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Speaker 1: Good morning Angela. Piece to the plane. It is Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if Emmy was on the you know,

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Speaker 1: this morning. She absolutely will. That's probably another reason why

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Speaker 1: everywhere you buy books now. They did the audible version,

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Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody's dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

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Speaker 1: gear Casey and dj Envy's book about our relationships, everything

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Speaker 1: Let's talk Kendrick Lamar. This is the rumor report with

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Speaker 1: and the beauty of it is you don't know what

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Speaker 1: if you're gonna get good Kid Mass City, if you

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Speaker 1: don't get the Pin Butterfly, you don't know if you're

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Speaker 1: gonna get Damn I can I assume we're not gonna

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Speaker 1: get none of them? And that's all I'm excited, all

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Speaker 1: right to hear it? All right? Well, Basketball Wives, the

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Speaker 1: tenth season is officially coming back, so get ready for that.

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Speaker 1: That's going to premiere May sixteenth at eight pm. Was

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Speaker 1: it awf a couple of seasons. It's been a little

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Speaker 1: while since really it's been on, and you know it's

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Speaker 1: a pandemic. Are people are going to be filming? If

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Speaker 1: you guys remember they cut the last season short? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't remember. Yeah, so they had cut the last season? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so do that was what Evelyn where she was smacking

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Speaker 1: herself was like. Was that that that season? I don't

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Speaker 1: know if that was on the actual show or was it? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess it was. Yeah, And then there was a

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Speaker 1: lot of issues about colorism. There were all kinds of

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Speaker 1: things going on and ended up cutting it short. Well,

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Speaker 1: season ten May sixteenth. Here is a trailer, so crazy,

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Speaker 1: I'm back on Basketball Wives season ten. Basketball Wives is

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Speaker 1: back and the MVBS are reunited. That change the game.

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Speaker 1: I get a call from my lawyer. He says, you've

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Speaker 1: been indicted, and you know it. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: leave jack you gotta keep it un. Why are you

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Speaker 1: having a conversation about my relationship in this Basketball Wives world?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be here, o it. Queen Baya

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Speaker 1: goes right out for Winnen watch me up. So who's

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Speaker 1: on the cast? All right, so get ready for a Jackie,

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Malaysia, Brandy Duffy, Angel British and Brook Jennifer your

447
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Speaker 1: friend Jennifer, she's back. Yeah, she was in the last

448
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Speaker 1: season too. So Tammy's not there, Evelyn's not. Tammy's gone.

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Speaker 1: Evelyn's gone. Is uh who's running this show? Who's who's

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Speaker 1: producing it? Is it still show y? All right? Well

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Speaker 1: that is your rumor reports? All right? Thank you? Miss

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Speaker 1: ye never got front page news what we're talking about. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna be discussing and I know this is

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Speaker 1: important because people are traveling and going places. But again,

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Speaker 1: we'll give you some information about this mask mandate and

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Speaker 1: what's going on. Do you have to wear masks anymore

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Speaker 1: anywhere on the planes, on the trains? Well, give you

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Speaker 1: that update, all right, we'll get into that next. It's

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, So breakfast Club, your morning's

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Speaker 1: will never be the same. I teamed up with zyrt

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Speaker 1: with zyrt Tech. Starts working at hour one and stay

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Speaker 1: strong day after day. Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Ye,

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast clubs get the

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Speaker 1: front page news. The NBA basketball of seventy six is

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Speaker 1: beat the Raptors one twelve ninety seven. They lead the

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Speaker 1: series two zero. The Mavericks beat the Jazz last night

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Speaker 1: one ten, one on four. They tied a series one one.

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Speaker 1: And the Warriors beat the Nuggets one twenty six, one

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Speaker 1: oh six. Now that was my preseason picked the win

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Speaker 1: the finals two Yes, Steps thirty four. Last night he

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Speaker 1: came back. He was boss an ass last night. Paul

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Speaker 1: had twenty nine and Lay had twenty one. And I'm

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Speaker 1: sticking with my pig with Boyd. Them sons looked good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and don't sleep on the buckses. Warriors look good last

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Speaker 1: night though, they I mean stepf came back Steff with

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Speaker 1: Boston ass last day. What else you got easy, all right? Well,

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Speaker 1: there was a deadly mass shooting inside of a packed party,

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Speaker 1: and that was in Pittsburgh. Two boys were killed and

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Speaker 1: eight were injured after gunfire rang out inside and outside

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Speaker 1: a party at an Airbnb rental unit. They said hundreds

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Speaker 1: of people were forced to scramble for safety and five

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Speaker 1: were injured while fleeing. Families and friends are in mourning

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Speaker 1: after the depths of Matthews, Steffie Ross, and Jayden Brown.

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Speaker 1: Please say the two seventeen year old boys were shot

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Speaker 1: and died at the hospital. Brown's mom said he was

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Speaker 1: about to turn eighteen and graduate from Woodlin Hills High

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Speaker 1: School next month. Police did respond to the scene of

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Speaker 1: the shooting. It was after twelve thirty am on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: They had received some alerts from more than ninety rounds fired.

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Speaker 1: People are trying to still wrap their heads around what

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Speaker 1: happened early Sunday morning, including the owner of the other

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Speaker 1: unit inside the building where the shooting occurred. They said

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Speaker 1: there were bullets that actually riddled both downstairs bedrooms in

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Speaker 1: the unit below where the party was held. So Pittsburgh

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Speaker 1: cops did respond to noise complains ninety minutes before that

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Speaker 1: shooting happened, by the way, and our condolences go out

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Speaker 1: to the families and Matthew, Steffie Ross and Jayden Brown.

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Speaker 1: So sad definitely. Lord, all right, now, for everybody traveling,

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Speaker 1: you no longer have to wear any masks every all

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Speaker 1: on the flight. Yeah, I mean they just overturned the

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Speaker 1: whole mandate. So right now on a flight on a

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Speaker 1: Delta flight, the pilot actually announced midflight that people could

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Speaker 1: take their masks off because of that court ruling that

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Speaker 1: people no longer have to wear masks. So the Russell

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Speaker 1: us today the judge, so through the airport, I don't

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Speaker 1: have to come with a mask anymore if I don't

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Speaker 1: want to. That's what you say old airports. But that's

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Speaker 1: for now, right agencies are reviewing this decision and assessing

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Speaker 1: potential steps. In the meantime, they're saying that the masking

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Speaker 1: order is not in effect at this time, so they're

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Speaker 1: not going to enforce that you have to wear a

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Speaker 1: mask and indoor public transportation settings. I mean, it just

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Speaker 1: makes logical sense, right because no place out seems to

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Speaker 1: be under mask. Man, each folks is going to festivals

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Speaker 1: with no masks, doing the comedy shows. Concerts, basketball games,

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Speaker 1: folkses in restaurants with no mask on. So it doesn't

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Speaker 1: really make sense to have a mask mandate on planes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand. One woman was upset because

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Speaker 1: midflight she said, we're trapped in the sky with our

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Speaker 1: eight month old unvaccinated baby because you can't mask a

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Speaker 1: baby that young and there was no mask, and they said,

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Speaker 1: we were under the supposition that any everyone who can

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Speaker 1: be mass would be masks and the flight three and

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Speaker 1: twenty five crew has taken our choices away from us,

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Speaker 1: very very angry about this. That was fault. They did

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Speaker 1: it in midflight. She didn't have a choice, she was

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Speaker 1: stuck on that flanet. That was foul. I remember when

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Speaker 1: the US Transportation Command said that planes have air ventilation

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Speaker 1: and filtration systems and that they remove COVID particles like

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Speaker 1: every six minutes, and they said the only way you

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Speaker 1: could really catch COVID on a flight is if you're

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Speaker 1: sitting right next to somebody who is sick. That's that's

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Speaker 1: what they used to say, right, So they used to

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Speaker 1: basically say planes would were safe. So if you're like

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Speaker 1: they said, if you if you're sitting next to somebody

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Speaker 1: who's sick. Yeah, but usually on a plane, you're sitting

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Speaker 1: next to your family. Now, some people travel alone sitting

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Speaker 1: next to that that family clearly wasn't. So you know,

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Speaker 1: that family was. And sometimes it could be two people

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Speaker 1: in the seat and then a third person on the

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Speaker 1: end who you don't know indeed, but that family was.

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Speaker 1: That family wasn't traveling without They were traveling with their family.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how many people she

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Speaker 1: had with her, but she had her two kids, and

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Speaker 1: the pilot announced that at that time, she probably had

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Speaker 1: that eight month old in her lap. But she's still

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Speaker 1: with her family, is what I But she still was

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Speaker 1: upset because, yeah, she didn't have a choice. She got

552
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Speaker 1: on that plane thinking everybody's gonna wear a mask and

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Speaker 1: surprise yor not. So I mean, I get why she's upset.

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Speaker 1: She said she might have made other travel plans, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: arrangements because the baby can't be vaccinated. So if she

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Speaker 1: would have known that would happen, maybe she would have

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Speaker 1: went a different way. I get it. But I don't

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Speaker 1: know where that plane was going. But was she's gonna

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Speaker 1: drive the Cali if it was going to Cali? You know?

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe not go yeah, but also it took

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Speaker 1: a choice away. All right, well that is your front

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Speaker 1: page news. All right, thank you, missy. Now when we

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Speaker 1: come back, be on your best behavior. Charlemagne, why are

564
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,360
Speaker 1: you talking to me? You need to be talking to yourself.

565
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Speaker 1: Your wife is coming in here, okay. The author of

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Speaker 1: the new book, Real Life, Real Love, gear Casey is

567
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 1: coming in here, okay, to talk about what's in that book.

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00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 1: I know your butt cheeks tight right now. I can

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Speaker 1: see your sweating. I see your bed dripping down your

570
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Speaker 1: chin right now. Okay, that black that Beijing is starting

571
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: to melt because you so damn nervous. You already put

572
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: the book out there. You already got the audible version.

573
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: You already feeled your guts. What am I nervous? Okay?

574
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Speaker 1: He saw you on Shade Room last night talking about you.

575
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: You let her do your prostate or something. You said.

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Speaker 1: I didn't talk about nothing about no damn props they

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Speaker 1: said happened. I know we talked about. She's saying that

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Speaker 1: she had fake orgasms when we were when we were

579
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Speaker 1: coming up. That's true, true, she would fake her orgast.

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Speaker 1: We talked about here on the radio before that she

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Speaker 1: would fake her orgasms. She hasn't had orgasm in ten years.

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Speaker 1: That was before. That was before, sir, I didn't ask

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Speaker 1: you that. What was the time framing that was before?

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Speaker 1: You haven't had orgasm in ten I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: put her time with my time. I haven't had one

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Speaker 1: in twelve from you, So what's the problem. We were seventeen,

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Speaker 1: that was twenty seven. That were way older that so

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Speaker 1: that was a long time ago. Oh, I thought she

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Speaker 1: meant the past that It wasn't the past decade. This

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Speaker 1: was when the first no, you ask things get miskim screwed. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I thought Shade Room said the past that we've been

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Speaker 1: together twenty seven years. This is when we were first

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Speaker 1: together and we were talking about that makes sense. Y'all

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Speaker 1: didn't know your bodies. You better this guy? Man, Yo,

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Speaker 1: what's up with this guy? All right? When we come

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Speaker 1: back my wife, you better keep that same energy when

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Speaker 1: your wife coming in didn't be joining us. Man, it's

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Who bought it? The Breakfast Club? Morning?

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Speaker 1: Everybody's team j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we

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Speaker 1: are to Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in

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Speaker 1: the building. Never matter before. She's an actress, she's an author,

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00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: she's a mom. Ladies and gentlemen, he's your wife and

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Speaker 1: my wife. Yes, hello, welcome? Yeah, what that's this one name?

