Speaker 1: R if im HD one New York, and I hired
Speaker 1: radio station Dan. Everybody coming to the breakfast Club. I
Speaker 1: called this the hot Sea. Ya. You are control. I'm
Speaker 1: even dealing you so big yo are yo so baggy
Speaker 1: the world's most daintious Morning Jos DJ and Bitch Angela.
Speaker 1: I stay in everybody's business, but in a good radio Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: the guy the ruler rubbing you the wrong way. The
Speaker 1: breakfast club ain't for everybody. Good morning us a yo
Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo good money, Yalomagne,
Speaker 1: Good morning Angela. Piece to the plane. It is Tuesday.
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if Emmy was on the you know,
Speaker 1: listen at home, working from home, or somewhere else today. No,
Speaker 1: he's running late because of some flooding in New Jersey
Speaker 1: and traffic and stuff. But he needs to get here
Speaker 1: because today it's a big day for him because his book,
Speaker 1: him and his wife book Real Life Real Love, is
Speaker 1: out today. Yes, indeed, and GiB will be joining us
Speaker 1: this morning. She absolutely will. That's probably another reason why
Speaker 1: he's late. It's probably nervous, nervous of how that whole
Speaker 1: conversation will be received. But if you haven't gotten a
Speaker 1: book yet, go get it. Real Life, Real Love available
Speaker 1: everywhere you buy books now. They did the audible version,
Speaker 1: so if you like listening to the Casey Crew podcast,
Speaker 1: you know you can download the audible version and listen
Speaker 1: to that. So I know if I'm looking at that,
Speaker 1: I already know he's gonna be mad when he comes
Speaker 1: in here this morning. All right, I'm looking at the
Speaker 1: shade room. I see they did an interview there. The
Speaker 1: press comment that's Penn is Jesus from Jesus and Marrow.
Speaker 1: That means nothing. I mean, that's good. I mean listen
Speaker 1: as long as people are talking, that's what matters. When
Speaker 1: people are haven't rather to be talked about then ignored.
Speaker 1: So people know the book is out today and Gear
Speaker 1: will be here this morning. We'll be discussing it. I'm
Speaker 1: sure a lot this morning. What'd you do yesterday? What
Speaker 1: did I do? Oh? So yesterday? I actually this is
Speaker 1: my first time doing this. I move some things into storage.
Speaker 1: I've never had a storage space before, but I've been
Speaker 1: working on like I'm supposed to be moving. But it's
Speaker 1: just a nightmare to get this other house redone and
Speaker 1: rehab and my house just feels so cluttered and junkie.
Speaker 1: So I was like, you know what, I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: a storage space and move some things into storage. So
Speaker 1: that was my whole day yesterday, was getting some things together,
Speaker 1: packing it up. I need my house to not feel
Speaker 1: like a mess. Are you trying to do like some
Speaker 1: spring cleaning. I'm just trying to like just clean it out.
Speaker 1: You know how you walk in. I have boxes everywhere
Speaker 1: because people keep sending things to my house. It's just
Speaker 1: no place to put everything. So I'm trying to get
Speaker 1: rid of stuff. Yeah, I guess it is spring cleaning.
Speaker 1: It's definitely spring cleaning. It's like, I'm the type of
Speaker 1: person I can't go to bed if my house is
Speaker 1: a mess or if I come home, it like depresses
Speaker 1: me if things feel out order. So you don't want
Speaker 1: no clutter? Yeah, so it makes my life feel cluttered.
Speaker 1: I'm doing some spring cleaning right now? Is I s
Speaker 1: mudge myself? And then I was watching the playoffs last
Speaker 1: night too. While I was doing all of that, I
Speaker 1: didn't see no basketball last night, but it wasn't you
Speaker 1: know it was the seventy six years versus the Raptors.
Speaker 1: That wasn't really like a good game. Who won the
Speaker 1: six ers? Yes, I'm sure they won by a lot. Well,
Speaker 1: let's get the show started, like we said, Gear Casey
Speaker 1: will be here this morning Envy's Wife DJ Envy's Wife
Speaker 1: to discuss their new book, Real Life, Real Love and
Speaker 1: what we got in front page news. That mean y'all
Speaker 1: can't flirt today in front of her? Mll it's about him.
Speaker 1: He's the one who flirts with me. I don't how
Speaker 1: this is going to be awkward? You know how you like?
Speaker 1: I know what's really going on. He flirts with me
Speaker 1: every morning. Let's see how he acts in front of
Speaker 1: his wife. All right, Well, let's talk about this mask mandate.
Speaker 1: If you're traveling, imagine being mid flights and they tell
Speaker 1: you take your mask off, you're free. We'll tell you
Speaker 1: what happened yesterday, as they have said, you don't have
Speaker 1: to wear those masks anymore. I'm planes it's the most
Speaker 1: dangerous morning show. What seng we starting about? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: come on, I just came in from the rain. This
Speaker 1: song sounds like it's raining, and the windshield wipers are
Speaker 1: going too slowly. It's too late. Hey morning, everybody is
Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning. Book release day. If you haven't
Speaker 1: picked it up right now, you well right now. But
Speaker 1: you can get the audible right now. You can definitely
Speaker 1: listen to it right now. And I'm super duper excited.
Speaker 1: Last that I was in DC. Shout to the Jasmine brand.
Speaker 1: They did, they moderated a panel again myself and we
Speaker 1: signed a bunch of books. I'm just excited. I'm just happy.
Speaker 1: So hopefully you guys can pick up the book, read
Speaker 1: the book, and get some some good information to help
Speaker 1: you with your relationship. Real life, real love, real life,
Speaker 1: real love. All right, but let's get in some front
Speaker 1: page news where we started. All right, Well, that CDC
Speaker 1: mask mandate for travelers is no longer in effect after
Speaker 1: a federal judge in Florida struck it down on Monday.
Speaker 1: The Biden the administration's mask mandate for a planes and
Speaker 1: other public transport methods. Um They said the order is
Speaker 1: no longer in effect while the ruling is being reviewed,
Speaker 1: So they're reviewing things now, and that's very confusing for
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Um, just last week the CDC
Speaker 1: extended the mask Manatee through May third, and that actually
Speaker 1: applied to airplanes, trains, and other forms of public transportation.
Speaker 1: But they said it was a disappointing decision and the
Speaker 1: Justice Department will make any determinations about a legal response
Speaker 1: in the immediate wake of this ruling. But people were
Speaker 1: mid flights, okay when they decided that no longer do
Speaker 1: you have to wear a mask. Here's one pilot actually
Speaker 1: making the announcement on a delta flight. We just got
Speaker 1: an announcement. A few minds together. Some of you have
Speaker 1: seen the rust of East today. I mean for years
Speaker 1: we've seen Asians wearing mask at the airport and on planes.
Speaker 1: But I would like to know what is this science
Speaker 1: to wearing a mask on a plane? Because you're on
Speaker 1: the plane already, you're in a closed space, all the
Speaker 1: air is circulating amongst each other. Like, what is the
Speaker 1: point of wearing a mask on the plane in the
Speaker 1: first place? Yeah, I guess, well, because I guess we're
Speaker 1: in such close quarters. So if somebody next to you
Speaker 1: on the flight has COVID, he's probably gonna get it
Speaker 1: regardless even with a mask on. No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think it does offer some protection. I think it
Speaker 1: might make you feel I might make you feel that way,
Speaker 1: but I would really like to see the science on. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily get it either. I mean people go
Speaker 1: out to these festivals or I mean, you know, coach,
Speaker 1: I think still next to people in on top of
Speaker 1: each other. It's not like they get six feet of space,
Speaker 1: not even like you get wonder full of space like
Speaker 1: they on top of each other these concerts, in these venues.
Speaker 1: So I really don't see the difference to it. I
Speaker 1: didn't think we're in a mask with such a big deal.
Speaker 1: I believe what scientists are saying. If there's anything that
Speaker 1: could offer me any extra protection, you know, I'll do it.
Speaker 1: But one mom said that her unvaccinated babies were on
Speaker 1: that flight when the pilot announced mask could come off,
Speaker 1: and she said, I'm with my two not yet eligible
Speaker 1: for vax kids, and the pilot just announced that the
Speaker 1: mask mandate has just this minute ended. People clapped and
Speaker 1: took off their mask. Here we are, having boarded a
Speaker 1: plane with our kids. Very upset Delta that this was
Speaker 1: announced the midflight. It's the midflight change. That's so upsetting.
Speaker 1: We don't now have an opportunity to look at the
Speaker 1: TSA change and make a travel choice that fits with
Speaker 1: our famili's vaccination status and the risk comfort level we're
Speaker 1: in the air. Would you just keep your kids mask on? No?
Speaker 1: They well they're not vaccinated though, so I guess that
Speaker 1: still keep that Still keep the kids mask on. And
Speaker 1: then she also has an eight month old, so I
Speaker 1: don't think you have to have a mask on an
Speaker 1: eight month old. Yeah, you can't put an eight month old.
Speaker 1: Then they also say the risk They also say the
Speaker 1: risk of an eight month old catching it is very
Speaker 1: very low. So what are we what are we talking
Speaker 1: about it like it needs this stuff that they've been
Speaker 1: telling us that I'm of them getting extremely sick from
Speaker 1: it and dying. Yeah, regardless, your child to get COVID,
Speaker 1: but it's one of those things. Is what could you
Speaker 1: possibly do at this point? I mean, yeah, at least
Speaker 1: maybe she wouldn't have taken her unvaccinated kids on that flight.
Speaker 1: And by the way, what varying of COVID are we
Speaker 1: talking about now? Because the way they talk about the
Speaker 1: people are calling this variant and COVID that I don't
Speaker 1: give an F variant because it's so weak. I mean,
Speaker 1: we've been seeing people still getting it though, and you
Speaker 1: know that. I think I understand her point where midflight,
Speaker 1: I made this decision thinking people would be wearing masks.
Speaker 1: My two children are not vaccinated, one of them isn't
Speaker 1: eight month old. We could have at least landed so
Speaker 1: that way, because people do make decisions that's best for
Speaker 1: their family based on what it is. Now, I understand
Speaker 1: what people are going to complain regardless. Yeah, you just
Speaker 1: don't know how it affects you. Look at like my
Speaker 1: parents at COVID last week. They didn't even know and
Speaker 1: they went right through their body, no problems. And then
Speaker 1: you look at somebody like kay Slay who died. So
Speaker 1: I mean, you just don't know how COVID affects your body, right,
Speaker 1: and you want to make a decision that's best based
Speaker 1: on what the rules are. Imagine mid flight they change
Speaker 1: the rules and you're like, damn, it's just so strange
Speaker 1: right now, because literally, let's be for real, this country
Speaker 1: is acting like COVID never existed, Like the mass mandates
Speaker 1: are gone, restaurants are open, you don't have to show
Speaker 1: anywhere exactly. It's just like people are congregating. You're at concert,
Speaker 1: you're at comedy shows, you're every you wearing. Now, it's like,
Speaker 1: what are we supposed to do at this point? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I just think I agree with her. I
Speaker 1: just did a book sign of the the last night. It
Speaker 1: was about one hundred and fifty people. Aside. Yo, the
Speaker 1: world is open, at least America's open. I don't know
Speaker 1: what to tell you. All right, Well, that is your
Speaker 1: friend page News. I mean, I guess it's what's best
Speaker 1: for you, you know what I mean. But it's best
Speaker 1: for your family. Because I'm gonna wear my mask when
Speaker 1: I'm on planes. That's just my personal choice. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: make sure my kids wear it. That's my personal choice.
Speaker 1: Is their parents, right? What you could do? What you want? Right?
Speaker 1: All right? Get it off your chests. Eight hundred five
Speaker 1: eight five one o five one. If you need to vent,
Speaker 1: hit us up right now again eight hundred five eight
Speaker 1: five one on five one, and don't forget. Next hour,
Speaker 1: my wife will be joining us. We're gonna be talking
Speaker 1: about real life, real love. Oh man, I can't wait
Speaker 1: for you guys to read the book. She's very curious
Speaker 1: about our romance. First of all, everybody knows how much
Speaker 1: you flirt with me. Bro, you flirt with me, that
Speaker 1: is a lie. You can keep telling yourself that a
Speaker 1: lie you want, but you are the flirt in this room.
Speaker 1: I'll be minded my business. That I act like a
Speaker 1: married man, that's okay. You act like a married man
Speaker 1: with secrets. It's not true. You act like a married
Speaker 1: man on the B Team movie, a Tyler Perry b
Speaker 1: TE movie. I get this, get it off your well,
Speaker 1: you gonna blow it. See you even know you even
Speaker 1: know you watching watching the bad movie. See it's the
Speaker 1: breakfast Club, goodbody, the breakfast Club. It is your time
Speaker 1: to get it off your chests, whether you're man or blast.
Speaker 1: So you better have the same any we want to
Speaker 1: hear from you on the breakfast Club. Hello this yo,
Speaker 1: and be with up this? Chris Green, Chris Green, what
Speaker 1: up getting off your chests? Ao, Charlot Man? What's up? Man?
Speaker 1: You out here taking out quotes? Man? That black man,
Speaker 1: don't chee. I've been looking for you for a minute.
Speaker 1: You're peace king. That's not your quote. Yeah, nah man,
Speaker 1: yesterday is man. It's been a minute. Man, it's not
Speaker 1: your quote. Nobody. Nobody was talking about it until until
Speaker 1: I have put it up there, and then I had
Speaker 1: quarter clup. It was you and Angy I was talking.
Speaker 1: She was like, Oh, what's black men no Cheat? And
Speaker 1: then you're gonna go like like trying to keep a secret. Bro.
