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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl Lexp and it's your girl Drana Call,

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Speaker 2: and you are tuned in to another episode of Poor

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Speaker 2: Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so, I'm damn.

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Speaker 3: We just made the announcement of the new name last week,

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Speaker 3: and y'all know it's poor Minds. Now it's no longer

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Speaker 3: wind down Wednesday. I'm not gonna lie. I love the name,

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Speaker 3: and I'm glad y'all love the name, but it just

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Speaker 3: feels weird not saying why don't Wednesday? It feels so

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Speaker 3: so weird. Sorry, you have to get used to it. Yes,

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Speaker 3: So a lot of y'all have been asking, and we

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Speaker 3: finally did a cross episode with cocktails last night. We

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Speaker 3: did Cocktails last night, so y'all be listening to that

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Speaker 3: pretty soon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So it was it was really dope.

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Speaker 3: We have such a good Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See, I make sure y'all keep y'all's eyes open for that.

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Speaker 3: Y'all be hearing that soon. Yeah, So we gonna go

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Speaker 3: ahead and get right into it. And this was your topic,

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Speaker 3: the first one. So I'm gonna let you go ahead

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Speaker 3: and bring it on in, little Joy, bring it on

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Speaker 3: in Okay. So, I you know, I feel like it's.

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Speaker 1: Been a trend.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to say a trend, I mean, because

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Speaker 3: I feel like this shit been going on since the

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Speaker 3: beginning of the time, honestly, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: But lately I have been seeing a lot of people

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Speaker 3: who like have multiple baby daddies and baby mama and

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Speaker 3: a be dating fresh out of these situations, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, So super fresh. But I think it's

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Speaker 3: kind of weird a little bit. And I guess I'm wondering,

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Speaker 3: do you feel like it's a double standard, because I mean,

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Speaker 3: majority of the time, I always know this. It is

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Speaker 3: always the men who be free shout of a situation,

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Speaker 3: have a brand new baby, and then they start dating.

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Speaker 3: It seemed like women don't really be caring, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean. But as far as women go, I

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Speaker 3: feel like most men and not trying to date a

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Speaker 3: woman who has multiple baby fathers, right, Okay, So from

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Speaker 3: my point of view, I'll say this for one. To

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Speaker 3: me personally, it matters if you have multiple baby mamas.

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Speaker 3: I'm not dating you period, I'm not doing it up

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Speaker 3: my alley. But for society, I feel like it just

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Speaker 3: depends on the man's financial status. And I hate bringing

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Speaker 3: this up because I feel like people like these bitches

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Speaker 3: always talking about niggas money. But I will say, y'all, well,

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Speaker 3: I'll say there's a difference though, because if a man

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Speaker 3: has four baby mamas but he's also but he's worth

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Speaker 3: fifty million dollars, you're like, okay, cool, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: Versus a man who is working a nine to five

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Speaker 3: making ten dollars an hour, you're gonna be like, lot,

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Speaker 3: the fuck you having all these fucking kids. I'm not

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Speaker 3: dating because actually I'm not dating no way, even if

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Speaker 3: you had no baby mama making ten dollars an hour.

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Speaker 3: But what I'm saying, I'm just trying to make a

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Speaker 3: point here, like it's only it's only the hate is

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Speaker 3: only directed towards people who aren't I feel financially secure now.

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Speaker 3: With the women, it doesn't matter if you're financially secure,

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Speaker 3: or if you you know, working a nut the vibe,

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Speaker 3: or if you have a great career, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 3: People look.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people look at women with multiple baby

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Speaker 3: A dark light, like they look at them like, damn, really,

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Speaker 3: you got all these baby daddies.

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Speaker 3: I don't personally tell that way because I feel like

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Speaker 3: shit happens, Like at the end of the day, you

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Speaker 3: have a situation where you're dating somebody, y'all may have

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Speaker 3: say down line, you end up dating somebody else and

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Speaker 3: shit happens that you have another kid. Life be lifing,

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Speaker 3: no life, life, you be lifing life? Be like that.

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Speaker 3: That shit is crazy. I just feel like, I guess

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Speaker 3: To look down on both. I feel like it's definitely

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Speaker 3: who have multiple babby fathers, But why we don't have

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Speaker 3: lot of these women that be having these multiple babby dands,

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Speaker 3: they take care of they.

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Speaker 3: I think it's so I hate the fact that they

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Speaker 3: But we're not having that same energy towards these men

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Speaker 3: you ain't married yet? Oh my god, nobody's gonna marry

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Speaker 3: you with all them kids? Yeah, Like you know what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying because I see people do this, Like I

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Speaker 1: Where y'all ring at?

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Speaker 3: It's like and then we to talk, But then we

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Speaker 3: mark of like success for women is getting married and

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Speaker 3: having children, because I see that all the time, and

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Speaker 3: all the time. You always like why you don't have

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Speaker 3: no men? Why you don't have no kids? Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: You get talked down either way. You got too many kids,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be the Ashanci, the Tracy Ellis Ross, the

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Speaker 3: fucking Oprah. And because I don't care to be married,

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Speaker 3: that's not a goal of mine. I don't care to

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Speaker 1: I feel like people have put women in this box.

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Speaker 3: Like you're supposed to be a mother, You're supposed to

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Speaker 3: But it's not fucking nineteen forty three anymore. Bro Like,

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Speaker 3: is another thing I'm gonna say, and I'm not bashing

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Speaker 3: these niggas, but it's like we are doing so well

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Speaker 1: Just being niggas doing nigga shit and.

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Speaker 3: But that's what they've been doing. That's agin women have

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Speaker 3: a quote unquote I'm honest woman out of you. But

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Speaker 3: that's so crazy to me that people just be so

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Speaker 3: I guess they feel like, I mean' ill don't have

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Speaker 3: who I want to. Yeah, but I mean, hell, if

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Speaker 1: Don't be stopping these niggas.

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Speaker 3: I'm just being hony. It's like, I feel like sometimes

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Speaker 3: want to get married. But I personally feel like both, ree,

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Speaker 3: Like you may go on and get married, she might

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Speaker 3: So yeah, that's how I just feel like The Doubles

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Speaker 3: you know, we talk about future, like we say shit

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Speaker 3: but I'll say this, we say that about future because

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Speaker 3: I don't know him personally, but I think it's because

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Speaker 3: going through drama with his baby mamas.

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Speaker 1: The same narrative that we have for.

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Speaker 3: Future, we don't have for Lil Wayne, because Lil Wayne

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Speaker 3: takes care of all of his baby mamas. We don't

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Speaker 3: have that same narrative for what diddies. People don't be saying, oh, Diddy,

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Speaker 3: stop fucking kids. Well, I mean also, nobody's saying that

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Speaker 3: to d D. D D also hasn't had a kid

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Speaker 3: in like twelve years. His kids are pretty small.

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Speaker 1: No, they're not Oldwayne haven't even had a kid about

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Speaker 1: like nine. But it's a lot of fun.

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Speaker 3: He has four kids. I don't think that's a lot

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Speaker 3: of that's a lot of kids. To me, if you

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Speaker 3: have more than one kids, you got a lot of kids.

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Speaker 3: You are wild.

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Speaker 1: And two kids that's a lot. That is not a

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Speaker 1: lot of kids, especially when you have them with different women.

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Speaker 1: Three kids is enough. Three kids, you got a fucking household.

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Speaker 1: I think four kids is a lot of kids for.

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Speaker 3: Like a woman to have four. But I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I do feel like I did say that it's fucked

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Speaker 3: up that we have that double stater and while we

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Speaker 3: don't have the same energy, but I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I do feel like four kids Wayne, and you don't

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Speaker 3: even have the same energy because four kids because a bit,

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Speaker 3: I mean, for babies pushing up out of this pussy

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Speaker 3: ain't never gonna happen. And that's a lot of fucking

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Speaker 3: I don't really feel like it's a lot because if you're.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you won't you bounce back after kids?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, Ruin, I understand that, but I guess,

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Speaker 3: Do you really feel like they're going to all of

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Speaker 3: You got four Babby Mama's five baby mamas. You don't

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Speaker 1: Have you ever thought that these girls don't want you? Niggas?

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Speaker 3: But to force somebody or to be in a relationship

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Speaker 3: I mean, I do want to know. I mean I

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Speaker 3: But why don't we look at these men with these

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Speaker 3: what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: Niggas?

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Speaker 3: Then facts? But I do also feel like a lot

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Speaker 3: I mean sometimes right, But that's another time. That's another time.

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Speaker 1: That's niggas talking for another day. But to me, and

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Speaker 3: So if you if you impregnated six bitches and you

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Speaker 1: You're sick as fuck.

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Speaker 3: You're a fucking psycho and you need to seek motherfucking help.

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Speaker 3: Nothing wrong with Ashanci, nothing's wrong with Tracy. It's something

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Speaker 3: just think that's rude and inconsiderate to ex women at

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Speaker 3: How do you know that these people did want to

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Speaker 3: So back to the topic at hand, there's definitely double

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Speaker 1: Do I follow it? No, If anything, I think all y'all.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I think anybody that has kids are crazy.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, if you want to keep oh my god, get you.

