1 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, Happy Monday. Welcome to the bonus episode. We're 2 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: deep diving. Is that you making your presence Stone? I 3 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: love that you just said that because I had a 4 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: picture of a little tiny creature who made a similar 5 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: noise when we went to Hurst Castle, a gopher, which 6 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: I was like, they're so cute. And Kristen, who is 7 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: like very into like she makes floral lorrange arrangements in Utah. 8 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:40,279 Speaker 1: She has a floral company, Kristen's Flowers. I believe it 9 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: is on Instagram. She's actually planning a baby shower that 10 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: I'm having at the house. But she was like, they 11 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,599 Speaker 1: will up your yard and I'm like, oh, but they're 12 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: so cute in the wild. Yeah, So thank you for 13 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: giving that little Hey, Hi, how are you. We're doing 14 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: an AMA today, which I'm super excited about because there's 15 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: really amazing questions. Oh no, I know, let's just deep 16 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: dive into it now. If you could live anywhere in 17 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: the world, where would you live Easton? Do you know? 18 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 19 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: Anywhere in the world. 20 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. Bally is pretty. I don't know. 21 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: I know it would be hard because I haven't I. 22 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 3: Haven't traveled enough to know yeah, and like if you're 23 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 3: going like, do I need to like the people or 24 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 3: is it just like I live there. 25 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:30,199 Speaker 1: Everything's great, right, I think it would be really really hard. 26 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: This is what I'm going to say. So if you 27 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: were to look at my passport right now, it is 28 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: so mortifying. I think I've left the country once and 29 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: then we went into a custody battle where it was 30 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: like you can't travel unless the other person, you know, 31 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: consented to it, And then leaving the country is just 32 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: a whole different ballgame that I could not even deep 33 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: dive into. Like Ocean doesn't even have a passport right now, 34 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: but now she'll finally be getting one. I would say 35 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: home base. I would always want to be in Los Angeles. 36 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: I just I really love it here. I get excited 37 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: to come home. I love this house, and I actually 38 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: like the hubbub that surrounds it. You know, I like 39 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: I do too. I like having neighbors. I like being 40 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: close to a freeway. I just like hearing noise. I 41 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: don't know that I would want to be concluded if 42 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: you were saying like, yeah, she'll still have neighbors in 43 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: an eye and earshot, but a little bit more property. 44 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: That would make me happy. But then I would like 45 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: to have homes kind of everywhere. Like I'd love to 46 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: have like a chateau and pettie yeah on the outskirts, 47 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: like a. 48 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: Travel like being somewhere for like a couple of months 49 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 2: and then go somewhere else. 50 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like give me a yacht that I can just 51 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: yacht around. 52 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 2: Are my favorite thing is yachting. I love yachting around. 53 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: I love yachting around too. 54 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: Who doesn't Joy and Monaco? Oh that's my dream? 55 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: Really? Yeah, I mean I could get down with that. 56 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: What all tattoos do you have? 57 00:02:58,720 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: Now? 58 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: Well, you can't even say what tattoos you have because 59 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: they're all just like a piece. 60 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got pieces ginormous. 61 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: The first tattoo I ever got was lily on the 62 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: back of my It's not like an ankle butt like. 63 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: Yeah above your achilles right yeah. 64 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 1: On my right leg, and it is so it used 65 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: to be pretty. But you, guys, if I can give 66 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: you any advice, if you're going and getting a tattoo, 67 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: there's this new thing that they do where they put 68 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: like this plastic over it, but it sticks to the tattoo. 69 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: Do not do it. Every time I have done that 70 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: my tattoos have bled like, they get thick. After that, 71 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: your ink runs, your ink runs like I would highly 72 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: recommend just telling them to put like the ointment they 73 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: put on and then just use I. 74 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: Have a couple. Yeah, I have a couple of tattoos. 75 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 2: And I always go back to. 76 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: The first time I ever got a tattoo, which would 77 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 3: like on my collar bones. 78 00:03:55,680 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and tattooed done. I use a D ointment. 