1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,679 Speaker 1: All right, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: If you need advice and relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're reading 6 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: this one. Buckle up, hold on tight, let's go, baby. 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: We got it for you. The Strawberry Letter subject my 8 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: past fleeing is her new thing. Dear Stephen Shirley, I 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: am a thirty year old, happily married female with a 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: beautiful family. I need your advice and how to handle 11 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: a little situation with my ex and my sister. Ten 12 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: years ago, I had sex with a guy and it 13 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: was like a friends with benefits situation because we were 14 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: both young. He and I have sort of a keep 15 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: in touch. We've sort of kept in touch over social media, 16 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: but have not seen each other in years until recently 17 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: when I ran into him at the mall and he 18 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: told me that he met my younger sister and had 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: been hanging out with her. Now, I don't have any 20 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: feelings whatsoever for this guy, but I know that he 21 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: is known to be a playboy, so I don't want 22 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: him messing with my sister, never mind the fact that 23 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 1: he and I had a sexual relationship. I told him 24 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: that I did not want him dating my sister, and 25 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: he told me that I had no say in the matter. 26 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: I called my sister and asked her why she hadn't 27 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: told me about her new man, and she said that 28 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: it was going so good she didn't want a jinxet. 29 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: I told her that I knew him very well and 30 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: had sex with him several times. She said that didn't 31 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: matter to her at all, because that was in the past. 32 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: I told her he has a lot of women, and 33 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: she said he told her about his past and he's 34 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: ready to settle down now with a good woman. No 35 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: doubt that my sister is a great catch and any 36 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: man would be lucky to have her. But I don't 37 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: think this is the man for her. Isn't it a 38 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: bit creepy that they both are okay with the fact 39 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: that he and I been together. This is such an 40 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: awkward situation. I want to tell our parents, but I'm 41 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: not sure if I should or should I just mind 42 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: my business. Please advise, Yes, big sister, you should just 43 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: mind your business. Yeah, you should. I know you know this. 44 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: You've used to date this guy and all of that, 45 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: and you had a sexual relationship with him. And guess what, 46 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 1: your sister knows that too, And she said it doesn't 47 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: bother her at all because what's in the past is 48 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: in the past, and everyone has a past. And he 49 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: told her that he's ready to settle down. But it's 50 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: interesting that he did tell you that he that he 51 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: met your younger sister and had been hanging out with her. 52 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: He didn't say that there was a lot to that relationship, 53 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: that's all he said. But she seems like she's putting 54 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: a lot more on it. So I mean, if I 55 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 1: were you, I would just mind my business. You said 56 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: your piece to your sister. I don't think you should 57 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: involve your parents in it. I mean, and I know 58 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: you probably want them to talk to her, but you know, 59 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: that's how people learn, they make mistakes in life, they 60 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: have experiences of their own. Again, you've told her, you 61 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 1: told her what kind of guy he was. The more 62 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: you talk against him, the more it's going to make 63 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: her want to get closer to him. So if I 64 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: were you, big sister, yes, I would mind my own business. 65 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: You're thirty years old, and happily married with a beautiful family. 66 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: That's what you should be concentrating on. Steve, Wow, think 67 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: this letter to truth. See what didn't happened is just 68 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: thirty year old, happily married female with a beautiful family, 69 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: had sex with a guy ten years ago she was twenty. 70 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: They were sort of friends with benefits, and he and 71 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: you all stayed in touch over the years over social media. Well, 72 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: you happily married all this here, but you in touch 73 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: with the dude that used to mess around with Okay, 74 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: what do you think was gonna come out of that? 75 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: So you ran up into him at the mall. He 76 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: told me he met your younger sister and they had 77 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: been hanging out. Now you say you don't like this guy, 78 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: but he's a known playboy and I don't want to 79 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: mess it with my sister. Never mind the fact that 80 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: he and I had a sexual relationship. Okay, then you 81 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: told him you didn't want to mess it with you said, 82 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: Then he told you it wasn't none of your business, 83 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing to do with it. Well, see 84 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: this a kind of a trick, dude right here, Because 85 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: if it wasn't your business, what he tell it to 86 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: you for see, if it wasn't your business, why did 87 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: he bring it to you? Because he wanted you to 88 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: know because he wanted them dudes. Man, he just putting 89 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: notches in his belt. So now here you go. Told 90 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: him you ain't one of it, you know. Then you 91 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: call your sister asker, why why aren't you tell me? 92 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: She said she had a new man who was going 93 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: so good she didn't want to jinxi all right. Then 94 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: you set up and then you told him that you 95 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: knew him very well, and then you told him you 96 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: had sex with him several times. There's a lot of 97 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: people telling stuff in this letter. They ain't got to 98 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: be telling it. He didn't have to tell you he's 99 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: messing with your sister, And you ain't have to tell 100 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: your sister that you slept with him, but you did 101 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: because you thought it would run him off. She said 102 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: that it didn't matter to her at all because that 103 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: was in the past. I ain't. Then you tried to 104 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: some more information where he got a lot of women. 105 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 1: She he told me, and that was in his past. 106 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: It is not crazy, it is now. Ain't no doubt. 107 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: My sister's a great catch for any man be looking 108 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: to have them. But I don't think this is the 109 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: man for her. Ain't I didn't said that before? Lord, 110 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: haven't you given some advice to someone that you knew 111 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: was right? Somebody told me that and they ignored it. Hello, 112 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: m yea boy that done the twenties, spent all my 113 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: thirties straightening out my damn twenties, spent all of my 114 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: thirties straightening out my twenties. Then I took all my 115 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: fight doing what I should have done in my damn 116 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 1: thirty but got it together. I got together. But you 117 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: look up and now your asses in a hurry. That's 118 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: the truth. Man. You wake up and you realize I 119 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: ain't got time for this no more. Yeah, but your 120 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: sister not because you know why. And I'll explain it 121 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: to you when we come back. Because this is new generation, y'all, 122 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: This new generation of young people, they different. I'm gonna 123 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: talk to you about it when we come back. Three 124 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: cap today, Strawberry letter, My pass fling is her new things. 125 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: Just like she said, this woman thirty years old, happily married, 126 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: was dating this man ten years ago to have sexual affair. 127 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: They broke up, they stayed in touch with one another. 128 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: She's happily married now, beautiful family runs up into the guy. 129 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: Them all they get to talking. All of a sudden, 130 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: he tells her he's been hanging out with your sister. 131 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: You tell him you don't think that's cool. Why you 132 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: mess with my sister. I don't want you to dating 133 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: my sister. He tells you. They ain't none your damn business. 134 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: You go home, get your sister. Tell your sister, Hey, 135 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: I ran up in to him. Why don't you tell 136 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: me you had a new man? She said it was 137 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: going so good, she didn't want to drink it. You 138 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: told her, well, I got news for you. This man 139 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: ain't right for you. We have sex together. She didn't 140 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: told you. She don't care. She don't care. You know why, man, 141 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: because I've been watching these young people, these young people nowadays. Man, 142 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: they're a little bit different. Yeah, they're from a generation 143 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: of instant gratification. They think if they instantly want it, 144 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 1: they should instantly have it. Their work ethic it's very 145 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: different from ours. What they're willing to put in to 146 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: get out, it's very very different from ours. And they 147 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: so readily, I think they so readily forget a person's 148 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: past because they're used to deleting stuff. And I think, man, 149 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: that they're so used to swipe it right and swipe 150 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: in let and deleting it that that makes it go away. 151 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: And so a person can come to you and completely 152 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: lie to you and tell you they've completely changed, and 153 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: you sit there because they're telling it to you, and 154 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: you're so gullible you go for it. That's what did 155 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,959 Speaker 1: happened to this young girl with this dude. I'm telling 156 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 1: them things about me. She thinks she got something her 157 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 1: sister tried to tell her, But you got a little 158 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: trifling dude, man, because if he was all of that, 159 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: he wouldn't have told the sister, I'm kicking it with 160 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: your sister. And then when the sister told him she 161 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 1: don't want to mess with it, he would have never 162 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: told this woman. They ain't got nothing to do with you, Okay, 163 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: if it ain't nothing to do with it, what you're 164 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: telling to it for the guy's tricky, man, he's a 165 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: tricky dude. And the young girl can't see through this, 166 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: but I can. So I don't know what to tell you. 167 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: Telling your mom and dad ain't gonna change nothing. Don't 168 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: keep talking against him. Now, this is what I don't 169 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: understand that this is what you're afraid to do with girls. 