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Speaker 3: But so, y'all, Max is one. You would never date

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Speaker 1: I have dated a guy with more than one kid,

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Speaker 3: Over it, Like really, I'm just why though, because you

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Speaker 3: it's not for me. I like to turn up and

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Speaker 3: You are fucked up.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get me and man tonight.

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Speaker 3: So after this not man man dropped you up? Oh

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Speaker 3: fuck no, I don't need that stress in my life.

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Speaker 3: I need my dick on call twenty twenty four. You

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Speaker 3: are and you are wild. You really wileless how I

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Speaker 1: Think nothing's wrong with them. I feel like life be lifing.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, it's like, when do you

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Speaker 3: But like I have the same energy for men and women.

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Speaker 3: I think this is coming from somebody who doesn't want kids,

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Speaker 3: So I'm not trying to offend anybody who has baby daddies.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like anything's wrong with the men or

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Speaker 3: It's more things wrong with men that have multiple baby mamas.

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Speaker 1: If they get pregnant.

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Speaker 3: You have to realize a lot of these women don't

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Speaker 3: Is that the real reason? No, because it's a lot

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Speaker 3: but it's just like they are. They love being a

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Speaker 3: They just love loving children and they're just that's what's

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Speaker 3: I don't see anything wrong with that. I think it's worse.

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Speaker 3: Do you think he's gonna have a lot of time

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Speaker 3: I mean, if some women don't, all women aren't doing

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Speaker 3: It's baby daddy, right, But I just but that make

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00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 3: it even worse too. It's like, why you want to

432
00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 3: have five broken baby daddy. That's not why they're doing.

433
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,640
Speaker 3: Some of these women I take own money and they

434
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 3: just love children, They love being mothers.

435
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:34,800
Speaker 1: So every case is different.

436
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 3: For the most part, I feel like you niggas are weird,

437
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 3: those and their trash and stop shit. Well you knows

438
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 3: always on side with the women.

439
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:42,480
Speaker 1: No, not even that.

440
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,440
Speaker 3: These men are worthless and their sperm is even worse,

441
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 3: so we don't need any more of y'all, so stop multiplying.

442
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:52,720
Speaker 3: But please, oh my god, legs, these niggas are trash

443
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 3: and I don't want any more of them walking on

444
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 3: this earth. Like good we have to have men, well,

445
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,199
Speaker 3: no good men only like there needs to be some

446
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 3: kind of tests, like a fuck boy test. If you're

447
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 3: a fuck boy, you cannot pro create. Only good men

448
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 3: can give their sperm. But just because you not a

449
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:10,120
Speaker 3: fuck boy, you can still create a fuck boy.

450
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 1: No, you're gonna a.

451
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:14,199
Speaker 3: Good man is gonna make sure he raises a fucking

452
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 3: gentleman child.

453
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 1: Please.

454
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 3: I know a few niggas who got some good daddies

455
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,360
Speaker 3: and they and now you know you.

456
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 1: Don't know the daddy like that. You don't know one

457
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 1: nigga daddy.

458
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 3: Lads, get on the fucking gas. Okay, you know what

459
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:35,879
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring this into the next time speaking of

460
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 3: a guy and his parents and knowing their parents and

461
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 3: this and that. I wanna talk about this because my

462
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 3: mom is so bad at this. I want to talk

463
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 3: about having a relationship with your ex's parents. Okay, So

464
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 3: I guess I'll give a little bit of background. When

465
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 3: I first moved to Houston, I got a very serious relationship.

466
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 3: Me and this guy moved in together and we lived

467
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 3: together for almost three years, and him and my mom

468
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 3: were super close. My mom loved him like a son,

469
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 3: like my mama used to like whenever he needed something,

470
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 3: she was sending him money like whenever. Like really, it

471
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 3: was like a real like relationship, like she wanted us

472
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 3: to be together, so whenever we broke up, she was

473
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 3: so heartbroken, like she was really really hurt. So it's like,

474
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 3: after we broke up, they continue to have a relationship.

475
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 1: So I didn't mind it when I was single, but when.

476
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 3: I got the new relationship, I was like, Okay, you

477
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 3: need to kind of cut this off.

478
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,679
Speaker 1: But we would actually kind of everybody. She was like,

479
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: why that's my friend. That's my friend, right.

480
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 3: And I'm like, but it causes a strain because if

481
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 3: you have a relationship with my ex, you're not trying

482
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 3: to see my new nigga, right, you still want me

483
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 3: and and you're not gonna have How do you feel

484
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,719
Speaker 3: like if you were dating somebody and his mom had

485
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,879
Speaker 3: a relationship with his ex girlfriend, how would that make

486
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,400
Speaker 3: you feel? If I was dating somebody and his mom

487
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 3: had a relationship with his ex.

488
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: Girl, like they were close, Like, I wouldn't have an

489
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: issue with that.

490
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 3: You wouldn't, No, no, really, So I don't really care

491
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 3: about stuff like that.

492
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, so how would you feel? Like it's like a

493
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 1: family reunion.

494
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 3: She's like, oh, baby, come and she comes you the

495
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: ex girlfriend, everybody there. I'd be like, how how you doing?

496
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 3: My name is Drea, and you will be cool with it.

497
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 3: I mean, I you, but you know me, I don't

498
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 3: really trip over the typical things that I feel like.

499
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 3: I don't as long as I guess. I mean, this

500
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 3: is and this is how I feel, and I guess

501
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,239
Speaker 3: this is why I never really trip over She in

502
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 3: my mind, I have really programmed myself to understand and

503
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 3: to comprehend that niggas is gonna do what the fuck

504
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 3: they want to do. And you about this is about

505
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 3: his mom disrespecting basically disrespect. How is that disrespect because

506
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 3: they have a relationship with their friend, but because you

507
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 3: don't know what she.

508
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 1: Doing, she could be in his ear behind closed door.

509
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 3: My man, it doesn't matter if my man want to

510
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 3: be with me. He's going to be with me if

511
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 3: I want to be if he don't want to be

512
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 3: with that girl, no more, regardless of whether his mom

513
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 3: still bringing him around, and I if he his mom

514
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 3: can't force him to be with somebody. But it's just

515
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 3: a respect fact that she ain't even gave you a chance.

516
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 3: She's not trying to get to know you because she's

517
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 3: not fucking with you. So that's why I say it's

518
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 3: like a respect thing. Yeah, we don't want to be

519
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: with her, but it's like she's not even trying to

520
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 3: get to know you. She's like, come here, Frederick, cause

521
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 3: she fuck his my mom needs to know her. No

522
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 3: where I got my own? Okay, I don't know. I

523
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 3: just still like this.

524
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: I don't think I would trip. I don't think I

525
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: would trip, but I'm a definitely.

526
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 3: Like, hey, bitch, hey be cleip home, say homie clip

527
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 3: like that ass like I would.

528
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that to her.

529
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 3: Let me stop. She was she lying.

530
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: I would you go to side like.

531
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,719
Speaker 3: Stop for fuck you daddy and become his new wife?

532
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 3: You mean you're gonna become me the step mama, my

533
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 3: my man step mama, the new wife.

534
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm gonna flip this motherfuck up.

535
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 3: Ben. It's a cold game, old game, No, the peripheral.

536
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 3: I would definitely have to have a talk with my man,

537
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 3: and I would. I don't know.

538
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: If y'all had a.

539
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 3: Relationship that didn't involve you talking to your son about

540
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 3: trying to get back, then that's cool whatever.

541
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: But I know these niggas moms, and these niggas moms

542
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 1: be trash too.

543
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 3: Talked about this on an episode before these niggas moms

544
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,439
Speaker 3: are and how they're not fuck boys because their dads.

545
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: It's a lot of times because of these women.

546
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 3: And I need it because I'm not gonna lie. I'm

547
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: gonna be like that with my son. I'm always on

548
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 3: his side. No, I'm definitely not gonna be like that

549
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 3: because I'm not if I ever had a child like whenever,

550
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell Jackson, I'm not lying for you.

551
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: I'm not doing none of that.

552
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 3: Ship No, I'm not gonna lie for my No, but

553
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 3: I'm saying, but I'm gonna always be on his I mean,

554
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 3: you can be on his side in public, but behind

555
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 3: closed doors, if your son is doing wrong, you need

556
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 3: to tell him, Hey, this is not how you treat it.

557
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 3: I'm not about to lay him out here. I don't

558
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,199
Speaker 3: want him out here beating on women, being disrespectful and

559
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 3: just out here living reckless. Of course I'm gonna let

560
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 3: him at all, but I'm just staying as far as

561
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 3: like how niggas be like mama buy and Mama's boy

562
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 3: is definitely gonna be that way. But that's different, and

563
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna give a fuck about like who he like,

564
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 3: you know, what I mean, it's like whoever he chooses

565
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 3: to be with, whoever he wants today, I'm cool with it, right,

566
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: But I'm saying it's people out here that are raising

567
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 3: their kids, not knowing how to treat a woman, not

568
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 3: knowing that it's okay to court a woman, not knowing,

569
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 3: like this is how you speak to a woman, not knowing.