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Speaker 1: She's like Madonna Beyonce. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, how

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Speaker 1: nervous are you, sir? Seriously? I know he's been at

606
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Speaker 1: a real weird You guys have a book out, Real Life,

607
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Speaker 1: Real Love Life, Lesson to Enjoy Pain and the Magic

608
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Speaker 1: that holds us together. And I've been dying to ask

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Speaker 1: you this question Gear in person? How do you feel

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Speaker 1: about Charlomagne and be flirting with each other every day? Um?

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Speaker 1: Kind of turns me on. I didn't expect that answer. Okay,

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Speaker 1: explain no, I mean, I mean, I think it's a

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Speaker 1: little strange, but I'm amused by it. Does anything go

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Speaker 1: too far? Ever? Or no? It's all in good fun

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Speaker 1: and enter all it is. I don't mind it. So

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Speaker 1: you didn't mind that when he gave me the ass

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Speaker 1: first of all, contact everybody watched the show every day?

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Speaker 1: Context Please? Okay, what can you guys sound by that?

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Speaker 1: When he gave me a mold of his ass and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't my ass, it was a molde of a ass. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was the mold of your actual No. No,

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Speaker 1: And then what about when they touch each other and

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Speaker 1: stuff that's never happened that we don't touch me? Don't

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Speaker 1: you've never seen them that hasn't happened. No, you want

625
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Speaker 1: to tell me something I need to know now, they

626
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: like rub up brush against each other. If they're walking

627
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Speaker 1: out the door, going to rub up against each other,

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Speaker 1: we don't ever do it. They're going the revolving door together.

629
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: That happened one time. Explain that now I need answer.

630
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: It was stupid. I don't even know how that happen. Really,

631
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: it was really stupid. It was that had to be

632
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: very intentional. It wasn't. I don't even know how. And

633
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: then makes his way was so stupid, and giggle all

634
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: the way through it added insult you sitting there in

635
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: the one slot giggling together. Oh man, anyway back to

636
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: the matter at hand, real life, real love. What is

637
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: that magic that holds y'all together? You think you know? Um,

638
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: whenever I find that people come to our house or

639
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: are around us, I think they're kind of surprised at

640
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: how much fun we have together. I find him to

641
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: be very charming and charismatic um and one of the

642
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: things that I love most about him is his boyish nature.

643
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: So we really have a lot of fun together and

644
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: we always have since we first met. The first week

645
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: we spent together, I thought to myself, Wow, he's a

646
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: lot of fun. Like he's he's like a friend, you know,

647
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: And that's part of the magic. You knew that this

648
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: was the person you spend the rest of your life

649
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: with after about two weeks of knowing him. Yes, before

650
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 1: you even spent a day together. Explain before, before we

651
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: even spent a day together that when I first when

652
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: I first seen you, I mean I wrote in a

653
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: book that I thought you were beautiful and amazing. In

654
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: the first time I saw you were actually running track

655
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: and for people I don't know, you know, tracks, plain

656
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: track like that the Outfit and you know Gia had,

657
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: you know, big double ds. And I would stop basically

658
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: stalker outside and just watch a run track and watch

659
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: a breast bottle like that. Word don't say stalk, you

660
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: know what I'm stalking, Yeah, but that's actually what he

661
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: was doing. It was actually stalking. And I would see him,

662
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: I would see him sitting with his friends in this

663
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: bright blue con Edison van because that's what his parents

664
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: bought him to trans to transfer his DJ equipment from

665
00:33:54,840 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: Sweet sixteen to Sweet sixteen back. And I would see

666
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,719
Speaker 1: it parked behind the fence. I'm thinking myself, like, Yo,

667
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: why is this van there? Every day? Yeah? It was

668
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: bright blue. He wasn't low, he was not low. And

669
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: then one day he emerged. Actually, babe, do you remember

670
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: one day like he emerged from the van and approached

671
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: me and kicked it and I was like, oh, so

672
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: you're that weird though both kids. Yeah, she was fifteen,

673
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: I was sixteen. We went to the same high school.

674
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: So so. And but you say that you knew that

675
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: she was going to be your wife, like right away?

676
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 1: You think it was before y'all even spoke, when he

677
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 1: was just stalking her. We actually know when we actually spoke,

678
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: and you know, I found out how you know, beautiful

679
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: she was inside and outside, and how smart she was

680
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: and caring and she was just that she was the one.

681
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: She was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in

682
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: my life and the most precious thing. So I was like,

683
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: this is going to be my wife. I won't be

684
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: to get the book, but I do want, you know,

685
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: to explain how do you keep reinventing the relationship when

686
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: you start that young? Now interviews fifty something, You know

687
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: what I mean, you're much much younger, But how how

688
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: do you keep how do you reinvent? How do you

689
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: keep reinventing? And I think that that's part of the magic.

690
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: We don't have to try. We don't intentionally. We do

691
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: a lot of things intentionally and deliberately, but we don't

692
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: intentionally reimagine the relationship and act on that. The only

693
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 1: thing that I would say that where UM good about

694
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: is keeping it sexy and making sure that that part

695
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: of our relationship doesn't get too monotonous and doesn't get stale.

696
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: So we have a lot of fun in that space. Um,

697
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: but we don't have to think, like, God, how am

698
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: I gonna stop being bored of you? Or how am

699
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: I going to get to a point where you don't

700
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: annoy me anymore? He legitimately does not annoy me. I

701
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: look forward to his phone calls every day and we

702
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: probably speak on the phone about maybe eight or nine

703
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 1: ten times a day because he's away a lot, you know.

704
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: So he called me on his way to the Brekfast club,

705
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: he calls me, and his way home from the breakfast club,

706
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: he calls me. If something happens, he calls me incessantly.

707
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: It's and I'm never like, oh you again, I'm like

708
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:12,399
Speaker 1: him again. You know. It's just that feeling that I've

709
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: always had, that no matter what ups or downs we

710
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: were going through, that never left me. Now he told

711
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: this a story about the cowboy outfit. He told you

712
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, wait, wait, wait the cowboy outfit in college?

713
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 1: The asses chats that no ass chat they were, Yeah,

714
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 1: you tell this about Wait did you actually tell me,

715
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: like on error in private? He did, because if it

716
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: was in private, this is a whole double cross, right.

717
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: He dressed as a cowboy and his head me okay,

718
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: and I remember that, Digga. After he told his story,

719
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: he goes, not like what he did when we were

720
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: in college. Yeah, we went through a stage where we

721
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: were doing like a lot of role play, and one

722
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: night I dared him to be a cowboy. So we

723
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: went and got to cow half. It had like the

724
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: big brown hat and then he had like the little

725
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: holsters and everything, and babe, do you remember I took pictures?

726
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: Where are those? Are they? In the book? He about maybe, um,

727
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: three years after he made me physically burn them on

728
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: the grill. Wow, he put them on the grill and

729
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: told me I had to light it. Yeah, they don't exist.

730
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: Don't you wish you still had that? No, but y'all

731
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: talk about role play in the book. You said he

732
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: likes to put on the rock Nation paper plane hat

733
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: and he goes, what's my name? And he wants you

734
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: to say jiggle. I didn't contribute to that chapter. Okay,

735
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 1: that wasn't my work. No, I didn't do it. Okay,

736
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: So wait they really so he wasn't lying they were

737
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: asseless chaps? Yeah, yeah, he had a whole. It was

738
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: a whole thing. I just pulled the Uayugia. He did

739
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: not tell us that. Damn it. To get my book

740
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: and you will learn a slew of tactics what you

741
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: want out of life? Okay, it was a holster by

742
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 1: the way, they were holsters. Yeah it was. It was

743
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: a whole, but it was some other dress up things,

744
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: you go, right, Um, it was more so me okay,

745
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: sing up and he was just like the recipient of

746
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: that that that was a one little and that's why

747
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: it was a dare because it was kind of supposed

748
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: to be a joke, but he never really dressed up.

749
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: One time he was a doctor. That was one. Did

750
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: you really burn the pictures? I really did, really in

751
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:19,439
Speaker 1: front of him. Wow, you didn't have negatives to share

752
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: that ever goes left in our relationship. I had that

753
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: I will ruin his entire reputation, I will never be

754
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 1: able to work again. And I question over to a

755
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: new audience. We got more with my wife's Guia Casey.

756
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: When we come back, we're talking out new book that's

757
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 1: out right now, Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere.

758
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club, the More Morning. Everybody is DJ

759
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,919
Speaker 1: Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

760
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: We got a special guest Steal in the building, my wife,

761
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 1: Gia Casey. We're talking about our new book, Real Life,

762
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 1: Real Love, Life Lessons on Joy, Pain and the Magic

763
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: that holds Us Together. You could pick it up today

764
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: or you can get it on an audible and kin

765
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: do wherever you get your books. Ye, how is if

766
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: at both of you writing his book together. Some of

767
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: it was fun. It was nice to be creative and

768
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 1: get your thoughts down on paper. It was work, but

769
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: a lot of it was difficult. I'm a very open person.

770
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: Rashawn I think had a difficult time because he had

771
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: to relive a lot of the negative things that transpired

772
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: in our relationship. And he can tend to be surface

773
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: in some respects where you ask him a question, he

774
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: gives you an answer. I'm a lot more of an

775
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: in depth person, you know. I think critically about things.

776
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 1: And when we would go over these chapters that he's

777
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: assigned to write, I would ask him questions like, Okay,

778
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: you can't just answer it with a yes or a

779
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: no or a simple blanket like one question would mean

780
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: ten more questions to really get to the meet. And

781
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 1: you know, I had to keep reiterating, we're writing this

782
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,479
Speaker 1: book so that people have something tangible, a reference point

783
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: for them to make changes in their lives if necessary,

784
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: or to record nice that the person that you're with

785
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: needs to make changes in their lives. And it was

786
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: a journey. It was a journey, but I think it

787
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: was difficult. It was difficult. I had to relive a

788
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: lot of the f boy ish I put you through.

789
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: And you don't you forget about a lot of it

790
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: because you don't have to relive it. But then when

791
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: you start, no, you forget about I forget nothing at

792
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: the point though, right, because it's like we don't realize

793
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: how much we do hurt are women when we do? Yeah?

794
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: I think so. I don't think we realize how deep that.

795
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: That sounds like an oaky doke to me. No, I

796
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: don't think we until you actually sit down and have

797
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: those you know, uncomfortable conversations. You don't realize how much

798
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: you your wife cheated on you and told you that

799
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: she would have no idea how much that it stood

800
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: to hurt you. Would that make sense to you? Probably not?

801
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: But I mean men don't make sense. You believe that

802
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: you believe that you're born inherently with like a deficit,

803
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: not a deficit. But I just don't think. I don't think.

804
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 1: I don't think we're thinking about it, you know what

805
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: I mean, Like we like that's the sad part. It's

806
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: selfish and that's what keeps that's what keeps you from

807
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: doing it in the future, you know what I mean,

808
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: because you do not want to hurt the woman that

809
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: you love. And it's so crazy because I saw that

810
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: with my pops, Like I saw the pain that that

811
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: caused my mom with his infidelities. One in my mind,

812
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I'm about to do make the

813
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 1: same mistake. So I think it is difficult when you

814
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: got to relive it because you don't want to talk

815
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: about it, because you don't want to trigger you. You

816
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: know some people I don't get triggered though. Yeah, but

817
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:37,439
Speaker 1: that scared me. Sity. No. Once I got to a point,

818
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: and it was a process. Once I got to a

819
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 1: point where, um, I accepted that it was my job

820
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: to move on because I decided to forgive him, and

821
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: because because he had done all of the work and

822
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 1: then some to regain my trust to earn grace from me. Um,

823
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: I got to a point where I no longer wanted

824
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: to punish and I didn't have that inherent need to

825
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 1: see him suffer. Because when you hurt, and you say

826
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: it all the time, hurt people, hurt people. When you're hurt,

827
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: you want not just people, you want the person that

828
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:18,439
Speaker 1: hurt you to hurt. And any time that I felt

829
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 1: any type of way, I made sure that he felt

830
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: some type of way. So once I learned how to forgive,

831
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: and that was a process because I wasn't necessarily a

832
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 1: forgiving person. Before everything was very black and white to me,

833
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: not very much gray. But once I learned and I

834
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: understood that that's what was expected from me of God,

835
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: I had to commit to that and do my best

836
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: to live up to what forgiveness meant. And that's what

837
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: set me free. Because when you forgive, you don't forgive

838
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,240
Speaker 1: to ease the burden from the other person. You forgive

839
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 1: to ease the burden from you. The work you guys

840
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: did together, like you had to work on forgiveness and

841
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 1: when you said, Okay, I'm gonna, you know, have to

842
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 1: move on from is. But what was the work that

843
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: he did that let you know, Okay, he's serious, and

844
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 1: you know I can finally just say I'm not getting

845
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: triggered anymore. I'm going to let this go. One of

846
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: the first things was I realized that he understood the

847
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: impact of what had happened. What he did, He understood it.

