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Speaker 2: the Fred Show. Hey Damian, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you good?

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Speaker 1: How you guys doing doing all right? Man?

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Speaker 2: Thanks for calling, Thanks for reaching out to us about

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Speaker 2: waiting by the phone. People can hit us at Fred

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Speaker 2: us what's going on and we'll try and help. So

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Speaker 2: you met a woman named Tara? How did you meet?

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Speaker 2: The standard stuff? We gotta know how you met? About

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Speaker 2: any dates you've been on? And then why you think

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Speaker 2: you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Sure? Sure, well we met in a holiday bar. We

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Speaker 3: were there with I guess.

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Speaker 4: Our respective friend groups to speak and I saw her

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Speaker 4: and and I kind of befriended her friends, you know.

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Speaker 3: Made a good impression on them because I knew that

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Speaker 3: helped me in the long run. And uh and it did.

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Speaker 4: And so when I got around to talking to her

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Speaker 4: and everybody was treating me like.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty cool, I didn't waste any time.

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Speaker 4: I just you know, pretty much told her I wanted

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Speaker 4: to go out with her to a dinner date and

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Speaker 4: I and I did the next day and she said, okay.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, all right, it's sweet, you know,

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Speaker 4: get right to the point.

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Speaker 3: The date was was a blast. I had a great

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Speaker 3: time and she did too. And then she asked me

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Speaker 3: for a ride home. So I thought, okay, she.

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Speaker 4: Feels comfortable, maybe wants to spend more time with me.

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Speaker 4: You know, everything's pointing in the right direction.

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Speaker 3: So so yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Took her back, and uh, you know, she hasn't answered

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Speaker 4: uh two texts I sent her and a phone call before.

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh gosh, So I can't help it

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Speaker 4: to wonder what I could have went wrong.

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Speaker 3: So that's why I'm reaching out to.

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Speaker 1: You guys to it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard to walk up to a group of

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Speaker 2: women that's bold, you know, And it was smart to

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Speaker 2: sort of get in with the friends while targeting one

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Speaker 2: of them, because.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you kind of have to go that way otherwise,

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Speaker 1: The blocks, you know.

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Speaker 2: But I give you credit for that. And then you

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Speaker 2: got the date, so that's also a good sign. Except

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Speaker 2: you haven't heard anything since then, and you feel like

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Speaker 2: you're being ghosted. So we're going to play a song

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Speaker 2: come back, call Tara. You'll be on the phone at

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Speaker 2: the same time, and the hope, as always is that

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Speaker 2: we can figure out what's going on and set you

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Speaker 2: guys up on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Perfect.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Damien, yep, all right, let's call Tara. You met

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Speaker 2: it at one of these holiday theme bars and she

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Speaker 2: was with friends and you were with friends, and you

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Speaker 2: approached the group and you talk to everybody, You got

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Speaker 2: her number. You guys went on a date that you

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Speaker 2: thought went really well. In fact, you even you said

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Speaker 2: you took her home after the date, which I mean

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Speaker 2: that's kind of show the level of comfort I think.

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Speaker 2: Except you have called and you have texted since then,

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Speaker 2: and she has not responded, and you want to know

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Speaker 2: why exactly. Let's call her now. Good luck, Damien, thank you? Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: is this Tara, Hey Sarah, good morning. My name is

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Speaker 2: Fred and I'm calling for the Fred Show. It's the

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Speaker 2: morning radio show, and I do have to tell you

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Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now and I

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Speaker 2: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we

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Speaker 2: chat for just a second. You can hang up anytime.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much. We appreciate that we're calling on

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Speaker 2: behalf of a guy named Damien, who I'm sure you

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Speaker 2: remember he walked up to you at a bar and

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Speaker 2: you guys recently went on a date.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, what happened with him?

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Speaker 2: Because we chad it with him just a second ago

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Speaker 2: and he said, you know, gave us the whole backstory

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Speaker 2: I guess asked you out and you guys went on

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Speaker 1: So why are you not responding?

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Speaker 3: God?

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Speaker 5: I okay, I'm not calling him back basically because he

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Speaker 5: called his mom crying during our date.

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Speaker 2: So why we will? First of all, okay, well, I

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Speaker 2: have a couple questions. Why was he crying and why

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, I don't know how much he told you guys.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you know how that you went out and

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Speaker 1: then he drove you home. That's it. That's all we know.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I mean yeah, the date itself was really fun,

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Speaker 5: but yeah, it was just when we were on the

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Speaker 5: because we live pretty close to each other, and yeah,

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Speaker 5: that just ended up being a total trip.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 5: Basically he got pulled over, which I don't care about.

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Speaker 5: You know that happens, but it was just really basically

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Speaker 5: the way he handled it. He like started freaking out

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Speaker 5: and hyperventilating and then it was like the cop went

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Speaker 5: like sobbing and I was just like I a thirty

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Speaker 5: four year old man crying like this, I'm sorry, I can't.