Speaker 1: No first person to ever say black men no cheat
Speaker 1: was my man, Carl olds Miller at a stand up show.
Speaker 1: That's right, and then you and then and then you
Speaker 1: and and um, then you and Little Do Vote and
Speaker 1: then maskus you made a song. I made a whole
Speaker 1: song about it and everything we show did. Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: It's good. Days are good. I just wanted to get up,
Speaker 1: get that off my chest with it my birthday anyway,
Speaker 1: so happy born day. Can't good looking at holding that
Speaker 1: for a long time. Hello, who's this? Yes? I'm tired
Speaker 1: of people asking me if I'm needing to call that black?
Speaker 1: If you didn't call that black? No, I'm related to me. No,
Speaker 1: it look like the same last name, oh Grimly or black? No?
Speaker 1: I his real name? Man Kodak's last name is black Man. No,
Speaker 1: he's real last name. Okay, what do you want us
Speaker 1: to know? Why are you giving us this information? This morning?
Speaker 1: Because I'm trying to people asking me, okay, okay, back,
Speaker 1: have a blessed day, ma'am. All right, six o'clock in
Speaker 1: the morning. That's what some people's my mind. Okay, I've
Speaker 1: been bothering. Huh hello, who's this? Good morning? What's up? Man?
Speaker 1: If Stevie Stevens committed for Delaware? Uh, not too much, man.
Speaker 1: How y'all doing? Blessed black and how favored brother? Right though?
Speaker 1: Right though? Every congrats on the book to man, Thank
Speaker 1: you brother, appreciate it. Yeah, I'm glad. We want to
Speaker 1: get on discount. Okay, I ain't mat at you. Hey,
Speaker 1: that gotta start. They gotta stopt aby bully y'all too.
Speaker 1: What happened now? Were he not there? He still do
Speaker 1: the MVY mix When you're not there, y'all? Do ask you?
Speaker 1: I mean they do, um, they don't get there when
Speaker 1: you're not there. We're not there, y'all get this. Let's
Speaker 1: still do admit? Yeah, every hold time from one of mine,
Speaker 1: not head on when they're not here. I'm always here. Now.
Speaker 1: You've been missing days too, when you left earlier yesterday
Speaker 1: and yesterday I left early, but I came to work
Speaker 1: and he likes getting too don't let him bully, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I don't got me, I don't
Speaker 1: DJ so I can't now let you do it, ye mix, yeah,
Speaker 1: bring it back. Let every bully, y'all. You're listening for
Speaker 1: a long time. Remember, you don't know if your chest
Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If
Speaker 1: you need to hit this up now was the Breakfast Club?
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. I'm telling, I'm telling, what's
Speaker 1: you doing? Hol of yo? If this is your time
Speaker 1: to get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed.
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one on five one, we
Speaker 1: want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Hey? This is Alanna? Hey, Alanna, get it
Speaker 1: off your chest? Good morning, Good morning, Kings and queens.
Speaker 1: I just want to get off my chest this morning.
Speaker 1: First of all, I say, good morning, cal are y'all,
Speaker 1: Good morning, by favorite. That's how we're doing. How are
Speaker 1: you talking about? That's what I'm talking about. I am
Speaker 1: the same way, Charlemaine. This morning ain't nothing special going on.
Speaker 1: It's just it's another day that I woke up and
Speaker 1: I'm so blessed and I share that with y'all, and
Speaker 1: I also wanted to say thank y'all so much. I
Speaker 1: know Charlomagne says twenty twenty two is the year for boundaries,
Speaker 1: but I also want to let y'all know that it's
Speaker 1: also for transparency, because you guys have been the most transparent,
Speaker 1: and whether it's Charlomagne's talk show, in these books, Angela's
Speaker 1: list service, because that get a little that they get
Speaker 1: real transparent. I just want to say I appreciate y'all.
Speaker 1: I appreciate the support that you are poor into each other.
Speaker 1: With any of your adventures that you guys have, you
Speaker 1: always support into each other. You always support each other,
Speaker 1: and I just want to encourage everybody when you million
Speaker 1: day to day civities, when you're going and trying to
Speaker 1: accomplish your goals, make sure you have people in your
Speaker 1: corner that are supporting you. And I just I think
Speaker 1: that's very very important. I wanted to leave y'all with that,
Speaker 1: tell y'all one more time, thank y'all for what y'all do.
Speaker 1: I appreciate y'all and I love y'all. That's all I
Speaker 1: need to get off. My money is great. I think
Speaker 1: a lot of times when when people do things and
Speaker 1: they know the quote unquote secret, so they don't let
Speaker 1: those things go. I think that's a problem. That's why
Speaker 1: I think it's always great when you know, he talks
Speaker 1: about how entrepreneurship, or me talking about real estate or
Speaker 1: my relationship, for Charlomagne talks about mental health because hopefully
Speaker 1: it can help somebody. There's somebody out there listening to
Speaker 1: that might need that. Y'all have no idea in d envy.
Speaker 1: I was supposed to be in DC last night. I
Speaker 1: unfortunately I had a family in Mercy. I'm currently on
Speaker 1: the road. Oh man, I lived in Maryland. I was
Speaker 1: supposed to be there, so I missed it, and I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry. But I just want to let you know
Speaker 1: everything y'all do. I'm ready to support. I'm ready to
Speaker 1: listen to all of y'all's ideas, all of y'all topics,
Speaker 1: all of y'all. Y'all never tear each other down. Y'all disagree,
Speaker 1: but you're doing in such a professional way that it
Speaker 1: allows people to grow in their own relationships because they
Speaker 1: know it's possible. And I really appreciate y'all for that.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll have a good one, and we appreciate you.
Speaker 1: And be careful. I know the roads are disgusting out there.
Speaker 1: Be safe. Hello, who's this fresh for Florida? What's up? Bro?
Speaker 1: Getting off your chest or to stay first of all
Speaker 1: resolations on your book man, Thank you, sir, appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Are you planning coming to any of these places of
Speaker 1: Florida because I would like to get a side copy
Speaker 1: of it. We're part of Florida, um like down South area, Orlando, Orlando, Jacksonville.
Speaker 1: Well we will, we will be in Jacksonville. I think
Speaker 1: we're doing um Houston's or the schedule. I know Miami's
Speaker 1: on the schedule, and I know Jacksonville is on the schedule,
Speaker 1: so we will be down there. You know what I
Speaker 1: about when I don't know, but you know following your Instagram.
Speaker 1: The hard part about it is a lot of Bonds
Speaker 1: and Nobles are not doing the installed book signings because
Speaker 1: of COVID, which is still crazy to me. Because the
Speaker 1: airports are taking master off, so I guess they're trying
Speaker 1: to be safe. So finding bookstores that are doing the insignings,
Speaker 1: it's difficult, but we're gonna make We're gonna make things happen.
Speaker 1: And one question, Yes, sir, I know you travel a lot.
Speaker 1: What's part of the Jamaica do you recommend Jamaica Queens
Speaker 1: of Jamaica? Shut up, man, you heard that man say
Speaker 1: you travel? Do you travel a lot? Mean I go.
Speaker 1: I usually go to Kingston. That's why the majority of
Speaker 1: my parties. My wife is from Kingston, her parents are
Speaker 1: from Kingston, so that's where we usually do the majority
Speaker 1: of the party. If you want to go to Jamaica Queens,
Speaker 1: you can go to mcdowas mcdows is a great MCGA
Speaker 1: doesn't a great eatery and Jamaica Queens. I'm talking about vacation,
Speaker 1: Oh vacation. Um no, I wouldn't go to Kingston for
Speaker 1: vacation because Montego Bay, Montego Bay, Kingston doesn't have a beach,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna go to Montego Bay. All right, good morning, alright,
Speaker 1: you too, black man, going get it off your chests.
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five A five one oh five one. If
Speaker 1: you need to vent, you can hit us up now.
Speaker 1: We got rumors on the way. Yes, and Kenjick Lamar
Speaker 1: has announced a new album, but give you the date.
Speaker 1: And what a little bit of details we have all right,
Speaker 1: we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody's dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast cloud for My book
Speaker 1: is out right now. It's not to me your book
Speaker 1: and your wife's book. You basted man. My wife's book
Speaker 1: is out right now. You can get it on an
Speaker 1: audible if you're out and about later on today. Pick
Speaker 1: it up from Barns and Nobles. You can order from
Speaker 1: Amazon wherever you get books. Pick it up, tell him
Speaker 1: the name full. I'm about too. Can I get to it? Please?
Speaker 1: Real life, Real love, Real life, Real love. Gear Casey's book,
Speaker 1: gear Casey and dj Envy's book about our relationships, everything
Speaker 1: about relationships, what held us together during this twenty seven
Speaker 1: years and what almost took us out? We talked about everything.
Speaker 1: Charlomagne is in there too as well. That almost took
Speaker 1: you all out? Yes see, just has to stop you.
Speaker 1: Your wife is gonna be here in thirty about twenty minutes,
Speaker 1: and I want to see if you keep that same
Speaker 1: energy my finger. Wow wow wow, Yeah, get it all
Speaker 1: out now, because you're gonna have none of that energy
Speaker 1: when Gears sitting in my wife, kin, you have none
Speaker 1: of that energy when Gear sitting in this room. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna threaten the kissue in front of her and see
Speaker 1: what you do. And see what you do then, my goodness,
Speaker 1: you go too far. Al Right, Let's get to the rooms.
Speaker 1: Let's talk Kendrick Lamar. This is the rumor report with
Speaker 1: Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. All right, So finally
Speaker 1: a new Kendrick Lamar album now. He announced yesterday that
Speaker 1: his new album, Mister Morale and the Big Steppers will
Speaker 1: be released on May thirteenth, and he also responded to
Speaker 1: a Twitter comment Kendrick Lamar is officially retired, and his response,
Speaker 1: he provided a link that led to a statement about
Speaker 1: his upcoming album. It read the following statement was released
Speaker 1: today by o'klama through his company pg LANG at eleven
Speaker 1: pm Pacific in Los Angeles, California. All factual information for
Speaker 1: this release will come direc rectly from this source. Only
Speaker 1: appreciate your patient bombs for Kendrick Lamar excited about this one.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you there's there's there's three artists
Speaker 1: albums that I'm really anticipating Kendrick Lamar Rhapsody and Killer Mike.
Speaker 1: Of course, you know Push Your Tea comes. He's coming
Speaker 1: out this Friday, and I've heard that. Yeah, but that
Speaker 1: Kendrick Man. How long has it been for Kendrick Five years?
Speaker 1: Six years? Yeah, I mean he's put out you know,
Speaker 1: singles and the Black Panther soundtrack and all of that,
Speaker 1: but for him to have an official album, you know,
Speaker 1: we've been waiting. His fourth studio album was back in
Speaker 1: twenty seventeen. Even rarely puts out singles. He put out
Speaker 1: those two records with Baby Kim was that last year?
Speaker 1: Then the Black Panther soundtrack was a few years ago.
Speaker 1: I am definitely looking forward to in new Kendrick Lamar,
Speaker 1: and the beauty of it is you don't know what
Speaker 1: it's gonna sound like. People that feeling like it's an
Speaker 1: alter ego that he has now, so yeah, what's the name? O? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can go to okadama dot com. You just don't
Speaker 1: know what the album's gonna sound like. You don't know
Speaker 1: if you're gonna get good Kid Mass City, if you
Speaker 1: don't get the Pin Butterfly, you don't know if you're
Speaker 1: gonna get Damn I can I assume we're not gonna
Speaker 1: get none of them? And that's all I'm excited, all
Speaker 1: right to hear it? All right? Well, Basketball Wives, the
Speaker 1: tenth season is officially coming back, so get ready for that.
Speaker 1: That's going to premiere May sixteenth at eight pm. Was
Speaker 1: it awf a couple of seasons. It's been a little
Speaker 1: while since really it's been on, and you know it's
Speaker 1: a pandemic. Are people are going to be filming? If
Speaker 1: you guys remember they cut the last season short? No,
Speaker 1: I don't remember. Yeah, so they had cut the last season? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so do that was what Evelyn where she was smacking
Speaker 1: herself was like. Was that that that season? I don't
Speaker 1: know if that was on the actual show or was it? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess it was. Yeah, And then there was a
Speaker 1: lot of issues about colorism. There were all kinds of
Speaker 1: things going on and ended up cutting it short. Well,
Speaker 1: season ten May sixteenth. Here is a trailer, so crazy,
Speaker 1: I'm back on Basketball Wives season ten. Basketball Wives is
Speaker 1: back and the MVBS are reunited. That change the game.
Speaker 1: I get a call from my lawyer. He says, you've
Speaker 1: been indicted, and you know it. I don't want to
Speaker 1: leave jack you gotta keep it un. Why are you
Speaker 1: having a conversation about my relationship in this Basketball Wives world?
Speaker 1: I don't want to be here, o it. Queen Baya
Speaker 1: goes right out for Winnen watch me up. So who's
Speaker 1: on the cast? All right, so get ready for a Jackie,
Speaker 1: Jennifer Malaysia, Brandy Duffy, Angel British and Brook Jennifer your
Speaker 1: friend Jennifer, she's back. Yeah, she was in the last
Speaker 1: season too. So Tammy's not there, Evelyn's not. Tammy's gone.