570
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 3: Don't put your hands on a woman, whether it be

571
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 3: raising their child and not telling they son, nig You

572
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 3: see all these rapists and abusers out there, so you

573
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 3: feel like because somebody is a rapist or an abusing

574
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 3: them to do that. But I'm saying I've seen a situation.

575
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 3: I'm let me not take it so far saying like, yeah,

576
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 3: I mean, but I'll say that I've seen situations where

577
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 3: people just let their kids get away with murder niggas

578
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 3: lying and his mama.

579
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: Sitting up there lying for him.

580
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 3: Oh hey, daughter in law. Two seconds later another girl,

581
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 3: Oh heyll that shit is trifling, And you're teaching your

582
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 3: son that it's okay to be fucking two holes at

583
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 3: one time. Yeah, when he come knocking on your door

584
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 3: with three fucking grand babies asking yo, ask to take

585
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 3: care of him now, you want to be up in

586
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 3: arms and being mad. He tought him so rappers, dick

587
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 3: up and to be a fucking man. That's what I mean.

588
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 3: Let me take that come with three STDs exactly. So

589
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of that goes back to

590
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 3: these these women not having respect for sometimes their son's girlfriends.

591
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 3: Like I mean, yeah, I definitely get what you're saying,

592
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 3: and I do feel like it does need to be

593
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 3: a certain level of respect that a guy's mom needs

594
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 3: to have for you. But at the same time, you know,

595
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 3: when you get into a situation and you start dating

596
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:48,239
Speaker 3: a guy, you don't really have no control over the

597
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 3: fact that if his mom is still cool with somebody he.

598
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: Used today, right, And that's what I'm saying.

599
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 3: You can't expect for his mom to not be cool

600
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 3: with that anymore just because you done came into the

601
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 3: people too.

602
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 1: And that's what I said.

603
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 3: I don't care if y'all cool, but keep that ship

604
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 3: away from me and my men. I don't need you

605
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 3: in his ear talking about, Oh I don't like this

606
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 3: new girl, But what can you do. I'm gonna talk

607
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 3: to my nigga about it and let him know because at

608
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 3: the end of the day. You're not gonna disrespect me

609
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 3: because I'm a woman too. Would you get into it

610
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 3: with the mama, like would you like a dress? Hub

611
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to dress her, but if it's if

612
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 3: you wouldn't know. But if she becomes disrespectful like these holes, yeah,

613
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 3: these holes, these holes not a mama, these mama holes.

614
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: They can get disrespectful. I've seen te see and that's

615
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: so crazy, y'all.

616
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 3: I've never had an issue with any of my exis moms,

617
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 3: like I'm not not in part you know what I mean.

618
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 3: I mean, at least not that I knew of for

619
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 3: like all all I knew we got along great. No,

620
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 3: I never had I'm not gonna and they never tried

621
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 3: to disrespect me. I've never had all my exes parents,

622
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 3: even niggas that I was just talking to that I

623
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 3: make their parents. They love. They loved me, yes, because

624
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 3: I'm a people person that you love to be loved.

625
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 3: But I did have one issue. This is gonna maybe

626
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 3: I'm still hurt from that. Clearly high stoo work.

627
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: She was just fake as fun that she act.

628
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 3: You're taking this topic very person.

629
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: She was just acting like she was on my team.

630
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 3: Wholetime you own everybody team, bitch like you just a

631
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 3: fake ass whole. So you thought y'all was gang, I

632
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 3: was gang. I thought that was my bitch, fake ass.

633
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still mad, Okay, okay, So.

634
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just feel like, if it's honestly, I was

635
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 3: a child, ben so I stayed in the child's place,

636
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 3: but at that same situation happened to me as an adult. Absolutely,

637
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be like, listen, bitch, of course, I

638
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 3: w just be like, you know, hey, missus, Anthony Skewboki,

639
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 3: how are you doing? Skeboski? You about today? The white Man?

640
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 3: You never know?

641
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: So ye'a, I'm gonna just have to sit.

642
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know, I just I understand that

643
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 3: you and Laquisha a good stop playing with I'm saying.

644
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,719
Speaker 1: I'm having a hypothetical conversation.

645
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 3: So I'd be like, you know, I understand that you

646
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 3: and la Cuisia have a great relationship, but I just

647
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: don't want that to stop or hinder us from having

648
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: a relationship because at the end of the day, I'm

649
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 3: sucking your son's dick and I'm not going nowhere and

650
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 3: I eat that ass real good. You is not to

651
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 3: say that into the LA. But babe, but she gonna

652
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: know I have put this pussy on your son. I'm

653
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 3: not going nowhere.

654
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: We might as well be cool.

655
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 3: I can't read be mom. We might as well be cool, mom.

656
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 3: That's what I going on.

657
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: So you know, all jokes aside.

658
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 3: I do feel like I would have a conversation with

659
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 3: a mom like woman and a woman be like, hey,

660
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 3: I understand that you have a relationship. When I'm coming

661
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 3: to you as a one, you're gonna come to a husband.

662
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 3: But I'm okay, but I'm not gonna be like, oh,

663
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 3: stop being her friends. Stop disrespecting me, because I'm a

664
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 3: disrespect If you're my elder, I don't care how old

665
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 3: I am. My mom raised me to always be respectful, right, So,

666
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 3: but I would definitely just say it in a like

667
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 3: I don't want that to stop us from getting to

668
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 3: know each other or us having a relationship, because I

669
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 3: feel like that's important to your son, and it's also

670
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 3: important to me, like I would love to have a

671
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 3: relationship with you. So it's like you can get so

672
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 3: much further with honey than vinnegars at what you say. Yeah,

673
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 3: I mean, but then some people Mama's just be beachies

674
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 3: like my mama and my granny did not get along.

675
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 3: And my Mama didn't never do nothing to my granny

676
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 3: in the beginning. She just did not like my Mama

677
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 3: for whatever reason, and they ended up getting into a five.

678
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 3: Mama whooped her ass. From what I heard, That's.

679
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: What I heard, because I wasn't born yet.

680
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 3: I heard she my granny ass because she all had

681
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 3: some money she had borrow some girl. Let me not

682
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 3: spill the family tea poor today. But yeah, my mama

683
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 3: beat my granny ass. But then they got cool, like

684
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 3: donin the line, because I think she respected her after

685
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 3: she gave her the ass. With me, sometimes you got

686
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 3: a whoop a beach ass for her to.

687
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: Respect you, you definitely do, so, you know. Just to

688
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: wrap this up, like I said, But I'll be whooping

689
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: y'all because Mama.

690
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,719
Speaker 3: Don't know what my mama did for me. Personally, I

691
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 3: don't want my mom to have relationships with my exes,

692
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 3: especially if if I'm in a new relation. Is your

693
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 3: mom still cool with that guy? Not the first one? Now,

694
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 3: the first guy was in a relationship with, she don't

695
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:26,479
Speaker 3: talk to him at all no more. But the second

696
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 3: person I was in a relationship with like they got

697
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 3: close as well, like really super close, Like he loved

698
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: my mom. My mom loves him so much. They were

699
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 3: actually really really cool. But I haven't got I haven't

700
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 3: been in a serious like well, I've been in a

701
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 3: relationship since him, but not maybe party that I want

702
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: to introduce her to. So they're they they're Facebook friends

703
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 3: and they still talk, but he has a girlfriend now,

704
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 3: so I don't think for my mom, she just doesn't

705
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 3: reach out to him as much. I think, yeah, every

706
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 3: now and then they might shake it up. Yeah, so

707
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 3: she doesn't want to be disrespectful because my mom and

708
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: my mom don't care. She be in her own world anyway. Yeah,

709
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 3: so I think like maybe she might. They might text

710
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 3: about like some football stuff. Everybody knows my mom is

711
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: a crazy football head, so they might text on some

712
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 3: football stuff maybe like around the holidays, but.

713
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: They probably talk like maybe once or twice a year if.

714
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it ain't nothing for me to be like, Okay, mom,

715
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: you gotta stop, because whenever I started dating him, she

716
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 3: was like on the phone with my ex used to

717
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 3: be texting all the time because when me and my

718
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 3: second ex broke up, they would be talking all the time,

719
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 3: text really bro It was like all day every day,

720
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,959
Speaker 3: I'm like Mom, please, like this is over. And it

721
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 3: was hard for me to get over because she's like, girl,

722
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: let me tell you what brand is said, let me

723
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 3: tell you what brand.

724
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh what, that's crazy.

725
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 3: My mom and my dad have never like carried on

726
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 3: a relationship with any of my exties. And yeah, but

727
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 3: my daddy's when he was mean. Yeah, so it was

728
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 3: like he didn't really care to be cool with the

729
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 3: niggas even when we was dating. Yeah.

730
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: I think it's it's like my mom is super country.

731
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and both of my exes were super fun country,

732
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 3: and they kind of was.

733
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: Just like they just clicked. They just click, you know

734
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

735
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 3: But like now as an adult, I don't think she

736
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 3: really cared. Like now that we're older and she kind

737
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 3: of sees how I am. She's like, I don't worried

738
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 3: about you on who you date. Was she ever trying

739
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 3: to like convince you to like get back with them

740
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 3: or do you think or was it just like a

741
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 3: friend of Platon.

