Speaker 1: Wash up, and welcome back to another episode of No
Speaker 1: Sealer's Podcast with your hosts now fuck that with your
Speaker 1: load glasses Malone? Yeah what you what are you all? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I can't tell you just be talking mess.
Speaker 1: That's a lie you so obviously your phone said, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: so what are you? Oh yeah about shucking information with us?
Speaker 3: Man? Oh yeah, yeah, that was exactly.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's why I got that. That's when that
Speaker 2: deposit hit. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you still get goosebumps when the deposit hit.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, because I'm still trying to make this money.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: Everybody ain't like you g you go, you're.
Speaker 1: Hustling, so your mind. I'm not hustling.
Speaker 2: No, I know you are, but I'm just saying, like
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get like you so excited.
Speaker 3: Thinkers like oh I was like all right, you know
Speaker 3: that's not just like that was just like unexpected, That's
Speaker 3: what it was.
Speaker 2: You get that, Yeah, here you go.
Speaker 1: You'd be like, oh, somebody old just money, they paid
Speaker 1: it back?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Nice? Right, And you know it's it's cool when
Speaker 2: you like want somebody some money and you ain't really
Speaker 2: tripping about it because you had it. So when it
Speaker 2: just comes back. You're like, oh, ship cool.
Speaker 3: Because you didn't really expect it, or no, he was
Speaker 3: gonna get it exactly. Yeah, so you're not you know
Speaker 3: when they hit it's like, oh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's still my stuff.
Speaker 1: It's crazy. It's such a good segue to what I
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about, the money. No, So did you
Speaker 1: see the ig I sent you.
Speaker 3: The homeless mom?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Did you look at it?
Speaker 2: Brit Yes? I did.
Speaker 1: What did you think.
Speaker 2: I didn't? Okay? So she was pretty much I didn't
Speaker 2: get it, Like, what don't you get me? She was
Speaker 2: documenting it was the.
Speaker 3: Only thing I didn't get was the first video what
Speaker 3: with the kid? The son? The son? The kid?
Speaker 2: Was that the reason she was homeless?
Speaker 3: Right? That's why I was So the kid cussed her
Speaker 3: out and the daddy didn't do nothing about it, and
Speaker 3: then she ended up being homeless but his baby, and
Speaker 3: then she went back and got pregnant by him again.
Speaker 1: No, so what happened was so okay. So the person's
Speaker 1: IG is I think it's pronounced the nay girl d
Speaker 1: A h n A y g y a l L.
Speaker 1: And so her story is she was with a guy,
Speaker 1: they broke up, they had she had a baby on
Speaker 1: her own. They broke up, she got back with the dude,
Speaker 1: and so the son fucked her up, like did some
Speaker 1: to her to hurt her. And then after that the
Speaker 1: baby daddy punched on her put her in the hospital
Speaker 1: and she was in the hospital for two days.
Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't see that part.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I sent it to you, so you have to
Speaker 1: take time to go through it.
Speaker 3: It was a lot.
Speaker 1: It was a lot, right, but yes, it's right there, right.
Speaker 2: I didn't see the kid and everything, and I seen
Speaker 2: that she said that they didn't do anything, that they
Speaker 2: didn't say nothing, and he said he didn't care and
Speaker 2: he stumped out didn't call her like a bitch or
Speaker 2: something or something or I.
Speaker 1: Don't The post is called the one specifically, it's called
Speaker 1: life It's Crazy, and it says I was a single mom,
Speaker 1: got back with my baby daddy. Now now I'm a
Speaker 1: pregnant single mom and left do to a DV situation
Speaker 1: which had me in the hospital for two days. Currently
Speaker 1: homeless because I couldn't deal with it, right, Okay, So
Speaker 1: that is her post after day two of being It's
Speaker 1: between day two of being homeless and day three of
Speaker 1: being homeless. Being a homeless mom, homeless and the funny part,
Speaker 1: like checking the whole shit out that blew my mind.
Speaker 1: And she was like, I'm a stay at home homeless mom.
Speaker 2: I just thought it okay, so now I get it
Speaker 2: because I was like, okay, are we discussing the fact
Speaker 2: that she's documenting this, and like.
Speaker 1: It was a few it was a few things we
Speaker 1: should discuss. But it was just crazy to see. It
Speaker 1: was like, I'm ana stay at homes?
Speaker 3: Well, no, because it what it sounds like or what
Speaker 3: I think. She she went to a shelter. So I
Speaker 3: went through this situation. Oh I did. I went to
Speaker 3: an emergency shelter. I was there thirty days. And then
Speaker 3: I went to a home, a domestic violence home, and
Speaker 3: you know, you we couldn't know the address and stuff,
Speaker 3: but it was moms and with their children and we
Speaker 3: would share different rooms. It was like a really like
Speaker 3: big house or whatnot. So you can leave like on
Speaker 3: the weekends. After you've been there, you can't have contact
Speaker 3: with someone for like her people for like seventy two hours.
Speaker 3: Then you get to leave on the weekends and things
Speaker 3: like that. And some people they do have jobs, but
Speaker 3: when you're in that emergency shelter part or whatnot. You
Speaker 3: can't go to work, which they'll you know, send a
Speaker 3: note or whatnot. So maybe she means as far as
Speaker 3: because she's in that home that situation, there are people
Speaker 3: that do have jobs. But she's just like, I know,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna stay at home.
Speaker 1: My kids come first. I'm a mom, frad But it
Speaker 1: was just funny that those two words like stay at
Speaker 1: home homeless mom.
Speaker 2: I was like, she don't have a home, well, but
Speaker 2: she doesn't have a Like it's like a choice that
Speaker 2: you're staying home and you're home, but you can go
Speaker 2: get a job.
Speaker 1: No, but I think so she had and people were
Speaker 1: saying that in the comments, That's what I thought. They
Speaker 1: were like, oh, you know what, like why do you
Speaker 1: still have a phone, Like so if she sold her
Speaker 1: phone that she can't get a place.
Speaker 3: You can't get a place.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she could get a room for a night with
Speaker 1: you know, but she's a content creator, Like she's taking
Speaker 1: on the professional field of being a content creator. That's
Speaker 1: her job, right, that's her career.
Speaker 3: She accepting fifty dollars posts now she's making she's making
Speaker 3: some money, some money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's crazy.
Speaker 3: She said she had like a thousand or was it
Speaker 3: a million views or something like in a few weeks.
Speaker 1: Right, Like one of her posts is when the food
Speaker 1: stamps hit, right, and it's like one million views.
Speaker 2: Ay, that'd be real. When the food stamps hit and
Speaker 2: you ain't got no money, yeah, buddy, And that's another
Speaker 2: one you go dollar.
Speaker 3: I you know, I felt to her when she says
Speaker 3: she was her daughter was hungry and so she was
Speaker 3: trying to give her chips and stuff like that. She
Speaker 3: really had no money because I remember not even having like,
Speaker 3: you know, a Jack in the box chicken sandwiches. Them
Speaker 3: was Life Savers, the little nine nine cent chicken sandwich,
Speaker 3: the little two dollars tacos or whatever. So you know,
Speaker 3: I felt that somebody had like gave her some food
Speaker 3: and then people were like sending money and stuff like that.
Speaker 3: But this is the time where I mean, for me,
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, that's cool. She not just sitting on
Speaker 3: her ask like she is making content to make money. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so that's cool.
Speaker 1: Day seven of the Homeless Mom has three point six
Speaker 1: million views. Creative Day nine is a Homeless Mom has
Speaker 1: one point two million.
Speaker 3: Because everybody knows you honestly, everybody knows. They want to
Speaker 3: know what's going on.
Speaker 2: She's she's transparent, she's showing like real life, and a
Speaker 2: lot of people, like you said, are nosy and they
Speaker 2: want to see and she want a story to tell,
Speaker 2: so it's like, you want to see what's going on
Speaker 2: and she gets yeah, you know what I mean, it's
Speaker 2: like watching reality show.
