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Speaker 1: Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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Speaker 1: Who talks back? What's up, y'all? Is your co host

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Speaker 1: aj Holiday, Thank you for tuning in for a new episode,

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Speaker 1: and we talked back and show dedicated to you niggas

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Speaker 1: and these holes and everybody in between. What up, Tam? Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: it's tam bam. I'm hungover. I still love y'all. I

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Speaker 1: sound like your Hello. Get your life together, y'all. She

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Speaker 1: needs something like, uh, what's the ship call? Encouragement to

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Speaker 1: not drink on Sunday nights, obviously because it was the

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Speaker 1: Panthers one. I went to the game the Panthers one.

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Speaker 1: My friend's mom. She buys drinks unlimited. It's something about

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Speaker 1: those unlimited drinks that just have a bit sick on Monday, girl,

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Speaker 1: I was sick and tale Saturday, so I feel you.

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Speaker 1: I pulled to you this weekend. For sure. He was

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Speaker 1: taking shots. No, you know, I don't chase it, bitch,

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Speaker 1: these niggas. These liquor just straight tequila. But somebody else

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Speaker 1: is buying my drinks, so I drink don Wholio usually.

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Speaker 1: And I stopped working with costing me Goes because I

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Speaker 1: feel like once black people started drinking, costing me goes

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Speaker 1: like they change the recipe, it does not taste the same,

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Speaker 1: and I'd be yeah, it gives me like patron vibes,

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Speaker 1: Like I really be like down bad. I can drink

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Speaker 1: like a small bottle of Don Julie and be good

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Speaker 1: by myself a bottle and I don't drink that often. Man,

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Speaker 1: I was really sick. I ruined my Sunday for real.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's how I feel today. We alcoholics for real

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Speaker 1: just once a week, and for me on Sunday, it'd

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Speaker 1: just can't, Like my body does not process LIQ at

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Speaker 1: the same no more. M hmm, Like I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: be right till Tues Wednesday. I was making myself throw

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Speaker 1: up like six thirty last night so I can go

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Speaker 1: out the dinner. Damn. No, I don't make myself. I

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Speaker 1: just take I drink PDA like and I take like

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Speaker 1: the goody hangovers and I'd be like not dead anymore.

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Speaker 1: I can get on here and record with y'all, but

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Speaker 1: I'll still be hurting. No girl, I had to make

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Speaker 1: myself throw up because I was like busting out and

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Speaker 1: sweats while I was trying to get dressed right so

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Speaker 1: much so to where my lace went and stick, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I can't wiping my fucking forehir with alcohol and it

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Speaker 1: just wasn't working. So I'm like, Okay, I gotta feel

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Speaker 1: bad because like I'm I got, I'm busting out in

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Speaker 1: sweats while I'm trying to get dressed like it's like

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Speaker 1: a fat bitch, Like what's happening? But I got it together?

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Speaker 1: So you eat these three meals? Okay, where'd you go eat?

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Speaker 1: My little favorite spot and um, Charleston is called Pearls.

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Speaker 1: You know pearls. They got pearls in Colombia. The one

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Speaker 1: here is better. The the one here is better because

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Speaker 1: like the seafood is much like Fresher's my favorite. What

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Speaker 1: we got going on in stupid internet news this week, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Have y'all been following the blogs? I an't followed the

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Speaker 1: blogs during the goddamn monkey poks pandemics. I really be

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Speaker 1: having to like look for my news now outside of

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Speaker 1: social media nowadays. But I know everybody's been seeing this

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Speaker 1: Balenciaga campaign and they asked in hot water, and I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it got anything to do with how

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Speaker 1: they play with Kanye. I just don't know, but it

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Speaker 1: just seems like London Bridge is fucking falling at this point.

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Speaker 1: One of their ads, they're saying that they're not responsible

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Speaker 1: for the ad, and there they have like a twenty

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Speaker 1: five million dollar lawsuit against the company who did the ad.

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Speaker 1: The photographer said he had nothing to do with that ship.

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Speaker 1: He just took the pictures. This is essentially essentially like

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Speaker 1: product placement. So they had like a kid on, a

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Speaker 1: the picture. And this is for kids clothing. It's weird.

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Speaker 1: It's given, really child abuse, it's definitely given, and the

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Speaker 1: kid did not happen. It's just crazy. It's just crazy

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Speaker 1: how they'd be putting this ship right in your face

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Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, they've been doing this stuff all the

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Speaker 1: time and they just they just expect people not to

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Speaker 1: notice it. But they've since taken down their entire Instagram page.

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Speaker 1: They've deleted everything because people really started zooming in on

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Speaker 1: everything because there was another everything. Yeah, it was another

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Speaker 1: this book is just a bunch of naked babies. Why.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand whether the point of this. People don't

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Speaker 1: believe in little little societies and little things these people

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Speaker 1: and then they're gonna act stupid. Once the regular naked

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Speaker 1: looking at. I don't know, but um, Canada's ones was

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Speaker 1: digging in. Kim Kardashian asked, because she put a statement

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Speaker 1: to their ounce white supremacy. Denounced this announced that denounced them.

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Speaker 1: It's just a goddamn clothing line. Isn't it. It's just

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Speaker 1: a designer. How much money you are really tied up

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Speaker 1: with these people because they definitely denounced Kanye ass after

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Speaker 1: one tweet. But this is the type of ship they

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Speaker 1: can get away with. It's disgusting. The host the whole

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Speaker 1: ship is discussing it's weird. Damn. I bought some Valenciaga sneakers.

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Speaker 1: I can't wear them, no, moha, you better put them

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Speaker 1: on the real real the big clunky as sneakers. Those

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Speaker 1: ships is the workout, yeah, they have. You never have

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Speaker 1: to want to run in those that stump a bit though.

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Speaker 1: So Yeah. During the last Monday's Night's episode of Loving

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Speaker 1: Hip Hop New York, Chrissy shared over the first dinner

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Speaker 1: Jim Jones had prepared for her in their sixteen years together,

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Speaker 1: that she no longer felt it necessary for them to marry,

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Speaker 1: despite the huge engagement ring one on her finger for years. Damn,

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Speaker 1: that's crazy. I think they did. I think they actually married,

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Speaker 1: and they do the ship for show, because there's no

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Speaker 1: way you want to be like the dumbest bit of

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Speaker 1: the century for this man. Remember she proposed to him

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Speaker 1: one year, Yes she did. Well, maybe she just fed

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Speaker 1: up she's fifty one. She's fifty one. That's just fine.

