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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Daniel is on the phone today and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by a woman named Penelope. So in a few minutes,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first we got to find out why he thinks

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Speaker 2: he's getting ghosted. Daniel, why do you think Penelope is

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Speaker 2: ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: Honestly? And I think it's because I had insulted her cooking.

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Speaker 4: I insulted her cooking. Why how.

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Speaker 3: Well? She kind of seemed like she did not think

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Speaker 3: that she needed to add like more uh salt that

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Speaker 3: I thought we needed for this certain like part of

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Speaker 3: the recipe.

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Speaker 2: And Daniel, kind of have you done one of these before?

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Speaker 2: You sound very familiar to me?

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Speaker 3: No, not anything, are you?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Never? Have I never met you before in my life

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Speaker 3: in my I mean I haven't talked.

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Speaker 2: To yeh No, okay, okay, all right, yeah, so.

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Speaker 3: I don't usually get turned down for second dates in

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Speaker 3: the first place.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, you know you sound exactly like somebody

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Speaker 2: who's done this. Okay, anyway, Daniel, Uh.

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Speaker 3: The other people with other you know, timbers and voices,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know, maybe I have a doppelganger voice personnel.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe I gotta be honest with you, Daniel. I

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Speaker 2: think you're lying to me. But whatever, we're still gonna do.

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Speaker 4: I mean, let's just sound exactly like this.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember, but we do so many of these anyways,

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Speaker 2: let's let him, you know.

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Speaker 3: So, I don't even know if I want your advice, all.

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Speaker 4: Right, Right, So you insulted her cooking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so she we came over, she came over my

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Speaker 3: house to make food, and she had this her grandmother's

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Speaker 3: recipe that she was like, this thing is banging. And

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Speaker 3: I we tasted the sauce and I honestly think it, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's not I thought it needed more salt, and she

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Speaker 3: did not think it needed more salt. And we had

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Speaker 3: a orc in the road immediately right there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so maybe you offended her.

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Speaker 4: You insulted her grandmother essentially.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you know what that? Okay, maybe you guys are

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Speaker 3: good for advices. I didn't even think about it. It's

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Speaker 3: about the gammy, it's not even about her. So the

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Speaker 3: dinner was still good. And everything, like, we had like

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Speaker 3: nice conversations. So but she left really really quickly. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: and so now she won't get back to me, and

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Speaker 3: I mean it's a huge bummer because I mean, I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I really want this to work out. I

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Speaker 3: want your chance.

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Speaker 2: Well, Daniel is on the phone and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by a woman named Penelope. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him a second date. But first, Daniel,

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Speaker 2: why don't you tell us why you think you're getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So, I mean the short of it is that

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Speaker 3: I think I insulted her cooking, and maybe even more so,

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Speaker 3: insulted her grandmother's recipe because she had the sauce that

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Speaker 3: she was making that definitely needed more salt, and uh,

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Speaker 3: you know, I commented that it did. And now she

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Speaker 3: won't call me back, she's not responding to my text nothing.

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Speaker 2: And you're sure you haven't done one of these. You

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Speaker 2: remind me so much of somebody who did one recently.

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Speaker 3: With this thing. No, literally, this is I always get

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Speaker 3: second dates. Okay, So I got it.

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Speaker 2: You forgot about that party eight here a Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Let's do it hard on the line.

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Speaker 4: Here we go. Just don't say those things to her.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Penelope.

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Speaker 6: Yes, this is she.

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Speaker 2: Hey Penelope, how are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Penelope, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name

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Speaker 4: is Jubell.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 6: Wait?

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Speaker 4: What the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: It's a radio show. You ever heard of it?

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Speaker 6: No? Sorry I haven't.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's fine. Okay, you can check it out sometimes

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Speaker 2: if you want to. But the Jeubile Show. But the

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Speaker 2: reason that we're calling you is because we got an

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Speaker 2: email about you from somebody who does listen to the show. Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment called the First Aid follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and you end up ghosting them, that person can email

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Speaker 2: us to find out why you're ghosting them. And so

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Speaker 2: you're currently ghosting somebody and they really want to know why.

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Speaker 2: You know who might have emailed us?

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Speaker 6: Yes, this has to be Booger Boy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, does Booger Boar? I have like an official name,

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Speaker 2: because I don't know if it is or not BB,

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Speaker 2: but really we're talking about a guy named Daniel.

