1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all bad. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 3: At all at all. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 4: So don't given them. 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 5: Black the million bus Bush, Yeah, listen to. 6 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 4: Tother to. 7 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 6: I don't Joy Yeah, Joy. 8 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 3: You know you turn. 9 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 7: Love you you you gotta turn. 10 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 3: We got to turn the mouth turn you probably got 11 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 3: to turn the mouth, turn. 12 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 8: Out, turn ald the money up looking. 13 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 9: Come come on you think that. 14 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will come on and everybody you 15 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: are listening to the voice, come on, dig me now, 16 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay, 17 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: here we go. You know what's important, What's what can 18 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 2: be a huge part of your success is if you 19 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: if you find a balance, if you find a balance 20 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: in your life. That's that's been very important for me. 21 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 2: And I've really never phrased it this way until now, 22 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: but I was kind of thinking about it after my 23 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: wife and I mean we set up one night recently. Man. 24 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: You know, I often come on here and this is 25 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 2: kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I 26 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 2: try to remind people about that most important relationship between 27 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 2: you and God. And that's that's the apex of it. 28 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 2: That's that's the that's the top of the crime. You've 29 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 2: got to form the relationship with God. If you don't, 30 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 2: everything else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband 31 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 2: without God. It's hard to be a good family man 32 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: without God. It's hard to be successful without God. Man, 33 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: it's hard to be hard to get through this thing 34 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 2: called life without God. So that's clear. But at the 35 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: same time, you can't talk about God. Twenty four seven. 36 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,679 Speaker 2: You got to go to work. Come on, man, let's 37 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: just be real. I ain't doing I ain't your pastor, 38 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: I ain't at your church. But let's just be real 39 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: about it. You know now, people tell you got to 40 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: keep your mind stayed on Him and all like that. 41 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 2: That's a true statement. Got to keep your mind stayed 42 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: in that area. I don't I'm not here to tell 43 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: you how to live. But you got to keep your 44 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: mind stayed in that area of God, of doing the 45 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 2: right thing, caring about people. That's what I took it as. 46 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: Now I could be wrong. I apologize if I'm not 47 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 2: saying it the way you've been taught. I can only 48 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: do me now. But after that, you got to go 49 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: to work. You got to have some fun. You got 50 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: to take care of your business. And that's the balance 51 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: you have to find. So it once you focus on 52 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: showing up your relationship with God, you gotta balance this now. Now, 53 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 2: you got to allocate some time I don't care who 54 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: you are, for your family. If you're gonna have a family, 55 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 2: you got to allocate some time for them. See, we 56 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 2: can't just marry these women or make these kids and 57 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: then neglect them. And fellas, especially if I'm talking to 58 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: men out here and ladies you can listen to, but listen, 59 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: if you find yourself struggling in your life, man, and 60 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 2: you can't seem to get it together, Let's just go 61 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 2: over a couple of things. The first two things, if 62 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: you find yourself struggling, you can't seem to pull it 63 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 2: together and reach your goals and get the where you 64 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: want to go. Let's just do a check how is 65 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: your relationship with God? And then next how much time 66 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: are you taking to allocate for your family? Now, your 67 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 2: family don't always live in your house, but if you 68 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 2: made them, they yours and the responsibility to them is 69 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: never lessen because you don't stay that no more. Because 70 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 2: you and the girl broke up, you and a woman 71 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 2: don't speak that, hey man, that don't ever release you 72 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: from the obligation feel me what I'm telling you this 73 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: now because I'm not telling you something I'm wondering about. 74 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 2: I've had to live through them years. So two things 75 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: you can start looking at. If you not where you 76 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: want to be, and you ain't, you ain't really solent. 77 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 2: You can't figure out why you keep spending your wheels. 78 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 2: Have you just done a random inventory? 79 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 10: Man? 80 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: Have you just checked on your relationship with God? Have 81 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 2: you checked on the time you spending dedicated towards your family, 82 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 2: your children that you created? If them two things is 83 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: out of sink, man, that I can tell you right now, 84 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 2: you can go on and get to explaining yourself away 85 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 2: just like that. Hey man, how come you ain't where 86 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: you want to be? 87 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 10: Man? 88 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 2: Comes man, I really ain't. But if you really ain't, 89 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: then you really ain't. The third thing is you got 90 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: to allocate the necessary time for your business. You got 91 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 2: to handle your business. All of this, man, is the 92 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 2: way it works, and the order the order is God first, 93 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 2: family second. Then you got to handle all your business. 94 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 2: But as me, and this is what we do. If 95 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 2: I don't handle my business, I can't take care of 96 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 2: my family. True statement. But if your business is in 97 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: front of your family, you out of order. Now that's 98 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 2: all we talking about now in it. See, that's all 99 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 2: we really say in here now, fellas you know, you 100 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 2: know I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know, 101 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: let's have a real conversation about being better. You know, 102 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 2: if you have created these children, you got to handle 103 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 2: your business. You may not like the girl no more. 104 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 2: You and the woman might have broken up, y'all might 105 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: go your own way, But what that got to do 106 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 2: with the child though, Man, you got to handle your business. 107 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: They got to know who daddy is. That's your obligation. Man, 108 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 2: that God ain't letting you off the hook for that. 109 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 2: Try it. Go ahead and try it and think you're 110 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: gonna get off the hook with that, cause you're not. Man, 111 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: You just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, Why you 112 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: coming like that? Because I did it like that. I 113 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: did it. Man. I was over here trying to reshape 114 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 2: my life, get myself up on my feet when I 115 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 2: was a homeless man and trying to come back. Man, 116 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: I thought I had to take care of me first 117 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 2: and then so I can neglect it care about them kids, man, 118 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 2: I ain't hid at work. Man, God keep his knee 119 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: on my neck for a long time for that one 120 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 2: right there, till I finally learned the lesson hold up, man, 121 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,679 Speaker 2: put these phone calls in, Go spend some time, do something. 122 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: And then it started turning around for me. You know, 123 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: I can't be there all the time because I am 124 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 2: out here on the grind, in the hustle. But at 125 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: the same time, Man, some more phone calls, some more letters, 126 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 2: some more hawhi, he hes something, then take care of 127 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 2: your business. 128 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 11: Man. 129 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 2: You got to work hard to be successful. You know. 130 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 2: I sometimes I don't put that in there. I just 131 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: live it, and I expect my sons to emulate that. 132 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: But I gotta talk to them all the time. How 133 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: hard you got to work to be something. It's an 134 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 2: all out of salt on it. 135 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 9: Man. 136 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 2: If you gotta target in mind, you gotta go. You 137 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 2: gotta wake up every day trying to get there, and 138 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 2: you can't get tired of it because it never ends. 139 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 2: You gonna always be this way. That's how life is 140 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 2: designed and set up. You got to be a hard worker, man. 141 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 2: If you always looking for some time to chill, and man, 142 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 2: I wanna go do what I wanna do. You ain't 143 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: gonna make it. In order to be successful, you have 144 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 2: to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing, 145 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 2: and work is the thing that most of us are 146 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: uncomfortable doing. It's so much easier to chill matter. I 147 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: wish I could kick back with a cigar man all 148 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 2: the time, but I can't, Man, I can't because I 149 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: got to work. Then the last piece of the balance, pie, 150 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 2: balance piece is you gotta take some time out to 151 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 2: enjoy yourself. But if you ain't where you wanna be, 152 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: you ain't got a lot of time to enjoy yourself. 153 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 2: Quit thinking, man, that this balance is even. It's a 154 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 2: whole lot of God, a whole lot of family, a 155 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 2: whole lot of business, and a little bit of chilling. 156 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 2: The chilling can't be equal to the family, the business, 157 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: all your God. If the chilling is equal to any 158 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 2: of them, you ain't gonna make it. Quit chilling, man, 159 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,839 Speaker 2: and go to work like a man. Do what you're 160 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 2: supposed to do. Work on your family, work on your relationship, 161 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: work on your God, work on your business. And then 162 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: when you chill, you might not chill as law, but 163 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: you show gonna chill bigger, You gonna ball bigger Baby. 164 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 165 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, everybody, welcome again to the ride. This 166 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 2: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Reminding you that God 167 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 2: is in the redemption business, reminding you that no matter 168 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 2: how far you falling, you ain't failed so far that 169 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 2: God can't come get you. Reminding you that God is 170 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: in the blessing business, reminding you that if you form 171 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 2: a relationship with God, you have now formed the most 172 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:33,599 Speaker 2: important relationship in your entire existence. God is waiting on you. 173 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 2: He loves you. You would love to hear from you today, 174 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 2: so please talk to it. This is how we do 175 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 2: it on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry calling 176 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 2: for real Mississippi, Monica Junior and the Legend of Nephew 177 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 2: Tommy Junior. What's on your mind today? 178 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 12: Man? 179 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 13: Wellwk man, you sound like you're in a good move. 180 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 12: Man. 181 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 13: You know your birthday coming up? Is you excited about 182 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 13: this birthday? Is a party gonna be happening for you? 183 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 13: Is you getting a part of this year? 184 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 2: You've had a lot of them. You don't really, you know. 185 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: All I want now is to get and I really 186 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 2: just now. Just want to make it gifts. Man, My 187 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 2: gift is waking up because you know what, man, what's crazy? Man, 188 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: is you when you start getting up there, Man, you 189 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 2: start hearing about so many people you know passing it yea, 190 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: and ain't here no more. You've been going like, man, 191 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 2: what happened to them? And then you realize, Man, they 192 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: been here for a while, and you know them because 193 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: you went to school with them. I lost another partner 194 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: the other day. We wasn't real close. I just knew 195 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: him from college, but he was close to one of 196 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 2: my other college buddies, and he was telling me, he said, Man, 197 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 2: that's crazy. Man, I met this dude fifty one years ago. 198 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 2: If you can say you met a guy fifty one 199 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 2: years ago in college, don't worry about them gifts and parties. 200 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 2: Be grateful, yeah, man, Just be grateful because you know 201 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 2: I was thinking about it too, man, Like when I 202 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 2: look on us, when I look at us as a 203 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 2: morning show, man, that's some experience on this show. There's 204 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: a lot of experience on this show. I mean, we've 205 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 2: known each other long enough, man, We've we've been around 206 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 2: each other with children's successes, graduations, acceptance in the college, marriages, 207 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:52,599 Speaker 2: kids being born graduated. Wait, Shirley, what'd you say, Oh, divorces? 208 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, don't lay that out? Yeah? 209 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 2: Me and you know who leading that group? Right there? 210 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 2: Only is one what I'm gonna lead you. What you 211 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 2: ain't finna do is I'll do me. You can ask 212 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 2: that divorce. You ain't getting no divorce, don't you. 213 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 14: Oh? 214 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna get somebody new. Oh you finna get 215 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:28,599 Speaker 2: somebody new hanging with me? 216 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 15: Yeah, you're not. 217 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 9: Gonna be out done. 218 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 1: No, what you're not gonna do? 219 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:36,319 Speaker 7: All right? 