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Speaker 1: She's nice, Yes, she's very because you don't have no

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Speaker 1: kids and she never got married, never been married. Mrs

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Speaker 1: would never have kids and don't get married. I always

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Speaker 1: look good for some reason, less stressed. But he's definitely

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Speaker 1: been stressing her, and that's just unfortunate. Like that's what

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Speaker 1: I feel like. I feel like it's just like for show,

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Speaker 1: like y'all, damn their family members at this point, Damn

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Speaker 1: near they are. They've been common law husband and wife

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Speaker 1: for a long time, regardless of the paper Jim Jones.

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Speaker 1: So she I'm little older, and you know, the mom

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like what he was doing to her

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Speaker 1: was like, well you want to get married at and

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Speaker 1: still want to get married, Like you're skipping ahead some steps,

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Speaker 1: that's what she said, some steps, and that's what men do.

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Speaker 1: Like he was gas lighting the hell out of her

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Speaker 1: ass at that damn table, like all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: it's just all the problems he has, just just some

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Speaker 1: real I hate to just be calling all men narcissists,

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Speaker 1: but it was some real narcissistic behavior. Mm hmm. I

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Speaker 1: have nothing to offer, but you brought it up. You

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Speaker 1: I need I need her to go get her like

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Speaker 1: a little sixty four year old daddie. Okay, no, she

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Speaker 1: needs to get her a thirty two year old daddie. No,

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Speaker 1: so he can fund the ship out of her m.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Jim Jones being the gym girl, he

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Speaker 1: a little while ago, Meg the Stallion put out um

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Speaker 1: opposed to her social media child. She's the first black

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Speaker 1: woman I hate those terms, but she's the first black

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Speaker 1: about that. That's congratulations to her and real hot girl

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Speaker 1: ship she had. I think, Megan say it had a

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Speaker 1: Man is in court today also in court and her

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Speaker 1: homegirl umxl right had the parent court today, UM for

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Speaker 1: the assault of Magna Stallion. I really want to see

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Speaker 1: when all the truth or whatever comes out, um, people

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Speaker 1: and with all the ship that's going on in Houston,

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Speaker 1: literally like people literally dying and she has like all

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Speaker 1: these different men attacking her from every every is a

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Speaker 1: Because she's too powerful? Right now? Um? And I guess

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Speaker 1: we may get into this and our main topic tonight, UM,

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Speaker 1: But men may not like this. But the world was

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Speaker 1: better when you can check history when it was like

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Speaker 1: matriarchal lead leadership, Like there was no wars, none of

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Speaker 1: that ship you checked the fucking history books along with

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Speaker 1: all these the three major religions came patriarchy and it's

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Speaker 1: been held ever since. And I feel like men think

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Speaker 1: they're losing some power somewhere, Like they don't even see

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Speaker 1: the benefit of, you know, not having to carry the

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Speaker 1: load themselves, the invisible load for a lot of these guys,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because a lot of them

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Speaker 1: not not really showing up. But you can, you can

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Speaker 1: Like women are very very powerful. I want to lean

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Speaker 1: Like either one of us are the type of women

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Speaker 1: I just want to be out here is just straight

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Speaker 1: for ness and niggas, I don't think anyway, not once

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Speaker 1: we define dress, rest foriness and let these niggas do

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Speaker 1: the rest Hey like that that really was my mantra

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Speaker 1: like in my twenties. That's terrible. Yes, but anyway, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she better stay prayed up. And yes, the goddamn um

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Speaker 1: frustrating order. There's nothing wrong with that, Like she needs

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Speaker 1: have our own live music series we host here in Nashville.

422
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Speaker 1: We want, you know, to introduce them to that, you know,

423
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: when we come to town. Um as well as our

424
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 1: art shows that we do. Like we're in our um

425
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: our gallery right now. It's called Inca Gallery. So we've

426
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: got one here in Nashville, another Membis, Tennessee. And uh yeah,

427
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 1: we're just trying to you know, spread the love and

428
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 1: introduce people to we called the pream world everything someone huskies,

429
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: progress rules everything around he So y'all also are in

430
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: some locations grocery stores frozen pizza. How did that come about?

431
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: And how long have you all been doing that? Man?

432
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: We started working this pretty much pretty much a pandemic

433
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: type business venture that we started. Um, we always want

434
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: to dive into products. You get Master Peak talk about

435
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: all the time products gonna top back, so you know,

436
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: so we always want to dive in the products. You

437
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: always want to be on the shelves. Um and uh.

438
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: We built the relationship with a friend of rus at

439
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: the term truck uh and he was like many I

440
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: wanted to see y'all pieces of work on the shelves

441
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: and so we got a food scientist and whipped it

442
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: up and star freeze and putting on the shelves, doing great.

443
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: And then we also uh work with gold Belly. Uh

444
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: so you know people can shield pieces all across the

445
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,719
Speaker 1: country and also slim Huskies dot com. Uh you can

446
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: get pizzas from there as well, and the sauces in

447
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: the Sentinel roads too. Damn. So you said, y'all, y'all

448
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: duties festivals are y'all mobile? Do you have like a

449
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 1: food truck as well? Yeah, we got a food truck

450
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: is based in Tennessee. We got another one that's gonna

451
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: be based in Austin, Texas, and that's gonna be the

452
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: one that moves around the country. Okay, go, so when

453
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: y'all when you're gonna put one in Charlotte, because I

454
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: like pizza ship hungry as fuck, chucked up to my

455
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 1: stomach is messed up. I was drinking last night. A

456
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: slice of pizza would be good right now to help

457
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: me with what I mean. It was about it was

458
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: about a year and a half, we'll we would be

459
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: in Charlotte. We we're gonna start doing some some site

460
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: selections real soon. Yeah, the next couple of months. So

461
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: we hit up Charlotte and d C and you know,

462
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 1: go back down to Atlanta and you know what I mean,

463
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna keep moving around, um, you know in the

464
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 1: Southeast South Way, so Houston, Dallas. Bum. In the meantime,

465
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: it's adult Black owned pizzeria down and Charlotte. I checked

466
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: out called Bird Pizzeria. Y'all tried, Tom you No, I

467
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: haven't heard of that Bird Bird. Yep, Bird Pizza. Rea

468
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: Black as a husband and wife. Uh, the slanging pines.

469
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: I just I just window out there, so it looked

470
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: them up. I'm definitely gonna look them up because I

471
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: need something on my stomach right now. I'm like, all right, y'all,

472
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna take a commercial real quick, and we're gonna

473
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: come back and talk about relationships in business and relationships period.

474
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: So y'all stay tuned. We'll be right back. So, So,

475
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: like with owning and operating a business, it is essentially

476
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,479
Speaker 1: like a marriage. So how did you pick your partners

477
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: aside from just going to school with them? Like, how

478
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: did you know that this would be a good a

479
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: good union? And it's like, like, what are some of

480
00:28:54,880 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: the biggest challenges you guys find in business together? Um?