Speaker 1: It's real though, And to my homeboys and they was like,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to see this, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I would prefer to see see Like I always had
Speaker 1: big visions for social media. I thought people would show
Speaker 1: their lives and then you could realize as human beings
Speaker 1: were all connected. But what happened was niggas got social
Speaker 1: media and just started to like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yes, it's horrible.
Speaker 3: It's like you can make your life to be whatever
Speaker 3: it is on social media, you know, like this is
Speaker 3: who I am and that shit be what it's not real,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 1: And that's what I like. I was telling my homide
Speaker 1: like I appreciated that. Obviously, you have to do some
Speaker 1: homework on her situation right on Instagram and she got
Speaker 1: a YouTube and you could check her out right, but
Speaker 1: you have to look at it because you just see
Speaker 1: a homeless person, and you just think all the craziest
Speaker 1: stuff and I'm like you. One thing that I got
Speaker 1: really good at what the internet is. I stopped taking
Speaker 1: and like the shortcuts to figure out a whole situation.
Speaker 1: So like, if I'll see a clip of a video
Speaker 1: where somebody was speaking, I'm gonna go lot, look at
Speaker 1: the whole video and like, so for her situation, like,
Speaker 1: I seen the same thing. It was like day seven
Speaker 1: is a homeless mom, and I'm like, damn, she homeless.
Speaker 1: So I watched the content and I was like, man,
Speaker 1: So I was like, why is she homeless? So I
Speaker 1: went through her page and I went through all probably
Speaker 1: about thirty to forty posts. I was like, okay, I
Speaker 1: got updated on her situation within you know, fifteen minutes.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I see what's going on. And
Speaker 1: at this point she's she went to an emergency shelter
Speaker 1: to try to push.
Speaker 3: Like to get Section eight. Yeah, that's why I So
Speaker 3: I went to the emergency shelter too to try to
Speaker 3: push the Section eight. It didn't. I went to a
Speaker 3: transitional home and then from there I was supposed to
Speaker 3: go to another type of like transition, but by that
Speaker 3: time I took all the resources I was working, I was,
Speaker 3: you know, so I just moved and got my own
Speaker 3: like two bedroom apartment. I could How long was you
Speaker 3: wait for the section eight?
Speaker 1: How long was you there?
Speaker 3: So emergency shelter was the thirty days, and then the
Speaker 3: house that was another that was sixty days. And then
Speaker 3: I moved to the transitional apartment. This was in downtown
Speaker 3: LA and I was there for a year. And so
Speaker 3: it was a building where it was it was like
Speaker 3: eighteen to twenty four years old. You had to have
Speaker 3: one child. It was an old hotel that they took
Speaker 3: and they gout it and they made little studio apartments
Speaker 3: and then they had a childcare downstairs like a childcare
Speaker 3: center where it was a school facility. And then they
Speaker 3: had a like a cafeteria like a lunch like dining
Speaker 3: or cafeteria. And so that was requirement. You would have
Speaker 3: to eat with your child every night. But it was good,
Speaker 3: you know, because they would fix the food and then
Speaker 3: you would, you know, say you're eating with your child.
Speaker 3: A lot of people are learning, like, you know, certain
Speaker 3: social skills, and they had you know, like different classes
Speaker 3: and you know stuff like that. So I mean, I
Speaker 3: took it really you know, I took it really serious,
Speaker 3: and I learned a lot.
Speaker 1: So you was in abuse, somebody was with me a
Speaker 1: real abusive relationship.
Speaker 3: Well, no, I wasn't in a I just wanted to
Speaker 3: try to you know, I wanted to leave my situation.
Speaker 3: I wanted to try to get Section eight. And they're like,
Speaker 3: if you go to a shelf around you could get
Speaker 3: section eight.
Speaker 1: Sure.
Speaker 3: Well, at the time at the time, my mom so
Speaker 3: at the time, my mom, she was staying with my grandmother.
Speaker 3: She was going to school with my mom, Darryl, you know,
Speaker 3: and my sister. They were living with my grandmother and
Speaker 3: my mom was in school, so of course I can
Speaker 3: stay with my grandmother. But it was like I just
Speaker 3: had this thing of like, you know what I you know,
Speaker 3: I need to like do for myself and get out there.
Speaker 3: And like my mom was crying, like she didn't want
Speaker 3: me to go.
Speaker 1: The van came.
Speaker 3: The van came. I didn't know what was going on
Speaker 3: because you couldn't tell them, you couldn't say where you
Speaker 3: were going or anything. I couldn't talk to her until
Speaker 3: it was like seventy two hours, just to let her
Speaker 3: know I was good and everything, and So I was
Speaker 3: in a I was young. I was probably like twenty
Speaker 3: two something like that. I have rolling. So I had rolling,
Speaker 3: and I just knew I needed to like do that
Speaker 3: for me because you know, I had to do it
Speaker 3: for me, and it it it helped me. I think.
Speaker 1: Sure, Yeah, you start getting skills that you didn't have initially.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I was a young mom. I had
Speaker 3: him at nineteen. I don't know what the hell was.
Speaker 1: You Ever been in abusive relationship like a physical one? Yeah, ritt,
Speaker 1: You ever been in that? Ever kicked your ass? Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, I've had more so like like verb like mentally
Speaker 2: like verbal and mental like yeah.
Speaker 1: Like oh, you told about the story with niggas, like yeah,
Speaker 1: nobody who wants you?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that that type stuff, And you know, if it
Speaker 2: wasn't for me, you wouldn't have, you know, stuff like that,
Speaker 2: like try to like, ain't nobody gonna want you? You know,
Speaker 2: just that type of stuff, like you know.
Speaker 1: I do not believe niggas. Actually that ship is crazive
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: Really, it's yeah, it's yeah.
Speaker 1: That niggas would talk like that. I ain't never told
Speaker 1: to me, girl, if it wasn't for.
Speaker 3: Me, I can't even get dressed to like go to
Speaker 3: the store. It was like I was in my twenties
Speaker 3: and you want to be cute all the time, you know,
Speaker 3: It's like why why you need to do all that
Speaker 3: go to the store and it was just a lot.
Speaker 2: It was Yeah, it was mariad and speak to me
Speaker 2: because I had on this like just dress or whatever
Speaker 2: and you couldn't even see anything, but just because because
Speaker 2: it was one of those like the back was kind
Speaker 2: of out so you couldn't wear a bra, but you
Speaker 2: you couldn't see. It wasn't see through, no shit like that.
Speaker 2: And to day, no, it wasn't. It was like a
Speaker 2: flowy like little dresses with summertime. Because he asked me,
Speaker 2: said you got a bronze and I was like, no,
Speaker 2: this dresses and have one, you know he didn't. He
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, okay, the fuck and you start going
Speaker 2: off and telling me like you ain't shit and this
Speaker 2: is now You're out here trying to show your TDS
Speaker 2: and I'm like, are you serious? And I promise y'all
Speaker 2: was no cleavage. It was one of those I wish
Speaker 2: I had a fucking picture. It literally was just like
Speaker 2: one of those nice little little flow slow dresses and
Speaker 2: it was long something.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you all something, and it's gonna be
Speaker 1: tough because it requires accountability to some degree. And I
Speaker 1: know like women and accountability is like oil and water.
Speaker 2: Oh whatever, don't do me.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying this for real. Right, do you think
Speaker 1: you read? Do you think you ever wrote it? Like
Speaker 1: wore something that was inappropriate to be in a relationship?
Speaker 1: Like we was like, you know what, this is a lot?
Speaker 1: Are you think? Are you and are you of the
Speaker 1: are you of the people that feel like, well I
Speaker 1: should be able to wear what I want? You should
Speaker 1: just be okay with it. No?
Speaker 3: I think that dang Like every like body that I
Speaker 3: was with, they didn't have a problem I because I'd
Speaker 3: be like, is this like I was, is this you
Speaker 3: think this is too much?
Speaker 1: Like what do you think?
Speaker 3: No? I I don't think so. No, I don't think so.
Speaker 1: What about you? You ever think you wore something inappropriate?
Speaker 1: Well it's probably a bit too far. No, Have y'all
Speaker 1: ever think somebody wore something that was inappropriate that was
Speaker 1: a bit too far?