220 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 10: Thank you? 221 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 4: Guys. 222 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,319 Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 223 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 11: will hear from the nephew as he runs that prank 224 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 11: back right after this. 225 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 226 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 12: Hey, is Carla Farroll kick that old mopping bucket aside? 227 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 1: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? 228 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 12: And half the time make the swap to swiffer power Mop. 229 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 12: The all in one cleaning Hero has a built in 230 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 12: solution that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With 231 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:13,079 Speaker 12: hundreds of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky 232 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 12: messes with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great 233 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 12: for hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter 234 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 12: with the swiffer power mop. 235 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: It is time now to run that prank back. What 236 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: you got for its nep This. 237 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 2: Right here is me and my jeez cat dog. Give 238 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: you wood. 239 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 10: Hello. 240 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 2: Hello, I'm trying to reach his sister. How you doing. 241 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 14: I'm giving you a call on behalf of Baptist Church. 242 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 14: You are a member there, I am, I right, yes, 243 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 14: I am. Okay, listen, I'm calling you. They some of 244 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 14: the members have gotten together and had a meeting and 245 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 14: wanted me to give you a call. It seems that 246 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 14: a lot of them are complaining about sundaysert services that 247 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 14: go on and wanted for me to give you a 248 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 14: call on their behalf so that we can see if 249 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 14: we can address the problem and talk to you diligently 250 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 14: as possible and try to get the problem rectified. 251 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 12: What's going on. 252 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: Well, it seems like that a lot of members are complaining. 253 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, And what is your name again? 254 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 2: My name is ma'am. I'm not actually a member of 255 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 2: the church. 256 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 14: I've just been the one that's been asked to give 257 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 14: you a call and try to talk on the members' behalf. 258 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 14: So maybe we can get this problem rectified that you 259 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 14: that they have as far as you are concerned, now, okay. 260 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 2: Go ahead. 261 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 15: Well, I'm just trying to see what. 262 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 12: This is in regards to go ahead. 263 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 14: Well, it seems like the members of the church are 264 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 14: complaining about that you're doing too much shouting at church 265 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 14: on Sunday, and it seems to be going on every Sunday. 266 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 14: You're running up and down the aisle and you shouting 267 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 14: all over the place, and it's me. 268 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 10: I've been singled out about my shouting. 269 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: Is that you're saying, wellever, didn's distracting ma'am. 270 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 14: You're distracting everyone from getting the word and listening to 271 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 14: the word and being involved in the service. And that's 272 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 14: the purpose of the call is to see if we 273 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 14: can get you to tone it down some. 274 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 10: Okay, So the whole church is complaining about me shouting 275 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 10: the way people run up and down the house every 276 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 10: Sunday and almost turning cart wheels and flips, and they 277 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 10: singling me I complained about me. 278 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 2: Well, ma'am, I. 279 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 14: Don't know how it is that you can see everybody 280 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 14: else doing cort wheels when you're the ones that they 281 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 14: say is the one that's doing them. 282 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 10: How am I being singled out? 283 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 2: Ma'am. 284 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 14: All I'm saying is is that they saying that you're 285 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 14: doing too much shouting and too much running at this church. 286 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 2: Now I'm just the message. 287 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 10: Well, they can't tell me how to shout. They can't 288 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 10: tell me what's going on in my life. What's gonna 289 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 10: keep me from praising God? I mean, they could just 290 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 10: they can go somewhere else with that, But they are 291 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 10: not gonna tell me that I can't praise my God. 292 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 15: They don't know how good. 293 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 10: God has been to me. 294 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 14: And you know what, I understand that I agree with 295 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 14: you wholeheartedly. But it's becoming a distraction. I mean what 296 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 14: they they was at the point last night talking about 297 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 14: should we put some seat belts on the pews so 298 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 14: so you can stay down? 299 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 10: They will put some seat But I only gonna tell 300 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 10: people they can't shout in church and praise God. What 301 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 10: can we come to church? 302 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 3: Fark? 303 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 9: Will you do? 304 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 10: Come to We need to be trying to prase God 305 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 10: and get their own shout on and stop looking at 306 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 10: me and worry about what I'm doing. 307 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 14: We gonna need you to quit running up and down 308 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 14: these aisles and doing what you now. 309 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 10: I'm sorry, sir, you know I'm trying to stay calm. 310 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 10: I'm trying my best. Who Jesus, she sir, that's not happening. 311 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 10: You can't tell me I gotta stop shouting. 312 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 9: Okay, man, But let me ask you. Are you running now? 313 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 9: Aren't you just standing still? 314 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 7: Talking? 315 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 10: But I don't have to run right now? 316 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 9: Okay, what I'm trying to get. 317 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 10: You to, You know, like if I want to run 318 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 10: up and down this street right now, I can run 319 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 10: up and down the street and praise God. But they're 320 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 10: not gonna tell me to stop shouting at church? 321 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 9: Can we get you to be a little bit more 322 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 9: reserved as what we see? Man? 323 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 14: Let me let me go ahead and go further on 324 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 14: what they do all the spirit move? Okay, well, let 325 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 14: me move and tell you what they've told me. 326 00:17:59,240 --> 00:17:59,400 Speaker 15: Now. 327 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 14: If we can't get to the point where you can, 328 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 14: you know, tone it down, then we may have to 329 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 14: ask you to leave. 330 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 10: You want to ask me ooje ooh Jesus O Jesus, 331 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 10: you ask me why would they want me to leave 332 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 10: a church. I've been at that church for fifteen years. 333 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 10: I'm not leaving the church. I'm gonna run up and down. 334 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 15: I'm not gonna run on the church. 335 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 10: I may even turn you some slip where I am 336 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 10: I I feel like it. 337 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 15: Not now listen, that's all. 338 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 10: I'm okay, go ahead, but. 339 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be there. 340 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 14: I'm going to I am going to be there on Sunday, man, 341 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 14: and I have been the person that's been appointed to 342 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,959 Speaker 14: make sure that you're not running up and down these 343 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 14: hous and shotting like this. You got to keep yourself 344 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 14: reserved so people can hear the word of God. You 345 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,360 Speaker 14: are standing in people's word. That's what you're doing. 346 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 8: You in the whale. 347 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 10: If they come trying to send me down, I'm gonna 348 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 10: give them a word, and it ain't gonna be a God. 349 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,360 Speaker 10: So let's you put that hands up on me here 350 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,120 Speaker 10: now listen. I'm telling you that now you could say 351 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 10: I haven't been in that church fifteen years. If I 352 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 10: want to run, dance out, jump cray, whatever I want 353 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 10: to do, I'm gonna do it. It ain't nobody gonna 354 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 10: stop me. 355 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 9: You're gonna have to stop this. 356 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 14: This past Sunday was your last Sunday doing it, and 357 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 14: you're not finna do it this Sunday. 358 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 10: Well, like I said, just why, And I'm telling you 359 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 10: could tell the ernswers, the deacon boyd, the deaconness, the 360 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 10: minister's wives, or whoever else you want to tell. Let 361 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 10: them put their hands on me and see if I 362 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 10: don't sling on them, I'm gonna come right up out 363 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 10: the spirit and swing on me. I'm telling you that now, 364 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 10: because see, sir, you gonna really push me there out 365 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 10: of tried, out of try me. Let me ask you this, 366 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 10: what is trying to show that I'm saying, But you 367 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 10: make it you making me reright back to my own ways, 368 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 10: and you you really finna put me out, that's what 369 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 10: you're finna do. 370 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 14: Okay, well, let me ask you this, Where is the 371 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 14: God at right now in you? Where is the one 372 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 14: that the God. 373 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 11: Was in me? 374 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 10: When I was trying to be calmed with you at 375 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 10: first to tell you don't be calling me with this foolishness. 376 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 10: But now even have made the other side of me 377 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 10: ro he's up. 378 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,119 Speaker 9: Well, you wouldn't raise it up in there. You wouldn't 379 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 9: raise it up in me too. 380 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 2: Guess what come. 381 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 9: Sunday, You're gonna set your in the pew and you 382 00:19:58,640 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 9: ain't gonna mook. 383 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 10: When you call yourself. Okay, all right, all right, we're 384 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 10: gonna see how well I'm not sitting at you. A 385 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 10: matter of fact, first, same time in the morning, I'm 386 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,919 Speaker 10: going to past Oh yeah, well you gonna Deacon whoever 387 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 10: you are, whatever your name is, I'm gonna telling about it. God, 388 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 10: matter how long we got you, you need to lose. 389 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 14: I would be talking to Pastor myself and letting him 390 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 14: know about this situation. 391 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 7: You don't talk. 392 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 10: You don't we can come Pastor your pasty. 393 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 8: You don't talk the pastor. 394 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 2: I talked to pastor at. 395 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 10: This church fifteen years. Like I said, I'm telling you, 396 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 10: Oh Jesus gee, oh you you feel oh. 397 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 14: Jesus not not not not now see just like this, 398 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 14: you'll see how you calling on him and you standing here. 399 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 10: Yeah, because I'm calling on him to keep me from 400 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 10: just really going to cuss you out right. 401 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 15: Now because you don't really hit my nerves. 402 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 8: I got one more thing I need to say to 403 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 8: you ladies. 404 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 7: What you know? 405 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 10: You better say it real quick because you're gonna talk 406 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 10: to this operator. 407 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 9: That's his nephew. 408 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 14: Time It from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just 409 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 14: gotta pray by your girl. 410 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 10: I'm gonna kick but. 411 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 9: On the Okay, Jesus, I got one more thing, baby. 412 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 14: Let me ask you something. What is the baddest I'm 413 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 14: talking about the baddest radio show in. 414 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 15: The land, harm and Morning. 415 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 2: And I'll be back in an hour, you know I will, right, 416 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 2: all right? 417 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. 418 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 11: Coming up next, it is asked the CELO or Chief 419 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 11: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right after this, you're. 420 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 12: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's Carla Farrell. 421 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 12: Kick that old mopping bucket aside? 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We'll talk about these stories at 437 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 11: the top of the hour, but right now no time. 438 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 11: But we get up to ask the Colour Chief Love 439 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 11: Officer Steve Harvey. He said he's ready, so let's go. 440 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 11: This is from Ariana in Camden. Ariana writes, I walked 441 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 11: up on my husband and the woman across the hall 442 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 11: from us gossiping about a lady that just moved in. 443 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 11: He hasn't even talked to me about the lady. Should 444 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,680 Speaker 11: I go meet her for myself and see why my 445 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,479 Speaker 11: husband is so concerned about her? 446 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, next question, Shirley, Yeah, going over there and 447 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 2: meet her? 448 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 11: What? What? 449 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 2: This don't make no sense? And you walk up on 450 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 2: your husband gossiping about a woman who just moved in 451 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 2: with the woman across the hall. You ain't even met 452 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 2: the woman across the hall. Why is he he ain't 453 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 2: even talked to you about Okay, go meet it in. 454 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 11: Okay, But you know the issue is her husband gossiping 455 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 11: with this woman. 