481
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I don't know,

482
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: if we picked we picked each other like that. I

483
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: think it just came together. Um you know, I mean,

484
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: you know, I always you know, we got a good

485
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: thing going, man, And sometimes you really can't take you

486
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: credit for it. I'd be like, man, that was God,

487
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I feel like just

488
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: just from growing up going through trials and tribulations separately together,

489
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: you know, on the football field was roommates and in college, Um,

490
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: you know, we we all went off to do our

491
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: own thing. I was at traffic controller and uh, you know,

492
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: left they got a law school, had a bunch of

493
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: jobs I got fired from. Uh. Clinton Clint was in sales.

494
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: It was in finance and he was a financial analysts

495
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: and uh and the pieces just kind of got kind

496
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: of got put together for us to like come together

497
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: and do and do our first business. And uh, I

498
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: think that a lot of the kings got earned out

499
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: in the first business. Um, you know how we word like,

500
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: I can't honestly like I know my partner. So if

501
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 1: it's something like six in the morning, five in the morning,

502
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm probably not gonna call Clinton, you know what I mean?

503
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: Because you know that's I mean. And uh, and the

504
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,719
Speaker 1: same thing with e J. If it's like some hippie

505
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: lifting or even if it's an event like EJ don't

506
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: always want to be the most social. Now you put

507
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: some numbers in front of it, or he want to

508
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: panel about numbers, He's gonna talk all day. But you

509
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: know that's just not this thing. And so I won't

510
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: call him. And you know, I'm sure there's things about

511
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 1: me that they won't call me for, you know what

512
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: I mean. So man, it just really just came together

513
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: just to trial and trip relations. Like I said, the

514
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: first business we learned each other, learned a lot about

515
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: each other going through some very very hard tough times. Um.

516
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: And then that's when we really start seeing like who're

517
00:30:56,160 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 1: gonna really ride for? Whos gonna stick around? Uh? You know,

518
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: who were for a long haul when it gets tough,

519
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: and we we've been through that time and time again,

520
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: and we just keep rolling so um, you know. And

521
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: then on the business side of it, you know, separate

522
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: from friends, we always want to make sure the paperworkers right.

523
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: So we got with our lawyer, you know, we got

524
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: by sale buy out agreements between us. You know what

525
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: I mean all that type of stuff. If he ain't

526
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: holding up, if I'm not holding up, EJ not holding up,

527
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, we can buy each other out,

528
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Operating agreements are right, um,

529
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: and the paperworkers on point, you know what I mean.

530
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: So we hold each other accountable, not just as friends

531
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: and not just looking out or brothers, not just looking

532
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: out for each other's family and well being, but also

533
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: on the business side as with um and uh, and

534
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 1: we made a pack, you know what I'm saying. Like,

535
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: you know, we won't let business get in front of friendship,

536
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: and friendship get in front of the business, you know

537
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. Now it's challenges, of course, you know,

538
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: some some some things with a friendship, some hard, some

539
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: conversations that are hard. Uh. You know it's a little

540
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: bit harder because we are friends, you know what I mean.

541
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: And we do understand each other's plight, you know what

542
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: I mean, that what we're going through personally, um and

543
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: so yeah, in plus, you don't want to be an

544
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 1: asked out to your friends, you know what I mean. So, um,

545
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: you know those conversations that we have, what we have

546
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: to have them because we have a business. We have

547
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: to run them. We gotta be around each other all

548
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: the time and talk to each other no matter what. Yeah, yeah,

549
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,719
Speaker 1: I think I think our friendship makes us stronger as

550
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: business partners. Honestly, Like we go through some things that

551
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: people that haven't been through our struggles are new to

552
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: working together in business, they don't quite understand yet. Like

553
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: I got the story our typical a lot of time.

554
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: Like first thing, trust an accountability to me, like the

555
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: two things that we can't lose, right, I got try

556
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: some dudes, you know what I'm saying, My life, my kids,

557
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: you know anything. And so an accountability side is very

558
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: important too, because you know, just like in any relationship,

559
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: you got to be able to hold somebody accountable when

560
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: they do ship wrong. Right, so we get never again,

561
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: were over to my first story. First of my huskies, man,

562
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: I was. I have been in there all day, like

563
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 1: testing products because I work on the product side of

564
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: things and marketing and stuff, and I was testing, testing, testing.

565
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,479
Speaker 1: We had an artist and on some on the ladder

566
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: like painting the ceiling, and when other home was just

567
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: in that we were talking and more walks in. I

568
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: ain't seen all day. He walks in and he's like

569
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,479
Speaker 1: a bro liken. Hell long his cheese been sitting now

570
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: And I'm like, man, I've been working man, the chiefe

571
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: sitting now here like man, you can't leave the cheese

572
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: out like this. I'm like, bro, I've been working on

573
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: this all day. May ain't chill, you know what I'm saying, Like, na,

574
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: you need to put the cheese up. In trouble. So

575
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: so looks so we're going back and forth like brothers, right,

576
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: like we areguent customed each other out. And you know,

577
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: you see the artist starting to get down off the

578
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: ladder because he's like man to break out, is about

579
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: to fight already. Humble was in there, was trying to

580
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: figure out like real, like do I need to break

581
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: it out? Need this up? You know what I'm saying,

582
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 1: what's going on? But like this ship, we've been doing

583
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: for a long time, so you wouldn't we knew we

584
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: want to throw no blow. But there's some things that

585
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: need to be said at the end the day. I

586
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: was wrong because yeah, the Hill Department walked in on

587
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: day one day too, and the chiefs having Man, that's wrong.

588
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: But that's me saying, all right, you know what you

589
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: was right I'm gonna be you know, I'm gonna be

590
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: wrong on this when he was holding me accountable. Let's

591
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: move on to the next time. Yeah, we had several

592
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,479
Speaker 1: moments when each of us said, you know, in the wrong.

593
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: It just always like a right a wrong thing. You're

594
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: just like, you don't got to hold each other count

595
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying that you gotta be able

596
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: to take it. If you can, you gotta dish it out.

597
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: You gotta be to take it. So uh yeah, that

598
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: was funny though. But that back into the culture, right,

599
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 1: Like that's one of the things about our culture that

600
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: we got to improve on. Like every argument ain't got

601
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,439
Speaker 1: the n N a fight or break up on shooting out,

602
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,760
Speaker 1: you know, so somebody having a you know, an issue

603
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: with the entire world here is about you know what

604
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, we gotta learn how to hold each

605
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 1: other accountable as a community. So for us, it just

606
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:16,439
Speaker 1: starts with the yeah and to communicate effectively. Oh yeah, yeah,

607
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: but like I didn't, I didn't jump right out to

608
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: the porch or how to talk to Clint, you feel

609
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: me or e J and and they all had a thing.

