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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to Cheeky's and Chill podcast. I

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Speaker 1: am super excited today because we have some special guests. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that means to you guys plural. So before I go there,

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Speaker 1: this is a very important topic for me because of

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Speaker 1: my mom.

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Speaker 2: And anyways, you know, before I get into that, let's just.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead and introduce my guests. I'm gonna start with

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Speaker 1: Cindy savanthez you guys, you guys will know her as

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Speaker 1: must be Cindy or lamas be. And she brought her

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Speaker 1: daughter Gotti short for Gattina.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, you guys. Hello, Thank you so much for

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Speaker 3: having us something so happy. It's a little different because it's.

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Speaker 1: Like a mom daughter chap. I'm super excited to be

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Speaker 1: here with you. So we're gonna try to keep it pg. Thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Although I know, I was like, I bring with tequila,

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Speaker 1: and then I was like, you know, wait, hold on, no,

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Speaker 1: we have an underage said no the Keila on the set.

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Speaker 1: But I am happy. Thank you guys for being here.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into this because the reason is this the

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Speaker 1: first time you guys do a podcast together. Yes, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, yeah first sea here.

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Speaker 2: We love that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, great, because for me, I was like, Okay, of

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Speaker 1: course I wanted to talk to you. We've done some

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Speaker 1: stuff together with Shapewear. By the way, you guys, Cindy

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Speaker 1: is wow. Honestly my hat's talk to you girl.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's literally day.

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Speaker 5: I love.

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Speaker 1: It means a lot to me, and you have really

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Speaker 1: taken and helped take our like brand to another level.

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Speaker 1: So I'll say that I don't care. I can't say

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Speaker 1: it's just me. I have people that have helped me.

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Speaker 1: You are definitely one of them. And also Miss Scattie here.

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Speaker 1: I know we have a collection as well. So I

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Speaker 1: wanted to have this conversation because I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: we've hung out and everything. And then I saw that

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Speaker 1: you have a very beautiful young daughter and I met

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Speaker 1: her and I was like, oh my god. I saw

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Speaker 1: her on Instagram live one day, not Instagram TikTok live,

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Speaker 1: it was to Talk live and I saw how like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I saw another side of her, like

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Speaker 1: said this girls, and she's a sales.

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Speaker 2: Person, a saleswoman like she was just people love you.

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Speaker 5: Girl, learning from the best teaching her. I love it.

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Speaker 1: You guys look alike a lot. I mean obviously that's

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Speaker 1: your mom, right, But I.

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Speaker 3: Trembled sometimes I see her and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: she's like a little mini me. It's crazy. It's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to teach her the ropes because I feel

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Speaker 3: like this is an amazing industry. And I remember when

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Speaker 3: she even like found out that I was working with you.

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Speaker 3: She was like, oh my god. And then well here

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Speaker 3: she is now, and it's so crazy, you know. So

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Speaker 3: she's beautiful and you had her at fourteen. I had

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Speaker 3: her at fourteen. Yes, we were fighting about the math

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Speaker 2: I was about to bring it up, but I'm not

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Speaker 2: gonna bring it up.

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Speaker 5: Ye bring it up, okay, because we were live today.

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Speaker 5: And then she was like, oh, I had her when

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Speaker 5: I was fourteen, which she did, but she found she said,

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Speaker 5: she found out that she was pregnant with me when

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Speaker 5: she was fourteen. But I'm a very good math person.

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Speaker 5: She found out she was pregnant with me at thirteen.

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Speaker 3: Start bringing it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's like fourteen.

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Speaker 3: She was like, no, it's thirty.

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Speaker 5: Her birthday's in January. So she turned fourteen a couple

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Speaker 5: So I was like, if you put two and two together,

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Speaker 5: I think I'm right, it's so crazy.

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Speaker 2: So she damn okay, baby, we hold lose your mom.

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Speaker 1: When she had fifteen two weeks before her sixteenth birthday,

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Speaker 1: MoMA would always say, oh, I had you at sixteen,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, Mom, it was two weeks before

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Speaker 3: That's so crazy. That's crazy. Yeah, that's definitely had her

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Speaker 3: before your mom had you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's why I wanted to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys should know who Cindy is. But

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Speaker 1: Cindy is an Aquarius, right.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually a Capricorn. You Oh my.

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Speaker 1: So she's a Capricorn. You're an influencer, you have your

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Speaker 2: And I'm glad that you're teaching.

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Speaker 1: Your daughter all these things because your relationship reminds me

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Speaker 1: why I was like, we got to talk about this

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Speaker 1: because there are others.

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Speaker 2: There are other sides of it.

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Speaker 1: You know, and I wanted to just say, is it

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Speaker 1: does it really exist because you guys are basically growing

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Speaker 2: You know? Has that been hard for you? Gouttie? Like

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Speaker 3: You can be honest, you could be honest.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, has it been hard, like in the sense of,

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Speaker 4: for instance, one thing that I used to hate what

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Speaker 4: would be like guys would flirt with my mom and this.

