WEBVTT - Ep72: Pansexuality and Sex with an Elder Feat QueenSpit 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:05.040 Hello, guys, what's up, what's up? What's up? What's up? 0:00:05.040 --> 0:00:09.200 What's up? What's up? What's up? Anyway, Welcome, It's another 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:11.799 episode of Horrible Decisions that we are in the studio 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:14.560 once again. Goddamn, we've been in the studio whole fucking 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.239 live bringing motherfucking context, y'all. I'm your girl, Mandy B. 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:22.400 And we are here yet again. I'm super excited. UM. 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:25.280 Before we introduced our guests this week, something we haven't 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:27.639 done in a while was kind of catch you guys 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:29.440 up with anything that's been new with us or going 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:32.839 on um with us. And so, as you guys know, 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:34.680 and as you guys have seen on my social media, 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.960 I am super excited. I fucking graduated and I don't 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:40.720 know how. I haven't even announced it Jesus Christ, but 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.279 I'm sucking finally done with school. As y'all know, UM, 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.920 for the last like six months, even the beginning of 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.640 this year, I dealt with busy season UM at my 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:50.479 part time job that I was at that I just 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:52.800 recently left because I have a new job offer on 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.800 the table that I start probably by the time this 0:00:55.840 --> 0:01:00.000 episode drops that I'm super excited for I'm done. Um. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.960 With school and I'm just super excited. Now it's on 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.399 to try to fucking prep for the motherfucking' c p A. 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.960 Good God, Jesus, I'm fucking nervous and already stressed about 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:12.759 doing that, But I'll start that in September. You can 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:15.600 spell cp A, but you just you just did c 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:21.920 p A CP what certified public account controlling, y'all, I'm like, 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:27.400 what the fuck you? She really trying to c p A. UM. Also, 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:32.360 I guess um as y'all may have noticed me talk 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:34.160 about him, and I know y'all have seen me in 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:38.000 the gym and cooking for him. Fellam Bay is goddamn 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:41.679 back slightly in the motherfucking pick. He came to the 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:45.160 live show. He was at the live show. So our 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:47.560 guest was looking like all bug eyed right now because 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:49.560 she was at the live show. But yeah, he came 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:51.440 to the live show. I don't know where I still 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:54.360 stand with him. Of course, all of y'all are like that, 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:59.760 because so even after the conversation with Mouse like, I 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:03.440 know that he's still like and I said it at 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:05.400 the live show. I don't know if he's someone I 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:08.639 see a future with, but I genuinely like him like 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.639 I like him, I like his company, I like our 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.680 time together. He put way too much pressure on that, 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:14.519 Like even after the mouse episode, I was kind of 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:17.079 annoyed because I was talking about how I wasn't in 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:20.240 a situation ship or whatever, but like everything needs way 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:23.680 too much definition and it's exhausting, and I don't think 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:25.400 it matters if you like that, And they can like 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.600 I like, I don't see a long term like I mean, 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:30.720 but to me, like, I'm really big on not wasting 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:34.120 my time time if you enjoy but I'm not going 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:37.000 to commence to him without me feeling like there's a future. 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:39.679 We've had to talk like He's like, what if I 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:42.160 want to make my girlfriend, I don't want to make 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:43.799 you my boyfriend. That's the thing. A lot of us 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.799 start using terms like burbage, like I'm wasting my time 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.280 or I wasted this time. If you enjoyed it, and 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:52.920 you're enjoying it and you continue to enjoy it, then 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:55.280 what the funk? Why is it such a big deal. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.400 I mean, I enjoyed something for five years and it 0:02:57.520 --> 0:03:00.200 kind of dragged me down. So I enjoyed something for 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.320 five years and kind of dragged me down. That something 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:05.000 we'll get out, You'll get something out of this either 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:11.079 the perspective, it's crazy because that's that's my concern. I'm like, well, 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:12.720 what am I really going to get out of this? 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.240 And and and I think that that's a good time. 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.040 I mean, but yeah, but I think it'sday night. What's 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:19.799 the big deal? Right? So I'll have him come over. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:24.080 But to the point where we are talking about you know, commitment, 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.919 or we are asking each other if we're our other partners, 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:31.320 like he's he's aware of um. And it's been a 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:34.760 conversation and so if he's looking for more, is he 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.160 also expecting me to cut seven off? So like we've 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:39.240 had this conversation and it sucks because I do like him, 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.839 but having that more thing, I also I'm sure he's 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:46.520 not into the open relationship thing type. So it's like 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.120 it sucks because I do like him. I enjoy being 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.160 around him. He listens to the show, like he came 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:53.200 and supported me at the show. He's now working me 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.040 out because I told him, like what things I want 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:57.240 to change with my body. He's doing that and he's 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.720 in school right now to become a personal trainer. And 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:02.160 so oh he's changing his life, hopefully not gonna be 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.400 able to finish school, you know, and because he's still 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:08.760 in Parlt. But like I mean, I mean, I'm just 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:11.280 saying so even stuff like that a future, I'm looking 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:12.800 at the future, and you're telling me you're on part 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.480 and I know at any point your po could be 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:17.560 a dick and you could be gone again. And being 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.440 that he got locked up within a month and a 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:21.919 half of us meeting, I do have that, you know, 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:24.240 I'm a little scared for that to happen again. I 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:29.080 definitely will say this again. Um, the future is definitely 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:31.880 something what I'm looking for. Like I thought my five 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.080 years was going to be my future and as everything 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:39.640 kept going like year after year, so it's just me 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:43.720 here right right, So it's it's definitely I I see, 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:45.599 I can't if I can't see a future with you, 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:49.240 If I can't see straight on longevity, I'm not And 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.760 that's kind of where I'm at. So he is back 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:54.359 in the picture. So I guess fella bay is a 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:56.719 hashtag again, because you'll be righting me. They laughed at 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:58.800 the mouth, saying he was sucking fourteen in the head. 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:01.880 Still I ain't got time for y'all. That mouse was like, 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:07.080 I think it's still fourteen, so what's been new? I 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.200 guess with with you Weezy, a lot of people have 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.800 been seeing you know, your friends came in town. You 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.320 are with geez now no more like and some people 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:15.880 are still asking about love a boy and we just 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:17.600 like y'all still got to catch up to episodes. Guy, 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.200 like some girl wrote me, was like, tell me when 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:23.640 you'll break up so I could just catch up. I mean, 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.440 I don't know, Like I think I even confused myself 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:31.240 during that Determining the relationship episode because like, like I mentioned, 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.000 like the label world like, I mean, some people are 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:34.760 calling it a boyfriend. To me, it's not. I mean, 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:38.120 we're definitely open and you know, we're sucking other people together. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.840 But I think I think you're you're you're dating like 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:43.800 you said, yeah, I don't think it's a situation ship 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.920 because it could be growing right, you know. Right at 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:52.680 the same time, I am actually realizing that I am 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.080 more of an advocate for open relationships and even though 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.400 what we're doing right now is considered monogamish by sucking 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:01.200 people together, I'm thinking about going on a date. Like 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:02.960 as great as it's going, he came to the Life show, 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:05.800 he met my friends. Like, I guess, I'm very worried 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:10.640 about the same thing happening to me again where I'm 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.400 getting invested in something is open, but there's no commitment 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.880 at the end. And it's strange because even though we 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:17.680 are both agreeing to not sleep with anyone else and 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:21.160 it's actually exclusive, something about me wants to just open 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.839 up a little bit more. And he's one of the 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:24.880 most amazing men I've ever been with and the best 