WEBVTT - Married to the Business w/ Slim & Husky's

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<v Speaker 1>Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>Who talks back? What's up, y'all? Is your co host

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<v Speaker 1>aj Holiday, Thank you for tuning in for a new episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and we talked back and show dedicated to you niggas

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<v Speaker 1>and these holes and everybody in between. What up, Tam? Hey, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>it's tam bam. I'm hungover. I still love y'all. I

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<v Speaker 1>sound like your Hello. Get your life together, y'all. She

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<v Speaker 1>needs something like, uh, what's the ship call? Encouragement to

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<v Speaker 1>not drink on Sunday nights, obviously because it was the

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<v Speaker 1>Panthers one. I went to the game the Panthers one.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend's mom. She buys drinks unlimited. It's something about

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<v Speaker 1>those unlimited drinks that just have a bit sick on Monday, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I was sick and tale Saturday, so I feel you.

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<v Speaker 1>I pulled to you this weekend. For sure. He was

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<v Speaker 1>taking shots. No, you know, I don't chase it, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>these niggas. These liquor just straight tequila. But somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>is buying my drinks, so I drink don Wholio usually.

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<v Speaker 1>And I stopped working with costing me Goes because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like once black people started drinking, costing me goes

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<v Speaker 1>like they change the recipe, it does not taste the same,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be yeah, it gives me like patron vibes,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I really be like down bad. I can drink

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<v Speaker 1>like a small bottle of Don Julie and be good

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<v Speaker 1>by myself a bottle and I don't drink that often. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I was really sick. I ruined my Sunday for real.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's how I feel today. We alcoholics for real

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<v Speaker 1>just once a week, and for me on Sunday, it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like once every blue moon for me because I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't, Like my body does not process LIQ at

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<v Speaker 1>the same no more. M hmm, Like I ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be right till Tues Wednesday. I was making myself throw

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<v Speaker 1>up like six thirty last night so I can go

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<v Speaker 1>out the dinner. Damn. No, I don't make myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>just take I drink PDA like and I take like

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<v Speaker 1>the goody hangovers and I'd be like not dead anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I can get on here and record with y'all, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'll still be hurting. No girl, I had to make

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<v Speaker 1>myself throw up because I was like busting out and

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<v Speaker 1>sweats while I was trying to get dressed right so

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<v Speaker 1>much so to where my lace went and stick, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wiping my fucking forehir with alcohol and it

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't working. So I'm like, Okay, I gotta feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad because like I'm I got, I'm busting out in

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<v Speaker 1>sweats while I'm trying to get dressed like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a fat bitch, Like what's happening? But I got it together?

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<v Speaker 1>So you eat these three meals? Okay, where'd you go eat?

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<v Speaker 1>My little favorite spot and um, Charleston is called Pearls.

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<v Speaker 1>You know pearls. They got pearls in Colombia. The one

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<v Speaker 1>here is better. The the one here is better because

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<v Speaker 1>like the seafood is much like Fresher's my favorite. What

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<v Speaker 1>we got going on in stupid internet news this week, y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Have y'all been following the blogs? I an't followed the

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<v Speaker 1>blogs during the goddamn monkey poks pandemics. I really be

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<v Speaker 1>having to like look for my news now outside of

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<v Speaker 1>social media nowadays. But I know everybody's been seeing this

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<v Speaker 1>Balenciaga campaign and they asked in hot water, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it got anything to do with how

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<v Speaker 1>they play with Kanye. I just don't know, but it

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<v Speaker 1>just seems like London Bridge is fucking falling at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>One of their ads, they're saying that they're not responsible

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<v Speaker 1>for the ad, and there they have like a twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five million dollar lawsuit against the company who did the ad.

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<v Speaker 1>The photographer said he had nothing to do with that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>He just took the pictures. This is essentially essentially like

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<v Speaker 1>product placement. So they had like a kid on, a

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<v Speaker 1>kid stand on the couch, a kid stand on the

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<v Speaker 1>bed like holding a Teddy Bear with like bondage little

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<v Speaker 1>outfits on, and there's like wine glasses and wine in

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<v Speaker 1>the picture. And this is for kids clothing. It's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's given, really child abuse, it's definitely given, and the

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<v Speaker 1>kid did not happen. It's just crazy. It's just crazy

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<v Speaker 1>how they'd be putting this ship right in your face

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Yeah, they've been doing this stuff all the

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<v Speaker 1>time and they just they just expect people not to

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<v Speaker 1>notice it. But they've since taken down their entire Instagram page.

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<v Speaker 1>They've deleted everything because people really started zooming in on

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<v Speaker 1>everything because there was another everything. Yeah, it was another

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<v Speaker 1>ad and they had like a court case, um where

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a court case for child pedophilia, just

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<v Speaker 1>just tucked away in a book. So you really the document.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait a minute, actually that was from the photo

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<v Speaker 1>with the kid. The other thing that somebody pointed out

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<v Speaker 1>was actually like a woman at a desk like an

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<v Speaker 1>office setting, and there's a book on the desk, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you go look up the author of that book,

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<v Speaker 1>this book is just a bunch of naked babies. Why.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand whether the point of this. People don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe in little little societies and little things these people

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<v Speaker 1>be doing. But they do it, and they they're sending

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<v Speaker 1>signals to their people like they know why they do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they're gonna act stupid. Once the regular naked

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<v Speaker 1>eye see the ship, you just gotta know what you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking at. I don't know, but um, Canada's ones was

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<v Speaker 1>digging in. Kim Kardashian asked, because she put a statement

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<v Speaker 1>people was looking for her like to denounce, like they'd

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<v Speaker 1>be trying to get uh, the presidents and stuff like

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<v Speaker 1>to their ounce white supremacy. Denounced this announced that denounced them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a goddamn clothing line. Isn't it. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>a designer. How much money you are really tied up

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<v Speaker 1>with these people because they definitely denounced Kanye ass after

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<v Speaker 1>one tweet. But this is the type of ship they

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<v Speaker 1>can get away with. It's disgusting. The host the whole

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<v Speaker 1>ship is discussing it's weird. Damn. I bought some Valenciaga sneakers.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wear them, no, moha, you better put them

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<v Speaker 1>on the real real the big clunky as sneakers. Those

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<v Speaker 1>ships is the workout, yeah, they have. You never have

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<v Speaker 1>to want to run in those that stump a bit though.

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<v Speaker 1>So Yeah. During the last Monday's Night's episode of Loving

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<v Speaker 1>Hip Hop New York, Chrissy shared over the first dinner

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Jones had prepared for her in their sixteen years together,

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<v Speaker 1>that she no longer felt it necessary for them to marry,

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<v Speaker 1>despite the huge engagement ring one on her finger for years. Damn,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. I think they did. I think they actually married,

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<v Speaker 1>and they do the ship for show, because there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way you want to be like the dumbest bit of

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<v Speaker 1>the century for this man. Remember she proposed to him

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<v Speaker 1>one year, Yes she did. Well, maybe she just fed

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<v Speaker 1>up she's fifty one. She's fifty one. That's just fine.

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<v Speaker 1>She's nice, Yes, she's very because you don't have no

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<v Speaker 1>kids and she never got married, never been married. Mrs

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<v Speaker 1>would never have kids and don't get married. I always

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<v Speaker 1>look good for some reason, less stressed. But he's definitely

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<v Speaker 1>been stressing her, and that's just unfortunate. Like that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like. I feel like it's just like for show,

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<v Speaker 1>like y'all, damn their family members at this point, Damn

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<v Speaker 1>near they are. They've been common law husband and wife

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time, regardless of the paper Jim Jones.

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<v Speaker 1>So she I'm little older, and you know, the mom

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<v Speaker 1>kept urging her to have a baby and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Like back then on the show. Maybe that played a

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<v Speaker 1>party because I believe he has a kid, at least

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<v Speaker 1>one or two kids. But I mean, if you if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be with this one, you should

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<v Speaker 1>have let her go a long time ago, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like what he was doing to her

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<v Speaker 1>at that table, Like he got so upset because he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well you want to get married at and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, you haven't even asked me if I

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<v Speaker 1>still want to get married, Like you're skipping ahead some steps,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what she said, some steps, and that's what men do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he was gas lighting the hell out of her

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<v Speaker 1>ass at that damn table, like all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just all the problems he has, just just some

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<v Speaker 1>real I hate to just be calling all men narcissists,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was some real narcissistic behavior. Mm hmm. I

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<v Speaker 1>have nothing to offer, but you brought it up. You

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<v Speaker 1>brought it up, and still nothing. Can Christie move on?

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<v Speaker 1>I need I need her to go get her like

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<v Speaker 1>a little sixty four year old daddie. Okay, no, she

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<v Speaker 1>needs to get her a thirty two year old daddie. No,

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<v Speaker 1>so he can fund the ship out of her m.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Jim Jones being the gym girl, he

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<v Speaker 1>probably got some stamina. That's probably why her asks can't

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<v Speaker 1>leave him alone. Maybe that's what it is. I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to think that's what it is. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about that. What else happened? Child? So, just like

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<v Speaker 1>a little while ago, Meg the Stallion put out um

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<v Speaker 1>opposed to her social media child. She's the first black

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<v Speaker 1>woman I hate those terms, but she's the first black

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<v Speaker 1>woman to grace the cover of Forbes thirty third. How

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<v Speaker 1>about that. That's congratulations to her and real hot girl

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<v Speaker 1>ship she had. I think, Megan say it had a

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<v Speaker 1>decent year in spite of all the bullshit. So little

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<v Speaker 1>Man is in court today also in court and her

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<v Speaker 1>homegirl umxl right had the parent court today, UM for

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<v Speaker 1>the assault of Magna Stallion. I really want to see

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<v Speaker 1>what comes out of that, and I hope, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when all the truth or whatever comes out, um, people

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<v Speaker 1>apologize to her because I really feel like she was violated.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm happy, like she still pushing forward. She got

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<v Speaker 1>hern old label so funking with her all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>She had to put a restraining one on those niggas

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<v Speaker 1>and with all the ship that's going on in Houston,

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<v Speaker 1>people was like, are you a snitch? What? Like they

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<v Speaker 1>literally like people literally dying and she has like all

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<v Speaker 1>these different men attacking her from every every is a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of you know what, It is weird that there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many men. I didn't know the stand that is

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but men? Why are not so angry with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Because she's too powerful? Right now? Um? And I guess

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<v Speaker 1>we may get into this and our main topic tonight, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>But right now is like in our main topic today,

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<v Speaker 1>we might get into this and I guess right now

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<v Speaker 1>and we might get into this and our main topic today.