742
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, they was just cool.

743
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: She never was like, oh, you need to get back

744
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 3: with them, because she knows how I am. She knows

745
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, I'm gonna do what

746
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 3: I want to do, and I don't like to tell

747
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 3: my mom my business. But she was rooting for one

748
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 3: of these guys. Okay, So if y'all don't remember, y'all

749
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 3: haven't been watching us for a long time, knows I

750
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 3: had a video on YouTube where I was like, my

751
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 3: ex killed his grandmother, right, So that video was about branding.

752
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 3: So it was like our relationship was so strange. I

753
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 3: had to tell her, like, Mom, I'm not gonna be

754
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 3: with this nigga. He fucking cheating on right. It's like

755
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 3: I don't want to tell. I don't like to tell

756
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 3: my friends or my family is the bad thing that

757
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 3: my nigga does. Yeah, I'm gonna forgive him.

758
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but and you don't want them to dislike. So,

759
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: like it got to the point to where she was

760
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:04,280
Speaker 1: just cutting for himself.

761
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, Mom, he cheated on me. I can't do

762
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 3: this no more. Yeah. So she was like, oh, okay,

763
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 3: now I get it right. So I feel like for me,

764
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 3: especially if I'm if I'm in a new relationship, I

765
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 3: don't want my parents talking to my ex. Y. I

766
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 3: wouldn't want that. Either I wouldn't want my mom to

767
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 3: or my dad to still be cool with somebody, then

768
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 3: I'm no longer dating. It's like, out of all of

769
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 3: these people in the world, you can't find another friend,

770
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 3: all the if millions of people in the world, you

771
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 3: can't find another friend.

772
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: That's exactly how I feel.

773
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 3: And if I'm dating somebody, and like I said, I

774
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 3: don't have no control over it. If your mom is

775
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: cool with your right, I prefer them not to be.

776
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 3: But I feel like I would definitely step in and

777
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 3: have a conversation with his mom and just let her

778
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 3: know that, Look, I'm a cool bitch too, we can

779
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 3: bond bitch. I wouldn't say anything less I feel I

780
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 3: really don't care, Like if a Nika mom is cool

781
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 3: with one of his exes or whatever, who can Yeah, Like,

782
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 3: I wouldn't care unless she's being digress, right, So let

783
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 3: us know how y'all feel. Have you ever had a parent,

784
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,919
Speaker 3: you know or our youth cool with one of your exes? Mom? Yeah?

785
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 1: Let us know how that our dads how that shit?

786
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 3: Yell? Okay, So I want to get into this topic

787
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 3: because I really need to rent andvent. You know this

788
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 3: because you know you've worked.

789
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: A corporate job before.

790
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 3: I have a corporate job right now, huh. And I

791
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 3: just want to really talk about tension in the workplace, Okay,

792
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: especially being a black.

793
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: Woman, because you know, being a black woman in.

794
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 3: This world, we're already labeled angry and attitude, so we

795
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 3: have to put that extra icing on the cake even

796
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: when we don't want to. You know what I'm saying, Like,

797
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 3: we can't have a bad morning. We can't walk in

798
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 3: and just oh, I'm having a bad day to day.

799
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

800
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: We can't do that as a black woman, we can't.

801
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 3: True.

802
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: So things just kind of went left.

803
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 3: On Twitter today as always, somebody basically said one of

804
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 3: his employees requested PTO. He did not his PTO, but

805
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 3: the guy took off anyway, so when he came back

806
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 3: from his vacation he fired him. Okay, So it went

807
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 3: into the topic of black people aren't good supervisors. So

808
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 3: I basically want to talk about tension in the workspace

809
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 3: between you know, black women.

810
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,280
Speaker 1: And other and people of other gender and races.

811
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 3: But I also want to talk about who would you

812
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: rather have for a supervisor, a black person or a

813
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 3: white person? What with that situation specifically, I don't feel

814
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 3: like that person is a bad supervisor. I mean you

815
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 3: requested to be off I told you. No, you mean anyways,

816
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 3: you're fired right now. I feel like that's logical.

817
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: Right now, I'll say this, It's a lot of factors

818
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: that go into it though.

819
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 3: Okay, first things first, PTO is something that I've earned.

820
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 1: So okay, so it's like, that's true.

821
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 3: I feel like anytime somebody wants to take PTO, they

822
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 3: should always be allowed long because it's told in a

823
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 3: good amount of time. Now, I tell you, if I

824
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 3: tell you, oh, if it's Wednesday and I'm like, oh,

825
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 3: I need to use my PTO Friday, no that's a no.

826
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 3: But if I'm telling you two three months in advance, hey,

827
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 3: I need to take off the time.

828
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: No, we know harm the time.

829
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 3: Okay. But I'm saying it's a lot of factors that

830
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 3: go into something like this, because right being in a

831
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 3: corporate position, I actually requested for some pet Let me

832
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,280
Speaker 3: get into into this because I got a personal situation.

833
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: Okay, I actually personally asked.

834
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 3: For some PTO because I'm going to Houston the weekend

835
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 3: after that. Now, if y'all know me, y'all don't, but

836
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell y'all I did. I work every fucking day.

837
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,959
Speaker 3: I work Monday through Friday, basically nine to five. Yeah,

838
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 3: I never take off. I rarely take off. Last time

839
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 3: I took off was November when I went home. I

840
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:54,720
Speaker 3: just don't be going nowhere.

841
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: I'm doing nothing.

842
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 3: I'll take a sick day every now and then. I

843
00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 3: don't take off. I just feel like I'm going on

844
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 3: any trips. If I do go on a trip, it'll

845
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,439
Speaker 3: be like a little weekend thing to where I don't

846
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 3: have to take off work. I feel like I want

847
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 3: to save my PTO for you know, shouting big come along, right.

848
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 3: So I recently put in some PTO so I can

849
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 3: have time to go home and see my family. And

850
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 3: my shit got denied because I didn't. She was like, oh,

851
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 3: you didn't let me know who's gonna be covering uh,

852
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: this person's lunch, and who's going to be taking care

853
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 3: of this and taking care of that. But it was

854
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 3: just so petty how she did it, because you didn't

855
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 3: have to deny my request. All you have to do

856
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 3: is say, hey, just let me know who's covering this

857
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,879
Speaker 3: and that for you, and then let me know. Now

858
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 3: I got to send a whole nother PTO request in

859
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 3: because the way our system is, she denied that one,

860
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 3: so I gotta resubmit it.

861
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,240
Speaker 1: Why are we doing this, black woman?

862
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 3: I mean, people be petty. I definitely feel like people

863
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 3: be petty in the workplace, absolutely, But from my experiences

864
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 3: with you're not working in corporate America for like the

865
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 3: two years that I did, my issues were more so

866
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 3: with women in general, same not necessarily black women. And

867
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 3: that's what I say. I was saying black woman to

868
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 3: be funny, but it has nothing to do with her race.

869
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: She just a it's a power asshole.

870
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 3: Some of these people. It ain't got nothing to do with it. Shirk. Yes,

871
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 3: it's more of a power. It is.

872
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: People want to let you know I'm.

873
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: On top, I'm the bosson you gotta check in with me.

874
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 3: And that's the thing. It has nothing to do with

875
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: her race, because it's a white woman that works, that

876
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 3: works with me, that always got something to say. Bitch,

877
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 3: I can't help it. She told somebody I had on

878
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 3: a fucking catsuit one day. Bitch, I have a fat ass.

879
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,240
Speaker 3: I got a body. I don't have no fucking catsuit

880
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 3: on bruh, you see what I'll be wearing, the work

881
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 3: I'll be having on pencil skirts.

882
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 1: I can't help it that this ass sitting.

883
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 3: Right, and you want to like my apple violom saying right,

884
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 3: I know you to be.

885
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: You know, but that has nothing to do with her

886
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: being white. That just has to do with her being

887
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: a fucking hater.

888
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I agree, yes, absolutely, because I had

889
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 3: those same issues when I was working at this oil

890
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,280
Speaker 3: and gas company in Houston. Like I used to always

891
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:23,879
Speaker 3: try to dress super conservative for work, Like I would

892
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 3: make sure, you know, my pants wouldn't be too tight,

893
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 3: my skirts was always knee leeds. I never had no

894
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 3: cleavage showing nothing. You know, I thought that I dressed

895
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 3: pretty nice for the workplace, but it was always an

896
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 3: issue with my clothing. And again, like I can't help

897
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 3: how I'm shaped. I can't help that I'm curvy. It

898
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 3: would literally be a white lady who would come to

899
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: work with them near the same outfits that I would

900
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 3: have on, but it wouldn't be no issue because Becky

901
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 3: don't got no ass right for me. This actually goes

902
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 3: way back into high school, Like it wouldn't be days

903
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 3: like me and my friends and everybody knows. I went

904
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 3: to all white high school and with like half days

905
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 3: where we would wear the same shits. Yeah, everybody okay

906
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 3: in class, but my mom's getting called. I can't help it.