610
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: We've had these meetings and they all had a thing

611
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: about me like I would come off like too hard

612
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: or too harsh or or not even you know, not

613
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: even feeling like I wouldn't listen to the other side,

614
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So like these are things

615
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: that these are conversations that we've had with each other

616
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 1: that we had to like grow and get to. You're

617
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: talking about, you know what we thirty eight. Well I'm

618
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: the youngest, so I'll be thirty eight and a couple

619
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: of a couple of days. But I feel like, right,

620
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: that's what you just said. Couple of days and I

621
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: got about about a week about a week ago, and

622
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: then Clint just turned thirty eight, and uh, what you're

623
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: talking about? You know, we started with our first business,

624
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So that's a long time

625
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: how to communicate, you know what I mean? Because as

626
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 1: as as men as people like, we need the same

627
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: you know, five years ago, two years ago, you know what,

628
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: I'm used to change and evolving. You know, it's just

629
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: you know, it's just like that. So yeah, yeah, I

630
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: think the most important thing is learning how somebody wants

631
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: to be talked to, you know what I'm saying, how

632
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: somebody wants to be treated, you know, because they say,

633
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: treat people how you want to be treated. Now you

634
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: have to treat people how they want to be treated.

635
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: So it is a learning curve sometimes for some people

636
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: when it comes to communication. Yeah, sometimes you gotta get

637
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: it to them now, even though they might want their

638
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: ship soft. We might have to get it to them

639
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: hard though. You know, you know that's real with men.

640
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: But I think when men will end up in a

641
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: real fist fight, you start giving it too hard to

642
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: each other. You have to be a little bit more

643
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: delicate with one of you. Don't think men fight. I

644
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: feel like men all get into a fight quicker. No, No,

645
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. Y'all stop being friends quicker than men. Yeah,

646
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: Like sure, gon, we're gonna have a draink to like Clint.

647
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: They might have Clint put the cheese up and they

648
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 1: went and had a beer. You know, we wouldn't speak

649
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: for weeks and probably won't even eat cheese no more.

650
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: Like cheese. I don't even like cheese no more because

651
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: of that motherfucking bitch vacations everything that. There was a

652
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: time though, there was a time I would fall out

653
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: about bit you had this and you didn't pay for this,

654
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: just put the cards out the question being successful black men,

655
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: how do you feel about dating or being with women

656
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: who make more than you? Man, that's what I'm looking for.

657
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 1: That sounds like a whole lot of success in the

658
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: household of me. And also, man, it depends on it

659
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: really depends on the type of the type of man

660
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: you are. Honestly, I mean every man ain't the same mentally,

661
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you have to you know,

662
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: there's some man that might see that as intimidating, you

663
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, But for me, I'm personally just

664
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: just not one of them dudes like to me, I

665
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 1: have to take that as a blessing and a challenge

666
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: at the same time. You know what I'm saying, like

667
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: do I do I want? Do I want to make

668
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: the most money in the household? Preferably I would? You

669
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, But I ain't tripping if I'm not.

670
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: And what I gotta do to either work with you

671
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 1: is my partner and or you know I'm saying work

672
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 1: on my own, but your support to you know what

673
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying, to change things? And um, yeah, man, I

674
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: got a home girl. Um, they got a big platform.

675
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 1: We were just talking and I'm like, yo, you know what,

676
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: I'm single man. I'm looking for you know, I'm looking

677
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: for somebody that ain't gonna be so attached to me

678
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: because I'm out working every day from you know what

679
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying early morning to sometimes late at night, Like

680
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: I need somebody to got some business about. Yeah, and

681
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: so you know she's sending me people. I'm like, send me,

682
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: send me something else whatever. But but like you know,

683
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:41,240
Speaker 1: don't be like that about everybody. What I'm gonna scorpion

684
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 1: up ship. I'm a little self, but I'm loyal up. Yeah,

685
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: you loyal to the bob on on the tip. I

686
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: mean it's been times where where it's my wife. She

687
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: she as an awesome job and makes some great salary.

688
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 1: And um, it's many times where you know, pandemic or

689
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: whateverywhere where you know, we we didn't know whether next

690
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: dollar might come from you know what I'm saying, or

691
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 1: as a business right or or you know, we get

692
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: paid lass. You know people don't understand about entrepreneurship is

693
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: like we as the owners get paid lass, then just

694
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: get paid. Worst employ easy to get paid first, keep

695
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: the lights on. Everybody get paid before we do, you

696
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And so it's many times where

697
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: it's like she had to hold it down and I

698
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: was grateful, and I was thankful for that, like because

699
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's it's like Clint said, this is

700
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,919
Speaker 1: a whole lot of success in one household under one roof.

701
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,840
Speaker 1: And you know, as far as men, they can't handle that.

702
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: I really think the way the trend is going away

703
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: women coming up, just black women, like everybody, get used

704
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: to it because you know, it's i mean, y'all popping

705
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: right now. And so you know what I'm saying, from

706
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: education to being is and and just all platforms like

707
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: black women especially are all rising through the ranks right now.

708
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: I think that if you were a man, especially a

709
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: black man, and you can't fathom your woman making more

710
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: money than you, and you need to reevaluate what's your

711
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: purpose is because if you purpose, if you think that

712
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: it's just finances that makes you a man, then you

713
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 1: already lost, you know what I'm saying. So I was

714
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: out last night with a couple of friends, um with

715
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: a girlfriend of mine and some guys she knew, and

716
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: the relationship conversation is just gonna always come up. If

717
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 1: you got a couple of women a couple of men, like,

718
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: it's just gonna happen. And I was trying to explain

719
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: to them, like how you know, like black women gonna

720
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: die alone, We're gonna die by ourselves. Always bullshit, right,

721
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: But you were explaining that what they were saying, that's

722
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:57,359
Speaker 1: always the rhetoric, right. So, um, I was basically trying

723
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: to explain to them, like the men that y'all say

724
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: that women Black women like our our expectations, our standards, boundaries,

725
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 1: everything just too high. Right. But the men y'all want

726
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: us to marry are the same men you wouldn't go

727
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: into business with, you know what I'm saying. I don't

728
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: understand that what you're saying. If you would you have

729
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: went into business with either one of these guys, if

730
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: they didn't have a track record of anything successful, you

731
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, If they didn't have any means

732
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 1: you had to help build them and all that stuff. No, No,

733
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: I mean, well, I mean we don't have nothing success

734
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: other than graduating from college, you know what I'm saying. So,

735
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: but I understand what you're saying, But for us, it

736
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: was just a little bit different because we we had

737
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 1: to What I think is, you know what we have

738
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: to think about even we're talking about relationships, like sometimes

739
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: you gotta grow with each other. Feel me, Like that's

740
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: what we did, Like we grew as businessmen with each other.

