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Speaker 2: Aaron is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Lilah. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: another date if he still wants one. Aaron, before we
Speaker 2: talk about your date, how long has it been since
Speaker 2: you heard from Lila?
Speaker 3: It's been like two weeks now, So what is it
Speaker 3: about Lila after two weeks that makes you want to
Speaker 3: get a hold of her now?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean I've been pinion about her ever since
Speaker 4: our date.
Speaker 5: You know, we met on a dating app and I
Speaker 5: was excited to meet up with her because we both
Speaker 5: like adventure outdoors. You know, I saw her photos on
Speaker 5: the app and she was climbing. I like climbing. So
Speaker 5: on the first date, we decided to go on a
Speaker 5: hike and you know, with a gorgeous lookout at the
Speaker 5: top of this hike that I know, and we would
Speaker 5: have you know, it was kind of cute. On the day,
Speaker 5: we'd have little competitions to see who could kind of
Speaker 5: like you know, race the other who could climb faster
Speaker 5: and to the top. I had a bottled proseco share
Speaker 5: for both of us.
Speaker 2: Oh that's cool.
Speaker 6: I don't know why.
Speaker 2: This feels like a jewbill date. Race each other and
Speaker 2: then drink some Proseecca.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I just really enjoyed it. And we
Speaker 5: had the drinks we headed back to our cars. But
Speaker 5: then after that, I haven't heard from her, and so
Speaker 5: I I've been thinking about her, and I've texted her
Speaker 5: a couple of times. Nothing too you know, repetitive or
Speaker 5: what have you.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I haven't heard from her. So I'm wondering
Speaker 4: what's up.
Speaker 3: Is there anything that might have happened on the date
Speaker 3: that could be the reason why she's not hitting you back?
Speaker 4: Not really part of me. I'm a little bit nervous that.
Speaker 5: You know. There was one point when I was hiking
Speaker 5: and you know, trying to race up in front of
Speaker 5: her that uh it was it was a little bit difficult.
Speaker 4: I had to stretch a little bit and I farted
Speaker 4: a little and I was I was in front of her.
Speaker 4: Not not like it wasn't a big fart. It wasn't loud.
Speaker 4: I don't think it was. It was that bad.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I don't know if I could exactly smell it.
Speaker 4: I don't know if she could.
Speaker 6: But maybe that's kind of mortifying.
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, that could be, you know, did say anything
Speaker 2: about Yeah?
Speaker 5: No, And that's like one of the things is that
Speaker 5: we you know, we hit it off very well. I
Speaker 5: thought it was really rare to find a woman that's,
Speaker 5: you know, just very authentic. She wasn't arrogant, she wasn't
Speaker 5: full of herself at all. She's a great listener and
Speaker 5: she just great storytellers. It was amazing aid to listen
Speaker 5: to her tell all these all these tales of different
Speaker 5: adventures he's had. And so no, I don't think she
Speaker 5: would be the type to be that standoffish about it.
Speaker 4: If that was the case, I really don't know.
Speaker 2: And then I'm trying to play it off at all,
Speaker 2: you know, like there's a weird tree around here, it
Speaker 2: smells weird.
Speaker 7: I was.
Speaker 5: I was just trying to be coy and just not
Speaker 5: say anything about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably good.
Speaker 6: Yeah, probably Would you really go somebody if they tooted?
Speaker 2: No, I don't think I would either, but just for
Speaker 2: one to know. But if they're doing repeatedly, you know
Speaker 2: maybe yeah, because that's just a little dig like step
Speaker 2: out of the room.
Speaker 4: We were outdoors, So I'm hoping it was just the
Speaker 4: one toot.
Speaker 5: I don't exactly recall because I was so flustered by
Speaker 5: that first one.
Speaker 2: I don't know, flustered by the first one. If it
Speaker 2: could have been a rampage of two, you don't know, well,
Speaker 2: then I could see it all right, man, Well we'll
Speaker 2: try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 8: Okay, I appreciate it.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her
Speaker 2: see she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe
Speaker 2: get you another date.
Speaker 4: Thank you? Y yeah? Man?
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's First Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Aaron is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Lilah,
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him
Speaker 2: another date because he definitely wants to see her again.
