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Speaker 1: Welcome back to more to It. The should that takes

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Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment

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Speaker 1: and culture start with headline news and didn't journey to

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Speaker 1: deeper conversations. I always find those life lessons that are

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Speaker 1: presented in every single story of Marcela Swally, Dad dude,

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Speaker 1: and let's chop up some woods starting in the NBA

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Speaker 1: where white men can't jump. I thought, then we see

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Speaker 1: that movie like thirty forty years ago when they're gonna

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Speaker 1: a single or did I miss it? Oh man, come on, Woody,

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Speaker 1: come on man, we're Nino at Come on, Wesley, let's

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Speaker 1: get this going. But a g leaguer who is now

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Speaker 1: a two way player with the seventy six ers saved

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Speaker 1: the dunk contest. Those are the headlines right now. He

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Speaker 1: saved the dunk contests are six foot two white guy.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it, you know, I love

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Speaker 1: it because I love to find some stereotypes. But let's

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Speaker 1: get into it. Mc mcclungs he had to be named Mac.

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Speaker 1: Who's the Mac? He's the motherfuck Mac. Mc McClung man

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Speaker 1: wasn't even in the NBA like a week or two ago.

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Speaker 1: Now that dude won the dunk contest and did it

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Speaker 1: damn near it perfectly, like fifty and then I don't

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Speaker 1: know what uther score fifty, But the point is he

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Speaker 1: executed them on the first trial. He was just out

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Speaker 1: there getting it. And the first thing I thought when

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Speaker 1: I was looking at him, because I heard about him

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Speaker 1: like some high school with reputation, seeing some videos, but

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Speaker 1: you know how it's going to translate to a dunk

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Speaker 1: contest because in the time that he has played limited

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Speaker 1: time obviously G League. I think he was like G

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Speaker 1: League Rookie of the Year with the Lakers. For like

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Speaker 1: nine seconds, it felt like, you know, bouncing around. I

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Speaker 1: was like, I've seen guys with hospital for But then

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Speaker 1: you look at him, you're like a boy, like he

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Speaker 1: got that Gucci mane in him. He geeked up, but

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Speaker 1: he geeked up, and I'm like, you can just see

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Speaker 1: some cats stay fast, twitch muscles on the outside too,

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Speaker 1: Like like he just looked like he geeked up right,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, about to jump out this gym.

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Speaker 1: You see him do its dumps and you're like, you're mazed.

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Speaker 1: But I swear you're more mazed when you see the

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Speaker 1: replay and even more mazed when you see the slow moment.

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Speaker 1: Just dude was doing the most subtle micro movements in

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Speaker 1: the air seen in a long time. It's like, you

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Speaker 1: know what that is? If you play sports, and I

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Speaker 1: don't care what level, If you play sports and get

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Speaker 1: comfortable at that sport, you could be just the old

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Speaker 1: school dude at the YMCA, But you got gag with

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Speaker 1: your head band and your socks pulled up and your

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Speaker 1: chucks right, but you got game. You all of a

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Speaker 1: sudden know how to slow the game down so much

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Speaker 1: that you can manipulate it, do little things, any any things, right.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I was watching. I was like, damn

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Speaker 1: back McClung. He out here feeling comfortable, not only comfortable,

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Speaker 1: but sophisticated with that comfort, Like he is killing it

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Speaker 1: and you can see the reactions by everybody, and it

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Speaker 1: was just crazy. Then obviously you find out, oh the

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Speaker 1: dude has a forty three and a half inch vert jump.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, she's I thought I could jump, and

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Speaker 1: I could jump like back in the days, I did

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Speaker 1: thirty five at the combine. That's above average, but they

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Speaker 1: ain't none number to lead a podcast with. But then

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Speaker 1: I went to my pro day, did thirty nine? Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you how you could cheat that real quick?

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Speaker 1: Little side park. We used to do it where you

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Speaker 1: hold your shoulders down like right, that's full reach, full

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Speaker 1: I really got that, see that, see that subtlety. It's

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Speaker 1: like with the shoulder blade. Blah blah blah. Anyway, Mike Boyle,

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Speaker 1: ended up getting thirty nine and a half all up,

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Speaker 1: forty three and a half. That's seventh best in NBA history.

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Speaker 1: Seventh all the NBA dudes forever, all of them, name

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Speaker 1: them yep, Kobe yep, Jordan yep, t Mac yep, Stacy

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Speaker 1: Outman why because he was Spider Man. I d was long,

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Speaker 1: whoever had hops, Whoever's but whatever. Seventh in history told

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Speaker 1: you that, boy, keep it up. So now the actions,

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Speaker 1: you know, the sociologist in me, I'm just staring. I'm

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Speaker 1: to get like okay, So I'm like, what the hell.

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Speaker 1: you bo, So I'm like, what is going on? But

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Speaker 1: then I was like, is it because he's short, because

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Speaker 1: he's white, or it's just because they're amazed? I was like,

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Speaker 1: from column B, a little bit from columns. Okay, let's

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Speaker 1: get into it. Let dude one of dunk contests in

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Speaker 1: part because the stars ain't doing the dunk contest. Let's

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Speaker 1: just be real about the risk reward relationship of doing

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Speaker 1: the dunk contests. Okay, let's talk about the reward. The

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Speaker 1: reward is you win what kill I guess now, NBA

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Speaker 1: Slam Dunk Championship, And that's a major I think that

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Speaker 1: feels good to guys. Ask Vince Card, ask all the greats.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that feels good. That's a nice trophy in

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Speaker 1: the trophy case at the crib. And what else is

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Speaker 1: a reward? If you get paid one hundred thousand dollars now,

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Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars, Especially for mc mcclumb, he's only

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Speaker 1: made one hundred and six thousand dollars in his career

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Speaker 1: and he just made one hundred thousand dollars in one night,

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Speaker 1: and so that's cool doing four dunks basically, So those

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Speaker 1: are the rewards. Yeah, what else is a reward? I

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Speaker 1: guess everybody just think you got hops. That always feels

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Speaker 1: good to the ego. But what about the risk? Why

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Speaker 1: nobody big time really jumping in there? Why Lebron and

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Speaker 1: Stephen Ay even said, like Lebron, you ruined the dunk contest.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure because basically, yo, ask didn't do it, and

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have done it even I ain't gonna lie,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have done it. Let's talk about those risks

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Speaker 1: one straight up first, foremost, the bars too high. If

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Speaker 1: you're in the same basketball player, Oh, we are not

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Speaker 1: thinking in reality when we see you go out there

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Speaker 1: in the dunk contest. Nowadays, y'all gonna say Jordan did ring,

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Speaker 1: dude ductor Jay did it. Yeah, but we didn't chatter

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Speaker 1: didn't have social media, we didn't have the internet. We

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Speaker 1: didn't gather all that information together. Right, they didn't sneeze

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Speaker 1: and we said bless you on Twitter. Right, that's what

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Speaker 1: we do now. So there's a whole different level of ridicule,

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Speaker 1: like ridicule like dog'll imagine being the man and then

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Speaker 1: get into the dunk context. And for whatever reason, man,

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Speaker 1: it's just an off night. You know, you clank a couple,

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Speaker 1: you even get hung, you by Lebron getting hung. Man,

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Speaker 1: We wouldn't let that dude live it down mean city,

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Speaker 1: mean mean city. So I'm like, I get that part.

