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Speaker 2: Beat, My cheeky is I just had a question. So
Speaker 2: I don't know why, but I have a difficult time
Speaker 2: Letty and my boyfriend take care of me. You know,
Speaker 2: he does have a really good job. He obviously makes
Speaker 2: more than me. But I just feel bad asking him
Speaker 2: for help when I need help financially, or even allowing
Speaker 2: him to pay for things that I mean, he obviously
Speaker 2: could pay for. I don't know what to do about it,
Speaker 2: and it's kind of getting to the point where it's
Speaker 2: kind of bothering him that I don't allow him to
Speaker 2: help me. But I don't know. I don't know if
Speaker 2: it's like the independent woman in me or I don't
Speaker 2: know why I feel like that. I just need some
Speaker 2: advice because I feel like I'm getting out of hand.
Speaker 2: Thank you, love you by oh.
Speaker 1: Mama Sif I get you, I understand it is for
Speaker 1: sure that whole independent I got this, I could do
Speaker 1: it myself. Thing that is good, but if it goes
Speaker 1: too far, it can be bad, especially with the man.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you this from personal experience. A man
Speaker 1: wants to take care of his woman. Mind you. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I shared this here, but I can
Speaker 1: pay for my own nils when I go get my nails,
Speaker 1: and I love getting my nils done every week. And
Speaker 1: I asked the media the other day. I was like, Babe,
Speaker 1: can you please send me some like through cash app.
Speaker 1: I don't have any more money in my cash app
Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, what do you need And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I want to get my nails done and I just
Speaker 1: want to have money in there, and he was like, yes,
Speaker 1: of course, and he sent me money and it made
Speaker 1: him feel so good. Mind you, I make money, I'm good,
Speaker 1: but it makes them feel needed and wanted and you
Speaker 1: have to feed that in him, because a man needs that.
Speaker 1: He knows you got it. He loves you. He knows
Speaker 1: you're an independent woman. He knows that, but he also
Speaker 1: wants to feel my woman needs me, like I want
Speaker 1: to take care of her. It also could be an
Speaker 1: insecurity of yours that you're like, if I take, if
Speaker 1: I take, and then it doesn't work, and he's gonna
Speaker 1: throw it in my face. You gro We got to
Speaker 1: get that out of our head because it does is
Speaker 1: no good. They get it. They then you have to
Speaker 1: allow him. Just let him ask him like can I
Speaker 1: have a hundred bucks? Don't say borrow? Can I have
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars? I want to get my nails done
Speaker 1: or whatever I need to pay this bill. He believe me,
Speaker 1: he's he's he's gonna love it. He's gonna love it
Speaker 1: because he knows you're an independent woman. He knows that already.
Speaker 1: You don't have to show him that. Let yourself be
Speaker 1: vulnerable and be loved. I promise you it'll make your
Speaker 1: relationship a lot better. We got to feed the king
Speaker 1: and our men. The more you feed that, they feel, oh,
Speaker 1: it gets better. They're like they want to take care
Speaker 1: of you more, try it, let those guards down grow.
Speaker 1: It's the best thing you're gonna be able to do
Speaker 1: for yourself and for that man, for your relationship. Let
Speaker 1: me know how it goes. We're gonna move on to
Speaker 1: the next question. And her name is Raina.
Speaker 3: First to the foremost. I want to say that you
Speaker 3: are my go to girl when I'm at work. I
Speaker 3: listen to you at work when I can. And another
Speaker 3: thing I want to commend you for guando this is
Speaker 3: con dios tolo. I just absolutely love that, and that
Speaker 3: just inspires me and makes me know what kind of
Speaker 3: person you are. You're very genuine and you just give
Speaker 3: me good vibes. I have a cheese my question. I
Speaker 3: know that you're very open to your fans. I want
Speaker 3: to know how you feel about your Tapita and everything
Speaker 3: she has to say about in regards to your family,
Speaker 3: to your mom. Told you Alita because she's said some
Speaker 3: manner stuff. That's what I want to know. But take
Speaker 3: care and I'll still keep on listening to you. Okay. Bye.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Raina, you are so cute. I love
Speaker 1: your question. I love how you started off. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much, grateful and grateful to have you here. Okay,
Speaker 1: so my theia beat them. I don't talk to her
Speaker 1: a lot when I see her. She's gone on my
Speaker 1: concerts without ever asking me for a ticket. She buys
Speaker 1: her own tickets, her books, all my merch like. She's
Speaker 1: very supportive of my career, and she's always loved me.