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<v Speaker 1>But men may not like this. But the world was

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<v Speaker 1>better when you can check history when it was like

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<v Speaker 1>matriarchal lead leadership, Like there was no wars, none of

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<v Speaker 1>that ship you checked the fucking history books along with

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<v Speaker 1>all these the three major religions came patriarchy and it's

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<v Speaker 1>been held ever since. And I feel like men think

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<v Speaker 1>they're losing some power somewhere, Like they don't even see

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<v Speaker 1>the benefit of, you know, not having to carry the

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<v Speaker 1>load themselves, the invisible load for a lot of these guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, because a lot of them

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<v Speaker 1>not not really showing up. But you can, you can

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<v Speaker 1>lean on your your woman, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like women are very very powerful. I want to lean

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<v Speaker 1>on you. How are you gonna lean on me? If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm leaning lean on each other? You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like either one of us are the type of women

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to be out here is just straight

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<v Speaker 1>for ness and niggas, I don't think anyway, not once

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<v Speaker 1>we define dress, rest foriness and let these niggas do

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<v Speaker 1>the rest Hey like that that really was my mantra

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<v Speaker 1>like in my twenties. That's terrible. Yes, but anyway, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she better stay prayed up. And yes, the goddamn um

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<v Speaker 1>frustrating order. There's nothing wrong with that, Like she needs

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<v Speaker 1>to do whatever she needs to do to protect herself

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<v Speaker 1>because the nick is stopping the check threatn her via

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<v Speaker 1>social media even l whatever, Like, no, you can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's restraining orders are hard to get if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>a celebrity. But that's a conversation for another time. That's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you out there to restraining order. I try.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh bitch, I remember, I remember. Let's not even talk

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<v Speaker 1>about her, just in case. Here as still stocking and

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<v Speaker 1>be listening and then she starts listening up, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pull up on her. I don't want to parts of

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<v Speaker 1>that lady. All right, y'all, So we got some very

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<v Speaker 1>amazing gentlemen on today. They're gonna drop some jewels for y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>If you haven't heard of slimming Huskies pizza, you will

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<v Speaker 1>learn about them today. They're super dope, y'all, stay too,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, guys, we're back and we're with the Gentleman

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<v Speaker 1>from Slimming Husky co founded by National Natives Clint Gray

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<v Speaker 1>and Derek Moore. Emanuel Reid, he's not with us today,

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<v Speaker 1>but thank you guys for on your thank you. Thank you. So, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>tell our listeners about Slimming Husky and how y'all got started. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So Slimming Huskies. Um, it's not just a piece of company,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a story, a story of one skinny dude and

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<v Speaker 1>two big guys and Slimming Huskies. Right, And so we've

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<v Speaker 1>been entrepreneurs since we started off with a moving company,

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<v Speaker 1>built that up from the ground up. Uh, just three

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars, sold that for seven figures seventeen, turned around

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<v Speaker 1>and reinvested in ourselves and opened up a piece of shot.

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<v Speaker 1>And we didn't want to just open up any type

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<v Speaker 1>of pizza shop. We wanted to represent who we were.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a love for pizza, art and music and

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<v Speaker 1>also our community. So we put our first, very first

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<v Speaker 1>concept in the middle of northern Nashville zip code three

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<v Speaker 1>seven two zero eight, which is historical African American side

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<v Speaker 1>of our city. Nashville isn't really known as a black city,

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<v Speaker 1>but we have a lot of a black heritage home

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<v Speaker 1>in Tense State University, Fish University, Harry Medical College. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we wanted to basically put a super dope

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<v Speaker 1>concept that we had worked hard for and reinvested our

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<v Speaker 1>heard hard earned money into into our neighborhood and in

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<v Speaker 1>return with rather to provide jobs, um and just become

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<v Speaker 1>a beacon of light to a neighborhood that didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>an open business for sixteen blockers consider the food desert

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, you know, just really just wanted to pour

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<v Speaker 1>in our neighborhood. So that's our stories. Three guys on

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<v Speaker 1>a mission to provide economic development, education and opportunities, uh

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<v Speaker 1>to people to look like us. Okay, how did you meet? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>So e J and I man in second grade? So

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<v Speaker 1>e J really originally from acron Ohio. So he came

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<v Speaker 1>down his mom had a job down here, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we made a second grade. So we've been friends since

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<v Speaker 1>elementary school. And then uh we made Clint each actually

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<v Speaker 1>made a first high school. They within this program was

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<v Speaker 1>in Row in Rows. Yeah, they were in Rods together. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then uh and then Clinton I. Actually we ain't

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<v Speaker 1>battle it out, but but you know we got a

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<v Speaker 1>little story where where growing up. He was in his

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<v Speaker 1>high school fraternity, and I just so happened to just

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<v Speaker 1>be in the place with some armies that was that

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<v Speaker 1>I went to school with. I was cool with. It

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<v Speaker 1>was beefing with his high school fraternity and just just

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<v Speaker 1>some big brawl just happened. Now, I mean, clan ain't

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<v Speaker 1>fight now. It was like it was like, man, like

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<v Speaker 1>fifty people in the middle of downtown Nashville outside of

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<v Speaker 1>the crazy going crazy. So but now I me and

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<v Speaker 1>Clinton fight though I found a couple of hommies when

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<v Speaker 1>I don't to fight him, and uh, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>hot because I'm like, man, I ain't got no problem

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<v Speaker 1>with none of these people like y'all bringing me to this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, You know I mean. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like probably like our junior year then

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<v Speaker 1>senior year, we both end up signing uh football scholarship

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the shoot, and so we just got tight.

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<v Speaker 1>We just he hit me up. We were sprunning the

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<v Speaker 1>same circles anyways, but he hit me up, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>when I sat can't pulled up on my He from

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<v Speaker 1>my South Nashville, I'm from Eastern Nashville, pulled up my

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<v Speaker 1>apartment and smoked the j and drank some some some

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<v Speaker 1>creature cooler vodka type ship. We've been since. So, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>the two Huskies are was one of y'all wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>slim in two thousand seventeen and became the US. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we slim. You know when you see slim, you're okay. O.

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<v Speaker 1>Modem bumped up a little bit and I didn't slim

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<v Speaker 1>down a little bit. But we're still on the two. Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>sor right, Uh y'all. Why pizza? You know, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like that any money y'all worked at a pizzeria or something. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I never nah no, um. I mean so when we

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<v Speaker 1>used to uh be on the trucks and stuff with

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<v Speaker 1>the moving company, we had, um you know, we'd be

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<v Speaker 1>going to all these different cities in New York, Chicago, Houston,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, we'd be all over the

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<v Speaker 1>country and um on the road. One of the quickest

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<v Speaker 1>things we can give us peace to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>gas station get pizza. And so anyways, we started doing

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<v Speaker 1>some research. When we have made the decision we wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get in the hospitality industry, we start doing some

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<v Speaker 1>research and uh, you know, figuring out what do Americans eat.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, it's hamburgers, hot dogs, pizza, and tacos.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, right, you know what I'm saying, We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna beat the tacos to who's supposed to have the

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<v Speaker 1>tacco you know what I'm saying. And then hot dogs,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't really want to do that. We didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you know, we I mean, we grew up

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<v Speaker 1>on eating hot dogs, but like there wasn't a fun

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<v Speaker 1>food for us, you know what I mean. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Hamburger's it was it was at a time in Nashville

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<v Speaker 1>when we had Hamburger spots, craft Hamburger spots popping up

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<v Speaker 1>every corner. So it's like, man, we do pizza, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's something we grew up on, you know, we eighties

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<v Speaker 1>nineties babies, you know what I mean. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>w WF WrestleMania parties, it was pizza, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Nicks, it was pizza, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, t J M, you know what I mean. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's what we grew up on. We feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we could we could make a splash with that, have

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<v Speaker 1>some fun with it. Uh, slim Huskies not just about us,

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<v Speaker 1>but also the size of the pieces and slim muskie. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And then that's something that we felt like we at

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<v Speaker 1>least understood. It wasn't a steakhouse, it wasn't a seafood spot,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So we understood a piece

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<v Speaker 1>and it just worked for us. And then we understood

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<v Speaker 1>the margins too. Uh So we gotten like deep down

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<v Speaker 1>and scientifically financially like, you know, the margins and pizza

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<v Speaker 1>are are are much better than you know, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of other restaurants and foods out there. So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>we jumped into pieces. So how much does it cost

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<v Speaker 1>to make a pizza? Like, what's the average cost for pizzas?

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<v Speaker 1>Around three fifty uh four dollars with the box included.

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<v Speaker 1>So we have all different kinds of pieces though. We

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<v Speaker 1>got everything from uh just a basic cheese pizza to

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<v Speaker 1>a meat lovers to a uh smoke we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>smoking nerve but has smoked salmon on it. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we have high end products, chicken, sausage, things most people

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<v Speaker 1>don't put on pizza like and we do it completely

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<v Speaker 1>vegan pizza with vegan pepper oni, vegan sausage, um and

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<v Speaker 1>everything you know that you know, our plant based family

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<v Speaker 1>can enjoy. Yeah, they can get expensive. Man, when you

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<v Speaker 1>start adding salmon and shrimp, you know, premium meat products

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like, what it's a vegan sausage, What the

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<v Speaker 1>fun is that? Right? So so so I was and

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<v Speaker 1>I was pestkeytarian and slash vegetarian for like six years

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<v Speaker 1>before we started the piece of company, right, and so,

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<v Speaker 1>one thing I've learned is that, you know, it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to transition from just eating you know, from going to

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<v Speaker 1>eating meat um and chicken and poultry and things like

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<v Speaker 1>that to just you know, right. So I think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times it's a mental thing, right, like making

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<v Speaker 1>people feel like they can still enjoy um. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're old diets and the old habits, but without all

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<v Speaker 1>of the you know, the fatty um you know, things

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<v Speaker 1>that make things unhealthy so um. You know, when people

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<v Speaker 1>replicate different foods to make them vegan, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>more so to help people transition and then people continue

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<v Speaker 1>with lifestyle that makes them feel normal. Um so ire beg.

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<v Speaker 1>In sausage, we use a p plant, a pea plant

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<v Speaker 1>protein so um. You know, we don't use a ton

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<v Speaker 1>on a soy because a lot of people of view

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<v Speaker 1>soy is unhealthy. But we have a company here locally

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<v Speaker 1>that we work with called the Beehive, and they sell

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<v Speaker 1>some really good, like being alternative products. Something about sausage

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<v Speaker 1>made out of peas just don't sit right with my because,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you think about pizza, pizza flavors can be

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<v Speaker 1>hid in pizza because the core thing to make you

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of good as your dough, your sauce, and

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<v Speaker 1>your cheese, anything else on that it's gonna get blended

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<v Speaker 1>into that flavor. So when you take that bite, you're

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<v Speaker 1>really tasting the dough and the sauce and the cheese,

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily those ingredients. So as long as we can

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<v Speaker 1>mask you know what the piece, it may taste like, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you can still visually see it. Man, it tastes really good.

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<v Speaker 1>It tastes like our regular pizza. Right, So you're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of psyching your mind out, like this is sausage but

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<v Speaker 1>it's really peas. Yeah, I might have to try that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you don't try some vegan stuff, some vegetarian stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I never tried. No vegan sausage. You probably the ingredients.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually it's like peas that soy. I'd be weirded out

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<v Speaker 1>by that because it's like vegetable, but it's a burger

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<v Speaker 1>and I just can't wrap my head around that. You know, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ever tried our home Girl Slutty Vegan, I have not.