907
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 3: I cannot help it. But I feel like sometimes like

908
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 3: women are more and if anything, like I said, I

909
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 3: feel more pettiness coming from white women, if anything, absolutely anything. Yeah,

910
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 3: that's all I was saying. Like black women, yep, to

911
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 3: a certain extent, but majority of the time is usually

912
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 3: the white women, right because like them older, Like most

913
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 3: of my coworkers are black, and we all we all

914
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 3: in the group.

915
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: Chat like we all cool as hell, Like I love.

916
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,240
Speaker 3: Them, like, yeah, they're like my friends. Like I actually

917
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 3: like we cool as hell. So I feel like the

918
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 3: most of the So that's let me go back to

919
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 3: say this. People are on Twitter saying black people aren't

920
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: good supervisors. That's a lie. Yeah I feel because yeah

921
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 3: they are. I feel like they're good supervisors. Like I

922
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 3: feel like that's something. It ain't it ain't even got

923
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 3: to be like oh be a Chase sister. No, yeah

924
00:42:58,560 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 3: like that.

925
00:42:58,800 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 1: I feel like, but they know.

926
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 3: How it and they're fair, and that's from my experience,

927
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 3: they're fair. You know what I mean, because they understand,

928
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:07,720
Speaker 3: like you said, what it's like to be in your position.

929
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,439
Speaker 3: And I just feel like a lot of the time,

930
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 3: like white people don't be wanting you there. Let's keep

931
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 3: it one hundred. They don't be wanting your ass there.

932
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: You know, I won't lie.

933
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 3: They Sometimes you do come across the little uncle Tom

934
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 3: nigga that want to be so in with the white

935
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 3: people that he's in a certain way. But I feel

936
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:28,919
Speaker 3: like this, out of ten black folks, it'll may be

937
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 3: one person that's like that, like, let's keep it real,

938
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 3: Like most people, like this is a lot of people realize,

939
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 3: you know, this is my career or it's not. Like

940
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 3: a lot of people that I work with like that's

941
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 3: their career, right, it's not. And I've made that both

942
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 3: of them. But I'm gonna do my job, and I'm

943
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 3: gonna do a damn good job, right. But I'm not

944
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 3: gonna be you know, going above and be on trying

945
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 3: to move up within the company because I know this

946
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 3: is not what I want to do with my life,

947
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. But that doesn't mean you

948
00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 3: need to treat me like whatever. Yeah, I mean, I

949
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 3: just feel like, yeah, women, white women, and the white

950
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 3: women are they are the worst I had. Oh my god,

951
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: my boss was a fucking asshole.

952
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: Like she was just such a bitch.

953
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 3: I remember I was working at at this oil and

954
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 3: gas company and the sister location or sister office in

955
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 3: Shreveport ended up closing down, so like a lot of

956
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 3: the people that worked at the Shreveport office ended up

957
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 3: coming to the Houston office. And so she just it

958
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 3: was like overnight she became my boss. And before she came,

959
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 3: like sit was just so smooth and ran so smooth

960
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 3: at work. I used to enjoy going to work and

961
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 3: I didn't have nobody hovering over me, always trying to

962
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: make sure I was doing my job when she came.

963
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 3: When I tell you, every single day she used to

964
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 3: come into my office and be trying to like see

965
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 3: what I was working on. She and then like you

966
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 3: had to go, like to get to the kitchen, you

967
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 3: had to pass by well it was multiple ways you

968
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,879
Speaker 3: can get to the kitchen, but one way you could

969
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 3: get there was to pass by my office. And she

970
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 3: would always make sure she passed by my office every day,

971
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 3: pretending like she was going to get coffee so she

972
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:03,879
Speaker 3: could see.

973
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: What I was doing, and that's a I feel like,

974
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: especially being a young but.

975
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 3: Don't mean microman Yeah, And I think that was the

976
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 3: thing too, because I mean I was fresh out of college,

977
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 3: I was like twenty three, and I just think she

978
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 3: just wanted to give me a hard time. But it's like, bitch,

979
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 3: I don't need you micro managing me. I didn't have

980
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 3: nobody micro managing me before you came, and I still

981
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: got my work done, so I don't need you doing it. Yeah.

982
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 3: I just feel like sometimes if anything, like I said,

983
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 3: if we want to bring it to work to race,

984
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,240
Speaker 3: white women are the worse for me personally.

985
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: But it's more so not a race thing.

986
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: It's no people be having a fucking power trip. It's

987
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 3: I think it's a it's a personality thing. It's a

988
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 3: personality thing. But I do think that it's kind of

989
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 3: more so a gender thing as well, because it's been

990
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 3: very few times, like even the whole time that I

991
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 3: was working at both of those oil and gas companies,

992
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 3: I never had an issue with my male supervisors. Ever,

993
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 3: it was always a woman that was calling me into

994
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 3: the office to have a conversation with me, and I

995
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 3: sometimes I do feel like this they're like women feel

996
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 3: like they have to be more stern. Yeah, because they're

997
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 3: a woman. But like I said, I've had a lot.

998
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 3: I've worked several different jobs and different corporations. Like the

999
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 3: best kind of supervisor I work with is somebody who's

1000
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 3: understanding and they're not trying to be hard.

1001
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: I want to get my work done for you.

1002
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 3: If I like you, I'm wanting to make sure I

1003
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 3: got jo back, you know what I'm saying. Like my

1004
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 3: at my previous job, I loved my supervisor.

1005
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: She was so me and her still.

1006
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 3: Cool, you know what I'm saying, Like it was just

1007
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 3: like she I wanted to make sure I did a

1008
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 3: good job for her. I was like, it's sad when

1009
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 3: I left that job, and I'm like, damn, this is

1010
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 3: my bitch, you know what I'm saying. So it's like,

1011
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 3: even though we didn't have much of a personal relationship,

1012
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 3: but we had a great working relationship. So when I

1013
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 3: went to work, bitch, I made sure I did my

1014
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 3: shit because I want to make her look good. Yeah,

1015
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 3: y'all because you liked her, so you don't want her

1016
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 3: to get in trouble because I mean, obviously, if you

1017
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 3: don't do your job, that's gonna be the only and

1018
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people and I've been in

1019
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 3: a position of power before.

1020
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: When we first met, bitch I was the bar manager.

1021
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: Bitch I was over you, but I was never.

1022
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 3: Like, oh, y'all need to do this, y'all need to

1023
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 3: be making them.

1024
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all, I don't care what y'all do.

1025
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 3: Y'all the best manager if I was, but that's how

1026
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 3: I am. She was the best manager ever. We actually

1027
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 3: became that's when we became friends. Like we just worked together.

1028
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 3: We weren't really that cool, but then when she became

1029
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 3: like over us, then you know, we became friends because

1030
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 3: I think she was a great manager. Like it was

1031
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 3: because I think I'm pretty good at having a friendship.

1032
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 3: But like having that line, I've always been good with that, like, yeah,

1033
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,359
Speaker 3: we cool, but you know, I still got to get

1034
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 3: my job done. But it's never that serious at the

1035
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 3: end of the day, Like we just and we fucking

1036
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 3: worked at a bar. Yeah, So it's like I feel like,

1037
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 3: but that's just skills that I've learned just from working.

1038
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: And you know, I've been in the supervisor position before,

1039
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: so I know you don't have to.

1040
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 3: Be hovering over people and be rude to them. You

1041
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 3: know you're late, You're five minutes too late.

1042
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I'm not.

1043
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 3: I'm gonna just let you know, Hey, you've been late

1044
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 3: a couple of times. They've been asking me about it,

1045
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 3: So just make sure you're watching your tongue and leave

1046
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 3: it if.

1047
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: You keep continuing to do it. And I'm gonna let you know.

1048
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 3: Hey, look, I know talks about your right team, but

1049
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,439
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to write you up. I'm just letting

1050
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 3: you know because I don't want to get you in trouble.

1051
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 3: It's just it's not about what you say. It's like,

1052
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,479
Speaker 3: how yes, because if you if you are a nice

1053
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,399
Speaker 3: person and you know how to it's like you can't

1054
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 3: be too nice, but you can't be too mean any valance.

1055
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 3: And if you.

1056
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 1: Don't know how to do that, don't be a fucking supervisor.

1057
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 3: You don't know how to talk to people, and you

1058
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 3: don't know how to be likable. You have to be

1059
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 3: likable in that position you do. You have to be

1060
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 3: like if you have to be the person that people

1061
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 3: fucking like, are people not gonna want to work for

1062
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 3: you or they're not gonna want to do what I'm

1063
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 3: not gonna see y'all. Man, it be sometimes like, Oh,

1064
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 3: this lady be asking me to do stuff, and I'll

1065
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 3: just be looking at my coworker that.

1066
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: Be sitting next to me. I'll be like, girl, oh,

1067
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:48,760
Speaker 1: I don't want.

1068
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 3: To do this shit, cause it's right the way she'd

1069
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,240
Speaker 3: just be saying stuff in the way is just being asked.

1070
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 3: Ye oh my god, bro, you know what I'm saying.