Speaker 1: Evelyn's gone. Is uh who's running this show? Who's who's
Speaker 1: producing it? Is it still show y? All right? Well
Speaker 1: that is your rumor reports? All right? Thank you? Miss
Speaker 1: ye never got front page news what we're talking about. Yes,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna be discussing and I know this is
Speaker 1: important because people are traveling and going places. But again,
Speaker 1: we'll give you some information about this mask mandate and
Speaker 1: what's going on. Do you have to wear masks anymore
Speaker 1: anywhere on the planes, on the trains? Well, give you
Speaker 1: that update, all right, we'll get into that next. It's
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, So breakfast Club, your morning's
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Speaker 1: strong day after day. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Ye,
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast clubs get the
Speaker 1: front page news. The NBA basketball of seventy six is
Speaker 1: beat the Raptors one twelve ninety seven. They lead the
Speaker 1: series two zero. The Mavericks beat the Jazz last night
Speaker 1: one ten, one on four. They tied a series one one.
Speaker 1: And the Warriors beat the Nuggets one twenty six, one
Speaker 1: oh six. Now that was my preseason picked the win
Speaker 1: the finals two Yes, Steps thirty four. Last night he
Speaker 1: came back. He was boss an ass last night. Paul
Speaker 1: had twenty nine and Lay had twenty one. And I'm
Speaker 1: sticking with my pig with Boyd. Them sons looked good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and don't sleep on the buckses. Warriors look good last
Speaker 1: night though, they I mean stepf came back Steff with
Speaker 1: Boston ass last day. What else you got easy, all right? Well,
Speaker 1: there was a deadly mass shooting inside of a packed party,
Speaker 1: and that was in Pittsburgh. Two boys were killed and
Speaker 1: eight were injured after gunfire rang out inside and outside
Speaker 1: a party at an Airbnb rental unit. They said hundreds
Speaker 1: of people were forced to scramble for safety and five
Speaker 1: were injured while fleeing. Families and friends are in mourning
Speaker 1: after the depths of Matthews, Steffie Ross, and Jayden Brown.
Speaker 1: Please say the two seventeen year old boys were shot
Speaker 1: and died at the hospital. Brown's mom said he was
Speaker 1: about to turn eighteen and graduate from Woodlin Hills High
Speaker 1: School next month. Police did respond to the scene of
Speaker 1: the shooting. It was after twelve thirty am on Sunday.
Speaker 1: They had received some alerts from more than ninety rounds fired.
Speaker 1: People are trying to still wrap their heads around what
Speaker 1: happened early Sunday morning, including the owner of the other
Speaker 1: unit inside the building where the shooting occurred. They said
Speaker 1: there were bullets that actually riddled both downstairs bedrooms in
Speaker 1: the unit below where the party was held. So Pittsburgh
Speaker 1: cops did respond to noise complains ninety minutes before that
Speaker 1: shooting happened, by the way, and our condolences go out
Speaker 1: to the families and Matthew, Steffie Ross and Jayden Brown.
Speaker 1: So sad definitely. Lord, all right, now, for everybody traveling,
Speaker 1: you no longer have to wear any masks every all
Speaker 1: on the flight. Yeah, I mean they just overturned the
Speaker 1: whole mandate. So right now on a flight on a
Speaker 1: Delta flight, the pilot actually announced midflight that people could
Speaker 1: take their masks off because of that court ruling that
Speaker 1: people no longer have to wear masks. So the Russell
Speaker 1: us today the judge, so through the airport, I don't
Speaker 1: have to come with a mask anymore if I don't
Speaker 1: want to. That's what you say old airports. But that's
Speaker 1: for now, right agencies are reviewing this decision and assessing
Speaker 1: potential steps. In the meantime, they're saying that the masking
Speaker 1: order is not in effect at this time, so they're
Speaker 1: not going to enforce that you have to wear a
Speaker 1: mask and indoor public transportation settings. I mean, it just
Speaker 1: makes logical sense, right because no place out seems to
Speaker 1: be under mask. Man, each folks is going to festivals
Speaker 1: with no masks, doing the comedy shows. Concerts, basketball games,
Speaker 1: folkses in restaurants with no mask on. So it doesn't
Speaker 1: really make sense to have a mask mandate on planes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand. One woman was upset because
Speaker 1: midflight she said, we're trapped in the sky with our
Speaker 1: eight month old unvaccinated baby because you can't mask a
Speaker 1: baby that young and there was no mask, and they said,
Speaker 1: we were under the supposition that any everyone who can
Speaker 1: be mass would be masks and the flight three and
Speaker 1: twenty five crew has taken our choices away from us,
Speaker 1: very very angry about this. That was fault. They did
Speaker 1: it in midflight. She didn't have a choice, she was
Speaker 1: stuck on that flanet. That was foul. I remember when
Speaker 1: the US Transportation Command said that planes have air ventilation
Speaker 1: and filtration systems and that they remove COVID particles like
Speaker 1: every six minutes, and they said the only way you
Speaker 1: could really catch COVID on a flight is if you're
Speaker 1: sitting right next to somebody who is sick. That's that's
Speaker 1: what they used to say, right, So they used to
Speaker 1: basically say planes would were safe. So if you're like
Speaker 1: they said, if you if you're sitting next to somebody
Speaker 1: who's sick. Yeah, but usually on a plane, you're sitting
Speaker 1: next to your family. Now, some people travel alone sitting
Speaker 1: next to that that family clearly wasn't. So you know,
Speaker 1: that family was. And sometimes it could be two people
Speaker 1: in the seat and then a third person on the
Speaker 1: end who you don't know indeed, but that family was.
Speaker 1: That family wasn't traveling without They were traveling with their family.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how many people she
Speaker 1: had with her, but she had her two kids, and
Speaker 1: the pilot announced that at that time, she probably had
Speaker 1: that eight month old in her lap. But she's still
Speaker 1: with her family, is what I But she still was
Speaker 1: upset because, yeah, she didn't have a choice. She got
Speaker 1: on that plane thinking everybody's gonna wear a mask and
Speaker 1: surprise yor not. So I mean, I get why she's upset.
Speaker 1: She said she might have made other travel plans, Yeah,
Speaker 1: arrangements because the baby can't be vaccinated. So if she
Speaker 1: would have known that would happen, maybe she would have
Speaker 1: went a different way. I get it. But I don't
Speaker 1: know where that plane was going. But was she's gonna
Speaker 1: drive the Cali if it was going to Cali? You know?
Speaker 1: I mean maybe not go yeah, but also it took
Speaker 1: a choice away. All right, well that is your front
Speaker 1: page news. All right, thank you, missy. Now when we
Speaker 1: come back, be on your best behavior. Charlemagne, why are
Speaker 1: you talking to me? You need to be talking to yourself.
Speaker 1: Your wife is coming in here, okay. The author of
Speaker 1: the new book, Real Life, Real Love, gear Casey is
Speaker 1: coming in here, okay, to talk about what's in that book.
Speaker 1: I know your butt cheeks tight right now. I can
Speaker 1: see your sweating. I see your bed dripping down your
Speaker 1: chin right now. Okay, that black that Beijing is starting
Speaker 1: to melt because you so damn nervous. You already put
Speaker 1: the book out there. You already got the audible version.
Speaker 1: You already feeled your guts. What am I nervous? Okay?
Speaker 1: He saw you on Shade Room last night talking about you.
Speaker 1: You let her do your prostate or something. You said.
Speaker 1: I didn't talk about nothing about no damn props they
Speaker 1: said happened. I know we talked about. She's saying that
Speaker 1: she had fake orgasms when we were when we were
Speaker 1: coming up. That's true, true, she would fake her orgast.
Speaker 1: We talked about here on the radio before that she
Speaker 1: would fake her orgasms. She hasn't had orgasm in ten years.
Speaker 1: That was before. That was before, sir, I didn't ask
Speaker 1: you that. What was the time framing that was before?
Speaker 1: You haven't had orgasm in ten I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: put her time with my time. I haven't had one
Speaker 1: in twelve from you, So what's the problem. We were seventeen,
Speaker 1: that was twenty seven. That were way older that so
Speaker 1: that was a long time ago. Oh, I thought she
Speaker 1: meant the past that It wasn't the past decade. This
Speaker 1: was when the first no, you ask things get miskim screwed. No, No,
Speaker 1: I thought Shade Room said the past that we've been
Speaker 1: together twenty seven years. This is when we were first
Speaker 1: together and we were talking about that makes sense. Y'all
Speaker 1: didn't know your bodies. You better this guy? Man, Yo,
Speaker 1: what's up with this guy? All right? When we come
Speaker 1: back my wife, you better keep that same energy when
Speaker 1: your wife coming in didn't be joining us. Man, it's
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Who bought it? The Breakfast Club? Morning?
Speaker 1: Everybody's team j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we
Speaker 1: are to Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in
Speaker 1: the building. Never matter before. She's an actress, she's an author,
Speaker 1: she's a mom. Ladies and gentlemen, he's your wife and
Speaker 1: my wife. Yes, hello, welcome? Yeah, what that's this one name?
Speaker 1: She's like Madonna Beyonce. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, how
Speaker 1: nervous are you, sir? Seriously? I know he's been at
Speaker 1: a real weird You guys have a book out, Real Life,
Speaker 1: Real Love Life, Lesson to Enjoy Pain and the Magic
Speaker 1: that holds us together. And I've been dying to ask
Speaker 1: you this question Gear in person? How do you feel
Speaker 1: about Charlomagne and be flirting with each other every day? Um?
Speaker 1: Kind of turns me on. I didn't expect that answer. Okay,
Speaker 1: explain no, I mean, I mean, I think it's a
Speaker 1: little strange, but I'm amused by it. Does anything go
Speaker 1: too far? Ever? Or no? It's all in good fun
Speaker 1: and enter all it is. I don't mind it. So
Speaker 1: you didn't mind that when he gave me the ass
Speaker 1: first of all, contact everybody watched the show every day?
Speaker 1: Context Please? Okay, what can you guys sound by that?
Speaker 1: When he gave me a mold of his ass and
Speaker 1: it wasn't my ass, it was a molde of a ass. Yes,
Speaker 1: I thought it was the mold of your actual No. No,
Speaker 1: And then what about when they touch each other and
Speaker 1: stuff that's never happened that we don't touch me? Don't
Speaker 1: you've never seen them that hasn't happened. No, you want
Speaker 1: to tell me something I need to know now, they
Speaker 1: like rub up brush against each other. If they're walking
Speaker 1: out the door, going to rub up against each other,
Speaker 1: we don't ever do it. They're going the revolving door together.
Speaker 1: That happened one time. Explain that now I need answer.
Speaker 1: It was stupid. I don't even know how that happen. Really,
Speaker 1: it was really stupid. It was that had to be
Speaker 1: very intentional. It wasn't. I don't even know how. And
Speaker 1: then makes his way was so stupid, and giggle all
Speaker 1: the way through it added insult you sitting there in
Speaker 1: the one slot giggling together. Oh man, anyway back to
Speaker 1: the matter at hand, real life, real love. What is
Speaker 1: that magic that holds y'all together? You think you know? Um,
Speaker 1: whenever I find that people come to our house or
Speaker 1: are around us, I think they're kind of surprised at
Speaker 1: how much fun we have together. I find him to
Speaker 1: be very charming and charismatic um and one of the
Speaker 1: things that I love most about him is his boyish nature.
Speaker 1: So we really have a lot of fun together and
Speaker 1: we always have since we first met. The first week
Speaker 1: we spent together, I thought to myself, Wow, he's a
Speaker 1: lot of fun. Like he's he's like a friend, you know,
Speaker 1: And that's part of the magic. You knew that this
Speaker 1: was the person you spend the rest of your life
Speaker 1: with after about two weeks of knowing him. Yes, before
Speaker 1: you even spent a day together. Explain before, before we
Speaker 1: even spent a day together that when I first when
Speaker 1: I first seen you, I mean I wrote in a
Speaker 1: book that I thought you were beautiful and amazing. In
Speaker 1: the first time I saw you were actually running track
Speaker 1: and for people I don't know, you know, tracks, plain
Speaker 1: track like that the Outfit and you know Gia had,
Speaker 1: you know, big double ds. And I would stop basically
Speaker 1: stalker outside and just watch a run track and watch
Speaker 1: a breast bottle like that. Word don't say stalk, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm stalking, Yeah, but that's actually what he
Speaker 1: was doing. It was actually stalking. And I would see him,
Speaker 1: I would see him sitting with his friends in this
Speaker 1: bright blue con Edison van because that's what his parents
Speaker 1: bought him to trans to transfer his DJ equipment from
Speaker 1: Sweet sixteen to Sweet sixteen back. And I would see
Speaker 1: it parked behind the fence. I'm thinking myself, like, Yo,
Speaker 1: why is this van there? Every day? Yeah? It was
Speaker 1: bright blue. He wasn't low, he was not low. And
Speaker 1: then one day he emerged. Actually, babe, do you remember
Speaker 1: one day like he emerged from the van and approached
Speaker 1: me and kicked it and I was like, oh, so
Speaker 1: you're that weird though both kids. Yeah, she was fifteen,
Speaker 1: I was sixteen. We went to the same high school.
Speaker 1: So so. And but you say that you knew that
Speaker 1: she was going to be your wife, like right away?
Speaker 1: You think it was before y'all even spoke, when he
Speaker 1: was just stalking her. We actually know when we actually spoke,
Speaker 1: and you know, I found out how you know, beautiful
Speaker 1: she was inside and outside, and how smart she was
Speaker 1: and caring and she was just that she was the one.