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<v Speaker 1>They're about to open the location here in Charlotte. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I see y'all have locations in Nashville, Atlanta, Sacramento,

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<v Speaker 1>in Memphis. Are y'all gonna franchise perhaps? Or how y'all

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<v Speaker 1>moving with that? We uh left out of Chattanooga, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>get me together. We got to two concessions and uhs

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<v Speaker 1>Formers Place six and State and whether type play one

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<v Speaker 1>in vanderbil State. You know, we got one going up.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh it's the latest one in the same Timea's Hospital

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<v Speaker 1>here in Nashville. Um, but franchise And to answer the question,

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<v Speaker 1>Uh no, not right now. We really want to keep

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<v Speaker 1>corporately on m M. You know, perfected. Um. You know

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<v Speaker 1>you would think with nineteen stories, you know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>all these concessions, you you gotta perfected, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? But yeah, you know it's a changing world.

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<v Speaker 1>That change is fast, so we want to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>before we franchise to do anything like that we want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure it's right uh and ready for the

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<v Speaker 1>for the franchise, Z for the consumer and uh so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to keep it keeping court before a while

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<v Speaker 1>and we made never a franchise, I don't think. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to uh, we're gonna a tour next year,

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<v Speaker 1>so we gotta pop up. It's gonna be based out

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<v Speaker 1>of Austin, Texas, and we're gonna do pop up, like

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<v Speaker 1>a pop up two across the country with pizza, art

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<v Speaker 1>and music. And so we'll start off and like in Houston, Dallas,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll go for everywhere from New Orleans, Miami, uh and

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<v Speaker 1>also all the major festivals, so we'll be in Chicago,

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<v Speaker 1>will be you know, you'll probably find us at you know,

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<v Speaker 1>One Music Fest in Atlanta and Essence Fest in New

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<v Speaker 1>Orleans and Rolling Loud in Miami, Dreamville, you know fest,

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<v Speaker 1>dream Fest and uh and uh, I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>rally North Carolina. And yeah, we're looking to like go

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<v Speaker 1>all over the country next year as a major marketing

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<v Speaker 1>component too, like introduced everybody who may not be in

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<v Speaker 1>the markets that we're in, introducing to who we are

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<v Speaker 1>pizza and also just our vibe, so you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>have our own live music series we host here in Nashville.

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<v Speaker 1>We want, you know, to introduce them to that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when we come to town. Um as well as our

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<v Speaker 1>art shows that we do. Like we're in our um

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<v Speaker 1>our gallery right now. It's called Inca Gallery. So we've

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<v Speaker 1>got one here in Nashville, another Membis, Tennessee. And uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to you know, spread the love and

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<v Speaker 1>introduce people to we called the pream world everything someone huskies,

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<v Speaker 1>progress rules everything around he So y'all also are in

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<v Speaker 1>some locations grocery stores frozen pizza. How did that come about?

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<v Speaker 1>And how long have you all been doing that? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>We started working this pretty much pretty much a pandemic

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<v Speaker 1>type business venture that we started. Um, we always want

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<v Speaker 1>to dive into products. You get Master Peak talk about

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<v Speaker 1>all the time products gonna top back, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so we always want to dive in the products. You

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<v Speaker 1>always want to be on the shelves. Um and uh.

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<v Speaker 1>We built the relationship with a friend of rus at

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<v Speaker 1>the term truck uh and he was like many I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to see y'all pieces of work on the shelves

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<v Speaker 1>and so we got a food scientist and whipped it

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<v Speaker 1>up and star freeze and putting on the shelves, doing great.

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:54.520
<v Speaker 1>And then we also uh work with gold Belly. Uh

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:57.119
<v Speaker 1>so you know people can shield pieces all across the

0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:00.719
<v Speaker 1>country and also slim Huskies dot com. Uh you can

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 1>get pizzas from there as well, and the sauces in

0:27:02.800 --> 0:27:06.400
<v Speaker 1>the Sentinel roads too. Damn. So you said, y'all, y'all

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.480
<v Speaker 1>duties festivals are y'all mobile? Do you have like a

0:27:08.520 --> 0:27:11.359
<v Speaker 1>food truck as well? Yeah, we got a food truck

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>is based in Tennessee. We got another one that's gonna

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:16.919
<v Speaker 1>be based in Austin, Texas, and that's gonna be the

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 1>one that moves around the country. Okay, go, so when

0:27:21.119 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 1>y'all when you're gonna put one in Charlotte, because I

0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:32.000
<v Speaker 1>like pizza ship hungry as fuck, chucked up to my

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:34.439
<v Speaker 1>stomach is messed up. I was drinking last night. A

0:27:34.440 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 1>slice of pizza would be good right now to help

0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:39.480
<v Speaker 1>me with what I mean. It was about it was

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:41.359
<v Speaker 1>about a year and a half, we'll we would be

0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:45.119
<v Speaker 1>in Charlotte. We we're gonna start doing some some site

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 1>selections real soon. Yeah, the next couple of months. So

0:27:48.800 --> 0:27:52.359
<v Speaker 1>we hit up Charlotte and d C and you know,

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:54.919
<v Speaker 1>go back down to Atlanta and you know what I mean,

0:27:54.920 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna keep moving around, um, you know in the

0:27:58.040 --> 0:28:05.240
<v Speaker 1>Southeast South Way, so Houston, Dallas. Bum. In the meantime,

0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 1>it's adult Black owned pizzeria down and Charlotte. I checked

0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:11.760
<v Speaker 1>out called Bird Pizzeria. Y'all tried, Tom you No, I

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>haven't heard of that Bird Bird. Yep, Bird Pizza. Rea

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>Black as a husband and wife. Uh, the slanging pines.

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 1>I just I just window out there, so it looked

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>them up. I'm definitely gonna look them up because I

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:29.440
<v Speaker 1>need something on my stomach right now. I'm like, all right, y'all,

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna take a commercial real quick, and we're gonna

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:36.119
<v Speaker 1>come back and talk about relationships in business and relationships period.

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>So y'all stay tuned. We'll be right back. So, So,

0:28:42.200 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 1>like with owning and operating a business, it is essentially

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.479
<v Speaker 1>like a marriage. So how did you pick your partners

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:50.160
<v Speaker 1>aside from just going to school with them? Like, how

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:52.280
<v Speaker 1>did you know that this would be a good a

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:54.880
<v Speaker 1>good union? And it's like, like, what are some of

0:28:54.880 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 1>the biggest challenges you guys find in business together? Um?

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know if I don't know,

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:05.560
<v Speaker 1>if we picked we picked each other like that. I

0:29:05.640 --> 0:29:09.480
<v Speaker 1>think it just came together. Um you know, I mean,

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, I always you know, we got a good

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 1>thing going, man, And sometimes you really can't take you

0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:16.800
<v Speaker 1>credit for it. I'd be like, man, that was God,

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:19.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So I feel like just

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 1>just from growing up going through trials and tribulations separately together,

0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, on the football field was roommates and in college, Um,

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, we we all went off to do our

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:35.520
<v Speaker 1>own thing. I was at traffic controller and uh, you know,

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:37.480
<v Speaker 1>left they got a law school, had a bunch of

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 1>jobs I got fired from. Uh. Clinton Clint was in sales.

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:46.320
<v Speaker 1>It was in finance and he was a financial analysts

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and uh and the pieces just kind of got kind

0:29:49.520 --> 0:29:52.520
<v Speaker 1>of got put together for us to like come together

0:29:52.560 --> 0:29:55.280
<v Speaker 1>and do and do our first business. And uh, I

0:29:55.320 --> 0:29:57.720
<v Speaker 1>think that a lot of the kings got earned out

0:29:57.720 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 1>in the first business. Um, you know how we word like,

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't honestly like I know my partner. So if

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:08.520
<v Speaker 1>it's something like six in the morning, five in the morning,

0:30:08.560 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm probably not gonna call Clinton, you know what I mean?

0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Because you know that's I mean. And uh, and the

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:18.719
<v Speaker 1>same thing with e J. If it's like some hippie

0:30:18.760 --> 0:30:24.720
<v Speaker 1>lifting or even if it's an event like EJ don't

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:26.560
<v Speaker 1>always want to be the most social. Now you put

0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 1>some numbers in front of it, or he want to

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 1>panel about numbers, He's gonna talk all day. But you

0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 1>know that's just not this thing. And so I won't

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:37.680
<v Speaker 1>call him. And you know, I'm sure there's things about

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:39.640
<v Speaker 1>me that they won't call me for, you know what

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean. So man, it just really just came together

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:45.240
<v Speaker 1>just to trial and trip relations. Like I said, the

0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 1>first business we learned each other, learned a lot about

0:30:48.800 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 1>each other going through some very very hard tough times. Um.

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:56.160
<v Speaker 1>And then that's when we really start seeing like who're

0:30:56.160 --> 0:31:00.040
<v Speaker 1>gonna really ride for? Whos gonna stick around? Uh? You know,

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:02.240
<v Speaker 1>who were for a long haul when it gets tough,

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:05.360
<v Speaker 1>and we we've been through that time and time again,

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 1>and we just keep rolling so um, you know. And

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:10.600
<v Speaker 1>then on the business side of it, you know, separate

0:31:10.640 --> 0:31:13.800
<v Speaker 1>from friends, we always want to make sure the paperworkers right.

0:31:14.400 --> 0:31:16.800
<v Speaker 1>So we got with our lawyer, you know, we got

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 1>by sale buy out agreements between us. You know what

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean all that type of stuff. If he ain't

0:31:22.480 --> 0:31:24.880
<v Speaker 1>holding up, if I'm not holding up, EJ not holding up,

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:27.840
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, we can buy each other out,

0:31:27.960 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Operating agreements are right, um,

0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and the paperworkers on point, you know what I mean.

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>So we hold each other accountable, not just as friends

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and not just looking out or brothers, not just looking

0:31:39.200 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>out for each other's family and well being, but also

0:31:42.320 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 1>on the business side as with um and uh, and

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:47.000
<v Speaker 1>we made a pack, you know what I'm saying. Like,

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, we won't let business get in front of friendship,

0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:52.880
<v Speaker 1>and friendship get in front of the business, you know

0:31:52.920 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Now it's challenges, of course, you know,

0:31:55.320 --> 0:31:58.720
<v Speaker 1>some some some things with a friendship, some hard, some

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:01.880
<v Speaker 1>conversations that are hard. Uh. You know it's a little

0:32:01.880 --> 0:32:04.040
<v Speaker 1>bit harder because we are friends, you know what I mean.

0:32:04.080 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 1>And we do understand each other's plight, you know what

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:10.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that what we're going through personally, um and

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, in plus, you don't want to be an

0:32:12.200 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 1>asked out to your friends, you know what I mean. So, um,

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 1>you know those conversations that we have, what we have

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 1>to have them because we have a business. We have

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 1>to run them. We gotta be around each other all

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 1>the time and talk to each other no matter what. Yeah, yeah,

0:32:28.160 --> 0:32:30.719
<v Speaker 1>I think I think our friendship makes us stronger as

0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 1>business partners. Honestly, Like we go through some things that

0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:38.160
<v Speaker 1>people that haven't been through our struggles are new to

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 1>working together in business, they don't quite understand yet. Like

0:32:41.400 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 1>I got the story our typical a lot of time.