Speaker 3: That's it in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Sure, Like let's say Kiki Palmer with us at that time.
Speaker 3: That wasn't inappropriate. I mean, it was listen her, but
Speaker 3: when she turned around, I didn't know all her ass
Speaker 3: was out.
Speaker 2: I didn't know either until that's when you.
Speaker 1: Saw her ass was out. So you're saying that's still
Speaker 1: not inappropriate? Is it like a code that y'all give
Speaker 1: from a text? Was like, don't break the woman cold,
Speaker 1: don't Actually, yeah, I just got your women are accountable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't you do it?
Speaker 1: Do not admit that you No.
Speaker 2: Honestly, when we talked about this already, like if you
Speaker 2: in a relationship, yeah, it's different, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: But I was more upset about that situation because it
Speaker 2: was more like you're you're a mom. It wasn't more.
Speaker 2: It wasn't more about the whole you're not respecting your
Speaker 2: man in I think it was more they put more
Speaker 2: emphasis on your your your mom, you can't be sexy
Speaker 2: at all, like don't well.
Speaker 3: That's what you were saying, but anybody else. I think
Speaker 3: they got it to where it's like, oh, you she
Speaker 3: got a man, Like that's why I think that you
Speaker 3: just didn't want to sex. I think instead of him
Speaker 3: saying yes, you're a mom part, he should have just been.
Speaker 2: Like the fuck you doing what money would have been? Like,
Speaker 2: are you serious?
Speaker 1: But do you think that, like as somebody's mother, you
Speaker 1: should be walking around being sexy.
Speaker 2: I'm sexy all the time and I have a freaking son.
Speaker 2: So yeah, so y'all think that. So you're saying that
Speaker 2: you could be a sexy having her as sexy like
Speaker 2: her ass out.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, you don't think that.
Speaker 2: I don't think I don't.
Speaker 1: You don't think there's a weird prefix that a stranger
Speaker 1: would look at you and think of sex. You don't
Speaker 1: think to some degree that might be a little bit
Speaker 1: like a lot, that that's the goal.
Speaker 2: Like man always was about sex. I can be in something.
Speaker 1: Totally agree we do to be a nun. But I'm
Speaker 1: saying you don't think you go the extra mile to
Speaker 1: make the cond of sex see work, Like why would
Speaker 1: I never? I never understood this? Right, sexy, But what's
Speaker 1: the point of wanting sexual attention from strangers?
Speaker 3: From strangers?
Speaker 1: Yes, because obviously you're gonna get You're gonna run, don't
Speaker 1: do it, stand right there, staying right there, don't run.
Speaker 1: You don't think it's a bit weird that let's say
Speaker 1: you and and your guy go somewhere and another guy
Speaker 1: is looking at you because you're dressing something to demand
Speaker 1: sexual attention from him.
Speaker 3: There's certain things that I'm not gonna wear.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't see you running again. I said,
Speaker 1: you don't think it's a bit weird that in your
Speaker 1: mind that you're okay with being with your guy and
Speaker 1: wearing something that demands sexual attention from people who don't
Speaker 1: know you.
Speaker 3: Well, that depends on what it is that you're wearing.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna wear something, wear my asses out. Let
Speaker 3: me tell you I'm gonna wear cleavage. Yes, they might,
Speaker 3: I I'm so so.
Speaker 1: I'm asking to you why.
Speaker 2: Person, I don't think it's weird A person because.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's weird. No, I don't.
Speaker 2: He loves that ship. You do not care. I don't
Speaker 2: think you don't care about none of that.
Speaker 1: I'm asking you, how do you care? How don't you care?
Speaker 1: What you like? I would not want somebody who don't
Speaker 1: know me to think of me in a sexual manner like.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't propel that if.
Speaker 2: You're if you're even attractive in a space somebody to
Speaker 2: bet so you.
Speaker 1: Can't you're running again. What you're doing is talking about another.
Speaker 2: You're saying that we should not even want to be attractive.
Speaker 1: At all, saying you take the effort to demand.
Speaker 2: Effort to want to look good. See, that's the problem.
Speaker 2: People always think you want to.
Speaker 3: Do that effort to look good and I'm not showing
Speaker 3: that to her.
Speaker 1: That's disingenuous. You just literally it's disingenuous because you just
Speaker 1: said it's sexy and now you're saying good. Those two
Speaker 1: things don't have to amoue to some people.
Speaker 2: Do I look sexy? I look good?
Speaker 3: People?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's just somebody. But again that's the people
Speaker 1: that's cheap. If you're cheap and you thin, right, because beauty, sexy,
Speaker 1: all these are independent departments. They don't float it fucking together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they I mean people say, people say people.
Speaker 3: I've heard people say, I'm like giving y'all the sexy
Speaker 3: and I don't even have on anything that's sexy. They say, oh, you,
Speaker 3: I just look sexy.
Speaker 1: So again, what you're doing is you're running, right. What
Speaker 1: you're doing is you're like, Okay, I could be wearing anything,
Speaker 1: but when you wear things purposeful like she just said,
Speaker 1: to look, I can rewind this onhod No, no, not good,
Speaker 1: sexy good. They don't exist together all the time. You
Speaker 1: only think that because listen, because you're being intellectually lazy, right,
Speaker 1: You're like, I'm just good, No, don't mix them all.
Speaker 3: I put on that tight red dress and I'm getting
Speaker 3: ready to go out to dinner.
Speaker 1: So you don't think that's like an embarrassment because like you,
Speaker 1: that's what you think. That's what he say, That's what
Speaker 1: you really think.
Speaker 2: Though, that's what he says. I'm a believe what my
Speaker 2: man say. I'm supposed to if I look good, glasses,
Speaker 2: I look good, you know, like.
Speaker 3: Say what you want? What she gonna wear?
Speaker 2: Like that? You better make We.
Speaker 1: Can't even have a genuine conversation. It's not because you
Speaker 1: literally will not let me actually finish the sentence. And too,
Speaker 1: you literally conflating ideas for the sake of just being
Speaker 1: lazy and lame. It's not agreed one. You just conflated
Speaker 1: the concept of looking good and looking sexy, and you
Speaker 1: tried to roll them all together because you lazy, because
Speaker 1: you is. It's not, it's not, it's not. There's beautiful
Speaker 1: women that do not have to demand sexual attention, and
Speaker 1: you just look at them like this, lady is flowing
Speaker 1: and glowing. It doesn't have nothing to do with sex.
Speaker 1: So no looking good. See how you just did that.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying.
Speaker 1: So that's why we could never really have a conversation nobody,
Speaker 1: because it's rooted in cheapness. Live it, listen. It is
Speaker 1: cheap because you said I do that too.
Speaker 2: It's not okay.
Speaker 1: There is a real reality because of this ship we're
Speaker 1: talking about. Looking good and sexy are not fucking synonymous.
Speaker 1: Looking beautiful and sexy are not synonymous. They're literally different directions.
Speaker 1: Nobody could look at everything and think the same. But
Speaker 1: that's the problem because you have came to a space
Speaker 1: to where you think that one thing, and that's where
Speaker 1: the beauty standard is. That's the confusion. Everybody is trying
Speaker 1: to do the exact same thing.
Speaker 2: Stuff. You woke up and put on a suit and said,
Speaker 2: damn I little handsome and I look, you know, I
Speaker 2: look good today or whatever like that, and then you
Speaker 2: turn around and you throw on what I don't know.
Speaker 3: Or but another but you go out right and a
Speaker 3: woman is like, damn, you look sexy.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you what. None looks sexy in
Speaker 1: a motherfucking cloak.
Speaker 3: Right, or what is not putting enhance the sexy.
Speaker 1: Not even to enhance the sex, She's not putting on
Speaker 1: anything to demand sexual attention.
Speaker 2: Well, okay, so what Asia just says, she's there's been
Speaker 2: times where she is not dressed.
Speaker 1: That's not what we're talking about. So then that's running
Speaker 1: from the topic. It is because we're not talking about
Speaker 1: the times you're not wearing something to demand sexual attention.