Speaker 1: I've always I've never had an issue with her. She
Speaker 1: loved my mom very much. My mom loved her very much.
Speaker 1: She has been a bit problematic in some ways in
Speaker 1: the family, never with me, but again, I never done
Speaker 1: anything to cause that with her. I know she has
Speaker 1: issues with my grandma and a lot of my family
Speaker 1: members and stuff. I don't necessarily agree with how she
Speaker 1: goes about it. To be honest, I don't like to
Speaker 1: like get involved or play into that because it's just
Speaker 1: it's a lot, you know, and our family is so
Speaker 1: public and it hurts me. You know, it hurts me
Speaker 1: very much. If I have to come out and defend
Speaker 1: my siblings, I'm gonna do that, and I'm gonna say
Speaker 1: what I gotta say. But even then I try to
Speaker 1: be very careful because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: there's love there. Things will never be the same. I
Speaker 1: highly doubt that, but I don't want anything bad to
Speaker 1: happen to them, you know. So my Tapita, like I
Speaker 1: have no issue with her, Like I honestly I love her.
Speaker 1: I'm grateful that she goes out there and defends me
Speaker 1: like sometimes, like I see that she defends me, I'm like, wow,
Speaker 1: I've never not once asked her to do that. I
Speaker 1: think it's the love that and appreciation she has for
Speaker 1: my mom. And she's just like she's known me since
Speaker 1: she knows my heart, you know. So I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: grateful with that, and she supports my siblings. It's just
Speaker 1: there's so many things that have happened, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to leave it at that because a lot of the
Speaker 1: things she ain't lying, you know. Anyways, you know what.
Speaker 3: That's it, Raina.
Speaker 1: That's how am I end it? Because that's it. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm gonna say. But there's your question. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's the answer to your question. Thank you again for listening. Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: so we have another question from an anonymous listeners Animo.
Speaker 3: Penza la Politica.
Speaker 1: Mexico and Politica and Canal the Molocras then Borta or
Speaker 1: Bye Alice Grist for pre Junta Okay, guys, So she's
Speaker 1: basically asking me, for those of you that don't speak Spanish,
Speaker 1: she's asking me what I think about politics Mexico, United States,
Speaker 1: if I get involved, if I just ignore it altogether,
Speaker 1: Like what do I think? That's a great question. So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna answer her in Spanish and I'll translate. Okay,
Speaker 1: por joke catas sore la politica la aurita and jo
Speaker 1: no meto mene is mi reson oago perom no mocho
Speaker 1: and la politica pork and new opinion st controller competamente
Speaker 1: affected em amne in mentalmente paro iago look jo sumano
Speaker 1: come persona comtista, the una Louisa was positiveneste mundo cambiar
Speaker 1: and my persona para job persona mental meneferte affected government,
Speaker 1: Jose came lost presidentes pen You are affected, you know
Speaker 1: nomals and is the home affected especial public and put
Speaker 1: continues opomas dam more eluse as basicamente. So, guys, basically,
Speaker 1: what I told her is that I try my best
Speaker 1: not to get involved in politics, especially with this election
Speaker 1: that just happened. Of course, it's my responsibility to vote
Speaker 1: and to do my part, but I like to just
Speaker 1: separate myself because I feel like it's something that I
Speaker 1: don't have control over. It's something that even if I
Speaker 1: wanted to change it, I can't. I just have to
Speaker 1: do my part and separate myself from it and really
Speaker 1: just do inner work and try to be a positive
Speaker 1: voice in the world and everything that I do, and
Speaker 1: just work on myself so that it doesn't mentally affect
Speaker 1: me as much, because I used to let it affect
Speaker 1: me a lot, and it was causing a lot of
Speaker 1: anger and anxiety in me, and I just decided to say,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do my part as a human being
Speaker 1: and help the world in any way that I can,
Speaker 1: and try to get people to do more of that
Speaker 1: so that as a whole we feel better emotionally mentally.
Speaker 1: But I try not to get involved in politics, to
Speaker 1: be honest. So that's what I was telling her. Perro
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