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Like first thing, trust an accountability to me, like the

0:32:46.520 --> 0:32:49.720
<v Speaker 1>two things that we can't lose, right, I got try

0:32:50.120 --> 0:32:52.080
<v Speaker 1>some dudes, you know what I'm saying, My life, my kids,

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 1>you know anything. And so an accountability side is very

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 1>important too, because you know, just like in any relationship,

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 1>you got to be able to hold somebody accountable when

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:05.680
<v Speaker 1>they do ship wrong. Right, so we get never again,

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 1>were over to my first story. First of my huskies, man,

0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I was. I have been in there all day, like

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 1>testing products because I work on the product side of

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:17.360
<v Speaker 1>things and marketing and stuff, and I was testing, testing, testing.

0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:19.479
<v Speaker 1>We had an artist and on some on the ladder

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 1>like painting the ceiling, and when other home was just

0:33:21.840 --> 0:33:23.960
<v Speaker 1>in that we were talking and more walks in. I

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 1>ain't seen all day. He walks in and he's like

0:33:28.560 --> 0:33:31.479
<v Speaker 1>a bro liken. Hell long his cheese been sitting now

0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:37.040
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, man, I've been working man, the chiefe

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>sitting now here like man, you can't leave the cheese

0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 1>out like this. I'm like, bro, I've been working on

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:44.840
<v Speaker 1>this all day. May ain't chill, you know what I'm saying, Like, na,

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:50.880
<v Speaker 1>you need to put the cheese up. In trouble. So

0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:54.440
<v Speaker 1>so looks so we're going back and forth like brothers, right,

0:33:54.440 --> 0:33:57.480
<v Speaker 1>like we areguent customed each other out. And you know,

0:33:57.560 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>you see the artist starting to get down off the

0:33:59.240 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 1>ladder because he's like man to break out, is about

0:34:03.040 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 1>to fight already. Humble was in there, was trying to

0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:10.480
<v Speaker 1>figure out like real, like do I need to break

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:12.600
<v Speaker 1>it out? Need this up? You know what I'm saying,

0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:15.279
<v Speaker 1>what's going on? But like this ship, we've been doing

0:34:15.360 --> 0:34:17.319
<v Speaker 1>for a long time, so you wouldn't we knew we

0:34:17.320 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 1>want to throw no blow. But there's some things that

0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:20.759
<v Speaker 1>need to be said at the end the day. I

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:23.719
<v Speaker 1>was wrong because yeah, the Hill Department walked in on

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:27.239
<v Speaker 1>day one day too, and the chiefs having Man, that's wrong.

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:29.040
<v Speaker 1>But that's me saying, all right, you know what you

0:34:29.160 --> 0:34:32.000
<v Speaker 1>was right I'm gonna be you know, I'm gonna be

0:34:32.000 --> 0:34:34.080
<v Speaker 1>wrong on this when he was holding me accountable. Let's

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>move on to the next time. Yeah, we had several

0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:39.479
<v Speaker 1>moments when each of us said, you know, in the wrong.

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:41.600
<v Speaker 1>It just always like a right a wrong thing. You're

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:43.560
<v Speaker 1>just like, you don't got to hold each other count

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:45.319
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying that you gotta be able

0:34:45.360 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>to take it. If you can, you gotta dish it out.

0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 1>You gotta be to take it. So uh yeah, that

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>was funny though. But that back into the culture, right,

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Like that's one of the things about our culture that

0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:58.719
<v Speaker 1>we got to improve on. Like every argument ain't got

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:01.439
<v Speaker 1>the n N a fight or break up on shooting out,

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:04.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, so somebody having a you know, an issue

0:35:04.880 --> 0:35:07.279
<v Speaker 1>with the entire world here is about you know what

0:35:07.320 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like, we gotta learn how to hold each

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:11.360
<v Speaker 1>other accountable as a community. So for us, it just

0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:16.439
<v Speaker 1>starts with the yeah and to communicate effectively. Oh yeah, yeah,

0:35:17.000 --> 0:35:20.640
<v Speaker 1>but like I didn't, I didn't jump right out to

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 1>the porch or how to talk to Clint, you feel

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:25.799
<v Speaker 1>me or e J and and they all had a thing.

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:27.680
<v Speaker 1>We've had these meetings and they all had a thing

0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:30.279
<v Speaker 1>about me like I would come off like too hard

0:35:30.320 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 1>or too harsh or or not even you know, not

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 1>even feeling like I wouldn't listen to the other side,

0:35:36.000 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So like these are things

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 1>that these are conversations that we've had with each other

0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:42.319
<v Speaker 1>that we had to like grow and get to. You're

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:45.600
<v Speaker 1>talking about, you know what we thirty eight. Well I'm

0:35:45.640 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 1>the youngest, so I'll be thirty eight and a couple

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 1>of a couple of days. But I feel like, right,

0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:59.719
<v Speaker 1>that's what you just said. Couple of days and I

0:35:59.760 --> 0:36:01.880
<v Speaker 1>got about about a week about a week ago, and

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:05.040
<v Speaker 1>then Clint just turned thirty eight, and uh, what you're

0:36:05.040 --> 0:36:08.720
<v Speaker 1>talking about? You know, we started with our first business,

0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:12.359
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So that's a long time

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:17.279
<v Speaker 1>how to communicate, you know what I mean? Because as

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:20.280
<v Speaker 1>as as men as people like, we need the same

0:36:20.880 --> 0:36:23.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, five years ago, two years ago, you know what,

0:36:23.440 --> 0:36:28.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm used to change and evolving. You know, it's just

0:36:29.160 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's just like that. So yeah, yeah, I

0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>think the most important thing is learning how somebody wants

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 1>to be talked to, you know what I'm saying, how

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:39.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody wants to be treated, you know, because they say,

0:36:39.600 --> 0:36:41.239
<v Speaker 1>treat people how you want to be treated. Now you

0:36:41.360 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>have to treat people how they want to be treated.

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.000
<v Speaker 1>So it is a learning curve sometimes for some people

0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:50.239
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to communication. Yeah, sometimes you gotta get

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 1>it to them now, even though they might want their

0:36:52.000 --> 0:36:53.640
<v Speaker 1>ship soft. We might have to get it to them

0:36:53.719 --> 0:36:59.160
<v Speaker 1>hard though. You know, you know that's real with men.

0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:00.880
<v Speaker 1>But I think when men will end up in a

0:37:00.960 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 1>real fist fight, you start giving it too hard to

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 1>each other. You have to be a little bit more

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 1>delicate with one of you. Don't think men fight. I

0:37:08.239 --> 0:37:10.800
<v Speaker 1>feel like men all get into a fight quicker. No, No,

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:17.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Y'all stop being friends quicker than men. Yeah,

0:37:17.200 --> 0:37:20.480
<v Speaker 1>Like sure, gon, we're gonna have a draink to like Clint.

0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:22.920
<v Speaker 1>They might have Clint put the cheese up and they

0:37:22.960 --> 0:37:26.359
<v Speaker 1>went and had a beer. You know, we wouldn't speak

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:29.080
<v Speaker 1>for weeks and probably won't even eat cheese no more.

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:31.719
<v Speaker 1>Like cheese. I don't even like cheese no more because

0:37:31.760 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 1>of that motherfucking bitch vacations everything that. There was a

0:37:52.000 --> 0:37:54.960
<v Speaker 1>time though, there was a time I would fall out

0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:57.920
<v Speaker 1>about bit you had this and you didn't pay for this,

0:38:00.680 --> 0:38:07.640
<v Speaker 1>just put the cards out the question being successful black men,

0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:12.080
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about dating or being with women

0:38:12.360 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 1>who make more than you? Man, that's what I'm looking for.

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 1>That sounds like a whole lot of success in the

0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:26.080
<v Speaker 1>household of me. And also, man, it depends on it

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 1>really depends on the type of the type of man

0:38:28.560 --> 0:38:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you are. Honestly, I mean every man ain't the same mentally,

0:38:32.480 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like you have to you know,

0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 1>there's some man that might see that as intimidating, you

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.759
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, But for me, I'm personally just

0:38:39.960 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 1>just not one of them dudes like to me, I

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:43.800
<v Speaker 1>have to take that as a blessing and a challenge

0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:45.800
<v Speaker 1>at the same time. You know what I'm saying, like

0:38:46.480 --> 0:38:50.359
<v Speaker 1>do I do I want? Do I want to make

0:38:50.400 --> 0:38:53.040
<v Speaker 1>the most money in the household? Preferably I would? You

0:38:53.080 --> 0:38:54.840
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, But I ain't tripping if I'm not.

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.279
<v Speaker 1>And what I gotta do to either work with you

0:38:57.719 --> 0:39:00.200
<v Speaker 1>is my partner and or you know I'm saying work

0:39:00.239 --> 0:39:02.920
<v Speaker 1>on my own, but your support to you know what

0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:06.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, to change things? And um, yeah, man, I

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:10.000
<v Speaker 1>got a home girl. Um, they got a big platform.

0:39:10.040 --> 0:39:11.640
<v Speaker 1>We were just talking and I'm like, yo, you know what,

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:13.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm single man. I'm looking for you know, I'm looking

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:18.080
<v Speaker 1>for somebody that ain't gonna be so attached to me

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 1>because I'm out working every day from you know what

0:39:21.120 --> 0:39:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying early morning to sometimes late at night, Like

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I need somebody to got some business about. Yeah, and

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:31.640
<v Speaker 1>so you know she's sending me people. I'm like, send me,

0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 1>send me something else whatever. But but like you know,

0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:41.240
<v Speaker 1>don't be like that about everybody. What I'm gonna scorpion

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:51.919
<v Speaker 1>up ship. I'm a little self, but I'm loyal up. Yeah,

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:55.440
<v Speaker 1>you loyal to the bob on on the tip. I

0:39:55.480 --> 0:39:59.239
<v Speaker 1>mean it's been times where where it's my wife. She

0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:03.000
<v Speaker 1>she as an awesome job and makes some great salary.

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:08.840
<v Speaker 1>And um, it's many times where you know, pandemic or

0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 1>whateverywhere where you know, we we didn't know whether next

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 1>dollar might come from you know what I'm saying, or

0:40:14.120 --> 0:40:16.879
<v Speaker 1>as a business right or or you know, we get

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:20.279
<v Speaker 1>paid lass. You know people don't understand about entrepreneurship is

0:40:20.360 --> 0:40:23.120
<v Speaker 1>like we as the owners get paid lass, then just

0:40:23.200 --> 0:40:27.120
<v Speaker 1>get paid. Worst employ easy to get paid first, keep

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:29.759
<v Speaker 1>the lights on. Everybody get paid before we do, you

0:40:29.800 --> 0:40:32.319
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. And so it's many times where

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 1>it's like she had to hold it down and I

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 1>was grateful, and I was thankful for that, like because

0:40:37.600 --> 0:40:39.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's it's like Clint said, this is

0:40:39.560 --> 0:40:41.919
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of success in one household under one roof.

0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:45.840
<v Speaker 1>And you know, as far as men, they can't handle that.

0:40:46.120 --> 0:40:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I really think the way the trend is going away

0:40:48.800 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 1>women coming up, just black women, like everybody, get used

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to it because you know, it's i mean, y'all popping

0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:58.200
<v Speaker 1>right now. And so you know what I'm saying, from

0:40:58.320 --> 0:41:02.279
<v Speaker 1>education to being is and and just all platforms like

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 1>black women especially are all rising through the ranks right now.

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:09.640
<v Speaker 1>I think that if you were a man, especially a

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:13.000
<v Speaker 1>black man, and you can't fathom your woman making more

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 1>money than you, and you need to reevaluate what's your

0:41:17.239 --> 0:41:20.000
<v Speaker 1>purpose is because if you purpose, if you think that

0:41:20.120 --> 0:41:23.880
<v Speaker 1>it's just finances that makes you a man, then you

0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:28.840
<v Speaker 1>already lost, you know what I'm saying. So I was

0:41:28.880 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 1>out last night with a couple of friends, um with

0:41:31.680 --> 0:41:34.080
<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend of mine and some guys she knew, and

0:41:36.080 --> 0:41:39.080
<v Speaker 1>the relationship conversation is just gonna always come up. If

0:41:39.080 --> 0:41:40.759
<v Speaker 1>you got a couple of women a couple of men, like,

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 1>it's just gonna happen. And I was trying to explain

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:45.960
<v Speaker 1>to them, like how you know, like black women gonna

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:48.600
<v Speaker 1>die alone, We're gonna die by ourselves. Always bullshit, right,

0:41:49.239 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>But you were explaining that what they were saying, that's

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:57.359
<v Speaker 1>always the rhetoric, right. So, um, I was basically trying

0:41:57.400 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>to explain to them, like the men that y'all say

0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:05.840
<v Speaker 1>that women Black women like our our expectations, our standards, boundaries,

0:42:05.920 --> 0:42:08.839
<v Speaker 1>everything just too high. Right. But the men y'all want

0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 1>us to marry are the same men you wouldn't go

0:42:11.040 --> 0:42:14.239
<v Speaker 1>into business with, you know what I'm saying. I don't

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:18.200
<v Speaker 1>understand that what you're saying. If you would you have

0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:20.520
<v Speaker 1>went into business with either one of these guys, if

0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 1>they didn't have a track record of anything successful, you

0:42:24.160 --> 0:42:25.880
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, If they didn't have any means

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:30.360
<v Speaker 1>you had to help build them and all that stuff. No, No,

0:42:30.560 --> 0:42:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, I mean we don't have nothing success

0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 1>other than graduating from college, you know what I'm saying. So,

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 1>but I understand what you're saying, But for us, it

0:42:38.120 --> 0:42:40.200
<v Speaker 1>was just a little bit different because we we had

0:42:40.280 --> 0:42:42.320
<v Speaker 1>to What I think is, you know what we have

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:45.000
<v Speaker 1>to think about even we're talking about relationships, like sometimes

0:42:45.040 --> 0:42:47.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta grow with each other. Feel me, Like that's

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 1>what we did, Like we grew as businessmen with each other.

0:42:51.640 --> 0:42:53.600
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, We grew in you know,

0:42:53.760 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 1>successfully with each other. We can start off like have

0:42:57.440 --> 0:42:59.360
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. It wasn't the book to this.

0:42:59.480 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. We didn't have all the

0:43:00.760 --> 0:43:03.919
<v Speaker 1>answers and we weren't always right when we grew into

0:43:04.080 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>who we are together. So I think that's part of

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 1>a black household or any household. We we all got daughters.

0:43:10.760 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 1>If I had to consult money question, I got ways

0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:17.800
<v Speaker 1>to go. She's about to turn four. But if I

0:43:17.880 --> 0:43:20.799
<v Speaker 1>had a consult or, you know, you know, like he said,

0:43:20.840 --> 0:43:22.560
<v Speaker 1>like we started from the ground up, you know what

0:43:22.600 --> 0:43:26.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like I've you know, I've been to the

0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:29.120
<v Speaker 1>dude that had a lot of ambition walking out of school.

0:43:29.719 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 1>But you know what I'm saying, I was working hard

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:34.520
<v Speaker 1>towards those goals. But you know saying, somebody with you

0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:36.239
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, fast money might have picked my

0:43:36.280 --> 0:43:38.400
<v Speaker 1>crush about the school and they're gone, and I'm just like,

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:44.200
<v Speaker 1>iust what's saying. But but but you know, like I

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:47.399
<v Speaker 1>think that if I had to consult, I would say, hey, look,

0:43:47.480 --> 0:43:52.200
<v Speaker 1>look for somebody who has ambition first, right, but then

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:55.840
<v Speaker 1>and and support them in their ambition, because everybody's not

0:43:55.880 --> 0:43:58.959
<v Speaker 1>gonna start off with everything you know I'm saying given

0:43:59.000 --> 0:44:02.680
<v Speaker 1>to him. But then also as that relationship progresses, you

0:44:02.760 --> 0:44:05.560
<v Speaker 1>gotta identify whether or not to have execution or match

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:08.400
<v Speaker 1>that that bit what I'm saying. And if that execution

0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:11.320
<v Speaker 1>isn't there, then you can support them and try to

0:44:11.400 --> 0:44:13.480
<v Speaker 1>get them to that point. But if it's not comfortable,

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:15.239
<v Speaker 1>you don't like the way it's moving, you got to

0:44:15.320 --> 0:44:17.359
<v Speaker 1>keep it. You got to keep it going because there's

0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:19.120
<v Speaker 1>something big and better out there for you, right, So,

0:44:19.280 --> 0:44:22.759
<v Speaker 1>like you know, definitely, uh, you know, pay attention to

0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 1>the characteristics and not just to talk, you know what

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, and uh, you know, make sure somebody is

0:44:28.560 --> 0:44:30.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to grow with you and not just

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:34.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, make a bunch of promises. Right. So I

0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:38.080
<v Speaker 1>have a question with um women making more and um,

0:44:39.400 --> 0:44:42.200
<v Speaker 1>would y'all feel do y'all feel like men should be

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:45.200
<v Speaker 1>the head of the household for the relationship to be successful,

0:44:45.520 --> 0:44:48.640
<v Speaker 1>or should should there be a hierarchy of things, like

0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 1>the man should be the head and have the final state,

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:53.799
<v Speaker 1>or it should be like an equal partnership. I can't

0:44:53.880 --> 0:44:56.799
<v Speaker 1>I can't really speak for I mean, we're from the South,

0:44:56.960 --> 0:45:00.479
<v Speaker 1>you feel me, so you know, we it's a little

0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:05.319
<v Speaker 1>bit different Bible belt, Bible belt, so you're getting taught

0:45:05.400 --> 0:45:07.520
<v Speaker 1>all your life in me and out ahead of the household.

0:45:08.239 --> 0:45:11.400
<v Speaker 1>But that doesn't just mean like it's like you running

0:45:11.440 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>that thing with you know what I'm saying, Like that

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:18.600
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean like submission doesn't mean like you know, she

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:21.480
<v Speaker 1>walking in there joint and you know soon she come in,

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:24.680
<v Speaker 1>she bound out that you're like, you know that's that's

0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:26.759
<v Speaker 1>taking all out of context. You know what I'm saying.

0:45:26.800 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that I think that you for anybody, you

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:33.080
<v Speaker 1>gotta work with what work for y'all. You know what

0:45:33.160 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like I don't even know how to put

0:45:35.200 --> 0:45:37.200
<v Speaker 1>it other than that, I mean, as far as me

0:45:37.280 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 1>and running the household, it's something about a man being

0:45:40.760 --> 0:45:43.279
<v Speaker 1>protecting your house, protecting this woman and this fact. You

0:45:43.320 --> 0:45:46.920
<v Speaker 1>feel what I'm saying something about a man, provided you

0:45:47.000 --> 0:45:50.600
<v Speaker 1>feel me not being the number one provider, but provided

0:45:50.719 --> 0:45:54.360
<v Speaker 1>you feel what I'm saying, like, we I know Clinton,

0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:56.359
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we believe in that co hardly his dad

0:45:56.560 --> 0:45:58.839
<v Speaker 1>is an o G. You feel me like this one

0:45:58.880 --> 0:46:03.279
<v Speaker 1>of the man that I've always looked up to. Daddy married. Yeah,

0:46:09.640 --> 0:46:11.600
<v Speaker 1>But but I don't know if it's every time. I'm

0:46:11.640 --> 0:46:14.560
<v Speaker 1>sure it's the time Mrs Brady, maybe more than Pops.

0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:16.960
<v Speaker 1>You feel what I'm saying. But he still hold his

0:46:17.040 --> 0:46:19.200
<v Speaker 1>household down, you know what I mean. I think that

0:46:19.760 --> 0:46:23.239
<v Speaker 1>and she honors him, and his children honor him, and

0:46:23.280 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that's that's that is more important than having

0:46:27.120 --> 0:46:31.560
<v Speaker 1>to put a title on hierarchy, you feel me or granted,

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:34.719
<v Speaker 1>it's some things that that a man will do that

0:46:34.840 --> 0:46:36.719
<v Speaker 1>a woman won't do in the household or not won't do.

0:46:36.800 --> 0:46:39.359
<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, just may not be a favorite of I mean,

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:40.879
<v Speaker 1>if if I got to go out there and paint

0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:42.840
<v Speaker 1>the house, I'm not expecting my wife to go do that,

0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like, but if she want

0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:46.800
<v Speaker 1>to join, come on, you know what I'm saying. So,

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:49.640
<v Speaker 1>but you know it's some things in my household that

0:46:49.719 --> 0:46:51.719
<v Speaker 1>they may think she I mean, I take care of

0:46:51.760 --> 0:46:53.759
<v Speaker 1>the plants in the house. You feel me, you know

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:55.799
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, And you know I got a green thumb.

0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:58.080
<v Speaker 1>But that's somebody enjoyed doing, you know what I mean.

0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:01.040
<v Speaker 1>So you know, I don't know. I just think that

0:47:01.360 --> 0:47:04.200
<v Speaker 1>that we we lose as a community when we're started

0:47:04.239 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to put these titles on who's supposed to do

0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:10.040
<v Speaker 1>what in the household, and man, y'all come together, y'all,

0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:13.319
<v Speaker 1>put you'all resource together, y'all grooving, and y'all making things.

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Worn't how y'all want to make their joint work. You've

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:18.839
<v Speaker 1>got a successful household, you know what I'm saying. So yeah,

0:47:18.880 --> 0:47:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I completely agree with that. I think in business, whoever

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:25.400
<v Speaker 1>controls the finances controls the business. Right Like, if you

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.520
<v Speaker 1>in the charge of the books, you can you can

0:47:28.560 --> 0:47:31.640
<v Speaker 1>make pretty much every decision that you want to make, uh,

0:47:31.880 --> 0:47:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, for that company at home. I don't think

0:47:34.440 --> 0:47:36.160
<v Speaker 1>it should be that way. I think it's you know,

0:47:36.239 --> 0:47:38.440
<v Speaker 1>we always talk about what you bring to the table.