Speaker 1: She was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in
Speaker 1: my life and the most precious thing. So I was like,
Speaker 1: this is going to be my wife. I won't be
Speaker 1: to get the book, but I do want, you know,
Speaker 1: to explain how do you keep reinventing the relationship when
Speaker 1: you start that young? Now interviews fifty something, You know
Speaker 1: what I mean, you're much much younger, But how how
Speaker 1: do you keep how do you reinvent? How do you
Speaker 1: keep reinventing? And I think that that's part of the magic.
Speaker 1: We don't have to try. We don't intentionally. We do
Speaker 1: a lot of things intentionally and deliberately, but we don't
Speaker 1: intentionally reimagine the relationship and act on that. The only
Speaker 1: thing that I would say that where UM good about
Speaker 1: is keeping it sexy and making sure that that part
Speaker 1: of our relationship doesn't get too monotonous and doesn't get stale.
Speaker 1: So we have a lot of fun in that space. Um,
Speaker 1: but we don't have to think, like, God, how am
Speaker 1: I gonna stop being bored of you? Or how am
Speaker 1: I going to get to a point where you don't
Speaker 1: annoy me anymore? He legitimately does not annoy me. I
Speaker 1: look forward to his phone calls every day and we
Speaker 1: probably speak on the phone about maybe eight or nine
Speaker 1: ten times a day because he's away a lot, you know.
Speaker 1: So he called me on his way to the Brekfast club,
Speaker 1: he calls me, and his way home from the breakfast club,
Speaker 1: he calls me. If something happens, he calls me incessantly.
Speaker 1: It's and I'm never like, oh you again, I'm like
Speaker 1: him again. You know. It's just that feeling that I've
Speaker 1: always had, that no matter what ups or downs we
Speaker 1: were going through, that never left me. Now he told
Speaker 1: this a story about the cowboy outfit. He told you
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, wait, wait, wait the cowboy outfit in college?
Speaker 1: The asses chats that no ass chat they were, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you tell this about Wait did you actually tell me,
Speaker 1: like on error in private? He did, because if it
Speaker 1: was in private, this is a whole double cross, right.
Speaker 1: He dressed as a cowboy and his head me okay,
Speaker 1: and I remember that, Digga. After he told his story,
Speaker 1: he goes, not like what he did when we were
Speaker 1: in college. Yeah, we went through a stage where we
Speaker 1: were doing like a lot of role play, and one
Speaker 1: night I dared him to be a cowboy. So we
Speaker 1: went and got to cow half. It had like the
Speaker 1: big brown hat and then he had like the little
Speaker 1: holsters and everything, and babe, do you remember I took pictures?
Speaker 1: Where are those? Are they? In the book? He about maybe, um,
Speaker 1: three years after he made me physically burn them on
Speaker 1: the grill. Wow, he put them on the grill and
Speaker 1: told me I had to light it. Yeah, they don't exist.
Speaker 1: Don't you wish you still had that? No, but y'all
Speaker 1: talk about role play in the book. You said he
Speaker 1: likes to put on the rock Nation paper plane hat
Speaker 1: and he goes, what's my name? And he wants you
Speaker 1: to say jiggle. I didn't contribute to that chapter. Okay,
Speaker 1: that wasn't my work. No, I didn't do it. Okay,
Speaker 1: So wait they really so he wasn't lying they were
Speaker 1: asseless chaps? Yeah, yeah, he had a whole. It was
Speaker 1: a whole thing. I just pulled the Uayugia. He did
Speaker 1: not tell us that. Damn it. To get my book
Speaker 1: and you will learn a slew of tactics what you
Speaker 1: want out of life? Okay, it was a holster by
Speaker 1: the way, they were holsters. Yeah it was. It was
Speaker 1: a whole, but it was some other dress up things,
Speaker 1: you go, right, Um, it was more so me okay,
Speaker 1: sing up and he was just like the recipient of
Speaker 1: that that that was a one little and that's why
Speaker 1: it was a dare because it was kind of supposed
Speaker 1: to be a joke, but he never really dressed up.
Speaker 1: One time he was a doctor. That was one. Did
Speaker 1: you really burn the pictures? I really did, really in
Speaker 1: front of him. Wow, you didn't have negatives to share
Speaker 1: that ever goes left in our relationship. I had that
Speaker 1: I will ruin his entire reputation, I will never be
Speaker 1: able to work again. And I question over to a
Speaker 1: new audience. We got more with my wife's Guia Casey.
Speaker 1: When we come back, we're talking out new book that's
Speaker 1: out right now, Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere.
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club, the More Morning. Everybody is DJ
Speaker 1: Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: We got a special guest Steal in the building, my wife,
Speaker 1: Gia Casey. We're talking about our new book, Real Life,
Speaker 1: Real Love, Life Lessons on Joy, Pain and the Magic
Speaker 1: that holds Us Together. You could pick it up today
Speaker 1: or you can get it on an audible and kin
Speaker 1: do wherever you get your books. Ye, how is if
Speaker 1: at both of you writing his book together. Some of
Speaker 1: it was fun. It was nice to be creative and
Speaker 1: get your thoughts down on paper. It was work, but
Speaker 1: a lot of it was difficult. I'm a very open person.
Speaker 1: Rashawn I think had a difficult time because he had
Speaker 1: to relive a lot of the negative things that transpired
Speaker 1: in our relationship. And he can tend to be surface
Speaker 1: in some respects where you ask him a question, he
Speaker 1: gives you an answer. I'm a lot more of an
Speaker 1: in depth person, you know. I think critically about things.
Speaker 1: And when we would go over these chapters that he's
Speaker 1: assigned to write, I would ask him questions like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you can't just answer it with a yes or a
Speaker 1: no or a simple blanket like one question would mean
Speaker 1: ten more questions to really get to the meet. And
Speaker 1: you know, I had to keep reiterating, we're writing this
Speaker 1: book so that people have something tangible, a reference point
Speaker 1: for them to make changes in their lives if necessary,
Speaker 1: or to record nice that the person that you're with
Speaker 1: needs to make changes in their lives. And it was
Speaker 1: a journey. It was a journey, but I think it
Speaker 1: was difficult. It was difficult. I had to relive a
Speaker 1: lot of the f boy ish I put you through.
Speaker 1: And you don't you forget about a lot of it
Speaker 1: because you don't have to relive it. But then when
Speaker 1: you start, no, you forget about I forget nothing at
Speaker 1: the point though, right, because it's like we don't realize
Speaker 1: how much we do hurt are women when we do? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think so. I don't think we realize how deep that.
Speaker 1: That sounds like an oaky doke to me. No, I
Speaker 1: don't think we until you actually sit down and have
Speaker 1: those you know, uncomfortable conversations. You don't realize how much
Speaker 1: you your wife cheated on you and told you that
Speaker 1: she would have no idea how much that it stood
Speaker 1: to hurt you. Would that make sense to you? Probably not?
Speaker 1: But I mean men don't make sense. You believe that
Speaker 1: you believe that you're born inherently with like a deficit,
Speaker 1: not a deficit. But I just don't think. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think we're thinking about it, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like we like that's the sad part. It's
Speaker 1: selfish and that's what keeps that's what keeps you from
Speaker 1: doing it in the future, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because you do not want to hurt the woman that
Speaker 1: you love. And it's so crazy because I saw that
Speaker 1: with my pops, Like I saw the pain that that
Speaker 1: caused my mom with his infidelities. One in my mind,
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I'm about to do make the
Speaker 1: same mistake. So I think it is difficult when you
Speaker 1: got to relive it because you don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about it, because you don't want to trigger you. You
Speaker 1: know some people I don't get triggered though. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: that scared me. Sity. No. Once I got to a point,
Speaker 1: and it was a process. Once I got to a
Speaker 1: point where, um, I accepted that it was my job
Speaker 1: to move on because I decided to forgive him, and
Speaker 1: because because he had done all of the work and
Speaker 1: then some to regain my trust to earn grace from me. Um,
Speaker 1: I got to a point where I no longer wanted
Speaker 1: to punish and I didn't have that inherent need to
Speaker 1: see him suffer. Because when you hurt, and you say
Speaker 1: it all the time, hurt people, hurt people. When you're hurt,
Speaker 1: you want not just people, you want the person that
Speaker 1: hurt you to hurt. And any time that I felt
Speaker 1: any type of way, I made sure that he felt
Speaker 1: some type of way. So once I learned how to forgive,
Speaker 1: and that was a process because I wasn't necessarily a
Speaker 1: forgiving person. Before everything was very black and white to me,
Speaker 1: not very much gray. But once I learned and I
Speaker 1: understood that that's what was expected from me of God,
Speaker 1: I had to commit to that and do my best
Speaker 1: to live up to what forgiveness meant. And that's what
Speaker 1: set me free. Because when you forgive, you don't forgive
Speaker 1: to ease the burden from the other person. You forgive
Speaker 1: to ease the burden from you. The work you guys
Speaker 1: did together, like you had to work on forgiveness and
Speaker 1: when you said, Okay, I'm gonna, you know, have to
Speaker 1: move on from is. But what was the work that
Speaker 1: he did that let you know, Okay, he's serious, and
Speaker 1: you know I can finally just say I'm not getting
Speaker 1: triggered anymore. I'm going to let this go. One of
Speaker 1: the first things was I realized that he understood the
Speaker 1: impact of what had happened. What he did, He understood it.
Speaker 1: He didn't just accept it and was accountable for it,
Speaker 1: but he actually understood. He would do things that a
Speaker 1: lot of men wouldn't do. He would sit there through
Speaker 1: those eight hour conversations locked in a room. He answered
Speaker 1: every question that I had, and I had a lot
Speaker 1: of questions and he answered them all truthfully. And you
Speaker 1: know when you asked somebody a question and you can
Speaker 1: tell by their answer, because I mean, the answers weren't pretty.
Speaker 1: There weren't things that I would have wanted to hear.
Speaker 1: He went through all of the sufferation, as I call it,
Speaker 1: and he did it until because a lot of guys
Speaker 1: when they mess up, and I mean a lot of
Speaker 1: them have told me. I have friends and that have
Speaker 1: gone through it. It's like, listen, I did it. I apologize.
Speaker 1: I said I was never going to do it again.
Speaker 1: I mean that ish right, But it's like every day
Speaker 1: I'm being punished, I'm being punished, I'm being reminded. It's like,
Speaker 1: let it go, I apologize, Like what more do you
Speaker 1: want from me? Blood? He never took that approach with me.
Speaker 1: It was the until until you are good, until you
Speaker 1: are healed. If I have to be a punching bag,
Speaker 1: I will be that. If I have to be a doormat,
Speaker 1: I will be that. I will do anything that it
Speaker 1: makes to survive this because I cannot be without you.
Speaker 1: And he proved it every single day. It was as
Speaker 1: though and he was like this before, but it was
Speaker 1: even more so during this time. It was as though
Speaker 1: he communicated to me that the only thing that he
Speaker 1: wanted was to make me happy. And that's pretty much
Speaker 1: how he lives his life. He lives his life every
Speaker 1: day waking up thinking like, damn, how can I make
Speaker 1: ge his life easier today? How can I make Ge
Speaker 1: a happier today? But to answer your question, it was
Speaker 1: the till. It was the indefinite, and it was the
Speaker 1: willingness to do any and everything to earn what he
Speaker 1: lost back. And was there ever a question in your mind?
Speaker 1: I know there was a point when you thought, no
Speaker 1: matter what I do, she's never gonna take me back
Speaker 1: forever a time when you were like, I'm gonna come
Speaker 1: over and Hlue. Let you know, you better him from
Speaker 1: the back, if you cried in front of your wife,
Speaker 1: catch that little field. At that point, I just, you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what was going to happen, but I
Speaker 1: was like, I have to be honest or at least
Speaker 1: get my friend back, you know. Um. And at that point, I,
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't know what Gear was gonna do.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a rap, but I was like
Speaker 1: I still wanted my friend. I still wanted somebody I
Speaker 1: can talk to. You know, I still wanted in a relationship,
Speaker 1: whether that we can bounce me like that. She's all
Speaker 1: I knew since I was sixteen, So I still wanted
Speaker 1: my friend back, and that could have been forever beef forever.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's interesting that you didn't kick him
Speaker 1: out of the house. You were still polite to him,
Speaker 1: you still wanted to maintain a co parenting friendship. I
Speaker 1: feel like that hurts more when you're like, we're not
Speaker 1: having sex and I might end up with somebody else
Speaker 1: one day, but you know we're cool. That hurts more
Speaker 1: that I think sometimes in Jess completely like being nasty
Speaker 1: to somebody and cutting them off. Yes, Well, when I
Speaker 1: found out divorce was imminent, it was never a question.
Speaker 1: I was raised by a very strong mother who taught
Speaker 1: me that if a man ever disrespects you to that degree,
Speaker 1: then you walk. So it didn't matter how much I
Speaker 1: loved with Sean and how much I would have missed him,
Speaker 1: and it didn't matter if I cried every night. It
Speaker 1: did not matter one iota how I felt. The Only
Speaker 1: thing that was important to me was that I operated
Speaker 1: with my head and not my heart, and that I
Speaker 1: did what I always said that I was going to
Speaker 1: do so when I found out when it was confirmed
Speaker 1: for me, and you can read the book and see
Speaker 1: the entire get entire story. But when he confirmed it,
Speaker 1: we were in a parking lot, and when I drove
Speaker 1: away from that parking lot, it was a few days
Speaker 1: before Christmas, and his mother was at the house helping
Speaker 1: me decorate because we were hosting that year. But I
Speaker 1: walked into the house and I told her, I said,
Speaker 1: Christmas is canceled. And she said Christmas is canceled. And
Speaker 1: I said, well, I just found out that Rashawn cheated
Speaker 1: on me and we're getting a divorce. So there's not
Speaker 1: gonna be any Christmas this year, at least I'm not hosting.
