WEBVTT - Ep 201: ZADDY Issues (feat Venny) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:05.760 Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decision. 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:18.560 We're gonna give you a little not really whatever? Yeah, anyone, 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:33.839 what is that? I thought you're in distress? That your 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:38.839 bow every time you pound? Uh, it's like every thrust? No, okay, 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:43.279 my bad would yas how we hear me? No, we 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:53.360 are not sorry that for that's like bro. Sorry, Hey, guys, 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:55.760 welcome to another week. We have a week to a 0:00:55.840 --> 0:01:01.600 motherfucker one. Are we alive? Are they? Are we ghost? 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:07.280 Is we zombies? If this is what's left over going? Huh, 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:11.960 I'm so sorry. Hi guys, I'm wheezy. Welcome to another 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:16.160 episode of our show. Today. We have a close friend, 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:20.480 my bestie and to assistant what's been his title on 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:23.280 the show, you want to say? Told manager of No. 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.440 I called myself like the code tour manager because like 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.360 I'll be there for most of the dates dates, and 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:30.920 then because we actually did have a tour manager. So 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:36.880 he's like, you call assistant, you do much more than yeah, 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:41.720 you do way more than that. And for those of 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.600 y'all who like came to our tours when it was 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:47.000 just Wheelie and I putting them on, y'all may have 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:51.200 seen him, sell t shirts, help with our songs, help 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:58.480 with you. He's been helping us always before we had 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:02.440 a manager. Yeah, from the beginning. You guys may have 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.520 also heard him before, if y'all start started all the 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:10.040 way back from four years ago forever. He fuck the murderer. 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:15.680 It's it's fourteen. About to say it's earlier. I did 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:19.240 murderer and men on the deal. Yes, And let me 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:21.040 tell you something. I have flashbacks with people be like, 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:25.600 oh you fuck the murdering And I'm like, oh bitch, yeah, 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.880 and like I literally like go through the experience all 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:30.400 over again, be like, oh, yeah, I did. He had 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.280 to climb out a bathroom window, or at least he 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:40.200 thought some streams these are horny forviews. No, Bennie is 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:42.200 you know. I'm so glad he's part of our Horrible 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:45.400 Decisions team along with Bens. That's really like our cot 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:49.320 ye now yeah, but so shout out to them. But yeah, 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.639 so Bennie's here. You know, it's just a merry and 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:56.760 gay New Year with you here, you know. So I 0:02:56.800 --> 0:02:59.000 wanted to talk about something different because we've had so 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:02.640 many gay men in and particularly with Vinnie, I just 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.440 it would be like our gay men be like gay episodes, 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.359 and so I'm glad, like we're gonna just talk about 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:12.959 goddamn dating as people despite our sexuality, because it's not like, 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:15.080 you know, we're trying to like be like tell us 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:18.320 all about your gay ship. But also like I'm gonna 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:22.720 because I think you'd right, that's pretty much what I'm 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:26.519 talking about really, which is which is I'm not trying 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:29.280 to yell anyone's yuck, but it's not mine. I mean, 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.600 we get it for him, um no. But it was 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:34.440 difficult because I was like, Minnie has so many stories, 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:35.760 so like, what can we talk about with Vinnie? And 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:37.680 I feel like this has been a trend in your 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:43.040 life for as long as I've known you. Yeah, And 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:46.400 we're gonna talk about Daddy's today Before we get to 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:50.960 Daddy specifically, I'm not talking about just Mandy and I 0:03:51.040 --> 0:04:02.440 having old bays. I'm talking Daddy's like plus let's says okay, 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:05.160 and they love him to y'all. Let me just explain. 