79 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 3: Use whatever you want, but I use A and D 80 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 3: and then I cut a small piece of saran wraps 81 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 3: and put it on and then tape around it. 82 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, do not have them stick now and what they're like. 83 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 3: And it lasts for like twenty four hours or forty eight, 84 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 3: don't do it like it. 85 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: Lasts for a week. Just say I can we not 86 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: do that? It makes your ink bleed. 87 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: We'll look at my dad tattoo it because it makes 88 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: it thick. 89 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 90 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: So I've got the lily tattoo. I've got the lion 91 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: that was a cover up of my ex's initials. I've 92 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: got a white ink tattoo that says give them La La. 93 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: I have brand new, which was also not a cover 94 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: up but a rebrand of my ex. To get your 95 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: ex's name. I've got mom in her handwriting. I've got 96 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: Dad in a heart on the back. I've got an 97 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: orc on my side. I've got heathen on the back 98 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 1: of my. 99 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: Other ailes which your most recent the. 100 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: Oh, I haven't gotten a tattoo since the O, which 101 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: was like two years ago. I've got a wave for 102 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: her as well. I think that's all. Oh, I've got 103 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: a heart around a lady part of mine. I think 104 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: I've got thirteen tattoos total, Okay, and I honestly, you 105 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 1: know how people say when you get a tattoo, you 106 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: become addicted. I do believe that's true. The last tattoo 107 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: I'm going to get is Sosa's name, and then I 108 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: think I'll be done. I don't think I want any more. 109 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to be covered. 110 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean you've you've gone far. Mine are 111 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: just little little tattoos. But I also don't want it 112 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: to look like I have little sticker tattoo. 113 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, like sticks very very Yeah. 114 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: Fine, I call. 115 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:40,919 Speaker 3: It American traditional, but that's what I think. I think 116 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 3: it's American traditional, which is. 117 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: Like this kind of like the Miley Cyrus. 118 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it's a piece and then like next to 119 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,799 Speaker 3: it are like little stars and then there's another piece 120 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,239 Speaker 3: like there's no shading. 121 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: Not exactly, not that I have anything against the Miley cyrus. 122 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: Look or not much tattoo choice. I love it on 123 00:05:59,240 --> 00:05:59,799 Speaker 2: certain people. 124 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 3: There's like barbers, I don't know what it is about barbers, 125 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 3: like with the shave side, with the long hair, with 126 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 3: your like ray bands, with like the Dicky's jeans totally, 127 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 3: you know that the very West Coast, Yes, and then 128 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 3: they have that tattoo, you know, with the tighter shirt 129 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 3: with like the vans on. 130 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 2: Almost the Paul Walker Oh yeah. 131 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, like the first fast and furious like that. When 132 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 3: those dudes have it, I'm like that guy. 133 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: Fucks slaps he fo Yeah, but I don't. I don't 134 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: want that for myself. 135 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 2: Shading I need, Yeah, Like, it's not for me. 136 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: I heard Sena talking about how she's working on her 137 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: sleeve right now, get them pretty hot. 138 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I'm nervous about my upper arm. 139 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: Just go to that place that it puts you under. 140 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: No, I'm going to chich oh. 141 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, chitch back in Utah. 142 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 143 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: What is your favorite thing to do with the girl 144 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: slash kids? Oh that's so hard because I have so 145 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: much fun doing so many things with them, But I 146 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: prefer more of an excursion. Like I wish I were 147 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: the mom that could sit up in the playroom and 148 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: play like hours of Barbies and then. 149 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 2: Do do that, but it's not. 150 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: I don't, and I'm not going to pretend like I do. 151 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: Gigi does that all the time's she was just there. 152 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: Gigi's great at like playing school with Ocean or playing hairdresser, 153 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: like I just am not good at that. But I 154 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: love doing an outing. I'm like, oh my gosh, let's 155 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: go in mini golf. Let's go and do this with 156 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: this group of friends. Yeah, you know, let's go on 157 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: an excursion to hers castle and show. We didn't even 158 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: talk about how Ocean saw sea elephants on the last episode. 159 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 2: We were too far. That's for next. 160 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: That was amazing for Ocean. Ocean is now putting two 161 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: and two together of like I was named after the ocean. 162 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: So on the way to see the sea elephants, I 163 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: told her, like, do you know why Mommy named you Ocean? 164 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: And she said why mom? I said, because the ocean 165 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: is very powerful ocean, just like. 166 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 2: You, and she. 167 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: I love that. 168 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 2: She's getting a little character and something else. 169 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: She's so cute. But you guys, when we went up north, 170 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: the beach was filled with these hefty, hefty women, uh seals, seals, seals, 171 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: absolutely gorgeous. But let me tell you what's crazy. In December, 172 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: so it was so peaceful, peaceful, peaceful. You want to 173 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: know why I looked it up. No, well, yes, the 174 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: sand on the backs. It becomes very unpeaceful in like 175 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: December because the male elephant seals make their way to 176 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 1: the beach. Men want to establish dominance, and they go 177 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: crazy on one another, blood everywhere. But now they've all left, 178 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: and now it's just the women and children on the 179 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: beach and it is a lovely, peaceful place. 180 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 2: No. I could have gone down there and laid down 181 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: and they wouldn't even have cared. 182 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: I would have never. Oh that was another thing we 183 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 1: taught Ocean though. She was like, I want to go 184 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: down and pet them, and I said, no, we absolutely 185 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: don't do that. We absolutely let them be in peace. 186 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 1: Would you want them coming up here and petting you? 187 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: And she goes, yeah, I would be so scary. I said, 188 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: I know, imagine U's going out there putting them fright, 189 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: then it will become very unpeaceful, that is for sure. 190 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 2: Are you dating me or you? 191 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: Well, we can both answer no, No, I'm not dating 192 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: neither am I. And you know I've spoken about this before. 193 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: I just I'm open to the idea of dating. And 194 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: then when it really comes down to it, and I 195 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: spoke to Lisa vander Pump about this and she said, 196 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, Lala, you they're not going to remember and 197 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 1: you have to live for you. And I thought about 198 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: it and I'm like, but I am living for me. 199 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 1: I don't want to take time away from my kids 200 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 1: to go on a date with someone right now. Yeah, 201 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: and maybe that will change. 202 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: I'm but for no, and you're great. 203 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: But I think even my mind saying yeah, I'm open 204 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: to it is I've come a long way. 205 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 2: Because there was that door was very shut. 206 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: It was very very shut. I was like, I'm a 207 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: lone wolf me and I'm just a mama bear me 208 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: and these kids. I don't need to go out and 209 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: do all that. And I was talking to my mom 210 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: friends the play date that I had and they were like, like, 211 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: what are you looking for? 212 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 2: You guys. 213 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: By the end of me telling them what I want, 214 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: they were like, You're never continue to someone else there's no. 215 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 2: Freaking walk good luck. 216 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: I was like, well, this, these are the physical attributes, 217 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: and then I need someone who doesn't want children. But 218 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: they can't be older than this. They also can't want 219 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: to get married. They also have to be okay, if 220 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 1: I do want to have another baby, that I'll be 221 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: getting pregnant with the same donor. And they're like, okay, 222 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: so you want like an open relationship. No, they have 223 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: to be in a partnership that is just us too. Okay. 224 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: But they can't live with you. No, they have to 225 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: have their own place, but they can stay over sometimes. 226 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: Would you clear a drawer? No, I'd prefer they just 227 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: bring a bag. Wow, Okay, good luck, good luck with that. 228 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that you're done. 229 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 1: This person wants to know if they can be my 230 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 1: next baby daddy. I think I just answered that. 231 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 2: No. 232 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: Will you write another book? That question comes up a lot, 233 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: and I think the other day you and I were 234 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: talking about this, and I was like, maybe I just 235 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: write a book and I publish it on my own, 236 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: but I still would have to go through the legal process. 237 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure. Yeah, you can't just publish whatever you want, 238 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: even if it's your experience. 239 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 3: I mean, no, but you've already got like a book out, 240 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 3: so it would be easier. You kind of already have 241 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 3: a pathway laid, so it would be a little easier. 242 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: But I think you should write a book. 243 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 3: And now that everything's kind of set in stone, is 244 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 3: it set in stone? I don't know if any be 245 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 3: set in stone, but I feel like it's set in 246 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 3: stone enough where you could talk. 247 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to write a book until I can 248 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: tell the whole story. And there's so many screenshots that 249 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: I want to post. 250 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 2: And I can't get that. 251 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like the text message like, if. 252 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 3: You're going to write a book, you're not going to 253 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 3: just write it to keep people coming, Like you're going 254 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 3: to do it. 255 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 2: To do it right. 256 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think once the story is complete, I 257 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: think it'll be a hefty book. I would want a 258 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: few people to participate because I think that it would 259 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: be not only my story but also educational. 260 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 2: Yeah. 261 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: And I believe that that day will come, Like there 262 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: will be a day when when people know the full 263 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 1: story of where I left off from the Give Them 264 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: La La book to where we are now. Yes, how 265 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 1: do you find strength to chase your goals when your 266 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: whole world is falling apart. Oh my god, Hope. I 267 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: think that that's a really tough one because I think 268 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 1: when your world is falling apart, everything takes a back 269 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: seat to just surviving the day. And I think that 270 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: that's okay. 271 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: Hope. Sometimes you just got to hope. I get through 272 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:24,679 Speaker 2: on hope. 273 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 3: Maybe stupid, maybe something all. There's a lot of times 274 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 3: where I'm like, you know what, I'm beaten. I don't 275 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: feel like it. I'm I'm banking on hope today. 276 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 2: I hope I can get through. 277 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: I love this because I've I think I live on 278 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: hope in a prayer most days. But this there's a 279 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: follow up, she said, especially when you've got a kiddo 280 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: looking up to you saying she wants to be like 281 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: you one day. I think, Chelsea, my love, you're doing I. 282 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 2: Think you're doing very doing it. 283 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you're being too hard on yourself with 284 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 3: her just saying she wants to be like you. That 285 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 3: should I should let you know that you're doing everything 286 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 3: just fine. 287 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 288 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: I think when you look around and your world is 289 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: falling apart, like you don't have the energy to be 290 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: thinking about your goals. And you know, I talked about 291 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 1: this last episode, maybe two episodes ago that I had 292 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: a conversation with Erica Jane where we were both talking 293 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: about when your world falls apart, it's just enough to survive, 294 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: and at one point we both thought, I don't care 295 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: if I'm living in a box. I just want inner peace. 296 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: And when everything kind of changed in my life, my 297 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 1: entire world was just about getting out of that bed 298 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: and making sure that my kid was taken care of. 299 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: There were no goals, no, and then you start realizing, like, wow, 300 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: I have a strength I didn't know I possessed that 301 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: actually does look nice. I'm gonna chase that goal. And 302 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: then the goals become bigger and greater and grander, and 303 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: you start accomplished them. So I think, like you said 304 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: Easton living on Hope, saying this will not last forever, 305 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: Like I know your your world is falling apart, but 306 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: we always talk about this too shall pass. The best 307 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: part about hitting rock bottom is there's nowhere to go 308 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: but U and at the end of it, you're going 309 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: to look back and go, Wow, had my world not 310 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: fallen apart like that, I wouldn't have the strength that 311 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 1: I have. Now we're like, I'm not scared of shit. 312 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the other thing. You build a lot, You 313 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 2: build a lot of character in that. 314 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: This person said, why is Easton's accent so fia us 315 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: ozzie gals can't get enough? That is really cute. 316 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: What's so great is I love a good as accent too? 317 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: Well, Hello, let's look at her. I'll take a screenshot. 318 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: Any assis coming at your pink moon is saying in 319 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: your in your zodiac sign that you're gonna make international. 