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Speaker 1: It's not worth the brand damage. It's just not Now

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Speaker 1: let's talk about what else is a risk. You can

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Speaker 1: but you also could go out there and not do well,

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Speaker 1: Like forget like we're clowning, We're just being real. That

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Speaker 1: wasn't fresh. And some guys are like that, right, you

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Speaker 1: know there's some let's try to give it comparison, some

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like it's just magical micro movements. You can

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Speaker 1: to the point, right, And you look at those guys

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Speaker 1: and you're like, damn, I thought he was frusher than that, right, you.

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Speaker 1: I thought he had more skill than that. Like, no,

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Speaker 1: that's just who I am. A big, fast, strong guy.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it may be. You imagine, you imagine in a

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Speaker 1: skills Challenge, watching like Calvin Johnson's versus Andre Johnson. I

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Speaker 1: think most people say Calvin Johnson, Right, you imagine seeing

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Speaker 1: know what style they are. I don't see Lebron manipulating

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's gonna be all fancy like mc McClung.

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Speaker 1: So with that said, I see why they tap out.

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Speaker 1: But I also see at least I saw from this

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Speaker 1: dunk contest. Well, I'm talking about in sociology, like the

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Speaker 1: stereotype standard was so intriguing. Let's get into the stereotypes,

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Speaker 1: the good and bad. First. It's just you know what

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Speaker 1: a stereotype is. It's a large sentiment grouping of a group, right, basically,

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Speaker 1: y'all this y'all that white man can't jump. And I

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Speaker 1: remember when that movie came out. I was like, damn,

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Speaker 1: imagine if they had a movie called black Man Can't Read,

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Speaker 1: something that they were always running with like comedian still

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Speaker 1: a brother, put it in a book, right, But you

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Speaker 1: imagine they actually had a book a movie called black

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Speaker 1: Man Can't Read. Huh. So I wonder why that's funked up? Right?

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Speaker 1: So I wondered always with that. But the good of

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Speaker 1: stereotypes is through evolution, through history. We had to evolve. Hey,

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Speaker 1: we ain't got time to figure out all y'all, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna group you together, right, and that helped us survive

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Speaker 1: and protected us for many and many of years. Right,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna see the bad side of doing that, right,

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Speaker 1: because you don't get into the individuals, you don't get

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Speaker 1: into the nuance you don't get into the micro. You

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Speaker 1: there's a balance in that with stereotypes. I'm not offended

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Speaker 1: by stereotypes because I know every single stereotype I've ever

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Speaker 1: oh you know what, you know, white men can't jump?

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Speaker 1: It was a few white dudes that couldn't jump. They

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Speaker 1: a few brothers who wasn't reading. They were like, black

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Speaker 1: But let's just do that, right, And he go up there, Oh,

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Speaker 1: weaker than the other when they're driving against each other,

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00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: but the whole like, oh my god, that's so insensitive insistent.

420
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 1: We can't even have jokes no more, like who is

421
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: offended by that? I see the literal translation of this,

422
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: and I think it's okay. I don't think that women

423
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 1: are weaker as a whole. But if you're gonna talk

424
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: about it in golf, and you're gonna talk about driving,

425
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 1: which I think is the only sign of strength in golf,

426
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,360
Speaker 1: like this. I played golf. I've been playing golf since

427
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 1: I was five. There's no other way to say, yo, yo,

428
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: you got some you got some power than driving that

429
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: ball right anyway? People, Okay, so we know from golf

430
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 1: the pranks that exist. Well, if you don't hit the past,

431
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 1: the ladies tees been there before. They tell you pulled

432
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: out your pants and you're supposed to walk. Do they

433
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: still do that anymore? Or is that insensitive? Like I

434
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 1: don't know. I have not done that, which means I

435
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 1: haven't waffle. Didn't shame that got past the ladies, Tess.

436
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: I always get past the ladies seas Now I'm pretty

437
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: good golfer. But people, it's weird because we know it's

438
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: still happening, but as it insistitive, like hazing went through

439
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: this phase where it was insensitive to haze and then

440
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: they just kind of got rid of hazing. They think

441
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 1: people still get hazed. Oh, trust me, pledge any fraternity

442
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: sorority or just go to the locker room. And I'm

443
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: asking what they do on that night for dinner. Oh,

444
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: we're going out with the rookie. That ain't hazing. Oh

445
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: since we'reen putting our hands on them and spray painting

446
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 1: them and putting baby powder and oil on them, that's

447
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: not haze. I wrap, how about of you spray paint me,

448
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 1: putting oil on me in and baby potterer, then maybe

449
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: spend thirty five thousand dollars and some damn rue Chris,

450
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that, But I digress. So it's just weird,

451
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 1: especially with Tiger Woods, like he finds himself in these

452
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: weird like domesticating like attempts like they try to always

453
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: tame the tiger. They always want to. They understand tigers

454
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: in a different world, not just golf, not just professional golf.

455
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: But he's Tiger Woods and professional golf. So a golfer

456
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: lives different than all of y'all and his g six

457
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: and you know, he got his big, huge tour bus

458
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 1: when it's local and he's just oh, man to dude

459
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 1: live different than y'all, And then Tiger is kremle krem

460
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 1: of those golfers, those guys who lived different. So he

461
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: lived different than different, and they try to tame the tiger.

462
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: They try to domesticate a lot of athletes. Remember when

463
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 1: Richard Sherman was like mediocre crabtree and all that. Remember

464
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: that try to domesticate him, man, try to try to

465
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: ped him, try to rub them, so hey, calm that.

466
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 1: Damn Well, if you put a camera and a microphone

467
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: and the lions, then expect to hear and see that

468
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: lion roar loudly. So I was fine, I saw it.