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:09.160 During the Bandami, we went to I came to Boston 0:04:09.160 --> 0:04:11.240 because I missed you, and I surprised him for the birthday, 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:13.800 and we went to this gay bar where it was 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:15.960 socially distanced. It was really difficult, by the way, because 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:18.000 like gauges me on top of each other because that's 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:21.520 how they like speak and definitely say hello. So this 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:22.960 was really weird, Like even if you stood up and 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:24.599 went to another table, like but they did. Well, what's 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.760 the name of that Cathy's Cathy's Cathedral station. There are 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:32.040 some really cute niggas in there. They're always I hate 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:35.279 parting with Justin for that reason, Like I hate going 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:43.640 on and being like they don't like me. You're walking 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:45.680 like they're not even here for me, and I'm like, no, 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:52.200 why my hair? You do always look your right now. Anyway, 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.480 I just only pointed out how many good looking men 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:56.000 there were in there, because I don't know if you 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:59.520 saw them because you were looking at the A RP 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:03.039 table a friend and if you can remember, they all 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:07.080 have their masks on. Everybody else too. They're responsible no no, no, 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.800 because they might have died. Wait, they probably all have 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:14.880 underlying condition. And it was so serious that not only 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.880 I said this about Bennie, what's your friend Julissa, not 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.240 what's his name Julissa Bunt Jared Jared, but he got 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.400 all the eager Julissa, and he was like, there goes 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:28.720 Benny's friends. Everybody knows you like oh and it is insane, 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.080 Like literally, I don't know what the silver hair, white 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.800 hair does. I'm not gonna lie. I like the little 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:36.440 the salt and pepper now to say I need the 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.400 pepper in there. I don't want all salt, A little 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.279 salt and pepper, and like the bald a little bit. 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:45.840 Damn you gonna like my nigga the bald? The bald does? 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:48.560 I don't know. You want to bald spot out? You 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.560 want to let it shine? Bitch? Do you wanted to 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:53.680 put sunscreen on it? Give it to me? Wait? But 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:55.480 do you like the hair around? Like? You don't mean 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:57.320 I don't need the hair around? But you know, sometimes 0:05:57.320 --> 0:06:00.280 if they're bald, they like shave the whole thing. But 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:04.000 if I got to say during the summertime, the shadows, okay. 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:05.480 But if I have to say, baby, let me put 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.760 some sunscreen on your head in the summertime, that's it 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.680 right there for me. Why, I don't know, I like it. 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.800 I wonder if you got isn't daddy issue? I don't know, 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:19.760 you know. I talked to my therapist about it because 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:25.840 I was truly concerned, and I was like, listen, um, 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:27.680 you know, my father was a little absent, but I 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.719 had male figures in my life plenty, probably more than 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:32.799 just a father. I had like a father and eight cousins. 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.919 And so I was like, are these daddy issues? She 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:40.040 was like no, And I was like, you could like older, 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:42.159 you can like, but I thought it was rooted in 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:44.080 like my father not being there. And she was like, 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:47.200 but you had male figures all around you the whole time. 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:51.200 They thought it was a daddy thing, because well, maybe not. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:56.120 It's just that you are, for example, this is just 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.440 me telling what I know. But Vinnie is in someone's will. 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:06.800 And I just feel like when you're shout up you've God, 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:09.840 because that are in your thirties or forties, like that 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.320 never really comes right. You don't really talk about this 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.280 like that. But I wondered when that When you told 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:16.440 me that that day, I was like, I wonder if 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:18.840 that's a protector thing, like he makes you feel. I 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:21.560 think I do like the stability, and I do like 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:25.960 the it's until until he came along, I thought it 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.080 was like no games and like they knew what they 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.760 wanted and he was going to be like solid. But 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:33.840 it turns out they're just children too. Man. He always 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:39.280 said that working around too. No, I'm not gonna lie, 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:41.680 but and I think I compare it between like rich 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:45.280 and regular niggas to like all everybody is like how 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:48.000 they just do. I don't know if it's covideo pandemica, 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:51.360 but like the motherfucker's everywhere, and like, some days he's 0:07:51.440 --> 0:07:53.240 loved me, some days he don't want to be around me. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:56.480 Some days he's like, come back. It's just maybe maybe 0:07:56.480 --> 0:08:00.800 he's losing it. He might be losing Maybe some days 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:02.920 he forgets who you are, you know what. He ain't 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:13.960 that old, but maybe the side of dementia. But wait, 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:17.360 I don't know, does he know you're doing this today? Um? 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:23.000 Kind of stop it? I s sorry. I mean I 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.440 like him. He's cute, but like he's cute, he's fun, 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.600 he's super chill. Um, but you know, he don't know 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.960 what he wants. He doesn't know what he wants and 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.959 he's almost half of a century. I think it's because 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:35.160 he had a very long relationship. He had a very 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:38.520 long relationship. Prize that's in a marriage. I don't deal 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:42.640 with those seven marriages February makes it almost like three years. 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.640 Is what do I find the most interesting about this 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:47.560 is this is what he was telling me about their 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:52.640 in the pandemic. Okay, he wasn't with somebody else that 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:56.120 that was him, So I was like the Providence one. Okay, 0:08:56.200 --> 0:09:01.040 I want to dive into something interesting because it when 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.200 you're dating someone at this age. Right, So Pete Town 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:06.120 tells what pet so? Pete Town is a gay community, 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.000 just like here in New York, there's Fire Island, there's 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.839 PiZZ Town. At a typical cod in Massachusetts. It's about 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:12.959 a ninety minute fairy ride from Boston or you could 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:15.079 drive and it takes like three hours. Um, and it's 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.319 just gay as fun. Well, straight people are starting to 0:09:17.360 --> 0:09:19.559 come in now, but it's really gay as fun. Was 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:24.400 upset I want want literally just made it seem like 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:26.760 straight people were colonizers. And I don't know if it's 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:32.480 y'all colonized and someone every track grun let me tell you? 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:36.600 Are you kidding me? Place Angels the parliam is still 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.000 very much. I mean like there are some there are 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.640 some places like Provincetown. Like when I first went there, 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:43.520 I was like, oh, there's gonna be gay nigas everywhere. 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.560 Everybody's gonna be holding hands, blah blah. But then I 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.280 just saw straight couples with little kids everywhere, and I 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:50.199 was like, go away, you have the whole other state. 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.280 Like I only felt that way at the nude beach. 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:55.800 People started bringing their kids. This is not the place. 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:57.880 Well this is See I'm okay with the nude beaches 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:00.560 because like in Spain, their kids at the beach. But like, 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:03.200 there's literally on Prime Sound there's a beach called Boy 0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:05.760 Beach and it's literally where the men go and they 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:10.160 be they close to the dick dot. It's but men, 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:11.960 you know, be out there doing what they do. We 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:16.640 brought up the dots on an episode, yeah, because he 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.560 was like, oh god, you have the ditk. Yeah. No. 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.520 But the thing see, speaking of that, I've watched this 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:23.760 summer straight couples walk to the dick talk and be like, 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:26.120 oh this is where it is. It's become a torch attraction. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.480 So I can't get you wanted to go just like 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:30.839 that with your call. It not because they're they're fucking 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:32.680 taking pictures? Are you trying to get your but if 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:34.560 an he has kicked me out of spaces I'm not welcome. 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:41.440 And one time he can see or pretty and he 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:43.880 was like, where'd you go the cock? When I was 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.000 the first say and I was like, oh, where are 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:49.480 we gonna go? He was like, we go eat and 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.560 then you can go home. Oh wait, you didn't let 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:55.079 her go to the car, Like there's some places I 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:57.360 would be like, Asante brought me to the car. I 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:59.040 was right there and then I turned around and that 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:02.959 it was definitely some and the Eagle, the eagle here 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.280 in New York. I would never let a woman come 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:10.200 with me. Why because baby, it's pravy. We didn't go 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:12.920 to that one club private were almost got sucked in 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:16.200 the room but maybe no no, no, no no, no, second 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:22.800 in the in the dark room. Yeah, so we know 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:26.880 you are. That's why you want horrible club. This is 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:30.840 I'm gonna think. This was the guy who was like, 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:34.240 you guys have coach at meth do it all. Yeah. 