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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: It's time for your first day follow up is the

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Speaker 2: Jubil Show And today Ella is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a guy named Danny. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's Ghostinger and maybe get her another date. First, Ella,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Danny?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been like a week and a half. I

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Speaker 3: sent him a couple of techs Like, I sent him

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Speaker 3: like a funny one. I kind of like, hey, how's

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Speaker 3: your day been for a thing. He didn't respond to

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Speaker 3: either of them, And then like yesterday I did like

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Speaker 3: a follow up. I just asked him if everything was okay,

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Speaker 3: and you didn't even respond. You didn't spend anything, You

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Speaker 3: just left me on red.

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Speaker 4: Wow, even when you ask him straight up, is this

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Speaker 4: a surprise? Like did you think that the date went

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Speaker 4: really well?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I thought it was really fun. It was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: so we like we did this like pizza making class.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: I got to be right casual and fun and kind

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Speaker 3: of like low key for a first date, and I totally.

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Speaker 3: Was we were like making pizza and joking around, and

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, honestly, I thought that we

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Speaker 3: were getting along crate. I don't know, the only thing

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Speaker 3: that I can think is like when we were making

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Speaker 3: the pizza, I like, I went a little crazy on

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Speaker 3: the cheese, like it was practically only to choose pizza,

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Speaker 3: and he kept teasing me about it, like he jokes like, hey,

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Speaker 3: what does that say about you? Like, oh, it's only cheese,

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Speaker 3: you must be boring in bed?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: How do you make that correlation?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but you said it like super like light,

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Speaker 3: you know, like I wasn't offended by it, and I

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Speaker 3: kind of like laughed it off. But now thinking back

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Speaker 3: on it, I'm kind of like, ooh, is that the

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Speaker 3: reason that he's contexting me back? Because I like cheese

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Speaker 3: pizza and he thinks I'm boring in bed or something?

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Speaker 4: Could you imagine he has this role like, oh, girls

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Speaker 4: of date cheese pizza? Actually, because you you said, well,

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Speaker 4: once upon a time you had that rule that you

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Speaker 4: wouldn't date women that you.

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Speaker 2: Still do don't eat seafood? Was that, yeah, I don't

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Speaker 2: eat seafood? Really well, if it's you haven't eaten seafood

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Speaker 2: and never tried it. If you're just like, no, I

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Speaker 2: don't eat seafood, it's gross and he's never tried it.

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Speaker 2: To me, that shows that you're not willing to try

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Speaker 2: new things. You're also very stuck in your ways, and

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Speaker 2: that you aren't willing to experiment at all with life.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So maybe that's how he actually internalized cheese pizza eaters,

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Speaker 4: which is so blowing behind.

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Speaker 2: If that's true. There are people that I've met that

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Speaker 2: think that cheese pizza is boring, but I think she's

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Speaker 2: pizzas like the best. It's great.

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Speaker 4: Isn't that like the traditional pizza? Like if you get

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Speaker 4: the what's it called margarita? So I hope that's not

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Speaker 4: what it is Ela, That would be nuts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I love cheese, Like, I don't think

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Speaker 3: that's a weird thing. And it's not like I'm not

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Speaker 3: something to try new things, you know, like our first

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Speaker 2: What kind of pizza did he?

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Speaker 2: Did you get that far with him?

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Speaker 3: Or we couldn't really get that far? I mean he

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Speaker 3: So I assume it's like pepperoni and you know, sausage

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Speaker 3: and all that like manly stuff, which.

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Speaker 2: Somebody you're obsessed with meat. Well, if he's that judgmental

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Speaker 2: If that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, like I didn't really like him.

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Speaker 3: He was funny, and like I did think that we

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Speaker 2: At the end.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, I felt like there could have

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Speaker 3: he's like really cute. Every time he smiled, I just

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. We'll play a song and then we'll come

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Speaker 2: why is ghosting you? And maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, great,

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Speaker 2: thank you? All right, well play a song, come back

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Speaker 2: and get your first date follow.

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Speaker 1: Up next first date follow up powered by the Advocates

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Speaker 1: Injury Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first date follow up

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Speaker 2: and if you just joined us, Ella is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by Danny. So in a

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Speaker 2: second we're gonna call Danny and see if he'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another

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Speaker 2: date if she still wants one. But first, Ella, why

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Speaker 2: don't you tell us about your date again? Real quick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So we had our date at this pizza man class.

