WEBVTT -  Episode 301: Pregame - Asking Women Out is Hot

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<v Speaker 1>Is asking out a woman in person Dead No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's one pot so hot. Calm Down with Erin

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<v Speaker 1>and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, everybody, welcome to the pregame. We've missed you, We've

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<v Speaker 2>missed you. It's been a strange time, to say the least,

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<v Speaker 2>very very sad time here in Los Angeles. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody knows what's been going on with the fires, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 2>you and I are the lucky ones that we are safe,

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<v Speaker 2>but we know a lot of people that lost everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and you are doing incredible things. I'd love for you

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<v Speaker 2>to talk more about that or if we can get

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<v Speaker 2>on the Big Show, if you want to do it

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<v Speaker 2>about and you stuff set up.

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<v Speaker 1>Too right, Kylie told me through Ruby Ranch Ranch we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing stuff and did some volunteer stuff this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd love to talk about it, so we will do

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<v Speaker 2>that on the Big Show. But we've appreciate your guys's

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<v Speaker 2>messages and emails and all the things that you've sent.

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<v Speaker 2>Just needed to focus on things in our community right

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<v Speaker 2>now and with the people that we care about. But

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<v Speaker 2>we are excited to be back and distract ourselves with

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<v Speaker 2>all things football. I watched my gal, I got. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even want to tell you how many text messages

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<v Speaker 2>I got about you from this weekend in Detroit, from

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<v Speaker 2>how amazing you looked from both got that's my knockoff

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<v Speaker 2>your Florida. Did you do a Jacksonville game on Thursday night?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you do? And it was like a million degrees?

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<v Speaker 2>Or Miami Miami? Because remember I text I sent it

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<v Speaker 2>to you, and I was like, this is Miami in

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<v Speaker 2>August or September A bad idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyways, Detroit in January perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it. I loved it, and so did everyone else.

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<v Speaker 2>You looked amazing. Well, I want to start with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Your game, Oh my god, I know. I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>anyone to lose. I agree, and you know what, I

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<v Speaker 2>guess we should talk about this the Big Show. Sorry

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<v Speaker 2>I forgetting Okay, yeah, okay, that's a good teaser. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a tease. Sorry, we just jump right into these things.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize, Okay, So pregame, join us on the Big

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<v Speaker 2>Show when we talk about Aaron's divisional matchup between the

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<v Speaker 2>Lions and the Commanders and all things all right, all

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<v Speaker 2>the games we got to talk about all the games exactly, Anon, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>fiance's sister don't like the bridesmaid's dress I chose and

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<v Speaker 2>want to pick their own. Help sister don't like the

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<v Speaker 2>bridesmaid dress I chose, and they want to pick their own.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not your wedding, your wedding, I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>but see, you know what she's doing. She's doing what

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<v Speaker 2>we would do, Like we want everyone to be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like if especially since it's the sisters, it's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well then now we're giving up control so other people

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<v Speaker 2>can be happy. And at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>it's our day and you should wear whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if you could talk to your fiance. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what your relationship is with your fiance's sisters,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel like if you talk to your fiance

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<v Speaker 2>and say, hey, look, can we tell the gals to

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<v Speaker 2>it should come from her husband or her fiance. Not funny,

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<v Speaker 2>don't you think? Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, guys, gals of the fiance sisters, lock it up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not your day.

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<v Speaker 1>And the fact that now that gossip even got back

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<v Speaker 1>to the bride, that ain't good because you just put

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<v Speaker 1>shit on her plate. She doesn't need to worry about.

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<v Speaker 1>She needs to worry about getting along with his side

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<v Speaker 1>of the family. No, I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>She's got so.

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<v Speaker 1>Many things to worry about. The fact you don't like

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<v Speaker 1>your dresses. That's annoying. It got to her, So they

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<v Speaker 1>need to be in time out and actually, anonymous, let

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<v Speaker 1>us know how this goes. You stick to your guns

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<v Speaker 1>and you keep talking on yours. You know, that's all

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<v Speaker 1>people are worried about. They don't care what they look like.

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<v Speaker 1>Who gives a crap, That's what I gotta say. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>tired of these attitudes.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, well done.

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<v Speaker 1>Kitty cat mew, kitty cap corner m h okay, okay, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I was okay, Cheryl, Cheryl Bees, Cheryl Buys, Cheryl Bees.