469
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: I saw him zoom in. First of all, y'alls knows

470
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: he has people. He can't even do a handoff anymore

471
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: in the public. Mother, we're just heading off. Sorry, and

472
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: it was a Tampa bo and it was funny. But

473
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:11,439
Speaker 1: if someone feels offended by that, that person better not

474
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: be using tampons. And if they argus the tampons and

475
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 1: still feel offended by that, I'm certain that they're not

476
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: a golfer. So like, who's offended? That knows what this is.

477
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: It's just a joke. Take it. Like Mama and Daddy

478
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,719
Speaker 1: used to always say, shut up, take a joke. Oh,

479
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: let's speak of something that Maybe some are finding the joke,

480
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: but I don't. But we'll see. Is there too much football?

481
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 1: A lot of people are like, oh, man, these leagues

482
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: are a joke, like another league. XFL kicks off a

483
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: third iteration. We just saw that the third time. Now

484
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: the Rockets running it? So whoa the Rocks in the building, right,

485
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: let's talk about it. USFL starts up in April. Man,

486
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: you don't mean leagues. We haven't been through too many

487
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: of the list. But y'all remember the AAFL. Was it

488
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: that double AFL? A flu am coo uh? Two weeks

489
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: into its inaugural season clip UFL lasted four years, USFL

490
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: three d USFL felt like three thousand years. That thing

491
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: felt like it was forever. That was quick World Football

492
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: League did two years. I bringing up this story because

493
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna do this before because I was like,

494
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm not watching those I mean, they're like more of

495
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: wallpaper for me. Like I love watching football on wallpaper.

496
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, I love doing that. So I had it on,

497
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: but I'm not intently watching. I can't lie to y'all um,

498
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: and I'm with him j you know me, and he's

499
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: like he looking at the game and he's into it,

500
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: and he said, m He's like, Daddy, it is this

501
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 1: preseason football. And I was like, oh, no, this is

502
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: a new league. And he was like, oh, well, can

503
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: you turn on preseason football? And I was like, well,

504
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: because he knows NFL and you know, he's teams like, no,

505
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna watch these guys here, all right? He and tripped.

506
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 1: But it made me think, oh, this is interesting because

507
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: the NFL knows better than any other sport in the offseason.

508
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: It's trying to reshuffle the deck, right, every team's imagination,

509
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: every team's fan base, and this imagination trying to reshuffle

510
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: and give it a few more UNO cards, see how

511
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: they feel. Right, Oh, we got a shot this year,

512
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: we got Derek Carr. Baby, we got here. Rogers do trade. Baby,

513
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: you know, dude, you have a shot. Dude, you're not.

514
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. It just seems like an AFC is

515
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: Kansas City and one more team maybe two right SANC

516
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,479
Speaker 1: Buffalo right now, but everybody else Chargers are like, hey man,

517
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: let me get some of that, right Jacksonville, let me

518
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: get some of that, man. And it just seems like

519
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 1: right now, the NFL does it best because the NFL

520
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: is mirroring real life. Like if we put you through,

521
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: as the NFL does, seven months of football, just like

522
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: if you go through some intense workout, you gotta rest

523
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: and recharge and recover too, and it felt allows us

524
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: that time to recover. The crazy thing is all these

525
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: other leagues are trying to plug in when we're trying

526
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: to recharge. They unplugging us. You know what happens with

527
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: your iPhone or you're trying to unplug it when it

528
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: ain't charge. So when you start to get the swipe

529
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: and white, white world is gone. And I think that's

530
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: why happens to a lot of these leagues. They're just

531
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: trying to plug in when you know, unplugged us when

532
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: we're plugging in, we're trying to charge up brou and

533
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: it's interesting to see which one's gonna really pop. Why

534
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: doesn't it work? Simply, you can say, just because we

535
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: need a break that honeydo list that we all got,

536
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: that we all accumulate throughout the entire season. You gotta

537
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: get to it, you gotta tend to it. And it's

538
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 1: an investment being a football fan, like going to games,

539
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: staying at home, but locking down Sundays, locking down Thursdays,

540
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: locking down sad to day is locking down Mondays. I

541
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 1: was gonna get locked up mama, mama, honey in or husband,

542
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: because it's half half the fans of women. They say, boy,

543
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: if your spouse is better, be a fan too. Not

544
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: y'all gonna have some some tumultuous times in those relationships.

545
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: So I'm like, Yo, August to February enough. But I'm

546
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: a fan of other league because I'm a fan of

547
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: a guy, get an opportunity. I'm a fan of another league,

548
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: get an opportunity. I don't want to monopoly, so I

549
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: want to see other guys make it. And it kind

550
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: of ride that way with him, see them climbed. That's fresh.

551
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 1: But man, they've been trying to do this time forever

552
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: NFL and NFL is actually a merged league. As we know.

553
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: You gotta go back to World War Two. NFL's American

554
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: Football Conference in nineteen sixty went head to head with

555
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: the NFL and succeeded right, National Football League and American

556
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: Football League. And now, don't even got it. We got

557
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: two leagues or conferences, I should say, and you got well,

558
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: we call the Super Bowl out of it. So if

559
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: we got the Super Bowl out of two leagues that

560
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: became conferences, why not you know, go get it, especially

561
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: if you got the rock behind you. See what happens,

562
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: make it happen. Speak of somebody who's trying to make

563
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 1: it happen. My man, Eric B, Enemy public B, Enemy

564
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: number one. Oh man, he's on the move Washington commander's

565
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: offensive coordinator and head coach, assistant head coach and gets

566
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: to call plays. Oh I love it, I love it.

567
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: I love it. But boy, this is an interesting story

568
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: right here. This is not on paper a lateral move,

569
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: they say, because it gives them a chance not only

570
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: to call plays, but to get out of Andy Reid's

571
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: shadow and unhitches wagon from Patrick Mahomes, even though you're

572
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: sitting there like, why would you want to do that?

573
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: I know right right that success all the way through.

574
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 1: It's the old Kobe Bryan mantra. What did Kobe say? Famously?

575
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: I want to win, but I want to be the

576
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: reason we win, like I think, like anybody, Eric b

577
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: Enemy included, he wants to be a coach or head

578
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: coach or assistant coach, offensive coordinator, and he wants also

579
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: the ownership that comes from that, right, and he loves winning,

580
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: but he's knowing that he can contribute more. He knows

581
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: he's not the reason fully, and he's on that mission

582
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: to accomplish that. And I'm proud of him. I give

583
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: him a problem for that. But it also highlights a

584
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: lot of other issues, and let's talk through those issues. One,

585
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: why there's so few black head coaches comes to mind, right,

586
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: Let's talk through that experience, and let's generalize. Let's stereo type.

