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Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the

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Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you

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Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with

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Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business,

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Speaker 1: whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember

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Speaker 1: these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're suffering

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Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from

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Speaker 1: a qualified professional. All right, Now, go ahead and leave

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Speaker 1: your question at the sound of the.

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Speaker 2: Beat, My cheeky is I just had a question. So

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Speaker 2: I don't know why, but I have a difficult time

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Speaker 2: Letty and my boyfriend take care of me. You know,

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Speaker 2: he does have a really good job. He obviously makes

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Speaker 2: more than me. But I just feel bad asking him

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Speaker 2: him to pay for things that I mean, he obviously

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Speaker 2: could pay for. I don't know what to do about it,

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Speaker 2: and it's kind of getting to the point where it's

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Speaker 2: kind of bothering him that I don't allow him to

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Speaker 2: help me. But I don't know. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: it's like the independent woman in me or I don't

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Speaker 2: know why I feel like that. I just need some

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Speaker 2: Thank you, love you by oh.

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Speaker 1: Mama Sif I get you, I understand it is for

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Speaker 1: sure that whole independent I got this, I could do

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Speaker 1: it myself. Thing that is good, but if it goes

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Speaker 1: too far, it can be bad, especially with the man.

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Speaker 1: And I'm telling you this from personal experience. A man

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Speaker 1: wants to take care of his woman. Mind you. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I shared this here, but I can

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Speaker 1: pay for my own nils when I go get my nails,

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Speaker 1: and I love getting my nils done every week. And

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Speaker 1: I asked the media the other day. I was like, Babe,

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Speaker 1: can you please send me some like through cash app.

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Speaker 1: I don't have any more money in my cash app

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Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, what do you need And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I want to get my nails done and I just

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Speaker 1: want to have money in there, and he was like, yes,

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Speaker 1: him feel so good. Mind you, I make money, I'm good,

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Speaker 1: but it makes them feel needed and wanted and you

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Speaker 1: have to feed that in him, because a man needs that.

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Speaker 1: He knows you got it. He loves you. He knows

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Speaker 1: you're an independent woman. He knows that, but he also

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Speaker 1: wants to feel my woman needs me, like I want

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Speaker 1: to take care of her. It also could be an

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Speaker 1: insecurity of yours that you're like, if I take, if

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Speaker 1: I take, and then it doesn't work, and he's gonna

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Speaker 1: throw it in my face. You gro We got to

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Speaker 1: get that out of our head because it does is

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Speaker 1: no good. They get it. They then you have to

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Speaker 1: allow him. Just let him ask him like can I

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Speaker 1: have a hundred bucks? Don't say borrow? Can I have

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Speaker 1: one hundred dollars? I want to get my nails done

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Speaker 1: or whatever I need to pay this bill. He believe me,

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Speaker 1: he's he's he's gonna love it. He's gonna love it

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Speaker 1: because he knows you're an independent woman. He knows that already.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to show him that. Let yourself be

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Speaker 1: vulnerable and be loved. I promise you it'll make your

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Speaker 1: relationship a lot better. We got to feed the king

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Speaker 1: and our men. The more you feed that, they feel, oh,

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Speaker 1: it gets better. They're like they want to take care

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Speaker 1: of you more, try it, let those guards down grow.

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Speaker 1: It's the best thing you're gonna be able to do

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Speaker 1: for yourself and for that man, for your relationship. Let

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Speaker 1: me know how it goes. We're gonna move on to

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Speaker 1: the next question. And her name is Raina.

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Speaker 3: First to the foremost. I want to say that you

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Speaker 3: are my go to girl when I'm at work. I

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Speaker 3: listen to you at work when I can. And another

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Speaker 3: thing I want to commend you for guando this is

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Speaker 3: con dios tolo. I just absolutely love that, and that

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Speaker 3: me good vibes. I have a cheese my question. I

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Speaker 3: know that you're very open to your fans. I want

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Speaker 3: to know how you feel about your Tapita and everything

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Speaker 3: she has to say about in regards to your family,

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Speaker 3: to your mom. Told you Alita because she's said some

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Speaker 3: care and I'll still keep on listening to you. Okay. Bye.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Raina, you are so cute. I love

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Speaker 1: your question. I love how you started off. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so my theia beat them. I don't talk to her

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Speaker 1: very supportive of my career, and she's always loved me.

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Speaker 1: I've always I've never had an issue with her. She

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Speaker 1: loved my mom very much. My mom loved her very much.

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Speaker 1: She has been a bit problematic in some ways in

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Speaker 1: the family, never with me, but again, I never done

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Speaker 1: issues with my grandma and a lot of my family

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Speaker 1: like get involved or play into that because it's just

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Speaker 1: it's a lot, you know, and our family is so

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Speaker 1: public and it hurts me. You know, it hurts me

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Speaker 1: very much. If I have to come out and defend

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Speaker 1: my siblings, I'm gonna do that, and I'm gonna say

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Speaker 1: there's love there. Things will never be the same. I

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Speaker 1: highly doubt that, but I don't want anything bad to

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Speaker 1: I'm grateful that she goes out there and defends me

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Speaker 1: like sometimes, like I see that she defends me, I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 1: I've never not once asked her to do that. I

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Speaker 1: think it's the love that and appreciation she has for

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Speaker 1: she knows my heart, you know. So I'm just I'm

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Speaker 1: grateful with that, and she supports my siblings. It's just

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Speaker 1: things she ain't lying, you know. Anyways, you know what.

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Speaker 3: That's it, Raina.

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Speaker 1: That's how am I end it? Because that's it. That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm gonna say. But there's your question. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's the answer to your question. Thank you again for listening. Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: so we have another question from an anonymous listeners Animo.

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Speaker 3: Penza la Politica.

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Speaker 1: Mexico and Politica and Canal the Molocras then Borta or

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Speaker 1: Bye Alice Grist for pre Junta Okay, guys, So she's

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Speaker 1: basically asking me, for those of you that don't speak Spanish,

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Speaker 1: she's asking me what I think about politics Mexico, United States,

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Speaker 1: if I get involved, if I just ignore it altogether,

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Speaker 1: Like what do I think? That's a great question. So

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna answer her in Spanish and I'll translate. Okay,

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Speaker 1: por joke catas sore la politica la aurita and jo

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Speaker 1: no meto mene is mi reson oago perom no mocho

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Speaker 1: and la politica pork and new opinion st controller competamente

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Speaker 1: affected em amne in mentalmente paro iago look jo sumano

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Speaker 1: come persona comtista, the una Louisa was positiveneste mundo cambiar

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Speaker 1: and my persona para job persona mental meneferte affected government,

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Speaker 1: Jose came lost presidentes pen You are affected, you know

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Speaker 1: nomals and is the home affected especial public and put

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Speaker 1: continues opomas dam more eluse as basicamente. So, guys, basically,

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Speaker 1: what I told her is that I try my best

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Speaker 1: not to get involved in politics, especially with this election

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Speaker 1: that just happened. Of course, it's my responsibility to vote

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Speaker 1: and to do my part, but I like to just

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Speaker 1: just do inner work and try to be a positive

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do my part as a human being

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Speaker 1: and try to get people to do more of that

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Speaker 1: But I try not to get involved in politics, to

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Speaker 1: be honest. So that's what I was telling her. Perro

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