1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Is asking out a woman in person Dead No, I 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:09,239 Speaker 1: think that's one pot so hot. Calm Down with Erin 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 4 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 2: Hi, everybody, welcome to the pregame. We've missed you, We've 5 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 2: missed you. It's been a strange time, to say the least, 6 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 2: very very sad time here in Los Angeles. Of course, 7 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 2: everybody knows what's been going on with the fires, Aaron, 8 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: you and I are the lucky ones that we are safe, 9 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: but we know a lot of people that lost everything, 10 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: and you are doing incredible things. I'd love for you 11 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 2: to talk more about that or if we can get 12 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: on the Big Show, if you want to do it 13 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 2: about and you stuff set up. 14 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: Too right, Kylie told me through Ruby Ranch Ranch we're 15 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: doing stuff and did some volunteer stuff this weekend. 16 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 2: I'd love to talk about it, so we will do 17 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: that on the Big Show. But we've appreciate your guys's 18 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: messages and emails and all the things that you've sent. 19 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 2: Just needed to focus on things in our community right 20 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: now and with the people that we care about. But 21 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 2: we are excited to be back and distract ourselves with 22 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 2: all things football. I watched my gal, I got. I 23 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 2: don't even want to tell you how many text messages 24 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 2: I got about you from this weekend in Detroit, from 25 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: how amazing you looked from both got that's my knockoff 26 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 2: your Florida. Did you do a Jacksonville game on Thursday night? 27 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: Did you do? And it was like a million degrees? 28 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: Or Miami Miami? Because remember I text I sent it 29 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: to you, and I was like, this is Miami in 30 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: August or September A bad idea. 31 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: Anyways, Detroit in January perfect. 32 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 2: I loved it. I loved it, and so did everyone else. 33 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: You looked amazing. Well, I want to start with that. 34 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 2: Your game, Oh my god, I know. I don't want 35 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: anyone to lose. I agree, and you know what, I 36 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: guess we should talk about this the Big Show. Sorry 37 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: I forgetting Okay, yeah, okay, that's a good teaser. Okay, 38 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 2: that's a tease. Sorry, we just jump right into these things. 39 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 2: I apologize, Okay, So pregame, join us on the Big 40 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 2: Show when we talk about Aaron's divisional matchup between the 41 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: Lions and the Commanders and all things all right, all 42 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: the games we got to talk about all the games exactly, Anon, Okay, 43 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: fiance's sister don't like the bridesmaid's dress I chose and 44 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: want to pick their own. Help sister don't like the 45 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: bridesmaid dress I chose, and they want to pick their own. 46 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: It's not your wedding, your wedding, I know, I know, 47 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 2: but see, you know what she's doing. She's doing what 48 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: we would do, Like we want everyone to be happy. 49 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: So it's like if especially since it's the sisters, it's like, okay, 50 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: well then now we're giving up control so other people 51 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 2: can be happy. And at the end of the day, 52 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: it's our day and you should wear whatever you want. 53 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: I wonder if you could talk to your fiance. I 54 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 2: don't know what your relationship is with your fiance's sisters, 55 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: but I feel like if you talk to your fiance 56 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 2: and say, hey, look, can we tell the gals to 57 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: it should come from her husband or her fiance. Not funny, 58 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: don't you think? Yeah, I don't know. 59 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: Honestly, guys, gals of the fiance sisters, lock it up. 60 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: It's not your day. 61 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: And the fact that now that gossip even got back 62 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: to the bride, that ain't good because you just put 63 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: shit on her plate. She doesn't need to worry about. 64 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: She needs to worry about getting along with his side 65 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 1: of the family. No, I'm kidding. 66 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: She's got so. 67 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: Many things to worry about. The fact you don't like 68 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: your dresses. That's annoying. It got to her, So they 69 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: need to be in time out and actually, anonymous, let 70 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: us know how this goes. You stick to your guns 71 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: and you keep talking on yours. You know, that's all 72 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: people are worried about. They don't care what they look like. 73 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: Who gives a crap, That's what I gotta say. I'm 74 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: tired of these attitudes. 75 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 2: You know, well done. 76 00:03:54,360 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: Kitty cat mew, kitty cap corner m h okay, okay, sorry, 77 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: I was okay, Cheryl, Cheryl Bees, Cheryl Buys, Cheryl Bees. 78 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: Both of our kids recently got engaged. Any input on 79 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: how to be a good mother in law? 80 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 2: Oh, look at this on the other side of things. 81 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: That's so sweet. 