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Speaker 2: Is my sister. I am not her sister, her.

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Speaker 1: Daughter, you know, excuse me mother, you know, But has

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Speaker 1: that like, I mean, that's just an example. But is

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Speaker 1: it hard to have such a young, beautiful mom or

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Speaker 1: is it something that is exciting or you know anything?

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Speaker 5: I feel like yes and no, because it's like there's

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Speaker 5: like the good in it. And then there's like times

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Speaker 5: but I'm just like since I'm like, oh, like everybody

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Speaker 5: it in words, but like sometimes I feel like people

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Speaker 5: only like know who I am because of my mom.

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Speaker 5: You know, like there's kids at school that will like

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Speaker 5: I'll find out like, oh, like they just try to

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Speaker 3: And I'm just like, so, like you're kindly like reminded of.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I can understand. But I'm very proud of

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Speaker 5: sometimes I'm just like I'm just going to suck it up,

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Speaker 3: She is Like I'm looking at her and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I'm already wanting to cry.

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Speaker 2: We're going to cry today. Yeah, I can get that.

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Speaker 2: I can relate to that.

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Speaker 3: Which it's kind of similar to you because i mean,

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Speaker 3: like you're a public figure, and like I bet you

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Speaker 5: A bad thing, you know, Like I'm so happy for

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Speaker 5: there's times where I'm just like, like sinces, you just

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm just I'm just scutty, you know.

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Speaker 1: Like you know, but I get that I was in

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Speaker 1: you know, and growing up, I think before all of

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Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like that with your mommy?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes you do have to take care

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Speaker 1: you have fun and I love that.

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Speaker 5: love my mommy. I would do anything for her, anything

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Speaker 2: Help your mom a lot with your Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: She says, I'm like, yeah, just bring me my brother,

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Speaker 5: like I love my brother. So like I said, like

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Speaker 5: I'll do anything for her, I'll do anything for him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a good big sister and a good oldest daughter,

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Speaker 1: which is great. But I think what your mom means

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Speaker 1: to do is she doesn't want you to grow up

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Speaker 1: and resent her. No, maybe because I think for like

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Speaker 1: a while, I did feel like, oh my gosh, why

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Speaker 2: And it was just and Mom's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Talk to God. He knows why he made you the

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Speaker 2: oldest girl. You need to help me.

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Speaker 1: So it was like cause she was a single mom,

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Speaker 1: you know, so I was like, okay, but now I'm

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Speaker 1: like thank you mom, because she was so strict on me.

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Speaker 1: And she would always say, I'm like, why did weren't

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Speaker 1: you know, you were so strict on me. She's like, well,

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Speaker 1: I molded you. I had I you didn't come with

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Speaker 1: to do? And then it was just easier with your

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Speaker 1: other siblings, So I don't at all hold any resentment

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Speaker 1: if anything. I'm like, I'm so grateful. And going back

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Speaker 1: to when you were pregnant, was that hard for you

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Speaker 1: So I love the fact the relationship you guys have

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Speaker 3: It does, because I feel like my mom and I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And she also has other siblings like she has.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like really, okay, so that's yeah, I have

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh god.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like you're I see in a weird way,

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Speaker 1: I see myself in you because you're so mature the

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Speaker 1: you you, this is good that your mom is so

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Speaker 1: But let's be real. Do you guys ever feel any

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Speaker 2: Way towards each other? Or do you guys? I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you guys share, oh right or something we do.

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Speaker 2: I steal all her clothes actually, yeah, that's yeah. And

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Speaker 2: that's me and my mom.

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00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,960
Speaker 3: You know, a part of me, I will say, a

436
00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,040
Speaker 3: part of me I see her and I just see

437
00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,680
Speaker 3: like how like happy you are, and like how much

438
00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,560
Speaker 3: you just like glow everywhere you are and everything. I'm like, damn,

439
00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,960
Speaker 3: how come I couldn't like do that when I was younger.

440
00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,600
Speaker 3: But also, I mean, you have to like take into consideration,

441
00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,760
Speaker 3: like you know, you have your mom, you have your dad,

442
00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,439
Speaker 3: like you have all that. I had my mom, but

443
00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,439
Speaker 3: my mom had five kids and she was always working

444
00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,800
Speaker 3: like you know, like out in the grape vines and stuff,

445
00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,320
Speaker 3: so you didn't really have them a lot. Or like

446
00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,360
Speaker 3: my dad he left me really young, so I had

447
00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,920
Speaker 3: like trauma from like you know, I had my daddy

448
00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:39,919
Speaker 3: issues like since I was little. So I feel like

449
00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:41,640
Speaker 3: that's why I grew up like that. But I don't

450
00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:45,359
Speaker 3: get jealous of anything. I feel like proud, you know, like, yeah,

451
00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,119
Speaker 3: you're just doing every, literally every because you could have

452
00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:49,919
Speaker 3: turned out the same. Let's be real, you know, or

453
00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,640
Speaker 3: you could have been like just crazy and like, oh

454
00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,680
Speaker 3: my god, I think I'm living through her, like I'm

455
00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,040
Speaker 3: like reliving and I'm so young, so I'm for sure

456
00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,080
Speaker 3: reliving through her. Like I see her going out and stuff,

457
00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:00,439
Speaker 3: and I like hyper up. I'm like you do this?