Speaker 1: We're talking about your effort to demand sexual attention. And
Speaker 1: I'm asking you, why would you demand it from strangers?
Speaker 1: What the fuck is wrong with you?
Speaker 2: I mean, shit, maybe people like attention. There's a lot
Speaker 2: of attension. We're just talking about people.
Speaker 1: When we come to that, now we get having a
Speaker 1: real conversation.
Speaker 3: Well, look about it that I'm looking for other attention.
Speaker 3: I just want the attention for my man and we
Speaker 3: go out.
Speaker 1: That's a fuck a lot because you wear the same
Speaker 1: outfit whether he was with cousin, with Dottie. I would what, Yes,
Speaker 1: you do the same things whether you because don't make
Speaker 1: it about.
Speaker 3: Okay, no, because like for example, like we were we
Speaker 3: had dinner reservations for my birthday. I had this really
Speaker 3: like sexy dress, but I was tired. I wasn't feeling
Speaker 3: in we weren't going to, you know, go, so I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't wear that for that occasion.
Speaker 1: But what I don't understand get dressed and this is now,
Speaker 1: this is it's not for you.
Speaker 3: I mean it was for us.
Speaker 1: No, it's not for you. That's just disingenuous.
Speaker 2: Again, it's for him.
Speaker 3: I'm not hoping that he's gonna.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not your lying.
Speaker 2: I'm hoping how you gonna tell her how she feels.
Speaker 3: Maybe she's I'm gonna be all dressed up and we
Speaker 3: didn't make it to this club.
Speaker 2: He's gonna tell you how you feel about yourself? And
Speaker 2: why are you doing something?
Speaker 1: I literally just defeated that conversation. When I just told
Speaker 1: you would wear the same dress without.
Speaker 2: Cuts, I wouldn't dress you.
Speaker 1: Have literally said you've looked sexy without.
Speaker 2: Cuz that was that was me.
Speaker 1: She said it too, Okay, So what I'm saying to
Speaker 1: you is, what is it about your mind that thinks
Speaker 1: getting the sexual attention from strangers is actually cool? Like
Speaker 1: that shit is crazy? And I get it. We're in
Speaker 1: society today when we the fast forward and everybody's just
Speaker 1: losing their fucking mind, and then just a bunch of
Speaker 1: people doing dumb shit because they don't look in the mirror,
Speaker 1: they look in the phone, and then they make everything
Speaker 1: based off of silly shit, like you can conflate good, beautiful,
Speaker 1: and sexy as one. They're not. They're not one thing.
Speaker 1: They just became one thing because in twenty fucking twenty three,
Speaker 1: everybody's fucking lazy, so they're like, well, I need to
Speaker 1: have my titties out. That's the same reason why people
Speaker 1: is getting plastic surgery, everybody getting the same body because
Speaker 1: beauty standards have been reduced down into a single streamlined concept.
Speaker 1: Big ass, big titties, no stomach, bitch, motherfucker's been looking
Speaker 1: women was looking good in all kind of packages. A
Speaker 1: motherfucker like a Leah. Motherfucker like a Leah. That motherfucker
Speaker 1: didn't wear nothing tight. O. That shit worked because beautiful, good,
Speaker 1: and sexy can flow in different.
Speaker 3: She didn't wear anything tight, but she showed her stomach.
Speaker 1: She showed what she was specialized. Right, But again, what
Speaker 1: does stomach have to do with sex?
Speaker 2: I mean it just does people do think of a
Speaker 2: little beer. That's why you can't wear a bear mid
Speaker 2: Drissa saying.
Speaker 1: What the fuck is the teddy for a baby?
Speaker 3: I mean, but if you're in a bikini I mean
Speaker 3: bikini top and baggy shorts or I'm sorry, baggy pants
Speaker 3: or whatever, is that sexy.
Speaker 1: We're not debating.
Speaker 3: I'm just as.
Speaker 1: I'm with you, right, I'm not saying what's sexy or
Speaker 1: what's not. I'm saying, you know what you're wearing this
Speaker 1: and this is where it gets.
Speaker 2: But I'm not getting.
Speaker 3: But I can't get it because I'm not getting dressed.
Speaker 1: You are to be like, that's not true. You're finna
Speaker 1: tell the line. You don't have to. You don't have
Speaker 1: to lie to me.
Speaker 3: I'm not getting.
Speaker 1: You don't have a lot of people listening. That's a lie.
Speaker 1: That's a lie. But that's a lie. That's a lie
Speaker 1: that you didn't have to tell, which I don't know
Speaker 1: why women lie like that. My god, listen, you don't
Speaker 1: have to lie. Like we could never really get down
Speaker 1: to the truth.
Speaker 3: He is crazy, you see, we don't have to lie.
Speaker 2: We don't have to lie. I am getting dressed.
Speaker 3: I'm not like, oh I look sexy. I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: I look bomb.
Speaker 1: I look.
Speaker 3: You're lying though, but that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But you're not telling the truth because you're running from
Speaker 1: accountability consistently. That's just ridiculous. Of course, you know what
Speaker 1: looks sexy. That's why you refer to that dress as sexy.
Speaker 1: You said this dress was beautiful.
Speaker 3: It's tight.
Speaker 1: I'm not whatever the reason. You know why it is sexy,
Speaker 1: and that's why you referenced it as a sexy dress.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's sexy.
Speaker 1: Minus why sexy, regardless of why sexy, regardless of why
Speaker 1: you knew that that dress exuded sex. And I'm not listen,
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking it. I'm saying, y'all motherfuckers have to
Speaker 1: be out of your mind to demand sexual attention from strangers.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that you're not with your guy.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but there's other guys looking at you. Okay.
Speaker 1: Would you be okay if your dude was passing your
Speaker 1: naked pictures through the pen even though you his girl? No,
Speaker 1: what if he was passing pictures you're wearing that super
Speaker 1: tight dress because these pictures are sexy, so men in
Speaker 1: prison could jack off to him. Would you be okay
Speaker 1: with that?
Speaker 3: I don't think I would care about that.
Speaker 1: You don't think you would care if he was just
Speaker 1: passing your pictures.
Speaker 2: Around huh on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but you'll be okay with your guy.
Speaker 3: No, not my guy passing around. But if someone jacking
Speaker 3: off to the picture, that's fine. So no, yeah, no,
Speaker 3: I don't want to picture.
Speaker 1: Around, but that's fine to you guy jacking off to
Speaker 1: your picture.
Speaker 2: Like, I'm not anything. I'm not want to get nasty
Speaker 2: here to jack off. I mean, that is why what
Speaker 2: you're doing.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want my man passing me around
Speaker 3: saying jack off her. But what what what can I do? Okay,
Speaker 3: there you go. I mean I'm not saying here, do it.
Speaker 1: But I mean, if you want to do it, I
Speaker 1: feel special.
Speaker 2: I don't feel special. Ain't nothing about that here. That's
Speaker 2: why I just stopped talking to him. He didn't nobody
Speaker 2: say that. Did nobody say that.
Speaker 3: It's like you know how you said, like, oh, the
Speaker 3: girl to be in the du like, oh, I think
Speaker 3: it's cute.
Speaker 2: I think it's so cute.
Speaker 3: She young, but she just so it's entertainment. Look, if
Speaker 3: you want to jack off to that picture, sure, but I.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm doing and I'm honest, like I'm not lying,
Speaker 1: like no, no, you're not publicly.
Speaker 3: I mean, shit, you don't know who is getting them, Jack.
Speaker 1: But that's the desire. The desire is that type of attention.
Speaker 1: So again I'm asking, why would you further attention, sexual
Speaker 1: attention from strangers? Okay, that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I don't know, because I don't really.
Speaker 1: You just and I agree with Brett when she said
Speaker 1: earlier it's the attention. But that really kind of becomes
Speaker 1: the the problem.
Speaker 3: That's dangerous, and.
Speaker 1: That's the problem. So again, I'm not saying you shouldn't
Speaker 1: or you should That's not what I'm saying. I just
Speaker 1: think it's crazy that we're in such a time today
Speaker 1: in America where the first thing a woman wants to
Speaker 1: be is sexy. That is crazy. And I get it
Speaker 1: because that seemed normal. That seemed like good, beautiful, elegant.