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.599 sex I've ever had in my life. And I still 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:29.160 I feel like I just kind of want to just 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:36.600 have another person. Yeah, I mean I when I think 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.720 like that, honestly, it's like I know everything that I'm 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:40.800 putting on the table. I know what I'm giving, I 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:42.480 know my energy and everything like that, and I know 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:47.200 I'm not and I'm too much for one person, right 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:52.040 because I'm all over the place. Do you feel that 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:55.320 it really meaning it? But with what she just said, 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.560 do you think that maybe that's what it is? Do 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:00.320 you feel like maybe you're too much for one person? 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:02.680 Not that you can't handle only one person, but do 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:05.280 you feel like maybe you're just too much for one person? 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.240 I had this feeling that after the live show, even 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:09.880 though I knew how excited he was about it and 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:12.680 all of that, my life was a lot and it 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:15.520 has nothing to do with him, but everything to do 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:18.640 with you. I am a lot, and like I have 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.600 a lot. I'm multifaceted. Like it's just all these things 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.760 to me, and I just sometimes wonder if the things 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:27.120 that I I have going on are too much. I 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:29.920 think there's something that my mom told me when I 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:33.120 was like, really really young. She went because she whatever 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:35.560 lived in Cuba, you know, Communist Cuba, whatever, and it's 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:37.320 really different. Back in the day my mom was born. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:41.480 She had a man for every everything. Take it to 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.840 the movies, take her out to eat, take it to 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:47.120 the theater, take her to dance. So it's and then 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:52.360 I started realizing as more as I started opening up 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:56.559 my my doors into open relationships and polyamory and stuff 0:07:56.600 --> 0:08:00.880 like that, that yeah, there's certain like I don't want 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.760 to go to the movie with someone who's gonna be like, 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:05.559 because I talk, I'm gonna be like, what's gonna happen? 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:08.520 I don't know, you know, but you're gonna be like, oh, 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.640 shut up, I'm watching. I don't want to go with you, 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:12.200 You're gonna be like, I don't know's that's why now 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:15.280 I like that, you know that kind of like I 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:19.200 don't want to go, you know, pecast and something. Me 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.120 and him kind of went back and forth about because 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:22.640 he was like, you're not about to sit here and 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.520 tell me like you're about to have another nigga to 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.000 do something with it I don't like to do. And 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.600 I'm like, but I got so many friends, right, yeah, 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:32.160 it does so many friends. I'm not saying I need 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:35.520 so many love lovers can other people. It's not that 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.760 he's not fulfilling me, because I don't feel that, but 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:42.680 I will say, like he is my everything, and it's 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:46.559 just a lot for someone I've only been dated in 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:50.120 five months. You you you want to have an open 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:53.280 relationship right now because you don't want to commit kind 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.880 of That's what it's like. He's your everything, Like you 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.160 know what I mean. I don't mean it like fucking 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:00.920 Whitney Houston song or some ship losing I know, but 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:03.559 I meant like everything, like anything that I do I 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:06.960 do with him, storm king next weekend, to that art 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:10.079 big installation place, anything I want to do, it's him involved. 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:13.000 Every single thing, even when I went to see Jesus 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:15.640 in Meryll and the really big deal about that is 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.640 like I had to introduce him to it to like it. 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:19.319 I'm not gonna tell you. I don't want to sit 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:21.079 there with somebody at Jesus in Marylan to be like 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.319 the brand is wrong and then do all a K 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.319 s and just no Jesus in merriw with me in 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:27.959 that moment. I know he enjoyed it, and I know 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:29.400 we had fun with it. I know he loved it, 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:32.959 But I wonder, like, is this what I'm supposed to have? 