1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVFM dot com. Click 4 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter, and we could be reading your letter 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. 7 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: And you never know, this one right here could be yours. 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 3: You never know what could be. Buckle up and hold 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 3: on tight. We got it for you here. It is 10 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 3: Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: Thank you. 12 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: Nephew's subject, I caught her in the act and she lied. 13 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty two year old 14 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: married woman, and if you come around me cheating and lying, 15 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: I'm telling it. I expect my girlfriends to do the 16 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: same thing. And there's no need for us to hang out. 17 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: Or there's no need for us to hang out. My 18 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: husband's best friend is on the verge of divorce, and 19 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: he's confided in my husband and I about how his 20 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: wife is for the streets, and she comes in late 21 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: and ignores his phone calls. She and I are not 22 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: the best of friends because she's sneaky. I went out 23 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: to run a few airs on Saturday, I saw the 24 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: best friend's wife's car parked in the Walmart lot and 25 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: I rode past the driver's side and it looked like 26 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: a man was in the driver's seat. I knew it 27 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: was her personalized tag, so I called her. Her head 28 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: popped up from the passenger side of the car and 29 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: she looked at her phone. I couldn't tell who was 30 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: in the driver's seat of her car that her husband 31 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: just bought for her. She didn't answer the phone, so 32 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: I walked over to the car to see if she 33 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: was okay. 34 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 2: She asked why was. 35 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: I walking up on her like that, and I asked 36 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: her who the guy was. He kept on adjusting his 37 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: pants and he didn't look at me. She said she 38 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,199 Speaker 1: was about to run in and shop, but her cousin 39 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: had to charge his phone first. I told her it 40 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: was good to see her, and I rushed back to 41 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: my car so I could call my husband and spill 42 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: this tea. My husband swore he wouldn't say anything to 43 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: his best friend until I did some more research, but 44 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: he did, and not even two hours later, the wife 45 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: called me, yelling and cursing me. I told her I 46 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: saw what I saw, point blank, period. What does she 47 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: expect me to do? And why is she upset with me? 48 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: Please help? Okay? 49 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 3: For ill? 50 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: For ill? You cannot be serious. What do you mean? 51 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: Why is she upset with you? Where shall I begin? 52 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: She's upset with you for calling her. She's upset with 53 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 1: you for walking up on her in the car. She's 54 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 1: upset for you with you for telling your husband. Okay, 55 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: that's why she's upset with you, And because you told 56 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: your husband, and your husband told his best friend, which 57 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: is her husband. She's upset with you because you're a busybody, 58 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: because you're messy, and because you need to stay out 59 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:41,679 Speaker 1: of people's business. 60 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 2: That's why she's upset with you. What about that? 61 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: Don't you get who appointed you the one to tell 62 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: if people are cheating and lying, like you said in 63 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: the first line of your letter, and if you come 64 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: around me cheating and lying, I'm telling it, Okay, okay, 65 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: who appointed you that job? It might be or it 66 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: is wrong morally. We know that what they're doing, but 67 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 1: it's not your business to judge what they're doing. Leave 68 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: these people alone and worry about your own house. Lady Tommy, 69 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: I am. 70 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 3: So sick of people that cannot mind their own business. 71 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 3: It gets on my nerve you have. Now what amazes 72 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 3: me about the beginning of this letter is he's getting ready. 73 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 3: They're going through a divorce, right right, so we already 74 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 3: through with each other. It's a wrap, it's over. So 75 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what this lady is doing or not doing. 76 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: But why are you you feeling like you need to 77 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 3: be rolling up? And you cannot roll up on people 78 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 3: in no Walmart parking lot while they neck. And you 79 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: can't do that. You don't roll up on people in 80 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 3: Walmart parking lot while they listen. If you don't see 81 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: no blue vest, get back, get back. Okay, if you 82 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 3: don't see no masks, no blue vest, you get your 83 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 3: behind back. If you see a if you look a 84 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: through a car, you don't see no heads, and then 85 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 3: heads pop up. Hey, that's guess what they doing their thing. 86 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 3: You got to keep it moving. But now you know 87 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 3: what you messy? You want to go tendative to your husband. 88 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 3: Now your husband gonna go tell it to his best friend. 