170 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: You be afraid to talk about the guy to them, 171 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: because everybody always say that or make her run to 172 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: him and get closer. It will that ain't high, dudes, due, 173 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: But why why is that so with girls? I never 174 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: understood that. It's like, I don't know, it's like defiance 175 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: or something. You know, they're trying to show you they 176 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: don't believe you. They believe this guy because they're all, 177 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: you know, mentally and emotionally into this guy. They want him, 178 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: you know, they don't want to hear they reject you 179 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: and run to the guy for whatever reason. That's I mean, 180 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: you know, it just makes them get closer to that guy. 181 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: I mean, that's just how it happens with women. Yeah. 182 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,199 Speaker 1: And jealousy the wh I think that the other woman 183 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: or what whoever's telling her? You're just jealous and don't 184 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: want to see me happy. Yeah, you just don't want 185 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 1: me to be with it. Yes, you just don't want 186 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: me to be with him. That's crazy. No, she trying 187 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: to save you some pain. But I will understand that. 188 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: Man about this generation, what you had with him is different. 189 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: I'm not you, We're different. Yeah, it's different really, Yeah, 190 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: because all he said was he was hanging out with her. 191 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: He told me that too, she said. The sister said 192 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: that that, you know that there it's more to it 193 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: than that. She thinks it's more to it than that. 194 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: She thinks he's a great catch. Yeah, and she you know, 195 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: they want to settle down and all of that, So 196 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, hanging out. Yeah. She can't talk against 197 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: him though, because she wanted to change. They all say 198 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: they want to change. Yeah, they say. Every last one 199 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: of us has said that. He just putting little notches 200 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: on his belt, right, Yes, that's exactly it. Yeah. I 201 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: had her and her sister, that's all that's all this 202 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: dude doing mad. Yeah, and he wanted to make sure 203 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: that the sister knew it. Yep. She's Yeah, she's got 204 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: to stay out of it. This is a lesson that 205 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 1: her little sister is gonna have to learn, one of 206 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: those life lessons. And you know what, that's a damn 207 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: shame show. Yeah, it is what's got to happen. Yeah, 208 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: it is because she's not trying to hear what her 209 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: sisters sang. And the more her sister said, the more 210 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: she come back. She has you know, when you trust me, 211 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: he ignorant enough, he'll go back and try to go 212 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: hit the big sister again to trust me. He wow, 213 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: Well guess what you know with the little sister. She 214 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: got her husband now though, So when you come over hill, yeah, 215 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: get ready to hit it. Yeah, when you come to 216 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: hit it, okay, do it to me first, right yeah. Yeah. 217 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 1: Some people learn the hard way and some people never 218 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 1: learn at all. But the minute he missed over who 219 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: you think the first person you're gonna call him dead? 220 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 1: Oh yes, bix Sis yeah, big Sis. Yea. It really 221 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: bugs you when you see a person blowing it and 222 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 1: tell them you're blowing absolutely and they go down that 223 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: road anyway. Yeah, and you man, you know what many 224 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: times I wanted to say, hey man, okay, just try 225 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 1: to warn you. Bro, I did not tell you. Yeah, 226 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: oh you thought you could change it. Oh you thought 227 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: because you you was gonna say this, it was gonna 228 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: be different now yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's It's one of 229 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 1: these life lessons that's gonna happen. So yeah, that's why. Yeah, 230 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,559 Speaker 1: that's why I said this Big Sis is just gonna 231 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: have to mind her own business and just be there 232 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: for you know, when when this falls, coming to crowd 233 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: to be there for Yeah, first, be there. Don't say 234 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: I told you so, Just be there for. Oh. But 235 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: I be wanting too, though, I shall be won to 236 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: say I told you yeah, because his little sister thinks 237 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: he's really ready to settle down with a good woman. Now, girl, 238 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna believe what happened. Yeah, I am, go ahead. 239 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: Let me get you caught him with somebody else? How 240 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: you know? All right, guys, we gotta get out of here. 241 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: Email us or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry 242 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: Letter At Steve Harvey f M. You're listening to