848
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: He didn't just accept it and was accountable for it,

849
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: but he actually understood. He would do things that a

850
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: lot of men wouldn't do. He would sit there through

851
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: those eight hour conversations locked in a room. He answered

852
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: every question that I had, and I had a lot

853
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: of questions and he answered them all truthfully. And you

854
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 1: know when you asked somebody a question and you can

855
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: tell by their answer, because I mean, the answers weren't pretty.

856
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: There weren't things that I would have wanted to hear.

857
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: He went through all of the sufferation, as I call it,

858
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: and he did it until because a lot of guys

859
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: when they mess up, and I mean a lot of

860
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: them have told me. I have friends and that have

861
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,320
Speaker 1: gone through it. It's like, listen, I did it. I apologize.

862
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,919
Speaker 1: I said I was never going to do it again.

863
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: I mean that ish right, But it's like every day

864
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm being punished, I'm being punished, I'm being reminded. It's like,

865
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: let it go, I apologize, Like what more do you

866
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: want from me? Blood? He never took that approach with me.

867
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 1: It was the until until you are good, until you

868
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: are healed. If I have to be a punching bag,

869
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: I will be that. If I have to be a doormat,

870
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: I will be that. I will do anything that it

871
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: makes to survive this because I cannot be without you.

872
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 1: And he proved it every single day. It was as

873
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: though and he was like this before, but it was

874
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,359
Speaker 1: even more so during this time. It was as though

875
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: he communicated to me that the only thing that he

876
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: wanted was to make me happy. And that's pretty much

877
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: how he lives his life. He lives his life every

878
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 1: day waking up thinking like, damn, how can I make

879
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: ge his life easier today? How can I make Ge

880
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: a happier today? But to answer your question, it was

881
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: the till. It was the indefinite, and it was the

882
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: willingness to do any and everything to earn what he

883
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: lost back. And was there ever a question in your mind?

884
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: I know there was a point when you thought, no

885
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: matter what I do, she's never gonna take me back

886
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: forever a time when you were like, I'm gonna come

887
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: over and Hlue. Let you know, you better him from

888
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 1: the back, if you cried in front of your wife,

889
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: catch that little field. At that point, I just, you know,

890
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: I didn't know what was going to happen, but I

891
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: was like, I have to be honest or at least

892
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: get my friend back, you know. Um. And at that point, I,

893
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't know what Gear was gonna do.

894
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 1: I thought it was a rap, but I was like

895
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: I still wanted my friend. I still wanted somebody I

896
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: can talk to. You know, I still wanted in a relationship,

897
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: whether that we can bounce me like that. She's all

898
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,800
Speaker 1: I knew since I was sixteen, So I still wanted

899
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: my friend back, and that could have been forever beef forever.

900
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: But you know, it's interesting that you didn't kick him

901
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: out of the house. You were still polite to him,

902
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: you still wanted to maintain a co parenting friendship. I

903
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 1: feel like that hurts more when you're like, we're not

904
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: having sex and I might end up with somebody else

905
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: one day, but you know we're cool. That hurts more

906
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: that I think sometimes in Jess completely like being nasty

907
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: to somebody and cutting them off. Yes, Well, when I

908
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,320
Speaker 1: found out divorce was imminent, it was never a question.

909
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: I was raised by a very strong mother who taught

910
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: me that if a man ever disrespects you to that degree,

911
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: then you walk. So it didn't matter how much I

912
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: loved with Sean and how much I would have missed him,

913
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: and it didn't matter if I cried every night. It

914
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: did not matter one iota how I felt. The Only

915
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: thing that was important to me was that I operated

916
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: with my head and not my heart, and that I

917
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,800
Speaker 1: did what I always said that I was going to

918
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: do so when I found out when it was confirmed

919
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: for me, and you can read the book and see

920
00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: the entire get entire story. But when he confirmed it,

921
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: we were in a parking lot, and when I drove

922
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: away from that parking lot, it was a few days

923
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,399
Speaker 1: before Christmas, and his mother was at the house helping

924
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: me decorate because we were hosting that year. But I

925
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: walked into the house and I told her, I said,

926
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: Christmas is canceled. And she said Christmas is canceled. And

927
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: I said, well, I just found out that Rashawn cheated

928
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: on me and we're getting a divorce. So there's not

929
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 1: gonna be any Christmas this year, at least I'm not hosting.

930
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: It's wild that people actually canceled Christmas. I thought that

931
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: was just a figures speech. No, no, this happen. We

932
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: canceling Christmas? Yea Christmas. Well, in the sense of us hosting.

933
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to cancel it for our children, but

934
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 1: you know, we didn't have to decorate for thirty people

935
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 1: to come over. And my lovely mother in law, hi, mama, um.

936
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,919
Speaker 1: She defended her beautiful son with everything that she could

937
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: because pretty much um. And when she said something to

938
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: that effect, I said, for the fact that he just

939
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 1: told me that it was true. And he came home

940
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 1: maybe twenty or thirty minutes later, and it was a

941
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: whole thing. Right, But I was adamant that we were

942
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: getting a divorce. That contacted an attorney, paid an attorney.

943
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 1: It was decided. But thankfully there were a whole host

944
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:31,439
Speaker 1: of things that happened that that convinced me that God

945
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 1: had other plans. All right, Well, Lottle movie got more

946
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: with Gee and Casey. We're talking out a new book,

947
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love. Let's get into Mary J. Blige joint.

948
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: He's Real Love. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. It

949
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: was Mary J. Blige with Real Love Morning. Everybody is

950
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are to

951
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Were still kicking in with Gee and Casey.

952
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 1: We're here talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love. Charlomagne,

953
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 1: what did God say to you? You know, I wasn't

954
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: raised with this um deeply instilled faith where I felt

955
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: as though I knew God and I lived differently because

956
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:12,959
Speaker 1: I didn't know God in that way. So when God

957
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: revealed himself to me. And he may have tried for years,

958
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 1: you see, but I wouldn't have I didn't speak his language.

959
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: I would have never been able to interpret God trying

960
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: to reach out to me. So I really believe that

961
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: this happened so that me, particularly not even Rashawn, so

962
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: that I could be humbled. When God spoke, he spoke

963
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: through other people and when he found when I found

964
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 1: out what happened. It's funny we were being approached for

965
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: reality shows at the time, and when he took someone's

966
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: terrible advice to apologize to me on the radio and

967
00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 1: make our personal woes private. Ya, our personal was Publicum.

968
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 1: I didn't know though. I didn't know what he was

969
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: going through. He just being in laying on the I

970
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 1: didn't know what. Yeah, he'd be like out of it.

971
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, what the is your problem? I didn't

972
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: know what it was. So as I'm priding him, like

973
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 1: what the hell is going on? I didn't know that

974
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: was coming. Oh okay, Yeah, I didn't know that I

975
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: was the one he apologized. You didn't know what apologize.

976
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: He would literally come in here and be like laid

977
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: out on the floor in the fetal position the whole show, like,

978
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,240
Speaker 1: he would not be here with us, he wouldn't be present,

979
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: and I just knew something was wrong. Apologize. I'm like,

980
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: so no, I was like, when he gets on the air,

981
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask him on the air because his problem,

982
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: because I was tired of asking him behind the scenes,

983
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 1: and so I asked him on the air. I didn't

984
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: know that was coming though. Its terrible idea, but maybe

985
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: it was the same dose of common sense that you

986
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: guys are talking about. Men man think differently. Yes, But

987
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: when it was made public, my one of my best friends,

988
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: his name is Rashid, he's the husband of my other

989
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,240
Speaker 1: best friend, her name is Sasha. He called to see

990
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 1: if what he had heard was true because he thought

991
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: that maybe it was just something being drummed up because

992
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: we're supposed to be on a reality show or something

993
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: like that. And when he called, I said, no, everything

994
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: that you heard is absolutely true. It's it's a terrible story. Um,

995
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: as you said. You know, Rashaw was circling the drain

996
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 1: at that time, and Rashi decided to come to New

997
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 1: York from California because he lives in LA But we

998
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 1: had a very a horrible event happened at our home

999
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,320
Speaker 1: and you can read about it in the BOVESI didn't

1000
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: like me, Rushi. You know, he always thought our relationship

1001
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 1: with toxic with you were too controlling. He thought I

1002
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: was too controlling, which I was atmes, but so he

1003
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 1: didn't like me. So the fact that he flew in

1004
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: to try to save this relationship meant a lot, because

1005
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: he already didn't like me. I thought, you said, tis sadationship. Well,

1006
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: well what happened was he flew in and I didn't

1007
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 1: want him there because our marriage was ending and I

1008
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 1: just wanted to be my fun, myself. But he insisted.

1009
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 1: He said, I'm pulling into I'm flying into New York

1010
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: Newark International Airport at such and such a time, coming

1011
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: at me. I went and I got him, and that

1012
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 1: was the start of the biggest change that we needed

1013
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: to go to go through. He came to our house

1014
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,919
Speaker 1: and I said, why are you here? And he said,

1015
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: God sent me here. I said, of all people, you,

1016
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: you're the only person in our lives that didn't champion

1017
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: our marriage. You're the only one that ever told me

1018
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 1: that maybe he's not the right person for me. Why you,

1019
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: he said, I don't know. I've been praying since, like

1020
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: out a phoone with you. After that terrible thing happened,

1021
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 1: and I walked into my boss's office, told him I

1022
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 1: had to take a leave of absence, went home, packed

1023
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 1: a bag, and got on a plane and headed here.

1024
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: And it's only through the assignment of God. God spoke

1025
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 1: to me. I said, so, what does that mean, Like,

1026
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 1: are you hearing voices? Like, what do you mean God

1027
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: spoke to you? And he said to me, when God

1028
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 1: speaks to you, it's as though he puts an overwhelming

1029
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: feeling on your heart. And when he tells you to

1030
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 1: do something, you don't ask any questions. You just do it.

1031
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 1: That's it. Okay, Well, basically I'll have to wrap my

1032
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: mind around that because I didn't have the tools to

1033
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 1: really understand that. And he stayed with us for about

1034
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: maybe ten twelve days, and he taught us a lot

1035
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: about God and faith and spirituality and what his assignment was.

1036
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: And he brought in his past or. Her name was

1037
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: Sister Nancy. She had the same feedback from God when

1038
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: she prayed. And this was all new to me, and

1039
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: I was actually very angry because now I have people

1040
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: in my life that I respect and love that are

1041
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: telling me that I have to stay in a relationship

1042
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: that I'm adamant on getting out of. And it was very,

1043
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 1: very heavy. I can't describe to you how heavy it

1044
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 1: was and how insistent he was in his assurance of

1045
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: what God communicated to him in the fast var Tyrese

1046
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: same thing. I didn't know. You know, we knew Tyres

1047
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 1: for coming up they do an interview, but I didn't

1048
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: know Tyrese of his number. He didn't have a new song.

1049
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: But when he heard me on a radio that day,

1050
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: he called and wanted to speak to Gia. And you

1051
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,240
Speaker 1: can read in the book because he got us together.