587
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: As we were saying earlier in this show, there are

588
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: more white people than black people. Messages too, the line

589
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: is still longer for white potential head coaches than black

590
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 1: head coaches. All right. Three, the names in that line

591
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: are more recognizable in part because they've been chosen before

592
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: through success or failure. Right, like this allseason you had

593
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: the best black head coach, b Damiko Ryans, let's say it.

594
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: And for the white look at it. For the white category,

595
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: we had Sean Payton and okay, that's lazy though, but

596
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: that's real. Okay, let's go Also, and this is from

597
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: my experience that the black player jumped in the line

598
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: later than the white player. If I had to do

599
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: a sociology test and experiment on what I saw a

600
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: black player say it's a rap playing ball, whether he

601
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: made it pro or not, and said I'm a coach

602
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: versus a white player, and that median aide, right, the

603
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: blacks older, whatever reason. Maybe he thought he could still play,

604
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: maybe he felt he could still play, maybe he was

605
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: still playing. Point being. That's the thing as well. Here's

606
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 1: another layer. It's not always about acumen. It's about that interest. Right,

607
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: It's not just about how good a coach can you be,

608
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: but how interested were you in this and how early

609
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 1: was that? I see that in a lot of professions

610
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: because you start to build up your network, you start

611
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: building up your resources, your favorites, your human capital, right,

612
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: and the longer you're in it, the more you probably

613
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: build up. And it's interesting to see that because we

614
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,439
Speaker 1: saw some comments from Skip Bayliss that says he thinks

615
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: there are fewer black head coaches, few black head coaches

616
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: because owners don't want to socialize with black black coaches.

617
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,919
Speaker 1: That's in part to what I'm saying, but I think

618
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: he took it a step further. I don't want to

619
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: make those grand accusations because I know that in relationship

620
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 1: to any owner, it starts with you being in that building,

621
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,479
Speaker 1: and the earlier you're getting that building in the the longer

622
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 1: year in that building, the better it is for you.

623
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: But everybody enemy has another layer to his situation that

624
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: doesn't always get addressed. But we know exists. What he

625
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: was in Kansas City for five years and they said

626
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: he spent five years under one year deals. Y'all know that.

627
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: Why it gave him the flexibility to take other positions,

628
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: lateral positions, upper positions. They could just get it clean

629
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: breaks from him, right, but also from the chiefs position.

630
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: Why are y'all only given them one year deals? Why

631
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: y'all want to lock him in a lot of it

632
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: is tied to his old indiscretions. A lot of it

633
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: is tied to the things that happened to him. DUI

634
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: suspicion of harassment and assault on the parking lot of

635
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: tendant when he was in Colorado, the red flags, as

636
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: they say. But you remember when the Boston coach was hired,

637
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: they went way back in his past and people were like, yo,

638
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: don't do that, Like who is he now? And now

639
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: he's the full time head coach? Is that fair to

640
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: airy b enemy? Right? I mean, how do you show

641
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: contrition and show that you have obviously not only reconcile

642
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: those ills, but have healed yourself and rehabilitated yourself if

643
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 1: you don't give me a chance. So I don't think

644
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: that's fair to him at all unless there are still

645
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: symptoms and signs of that type of behavior and only

646
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: those in that building would know. But if he signed

647
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: in five individual one year deals, he never tried to

648
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: use the hammer they won a Super Bowl before, No,

649
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I want to know who your agent is.

650
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: You got to swing that hammer when you got it,

651
00:36:56,840 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: and I thought he had it. And then they's another

652
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: layer to it, like, oh, he can't get a head coaches,

653
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: y'all because he hasn't called the plays yet. Y'all know

654
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: Andy calling them plays on top of that belly, putting

655
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 1: that clipboard on that belly, like Yo, we're gonna run him.

656
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: My homes play, what's the play? My homes on three go?

657
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: What's the play? My homes on two go? Like godly,

658
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: pack my home is sick now, man so good. But look,

659
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: let's be real. Nick siriannad Sirianni, who was in the

660
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: Super Bowl, didn't call plays for the coach when the

661
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: Eagles hired him. Bam. Kevin O'Connell didn't call play for

662
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: mcvay's rams Zack Taylor, all right, let's be real. And

663
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: Andy Reid when he was hired what they say back

664
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,919
Speaker 1: in ninety nine, he never called plays before that either.

665
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: Hackey didn't call plays for the Packers when he was

666
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,720
Speaker 1: hired by the Broncos. But I guess he used the interview,

667
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: did he? He used that exit the interview too. They

668
00:37:55,600 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: were like, get out of here. Quick point being it's

669
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: screams of races is involved with this, But races involved

670
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: in this in terms of culture, races involved in this

671
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 1: in terms of application association to those who make the decisions.

672
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 1: Your relationships with him, and it also screams up some

673
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 1: past indiscretions coming back to haunt you or at least

674
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 1: give reservation. It's gonna be interesting to see how he does.

675
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: I hope he balls out. And I always say that

676
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: even about coaches, like y'all go out there and show

677
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: up and show out so he can get this dude,

678
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm just getting tired of the conversation. I want him

679
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,239
Speaker 1: to have an opportunity, so therefore I can see if

680
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: he's successful or he fails, right, because obviously he has

681
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: been a contributor to the ultimate success several times, Like

682
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: the ultimate success and not to me is not just

683
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: winning the super Bowl, but being in the super Bowl.

684
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: And then you've won two of the three that you've

685
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: been in with Patrick Mahomes. Come on, y'all get him

686
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 1: and some love. Speaking of some love, NBA Commissioner Adam

687
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: Silver is given U lord managers th management that whole

688
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 1: catchphrase some love right now. He disagreed with the notion

689
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,919
Speaker 1: that too many players, especially stars, are sitting out games

690
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 1: with injury without injury, I should say, m Adam, trying

691
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: to protect that league. He's like, look, I know these

692
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: fools ain't trying to play every game, And I used

693
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: to try and bark at him. Now just gonna rub

694
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 1: date back right. Let these cats live, man. I think

695
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: he's also come to a census, like yo, the importance

696
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 1: of rest and recovery with all that resistance that come

697
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 1: from playing basketball. I know you get in the basketball

698
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: shape if you play basketball. You got basketball muscles that

699
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 1: are different than football muscles. Every time I played basketball,

700
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: there's a lot of micro fibers in my body that

701
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: just be screaming. I'm like, yo, this shit hurt. It hurts.

702
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, I am sore. Sort. But then again,

703
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 1: I guess if a basketball player played football, he wouldn't

704
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: even say that. He's just being in a hospital like,

705
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: damn hurt more than hurt. Oh man, Now I'm mad

706
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: are the fans that starts miss games. I know y'all

707
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: can say y'all mad, But y'all y'all not acting like

708
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: y'all mad. Because Adam Silver says, I'm looking at the

709
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: numbers in terms of tickets sold, what do you say?