0:47:38.520 --> 0:47:40.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like, all right, let's lay out when we bring

0:47:40.840 --> 0:47:43.760
<v Speaker 1>to the table. Let's make it a good ass fucking table.

0:47:43.920 --> 0:47:45.960
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, but it doesn't mean, well,

0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:47.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm bringing the finances to the table, so I'm the

0:47:47.880 --> 0:47:50.200
<v Speaker 1>one that's calling off the shots around. To me, that's

0:47:50.200 --> 0:47:52.880
<v Speaker 1>a little unhealthy because you know there's times where you

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:55.960
<v Speaker 1>might be bringing all the money, but something may happen,

0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:59.080
<v Speaker 1>like like most saying like I've seen my family, you

0:47:59.120 --> 0:48:01.640
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, grow together, and you know, Pops

0:48:01.719 --> 0:48:03.680
<v Speaker 1>bringing in the big check. But my mom also had

0:48:03.719 --> 0:48:05.680
<v Speaker 1>a really good job. So when things might have stole

0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:07.680
<v Speaker 1>down for Pops, my mom, you know what I'm saying,

0:48:07.719 --> 0:48:10.439
<v Speaker 1>stepped up. So it was never about who about the money,

0:48:10.480 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 1>and it's all about how can we build the most

0:48:12.800 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 1>love often in this place. And so yeah, I think, man,

0:48:16.160 --> 0:48:19.040
<v Speaker 1>just like you said, man, share the resources and figure

0:48:19.040 --> 0:48:20.440
<v Speaker 1>out how you know what I'm saying, you can make

0:48:20.480 --> 0:48:23.680
<v Speaker 1>the housework for you. How do you all think we

0:48:23.840 --> 0:48:25.680
<v Speaker 1>ended up in this situation though, because I feel like

0:48:25.760 --> 0:48:30.120
<v Speaker 1>it's only in Black America, Black in America, black amongst

0:48:30.200 --> 0:48:33.640
<v Speaker 1>black Americans where this discussion about who pays for what,

0:48:34.200 --> 0:48:37.200
<v Speaker 1>who whose plate get fixed first? Like how did we

0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:41.000
<v Speaker 1>end up here? I disagree with you, j J. I

0:48:41.120 --> 0:48:44.560
<v Speaker 1>think I would have to disagree with what you talking about.

0:48:46.760 --> 0:48:53.040
<v Speaker 1>People's fight. We live in a capital capitalist society. Like

0:48:53.360 --> 0:48:56.680
<v Speaker 1>it's just American. It ain't a Black problem, it ain't

0:48:56.680 --> 0:48:59.440
<v Speaker 1>a white problem. It's just American. It's an American problem.

0:48:59.480 --> 0:49:02.880
<v Speaker 1>But you don't really see the public discussions amongst white

0:49:02.960 --> 0:49:06.640
<v Speaker 1>women and white men about what's going on in their community.

0:49:06.719 --> 0:49:08.840
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like all of our ship is on display.

0:49:08.920 --> 0:49:11.480
<v Speaker 1>So if anybody wants to come in and really dismantle

0:49:11.520 --> 0:49:15.359
<v Speaker 1>our ship, we've given them all the ample. So that's

0:49:15.440 --> 0:49:20.719
<v Speaker 1>on us though. That's now that's a media question, you

0:49:20.800 --> 0:49:23.279
<v Speaker 1>feel me, that's what What are we pushing out? What

0:49:23.400 --> 0:49:25.240
<v Speaker 1>are the things that we're pushing down about our community?

0:49:25.239 --> 0:49:28.279
<v Speaker 1>I made a post on my on my story the

0:49:28.360 --> 0:49:32.040
<v Speaker 1>thing about like highlighting the the positives and the good

0:49:32.080 --> 0:49:36.000
<v Speaker 1>things about our culture. Feel what I'm saying, man, The

0:49:36.080 --> 0:49:38.759
<v Speaker 1>black family is strong, and this is something that the

0:49:38.920 --> 0:49:43.360
<v Speaker 1>media doesn't like to talk about because it's threatening. You

0:49:43.440 --> 0:49:46.040
<v Speaker 1>feel what I'm saying, A strong back. A black family

0:49:46.160 --> 0:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>is a threat, and it's strong and it's getting stronger.

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:52.920
<v Speaker 1>We just like to push out all these negative topics,

0:49:53.360 --> 0:49:55.520
<v Speaker 1>and that's what we lose as a community, and then

0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:58.280
<v Speaker 1>we entertain it. That's what we lose as a community,

0:49:58.400 --> 0:50:02.120
<v Speaker 1>and we entertained hal for that it's coming out about us, man,

0:50:02.200 --> 0:50:04.239
<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't even be a story, you know what I mean.

0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:07.120
<v Speaker 1>So that's that's something that we have to fix in

0:50:07.160 --> 0:50:09.640
<v Speaker 1>the community. But as far as like this hierarch and

0:50:09.680 --> 0:50:12.560
<v Speaker 1>all that type of stuff, like that's an American problem,

0:50:12.800 --> 0:50:14.640
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And I think it's the

0:50:14.760 --> 0:50:17.720
<v Speaker 1>countries that you know, you look at what's going on soccer,

0:50:17.880 --> 0:50:20.279
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. You talk about Iran and

0:50:20.400 --> 0:50:24.360
<v Speaker 1>and uh and what's going on over there with women's

0:50:24.440 --> 0:50:27.160
<v Speaker 1>rice and all that type of stuff, Like it's a

0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:30.520
<v Speaker 1>world problem. You know how I get get pushed back,

0:50:31.000 --> 0:50:33.960
<v Speaker 1>you feeling me into the front. But I think all

0:50:34.000 --> 0:50:39.719
<v Speaker 1>of that is on a positive trend. Change. Yeah, go ahead,

0:50:39.760 --> 0:50:42.920
<v Speaker 1>go ahead, I's gonna saying. And we're just getting to

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:46.160
<v Speaker 1>we we're We've been working hard as a coach for

0:50:46.320 --> 0:50:48.640
<v Speaker 1>years to like to fight the odds and the challenges

0:50:48.880 --> 0:50:52.320
<v Speaker 1>in front of us. We have more educated you know

0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:55.160
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, millennials now than every before and even

0:50:55.280 --> 0:50:58.279
<v Speaker 1>more the next generation coming to the pipeline. We've got

0:50:58.400 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 1>more African American women make money now, you know what

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. That ever before and have an opportunity to

0:51:04.719 --> 0:51:07.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, run their household as a what I'm saying,

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:10.759
<v Speaker 1>a married person. Right, So it's like we're getting new

0:51:10.880 --> 0:51:13.040
<v Speaker 1>issues now that we've never had to deal with because

0:51:13.120 --> 0:51:15.120
<v Speaker 1>we've been growing as a culture, you know what I'm

0:51:15.120 --> 0:51:17.600
<v Speaker 1>saying up until this point. So it's gonna be more

0:51:17.640 --> 0:51:20.200
<v Speaker 1>and more challenges to come, new issues to come about,

0:51:20.480 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 1>just because black people are becoming more and more successful,

0:51:23.480 --> 0:51:26.279
<v Speaker 1>and you know what I'm saying to you know recent uh,

0:51:26.960 --> 0:51:29.040
<v Speaker 1>you know topics. I mean, if we don't control the

0:51:29.160 --> 0:51:31.600
<v Speaker 1>media is being pushed out on us, they're going to

0:51:31.680 --> 0:51:33.440
<v Speaker 1>try to you know what I'm saying, crushes because they

0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 1>see that grow and they see what can happen when

0:51:35.480 --> 0:51:37.640
<v Speaker 1>we work together. So I mean, we just gotta be

0:51:37.760 --> 0:51:41.879
<v Speaker 1>prepared for what that change means in our society through

0:51:41.920 --> 0:51:46.160
<v Speaker 1>the successful being able to guard. Can I just admit something.

0:51:46.880 --> 0:51:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be an equal partner. I don't

0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:53.439
<v Speaker 1>want to Hell no, I'm tired of running this ship.

0:51:53.560 --> 0:51:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I want somebody to come in here and take the

0:51:55.840 --> 0:52:03.759
<v Speaker 1>will first. Will Yeah, right, like people gotta have their

0:52:03.800 --> 0:52:07.520
<v Speaker 1>own preferences to Yeah, you know what you're saying, wrong,

0:52:07.560 --> 0:52:11.000
<v Speaker 1>You ain't that ain't nothing to admit too. Yeah, but people,

0:52:11.040 --> 0:52:13.360
<v Speaker 1>some people would say that's weak, you know, like she

0:52:13.560 --> 0:52:19.160
<v Speaker 1>wants she don't want to be equal. That's the dumbest ship.

0:52:19.239 --> 0:52:24.839
<v Speaker 1>We signed up for the same way. That the same

0:52:24.920 --> 0:52:27.359
<v Speaker 1>way I said, I'm looking for the same way I said,

0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:29.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for somebody who ain't gonna you know what

0:52:29.680 --> 0:52:31.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, be on my coach at all the time,

0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:34.759
<v Speaker 1>and like needs so much time because busy I am.

0:52:35.880 --> 0:52:39.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm also saying to ship, I worked long hours, you

0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:41.640
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. And when I get home sometimes

0:52:42.160 --> 0:52:44.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, MO go home, it might be dinner on

0:52:44.760 --> 0:52:46.200
<v Speaker 1>the table or he might you know what I'm saying,

0:52:46.239 --> 0:52:48.200
<v Speaker 1>be making dinner for the family. Who knows when I

0:52:48.280 --> 0:52:52.680
<v Speaker 1>got pizza one of the frozen pizzas and the oven

0:52:53.920 --> 0:52:55.920
<v Speaker 1>off here, ain't nothing doing. I got to clean the

0:52:56.000 --> 0:52:58.520
<v Speaker 1>house up, cook the meal or go out to eat

0:52:58.640 --> 0:53:03.000
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. So yeah, like there's value in that too,

0:53:03.480 --> 0:53:05.160
<v Speaker 1>or you just get or you just get your paper.

0:53:05.360 --> 0:53:11.759
<v Speaker 1>You just got somebody outsourcing. Yeah, but Tama, it's it's

0:53:11.840 --> 0:53:13.960
<v Speaker 1>no switch now. So you say you want somebody to

0:53:14.040 --> 0:53:16.600
<v Speaker 1>come in and and and control things, But do you

0:53:16.719 --> 0:53:19.040
<v Speaker 1>think that there's an internal switch that you can turn

0:53:19.120 --> 0:53:21.279
<v Speaker 1>off to be able to deal with that. And that's

0:53:21.320 --> 0:53:23.560
<v Speaker 1>the problem. I don't know. I don't know. Can I

0:53:23.760 --> 0:53:26.759
<v Speaker 1>just let somebody take control when I've been controlling ship

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:29.520
<v Speaker 1>my whole life, you know, my whole adult life. I

0:53:29.600 --> 0:53:31.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know, but I showed would like to find out.

0:53:33.640 --> 0:53:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't want somebody to come in and

0:53:35.239 --> 0:53:37.160
<v Speaker 1>be like, this is your bad time. No, I don't

0:53:37.160 --> 0:53:38.880
<v Speaker 1>want it to be like that type of control. But

0:53:39.040 --> 0:53:42.600
<v Speaker 1>I just want someone else to like lead. You remember

0:53:42.600 --> 0:53:44.040
<v Speaker 1>when I used to have to get off the phone.

