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Speaker 2: Hi, Janay, this is Caitlin. I just want to start

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Speaker 1: So our final question comes from Karen.

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Speaker 3: Hi tikis, how are you hope you're doing amazing? I'm

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Speaker 3: not sure you remember it. About a couple months back,

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Speaker 3: so excited and happy about it when I got that idea.

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Speaker 3: So I really want to open up a beauty bar.

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Speaker 3: I really want to go to a Statician school, get

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Speaker 3: unclear of how I'm going to get there. So do

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Speaker 3: you have any tips on how to start. I know

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Speaker 3: I definitely want to go back to school, but just

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Speaker 3: I would appreciate it. You're such a badass business woman

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Speaker 3: that I know you would know the right path. So

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Speaker 3: it just helped me and I I love you so.

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Speaker 1: Much, caring, You're so cute. Thank you, Thank you for

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Speaker 1: that kiss. My soul needed it.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 1: Thank you again for coming back on Dear Cheeky's. I

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Speaker 1: love hearing from you guys again. So this makes me excited. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So the good thing is you have a job, full

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Speaker 1: time job that's amazing, okay, and then you have this

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Speaker 1: epiphany or you have this epiphany and this idea, which

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Speaker 1: is wonderful. I love all things beauty apps so freaking lutely,

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Speaker 1: I would highly suggest obviously, you have a job, so

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Speaker 1: do that first and foremost.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Then you can also look into financing. Okay, you can

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Speaker 1: good credit. You guys, credit is huge in this world.

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Speaker 1: I tell you guys all the time. So hopefully you

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Speaker 1: have good credit and you can get financed. Also, they're

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Speaker 1: different cosmetology schools that provide that option as well, so

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Speaker 1: just really looking into it. Google this information. I don't

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Speaker 1: sure you're saving money. Okay. Even me, I tell myself

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm excited for you. That's amazing though.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I've always wanted a beauty bar you guys.

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Speaker 1: That's the end of this episode, and I just want

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Speaker 1: from you guys, so keep them coming. Caitlin, Jasmine, Anna

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Speaker 1: and Karen. I appreciate you all for leaving me your questions.

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