1052
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: But he said the exact same thing, like Tyres and

1053
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 1: Rashid was speaking to each other, and it was kind

1054
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 1: of like those two were the ones to really save

1055
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: my marriage and they didn't know it. To the Inkia,

1056
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: you had asked for a sign, Well, that was the thing,

1057
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,839
Speaker 1: because I was so angered by what I was hearing, like, oh,

1058
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 1: I was a victim being cheated on, now being victimized

1059
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: again by God telling me that I have to stay

1060
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 1: in a relationship that I'm adamant about leaving. I don't

1061
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: understand this. And I was and I'm not a big crier.

1062
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: But one day I was taking a shower and I

1063
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: began to cry, and I began to pray in the

1064
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: way that I was learning how to pray, and I

1065
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: asked God for a sign that I can interpret for myself,

1066
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 1: so at least it would feel as though I was

1067
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: making my own decision, and a decision wasn't being made

1068
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 1: for me, so I I damn near begged for a sign.

1069
00:54:55,920 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 1: And then shortly after Tyres called Rashawn and asked for

1070
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: him to set something up, and we went to Philippe Chaw's.

1071
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: He came in with a backup singer and a guitarist.

1072
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 1: He performed Stay just for Rashwan and I. Then he

1073
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,800
Speaker 1: sat down for about four hours and we had a

1074
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: conversation and he tried to explain to me how a

1075
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: man can love you and still cheat at the same time,

1076
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: because I didn't really understand that. But at the end

1077
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 1: of the conversation I asked him, I said, you know,

1078
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: why are you here? Didn't You don't even know if

1079
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: I'm a good person. You don't know if this relationship

1080
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: is even worth salvaging. Why would you do that? You

1081
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 1: didn't know Rashwan, you have no dog in this fight.

1082
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: You have nothing to gain or lose. You're supposed to

1083
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: be at a wedding somewhere else. You changed your flights

1084
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: to be here. Why? He said, God sent me here

1085
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: to do this. I said, what do you mean, God

1086
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: sent you here to do this? He said, God sent me.

1087
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: I said, are you hearing voices? He said no, and

1088
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: then he reiterated verbatim exactly what Rashi had said to

1089
00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: me in my kitchen that day. And I had to

1090
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: ask Rushia m cirece. I said, is that like in

1091
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 1: the Bible? Is that what you just said? Is that

1092
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: like a thing that people know? And he said no,

1093
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you how I feel. Like, what do

1094
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 1: you mean? At that moment, I just like threw my

1095
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 1: hands up and I said okay, And I looked at

1096
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: Rashawn and I said, I forgive you. I don't know

1097
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 1: what that means. I will work on this with you.

1098
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how long that will take. I will

1099
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: do what I'm now believing is required of me. But

1100
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,319
Speaker 1: we're going to be in for a ride because I'm

1101
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: not really there. But I can commit to you in

1102
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: this moment because there is not that much coincidence in

1103
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:42,720
Speaker 1: the world for what just happened. Thank God. Yes, I'm sorry.

1104
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to my wife too. I just feel like apologize.

1105
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: We got more with my wife, Gia Casey. When we

1106
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 1: come back. We're talking out new book that's out right now,

1107
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 1: Real Life, Real Love. So don't go anywhere. It's to

1108
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

1109
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

1110
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:08,720
Speaker 1: a special guest still in the building, my wife, Gia Casey.

1111
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: We're talking about our new book, Real Life, Real Love,

1112
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 1: Life Lessons on Joy, pain and the magic that holds

1113
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: us together. You could pick it up today, or you

1114
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: can get it on Audible and kin do it or

1115
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: wherever you get your books. Yee. And let me ask you,

1116
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: because you know, for women, we always are like and

1117
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 1: like you said, Tyrese was having a conversation how a

1118
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: man can't cheat on you but still love you. Yeah,

1119
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: but why, like you know, that's something that for women

1120
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: we always want to know. And I'm sure you had

1121
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: so many conversations. I still don't like his answer. I

1122
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:40,919
Speaker 1: don't necessarily agree with what Tyree said. I really feel

1123
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: that until you know the definition of what love really means.

1124
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times people just say I

1125
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: love you, and oh it's oh, I love you. But

1126
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: until you understand the definition of what love means, then

1127
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 1: you realize I don't If I love somebody like I say,

1128
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: you don't want to hurt them. You don't want to

1129
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: cheat on them, you don't want to disrespect them, you

1130
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: don't want to have them looking crazy because you love

1131
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: that person. And I don't think I knew the definition

1132
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: of love. But when I figured that definition out of

1133
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: what love is and what gear meant to me, you know,

1134
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 1: you realize I don't want to hurt her. I don't

1135
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 1: want to see her cry, I don't want to see

1136
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: her feel a way. I don't want to disrespect that.

1137
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to be controlling. I don't want to

1138
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 1: be any of those things. And when you realize what

1139
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: that definition is, you your outlook of life changes. I

1140
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: agree with v and I'll add on because I've explored

1141
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: this in therapy to when you say you can cheatum

1142
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: and still love a person, you might, but you don't

1143
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: really love yourself. Yeah. I think a lot of times

1144
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: and not a lot of times all the time. Men

1145
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: cheat for ego. Oh, like that's it. It's wounded ego.

1146
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: It's something that we're lacking. It has nothing to do

1147
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: with all wives, nothing to do with our girlfriends. It's

1148
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: something that we feel like we're lacking for whatever reason,

1149
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: and that's what we go and do. It's literally just

1150
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: defeat our ego. Nothing cheat for the same reason as men,

1151
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: or you think it's different, like when women cheat, you

1152
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: think they cheat for different reasons. I think women also

1153
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: cheat for ego. Who doesn't like to have the attention

1154
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: of the opposite sex. You know, it's especially when you

1155
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: are at a deficit and you do have holes and

1156
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: you need those holes filled and most people have slight holes,

1157
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: you know, not that you're out there thirsty for the

1158
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: attention of the opposite sex, but even if it's of

1159
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: the same sex, when someone pays you a compliment, like

1160
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:19,439
Speaker 1: it's nice to be wanted, is essentially what I'm saying.

1161
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 1: So for women, yeah, I mean I think that if

1162
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: you're with someone and you cheat, I think a big

1163
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: part of it is ego. But then you know, you'll

1164
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: have people that say that they cheat because the person

1165
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: at home isn't doing what they're supposed to do, you know.

1166
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: And we have a son, Logan. He's eighteen, so he's

1167
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: starting to date seriously and whatnot now. And I had

1168
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 1: a conversation with him the other day and I said, listen,

1169
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: if you commit to a girl and you make her

1170
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, one thing I do not want you to

1171
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: do is cheat. Do not come to me and tell

1172
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 1: me that you guys broke up because you cheated on her,

1173
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: because I've raised you better than that. If you decide

1174
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: that you want something else or she's not satisfying whatever needs,

1175
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: you break up with her and move on to the next.

1176
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: And if within a week you feel the same way

1177
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 1: about that girl, break up with her and move on

1178
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 1: to the next. Do not cheat because you're sacrificing your

1179
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: own integrity when you do that, and that's pretty much

1180
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: a sign of really not loving yourself. When you love yourself,

1181
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: you want to be self actualized. You want to be

1182
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 1: your best self, You want to reach your highest potential.

1183
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: You want to be a kind, a good person, and

1184
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: you owe that to yourself. You don't necessarily owe it

1185
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 1: to the other person. You owe it to yourself to

1186
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: do those things. And that's what I'm trying to instill

1187
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 1: in him as my oldest male child. You know, one

1188
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: of the biggest things I think that came out of

1189
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 1: this was all the work that he did do on himself.

1190
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: And he was suicidal at a point. That's that's what

1191
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: we know that right. Yes, I don't think that was

1192
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: all because of what we were going on with you.

1193
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 1: I think it was, like I said, it was other

1194
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 1: things that he was dealing with inside of him that

1195
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: probably got him to that point. Yes, we would have

1196
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: to ask him because we've never had a conversation of

1197
01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: it being about anything besides them. I would say this.

1198
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: I would say, you know, I used to look at

1199
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: people who committed suicide as soft and sucker, like that's

1200
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 1: because that's what society made you think. Until I got

1201
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: into that predicament where I felt like my life, well

1202
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 1: everybody's life around me would be better if I wasn't here,

1203
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,880
Speaker 1: and I couldn't shake it. And the majority of it

1204
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 1: was losing my wife, losing my family, losing the thing

1205
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 1: that I knew and that I loved, and I really

1206
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 1: feel like I didn't want to be there, and and

1207
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 1: I guess it was everything else that we said, like

1208
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 1: the insecurities that made me do it, the insecurities around me,

1209
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: and I just didn't know who I was as a person.

1210
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: Oh that's powerful. But I will say during all of

1211
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 1: that and all those conversations and all those late night

1212
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: talks and with praying, you feel like you realize who

1213
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: you are as a person. And once you figure that out,

1214
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: you figure out who you want to be, who you

1215
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: want to who you want to live like, and you

1216
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 1: don't care about anything else. You know, at one time

1217
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: I used to care what people thought. Now I don't care.

1218
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: As long as my wife and my family's happy. Everything

1219
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,919
Speaker 1: else is just white noise behind it. Just think about

1220
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 1: how much younger you guys are as individuals, and your

1221
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: marriage is so much stronger after everything you've been through.

1222
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah. If he said something powerful

1223
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: to Because this business, this business will have you living

1224
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: a lie because we're characters, right, So we create these

1225
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:20,640
Speaker 1: characters that kind of protect the Rashan and protect the

1226
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 1: Lenard and we're going we go home and we one way,

1227
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 1: but then we're out in the street being another way.

1228
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 1: But you can't do both. Eventually, that negative is gonna

1229
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 1: catch up. Yeah, So that's that's why I think he

1230
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 1: was going through like, not only just the thread of

1231
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 1: losing you, but just like, who am I? What's that

1232
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: hard for you? Having this dual personality? Almost absolutely, because

1233
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 1: I mean like, nothing's better now than to not care

1234
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 1: what people think. You know, I would have to freedom.

1235
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: If freedom, I would have to think about what I

1236
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:48,360
Speaker 1: was saying in a radio and how it would affect me,

1237
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 1: how people would look at me. I would have to

1238
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: think about this or think about that instead of just

1239
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: being free and say, hey, it is what it is

1240
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 1: taking how you like it. If you like me, you

1241
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 1: like me. If you love me, you love me. If

1242
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: you hate me, you hate me. And once I got

1243
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: to that place, life became a whole lot better see

1244
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 1: a lot of gems in this buck, you, guys. I

1245
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: was thoroughly entertaining. Like I said, I look stressed. I

1246
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 1: think he even nervous all morning before you, guys, The

1247
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: book is out today. Go get it man. Make sure

1248
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 1: you pick it up. Real life, real love, Getting today

1249
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: life lessons on joy, pain and the magic that holds

1250
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: us together. That's right, Amazon, Barns and Nobles, wherever you

1251
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1252
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 1: and when you do read it, or you read it please.

1253
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: What we want you to do is we want you

1254
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: to tell us what you think about the book, whether

1255
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: it's a thirty second video taggy, and now we want

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Speaker 1: to repost it, whether you love it, whether you hate it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna repost all of them because we love to

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Speaker 1: get you guys's feedback. And I think that y'all gonna

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Speaker 1: help a lot of couples. And it's clear that y'all

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Speaker 1: too are meant to be with each other, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. One of my favorite chapters is called

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Speaker 1: The New Deal, and it's pretty much about reparations that

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Speaker 1: the offender has to make after offending their partner. And

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Speaker 1: it's those things that will help to let to signal

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Speaker 1: to your partner that you just may be worthy of

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Speaker 1: forgiveness and being extended grace. So what are those revelations?