320 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 2: Hopefully a little. 321 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: Bay girl moving you into the We're moving into the valves. 322 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: It's all pound right. Bedtime routine tips for my five 323 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: and a half month old, Oh, the best thing, I 324 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: would say five and a half months. I don't know 325 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 1: how your baby's skin is. My baby skin cannot handle 326 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: a bath every night. She gets so dry, she becomes 327 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: extremely chapped. Cheeks are like all stretched. And it doesn't 328 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: even matter that I'm moisturizing her every night, like the 329 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: water in La is just a rock. Yeah, I would 330 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: say the best thing to do for your five months 331 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: a good baby lotion. I love the lavender baby lotion 332 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: by Tubby Todd and I do that whole thing where 333 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 1: we massage the feet. I also love Dotara oils. There's 334 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: a dough Tara on guard that I put on the 335 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: bottom of the feet, and then dough Tara breathed that 336 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: I put on the chest in the back. And then 337 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: there's always the same book that I read at night. 338 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: I switch off between three where she knows it's time 339 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: to go to bed, and then my love, you need 340 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 1: to get Baby Merlin's Magic sleepsuit. You can get them 341 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: on Amazon, and that is like game changer for Sosa. 342 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: So all right, I'm going to leave it on this 343 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 1: one because I love that this person's talking about my hair. 344 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 2: It looks so great. 345 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: Hair's looking heart eyes. What is your routine? How many 346 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: times a week do you wash? Slash heat? Well, I'm 347 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: just seeing like I'm lucky to be getting in a 348 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: wash a week because I just I am trying to get 349 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: rid of the dead right, and then Sosa ripping on 350 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 1: it is not helping the split ends. I also, I 351 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: post about neutrafol and there's always a code you guys, 352 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: I actually take it. I'm not just posting that because 353 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: there's a code and whatever you guys think about spawn 354 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: on Like, I'm actually taking neutrafl and it is helping 355 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: my hair. Tremendously and they have them for so many 356 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: like postpartum women's if you're vegan, they have a capsule 357 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: for that. I would also say I let my hair 358 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: air dry most of the time, but I don't have 359 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 1: any curls, so depending on that as well. Also let 360 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 1: your let just natural hair, rock, let your hair hair, 361 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: let your hair hair. That is what I say. You've 362 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 1: got the best hair. I think Sosa has your hair 363 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,199 Speaker 1: like the thick course. 364 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 3: I was going to do a pole and say dreadlocks 365 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,440 Speaker 3: or curls and just see the landslide of that. 366 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll do it today. The thing is, though, you're 367 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:40,640 Speaker 1: not going to listen to the pole. 368 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 2: I just want to see they're all. 369 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: Going to say curly. They're all going to say curly. 370 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 2: Wow. 371 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: Sosas your hair, thank God, and Mom's and Ocean has 372 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: mine thin fine strands. You can get a little mullidy, 373 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 1: but it's fine. It's all it around you guys. Thank 374 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: you for writing into the give them While a pod 375 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: page with your questions. I love when we all participate 376 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: and have fun convos. Thank you for listening to another 377 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 1: bonus episode. Next week's bonus I'm super hyped about because 378 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 1: we're going to be talking Real Housewives of Beverly Hills 379 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: okay in part two, and also the Sweetelebrity is coming 380 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: to a close. Our brackets. You guys have been voting, 381 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: which I appreciate. The link is in the bio on 382 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 1: the podcast page. We're gonna be breaking down the winner 383 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: of the Final four and also the overall winner. Who's 384 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,719 Speaker 1: taking it home? What is your projection? I'm thinking Erica Jane. 385 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 2: I'm thinking Erica Jane, or I was gonna say Kyle. 386 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna say Kyle. I think at the very end 387 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 1: of this, it's gonna be a face off between Kyle 388 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: and Eric j. BH is taking yeah, and it'll be 389 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: a face off of friends. So you're you're okay, what 390 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,719 Speaker 1: are you gonna give me if I win? I think 391 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: EJ's taking it. You think Kyle's taking it. You're buying 392 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: me dinner? 393 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 2: Deal? 394 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: All right? I love it. Thank you guys, and we'll 395 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: catch you on next week's bonus and then you know 396 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: the drill. We'll see you Wednesday. Love you, bye bye.