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Speaker 2: So and he was skating or was he? Like what

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Speaker 2: did he have like, you know, bags of coke in

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Speaker 2: the car? I mean like, well, I mean what what

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Speaker 2: what did he.

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Speaker 1: Get pulled over? What did you get pulled over?

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Speaker 3: For? All?

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Speaker 5: He missed the stop sign and he got pulled over.

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Speaker 2: He was going to get a ticket for it, and

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Speaker 2: so he called his mom. With you in the car

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Speaker 2: and cried about it. Yes, okay, let me bring I

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Speaker 2: forgot you mentioned the damien is here, the criminal.

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Speaker 1: Damien. I'm so forgetful. I forgot. So you you got.

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Speaker 2: You got pulled over for a minor traffic infraction, and

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Speaker 2: your first stought is to call your mom cry.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's that's she's that's an exaggeration, like that's

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Speaker 3: Even hear that.

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Speaker 4: I I wasn't crying.

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Speaker 1: There's no way I was crying.

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Speaker 4: I was just there was there was a I had

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Speaker 4: I thought it was possible I had a warrant out

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Speaker 4: because I had I had another ticket that I didn't pay,

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Speaker 4: I was freaked out because I thought that I might,

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Speaker 4: have a ride. And it was, you know, going to

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Speaker 2: What is there a potential warrant out for you, one

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Speaker 4: Only it was it had nothing It was just because

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Speaker 4: call up the courts and I had to make a

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Speaker 4: payment and I was supposed to come in, So why

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Speaker 1: Let's get it was it.

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Speaker 3: Was a different court.

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Speaker 4: It was nothing. It was like another court. It was

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Speaker 4: just another violation. It was for a fix it ticket

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Speaker 4: that I didn't fix. So I was just freaked out

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Speaker 4: because I thought, oh my gosh, I could go to jail,

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Speaker 4: which wasn't the case. And you know, my mom knew

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Speaker 4: but I called it because mothers usually know what to say.

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Speaker 4: So I just needed someone to talk to real quick.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't a big deal.

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Speaker 4: Most people don't care if somebody with their mother.

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Speaker 2: I love a close relationship with mom, but you know,

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Speaker 2: you're a grown up and she's a grown up, and

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Speaker 2: she probably could have helped you in that moment. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I will say that there are people who have gotten

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Speaker 1: So it's not strange exactly I've seen before.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was freaked out.

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Speaker 4: I was freaked out for a second because I thought

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Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I don't know if there's possibly a

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Speaker 4: handcuffs and stuff and how so I was just freaking.

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Speaker 3: Out, but I didn't. But then when everything was fine

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Speaker 4: Anything out there, the it had nothing to do with

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Speaker 4: They couldn't arrest me for it was just the payment

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I was fine. That's at first. I don't

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Speaker 2: know I've ever had anyone almost arrested. Maybe it's possible

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Speaker 2: got a little scared, yeah, getting locked up, and so

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Speaker 2: he called mom. Hey, here's the good news, Tara. The

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Speaker 2: guy's got a great relationship with his mom. Sometimes that's

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Speaker 2: a good thing, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I got the ick in in a big

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Speaker 5: way in that moment when I saw you reacting that

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Speaker 5: way to the situation. It's just one of those things

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Speaker 5: that I can't reverse this point.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know my mom, I told her, I told

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Speaker 4: She she's she said the same thing.

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Speaker 3: So she was right, So proves me right.

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Speaker 1: Oh what that she wasn't for you? TERA's not for

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Speaker 1: you because mom, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Because she was like she couldn't because she couldn't handle me, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: having your.

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Speaker 3: Mother in the relationship is.

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Speaker 1: No for me to clear. Now why this might be good?

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Speaker 3: Good luck, good luck finding somebody who's stable and nice?

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Speaker 1: Then are you?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know about the stability though.

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Speaker 5: You you really kind of crumbled.

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Speaker 2: I think you can be and and not necessarily call

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Speaker 2: your mom over a traffic ticket. But hey, that's that's

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Speaker 2: why you do it, and it's not for terra, So

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry you do it. That's how you do things, man,

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Speaker 2: and and and you do you no judgment, minimal judgment,

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Speaker 2: but sorry, yeah, go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I think I dodged the bullet, is all I'm saying. Whatever,

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Speaker 3: you know what. My mom doesn't even like your show.

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Speaker 5: Either, so okay, yeah, ruined?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you let me ask? Is there any emotion?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna hang up and call her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I am Yeah, Okay, that's sur pribably Yeah, yeah, let's

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Speaker 2: we'll see. Hate wasn't the worst. She doesn't like our show.

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Speaker 2: So guys, thank you very much for your time. I

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Speaker 2: wish you both the best of luck.

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Speaker 3: Thank you