker 1: the one action they could do, which is take the

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Speaker 1: step today. But if you're trying to see your way

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Speaker 1: all the way through, it freezes you because you don't

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Speaker 1: know how to get all the way through. There's a

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Speaker 1: story in this book, the Fox, the Hound, the horses

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Speaker 1: and the boy, something like anyway, this boy and this

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Speaker 1: horse is walking through the woods, and the boy says,

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Speaker 1: I can't see I can't see all the way through,

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Speaker 1: you know, because they had to walk through this force.

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Speaker 1: And the boy told the horse, I can't see all

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Speaker 1: the way through. The horse said to the boy, look down.

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Speaker 1: Can you see your next step? He said, yeah, he said,

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Speaker 1: take that one, Just take that one. That's what I've

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Speaker 1: learned in my life, y'all, that even though I didn't

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Speaker 1: really see sixty five, I would always take the step

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Speaker 1: to at least just get to tomorrow. I couldn't see

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Speaker 1: myself all the way through. I'm gonna be honest with you,

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Speaker 1: the life that God has me with. I did not

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Speaker 1: see this coming, not fully. I wanted some things along

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Speaker 1: the way, but it's no way I saw this. He's

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Speaker 1: just been too good to me. He's been overly good

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Speaker 1: to me. That's how I know it's grace, because really, man,

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Speaker 1: if you think about it, you know, stop thinking you

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Speaker 1: deserve something all the time, because you really don't, because

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Speaker 1: you deserved it. If we all got what we deserved,

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Speaker 1: we'd all be in trouble, all of us, all of you.

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Speaker 1: I don't care how righteous you think you are, own,

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Speaker 1: how saved you claimed you are, how holy ghost spilled

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Speaker 1: all this here. If we all got what we deserved,

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Speaker 1: all of us would be in trouble because fate back

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Speaker 1: on some of the decisions that we made that could

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Speaker 1: have really really went the other way, and God, just

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Speaker 1: through his grace and mercy and favor, just didn't let

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Speaker 1: it go as far left as it could. He just

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Speaker 1: gave you a break. So stop thinking that you deserve

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Speaker 1: all that you have, because you don't. I've lived a life,

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Speaker 1: I've tried to work out, eat, health and everything. But

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Speaker 1: me getting to sixty five was God's grace. And you

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Speaker 1: know how I knew it was because I know some

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Speaker 1: real healthy people that ain't here no more. I know

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Speaker 1: some people who could run faster than me, jump higher

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Speaker 1: than mere, stronger than me in the gym and everything,

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Speaker 1: and they not hear no more. I know some men

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Speaker 1: who were in far better shape than I am today,

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Speaker 1: and they're not here anymore. Do I deserve to be here?

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Speaker 1: I'm not based on everything I've done, but through God's

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Speaker 1: grace and mercy and favor, I'm here. So I'm saying

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Speaker 1: about three different things in this closing remark, So let

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Speaker 1: me sum it up for you. Stop trying to see

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Speaker 1: your way all the way through and just take the

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Speaker 1: next step. And every time you take a step, pray

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Speaker 1: to God and ask God for guidance, wisdom and understand it,

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Speaker 1: and that'll help you make the next step. Stop thinking

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Speaker 1: that you deserve everything because you don't. Because if all

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Speaker 1: of us got what we truly deserve, I think we

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Speaker 1: all if you were honest, because I did some things

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Speaker 1: when I was young man that have I If I

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Speaker 1: had got caught doing it, I wouldn't be here today.

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Speaker 1: I made some decisions when I was young that if

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Speaker 1: I paid the full price for it, my life would

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Speaker 1: be another guy. If you didn't like this one, see

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Speaker 1: you tomorrow. I'll have another talk to God he loved

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Speaker 1: to hear from for all. Steve every contests no purchase necessary,

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