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Steve. 18 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: Go to Steve Harvey film on Facebook Live, Sherley and 19 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: call it, call it and just talk Eastern comment hype game. Yeah, Yeah, 20 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: we're gonna have fun, talk about Mother's Day, just talk 21 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: about everything. Yeah, to women's single mothers, all of that, 22 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about it all and a hell with that. 23 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: Let's get some people on here. We're talking about partition 24 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: them were talking about how many Africans on the show. Yeah, 25 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: we're worrying about all that, damn on that. But how 26 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: many Africans is on the show? And which one is 27 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: heard is we're doing a remake of Coming to America 28 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: all what this call and partial recommending Africans to everybody 29 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: and where can you get your own African I mean 30 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:12,399 Speaker 1: we African Americans. This is gonna be all about us 31 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: and what we can do on the come up. You're crazy. 32 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: Be careful. Make sure they don't have a lot of 33 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: emblems on so you don't get yourself caught up in nothing. 34 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: You're funny. Steve, please join as you heard it from 35 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: the mouth of the One and earlie Steve Harvey. Okay, crazy, 36 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: ma'am Steve Harvey FM on Facebook Live. Thank you. Segum's escapes. 37 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: All right, switching gears. Now it is time for the 38 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter for today. Wow, if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 39 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey 40 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 41 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 42 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. Muggle up, 43 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: hold on tight, We got it for you. Here. It 44 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: is the strawberry left all right, Thank your nephew. Subject. 45 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: Our nanny takes care of everyone. Okay. Just Stephen Shirley. 46 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty three year old married woman and my 47 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: husband and I had our first child six months ago. 48 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: My husband is a musician and he's back to traveling 49 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: a lot, so he suggested that we hire a nanny. 50 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: I welcome the help, and when my son was two 51 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: weeks old, we hired a twenty six year old girl 52 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: that had just moved to the US from Belize. She 53 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: is beautiful inside and out and she has a big family, 54 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: so she's been helping raising children since she was twelve 55 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: years old. She came to the house daily from seven 56 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: am until four pm, and she taught me a lot 57 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: about parenting. When I returned to work, I asked her 58 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: to move in and she agreed. She cooked, cleaned, ran 59 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: errands for us, and our son loved her as time 60 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: went on. I loved coming home having her there so 61 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: I could vent about my day. She would rub my feet, 62 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: or massage my shoulders, or gently rub my scalp if 63 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: I had had a rough day. And I got caught 64 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: up one day and gave her a prolonged hug and 65 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: she kissed me. That's how it started, and you can 66 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 1: guess how it ended. It's been going on for weeks 67 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: and my husband is home. I'm sure he can sense 68 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: how touchy feely we are, but he's never said anything 69 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: dot dot dot, And now I know why. I walked 70 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: into our dent a few days ago and the nanny 71 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 1: was sitting on my husband's lap, straddling him, and his 72 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: mouth was all over her chest. I stood and watched 73 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: them because it turned me on. He eventually saw me 74 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: there and he motioned for me to join them. There 75 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: was a whole lot of kissing and caressing, but that's it. 76 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: My husband and I haven't mentioned that day. I'm sure 77 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: he's going to go all the way with her if 78 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: he hasn't already. Should I bring it up to my husband? 79 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: And what about her? Should we keep her? But set 80 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: some house rules. You're flocking back. You're working backwards, aren't you, wifey. 81 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: You're working backwards right now. It's a little late to 82 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: be setting boundaries and stuff right now. Obviously you are 83 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: smitten with this young woman, and so is your husband. 84 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: And rule number one, when you need a nanny and 85 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: that sort of thing, it's never to bring that kind 86 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: of temptation into your house. It's just never a good thing. 87 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: It doesn't end well. You've seen the movies and all 88 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: of that. She's beautiful inside and out and is quite 89 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: efficient in her job. You were able to relax and 90 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: get rid of some of the stress from all you 91 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: have been through after having a baby and getting back 92 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: to work. And although we all should exercise self control 93 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: in these type situations, we're human. We can caught up 94 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: like you guys did. The nanny getting with your husband 95 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: even turned you on. You said so much so that 96 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: you joined in. And I know you and your husband 97 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: haven't spoken since, but you're gonna have to settle this. 98 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: You gotta speak. I think the thing that scares you 99 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: the most is that you don't trust your husband is 100 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: gonna stop with her. You didn't even know they we're 101 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: doing it. That was a surprise to you, and there's 102 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: no guarantee that that won't happen again. So based on 103 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: all of that, I think it's best that the beautiful 104 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: nanny goes, so you guys can get your marriage back 105 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 1: on track and the next time, if there is a 106 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: next time, get a misdoubt fire type okay type, so 107 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: you and your husband will not be tempted to have 108 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: sex with her. Steve. Yeah, but we'll come back. Our 109 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: nanny takes care of Everyone is the title of today's 110 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. We'll be back at twenty three minutes after 111 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: with Steve's response. Right after this, you're listening to the 112 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's 113 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter, thus subject our nanny takes care 114 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: of Everyone. Well, I didn't get a chance to response earlier, 115 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: so I don't have to do a recap. I'm gonna 116 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: read the letting tell you my thoughts as I go 117 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: read it. Let's go. This is me reading the letter 118 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: having never heard it. Here my thoughts as we go. 119 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: Stephen Sherl. I'm a thirty three year old man woman. 