82 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: I think you've already achieved that because you are asking 83 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: and you seem concerned and adorable. I don't know, maybe 84 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: a sweet little gift or note to kind of what's 85 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: the word I'm looking for to celebrate. 86 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: The moment, Yeah, yeah, yeah, to welcome them in to 87 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 2: your family. I think that's a really good idea, be 88 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: like welcome to a family. 89 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: I got engaged right before Christmas, kind of ish early December, 90 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: and my mom for Christmas got us both like engaged ornaments, 91 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: which at the time is like, oh, that's so cute, 92 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: But every year when we open it up to decorate 93 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: the tree, we're like, oh, so cute, Mom, that's really sweet. 94 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 2: I like that a little gift to welcome them to 95 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: the family. And then I also think just not being 96 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 2: too pushy either, Like I think that that's I've definitely had, 97 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 2: you know, sence a bed of you. Don't be too 98 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 2: pushy when it comes to being the mother in law, 99 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 2: Like that's a big turn off. Like let the person 100 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 2: come to you, like the you know what I mean, 101 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: Like I don't know if it's the girl I guess 102 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 2: I imagine or either way, Yeah, just be cool, sit 103 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: on the sideline and know that that's like you're ushering 104 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 2: in like a new family member and like your son 105 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 2: or your daughter. I think it's harder too, Like if 106 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: Mac ends up marrying someone you don't like, can you 107 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 2: imagine it? Well, no, I do try to. I did 108 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 2: a fitting today. I was shooting something. 109 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: Why I have these this much makeup on, but I 110 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: also was doing a fitting maybe for New Orleans, and 111 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 1: everything I was thinking of is like, Okay, you and 112 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: I are going to dinner. Okay, you and I are 113 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: doing this. You and I are doing this. And my girlfriend, 114 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: she's so great, who dresses me? She was like, do 115 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: you see yourself wearing this? I go or to Max's 116 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: wedding and she goes, oh my god, stop it was 117 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: a little a little one bride or mother of the groom. 118 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 2: Laura m uh Laura McClung, how about that shirting forties soon? 119 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 2: What's the best thing about being in your fabulous forties, Laura, 120 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: let me tell you. I think it's just acceptance of self. 121 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: It's you know, you are not trying as hard to 122 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 2: I don't know to. You're hopefully established in your career, 123 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 2: and if you aren't, maybe you're even changing careers because 124 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 2: you're deciding that that career that you had you don't like. 125 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 2: I think there's just a real sense of self in 126 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: your forties that you're comfortable in who you are, You're 127 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 2: comfortable and where you're at in your life, and just 128 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: it's a little bit of a like Oucket attitude, you know, 129 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 2: like you've weed it out, hopefully you've weeded out the 130 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 2: people that don't matter in your life and you can 131 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: focus all your energy on like the core group that 132 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: you've built at this point in your life. I think 133 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: it just comes with forties, comes with freedom, in my opinion. 134 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, Okay Mac Morgan thirty eight is 135 00:06:55,680 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: asking out a woman in person dead No, I think 136 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 1: that's one pot so hot. Yes, where are you going 137 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: to do it? I just love that, Like I don't 138 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: like to come up to like walk up to you, approach. 139 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. 140 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 2: I think the move of like you're at the bar, 141 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: you have the bartender send the drink over and say 142 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: this is from so and so down the way. You 143 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 2: can wave and then you can go over and talk 144 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 2: to the person. Or if you're not interested and you 145 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: just wave and say thank you so much and then 146 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: you leave. But don't put pressure on that person, like 147 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: you're come right up to them and you're like, hey, 148 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 2: I'd like to take you out for a date. I 149 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 2: guarantee you've had that happen before, Like if you're not 150 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 2: wearing a wedding ring or something, when someone's like Hey, 151 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: I'd like to take you out. I'm like, oh, I 152 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 2: don't think my boyfriend would like that very much. Like 153 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 2: that's what you have to say. Yeah, I don't feel 154 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: like anyone's ever done that time. Oh, knock it off. 155 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 2: I'mkay saying cree being married. Like when someone came up 156 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 2: and you weren't interested. 