0:53:45.200 --> 0:53:47.000
<v Speaker 1>She used to have to like she was in a

0:53:47.080 --> 0:53:50.160
<v Speaker 1>relationship and she's like, I gotta go, it's bad time this.

0:53:50.400 --> 0:53:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what, turn the light off, turn the

0:53:54.920 --> 0:53:59.680
<v Speaker 1>TV off. It's like stop talking now. Yeah, that worked

0:53:59.719 --> 0:54:05.080
<v Speaker 1>for you. They ain't together no more. I'm not somebody

0:54:05.160 --> 0:54:15.160
<v Speaker 1>that's easily controlled. I think that was a surprise for him. Yeah.

0:54:15.239 --> 0:54:17.520
<v Speaker 1>It's one thing to set boundaries in your relationship, but

0:54:17.600 --> 0:54:19.239
<v Speaker 1>to tell somebody when they need to go to bed,

0:54:19.360 --> 0:54:23.360
<v Speaker 1>it's like a whole different kind of level of control.

0:54:23.480 --> 0:54:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't want to be controlled. Enjoy that. Yeah,

0:54:28.000 --> 0:54:30.960
<v Speaker 1>they probably like it. I didn't because, like then you

0:54:31.120 --> 0:54:32.799
<v Speaker 1>also don't want me to go lay on the couch

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:34.239
<v Speaker 1>so I can still do what I want to do

0:54:34.320 --> 0:54:36.319
<v Speaker 1>and tell him, actually, sleepy, you want me to still

0:54:36.440 --> 0:54:40.640
<v Speaker 1>stay right here in the dark, just laying in the dark. Nah,

0:54:42.760 --> 0:54:56.360
<v Speaker 1>that's why, just laying there. That's weird me some melotonin

0:54:56.520 --> 0:55:03.279
<v Speaker 1>or something like they do these babies, you know, to

0:55:03.560 --> 0:55:06.840
<v Speaker 1>like your relationship or past relationship with them. Did he feeds?

0:55:06.880 --> 0:55:17.440
<v Speaker 1>You don't say? Like life y'all? Oh goodness that partner

0:55:17.520 --> 0:55:22.919
<v Speaker 1>selection boy in business and life? That ship is hella important? Yeah?

0:55:25.000 --> 0:55:27.399
<v Speaker 1>Do you do you guys take therapy? Have y'all ever

0:55:27.480 --> 0:55:30.239
<v Speaker 1>had to take therapy as business partners? And do you

0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:34.839
<v Speaker 1>take individual therapy as a group? Nam? But I think

0:55:34.880 --> 0:55:36.839
<v Speaker 1>it's I think we should though, I think we need

0:55:36.960 --> 0:55:40.600
<v Speaker 1>to start um and I've been thinking about that a lot.

0:55:40.719 --> 0:55:46.960
<v Speaker 1>But individually I have I'm sure, j No, not individually,

0:55:47.560 --> 0:55:50.560
<v Speaker 1>not to score. I'd like to do things. It's therapeutic though,

0:55:51.239 --> 0:55:54.319
<v Speaker 1>h Yeah. I think Black people need a different type

0:55:54.360 --> 0:55:57.440
<v Speaker 1>of therapy anyway. We need like spiritual therapy, not like

0:55:59.200 --> 0:56:02.080
<v Speaker 1>yeah for sure all this so I mean, but you

0:56:02.160 --> 0:56:06.000
<v Speaker 1>know I'm set on some couches for sure. That lady

0:56:07.760 --> 0:56:13.919
<v Speaker 1>when you're talking to the lady, the ladies. The lady said,

0:56:14.680 --> 0:56:16.239
<v Speaker 1>you don't have you through some things, you know what

0:56:16.320 --> 0:56:19.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. And uh, but you know what I mean. Also,

0:56:19.200 --> 0:56:21.880
<v Speaker 1>like Clint said, other things is therapeutic, like this art gallery,

0:56:22.680 --> 0:56:26.600
<v Speaker 1>just being here around art, the visual arts therapeutic. Um

0:56:26.960 --> 0:56:30.640
<v Speaker 1>think therapy. Yeah, cleaning a lot of tattoos, that's his therapy,

0:56:31.160 --> 0:56:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I might smoke with Jake

0:56:32.880 --> 0:56:35.560
<v Speaker 1>probably just about any night just to just to vibe

0:56:35.600 --> 0:56:39.280
<v Speaker 1>out and just chilling. I listen to podcasts and using

0:56:39.320 --> 0:56:42.239
<v Speaker 1>that therapeuty. Cleaning up is therapeutic for me. Cooking, Believe

0:56:42.280 --> 0:56:44.160
<v Speaker 1>it or not. It's the weed that makes you want

0:56:44.160 --> 0:56:48.640
<v Speaker 1>to clean up. I've seen that and started cleaning the

0:56:48.760 --> 0:56:52.919
<v Speaker 1>baseboards and ship like goddamn cleaning. You know what I'm saying.

0:56:53.760 --> 0:56:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Working out of therapeutic, running this very therapeutic, just to

0:56:56.640 --> 0:56:59.000
<v Speaker 1>get about it all. But does any of that stuff

0:56:59.080 --> 0:57:02.400
<v Speaker 1>really help you yield? Though? I think a lot of

0:57:02.440 --> 0:57:05.359
<v Speaker 1>that stuff just helps you get through to keep going.

0:57:05.800 --> 0:57:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, doesn't really help you heal from ship. I

0:57:08.600 --> 0:57:12.200
<v Speaker 1>mean stress management healing. You know, it's you know, you

0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:14.719
<v Speaker 1>either manage it, deal with it, or you heal from

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:18.560
<v Speaker 1>the worst thing you can do is just deal with it.

0:57:18.960 --> 0:57:21.720
<v Speaker 1>So if you're managing it, then that's that's that's that's

0:57:21.760 --> 0:57:24.040
<v Speaker 1>a good step, you know what I'm saying. Now, whether

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:25.520
<v Speaker 1>you heal from it or not, I think a lot

0:57:25.560 --> 0:57:28.960
<v Speaker 1>of times it's all up to us. It's people to heal,

0:57:29.200 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, and let things go, uh

0:57:31.520 --> 0:57:35.200
<v Speaker 1>and don't let things hold on to us. But I mean,

0:57:35.480 --> 0:57:38.760
<v Speaker 1>if you're managing your stress stresses you you can't run

0:57:38.880 --> 0:57:40.720
<v Speaker 1>from it is here, you know what I mean. So

0:57:40.760 --> 0:57:43.760
<v Speaker 1>if you're managing it by running or smoking a j

0:57:44.240 --> 0:57:47.800
<v Speaker 1>or cleaning or whatever your stress management is, I think

0:57:47.960 --> 0:57:51.800
<v Speaker 1>that's that's the focus that that we should have even

0:57:51.840 --> 0:57:54.960
<v Speaker 1>as a community, like learning how to manage the things

0:57:55.040 --> 0:57:59.080
<v Speaker 1>that that's gonna come that's inevitable, you know stress. One

0:57:59.120 --> 0:58:02.640
<v Speaker 1>thing I know we don't that well is take advantage

0:58:02.680 --> 0:58:07.680
<v Speaker 1>of like vacations, so like must you know, yeah, man,

0:58:07.840 --> 0:58:09.640
<v Speaker 1>like I can probably speak the all three of us,

0:58:09.680 --> 0:58:13.000
<v Speaker 1>like you have you been on a vacation and now

0:58:13.040 --> 0:58:14.919
<v Speaker 1>we now we got work trips, you know what I'm saying.

0:58:15.080 --> 0:58:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Or you know, like you know, fellas trips and things

0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:21.240
<v Speaker 1>like that. But man, that ain't vacation like we we

0:58:21.400 --> 0:58:23.720
<v Speaker 1>haven't done a good job, but like just shutting ship down.

0:58:24.400 --> 0:58:26.480
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, turn the phone off and

0:58:26.640 --> 0:58:32.160
<v Speaker 1>like you know, just connecting and so like that's for me,

0:58:32.400 --> 0:58:34.480
<v Speaker 1>you know that's something in twent twenty three, Like I

0:58:34.640 --> 0:58:38.680
<v Speaker 1>really want to like practice a little more little vacation.

0:58:39.160 --> 0:58:41.880
<v Speaker 1>It's hard to disconnect because I feel like on my vacation,

0:58:42.040 --> 0:58:43.960
<v Speaker 1>if I can't share it on my Instagram, is it

0:58:44.120 --> 0:58:50.360
<v Speaker 1>really a vacation. I can't help my phone off. You

0:58:50.400 --> 0:58:53.480
<v Speaker 1>don't need everybody keeping up with moves some That's that's

0:58:54.960 --> 0:58:57.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't like that. We gotta we gotta like this,

0:58:58.360 --> 0:59:01.120
<v Speaker 1>and that's I think we got too much access right now.

0:59:01.280 --> 0:59:04.040
<v Speaker 1>Every people got access to you all the time. People

0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:07.320
<v Speaker 1>access to mean to us all the time. If if

0:59:07.360 --> 0:59:09.560
<v Speaker 1>I post something and I ain't reply back to a tick,

0:59:09.680 --> 0:59:12.240
<v Speaker 1>somebody hit me up. Hey you see you see my ticks?

0:59:12.320 --> 0:59:14.880
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Like the access man, we

0:59:14.960 --> 0:59:18.400
<v Speaker 1>got to cut that off sometime and just disconnect. I

0:59:18.480 --> 0:59:22.200
<v Speaker 1>think we we as a people, it's just as a race,

0:59:22.520 --> 0:59:25.080
<v Speaker 1>we gotta learn how to do that, because that's a

0:59:25.200 --> 0:59:28.360
<v Speaker 1>formal stress all all in itself. We ain't meant to

0:59:28.400 --> 0:59:31.840
<v Speaker 1>be contacted and connected and access to all the time.

0:59:34.160 --> 0:59:36.440
<v Speaker 1>What was we doing before cell phones? You know what

0:59:36.520 --> 0:59:40.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like exactly down now niggers want to be

0:59:40.800 --> 0:59:42.560
<v Speaker 1>in your bedroom. They want to be on vacation with you.

0:59:42.640 --> 0:59:44.320
<v Speaker 1>They want to see what you eat, and like, I

0:59:44.520 --> 0:59:50.520
<v Speaker 1>cannot get with that ship at all. And it's if

0:59:50.560 --> 0:59:52.720
<v Speaker 1>somebody has had to wait till you got home to

0:59:52.840 --> 0:59:56.200
<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Yeah, you feel me or talk to Yeah,

0:59:57.560 --> 1:00:01.520
<v Speaker 1>that's true. Now you got talking people on the iPhone,

1:00:02.280 --> 1:00:04.600
<v Speaker 1>you can get into your thoughts. You're thinking all through

1:00:04.640 --> 1:00:06.960
<v Speaker 1>the day. It's about you. You know what I'm saying.