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<v Speaker 1>Both of our kids recently got engaged. Any input on

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<v Speaker 1>how to be a good mother in law?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, look at this on the other side of things.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you've already achieved that because you are asking

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<v Speaker 1>and you seem concerned and adorable. I don't know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a sweet little gift or note to kind of what's

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<v Speaker 1>the word I'm looking for to celebrate.

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<v Speaker 2>The moment, Yeah, yeah, yeah, to welcome them in to

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<v Speaker 2>your family. I think that's a really good idea, be

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<v Speaker 2>like welcome to a family.

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<v Speaker 1>I got engaged right before Christmas, kind of ish early December,

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom for Christmas got us both like engaged ornaments,

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<v Speaker 1>which at the time is like, oh, that's so cute,

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<v Speaker 1>But every year when we open it up to decorate

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<v Speaker 1>the tree, we're like, oh, so cute, Mom, that's really sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that a little gift to welcome them to

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<v Speaker 2>the family. And then I also think just not being

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<v Speaker 2>too pushy either, Like I think that that's I've definitely had,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, sence a bed of you. Don't be too

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<v Speaker 2>pushy when it comes to being the mother in law,

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's a big turn off. Like let the person

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<v Speaker 2>come to you, like the you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't know if it's the girl I guess

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine or either way, Yeah, just be cool, sit

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<v Speaker 2>on the sideline and know that that's like you're ushering

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<v Speaker 2>in like a new family member and like your son

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<v Speaker 2>or your daughter. I think it's harder too, Like if

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<v Speaker 2>Mac ends up marrying someone you don't like, can you

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<v Speaker 2>imagine it? Well, no, I do try to. I did

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<v Speaker 2>a fitting today. I was shooting something.

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<v Speaker 1>Why I have these this much makeup on, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also was doing a fitting maybe for New Orleans, and

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<v Speaker 1>everything I was thinking of is like, Okay, you and

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<v Speaker 1>I are going to dinner. Okay, you and I are

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<v Speaker 1>doing this. You and I are doing this. And my girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>she's so great, who dresses me? She was like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you see yourself wearing this? I go or to Max's

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<v Speaker 1>wedding and she goes, oh my god, stop it was

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<v Speaker 1>a little a little one bride or mother of the groom.

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<v Speaker 2>Laura m uh Laura McClung, how about that shirting forties soon?

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<v Speaker 2>What's the best thing about being in your fabulous forties, Laura,

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<v Speaker 2>let me tell you. I think it's just acceptance of self.

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<v Speaker 2>It's you know, you are not trying as hard to

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know to. You're hopefully established in your career,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you aren't, maybe you're even changing careers because

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<v Speaker 2>you're deciding that that career that you had you don't like.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's just a real sense of self in

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<v Speaker 2>your forties that you're comfortable in who you are, You're

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable and where you're at in your life, and just

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<v Speaker 2>it's a little bit of a like Oucket attitude, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like you've weed it out, hopefully you've weeded out the

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<v Speaker 2>people that don't matter in your life and you can

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<v Speaker 2>focus all your energy on like the core group that

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<v Speaker 2>you've built at this point in your life. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it just comes with forties, comes with freedom, in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, I agree, Okay Mac Morgan thirty eight is

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<v Speaker 1>asking out a woman in person dead No, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's one pot so hot. Yes, where are you going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it? I just love that, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like to come up to like walk up to you, approach.

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<v Speaker 1>We've talked about this before.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the move of like you're at the bar,

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<v Speaker 2>you have the bartender send the drink over and say

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<v Speaker 2>this is from so and so down the way. You

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<v Speaker 2>can wave and then you can go over and talk

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<v Speaker 2>to the person. Or if you're not interested and you

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<v Speaker 2>just wave and say thank you so much and then

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<v Speaker 2>you leave. But don't put pressure on that person, like

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<v Speaker 2>you're come right up to them and you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like to take you out for a date. I

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<v Speaker 2>guarantee you've had that happen before, Like if you're not

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<v Speaker 2>wearing a wedding ring or something, when someone's like Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd like to take you out. I'm like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think my boyfriend would like that very much. Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's what you have to say. Yeah, I don't feel

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<v Speaker 2>like anyone's ever done that time. Oh, knock it off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'mkay saying cree being married. Like when someone came up

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<v Speaker 2>and you weren't interested.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't like shows those people like that you're not