157 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: You don't like shows those people like that you're not 158 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: interested in that do that. It's like the ones that 159 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: you're sitting there having the drink and it's be like, 160 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: are you gonna ask me out? 161 00:07:58,760 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 2: Are you gonna ask? 162 00:07:59,520 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 163 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you want them to. I just think that it's 164 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: it shows. I would never shoot someone down, like in 165 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: front of their face. I think it takes a lot 166 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 2: of courage to do that. But I also think don't 167 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: put the pressure on the person to have to say 168 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 2: yes to it right there, Like just give send the 169 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: little note over or drink over. I told you about 170 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: the homecoming, ask right or the promise? 171 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel so bad. And then my dog was 172 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: eating chicken, my chicken wings in the back. Yeah, beatings tough. 173 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: My mom is freaking out, shut Brock's eyed down, her hair, 174 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: her throat. 175 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 2: So many things are good. Shit, I don't think we've 176 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 2: had those on the West Coast. Okay, Anna, oh I 177 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: already did it? Go ahead, No Anna to Cony. Just 178 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 2: moved and looking to upgrade my furniture. Where do y'all 179 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 2: show you go? All right, Anna, here's the deal. The 180 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: goate on a budge or not on a budge, exactly 181 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: on a budget, not on a budget. The go to 182 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: on a budget is always living spaces. You can get 183 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: good deals like an Ashley furniture. I mean those are 184 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: like budget budget, but like good staples. And then I 185 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 2: would say if your mid range price points you're looking 186 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: for like a CBE two or a Creighton barrel, a 187 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: west Elm is always good. And then the higher end 188 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: stunt stuff is more of like four Hands that's basically 189 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 2: half of your place in the mountains. Oh it's called 190 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 2: four Hands. Yeah, it's they have a bunch of different vendors. Okay, 191 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 2: you need to relax. Daisy is having an anxiety attack 192 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 2: because my dad my parents are visiting, and she loves 193 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: my dad and she can't see him right now, so 194 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 2: she's losing a shit. So yeah, so I would do that. 195 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 2: I would start living spaces. If you're on a budget, 196 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 2: CB two Creighton barrel mid range and then four hands 197 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 2: for the or Coco Republic HD Buttercupp. Also my favorites 198 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 2: is Ethan Allen still a thing not for me. 199 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: I just didn't know if I I remember like growing 200 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: up by an Ethan Allen and being like that's so rich. 201 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 2: Z Gallery was the one for me. If it was 202 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: like if you shopped at Z Gallery. 203 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:14,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, mm hmmm, I love that. Okay, pee gips 204 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: dot on, no clue if you're trying to get me 205 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: to say something pea gips dot on. When someone is 206 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: when someone is talking your ear off, how do you 207 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 1: politely exit the conversation. 208 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 2: I usually just leave. 209 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't focus, and then Carissa or Jarrett will 210 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: get annoyed with me and be like, Okay, you can't 211 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: be nice, be nice? 212 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 2: I uh. I had this happened to me, Oh my god, Daisy, 213 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 2: cutie cute. I had this happened to me a Thursday 214 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 2: night game, which this is the worst. Okay, when someone's 215 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 2: talking and it's it's like you're I here's the problem. 216 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 2: I'm a talker, so I really emphathize with people because Daisy, Okay, 217 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 2: this is crazy. Sit down for here and you have 218 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 2: a treat stop. I am a talker, so I really 219 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 2: do emphathize with people that talk. But like you got 220 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: to try to like look for that out in the conversation. 221 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 2: And I couldn't get the out in the conversation. And 222 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: I see my boys over here out of my periphery 223 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 2: and they're all looking at me, and they know that 224 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 2: I'm trapped by this person because this person has a 225 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 2: reputation of traffic and I am literally giving the middle 226 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: finger off to the side and they see it, and 227 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:32,559 Speaker 2: now one of them uses that as a caller. I 228 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 2: d But I'm telling you right now if you need 229 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: to get out and be like I'm so sorry, I'm 230 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 2: just going to go run and grab a drink at 231 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 2: the bar. Do you want anything? And then you come 232 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 2: back with multiple drinks, set one down to deliver, and 233 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 2: then you go and then you're like, oh, I got 234 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 2: to deliver these, and so it's like you're not being rude, 235 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 2: You're still offering a drink or a beverage, but it's 236 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: like you've got to You've got to go. 237 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and last but not least, okay, Oh is this 238 00:11:58,720 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: you or me? 239 00:11:59,280 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 2: Who's going? 240 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: Oh? Me? 241 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: You know, it's you, okay, prop tour as women. Have 242 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 2: you ever felt an adequate or out of place in 243 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: a male dominated industry? How did you navigate those challenges? 