710
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: The league was set a record for tickets sold and

711
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 1: improved television ratings as proof the fans y'all not turned

712
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:31,439
Speaker 1: off by players resting. You know what they say, put

713
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 1: your money where your mouth is. Y'all keep saying, how

714
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: mad y'all are all this low management? Yo, ask me

715
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: at the arena as to be watching it on TV.

716
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 1: If you watching it. I look when I go to

717
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 1: the game and I check the line up, there is

718
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: five seconds of like, yo, gut wrenching, heart dropping boom,

719
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 1: and then I look at the bartender. I'll saying, give

720
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: me a double. Let's go. I'm at a game. I'm

721
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: here to be entertained. I ain't about to sit here

722
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: and pound out my bottom, lip puffed up. I'm like, nah,

723
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: let's go. I admit there's a little hole in the

724
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 1: experience because the baller is out there that you wanted

725
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: to see. But at the same time, if it's my team,

726
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, that's for the greater good. If it's

727
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: not my team that I'm like, Well, I seen the

728
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: dude play before, not live, dumb, not live man, I

729
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: don't know about that. You got to see him live

730
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: versus he has to stay healthy for his team, Like

731
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: I can't pull my interest before his. He's the baller,

732
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,719
Speaker 1: he has the name, he has the game. I'm his fan.

733
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 1: And if he's like, yo, I'm gonna have to down

734
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: shift the gear or two or I'm gonna have to

735
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: shut this thing down, I'll be back. I can't be

736
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: so selfish to jump in front of him and put

737
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: the cart before the horse and say nah, on April thirteenth,

738
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: I demand you play. Be like what oh too, dude, No,

739
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm not playing. So I get that whole rest recovery

740
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:00,959
Speaker 1: relationship between that and resistance. But Adam Silvert even further, saying,

741
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: there's medical data to support the current practice of low

742
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: management all right, Now, whether you agree or disagree with them,

743
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: there's some data to support it, right, And I've known this.

744
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: I think it was ten years or so, maybe even longer.

745
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: Hang with some NBA dudes. I'm gonna leave him alone

746
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: because they were puffing big before the game. And I

747
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 1: know it's okay or it's legal in California and stuff,

748
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: but before a game fans don't like to hear that.

749
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,760
Speaker 1: So I ain't gonna say their names. I protect the guilty.

750
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: But they were blazing, and I was I think we

751
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: were in their room lobby, like a little concierge room,

752
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: and they were just talking about like man, anybody trying

753
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: to play all these games. They took notice and witness

754
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: to like number one seeds losing. That's what it was.

755
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: The conversation started with, like, man, it's Caffey busting their

756
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 1: butt trying to be the number one seed, wins sixty

757
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: eight games, setting the games whatever, getting there and lose

758
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: second round or something, sometimes first round, right, And then

759
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: they were like, man, just get in the dance, you know,

760
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 1: getting yourself a chance to get in the dance, Like

761
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: be a top four seed. They I remember them saying,

762
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: be a top four seede, you got a home court

763
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: advantage as long as you can. But dying about to

764
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 1: die for no damn number one seed don't matter. And

765
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 1: that was ten plus years ago. And then Kauai became

766
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: the poster child for low management. But the point is

767
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: these can't start doing calculations like what's the point and

768
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: be real. Human beings are wired to do the least

769
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: but get the most, Like that's how we're wired. That's

770
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 1: why discipline, that's why the determination desied. That's why you

771
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: gotta talk that up. That's why you gotta motivate yourself.

772
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 1: You would have to motivate yourself if you were wired

773
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: that way. You just do it right. Throw some food

774
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: and watch the dog he wired to go get it right,

775
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: Throw some food out of human he looking like, first

776
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: of all, why you throwing? Then't gonna be like, well

777
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: I do to do it? Well, I gotta do to

778
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: get it, you know what I mean? Like we're wired

779
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: to just we're rock wallers, you know, we're not little poodles.

780
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: As a human being a species with rocks. We sit

781
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: back and wait what you want, what you're doing? Then

782
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: I come attack, eat your ass up right. So the

783
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: point is, I'm looking at this Adam Silver's nailing it now.

784
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: But it was through a lot of his own doing

785
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: and his resistance to the fact that the players are

786
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: just saying, hey, man, let us live, let us be us,

787
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,799
Speaker 1: let us take care of our bodies. But these players, now,

788
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 1: they got the memo from the dudes who were blazing

789
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: and puffing ten fifteen years ago, came that ship down. Dog,

790
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: just get in there, give yourself a chance. Stay healthy

791
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: when it matters most, because you know, if you're healthy

792
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 1: in the playoffs and you're on the role playoff time,

793
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: that's when you make the magic. That's when you get

794
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: those rings. No other time. As much as we think

795
00:44:55,960 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: it's oh it's January twenty seven, Oh, big matchup against

796
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: the number one seed a team right now, it's not.

797
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 1: It's when these guys are feeling their best and got

798
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 1: their proper rest when it matters most. Let's keep talking

799
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: about the body and the body in this situation. This

800
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: is Buster Rhymes's ass. Yep. I've been telling y'all for

801
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: a long time about these women out there who flirting

802
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 1: that do too much and don't get called out. Well,

803
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: one woman got caught. She tried to touch or she

804
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 1: did touch Buster Rhymes his ass, and guess what happened

805
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: to her? Wow, through a drink at her tables have

806
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 1: turned the rabbit got the gun down right. And I've

807
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: been saying this for a long time, and finally it

808
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: became headline news that there is no cockier individual on

809
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 1: this planet than a woman flirting. She is arrogant as

810
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,479
Speaker 1: they get to on entitlement. Oh, I know you're gonna

811
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: accept my flirt. Why because I'm a woman and it

812
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: happened to me a thousand times. It's happened to a

813
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: lot of dudes, I know, a thousand times. And we've

814
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: been so conditioned and socialized not to say anything. You

815
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: know that we don't say anything but buster robins. He

816
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 1: didn't say anything either. Maybe he said better anybody way,

817
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: what but that sucking turnaround with them water bottle or

818
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: whatever he threw whatever he launched liquidly twur ass up.