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Speaker 4: Is that booger boy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Daniel Daniel's booger boy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh no, how did he get that nickname? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Is that why you're ghostinging because he's nicknamed booger boy.

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Speaker 4: It's a good reason.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he did like this weird thing with like wiping

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Speaker 1: his nose with his sleeves during out like date.

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Speaker 6: What so we had a date.

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Speaker 1: I went over to his home. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: we were making that pasta and.

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Speaker 6: The sauce. He said it was like I guess spicy,

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Speaker 6: and I.

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Speaker 1: Noticed his nose started like running and then he just

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Speaker 1: took his sleeves and just wiped his nose. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: so that's why you're ghosting him. I mean yeah, gross,

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Speaker 1: Like he didn't do it once. He did it a

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Speaker 1: few times and then it was like body slimy, like okay.

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Speaker 6: We're cooking, we're in the kitchen. Oh okay, sound was

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Speaker 6: really gross out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I can see that as being growth.

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Speaker 2: Like he didn't use the tissue at all, like not

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Speaker 2: even once.

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Speaker 4: No, did you offer him a like subtenly just be like,

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Speaker 4: can I get you a tissue?

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Speaker 6: I was stuck.

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Speaker 1: Sure, I was stuck because I couldn't believe that he

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Speaker 1: just did that. There's literally paper towels right behind him,

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Speaker 1: and it was just oh yeah.

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Speaker 6: And then after the date, you know.

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Speaker 1: We're leave, I'm leaving, and he went to give me

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Speaker 1: a hog and I just like I didn't even really

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Speaker 1: want to touch him. I like sighed hummed him like

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Speaker 1: he should have known I wasn't interested.

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Speaker 6: After that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, well, thank you for telling us.

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Speaker 2: I also have to let you know too that Daniel

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Speaker 2: is on the phone listening and wants to talk to

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Speaker 2: you booger boys here.

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Speaker 3: Hey. Yeah, so that was not what I expected at all.

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Speaker 3: I guess just wiping my nerrative. I don't I did

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Speaker 3: not even think that that was why you weren't calling

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Speaker 3: me back. And well you didn't say anything about it

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Speaker 3: during the time. Why couldn't you have just broached it

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Speaker 3: at the time, you know, I mean, I think that's

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Speaker 3: like kind of a superficial thing. It's not like a

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I mean, it just seems really great.

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Speaker 3: So like I really, you know, I wanted to hear

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Speaker 3: from you again, and there's definitely news to me that

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Speaker 3: I'm booger boy, Like, I don't know, do you create

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Speaker 3: nicknames for all your dates, like after the first date?

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Speaker 3: Because that's kind of like now I'm like you, I

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Speaker 3: want is that a red flag? I do like you

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Speaker 3: seem great other than that. But uh but yeah, like.

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Speaker 1: I was watching you build Yukis momentum, Like I literally

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Speaker 1: saw the slime from your nose and I just my

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Speaker 1: appetite just left the building.

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Speaker 3: Oh so that's why you didn't eat much. Well that

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Speaker 3: I guess that makes sense. I honestly thought that you

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Speaker 3: didn't eat much because your grandma's recipe wasn't really that kid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and what do you mean about my grandmother's recipe.

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Speaker 1: It's been in the family over one hundred years, Like

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Speaker 1: that recipe is to perfection.

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Speaker 6: Everyone knows that, I mean a hundred years.

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Speaker 3: It could have taken one hundred years of fining to it, Like,

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was too spicey, the was not enough salt.

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Speaker 3: You didn't agree with me on that it was kind

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Speaker 3: of running at some points where it shouldn't have been running.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, I'm gonna have to disagree here. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: maybe grandma needs to go back in the kitchen. Because

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Speaker 3: that is not perfection, and honestly, basically kind of is

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Speaker 3: your fault anyways, because if it wasn't as spicy as

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Speaker 3: it was, my nose would not have ran like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I hate you.

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Speaker 4: Don't say that, Yev.

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Speaker 2: Would you like another day with Danny pay for it?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely not?

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Speaker 3: I mean, come on, I honestly, I still think you're cool,

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Speaker 3: even though you might hate me, like I mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: still out here to want to win your affection, my lady.

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Speaker 2: Come on, well, what do you think One more date.

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Speaker 4: One more day booker boy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? No, I don't think so. I just hate you.

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Speaker 4: Jubile's first day follow up