89 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 3: Now his best friend gonna come back and tell the 90 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 3: wife that's soon to be his ex wife that, oh, 91 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 3: by the way, we done caught you doing this, this, this, 92 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 3: and that Why are you stirring up drama lady? Why 93 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 3: sit your butt down? Everyone has seen you. Okay, sit 94 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 3: your behind down and pay attention to your marriage. I said, 95 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 3: if everybody focus on what's just theirs, you know how much, 96 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: you know how much pleasant life will be if you 97 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 3: just focus on just your stuff, not just run around. Oh, 98 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: let me tell you what she did, Let me tell 99 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 3: you what he doing, Let me tell you who else 100 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 3: getting together. Focus on yours, not everybody else's. You are 101 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 3: not ready to love either. You know that you are not. 102 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: You know it when you. 103 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 4: Ain't ready, don't nobody like a tattle tale. 104 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 3: Don't nobody like a tattle telle. You know what? I 105 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: this all you do? 106 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: She been doing this so long, she been like when 107 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 4: she go up to the car, You look in there 108 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 4: and the first thing you. 109 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 3: Say is who's the guy? 110 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: Because you need something to go tell. 111 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 3: That's it. 112 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 4: You aren't concerned about the woman. She could have been abducted. 113 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 4: You ain't even ask about that. 114 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: There's no concern at that. 115 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 3: You just needed something to go tell. 116 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 4: That's it. You know what teeletales? Dude, You know, don't 117 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 4: nobody like tell tales. Because when you come in the room. 118 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 4: You break up gatherings. See, don't like to talk when 119 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 4: you come around. We all in the group right now 120 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 4: and in the town tale walk up. People just start 121 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 4: finding other stuff to go do. Yeah, because they can't 122 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 4: talk about it. Hey, where y'all going? 123 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: Everybody? We don't want to talk to you cause you 124 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 3: tattle tale all the time. 125 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 4: I don't know why you put the line in the 126 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 4: letter talking about I want I'm gonna I'm gonna expect 127 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 4: my girlfriends to do the same thing for me. 128 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 3: You ain't got no. 129 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 4: Girlfriends because girlfriends do what gossip and they gotta keep secrets. 130 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 4: You can't have secrets and you talk all the time. 131 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 3: Cause you like to tattle tale. 132 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, don't nobody won't you. 133 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now. 134 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 4: You can't hold water because every time you get information, 135 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 4: it's burning. And guess who you go tell? 136 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: Your love husband? Yeah, what is wrong with this picture? 137 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 3: Do you know what that says about you? When your 138 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: gossip and. 139 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 4: Buddy is your husband. 140 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 2: He can't hold it either. She got him green washed? 141 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I will tell nobody. So she left the room. 142 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 4: Dog you wipe out there in the streets in the 143 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 4: park lder walmart with another man in the car. 144 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, right, that's what. That's it. My wife 145 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: can't hold it. All right, who. 146 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: Listen, We'll have part two of our response coming up 147 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: to this strawberry letter today at twenty three minutes after 148 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 1: the hour. The subject, I caught her in the act 149 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: and she lied. All right, we'll get back into it 150 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: right after this. 151 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 2: You're listening Morning show. 152 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: All right, guys, we're gonna recap this letter. The subject 153 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: is I caught her in the act and she lied. 154 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: The letter is from a thirty two year old married woman, 155 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: and she says, right off the bat, right off the bat, 156 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: if you come around me cheating and lying, I'm telling it. 157 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: And she expects her girlfriends to do the same, or 158 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: there's no need for them to hang out, okay, what anyway, 159 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: she says, her husband's best friend is on the verge 160 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: of getting a divorce. 161 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: So yeah, so they're in the verge of getting a divorce. 162 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: He confided in her husband that his wife is for 163 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: the street, so they may as well, you know, get 164 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: a divorce. The woman who wrote the letter says that 165 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: she's not friends with this woman because she's sneaky, so 166 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: she doesn't trust her. So she left one day to 167 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: run some errands, and in the Walmart parking lot, she 168 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: saw her best friend's husband's wife. She saw her car 169 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: in the lot, and I guess the windows were all 170 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: steamier at whatever. She called her. She tried to get 171 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: in touch with her. The woman didn't answer. She walked 172 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: up to the car and what do you want? 173 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 2: What you want? 174 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: So she knew it was a woman's car because she 175 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: saw the personal LIFs tag. A man's head popped up, 176 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: and uh, he never looked at her because he was 177 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: continually adjusting his pants. 178 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: And the woman asked her, why are you walking up 179 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: on me like that? Yes, Tommy, but. 180 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: You know what, I've been in a position where I 181 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 3: have seen a good friend of mine. I've been in 182 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 3: a position where a friend of mine I saw his 183 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 3: lady with somebody else, you know what I mean. And 184 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 3: I actually spoke to her. I had some words for 185 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 3: and and I was done with it. I didn't go 186 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 3: tell him nothing. I just had some words on it 187 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 3: and say, hey, you got to you got to get 188 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 3: yourself together what you're doing. I just checked her. I 189 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 3: checked out a very polite way. And then you know, 190 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 3: and I said, hey, don't I don't want to see 191 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 3: this again. I never told him anything ever, never ever, 192 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 3: And when I see them to this day me and 193 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 3: have never disgusted again. I ain't never seen her out 194 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 3: doing nothing crazy again. 