Speaker 1: It's wild that people actually canceled Christmas. I thought that
Speaker 1: was just a figures speech. No, no, this happen. We
Speaker 1: canceling Christmas? Yea Christmas. Well, in the sense of us hosting.
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to cancel it for our children, but
Speaker 1: you know, we didn't have to decorate for thirty people
Speaker 1: to come over. And my lovely mother in law, hi, mama, um.
Speaker 1: She defended her beautiful son with everything that she could
Speaker 1: because pretty much um. And when she said something to
Speaker 1: that effect, I said, for the fact that he just
Speaker 1: told me that it was true. And he came home
Speaker 1: maybe twenty or thirty minutes later, and it was a
Speaker 1: whole thing. Right, But I was adamant that we were
Speaker 1: getting a divorce. That contacted an attorney, paid an attorney.
Speaker 1: It was decided. But thankfully there were a whole host
Speaker 1: of things that happened that that convinced me that God
Speaker 1: had other plans. All right, Well, Lottle movie got more
Speaker 1: with Gee and Casey. We're talking out a new book,
Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love. Let's get into Mary J. Blige joint.
Speaker 1: He's Real Love. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. It
Speaker 1: was Mary J. Blige with Real Love Morning. Everybody is
Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are to
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Were still kicking in with Gee and Casey.
Speaker 1: We're here talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love. Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: what did God say to you? You know, I wasn't
Speaker 1: raised with this um deeply instilled faith where I felt
Speaker 1: as though I knew God and I lived differently because
Speaker 1: I didn't know God in that way. So when God
Speaker 1: revealed himself to me. And he may have tried for years,
Speaker 1: you see, but I wouldn't have I didn't speak his language.
Speaker 1: I would have never been able to interpret God trying
Speaker 1: to reach out to me. So I really believe that
Speaker 1: this happened so that me, particularly not even Rashawn, so
Speaker 1: that I could be humbled. When God spoke, he spoke
Speaker 1: through other people and when he found when I found
Speaker 1: out what happened. It's funny we were being approached for
Speaker 1: reality shows at the time, and when he took someone's
Speaker 1: terrible advice to apologize to me on the radio and
Speaker 1: make our personal woes private. Ya, our personal was Publicum.
Speaker 1: I didn't know though. I didn't know what he was
Speaker 1: going through. He just being in laying on the I
Speaker 1: didn't know what. Yeah, he'd be like out of it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, what the is your problem? I didn't
Speaker 1: know what it was. So as I'm priding him, like
Speaker 1: what the hell is going on? I didn't know that
Speaker 1: was coming. Oh okay, Yeah, I didn't know that I
Speaker 1: was the one he apologized. You didn't know what apologize.
Speaker 1: He would literally come in here and be like laid
Speaker 1: out on the floor in the fetal position the whole show, like,
Speaker 1: he would not be here with us, he wouldn't be present,
Speaker 1: and I just knew something was wrong. Apologize. I'm like,
Speaker 1: so no, I was like, when he gets on the air,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask him on the air because his problem,
Speaker 1: because I was tired of asking him behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: and so I asked him on the air. I didn't
Speaker 1: know that was coming though. Its terrible idea, but maybe
Speaker 1: it was the same dose of common sense that you
Speaker 1: guys are talking about. Men man think differently. Yes, But
Speaker 1: when it was made public, my one of my best friends,
Speaker 1: his name is Rashid, he's the husband of my other
Speaker 1: best friend, her name is Sasha. He called to see
Speaker 1: if what he had heard was true because he thought
Speaker 1: that maybe it was just something being drummed up because
Speaker 1: we're supposed to be on a reality show or something
Speaker 1: like that. And when he called, I said, no, everything
Speaker 1: that you heard is absolutely true. It's it's a terrible story. Um,
Speaker 1: as you said. You know, Rashaw was circling the drain
Speaker 1: at that time, and Rashi decided to come to New
Speaker 1: York from California because he lives in LA But we
Speaker 1: had a very a horrible event happened at our home
Speaker 1: and you can read about it in the BOVESI didn't
Speaker 1: like me, Rushi. You know, he always thought our relationship
Speaker 1: with toxic with you were too controlling. He thought I
Speaker 1: was too controlling, which I was atmes, but so he
Speaker 1: didn't like me. So the fact that he flew in
Speaker 1: to try to save this relationship meant a lot, because
Speaker 1: he already didn't like me. I thought, you said, tis sadationship. Well,
Speaker 1: well what happened was he flew in and I didn't
Speaker 1: want him there because our marriage was ending and I
Speaker 1: just wanted to be my fun, myself. But he insisted.
Speaker 1: He said, I'm pulling into I'm flying into New York
Speaker 1: Newark International Airport at such and such a time, coming
Speaker 1: at me. I went and I got him, and that
Speaker 1: was the start of the biggest change that we needed
Speaker 1: to go to go through. He came to our house
Speaker 1: and I said, why are you here? And he said,
Speaker 1: God sent me here. I said, of all people, you,
Speaker 1: you're the only person in our lives that didn't champion
Speaker 1: our marriage. You're the only one that ever told me
Speaker 1: that maybe he's not the right person for me. Why you,
Speaker 1: he said, I don't know. I've been praying since, like
Speaker 1: out a phoone with you. After that terrible thing happened,
Speaker 1: and I walked into my boss's office, told him I
Speaker 1: had to take a leave of absence, went home, packed
Speaker 1: a bag, and got on a plane and headed here.
Speaker 1: And it's only through the assignment of God. God spoke
Speaker 1: to me. I said, so, what does that mean, Like,
Speaker 1: are you hearing voices? Like, what do you mean God
Speaker 1: spoke to you? And he said to me, when God
Speaker 1: speaks to you, it's as though he puts an overwhelming
Speaker 1: feeling on your heart. And when he tells you to
Speaker 1: do something, you don't ask any questions. You just do it.
Speaker 1: That's it. Okay, Well, basically I'll have to wrap my
Speaker 1: mind around that because I didn't have the tools to
Speaker 1: really understand that. And he stayed with us for about
Speaker 1: maybe ten twelve days, and he taught us a lot
Speaker 1: about God and faith and spirituality and what his assignment was.
Speaker 1: And he brought in his past or. Her name was
Speaker 1: Sister Nancy. She had the same feedback from God when
Speaker 1: she prayed. And this was all new to me, and
Speaker 1: I was actually very angry because now I have people
Speaker 1: in my life that I respect and love that are
Speaker 1: telling me that I have to stay in a relationship
Speaker 1: that I'm adamant on getting out of. And it was very,
Speaker 1: very heavy. I can't describe to you how heavy it
Speaker 1: was and how insistent he was in his assurance of
Speaker 1: what God communicated to him in the fast var Tyrese
Speaker 1: same thing. I didn't know. You know, we knew Tyres
Speaker 1: for coming up they do an interview, but I didn't
Speaker 1: know Tyrese of his number. He didn't have a new song.
Speaker 1: But when he heard me on a radio that day,
Speaker 1: he called and wanted to speak to Gia. And you
Speaker 1: can read in the book because he got us together.
Speaker 1: But he said the exact same thing, like Tyres and
Speaker 1: Rashid was speaking to each other, and it was kind
Speaker 1: of like those two were the ones to really save
Speaker 1: my marriage and they didn't know it. To the Inkia,
Speaker 1: you had asked for a sign, Well, that was the thing,
Speaker 1: because I was so angered by what I was hearing, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I was a victim being cheated on, now being victimized
Speaker 1: again by God telling me that I have to stay
Speaker 1: in a relationship that I'm adamant about leaving. I don't
Speaker 1: understand this. And I was and I'm not a big crier.
Speaker 1: But one day I was taking a shower and I
Speaker 1: began to cry, and I began to pray in the
Speaker 1: way that I was learning how to pray, and I
Speaker 1: asked God for a sign that I can interpret for myself,
Speaker 1: so at least it would feel as though I was
Speaker 1: making my own decision, and a decision wasn't being made
Speaker 1: for me, so I I damn near begged for a sign.
Speaker 1: And then shortly after Tyres called Rashawn and asked for
Speaker 1: him to set something up, and we went to Philippe Chaw's.
Speaker 1: He came in with a backup singer and a guitarist.
Speaker 1: He performed Stay just for Rashwan and I. Then he
Speaker 1: sat down for about four hours and we had a
Speaker 1: conversation and he tried to explain to me how a
Speaker 1: man can love you and still cheat at the same time,
Speaker 1: because I didn't really understand that. But at the end
Speaker 1: of the conversation I asked him, I said, you know,
Speaker 1: why are you here? Didn't You don't even know if
Speaker 1: I'm a good person. You don't know if this relationship
Speaker 1: is even worth salvaging. Why would you do that? You
Speaker 1: didn't know Rashwan, you have no dog in this fight.
Speaker 1: You have nothing to gain or lose. You're supposed to
Speaker 1: be at a wedding somewhere else. You changed your flights
Speaker 1: to be here. Why? He said, God sent me here
Speaker 1: to do this. I said, what do you mean, God
Speaker 1: sent you here to do this? He said, God sent me.
Speaker 1: I said, are you hearing voices? He said no, and
Speaker 1: then he reiterated verbatim exactly what Rashi had said to
Speaker 1: me in my kitchen that day. And I had to
Speaker 1: ask Rushia m cirece. I said, is that like in
Speaker 1: the Bible? Is that what you just said? Is that
Speaker 1: like a thing that people know? And he said no,
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you how I feel. Like, what do
Speaker 1: you mean? At that moment, I just like threw my
Speaker 1: hands up and I said okay, And I looked at
Speaker 1: Rashawn and I said, I forgive you. I don't know
Speaker 1: what that means. I will work on this with you.
Speaker 1: I don't know how long that will take. I will
Speaker 1: do what I'm now believing is required of me. But
Speaker 1: we're going to be in for a ride because I'm
Speaker 1: not really there. But I can commit to you in
Speaker 1: this moment because there is not that much coincidence in
Speaker 1: the world for what just happened. Thank God. Yes, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to my wife too. I just feel like apologize.
Speaker 1: We got more with my wife, Gia Casey. When we
Speaker 1: come back. We're talking out new book that's out right now,
Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere. It's to
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
Speaker 1: a special guest still in the building, my wife, Gia Casey.
Speaker 1: We're talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love,
Speaker 1: Life Lessons on Joy, pain and the magic that holds
Speaker 1: us together. You could pick it up today, or you
Speaker 1: can get it on Audible and kin do it or
Speaker 1: wherever you get your books. Yee. And let me ask you,
Speaker 1: because you know, for women, we always are like and
Speaker 1: like you said, Tyrese was having a conversation how a
Speaker 1: man can't cheat on you but still love you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but why, like you know, that's something that for women
Speaker 1: we always want to know. And I'm sure you had
Speaker 1: so many conversations. I still don't like his answer. I
Speaker 1: don't necessarily agree with what Tyree said. I really feel
Speaker 1: that until you know the definition of what love really means.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times people just say I
Speaker 1: love you, and oh it's oh, I love you. But
Speaker 1: until you understand the definition of what love means, then
Speaker 1: you realize I don't If I love somebody like I say,
Speaker 1: you don't want to hurt them. You don't want to
Speaker 1: cheat on them, you don't want to disrespect them, you
Speaker 1: don't want to have them looking crazy because you love
Speaker 1: that person. And I don't think I knew the definition
Speaker 1: of love. But when I figured that definition out of
Speaker 1: what love is and what gear meant to me, you know,
Speaker 1: you realize I don't want to hurt her. I don't
Speaker 1: want to see her cry, I don't want to see
Speaker 1: her feel a way. I don't want to disrespect that.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be controlling. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be any of those things. And when you realize what
Speaker 1: that definition is, you your outlook of life changes. I
Speaker 1: agree with v and I'll add on because I've explored
Speaker 1: this in therapy to when you say you can cheatum
Speaker 1: and still love a person, you might, but you don't
Speaker 1: really love yourself. Yeah. I think a lot of times
Speaker 1: and not a lot of times all the time. Men
Speaker 1: cheat for ego. Oh, like that's it. It's wounded ego.
Speaker 1: It's something that we're lacking. It has nothing to do
Speaker 1: with all wives, nothing to do with our girlfriends. It's
Speaker 1: something that we feel like we're lacking for whatever reason,
Speaker 1: and that's what we go and do. It's literally just
Speaker 1: defeat our ego. Nothing cheat for the same reason as men,
Speaker 1: or you think it's different, like when women cheat, you
Speaker 1: think they cheat for different reasons. I think women also
Speaker 1: cheat for ego. Who doesn't like to have the attention
Speaker 1: of the opposite sex. You know, it's especially when you
Speaker 1: are at a deficit and you do have holes and
Speaker 1: you need those holes filled and most people have slight holes,
Speaker 1: you know, not that you're out there thirsty for the
Speaker 1: attention of the opposite sex, but even if it's of
Speaker 1: the same sex, when someone pays you a compliment, like
Speaker 1: it's nice to be wanted, is essentially what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So for women, yeah, I mean I think that if
Speaker 1: you're with someone and you cheat, I think a big
Speaker 1: part of it is ego. But then you know, you'll
Speaker 1: have people that say that they cheat because the person
Speaker 1: at home isn't doing what they're supposed to do, you know.