456 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 2: Before? See what she trying to make it is like, 457 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: why is he so concerned about the woman that moved in? 458 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,719 Speaker 2: Should I just go meet her? Okay, go meet her? 459 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,360 Speaker 2: See that that don't make no sense. What you can't 460 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: do is write us and then try to lie to 461 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 2: us about your real reason. Right right, your husband talking 462 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 2: with the woman across the hall. Have you met her yet? 463 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 1: And why they ain't shopping it up. 464 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 11: Right? 465 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 2: And ain't saying nothing to you about the woman down 466 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 2: the hall yet? Go down there and meet the woman 467 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 2: down the hall? Yes, because stay in the little messy 468 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 2: apartment complex. 469 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, all right? 470 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 11: Moving on to Porter in Gainesville, Porter writes, I met 471 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 11: the woman of my dreams and we're going on our 472 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 11: first day. I suggested pizza and live music. She said, 473 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 11: she'll pick the restaurant. What if I can't afford the 474 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 11: restaurant she chooses? Should I be honest about my finances 475 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 11: up front? 476 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 14: Oh? 477 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 2: I how to get this pizza man? The situation? All 478 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 2: when y'all get in the car to go to the 479 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 2: restaurant and her choice, you put in your gp of 480 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 2: the piece of place you wanted to go to. 481 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 14: Do it like that? 482 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 2: Here's the problem we got. You claim that you have 483 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 2: met the woman of your dream. First of all, slow down, dog. 484 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,880 Speaker 2: You know how times I said that that's just bag 485 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 2: that slow down a little bit. We done. Probably I'm 486 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:27,479 Speaker 2: probably about thirty woman situation, easy. 487 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 7: Easy. 488 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 1: Temples, thirty. 489 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 2: Lord. So first of all, back up a little bit. Secondly, 490 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: you got to quit meeting people you can't afford. 491 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: Level up though. 492 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 2: I mean, well you can level up, but you got 493 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 2: to get up to where you level it. Because see 494 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 2: you can say you up, but we can't eat. 495 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 11: Over there though, Because that's his thing, that's his question. 496 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 11: Should I be honest about my finances up front? That's 497 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 11: really what he wants to know. 498 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 2: Bruh, Listen to me. Man, If you tell the woman 499 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 2: of your dreams that you can't feed her, eh, you 500 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 2: ain't feed Yeah, you ain't finna be the man of 501 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 2: her dread, she might be the woman of your dream. 502 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 2: You know what, Here's what I heard somebody say online 503 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 2: it one day. He said, he said women are gold diggers. 504 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 2: You know what this old dude said. He said, no, man, 505 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 2: women ain't gold diggers. He said they just expensive. All 506 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:42,439 Speaker 2: women are expensive. 507 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 7: I like him. 508 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,360 Speaker 2: You just got to find the one you can afford. 509 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,359 Speaker 2: You can't because broud. 510 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you agree, Junior? 511 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 13: Ain again right now to this day, right to this 512 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 13: day is not expensive. I didn't see her in Macy's. 513 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 2: I know that. 514 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 1: Shop in macy been looking, I ain't. 515 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 2: I ain't seen her in there. 516 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 11: But steee, you used to be porter in Gainesville, so 517 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:25,160 Speaker 11: I thought, you know, I used to be what porter? 518 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 1: The guy who wrote the letter porter? The yeah, the celot. 519 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 2: I couldn't get bag of popcorn at one point. Yeah, 520 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: I couldn't have got you nowhere? 521 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, so did you tell your days on? How did 522 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 1: you hand Yeah? How did you handle it? 523 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 11: No? 524 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: I just went where I could afford. 525 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: So you planned the date? 526 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, we got in my car, I just started driving. 527 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 2: I knew I was going to Dennis. I knew, I 528 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 2: knew exactly what it was. I knew I knew, I 529 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 2: knew what the dollar ninety nine was gonna do for me. Well, 530 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: see this is how you do it. First of all, 531 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,360 Speaker 2: you're planning the date. You know, you're playing the date. 532 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 2: Then you call and say, hey, I got car trouble. 533 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 2: As soon as I get it fixed, I'm coming. Then 534 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 2: you wait till all the good restaurants is closed. Last 535 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 2: serve at ten thirty eleven o'clock. Now you're down the 536 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 2: waffle house. 537 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: I hop. 538 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 2: Dennis and that is now. I still want to take 539 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 2: you out. My cop broke down, so you let you 540 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 2: you out there, and you're sitting there. You're sitting in 541 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 2: your house until all restaurants stop serving, and then after 542 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 2: that you just down there. I hoped Dennis and waffle house, 543 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: but I'm still coming to get you, and then she 544 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 2: gonna appreciate the effort, and then you that's how you start. 545 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, Well, I hope he learned something from that. 546 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 11: Moving on to Resa and de Soto, Resa writes, my 547 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 11: sister's husband died and I told my family that I'm 548 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 11: not going to the funeral. He and I were married 549 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 11: for six years, and he divorced me for my sister. 550 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 11: My family said I should let go and be there 551 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 11: for my sister. 552 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: What do you think I should do? 553 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 11: Steve? 554 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: He did here. 555 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 2: Nobody know, man, anybody going there. You know what, y'all, 556 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 2: we gotta start being real. Everybody. 557 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: You know that die does not move you. 558 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:45,480 Speaker 2: Let's just come to terms with that. Every death ain't 559 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 2: on sident. You've all gotten that call. Man, you Steve, 560 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 2: you sitting down. Yell man, Uncle Remus died. Yeah right, 561 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 2: bab man, y'all still having the barbecue Friday. 562 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 1: You and he weren't that tight? 563 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 7: You and is the opposite? 564 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 2: Everybody die? You gotta hit does not require my morning right, Okay, 565 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 2: that's all. She don't have to your point. 566 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it, all right, thank you, Celo. 567 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 2: Coming up at the. 568 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 11: Top of the hour, we will have some entertainment news 569 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 11: for you right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 570 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 11: The eighty third annual Golden Globe Awards remain a topic 571 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 11: of discussion, with several highlights and moments still generating some 572 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 11: buzz lur. Harvey, your daughter, Steve, deserves special recognition as 573 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 11: one of the best dressed women at the Golden Globes. 574 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 11: She looked, yes, she did. Her black dress on the 575 00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 11: red carpet was stunning. 576 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: It was just stunning. 577 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 11: Yeah, Tianna Taylor, Oh my goodness. She slays on the 578 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 11: red carpet every time. She doesn't miss. She also deserves 579 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 11: major kudos for winning Best Supporting Actress for her role 580 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 11: in One Battle after Another. You saw that, write, Steve, 581 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 11: you saw that mos Yeah, and her Yeah, she's amazing. 582 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 11: Her speech concluded with a powerful message her acceptance speech 583 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 11: to her brown sisters and little brown girls watching. She says, 584 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 11: our softness is not a liability, Our depth is not 585 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 11: too much. Our light does not need permission to shine. 586 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 11: We belong in every room we walk into. Our voices matter, 587 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 11: and our dreams deserve face. What a great speech and 588 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 11: Jacques the Michael and amazing, Yes you did? 589 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: He really did? 590 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 12: I know? 591 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 14: Can you just. 592 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 1: Body is unbelievable. 593 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 11: The front was good and then she turned around and 594 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 11: I was like, oh my god with the little rhymestone ball. 595 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 16: Amazing dress she lost. Yeah, anybody around the tailbone, anything. 596 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: Around I get your attention. 597 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, Glori and Tiana are friez. I'm not allowed to 598 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 2: make no comments, so we all go here. 599 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's all love. 600 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 2: I've better not saying nothing. 601 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 11: And other award show news. Ryan Coogler's Sinners starring Michael B. 602 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 11: Jordan has received eighteen nominations for the fifty seventh nua 603 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 11: A Serie Image Awards. Congratulations to Him Yeah, including Outstanding 604 00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 11: Montion Picture and Director. Spike Lee's Highest to Lois was 605 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 11: also nominated. According to Yahoo dot com, Tianna Taylor and 606 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 11: Kendrick Lamar are among the nominees for Entertainer of the Year. 607 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 11: I may as well go on and give it to 608 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 11: Tianna now, because she's killing this year. She is, anyway, 609 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:22,800 Speaker 11: alongside Cynthia Revo Doci and Michael B. Jordan's Outstanding Game 610 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 11: Show Celebrity Family Fuse. 611 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: I've heard of that, the host on that show. 612 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:32,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's his name? 613 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 7: You boy? 614 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 12: Yeah? 615 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, black guy? 616 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, from Cleveland Lips, you know the one. 617 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 618 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 11: Anyway, well, Outstanding Game Show Host nominee are very own. 619 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey graduation, Steve yet again. Congratulations. How do you feel? 620 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 2: Oh, they're gonna give it to Kiki Palms. 621 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 9: Did you see the envelope? 622 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 7: Bar ready? 623 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 2: No, I just understand how it was. It's only I 624 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:12,720 Speaker 2: got enough of them. I'm fine. 625 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,879 Speaker 11: The Image Awards will air on TV February twenty eighth 626 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 11: on B E T. Congratulations through all the nominees and finally, 627 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 11: in entertainment news, earlier this month, there was a lawsuit 628 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 11: filed accusing gospel singer Donnie McClerkin of sexual abuse and grooming. 629 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 11: Mcclerkin's former assistant, mister Carleto claims McClerkin. 630 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 2: What mean. 631 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 9: You know they have to. 632 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 2: Each other half? Let me brush your hair? No, that's 633 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 2: not what it means. No, no, no, see, let me 634 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 2: get your back for you give me that wash call? 635 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 2: What do that mean? 636 00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 1: You groomed them to get to the point that you're 637 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 1: talking about this situation? Uh huh that you just mentioned. 638 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 11: There's there's some stuff that takes place before you even 639 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 11: get there, and that's them. 640 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 16: Yeah, that butter them up, That's what that is. Yeah, 641 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 16: say that ding that ain't got nothing, dude, bro, Yeah 642 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 16: with the word yes, I. 643 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 2: Ain't familiar with it. Is that like winding and done? 644 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 10: Or play? 645 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:31,439 Speaker 2: Yeah? 646 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: All right? 647 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 2: Sweet fall down. 648 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,879 Speaker 11: Recently, Donny released a video to respond to the allegations 649 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 11: and said, in part quote, You've heard many accusations, lodged 650 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 11: and alleged. You have heard some very untrue things. But 651 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 11: I want to lend my voice and my face to this. 652 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 11: He went on to thank his supporters for their prayers, 653 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 11: adding thank God for truth with which you have not heard. 654 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: You haven't heard, but you will. 655 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 11: So that was Donny mcclerkin's statement to that, I like 656 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 11: Donnie m'clerking man. 657 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 17: Oh yeah, yeah, and both can he sing yeah, yeah, 658 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 17: mm hmm, okay, yeah, you. 659 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 2: Know, maybe I'm a little Oh okay, ye'll go ahead 660 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 2: next door because maybe God just edited myself. That ain't 661 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 2: gonna work out. 662 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 1: Oh that's progress, look at you. Twenty twenty six. Yeah, 663 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: he says he doesn't care. He says he doesn't care, 664 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:36,240 Speaker 1: but I think he cares a little. 665 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 2: I don't care, but I don't I don't want to. 666 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:43,320 Speaker 2: You know, you can't say nothing no more. So this 667 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,400 Speaker 2: is true. Yeah, true. You have to be careful with 668 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,760 Speaker 2: what you say. Everybody, I think everybody does just saying 669 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,560 Speaker 2: and I'll beep it out if I need to, let 670 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 2: me hear. You're not grooming me. That's all I'm saying. 671 00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 1: That's that's on your mind. Yeah, But a lot of 672 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: a lot of people who are washing it being groomed. 673 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,760 Speaker 1: That's the thing. You don't even know you're being groomed 674 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 1: when they're grooming. 