819
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: Good for him, Good for him? Why because we got

820
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: to talk about this. Man, I get where women get it,

821
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: the entitlement from in terms of leg them flirting them

822
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 1: when they want you, Oh you better want them back

823
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: or else. It's because they're the recipient of so many

824
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: trillions of flirts and max and trying to holly us

825
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,439
Speaker 1: from whenever they're at an age where they're cute enough

826
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: or can get away from daddy long enough, you know,

827
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,439
Speaker 1: like they can't go to the grocery store. A little

828
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: cute girl the grocery store, a little cute dude at

829
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 1: the growth store, or even the ugly little dusty booker

830
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: boy the grocery store. He see a cute girl about what?

831
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: Thirteen fourteen? He owner, He macking, he hollering. And it's

832
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: crazy because when you get older, you're just you're as

833
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: a man, you always thinking I'm on offense right in

834
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,359
Speaker 1: this game of life men, we're on offense. Women, y'all

835
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: on defense, right, kind of protect his house women throwing

836
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: decks right, and make sure that no man gets in there.

837
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 1: That's why I tell my daughters all the time. Oh

838
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,320
Speaker 1: and I'm a young well actually I say it, but

839
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: under my breath they don't get it because she's gonna

840
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: be four and two. But I'm like, yo, you gotta

841
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: keep your eyes open and your legs closed. Right, that's

842
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: what you teach your daughters. Eyes open, lags close, brck right,

843
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: that's what they run on defense. On offense, you we're

844
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: running the ball straight up the middle, three yards in

845
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 1: the cloud of dust and hope. Men, holler, and I

846
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,240
Speaker 1: guess when the tables are turned, when they get an interception,

847
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:54,919
Speaker 1: when they get a oscar, when they get the ball.

848
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: Oh man, they're only allow to act. They do not

849
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: know how to act. It's crazy. It's crazy for real, Like,

850
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: let me tell her, don't got my buck grab and

851
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 1: holiday and I'm just sitting there like it's almost like

852
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: the Terry Crews moment. You know how Terry Crews got

853
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: ridiculed for saying that a man grabbed this stuff and

854
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: like he didn't beat him up and he kind of

855
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: felt what to do, like he was awkward and know

856
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: what to do in that moment, and you know he

857
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: felt assaulted, like I hear where he's coming from. And

858
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: when when when women grab you and you're like yo,

859
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: especially an ugly woman or especially somebody you just ain't

860
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: trying to haul at. Now she find and you was

861
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: trying to spit before, or you were thinking about it,

862
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 1: and she beat you to the punch. Oh here you go,

863
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: my bad? Right? Did you do that? But for somebody

864
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: you ain't trying to spit back at, You're like, yo, chill,

865
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: But then how far can you go in telling her

866
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: to chill? Because it's embarrassing to be like, nah, I

867
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: won't you And it's weird, like she almost feels like

868
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: she flexing on you a superiority if you like bitch

869
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 1: iu and say something like I went, don't flip this,

870
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: I'd rather get the gun and pointed at me like

871
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,240
Speaker 1: if you don't want what I got, then you the fool.

872
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: All right, I'm a fool. There, thank the first I've

873
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: been a fool, and then it ain't gonna be the last.

874
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: But guess what, you ain't gonna change my mind. I'm

875
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: a fool today. I don't want you. And this is

876
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: not a successful man conversation. It's just a man around

877
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 1: a gang of Lomon women conversation. Any dude around women

878
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: for a long enough time gonna get holiday. I was

879
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 1: at my boy birthday party a few weeks ago. I

880
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 1: came back at it till the wife, this one, I

881
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: was like, and she was like, how well the party?

882
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: I was like, man, the mounties be hollering, because you

883
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: know I'm in that age, right, I'm forty eight, but

884
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: I look forty seven, you know what I mean? Stupid Now,

885
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: I know, I ain't even got to ask. I know

886
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: I look younger than forty eight, but I don't look

887
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,439
Speaker 1: twenty eight. Now. I don't look thirty eight. I don't

888
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,919
Speaker 1: think either, not with the belly out. But I'm there,

889
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: and man, you know, you get in the mid forties

890
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: and late forties, early fifties, some of them still looking

891
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: like fresh as hell, like I remember from high school

892
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: because it was my boyfriend elementary school. Someone looked the same,

893
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: just older, like I looked the same, but older. But

894
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,959
Speaker 1: some of them don't. But the point is it didn't matter.

895
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: One of them just was spitting. She was pretty. She

896
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: has short hair and all that. She's cute. You know

897
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: she she going back eighties nineties Jada Pinkett looking. I

898
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you cute, And in my head I

899
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: had to say because I knew she came in hot.

900
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 1: She came in hot, hot, and I'm nice, I'm buying

901
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 1: drained something. I'm getting us what we do. It's my

902
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: boy birthday. She came in hot, y'all. She came in hot.

903
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: And then it became awkward because you know, it's awkward

904
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: when other girls come to you, and y'all ain't slick either,

905
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 1: but they come to you like, well, she doing too much?

906
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: Oh she doing three much? Oh she need to slow down, right,

907
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: but slow down for us so you can speed up, yo,

908
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: tire like you ain't come to save me. And it

909
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: just laughing. I'll let these unties in here choosing, and

910
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm the choice. It was so funny.

911
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't on anyone though. All our boys were laughing

912
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: at that, but the point being got a little testy

913
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: in there, like yo, chill, like I can't go up

914
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 1: to no girl and just be like, yo, you know

915
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We're in there doing too much. I'm like, girl,

916
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: if you don't stop playing um And finally they get

917
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: the message and then they get get the hint or

918
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: the direct order had to break that down and then

919
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: it's like the world has collided with like their world,

920
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: like oh huh, what are you just doing? Then they

921
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: get me, they get me, but I ain't gonna lie.

922
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 1: I've seen it happen with dudes, my boys. They go

923
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: holl as some girl. She ain't trying to hold back. Man,

924
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: fuck you did, like, oh god, it's one number one girl.

925
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 1: Why you tripping? There's seven billion people in this world

926
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: and they're more women than men. But four billion you

927
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: lost one and four billion chance. Sorry, it's time to

928
00:51:56,560 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: go reload and shoot again. Damn it right. So I

929
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: tripped out on that. But Buster he didn't even go

930
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: through that negotiation. He's lawrencet and good for him. And

931
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: it's funny I bring up this story. In high school

932
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: at Westchester, we had this group called Tribe Beta. I

933
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: wasn't in a game, y'all know me. Later I became

934
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: a part of f a y fuck all, y'all, But

935
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: before that, I was in Tried Beta, and y'all know

936
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: where Fay is if y'all don't know, y'all gotta listen

937
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: to me more. But Fay was like, fuck all, y'all,

938
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: all the people doing bad around us, all the people

939
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: gang banging, all the people selling drugs. FA y were

940
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: the nerds, were the cool kids. We're the ones that's

941
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 1: gonna be rock stars when we grow up. Fa yu all,

942
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: y'all still got the chains. I got a diamond pended

943
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: and chained. That says f A y on there. That's

944
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: how nerdya I am. But um I remember in a

945
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 1: west Chester I was in Triy Beta, and I think

946
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: not only was I in tried Beta, I was the

947
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: leader of Trib Beta, asked Mike Smith, my boy. But

948
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: point being Trib Beta was this group of guys. We

949
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: were really just trying to get our courage up to

950
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 1: mac two girls. But we did it in some weird

951
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: adolescent ways. Let me tell you what we need to do.