1071
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 3: So I just feel like it's it's definitely a person

1072
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 3: It's definitely a personality thing for sure. But then, like

1073
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 3: I said, I do feel like it's gender specific as well.

1074
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 3: But then I'm not gonna say that all women that

1075
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,439
Speaker 3: are supervisors in the workplace should get a bad rep

1076
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,399
Speaker 3: because I actually did have a black supervisor at one

1077
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 3: of my jobs, and she was an older lady, probably

1078
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 3: liking her forties or fifties, and she was extremely nice

1079
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 3: to me. Yeah, and that's why I said, to me,

1080
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 3: it goes more so on personality traits rather for me

1081
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 3: personally than gender, because I I've always gotten along with

1082
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 3: the men. But actually, let me let me take that back,

1083
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 3: because I used to work for a guy at Dreams

1084
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: and he was the worst fucking manager ever. Bitch. I mean,

1085
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 3: I used to tell you the stories about that nigga. Yeah,

1086
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 3: you definitely used to be calling us bitches holes, really crazy.

1087
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 3: I swear to God if I used to, if I

1088
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 3: could record this ship that he used to say to us,

1089
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 3: y'all would be like, what the fuck? Why you didn't

1090
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 3: sue that nigga? I could have?

1091
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: We could have We had a case, bitch.

1092
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I think us you can't be out here

1093
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:05,479
Speaker 3: calling beaches. You can't call them beach. No call a beach,

1094
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 3: no beach, my niggas. But I'm not gonna lie beach.

1095
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 3: It was definitely a two way streets call pussy ass, nigga,

1096
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 3: fuck nigga.

1097
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 1: We used to be calling them everything.

1098
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, it was a but like I said, for me, personally,

1099
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,280
Speaker 3: the worst relationship I've had with a supervisor has been male.

1100
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: But going back, like I said, for me, it is

1101
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: more so personality.

1102
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, So let us know how y'all feel about like

1103
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 3: tensions in the workplace. Do y'all feel like white people

1104
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 3: are better supervisors than black people? Who do you feel

1105
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 3: more comfortable with? And this is for any white people

1106
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 3: that are listening as well, Like, do y'all care about

1107
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 3: if your supervisor is black or white? Yeah, because I

1108
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 3: would actually like to hear like what a white person thinks.

1109
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 3: I would like to hear what they think too. So

1110
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 3: we're gonna get into the bab the beg the by.

1111
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:57,720
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is a topic.

1112
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 3: He was supposed to say the dead again. So this

1113
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 3: is actually a topic I wanted to talk about because

1114
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 3: I was listening to Damn I forgot who podcast it was.

1115
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 3: Oh it was it's these two white girls that got

1116
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 3: a podcast. I can't remember the name of it anyways.

1117
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 3: So basically the girl was like, you need to suck

1118
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 3: your man's dick because if you don't do it, another

1119
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 3: bitch will, right.

1120
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: So I was like, man, that's that's I'm not gonna lie.

1121
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 3: That's some shit that I I've always felt since I

1122
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 3: was like eighteen nineteen in my relationship. So it made

1123
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 3: me think about, like I wonder how many women feel

1124
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 3: like they have to force themselves to have sex or

1125
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 3: force themselves.

1126
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: To get in the mood. Now, this is not rape.

1127
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 3: I'm not talking about rape, not talking about that, but

1128
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 3: I'm just saying sometimes you just want to just chill

1129
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 3: and you not turned on or you're not in the mood.

1130
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: But your nigga want to fuck.

1131
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 3: But you like, damn this nigga just paid my rent,

1132
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 3: or damn this nigga just bought me this and did

1133
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 3: this for me.

1134
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: Or damn this is my boyfriend.

1135
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 3: And I know he wants some dick, and if I mean,

1136
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 3: I know he wants some pussy.

1137
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: Hope, he don't want no d oh, he wants some pussy.

1138
00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:05,919
Speaker 3: So if I don't give it to him, he gonna

1139
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 3: go get it from somebody else. So if you have

1140
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 3: you ever felt like you have to force yourself to

1141
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:16,240
Speaker 3: have sex, yeah, for sure a few times. Actually yeah,

1142
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 3: but it was I mean, I don't want to say

1143
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 3: forced with not that he's forcing you. You have to

1144
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,959
Speaker 3: force yourself. So let me let me clarify this before

1145
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let you talk. Okay, but you know how

1146
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 3: people are. I'm not talking about a man forcing you.

1147
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 3: I'm talking about us making ourselves get into the move

1148
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 3: because we do want to give our man some sex.

1149
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 3: So I'm not talking about rape. This is not rape.

1150
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,240
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about us forcing ourselves.

1151
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 3: To get in the movie.

1152
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 2: Right.

1153
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I absolutely have had to in relationships. And when

1154
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,720
Speaker 3: I started dating guys like I remember I had started

1155
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 3: dating a guy and he had did a lot of

1156
00:52:55,760 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 3: stuff for me, and I wasn't ready to have sex.

1157
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: But you knew it was time.

1158
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 3: But I knew But I knew it was time. I

1159
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 3: knew it was time. So it's like I absolutely had

1160
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 3: to kind of force myself to have sex with him

1161
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:15,240
Speaker 3: that night because I wasn't really ready, but he kept

1162
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 3: bringing it up, and he kept legs. I was just

1163
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 3: please leg cleanse no, y'all, that's another funny story that

1164
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 3: I'm have to tell y'all another day.

1165
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: But yes, like so, I just knew it was time,

1166
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

1167
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 3: I knew I was gonna have to go ahead and

1168
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 3: give him some pussy cause I felt I did feel

1169
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 3: bad even though he kept bringing it up. I did

1170
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 3: feel bad because it was like, damn, I mean, you

1171
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,280
Speaker 3: have done a lot for y'all, done, gave niggas pussy

1172
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 3: for les if we being honey, you know what I mean.

1173
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,840
Speaker 3: So it's like the fact that you have been doing this,

1174
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 3: in this, in this for me, and I knew all that,

1175
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 3: and I do know that he really did like me

1176
00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,879
Speaker 3: at the time, so it was like okay for liter,

1177
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,879
Speaker 3: but it was awkward because I wasn't ready.

1178
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: So I think I told you that I can't remember.

1179
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 3: I'm not being funny, it was it was just it

1180
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 3: was just an awkward situation because I really wasn't ready,

1181
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 3: Like it was like on some ship with your pussy

1182
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,800
Speaker 3: stagn you wasn't really, no bitch, was it on? Say?

1183
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 3: It could have been hot outside? They have a little

1184
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 3: twain my period, but you know, you know, a little

1185
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 3: sweating when it's hot, but not your pussy should never

1186
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 3: stay my left a little little tent too, little twin.

1187
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 3: Whuld it be hot outside? Bitch? Bitch? But anyway, it

1188
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 3: ain't gonna say but but yeah, it was just awkward.

1189
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 3: It was just an awkward situation because it was like,

1190
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:46,399
Speaker 3: first of all, we had went to sleep. I'll spend

1191
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 3: the night with him, and it's like he woke up

1192
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 3: at like twelve thirty in the morning. It was like, man,

1193
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 3: why you want to get me no pussy and up

1194
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 3: the night bro? Yes. Yeah. So I was just kind

1195
00:54:59,960 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 3: of like I was like all right, you know, and

1196
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 3: I pulled my little pants down, and I mean my

1197
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 3: little pennies down, and you know, oh, I'm happy you

1198
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 3: have pennies on. I know, because I really never trying

1199
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 3: to protect me. I was like, you know, I never

1200
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:20,360
Speaker 3: wear panties, y'all, like I believe breathe. But for me personally,

1201
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,720
Speaker 3: it just wasn't good either. Right, So for me personally,

1202
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 3: I guess mine is kind of opposite. Well, let me

1203
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 3: say this.

1204
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: When I had situations were like guys that do stuff.

1205
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 3: For me, like oh god, I would try to push

1206
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 3: it to the limit, like you, yes, I'm not gonna

1207
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,439
Speaker 3: lie if you doing stuff for me and you fine,

1208
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 3: I like you, you're getting that pussy off top.

1209
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: Nigga, Like I'm not gonna lie. Wait, wait, let me finish.

1210
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: So like I'm not gonna lie.

1211
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:49,479
Speaker 3: When I flew to Paris for my little day bitch

1212
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:52,359
Speaker 3: like I want to, he's actually passed out the first night.

1213
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 3: He got so drunk.

1214
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm trying to wake him up because I'm like, you don't.

1215
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 3: Want this pussy.

1216
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 1: I gotta pay for my flood.

1217
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:04,760
Speaker 3: But so that wasn't me fun, that was forcing myself.

1218
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 3: But I will say, sometimes I really just don't be

1219
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 3: in the mood, and that's I fuck a lot. So yes,

1220
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 3: in my situations when I'm dating somebody, we fucking lot,

1221
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 3: Like if I'm on a vacation, I'm fucking a lit

1222
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 3: because that's what I want. But I think sometimes I

1223
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 3: do get in those where are like, oh, I do

1224
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 3: not feel like doing it, but I can work. I

1225
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 3: can get myself up, so it'll be like a thirty

1226
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 3: second moment and be like, damn, I really don't want

1227
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 3: to fuck. But once I start, like, you know, touching

1228
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 3: it philly, and you know, I'll get around. Yeah. But

1229
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 3: the like a dude told me before, he said, one

1230
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,760
Speaker 3: thing I love about you is that you always ready.

1231
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: I stay ready, so I don't have the motherfucking get ready.

1232
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,479
Speaker 3: See. For me, it's just about timing, like I feel

1233
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 3: like it's time. It's a time I feel like it

1234
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 3: just don't Well no, I'm not saying that he was

1235
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:01,879
Speaker 3: forcing you, but I'm just saying like, if you kind

1236
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 3: of feel like you're like you forcing yourself to have

1237
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 3: sex with somebody, it's to me, it's just never as

1238
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 3: good as it is when I'm just naturally ready say

1239
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 3: to me, and I feel what you're saying. But I

1240
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:15,279
Speaker 3: guess that's just something that I can do with it

1241
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 3: myself because I won't be in the mood. But then

1242
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 3: like five minutes later, once I'm like, I'm in the

1243
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 3: mood now, you see what I'm saying. But that's something

1244
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 3: that I learned to do because being in a relationship

1245
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 3: for three years, a nigga don't do what you want

1246
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:28,919
Speaker 3: to do with bitch, you better fuck your nigga because

1247
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 3: the bitches out here that's gonna want to fuck your

1248
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 3: Drain that, yeah, gonna still be fucking about. But drain

1249
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 3: that dig bitch.

1250
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: Drain it.

1251
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 3: You can't. You can't. He gonna still want to go

1252
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 3: fudd now you're right now, but he man, I'm telling

1253
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 3: you can drain.

1254
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: You can drain some big girl.

1255
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:47,200
Speaker 3: Please.

1256
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: These niggas ain't never too tired to go get some newgause.

1257
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 3: Now you're right about that, But I'm saying it's a

1258
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 3: difference between a nigga cheating like every now and then

1259
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 3: maybe yeah, then a nigga dipping.

1260
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: Out on your cheater.

1261
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: Dipping out on your ass every not because you don't

1262
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 3: want to fus. I just have always thought it was

1263
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 3: weird women that don't like to have dicks, Like, how

1264
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 3: do you not if you if you are in a

1265
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 3: relationship and you haven't had sex with your man in

1266
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 3: a month, trust and believe baby, his dick is getting

1267
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,439
Speaker 3: wets absolutely, So I feel like, not that you're gonna

1268
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 3: stop your nigga from cheating, but you can go from

1269
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 3: like eighty percent the niggas feel gonna cheat, but some

1270
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 3: niggas cheats, you know what I mean. And you sucking

1271
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 3: his dick and doing everything you're supposed to be doing,

1272
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:34,959
Speaker 3: he's definitely tably not cheating on you all the time.

1273
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 3: So what I'm just saying is for me personally, drain

1274
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 3: the dick and give him that good pussy so he's

1275
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 3: gonna be like when he gets new pussy, it's really

1276
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 3: not exciting.

1277
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: He's like, why do I keep doing this? I'm not

1278
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: cheating no more because my bitch pussy.

1279
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 3: Better than you, gotta know, y'a no man, No, I'm

1280
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 3: not saying no man ever, but seriously, like some niggas

1281
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 3: really feel like when they have sex with somebody, that's

1282
00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 3: why they don't make no connection because the pussy was

1283
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 3: boring and laying compared to my bitch.

1284
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: I feel like that don't make no connection cause niggas

1285
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 1: just don't make no connection.

1286
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 3: Some new pussy and be like, damn girl, yeah no,

1287
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 3: look at her sideway. It's like I might want to

1288
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 3: keep fucking this bitch. They keep fucking that bitch because

1289
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 3: her pussy so good and they actually developed something. You

1290
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 3: cannot fuck a person more than ten times and not

1291
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 3: have no feelings, bitch, that's law, not that for real.

1292
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously, I'm not gonna lie. I think we've

1293
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 3: all been in situations where it's like you might have

1294
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 3: fucked somebody once or twice and you probably never fucked

1295
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 3: them again. So absolutely, in order for me to fuck

1296
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 3: you ten times, I definite between us. And that's because

1297
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 3: ten times it's a lot of time. Not necessarily that

1298
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:44,919
Speaker 3: you have great pussy, but you gotta know. You gotta

1299
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 3: learn what your partner wants vice versas. My man don't

1300
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 3: learn my body. He not. And I'm not trying to

1301
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 3: be funny, but my situation, what did I do? I

1302
00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 3: started cheating because because he wasn't getting I wasn't getting it,

1303
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 3: and did it, I wasn't getting when I got it,

1304
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 3: I wasn't getting what I wanted. Saying that it's okay,

1305
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 3: but I needed my fix, bitch, I needed my mother fucking.

1306
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 3: It's important to please your partner. Your partner like get

1307
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 3: that nuts. Yeah, honestly, because if you're not doing it,

1308
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 3: it's definitely some beaches out here. They know what they're doing.

1309
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 3: Bitches is me? So do I force myself sometimes get

1310
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 3: in the mood, absolutely, bitch, and I don't care. I will,

1311
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 3: especially if you're my nigga, I'll fuck with you. I

1312
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 3: want to drain your dick, but I'm gonna drain that dick.

1313
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 3: I feel like that's part of being a good girlfriend, though,

1314
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 3: Like when you're in a relationship with somebody, and even

1315
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 3: if you it's about giving take. Like even though you

1316
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 3: might not be in the mood to fuck, you supposed

1317
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 3: to want to please. Your man's in a mode to

1318
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 3: pay your fucking bills, but he gonna do it.

1319
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1320
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:50,959
Speaker 3: You gotta give up that, got to give up that food,

1321
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 3: You gotta give up them draw, get up that. But yeah,

1322
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 3: it's like to me, it's just that it's just giving

1323
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 3: take like you're supposed to do that in a relationship.

1324
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 3: I've definitely been in relationships and did not want to

1325
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 3: always hug. But you know what the fuck I did.

1326
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 3: I too that ass up tooth that ass, and I

1327
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 3: let my nigga do what the fuck he needed to do.

1328
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: That's how I feel.

1329
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 3: So let us know, ladies, have y'all ever had to

1330
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 3: force yourself to have sex with a man just because

1331
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 3: you knew he deserves some pussy and you wanted to

1332
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 3: give it to him.

1333
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: Like I said, we're not talking about.

1334
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, no do this year. Please Next we're gonna get

1335
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 3: into the bop agdub egg.

1336
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: So I was so excited that because somebody like shout

1337
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: it out my box.

1338
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 3: I was like, thank y'all because I really be giving,

1339
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 3: like not being we really be giving them gems, bro,

1340
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 3: like we be giving them good fuckings. No, we do.

1341
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: We definitely give y'all something some gems because that was

1342
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 1: about you.

1343
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 3: Was dissed with that. It was such a good song. Anyways,

1344
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 3: So do you have a ball for the week?

1345
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 2: This week?

1346
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 3: You can go first, Well, I should have two bops

1347
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:00,439
Speaker 3: this week. Oh god. So I was at, she's gonna

1348
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 3: make this a bop like a few weeks ago. But

1349
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 3: I don't know why I didn't because I felt like

1350
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 3: people were gonna make fun of me. I swear to God,

1351
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 3: because everybody was like what the fuck? Every time I

1352
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:11,920
Speaker 3: was playing my car, people like what the fuck is this?

1353
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 3: And this week the song fucking blew up out of

1354
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:18,439
Speaker 3: nowhere because Philly ray Cyrus got on it. I put

1355
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 3: my left right, I mean right hand the fucking god,

1356
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:23,440
Speaker 3: bro I was about to make this my bop of

1357
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 3: the week, like a month and a half, I remember,

1358
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 3: and I did it because I was like, you know what,

1359
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 3: They're not gonna feel this. They gonna think I'm weird

1360
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 3: because I do have a weird sometimes I listen to

1361
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 3: weird music. It's not a weird song, but it's it's different.

1362
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 3: So obviously my bop other week is Yeah, I wanna

1363
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 3: teg my horse to the hotel rod lord right, can't no?

1364
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 1: That song definitely blew up out of nowhere horse dagg

1365
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 1: this black man riding horse.

1366
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, like man came on by a pair of.

1367
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 1: You always gotta take it too far bro.

1368
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 3: Bomb And then Billy ray Cyrus hopped on that hole

1369
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 3: and then what the fuck he needed to do he did.

1370
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 3: He definitely did what needed to be done. Yeah, so

1371
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 3: I agree. I think it was amazing that he hopped

1372
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 3: on the track. The song is number one of the

1373
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 3: Billboard charts right now, so what does it doesn't even

1374
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 3: matter that they took him off the country charts because

1375
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 3: he's number one on the Billboard Charts, like altogether. That

1376
01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 3: song is definitely about I love it. I think it's

1377
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 3: a cute song. I like seeing I like just seeing

1378
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 3: black creatives do whatever they want to do. Right, y'all

1379
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 3: want to make country music, get in there and make

1380
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 3: some country music. But k Michelle actually released the song,

1381
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 3: and that song actually sounds fire as fuck. Y'all have

1382
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 3: to realize that country music came from black people.