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<v Speaker 1>interested in that do that. It's like the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>you're sitting there having the drink and it's be like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna ask me out?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna ask?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you want them to. I just think that it's

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<v Speaker 2>it shows. I would never shoot someone down, like in

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<v Speaker 2>front of their face. I think it takes a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of courage to do that. But I also think don't

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<v Speaker 2>put the pressure on the person to have to say

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<v Speaker 2>yes to it right there, Like just give send the

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<v Speaker 2>little note over or drink over. I told you about

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<v Speaker 2>the homecoming, ask right or the promise?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel so bad. And then my dog was

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<v Speaker 1>eating chicken, my chicken wings in the back. Yeah, beatings tough.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom is freaking out, shut Brock's eyed down, her hair,

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<v Speaker 1>her throat.

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<v Speaker 2>So many things are good. Shit, I don't think we've

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<v Speaker 2>had those on the West Coast. Okay, Anna, oh I

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<v Speaker 2>already did it? Go ahead, No Anna to Cony. Just

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<v Speaker 2>moved and looking to upgrade my furniture. Where do y'all

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<v Speaker 2>show you go? All right, Anna, here's the deal. The

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<v Speaker 2>goate on a budge or not on a budge, exactly

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<v Speaker 2>on a budget, not on a budget. The go to

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<v Speaker 2>on a budget is always living spaces. You can get

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<v Speaker 2>good deals like an Ashley furniture. I mean those are

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<v Speaker 2>like budget budget, but like good staples. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>would say if your mid range price points you're looking

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<v Speaker 2>for like a CBE two or a Creighton barrel, a

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<v Speaker 2>west Elm is always good. And then the higher end

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<v Speaker 2>stunt stuff is more of like four Hands that's basically

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<v Speaker 2>half of your place in the mountains. Oh it's called

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<v Speaker 2>four Hands. Yeah, it's they have a bunch of different vendors. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to relax. Daisy is having an anxiety attack

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<v Speaker 2>because my dad my parents are visiting, and she loves

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<v Speaker 2>my dad and she can't see him right now, so

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<v Speaker 2>she's losing a shit. So yeah, so I would do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I would start living spaces. If you're on a budget,

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<v Speaker 2>CB two Creighton barrel mid range and then four hands

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<v Speaker 2>for the or Coco Republic HD Buttercupp. Also my favorites

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<v Speaker 2>is Ethan Allen still a thing not for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't know if I I remember like growing

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<v Speaker 1>up by an Ethan Allen and being like that's so rich.

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<v Speaker 2>Z Gallery was the one for me. If it was

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<v Speaker 2>like if you shopped at Z Gallery.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, mm hmmm, I love that. Okay, pee gips

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<v Speaker 1>dot on, no clue if you're trying to get me

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<v Speaker 1>to say something pea gips dot on. When someone is

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<v Speaker 1>when someone is talking your ear off, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>politely exit the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I usually just leave.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can't focus, and then Carissa or Jarrett will

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<v Speaker 1>get annoyed with me and be like, Okay, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>be nice, be nice?

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<v Speaker 2>I uh. I had this happened to me, Oh my god, Daisy,

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<v Speaker 2>cutie cute. I had this happened to me a Thursday

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<v Speaker 2>night game, which this is the worst. Okay, when someone's

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<v Speaker 2>talking and it's it's like you're I here's the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a talker, so I really emphathize with people because Daisy, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is crazy. Sit down for here and you have

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<v Speaker 2>a treat stop. I am a talker, so I really

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<v Speaker 2>do emphathize with people that talk. But like you got

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<v Speaker 2>to try to like look for that out in the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>And I couldn't get the out in the conversation. And

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<v Speaker 2>I see my boys over here out of my periphery

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<v Speaker 2>and they're all looking at me, and they know that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trapped by this person because this person has a

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<v Speaker 2>reputation of traffic and I am literally giving the middle

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<v Speaker 2>finger off to the side and they see it, and

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<v Speaker 2>now one of them uses that as a caller. I

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<v Speaker 2>d But I'm telling you right now if you need

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<v Speaker 2>to get out and be like I'm so sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just going to go run and grab a drink at

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<v Speaker 2>the bar. Do you want anything? And then you come

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<v Speaker 2>back with multiple drinks, set one down to deliver, and

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<v Speaker 2>then you go and then you're like, oh, I got

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<v Speaker 2>to deliver these, and so it's like you're not being rude,