952
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,800
Speaker 1: You remember to dance the freak. Everybody's to go to

953
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,760
Speaker 1: the oh man, I'm dating myself first of all. Everybody

954
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 1: why we used to wave when we go down? Like like,

955
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,280
Speaker 1: everybody's to do the freak? Like you go to the party. Literally,

956
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: there's a girl in front of you, and before you

957
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: dance with her, like real close, you know, slow dass

958
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 1: grabbed the hips. Y'all both doing the freak, and you

959
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 1: used to put your hands in front of you because

960
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: it was like the g rated freak. Then you get

961
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 1: older and you gotta like fit into each other and

962
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: get into the pressile, you know what I mean. Y'all

963
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: both get into the twister and then y'all doing the freak.

964
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: So y'all, I'm this angle, cheat, this angle. We're freaking, right,

965
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 1: We're freaking. And then we took that too far, like

966
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 1: tried Beta. Our job was to walk around and do

967
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: the freak to any girl. We started with our friends.

968
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 1: Then it became to we would just do it to associates,

969
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: and then it became like, yo, we were just walking

970
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 1: up to any girl and just doing the freak. Now everybody.

971
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: All the girls didn't want to dance, and I remember

972
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: getting called in the principal office. I swear I didn't

973
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 1: think anything was wrong because I'm like, yo, you chap

974
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,360
Speaker 1: raw damn dash, what's the thing we're doing the freight?

975
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: And they were like, Marcelis, you're not doing this. But

976
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: it could be perceived as harassment. And assault, like those

977
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: are big words, right, So let's just say tried beta

978
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: ended that day. But the point is we used to

979
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: just go up, oh, what's up? And then I ain't

980
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: a lie. Half the girls with what's up? Boy? You

981
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: don't know a freak like and we're just clowning. But

982
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: the tables have turned. I couldn't imagine if I was

983
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: in high school walking around west Chester some girl walked

984
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 1: up to me and start freaking over me. I'm like, well, girl,

985
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? And then she get mad at me. Oh,

986
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: I feel for you. Women. I know y'all go through

987
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 1: this all the damn time. Oh, let's speak of something

988
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: that I am going through all the time now, but

989
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 1: I didn't before fatherhood. Yes, my daughter, my oldest, is

990
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: turning twenty four this week, Mom, momk DJ monkey Monk Morocca.

991
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 1: I love that girl so much, Oh my god. And

992
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: I always cry around her because she knows how much

993
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:10,320
Speaker 1: I love her and how much I wasn't able to

994
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: show her my love. I get to a lot of

995
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 1: discussions now with parents that are divorced, parents that are

996
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: co parenting, parents that are outside the house. It's strange relationships,

997
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: you know, bad relationships with parents and their kids, distant relationships.

998
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: And I always remind them all, no matter what the

999
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 1: relationship is with your kids, that if you're not there,

1000
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: you're not there. It's as simple as that. I know

1001
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,720
Speaker 1: you got parental guilt. You're trying to make yourself feel

1002
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: better and say, oh no, I'm always no, you're not.

1003
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: You know why. You know how I know because I wasn't.

1004
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm such a devoted father now in part because I

1005
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: went through a baby mama situation. Morocco was born nineteen

1006
00:55:54,800 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: ninety nine, and she moved around and me and my

1007
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: mother broke up, was broken up all that time. You

1008
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: imagine that, and I had visitation. You know, I've told

1009
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 1: you guys about court at the court, at the court.

1010
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:15,439
Speaker 1: But the point is I knew I was missing out

1011
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 1: on so much, and I wasn't the one I try

1012
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: to hear from everybody, Oh it's okay, she still loves you.

1013
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 1: I didn't buy into the whole parental guilt. So when

1014
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: I saw her, I just took her straight to toys

1015
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: r us. Nope. I was a real father in those

1016
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: two days, one week, one month, whatever it was. I

1017
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:37,359
Speaker 1: had her for a year one time, like almost a year.

1018
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,320
Speaker 1: I was a real father, but I knew I was

1019
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: missing out on real moments. Ah, And I knew it

1020
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: all that damn time. And then I got married and

1021
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: then we had MJ in two and fifteen, and it

1022
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: hit me like a stack and a sack of bricks.

1023
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: It hit me because I realized how much I really

1024
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: missed not being there every single day in every single

1025
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 1: way from a rocker. It hurt because I mean, you

1026
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: go from hospital the bath to home and sleep and

1027
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: waking you up at night, the training camp, a parenting right,

1028
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: and those are so precious. Those moments, Oh they're hell,

1029
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: but they're precious worth the price. Just like training camp,

1030
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: it's hell, but it's worth it. Oh you're gonna ball

1031
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 1: if you go do it right, You're gonna be a

1032
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 1: good player. And I know I was a good dad

1033
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: from hello with m J. And I was like, I

1034
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: got robbed of that because I wasn't in the nuclear

1035
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: family setting. I wasn't with my baby mama. I wasn't

1036
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: there for my darter. And they say, the most everlasting

1037
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: emotion you can have, the most everlasting, devastating emotion you

1038
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: can have is shame, And I agree with that. Because

1039
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: when you're ashamed, you always think of it. I swear

1040
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: every time around with Morocca, every time, I'm always thinking, damn,

1041
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 1: I don't have the fullness of this relationship. And she

1042
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: always passed me on the backs, me on the head,

1043
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: and digs in my pants from my wallet. She always says, Daddy,

1044
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: it's okay, and that lets me know it's not, because

1045
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: it takes her to do that for me to realize that,

1046
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: and it still doesn't seek in. I don't soak it in.

1047
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't internalize that. I don't believe her. I think

1048
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 1: she's just trying to move forward, but damn, how much

1049
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: did I miss going back? And I'm only saying all

1050
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: this because I'm so proud of her. Columbia grass student

1051
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: Yukon graduate really wants to hit the world, really leaning

1052
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:51,400
Speaker 1: towards a NIO space and marketing as an executive. But

1053
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: I don't care what she does. I know she's gonna

1054
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: apply herself and I know she wants it. I know

1055
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: she's gonna go get it, and it's here. She's still

1056
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: hardwired like I am in a lot of ways. She

1057
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: real chill now y'all know the chill version me. But

1058
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: I got a chill version. I got a this version.