Speaker 1: And we have a son, Logan. He's eighteen, so he's
Speaker 1: starting to date seriously and whatnot now. And I had
Speaker 1: a conversation with him the other day and I said, listen,
Speaker 1: if you commit to a girl and you make her
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, one thing I do not want you to
Speaker 1: do is cheat. Do not come to me and tell
Speaker 1: me that you guys broke up because you cheated on her,
Speaker 1: because I've raised you better than that. If you decide
Speaker 1: that you want something else or she's not satisfying whatever needs,
Speaker 1: you break up with her and move on to the next.
Speaker 1: And if within a week you feel the same way
Speaker 1: about that girl, break up with her and move on
Speaker 1: to the next. Do not cheat because you're sacrificing your
Speaker 1: own integrity when you do that, and that's pretty much
Speaker 1: a sign of really not loving yourself. When you love yourself,
Speaker 1: you want to be self actualized. You want to be
Speaker 1: your best self, You want to reach your highest potential.
Speaker 1: You want to be a kind, a good person, and
Speaker 1: you owe that to yourself. You don't necessarily owe it
Speaker 1: to the other person. You owe it to yourself to
Speaker 1: do those things. And that's what I'm trying to instill
Speaker 1: in him as my oldest male child. You know, one
Speaker 1: of the biggest things I think that came out of
Speaker 1: this was all the work that he did do on himself.
Speaker 1: And he was suicidal at a point. That's that's what
Speaker 1: we know that right. Yes, I don't think that was
Speaker 1: all because of what we were going on with you.
Speaker 1: I think it was, like I said, it was other
Speaker 1: things that he was dealing with inside of him that
Speaker 1: probably got him to that point. Yes, we would have
Speaker 1: to ask him because we've never had a conversation of
Speaker 1: it being about anything besides them. I would say this.
Speaker 1: I would say, you know, I used to look at
Speaker 1: people who committed suicide as soft and sucker, like that's
Speaker 1: because that's what society made you think. Until I got
Speaker 1: into that predicament where I felt like my life, well
Speaker 1: everybody's life around me would be better if I wasn't here,
Speaker 1: and I couldn't shake it. And the majority of it
Speaker 1: was losing my wife, losing my family, losing the thing
Speaker 1: that I knew and that I loved, and I really
Speaker 1: feel like I didn't want to be there, and and
Speaker 1: I guess it was everything else that we said, like
Speaker 1: the insecurities that made me do it, the insecurities around me,
Speaker 1: and I just didn't know who I was as a person.
Speaker 1: Oh that's powerful. But I will say during all of
Speaker 1: that and all those conversations and all those late night
Speaker 1: talks and with praying, you feel like you realize who
Speaker 1: you are as a person. And once you figure that out,
Speaker 1: you figure out who you want to be, who you
Speaker 1: want to who you want to live like, and you
Speaker 1: don't care about anything else. You know, at one time
Speaker 1: I used to care what people thought. Now I don't care.
Speaker 1: As long as my wife and my family's happy. Everything
Speaker 1: else is just white noise behind it. Just think about
Speaker 1: how much younger you guys are as individuals, and your
Speaker 1: marriage is so much stronger after everything you've been through.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah. If he said something powerful
Speaker 1: to Because this business, this business will have you living
Speaker 1: a lie because we're characters, right, So we create these
Speaker 1: characters that kind of protect the Rashan and protect the
Speaker 1: Lenard and we're going we go home and we one way,
Speaker 1: but then we're out in the street being another way.
Speaker 1: But you can't do both. Eventually, that negative is gonna
Speaker 1: catch up. Yeah, So that's that's why I think he
Speaker 1: was going through like, not only just the thread of
Speaker 1: losing you, but just like, who am I? What's that
Speaker 1: hard for you? Having this dual personality? Almost absolutely, because
Speaker 1: I mean like, nothing's better now than to not care
Speaker 1: what people think. You know, I would have to freedom.
Speaker 1: If freedom, I would have to think about what I
Speaker 1: was saying in a radio and how it would affect me,
Speaker 1: how people would look at me. I would have to
Speaker 1: think about this or think about that instead of just
Speaker 1: being free and say, hey, it is what it is
Speaker 1: taking how you like it. If you like me, you
Speaker 1: like me. If you love me, you love me. If
Speaker 1: you hate me, you hate me. And once I got
Speaker 1: to that place, life became a whole lot better see
Speaker 1: a lot of gems in this buck, you, guys. I
Speaker 1: was thoroughly entertaining. Like I said, I look stressed. I
Speaker 1: think he even nervous all morning before you, guys, The
Speaker 1: book is out today. Go get it man. Make sure
Speaker 1: you pick it up. Real life, real love, Getting today
Speaker 1: life lessons on joy, pain and the magic that holds
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Speaker 1: and when you do read it, or you read it please.
Speaker 1: What we want you to do is we want you
Speaker 1: to tell us what you think about the book, whether
Speaker 1: it's a thirty second video taggy, and now we want
Speaker 1: to repost it, whether you love it, whether you hate it.
Speaker 1: We're gonna repost all of them because we love to
Speaker 1: get you guys's feedback. And I think that y'all gonna
Speaker 1: help a lot of couples. And it's clear that y'all
Speaker 1: too are meant to be with each other, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. One of my favorite chapters is called
Speaker 1: The New Deal, and it's pretty much about reparations that
Speaker 1: the offender has to make after offending their partner. And
Speaker 1: it's those things that will help to let to signal
Speaker 1: to your partner that you just may be worthy of
Speaker 1: forgiveness and being extended grace. So what are those revelations?
Speaker 1: The first thing people will say, Oh, that's why he
Speaker 1: does the Twelve Days of Christmas. You know that's right.
Speaker 1: A lot of people do say. But you know what's funny,
Speaker 1: and that's the funny thing. We've always done twelve Days
Speaker 1: of Christmas. We just never made it public. And it's
Speaker 1: not the type of thing that At first, I ever
Speaker 1: wanted to make public because it is grand, but I
Speaker 1: decided to start posting it because it's not about the
Speaker 1: material items that he gives me for Christmas. It's about
Speaker 1: the intention behind it. It's about the thought. You know,
Speaker 1: he starts shopping almost a year in advance for that,
Speaker 1: and every gift comes with something special, a little note,
Speaker 1: a little treasure hunt to find the gift, a prayer,
Speaker 1: a poem, something that is giving up his heart, not
Speaker 1: giving up his pocket. And that's why when you, you know,
Speaker 1: you read the book and you hear y'all talk, that's
Speaker 1: why you understand why he got too upset at these
Speaker 1: and Marrow correct, you know what I'm saying, because y'all
Speaker 1: relationship is so much deeper. Of course, you know, because
Speaker 1: with their comment, it almost to me suggests as though
Speaker 1: there's nothing else worthy about him that would signal me
Speaker 1: to stay aside from what he has to offer financially.
Speaker 1: And it's a joke, right, but we all know that
Speaker 1: all jokes are rooted in some truth, and that's what
Speaker 1: I think their truth was. Looking at it from an outsider,
Speaker 1: I wasn't some Jackie come lately and met somebody with
Speaker 1: money and was like, oh, come up, we ground it
Speaker 1: out from day one. I was always there and supporting
Speaker 1: him and loving him. And if he failed and wound
Speaker 1: up being a secretary or anything followed another path, I
Speaker 1: would still be there. Yeah, a proctologist, take it. It
Speaker 1: took a beat to get that. I just can't believe
Speaker 1: what are you talking. I'm just suggesting other career options
Speaker 1: that you're gonna. I can't believe it's with me what
Speaker 1: my wife had, Like, you're disrespectful real life. Really, thank
Speaker 1: you for having me, guys, that's right. Pick it up
Speaker 1: today and it's the Breakfast Club Good morning. No, you
Speaker 1: gotta tell this guests, I love you before you sign off. Yes,
Speaker 1: dear Casey, thank you for joining us. I love you,
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you way more. To Charlotte,
Speaker 1: it's the Breakfast Club Good morning. But don't get you
Speaker 1: are you Donkey? Today does not discriminate. I might not
Speaker 1: have the song of today, but I got the donkey that.
Speaker 1: So if you ever feel I need to be a
Speaker 1: Donkey man with the Breakfast Club bitches, please don't keep
Speaker 1: today today. Wow, Donkey here Today for Tuesday, April nineteenth
Speaker 1: goes to the Pitchburg Mawlers of the USFL. I am
Speaker 1: sure many of you never even heard of the USFL,
Speaker 1: but that is the United States Football League. Eight teams,
Speaker 1: two divisions North and South. Each team will play a
Speaker 1: ten game schedule, and they had their first game last
Speaker 1: night between the Tampa Bay Bandits and Pitchburg Mawlers, and
Speaker 1: the Tampa Bay Bandits won. But that's not why we
Speaker 1: are here today. We are here because I need the
Speaker 1: USFL to know that you will never be the NFL.
Speaker 1: If y'all don't tough enough. I'm not talking about in
Speaker 1: terms of the play. I'm talking about the coaches, organizations,
Speaker 1: and leagues and league as a whole. Okay, seeing the NFL,
Speaker 1: we have seen the players do actual criminal things and
Speaker 1: keep their jobs. Okay, No need to go down the
Speaker 1: long list of things we've seen NFL players do and
Speaker 1: not get cut from teams. No need to go down
Speaker 1: the long list of things we have seen NFL players
Speaker 1: do and stay in the league. But it's some Haydou's defenses,
Speaker 1: to say the least. Well. The USFL has the documentary
Speaker 1: series chronicling the lead the lead up to the league turn.
Speaker 1: It's titled United by foot by football the season in
Speaker 1: the USFL, and there's a clip from the documentary that
Speaker 1: shows Davion Smith being cut from the Pitchburg Mallers. Okay,
Speaker 1: what you are about to hear is not a sketch
Speaker 1: from Key and Pill. This is not Chappelle's jar an
Speaker 1: episode of the Boondocks. These are actual events. Okay. Any
Speaker 1: similarities the persons living or dead are actual events. Is
Speaker 1: absolutely accurate. Okay, let's go to the USFL documentary to
Speaker 1: see why Davion Smith was cut from the Pitchburg Mallers.
Speaker 1: Any disrespect the football are members, staff, USFL, hotel, etc.
Speaker 1: Will not be tolerated. And it's been brought to my
Speaker 1: attention that has occurred with you, so unfortunately, unfortunately here
Speaker 1: unfortunately cost of doing business. I'm had to let you go.
Speaker 1: I can tell you what happened exactly. It's not important,
Speaker 1: it's already happened. I didn't say anything disrespectful. He said,
Speaker 1: is that gonna be a problem. I said yes, me
Speaker 1: saying yes, I don't eat chickens out. And I was like,
Speaker 1: you say, another option walked down with pizza and I
Speaker 1: was kind of slice a pitch. He said no. I
Speaker 1: was like he said, it's not gonna be a problem.
Speaker 1: I said, yes, it's all I said. I say cuss
Speaker 1: word nothing, It's all I said. I promise little discriable
Speaker 1: on my dad's life. I promise trying to say nothing disrestrictful.
Speaker 1: Because yes, and I appreciate you sharing that, but the
Speaker 1: matters it's done. Someone's feelings, hurt feelings or a distant
Speaker 1: second to the greater good of the team. And we've
Speaker 1: moved on to turn that page. And I'm happy we
Speaker 1: did it. David On Smith got cut because he wanted
Speaker 1: pizza over chicken salad. That is considered crossing the line
Speaker 1: in the USFL. That is considered disrespect to staff in
Speaker 1: the USFL, at least on the Pitchburgh Malers, y'all are
Speaker 1: never going to be the NFL at this rate. This
Speaker 1: makes me not even want to watch. Okay, you got
Speaker 1: this grown man explaining why he wanted pizza over chicken salad.
Speaker 1: Chicken salad is cool? Is it? I don't even know
Speaker 1: if it's cool, but I think majority of people would
Speaker 1: choose pizza over chicken salad. Now I know Maula's coach,
Speaker 1: Kirby Wilson, would they He fired Davion over the disrespect
Speaker 1: and not the food request, but what was disrespectful about
Speaker 1: what he said? They asked the man if he ate
Speaker 1: chicken salad, and he answered, like the most of us
Speaker 1: in this country would no, And he asked if there
Speaker 1: was something else he could eat. When a staff member
Speaker 1: came in with pizza, Davion claims he just asked if
Speaker 1: he could have a slice. That's said nothing more than
Speaker 1: nothing less. Where is the disrespect? I think it's more
Speaker 1: disrespectful that a staff member couldn't share slice of pizza
Speaker 1: with a player. Let me hear that little part against
Speaker 1: just so I know I'm not tripping. Let me hear it.
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything disrespectful. He said, is that gonna
Speaker 1: be a problem. I said yes, he's saying yes, I
Speaker 1: don't eat chicken salad. And I was like, you said.
Speaker 1: Another option walked down with pizza and I was like,
Speaker 1: can I get slice of pizza? He said no. I
Speaker 1: was like, he said, it's not gonna be a problem.
Speaker 1: I said, yess, that's all I said. I say cuss word, nothing,
Speaker 1: no disrespect to your chicken lovers. You're chicken salad lovers.
Speaker 1: But who he's chicken salad I afforded to years old.
Speaker 1: It cannot think of one time I have ever ordered
Speaker 1: a chicken salad anything. I'll put grilled chicken on top
Speaker 1: of my my salad. But chicken salad with the mayonnaise,
Speaker 1: hard boiled eggs, celery, onion, pepper, pickles, and a variety
Speaker 1: of mustards. That wasn't something that was happening in the
Speaker 1: slums I'm from. Y'all eat chicken salad. We actually have
Speaker 1: an amazing chicken salad toast that coffee uplifts people like
Speaker 1: a coffee shop. Yeah, you seem like the chicken salad tape.