458
00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:00,840
Speaker 5: Do that?

459
00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:01,400
Speaker 3: Have fun?

460
00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,320
Speaker 2: But I fairly go out.

461
00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:07,000
Speaker 5: I honestly, I'm a homebody. I don't like girl. I

462
00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:10,040
Speaker 5: like to stay home, Like I will pick staying home

463
00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,639
Speaker 5: and watching movies in my bed all day then to

464
00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:14,480
Speaker 5: go out and like party. I can't.

465
00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:15,960
Speaker 2: I like to party. Don't get me wrong.

466
00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,640
Speaker 1: I could rink here in there, but I'm more of like,

467
00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,440
Speaker 1: if you give me the choice, I want to just

468
00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,639
Speaker 1: stay in my pea chas, I'll stay in, I'll watch

469
00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,120
Speaker 1: out Netflix and chill, so I get you to cancher things. Yeah.

470
00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,040
Speaker 3: What about you, though, Like how do you feel like

471
00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,960
Speaker 3: do you feel like there's any like ever jealousy or

472
00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:33,879
Speaker 3: like kind of like resentment, a little bit of like,

473
00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,840
Speaker 3: oh why is my mom? Like so hong.

474
00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:41,480
Speaker 5: Like can be like a year old mom honestly, no question. Yeah,

475
00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:45,399
Speaker 5: I feel like if I can be honest, like there's

476
00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,119
Speaker 5: because I don't know if I want to, like okay,

477
00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:50,520
Speaker 5: let's just say okay. So I've always been like when

478
00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:52,959
Speaker 5: I was maybe like thirteen fourteen, I've always been so

479
00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:57,480
Speaker 5: like insecure about myself, okay, And like sometimes I look

480
00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:58,880
Speaker 5: at my mom and I'd be like, oh my god,

481
00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,760
Speaker 5: like she's so beautiful. It's like and then I look

482
00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,639
Speaker 5: at myself and then I'm gonna cry and I'm like,

483
00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,480
Speaker 5: I like and then I like look at her and

484
00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,600
Speaker 5: I think she's so beautiful, And then I look at myself.

485
00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:08,840
Speaker 5: I'd be like, why can't I look like her?

486
00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:09,080
Speaker 3: You know?

487
00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,480
Speaker 1: So it's like the only time I get it, I

488
00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,840
Speaker 1: get it. I get it completely because you do have

489
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:17,800
Speaker 1: a beautiful mama. But let me tell you and I'm

490
00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:20,200
Speaker 1: not just saying this because you are so beautiful, gutty,

491
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,800
Speaker 1: I'm not even my god like.

492
00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:23,119
Speaker 2: You're you're curvy.

493
00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,240
Speaker 1: You're beautiful to me, and I think it's I mean,

494
00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 1: that's how I was because I was.

495
00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,119
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes I was I had to wear bigger

496
00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,280
Speaker 2: sizes in my mom, you know, I know, but I'm trying.

497
00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,600
Speaker 1: I would think, like certain, so I get her in

498
00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 1: that aspect.

499
00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,960
Speaker 3: It's hard because we're on social media, you know, and

500
00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:41,320
Speaker 3: I feel like obviously me being like.

501
00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:43,639
Speaker 2: An adult or.

502
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,399
Speaker 3: Whatever, like I feel like here and there, you know,

503
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,080
Speaker 3: you're like I had her so young that I was like, oh,

504
00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:49,639
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get my tummy tuck as soon as I

505
00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:53,680
Speaker 3: can may and stuff. And but I always remind her

506
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,439
Speaker 3: like when I was your age, like I looked like you,

507
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 3: I had your body, I had all of that. But

508
00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,320
Speaker 3: it's hard when you're on social media because I actually

509
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,880
Speaker 3: went through like a twenty pound weight loss, which I'm

510
00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,760
Speaker 3: so proud of you because you're a beautiful then and

511
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,439
Speaker 3: you're beautiful now. But they would come at her and

512
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,119
Speaker 3: like why is your mom smaller than you? And like

513
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 3: why is you're not.

514
00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,159
Speaker 5: At one point, it got to me like one point,

515
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,600
Speaker 5: like before I'd be like, oh, like I just show

516
00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 5: the sugar and like not care what they tell me.

517
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,960
Speaker 5: But once I started getting older and like I look

518
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,160
Speaker 5: at myself more like when they would tell me stuff

519
00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 5: like that, it would honestly break my heart and I'd

520
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 5: be like dang, you know, because like I'd always try

521
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,840
Speaker 5: to picture myself as such a beautiful girl, which I am.

