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Speaker 2: It's time for your first day follow up is the
Speaker 2: Jubil Show And today Ella is on the phone and
Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a guy named Danny. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll
Speaker 2: tell us why he's Ghostinger and maybe get her another date. First, Ella,
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Danny?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been like a week and a half. I
Speaker 3: sent him a couple of techs Like, I sent him
Speaker 3: like a funny one. I kind of like, hey, how's
Speaker 3: your day been for a thing. He didn't respond to
Speaker 3: either of them, And then like yesterday I did like
Speaker 3: a follow up. I just asked him if everything was okay,
Speaker 3: and you didn't even respond. You didn't spend anything, You
Speaker 3: just left me on red.
Speaker 4: Wow, even when you ask him straight up, is this
Speaker 4: a surprise? Like did you think that the date went
Speaker 4: really well?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I thought it was really fun. It was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: so we like we did this like pizza making class.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 3: I got to be right casual and fun and kind
Speaker 3: of like low key for a first date, and I totally.
Speaker 3: Was we were like making pizza and joking around, and
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, honestly, I thought that we
Speaker 3: were getting along crate. I don't know, the only thing
Speaker 3: that I can think is like when we were making
Speaker 3: the pizza, I like, I went a little crazy on
Speaker 3: the cheese, like it was practically only to choose pizza,
Speaker 3: and he kept teasing me about it, like he jokes like, hey,
Speaker 3: what does that say about you? Like, oh, it's only cheese,
Speaker 3: you must be boring in bed?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: How do you make that correlation?
Speaker 3: I don't know, but you said it like super like light,
Speaker 3: you know, like I wasn't offended by it, and I
Speaker 3: kind of like laughed it off. But now thinking back
Speaker 3: on it, I'm kind of like, ooh, is that the
Speaker 3: reason that he's contexting me back? Because I like cheese
Speaker 3: pizza and he thinks I'm boring in bed or something?
Speaker 4: Could you imagine he has this role like, oh, girls
Speaker 4: of date cheese pizza? Actually, because you you said, well,
Speaker 4: once upon a time you had that rule that you
Speaker 4: wouldn't date women that you.
Speaker 2: Still do don't eat seafood? Was that, yeah, I don't
Speaker 2: eat seafood? Really well, if it's you haven't eaten seafood
Speaker 2: and never tried it. If you're just like, no, I
Speaker 2: don't eat seafood, it's gross and he's never tried it.
Speaker 2: To me, that shows that you're not willing to try
Speaker 2: new things. You're also very stuck in your ways, and
Speaker 2: that you aren't willing to experiment at all with life.
Speaker 4: Okay, So maybe that's how he actually internalized cheese pizza eaters,
Speaker 4: which is so blowing behind.
Speaker 2: If that's true. There are people that I've met that
Speaker 2: think that cheese pizza is boring, but I think she's
Speaker 2: pizzas like the best. It's great.
Speaker 4: Isn't that like the traditional pizza? Like if you get
Speaker 4: the what's it called margarita? So I hope that's not
Speaker 4: what it is Ela, That would be nuts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I love cheese, Like, I don't think
Speaker 3: that's a weird thing. And it's not like I'm not
Speaker 3: something to try new things, you know, like our first
Speaker 3: day pizza, Like, don't read so much into it.
Speaker 2: What kind of pizza did he?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 2: Did you get that far with him?
Speaker 3: Or we couldn't really get that far? I mean he
Speaker 3: said like he's talking about how he's like a meat lover's,
Speaker 3: So I assume it's like pepperoni and you know, sausage
Speaker 3: and all that like manly stuff, which.
Speaker 2: Somebody you're obsessed with meat. Well, if he's that judgmental
Speaker 2: about pizza, would you still want another day with him?
Speaker 2: If that's what it is.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, like I didn't really like him.
Speaker 3: He was funny, and like I did think that we
Speaker 3: were vibing, you know, and like at the end we
Speaker 3: even shared a kiss and it like it wasn't anything huge.
Speaker 3: It was just like a quick one.
Speaker 2: At the end.
Speaker 3: But I don't know, I felt like there could have
Speaker 3: been something more and I wanted to get to know
Speaker 3: him more. Don't know, I just felt like we had
Speaker 3: this like super easy connection and it wasn't forced, and
Speaker 3: he's like really cute. Every time he smiled, I just
Speaker 3: kind of like melted, like my teeth pizza, And I
Speaker 3: was just really into him, and I thought that he
Speaker 3: was into me too, So I I just don't get it.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 2: for you. We'll play a song and then we'll come
Speaker 2: back and call him and see if I'll tell us
Speaker 2: why is ghosting you? And maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, great,
Speaker 2: thank you? All right, well play a song, come back
Speaker 2: and get your first date follow.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first date follow up
Speaker 2: and if you just joined us, Ella is on the
Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by Danny. So in a
Speaker 2: second we're gonna call Danny and see if he'll tell
Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another
Speaker 2: date if she still wants one. But first, Ella, why
Speaker 2: don't you tell us about your date again? Real quick?
Speaker 3: Yeah. So we had our date at this pizza man class.
Speaker 3: It was like a lot of fun, super casual. We
Speaker 3: were vibing. The only thing that was a little weird
Speaker 3: is she like made a comment about me using so
Speaker 3: much cheese on the pizza, like suggesting that I was
Speaker 3: boring in bed, like as a joke. But other than that,
Speaker 3: like we were we had a really good time. He
Speaker 3: was super cute and so now I've like texted him
Speaker 3: multiple times. He just left me on Red hasn't responded,
Speaker 3: and I'm thinking, like, oh my god, does he think
Speaker 3: that I'm just boring in bed because I had to
Speaker 3: cheese pizza. Like, I don't know why why he's ghosting me?
