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Speaker 1: to tell me why, why what are you doing? Risk

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Speaker 1: in it all? By the way, this comes from top No.

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Speaker 1: Ninety nine thirty one. It's from the Rslage. Okay, storytime

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Speaker 1: subret it, So come on in and some of your

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Speaker 1: stories there. I twenty six female, live with my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: I have never seen that acronym before. At Lomel Lommel,

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Speaker 1: you've seen that before.

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Speaker 2: Naima says that all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's freaking che He's always been honest with me about everything,

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Speaker 1: but recently I feel like he's hiding something bad from

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Speaker 1: me because for two months, every time he returns home

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Speaker 1: after work, he's bruised and injured. Not like a small injury,

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Speaker 1: but like visible injuries, like bruises, cuts on his abdominant legs,

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Speaker 1: bad injuries. The worst injury he had was thirteen days ago.

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Speaker 1: He came home at midnight and I was still awake

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Speaker 1: doing some work, and his whole hair and face was

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Speaker 1: ask him what the f happened to him, and he

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Speaker 1: the first rule of fight club is you don't talk

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Speaker 2: What is happening? The tomlet says, is she dating daredevil?

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Speaker 2: Like I, I'm very protect the city. I'm very, very

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Speaker 1: He either is a masked vigilante or he is in

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Speaker 1: a fight underground fight club. Both are cool.

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Speaker 2: This is I'm the law.

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Speaker 1: Well, let me find you and lead you through the

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Speaker 1: darkness because we got some more. I've tried to do

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Speaker 1: anything to just get information from him, but he refuses

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Speaker 1: I feel like I can't do anything. He hasn't done

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Speaker 1: anything to deserve any of this, and I've been trying

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Speaker 1: to come up with anything but I can't. He truly

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Speaker 3: I gotta protect him.

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Speaker 1: Georgeters, the only reason I've come up with is that

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Speaker 1: et cetera, access to weapons, and maybe a batcave.

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Speaker 2: I thought that was relevant information.

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Speaker 1: So we do have some relevant He does say he

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Speaker 1: has access to connections. I don't know what that means,

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Speaker 1: but relevant comments. We have some response from OPI we

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Speaker 1: have an update. But John, what is your best gift stuff?

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, I guess the fight club. I am.

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Speaker 2: Someone said maybe he's a secret sub ooh, and that's

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Speaker 2: why he doesn't want that, which would explain why the

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Speaker 2: This is probably a byproduct of having read all these

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Speaker 2: stories where partners have something like, we've had so many

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Speaker 2: and they won't explain themselves. I'm so tired. I'm just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why exactly if.

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Speaker 2: You come home and you're literally have, like physically injured

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Speaker 2: all the time, and you like, I want to help.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's got in with the wrong tab of people.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want to endanger it with his wife's because

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Speaker 2: I'm lost. I'm just so lost.

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Speaker 1: I need to know he took a payday loan from

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Speaker 2: Dude, this isn't freaking nineteen twenties Chicago. This is Reddit.

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Speaker 1: This is some crazy stuff happens on this website, John,

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Speaker 1: some crazy stuff that would make you tighten your sphincter

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Speaker 1: You might not have a choice. Oh, so he has

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Speaker 1: Bright at three oh six says, I bet he owes

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Speaker 1: What does Opie do for work? And Opie says pediatric nursing.

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Speaker 1: boyfriend's life. Living so far away, Basically she doesn't know

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Speaker 1: hopefully we find out the mystery again too it let's

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Speaker 2: I will say quickly. I would do everything in my

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Speaker 2: And I think probably at least attempting to try to

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Speaker 2: Worth it to try to help him, I would say,

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Speaker 1: And also like, I don't think Op's in a position

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a lommel. You can't you can't just

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Speaker 2: You can't do that.

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Speaker 1: No, that's ride or die.

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Speaker 2: That's that's how.

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Speaker 1: That's morning, noon and night you ride. That's vigilante or

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Speaker 3: When do you tell someone that you're a superhero?

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Speaker 1: First date, same time you tell them about your exes?