Speaker 1: You eat chicken salad. When I heard chicken salad, I
Speaker 1: thought it was salad with grilled chicken on. It knows
Speaker 1: the chicken salad like you chicken salad red It sells
Speaker 1: very well. Whenever I see chicken salad, I think to myself,
Speaker 1: that's trans tuna okay, which I would never understand because
Speaker 1: chicken is chicken. Every meat wants to be like chicken.
Speaker 1: Whenever you're eating something that's not beef, turkey or goat,
Speaker 1: what do we say it tastes like chicken? Okay? Every
Speaker 1: meat wants to be like chicken, including tuna. What does
Speaker 1: tuna call itself the chicken of the sea? So why
Speaker 1: in the hell with chicken E would try to be like,
Speaker 1: look like tuna. That's exactly what chicken salad is trans tuna. Okay,
Speaker 1: Davion Smith is absolutely right in regardles. They're not eating
Speaker 1: chicken salad, and the Pittsburgh Maulers and coach Kirby Moore
Speaker 1: should be ashamed in themselves. Okay, highly embarrassed that they
Speaker 1: cut that man because he chose pizza and y'all chose
Speaker 1: violence in the form of feeding people chicken salad. Please
Speaker 1: give the Pittsburgh Maulers and coach Kirby more of the
Speaker 1: USFL the biggest he hall write salad. Can somebody put
Speaker 1: that poll up on breakfast club page. I don't know
Speaker 1: if chicken chickens all of the thing. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: maybe where are you from? I mean, I didn't grow
Speaker 1: up eating that, but people really enjoy it and like it.
Speaker 1: I order chicken salad from Chick fil A. No, you're
Speaker 1: talking No, you're talking about a grilled chicken salad and
Speaker 1: I ain't. I'm talking about people bees. No, I ain't
Speaker 1: talking about that kind of salad that comes with lettuce
Speaker 1: and chail and spinach. That pretty good. I'm talking about
Speaker 1: the lettuce. The chicken salad that looks like tuna. I
Speaker 1: don't need to see food, so like I eatna fish
Speaker 1: trans tuna. That's what chicken salad is. Next time you
Speaker 1: order a chicken. If you ever walk into a place
Speaker 1: in order that chicken salad, they can I have one
Speaker 1: order of trans tuna. Police, but you didn't know exactly
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Oh that looks discussing exactly all right, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Donkey to day. Now when we
Speaker 1: come back, let's talk orgasms. What happened? It's not Friday?
Speaker 1: What the hell you put a suit on? When the
Speaker 1: hell did you put a suit on? I just did
Speaker 1: you really? Goes from power? You just had on street
Speaker 1: with and then this, all of a sudden you had
Speaker 1: on a suit. I gotta do good. My tripping Nick
Speaker 1: did he just have on screet with? I did that?
Speaker 1: I gotta do good. Than in the York Let's morning,
Speaker 1: it's like clean up a little bit, Okay, get your shop,
Speaker 1: you show you bid in. So yesterday we did an
Speaker 1: interview with the Shade Room. In the Shade Room, of course,
Speaker 1: only posted a part of the interview, and this is
Speaker 1: the part in the shade Room. I'm sure so many
Speaker 1: women can relate, like, you want to reward that man
Speaker 1: for that work, and the only reward that you have
Speaker 1: to offer is an orgasm. But even if I didn't
Speaker 1: feel it, I would still be performative. I was faking it.
Speaker 1: You got into like an argument and then she was like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't mean having an orgasm. I'm triggering
Speaker 1: any time. And she was like yeah, And then that
Speaker 1: just crushed me because I was didn't work. Like I'm
Speaker 1: sitting there think I'm you know, big daddy long legg.
Speaker 1: I thought, even if you are big daddy long leg,
Speaker 1: that don't mean that you're doing it right. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: so let's let's let's open up the phone. You ain't
Speaker 1: working that middle just because you big daddy long leg.
Speaker 1: You got to know what you're doing down there. Five
Speaker 1: eight five, one oh five one. We're asking ladies, have
Speaker 1: you ever faked an orgasm? And if you did, why? Uh?
Speaker 1: You know, when me and my wife wrote this book,
Speaker 1: I found out years ago that she was faking orgasm.
Speaker 1: So pretty much our first ten years of our relationship.
Speaker 1: She absolutely goes into it in more depth on lift
Speaker 1: service while you were not in the room. I've heard
Speaker 1: this before, I even read it in the book. I
Speaker 1: don't know why. So funny right now. You gotta remember
Speaker 1: we were together since sixteen and fifteen, so at about
Speaker 1: seventeen when we started having sex, I didn't know what
Speaker 1: I was the one she was. I was. You said
Speaker 1: you was big Daddy long Lad. Was big Daddy long Lad,
Speaker 1: and I didn't know it. Didn it realized you had
Speaker 1: to be a man dingle. Okay, tan dingle? All right,
Speaker 1: Well I thought I was a tan dingo, right, we're
Speaker 1: talking about And for the first you know, years, a
Speaker 1: couple of years, I didn't know what I was doing,
Speaker 1: and we had I had to learn her body and
Speaker 1: learn what made her orgasm. So we're asking, ladies head,
Speaker 1: you have to faked an orgasm? If so, wire, let's
Speaker 1: talk about make that sounds so non lunk king. We're
Speaker 1: gonna stay on you for a while, right, and you
Speaker 1: ain't stayed on you a decade. Daddy long Lad took
Speaker 1: a long lag a decade. I'm good that we've been
Speaker 1: together twenty seven years. First nine ten was a little right.
Speaker 1: Are you sure you good? How do you know you're good?
Speaker 1: How you know the acting hasn't gotten better? M you
Speaker 1: want to try? I haven't the orgasm twelve years from okay,
Speaker 1: so I feel her? Page you look five five one,
Speaker 1: let's talk about I hate you? Was the Breakfast Club?
Speaker 1: Good Ward the Breakfast Club. It's topic time called eight
Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one oh five. Wanted to join
Speaker 1: it to the discussion with the breakfast Club, talk about
Speaker 1: it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining
Speaker 1: us with talking? Have you ever faked an orgasm? Now?
Speaker 1: This came from my new book, Real Life, Real Love
Speaker 1: that's out right now. The wife and I did an
Speaker 1: interview with Shade Room and they posted a clip of
Speaker 1: it and Gia talks about her faking an orgasm, and
Speaker 1: she faked it for a long time. And we had
Speaker 1: to learn each other's bodies. I mean we didn't know
Speaker 1: it when I met us. She was fifteen, I was sixteen,
Speaker 1: and we had to learn each other. You didn't have
Speaker 1: to fake it, right, No, I didn't have to fake Sorry,
Speaker 1: you had to go through that shut on a scale
Speaker 1: of one of your beard and hairline. How fake was
Speaker 1: her orgasm? Yee? Have you ever faked the orgast? No,
Speaker 1: not really, I've just lied about it, but I've never
Speaker 1: made like the noises and pretended it was happening. Goodness, greasious.
Speaker 1: But women don't have orgasms, well unless you're super fortunate.
Speaker 1: Every time, you know, um, I think that we should.
Speaker 1: This is you know, you know what joking the reality
Speaker 1: of the situation is the best thing that y'all did
Speaker 1: in that situation is talk about it correct, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Even though she did have to lie
Speaker 1: for ten years, you know what I mean, I think
Speaker 1: you should have You know, she should have told you
Speaker 1: the truth much much sooner. But you do have to
Speaker 1: have those conversations, you know what I mean, Like, you know,
Speaker 1: don't worry about hurting the man's ego. Like if that
Speaker 1: man isn't doing what he's supposed to be doing, you know,
Speaker 1: tell him so y'all can figure out how to do
Speaker 1: it properly so everybody can be satisfied. Yes, then after
Speaker 1: we had that conversation, everything was fun after that. But
Speaker 1: you know, like I said, we were learning each other.
Speaker 1: It sounds sad. It does sound sad. It sounds like
Speaker 1: chicken salad for smary. Shut up. Hello, Hello, Hey, what's
Speaker 1: your name? Hey Alicia? You have a faked an orgasm? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Out of thirteen years of being es sexually active, I
Speaker 1: maybe had three of them. And dudes be adamant. But
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, nah, you got wet. Nah, that don't
Speaker 1: mean I had an orgasm. I beat on you. Do
Speaker 1: you still enjoy sex even if you don't have an orgasm? Though?
Speaker 1: I mean no, Honestly, it's like I'm getting humped on
Speaker 1: letting that man sweat on you for no reason, for
Speaker 1: no reason. That's why you gotta have these conversations. You
Speaker 1: gotta tell the man what they're doing wrong. Man, But
Speaker 1: it's hard. They have those conversations when you're a teenager.
Speaker 1: A conversation and this man and had his egos, like
Speaker 1: what so we've been doing this this long? And you're
Speaker 1: telling me, Yeah, that's what I'm telling you. Nah, Nah,
Speaker 1: it's not that all right. I get what you're saying.
Speaker 1: Men do have fragile egos. Didn't want to hear this feeling,
Speaker 1: but in order to boost him, because you got to
Speaker 1: think about it all you're offering him his free lessons,
Speaker 1: so that means more sex until y'all get it right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I still hurts you. Hey, who's desire? Hey, come onrning desire?
Speaker 1: Have you faked all guys before? Yes? I have? How
Speaker 1: many times? And why it was? Like you my youth?
Speaker 1: Because I guess I older me, so I hears it
Speaker 1: was in my youth when I used to do a
Speaker 1: lot of faking because you know, I didn't really know
Speaker 1: what the real orgasm was until I got like, you know,
Speaker 1: up an age, So why you recognize it? Okay, this
Speaker 1: but it is okay, you need to know your body better.
Speaker 1: Why that old man didn't know what he was doing? Nah,
Speaker 1: they ain't know what they were So now hold on
Speaker 1: when you say old man, what do you mean old man?
Speaker 1: How old are you? Hey? That time my father was like,
Speaker 1: was like maybe about to push the borgan I was.
Speaker 1: She was twenty one and he was about maybe about
Speaker 1: to push forty Okay, okay, it was gonna be a
Speaker 1: different all right. Yeah, it's hard to tell people what
Speaker 1: the if you don't even know correct eight on drink
Speaker 1: five A five one on five one. We're asking have
Speaker 1: you ever faked the orgasm. Yesterday we did an interview
Speaker 1: with Shade Room and they posted a clip of it
Speaker 1: where Get was talking about how she faked the orgasm.
Speaker 1: It's in out of a new book, Real Life, Real Love,
Speaker 1: It and the reason that she did fake it, and
Speaker 1: how we got over that. We're very transparent to hopefully
Speaker 1: we can help you guys and start these conversations. So, man,
Speaker 1: there was a question I should have asked her. I
Speaker 1: just was thinking about it. Have you ever faked the orgasm?
Speaker 1: That's the question. N why it's the breakfast Club, Good
Speaker 1: morning and your opinions to the Breakfast Club one morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us, we're
Speaker 1: asking have you ever faked in orgasm? Now? This comes
Speaker 1: from my new book with my wife, Real Life, Real Love.
Speaker 1: We were talking with Shade Room yesterday and they played
Speaker 1: the clip one Shade Room and I've seen it had
Speaker 1: like over three million views. It was crazy. People were
Speaker 1: asking that people were joking like hot but it happens
Speaker 1: for me and my wife were together. Since I said,
Speaker 1: very well, those guys laughing done. Gotta lied to all
Speaker 1: you guys in there that were laughing and making jokes.
Speaker 1: You're just not honest with yourself. Now, Charloman hasn't happen
Speaker 1: to you, um, not that I know of. But I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, me and my wife have been together for
Speaker 1: twenty four years or it's not like, you know, either
Speaker 1: one of us came out the gate, you know, knowing
Speaker 1: exactly what we were doing. But you know, you you
Speaker 1: grow and you evolve, and the more you're with each other,
Speaker 1: the more you start to talk to each other about
Speaker 1: what it is that you like, what it is that
Speaker 1: you don't like, how you like it, you know, and
Speaker 1: and those are the conversations you should have when you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Like, I don't understand people that sit
Speaker 1: around and just have terrible sex for no damn reason.
Speaker 1: You're lucky you were her first. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like it makes no sense. It maybe orgasm
Speaker 1: now I'm stuck here, right, But also most people the
Speaker 1: truth to the matter is, most people's first orgasms come
Speaker 1: from themselves, you know what I'm saying, when they're playing
Speaker 1: around and experience experiment with masturbation. That's not how mine came.
Speaker 1: We don't want to know I feel like that stuff
Speaker 1: become a resource problem. Hello, who's this all right? This
Speaker 1: is Creed, Good Morning, Breakfast Club, Good morning. We're asking
Speaker 1: have you ever faked in orgasm? Of course, of course
Speaker 1: how many times? An I don't think there's anybody that don't. Right,
Speaker 1: what's the point women? I'm talking about women? Um, I
Speaker 1: think it's a I think it's along with age and experience.
Speaker 1: I was kind of a late bloomer when it came
Speaker 1: to sex. I didn't lose my virginia until eighteen, and then, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't really sure of how it had
Speaker 1: to go, how it was supposed to go. So, you know,
Speaker 1: being young, we're all learning, you know, we're all learning
Speaker 1: on what's supposed to happen, how it's supposed to feel.
Speaker 1: And it's a process. I don't think it's you know,
Speaker 1: anything that we don't know what else to do. If
Speaker 1: you've been in the process of huffing and puffing and
Speaker 1: sweating for you're like, okay, time to just stop. But
Speaker 1: that's what I understand. What's the point of faking the orgasm?