741
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, We grew in you know,

742
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: successfully with each other. We can start off like have

743
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It wasn't the book to this.

744
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. We didn't have all the

745
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,919
Speaker 1: answers and we weren't always right when we grew into

746
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: who we are together. So I think that's part of

747
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: a black household or any household. We we all got daughters.

748
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: If I had to consult money question, I got ways

749
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 1: to go. She's about to turn four. But if I

750
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: had a consult or, you know, you know, like he said,

751
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: like we started from the ground up, you know what

752
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I've you know, I've been to the

753
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: dude that had a lot of ambition walking out of school.

754
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, I was working hard

755
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: towards those goals. But you know saying, somebody with you

756
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, fast money might have picked my

757
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: crush about the school and they're gone, and I'm just like,

758
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: iust what's saying. But but but you know, like I

759
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,399
Speaker 1: think that if I had to consult, I would say, hey, look,

760
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: look for somebody who has ambition first, right, but then

761
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 1: and and support them in their ambition, because everybody's not

762
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,959
Speaker 1: gonna start off with everything you know I'm saying given

763
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: to him. But then also as that relationship progresses, you

764
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: gotta identify whether or not to have execution or match

765
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: that that bit what I'm saying. And if that execution

766
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 1: isn't there, then you can support them and try to

767
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: get them to that point. But if it's not comfortable,

768
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: you don't like the way it's moving, you got to

769
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: keep it. You got to keep it going because there's

770
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: something big and better out there for you, right, So,

771
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: like you know, definitely, uh, you know, pay attention to

772
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: the characteristics and not just to talk, you know what

773
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and uh, you know, make sure somebody is

774
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: gonna be able to grow with you and not just

775
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: you know, make a bunch of promises. Right. So I

776
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: have a question with um women making more and um,

777
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: would y'all feel do y'all feel like men should be

778
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: the head of the household for the relationship to be successful,

779
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: or should should there be a hierarchy of things, like

780
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 1: the man should be the head and have the final state,

781
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 1: or it should be like an equal partnership. I can't

782
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 1: I can't really speak for I mean, we're from the South,

783
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,479
Speaker 1: you feel me, so you know, we it's a little

784
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: bit different Bible belt, Bible belt, so you're getting taught

785
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: all your life in me and out ahead of the household.

786
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: But that doesn't just mean like it's like you running

787
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: that thing with you know what I'm saying, Like that

788
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 1: doesn't mean like submission doesn't mean like you know, she

789
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: walking in there joint and you know soon she come in,

790
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: she bound out that you're like, you know that's that's

791
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: taking all out of context. You know what I'm saying.

792
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: I think that I think that you for anybody, you

793
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 1: gotta work with what work for y'all. You know what

794
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I don't even know how to put

795
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: it other than that, I mean, as far as me

796
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: and running the household, it's something about a man being

797
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: protecting your house, protecting this woman and this fact. You

798
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: feel what I'm saying something about a man, provided you

799
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: feel me not being the number one provider, but provided

800
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 1: you feel what I'm saying, like, we I know Clinton,

801
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 1: I mean, we believe in that co hardly his dad

802
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 1: is an o G. You feel me like this one

803
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: of the man that I've always looked up to. Daddy married. Yeah,

804
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 1: But but I don't know if it's every time. I'm

805
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: sure it's the time Mrs Brady, maybe more than Pops.

806
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying. But he still hold his

807
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: household down, you know what I mean. I think that

808
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: and she honors him, and his children honor him, and

809
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: I think that's that's that is more important than having

810
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: to put a title on hierarchy, you feel me or granted,

811
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: it's some things that that a man will do that

812
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: a woman won't do in the household or not won't do.

813
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: Excuse me, just may not be a favorite of I mean,

814
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 1: if if I got to go out there and paint

815
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: the house, I'm not expecting my wife to go do that,

816
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, but if she want

817
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 1: to join, come on, you know what I'm saying. So,

818
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: but you know it's some things in my household that

819
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: they may think she I mean, I take care of

820
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: the plants in the house. You feel me, you know

821
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And you know I got a green thumb.

822
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: But that's somebody enjoyed doing, you know what I mean.

823
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: So you know, I don't know. I just think that

824
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: that we we lose as a community when we're started

825
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: trying to put these titles on who's supposed to do

826
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: what in the household, and man, y'all come together, y'all,

827
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: put you'all resource together, y'all grooving, and y'all making things.

828
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: Worn't how y'all want to make their joint work. You've

829
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 1: got a successful household, you know what I'm saying. So yeah,

830
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: I completely agree with that. I think in business, whoever

831
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: controls the finances controls the business. Right Like, if you

832
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 1: in the charge of the books, you can you can

833
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: make pretty much every decision that you want to make, uh,

834
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: you know, for that company at home. I don't think

835
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: it should be that way. I think it's you know,

836
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: we always talk about what you bring to the table.

837
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: It's like, all right, let's lay out when we bring

838
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 1: to the table. Let's make it a good ass fucking table.

839
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, but it doesn't mean, well,

840
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm bringing the finances to the table, so I'm the

841
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: one that's calling off the shots around. To me, that's

842
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 1: a little unhealthy because you know there's times where you

843
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: might be bringing all the money, but something may happen,

844
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: like like most saying like I've seen my family, you

845
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, grow together, and you know, Pops

846
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: bringing in the big check. But my mom also had

847
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: a really good job. So when things might have stole

848
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: down for Pops, my mom, you know what I'm saying,

849
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,439
Speaker 1: stepped up. So it was never about who about the money,

850
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: and it's all about how can we build the most

851
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: love often in this place. And so yeah, I think, man,

852
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: just like you said, man, share the resources and figure

853
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: out how you know what I'm saying, you can make

854
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: the housework for you. How do you all think we

855
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 1: ended up in this situation though, because I feel like

856
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: it's only in Black America, Black in America, black amongst

857
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: black Americans where this discussion about who pays for what,

858
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: who whose plate get fixed first? Like how did we

859
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: end up here? I disagree with you, j J. I

860
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: think I would have to disagree with what you talking about.

861
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: People's fight. We live in a capital capitalist society. Like

862
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: it's just American. It ain't a Black problem, it ain't

863
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: a white problem. It's just American. It's an American problem.

864
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 1: But you don't really see the public discussions amongst white

865
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: women and white men about what's going on in their community.

866
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: And I feel like all of our ship is on display.

867
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: So if anybody wants to come in and really dismantle

868
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 1: our ship, we've given them all the ample. So that's

869
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: on us though. That's now that's a media question, you

870
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: feel me, that's what What are we pushing out? What

871
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 1: are the things that we're pushing down about our community?