522
00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:31,680
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm very beautiful and you know, but

523
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,920
Speaker 5: at one point, I was just like, you know, why

524
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,919
Speaker 5: can't I look like these other girls, you know, because

525
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,159
Speaker 5: the Internet was really getting to me. But after I

526
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 5: lost like my weight and stuff, I don't think anybody could.

527
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 5: Like I feel like, I'm like yeah, like I feel

528
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,199
Speaker 5: like I'm like the most beautiful girl in the you know.

529
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,640
Speaker 5: Now I feel confident like now, Like before people would

530
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 5: be like, oh, you're so pretty and I'd be like, oh,

531
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 5: thank you, but like no, and now I'm just like

532
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,359
Speaker 5: thank you, like because I feel pretty.

533
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 3: You know, it's beautiful and I feel like you're also

534
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 3: I mean, she was growing, you know, and I feel

535
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 3: like it's just so crazy, like any size is beautiful.

536
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,680
Speaker 3: Like I feel like people have made a team, Like

537
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 3: if your mom looks a certain way, like you have

538
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 3: to look like your mom, and you don't like you're

539
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 3: so beautiful the way you are now the way you

540
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 3: were before. But I'm glad in a way. I mean,

541
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 3: I'm not glad that she got attacked that way, but

542
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 3: it kind of like brought a side out of her

543
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 3: that made her want to like change things about herself.

544
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 3: And she did and everybody just shut up.

545
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 5: Like the gym, yeah, like she's Jimmy, Like I've been

546
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 5: hitting the gym. I've been detox. Seeing all of that literally,

547
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 5: like that made me like change the way I see myself.

548
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 1: So what you did was you took those bad comments

549
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 1: and used it for constructive criticism, which is hard to do.

550
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 1: A lot of people, let me tell you, would have

551
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 1: crawled under a rock gained more weight. But you said,

552
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, cool, this is gonna I'm gonna

553
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: use this as positive reinforcement to say I'm gonna get better,

554
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,239
Speaker 1: because that's what I did when people would I'm telling you,

555
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:58,959
Speaker 1: for a long time, I was in my mom's shadow,

556
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 1: and I felt like I'm like, am.

557
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,120
Speaker 2: I ever going to be seen for me? Am I ever?

558
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 1: Are people gonna listen to my music is like, oh,

559
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 1: you don't sing like your mom and this and that.

560
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, First of all, I had to learn

561
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 1: to say, I don't. I'm not my mom. I'm not

562
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 1: gonna sing like my mom. I am myself. And once

563
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,639
Speaker 1: I embrace that, and I think that's what you're doing,

564
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 1: it just makes you glow in a different way. So

565
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 1: I honestly around of applause for God, you guys know

566
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 1: that's beautiful because I know people have been you know

567
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 1: how the internet girl. To me, it's a beautiful thing

568
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: that we're able to connect with our followers.

569
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 2: But also as.

570
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: It's like, there are people on there that are so

571
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 1: mean and how can you guys be so fucking mean?

572
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: I don't understand And and you know, for.

573
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 3: Me, I'm like for them to be mean to me

574
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 3: all day long, I don't care. But when it comes

575
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 3: down to your kids, but you have no control over that.

576
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 3: You know, like you could sit there and curse people

577
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 3: out all day long, but the moment that they're seeing

578
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 3: that it's bugging, they're gonna continue doing it. And I

579
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 3: feel like that's what they did to Karina for the

580
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 3: longest time. But I'm just glad that, like I said,

581
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,920
Speaker 3: you know, she she's glowing and you know you're in

582
00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 3: high school, you're going through all your changes and stuff

583
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 3: like that. I'm just glad that you changed for the better,

584
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 3: like she said, you know, so yeah for schever. Let

585
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 3: that get to you, baby, because you.

586
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: Are beautiful and I'm not just saying it. I think

587
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 1: you're very pretty girl since I met you have a

588
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,880
Speaker 1: beautiful smile, I have a beautiful personality. So those things

589
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: are always going to exists exist, They're not always They're

590
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: not gonna go away. I mean, I think when you're

591
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 1: doing something right and people imagine if they didn't talk

592
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: about you, it's like an cibns. But if people are

593
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: saying stuff, it's because you're doing something that bothers them.

594
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: So it's like, as long as you just now you're

595
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 1: really like, you know what, whatever, I'm gonna work on myself.

596
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: I would always tell people because they call me father

597
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: for like ever on the internet. They still do at

598
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 1: this point, but I'm like, well, can you ever call

599
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 1: me ugly?

600
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 3: Oh?

601
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: You sure can't. Can you call me dumb? You can't?

602
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

603
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call me fat all you want, because I

604
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 1: saw I'm the Miss Piggy girl. Yeah, I miss Piggy.