244 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 2: I'm a corporate gals striving to make partner, but working 245 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 2: in a leadership team that's mostly men often feels like 246 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 2: breaking into a boys club. Any advice on how to 247 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 2: bridge that gap or make my mark? Well, first of all, 248 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 2: good for you, you badass in a corporate atmosphere, erin 249 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 2: you're good at giving advice on this. I'll piggyback off 250 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: what you say. 251 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: I'm not. I feel inadequate all the time, but then 252 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: there's also times I know I belong and I know 253 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: Carrisa belongs. I just we've also been doing this for 254 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: twenty something years. And if you just said you know 255 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 1: you're looking to make your corporate gals striving to make partner, 256 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: I'm not sure that how long that means you've been 257 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 1: in it. Yes, I have my good days and I 258 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: have my bad days, but I also know how hard 259 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: I work. I also know how important I am to 260 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: the broadcast. I think there's different things that I struggle with, right, 261 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 1: So I'll be honest as a sideline reporter. You don't 262 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 1: get it in a lot, you just don't have It 263 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: was my first game the other day. I didn't get 264 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: in at all in game. And there's a lot of 265 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: shit that goes on during the game. There's a lot 266 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 1: like that. You know, they're worried about what the booth 267 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: is saying. We had so much crazy shit happening in 268 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: our Lions game. Jared Goff gets hurt. Da dah da 269 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: dah There's a lot happening. But I also know if 270 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: I'm not providing stuff on camera or on the mic, 271 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm giving them shots. Hey, the secondary is going through this. Hey, 272 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 1: this is what I'm seeing out of the offensive line. 273 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: Pinay Shool just got bent over backwards like things like that. Yeah, 274 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 1: I felt I'm not gonna lie. I felt really down 275 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: about myself after the game on Sunday because I was like, 276 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: I didn't offer anything on camera or like on the microphone. 277 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: And I had a good conversation with my producer. He's like, 278 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: do you know how much you gave us with this? Like, 279 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 1: but I'm also really hard on myself, and I think 280 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: that is a lot to do with working in a 281 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: male dominated industry. 282 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: Do you agree with that I was just gonna say, 283 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 2: I think a lot of that is because you're compared. 284 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 2: You're like, oh, but I'm not doing as much as 285 00:13:58,320 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: this person or this person. I don't even think. I 286 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 2: don't even think that's a male thing, to be honest, 287 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 2: I do that that's just no, because like I don't. 288 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 2: I think in general, you and I are not competitive 289 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 2: at all in our jobs. If anything were more like 290 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 2: you take it or what you're doing is you want 291 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 2: to Yeah, exactly. But I still think that there's always 292 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: that part of if you really love your job, you 293 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: want to be the best, You want to be the 294 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: you know, the top of that position. So in this 295 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 2: particular case, I would just say that to Aaron's point, 296 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: know that you belong, but also I think it's okay 297 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: to still continue to have humility if you're at the 298 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 2: top of that manner, because the minute that you think 299 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: that you've arrived, like you're out. And so I think, 300 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 2: like Aaron and I talk about it a lot in 301 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 2: this podcast, be curious, be humble, but also have that 302 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 2: confidence to be like, you got here for a reason. 303 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 2: So I would just say, lean into your position, be confident, 304 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 2: but then also be curious and keep asking questions and 305 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 2: hopefully that helps you. But yeah, just remember that you're 306 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 2: a bad as and you belong there. 307 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, holding your head up high with a bunch of 308 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: men in the room is the sexiest and I feel 309 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: like one of the best accessories you can. 310 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 2: Have because good, Yeah, I just I do. 311 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do now I Sometimes it's hard to walk 312 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: that walk, but put something good to remember. 313 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 2: Shoulders back, tomphy Brace, Shoulders back, tomphy Brace. We got 314 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 2: a lot to talk about on the Big Show. The 315 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 2: playoffs are here, baby, and we've got an NFC Championship 316 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: game around the corner that will be on Fox, AFC 317 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 2: Championship on CBS. We will break down all that in 318 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 2: a whole lot more. Also ways to continue to help 319 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 2: for those of you that want to participate in all 320 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 2: of the devastation here in California. Okay, love you bye. 321 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 322 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 2: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 323 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts.