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Speaker 5: And did he ask for another mistrial?

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Speaker 2: Wow, people want more popping and spinning. I guess Kiki's

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Speaker 2: court this morning about embum girl. You need a DNA test?

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Speaker 2: of the day. This a second maybe a morality Monday

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling like doing a morality Monday on a Monday.

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Speaker 2: This is news but Fox love in la Errol reporter,

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Speaker 2: a dude named Stu Mundell was caught, I guess, on

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Speaker 2: the air talking about his marriage or lack thereof. This

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Speaker 2: was during the No King's protest coverage, but instead it's

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Speaker 2: him talking about I guess that things aren't going so

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Speaker 2: well at home, and this was all on TV. Apparently.

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Speaker 2: I hate it when that happens. It's terrible.

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Speaker 7: The answer is, yes, you know what, I don't care.

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Speaker 7: I don't care about my I I am married. I

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Speaker 7: am I am legally married. I am legally married. That's

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Speaker 7: about the only way you can really say it. I

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Speaker 7: am legally married. But I am not looking at now

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Speaker 7: at all. I uh just had a bunch of debacles

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Speaker 7: with my personal life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's true.

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Speaker 7: I know it's hard to believe somebody that doesn't even

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Speaker 7: know what he's talking about in a.

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Speaker 2: Relationship and yeah, yeah this is on TV.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, I got nothing right now, got nothing, got nothing,

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Speaker 7: not really looking, uh you know, trying to trying to

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Speaker 1: I'm being serious about that.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know if this is like a stream

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Speaker 2: and he didn't realize that, like you could watch this.

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Speaker 7: I want to behold I want to be beholden to

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Speaker 7: no one at.

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Speaker 2: This He's still going, I mean sad, I.

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Speaker 7: Got lonely, of course, but I got cats.

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Speaker 8: He got cats, he said, yeah, anyway, So I'm thinking

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Speaker 2: I feel like somebody, a director or somebody would have

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Speaker 2: just roll with it. Maybe we stick with it, you know,

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Speaker 2: so that we go viral. I'm not sure. But you know,

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Speaker 2: poor guy, he's legally married. Is this stew but he's

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Speaker 2: you know, I guess things aren't going well legally married,

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Speaker 5: He wants to be beholden to no one?

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Speaker 2: Which I like that. I I I like that too,

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Speaker 2: So anyway, I had that's my list of little sound

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Speaker 2: clips today. I want to be beholden to no one,

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Speaker 2: says helicopter reporter man. The Oklahoma City Thunder defeated the

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Speaker 2: Indiana Pacers to tie the NBA Finals at two games apiece,

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Speaker 2: and in the Stanleicup Finals, the Panthers run the verge

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Speaker 2: If you were offended by this, and nothing surprises me anymore,

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Speaker 2: the level of the very low bar I think it

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Speaker 2: I think we need to be a little tougher because

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Speaker 2: United Airlines passengers were shocked, according to the headline, by

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Speaker 2: a looting message that greeted them on every inflight video

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Speaker 2: that said, welcome aboard flight, bite me one to Chicago.

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Speaker 2: Oh whoa, Now that's silly. I mean I would laugh

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Speaker 2: first of all, but bite me one like that hurts

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Speaker 2: your feelings. Really, it could be so much worse. It

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Speaker 2: could be a dude in the helicopter trying to cover

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Speaker 2: a protest, but instead of talking about his personal life. Okay,

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Speaker 2: it was displayed on every single screen. How the message

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Speaker 2: some experts say that it could be traced to how

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Speaker 2: the inflight entertainment system is set up. Some systems require

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Speaker 2: a member of the groundstaff or a flight attendant to

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Speaker 2: manually input the flight number as well as the destination

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Speaker 2: and origin. Others pulled the information from the flight information

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Speaker 2: system in the cockpit. It could be that an engineer

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Speaker 2: was carrying out some maintenance and was testing it and

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Speaker 2: type that in I don't really know. Oh, it was

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Speaker 2: a joke, but apparently people are very upset and they want,

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, free flights and psychological treatment

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Speaker 2: and you know, councils are standing by. I have no

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Speaker 2: idea of all the things that are happening on planes

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Speaker 2: If I got honest, says, you know, bite me, he's

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Speaker 2: going to Chicago, I'd be like, yeah, exciting planes and

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Speaker 2: land Yeah, right, sure. They've listed the ten American cities

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Speaker 2: with the worst commutes. However, they're saying that the average

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Speaker 2: and some of these commute times are listing for the

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Speaker 2: longest commutes. I don't really buy. For example, and let

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Speaker 2: me see the twenty twenty three Census Bureau data is

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Speaker 2: how they came up with this New York City forty

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Speaker 2: there are people listening now going thirty three. I wish

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Speaker 2: that's that one little stretch from where you can go

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Speaker 2: to Milwaukee to the city that's where everything's closed. It's

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Speaker 2: reversed and flippant reverse it England. Yeah, like missy Elliott,

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Speaker 2: I can see it, but I'm nowhere near it. Kind

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Speaker 2: of thing. That's I think. That's no. Thirty one minutes

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Speaker 2: you want the shortest commute, moved to Tulsa nineteen minutes,

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Speaker 2: which a tom My favorite place. Nineteen minutes, Omaha, twenty, Memphis, twenty, Minneapolis, Columbus, Ohio,

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Speaker 2: Kansas City, Oklahoma City, two Sun of Milwaukee, all around,

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Speaker 2: somewhere between twenty and twenty two minutes. Thirty three minutes

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Speaker 2: in Chicago is the average.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, at four am when I'm driving and there's not

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Speaker 8: another car, Yeah, in the expressway.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I don't know about the times. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. Visitors. I'm offended by this. This

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Speaker 2: is extremely hurtful to me, and I'm I need psychological

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Speaker 2: help in general, but also for this specifically. Visitors at

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Speaker 2: King's Island Amusement Park in Mason, Ohio, we're told to

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Speaker 2: keep their mouths closed on the rocks all weekend to

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Speaker 2: avoid swallowing a cicada, because I guess they're flying around

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Speaker 2: so much that if you open your mouth on a ride,

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Speaker 2: the brood fourteen cicadas hatch a little bit later this year,

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Speaker 2: and they're everywhere, including this amusement park. So visitors have

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Speaker 2: been told to enjoy the rides, but for the next

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Speaker 2: few weeks should probably keep their mouths closed well on them.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm not enjoying no, right, okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And in sad news, guys, Father's Day was the

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Speaker 2: day that marked the end for a man known as

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Speaker 2: the Sperminator oh who is fathered one hundred and seventy

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Speaker 2: Father's Day yesterday. The guy's name is Ari Nagel, and

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Speaker 2: he said that it's time for women to start finding

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Speaker 2: somebody else, somebody younger to impregnate them. His mission is

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Speaker 2: almost he's turning fifty in August. I know you were dreaming.

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Speaker 2: I've been trying to get you and Ari together for

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Speaker 2: some time now, and it hasn't worked as scheduling wise, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but he said that it's healthier and better to be

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Speaker 2: safe than sorry for women to find a younger guy

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Speaker 2: to do this. He's been donating for seventeen years now

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Speaker 2: and he has one hundred and seventy six children as

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Speaker 2: a cost of course, across twenty states, ten countries, and

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Speaker 2: five continents. He has five more children who were due

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Speaker 2: this year, but he's done so limited edition. These are

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Speaker 2: these kids are all numbered and we're done with this

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Speaker 2: at the end of the year.

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Speaker 5: Good effort.

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Speaker 2: His main draw has been that he's never charged a

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Speaker 2: woman for his donations. What a guy, allowing them to

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Speaker 2: avoid thousands of dollars in sperm bank costs. He said

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Speaker 2: that his legacy will never be about famer money, but

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Speaker 2: about family. What a guy. What a guy? I know,

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Speaker 2: And I wonder if he's one of these guys. It's

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Speaker 2: like it has to be the natural method, you know

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Speaker 2: what I mean, Like, oh, dude, if it's a natural

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Speaker 2: one of these guys. I've seen these guys on Craigslist before.

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Speaker 2: Oh you were looking, yeah, well, I mean I'm always

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Speaker 2: looking for new business opportunities. I was looking to say, well,

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Speaker 2: it sounded like an interesting side hussle. You know, okay,

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Speaker 2: I was the one who posted it. But what does

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Speaker 2: a better here in National Fudge Day Today? The Entertainment

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Speaker 1: He's on the Freasshew.

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Speaker 4: Kanie West showed up to Ditty's trial Friday morning. You

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Speaker 4: may have seen video of him wapping up Ditty's Sun

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Speaker 4: Christian on the way into the courtroom. However, he left

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Speaker 4: the trial after only ten minutes, even though court officials

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Speaker 4: open up a whole overflow room just for him to watch.

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Speaker 4: That's when there's like too many people in the courtroom

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Speaker 4: and you can see from other areas. As for the

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Speaker 4: latest with the trial, Ditty's legal team has once again

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Speaker 4: filed an emergency motion for a mistrial, arguing that prosecutors

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Speaker 4: unfairly pushed out one of the very few black jurors

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Speaker 4: by questioning his residency. The motion revolves around Jury number six,

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Speaker 4: a man whose living situation is shuttling between Jersey and

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Speaker 4: the Bronx, became a trigger for the prosecution accusing him

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Speaker 4: of not being truthful. But Ditty's lawyers claim the move

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Speaker 4: reveals a deeper strategy to reduce diversity on the jury.

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Speaker 4: The judge is set to decide by the end of

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Speaker 4: this week whether to replace that and whether a.

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Speaker 5: Mistrial is necessary.

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Speaker 4: Donna Kelcey is the mother of Travis and Jason kelce

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Speaker 4: and she's also going to be a contestant on the

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Speaker 4: next season of The Traders, which that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if a crime happens in my house and I

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Speaker 5: Now? What was the reason?

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean anyway, So morality Monday number one.

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Speaker 2: the exact opposite.

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Speaker 4: Also, like, if you feel that way, it's it's not

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Speaker 4: the time to get it out on a zoom call

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Speaker 4: when it can just be overheard by your partner. And

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Speaker 4: what's sad is I think it takes both people to

436
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Speaker 4: make the raising the children work.

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Speaker 5: It does, you know, And comparison is the thief of joy.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I and if I heard if this is

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Speaker 2: me and I heard my wife saying this to her mom,

440
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Speaker 2: that's even worse because it's like you're telling your mom

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Speaker 2: that I'm basically a bad dad.

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Speaker 6: True.

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't like to el is it L

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Speaker 2: or Ellie?

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Speaker 1: This l.

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Speaker 2: How you doing? So this scenario in here, it's like

447
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Speaker 2: you've got the dad working twelve hours a day. In

448
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Speaker 2: this case, you've got the mom at home and the

449
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Speaker 2: mom feels like she's a single parent, and the dad's like, hey,

450
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Speaker 2: at first he was upset, Now he feels guilty. But

451
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Speaker 2: I don't necessarily think that's a fair thing to say about.

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Speaker 6: Him, not at all as a.

453
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Speaker 5: Truly solo parent.

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Speaker 6: This just makes me so angry. I'm actually shaking because

455
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Speaker 6: she's still like she's not has to work. She's not

456
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Speaker 6: worried about the bills herself. She's getting support in some way,

457
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Speaker 6: shape or form, even though he might not be present.

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Speaker 6: So it's just it's just not something that you can

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Speaker 6: just say like that, because she's just not even realizing

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Speaker 6: the impact she's getting from having that man in her life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that would trigger me too, because what

462
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Speaker 2: about the people who are in fact solo parents and

463
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Speaker 2: it all falls on them. They have to somehow figure

464
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Speaker 2: out a way to pay for the you know, pay

465
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Speaker 2: pay the bills and the mortgage and the rats and

466
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Speaker 2: the food and care yet soccer practice and figure out

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Speaker 2: the logistics of the rest of that. I mean, and

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Speaker 2: I'm not minimizing one or the other, but for you,

469
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Speaker 2: you have to figure out both.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and not to minimize it either, because she still

471
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Speaker 6: has to step up in ways that maybe she didn't

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Speaker 6: anticipate when they originally decided to have a child. But

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Speaker 6: I mean, I remember when I just had a three

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Speaker 6: month old and I couldn't even just go to the bathroom,

475
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Speaker 6: I couldn't just go down the street and get a coffee.

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Speaker 1: Like, there's just so much you don't.

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Speaker 6: Realize that actually happens when you are a truly solo parent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: He's definitely the a hole in this one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough, I'll let her know. Thanks.

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Speaker 6: Any guys love your show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, love you too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: I mean it's a good point that you've made though, too,

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Speaker 9: where it's like you look at one side look at

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Speaker 9: the other side right, like you got it better.

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Speaker 5: I know you got it better, but.

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Speaker 9: I think it's also like for my personal experience, from

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Speaker 9: my experience, I feel like I'm looking at it that

490
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Speaker 9: what does his husband do when he comes home? Is

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Speaker 9: he playing video games? Is he disassociating from his family?

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Speaker 9: I know that the ten to twelve hour shifts are long,

493
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Speaker 9: and they're lengthy and hard. I feel like they can

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Speaker 9: at least come home right, play with the kids, make dinner,

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Speaker 9: like help out, because I think then that would take

496
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Speaker 9: less off of the mom who is home all day

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Speaker 9: with the kids. Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: But let me and Okay, so there's a question. I

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Speaker 2: don't know the answer. I'm asking like an open ended question,

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Speaker 2: but is it fair for someone who worked ten hours

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Speaker 2: a day to then come home and take an hour

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Speaker 2: to decompress?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Because because what I think. I think sometimes it's it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you yes, you were at home with the kids all day,

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Speaker 2: But then am I expected And I don't know the answer,

507
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Speaker 2: but am I expected to just after my ten hour

508
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Speaker 2: day walk in and then just take over the parenting

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Speaker 2: role and then you get a break? I don't know

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Speaker 2: the answer to that, But like I think, sometimes there's

511
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Speaker 2: not a respect for what the other one's doing. It's

512
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Speaker 2: like I just went to work. I just sat in

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Speaker 2: traffic for an hour. Yeah, I just had spit up

514
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Speaker 2: on me all day and watched Miss Rachel for the

515
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Speaker 2: thirty seven times like me, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, I don't know, I've heard that one

517
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Speaker 2: before where the guy comes home he sortady wants to

518
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Speaker 2: go to bed. And it's not that I don't know

519
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Speaker 2: that he's a bad guy or a bad girl or whatever,

520
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Speaker 2: but like you're only capable of so much.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, communicate, I think at a community with a partner,

522
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Speaker 9: how are you feeling this moment? Hey, I just walked

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Speaker 9: in the house, like, give me, you know, thirty minutes

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Speaker 9: and then I think, just.

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Speaker 5: You got to work it out. It's hard, but you

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Speaker 5: got to balance it some way.

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Speaker 2: Melissa Yeah, good morning, Melissa, good morning, welcome. What do

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Speaker 2: you think so?

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Speaker 10: I think the dad here is definitely not the a hole.

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Speaker 10: She just needs to reorganize her thinking to be able

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Speaker 10: to include him or incorporate him with more parental responsibilities.

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Speaker 10: Like you said, they're both performing a job here. His

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Speaker 10: is the financial income, the financial stability, the security there.

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Speaker 10: She is providing the parenting here, whether she wants it

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Speaker 10: or not. If that's something that she kind of and

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Speaker 10: formally agreed to that that's just the way it is.

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Speaker 10: If she's not reporting somewhere to go to and provide

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Speaker 10: the same way he does, then she's not the solo

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Speaker 10: parent here. She's just they're just providing different job aspects

540
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Speaker 10: of the family, the being at home, that being the

541
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Speaker 10: parent like the absent or the present parent. She's just

542
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Speaker 10: the main go to right now for him physically. But

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Speaker 10: the dad is definitely there to provide for them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Melissa, thank you. Have a good day, absolutely, because

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Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes people would switch roles, even like

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Speaker 2: I know, I'll tell you what, you think it's so great,

547
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Speaker 2: you know doing this and the other you think it's

548
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Speaker 2: so great, you know, going to work and dealing with

549
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Speaker 2: these idiots like how about I stay home and I'll

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Speaker 2: take care of my kids, because you know, I think

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Speaker 2: the other thing that's sort of negated here is like

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Speaker 2: maybe he loves I'm sure he loves his kids too,

553
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Speaker 2: and I'm sure he would rather be at soccer practice

554
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Speaker 2: or being the coach, or going to the games, or

555
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Speaker 2: or feeding the kids or whatever. I'm sure there's bonding

556
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Speaker 2: time that he's missing, right, So it probably has moments

557
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Speaker 2: where it's like, Okay, cool kids crying, I got to

558
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Speaker 2: go to work by you deal with it. But then

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it also has moments where it's like, man,

560
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Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm missing that. But if he were there,

561
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Speaker 2: then who's making the money to pay the bills? In

562
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Speaker 2: this case? You know, you can you could flip it. It

563
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Speaker 2: could be the other way around. It's like the grass

564
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Speaker 2: is always I feel like Ashley Hi. So in this scenario,

565
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Speaker 2: if you're just tuning in, there's a woman and this

566
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Speaker 2: is from the male perspective, but he heard his wife saying

567
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Speaker 2: that she is a solo parent because he works ten

568
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Speaker 2: to twelve hours a day, and she's telling people this,

569
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Speaker 2: like her mom and friends, and he's offended. And then

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Speaker 2: he sort of vacillates on Well, so I feel bad

571
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Speaker 2: for saying something to her or not, But this is

572
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Speaker 2: the agreement that we came up with. I work in

573
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Speaker 2: a traditional setting. I pay the bills and you take

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Speaker 2: care of the kids. That doesn't make you a solo parent.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: No, she is absolutely wrong saying that she's a solo parent.

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Speaker 2: I think is just really hurtful.

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Speaker 1: I have a two year.

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Speaker 3: Old and a baby on the way in three weeks,

580
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Speaker 3: and my husband has a traveling job and his travel

581
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Speaker 3: is sporadic. He can up and go and I only

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Speaker 3: have a week or a couple of weeks notice, and

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Speaker 3: sometimes he's gone you know what seems like half a

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Speaker 3: month and sometimes it's less.

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Speaker 10: By no means am.

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Speaker 3: I a solo parent at all. It is very hard,

587
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Speaker 3: especially with two small kids. But we had a conversation,

588
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Speaker 3: and I knew his work before we made these decisions,

589
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Speaker 3: and we have to continue to have conversations about hey,

590
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Speaker 3: is do we need to make a change? And I

591
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Speaker 3: know job changes and things like that they're not easy

592
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Speaker 3: at all, but is it do I need to go

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Speaker 3: part time? Do we want does he want to be home?

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Speaker 3: Or do we need to make a change there, or

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Speaker 3: do we need to make a lifestyle change, you know,

596
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Speaker 3: with you know, home or otherwise, And those are big

597
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Speaker 3: changes and really tough decisions. But if it's bothering her

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Speaker 3: that much, it's definitely a conversation.

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Speaker 1: Because she's not.

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Speaker 3: A solo parent at all. I will say that like,

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Speaker 3: oh I'm I'm I'm solo this week. My husband's gone

602
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Speaker 3: and we have a village that helps me out. So

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Speaker 3: it's just you got to talk about options, there was

604
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Speaker 3: ways to work things out. I'm with her, it's not easy,

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Speaker 3: especially with two kids. Yeah, being super pregnant, but by

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Speaker 3: no means in my solo mom, And that's really hurtful

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Speaker 3: to say about her husband.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for sharing. Congratulations by the way on

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Speaker 2: the new one.

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Speaker 3: In a couple of weeks, making more listeners, we got

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Speaker 3: to get you know what My understanding is it as

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Speaker 3: soon as that baby's boy, is that boy or girl girl?

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Speaker 2: This time apparently Jessica listener number eleven is moving to

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Speaker 2: like microneesy or something, and like in the jungle, there's

615
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Speaker 2: no I don't know if there's a jungle there, but

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Speaker 2: my understanding is some form of jungle and there's no Internet.

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Speaker 2: So we lost her, so the baby did so we'll

618
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Speaker 2: never be more than thirteen. So don't even try and

619
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Speaker 2: get greedy.

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Speaker 10: Okay, okay, we're going to start. We'll let you guys start.

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Speaker 1: The whole nat Lee, I like it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you have a good thank you.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We keep adding cities and we only have the same

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Speaker 2: number of listeners. Hey, Linda, good morning. Where are you Hi?

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Speaker 2: Doing great? Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. So I'm

627
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Speaker 2: gonna give you the final say here. And someone brought

628
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Speaker 2: up military families too, by the way, which I mean

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Speaker 2: there's one. It's like people gone for you know, Shelley's

630
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Speaker 2: husband gone for two three months at a time, longer

631
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Speaker 2: years at a time, sometimes depending on what's going on.

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Speaker 2: And does that make that person any any less of

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Speaker 2: a parent? Would I would argue, No, they're they're they're

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Speaker 2: doing what they gotta do.

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Speaker 11: What do you think, right, Well, I think the hardest

636
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Speaker 11: part of this, this whole argument, is that the role

637
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Speaker 11: of motherhood is always somehow less stressful than going to

638
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Speaker 11: work for twelve hours. My ex husband was an air

639
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Speaker 11: traffic bro one of the most stressful jobs in the world,

640
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Speaker 11: as you might know, and you know, I'm at home

641
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Speaker 11: with two kids under two, and all I want to

642
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Speaker 11: do is take a shower. That's all I want to

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Speaker 11: do is take a sh and so, you know, he

644
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Speaker 11: comes home from work and yeah, he wants to unwind,

645
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Speaker 11: and yeah, you know, he's not really interested into screaming

646
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Speaker 11: you know, two year olds.

647
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Speaker 5: But at the same time, I need you.

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Speaker 11: To acknowledge that my job is as important as yours

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Speaker 11: and I just need to take a shower. And so

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Speaker 11: there was always that, there was always that argument of

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Speaker 11: whose job is more important, and.

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Speaker 5: They both are. They both are important.

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Speaker 11: But for me, I felt that as a mother, a

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Speaker 11: stay at home mother, my job was made less important

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Speaker 11: because of the importance of his.

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Speaker 2: Job in the world.

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Speaker 11: And so I was just like, you know, can I

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Speaker 11: have five minutes him He's like, well, you know, I've

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Speaker 11: been busy all day and you know, my brain.

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Speaker 5: I can't even think. And I'm like, I understand that, and.

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Speaker 11: He's like, well, you've been home all day, you know

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Speaker 11: if that's a vacation. So I think in the world

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Speaker 11: in general, we need to give mothers credit for how

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Speaker 11: hard it is to be a mom full time, and

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Speaker 11: it is just as important, and it is just as

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Speaker 11: taxing at times, especially with two under two.

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Speaker 2: I agree, I agree, but you know, I hey, in

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Speaker 2: his defense, he's been dealing with you know, screaming pilots

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Speaker 2: all day that are just the same as babies. It's

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Speaker 2: the same.

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Speaker 11: Audible hair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, Well, thanks for having us on the radio

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Speaker 2: on the iHeart app Live at any time search but

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Speaker 2: a Fred show on demand. Where were the rumors coming

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Speaker 2: from that she was getting married this weekend? Where did

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Speaker 2: that come from? I've seen that.

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Speaker 5: I got a little too excited.

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Speaker 2: I was seeing like late last week that supposedly was

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Speaker 2: happening this weekend in Napa or something. That was what

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Speaker 2: I heard. That's crazy swift. They've been in a lot

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Speaker 2: of weddings recently, but I didn't see that child. I

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Speaker 2: saw that a few different places, and then I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I didn't get a call to go to Napa, So

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Speaker 2: there's no way. I definitely there's no way that she

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Speaker 2: would get married and not invite me. We go way back. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so yeah.

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Speaker 4: Pal may have revealed a secret marriage plan. Is Pal

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Speaker 4: not as Pale?

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Speaker 2: Well you ain't my pal.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, this is just the wedding thing that we

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Speaker 4: saw that they were already married. There are rumors, But yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't. I don't see anything about NAPA.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that was that's what my people were telling me.

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Speaker 2: Just prepare for NAPA, your pal my pals. They were

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Speaker 2: just like, you know, do you have your NAPA clothes ready?

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Speaker 2: And it sort of looks like if you were going

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Speaker 2: to a cloque a croquet match. For me, it would

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Speaker 2: be like some nice uh chinos, you know, but maybe

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Speaker 2: a nice sweater over my you know what I'm saying. Yeah, linen,

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Speaker 2: that's what I mean. A nice linen suit, you know, flowy. Yeah, right, exactly.

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Speaker 2: That that was going to be the fit for the

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Speaker 2: wedding of the century that I maybe I did go to.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they are married. Maybe I'm just playing dumb. Maybe

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Speaker 2: I'm not waiting by the phone and blogs will do

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Speaker 2: a minute.

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Speaker 1: I got more pread show next