605
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: And then one day I said, okay, fine, I'm gonna

606
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: be Miss Piggy for for for Halloween. I sure did.

607
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: I said, Ah, that's the best thing you could do.

608
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: I was like, and now I'm cute.

609
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 3: I've always been cute.

610
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: Tell me because I know you're er open about your

611
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: relationship with Brandon. How has that been, Because I'm gonna

612
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: tell you, I was so hard with my mom on

613
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: on like her boyfriends.

614
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 2: I was like, you're not bringing them around my siblings

615
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: and blah blah blah blah. I could control her.

616
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 1: She's like, well, I was like, this is my I'm

617
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,360
Speaker 1: gonna do whatever I want with it. But how is that?

618
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: How has it been difficult to navigate that?

619
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 5: Or?

620
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 3: Honestly, Krana has always been very like quiet about because girl,

621
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 3: I mean, I've lived my life, you know, And I

622
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 3: feel like that's something I could relate to with your

623
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 3: mom too, because I feel like I've gone through it,

624
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 3: like I haven't obviously been married for like the past

625
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 3: fifteen years, as she's been alive, like I've I've lived

626
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 3: my life. It has been a little like I was

627
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 3: to see the CASKM like, oh my god, Like I'm like,

628
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 3: here goes another boyfriend, or like here goes another part

629
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 3: of my life. But you also have to remember me.

630
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 3: I remind myself like I'm still a human and I

631
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 3: had them so young that I'm still living my life

632
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: and was no up until now. Yeah Brandon post so

633
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,679
Speaker 3: I've seen okay yoh most for a long time and

634
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 3: they love him so much, but growing up. And I

635
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 3: bring this up because I want to ask you to,

636
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 3: like how have you felt? Because I know it's probably

637
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 3: been like uncomfortable. And that's another thing you guys have

638
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 3: in common, you know, is that like you guys have

639
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 3: gone through that you didn't have like the regular mom

640
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 3: and dad that were like married your whole life like

641
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 3: a lot of people do. And I feel like that's

642
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 3: been a tough thing for me. But like I know

643
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 3: that my kids are going to grow up one day

644
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 3: and I know that I still have to live my

645
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 3: life and as long as I take care of them,

646
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 3: like I feel like I don't know they should respect me.

647
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 3: But I also feel like you have your own emotions

648
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 3: and like your own feelings, and how have you felt,

649
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 3: and like how do you feel now? Like how have

650
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 3: you felt with like like my entire life and the

651
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 3: dating and like now like do you feel like.

652
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 5: I don't know how to like put it like in

653
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 5: words though it's like like it didn't it didn't bother me.

654
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 5: I didn't, like I didn't care because like I knew

655
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 5: my when my mom was doing, she was living her life.

656
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 5: But as I don't know that's been honest, like I

657
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 5: don't know.

658
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: How to put it in wrong words like or there's

659
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: some that some boyfriends or something in her past that

660
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 1: were necessarily nice to you guys, and you felt like.

661
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 5: I would say yes, but I would also say no

662
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 5: because I was also very hard when it came to

663
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 5: like my mom getting into a relationship, like I never

664
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 5: I never wanted to like get along with them, like

665
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 5: they would try to like create like some type of

666
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 5: bond with me, and like I would be like, you know,

667
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 5: because I was I was such a daddy's girl. So

668
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 5: it's like knowing that my mom was with another like guy,

669
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 5: I'd be like, no, I don't want you to like

670
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 5: be in my life because I only want my dad

671
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 5: in my life. Like I don't know, like it was

672
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 5: just my thoughts as a little girl, like they would

673
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 5: try to like be like close with me, and I'd

674
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 5: be like no, like get away with get away from me. Yeah,

675
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 5: Like I just didn't.

676
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

677
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 5: So I don't know, Like I feel like that's the

678
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 5: only thing like that. I just never wanted, like to

679
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 5: have bonds with them.

680
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 3: So but change with Brandon, I feel like, but I

681
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 3: do speak.

682
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 5: Oh, I know, me and Brandan Okay. Look. One thing

683
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 5: that I feel like that got me and Branden really

684
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 5: close was our music taste because he literally listens to

685
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 5: similar music to me. So it's like when I have

686
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 5: to go on car rids with him where it's just

687
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 5: me and him, it's not awkward because we listen to

688
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 5: the same music. We'll see, we'll sing the same music,

689
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 5: or we'll talk about something in the car.

690
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 3: But I do, I do, I do? Yeah.

691
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 5: But it's because Brandon is honestly really good at advice.

692
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 5: So I'm just like because he's also still young too,

693
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 5: you know, like they're young, so it's like when I

694
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 5: tell them, like they give me really good advice, you know.

695
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,959
Speaker 5: So but I feel like another thing that got me

696
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 5: really close with Brandon is just like I got older,

697
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 5: Like I'm older now, and it's like I think I

698
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 5: see things differently. So, like I gave you a try

699
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 5: to get like a close bond with Brandon, especially because

700
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 5: I felt like he was making my mom really happy,

701
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 5: and you know, I've always wanted my mom to be happy.