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Speaker 1: And how many? How many have you have friends with Sam?

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Speaker 2: Sam's rule for dating immediately go through all is just

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Speaker 2: a huge list of things that they might, you know,

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Speaker 1: Also, wait, I would like to point out something before

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Speaker 1: we get into this update. Okay, Chat was so mad

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Speaker 1: first date. What do you want?

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Speaker 1: It's chat, It's chat.

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Speaker 1: It's chat. All right, but we got an update? Ooh

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Speaker 1: look at him? Go oh no, we'll figure it out.

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Speaker 1: I asked my boyfriend yesterday about what was really going on,

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Speaker 1: After a lot of stalling, he eventually told me what

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Speaker 3: You were frickin' right.

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Speaker 2: I was not expecting that.

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Speaker 3: When you said that, I was so excited because I

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Speaker 1: That's so sick.

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Speaker 2: I was expecting it to be like a totally like

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Speaker 2: I was very, very, very genuinely worried. But it's a

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Speaker 2: to join a fight club.

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Speaker 3: Well, you couldn't tell anyone about it, though, I dode I.

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Speaker 1: That would.

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Speaker 3: Everyone.

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Speaker 2: You would come back next time and then be like, so,

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Speaker 1: And then they all gang up on like this is

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Speaker 3: And then he'd have to do if you come in

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Speaker 1: That's the reason he refused to say anything about it, because,

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Speaker 1: That's also why he comes home sad. He's only using

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Speaker 1: like drugs were being done in the fight club. I've

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Speaker 1: Men, don't go to therapy. They get beat up by

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Speaker 2: Of maybe the most Like we usually joke, but this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, this, I feel like this is what the

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Speaker 1: and I'm fairly certain these underground fights don't have paramedics

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Speaker 2: Well, no, no fight clubs.

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Speaker 3: This is bad.

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Speaker 2: Probably fight club, But I hate this. Which one would

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Speaker 2: Holy f I hate this and that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's where it ends.

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Speaker 2: that's like demanding this much money. I totally understand a

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Speaker 1: Well, because it's like the family doesn't really care if

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Speaker 1: pay enough money. It's he's literally eyeing his family's affection. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just like I could not stand being with someone

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Speaker 2: order to pay the money to my fan, I'm out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that's where that ends.

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Speaker 2: I leave him.

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Speaker 1: But we do got another story for you. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: we do, Yeah, we do. Except give me your phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, this is give it? Did you take it back?

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Speaker 2: He was locked out for most of the time, but

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Speaker 2: I was like, Wow, thet warm comforting. But soon soon

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Speaker 1: But all of our videos we moved the curtains outside.

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Speaker 2: The true final level. We put a hot tub in here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah when you say up, you mean like the inflatable ones.

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Speaker 2: I was like, did he explode an entire HoTT wouldn't

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Speaker 2: put it past the people. I think he filled it

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Speaker 2: next story, let's get into witch. Here we go. My

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Speaker 2: not saying our relationship was perfect as any other relationship.

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Speaker 2: There were hardships. There was never any cheating up to

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Speaker 1: That she was supposed to have. Oh that garbage keeps

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Speaker 2: Guys, Please put some hearts in the comments for Opie

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Speaker 2: because OPI cannot catch it. Break my god, this this

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Speaker 1: Also, I would just like to point out, like, if

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Speaker 1: how big a garbage truck is? That thing is huge?

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Speaker 2: It is honestly a miracle that Opie wasn't more severely in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, it's lee insane And.

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Speaker 2: It seems like the wife's whole attitude is like you're

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Speaker 1: It can be a lot, Like don't don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, is not a vibe. Yeah, I mean, honestly, it's

440
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 1: never a vibe, but like it's more understandable. It's like,

441
00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:44,840
Speaker 1: all right, Like let's say you're three months in and

442
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,120
Speaker 1: then someone gets hit by a garbage truck. Like it's

443
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: a lot to be Like, I'm going to stay through

444
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 1: this recovery. Like if you do, you're a saint. If

445
00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 1: you don't, like, still an a whole move. But it's

446
00:20:56,520 --> 00:21:00,160
Speaker 1: but more understandable. But fourteen years, like you're mayor aid

447
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 1: sickness and in health, Like, come on.

448
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 2: Unless it's a garbage drug appendix person, Yeah, bread the

449
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 2: fine print in your marriage. Now. We had a bad

450
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: argument and I went to my mom's house to cool

451
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,480
Speaker 2: down and try and figure things out. After a few hours,

452
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,199
Speaker 2: I went to go get some clothes and to go

453
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 2: to a friend's house to clear my head and have

454
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 2: some space. When she saw me do this, she went

455
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 2: off on me and accused me of giving up on

456
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 2: the marriage. Didn't you just go to your friend's house?

457
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,879
Speaker 2: I digress. We argued back and forth, but after a

458
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 2: few days, I decided fourteen years was too much time

459
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 2: to let something like this end the marriage.

460
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Speaker 1: Excuse me.

461
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,479
Speaker 2: We decided to try and work on us for at

462
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 2: least six months before we made a decision. Only four

463
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 2: weeks later, I found out that she has been looking

464
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 2: for apartments the whole time. She then told me that

465
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 2: her having her space could save us. I told her,

466
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: I don't understand how a year lease would save anything,

467
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: and how does she expect me to pay bills since

468
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,439
Speaker 2: I am unable to work. I told her, if she

469
00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 2: moves out, I will file for divorce, which, like, I'm

470
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 2: almost more like, it's not even necessarily I mean, obviously

471
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 2: Opie is very bothered by it, but it's almost not

472
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 2: even the fact that she's wanting to live and have

473
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 2: space apart. It's that she completely hit it the entire

474
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 2: time and wasn't like I need this space.

475
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're like, I think something that we've talked

476
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 1: again and again and again and again on the show

477
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: is literally like, if you are open about what's going

478
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,880
Speaker 1: on inside your head and open about things as soon

479
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: as they happen, it's usually not as bad as if

480
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,880
Speaker 1: you wait. And this is an example of waiting making

481
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 1: it more terrible.

482
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 2: Exact the moon, Now, where was I Sophia? Ah, I

483
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 2: need a little notion circle.

484
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 1: Also, while John is finding his circle. I would like

485
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: you guys to I just want to acknowledge Riley. He

486
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 1: is doing some tech stuff downstairs and absolutely crushing it.

487
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: So put some computers in the chat for Riley.

488
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 2: Put some computers in the chat and dare I say it,

489
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 2: some computers love and appreciate for Riley in the general

490
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 2: chat of discord.

491
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, just so he could tag tag him so and

492
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,679
Speaker 1: I'd say, wow, you did such a good job at

493
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: the light Stream, Riley. I can't wait to see it

494
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 1: in Paris. Just blow them up, just love. Yeah, yeah,

495
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: thank you. Now.

496
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 2: Only four weeks later, I found out that she'd been

497
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,479
Speaker 2: looking for apartments the whole time. She then told me

498
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 2: that having her own space could save us, and I

499
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: told her, I don't understand how a year lease would

500
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 2: save anything, and how does she expect me to pay

501
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: bills since I'm unable to work. I told her, if

502
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 2: she moves out, I will file for divorce. She found

503
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 2: an apartment she liked and applied for it and was approved.

504
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 2: Wow at this time too, the apartment wouldn't be ready

505
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: for two weeks. During this time, I did something that

506
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 2: I'm not proud of. I just feel uneasy about everything.

507
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 2: That is happening, and I had a suspicion that she

508
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 2: was hiding something about why she wants to move out.

509
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 2: So yes, I went through her Apple Watch, which first

510
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: time I've ever seen sleeping on the apple Watch.

511
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 1: And I counted how many steps she had. She was

512
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: making a lot of steps, but her location didn't move.