Speaker 3: So yeah, so I'm looking for answers.
Speaker 2: All right, well we'll see if we can help you out.
Speaker 7: Here we go.
Speaker 2: You ready to call him?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 6: Okay, Hello, I.
Speaker 2: May I speak to Danny please?
Speaker 7: This is Danny.
Speaker 2: Danny, how you doing? This is a Jubil Show. It's
Speaker 2: a radio show.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 2: I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria and I'm Jebel. What's up?
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 7: What is what is going on radio?
Speaker 2: Yes, it's a radio show called the Jubil Show. Have
Speaker 2: you ever heard of it or listened to it?
Speaker 7: Yeah? Seriously?
Speaker 2: Okay, Well how are you today?
Speaker 7: I'm all right? What's going on?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 6: They're weird?
Speaker 2: Good, I'm glad you're all right. We're calling you today
Speaker 2: because we do a segment on our show and it's
Speaker 2: called the First eight follow Up. That's where if you
Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and you end
Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can email us to call
Speaker 2: you and ask why you're ghosting? And we got an
Speaker 2: email about you. Oh are you ghosting? Somebody? Sounds like
Speaker 2: you are.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, yeah, I guess I see where this is going.
Speaker 7: Let's not exactly what you what you might think.
Speaker 4: Okay, So who do you think we're calling about?
Speaker 7: Probably Ella?
Speaker 2: Yes it is Ella. Do you mind telling us why
Speaker 2: you're a ghostinger?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Well all right, I have been ghosting her, but I
Speaker 8: don't know, like it's complicated, like I really liked.
Speaker 7: Her, but there was I don't know, there's just something
Speaker 7: that didn't really sit right with me. Okay, Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 7: Like we went out on the state and there was
Speaker 7: other couples, like we did like cooking.
Speaker 2: Class and yeah, pizza making class, and you were ripping
Speaker 2: her about liking pizza.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Well, I mean like the thing was, like there
Speaker 7: were these other couples there, and it's just she kept
Speaker 7: flirting on like the other dude behind us, and like
Speaker 7: kind of like paying attention to uh, to the other
Speaker 7: people and especially the dude behind.
Speaker 5: Us in the room, and she was flirting with another couple,
Speaker 5: well mostly mostly like the guy that was with them,
Speaker 5: and I'm like, hello, like you know, she's with me,
Speaker 5: and I just like didn't really sit.
Speaker 7: Right with me.
Speaker 3: Wait, no, I wasn't flirting with anyone. I was being friendly.
Speaker 2: Hey, Danny, that's La. She's actually on the phone list
Speaker 2: think to talk to you.
Speaker 3: I don't know why this is such a big deal.
Speaker 3: I thought we were just having fun. I wasn't trying
Speaker 3: to like flirt with another couple or steal anyone's man.
Speaker 2: Is that what you thought, Danny?
Speaker 7: I mean, I get you were just being nice, and
Speaker 7: you are nice, but the way that you kept going
Speaker 7: over to his table and like that kind of made
Speaker 7: me feel like I wasn't the one you were really
Speaker 7: interested in.
Speaker 8: And I kind of like I felt like I was
Speaker 8: like at that point, I felt like pull him back.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, oh my god, not it at all.
Speaker 3: That's just like I was just being myself, Like I
Speaker 3: I think, I like accidentally flirt with people all the time.
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't mean that I'm into them. I just
Speaker 3: get so nervous that I like it makes me talk
Speaker 3: a lot, and I just talk at everybody.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but at one point, you actually like grabbed his
Speaker 7: bicep and said, like, you know, like all is like
Speaker 7: that's so huge, and like all his girlfriend like that
Speaker 7: she's got a strong one.
Speaker 2: Like wow, that's a little flirty. I think that the
Speaker 2: girlfriend has a strong one.
Speaker 3: I wasn't. I swear I wasn't trying to like flirt
Speaker 3: in any way, Like I was just so nervous because
Speaker 3: you're so cute, and I was just like trying to,
Speaker 3: I don't know, break the tension and like, I don't know,
Speaker 3: I'm I see how that can be. I really didn't
Speaker 3: mean it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but by grabbing his biceps on our.
Speaker 3: Date, well, look, I like you a lot, but I
Speaker 3: mean he was huge, have been like a bodybuilder or
Speaker 3: something like. I was just kind of like blown away,
Speaker 3: like why are you here making pizzas you should be
Speaker 3: lifting cars or buildings or something. I didn't it like
Speaker 3: a flirty way.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I mean he was pretty big, but I
Speaker 8: guess I just didn't notice that he looked like Superman.
Speaker 3: Okay, I can see would think that that's like flirty,
Speaker 3: but and okay, yeah he did kind of look like Superman.
Speaker 3: But they're like bogging.
Speaker 4: She's trying to compliment you, Danny.
Speaker 3: She's trying maybe not Robin, maybe like Aquaman or something.
Speaker 2: Muscles Captain America. Danny, would you like another date with Ella?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. It sounds like she really likes you.
Speaker 2: It sounds like she's a very awkward around people, and.
Speaker 8: In a way though, I guess that I get it,
Speaker 8: and maybe I misread the situation and I didn't mean
Speaker 8: to ghost you eat. I like you a lot too, Ella,
Speaker 8: but you know, it kind of got in my head,
Speaker 8: and I, yeah, I would. I'm just saying, if we
Speaker 8: were to go out again, could you not grab other.
Speaker 7: Guys biceps and refer to them as superheroes?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yes, I can definitely do that. I'm sorry I.
Speaker 2: Made you feel weird, Danny. Do you wanted another date?
Speaker 7: Absolutely?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: Vgulations Eli, you got another date with Robin that Superman.
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