872
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: I made a post on my on my story the

873
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: thing about like highlighting the the positives and the good

874
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: things about our culture. Feel what I'm saying, man, The

875
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 1: black family is strong, and this is something that the

876
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: media doesn't like to talk about because it's threatening. You

877
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: feel what I'm saying, A strong back. A black family

878
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: is a threat, and it's strong and it's getting stronger.

879
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 1: We just like to push out all these negative topics,

880
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: and that's what we lose as a community, and then

881
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 1: we entertain it. That's what we lose as a community,

882
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: and we entertained hal for that it's coming out about us, man,

883
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: it wouldn't even be a story, you know what I mean.

884
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 1: So that's that's something that we have to fix in

885
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: the community. But as far as like this hierarch and

886
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: all that type of stuff, like that's an American problem,

887
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And I think it's the

888
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: countries that you know, you look at what's going on soccer,

889
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You talk about Iran and

890
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: and uh and what's going on over there with women's

891
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: rice and all that type of stuff, Like it's a

892
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: world problem. You know how I get get pushed back,

893
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: you feeling me into the front. But I think all

894
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 1: of that is on a positive trend. Change. Yeah, go ahead,

895
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: go ahead, I's gonna saying. And we're just getting to

896
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: we we're We've been working hard as a coach for

897
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: years to like to fight the odds and the challenges

898
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 1: in front of us. We have more educated you know

899
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, millennials now than every before and even

900
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: more the next generation coming to the pipeline. We've got

901
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 1: more African American women make money now, you know what

902
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That ever before and have an opportunity to

903
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,919
Speaker 1: you know, run their household as a what I'm saying,

904
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 1: a married person. Right, So it's like we're getting new

905
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: issues now that we've never had to deal with because

906
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 1: we've been growing as a culture, you know what I'm

907
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: saying up until this point. So it's gonna be more

908
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: and more challenges to come, new issues to come about,

909
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: just because black people are becoming more and more successful,

910
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying to you know recent uh,

911
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: you know topics. I mean, if we don't control the

912
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: media is being pushed out on us, they're going to

913
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 1: try to you know what I'm saying, crushes because they

914
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: see that grow and they see what can happen when

915
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: we work together. So I mean, we just gotta be

916
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 1: prepared for what that change means in our society through

917
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: the successful being able to guard. Can I just admit something.

918
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to be an equal partner. I don't

919
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,439
Speaker 1: want to Hell no, I'm tired of running this ship.

920
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 1: I want somebody to come in here and take the

921
00:51:55,840 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 1: will first. Will Yeah, right, like people gotta have their

922
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: own preferences to Yeah, you know what you're saying, wrong,

923
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: You ain't that ain't nothing to admit too. Yeah, but people,

924
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: some people would say that's weak, you know, like she

925
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 1: wants she don't want to be equal. That's the dumbest ship.

926
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: We signed up for the same way. That the same

927
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 1: way I said, I'm looking for the same way I said,

928
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: I'm looking for somebody who ain't gonna you know what

929
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, be on my coach at all the time,

930
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: and like needs so much time because busy I am.

931
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm also saying to ship, I worked long hours, you

932
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And when I get home sometimes

933
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: you know, MO go home, it might be dinner on

934
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: the table or he might you know what I'm saying,

935
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 1: be making dinner for the family. Who knows when I

936
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: got pizza one of the frozen pizzas and the oven

937
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 1: off here, ain't nothing doing. I got to clean the

938
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: house up, cook the meal or go out to eat

939
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So yeah, like there's value in that too,

940
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: or you just get or you just get your paper.

941
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 1: You just got somebody outsourcing. Yeah, but Tama, it's it's

942
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: no switch now. So you say you want somebody to

943
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 1: come in and and and control things, But do you

944
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: think that there's an internal switch that you can turn

945
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: off to be able to deal with that. And that's

946
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 1: the problem. I don't know. I don't know. Can I

947
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: just let somebody take control when I've been controlling ship

948
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: my whole life, you know, my whole adult life. I

949
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 1: don't know, but I showed would like to find out.

950
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want somebody to come in and

951
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: be like, this is your bad time. No, I don't

952
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: want it to be like that type of control. But

953
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: I just want someone else to like lead. You remember

954
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: when I used to have to get off the phone.

955
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: She used to have to like she was in a

956
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: relationship and she's like, I gotta go, it's bad time this.

957
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 1: I was like, what, turn the light off, turn the

958
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: TV off. It's like stop talking now. Yeah, that worked

959
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: for you. They ain't together no more. I'm not somebody

960
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: that's easily controlled. I think that was a surprise for him. Yeah.

961
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: It's one thing to set boundaries in your relationship, but

962
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: to tell somebody when they need to go to bed,

963
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: it's like a whole different kind of level of control.

964
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to be controlled. Enjoy that. Yeah,

965
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: they probably like it. I didn't because, like then you

966
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: also don't want me to go lay on the couch

967
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 1: so I can still do what I want to do

968
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,319
Speaker 1: and tell him, actually, sleepy, you want me to still

969
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: stay right here in the dark, just laying in the dark. Nah,

970
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 1: that's why, just laying there. That's weird me some melotonin

971
00:54:56,520 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: or something like they do these babies, you know, to

972
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:06,840
Speaker 1: like your relationship or past relationship with them. Did he feeds?

973
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: You don't say? Like life y'all? Oh goodness that partner

974
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 1: selection boy in business and life? That ship is hella important? Yeah?

975
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,399
Speaker 1: Do you do you guys take therapy? Have y'all ever

976
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 1: had to take therapy as business partners? And do you

977
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 1: take individual therapy as a group? Nam? But I think

978
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 1: it's I think we should though, I think we need

979
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: to start um and I've been thinking about that a lot.

980
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: But individually I have I'm sure, j No, not individually,

981
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: not to score. I'd like to do things. It's therapeutic though,

982
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 1: h Yeah. I think Black people need a different type

983
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: of therapy anyway. We need like spiritual therapy, not like

984
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: yeah for sure all this so I mean, but you

985
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: know I'm set on some couches for sure. That lady

986
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:13,919
Speaker 1: when you're talking to the lady, the ladies. The lady said,

987
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: you don't have you through some things, you know what

988
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And uh, but you know what I mean. Also,

989
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: like Clint said, other things is therapeutic, like this art gallery,

990
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: just being here around art, the visual arts therapeutic. Um

991
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 1: think therapy. Yeah, cleaning a lot of tattoos, that's his therapy,

992
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I might smoke with Jake

993
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: probably just about any night just to just to vibe

994
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 1: out and just chilling. I listen to podcasts and using

995
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: that therapeuty. Cleaning up is therapeutic for me. Cooking, Believe

996
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: it or not. It's the weed that makes you want

997
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: to clean up. I've seen that and started cleaning the

998
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:52,919
Speaker 1: baseboards and ship like goddamn cleaning. You know what I'm saying.