675 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 11: Hey, coming up in twenty minutes, twenty minutes after the hour, 676 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,799 Speaker 11: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 677 00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 678 00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside. 679 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean in 680 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 12: half the time. Make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop 681 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,520 Speaker 12: the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built in solution 682 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 12: that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds 683 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 12: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes 684 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 12: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 685 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 12: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 686 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,319 Speaker 12: the Swiffer Power Mop. 687 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 11: So how are those New Year's resolutions going for you 688 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 11: so far? Now that we've made it more than a 689 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:07,239 Speaker 11: third of the way through January, some people who made one, 690 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 11: who made a resolution have already abandoned it. And a 691 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 11: new survey looks at the most common reasons people fall 692 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:21,399 Speaker 11: and fail at their resolutions. Giving into temptation that's one reason. Yeah, 693 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,280 Speaker 11: you agree with that one, Steve. 694 00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I have a reason why am I didn't work? 695 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 2: But go ahead and finish it? 696 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, let me do this. And then you 697 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 11: tell me it's just too difficult. They say it's too hard. 698 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 11: It's just too hard, that's true, And people give up easily. 699 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 11: They say they don't see the results quickly enough, and 700 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 11: then they forget. 701 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I. 702 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 7: Can't do that. 703 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 1: It's my resolution to stop. 704 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:54,240 Speaker 11: It's too boring to them, or just they just finally 705 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 11: realize that they don't even want to do it. 706 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 2: It just yeah, it's the same resolution every year, and 707 00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 2: I don't never make it every I'm not gonna cuss. 708 00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,320 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna yeah, you never do that. 709 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 2: And I discovered why the reason is, and. 710 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: Why don't you? Why can't you keep it? 711 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 2: Because I don't mean it. I don't mean it. 712 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 9: Committed to it. 713 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 3: Change. 714 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,719 Speaker 2: I'm not committed to not cussing. I'm more committed to 715 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,759 Speaker 2: it than I am to undo it. 716 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 1: Have you cut back? 717 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 2: Cut up? Step it up? 718 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 12: You haven't cut back at all, you know, because if 719 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:45,360 Speaker 12: you could try to cut back on something, well. 720 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 2: I've cut back in regard because I have less people 721 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 2: to cuss out. Oh oh so the quantity of yeah, 722 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 2: that's all is. I've just over the years gotten rid 723 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 2: of them slowly, so that's less like like right now, 724 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 2: it's only uh two, it's only two people that I 725 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 2: need to drag cross the concrete for I quit cussing. 726 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: Cool, I'm gonna I'm just gonna ask. 727 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 12: Now. 728 00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 2: I can't tell you who because I know soon. But 729 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 2: it's on site, though, it's on site when you see him, 730 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 2: so soon as I see him, ain't gonna be no, Steve, 731 00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 2: what you're tramping for? Steve? What you're doing that? Don't 732 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 2: even when you when you hear about it. 733 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:33,880 Speaker 11: Just no. 734 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 2: Somewhere around my birthday I told y'all on site, Then 735 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: when I saw him, it popped off. 736 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 11: Do you think it's wise for you to still be 737 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 11: fighting and stuff at this big ape. 738 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fight him. No, No, I don't have 739 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 2: to fight. 740 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 1: What are you gonna You're not gonna fight him. Oh, 741 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 1: he can't hook me? No way on site that usually 742 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 1: means a fight, you do know. 743 00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,919 Speaker 2: No, I'm just gonna tell him something. He can't whoop. 744 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 2: He can't, he can't whoop me. There's no way this 745 00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:04,280 Speaker 2: was a positive. 746 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 11: I know. I'm so confused right now, and coming up 747 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 11: at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna check 748 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 11: your voicemail Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. 749 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 1: Steve is the number if you want to talk to Steve. 750 00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,359 Speaker 11: Right after this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 751 00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 11: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail. Eight seven 752 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 11: seven twenty nine Steve. You can call and leave a 753 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 11: message and you might just hear your call on the air. 754 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 11: Here we go, ready, Steve, This is ANGIEP. From Detroit 755 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,880 Speaker 11: Christmas decorations comment for nephew Tommy. 756 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,720 Speaker 1: Take a listen, Grand Rising King and Queen. 757 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 3: This is ANGT from the DP. 758 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 5: That's right Detroit, residing in North Carolina at the moment. 759 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 15: However, I don't take. 760 00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 10: My decorations down cause I get ready, Tommy, I think 761 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,759 Speaker 10: that's the prior a progative. 762 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 15: Excuse me, y'all have a blessed day. God bless you. 763 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 15: I love you, and there's nothing you can do about it. 764 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,919 Speaker 15: Take care QUMG my radio station. 765 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 1: Thank you. 766 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 2: All right, Well, keep them up, leave them up to 767 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:17,840 Speaker 2: Easter of the end, if that's what you want to do. 768 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:22,040 Speaker 2: Leave him up there Valentine, Eastern Mother Day. 769 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:25,040 Speaker 14: Fall day or more day weekend, leave them up till 770 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 14: the fourth of two. 771 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:26,480 Speaker 2: Live light it up. 772 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 14: Then you know how you want to do. This is 773 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,920 Speaker 14: your paragative. Bring it on back round to Christmas. I 774 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 14: don't I mean to to the balance Halloween. 775 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 2: Keep him out. I could care less. 776 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,439 Speaker 7: Your life eight eighteen. 777 00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 14: Hundred dollars because you won't take these cripinal life there. 778 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 14: Leave them up then come here? How much eighteen hundred? 779 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 14: Because you watch eight these dollars on Christmas Life that 780 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,919 Speaker 14: run across the chimney in July and all these. 781 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,800 Speaker 2: Rain deals and stuff. 782 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 14: It's gonna make them my dog gonna say, but you're 783 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 14: gonna head leave them up there, it's your packet. 784 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,440 Speaker 1: The longest I left mine up was Valentine's to Day. 785 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I give you, I give you that. 786 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 14: Yeah. 787 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 1: I took mine down last weekend too. 788 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. It was just such a noble opening to the call, 789 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 2: and then it just turned into nothing. Grand rises, Kings 790 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 2: and queens. This is Lady D from the P and. 791 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:25,719 Speaker 11: The B. 792 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:32,200 Speaker 2: I cut you last time when I want to. That's 793 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,239 Speaker 2: a big way. She couldn't do it. It's time for 794 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:40,840 Speaker 2: me to use paracket peroxide proposed. Anyway. 795 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,120 Speaker 1: She didn't start off very nice, that's all I said. 796 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,360 Speaker 2: You know, it started off and then all of a 797 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 2: sudden it just turned in the next. 798 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:49,399 Speaker 1: She was mad at Tommy though. 799 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,239 Speaker 11: All right, see, we have one more call for you. 800 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 11: This caller said, some of our show is about hypocrisy. 801 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 18: Take a listen, hey, listening to the show in the 802 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 18: mornings and a lot of times you talk about God 803 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,520 Speaker 18: in the mornings and then an hour later it's complete 804 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,759 Speaker 18: hypocrisy and you go against anything and everything you had 805 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,279 Speaker 18: to say about God. So I'm not sure like what 806 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 18: you think you're accomplishing like that, But y'all need to 807 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,560 Speaker 18: wake up over there, because it. 808 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,439 Speaker 7: Don't make no sense. 809 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,759 Speaker 18: Either don't talk about God or line your show up 810 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 18: with what you have to say about God. 811 00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 2: Don't be hypocritians. First of all, young man, this is 812 00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 2: not a religious program. What I say about God. I 813 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:33,880 Speaker 2: stand on everything I ever say about the Lord. You understand. 814 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,320 Speaker 2: And then after that, but we tell you what this 815 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:41,279 Speaker 2: show is. This show is inspirational, this show is motivational, 816 00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:48,719 Speaker 2: This show is informative. But this show is entertainment. So see, 817 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,280 Speaker 2: some of y'all people think that if you're a Christian 818 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 2: or you believe in God, you shouldn't be laughing and 819 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,799 Speaker 2: nothing did take your sad some of where you're going. 820 00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,759 Speaker 2: How hypocritical? Did that sound? Right? 821 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:00,200 Speaker 10: You? 822 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:00,719 Speaker 14: See? Man? 823 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 2: I don't really, I don't really. I don't let people 824 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,200 Speaker 2: like that inside like hypocritic everything you said about God. Well, 825 00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,800 Speaker 2: then you need to cut into the PT. Seven hundred 826 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 2: club cor they talk about God, the whole show. That 827 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:17,040 Speaker 2: ain't what we do though. That's not being hypocritical. That's 828 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 2: it's called life. You're young and if you keep living it, 829 00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 2: you gonna find out. 830 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 14: Now. 831 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 2: If you don't want to talk about nothing but God, 832 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,880 Speaker 2: there are shows that you can turn in too. But 833 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,120 Speaker 2: I would like to inform you of something. 834 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 11: Now. 835 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:38,280 Speaker 2: If you cut on let's say Joel Oldstein's Sunday morning 836 00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:41,840 Speaker 2: service at Lakewoods, you would you will find out that 837 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 2: he goes bike riding, jogging, he go to games. If 838 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 2: you could watch Bishop Jakes, you could do that. If 839 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 2: you watch Jamal Brown, don't care who you watch. They 840 00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,480 Speaker 2: you still gotta go live your life. So no, man, dude, 841 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 2: ain't nobody being hypocritical. And if you don't like what 842 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 2: we're doing, man, then tune out, doog, just go somewhere. 843 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 2: It's what are you talking about all day? 844 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 11: Is? 845 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:07,520 Speaker 2: Stay on this subject? Yeah? Stay on the subject. Hey, 846 00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:08,319 Speaker 2: where's you talking about? 847 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 7: Weather? 848 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:08,839 Speaker 1: Phone? 849 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 2: You was talking about the lawd a minute ago? Well 850 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 2: within the rank though, amen? All right? 851 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 11: Coming up next to is the nephew in today's prank 852 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,880 Speaker 11: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 853 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:28,479 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour, 854 00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 11: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, 855 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,160 Speaker 11: and the subject is I'm going with the flow. 856 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,920 Speaker 1: We'll get into that and find out what that means, 857 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 1: what it's all about. 858 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 11: And just a few because right now it's time for 859 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,480 Speaker 11: the nephew and today's prank phone call. 860 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,239 Speaker 1: Nephew, what you got for us? 861 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 14: I got it, I got it, I got it. Just 862 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 14: right here is pecan tree. Pecan tree. My granddad used 863 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:56,160 Speaker 14: to say, pe can it, pecan tree. Rindaddy, Let's go 864 00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:01,160 Speaker 14: cat doe. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh LC. 865 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 1: Hey, let me let me. 866 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 2: Hey. 867 00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,759 Speaker 14: My name is Marcus, my mom and them little next 868 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 14: door to you, Mr and missus my mom and daddy 869 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,800 Speaker 14: little next door to you. And I was calling because 870 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,839 Speaker 14: y'all got a pecan tree in y'all backyard, I mean 871 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,719 Speaker 14: right on the fence line and to keep you know, 872 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:22,280 Speaker 14: pecan and stuff keep. 873 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,839 Speaker 2: Falling over into my mom and them yard. 874 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 14: So I talk to see if y'all can do something man, 875 00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 14: where y'all can pick up I mean, my mom and 876 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,319 Speaker 14: them have got a little older. You know, we've been 877 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,799 Speaker 14: picking them up for a long time. But I need 878 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 14: somebody to, like, maybe you can cut the limbs back 879 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,239 Speaker 14: that's hanging over so that they won't, you know, the 880 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,239 Speaker 14: pecans won't be falling over into my mom and them yard, 881 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:45,239 Speaker 14: cause you know, for them to be bending over like 882 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,759 Speaker 14: that picking up them pecan and it's a lot of them. So, 883 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 14: you know, mister, I just wanted to holler at you 884 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,439 Speaker 14: and see if you don't mind maybe cutting the limbs back, 885 00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 14: because even when we turn the lawnmow on and stuff, man, 886 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 14: it just, you know, the pecans and stuff be coming 887 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 14: out of the lawnmow just shooting all over the place. 