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:37.600 And that's what's confusing me because I'm not unhappy. Why 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:41.680 am I looking for something if you're not happy? Because 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:45.120 long term and open relationship is gonna work. And if 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:48.199 I invest too much in one person, what if something 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:52.040 goes wrong and then it's fucked? What if I have 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:55.439 no one? You know I didn't? I mean, and that's 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:59.120 the thing about dating one person. If something goes wrong, 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.360 you're and it's so good right now, let's see. I 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:03.959 don't look at it that way, because I don't think 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.800 that you should look at being alone is being as 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.040 as it's fault. No no, no, no no no. Not 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:10.800 being alone, but like, I got no way to I 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:13.280 got nobody hang with. I don't have anybody go like 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:16.080 once you like, I keep bringing it up. I had 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.040 someone day in and day out for five years. Now 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.920 I don't. It's going on three months. That is scared. 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:22.000 I don't know what, nothing to get a call for 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.760 a drink right and mostly like, for example, a lot 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:28.199 of women when dating casually or whatever, they've got niggers 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:29.920 on the line, like maybe somebody to hit back up. 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:33.200 I really don't. I don't. I'm positive. So you're you're 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:36.360 all the way. Yeah, that is kind of like I'm 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:39.439 too cute for this. I feel like, well, guys, and 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:42.120 it's funny that you keep using this word everything. I 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:47.120 want to tie that into the show today. Everything and 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.720 being attracted to everything. And that's why we have our 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:53.400 guests here today. And I'm super excited to bring her on. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.360 I know you're excited to this this um so our 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:58.760 guests talking about how you end up on. Yeah, well, 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.439 our guest today, guys, um is. I don't want to 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:03.360 call you a super fan, but she loves the show. No, 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.800 I'm a supera we can do that. Yeah, she listened 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.719 to the show, but she's super dope and what she does. Um, 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.480 you guys may know her as Queen spit on social 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:13.240 media talk about how she came up to us. So 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:15.560 you didn't have a ticket for the live show? How 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.800 did you get one? Less? Okay, so my friend yeah 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:23.280 sold out completely? Um what I think? Um? The page 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.480 in general said, if you know, last minute things happened. 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:27.120 So if you have a ticket and you can't make it, 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.560 posted up. I said, I definitely want a ticket. If 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:31.280 anyone has one, hit me up. But you were one 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:34.520 of there was like people, how did you get it? 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:38.360 This is exactly what happened. This girl, I don't I'm thinking. 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:41.880 Her name is Mignondi and she was totally sweet. She 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.520 was like, I was on a on a podcast about 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:46.959 a month a month ago called Unwifeable. They did a 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.959 live show. They wanted me to be on it. I went, 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:52.600 she had heard me on the show. Okay, she follows 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:53.760 me and stuff like that. She was like, I heard 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:55.400 you on the show and I just feel like you 0:11:55.840 --> 0:12:00.200 have to be there. Yeah, I'm like, thank you so much. 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:02.920 Like because again, you know, she follows me, so I 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:04.920 guess she saw all the times that I've you know, 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:08.559 commented on y'all you read tweet every every tweet, and guy, 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:11.319 I was I'm still angry that Wheezy you do not 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:15.400 have a Twitter. She runs, she runs the horrible pod page. Okay, 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:20.160 but no, yeah, but not on accounts account there's really 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:26.040 no stop. I don't get sleep from Instagram. I mean 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:29.600 you will, you will because it's gonna get up. At first, 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:31.040 I was like that. When I first started my Twitter 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.920 about two years ago, I was like, oh my god, Twitter. 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.080 Yeah again. That was also my first time that as 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.840 demeris vera ak queen spit, I came onto a social 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:42.560 media so queen spit. So can you explain? Um? Can 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:45.640 you tell our listeners what you do? So? I am 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:53.120 an amateur adult performer okay, basically known for sucking Halliday, Yes, sucker, 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.839 are you you a one? I'm not, you know, I'm not. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:00.520 That's why her nails are. Don't like that. These are digs, 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:06.400 dick grippers, right. No. We were interviewing a dude that 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:09.000 was like, don't care. It was Alex said that ship. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:13.120 Let me tell you they don't. But when they but 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.920 when they one nice, they love it. Yo. I've had 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:19.160 I've had men stop me in the street, like, can 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:23.000 I see your nails? They're like, and I'm like sure, 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.440 and they're like they're so nice? Are they in short? 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.480 Because there's stiletto so they're I literally told her in 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:30.600 the hallway, I said, ain't no way you fucking any 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:33.360 bitches right now with them goddamn, was like, I really 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:35.679 don't feel like you can wipe your ass properly, and 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.880 I definitely do. And then there's white How do you 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.559 wipe your ass with long nails? Because I think that's 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:41.839 a comic un so like you literally have to you 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.280 bawl it up. And then you first of all, don't 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.160 get no cheap nails. Don't go no Chinese people who 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:49.920 make sure you go to a good place. Not Chinese people. No, 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.880 I don't go to Chinese. Who do you go to Whetnamese? No? 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:58.800 I go to Spanish people. What I don't know, I like, okay, 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:02.040 so I'm gonna put you I like, I like Vietnamese. 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:06.640 I've had a few bad experiences, but anyways, make sure 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:08.120 your news want to go because you'll know what they're 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.480 talking about when they're talking about you. That's not at 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:14.120 an experience where the first time I had a Spanish 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:17.000 girl through my nails. I was like, oh, ship, they're tough. 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:20.760 Like you know, I'm still cooking. I'm still doing all 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:22.360 of this stuff like you don't want to do. Like 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:24.120 the person that does my nails has been doing my 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.640 nails for a year and I don't have breaks, like 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.440 they don't break, don't break. So not only I want 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:31.680 to let you guys know. I know, Um, we just 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:34.160 had Raquel Savage on the show not too long ago, 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:35.840 so I don't want you to think that this is 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:39.720 gonna be another sex worker episode. Um. I really dug 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:43.240 into Demeris and who she is. And I'm super excited 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.480 because it's the first time that we're going to be 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:49.000 able to talk about pan sexuality. So we've talked, we've 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:52.320 had the first few married, Yeah, who's been married? And 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:55.400 then you're you have a lot of things going on. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.840 So I'm excited to talk about it. But wheezy, um 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.160 had an article that was to her. No, I think, 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.200 what's the sen to me and you? Um, I don't know. 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:06.680 I didn't pull it out, So American student, this is 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:08.600 the headline. Let me shout out. Who sent it to us? 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:15.640 Oh big Mama Losey sent it okay, big Mama American 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:19.120 student hooks up with fifty guys in Japan. Here's her verdict. 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:23.560 And after Latina YouTuber slowly building up her fan base 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:26.880 where she describes her escapades in Japan and she's nineteen 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:29.520 years old, she described her life as a home in 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:34.640 her videos. Her instagram is up Brianna super cute Um. 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:37.000 She revealed that she's left a dozens of Japanese men 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:40.680 and spent a few months um two videos she gives 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.600 intimate details about her sexcapades. She says that they have 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.280 small dicks and that they make up for it with 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:50.520 crazy four play involved with armpits, knee caps and eating 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:55.160 a lot of caps. What what can you do with 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:59.240 knee caps in the bed? Girl? Wait, let me run 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:01.040 my nails up the back of your knee cap in 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.240 the right way real quick. You're gonna be like the 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:06.440 back of the knee cap is had to me from 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.960 my ankle to my knees. It's like it's a tangle. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.320 I don't girl, look the first time it was done 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:13.920 to me, as I see, I wish I knew about 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:15.320 it because then I would have been like I would 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.840 have looked at the kink for kneecap. Maybe she sent 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:20.440 us this girl to fucking interview her. But she has 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.160 a Patreon account where she tells her ship and says, 0:16:23.440 --> 0:16:26.040 I will be living from Japan from now until one 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.120 possibly beyond, and I would love to share my journey. 