999
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: Working out of therapeutic, running this very therapeutic, just to

1000
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: get about it all. But does any of that stuff

1001
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 1: really help you yield? Though? I think a lot of

1002
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 1: that stuff just helps you get through to keep going.

1003
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 1: I mean, doesn't really help you heal from ship. I

1004
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: mean stress management healing. You know, it's you know, you

1005
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: either manage it, deal with it, or you heal from

1006
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do is just deal with it.

1007
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: So if you're managing it, then that's that's that's that's

1008
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: a good step, you know what I'm saying. Now, whether

1009
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: you heal from it or not, I think a lot

1010
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 1: of times it's all up to us. It's people to heal,

1011
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and let things go, uh

1012
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: and don't let things hold on to us. But I mean,

1013
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: if you're managing your stress stresses you you can't run

1014
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: from it is here, you know what I mean. So

1015
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,760
Speaker 1: if you're managing it by running or smoking a j

1016
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:47,800
Speaker 1: or cleaning or whatever your stress management is, I think

1017
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: that's that's the focus that that we should have even

1018
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: as a community, like learning how to manage the things

1019
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: that that's gonna come that's inevitable, you know stress. One

1020
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 1: thing I know we don't that well is take advantage

1021
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: of like vacations, so like must you know, yeah, man,

1022
00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: like I can probably speak the all three of us,

1023
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: like you have you been on a vacation and now

1024
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,919
Speaker 1: we now we got work trips, you know what I'm saying.

1025
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: Or you know, like you know, fellas trips and things

1026
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: like that. But man, that ain't vacation like we we

1027
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: haven't done a good job, but like just shutting ship down.

1028
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, turn the phone off and

1029
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: like you know, just connecting and so like that's for me,

1030
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: you know that's something in twent twenty three, Like I

1031
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: really want to like practice a little more little vacation.

1032
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: It's hard to disconnect because I feel like on my vacation,

1033
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: if I can't share it on my Instagram, is it

1034
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: really a vacation. I can't help my phone off. You

1035
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 1: don't need everybody keeping up with moves some That's that's

1036
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 1: I don't like that. We gotta we gotta like this,

1037
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 1: and that's I think we got too much access right now.

1038
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: Every people got access to you all the time. People

1039
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: access to mean to us all the time. If if

1040
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: I post something and I ain't reply back to a tick,

1041
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 1: somebody hit me up. Hey you see you see my ticks?

1042
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like the access man, we

1043
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: got to cut that off sometime and just disconnect. I

1044
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: think we we as a people, it's just as a race,

1045
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: we gotta learn how to do that, because that's a

1046
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: formal stress all all in itself. We ain't meant to

1047
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,840
Speaker 1: be contacted and connected and access to all the time.

1048
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: What was we doing before cell phones? You know what

1049
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like exactly down now niggers want to be

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Speaker 1: in your bedroom. They want to be on vacation with you.

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00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: They want to see what you eat, and like, I

1052
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: cannot get with that ship at all. And it's if

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00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 1: somebody has had to wait till you got home to

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00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: talk to you. Yeah, you feel me or talk to Yeah,

1055
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: that's true. Now you got talking people on the iPhone,

1056
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 1: you can get into your thoughts. You're thinking all through

1057
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: the day. It's about you. You know what I'm saying.

1058
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 1: You get home, but you you're taking on somebody problems

1059
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: like this way. You know what I mean from a

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01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 1: relationship standpoint. Man, Think about how many people's grandmothers and

1061
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 1: grandfathers didn't have to deal with some of the stuff

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01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: that we was dealing with. It Like you could tell

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01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: somebody like, hey, I'm gonna be gone, I gotta go

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01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: to I'm saying Memphis for the weekend. I'll be back

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01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 1: in seven days now, Like it's easier to cheat waiting.

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01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, now, take this, take this picture with you.

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01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 1: Nigga could not face time person I'm just saying you

1068
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 1: have to worry about somebody like looking at your story

1069
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 1: or you know what I'm saying, like looking at looking

1070
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: at your sunglasses when you take a picture to see

1071
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: back there? Who took that picture? Right there? I know

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01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 1: once I'm really called it, Nicku, I was dealing with

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01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 1: doing something he wasn't supposed to because I saw in

1074
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: his sunglasses a bit in the background. I was like, hello,

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01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: that's a bit in a bathing suit. With the follow

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01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: through and with the iPhone, don't mess and running do

1077
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: those live photos. You can hit like hit play a

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01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: little bit, hands but shi in the background right quick?

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01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: You can hear the background. Be careful. Now you can

1080
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 1: see somebody's location if you got the wrong settings on

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01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: your phone, right wherever they be. Yeah, you can go

1082
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: through and see all the places that they've been. How

1083
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: don't try to know, ben, I need to make sure

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01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: on my phone or had that type of stuff on it.

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01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, with these air tags. Have y'all seen that.

1086
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: That's a new thing too. That's like, Yeah, people follow

1087
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 1: you home and stuff like that. They can put it,

1088
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 1: slip it in your pocket and you don't even know

1089
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 1: it was came on my phone at tag, I stopped

1090
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: the car, got up on the car making shot and

1091
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: the man, that's crazy, it's getting crazy. He's did crazy

1092
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 1: out here. Even the headphones. I was with somebody who

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01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: I don't have, like the pods, the and they connected

1094
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: to my phone connected and so they was here in

1095
01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 1: your conversation, not like connected in that way. Like the

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01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 1: map popped up on my phone showing where the headphones

1097
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: was at, Like I didn't set that up. So how

1098
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 1: did all this access? I just you know what I mean.

1099
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: It could be used for for good and bad. So

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't even want to go to Machgo

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01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 1: no more. Man, everybody makes go posting it. I just

1102
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: want to and I just want people to go somewhere

1103
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: that good time and go to the Caribbean islands, go

1104
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: where black people at well, go with good black people

1105
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 1: know your people. So so we have a segment on

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01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 1: our show called SIMP Series and are a dumb bit

1107
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 1: story And it's basically where you share a time that

1108
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: you got played by the opposite sex. Can y'all share

1109
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 1: a story? And please don't do it? Every time we

1110
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: have a guy, they always be like, yeah, when I

1111
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 1: was in the ninth grade. This girl did this like

1112
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 1: no tell us a story adult story at a time

1113
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: where like, damn, I can't believe she did me like that.