702
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 5: So like I tried, and I got really close with

703
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 5: him in like a really short amount of time. And

704
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 5: I was always telling my mom, I need him to

705
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 5: be your boyfriend. I want him to ask you to

706
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 5: be your girlfriend already. And the day that he told

707
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 5: me that he was going to ask her, I was

708
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 5: so happy because, like, I don't know, like him and

709
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 5: my mom were just there's something like I just want.

710
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 2: To like, they just have so much money.

711
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: I know.

712
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 2: I love that. I see you so happy, Cindy. How

713
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: long have you guys been together?

714
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 3: Almost two years? Wow?

715
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 1: And when you told me his age because I'm dating

716
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: a younger guy, we talked about that that's why I

717
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: have the same age. Yeah, the same difference, but yeah, yeah,

718
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: seven years younger than us. And at first I was like,

719
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't know, but he's there.

720
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 5: I don't know.

721
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: They're more mature than their age for sure.

722
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: And the fact that he like has accepted you with

723
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: your two kids I think that says a lot about

724
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: him and the fact that your kids love him. To me,

725
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: it's like my hat off to him, because I know

726
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,959
Speaker 1: it's not easy. And sometimes some of my mom's boyfriends

727
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: were mean, yeah, and I would protect my siblings. And

728
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: then finally when she did find someone that I thought

729
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:34,360
Speaker 1: was great for her, I was like, oh my god,

730
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 1: thank god. You know.

731
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: So I get what you're saying. You're like, I just

732
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 2: want my mom.

733
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 5: To yeah, which is why I'm like more, Oh, I

734
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 5: was going to say something and like I lost them.

735
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 2: Sorry, but no, no, no, I'm.

736
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 5: Having a brain fart too. That's okay. There, I think

737
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 5: I got it, okay. So I feel like that's another

738
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 5: reason why I got a little bit closer with Brandon

739
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 5: is because like he did take us in like if

740
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 5: we were his kids. He's like, yeah, like he's trying,

741
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 5: and he's caring and loving to us like if he's

742
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 5: our like like if we're his kids, you know. So

743
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 5: he's never like failed to make us feel like you

744
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 5: guys are not my kids, so I'm not gonna like

745
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 5: but he shows that he loves us very much. And

746
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 5: I love Brandon a lot, and I'm very grateful to

747
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 5: have him as my second dad.

748
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 2: Brand it is Brandon, Yeah, he really does.

749
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 5: And his family like his brother. His brother is like

750
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 5: my best friend. He's literally my best friend. So because

751
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 5: we're similar in age, he recently just transferred to our

752
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 5: to my school. So now it's like our bond is

753
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 5: just like getting closer and closer as the days go by.

754
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 2: That's awesome. And Mom's getting so emotional over there.

755
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 3: I am because I'm just thinking about like the haunt

756
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: ey thing. I just feel like for me, it's very

757
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 3: different with Brandon and the kids because I see how

758
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 3: obsessed they are with him, and I'm like, dang, like this,

759
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 3: I hope this is it for us because I see

760
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 3: how happy they are, and I feel like we've been

761
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 3: through a lot, Like I've put them through a lot.

762
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 2: And don't say you've put them through a lot.

763
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 5: I have.

764
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 3: You know with my life, haven't you were you were,

765
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: you were growing, you were grow going along with us

766
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: as we were growing, and you didn't know much and

767
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 3: you know.

768
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 5: You were still a little girl deep inside trying to

769
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 5: I'm still a little girl like your life.

770
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: We know once for you, guys's stability. So she's just

771
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: we're all praying that this is.

772
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 5: She's come such a far, Like it's comes such a

773
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 5: long way, it's crazy.

774
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's not even Brandon, Like it's just I

775
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 3: think in the moment that we're in in our life

776
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: right now is just so beautiful because like even you know,

777
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 3: we just got our house almost a year ago, and

778
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 3: like just I remember like since you know, like she

779
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 3: was a baby and stuff, like we just always moved,

780
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 3: like always moved, always moved, and just being here. I

781
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 3: think it's like such a beautiful moment because like simples, yeah,

782
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 3: like it was always like okay, this is not working out,

783
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 3: We're going to the next place, and like this is

784
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: not working out with this relationship, We're going back to

785
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: moms and okay, well now it's not working out with

786
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 3: my mom because you know, we don't get along like that.

787
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 3: So now we're going to the next place. So I

788
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 3: feel like we went through all of that that, like

789
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 3: I think getting our house and like just where we're

790
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 3: out with Brandon and us, like you guys, how grown

791
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 3: you guys are and stuff. I feel like we're just

792
00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 3: like in such a beautiful moment.