Speaker 1: All these things flow in one specific place, sex, and
Speaker 1: it's just not true. It's just disingenuous. It never was true.
Speaker 1: People just are lazy today, so they all taken one
Speaker 1: specific route to obtain It's like I had that conversation
Speaker 1: with y'all. I didn't have it with y'all. I had
Speaker 1: to repete, and I was explaining to him, care you, Like,
Speaker 1: the most innate human desire is care, like to be
Speaker 1: cared for. Babies cry, they come out the womb crying
Speaker 1: to be cared for. So the most innate human desire
Speaker 1: is to be cared for more than even fed you.
Speaker 1: I mean like you can get a baby through sometimes
Speaker 1: just hugging and holding them even if they starve it.
Speaker 1: But a baby could eat and still cry. Right, So today, right,
Speaker 1: it's a hundred years ago. If I liked you real, right,
Speaker 1: if I like you one hundred years ago, to write
Speaker 1: you a letter, I had to go through changes. I
Speaker 1: had to know how to use an ink and feather
Speaker 1: and put it together. And then mailing a letter was
Speaker 1: not like thirty five cent I mean like when you
Speaker 1: start talking about inflation, it was expensive. Lord knows. If
Speaker 1: I wanted to conceal you, and you live thirty miles
Speaker 1: like I would have to walk thirty miles or get
Speaker 1: in get a horse, and like bust your ass to seek.
Speaker 1: So if somebody gave you attention, you knew their care
Speaker 1: right at that time, care right, the exclusive agents of
Speaker 1: care were connection and attention. If somebody paid your attention.
Speaker 1: One hundred years ago, they cared about you because attention
Speaker 1: was expensive, like McDonald's nourishment was expensive to eat food.
Speaker 1: Quality food was expensive. But when things get convenient, they
Speaker 1: thin out and they lose quality, right, so caring you again.
Speaker 1: Attention and connection were exclusive agents of care. This is
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. To pay attention to a motherfucker takes
Speaker 1: no effort, no effort, Like literally, I could go her
Speaker 1: page like father of pictures, that little bit of being
Speaker 1: my DM. I didn't do nothing.
Speaker 2: And that's why guys gonna be hearing no more to
Speaker 2: be like, oh you playing, I got that over here, just.
Speaker 1: Like women feel the same way. They gonna be like that.
Speaker 1: It's another nigga liking my pictures anyway. It's another nigga
Speaker 1: in your dem because of the pictures you posting. It's
Speaker 1: another nigga in your dms anyway. Right, So I say
Speaker 1: connection and attention are no longer exclusive agents of care.
Speaker 1: Now you gotta be careful because a motherfucker might be
Speaker 1: paying attention to you and don't give a fuck about you.
Speaker 1: A motherfucker might be, you know, connecting with you and
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about you. Could have a completely different, unique,
Speaker 1: hidden motive, right, So again it's in the same regards.
Speaker 1: Is that in the same regards. It's like that when
Speaker 1: we talk about beauty standards with women, right, it's to
Speaker 1: the point where it's to the point where you guys
Speaker 1: are streamlining a simple idea and then men are falling
Speaker 1: and following. So everything is just sexy everything.
Speaker 2: So you don't think that when no one says like beautiful.
Speaker 1: Nobody even says that no more. That's what I'm trying
Speaker 1: to tell you, that's not even a normal part of
Speaker 1: the conversation no more. That shit is faded. Niggas don't
Speaker 1: call women beautiful no more. Like right now, you know
Speaker 1: who's going after beautiful, and niggas will not say nothing
Speaker 1: Alicia Keys. Niggas don't even know what that is no
Speaker 1: more because they so far disconnected and the typical standard
Speaker 1: of beauty standards it's just sexy. So they're like, well,
Speaker 1: she's not trying to be sexy. They don't even know
Speaker 1: beautiful exists, you know what I mean? Thirty years ago,
Speaker 1: Alid and them, their motherfuckers was beautiful. They wasn't no fuckings,
Speaker 1: Alid didn't look like nobody. You want to fuck, that
Speaker 1: looked like somebody you wanted to take out to eat
Speaker 1: and dating and be with that. Nothing about her said
Speaker 1: outside of her dancing and shit and John Raygon though
Speaker 1: she looked like a girl you would want to be
Speaker 1: with me. So today's streamlined because it's so cheap, Right,
Speaker 1: it's cheap. It's cheap to why would you think everybody
Speaker 1: be going to get asked and titties? What do ask?
Speaker 1: That has nothing to do with nothing but sex? So
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is we have streamlined a lot of
Speaker 1: complex and sophisticated ideas into these really simple linear things,
Speaker 1: and then we wonder why there's an issue in the connection.
Speaker 1: At that point, we wonder what's wrong. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: it's nothing. Listen, I think there's a time and a
Speaker 1: place to everything. I'm not saying women shouldn't get sexy, Like,
Speaker 1: if you want the sexual attention of strangers, do your thing.
Speaker 1: I'm just making sure you understand what it is. Just
Speaker 1: like an abortion, I'm not saying abortion should be illegal,
Speaker 1: but we shouldn't say that you're not killing the baby.
Speaker 1: Let's sell the truth. Hey, you killing the baby that
Speaker 1: way when you make the decision, you know what you're
Speaker 1: getting yourself into. You know what you're getting yourself into.
Speaker 1: But because we are in a society that sugar coats
Speaker 1: every last part of reality, every last part bred. Oh
Speaker 1: you know, it's not an abortion. That's not even a
Speaker 1: baby yet, bitch, that is a baby, TuS, that's a
Speaker 1: baby too much. That's a baby in your stomach. That
Speaker 1: ain't no motherfucker Oh the baby. Don't even got that.
Speaker 1: That's a baby. Just say, you know what, I want
Speaker 1: the right to kill my baby. I'd be okay with
Speaker 1: abortion if people just say that I have a right
Speaker 1: to kill my baby that hasn't been born out of
Speaker 1: my stomach yet. Don't say I have a right. Don't
Speaker 1: say it's my body, my choice. That's just lame because
Speaker 1: it's not about you. No about to give a fuck.
Speaker 1: You can get a thousand piercons it ain't nobody gonna
Speaker 1: stop you. You could put one hundred million tattoos on
Speaker 1: your body and nobody gonna stop you. You can get
Speaker 1: extra toes right now. It's so crazy, man, You could
Speaker 1: get you know what I mean, years yet nobody gonna
Speaker 1: stop you, and most likely niggas ain't gonna say shit.
Speaker 1: Oh a nigga win't got taught. Nobody didn't say nothing,
Speaker 1: so nobody cares about what you do with your body, right,
Speaker 1: we're talking about what you do with a baby. So
Speaker 1: again that's the point I'm saying about the reality of things,
Speaker 1: like like, that's what I liked about that page from her,
Speaker 1: that girl. You know what I'm saying, It was real.
Speaker 1: And you know, I looked at people in the comments,
Speaker 1: people say, oh, you know you you're sitting around being lazy.
Speaker 1: You know, you're just taking advantage of the government accounting. Like, man,
Speaker 1: this girl got her ass woked by her dude, and
Speaker 1: it's trying to get on her own and she's more
Speaker 1: of a parent first, that's pregnant, Like that's what you
Speaker 1: But you know why they never thought of it because
Speaker 1: the world that's been reduced down into that single post
Speaker 1: sexy that's where it's at. Oh, she's taking advantage of
Speaker 1: the gouvern. Man, Now, dare you that's what black people do?
Speaker 1: Then all the racists come out of motherfucker or you
Speaker 1: go to another thing and it's a nigga and the
Speaker 1: motherfucker the marstle sell your phone, Like what is her
Speaker 1: phone gonna do about her being homeless, Like I'm looking
Speaker 1: at somebody trying to make a business while being homeless
Speaker 1: with their child.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they give away phones for people and stuff on
Speaker 2: account can give a phone.
Speaker 1: She got an iPhone. That ship is an iPhone eight?