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.320 We went to the gate because like in Europe, a 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:38.480 lot of gay clubs have the bathroom and then like 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.440 a room that is really dark, like you cannot see 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:42.439 your hand in front of your face. But why is 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.720 that fun? And because you have anonymous sex instead of 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:48.520 going to somebody like, you just have anonymous, so you 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:54.000 just grab that's probably problem. Let me way around. It 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:59.240 was a really crazy night first off, because one we 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:03.600 came to fucking where were we? Wait? Wait, I know 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.560 you want to tell your story. We've never talked about 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:09.439 a dark room. We're about to talk about so we 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:12.800 So the night starts off with us going to a 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.880 lesbian club, right, So Bennie is already like, bitch, you're 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:17.440 about to have me in here. We need to get ht. 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:20.199 So I was like okay, So I go to the bathroom. 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:23.559 I come back. I was like, don't be upset. The 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:26.720 drugs accidentally fell on the toilet. So this was like 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:30.960 we're leaving. So we go to the gay club, which 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:33.679 was really fun, like it was cute. Nieces was dancing 0:12:33.679 --> 0:12:35.880 on boxes like we was having a good time, and 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:37.400 I knew he wanted to leave me for a minute, 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:38.520 but I do want to be left alone because like 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:42.839 it's a foreign country or whatever. So we go downstairs 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:45.400 and I see lockers. I'm like, what's that for? And 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:49.600 he's like, oh bitch, He's like do you I'll be 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:52.280 right back. And then I see condoms. I was like, no, 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:53.320 I want to see what it's like. I want to 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:55.319 see what it's like. Never has been he held in 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:59.080 my hand like this, it's like that happen he puts 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:02.160 me for just it depends on the club, honestly. They 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.520 can be really big or they can be like just 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:06.559 like the size of what the regular I'd say, like 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:09.400 a big living room. Yeah, okay, but sometimes they have 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:12.560 like cubicles and stalls but with no doors, so you 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.720 can go in there and like it's a small room. 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:17.960 But you did you know you can you cannot see 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:20.480 the person he said, walk in front of me. So 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:22.760 Vinnie is like, asked to ask with me, right, So 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:25.960 his dick is in your but no, I still have everything. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:33.360 Everything is still zipped up behind him. So Vinnie's in 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.200 front of me, and I'm like feeling people grab on me, 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:37.240 and I'm like laughing because I'm like, is that him? 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:39.839 I don't know how we got separated, but a man 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.800 came right behind me grab my ass. I was like, 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:45.840 I'm a girl, he said, I don't care because if 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.600 if you're if you're in the dark room, it basically 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.079 means you give consent to be touched grabbed, Like that's 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:53.560 what you go in there for. You would you go 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.240 in there and like literally they just be like they 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.680 start touching you. You You can't be like, no, that's what 0:13:57.720 --> 0:13:59.600 you went in there for. But you can't. But you 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:04.040 can't just pop like you don't know, well you would know, 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:08.480 but you know what that mouth though that we did? 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.040 Did you play at all in this room? Now? Was 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:17.600 this was a creepy one? Wait? Did you left me? 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:19.800 I've never been man, I did. I didn't progue. I 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:22.160 didn't progue, but I didn't do it in Barcelona, okay, 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:25.200 and so wait, our men already just on their knees. 