1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Jules dirty little Secret. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, what's up? You have a dirty little secret? 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: I do, sweet? What is it? 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 3: So? 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: Long story short, my ex best friend doesn't realize that 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: her great sex mic with her husband was because of me. 7 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: Oh oh girl. 8 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: Why A little bit of backstory. I was dating a 9 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: guy that we worked together, and he got a new 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: female best friend who, so you said, was great. So 11 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, well she's so great, I'll be 12 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: your friend. And she was. She was absolutely my best 13 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: friend in the whole world. We did everything together, and 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: apparently we were all through doing my boyfriend together and 15 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: I didn't know about it. 16 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 17 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 1: We had the boyfriend and I had been together for 18 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: three and a half years, and I found out because 19 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 1: we had gone to a car show she got injured. 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: We all stayed at his place after that, and they 21 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: were texting while I was sleeping next to him. Dirty 22 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: things back and forth. 23 00:00:58,400 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 2: Wow. 24 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: Wow, Oh yeah, it gets better. So her and I 25 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: we're still friends. I tell her that, you know, I'm heartbroken, 26 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: but she's my best friend and I stay friends with 27 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: her whatever. We end up going to a bar one night, 28 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: we meet a guy. We both go on a date. 29 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: I have a terrible date. She has a great date. 30 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 1: Her and this guy start dating. So I tell this guy, hey, 31 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: you know, it's really not fair. I had a terrible 32 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: first date with you, like I'm kind of awesome, and 33 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: we missed out. So we started drinking one night and 34 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: one thing led to another, and I am the polar 35 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: opposite of her in the bedroom. I'm wowed and she's not. 36 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: So she told me when she got home from her 37 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: weekend away that her boyfriend wanted her to do some 38 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: really weird stuff that he's never asked for before, and 39 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: she was super into it. And that's what their sex 40 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: life turned into. They're married with kids now, so. 41 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 2: The things that you like, Oh, wow, I guess you 42 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 2: got back. 43 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: She still has no idea. Really, yeah, it's been twelve years. 44 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: Are you saying you're not friends anymore? 45 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: Though? 46 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 2: Oh god no, oh oh you're not. Wow. 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: No, But I am saving a lovely happy anniversary card 48 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: where I let her know I'll think your twentieth anniversary. 49 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: I'm miss on that tour. 50 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: Wow, the long game? Yeah yeah seriously. 51 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 4: Oh yes, Well, thank you for telling us your dirty 52 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 4: little secret. 53 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: You're welcome. Have a great day, Gus, you too. Bye. 54 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hey, you have a dirty little secret. I do. Yes, Well, 55 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 2: let's hear it. 56 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll dive right on it. 57 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 58 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, a couple months ago, my best. 59 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 3: Friend and I we were hanging out. We had a 60 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 3: drunken night out, as you do, and we got really drunk. 61 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 5: And this is my childhood friend, I've known her forever, 62 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 5: and we actually ended up making out. 63 00:02:58,639 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: Okay. 64 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, she remembers it and she thinks, oh, that was 65 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 5: just a fun thing. I remember it, and I feel 66 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 5: like I have feelings for her that I didn't know 67 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 5: I had. 68 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 69 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'm I'm a little confused. I'm thinking maybe 70 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 3: I'm actually in love with my best friend. Like I'm 71 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 3: actually thinking that I. 72 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: Just didn't realize. 73 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 3: It until this happened, and I just I don't know 74 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 3: how to tell her. 75 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a tough one. Yeah, would you be okay 76 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: with losing her friendship if for any reason, like she 77 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: freaked out? I don't know. 78 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 4: I feel like you have to tell her anyway, right, 79 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 4: But it would be hard to have a friend that 80 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 4: you were in love with that didn't know you were 81 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 4: in love with them, but also like you just thought 82 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 4: of them as friends, because then you'd be wanting to 83 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 4: do more. 84 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 2: Or like the heartbroken if they're dating somebody else anyway. 85 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, but then you then you'd be close enough to 86 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 4: me you can sabotage all the relationships. 87 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: What it's true. 88 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it'd be a long term, like long con Yeah, yeah, 89 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 4: I do recommend that. 90 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: But think about any of that well. 91 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I think if I don't tell her, 92 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 3: it's going to be absolute torture. But I obviously don't 93 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: want to lose my childhood best friend if she doesn't 94 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 3: feel the same. So I'm really conflicted. 95 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 4: Well, you have time to figure it out, you know, 96 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 4: and maybe in that time, you guys could go get 97 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 4: drunk again. 98 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 3: That's it, she feels the way, I mean, that's that's 99 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 3: the hope, right, Like, and I won't know unless I 100 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: actually ask her. 101 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: Honesty is the best policy. But that's just me just 102 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: fixturing my conversation. Do you love me? Yeah, of course 103 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: I love you. 104 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 4: I love you too, And like they're having two different 105 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 4: conversations about love. 106 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: At the same time. 107 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 4: Well, good luck. If you ever decide to tell her, 108 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 4: maybe you should. You could come on the show and 109 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 4: call her and see it, see what happens. 110 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 2: Well, either way, just let us yeah how it goes. 111 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, let us know it is either way, good luck. 112 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm going to do it. Thanks guys. 113 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, but what's your dirty little singret