513
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 2: Hm, why is the cardio so high from from midnight

514
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,919
Speaker 2: to one am? So I went through apple Watch with

515
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: out the house while she was at work. I ended

516
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 2: up finding out that she had been talking to some

517
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 2: guy for at least four to five months. And when

518
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 2: I looked at it, a text was sent from him

519
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 2: to her saying she wanted him bad and when and

520
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: where can they hook up? The smoking lady, the smoking apple.

521
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: Watch, smoking dude apple watches, I've never We've literally never

522
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: heard of that. That's a first. That's a first.

523
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 3: Just like he's like, I'm ashamed to admit it. I

524
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 3: pulled her wrists over.

525
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 2: When I confronted her about this, she claimed that it

526
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 2: was just a joke. In the famous words, it's just

527
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 2: a prank. Bro.

528
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: We have not seen said that in a while.

529
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: Guys. We practiced so much restraint in not saying.

530
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: That it's just a prank. Bro. We said, that's so much.

531
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 2: It was like the catchphrase of this of the show.

532
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like what twenty twenty three catchphrase?

533
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 2: Probably yeah, like early twenty twenty three. It was it

534
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 2: was a prank, bro, It was a movement that was

535
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 2: a prank. She said that it was just a joke.

536
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 2: But when I said that that's messed up, she then

537
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 2: said is because I'm not giving her any and she

538
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: has to get it from somewhere. I thought it was

539
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 2: a joke. She would turn me down every time I

540
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 2: tried to initiate any intimacy with her for the last

541
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 2: four to five. August twenty twenty three, he moved into

542
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: her apartment. Two weeks later, I told her that I'm

543
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: filing for divorce and she said that I was just

544
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 2: bluffing about that.

545
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 1: Wait. Wait, you're having a full blown affair, you're moving out,

546
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: you're hooking up with this other guy. And she's like, Oh,

547
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: you're not going to divorce me.

548
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: You're just bluffing. It's a bluff. Go ahead, go ahead,

549
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,479
Speaker 2: I'll call your bluffs.

550
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, do it, dude, go ahead. That is crazy that

551
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 1: if she actually thinks that I yeah, Wow.

552
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: Fortunately with us not having any children, the divorce was

553
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 2: very quick and finalized December of twenty twenty three. Wow,

554
00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 2: that's crazy that August to December is a quick, easy divorce.

555
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: Of course. I mean some divorce is gonna drag on

556
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 1: for years.

557
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: That is true. There was a lot more gas lighting

558
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 2: and other crazy stuff that happened. I wanted to tell

559
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: my story and just say that no matter what you

560
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 2: are going through, if someone is mistreating or taking advantage

561
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 2: of you, don't be afraid to leave. No one deserves

562
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 2: to be walked on and all over. Amen, brother quick

563
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 2: edits Oh actually, just freaking kidding, got you. We're gonna

564
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 2: stop right here because this is the final edit.

565
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: Oh so there's there's some juice to squeeze.

566
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: This is after this edit. There's some big juice. So,

567
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 2: I mean, is OP the a hole here?

568
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 1: No, not at all. Get the freak out of this.

569
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 2: Is the wife the a hole?

570
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 1: Yes? Absolutely, Dump the dumper, dump the dump truck, Dump

571
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 1: that dump that dump.

572
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 2: Dump that dump that dump truck. Dump and get a

573
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 2: new truck truck with that dump truck.

574
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. You deserve Op, You deserve it. You deserve you

575
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: have been through hell and back. You deserve a dumpy.

576
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: You deserve a big old duggle dump. Yeah. I mean,

577
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 2: is there anything else more to say than the path

578
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 2: that Opie's already on.

579
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. It feels like his head is up,

580
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 1: you know, head is up. King what waffle Pocket.

581
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 2: Said, Maybe she's cheating with the truck driver that dude.

582
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: Dude.

583
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 2: Honestly, I wouldn't put it past her at this point.

584
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: They will give you a little extra something night if

585
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 1: you run over my husband with your dump truck.

586
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: This is absolutely insih.

587
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm hoping that everything is chill with like the

588
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 1: finalization of the divorce.