793
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: Like you have your home stability, that's awesome, and I honestly,

794
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you here. I was watching your

795
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: live the other day. I was doing my makeup too,

796
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm gonna go on TikTok. It's rare,

797
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: you guys, And you were up at eight in the morning,

798
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: like we were both doing our makeup and I was

799
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: listening to you and I was and I'm like, I

800
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: love how raw you are with your followers and how

801
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: you're just straight up you know people. Some people can

802
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 1: say oh this and that at the end of the day.

803
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: I love that you're like, hey, guys, I really want

804
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: to take my kids to Hawaii, like help me to me,

805
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: I think, like it makes me like she wants this

806
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: is this is something and thanks to all the people

807
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: that support must be Cindian and what she does as well,

808
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: Like I think that honestly, And you were thanking them

809
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: so much, like thank you, thank you. And I'm all

810
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: about people being grateful, and I love that about you

811
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, I saw you

812
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: build your pool, you guys, and this is all for you,

813
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: Like now you're you're living a different type of life

814
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: and this is for your kids. So I'm very I

815
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: haven't known you for that long, but I'm very proud

816
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: of you.

817
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 3: Thank you.

818
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 2: I am very proud of it.

819
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 3: I like to be as raw as possible with them,

820
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 3: one because I mean, I grew up in the hood,

821
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 3: like I mean, we grew up like you know, broke

822
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 3: and like not having it like you know, so I

823
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 3: know that, like they are real people out there that

824
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 3: support us, and I mean just the way we grow up,

825
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 3: you know, we didn't grow up with money, like, we

826
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 3: didn't grow up having it all together. So it like

827
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 3: built I built that for myself, and I built it

828
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 3: for myself because of them. Because honestly, if ms P

829
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,479
Speaker 3: CINDI wouldn't have happened, Like I don't know where we

830
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 3: would be, you know. So for me, like I can't

831
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 3: just take it as like oh they supported me, like good,

832
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 3: like I'm here and like I deserve and like I

833
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 3: just remember, like those are people that are probably going

834
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 3: through things that like I'm going through, and they relate

835
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 3: to me, and like I always like to make sure

836
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 3: to just let them in my life as much as

837
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 3: possible and also just remind them like of how grateful

838
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 3: I am, because I wouldn't be here if it wasn't

839
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 3: for them, you know, I don't even think I would

840
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 3: be the mom that I am, like the woman that

841
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 3: I am, if social media wouldn't have happened for me,

842
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 3: like I swear, you know, cause before that, I feel

843
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: like I was like I always had a void and

844
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 3: I feel like I was like a little loss and

845
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 3: like I was just always trying to find myself in

846
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 3: so many like different places where get Nola and you know,

847
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 3: and now you feel that social media like fill that void,

848
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 3: you know, because in our life, I feel like or

849
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 3: in my life, I feel like I have a lot

850
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 3: of void, but I feel like social media, like my

851
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 3: girls like feel that for me. I don't know, It's

852
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: just it's so beautiful. I'm so grateful.

853
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: I love that.

854
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: Having an attitude of gratitude is the biggest thing. I feel

855
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,479
Speaker 1: like when you do that mass, you know, it's just

856
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: being grateful. And it's beautiful that you're building this foundation

857
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: now for for Gotti. Because I see Gotti and I

858
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: see how she's just glowing as well. And now we

859
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: have our collab and shape Wear.

860
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 5: I'm so excited too.

861
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 2: So I just think it's awesome, you know.

862
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: And how do you feel are you scared to start

863
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: being like stepping into this whole influencer thing or you like,

864
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: this is what I want to do.

865
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 5: Oh, I'm not do. I go live at six in

866
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 5: the morning every day on Instagram, and I will talk

867
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 5: to my girls. I will talk to my girls. I

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Speaker 5: call them my girls too, because I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 5: like like I don't know. I love it. Honestly, I

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Speaker 5: feel like I see myself doing it, but then I

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Speaker 5: also see myself doing like other things that I like

872
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Speaker 5: plan on doing, but being an influencer, like following my

873
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Speaker 5: mom'sis will definitely be something that I plan on doing

874
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Speaker 5: because it's honestly, it's it's like it's such a beautiful

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Speaker 5: like moment, like going live and like talking to them

876
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Speaker 5: and acting with yeah, like it's yeah, comes the hate,

877
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Speaker 5: but then there's also the beautiful part.

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Speaker 1: There's always gonna be that ten percent of yeah, that

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Speaker 1: or hating, and that's cool. Just focus on the people

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Speaker 1: that love you, and I see a lot of people

881
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 1: love you, guys. That's what we got to focus on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And now that we're on this topic, I want to

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Speaker 1: see if you can tell my listeners maybe people and

884
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Speaker 1: I've suffered with this, so I give them advice as

885
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Speaker 1: much as I can. But if you can tell the

886
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Speaker 1: listeners or people that are watching us, like what you

887
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Speaker 1: went through with social media, is there anything that you

888
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: could tell them to give them girls your age, It

889
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Speaker 1: could be anyone that's suffering with cyber bullying, because I

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Speaker 1: know what that feels like.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I've gone through that too, Like I've gotten

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Speaker 5: bullied on the internet. But I feel like one thing

893
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Speaker 5: I will always say is like, don't let it get

894
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Speaker 5: to you, right, But obviously they're going to be hating

895
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 5: because you have something that they don't and they're jealous

896
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 5: of you because you're doing something right and they're probably not.