195 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 2: But you said what you said at that moment. 196 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 3: What I said, not only because I saw her and 197 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 3: she saw me, and I'm like, yo, yoh, hey, let 198 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 3: me let you for a minute. 199 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 2: Wow. 200 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 3: But I would never go back to my boy and 201 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 3: say something. I would never do that now. 202 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: Even even if, like in this situation they're getting ready 203 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: to get a divorce. 204 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: That's just not what you do. It's not your business, 205 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: mind your own house. 206 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 1: This is not true. You're walking all up on the car. 207 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: But I just want to know who who? Who named 208 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: her the watchdog? These people cheating and lying. 209 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: Cattle tales named their own self. They elect themselves. 210 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: It was no votes in Yeah, she said she she 211 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: couldn't wait to get home so she could spill this 212 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: tea to her husband, and her husband promised her that 213 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: he wouldn't tell. So he's cheating and lying because he 214 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: lied to you by saying he wouldn't tell, and he tells. 215 00:09:58,679 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: Did you check him? 216 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 3: Both the same person? 217 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: She married herself? Know who she married. They both tell 218 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 2: that's why they get along. 219 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 3: Yes, they both. 220 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, man, some ladies do y'all have girlfriends that tell everything? 221 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 222 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I stay on t my things is though, 223 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 4: Are y'all close with that person? 224 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: Well, I'm close enough to know that I will never 225 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: tell her any of my business. 226 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 4: Close enough to keep them to a business. Yes, that's 227 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 4: all you need to know. Now, your girlfriend that rock 228 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 4: with you, like Tori, that's different. 229 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 5: That's my sister. She's friend, but that's my sister. 230 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 2: Don't you have to tell her everything. 231 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: I can tell my best friend everything, and I know 232 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: that it's not going anywhere. You know, it's not going anywhere, 233 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: even to her husband. You know she we have that 234 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: kind of relationship. Now, yeah, you're not doing that. Yes, 235 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: And I'm not in her business like that. 236 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 2: I don't care. It's not my business. I care about you, 237 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 2: how you doing and all that, but I'm out of 238 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 2: your business. I'm just not in that. I'm not in that. 239 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: If you guys, if it looks like something serious going down, 240 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: I will excuse myself if you need me, holler, But 241 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: right now I will walk. 242 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 3: Out in the middle of a blaze. I will Yeah, 243 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 3: what are they doing. Are they over there? Are kitsing 244 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 3: over there? Let me get up out of here. Yeah, 245 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 3: I get caught up in this, Shenan. 246 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 2: I got my own stuff going on. I care about you, but. 247 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 4: No, I can't do it. 248 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 5: I can't. 249 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't see that. Have y'all ever seen have 250 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 3: y'all ever seen a guy doing something he wasn't supposed 251 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:35,839 Speaker 3: to do? 252 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, but if that's. 253 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: Your girl, Yeah, I saw my girlfriend's husband acting inappropriately 254 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: with another woman. I mean I saw it with my 255 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 1: own eyes, and I mean they left no room for interpretation. 256 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: They were in it. Okay, I didn't tell my girl. 257 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: I didn't tell my girlfriend. I couldn't do that because 258 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 1: you know what, she would end up being mad at me. 259 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: They get back together, she'd be mad at me for telling. 260 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 5: You know, I always say this, and I say this 261 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 5: when it comes to that kind of situation. It depends 262 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 5: on the relationship with the with the girl, it's all 263 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 5: that's my If it was Torri, who's my best friend, 264 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:22,599 Speaker 5: my sister, I'm telling her that's me and my relationship 265 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 5: with her, that's what I choose. If it's just some 266 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 5: random person that I'm cool with, you don't. 267 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 3: Have that kind of friendship. 268 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 5: I'm not in it, but my girl, my bestie. 269 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: But hold it right there. Did you all make that 270 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: agreement as best friends? 271 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: You know? If something happens, I'll tell it's just it's 272 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 2: just the way it is with our friendship. 273 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 3: That's just the way it is with our sisters. 274 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 2: Some people do. Yeah, just asking? 275 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: All right, Thanks, guys, listen what you want to come? 276 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: This is really something you guys want to comment on. 277 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: Just want to comment on Today's Strawberry Letter, Hit us 278 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: up at Instagram. At Steve Harvey FM, you can also 279 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 280 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 2: Of coming up. 281 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: Next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, 282 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.