Speaker 2: Before we do that, though, Aaron, why don't you refresh
Speaker 2: everybody's memory about your date with Lilah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, went up on a hike, a little bit of
Speaker 5: climbing head prosecco at the top of the hike, and
Speaker 5: I'm worried that maybe she's ghosting me because I might
Speaker 5: have tooted a little for being nice about it.
Speaker 2: Now you say a little, it makes it sound like
Speaker 2: you did it a bunch. She said it was just
Speaker 2: one time.
Speaker 4: I think it was just one time.
Speaker 5: But I'm trying to be, you know, fair and don't
Speaker 5: want to be overly concervative.
Speaker 4: That's not a case.
Speaker 2: But you weren't like throwing it in her face.
Speaker 4: It's not literally I don't think so. But now you
Speaker 4: guys got me a second guess.
Speaker 2: Hopefully it's not a tute. Yeah, funny. All right, Well
Speaker 2: let's see what it is. We have to call her.
Speaker 4: You ready, yep?
Speaker 2: Here we go.
Speaker 6: Hello, Hi, May.
Speaker 2: I speak to Lilah? Please? Hey Lila? How are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel from a radio show that's called
Speaker 2: The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 7: Hi, Lilah.
Speaker 6: The radio show likes to be here too. So my
Speaker 6: name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8: Oh wow here.
Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 8: Yeah, of course?
Speaker 2: Oh sweet, well, we love you so hey, Lila, are
Speaker 2: you ghosting anybody?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, So you know how we do the segment the
Speaker 2: first day follow up where if you're ghosting someone, they
Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 2: ask you about it. Yeah, his name is Aaron.
Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, erin Yep, yep, Aaron. Aaron's nice, Aaron's cool.
Speaker 2: I said, it's been about two weeks, said two weeks.
Speaker 2: About two weeks since you guys want on your date?
Speaker 8: I guess, I guess. Since we're here, we have to
Speaker 8: talk about it. Huh the kids.
Speaker 7: Air's a good guy, and because I liked Aaron, I
Speaker 7: will be honest here.
Speaker 8: All right, Aaron and I go along. Great. We had
Speaker 8: such a wonderful time. It was really awesome.
Speaker 7: So we went on a hike and we drink some
Speaker 7: persecco and had a lot of good talks. Okay, beyond that,
Speaker 7: like he kept talking about all these adventures that he
Speaker 7: would go on with.
Speaker 8: All these hot, amazing women that would go on adventures
Speaker 8: with him.
Speaker 7: So there was Michelle, there is Sheila, there was Shoanna,
Speaker 7: there was He was talking about all of these.
Speaker 8: Women, and I just don't know where I fit into that,
Speaker 8: because he had like a ton of hot girls friends.
Speaker 2: He was talking about other women going out with other
Speaker 2: women on your on.
Speaker 7: Your date, well, how they would go hiking and stuff,
Speaker 7: like he would go on adventures with women.
Speaker 6: I feel like you.
Speaker 2: Could easily say all the adventures you've been on and
Speaker 2: not mention any other girl.
Speaker 3: Yeah, at the same time, you got to be thankful
Speaker 3: that he did mention all of these women's names, because
Speaker 3: what does that mean?
Speaker 6: Like, are you just another adventure?
Speaker 8: So yeah, that's why I haven't called it back.
Speaker 7: I just you know, I felt like I was just
Speaker 7: on the rolodex at that point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how did that come up?
Speaker 6: Did he say if they were somebody that he was dating?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 7: No, I mean like he feels like he was totally
Speaker 7: into me, and like that's what it was kind of confusing,
Speaker 7: Like I just thought that he was into me, But
Speaker 7: why would you be named therefter being like a ton
Speaker 7: of other women on our adventure?
Speaker 8: So I just kind of thought that he was I
Speaker 8: don't know, one of those. I think he may be
Speaker 8: like a boy, I guess.
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, vibes a lot of the time those
Speaker 3: f boys though, that's their insecurity coming out and they
Speaker 3: want you to think that they're so cool because all
Speaker 3: of these women have spent time.
Speaker 6: That's my feels on it.
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm wrong, but as somebody who spent a lot
Speaker 3: of time with F boys, that's kind of the.