888 00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:06,080 Speaker 15: Well, first of all, mather con trills an old corn 889 00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 15: tree and it's fout well and I can't see me 890 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:11,719 Speaker 15: cutting it. 891 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 9: Well. 892 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 15: I mean, I'm not saying you can't have nobody to 893 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:20,759 Speaker 15: maintain your yard. I mean you your mother. You can 894 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,600 Speaker 15: maintain your mother's yard, Sir. 895 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 14: I go by my mother's house, you know, every other 896 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,359 Speaker 14: day and check on them. But I don't have time 897 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 14: to go in the back and pick up pecans and stuff. 898 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 899 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,839 Speaker 14: I mean, if you just it don't seem no more 900 00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 14: than like maybe four or five limbs that's hanging over there. 901 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,480 Speaker 14: But they're four or five limbs. I mean they there's 902 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,080 Speaker 14: a lot of pecans falling. 903 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 2: Off of that. 904 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:45,040 Speaker 15: So mava con tree is shady. I goes back there. 905 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 15: There's nothing, no kind of nothing back there. Okay, want 906 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 15: to rake the yard whatever, sir. I'm not cutting my 907 00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,040 Speaker 15: tree for like that. 908 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:54,719 Speaker 2: Sir. 909 00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 14: Listen, what I'm what I'm trying to get you to 910 00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 14: do is I'm not I want you cutting your entire 911 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 14: tree down. I just want you to cut a few limbs, sir, 912 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 14: so you know those that way that those are the 913 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 14: ones that are hanging over it won't be you know, 914 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,879 Speaker 14: the pecans won't be falling over into my mom's them yard. 915 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,320 Speaker 2: And and you know, like I say, they're. 916 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 14: Older now, man, they can't be bending over like that. 917 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 14: So you know, I'm I'm just coming to you as 918 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 14: a man right now and asking you, will you please 919 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,000 Speaker 14: cut this down so these pecans can quick falling over 920 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:21,839 Speaker 14: my mom and them yard. 921 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,760 Speaker 15: Almost you. All you can do is hard someone okay, 922 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,439 Speaker 15: someone I know your mother. Don't cut your yard. 923 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 9: No, it's it's a guy that it's a guy that 924 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:31,879 Speaker 9: cuts the yard. 925 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,759 Speaker 14: But even when he cutting the yard, these pecans is 926 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 14: flying out from underneath the yard. The lawn more they 927 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 14: they soon the lady, we're gonna be breaking windows over there. 928 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,799 Speaker 15: What kind of lawn person you have that don't pick 929 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,160 Speaker 15: up before they cut? That's fool. 930 00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 2: Why am I arguing with you about picking up stuff 931 00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 2: and all of this? 932 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,640 Speaker 14: I'm asking you to cut a funky left five limbs 933 00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,520 Speaker 14: so these dog on pecans, they are. 934 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:54,640 Speaker 2: Falling off my mama yard. 935 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:58,160 Speaker 15: You want to cut, You're gonna make me come over. 936 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 2: Here and cut the whole. I would come cut the 937 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:01,479 Speaker 2: whole of the tree down. 938 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,879 Speaker 15: You ain't gonna put my tree. I grew that tree 939 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 15: from when I was a kid, and that tree gonna 940 00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 15: say nothing your lord as I say though. 941 00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 14: Sir, look, I didn't ask you like a man to 942 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,399 Speaker 14: cut your little funked pecan tree down. 943 00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:14,759 Speaker 11: Now. 944 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 2: I ain't fro the. 945 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,400 Speaker 15: Hat, no what, no what? Guess what you you you 946 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 15: bad to know you can cut it up. 947 00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:27,759 Speaker 14: Look sir, tonight today rather this evening, It's either gonna 948 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,439 Speaker 14: be two things happening. Either you gonna cut these five 949 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,920 Speaker 14: limbs that I won't cut off inna cut cut the 950 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 14: whole pecan tree down. 951 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 15: That's my tree. In any game nobody's gonna with my tree. 952 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 15: I'm here right now. I'm hearing them in yard right now. 953 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 14: Come on, it's you over that right now, right now, 954 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,799 Speaker 14: I will pray my right hold back. 955 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 15: You know what, you get my number in the way, 956 00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 15: got your number. 957 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:52,839 Speaker 2: I got it because it's the same. 958 00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 14: It's one address less than my mamas. You're gonna cut 959 00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:56,879 Speaker 14: this tree down. 960 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,440 Speaker 15: I'm wasn't on the good anyway, man, I ain't use 961 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 15: my preaching something in a long time. Any way. I've 962 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,239 Speaker 15: been waiting on him like you. 963 00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,160 Speaker 8: You lost your mind. 964 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 15: You live young, conk. I told you once, then I 965 00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 15: told you twice. I'm on you, young. Don't do that. 966 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 8: See that's what's right. You know what you can do. 967 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 15: Tell your mama to make a for corn pie and 968 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,360 Speaker 15: bring me a piece. What you say about my mama, 969 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:25,360 Speaker 15: Tell her to make a precan pie and come for me. 970 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,480 Speaker 15: Tell my mama what make a forcan pie with? 971 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,879 Speaker 14: Make a pecan pie. I don't want no pecan pie. 972 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:37,279 Speaker 14: We don't even eat pocn pie. We so sick of 973 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 14: because you got followed over in the backyard. You got 974 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 14: to do something about this, man. Now I'm trying to 975 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,600 Speaker 14: I'm trying not to hurt you, old man, I really 976 00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:45,600 Speaker 14: am hurt. 977 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 15: Me hurt mean, come on, hurt me for me. 978 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,319 Speaker 8: I'm on my I'm on my way. Is your south side? 979 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:54,320 Speaker 8: Is you outside? 980 00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:55,239 Speaker 15: You know how? 981 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 8: You know? 982 00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 15: Say? You know what I'm here. I'm I'm a man. 983 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,799 Speaker 15: Your mama veway due you get out? 984 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 14: You get out my mama driveway right now, get out 985 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:07,520 Speaker 14: my mama driveway. 986 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,600 Speaker 15: All wrong up, putting me out. 987 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:14,840 Speaker 8: I'm you get your getting back in your driveway. You 988 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:16,440 Speaker 8: get out my mama driveway. 989 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 14: Get out of it. 990 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 8: You get out of my mama driveway. 991 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,120 Speaker 10: Whoa crying for now? 992 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,000 Speaker 15: Tell you I'm here waiting on you. 993 00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,360 Speaker 8: You get out of my mama Get out of my 994 00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:28,440 Speaker 8: mama driveway. 995 00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,359 Speaker 15: Better go cook me something me because I'm gonna sit here. 996 00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:33,719 Speaker 8: I got one more thing I need to say to 997 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:34,800 Speaker 8: you with you listen it. 998 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,680 Speaker 15: You know what I'm say. I'm waiting at you at 999 00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:38,439 Speaker 15: your mama house. 1000 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 2: This his nephew. 1001 00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,880 Speaker 14: Tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just 1002 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:44,760 Speaker 14: got pranked by your brother. 1003 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:50,160 Speaker 15: Man, I don't pay this unner man. I'm gonna put 1004 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 15: my feet man, I'm gonna I'm a man. I don't pay. 1005 00:52:56,480 --> 00:53:00,640 Speaker 2: I'm too old for this conner, Elsie, do me a favor. 1006 00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:04,880 Speaker 2: First of all, get im people yard, go back to 1007 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 2: yo yard. 1008 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:10,360 Speaker 15: And you gave me hot blood pressure. 1009 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,319 Speaker 14: Ain't nobody mad by your pekan try noney that ain't 1010 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:15,480 Speaker 14: nobody finna cut it down. 1011 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,960 Speaker 2: Ain't nobody tripping you? Alright? 1012 00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:22,239 Speaker 15: I got a living now, man, I've been carrying my 1013 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 15: grandkids school. Listen, listen, man, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all, boy, y'all. 1014 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:31,640 Speaker 9: Something else, man, I got one more question for you. 1015 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:35,320 Speaker 14: Tell me what is the baddest radio station in the 1016 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:36,840 Speaker 14: land al season? 1017 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:38,799 Speaker 15: The same harbi so. 1018 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:48,799 Speaker 14: Petity, the petity at its best, at its best. All right, 1019 00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:50,640 Speaker 14: I got one for you. The nephew then picked up 1020 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:54,200 Speaker 14: a whole weekend, a stupid, a whole weekend, a stupid 1021 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,920 Speaker 14: February thirteenth to the fifteenth. The nephew will be Levity Live. 1022 00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 14: That's Levity Live. That is West, not New York West, nayak, 1023 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:05,480 Speaker 14: New York. Ain't not been there man. The nephew is 1024 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 14: coming to town. That is February thirteen, fourteen fifteen, which 1025 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:13,799 Speaker 14: means valentine'e. Bring your loved one, yes, yes, bring your girl, 1026 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:15,840 Speaker 14: bring your man, bring the one. You're trying to be 1027 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,320 Speaker 14: your man. Whatever you want to do, come out the 1028 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:22,319 Speaker 14: fools in town in New York, all right, nayak New 1029 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:25,840 Speaker 14: York Levity Live tickets on sale right now, February. 1030 00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:29,319 Speaker 2: Thirteenth, fourteenth, and fifteenth. I will not be the work 1031 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:32,400 Speaker 2: on sixteen. And they know that, they know that. I 1032 00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,560 Speaker 2: have a question for you, Tommy. Yes, sir. He was 1033 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 2: talking about all the people you bring. Can you bring anybody? 1034 00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:39,240 Speaker 2: You glooming. 1035 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 11: Well? 1036 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,200 Speaker 9: I I take you, I take groomers, groomies. 1037 00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah right, I'm too old. Don't put your head on. 1038 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:52,160 Speaker 11: Don't you. 1039 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,359 Speaker 1: The point about grooming is you don't know your. 1040 00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 2: Here's one better. You got something in your eye. 1041 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 1: Like your mom used to do. 1042 00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:03,800 Speaker 14: Unit. 1043 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:22,279 Speaker 2: Hey, man, I know you, al yeah, some of you 1044 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 2: you know. 1045 00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:34,080 Speaker 9: Going was Julo man you to worry about. 1046 00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:35,479 Speaker 2: We're fighting so hard. 1047 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:40,680 Speaker 11: Thank you, nephew, coming on, Max. It is my strawberry letter. 1048 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,719 Speaker 11: The subject is I'm going with the flow. We'll get 1049 00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:44,920 Speaker 11: into that right after this. 1050 00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:49,320 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Farroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside. 1051 00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,160 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? And 1052 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,960 Speaker 12: half the time make the swap to swipper power mop. 1053 00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:56,839 Speaker 17: The only one. 1054 00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 12: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down 1055 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:04,200 Speaker 12: and grime like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips on 1056 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:08,680 Speaker 12: the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease. Plus it'll 1057 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,040 Speaker 12: leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. Get 1058 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,680 Speaker 12: yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1059 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:24,759 Speaker 11: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1060 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:31,280 Speaker 11: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, sex, parenting, 1061 00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:34,839 Speaker 11: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARBFM dot 1062 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 11: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 1063 00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on. 1064 00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,799 Speaker 11: The air, just like we're going to read this one 1065 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,359 Speaker 11: right here, right now, and you never know, it could 1066 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 11: be yours. 1067 00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 9: It could be yours. 1068 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 2: Buckle love and hold on tight. We got it for you. 1069 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 2: Here it is Strawberry Letter. 1070 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:56,399 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I'm going with the flow. Dear 1071 00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:57,280 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. 1072 00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:59,759 Speaker 11: I'm fifty four years old and I met a great 1073 00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 11: man in church and he moved me in after a 1074 00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,439 Speaker 11: year of dating. I felt like it was too soon, 1075 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,480 Speaker 11: but my lease was ending, and my friend said that 1076 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 11: at my age, I should go with the floe well, 1077 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:13,760 Speaker 11: going with the flow has got me in a miserable 1078 00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:17,480 Speaker 11: living situation. Everything is fine between us, but he has 1079 00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:21,000 Speaker 11: a trifling daughter that runs him. She has access to 1080 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,800 Speaker 11: all of his accounts and she paid his mortgage and 1081 00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 11: bills until I moved in. I took over the bills, 1082 00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 11: and she had a nerve to ask me if I 1083 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 11: would be splitting things fifty to fifty with her dad. 1084 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 11: I told him to get her straight, but he didn't, 1085 00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 11: so she still has a key to the house and 1086 00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 11: keys to both his cars. She comes over unannounced to 1087 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,440 Speaker 11: wash clothes or to see what's in our fridge. She 1088 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,560 Speaker 11: doesn't have a car, so she usually rides with different 1089 00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:51,960 Speaker 11: men or some raggedy females she hangs out with. I 1090 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,400 Speaker 11: have a problem with the riff rap being in our house, 1091 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 11: but her dad is always excited to see her and 1092 00:57:58,240 --> 00:57:59,160 Speaker 11: have a drink with her. 1093 00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 1: The girl uses my. 1094 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:06,080 Speaker 11: Makeup and my feminine products without asking and doesn't replace anything. 1095 00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,120 Speaker 11: She walks in and out of our bedroom like she's 1096 00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 11: the woman of the house. I told my man that 1097 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:13,520 Speaker 11: we need to set some boundaries. 1098 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 1: He says, she used. 1099 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 11: She's used to it being just the two of them, 1100 00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 11: so I need to give her more time. My friend 1101 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:24,200 Speaker 11: said the same thing and added that if I keep complaining, 1102 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 11: he's going to get rid of me, not the daughter. 1103 00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,160 Speaker 11: If they tell me to go with the flow one 1104 00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:32,520 Speaker 11: more time, I'm going to lose it. I thought about 1105 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,880 Speaker 11: bonding with the daughter, but she is not the type 1106 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 11: of person i'd associate myself with. How do I make 1107 00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 11: some changes around here so that I can be comfortable 1108 00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:47,560 Speaker 11: at home? You're going to have to move. Seriously, You're 1109 00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 11: not going to be comfortable there. You're not going to 1110 00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:51,640 Speaker 11: be able to make any changes there because it's not 1111 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 11: your house. His disrespectful daughter doesn't want you there interfering 1112 00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,720 Speaker 11: with her and her dad's relationship. Can't you see this 1113 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:05,240 Speaker 11: messing You're messing up her good thing? Speaking of relationships, 1114 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:08,240 Speaker 11: since I mentioned that, where is this one between you 1115 00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,640 Speaker 11: and the dad going anyway? Are you guys planning on 1116 00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:16,840 Speaker 11: being married or you planning on just living together? You 1117 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:21,479 Speaker 11: know that should be made clear here because things would 1118 00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:23,480 Speaker 11: change if you became the wife. 1119 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:25,560 Speaker 1: I just wanted to know that. 1120 00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:28,040 Speaker 11: I think you don't tell us how old the daughter is, 1121 00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 11: but I think she's definitely old enough to know she's 1122 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,360 Speaker 11: out of line and what she's doing is for you. 1123 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:36,479 Speaker 11: She's basically pulling rank and throwing it in her face, 1124 00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,360 Speaker 11: in your face that she still comes first with her dad, 1125 00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:43,120 Speaker 11: So you will never be the woman of this house. 1126 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:46,680 Speaker 11: The bond is just too strong between them, and the 1127 00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,560 Speaker 11: dad is scared to say something to her about it 1128 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 11: for fear she'll disappear. You said in your letter, he's 1129 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:56,480 Speaker 11: always excited to see her and have a drink with her. 1130 00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:00,840 Speaker 11: Your friends are right about him putting you out before 1131 01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:04,640 Speaker 11: he had If he has to choose before her and 1132 01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,240 Speaker 11: bonding with her is not gonna work because clearly you 1133 01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:10,479 Speaker 11: guys don't like each other, you know. I just find 1134 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,800 Speaker 11: it hard to believe that you didn't know any of 1135 01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,640 Speaker 11: this before you moved in. You didn't know how the 1136 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 11: doughter and the father got along and all of that. 1137 01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,360 Speaker 11: You all didn't talk about any of that, or were 1138 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,720 Speaker 11: you just thinking about him providing you with a roof 1139 01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 11: over your head since your lease was up. Your guy 1140 01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 11: isn't stepping up. He's not putting his daughter in her place. So, 1141 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,520 Speaker 11: like I said, you need to move out and get 1142 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:38,080 Speaker 11: your own place. Anyway, Steve, Yeah, that's great advice. 1143 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:42,360 Speaker 2: Sherlly. Here's a problem I'm going with the flow. This 1144 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 2: is the whole problem. And the reason this woman has 1145 01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,160 Speaker 2: chosen to go with the flow is cause she's fifty four, 1146 01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:53,640 Speaker 2: fifty four. If you were twenty four, thirty four, forty four, 1147 01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:57,640 Speaker 2: would you put up with this? Probably not, But you 1148 01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:01,880 Speaker 2: fifty four, you're gonna go with You met a great 1149 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:06,200 Speaker 2: man in church? Who how many times we done heard 1150 01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:10,840 Speaker 2: that I met a great man at church. He moved in, 1151 01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:16,160 Speaker 2: and he moved me in. After a year of dating, 1152 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:20,479 Speaker 2: he moved you in. I felt like it was too soon, 1153 01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,200 Speaker 2: but my lease was in it, and my friend said, 1154 01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,960 Speaker 2: here we go that at my age, I should go 1155 01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:32,479 Speaker 2: with the flow. This is your friend, h I wish 1156 01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:36,040 Speaker 2: I could see her friends. I really wish I could. 1157 01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,280 Speaker 2: I wish I could see him. It would explain so 1158 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:42,640 Speaker 2: much well. Going with the flow has gotten me in 1159 01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:46,640 Speaker 2: a miserable living situation. Everything is fine between us, but 1160 01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:50,720 Speaker 2: he's got a trifling daughter that runs him. She has 1161 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 2: access to all his accounts, She pays more his mortgage 1162 01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:57,800 Speaker 2: and bills until I moved in. I took over the bills, 1163 01:01:57,840 --> 01:01:59,320 Speaker 2: and she had the nerve to ask me if I 1164 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,240 Speaker 2: would be split fifty to fifty with her dad. She 1165 01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:07,680 Speaker 2: in that good right. I told him to get her straight, 1166 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,640 Speaker 2: but he didn't. She got a key to the house. 1167 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 2: She got keys to both of his cars. She comes 1168 01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 2: over without asking. She washed clothes or to see what's 1169 01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 2: in the fridge. She doesn't have a car. Who is 1170 01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:29,280 Speaker 2: this good woman here? She ain't got no washing machine, 1171 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 2: She ain't got nothing to eat, she ain't got no car. 1172 01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:38,520 Speaker 2: What so she rides with different men or some raggedy 1173 01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:41,080 Speaker 2: female she hangs out with. I got a problem with 1174 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:45,880 Speaker 2: the riff raf being in our house. Well, see, Shirley 1175 01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:47,240 Speaker 2: kind of said this to. 1176 01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 11: You, but it. 1177 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:55,640 Speaker 2: Ain't your house. She moved you in. The daughter was 1178 01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:59,520 Speaker 2: already in position. She not about to change her position 1179 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:00,960 Speaker 2: because you'd have got moved in. 1180 01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:06,040 Speaker 11: Hang on, Steve, we'll recap. We'll have part two of 1181 01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:09,160 Speaker 11: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 1182 01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:13,000 Speaker 11: Today's Strawberry letter subject. I'm going with the flow. We'll 1183 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,920 Speaker 11: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve 1184 01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:18,040 Speaker 11: Hardy Morning Show. 1185 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside. 1186 01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:29,120 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean in 1187 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:32,919 Speaker 12: half the time? Make the swap so swiffer power Mop. 1188 01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 12: The on in one Cleaning Hero has a built in 1189 01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:39,080 Speaker 12: solution that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With 1190 01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,320 Speaker 12: hundreds of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky 1191 01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:46,919 Speaker 12: nesses with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great 1192 01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:50,720 Speaker 12: for hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter 1193 01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:52,600 Speaker 12: with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1194 01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,880 Speaker 11: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1195 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,040 Speaker 11: The subject is I'm going with the flow. 1196 01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,960 Speaker 2: I'm going with the flow has gotten this woman in trouble, 1197 01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:07,200 Speaker 2: and it seems to me like that it's age related 1198 01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 2: because she starts off the letter. I'm fifty four years old. 1199 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,640 Speaker 2: I met a great guy church. Now this right here, 1200 01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:17,640 Speaker 2: you're letting me know that age has something to do 1201 01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:22,800 Speaker 2: with this letter. I felt like he moved me in 1202 01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,080 Speaker 2: after a year dating. I felt like it was too early, 1203 01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:30,000 Speaker 2: but my lease was in it, and my friend said 1204 01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 2: that at my age, I should go with the flow. 1205 01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:37,680 Speaker 2: Cause you know, I'm assuming if you're fifty four, you 1206 01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:40,040 Speaker 2: probably wouldn't have went along with this at twenty four, 1207 01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:44,240 Speaker 2: at thirty four or forty four, But somehow fifty four, 1208 01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:48,520 Speaker 2: a crossing that half century mark has affected your thinking, 1209 01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:51,280 Speaker 2: so now you just signed up, But you didn't know 1210 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:54,160 Speaker 2: nothing about his little trifling daughter that pays all his bills, 1211 01:04:54,240 --> 01:04:57,960 Speaker 2: all of his mortgage and all this. Here you came in. 1212 01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:00,560 Speaker 2: She's so comfortable, she asked you, was used to fifty 1213 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:03,400 Speaker 2: fifty with her daddy. You told her to get her 1214 01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 2: under control. He ain't said nothing to her. Well, it 1215 01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:12,120 Speaker 2: ought to become obviously if you splitting stuff fifty to fifty, 1216 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:15,760 Speaker 2: because you would be making a contribution to the mortgage 1217 01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:19,080 Speaker 2: and all that. But obviously you're not. Now she comes 1218 01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,680 Speaker 2: over to the house to wash clothes, check uts in 1219 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,800 Speaker 2: the refrigerator, and she got keys to both cars because 1220 01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,320 Speaker 2: she don't have a car. I don't know who this 1221 01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:31,680 Speaker 2: woman is right here that ain't got no washing machine, 1222 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,400 Speaker 2: ain't got nothing, need no food, and don't have no car. 1223 01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:40,280 Speaker 2: And she got these men bringing all over, these raggedy females, 1224 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,840 Speaker 2: and you don't want them in your house. Well, like 1225 01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,360 Speaker 2: Shirley pointed out, it's not your house, it's his house. 1226 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:50,640 Speaker 2: You moved in after Daton for a year cause you 1227 01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:55,840 Speaker 2: let your friends tell you to go with the flow. Yeah, 1228 01:05:55,880 --> 01:05:58,000 Speaker 2: at one point in time, we suposted no more. When 1229 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:02,520 Speaker 2: we get older, I'll admit I've done some stupid stuff 1230 01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:04,040 Speaker 2: after fifty. 1231 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 1: Lord, heaven, no kidding, poor. 1232 01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:14,680 Speaker 2: Lord, I've done some stuff, but I ain't never had 1233 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:20,160 Speaker 2: to write no letter about it. And so now, uh huh, 1234 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 2: we could help you. Yeah, I don't need help. No, no, no, no, 1235 01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:28,520 Speaker 2: y'all can't no. Now, the trouble I'll be getting in, 1236 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 2: can't nobody help me? But the Lord that's right there. 1237 01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:39,240 Speaker 2: And my friend said the same thing. He said if 1238 01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,880 Speaker 2: you They said, if you keep complaining, he gonna get 1239 01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:45,880 Speaker 2: rid of you and not the daughter. Okay, but what 1240 01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:50,000 Speaker 2: are you settling for. You're not complaining. You're in the house. 1241 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:54,040 Speaker 2: You can't set no rules where you live. You can't 1242 01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,520 Speaker 2: make no boundaries. You don't like these trifling people hanging 1243 01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:00,200 Speaker 2: out at your house, but you got to let me 1244 01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 2: in because it's his house. Girl, listen to me. You 1245 01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:08,120 Speaker 2: need to go get you another lease and move yourself 1246 01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:12,200 Speaker 2: back into your apartment, or at least threatening to because 1247 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:14,800 Speaker 2: you need to issue an ultimatom. Look, if I'm gonna 1248 01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:18,360 Speaker 2: be here and I'm gonna be your woman, and you're 1249 01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:20,840 Speaker 2: gonna invite me to this house, you need to share 1250 01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:23,600 Speaker 2: this house with me because I'm not finna be a tenant. 1251 01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:27,720 Speaker 2: I'm not in here as a border following your rules, 1252 01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:29,200 Speaker 2: you know, like you got to ad B and B 1253 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:32,920 Speaker 2: you know where I can't. You got rules and established 1254 01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,440 Speaker 2: when I come in here. And if I can't establish 1255 01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,760 Speaker 2: the rules, I don't need to live here. Why would 1256 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:41,320 Speaker 2: you live somewhere? And you have no say so in 1257 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 2: the conditions that you have to live in. You can't 1258 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:48,439 Speaker 2: pick who comes in and out the house. You can't 1259 01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:51,480 Speaker 2: stop people from opening your refrigerator. You can't stop And 1260 01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:53,640 Speaker 2: then she got keys to both cars and she take 1261 01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,880 Speaker 2: both of them. You can't stop this woman from driving 1262 01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 2: your car. Suppose you got plans and you look outside 1263 01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:03,360 Speaker 2: and going in the car, you was gonna take No man, 1264 01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:07,640 Speaker 2: why would you live like this? It doesn't make any 1265 01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:10,760 Speaker 2: sense all because you going with the flow and you're 1266 01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:14,960 Speaker 2: fifty four lady, what you ought to do is go 1267 01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:17,360 Speaker 2: to your man and say this right here, I can't 1268 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,679 Speaker 2: do this no more. I love you, but I can't 1269 01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:23,760 Speaker 2: do this. And I know you love me, but you 1270 01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,960 Speaker 2: don't love me enough to make sure that I'm safe 1271 01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:30,880 Speaker 2: and comfortable. Women want to be in a relationship where 1272 01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,599 Speaker 2: they First of all, a woman wants to feel safe 1273 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:40,439 Speaker 2: If you don't feel safe, man, let's just okay, let's 1274 01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:43,120 Speaker 2: not even get to the provided for a part yet. 1275 01:08:43,880 --> 01:08:49,040 Speaker 2: You don't feel safe, you mean to tell me. You 1276 01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 2: come in the house and you don't know who gonna 1277 01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,960 Speaker 2: be sitting there. You go to get in the car 1278 01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,000 Speaker 2: and you don't know whether it's in the driveway or not. 1279 01:08:57,400 --> 01:08:59,439 Speaker 2: You come in the house and somebody standing in your 1280 01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:04,439 Speaker 2: refrigerator using your feminine products. Don't ask you nothing. You 1281 01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:06,040 Speaker 2: don't know if when you come in the house that 1282 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,639 Speaker 2: everything you put in place is still gonna be in place. 1283 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:10,599 Speaker 2: You going in there to watch TV in the living 1284 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:14,600 Speaker 2: room and some people already in there watching it. You 1285 01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:18,719 Speaker 2: gonna live like that? Man? It ain't no way. Home 1286 01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:22,840 Speaker 2: is supposed to be the one place, the one place 1287 01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:28,280 Speaker 2: where you can go and feel safe, have control, have 1288 01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:31,320 Speaker 2: your WUSA moment. You got to go home, be able 1289 01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:33,840 Speaker 2: to take a breath. You can't go home and choke 1290 01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:37,920 Speaker 2: it at the same time. Lady, here's what you do. 1291 01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,000 Speaker 2: This is how I feel when I come here. I 1292 01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,840 Speaker 2: can't do this no more. I know you was trying 1293 01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:46,200 Speaker 2: to help me out. My lease was up, but let 1294 01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:48,080 Speaker 2: me tell you something. I'm gonna go get me another lease, 1295 01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:50,200 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna move out because I can't do this 1296 01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:53,479 Speaker 2: no more. I love you, but I know you love 1297 01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,599 Speaker 2: your daughter and I'm not asking you not to love 1298 01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:59,280 Speaker 2: her no more. But I got stick. Go either off. 1299 01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:04,000 Speaker 11: On Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram 1300 01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:04,920 Speaker 11: and Facebook. 1301 01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:09,360 Speaker 1: You can download this today free. Never sounded so good. 1302 01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 11: Coming up at forty six minutes after, it's Junior and 1303 01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:16,080 Speaker 11: Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 1304 01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:17,200 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show. 1305 01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:24,519 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside. 1306 01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,360 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean in 1307 01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:31,160 Speaker 12: half the time? Make the swap to Swiffer Power Mop, 1308 01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:34,040 Speaker 12: the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built in solution 1309 01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:38,040 Speaker 12: that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds 1310 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:42,120 Speaker 12: of scrubbing strips on the pads, it absorbs sticky nesses 1311 01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 12: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 1312 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:49,240 Speaker 12: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 1313 01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:50,840 Speaker 12: the Swiffer Power Mop. 1314 01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:54,120 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk, which 1315 01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:55,559 Speaker 1: you got Junior all. 1316 01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:56,040 Speaker 2: Right, sureley. 1317 01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:59,400 Speaker 13: We had the NFL Wildcard weekend and a what a 1318 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:03,639 Speaker 13: weekend it was uh these games. Every game was really good, 1319 01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:06,360 Speaker 13: with one particular I really enjoyed. 1320 01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:06,880 Speaker 14: Uh. 1321 01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:07,680 Speaker 13: But let's get to it. 1322 01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:12,599 Speaker 19: The Rams beat the Panthers man thirty four to thirty one. 1323 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,680 Speaker 19: A man, I sure wanted the Panthers to win, Man, 1324 01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:19,080 Speaker 19: they were so close. Matthew Stafford with that pass in 1325 01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 19: the corner, with the time wanting running down, take it over, man. 1326 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,000 Speaker 19: So hey, congratulations to the Ram Here we go. The Bears, 1327 01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:30,120 Speaker 19: can we get a Bears a shot out? Came back 1328 01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,599 Speaker 19: and beat the Package. It was twenty one to three 1329 01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:36,360 Speaker 19: at halftime. They came out and won thirty one to 1330 01:11:36,479 --> 01:11:37,120 Speaker 19: twenty seven. 1331 01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:38,320 Speaker 13: Come on, Bears. 1332 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,560 Speaker 2: Wo Yeah they did that. 1333 01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:47,240 Speaker 19: The Bills edged one out over the Jaguars twenty seven 1334 01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:48,040 Speaker 19: to twenty four. 1335 01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:49,840 Speaker 2: And you know you picked them up, but you know 1336 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:53,560 Speaker 2: John I did, but I was secretly pulling for the Jaguars. 1337 01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:56,080 Speaker 9: He was secretly pulling for Duke Boom. 1338 01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:59,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. I wanted them to come through, man. 1339 01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:01,200 Speaker 7: Man. 1340 01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:04,639 Speaker 13: The forty nine Ers beat the Eagles twenty three to nineteen. 1341 01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:05,439 Speaker 10: I know that hurt. 1342 01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:16,960 Speaker 9: That didn't look like Philip the last minute and a half. 1343 01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:18,479 Speaker 9: Let's look like that through the game. 1344 01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 19: But graduated to the forty nine Ers the Patriots. I 1345 01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:24,000 Speaker 19: know you have said about this. The Patriots beat the 1346 01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:25,920 Speaker 19: charge of sixteen to three. I don't even know what 1347 01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:28,720 Speaker 19: was going on that game. Justin Herbert got sacked six times. 1348 01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:32,880 Speaker 19: He could even throw this ball, get on now, he could, 1349 01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:35,160 Speaker 19: He kept getting off the back of his jersey. 1350 01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:35,639 Speaker 7: Dirty. 1351 01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:42,040 Speaker 19: I don't even to say about that one. But here 1352 01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,519 Speaker 19: go the one we most proud of. Come on here, 1353 01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:48,639 Speaker 19: now them boys off Kirby, Houston, Texas, come on here, 1354 01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:52,280 Speaker 19: beat the Steelers behind thirty to six. 1355 01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:58,560 Speaker 2: Thirty to six, Yes, sir, so are they going to 1356 01:12:59,080 --> 01:12:59,640 Speaker 2: say this to you? 1357 01:12:59,680 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 8: See? 1358 01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:06,080 Speaker 2: You played great defense? Amazing Well, y'all got a cold defense. 1359 01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:09,880 Speaker 2: I picked y'all to you know you did. Yeah, offense 1360 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:12,719 Speaker 2: is terrible right now, man, man, we got a problem. 1361 01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,439 Speaker 13: Three turnovers, man, two forms an inn you. 1362 01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:24,719 Speaker 2: Know, man, y'all y'all'understand y'all. Thirty six, he got a problem. 1363 01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:30,240 Speaker 2: We no clean, they got a problem. You don't have 1364 01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:37,160 Speaker 2: no problem. Center in here. Thirty to six. C J 1365 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:39,559 Speaker 2: strive man, I don't know what he doing. 1366 01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:45,200 Speaker 13: We're still ed it shut. 1367 01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:47,720 Speaker 2: Okay, it's not over yet. 1368 01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:56,080 Speaker 1: Okay, that's goody good? Yeah, go so Houston. 1369 01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,000 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, young man 1370 01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:00,879 Speaker 11: and social media needs some advice, you, says, my manager 1371 01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:04,120 Speaker 11: is making me look bad. We'll talk about it right 1372 01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:08,760 Speaker 11: after this up. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1373 01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:15,800 Speaker 11: All right, Steve, this is from MJ on Steve harbfm 1374 01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:19,400 Speaker 11: MJ says, I started a new job about six months 1375 01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:21,240 Speaker 11: ago that I worked. 1376 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,960 Speaker 1: Really hard to land, and I genuinely like the role. 1377 01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:28,240 Speaker 11: But my manager's communication is inconsistent and it keeps making 1378 01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 11: me look bad. She'll give instructions but then change them 1379 01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:34,640 Speaker 11: later without telling me, or she'll be too busy to 1380 01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:37,760 Speaker 11: answer my follow up questions and then flag my work 1381 01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:42,559 Speaker 11: as incorrect. Twice she's warned me that these mistakes can't 1382 01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,160 Speaker 11: keep happening, but it's one hundred percent her fault. I've 1383 01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:49,719 Speaker 11: been taking careful notes and asking for clarity in writing, 1384 01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,639 Speaker 11: just waiting for the next time I get in trouble 1385 01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,800 Speaker 11: for her lack of clear communication. I've set up a 1386 01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:58,760 Speaker 11: meeting to talk about how to prevent errors, but I'm 1387 01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:01,599 Speaker 11: nervous that explaining the issue from my point of view 1388 01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:06,200 Speaker 11: is going to come off as a as defensive or disrespectful. 1389 01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:09,720 Speaker 11: So here's her question, how can I protect my credibility 1390 01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:12,080 Speaker 11: and my job without it looking like I'm. 1391 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:15,040 Speaker 1: Making excuses or trying to throw my manager under the bus. 1392 01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:18,479 Speaker 2: Well, I think you're being very smart with creating a 1393 01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:22,800 Speaker 2: pay per trail. That's imperative in corporate America. That I've learned. 1394 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:28,200 Speaker 2: You got to have a pay per trail. Secondly, you 1395 01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:31,599 Speaker 2: got to have a conversation with this woman because if 1396 01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:34,559 Speaker 2: you don't, y'all fit to be in that situation where 1397 01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,000 Speaker 2: you can't, she'd have told you you can't keep making mistakes. 1398 01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:41,320 Speaker 2: She told you that, so you need to tell her 1399 01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:45,040 Speaker 2: that there's a communication gap between the two of them. Now, 1400 01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:47,680 Speaker 2: however that's gonna come across. Let it come across that way, 1401 01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:51,080 Speaker 2: because if you don't, what's gonna come across is you're 1402 01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:54,479 Speaker 2: incompetent and you keep making mistakes. Then you've got to 1403 01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 2: pull out this paper trail and now we you know, 1404 01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:00,080 Speaker 2: I don't really wreck. 1405 01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:00,479 Speaker 10: Me and that. 1406 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:06,200 Speaker 12: That's what she's amazing. She's worried about the pay per trail. 1407 01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,320 Speaker 12: You just pot ale, you just pull out. 1408 01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:14,000 Speaker 2: Well, hey, ain't no pottle, you making mistakes pay per trail. 1409 01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:17,160 Speaker 2: But now I'm gonna say something to you because I 1410 01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:21,280 Speaker 2: have an HR department in my company, you know, and 1411 01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:25,360 Speaker 2: plus I hide the HR person. So HR my company 1412 01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:31,280 Speaker 2: don't stand for human resources. My HR stand for heat. Right, 1413 01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:36,800 Speaker 2: come up, come up in here if you want to. 1414 01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:42,200 Speaker 2: But you had a regular job, so your job stand 1415 01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:45,479 Speaker 2: for human resources. I would at least open up a 1416 01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:48,439 Speaker 2: file with human resources to say, can I just get 1417 01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:50,880 Speaker 2: this on file because this is what's happening, and just 1418 01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:52,760 Speaker 2: ask her to make a file for you in case 1419 01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,960 Speaker 2: you need period. You gotta protect yourself. This is the 1420 01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,679 Speaker 2: world we live in any day. Yeah, so you gotta 1421 01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,439 Speaker 2: protect yourself. What a great answer, Steve. 1422 01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:03,080 Speaker 1: Next year we have. 1423 01:17:03,200 --> 01:17:06,640 Speaker 11: Time for another one. This guy says, I have a 1424 01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:10,479 Speaker 11: girlfriend that I one hundred percent. I'm one hundred percent 1425 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:13,680 Speaker 11: devoted to, and she knows that being nice to customers 1426 01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:15,920 Speaker 11: and cracking a few jokes isn't flirting. 1427 01:17:16,439 --> 01:17:18,240 Speaker 1: It's working customers for tips. 1428 01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:21,599 Speaker 11: Apparently, there's one girl who's a regular that told her 1429 01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:24,560 Speaker 11: boyfriend how funny I am, and over the weekend he 1430 01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:29,120 Speaker 11: literally came into the bar and threatened me. I alerted 1431 01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,240 Speaker 11: my manager of the issue, and he basically said, handle it. 1432 01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:34,920 Speaker 11: I don't even know what that means. 1433 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:35,679 Speaker 1: She's a good. 1434 01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:37,920 Speaker 11: Tipper and a nice lady. But it's not right to 1435 01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:42,000 Speaker 11: just blow her off moving forward. But I also don't 1436 01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:45,080 Speaker 11: want to just tell her about her man acting crazy? 1437 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:48,520 Speaker 11: So what's the best way to handle this without jeopardizing 1438 01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 11: my job or my income? 1439 01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:55,400 Speaker 2: He must be your job and your income? That atual problem, 1440 01:17:56,360 --> 01:18:01,280 Speaker 2: you say, good chop, Her part is you. 1441 01:18:01,320 --> 01:18:03,200 Speaker 1: Don't understand missing something? 1442 01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:06,479 Speaker 2: Man, dog, where are you from? 1443 01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:08,120 Speaker 8: Boy? 1444 01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:13,160 Speaker 2: Your problem is this dude then came up to the 1445 01:18:13,400 --> 01:18:17,519 Speaker 2: job and told you keep playing if you want to. 1446 01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:20,800 Speaker 2: You didn't went in there and told your boss he'd 1447 01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,519 Speaker 2: told you to handle it. You say, how do I 1448 01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:28,920 Speaker 2: do this? Stop losing my tips? Or dog? It's the 1449 01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 2: dude that can walk up on you and threaten you, 1450 01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:33,560 Speaker 2: which is your concern? 1451 01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:37,479 Speaker 7: Media? 1452 01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:47,800 Speaker 1: All right, lose some tips, lose some teeth, right, all right, 1453 01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 1: thank you, Steve. 1454 01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:51,800 Speaker 11: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1455 01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:53,639 Speaker 11: up in twenty minutes after the hour. 1456 01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:57,439 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1457 01:19:01,680 --> 01:19:02,000 Speaker 1: All right. 1458 01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:05,200 Speaker 11: So rapper Lil Wayne posted an angry reaction to the 1459 01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:08,719 Speaker 11: Chicago Bears beating its team, the Gray Green Bay Packers. 1460 01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:11,400 Speaker 11: Lil Wayne took to x of course we know it 1461 01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 11: is formerly Twitter to roast Chicago Bears quarterback Caleb Williams, 1462 01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,640 Speaker 11: writing quote, we just lost a playoff game to an 1463 01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:19,280 Speaker 11: n word. 1464 01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:20,200 Speaker 1: With purple nails. 1465 01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:24,519 Speaker 11: Caleb Williams reposted Wayne's post and had a simple response 1466 01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:29,400 Speaker 11: to Wayne. He posted snowflake and a man emoji and 1467 01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:36,880 Speaker 11: simply wrote the hashtag the Bears. I'm wondering why does 1468 01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 11: Caleb Williams paint his nails. He says it's to represent 1469 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,720 Speaker 11: his mom, who worked as a nail technician for his 1470 01:19:44,040 --> 01:19:47,800 Speaker 11: entire life, and he also enjoys being a fashion trendsetter. 1471 01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:48,560 Speaker 1: So there you go. 1472 01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:53,360 Speaker 2: H didn't know that. I'm not in the way of 1473 01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:54,920 Speaker 2: a man and his mom. 1474 01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:59,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I prefer myself. 1475 01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:01,439 Speaker 2: So you do wear it? 1476 01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:01,720 Speaker 15: Oh? 1477 01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:02,839 Speaker 9: So you do wear. 1478 01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:10,479 Speaker 1: I got yeah, like Jil, like. 1479 01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,000 Speaker 9: Junior got jail jour nail be nine. You ain't. 1480 01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:15,840 Speaker 8: I got jet So what is it? 1481 01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:18,520 Speaker 1: Because talking about. 1482 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:32,639 Speaker 2: But what that was, I'm ashamed you talking about fannail pilot. 1483 01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:35,360 Speaker 7: Man. 1484 01:20:36,040 --> 01:20:38,960 Speaker 2: We're not We're not finna put your fan nail polog 1485 01:20:39,200 --> 01:20:40,320 Speaker 2: I thought you had stopped. 1486 01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:43,280 Speaker 1: It's coming up. We'll play around it. Would you rather 1487 01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:47,240 Speaker 1: right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1488 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:55,360 Speaker 12: Hey is Carla Farroll kick that old mopping bucket aside? 1489 01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:57,599 Speaker 1: Are you ready for a moping bucket? 1490 01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:01,120 Speaker 12: Clean and half the time make the swip to Swiffer 1491 01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:04,320 Speaker 12: Power Mop, the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built 1492 01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:07,839 Speaker 12: in solution that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. 1493 01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:11,840 Speaker 12: With hundreds of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs 1494 01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:15,679 Speaker 12: sticky messes with ease. Plus, it'll leave your home smelling 1495 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:19,320 Speaker 12: great for hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop 1496 01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:23,320 Speaker 12: smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. It's time now for 1497 01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:25,920 Speaker 12: a round of would you rather? Would you rather? 1498 01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:29,280 Speaker 11: If you were a professional football player, would you rather 1499 01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:31,719 Speaker 11: play in the dome or open roof. 1500 01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:33,400 Speaker 1: Stadium in cold snow weather. 1501 01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:36,840 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what you bet not playing? You bet 1502 01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:39,640 Speaker 2: not playing Houston Coke when they win down't appreciate that. 1503 01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:42,840 Speaker 2: That's what's not gonna play. Well, you say that's Steve, 1504 01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:46,559 Speaker 2: He's two right, he'll complain about a thirty to six win. 1505 01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:51,160 Speaker 2: It We just know we have CJ man. He just 1506 01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:56,120 Speaker 2: turns won six. What the problem you've got? 1507 01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:57,160 Speaker 14: It is? 1508 01:21:57,400 --> 01:21:57,439 Speaker 11: It? 1509 01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:00,360 Speaker 7: Picks? 1510 01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:04,040 Speaker 2: It was the score, dumb, Take the dumb Is that 1511 01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:06,000 Speaker 2: what you y'all talking about. 1512 01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:08,040 Speaker 13: He's just saying take the Cleveland. Don't get that. 1513 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 2: Definitely the same we're talking about team. You're worried about 1514 01:22:11,120 --> 01:22:14,559 Speaker 2: what y'all gonna do next year? Let us we are worried. 1515 01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,439 Speaker 1: We're always we are already concerned. 1516 01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:24,360 Speaker 14: If they if they get rid of Tomlin, would you 1517 01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:25,559 Speaker 14: want him to come to Cleveland? 1518 01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:28,519 Speaker 2: Hell? 1519 01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right? Uh would you rather be running back 1520 01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:40,080 Speaker 1: or quarterback? 1521 01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:43,040 Speaker 2: Oh? Definitely running back? 1522 01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:46,880 Speaker 1: Running back for you junior, Yeah, running back? 1523 01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:48,800 Speaker 7: One of them. 1524 01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:51,479 Speaker 2: You finish, get beat up either one of them. 1525 01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:54,960 Speaker 1: Pick one. Okay, running back or quarterback? 1526 01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:59,160 Speaker 2: Quarterback. There's no way out can beat the quarterback. Everybody 1527 01:22:59,280 --> 01:23:02,599 Speaker 2: wants and I don't want it enough to I'm gonna 1528 01:23:02,680 --> 01:23:03,280 Speaker 2: let you have it. 1529 01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:04,639 Speaker 1: The quarterback. 1530 01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:10,599 Speaker 14: I'm throwing it to the center, the guard, whoever close 1531 01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:13,920 Speaker 14: to me, water, the coach. 1532 01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:18,640 Speaker 11: All right, would you rather your favorite team lose in 1533 01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,880 Speaker 11: every Super Bowl game or never make it to the 1534 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:22,519 Speaker 11: Super Bowl? 1535 01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:25,280 Speaker 2: Which losing every Super Bowl I'm cool with. 1536 01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:28,639 Speaker 13: We ain't made to Super Bowl, So I'm just gonna 1537 01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:29,000 Speaker 13: go with b. 1538 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:37,240 Speaker 2: You ain't made it? What you mean up, y'all ain't 1539 01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,120 Speaker 2: never made it to the Super Bowl. How old is 1540 01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:46,559 Speaker 2: the tex Two thousand were from the Brown since the fifties. 1541 01:23:48,520 --> 01:23:51,880 Speaker 2: We won a championship in sixty four. We've never been 1542 01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:54,800 Speaker 2: to the Super Bowl. I only see what y'all complain about. 1543 01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:55,680 Speaker 2: Next next? Would you. 1544 01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:57,920 Speaker 11: All right? 1545 01:23:57,960 --> 01:24:01,160 Speaker 1: Would you rather have bad hair or bad I say, 1546 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:02,280 Speaker 1: oh bad here? 1547 01:24:02,439 --> 01:24:02,639 Speaker 11: Huh. 1548 01:24:03,120 --> 01:24:05,639 Speaker 2: I'm not listening to most people anyway, so whatever. 1549 01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:07,400 Speaker 3: Huh. 1550 01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:15,040 Speaker 2: That's like I don't hear you no way, So soun 1551 01:24:15,120 --> 01:24:16,080 Speaker 2: you out anyway? 1552 01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 14: All right? 1553 01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:19,679 Speaker 11: Would you rather never be able to take a hot 1554 01:24:19,760 --> 01:24:22,200 Speaker 11: shower or never be able to eat barbecue? Again? 1555 01:24:23,240 --> 01:24:26,000 Speaker 2: Got the baby? Y'all know, I gotta let that barbecue go? 1556 01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:31,479 Speaker 1: Okay, that's today's round it would you rather go? 1557 01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:34,280 Speaker 2: Already? Ain't gonna take no hot dayth So now I'm. 1558 01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:36,760 Speaker 11: Just it'll be our last break of the day and 1559 01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:38,800 Speaker 11: we'll close out the show with the one and only 1560 01:24:38,960 --> 01:24:40,400 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey right after. 1561 01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:42,680 Speaker 2: This eating the barbecue. 1562 01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:47,160 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1563 01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:54,479 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mopping bucket aside? 1564 01:24:54,680 --> 01:24:57,320 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? And 1565 01:24:57,439 --> 01:25:01,160 Speaker 12: half the time make the swap to s whipper power mop? 1566 01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:04,040 Speaker 12: The only one cleaning Hero has a built in solution 1567 01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:08,040 Speaker 12: that breaks down dirt and grind like magic. With hundreds 1568 01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:12,120 Speaker 12: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes 1569 01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:15,280 Speaker 12: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 1570 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:19,240 Speaker 12: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 1571 01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:20,840 Speaker 12: the Swipper Power Mop. 1572 01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:24,840 Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is our last break of the day. 1573 01:25:24,920 --> 01:25:25,840 Speaker 1: It's been a good day. 1574 01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:30,040 Speaker 11: And before we get to your question for Steve Junior, 1575 01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:35,719 Speaker 11: we got to say Happy Founder's Day for Delta Sigma 1576 01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:39,839 Speaker 11: Theta Sorority Incorporated one and thirteen years. 1577 01:25:39,960 --> 01:25:40,960 Speaker 1: It's Founder's Day. 1578 01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:48,360 Speaker 12: Yeah, Modulations, Happy Founders Day to the Deltas. 1579 01:25:48,479 --> 01:25:49,160 Speaker 7: I saw your. 1580 01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:58,360 Speaker 1: Monica nineteen thirteen. Wow, yes, found this day, beautiful woman. 1581 01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:00,200 Speaker 9: Yeah you. 1582 01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:02,800 Speaker 7: All right? 1583 01:26:04,040 --> 01:26:06,639 Speaker 2: Yeah you got a question? Yeah, Uncle. 1584 01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:11,680 Speaker 20: You talk about this purpose versus passion and what the 1585 01:26:11,720 --> 01:26:15,880 Speaker 20: difference between the two is because people purpose the passion 1586 01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:20,240 Speaker 20: your passion, I mean, it's your passion, not your purpose. 1587 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:24,760 Speaker 2: Though you know you might be doing one thing. What's 1588 01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:34,560 Speaker 2: your passion and what's your purpose? The perfect marriage is 1589 01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:38,799 Speaker 2: to have them both. It is to marry your passion 1590 01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:43,360 Speaker 2: to your purpose. Oh it's it's not a bad thing 1591 01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:50,639 Speaker 2: to have both, but you know, you can be passionate 1592 01:26:50,680 --> 01:26:53,760 Speaker 2: about something that you're not even good at. That's the 1593 01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:57,479 Speaker 2: sad thing. You know how many times you've heard somebody say, 1594 01:26:57,960 --> 01:27:00,880 Speaker 2: if you want something bad enough, you can have it. 1595 01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:06,000 Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true. You know what I mean. 1596 01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:08,760 Speaker 2: Think about all some of the stuff you've really really 1597 01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:12,800 Speaker 2: wanted and never gotten, but you wanted it though. That's 1598 01:27:12,960 --> 01:27:17,000 Speaker 2: just not a true statement. If you want something bad enough, 1599 01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:23,280 Speaker 2: you will have it. That's not true because if you 1600 01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:28,479 Speaker 2: don't apply the principles to the things you want, it's 1601 01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:34,040 Speaker 2: not gonna happen. Wanting something is not enough. Believing something 1602 01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:39,240 Speaker 2: is not enough. Wanting and believing something I am telling 1603 01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:46,280 Speaker 2: you is not enough. Faith without works is dead. Wanting 1604 01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:53,720 Speaker 2: something without applying the principles, it's useless. I wanna win 1605 01:27:53,920 --> 01:27:57,200 Speaker 2: the lotto. I want to win the power ball. Oh 1606 01:27:57,280 --> 01:27:59,519 Speaker 2: I want it so badly, I play it every week. 1607 01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:00,479 Speaker 9: You know what I mean. 1608 01:28:00,520 --> 01:28:04,080 Speaker 2: People have died and never won that power ball. Because 1609 01:28:04,120 --> 01:28:07,240 Speaker 2: you know you're wanting and you're passionate about something. First 1610 01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:11,560 Speaker 2: of all, you don't have a control over nothing. You 1611 01:28:11,640 --> 01:28:14,599 Speaker 2: don't have control over their mount, the ball, the number 1612 01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:18,320 Speaker 2: that comes up, that what the ritually is to payout. 1613 01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:24,040 Speaker 2: It's just nothing. Passion doesn't mean you're good at it. 1614 01:28:25,400 --> 01:28:28,400 Speaker 2: At one point in time, I was passionate about golf. 1615 01:28:29,439 --> 01:28:32,599 Speaker 2: I'm not passionate about it anymore. I'll play it when 1616 01:28:32,640 --> 01:28:36,160 Speaker 2: I play it. But and because I discovered something as 1617 01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:39,519 Speaker 2: passionate as I was, I just wasn't good at it. 1618 01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:43,479 Speaker 2: Now I still enjoy going out there playing it, but 1619 01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:48,040 Speaker 2: my expectations has been lowered to the point where now 1620 01:28:48,080 --> 01:28:50,560 Speaker 2: I have a good time. But I was passionate about it, 1621 01:28:50,640 --> 01:28:54,320 Speaker 2: but I wasn't good at it. Now what I am 1622 01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:58,240 Speaker 2: good at, what I am really really good at. I 1623 01:28:58,400 --> 01:29:02,759 Speaker 2: have managed to become passassionate about it. I am really 1624 01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:08,559 Speaker 2: really good at mentoring young men. I am really really 1625 01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:12,400 Speaker 2: good at that. As a matter of fact, I am 1626 01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:18,519 Speaker 2: passionate about mentoring young men. I am passionate about having 1627 01:29:18,560 --> 01:29:21,760 Speaker 2: them at my ranch. I'm passionate about talking to him 1628 01:29:21,840 --> 01:29:24,360 Speaker 2: on the phone one on one. I'm passionate about going 1629 01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,640 Speaker 2: on zooms talking to him. I'm passionate about that. And 1630 01:29:27,760 --> 01:29:31,880 Speaker 2: it's become my purpose because when I leave this world, 1631 01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:36,800 Speaker 2: I want to leave behind thousands of young people who 1632 01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:40,680 Speaker 2: can say, man, what Steve Harvey said really helped me, 1633 01:29:43,160 --> 01:29:46,720 Speaker 2: not that I was a great game show host, not 1634 01:29:47,120 --> 01:29:51,240 Speaker 2: that I was a pretty good comedian. All let us 1635 01:29:51,280 --> 01:29:56,160 Speaker 2: speak for itself or not. As a matter of fact, Man, 1636 01:29:56,280 --> 01:29:58,800 Speaker 2: I've stopped doing the one thing I love. Do you know, man, 1637 01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:02,519 Speaker 2: that I I was really really passionate about stand up? 1638 01:30:03,040 --> 01:30:05,680 Speaker 2: Do you know, man, that my purpose was to be 1639 01:30:06,680 --> 01:30:09,080 Speaker 2: one of the top stand ups in the country. Do 1640 01:30:09,200 --> 01:30:11,800 Speaker 2: you know that I have stopped so long that the 1641 01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:14,800 Speaker 2: majority of people who are fans of mine now don't 1642 01:30:14,800 --> 01:30:16,360 Speaker 2: even know that that's what I was. 1643 01:30:17,439 --> 01:30:19,000 Speaker 9: Man, It's so crazy. 1644 01:30:19,080 --> 01:30:21,479 Speaker 2: Man. When I realized how long I been doing this, 1645 01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:23,880 Speaker 2: a lady was doing my makeup and told me she 1646 01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:29,080 Speaker 2: didn't realize that I used to have hair. You thought 1647 01:30:30,520 --> 01:30:34,559 Speaker 2: I was born ball And I say, you don't think 1648 01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:38,920 Speaker 2: at no point I had. She was doing my makeup 1649 01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:42,120 Speaker 2: and said, mister Harvey, I never knew you had hair. 1650 01:30:43,320 --> 01:30:45,760 Speaker 2: You're putting makeup on my head. Them little granules you 1651 01:30:45,880 --> 01:30:48,120 Speaker 2: see every now and then, you ain't know what that is? 1652 01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:52,560 Speaker 2: You see them roots up there? That was hair. But 1653 01:30:52,960 --> 01:30:58,599 Speaker 2: when she was born, when she was born, Steve Harvey 1654 01:30:58,640 --> 01:31:02,560 Speaker 2: show was off. When when she got old enough to 1655 01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:08,320 Speaker 2: watch stuff, which was twenty years ago, when she saw 1656 01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:13,200 Speaker 2: what she was twenty six. I was already bald. It's crazy, man. 1657 01:31:14,000 --> 01:31:16,960 Speaker 2: So the perfect marriage is to become purp is to 1658 01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:22,280 Speaker 2: have your become passionate about your purpose, but be very 1659 01:31:22,400 --> 01:31:26,160 Speaker 2: very careful. Because you're passionate about something, don't mean you 1660 01:31:26,320 --> 01:31:26,800 Speaker 2: good at it. 1661 01:31:28,560 --> 01:31:28,640 Speaker 14: Now. 1662 01:31:28,680 --> 01:31:33,439 Speaker 2: I'm passionate about fishing. I fished pretty good. But if 1663 01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:35,960 Speaker 2: I'm on the boat with Kevin van Dam, I'm gonna 1664 01:31:35,960 --> 01:31:38,200 Speaker 2: look like a fool. Or I'm on the beer with 1665 01:31:38,520 --> 01:31:41,800 Speaker 2: with with with Bill Dance, I'm not gonna look that 1666 01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:44,080 Speaker 2: good of a fisherman because I'm out here with the pros. 1667 01:31:45,200 --> 01:31:47,040 Speaker 2: Just have to be careful, man. I know that might 1668 01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:48,960 Speaker 2: not have answered your question, but that's what I felt 1669 01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:52,080 Speaker 2: like saying. Those are my closing remarks today. If you 1670 01:31:52,120 --> 01:31:54,200 Speaker 2: didn't get nothing out of a tuney in tomorrow might 1671 01:31:54,280 --> 01:31:57,160 Speaker 2: ask something for you. To talk to God today everybody, 1672 01:31:57,640 --> 01:31:59,479 Speaker 2: he would absolutely love to hear from. 1673 01:32:02,320 --> 01:32:05,800 Speaker 11: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, voidwaar prohibited. 1674 01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:09,320 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1675 01:32:09,479 --> 01:32:13,680 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1676 01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:14,320 Speaker 11: dot com. 1677 01:32:14,680 --> 01:32:17,400 Speaker 1: You're listening shoot Steve Harvey Morning Show,