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Speaker 1: And some are very very new to it, like one

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Speaker 3: No, not yet.

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Speaker 1: I put my zip code to every zip code. What's

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Speaker 3: It's interesting.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm a teacher of like younger kids, or like

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Speaker 1: Book has seen their dating profiles clearly pages whatever you

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Speaker 1: So who did you match with online?

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Speaker 4: I just go by him for Mary Anne, which may

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, backfire, Is that true?

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Speaker 3: No, I really don't get like a lot of messages.

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Speaker 3: So I did? Finally the sky Cordon actually reached out

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: A six pat lizards, masculine pets.

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Speaker 3: He's really nice. It was just nice. He was one

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Speaker 2: Okay, what did it feel like going into an actual date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was actually like worried for nothing. But when

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Speaker 1: I've had therapy from some of those church. So it's

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Speaker 5: I guess we need this to work out because it's

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Speaker 2: That's pretty typical, I know.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, Maryanne, the school teacher is on the phone

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Speaker 2: And he just sounds so innocent when you say that.

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Speaker 2: She said Jeff that it was better than that.

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Speaker 1: Church or not. God was watching and God was like you.

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Speaker 1: But now it's been weeks and her date Gordon has

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Speaker 5: You're brave because not only were you trying dating apps

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Speaker 5: for the first time, you're reaching out to us.

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Speaker 2: To help like this.

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Speaker 1: Some would say that you're at an all time low

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Speaker 1: Okay, I thought that was a positive thing to say. Interesting,

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Speaker 1: I'll apologize with a church hug to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Mary, don't take Jeff's church hugs.

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Speaker 3: I think I'll pass. We should just call him a

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Speaker 1: But let's just do that. We're gonna call Gordon right

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Speaker 1: now here we go. Hello, Hello, this Gordon?

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Speaker 1: Sorry? Did we call you in the bathroom or something?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: Who am I talking to?

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Speaker 1: Who is this you're talking to? Esteemed radio host Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: Dubou from award winning morning Showbrook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Why, great question we're calling to Did we win the

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Speaker 4: That's that's what she says.

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Speaker 1: I guess, Oh wow, you're clearly not very fond of Marianne.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you have fun at the music festival?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I had fun at the music festival. It started

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Speaker 2: That is hate irresponsible people. Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 4: Well, I wound up actually finding her phone.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how I else to say it. When

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Speaker 1: What kind of guy?

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Speaker 2: That doesn't matter?

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Speaker 4: Maybe it definitely was not the way you kiss your father.

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Speaker 1: You don't know how I kiss my father. So how

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Speaker 5: God, she acted so innocent, like she she totally played

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she told me the same thing.

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Speaker 1: WHOA okay your stances? You're not cool with her cheating.

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Speaker 1: That's always like two steps. I just want to be clear.

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Speaker 5: Why didn't you Why didn't you address her when you

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Speaker 4: I just honestly, I wanted nothing to do with her

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Speaker 4: That's what you call church hug? Sure, yeah it was.

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Speaker 1: We don't know what to call it at this point.

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Speaker 1: All I mean. I guess i'd be surprised if she

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Speaker 2: But why would she call us if she was cheating?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what an idiot I can see. Let's

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Speaker 3: What.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's been there the whole time.

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Speaker 3: Mary You there, Yeah, I'm here, Mary Anne?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you mean? You had? You had a

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Speaker 3: That was my husband. He passed away last year, and

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you were.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know you well enough yet to really talk

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Speaker 2: You know, are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Night, Gordon, mean, how do you feel right now? You

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Speaker 4: I'm really sorry to hear that. I just I've been

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully that's his.

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Speaker 5: And I mean Marianne, he's obviously been on dating apps

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Speaker 3: It took me a while, but I mean, yeah, I

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Speaker 5: I mean it makes sense why it's your first time

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brooke doesn't play by the same rules as that,

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Speaker 5: Good for you.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, that's hard.

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Speaker 1: But wow, I'm glad we got closure a little clarity

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Speaker 4: I do feel terrible about the assumption, and obviously about

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Speaker 1: Nothing else bad happened.

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Speaker 4: Correct.

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Speaker 2: You guys are really cute y.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I honestly really did have a good time on

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Speaker 1: Are, okay, that is fair because based on this I

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Speaker 1: don't know that mary Anne is still interested. Mary Anne,

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Speaker 3: I'll give it another shot. We can talk it out.

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Speaker 3: We'll see where we get from there. I guess excited.

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Speaker 1: All right, so's she's the most brilliant ever. No, I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy for you guys. It sounds like we're sending

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Speaker 1: jeff Church day. I don't know about that, but we

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Speaker 1: could celebrate by ending this with an entire show church hudg. Yeah, everybody,

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Speaker 2: I'm taking it off to your church.

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Speaker 1: Jeff looking Jeffrey in the morning, man. Legit tears coming

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Speaker 1: from the text board from a lot of people who

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was beautiful.

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Speaker 5: God, this is a couple that I definitely hope that

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Speaker 2: I just want to hear that everybody's doing okay.

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Speaker 4: Still.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and obviously she didn't go into much detail about

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Speaker 5: Good work, team, Well, why would you ask that that

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Speaker 1: I'm giving us props for not going there. That's what

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Speaker 1: give her credit for being courageous and being brave, not

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Speaker 1: but also staying on the phone while this guy accuses

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Speaker 2: For sure, that must have been so emotionous for her.

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Speaker 1: One of the most intense cases of like assuming is

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Speaker 1: He felt Maybe it's a good rule of thumb. If

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Speaker 2: Really, that's not the lesson. Yeah, maybe just more open communication.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, different lessons this one apparently. But here's a good lesson.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's stick to that.

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Speaker 1: That's a good lesson. Anyway, It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,