1:00:07.600 --> 1:00:10.120
<v Speaker 1>You get home, but you you're taking on somebody problems

1:00:11.560 --> 1:00:13.560
<v Speaker 1>like this way. You know what I mean from a

1:00:13.600 --> 1:00:18.040
<v Speaker 1>relationship standpoint. Man, Think about how many people's grandmothers and

1:00:18.120 --> 1:00:20.320
<v Speaker 1>grandfathers didn't have to deal with some of the stuff

1:00:20.360 --> 1:00:22.720
<v Speaker 1>that we was dealing with. It Like you could tell

1:00:22.800 --> 1:00:24.560
<v Speaker 1>somebody like, hey, I'm gonna be gone, I gotta go

1:00:24.680 --> 1:00:28.880
<v Speaker 1>to I'm saying Memphis for the weekend. I'll be back

1:00:28.960 --> 1:00:31.680
<v Speaker 1>in seven days now, Like it's easier to cheat waiting.

1:00:31.840 --> 1:00:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, now, take this, take this picture with you.

1:00:35.760 --> 1:00:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Nigga could not face time person I'm just saying you

1:00:40.920 --> 1:00:43.200
<v Speaker 1>have to worry about somebody like looking at your story

1:00:43.840 --> 1:00:46.720
<v Speaker 1>or you know what I'm saying, like looking at looking

1:00:46.760 --> 1:00:48.840
<v Speaker 1>at your sunglasses when you take a picture to see

1:00:51.880 --> 1:00:59.400
<v Speaker 1>back there? Who took that picture? Right there? I know

1:00:59.600 --> 1:01:01.480
<v Speaker 1>once I'm really called it, Nicku, I was dealing with

1:01:01.680 --> 1:01:03.720
<v Speaker 1>doing something he wasn't supposed to because I saw in

1:01:03.880 --> 1:01:06.400
<v Speaker 1>his sunglasses a bit in the background. I was like, hello,

1:01:06.520 --> 1:01:11.120
<v Speaker 1>that's a bit in a bathing suit. With the follow

1:01:11.160 --> 1:01:17.200
<v Speaker 1>through and with the iPhone, don't mess and running do

1:01:17.280 --> 1:01:19.520
<v Speaker 1>those live photos. You can hit like hit play a

1:01:19.600 --> 1:01:21.440
<v Speaker 1>little bit, hands but shi in the background right quick?

1:01:21.480 --> 1:01:24.240
<v Speaker 1>You can hear the background. Be careful. Now you can

1:01:24.240 --> 1:01:27.160
<v Speaker 1>see somebody's location if you got the wrong settings on

1:01:27.280 --> 1:01:31.720
<v Speaker 1>your phone, right wherever they be. Yeah, you can go

1:01:31.840 --> 1:01:34.400
<v Speaker 1>through and see all the places that they've been. How

1:01:36.120 --> 1:01:40.680
<v Speaker 1>don't try to know, ben, I need to make sure

1:01:40.680 --> 1:01:42.360
<v Speaker 1>on my phone or had that type of stuff on it.

1:01:44.400 --> 1:01:46.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, with these air tags. Have y'all seen that.

1:01:47.000 --> 1:01:53.320
<v Speaker 1>That's a new thing too. That's like, Yeah, people follow

1:01:53.400 --> 1:01:55.840
<v Speaker 1>you home and stuff like that. They can put it,

1:01:55.920 --> 1:01:57.560
<v Speaker 1>slip it in your pocket and you don't even know

1:01:58.680 --> 1:02:01.200
<v Speaker 1>it was came on my phone at tag, I stopped

1:02:01.240 --> 1:02:03.640
<v Speaker 1>the car, got up on the car making shot and

1:02:03.760 --> 1:02:08.320
<v Speaker 1>the man, that's crazy, it's getting crazy. He's did crazy

1:02:08.400 --> 1:02:11.080
<v Speaker 1>out here. Even the headphones. I was with somebody who

1:02:11.120 --> 1:02:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't have, like the pods, the and they connected

1:02:13.760 --> 1:02:19.120
<v Speaker 1>to my phone connected and so they was here in

1:02:19.200 --> 1:02:21.920
<v Speaker 1>your conversation, not like connected in that way. Like the

1:02:22.040 --> 1:02:25.200
<v Speaker 1>map popped up on my phone showing where the headphones

1:02:25.320 --> 1:02:28.360
<v Speaker 1>was at, Like I didn't set that up. So how

1:02:28.400 --> 1:02:31.680
<v Speaker 1>did all this access? I just you know what I mean.

1:02:32.680 --> 1:02:34.960
<v Speaker 1>It could be used for for good and bad. So

1:02:35.440 --> 1:02:37.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't even want to go to Machgo

1:02:37.760 --> 1:02:40.440
<v Speaker 1>no more. Man, everybody makes go posting it. I just

1:02:40.480 --> 1:02:42.680
<v Speaker 1>want to and I just want people to go somewhere

1:02:42.720 --> 1:02:46.560
<v Speaker 1>that good time and go to the Caribbean islands, go

1:02:46.640 --> 1:02:50.160
<v Speaker 1>where black people at well, go with good black people

1:02:53.000 --> 1:02:56.200
<v Speaker 1>know your people. So so we have a segment on

1:02:56.280 --> 1:02:59.920
<v Speaker 1>our show called SIMP Series and are a dumb bit

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<v Speaker 1>story And it's basically where you share a time that

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<v Speaker 1>you got played by the opposite sex. Can y'all share

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<v Speaker 1>a story? And please don't do it? Every time we

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<v Speaker 1>have a guy, they always be like, yeah, when I

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<v Speaker 1>was in the ninth grade. This girl did this like

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<v Speaker 1>no tell us a story adult story at a time

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<v Speaker 1>where like, damn, I can't believe she did me like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I ain't, y'all, don't just play that. Ain't no

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<v Speaker 1>ego ship or nothing like that. It's just, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've just eve been playing It's too I'm too cool, man.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get played that ninth grade was the last

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<v Speaker 1>time you got the ninth grade? That's it. I played myself.

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<v Speaker 1>You see what I'm saying. Tell us by the time

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<v Speaker 1>you played yourself, right, But now I didn't know. I ain't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even be thinking no time like that that

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<v Speaker 1>I got played neither. You played for a girl to

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<v Speaker 1>fly out somewhere and then she kind of ran off

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody else nothing, you know what. I might have

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<v Speaker 1>had one time where uh, it kind of goes two

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<v Speaker 1>ways that at one time it was like last minute

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<v Speaker 1>we was taking the trip, I end up flying somebody

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<v Speaker 1>out of randomly. Um, we get out there and I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't hearing from where she. I think she might have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, connected with somebody else. Really cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we got into like a little back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>before she flew out, and so I really wasn't tripping

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<v Speaker 1>about it. But it worked for me because I met

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<v Speaker 1>somebody while I was out there, and you know, right

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<v Speaker 1>off the rip and things you know, fell in place,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't really apply. Yeah, so you make up

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<v Speaker 1>some ship. Nah, I ain't really interesting. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>could have been getting played and just didn't know it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I ain't looking for nothing. I ain't. I ain't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I ain't looking for that. I'm sure I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten played, you feel me, But I just don't know

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<v Speaker 1>everybody everybody that got played. If you ain't know it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't. I ain't trying to be that invested to

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<v Speaker 1>the wall. What's your sign sagittariums? Okay, yeah, terrorists sagittarist

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<v Speaker 1>that's I was thinking. You know, there's good people, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, as long as y'all are saying a query,

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<v Speaker 1>that's be good. They all never got played. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna leave that one alone. It's hard to get me

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<v Speaker 1>to tell a story when they're on the show. Honestly, women,

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of what those games you got for that ship?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only game we got. I guess you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>come up with some games like well, yeah, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>come up with turn well, tell everybody where to find you,

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<v Speaker 1>Huskies everything. Yeah, PRM we got some gear coming out,

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<v Speaker 1>some merch coming out. It's already on, it's already out

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<v Speaker 1>with the PRM released something first. So if you you

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<v Speaker 1>know like the caps, it's about pr caps we've got. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>we're practicing like lux comfort. So same ship we wear

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<v Speaker 1>every day on day to day, trying to build our empire,

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<v Speaker 1>your dig and we help you add that to your

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<v Speaker 1>lifestylele so kind of work. E G. And M. C

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<v Speaker 1>R bar you can check this album. Come to Nashville's

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<v Speaker 1>on History Rejection Street. Uh you know we bought the building,

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<v Speaker 1>historic building. Uh you know, slaves building slaves put the

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<v Speaker 1>bricks up. Feeling me so, um, that's what the architect

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<v Speaker 1>for the state Capitol he lived in that in the

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<v Speaker 1>actual building that we purchased. E G. M C educated

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<v Speaker 1>give the Melanati creators. I'm proud of y'all. Yeah, proud

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all. From the INCA Gallery, Nashville, Memphis, Tennessee. Um Stimmer,

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<v Speaker 1>Huskies man, you can find us. We out we out

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<v Speaker 1>here somewhere so where at right now? That's your art gallery. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the art gallery. Buckand Street. We're in the neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>right now, North Nashville. Y'all hiring. Let the people know

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<v Speaker 1>if you're hiring or not. We always hired. Yeah, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as we keep going, were hiring for sure people. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got one more question. What's the last book you read?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that? Um? Last book I read? I'm currently listening

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<v Speaker 1>to uh shooting the last book I read with Danny

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<v Speaker 1>Meyers see it at the table. That was it? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't read it. I started reading. That's like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't keep stopping and going back. So I listened

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<v Speaker 1>to it. So I've been on audiobooks real heavy. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that was the last book that I completed. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>saving me more actually got me this book The Time

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<v Speaker 1>of America by Steve Stout. Reading that just talks about

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the power of of you know, African American

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<v Speaker 1>culture and the marketing of you know, things within our country.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a great book. But I'm also I

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<v Speaker 1>like to just kind of continue to educate myself on

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<v Speaker 1>different things. We're jumping into a lot of different sectors

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<v Speaker 1>of business, want being the music industry, and so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of reading books right now. Music publishing. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to continue to educate, don't get more knowledge.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my thing about a lot of people. I care

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<v Speaker 1>about it or take a liking too. Books. So y'all

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<v Speaker 1>do audibles. I got a log in for that. Got

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of books in there. If y'all want it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I Um I saw audible start. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>start jumping in that. Yeah, that's that's how That's how

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<v Speaker 1>I think. Man. We we like to to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the same page, you know, and always being curious. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why we asked that question. And e g.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the last book you read? Because you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>curious mind, you want somebody that's curious you want And

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<v Speaker 1>that's and that comes from Howard shows uh from Starbucks. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know he hiring somebody. What's the last book? So

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<v Speaker 1>hiring people, relationships, all that type of stuff. Make somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to read and read the same books too. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>working on something together, like read the same book and

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<v Speaker 1>on the same page. Mentally, you know, I'm saying, learn together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's something that we did at beginning for sure and

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<v Speaker 1>still do so m hmm. Thank you all for coming on. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Remember to speak now and never hold your peace. Do

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<v Speaker 1>this bye