Speaker 2: Right, who cares?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's like like she got
Speaker 1: the lads.
Speaker 2: People be acting like they fucking gave the money up
Speaker 2: to the person or something.
Speaker 1: But even if they did give the money up to
Speaker 1: the person, you want.
Speaker 3: What's wrong with them with her? You know, elevating trying
Speaker 3: to do better for I don't even think she's elevating.
Speaker 1: I think she's just trying to figure out how to create.
Speaker 3: I mean, she might not have had a phone before.
Speaker 3: Now she has a phone.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm saying, I could see if she had
Speaker 1: the latest iPhone that's worth two thousand dollars, we have
Speaker 1: a different conversation. Maybe she sells and gets a room
Speaker 1: for ten days. I don't fucking know what the fuck
Speaker 1: they thinking. I don't think you get rid of that motherfucker.
Speaker 1: But I'm watching this girl day in and day out.
Speaker 1: She's going to make donald to upload her content on
Speaker 1: the internet, right, And it's like, but I really genuinely
Speaker 1: think people are so streamlined in these concepts, like the
Speaker 1: same thing we're talking about, right, which is sexy at
Speaker 1: the thing, It's like they're not looking at nothing else.
Speaker 1: They're like, Okay, I'm a judge it just off this.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take this extra step to figure out anything.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna judge it off this, right, And it's
Speaker 1: just crazy. And even talking to my humbley, I was like, bro,
Speaker 1: I appreciate this because this is somebody saying some real
Speaker 1: shit happening. You don't see motherfuckers cousin on Instagram on
Speaker 1: YouTube talking about bills, do everybody. I'm telling you, I'm
Speaker 1: watching niggas lie and I'm watching people eating up these
Speaker 1: lies and setting the expectations in life to these lies.
Speaker 1: The nigga's line like, I've seen this thing. I was
Speaker 1: talking to my homeboy about the NPC's right, y'all y'all
Speaker 1: up on NPCs non playable characters. So these human beings
Speaker 1: are dressing up and like fantasy characters like themselves right
Speaker 1: where they wear different outfits.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Right, And they go online and people buy emojis to
Speaker 1: control their response. Oh straight up for her, Yeah, looking
Speaker 1: to her, it's some crazy shit. And it was a
Speaker 1: big incident that happened recently where it was a lady
Speaker 1: named Pinky Dolls, a girl. She she was advertising her
Speaker 1: age to be fourteen, fifteen or eighteen or nineteen. And
Speaker 1: when she was doing it, she was advertising that thought
Speaker 1: out to people. So they were controlling her. And they'll say, oh,
Speaker 1: you know what, they'll buy ice cream emojis. She'd be like,
Speaker 1: m stick, her tongue got good. Good. So like people
Speaker 1: are watching her, you know, through a screen, controlling her.
Speaker 2: Wait, I think I've seen something like that, and I
Speaker 2: was like, what is wrong with this girl? Like she
Speaker 2: was doing all this weird stuff and it was like
Speaker 2: people watching.
Speaker 3: They send emos she does.
Speaker 1: They buy an emotion and it has a person and
Speaker 1: she reacts to it. There's a there's an automated reaction
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to have, like a like a character
Speaker 1: in the video game. So they're controlling her with the
Speaker 1: emojis and coins that they buy. So long story short
Speaker 1: with this Pinky Dog girl, come to find out she's
Speaker 1: like twenty eight. But she understood that the age she
Speaker 1: was lying about being completely younger is because she was
Speaker 1: marketing to you know, mind you people who fuck with
Speaker 1: that shit are sexual deviance like that, you're like a pervert.
Speaker 1: But she was trying to market to somebody who wanted
Speaker 1: somebody younger. And you know the type of thought that
Speaker 1: you look if you acting younger to make you know.
Speaker 2: What I mean?
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. Does that make sense?
Speaker 2: I get it?
Speaker 1: And I was telling my homeboy Manny Shout Out to
Speaker 1: a Boy, Manny a boy worldwide podcast on Fridays and
Speaker 1: Shit with the Homeboys. Check it out on YouTube. It's dope.
Speaker 1: But I was telling him and I was like, that
Speaker 1: shit is morally crazy. And he was like, well, it
Speaker 1: ain't that best she make up? She winning? And I'm
Speaker 1: like what he means? She winning? He's like, man, she
Speaker 1: making money. I'm like, bro like and he was like glasses.
Speaker 1: You know. Morality. We start having this long conversation and
Speaker 1: I started to tell him, like, bro, morals is something
Speaker 1: you would let your kids do. If you think it's
Speaker 1: morally correct, you have no problem letting your kids do it.
Speaker 1: Morals are set by a few things. Hell no, if
Speaker 1: his daughter that was in college was on the screen
Speaker 1: wearing this little girl outfit licking the ice cream and
Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm good. For these motherfucking grown up men,
Speaker 1: you would not be, Okay, He's like, hell no, Manny
Speaker 1: is a fantastic chef. Shout out to his boy Manny again,
Speaker 1: he's a fantastic chef. This nigga could really cook. You
Speaker 1: got a great knack for tasting and flavor when it
Speaker 1: comes to food. I said, so if you had to
Speaker 1: make a let's say a homosexual man came and contracted
Speaker 1: you to make him a birthday dick, a birthday cake
Speaker 1: in the shape of a dick, and he said fifty thousand.
Speaker 1: He said, hell no, I'm doing it. I said, that's morality,
Speaker 1: because morally, you feel like you're compromising something you believe in.
Speaker 1: And I just explained this to him. But we're in
Speaker 1: such a place to where in America where we really
Speaker 1: feel like all these ideas make sense, because in our
Speaker 1: minds were like, oh, don't hurt nobody. It always hurts somebody.
Speaker 1: This is why motherfuckers is fucked up. Women stepping out
Speaker 1: with the single goal of attracting sexual attention cause from
Speaker 1: a stranger, it's fuck every nigga don't got glasses, Malone's IQ.
Speaker 1: Every motherfucking body. Don't got that some of these niggas
Speaker 1: cannot handle. They are on the edge and some things
Speaker 1: will push them and next thing you know, you bring
Speaker 1: out some shit in human beings that exist. And it's
Speaker 1: not a woman's fault. But it's also you gotta be
Speaker 1: responsible because you the goal. We're trying to live in
Speaker 1: a time where we only feel like we're responsible for ourselves.
Speaker 1: But the verb of being a human being, being humane,
Speaker 1: is being connected to the rest of the population of
Speaker 1: the world. So why the fuck would you make decisions
Speaker 1: on your own cuz that will affect everybody else. You
Speaker 1: have to stop believing decisions you make don't affect everybody else,
Speaker 1: whether or not you being sexy. It affects everybody else,
Speaker 1: and you don't know what the fuck they gonna do
Speaker 1: just for some simple silly pleasure for nothing, like you
Speaker 1: get nothing from that. Now, I'm not again. I'm not
Speaker 1: telling you red Hey, don't get those sexy drassical wear
Speaker 1: it out on the day. I'm not saying brit don't
Speaker 1: wear these short spaghetti strapped shirts with your titties out.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that do your thing. I'm saying, but
Speaker 1: you better fucking be conscious of what's happening. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: don't get so caught up in today's time. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying to where you not even tripping off
Speaker 1: what else is going on? Like you just confused, Like
Speaker 1: in that situation with that girl, everybody's so caught up
Speaker 1: in their own personal stress and stripe of life. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm tired of black people, you know, you know, taking
Speaker 1: advantage of the system, even though it's more white people
Speaker 1: that's on the county. Oh, I'm tired of you. Why
Speaker 1: did she have a phone? It's like, this is a
Speaker 1: fucking homeless woman talking about getting her ass whooped by
Speaker 1: her baby daddy. Oh you know, why did you get
Speaker 1: pregnant by him? The second time it happened? Like and
Speaker 1: I've read this girl respone. She was like, I'm a
Speaker 1: Christian woman. I tried to forgive it, and you could
Speaker 1: tell she's sad about being, you know, a baby mama
Speaker 1: twice without being married. Now again, I'm not saying she's
Speaker 1: voided of all responsibilities. You ain't and I always told
Speaker 1: you all this. You ain't got no business given no
Speaker 1: pussy and nobody that ain't married. That's the reality of it.