120 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: My husband, I had a first child six months ago. 121 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: My husband is a musician. He's back to traveling a lot, 122 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: so he suggested we hired nanny. I welcome to help, 123 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: And when my son was two weeks old, we hired 124 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: a twenty six year old girl had It just moved 125 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: to the US from Belize. She's beautiful inside and out. 126 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: She has a big family, so she's been helping raise 127 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: children since she was twelve years old. Okay, she's twenty six, 128 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: beautiful inside and out. Bad idea, you ain't, but thirty three, 129 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: You ain't, but thirty three. You didn't hide a fine 130 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: chick to work in your house and she twenty bad idea. 131 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: When I returned, she came to the house daily from 132 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,679 Speaker 1: seven to fourth and she taught me a lot about Penndy. 133 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: When I returned to work, I asked her to move 134 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: in and she agreed. Another bad idea. You didn't ask 135 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: the bad chick to move into your house. She cook 136 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: clean rains and her son, the son, loved the time 137 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: went on. I loved coming home having her there, so 138 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: I convent about my day. Oh you got somebody talk? 139 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: Oh that's She would rub my feet or massage from 140 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: my shoulders, gently rubbed my scalp if I had a 141 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: rough day, all right, Now, I got caught up one 142 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: day and gave her a prolonged hugging. Here she kissed 143 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: me dead in my mouth and my mouth was open, 144 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: so I kiss talk back and we just had just 145 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: tongues all over the place. That's how I started. And 146 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: you can guess how it is now. I can't guess, 147 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: but go ahead. You could have told. And I've been 148 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: going on for really Yeah, it's been going on for weeks. 149 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: And with my husband home, I'm sure he can see 150 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: how touchy feel it we are. Oh, I know he 151 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: can't see your husband ain't stupid. But I got news 152 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: for her. You didn't have to know, because I bet 153 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 1: he told. I bet she told her him, because just 154 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: how I'm to tell you. But she's never but but 155 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: he's never said anything. Are you just buying this time? 156 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: And now I know why? I walked into her then 157 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: a few days ago, and the nanny was sitting on 158 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: my husband's lap strattling him, and his mouth was all 159 00:09:53,640 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: over her chest. Yeah one, yeah, all over her chest? 160 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: What you mean by that? Why she was tragging him? 161 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying. I can't get that visual out of my 162 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: head right. Yeah, I stood and watched him because it 163 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: turned me on. I hit the part where it got crazy. 164 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: He eventually saw me there and he motioned for me 165 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: to join them. Well, that was a whole lot of 166 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: kissing and caressing, but that's it. There was a whole 167 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: lot of kissing and caressing, but that was it. My 168 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: husband and I haven't mentioned that day. Why hell, you 169 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: was both down. I don't I don't understand what you 170 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: got to bring it up for. He We ain't mentioned 171 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: that day because you was both down. See, but you're 172 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: stupid because he's waiting to see if you want to 173 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 1: bring it up to do it again. But just you 174 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: walk in on him with him, Stratton, and you think 175 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 1: that's it, girl, I'm sure he's going to go all 176 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: the way with her if he hasn't already. Should I 177 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: bring it up to my husband? Should you bring it up? Hell? 178 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: He already up up, you know, all the way up. 179 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: Should you bring it up? Hell, he already up? Wink wink? 180 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: And what about her? Should we keep her? You know, 181 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: you've got the kindest reply to walking in on a woman, 182 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: Stratton in your husband that I've ever seen. But since 183 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: it turned you on, let's just admit a couple of things. 184 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: Should we keep them? Well, it sounds like you want 185 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: to because you like the foot rubs, the massages, the 186 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 1: neck rubs, the scalps and the foot massage and the 187 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: kissing and y'all that went all the way, So you 188 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 1: don't want her to go. So now y'all have a 189 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: three ceme at y'all's house. Y'all have what's called an 190 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: open manage. She didn't know it. I don't really know 191 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: what you want us to do. You should we keep her? Yes? YEA, 192 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 1: sound like it's not about you. It seemed like everybody happy. 193 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: It seemed like everybody happened. Should keep she happy? He happy? 194 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: Did nanny happened, that baby happen. There's one big happy ass, 195 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: ragging ass family. Hell yeah, keeper the baby happy, the 196 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: damn baby happy. You said the baby love her, your 197 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: husband love her, and you love her, and she loved everybody. 198 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: You know. That's not sound good? You give sound kind 199 00:12:54,800 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: of done. Today's Strawberry Letter Instagram and check out the 200 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up in forty six 201 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour from the Talk, It's Our Girl, 202 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: Cheryl Underwood. 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