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:29.600 But some people, some people are just standing there waiting 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:32.360 for somebody to hear anyone fucking But I think people 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.560 were definitely getting the dicks on you. Dark rooms are 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.440 dark rooms are thinking in Europe, and I mean for 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:39.800 the most part, I know, and they're really fun. Honestly, 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.560 they're really fun. Well I thought you went in one 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:45.040 because I ended up talking to this game and now 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:48.800 we've talked about sometimes on the show how meth is 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:51.840 very popular on Grinder, doing a certain type of drugs 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:53.680 like that, right, which I considered drugs that are like 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:56.360 not for me. But anyway, we go upstairs and I'm 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:59.400 telling the dude about how ship dropped in the toilet right, like, wait, 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:01.840 it was meth. No, it wasn't math, Mandy. Oh we 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.680 don't know, okay. But I was just telling like, oh 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:06.240 my god, that time you just said drugs that you 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.800 did so I didn't know, Okay, Okay. I was telling 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:12.440 the guy about how like, oh I dropped all ablama 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.000 toilet and he was like, oh my god, girl. He 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:15.840 was like, I can get whatever you want. Remember him, 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.360 It was like we can get co can get. I 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:20.320 was like wow. I remember looking at him and being 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:24.040 like whatever you left me with his ass? I don't 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:25.920 know why. And he was like, no, let's just find it. 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:27.520 We can just find it. I just know who has it. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:29.160 We go in the dark room. I was like, you 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:33.120 don't get math, get your nicks in the dark room 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:37.800 by someone you don't know. It's a police. That's why 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:40.360 I walked away. I said, no, he do, we gotta go. 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:44.080 That's the walked away. But you're already like this for 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:46.080 people are feeling free. You don't want to be judgy. 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:48.280 But also like we were doing a shot together and 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:49.440 I was like, well I went with this hair on 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:51.840 one shot with you I just remember. I remember, like, 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:54.080 I remember looking at him and being like, girl, let's 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:58.360 take the shot and walk away, right because also he smells. 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:00.480 But you know, whatever he did, we're ever going to 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:03.880 go to a gay club again. I don't know. Ain't 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:05.600 nothing going to be open. What club? Unless they got 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:07.640 it in Atlanta. That's the only place. We are not 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:13.200 doing that. Let's just go to an l ship A 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:18.080 downer on this, but I recently found out that porn 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:22.680 hub had removed all unverified content, did you guys? So 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:27.040 there was a lot of reports of exploitation, apparently about 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:31.160 a hundred and eighteen videos, which doesn't sound like a lot, 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:35.480 but it's enough about missing kids. Um, I think half 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:38.880 of them were missing kids. So there's an watchdog group 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:41.800 called the Internet watch Foundation, and they found a hundred 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.360 and eighteen instances. They said that it was a hundred 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:47.880 eighteen too many. The service UM was defensive in its report, 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:50.200 believing it had been UM singled out due to its 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:53.520 focus on adult content. It's clear that porn hub is 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:55.880 being targeted. This is from porn Hub, by the way, 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.080 not because of our policies and how we compared to 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:01.280 our peers, but because we are in a adult content platform, 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:04.119 the service rights there. These are the same forces that 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:09.200 have been spent fifty years demonizing Playboy, the National Endowment 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:13.240 for the Arts, Facility sex education, LGBTQ rights, women's rights, 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:16.480 and every American Library Association. Today it happens to be 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:19.680 porn Hub. Mandy, I love porn Hub and I will 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:22.639 never use it again. Well, it's crazy, because I do 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.080 want to bring up it's funny that they're just like, oh, 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:29.280 they're just attacking us because we are um more this way. 0:17:29.280 --> 0:17:31.280 But there was actually a story a couple of months 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:34.119 ago where a woman was trying to get a video 0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:37.040 taken down that she did not consent to have recorded. 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:40.160 And there's a lot of things in the amateur realm 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:42.960 of porn hub where there are i think one woman 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:46.200 also had a rape up there and she continuously told 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.080 them to take it down and they didn't. So not 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:51.119 only are you know, are they saying that, uh, not 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:52.960 only is porn Hub sitting here trying to act like 0:17:53.000 --> 0:17:55.560 it's just this organization that is attacking them, there are 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:59.639 actual victims of assault and women who were videotaped, and 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:02.520 there's not he said like, hey, down people upload whatever. 