1114
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 1: Oh I ain't, y'all, don't just play that. Ain't no

1115
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: ego ship or nothing like that. It's just, you know,

1116
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: I've just eve been playing It's too I'm too cool, man.

1117
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't get played that ninth grade was the last

1118
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: time you got the ninth grade? That's it. I played myself.

1119
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. Tell us by the time

1120
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 1: you played yourself, right, But now I didn't know. I ain't.

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01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: I can't even be thinking no time like that that

1122
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: I got played neither. You played for a girl to

1123
01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: fly out somewhere and then she kind of ran off

1124
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: with somebody else nothing, you know what. I might have

1125
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 1: had one time where uh, it kind of goes two

1126
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 1: ways that at one time it was like last minute

1127
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 1: we was taking the trip, I end up flying somebody

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01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: out of randomly. Um, we get out there and I

1129
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 1: wasn't hearing from where she. I think she might have,

1130
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: you know what, connected with somebody else. Really cool. I

1131
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: think we got into like a little back and forth

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01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: before she flew out, and so I really wasn't tripping

1133
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: about it. But it worked for me because I met

1134
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: somebody while I was out there, and you know, right

1135
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: off the rip and things you know, fell in place,

1136
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 1: So I don't really apply. Yeah, so you make up

1137
01:04:54,120 --> 01:05:05,440
Speaker 1: some ship. Nah, I ain't really interesting. I mean, I

1138
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,480
Speaker 1: could have been getting played and just didn't know it.

1139
01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 1: But I ain't looking for nothing. I ain't. I ain't.

1140
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 1: I'm not. I ain't looking for that. I'm sure I've

1141
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: gotten played, you feel me, But I just don't know

1142
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 1: everybody everybody that got played. If you ain't know it, yeah,

1143
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,240
Speaker 1: I ain't. I ain't trying to be that invested to

1144
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: the wall. What's your sign sagittariums? Okay, yeah, terrorists sagittarist

1145
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 1: that's I was thinking. You know, there's good people, Yeah,

1146
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 1: for sure, as long as y'all are saying a query,

1147
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 1: that's be good. They all never got played. Okay, we're

1148
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 1: gonna leave that one alone. It's hard to get me

1149
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 1: to tell a story when they're on the show. Honestly, women,

1150
01:05:57,840 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 1: what kind of what those games you got for that ship?

1151
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 1: That's the only game we got. I guess you gotta

1152
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: come up with some games like well, yeah, I gotta

1153
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: come up with turn well, tell everybody where to find you,

1154
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 1: Huskies everything. Yeah, PRM we got some gear coming out,

1155
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: some merch coming out. It's already on, it's already out

1156
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: with the PRM released something first. So if you you

1157
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 1: know like the caps, it's about pr caps we've got. Uh,

1158
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: we're practicing like lux comfort. So same ship we wear

1159
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: every day on day to day, trying to build our empire,

1160
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,040
Speaker 1: your dig and we help you add that to your

1161
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 1: lifestylele so kind of work. E G. And M. C

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Speaker 1: R bar you can check this album. Come to Nashville's

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01:06:56,840 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 1: on History Rejection Street. Uh you know we bought the building,

1164
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 1: historic building. Uh you know, slaves building slaves put the

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01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: bricks up. Feeling me so, um, that's what the architect

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01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: for the state Capitol he lived in that in the

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01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: actual building that we purchased. E G. M C educated

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Speaker 1: give the Melanati creators. I'm proud of y'all. Yeah, proud

1169
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: of y'all. From the INCA Gallery, Nashville, Memphis, Tennessee. Um Stimmer,

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Speaker 1: Huskies man, you can find us. We out we out

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Speaker 1: here somewhere so where at right now? That's your art gallery. Yeah,

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01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 1: that's the art gallery. Buckand Street. We're in the neighborhood

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Speaker 1: right now, North Nashville. Y'all hiring. Let the people know

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01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 1: if you're hiring or not. We always hired. Yeah, as

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01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 1: long as we keep going, were hiring for sure people. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I got one more question. What's the last book you read?

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01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 1: Like that? Um? Last book I read? I'm currently listening

1178
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: to uh shooting the last book I read with Danny

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01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: Meyers see it at the table. That was it? Well,

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01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 1: I didn't read it. I started reading. That's like, man,

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01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 1: I can't keep stopping and going back. So I listened

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01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 1: to it. So I've been on audiobooks real heavy. Um,

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01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 1: So that's that was the last book that I completed. Yeah, yeah,

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01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 1: saving me more actually got me this book The Time

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01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:34,719
Speaker 1: of America by Steve Stout. Reading that just talks about

1186
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:39,759
Speaker 1: you know, the power of of you know, African American

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01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 1: culture and the marketing of you know, things within our country.

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01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 1: And it was a great book. But I'm also I

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01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: like to just kind of continue to educate myself on

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01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:52,599
Speaker 1: different things. We're jumping into a lot of different sectors

1191
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 1: of business, want being the music industry, and so I'm

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01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 1: kind of reading books right now. Music publishing. So I

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01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: was trying to continue to educate, don't get more knowledge.

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01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 1: That's my thing about a lot of people. I care

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01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: about it or take a liking too. Books. So y'all

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01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: do audibles. I got a log in for that. Got

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01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 1: a lot of books in there. If y'all want it. Yeah,

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01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 1: I know. I Um I saw audible start. I'm gonna

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01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: start jumping in that. Yeah, that's that's how That's how

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Speaker 1: I think. Man. We we like to to be on

1201
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 1: the same page, you know, and always being curious. That's

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01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:28,720
Speaker 1: the reason why we asked that question. And e g.

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01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:31,680
Speaker 1: What's the last book you read? Because you know, a

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01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 1: curious mind, you want somebody that's curious you want And

1205
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: that's and that comes from Howard shows uh from Starbucks. Uh,

1206
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 1: you know he hiring somebody. What's the last book? So

1207
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: hiring people, relationships, all that type of stuff. Make somebody

1208
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 1: to read and read the same books too. If you're

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01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 1: working on something together, like read the same book and

1210
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 1: on the same page. Mentally, you know, I'm saying, learn together. Yeah,

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01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 1: that's something that we did at beginning for sure and

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01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 1: still do so m hmm. Thank you all for coming on. Man,

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01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 1: we really appreciate you'all for Yeah, glad you like it.

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01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday

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01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,679
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Speaker 1: ain't nobody checking out this damn website because I'll be

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Speaker 1: looking at the traffic. Okay if we talk back I

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Speaker 1: and T dot com and we have consultations on there

1221
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 1: if you would like to speak to you the one

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01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 1: of us, So pull up all right, y'all, This official

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Speaker 1: Remember to speak now and never hold your peace. Do

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Speaker 1: this bye