Speaker 1: But we live in today's time, so a lot of
Speaker 1: dumb ass shit were doing, but we don't realize. To me,
Speaker 1: we're creating our own problems because once you start fucking up,
Speaker 1: now you open in the world of bullshit bullshit. That's
Speaker 1: my point. It's not about do I think a woman
Speaker 1: should be sexy? I agree with you. Some women just
Speaker 1: got it. Rihanna don't got no sexy parts of her body.
Speaker 1: That bitch eyes the man sexual attention. But that's also
Speaker 1: not her doing anything extra not putting on anything extra tight,
Speaker 1: not putting on anything showing her curves, not putting on
Speaker 1: anything showing her cleavage. So that's how I get it.
Speaker 1: But when you go that extra mile for sex, I
Speaker 1: don't care if you with your nigga, If you go
Speaker 1: that extra mind for sexual attention from a stranger, feel
Speaker 1: me like I just always wondered the thought behind that, Like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: your nigga think you look good, so do all these
Speaker 1: hundred niggas not that not you just look good, but
Speaker 1: you look sexy like oh, another nigga, see like look
Speaker 1: at that fat ass, Like that's what you that's what
Speaker 1: you you think? That's cool your nigga, Like another broad
Speaker 1: like another nigga checking out like somebody else's oh lady
Speaker 1: thinking that she got a fat ass, and you wearing
Speaker 1: something with it with the gold to make sure that
Speaker 1: they know you have a fat ass like you crazy
Speaker 1: as a motherfucker. That's all I'm saying. It's just crazy.
Speaker 1: But I noticed we've came into this, and that's all
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Just depth. I'm not saying I get it
Speaker 1: where we at today. I get where we at today.
Speaker 1: I get this a lot of compromise. It's a lot
Speaker 1: of changes, but you gotta also understand it's still only
Speaker 1: because we don't care about anybody else. And the funny
Speaker 1: part is there's some belief when I even look at
Speaker 1: let's say, like the trans community and they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know what, we just want to be ourselves. No,
Speaker 1: you don't. You don't just want to change you, because
Speaker 1: if you wanted to just change you, we wouldn't have
Speaker 1: no more fucking problem. The problem is you want to
Speaker 1: change me. You want me to see you. So when
Speaker 1: you tell me like you just said, right, you're like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I ain't worried if nobody else see that I look
Speaker 1: sexy because I put on this sexy dress. That's like
Speaker 1: a person tell me why I made a change because
Speaker 1: I wanted. I want to make how I feel on
Speaker 1: the outside inside I look on outside. Bitch, you're trying
Speaker 1: to confuse me because I'm in the low period. I don't.
Speaker 1: Only time I wear blue bandana is when I want
Speaker 1: you to know I'm a crip. I know I'm a crip.
Speaker 1: I don't gotta wear nothing blue. I don't gotta wear
Speaker 1: a blue bandana. I don't gotta wear no blue chucks
Speaker 1: with blue laces. I don't gotta wear no motherfucking blue
Speaker 1: penalty log of this crip. But I wear that shit
Speaker 1: because I want you to know this is crip. I
Speaker 1: sag my pants because I want you to know this
Speaker 1: is crip. I'm not gonna lie. So it's disingenuous when
Speaker 1: you say, well, I'm wearing a sexy dress because I
Speaker 1: just looked in the mirror. You the only motherfucker that
Speaker 1: see you the least. Y'all know how very rarely we
Speaker 1: see ourselves. We don't see ourselves, and you might see
Speaker 1: yourselves an hour at best a day if you lucky.
Speaker 1: All the rest of us is stuck with whatever ensemble
Speaker 1: you put together. So you be a damn lie by
Speaker 1: acting like you don't care what nobody else think. That
Speaker 1: lady is motherfucking homeless with a motherfucking child and pregnant,
Speaker 1: and niggas cannot get out their own way to sympathize
Speaker 1: with her and say, okay, you know what, hey, you
Speaker 1: know what? How can I help?
Speaker 3: People were sending their you know food, you know.
Speaker 1: No, no, yet very few.
Speaker 3: You think it's more that's hell.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm looking at the comments and it's fucking thousands
Speaker 1: of comments, mom like are you homeless? And how are
Speaker 1: you homeless? Like itit's gonna look at one other post.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, get out of this one. Oh you
Speaker 1: know she's this or that or you know you're homeless,
Speaker 1: but you're making content. It's like life don't stop. That's
Speaker 1: how I think. That's how I know motherfucker's never been
Speaker 1: through nothing because they really think life stopped. Like no,
Speaker 1: This lady has chosen her career being a content creator.
Speaker 1: She's somebody who studied on YouTube. If you go through
Speaker 1: her page further, you could see she helped other people
Speaker 1: build their YouTube. She helped other people, so she is
Speaker 1: somebody who's focused on building content. But motherfuckers won't look
Speaker 1: past that one post. Ain't gonna come to a conclusion
Speaker 1: based off this one thing. And that's the problem. We
Speaker 1: are entirely too lazy like me, and here have this
Speaker 1: debate all the fucking time. He like, man, classes people
Speaker 1: are stupid. I'm like, I'm like, they're not. They are
Speaker 1: intellectually lazy, busy, and they literally are distracted. That's what's wrong.
Speaker 1: So nobody looking at that lady page.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I didn't even go and look, you know.
Speaker 1: Because it took effort because you probably was at work.
Speaker 3: I was. I was just trying to you know, but
Speaker 3: it can get through. It was like on a break,
Speaker 3: you know, and you probably when you get off work,
Speaker 3: then there's something else going on, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So it's just too much.
Speaker 1: And this is like a homeless mom that's like crazy,
Speaker 1: and niggas like I ain't really tripping, it's a homeless
Speaker 1: like that. That's how fucked up content then got to
Speaker 1: us to where we're like, yeah, I don't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with me, But if it's a motherfucker that's rich,
Speaker 1: You're gonna look at all the posts because you feel
Speaker 1: like it's about you. Like I was explaining this to Conflict, right,
Speaker 1: and I was telling Conflict I had put it on
Speaker 1: Twitter and I said, hey, man, I'm tired of niggas
Speaker 1: marketing wealth. He was like, well, how else am I
Speaker 1: gonna know how to make it? It ain't hit him
Speaker 1: that nobody's showing you how to make ship. They just
Speaker 1: showing you what they got. The supposedly. I watched Rick
Speaker 1: Ross post a boat, right, a picture of a Ferrari
Speaker 1: or a Lamborghini yacht, and it was like the post
Speaker 1: on Academics was like Rick Ross eyeing this new Lamborghini yacht.
Speaker 1: I'm iron't it too. What the fuck do they got
Speaker 1: to do with anything?
Speaker 2: Well mean, looking at it, just looking at it.
Speaker 1: I guess that that was that, assuming that he was
Speaker 1: thinking about bond. He's not buying no fucking three four.
Speaker 1: I mean all a fucking yacht, but motherfuckers don't know,
Speaker 1: and Rick is selling it because motherfuckers want to buy it.
Speaker 1: So I can't even argue that point. But my homeboy
Speaker 1: really looked at it like people like me and me
Speaker 1: and Nip used to have this conversation all the time
Speaker 1: about inspiration though versus aspirational And again it's just like
Speaker 1: beauty looking good and sexy and glamorous and elegant are
Speaker 1: being streamlined into one thing. All the rest of them
Speaker 1: is McDonald's. Don't even fucking got food. It's just it's just,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, it's a bunch of shit
Speaker 1: that you really shouldn't eat that fucks you up, and
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get enough vitamins and minerals for the
Speaker 1: day eating this shit because it's convenient. Just like this,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm looking at this shit and it's like, sad
Speaker 1: as fuck. This girl is going through it. But I
Speaker 1: love the fact she's trying to overcome her struggle, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But nobody else sees that. They
Speaker 1: like very few it's like, oh, you know, she's not homeless.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's homeless, and why are you homeless?