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<v Speaker 2>You're still offering a drink or a beverage, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>like you've got to You've got to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and last but not least, okay, Oh is this

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<v Speaker 1>you or me?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's going?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Me?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's you, okay, prop tour as women. Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever felt an adequate or out of place in

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<v Speaker 2>a male dominated industry? How did you navigate those challenges?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a corporate gals striving to make partner, but working

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<v Speaker 2>in a leadership team that's mostly men often feels like

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<v Speaker 2>breaking into a boys club. Any advice on how to

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<v Speaker 2>bridge that gap or make my mark? Well, first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>good for you, you badass in a corporate atmosphere, erin

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<v Speaker 2>you're good at giving advice on this. I'll piggyback off

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<v Speaker 2>what you say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I feel inadequate all the time, but then

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<v Speaker 1>there's also times I know I belong and I know

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<v Speaker 1>Carrisa belongs. I just we've also been doing this for

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<v Speaker 1>twenty something years. And if you just said you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking to make your corporate gals striving to make partner,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure that how long that means you've been

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<v Speaker 1>in it. Yes, I have my good days and I

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<v Speaker 1>have my bad days, but I also know how hard

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<v Speaker 1>I work. I also know how important I am to

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<v Speaker 1>the broadcast. I think there's different things that I struggle with, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll be honest as a sideline reporter. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>get it in a lot, you just don't have It

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<v Speaker 1>was my first game the other day. I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>in at all in game. And there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>shit that goes on during the game. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>like that. You know, they're worried about what the booth

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<v Speaker 1>is saying. We had so much crazy shit happening in

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<v Speaker 1>our Lions game. Jared Goff gets hurt. Da dah da

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<v Speaker 1>dah There's a lot happening. But I also know if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not providing stuff on camera or on the mic,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm giving them shots. Hey, the secondary is going through this. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I'm seeing out of the offensive line.

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<v Speaker 1>Pinay Shool just got bent over backwards like things like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt I'm not gonna lie. I felt really down

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<v Speaker 1>about myself after the game on Sunday because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't offer anything on camera or like on the microphone.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had a good conversation with my producer. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know how much you gave us with this? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm also really hard on myself, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that is a lot to do with working in a

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<v Speaker 1>male dominated industry.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you agree with that I was just gonna say,

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of that is because you're compared.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, oh, but I'm not doing as much as

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<v Speaker 2>this person or this person. I don't even think. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't even think that's a male thing, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 2>I do that that's just no, because like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I think in general, you and I are not competitive

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<v Speaker 2>at all in our jobs. If anything were more like

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<v Speaker 2>you take it or what you're doing is you want

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<v Speaker 2>to Yeah, exactly. But I still think that there's always

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<v Speaker 2>that part of if you really love your job, you

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<v Speaker 2>want to be the best, You want to be the

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the top of that position. So in this

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<v Speaker 2>particular case, I would just say that to Aaron's point,

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<v Speaker 2>know that you belong, but also I think it's okay

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<v Speaker 2>to still continue to have humility if you're at the

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<v Speaker 2>top of that manner, because the minute that you think

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<v Speaker 2>that you've arrived, like you're out. And so I think,

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<v Speaker 2>like Aaron and I talk about it a lot in

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast, be curious, be humble, but also have that

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<v Speaker 2>confidence to be like, you got here for a reason.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would just say, lean into your position, be confident,

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<v Speaker 2>but then also be curious and keep asking questions and

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully that helps you. But yeah, just remember that you're

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<v Speaker 2>a bad as and you belong there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, holding your head up high with a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>men in the room is the sexiest and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like one of the best accessories you can.

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<v Speaker 2>Have because good, Yeah, I just I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do now I Sometimes it's hard to walk

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<v Speaker 1>that walk, but put something good to remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Shoulders back, tomphy Brace, Shoulders back, tomphy Brace. We got

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<v Speaker 2>a lot to talk about on the Big Show. The

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<v Speaker 2>playoffs are here, baby, and we've got an NFC Championship

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<v Speaker 2>game around the corner that will be on Fox, AFC

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<v Speaker 2>Championship on CBS. We will break down all that in

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<v Speaker 2>a whole lot more. Also ways to continue to help

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<v Speaker 2>for those of you that want to participate in all

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<v Speaker 2>of the devastation here in California. Okay, love you bye.

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