897
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Speaker 5: She's like, just don't want to get to you. You know,

898
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Speaker 5: like for anybody that's watching, you know, you're beautiful just

899
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Speaker 5: the way you are, and whatever the haters have to say,

900
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 5: let them hate, you know, just just live your life.

901
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Speaker 5: Because I went through it where it's like I would

902
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Speaker 5: like the haters would get to me and I would

903
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Speaker 5: get at Like there was this one time I went

904
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Speaker 5: live and like I was having such a bad day

905
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Speaker 5: and I was like, you know, I'm gonna go live

906
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Speaker 5: because the girls always like just take away like all

907
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 5: my distraction, like they distract me, and there was this

908
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Speaker 5: girl that was coming for me. I literally had to

909
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Speaker 5: run to the bathroom because I was gonna cry, Like

910
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Speaker 5: I wanted to just bom my eyes all in live

911
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Speaker 5: because I was like, you guys are freaking getting to

912
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Speaker 5: me because I'm having such a bad day that like

913
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Speaker 5: I had to go to the restroom and like take

914
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Speaker 5: a breather and like just told myself of the mirror,

915
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Speaker 5: like don't it get to you, Like you're good, you're beautiful.

916
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Speaker 5: This don't let anybody like bring you down. And then

917
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Speaker 5: I went back and like I kind of held myself together.

918
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Speaker 5: But the world is always gonna have the ugly part.

919
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Speaker 5: So I feel like some I've always liked to like

920
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 5: this is a little ghetto. But I've always told people

921
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Speaker 5: just thaw.

922
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Speaker 2: It out, go out.

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Speaker 5: I love that, dug out, you know, don't whatever you

924
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 5: know that, but douge it out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

926
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Speaker 1: My mom would always say, don't bitch out that, don't

927
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Speaker 1: bitch out cheeky's So I always have that in my mind.

928
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Speaker 1: So yeah, we gotta thugget out, girl, we gotta thuge

929
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Speaker 1: it out.

930
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Speaker 3: And sanity.

931
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Speaker 1: Is there anything you want to tell other mothers young

932
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Speaker 1: moms now that you have this amazing platform because people

933
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: always ask me, Chikiz, how do I do it? I

934
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Speaker 1: want to be an influencer. I want my own business. Like,

935
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Speaker 1: is there any advice that you can give them?

936
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Speaker 3: I think my advice is definitely if you're a young

937
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 3: mom out there, I know a lot of you guys

938
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Speaker 3: probably are going through struggles. You're probably going through something anything.

939
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 3: You're always gonna go through something, You're always gonna have

940
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 3: that mom guiltas keep on going. Do what you love

941
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 3: to do, do it with love, and God's gonna take

942
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 3: you through your blessings. He's gonna take you through your struggles.

943
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 3: He's gonna take you through literally anything you're meant to

944
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 3: go through. Like just like got he said, dug it out,

945
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 3: you know, like write it out. Just don't let the

946
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Speaker 3: world get to you whenever they're trying to like bring

947
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Speaker 3: you down and things like that. You know, I feel like,

948
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 3: just keep going focused on the positive. And that's like

949
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Speaker 3: the best advice I think I could give people.

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Speaker 1: For sure, because it's it's tough out there, you guys,

951
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: But thank God, this is something I always say the

952
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: world is tough, but thank God I'm tougher. So you

953
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: know we got this, and guys, thank you so much

954
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: for being on my podcast today for coming all the.

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Speaker 2: Way out here.

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Speaker 1: I got them sushi, you guys, because I was like

957
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: I felt, I was like, I'm gonnat to Starbucks sushi.

958
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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. If you guys want to share,

959
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Speaker 1: please your social media so people can follow, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Minus must be Cindy and Minus underscore got you with

961
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Speaker 3: two eyes Marie on all platforms.

962
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Speaker 2: Marie, that was gonna be my middle name.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, girl, you guys close this out being

964
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Speaker 3: like super I know well, you guys, thank you so

965
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 3: much for listening and watching Cheeky's and Chill.

966
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Speaker 1: I enjoyed this episode and I hope you guys did

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Speaker 1: as well. This is one that's super fun to my

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Speaker 1: heart and I just I don't know, I saw a

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00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,800
Speaker 1: lot of myself and my mom in them, so honestly,

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Speaker 1: around of applause, please you guys everyone here in the

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Speaker 1: studio and I will catch you guys on the next

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Speaker 1: episode of Cheeky's and chew Asteloego. This is a production

973
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Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and Mike Qutura podcast Network. Follow us on

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