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Speaker 3: It was like a lot of fun, super casual. We

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Speaker 3: were vibing. The only thing that was a little weird

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Speaker 3: is she like made a comment about me using so

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Speaker 3: much cheese on the pizza, like suggesting that I was

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Speaker 3: boring in bed, like as a joke. But other than that,

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Speaker 3: like we were we had a really good time. He

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Speaker 3: was super cute and so now I've like texted him

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Speaker 3: multiple times. He just left me on Red hasn't responded,

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Speaker 3: and I'm thinking, like, oh my god, does he think

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Speaker 3: that I'm just boring in bed because I had to

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Speaker 3: cheese pizza. Like, I don't know why why he's ghosting me?

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Speaker 3: So yeah, so I'm looking for answers.

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Speaker 2: All right, well we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 7: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: You ready to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Hello, I.

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Speaker 2: May I speak to Danny please?

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Speaker 7: This is Danny.

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Speaker 2: Danny, how you doing? This is a Jubil Show. It's

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Speaker 2: a radio show.

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Speaker 6: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria and I'm Jebel. What's up?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 7: What is what is going on radio?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's a radio show called the Jubil Show. Have

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Speaker 2: you ever heard of it or listened to it?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Seriously?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well how are you today?

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Speaker 7: I'm all right? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 6: They're weird?

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Speaker 2: Good, I'm glad you're all right. We're calling you today

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Speaker 2: because we do a segment on our show and it's

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Speaker 2: called the First eight follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and you end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can email us to call

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Speaker 2: you and ask why you're ghosting? And we got an

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Speaker 2: email about you. Oh are you ghosting? Somebody? Sounds like

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, yeah, I guess I see where this is going.

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Speaker 7: Let's not exactly what you what you might think.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So who do you think we're calling about?

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Speaker 7: Probably Ella?

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Speaker 2: Yes it is Ella. Do you mind telling us why

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Speaker 2: you're a ghostinger?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Well all right, I have been ghosting her, but I

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Speaker 8: don't know, like it's complicated, like I really liked.

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Speaker 7: Her, but there was I don't know, there's just something

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Speaker 7: that didn't really sit right with me. Okay, Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: Like we went out on the state and there was

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Speaker 2: Class and yeah, pizza making class, and you were ripping

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Well, I mean like the thing was, like there

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Speaker 5: Us in the room, and she was flirting with another couple,

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Speaker 5: well mostly mostly like the guy that was with them,

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Speaker 7: Right with me.

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Speaker 3: Wait, no, I wasn't flirting with anyone. I was being friendly.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Danny, that's La. She's actually on the phone list

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Speaker 3: I don't know why this is such a big deal.

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Speaker 3: I thought we were just having fun. I wasn't trying

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Speaker 2: Is that what you thought, Danny?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I get you were just being nice, and

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Speaker 8: And I kind of like I felt like I was

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, oh my god, not it at all.

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Speaker 3: That's just like I was just being myself, Like I

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Speaker 3: I think, I like accidentally flirt with people all the time.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but at one point, you actually like grabbed his

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Speaker 2: Like wow, that's a little flirty. I think that the

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Speaker 3: I wasn't. I swear I wasn't trying to like flirt

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Speaker 3: I'm I see how that can be. I really didn't

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Speaker 3: Date, well, look, I like you a lot, but I

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I mean he was pretty big, but I

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Speaker 8: guess I just didn't notice that he looked like Superman.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I can see would think that that's like flirty,

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Speaker 3: But they're like bogging.

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Speaker 4: She's trying to compliment you, Danny.

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Speaker 3: She's trying maybe not Robin, maybe like Aquaman or something.

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Speaker 2: Muscles Captain America. Danny, would you like another date with Ella?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. It sounds like she really likes you.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like she's a very awkward around people, and.

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Speaker 8: In a way though, I guess that I get it,

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Speaker 8: and maybe I misread the situation and I didn't mean

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Speaker 8: to ghost you eat. I like you a lot too, Ella,

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Speaker 8: but you know, it kind of got in my head,

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Speaker 8: and I, yeah, I would. I'm just saying, if we

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Speaker 8: were to go out again, could you not grab other.

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Speaker 7: Guys biceps and refer to them as superheroes?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I can definitely do that. I'm sorry I.

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Speaker 2: Made you feel weird, Danny. Do you wanted another date?

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Speaker 7: Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: Vgulations Eli, you got another date with Robin that Superman.

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