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't help either party, That doesn't. But I
Speaker 1: think you got to get to a point where you
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. So I was saying, it's a process of
Speaker 1: you know, I think of I haven't done it as
Speaker 1: a grown woman, but when I was younger, I did
Speaker 1: and I didn't know how to express myself and communicate
Speaker 1: and let them know, you know, this is what you
Speaker 1: have to do here. And I was still learning my
Speaker 1: own body, right, But you to type my forties and
Speaker 1: when I hit my prime, oh no, I won't take anything.
Speaker 1: So you to type to say out, you might get
Speaker 1: this right hard? You the type to say out even
Speaker 1: when the man pepe little. I don't know, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean when I was younger, like I said, I
Speaker 1: didn't know it was it was a learning experience. But
Speaker 1: you know, as you get older, women hit their parme
Speaker 1: in their forties. I don't know any woman in their
Speaker 1: forties who's still faking it, all right, I would hope,
Speaker 1: I would hope. Now you shouldn't be faking it, and
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be saying out wing the man people. Little.
Speaker 1: You're saying out wing the man people little? You're supergrim.
Speaker 1: What are you saying? You don't say nothing? Little? Hello?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This Lenn? Do you fake orgasms? Okay?
Speaker 1: I have fake orgasms in the past. And um, women
Speaker 1: do fake orgasms all the time, more than men might know. Um,
Speaker 1: and mostly it's because man die out here probably had
Speaker 1: a sex with themselves, like they'd be doing it for
Speaker 1: what makes them feel good. Then you forgetting to get
Speaker 1: the woman off. So then women have to lay there
Speaker 1: and you know I can't. And then we did it,
Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, you know you get good. Really
Speaker 1: you did it. I'm about to go get my toy
Speaker 1: and finish myself off. Wow, Like I'm gonna get it.
Speaker 1: It's just not from you. Wow, Okay, not from you,
Speaker 1: And it happens, and it's unfortunate. But when you want
Speaker 1: somebody like you know or you like really like when
Speaker 1: you care about, you're gonna tell them like, hey baby,
Speaker 1: that's not really wonderful me or this is what you
Speaker 1: have to do. Would you do that next to him
Speaker 1: if he didn't finish it? Like, if he didn't finish,
Speaker 1: would you grab your toy and lay next to him
Speaker 1: and finish? Yeah, Like I mean, if if it's somebody
Speaker 1: that you're comfortable way, you know, like sometimes even sometimes
Speaker 1: when you win your man for a long time, they're
Speaker 1: not gonna do it. Anytime, right, It doesn't always happen. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know. I think I think it's fair that women
Speaker 1: fake all gasms because men fake liking liking women in
Speaker 1: their poom poom all the time. And that's not a
Speaker 1: conversation a woman can handle. You can't tell a woman
Speaker 1: that her poom pooms trash. Y'all would have a fit.
Speaker 1: You need to have conversations. They need to ask, Hey,
Speaker 1: what do you like? Not enough people ask what do
Speaker 1: you like? That's an important question. Everybody does not like
Speaker 1: the same thing in that sogasm. Men fake like woman.
Speaker 1: It happens because then when a man tells a woman
Speaker 1: to her poom poom trash, what does she do? What
Speaker 1: can you do for that? As a woman? One man's
Speaker 1: chest is another man's treasure. Allegedly you talked about the
Speaker 1: same thing you said, what I want to do? Guys
Speaker 1: fake it that. I've heard guys say they faked it
Speaker 1: before too, really on lip service, they've talked about it. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's the moral of the story, guards. The moral of
Speaker 1: the story is, go buy Real Life, Real Love, the
Speaker 1: book by Gear Casey and DJ Envious out the day
Speaker 1: everywhere you buy books. Man, if you like laughing at
Speaker 1: DJ Envy like I do. This is the book for
Speaker 1: you and may it made me feel like I gotta
Speaker 1: be nice of the listening. The subtitle of this book
Speaker 1: could have been the roast of Rashawn Casey. All right, okay,
Speaker 1: it is the one woman rose from gear. Casey went
Speaker 1: through a lot, but I definitely wanted to give h
Speaker 1: after that. That's the evolution. When we start young, we
Speaker 1: don't really know. I was an f void coming up
Speaker 1: and I changed. Now I'm this nice person. Now you're
Speaker 1: a man. You're a king up with a fake beard.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. We got rumors all the way, you idiots. Yes,
Speaker 1: and the man who supplied drugs to mac Miller has
Speaker 1: been sentenced to nearly eleven years in prison, will tell
Speaker 1: you what he had to say, all right. And also tonight,
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Speaker 1: be talking to you guys, taking your questions virtually So
Speaker 1: if you have questions you read the book, you started
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Speaker 1: you're gonna sell more than Coilare. I mean, we have
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Speaker 1: suckers on the tripping blame a mother and mother muthers,
Speaker 1: you know, straight out an undercover love saucers round. I
Speaker 1: was rich with the buzzlers loving him prof the Trump
Speaker 1: and crap clus. When I do a show, promoters book
Speaker 1: another safe to say. I'm a hustling motherfuck first word
Speaker 1: from a blogger see this ship the Saint, don't bother me.
Speaker 1: I'm a begining from the bloody ban. Y'all told some
Speaker 1: of my feet because I'm rapped the three I'm put
Speaker 1: the cover. Don't judge of Chee to see me in
Speaker 1: person and hugger Chee. But the man was saying, yo
Speaker 1: off with me. I'm gonna need you to keep the
Speaker 1: same man the cheese and then you know he's been
Speaker 1: going back and forth with fifty regarding his relationship with
Speaker 1: Transaction Shan of Brooks. Here's what he said about fifty.
Speaker 1: He keep it on hunted. I helped you when they
Speaker 1: jumped you. I should have let him coach you, just
Speaker 1: like came in when they stumped you. My ex got me.
Speaker 1: You're arrested. Whin I win there, take my son up.
Speaker 1: But all that zeister ever did was trying to help
Speaker 1: her come up. All right, Well, hopefully the two of them.
Speaker 1: Actually no, I don't know if they'll ever resolve. Things
Speaker 1: in fifty will never stop. So there you have it,
Speaker 1: all right. Amber Rose has revealed that she needs help
Speaker 1: with the slut Walk this year in order for the
Speaker 1: event to continue. Here's what you had to say. Hey guys,
Speaker 1: we're on our way to Coachella and today we are
Speaker 1: wearing SlutWalk twenty twenty two because we haven't had a
Speaker 1: SlutWalk in three years. The first year I was pregnant
Speaker 1: and I was very sick, so I couldn't do it,
Speaker 1: and obviously the last two years because of Covie. But
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, guys, I personally cannot do
Speaker 1: SlutWalk by myself. Anymore. I just can't like, I need
Speaker 1: a lot of sponsors, I need a lot of money
Speaker 1: to put it on. I need Live Nation, AEG. I
Speaker 1: need somebody big to really come in and help me
Speaker 1: with this, because, you know, just by myself and me
Speaker 1: and my team, over twenty thousand people show up. She
Speaker 1: went ahead and tell people to please tag AEG and
Speaker 1: Live Nation to get this done. And she wants to
Speaker 1: have it in Miami this year so everybody can go crazy,
Speaker 1: all right, And the Kardashians have appeared in court yesterday
Speaker 1: for Jerry's selection in the family's case against Black China.
Speaker 1: Now they're saying that Kim Kardashian, Chloe Kardashian, Kylie, and
Speaker 1: Chris jan Are all appeared in court, but Rob Kardashian,
Speaker 1: whose Black China's X, was not there. They were there
Speaker 1: to present to witness their legal team, and China's own
Speaker 1: representatives were there to select the child's jury. All right.
Speaker 1: So Black China was also spotted making her way into
Speaker 1: the courthouse. Now, according to Associated Press, they're saying potential
Speaker 1: jurors actually had some issues with the Kardashians and aired
Speaker 1: their disdain to their faces. One person said anything that
Speaker 1: has to do with their names. It's just a big
Speaker 1: no for me. Another said, I sincerely hope none of
Speaker 1: these people get any wealthier because of this. One woman
Speaker 1: said her teenage door to charge to watch Keeping Up
Speaker 1: with the Kardashians when it first came on, but she
Speaker 1: put a stop to it. She said, I don't think
Speaker 1: they were the best role models. I wouldn't let her
Speaker 1: watch anything involving them. One person said, I just want
Speaker 1: to say I have a very negative perception of the parties,
Speaker 1: and I'm not sure I could be unbiased. So those
Speaker 1: were some people that they were looking at as far
Speaker 1: as China choose who is going to be part of
Speaker 1: that jury? And The man who supplied drugs to Macmiller
Speaker 1: has been sentenced to nearly eleven years in prison for
Speaker 1: his involvement in that accidental drug overdose. Ryan Michael Reeves,
Speaker 1: who's thirty nine years old, said he was the middleman
Speaker 1: with no knowledge that the counterfeit pills he provided to
Speaker 1: another drug dealer were laced with fentanol. He said he
Speaker 1: did not know the pills that he provided caused Macmiller's
Speaker 1: death until his arrest in Arizona in September twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1: According to the press, he said, this is not just
Speaker 1: a regular drug case. Somebody died and a family is
Speaker 1: never going to get their sun back. My family would
Speaker 1: be wrecked if it was me. They'd never be all right,
Speaker 1: never truly get over it. I think about that all
Speaker 1: the time. He also was sentenced to three years of
Speaker 1: supervised release with drug testing. All right, I'm Mandela Yee
Speaker 1: and that is your rumor reports. All right, thank you,
Speaker 1: miss Yee. All right again, make sure if you're out
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Speaker 1: ain't really keep that same energy, bro. All of that
Speaker 1: flirting you'd be doing with me, you wasn't really doing
Speaker 1: that when she was sitting here. So I just need
Speaker 1: you to know, my g it's cheating from now on.
Speaker 1: Anytime you flirt with me from now on, it's cheating.
Speaker 1: What you wouldn't do in your wife's face, what you
Speaker 1: do behind your back is cheating. Okay, so you haven't
Speaker 1: learned anything, So let's write the next book, Real Life,
Speaker 1: Real but right. Okay, what did it say? The joy,
Speaker 1: the pain and the ka that keeps us together? Grow up?
Speaker 1: You grow up? Oh my goodness. But definitely pick up
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Speaker 1: and we would love to repost it and also let
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Speaker 1: transparent and hopefully it can help you in your relationship.
Speaker 1: We just trying to be transparent at this point, whether
Speaker 1: it's with real estate, whether it's with whatever we do investments,
Speaker 1: and definitely our relationship to hopefully help somebody out there.
Speaker 1: I mean, you can already see what the book is
Speaker 1: gonna start mad conversations. Absolutely, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And that's all you want. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: All you want is a good a literary body of
Speaker 1: work that you put out into the ecosystem and it
Speaker 1: starts conversation. That's it. And the shout to all the
Speaker 1: bookstores out there, shout to Mahogany Books. We appreciate you
Speaker 1: for having us last night. Know where at book ends
Speaker 1: tomorrow and if you have a bookstore, I'm looking for
Speaker 1: all the bookstores, the mom and pop bookstores, the minority
Speaker 1: own bookstores. We love to stop by and swing by
Speaker 1: and do a book sign and I know a lot
Speaker 1: of the stores are not doing signings because of COVID still,
Speaker 1: but we would love to stop through and just say
Speaker 1: hello and shoot your guys a holler, and you know
Speaker 1: it's crazy. Minority bookstores don't get held down. You know
Speaker 1: it's crazy. I didn't realize just tell yesterday when I
Speaker 1: saw people reposting it. But yesterday was the five year
Speaker 1: anniversary of my first book, Black Privilege. Yes really lost
Speaker 1: the chances of that. It was a five year anniversary
Speaker 1: of my first book, Black Privilege. And then Real Life,
Speaker 1: Real Love comes out today. My first book came out
Speaker 1: April eighteen, five years ago. Years comes out April nineteenth.
Speaker 1: That's crazy today. And I remember going to one of
Speaker 1: your book signings in um, South Carolina. I don't know
Speaker 1: why I was in South Carolina, but I think I
Speaker 1: had a party and a shot through and I just
Speaker 1: remember hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people at that
Speaker 1: bookstore that now they're saying they don't know if that
Speaker 1: ever happened again because of COVID restricts. It the fly
Speaker 1: with that mask. Now you should be able to do
Speaker 1: an in store. You should absolutely sho. I don't not
Speaker 1: know why. I do not know why Barns and Nobles
Speaker 1: is doing what everybody else is not doing. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you have concerts and festivals and everything else, you should
Speaker 1: be able to have instores that they don't want to
Speaker 1: get sued. Maybe they don't want the problems I don't
Speaker 1: know about. I don't know. I remember going to that bookstore.
Speaker 1: I remember seeing it. I mean it was the line
Speaker 1: was around the outside. And maybe you could do something
Speaker 1: at the New York Public Library. Yeah, maybe maybe we
Speaker 1: could do something. I know we wanted. We're gonna do
Speaker 1: something at the bookstore. I mean at the juice bar
Speaker 1: as well. I probably could make a call for you. Okay,
Speaker 1: that call oj as the ambassador there. You go make
Speaker 1: that call when we come back. We got the positive
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Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. That's Charlomagne. You got a positive note, I do.
Speaker 1: The positive note is simply this man. It's actually from
Speaker 1: Joel Oldstein. Joel Oldstein said, you're going to go through
Speaker 1: tough times. That's life. But I say, nothing happens to you.
Speaker 1: It happens all you see the positive and negative events.
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