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Speaker 1: The first thing people will say, Oh, that's why he

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Speaker 1: does the Twelve Days of Christmas. You know that's right.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people do say. But you know what's funny,

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Speaker 1: and that's the funny thing. We've always done twelve Days

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Speaker 1: of Christmas. We just never made it public. And it's

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Speaker 1: not the type of thing that At first, I ever

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Speaker 1: wanted to make public because it is grand, but I

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Speaker 1: decided to start posting it because it's not about the

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Speaker 1: material items that he gives me for Christmas. It's about

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Speaker 1: the intention behind it. It's about the thought. You know,

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Speaker 1: he starts shopping almost a year in advance for that,

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Speaker 1: and every gift comes with something special, a little note,

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Speaker 1: a little treasure hunt to find the gift, a prayer,

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Speaker 1: a poem, something that is giving up his heart, not

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01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: giving up his pocket. And that's why when you, you know,

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01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: you read the book and you hear y'all talk, that's

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01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: why you understand why he got too upset at these

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01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: and Marrow correct, you know what I'm saying, because y'all

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01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 1: relationship is so much deeper. Of course, you know, because

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Speaker 1: with their comment, it almost to me suggests as though

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01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: there's nothing else worthy about him that would signal me

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01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 1: to stay aside from what he has to offer financially.

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01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 1: And it's a joke, right, but we all know that

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01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: all jokes are rooted in some truth, and that's what

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Speaker 1: I think their truth was. Looking at it from an outsider,

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01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't some Jackie come lately and met somebody with

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01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: money and was like, oh, come up, we ground it

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01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:50,960
Speaker 1: out from day one. I was always there and supporting

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01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 1: him and loving him. And if he failed and wound

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Speaker 1: up being a secretary or anything followed another path, I

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01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 1: would still be there. Yeah, a proctologist, take it. It

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01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: took a beat to get that. I just can't believe

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Speaker 1: what are you talking. I'm just suggesting other career options

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01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 1: that you're gonna. I can't believe it's with me what

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01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,480
Speaker 1: my wife had, Like, you're disrespectful real life. Really, thank

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Speaker 1: you for having me, guys, that's right. Pick it up

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Speaker 1: today and it's the Breakfast Club Good morning. No, you

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01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 1: gotta tell this guests, I love you before you sign off. Yes,

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Speaker 1: dear Casey, thank you for joining us. I love you,

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01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: I love you. I love you way more. To Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: it's the Breakfast Club Good morning. But don't get you

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01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: are you Donkey? Today does not discriminate. I might not

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01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 1: have the song of today, but I got the donkey that.

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01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 1: So if you ever feel I need to be a

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01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 1: Donkey man with the Breakfast Club bitches, please don't keep

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Speaker 1: today today. Wow, Donkey here Today for Tuesday, April nineteenth

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Speaker 1: goes to the Pitchburg Mawlers of the USFL. I am

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01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 1: sure many of you never even heard of the USFL,

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01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: but that is the United States Football League. Eight teams,

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01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: two divisions North and South. Each team will play a

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01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: ten game schedule, and they had their first game last

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01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: night between the Tampa Bay Bandits and Pitchburg Mawlers, and

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01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:24,320
Speaker 1: the Tampa Bay Bandits won. But that's not why we

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Speaker 1: are here today. We are here because I need the

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Speaker 1: USFL to know that you will never be the NFL.

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Speaker 1: If y'all don't tough enough. I'm not talking about in

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Speaker 1: terms of the play. I'm talking about the coaches, organizations,

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01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: and leagues and league as a whole. Okay, seeing the NFL,

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01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 1: we have seen the players do actual criminal things and

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Speaker 1: keep their jobs. Okay, No need to go down the

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01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 1: long list of things we've seen NFL players do and

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Speaker 1: not get cut from teams. No need to go down

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01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 1: the long list of things we have seen NFL players

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01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: do and stay in the league. But it's some Haydou's defenses,

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01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 1: to say the least. Well. The USFL has the documentary

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01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: series chronicling the lead the lead up to the league turn.

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01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 1: It's titled United by foot by football the season in

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01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 1: the USFL, and there's a clip from the documentary that

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01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: shows Davion Smith being cut from the Pitchburg Mallers. Okay,

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01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 1: what you are about to hear is not a sketch

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01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: from Key and Pill. This is not Chappelle's jar an

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01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: episode of the Boondocks. These are actual events. Okay. Any

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01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 1: similarities the persons living or dead are actual events. Is

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01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 1: absolutely accurate. Okay, let's go to the USFL documentary to

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01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 1: see why Davion Smith was cut from the Pitchburg Mallers.

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01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 1: Any disrespect the football are members, staff, USFL, hotel, etc.

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01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:36,960
Speaker 1: Will not be tolerated. And it's been brought to my

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01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:41,640
Speaker 1: attention that has occurred with you, so unfortunately, unfortunately here

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01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:45,280
Speaker 1: unfortunately cost of doing business. I'm had to let you go.

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01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 1: I can tell you what happened exactly. It's not important,

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01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: it's already happened. I didn't say anything disrespectful. He said,

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01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:53,560
Speaker 1: is that gonna be a problem. I said yes, me

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01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 1: saying yes, I don't eat chickens out. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: you say, another option walked down with pizza and I

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01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: was kind of slice a pitch. He said no. I

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01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 1: was like he said, it's not gonna be a problem.

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01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 1: I said, yes, it's all I said. I say cuss

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01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: word nothing, It's all I said. I promise little discriable

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Speaker 1: on my dad's life. I promise trying to say nothing disrestrictful.

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01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 1: Because yes, and I appreciate you sharing that, but the

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01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:22,160
Speaker 1: matters it's done. Someone's feelings, hurt feelings or a distant

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01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 1: second to the greater good of the team. And we've

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01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 1: moved on to turn that page. And I'm happy we

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01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:32,719
Speaker 1: did it. David On Smith got cut because he wanted

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01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: pizza over chicken salad. That is considered crossing the line

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Speaker 1: in the USFL. That is considered disrespect to staff in

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01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: the USFL, at least on the Pitchburgh Malers, y'all are

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01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 1: never going to be the NFL at this rate. This

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01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 1: makes me not even want to watch. Okay, you got

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01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: this grown man explaining why he wanted pizza over chicken salad.

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01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 1: Chicken salad is cool? Is it? I don't even know

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01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 1: if it's cool, but I think majority of people would

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01:09:56,200 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: choose pizza over chicken salad. Now I know Maula's coach,

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01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:02,440
Speaker 1: Kirby Wilson, would they He fired Davion over the disrespect

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01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 1: and not the food request, but what was disrespectful about

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01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: what he said? They asked the man if he ate

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01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 1: chicken salad, and he answered, like the most of us

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01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 1: in this country would no, And he asked if there

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01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 1: was something else he could eat. When a staff member

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01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: came in with pizza, Davion claims he just asked if

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01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 1: he could have a slice. That's said nothing more than

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01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: nothing less. Where is the disrespect? I think it's more

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01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: disrespectful that a staff member couldn't share slice of pizza

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01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,679
Speaker 1: with a player. Let me hear that little part against

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01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: just so I know I'm not tripping. Let me hear it.

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01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:35,200
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything disrespectful. He said, is that gonna

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01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:37,680
Speaker 1: be a problem. I said yes, he's saying yes, I

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01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 1: don't eat chicken salad. And I was like, you said.

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01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 1: Another option walked down with pizza and I was like,

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01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 1: can I get slice of pizza? He said no. I

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01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: was like, he said, it's not gonna be a problem.

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01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 1: I said, yess, that's all I said. I say cuss word, nothing,

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01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:55,559
Speaker 1: no disrespect to your chicken lovers. You're chicken salad lovers.

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01:10:56,360 --> 01:11:00,400
Speaker 1: But who he's chicken salad I afforded to years old.

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01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,599
Speaker 1: It cannot think of one time I have ever ordered

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01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:05,639
Speaker 1: a chicken salad anything. I'll put grilled chicken on top

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01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 1: of my my salad. But chicken salad with the mayonnaise,

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01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 1: hard boiled eggs, celery, onion, pepper, pickles, and a variety

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01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 1: of mustards. That wasn't something that was happening in the

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Speaker 1: slums I'm from. Y'all eat chicken salad. We actually have

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01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: an amazing chicken salad toast that coffee uplifts people like

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01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 1: a coffee shop. Yeah, you seem like the chicken salad tape.

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01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: You eat chicken salad. When I heard chicken salad, I

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01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 1: thought it was salad with grilled chicken on. It knows

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01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 1: the chicken salad like you chicken salad red It sells

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01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 1: very well. Whenever I see chicken salad, I think to myself,

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01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 1: that's trans tuna okay, which I would never understand because

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01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,840
Speaker 1: chicken is chicken. Every meat wants to be like chicken.

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01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:45,519
Speaker 1: Whenever you're eating something that's not beef, turkey or goat,

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01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 1: what do we say it tastes like chicken? Okay? Every

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01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 1: meat wants to be like chicken, including tuna. What does

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01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 1: tuna call itself the chicken of the sea? So why

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01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 1: in the hell with chicken E would try to be like,

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01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 1: look like tuna. That's exactly what chicken salad is trans tuna. Okay,

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01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: Davion Smith is absolutely right in regardles. They're not eating

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01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 1: chicken salad, and the Pittsburgh Maulers and coach Kirby Moore

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01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:13,040
Speaker 1: should be ashamed in themselves. Okay, highly embarrassed that they

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01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:16,719
Speaker 1: cut that man because he chose pizza and y'all chose

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01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 1: violence in the form of feeding people chicken salad. Please

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01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 1: give the Pittsburgh Maulers and coach Kirby more of the

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01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 1: USFL the biggest he hall write salad. Can somebody put

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01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:33,960
Speaker 1: that poll up on breakfast club page. I don't know

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01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 1: if chicken chickens all of the thing. Yeah, and then

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01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: maybe where are you from? I mean, I didn't grow

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01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 1: up eating that, but people really enjoy it and like it.

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01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 1: I order chicken salad from Chick fil A. No, you're

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01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 1: talking No, you're talking about a grilled chicken salad and

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01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 1: I ain't. I'm talking about people bees. No, I ain't

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01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: talking about that kind of salad that comes with lettuce

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01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:54,880
Speaker 1: and chail and spinach. That pretty good. I'm talking about

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01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:58,560
Speaker 1: the lettuce. The chicken salad that looks like tuna. I

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01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:00,880
Speaker 1: don't need to see food, so like I eatna fish

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01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: trans tuna. That's what chicken salad is. Next time you

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01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 1: order a chicken. If you ever walk into a place

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01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: in order that chicken salad, they can I have one

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01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 1: order of trans tuna. Police, but you didn't know exactly

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01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Oh that looks discussing exactly all right, Well,

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01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Donkey to day. Now when we

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01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 1: come back, let's talk orgasms. What happened? It's not Friday?

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01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 1: What the hell you put a suit on? When the

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01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 1: hell did you put a suit on? I just did

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01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 1: you really? Goes from power? You just had on street

1439
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 1: with and then this, all of a sudden you had

1440
01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 1: on a suit. I gotta do good. My tripping Nick

1441
01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 1: did he just have on screet with? I did that?

1442
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 1: I gotta do good. Than in the York Let's morning,

1443
01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: it's like clean up a little bit, Okay, get your shop,

1444
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 1: you show you bid in. So yesterday we did an

1445
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,400
Speaker 1: interview with the Shade Room. In the Shade Room, of course,

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01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 1: only posted a part of the interview, and this is

1447
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 1: the part in the shade Room. I'm sure so many

1448
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: women can relate, like, you want to reward that man

1449
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 1: for that work, and the only reward that you have

1450
01:13:57,640 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: to offer is an orgasm. But even if I didn't

1451
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 1: feel it, I would still be performative. I was faking it.

1452
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 1: You got into like an argument and then she was like, well,

1453
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: you know, I don't mean having an orgasm. I'm triggering

1454
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:16,640
Speaker 1: any time. And she was like yeah, And then that

1455
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 1: just crushed me because I was didn't work. Like I'm

1456
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: sitting there think I'm you know, big daddy long legg.