589
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, maybe at this point it's like, can OPI

590
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: just successfully move on and just begin the process of

591
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: rebuilding his life after being with her for fourteen years?

592
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: I mean, which that is a long time.

593
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: That is a massive adjustment, like like just being used to.

594
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: Being alone, and yeah.

595
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 2: After fourteen years, Wow, you can do it, Opie. Well,

596
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 2: we have the edit the final heart of the story.

597
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 2: So I now understand and that the more details the better.

598
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: I was trying to avoid writing a small novel, writing

599
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: a small novel, but leaving details it might seem shady.

600
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes I would try to help out around the house

601
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 2: as much as I could. I was able to do

602
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: all the cooking and was able to sometimes do the laundry.

603
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 2: I also would pack her lunch from any leftovers from

604
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: dinner for the next day, because reminder, he had back

605
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 2: pains from his injury and basically could work anymore. So

606
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: I guess that was his like, all right, I'll try

607
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 2: to do this while you're kind of helping pay the bills.

608
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 2: I am in no way saying that my ex is

609
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 2: a horrible, heartless person, just someone who has made some

610
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 2: horrible decisions and possibly listening to advice from the wrong people,

611
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: which is a that is grace.

612
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: I was too much grace, A fugger grace out of here.

613
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,239
Speaker 1: You're an a hole for extending that much great out

614
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: to yourself.

615
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: Let's get down to the gunner. The two weeks leading

616
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: up to her moving out, we had a lot of fights,

617
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 2: and I was being referred to as a broken person

618
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: because of my hinjuries, and come on. I did help

619
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 2: her move out mainly because she had no one else

620
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: and I felt that it could give me some sort

621
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: of closure moving her belongings out. Mind you helping her

622
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 2: move her belongings while his back is still in pain. Dies,

623
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 2: I mean, my goodness. The next few months was getting

624
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: the paperwork for the divorce dissolution with no children to

625
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 2: be accurate, properly filled out. The agreement was she keeps

626
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: what's hers and I keep what's mine. Super simple. In

627
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 2: October of twenty twenty three, she ended up in a

628
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 2: car accident. That total of a car.

629
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: How the turn tables have turned? Ah, who's gonna take

630
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: care of you? Now?

631
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 2: Definitely not op at this point.

632
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you think your side piece that you were

633
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: slamming all that time is gonna take care of you.

634
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 2: No, you think you're gonna get any more notifications on

635
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: your Apple Watch?

636
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: No, nope, nope.

637
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: Next time, find the real person who was watching out

638
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: for you the whole time.

639
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: See what time it is, It's time for you to

640
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: get hit by a dump drug. Yes, so she seemed

641
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: to be okay. She didn't to the hospital. She asked

642
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 1: to borrow my car for work, but I said no.

643
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: Then she said that I needed to take her back

644
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: and forth to work. I ain't your husband, no more, right,

645
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: do it yourself.

646
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 3: She's like, take can I borrow your car? He's like no,

647
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 3: and she's like, I raise you you drive me. He's like,

648
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 3: oh no, that's also worse.

649
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, I'll only give you one hundred dollars.

650
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 2: How about one thousand dollars?

651
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: No?

652
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 2: I also said no to this surprise surprise, I told

653
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 2: her that I would not be able to because of

654
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 2: conflicting schedules with my physical therapy and my doctor visits

655
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: for him to keel himself. She said that that's not

656
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 2: her problem. So I got upset by that and told

657
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 2: her that she isn't my problem anymore.

658
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, dude, how did she think that would go over?

659
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: She's like, hey, can you help me with my problem?

660
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: He's like, no, I got problems. So she's like, that's

661
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: not my problem.

662
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: Saying we're dealing with a classic Olympic gold medalist in

663
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: mental gymnastics. Shout out to us being in Paris next week?

664
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: Oh shop, dude, is anyone going to be in Paris?

665
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: I don't even know. Do we even probably lightly mentioned it?

666
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

667
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 2: Do we give them as a special end of episode?

668
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 2: Slash members only stream treat share our plans. We could

669
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: maybe after the story, maybe if you stick around to

670
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: the end of the episode.