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:05.040 We will take it like it's so easy to take 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:07.399 it down. I just cannot believe to even say what 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:12.840 the response was so funny And that's really what it is, 0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:15.240 because right, like when you have a user uploaded platform 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:17.800 like a Reddit or a YouTube, I mean anything where 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:19.879 or Instagram, right, and it comes down once, you know, 0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:22.080 just to be like, oh, they're coming for us. But 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.720 I think something needs to be changed. It has to 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.840 be something. Like you said, Instagram can easily take things 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:31.160 down because they have a community guidelines, you know, community 0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:33.879 guidelines that are set. To me, I feel like maybe 0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:36.680 porn hub is maybe too lenient in their community guidelines 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:38.960 because to me, if someone is saying that's a video 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:41.320 of me and I was getting assaulted, you should take 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:43.760 it down immediately. There should immediately. There shouldn't be a 0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:46.560 back and forth regarding clicks or views or anither that 0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:48.399 Like if I come to you and say there's a 0:18:48.480 --> 0:18:53.520 violation because you actually do protect victims, that should be anything. 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:55.959 I feel like they were dope. I love that they 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:58.760 hired like um shout out to d Nasty, like they 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:00.880 hired her to do their words, like the higher communities. 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:03.080 It's not just like sex workers, like I think and 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:06.119 I mean even ms be nasty. She came on and 0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:08.880 said she actually likes that. Not only is it used 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:11.800 to for exposure for her, but she gets paid on 0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:14.320 porn hub as well. So it's one of our friends. UM, 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:16.960 shout out to Mia Woods. She's dating one of our 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:20.879 friends and she uploads her videos on there like she does. 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:24.080 Only fans get paid. They get paid. Um. But you 0:19:24.119 --> 0:19:27.480 can also use for free X and x x or 0:19:27.720 --> 0:19:29.800 x videos. There's also you porn. I used to use 0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:31.399 that way back in the day. I will say the 0:19:31.440 --> 0:19:33.240 only thing about X and x X that I do 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:35.800 not like And I will tell you now if you're 0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:39.440 one of those porn watchers like me, they're suggested videos 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:43.359 are often never in the same category of the videos 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:46.520 that you're watching. Stuff. It's been you know what I 0:19:46.560 --> 0:19:49.440 mean to suggestive videos is all. And then you're making 0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:54.879 my dick point. We got to go back to thebrary here. 0:19:54.920 --> 0:20:00.560 Their algorithms sucks for suggestive videos to use. Um, I 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:04.240 use xxx videos. Um, I use Twitter Twitter. I told 0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:12.159 you Twitter Twitter, I got my little two minutes. You 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:17.480 let me tell you or to go to the media 0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:19.840 file and then exactly you just go to the media 0:20:19.880 --> 0:20:21.600 and you just keep scrolling. I mean, you're gonna hit 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:25.240 one account, but you just keep podcast pro sex work 0:20:25.240 --> 0:20:27.560 and y'all because they're trying to scam the No, I'm not. 0:20:28.119 --> 0:20:30.600 Because it's people who have only fans who use Twitter 0:20:30.640 --> 0:20:33.840 as a platform to like it. And you know, all 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:35.480 my you know, if I really like it or I 0:20:35.480 --> 0:20:37.520 bust the nut to that one, I will retweet. Came 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:41.040 to this, came to this, sweetheart. And so if you 0:20:41.080 --> 0:20:43.199 guys have some other suggestions, by the way, please leave 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:45.680 them in the YouTube comments. Tweet us, tell us, like 0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:48.040 where you're watching your freeport at? What platforms do you like? 0:20:48.080 --> 0:20:50.040 What's use your friendly? Because I ain't a port with 0:20:50.080 --> 0:20:53.440 that ship. Donate some money to some child trafficking victims 0:20:53.440 --> 0:21:03.440 of song Dad part wildly so at A sex tip 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:07.879 for us, a sex tip for anybody any Well, it's 0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:11.520 gonna be for men. Pull out all right, No, no, 0:21:11.560 --> 0:21:13.720 no kidding, no's kidding. No, it's just the beginning of 0:21:13.760 --> 0:21:19.560 my film I don't work. I'm tired of the unwanted. 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:24.600 I'm just kidding. Okay, okay, there you like, So when 0:21:24.640 --> 0:21:27.760 you're having sex, pull out of the vagina or the 0:21:27.800 --> 0:21:32.560 booty hole. And when you enter, enter slowly and do keegels. Men, 0:21:33.280 --> 0:21:36.760 do keegeles as you're going back in, because what's gonna 0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:39.400 happen is you're kind of forcing blood flow to your dick, 0:21:39.880 --> 0:21:42.399 and so if you're already hard, it's gonna pulse and 0:21:42.520 --> 0:21:47.680 it's also gonna go up and down. So I like when, yeah, 0:21:47.920 --> 0:21:49.840