1383
01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: First of all. Okay, so y'all ain't no.

1384
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 3: Let's let's take our ship back and we can do

1385
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 3: whatever the fuck we want to do. We are so creative,

1386
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 3: we're so powerful, and we're so good. We can make

1387
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 3: country music and rap music and make a good as song.

1388
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 3: Nelly told y'all over and over games. But somebody said

1389
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 3: that on Twitter, and somebody said that, uh, Tim McGraw

1390
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 3: and Nelly walked so so that jumped out. The facts

1391
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 3: jumped out because a song, and.

1392
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 1: They said they walked so little nice and uh, what's

1393
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: the what's that?

1394
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 3: Man?

1395
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 1: Disrespect my heart?

1396
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 3: Mom naked breaking heart? Yeah, I remember Molly cyrus ddy. Yeah.

1397
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 3: So so I do have another Battle of the Week.

1398
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 3: I had to make that obviously, because it was all

1399
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 3: over everywhere, but it actually is a song that I like.

1400
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 3: So this person actually surprised me that her music is

1401
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 3: actually fucking fired okay, because she came. She had a viral,

1402
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 3: little funny song that went viral, and I'm like, what

1403
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 3: is this bitch, I'm gonna move.

1404
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Doja Cat. Yeah, I was like, let me

1405
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: go listen.

1406
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 3: To see what's talking about, cause people kept saying she's

1407
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 3: actually dope and baby girl, I was blue the fuck bag. Bro.

1408
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 3: She's got this song called go to Town and it's weird.

1409
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 3: She's so I don't know how to explain her. She's

1410
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 3: so like it's like pop ish but it's rap but

1411
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:24,919
Speaker 3: it's like emo, but I don't it's good.

1412
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 1: So the song is called go to Town by Doja Cat.

1413
01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 3: I love her.

1414
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 1: I think her personality is very quirky.

1415
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 3: Her music matches her, like if you can see her

1416
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 3: and her how she dresses, and her personality is so carefree.

1417
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: Her music is the same way.

1418
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 3: So the song is not a new song, it's just

1419
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 3: a song. It was like one of the first tracks

1420
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 3: yeah her and I listened to her her last project

1421
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 3: and I was actually fucking like, yeah, well, you know,

1422
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 3: we give them good music in genuary. Yeah, it doesn't

1423
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 3: necessarily have to be a song.

1424
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1425
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 3: So, and then she has a song with Rico Nasty.

1426
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 3: I love Rico Nasty. She's like a rockstar rapper. She's

1427
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,919
Speaker 3: like a female version of Little Uzi with her own swea. Yeah.

1428
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 1: So, her and Rico Nasty have a song called Tian Tamara.

1429
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 1: I actually really liked that song too. It's just fair.

1430
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 3: I like you, I go move okay, So I'm not

1431
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 3: in the mood.

1432
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: Singing fist down.

1433
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 3: Enough enough.

1434
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: If we already let you get your Momi, we already

1435
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: let you get you.

1436
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 3: But no, like y'all, lately, I have been like I

1437
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 3: don't know, Like I just get in little molds where

1438
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 3: I want to listen to like nothing but old school

1439
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 3: music and I don't know. So like for the past week,

1440
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 3: I've really been.

1441
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 1: Having an obsession with Confessions.

1442
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 3: Yes I heard, I saw that, So it's like I've

1443
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 3: been having an obsession with that CD. I'm like, Wow,

1444
01:06:56,720 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 3: Confession a classic. Honestly, you don't let yes, you can

1445
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 3: literally play it from front to back without getting a song,

1446
01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 3: and I have forgot how good that album really is.

1447
01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 3: It's like it'll never get.

1448
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: Old shout out to Usher Confessions and we can't wait

1449
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:14,680
Speaker 1: for Confession too.

1450
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 3: But I'm still kind of like I'll be on the

1451
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 3: fence about stuff like that though, because I feel like

1452
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 3: whenever people try to make part twos to legendary or

1453
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,600
Speaker 3: classic sheet it never be as right. I mean, you

1454
01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:29,920
Speaker 3: can't talk right, but you can make a pretty solid

1455
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 3: you know, we'll see, we'll see amount just yet. His

1456
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 3: last album was just okay.

1457
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: I loved it.

1458
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna because it used to play it all the

1459
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 3: time and the part and I mean I listened to it.

1460
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 3: I actually had listened to it on my own a

1461
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 3: few times, and I just it had maybe like two

1462
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 3: songs on it that I liked, but other than that,

1463
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 3: I wasn't feeling it. So I am too. But that's

1464
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 3: why I was disappointed. I was like fsh because it

1465
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 3: was trapped and it's not we wanted that real song. Yeah,

1466
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 3: I think that's what it was. If it was like

1467
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 3: he had been releasing like us, our song, trying to

1468
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 3: switch it up, I think people would have received it better. Yeah,

1469
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 3: But the fact that we hadn't gotten music from Usher

1470
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 3: for so long and then he gave us and he

1471
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:17,599
Speaker 3: gave us some trap music.

1472
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 1: So I think a lot of people were disappointed. But

1473
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:22,400
Speaker 1: it wasn't a bad album. I mean it was Zaytoven

1474
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: produced the whole thing.

1475
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 3: How Badven doesn't make a Don't get me wrong. It

1476
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 3: wasn't just terrible, but it wasn't. It definitely wasn't like

1477
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:38,840
Speaker 3: it was some songs they probably should together. Excuse me,

1478
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 3: that was I mean, I'm saying those are probably songs.

1479
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 3: It would have been better to be funny. No, it

1480
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 3: would have been better if like Jack Keith and I

1481
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,679
Speaker 3: thought she was trying to be funny. I'm but anyway,

1482
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 3: it's until you when we get off, we get off

1483
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:54,679
Speaker 3: the mic.

1484
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:57,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, like yeah, shout.

1485
01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 3: Out to Usher. That album was definitely a classic, and

1486
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 3: I'm shure honestly, you know, when you get older, you

1487
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 3: listen to music and you didn't will never get music

1488
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 3: like that anymore, and it just lets you. It just

1489
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 3: reminds you, like, Wow, all of these this classic legendary

1490
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 3: music that we had growing up, we took for granted.

1491
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:20,680
Speaker 3: We definitely didn't because I didn't realize until now, being

1492
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 3: an adult, how much shuld I used to listen to

1493
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 3: back then and now I'm listening to it as an

1494
01:09:24,920 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 3: adult and that should just be hidden different as an adult,

1495
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 3: especially when you've gone through right, It's like now you

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Speaker 3: can really relate to that ship. Is we just used

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Speaker 3: to be teeny bopping back in the day.

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Speaker 1: We know that that ship hurting.

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Speaker 3: Let it burn, bitch, you gotta let that ship. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: So shout out to h Usher Little Naze, do you cat?

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Speaker 1: Those are our.

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Speaker 3: Bops of the week, Billy Ways right leg.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to our sponsors, European Wax Center.

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Speaker 3: Make sure y'all know the how a Middle location or

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Speaker 3: the Edgelent location mentioned Poor Minds wind down Wednesday, Drea,

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Speaker 3: and lets ask for ta mecause she'll give y'all y'all's

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Speaker 3: discount and pricede.

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Speaker 1: Y'all and you're not always about to be so please

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Speaker 1: get that to please.

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Speaker 3: A wax Amen. So you got anything you want to

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Speaker 3: add a little drill, No, I don't have anything I

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Speaker 3: want to add this. Oh I do want to say

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Speaker 3: we'll be in Houston next weekend, so oh yeah at

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Speaker 3: the other podcast out there. I want to collaborate with

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Speaker 3: the poor Mind girls to come on your show. We

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Speaker 3: will definitely be there for about five days so we

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Speaker 3: can come chop it up, get some good content. So

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Speaker 3: just let us know.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you send the nineteenth through the twenty third.

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Speaker 3: We will We'll be there for an extended little stats

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Speaker 3: extending And I just thought about it my birthday on

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Speaker 3: the twenty second, So I'm accepting gifts all much. I

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Speaker 3: did cash apps as well. Thank you, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Yep, So make sure y'all you know let us know

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Speaker 1: stay tuned. Thank y'all for listening to.

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Speaker 3: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Make sure I have.

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Speaker 3: Look, i haven't done a blog in a while because

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Speaker 3: I'm waiting to get my camera fixed. Yeah, because I

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Speaker 3: need to take good pictures for my blog.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to half ask.

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Speaker 3: My blog, y'all. But I'm still gonna be blogging. I'm

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Speaker 3: actually gonna do a blog this week. So just tune

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Speaker 3: in to lovelexp dot com.

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Speaker 1: And I got some content on there for y'all.

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Speaker 3: And out y'all, I think, and by some mers and

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Speaker 3: buy some merks by y'all. Little comfortable little.

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Speaker 1: your girl.

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Speaker 3: Any suggarls right in the call and gonna cry chill,

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Speaker 3: Please get the