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:31.840 My content is multidivengeable Japanese living, tips, tricks, mental health 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:36.120 and so real quick you went to Japan, would you 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:39.520 were you interested in fucking an Asian or have you? 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:41.160 Did I talk about Oh this is what I told 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.200 said with Mom. I wanted to have my um drug 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:46.800 deal or accouza date. So like, I feel like whenever 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:51.080 I date someone that's outside of black men, they need 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.360 to have these attributes that reminds me of nigga's I've 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:56.760 been with. So white boys gotta be either really woke 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:59.720 or socially conscious. And for Asians, I know they have 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:02.760 the Cuza, which is a really really serious gang. And 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:06.800 I was like, oh, yeah, like the niggas rush Hour. Yes, 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:09.800 so you want to where they were Chinese? No? Yeah, 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:14.919 Kusa is like some ship Like they're like if there 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:21.840 were bars that ms isn't that scandal what I'm thinking 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:25.639 of scandal? It's actually the reason that in Japan, you 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.960 can't have tattoos, like you'll be scored out of place 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:30.800 because they all have tattoos. They looked at me weird. 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:33.040 And Singapore with my tattoos. But of course when I 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:35.920 want to Thailand like it was much before, like Asians, 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:39.399 it's like the culture of tattoos, but specifically Japan, like 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:44.159 no entry because you know who's a gang members oh u, 0:17:44.480 --> 0:17:47.000 but they a lot of ship around. You just want 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:49.920 to you like the boss aspect, just what I would 0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:53.920 say something that really turns me on about risking a 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:56.520 little bit of my life for Dick. You say it 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:58.040 all the time, I really do. I don't know what 0:17:58.119 --> 0:18:03.200 it is. When I used to funk drug dealers, it's like, 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:05.760 I don't know it's it's I believe it's because of 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:09.760 the submissibulous. It has to be because I'm not gonna lie. 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:13.080 On the other end, I love my square. Ask niggas 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:19.120 that like comic books like I like that. I'm square too, 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:21.600 you know yeah, But at the same time, you've got 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:23.639 a felling based so we believe you. But you know 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:26.480 what a fella, but you know what his charges wasn't 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:29.560 like violent and to me, he's on parole. Yeah, but 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:32.080 I'll be calling him like he got pretty light skinned, 0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:35.920 like nigga who you like. He's not scared, bro, exactly, 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:40.879 He's gonna finessa hell out. You know. He's not Listen, No, 0:18:41.040 --> 0:18:44.040 not asault. It's not even violent. It's not a violent crime. 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:47.040 So no, he's not a scar He's not because I 0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:48.640 don't want to have charges out there now that he's 0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:50.480 coming to our shows and support and I don't want 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:54.000 people know it. Everything whatever is Damn. I'm just saying 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:56.600 why he gotta be a Terence because he's black. He's 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:59.040 actually has a really white boy name. Actually it's a 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:00.679 really white boy name that I don't even call him. 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:04.960 But what do you call him? You know what's crazy? 0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:07.919 And fuck you destiny because even when he was backstage, 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:09.480 I was talking to him, and as I was talking 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:11.200 to him, I was realizing, I don't say his name, 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:13.040 but because I was around people, I don't want to 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:16.160 call him bay either. So I'll just be like hey, 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:21.320 niggas because I don't want to make it so like 0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:25.200 emotional yet, but it's like, I really don't call me 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:27.600 and and he was like walking to the room and 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:30.680 he called me wheezy and I said, excuse me, right, No, 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:32.840 just because you've heard that on my fucking black Friends 0:19:32.920 --> 0:19:34.560 does not mean he gives you the right to say it. 0:19:34.640 --> 0:19:40.240 Take it back. You know what it is. It's weird 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:43.760 because like I put so much energy into like having 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:45.880 Wheezy be a part of who I am and being 0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:48.359 fun and just like gross or whatever. But there are 0:19:48.480 --> 0:19:50.000 some people when they like get to know the down 0:19:50.080 --> 0:19:52.119