1457
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 1: I thought, even if you are big daddy long leg,

1458
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:31,680
Speaker 1: that don't mean that you're doing it right. Okay, all right,

1459
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: so let's let's let's open up the phone. You ain't

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01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 1: working that middle just because you big daddy long leg.

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01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 1: You got to know what you're doing down there. Five

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01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: eight five, one oh five one. We're asking ladies, have

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01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: you ever faked an orgasm? And if you did, why? Uh?

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01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:45,920
Speaker 1: You know, when me and my wife wrote this book,

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01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:48,479
Speaker 1: I found out years ago that she was faking orgasm.

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01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:52,640
Speaker 1: So pretty much our first ten years of our relationship.

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01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 1: She absolutely goes into it in more depth on lift

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01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 1: service while you were not in the room. I've heard

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01:14:58,160 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 1: this before, I even read it in the book. I

1470
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:01,759
Speaker 1: don't know why. So funny right now. You gotta remember

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01:15:01,800 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 1: we were together since sixteen and fifteen, so at about

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01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:06,600
Speaker 1: seventeen when we started having sex, I didn't know what

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01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 1: I was the one she was. I was. You said

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01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 1: you was big Daddy long Lad. Was big Daddy long Lad,

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01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: and I didn't know it. Didn it realized you had

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01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: to be a man dingle. Okay, tan dingle? All right,

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01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,160
Speaker 1: Well I thought I was a tan dingo, right, we're

1478
01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 1: talking about And for the first you know, years, a

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01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: couple of years, I didn't know what I was doing,

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01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: and we had I had to learn her body and

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01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:30,240
Speaker 1: learn what made her orgasm. So we're asking, ladies head,

1482
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:32,280
Speaker 1: you have to faked an orgasm? If so, wire, let's

1483
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:34,479
Speaker 1: talk about make that sounds so non lunk king. We're

1484
01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 1: gonna stay on you for a while, right, and you

1485
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:40,559
Speaker 1: ain't stayed on you a decade. Daddy long Lad took

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01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 1: a long lag a decade. I'm good that we've been

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01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 1: together twenty seven years. First nine ten was a little right.

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01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 1: Are you sure you good? How do you know you're good?

1489
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 1: How you know the acting hasn't gotten better? M you

1490
01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:56,759
Speaker 1: want to try? I haven't the orgasm twelve years from okay,

1491
01:15:57,120 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 1: so I feel her? Page you look five five one,

1492
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: let's talk about I hate you? Was the Breakfast Club?

1493
01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 1: Good Ward the Breakfast Club. It's topic time called eight

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01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one oh five. Wanted to join

1495
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: it to the discussion with the breakfast Club, talk about

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01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 1: it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.

1497
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining

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01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: us with talking? Have you ever faked an orgasm? Now?

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01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:33,720
Speaker 1: This came from my new book, Real Life, Real Love

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01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 1: that's out right now. The wife and I did an

1501
01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:38,519
Speaker 1: interview with Shade Room and they posted a clip of

1502
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:41,640
Speaker 1: it and Gia talks about her faking an orgasm, and

1503
01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 1: she faked it for a long time. And we had

1504
01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:45,760
Speaker 1: to learn each other's bodies. I mean we didn't know

1505
01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 1: it when I met us. She was fifteen, I was sixteen,

1506
01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 1: and we had to learn each other. You didn't have

1507
01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 1: to fake it, right, No, I didn't have to fake Sorry,

1508
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:55,080
Speaker 1: you had to go through that shut on a scale

1509
01:16:55,080 --> 01:16:57,439
Speaker 1: of one of your beard and hairline. How fake was

1510
01:16:57,479 --> 01:17:00,960
Speaker 1: her orgasm? Yee? Have you ever faked the orgast? No,

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01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:02,960
Speaker 1: not really, I've just lied about it, but I've never

1512
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:06,679
Speaker 1: made like the noises and pretended it was happening. Goodness, greasious.

1513
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:11,000
Speaker 1: But women don't have orgasms, well unless you're super fortunate.

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01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:15,320
Speaker 1: Every time, you know, um, I think that we should.

1515
01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 1: This is you know, you know what joking the reality

1516
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:20,800
Speaker 1: of the situation is the best thing that y'all did

1517
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,519
Speaker 1: in that situation is talk about it correct, you know

1518
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:25,519
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Even though she did have to lie

1519
01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:27,640
Speaker 1: for ten years, you know what I mean, I think

1520
01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:29,280
Speaker 1: you should have You know, she should have told you

1521
01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: the truth much much sooner. But you do have to

1522
01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:34,080
Speaker 1: have those conversations, you know what I mean, Like, you know,

1523
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 1: don't worry about hurting the man's ego. Like if that

1524
01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:39,840
Speaker 1: man isn't doing what he's supposed to be doing, you know,

1525
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 1: tell him so y'all can figure out how to do

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01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 1: it properly so everybody can be satisfied. Yes, then after

1527
01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 1: we had that conversation, everything was fun after that. But

1528
01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:50,680
Speaker 1: you know, like I said, we were learning each other.

1529
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 1: It sounds sad. It does sound sad. It sounds like

1530
01:17:56,280 --> 01:18:02,479
Speaker 1: chicken salad for smary. Shut up. Hello, Hello, Hey, what's

1531
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: your name? Hey Alicia? You have a faked an orgasm? Yeah?

1532
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 1: Out of thirteen years of being es sexually active, I

1533
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:12,000
Speaker 1: maybe had three of them. And dudes be adamant. But

1534
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:14,760
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, nah, you got wet. Nah, that don't

1535
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: mean I had an orgasm. I beat on you. Do

1536
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:20,080
Speaker 1: you still enjoy sex even if you don't have an orgasm? Though?

1537
01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: I mean no, Honestly, it's like I'm getting humped on

1538
01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 1: letting that man sweat on you for no reason, for

1539
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 1: no reason. That's why you gotta have these conversations. You

1540
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:34,880
Speaker 1: gotta tell the man what they're doing wrong. Man, But

1541
01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: it's hard. They have those conversations when you're a teenager.

1542
01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:41,680
Speaker 1: A conversation and this man and had his egos, like

1543
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 1: what so we've been doing this this long? And you're

1544
01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 1: telling me, Yeah, that's what I'm telling you. Nah, Nah,

1545
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: it's not that all right. I get what you're saying.

1546
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:54,880
Speaker 1: Men do have fragile egos. Didn't want to hear this feeling,

1547
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 1: but in order to boost him, because you got to

1548
01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: think about it all you're offering him his free lessons,

1549
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 1: so that means more sex until y'all get it right. Yeah,

1550
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 1: I still hurts you. Hey, who's desire? Hey, come onrning desire?

1551
01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 1: Have you faked all guys before? Yes? I have? How

1552
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 1: many times? And why it was? Like you my youth?

1553
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 1: Because I guess I older me, so I hears it

1554
01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:21,080
Speaker 1: was in my youth when I used to do a

1555
01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 1: lot of faking because you know, I didn't really know

1556
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 1: what the real orgasm was until I got like, you know,

1557
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,600
Speaker 1: up an age, So why you recognize it? Okay, this

1558
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: but it is okay, you need to know your body better.

1559
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:37,200
Speaker 1: Why that old man didn't know what he was doing? Nah,

1560
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:39,640
Speaker 1: they ain't know what they were So now hold on

1561
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:41,680
Speaker 1: when you say old man, what do you mean old man?

1562
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 1: How old are you? Hey? That time my father was like,

1563
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: was like maybe about to push the borgan I was.

1564
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 1: She was twenty one and he was about maybe about

1565
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:56,519
Speaker 1: to push forty Okay, okay, it was gonna be a

1566
01:19:56,760 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 1: different all right. Yeah, it's hard to tell people what

1567
01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 1: the if you don't even know correct eight on drink

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01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:05,160
Speaker 1: five A five one on five one. We're asking have

1569
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 1: you ever faked the orgasm. Yesterday we did an interview

1570
01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 1: with Shade Room and they posted a clip of it

1571
01:20:09,840 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 1: where Get was talking about how she faked the orgasm.

1572
01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 1: It's in out of a new book, Real Life, Real Love,

1573
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:15,800
Speaker 1: It and the reason that she did fake it, and

1574
01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 1: how we got over that. We're very transparent to hopefully

1575
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:21,519
Speaker 1: we can help you guys and start these conversations. So, man,

1576
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:23,439
Speaker 1: there was a question I should have asked her. I

1577
01:20:23,560 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 1: just was thinking about it. Have you ever faked the orgasm?

1578
01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: That's the question. N why it's the breakfast Club, Good

1579
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 1: morning and your opinions to the Breakfast Club one morning.

1580
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

1581
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:51,720
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. If you're just joining us, we're

1582
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 1: asking have you ever faked in orgasm? Now? This comes

1583
01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 1: from my new book with my wife, Real Life, Real Love.

1584
01:20:57,560 --> 01:20:59,559
Speaker 1: We were talking with Shade Room yesterday and they played

1585
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 1: the clip one Shade Room and I've seen it had

1586
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 1: like over three million views. It was crazy. People were

1587
01:21:04,880 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 1: asking that people were joking like hot but it happens

1588
01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 1: for me and my wife were together. Since I said,

1589
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 1: very well, those guys laughing done. Gotta lied to all

1590
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:14,880
Speaker 1: you guys in there that were laughing and making jokes.

1591
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:17,400
Speaker 1: You're just not honest with yourself. Now, Charloman hasn't happen

1592
01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 1: to you, um, not that I know of. But I mean,

1593
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 1: you know, me and my wife have been together for

1594
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 1: twenty four years or it's not like, you know, either

1595
01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:27,479
Speaker 1: one of us came out the gate, you know, knowing

1596
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 1: exactly what we were doing. But you know, you you

1597
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: grow and you evolve, and the more you're with each other,

1598
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:35,120
Speaker 1: the more you start to talk to each other about

1599
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:36,920
Speaker 1: what it is that you like, what it is that

1600
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,600
Speaker 1: you don't like, how you like it, you know, and

1601
01:21:39,760 --> 01:21:41,800
Speaker 1: and those are the conversations you should have when you're

1602
01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:43,680
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Like, I don't understand people that sit

1603
01:21:43,800 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 1: around and just have terrible sex for no damn reason.

1604
01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,040
Speaker 1: You're lucky you were her first. Yeah, you know what

1605
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:53,880
Speaker 1: I mean, Like it makes no sense. It maybe orgasm

1606
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:56,360
Speaker 1: now I'm stuck here, right, But also most people the

1607
01:21:56,640 --> 01:21:58,800
Speaker 1: truth to the matter is, most people's first orgasms come

1608
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:01,200
Speaker 1: from themselves, you know what I'm saying, when they're playing

1609
01:22:01,200 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: around and experience experiment with masturbation. That's not how mine came.

1610
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:06,760
Speaker 1: We don't want to know I feel like that stuff

1611
01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:11,880
Speaker 1: become a resource problem. Hello, who's this all right? This

1612
01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 1: is Creed, Good Morning, Breakfast Club, Good morning. We're asking

1613
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 1: have you ever faked in orgasm? Of course, of course

1614
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:26,000
Speaker 1: how many times? An I don't think there's anybody that don't. Right,

1615
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:29,880
Speaker 1: what's the point women? I'm talking about women? Um, I

1616
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:33,480
Speaker 1: think it's a I think it's along with age and experience.

1617
01:22:33,760 --> 01:22:35,680
Speaker 1: I was kind of a late bloomer when it came

1618
01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 1: to sex. I didn't lose my virginia until eighteen, and then, um,

1619
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,519
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't really sure of how it had

1620
01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:45,280
Speaker 1: to go, how it was supposed to go. So, you know,

1621
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:48,840
Speaker 1: being young, we're all learning, you know, we're all learning

1622
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:52,040
Speaker 1: on what's supposed to happen, how it's supposed to feel.

1623
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:55,600
Speaker 1: And it's a process. I don't think it's you know,

1624
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:58,560
Speaker 1: anything that we don't know what else to do. If

1625
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:01,960
Speaker 1: you've been in the process of huffing and puffing and

1626
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:06,680
Speaker 1: sweating for you're like, okay, time to just stop. But

1627
01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:09,599
Speaker 1: that's what I understand. What's the point of faking the orgasm?

1628
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:11,880
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't help either party, That doesn't. But I

1629
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 1: think you got to get to a point where you

1630
01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. So I was saying, it's a process of

1631
01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:19,240
Speaker 1: you know, I think of I haven't done it as

1632
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:21,160
Speaker 1: a grown woman, but when I was younger, I did

1633
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 1: and I didn't know how to express myself and communicate

1634
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:26,920
Speaker 1: and let them know, you know, this is what you

1635
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 1: have to do here. And I was still learning my

1636
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 1: own body, right, But you to type my forties and

1637
01:23:32,479 --> 01:23:35,040
Speaker 1: when I hit my prime, oh no, I won't take anything.

1638
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:37,599
Speaker 1: So you to type to say out, you might get

1639
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 1: this right hard? You the type to say out even

1640
01:23:40,400 --> 01:23:42,760
Speaker 1: when the man pepe little. I don't know, you know,

1641
01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:44,920
Speaker 1: I mean when I was younger, like I said, I

1642
01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 1: didn't know it was it was a learning experience. But

1643
01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:51,120
Speaker 1: you know, as you get older, women hit their parme

1644
01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 1: in their forties. I don't know any woman in their

1645
01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:55,800
Speaker 1: forties who's still faking it, all right, I would hope,

1646
01:23:55,960 --> 01:23:58,920
Speaker 1: I would hope. Now you shouldn't be faking it, and

1647
01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:01,240
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be saying out wing the man people. Little.

1648
01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:03,439
Speaker 1: You're saying out wing the man people little? You're supergrim.

1649
01:24:03,640 --> 01:24:07,519
Speaker 1: What are you saying? You don't say nothing? Little? Hello?

1650
01:24:07,640 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This Lenn? Do you fake orgasms? Okay?

1651
01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:15,479
Speaker 1: I have fake orgasms in the past. And um, women

1652
01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:20,519
Speaker 1: do fake orgasms all the time, more than men might know. Um,

1653
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:25,599
Speaker 1: and mostly it's because man die out here probably had

1654
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:28,640
Speaker 1: a sex with themselves, like they'd be doing it for

1655
01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 1: what makes them feel good. Then you forgetting to get

1656
01:24:30,960 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 1: the woman off. So then women have to lay there

1657
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:39,400
Speaker 1: and you know I can't. And then we did it,

1658
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, you know you get good. Really

1659
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:43,720
Speaker 1: you did it. I'm about to go get my toy

1660
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:47,040
Speaker 1: and finish myself off. Wow, Like I'm gonna get it.

1661
01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:49,640
Speaker 1: It's just not from you. Wow, Okay, not from you,

1662
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 1: And it happens, and it's unfortunate. But when you want

1663
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 1: somebody like you know or you like really like when

1664
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:57,840
Speaker 1: you care about, you're gonna tell them like, hey baby,

1665
01:24:57,880 --> 01:24:59,560
Speaker 1: that's not really wonderful me or this is what you

1666
01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:01,720
Speaker 1: have to do. Would you do that next to him

1667
01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 1: if he didn't finish it? Like, if he didn't finish,

1668
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 1: would you grab your toy and lay next to him

1669
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:09,519
Speaker 1: and finish? Yeah, Like I mean, if if it's somebody

1670
01:25:09,560 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 1: that you're comfortable way, you know, like sometimes even sometimes

1671
01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:17,639
Speaker 1: when you win your man for a long time, they're

1672
01:25:17,640 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: not gonna do it. Anytime, right, It doesn't always happen. Yeah, yeah,

1673
01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:23,800
Speaker 1: you know. I think I think it's fair that women

1674
01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 1: fake all gasms because men fake liking liking women in

1675
01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 1: their poom poom all the time. And that's not a

1676
01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 1: conversation a woman can handle. You can't tell a woman

1677
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 1: that her poom pooms trash. Y'all would have a fit.

1678
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:37,679
Speaker 1: You need to have conversations. They need to ask, Hey,

1679
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:41,360
Speaker 1: what do you like? Not enough people ask what do

1680
01:25:41,520 --> 01:25:45,120
Speaker 1: you like? That's an important question. Everybody does not like

1681
01:25:45,280 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 1: the same thing in that sogasm. Men fake like woman.

1682
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:52,599
Speaker 1: It happens because then when a man tells a woman

1683
01:25:52,600 --> 01:25:54,439
Speaker 1: to her poom poom trash, what does she do? What

1684
01:25:54,560 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 1: can you do for that? As a woman? One man's

1685
01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:00,720
Speaker 1: chest is another man's treasure. Allegedly you talked about the

1686
01:26:02,120 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 1: same thing you said, what I want to do? Guys

1687
01:26:04,320 --> 01:26:06,080
Speaker 1: fake it that. I've heard guys say they faked it

1688
01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:09,479
Speaker 1: before too, really on lip service, they've talked about it. Okay,

1689
01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:11,920
Speaker 1: what's the moral of the story, guards. The moral of

1690
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:15,160
Speaker 1: the story is, go buy Real Life, Real Love, the

1691
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Speaker 1: book by Gear Casey and DJ Envious out the day

1692
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Speaker 1: everywhere you buy books. Man, if you like laughing at

1693
01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:23,240
Speaker 1: DJ Envy like I do. This is the book for

1694
01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 1: you and may it made me feel like I gotta

1695
01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:29,040
Speaker 1: be nice of the listening. The subtitle of this book

1696
01:26:29,040 --> 01:26:32,559
Speaker 1: could have been the roast of Rashawn Casey. All right, okay,

1697
01:26:33,479 --> 01:26:37,760
Speaker 1: it is the one woman rose from gear. Casey went

1698
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 1: through a lot, but I definitely wanted to give h

1699
01:26:40,200 --> 01:26:42,200
Speaker 1: after that. That's the evolution. When we start young, we

1700
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:45,760
Speaker 1: don't really know. I was an f void coming up

1701
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:47,760
Speaker 1: and I changed. Now I'm this nice person. Now you're

1702
01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:50,360
Speaker 1: a man. You're a king up with a fake beard.

1703
01:26:51,120 --> 01:26:53,599
Speaker 1: Oh my god. We got rumors all the way, you idiots. Yes,

1704
01:26:53,640 --> 01:26:55,760
Speaker 1: and the man who supplied drugs to mac Miller has

1705
01:26:55,800 --> 01:26:59,200
Speaker 1: been sentenced to nearly eleven years in prison, will tell

1706
01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 1: you what he had to say, all right. And also tonight,

1707
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:04,240
Speaker 1: I know since COVID there's still a lot of bookstores

1708
01:27:04,280 --> 01:27:06,759
Speaker 1: that's not doing book signings. We're gonna be on virtual

1709
01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 1: at live signing dot Com. Shout to Premiere Collectibles and

1710
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Speaker 1: Premiere book so you can join us tonight. Just hit

1711
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Speaker 1: me on the Instagram to see where, and we're gonna

1712
01:27:14,160 --> 01:27:16,160
Speaker 1: be talking to you guys, taking your questions virtually So

1713
01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:17,880
Speaker 1: if you have questions you read the book, you started

1714
01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:19,360
Speaker 1: reading the book, and you want some questions, you could

1715
01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:22,519
Speaker 1: ask me and ge. That's tonight Premiere Collectible. That's Live

1716
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Speaker 1: Signing dot Com right. Rumors up next, this is the

1717
01:27:29,080 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 1: Rumor Report with angelin Listen. T has moved up his

1718
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:42,040
Speaker 1: It's Almost Dry album release date. It was originally coming

1719
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:44,800
Speaker 1: in May, but now April twenty second is the date.

1720
01:27:44,840 --> 01:27:47,960
Speaker 1: He posted on his Instagram page along with a clip

1721
01:27:48,080 --> 01:28:14,560
Speaker 1: where he's channeling his inner joker praying Father's custom fun you.

1722
01:28:15,720 --> 01:28:18,519
Speaker 1: So that's what is that? This Friday? Just Friday. Yep.

1723
01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:20,360
Speaker 1: I already told y'all this to push your tea's best

1724
01:28:20,400 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 1: body of work. Um. Most people who've heard It's Almost

1725
01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:28,280
Speaker 1: Dry absolutely positively agree. So I can't wait for the

1726
01:28:28,360 --> 01:28:31,000
Speaker 1: Eco system to hear um, push your Tea. Yeah, I

1727
01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:33,320
Speaker 1: haven't heard yet. I'm excited about this one this weekend. Now,

1728
01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:36,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna sell more than Coilare. I mean, we have

1729
01:28:36,960 --> 01:28:40,240
Speaker 1: to ask those questions. You know, first week's sales don't matter,

1730
01:28:40,360 --> 01:28:42,840
Speaker 1: they don't. I'm just saying people did a great job

1731
01:28:42,880 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 1: of her singles. Sure, and I salute the Coilare and

1732
01:28:45,920 --> 01:28:47,760
Speaker 1: everything that she did. I'm just saying that people are

1733
01:28:47,840 --> 01:28:50,040
Speaker 1: going to be looking for that, all right. Well that's

1734
01:28:50,080 --> 01:28:51,840
Speaker 1: to bad to sales battle. We didn't know we needed,

1735
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:54,920
Speaker 1: all right, bu Benzino did drop a new song cause

1736
01:28:54,960 --> 01:28:57,840
Speaker 1: Zino versus the Planet where he addresses Coilarey as well

1737
01:28:57,880 --> 01:29:00,439
Speaker 1: as fifty cents here is a part of it. But

1738
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 1: so did see no versus the class know your daddy,

1739
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,360
Speaker 1: lo you love you, love you Internet nigga sucker sucker

1740
01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:07,559
Speaker 1: suckers on the tripping blame a mother and mother muthers,

1741
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:10,160
Speaker 1: you know, straight out an undercover love saucers round. I

1742
01:29:10,280 --> 01:29:12,400
Speaker 1: was rich with the buzzlers loving him prof the Trump

1743
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 1: and crap clus. When I do a show, promoters book

1744
01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:17,439
Speaker 1: another safe to say. I'm a hustling motherfuck first word

1745
01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:20,080
Speaker 1: from a blogger see this ship the Saint, don't bother me.

1746
01:29:20,160 --> 01:29:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm a begining from the bloody ban. Y'all told some

1747
01:29:22,640 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 1: of my feet because I'm rapped the three I'm put

1748
01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:26,400
Speaker 1: the cover. Don't judge of Chee to see me in

1749
01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:28,680
Speaker 1: person and hugger Chee. But the man was saying, yo

1750
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:30,400
Speaker 1: off with me. I'm gonna need you to keep the

1751
01:29:30,439 --> 01:29:33,120
Speaker 1: same man the cheese and then you know he's been

1752
01:29:33,160 --> 01:29:36,400
Speaker 1: going back and forth with fifty regarding his relationship with

1753
01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:39,840
Speaker 1: Transaction Shan of Brooks. Here's what he said about fifty.

1754
01:29:40,240 --> 01:29:42,680
Speaker 1: He keep it on hunted. I helped you when they

1755
01:29:42,800 --> 01:29:45,160
Speaker 1: jumped you. I should have let him coach you, just

1756
01:29:45,360 --> 01:29:48,000
Speaker 1: like came in when they stumped you. My ex got me.

1757
01:29:48,120 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 1: You're arrested. Whin I win there, take my son up.

1758
01:29:50,840 --> 01:29:53,599
Speaker 1: But all that zeister ever did was trying to help

1759
01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:56,439
Speaker 1: her come up. All right, Well, hopefully the two of them.