Speaker 1: Like just go look at the next post, go look
Speaker 1: at six posts, like figure it out.
Speaker 2: Like, well, they probably just trying to say that they don't,
Speaker 2: you know, I guess like she's probably making it up
Speaker 2: or is she really? You know, people always trying to
Speaker 2: question certain things.
Speaker 1: They don't never question these niggas acting like they they
Speaker 1: want to question the motherfucker that's poor. But they don't
Speaker 1: question the motherfucker that they think is rich. Right, these
Speaker 1: niggas con lie to them. I remember asking my homeboy.
Speaker 1: He was like, Oh, this niggag got four undred million,
Speaker 1: Why the fuck would he have four hundred million dollars? Like?
Speaker 1: Who the fuck? Like, I'm even some really wealthy people
Speaker 1: like my nigga, Charlotte ma See is having it. This nigga,
Speaker 1: you know running network that this show was through, well
Speaker 1: be arguing about op He like me, Oprah got two
Speaker 1: billion dollars. That bitch don't got th two billion dollars?
Speaker 1: Why the fuck was she got too billion? Shit, she's
Speaker 1: a partner with somebody. Ain't nobody writing nobody two billion
Speaker 1: dollars in checks? Nobody fucking writing a two billion dollar check? Man,
Speaker 1: only motherfucker's writing the two being dollar check is pepsi,
Speaker 1: pepsi and coke. Huh, So she fucking don't. And I'm
Speaker 1: tired of niggas lying no, she don't. You can't believe,
Speaker 1: and you cannot believe and.
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait, are they saying that she got two
Speaker 2: billion or she's worth to shit?
Speaker 3: Not?
Speaker 1: It ain't none of that shit. These motherfuckers is lying
Speaker 1: the way net worth work has got to do with insurance.
Speaker 1: It could be your value to somebody else. Imagine three
Speaker 1: hundred years ago saying a slave is worth fifty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: That don't mean a slave could make fifty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: That means he might be worth it for another nigga
Speaker 1: to selly like, so her value to other people is
Speaker 1: this kind of money. But motherfuckers will argue you down,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, bro, you cannot believe in systemic oppression
Speaker 1: and believe they made a motherfucking nigga into a billionaire,
Speaker 1: because you can't make yourself into a billionaire without no
Speaker 1: motherfucking white folks helping you in this country. You cannot
Speaker 1: believe that unless you're going to Japan, ain't getting some
Speaker 1: fucking money, and you finna get taxed heavy coming into
Speaker 1: this motherfucker. They gonna make sure you don't got it.
Speaker 1: You cannot believe in systemic oppression and racism and think
Speaker 1: this motherfucking lady is a billionaire in real money. I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck if she sold everything, she had,
Speaker 1: leveraged it all and counted at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: Is not gonna equal no motherfucking billion dollars. It's just crazy,
Speaker 1: and it's we're so nobody questions the greatest lies, but
Speaker 1: they'll questioned this motherfucking lady being homeless. She's not homeless.
Speaker 1: You said she has an iPhone nine. This lady at
Speaker 1: McDonald's talking about the discounts on Wendy burgers and fries
Speaker 1: and shit. And I'm like, it's obvious this lady is
Speaker 1: going through some shit.
Speaker 2: She literally like when the EBT hit, it shows our
Speaker 2: forger looked before and after it was like.
Speaker 1: You're buying, you're buying these snacks, and.
Speaker 2: I got EBT.
Speaker 3: You can use EBT at seven eleven.
Speaker 1: He was like, e T and look at her. Black
Speaker 1: people taking advantage of the system. Bitch. We worked for
Speaker 1: free for this motherfucker for years. He got a bitch,
Speaker 1: And you think that little funky the food stance of
Speaker 1: some kind of repute, Shut the fuck up, Like it's
Speaker 1: almost hard to be.
Speaker 3: A real nigga today. It's okay, it's so hard to
Speaker 3: be a real nigga today.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, a nigga told me he was like
Speaker 1: glass Man, I don't know if you really show a
Speaker 1: fan I don't know if you're really so dope, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be wearing suits and shit like niggas is so ignorant.
Speaker 1: They really think drug dealers wear suits. What I'm like here,
Speaker 1: Like you know, Rick Ross wears a suit, I'm like
Speaker 1: bets out and saw more drugs than Rick Ross and
Speaker 1: Jeezy put together in real life. Way, dope bricks are
Speaker 1: the fucking gallons. I just so shame beyond. But a
Speaker 1: nigga a question because it's like, I don't I'm not
Speaker 1: wearing the jury. They not thinking that. You know, like
Speaker 1: if a cuban link right might cost it might be
Speaker 1: twenty thousand, Like a half a kilogram ten carrot gold
Speaker 1: cuban link, a half a kilogram is worth thirteen thousand
Speaker 1: dollars in gold roughly today twelve and thirteen thousand. They'll
Speaker 1: charge you twenty five thousand dollars. They'll charge you seven
Speaker 1: thousand dollars in labor and five thousand dollars on the
Speaker 1: retail fee. In God, that's why I don't fucking wear jury,
Speaker 1: because it's a fucking horrible thing. They don't think like
Speaker 1: Glasses might be economically savvy and thinking about his money.
Speaker 1: They're like no, that nigga ain't wasting his money like
Speaker 1: the rest of his nigga ain't getting enough of it. Nigga,
Speaker 1: the niggas I know that's millionaires from selling dope. And
Speaker 1: I got some personal homies that I'm that's my guys
Speaker 1: that were millionaires from selling dope. And when I'm out
Speaker 1: of the homies used to wear a T shirt and
Speaker 1: sweats every day. I don't care how many hundreds of
Speaker 1: thousands of dollars he at that time. My old homie
Speaker 1: Pluck probably had eight nine hundred thousand dollars. That nigga
Speaker 1: wore T shirts and DS and tucks every day. I
Speaker 1: don't know nobody who really got no real fucking money
Speaker 1: that was doing all that dumb ass shit, because you
Speaker 1: know why, they wasn't trying to convince you they had money.
Speaker 1: Like when you try to wear that dress to convince
Speaker 1: other people you sexy. Niggas who really got it don't
Speaker 1: got to do shit to show you they got it,
Speaker 1: because they really got it. Only the niggas trying to
Speaker 1: convince us they got it. Only the women trying to
Speaker 1: convince us they sexy have to wear that shit. A
Speaker 1: real rich Brian Turner the nigga who ran Priority for
Speaker 1: years and sold it for one hundred million dollars, made
Speaker 1: one hundred million, sold one hundred million. That nigga don't
Speaker 1: got a Gucci belt in his closet, you think, Jimmy,
Speaker 1: I mean walking around this motherfucker trying to convince you no,
Speaker 1: because he got it. Trump Yon't see drump wearing no
Speaker 1: motherfucking Gucci. Niggas got it. So again, I really think
Speaker 1: a lot of this shit is rooted in security. That's
Speaker 1: why you're trying to show a mother fucking because you
Speaker 1: you're trying to convince yourself. And that's why I was
Speaker 1: saying about wearing sexy shit for strangers. Why are you
Speaker 1: trying to bred red Yard are beautiful women? Who the
Speaker 1: fuck are you trying to convince? You could walk out
Speaker 1: this motherfucker in a non outfit nigga like, oh that
Speaker 1: letl theone motherfucker cute.
Speaker 2: That's not cute.
Speaker 1: Straight up, And a nigga might be looking at you
Speaker 1: like I need to put some respect on her name.
Speaker 1: I mean not trying to get the draws first, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean there is two twenty three niggas still might
Speaker 1: be trying to fucking noune. So I don't know, but
Speaker 1: that is true. That would be a point if one
Speaker 1: of my homies taught me fucking on, I'll be like,
Speaker 1: you're a bad nigga.
Speaker 2: Dog, You're a bad nigga.
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Speaker 1: This episode was recorded right here on the West coast
Speaker 1: of the USA. I produced by my homeboys A King
Speaker 1: for the Black Effect Podcast Network and not Heart Radio. Yeah.