671
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: Then after that story the end of the episode.

672
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 2: Now, there wasn't much communication after that until I saw

673
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 2: her the day of the divorce, which was in December.

674
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: There had been very little communication since, just mainly trying

675
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: to get her to change her address. Now I just

676
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: send her mail back to send her. As far as

677
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 2: me and her go, there's nothing else to say. We

678
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: don't talk to each other or see each other at all. Now.

679
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 2: For people wondering how I am doing physically, I have

680
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 2: been getting better slowly. I just had a procedure that

681
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: numbed the nerves at my lower back to help manage

682
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 2: the pain. Oh my gosh, opee. Hopefully this will help

683
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 2: me get back to somewhat normal activities in life. I

684
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 2: am in a new relationship. When the new year started,

685
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 2: I thought I would try go out on a few

686
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 2: dates to see how things felt and just get out

687
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 2: of the house. Nothing too special at first. No one

688
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 2: night stands. I'm just not interested in those. Obviously. Most

689
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 2: of them wanted someone who was in a better situation,

690
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 2: and I understand why, and there's nothing wrong with that.

691
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 2: It was weird to date again because it's been so long,

692
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 2: and I did feel I did feel like I felt

693
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 2: a connection with someone that I would be okay with

694
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 2: in a new relationship. But after my first few dates,

695
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 2: I was just going to focus on my recovery and

696
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 2: other things before after a few dates, my last date

697
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 2: that I was going to go on, I ended up

698
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 2: a meeting a woman that was very accepting of everything

699
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 2: that I went through and was going through. I enjoyed

700
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: her company and hung out quite a bit over the

701
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 2: next few weeks. I was completely honest with her about everything,

702
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 2: and she found it refreshing and said that's what attracted

703
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: her to me in the first place. We have been

704
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 2: seeing each other since late January. I know it might

705
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: have been too soon to date again, but I am

706
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 2: happy and very hopeful for what the future might be.

707
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 2: I am definitely more aware of things that I need

708
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 2: to be concerned about, and I'm very persistent on being

709
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: honest and open with her about everything, and she's doing

710
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 2: the same with me. I'm sorry if I've written too much,

711
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 2: but I'm trying to give as many details as I can.

712
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: It's the end of this Wow, what a freaking roller

713
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: coaster just to read, and what a roller coaster to live.

714
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: Also, there had to be red flags before that moment right.

715
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 2: Fourteen years.

716
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,959
Speaker 1: Fourteen years did never seen a red flag? Come on?

717
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: Had to be. I think maybe they both got like

718
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 2: dependent on each other for I mean, fourteen years of

719
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: your and we don't know their age, but I'm kind

720
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 2: of presuming maybe sometime in their twenties, like you kind

721
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 2: of known life as an adult, probably with this person

722
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 2: as your partner.

723
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, And I imagine it's hard to think of

724
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: I think why she was like, you're probably bluffing, but

725
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: because they probably got married super young, and maybe she

726
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: couldn't imagine a life without him, and so she's thinking

727
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: he's probably thinking the same.

728
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: Maybe Blake conspiracy theory, slash, I see you in the comments.

729
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: Put it in the comments before I say it. That's it.

730
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: Where's your chance. I think she had been kind of

731
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 2: not manipulating, but like doing stuff like this the whole

732
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 2: time in the relationship, and maybe this was the first

733
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 2: time that the reality distortion field was broken. Maybe a

734
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 2: big life changing event like a major accident, made him

735
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: see that, like, oh the light, he's out here kind

736
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: of kind of using me in a way. Maybe that's

737
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:12,479
Speaker 2: not the right.

738
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: Word for it, but I think that's right, and that's.

739
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 2: Why she was comfortable, like, Oh, you're not gonna you're

740
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 2: just gonna sit there and take it.

741
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad Op left Pink got, but we're not

742
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: gonna leave right now because we have one more story.

743
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: Let's close it out, Ladies, don't bown ep phone.

744
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: Let's work this last story, work it and finish this down.

745
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 2: So