Speaker 2: Vibe that I get. Yeah, there are guys that will
Speaker 2: talk about other women on dates because they think it's
Speaker 2: gonna make you want them more.
Speaker 3: Right, and it just doesn't. It doesn't like F boys
Speaker 3: aren't in anymore ps like at all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, for myself, Elilah, thank you for telling us
Speaker 2: about Thank you for being honest with us about while
Speaker 2: you're ghosting him. And I don't know if you remember
Speaker 2: or not, but Aaron has been listening this whole time,
Speaker 2: but you know, he farted. Aaron, she knows you farted.
Speaker 4: I knew she heard that. I knew it.
Speaker 6: That's so funny. Wait, but are you an F boy?
Speaker 4: I'm no, No, Okay. So I do have a good
Speaker 4: explanation for all the women.
Speaker 5: Honestly, they are all friends and I mean that sincerely.
Speaker 5: Most of the women that I go on these you know,
Speaker 5: hikes with, it just reminded me of them. And that's
Speaker 5: why I brought it up, is because you know, kind
Speaker 5: of situational memory, kind of thing. Most of the women
Speaker 5: are all in relationships already, so and and that's the thing,
Speaker 5: that's why I was mentioning those names is because they
Speaker 5: don't mean anything.
Speaker 8: All right, So they're just friends.
Speaker 4: And I guess like you're just friends.
Speaker 7: At school, like I don't know you kind of you
Speaker 7: can't even think that you were in.
Speaker 2: Florid though, do you not believe them?
Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm not I And it kind of like.
Speaker 5: I do look out for those types myself because I
Speaker 5: try not to be that.
Speaker 4: Look. I was raised by a single mom. I have
Speaker 4: two sisters.
Speaker 5: I got an older sister, younger sister, So I really
Speaker 5: I strive.
Speaker 4: Not to be that guy. And I don't want to
Speaker 4: be that guy. Ever.
Speaker 8: Well that's school I've got. I don't want to be
Speaker 8: just a girl that anybody calls like.
Speaker 7: I definitely want to beody serious about me and I
Speaker 7: really enjoyed our time together. I just never want to
Speaker 7: feel like I'm one of one hundred eight or any
Speaker 7: you know, I don't want competition, So Aaron, just let
Speaker 7: me know. Like you talked really fondly about Michelle, so
Speaker 7: it kind of sounded like you and her had a
Speaker 7: sing like maybe over the summer.
Speaker 8: So did I miss that?
Speaker 5: Sorry? Okay, So Michelle and I had a thing over
Speaker 5: the summer in high school.
Speaker 4: She is a friend from high school.
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, I've just known her a long time and
Speaker 5: that's why we just go way back.
Speaker 4: High school summer, last summer or high school summer, no,
Speaker 4: high school summer.
Speaker 5: And she has been married and has kids yet. No,
Speaker 5: she's just a friend.
Speaker 8: Okay, all right, all right, that's cool. Oh yeah, do
Speaker 8: you have any like guys that are your friends? Do
Speaker 8: you hang out with guys?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, of course.
Speaker 5: Okay, not only do I know all of the husbands,
Speaker 5: all the significant others of all these women, But no,
Speaker 5: I got my I got there's Caleb, there's Derek, a
Speaker 5: couple of guys that are from work.
Speaker 4: Then when we.
Speaker 5: Hang out, you know, they get drinks every week after
Speaker 5: the work.
Speaker 8: All right, that's reassuring.
Speaker 2: All right, So do you believe him then, Lilah.
Speaker 8: You know what, I don't think he's lying.
Speaker 2: Okay, we would you like to go on another day
Speaker 2: with Aaron. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7: I'm going to talk about a bunch of guys on
Speaker 7: our date, but sure, ok.
Speaker 6: Just don't fart.
Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, eron I.
Speaker 4: Thank you guys. I appreciate it.
Speaker 5: I'm glad to clear the air. Lilah, thank you for
Speaker 5: I'm excited for a date. And yep, you are welcome
Speaker 5: to talk about as many guys you want.
Speaker 4: I'll even throw
Speaker 5: In a free fart for you for you, Okay, congratulations,
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