1760
01:29:56,880 --> 01:29:59,120
Speaker 1: Actually no, I don't know if they'll ever resolve. Things

1761
01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:01,640
Speaker 1: in fifty will never stop. So there you have it,

1762
01:30:01,920 --> 01:30:04,000
Speaker 1: all right. Amber Rose has revealed that she needs help

1763
01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:05,760
Speaker 1: with the slut Walk this year in order for the

1764
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:09,080
Speaker 1: event to continue. Here's what you had to say. Hey guys,

1765
01:30:09,160 --> 01:30:12,000
Speaker 1: we're on our way to Coachella and today we are

1766
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:16,320
Speaker 1: wearing SlutWalk twenty twenty two because we haven't had a

1767
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:19,080
Speaker 1: SlutWalk in three years. The first year I was pregnant

1768
01:30:19,080 --> 01:30:20,640
Speaker 1: and I was very sick, so I couldn't do it,

1769
01:30:21,080 --> 01:30:23,400
Speaker 1: and obviously the last two years because of Covie. But

1770
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:27,680
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, guys, I personally cannot do

1771
01:30:27,800 --> 01:30:31,200
Speaker 1: SlutWalk by myself. Anymore. I just can't like, I need

1772
01:30:31,280 --> 01:30:33,240
Speaker 1: a lot of sponsors, I need a lot of money

1773
01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:36,600
Speaker 1: to put it on. I need Live Nation, AEG. I

1774
01:30:36,760 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 1: need somebody big to really come in and help me

1775
01:30:39,160 --> 01:30:43,439
Speaker 1: with this, because, you know, just by myself and me

1776
01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:47,320
Speaker 1: and my team, over twenty thousand people show up. She

1777
01:30:47,439 --> 01:30:49,720
Speaker 1: went ahead and tell people to please tag AEG and

1778
01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 1: Live Nation to get this done. And she wants to

1779
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:54,759
Speaker 1: have it in Miami this year so everybody can go crazy,

1780
01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 1: all right, And the Kardashians have appeared in court yesterday

1781
01:30:57,840 --> 01:31:01,040
Speaker 1: for Jerry's selection in the family's case against Black China.

1782
01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:04,320
Speaker 1: Now they're saying that Kim Kardashian, Chloe Kardashian, Kylie, and

1783
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:06,799
Speaker 1: Chris jan Are all appeared in court, but Rob Kardashian,

1784
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:10,320
Speaker 1: whose Black China's X, was not there. They were there

1785
01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:13,519
Speaker 1: to present to witness their legal team, and China's own

1786
01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:17,200
Speaker 1: representatives were there to select the child's jury. All right.

1787
01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 1: So Black China was also spotted making her way into

1788
01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:23,719
Speaker 1: the courthouse. Now, according to Associated Press, they're saying potential

1789
01:31:23,840 --> 01:31:28,479
Speaker 1: jurors actually had some issues with the Kardashians and aired

1790
01:31:28,520 --> 01:31:32,080
Speaker 1: their disdain to their faces. One person said anything that

1791
01:31:32,160 --> 01:31:33,599
Speaker 1: has to do with their names. It's just a big

1792
01:31:33,720 --> 01:31:36,320
Speaker 1: no for me. Another said, I sincerely hope none of

1793
01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:39,040
Speaker 1: these people get any wealthier because of this. One woman

1794
01:31:39,080 --> 01:31:41,040
Speaker 1: said her teenage door to charge to watch Keeping Up

1795
01:31:41,080 --> 01:31:42,760
Speaker 1: with the Kardashians when it first came on, but she

1796
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:44,640
Speaker 1: put a stop to it. She said, I don't think

1797
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:46,600
Speaker 1: they were the best role models. I wouldn't let her

1798
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:50,720
Speaker 1: watch anything involving them. One person said, I just want

1799
01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:52,719
Speaker 1: to say I have a very negative perception of the parties,

1800
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:55,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not sure I could be unbiased. So those

1801
01:31:55,240 --> 01:31:57,479
Speaker 1: were some people that they were looking at as far

1802
01:31:57,520 --> 01:31:59,479
Speaker 1: as China choose who is going to be part of

1803
01:31:59,560 --> 01:32:02,719
Speaker 1: that jury? And The man who supplied drugs to Macmiller

1804
01:32:02,760 --> 01:32:06,160
Speaker 1: has been sentenced to nearly eleven years in prison for

1805
01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:10,320
Speaker 1: his involvement in that accidental drug overdose. Ryan Michael Reeves,

1806
01:32:10,360 --> 01:32:12,240
Speaker 1: who's thirty nine years old, said he was the middleman

1807
01:32:12,280 --> 01:32:14,960
Speaker 1: with no knowledge that the counterfeit pills he provided to

1808
01:32:15,040 --> 01:32:17,160
Speaker 1: another drug dealer were laced with fentanol. He said he

1809
01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:20,200
Speaker 1: did not know the pills that he provided caused Macmiller's

1810
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:23,360
Speaker 1: death until his arrest in Arizona in September twenty nineteen.

1811
01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:26,000
Speaker 1: According to the press, he said, this is not just

1812
01:32:26,120 --> 01:32:28,840
Speaker 1: a regular drug case. Somebody died and a family is

1813
01:32:28,920 --> 01:32:30,760
Speaker 1: never going to get their sun back. My family would

1814
01:32:30,760 --> 01:32:32,920
Speaker 1: be wrecked if it was me. They'd never be all right,

1815
01:32:33,040 --> 01:32:34,840
Speaker 1: never truly get over it. I think about that all

1816
01:32:34,880 --> 01:32:37,680
Speaker 1: the time. He also was sentenced to three years of

1817
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:41,280
Speaker 1: supervised release with drug testing. All right, I'm Mandela Yee

1818
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:43,600
Speaker 1: and that is your rumor reports. All right, thank you,

1819
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Speaker 1: miss Yee. All right again, make sure if you're out

1820
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Speaker 1: and about today you pick up me and my wife's

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Speaker 1: new book, Real Life, Real Love Life Lessons on Joy,

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Speaker 1: Pain and the Magic that holds Us together. Picking up

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1825
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Speaker 1: Definitely pick it up and let's have a discussion about

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Speaker 1: Good morning, So Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be

1829
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1836
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Speaker 1: out to my beautiful, amazing, intelligent wife for joining me

1837
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Speaker 1: this morning, joining us this morning. Our book Real Life,

1838
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Speaker 1: Real Love is out right now. Life lessons Enjoy, pain

1839
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:46,400
Speaker 1: and the magic that holds us together. Yeah, and you

1840
01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:48,640
Speaker 1: ain't really keep that same energy, bro. All of that

1841
01:33:48,760 --> 01:33:50,720
Speaker 1: flirting you'd be doing with me, you wasn't really doing

1842
01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:52,880
Speaker 1: that when she was sitting here. So I just need

1843
01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:55,439
Speaker 1: you to know, my g it's cheating from now on.

1844
01:33:55,960 --> 01:33:58,639
Speaker 1: Anytime you flirt with me from now on, it's cheating.

1845
01:33:58,960 --> 01:34:00,840
Speaker 1: What you wouldn't do in your wife's face, what you

1846
01:34:00,880 --> 01:34:03,880
Speaker 1: do behind your back is cheating. Okay, so you haven't

1847
01:34:03,920 --> 01:34:07,559
Speaker 1: learned anything, So let's write the next book, Real Life,

1848
01:34:07,680 --> 01:34:12,599
Speaker 1: Real but right. Okay, what did it say? The joy,

1849
01:34:13,240 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 1: the pain and the ka that keeps us together? Grow up?

1850
01:34:19,240 --> 01:34:22,200
Speaker 1: You grow up? Oh my goodness. But definitely pick up

1851
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Speaker 1: the book today if you're out and about, and if

1852
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Speaker 1: you do, get the book post a picture with the book,

1853
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Speaker 1: and we would love to repost it and also let

1854
01:34:28,400 --> 01:34:29,840
Speaker 1: us know what you think about the book. We're very

1855
01:34:29,880 --> 01:34:32,560
Speaker 1: transparent and hopefully it can help you in your relationship.

1856
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:35,080
Speaker 1: We just trying to be transparent at this point, whether

1857
01:34:35,120 --> 01:34:38,160
Speaker 1: it's with real estate, whether it's with whatever we do investments,

1858
01:34:38,200 --> 01:34:41,599
Speaker 1: and definitely our relationship to hopefully help somebody out there.

1859
01:34:42,040 --> 01:34:43,479
Speaker 1: I mean, you can already see what the book is

1860
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Speaker 1: gonna start mad conversations. Absolutely, you know what I mean.

1861
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Speaker 1: And that's all you want. You know what I mean.

1862
01:34:47,720 --> 01:34:50,320
Speaker 1: All you want is a good a literary body of

1863
01:34:50,400 --> 01:34:52,519
Speaker 1: work that you put out into the ecosystem and it

1864
01:34:52,600 --> 01:34:55,360
Speaker 1: starts conversation. That's it. And the shout to all the

1865
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Speaker 1: bookstores out there, shout to Mahogany Books. We appreciate you

1866
01:34:58,600 --> 01:35:01,000
Speaker 1: for having us last night. Know where at book ends

1867
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 1: tomorrow and if you have a bookstore, I'm looking for

1868
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Speaker 1: all the bookstores, the mom and pop bookstores, the minority

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Speaker 1: own bookstores. We love to stop by and swing by

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Speaker 1: and do a book sign and I know a lot

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Speaker 1: of the stores are not doing signings because of COVID still,

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Speaker 1: but we would love to stop through and just say

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Speaker 1: hello and shoot your guys a holler, and you know

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Speaker 1: it's crazy. Minority bookstores don't get held down. You know

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Speaker 1: it's crazy. I didn't realize just tell yesterday when I

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Speaker 1: saw people reposting it. But yesterday was the five year

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Speaker 1: anniversary of my first book, Black Privilege. Yes really lost

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Speaker 1: the chances of that. It was a five year anniversary

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Speaker 1: of my first book, Black Privilege. And then Real Life,

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Speaker 1: Real Love comes out today. My first book came out

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Speaker 1: April eighteen, five years ago. Years comes out April nineteenth.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy today. And I remember going to one of

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Speaker 1: your book signings in um, South Carolina. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why I was in South Carolina, but I think I

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Speaker 1: had a party and a shot through and I just

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Speaker 1: remember hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people at that

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Speaker 1: bookstore that now they're saying they don't know if that

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Speaker 1: ever happened again because of COVID restricts. It the fly

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Speaker 1: with that mask. Now you should be able to do

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Speaker 1: an in store. You should absolutely sho. I don't not

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Speaker 1: know why. I do not know why Barns and Nobles

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Speaker 1: is doing what everybody else is not doing. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: you have concerts and festivals and everything else, you should

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Speaker 1: be able to have instores that they don't want to

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Speaker 1: get sued. Maybe they don't want the problems I don't

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Speaker 1: know about. I don't know. I remember going to that bookstore.

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Speaker 1: I remember seeing it. I mean it was the line

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Speaker 1: was around the outside. And maybe you could do something

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Speaker 1: at the New York Public Library. Yeah, maybe maybe we

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Speaker 1: could do something. I know we wanted. We're gonna do

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Speaker 1: something at the bookstore. I mean at the juice bar

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Speaker 1: as well. I probably could make a call for you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that call oj as the ambassador there. You go make

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Speaker 1: that call when we come back. We got the positive

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Speaker 1: notice to Breakfast Club the Morning. The morning, everybody is

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Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. That's Charlomagne. You got a positive note, I do.

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Speaker 1: The positive note is simply this man. It's actually from

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Speaker 1: Joel Oldstein. Joel Oldstein said, you're going to go through

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Speaker 1: tough times. That's life. But I say, nothing happens to you.

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Speaker 1: It happens all you see the positive and negative events.

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club bitches, Y'll finish of y'all dumb