1059
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: But she's so comfortable in her own skin. My prayers

1060
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 1: were answered. She's a kindhearted, suite, well rounded. Oh my god.

1061
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 1: She ain't no skank chef boyfriend. She ain't in them screeks.

1062
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: She do hang a little bit, but not much. She

1063
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 1: ain't a thought like. She ain't on Paul like she

1064
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: really like, that's my daughter. And it's weird. Like even

1065
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: when you feel like the lifeline is being stressed, right,

1066
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: it's being pulled. It may snap, it's too far, it's

1067
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: too distant. You passed it on. Those few words meant

1068
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: so much, you know, those few experiences meant so much.

1069
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: And I was there all the time, but it was

1070
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 1: just hell. It was just a boulder to pick up,

1071
00:59:57,560 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: just to do the simplest things. And I hated it.

1072
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 1: And I know a lot of you guys are going

1073
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: through that experience. My only words of wisdom is, there

1074
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: are a million decisions to make every single day with

1075
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:13,919
Speaker 1: every single kid, Trust me, millions, mom and mom and daddy, daddy.

1076
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: Like it's six in the morning, you already heard your

1077
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: name thirty seven times. Try your best to keep account,

1078
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 1: try your best to make sure as many of those moments,

1079
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:30,439
Speaker 1: you're right there present, not just physically but emotionally present. Huh,

1080
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 1: love you, monk Mark, Happy birthday, Happy birthday. You're getting

1081
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: what I gave you last year, nothing but a good life. Damn.

1082
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: Oh man, she's about to graduation. She's expensive. I love

1083
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 1: her though, I love her to death. Oh, let's talk

1084
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 1: about another relationship. I don't know if Aoster Rivers loves

1085
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: this girl to death, but he putting up with her

1086
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: right now because she rather him stay home with him

1087
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: instead of go out and practice in ball. Y'all saw

1088
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 1: this on Ig and all stories. Austin Rivers he come

1089
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: home or get from a road trip, he want to

1090
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: go get some running with his teammates, and you can

1091
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: hear her in the background. Why I gotta go? You

1092
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 1: want when you went up shooting in the gym, That's

1093
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: what he should have said. Shit, um nah, But this

1094
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: is a funny story. This is actually real in terms

1095
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: of like it relates to a lot of athletes in

1096
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 1: different ways. Not just your girlfriend nagging that time or

1097
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: just miss you whatever. It's how family and friends. Because

1098
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 1: you're playing a game. You're a grown man playing the

1099
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: child's game. They forget that show job. They forget that

1100
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 1: show work, they forget that show grind. They forget and

1101
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: you gotta remind ass. And it's awkward to remind them

1102
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 1: because even you know, like your worst job to have, right,

1103
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: But at the same time you're like, yo, I gotta

1104
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 1: put it in this work. And they're sitting there like, okay, whatever,

1105
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 1: But they want all the perks, they want all the

1106
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: shote that come from that Pro Bowl and the loll stars,

1107
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 1: but they all want your ass grinding like that when

1108
01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: when when they're shooting in the gym uh text me

1109
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 1: back to one of my family, and boy, I needed

1110
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 1: a better assistant at this time. My family, my San

1111
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 1: Diego Charger games, especially Lord, who was our games one

1112
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 1: o'clock kick off. They will come down by nine in

1113
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: the morning. They deep barbecuing, cooking and drinking. I gotta

1114
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: go to work, y'all. Like to me, it was disrespectful,

1115
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 1: but not without malice. So I didn't trip, but I

1116
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:45,439
Speaker 1: was like, damn, I gotta tell thirty seven people. Can't

1117
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 1: you wait to after the game? Can't you wait to

1118
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 1: see if we win? Can't you wait to see if

1119
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 1: I get a sack? So I can make sure, I

1120
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: keep paying for this big ass crib, like you stop playing.

1121
01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 1: Hell no, they all they got is ay vodka, conchocate.

1122
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: My mama did. She graduated from con chunky chill, little money,

1123
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: um bottom bottom bottom bottom liquor, ian Jay, dranking, just

1124
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:15,080
Speaker 1: seagrums and shrinking good stuff. And I'm like, they out

1125
01:03:15,120 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: here partying, go to the game. Lit. Mama got the

1126
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: jersey on. Everybody got the jersey on. That mama, that sister,

1127
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 1: that uncle, that niece. But dazzled and then I played

1128
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: half the time, heard if not more because you know me,

1129
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm injury from shots, needles, blah blah blah, get a sack,

1130
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: don't get a sack whatever. See him in the parking lot.

1131
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: They let they zone and they had the best time

1132
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:42,640
Speaker 1: of their life. Meanwhile, my pinky look like that, my

1133
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 1: middle finger look like that us and they're like, damn,

1134
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: it's all nice to be off. Oh man. But boys

1135
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: who stayed with me, my boys who knew me, My

1136
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: boys who would just come in town, so what's up?

1137
01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: Later they would ask how you feeling? But that was

1138
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 1: like that you know that old rhetorical how you feeling?

1139
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 1: Because it's really like, so where we're going and they

1140
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 1: knew me. I love them, screeched, So I was going,

1141
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 1: I'm limping in the club with my table, isn't it

1142
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 1: at my table at home? Back in the day? That

1143
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: used say didn't work back then? Um Man, I was eagnorant,

1144
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: so I used to be there and just chilling. I

1145
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: was just like, do I gotta force a focus? Do

1146
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: I gotta fake a focus? Because y'all all up in

1147
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: my grill? But it was fun to be around those

1148
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: you loved, and all they did was just show you

1149
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 1: how far you came, right. They really just was celebrating. Hey,

1150
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: I don't know your experience to the fullest, and that's

1151
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 1: one of the hiccups in it. They don't know what

1152
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 1: it takes to get to where you got just be

1153
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: real with it and doing what I did. Curse my

1154
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: with a smile like I was all good with it.

1155
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: But boy, they were tripping. Speaking of tripping, Oh, let's

1156
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: talk about this crazy Eagles fan who was looking for

1157
01:04:57,720 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 1: a chief after the Super Bowl broke it to a

1158
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: firehouse and threw a meat cleaver and firefighters after the

1159
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 1: Super Bowl loss. Bro people, stupid people, dumb people, ignorant.

1160
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: And then there's this dude, like, I love fans because

1161
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: it's obviously short for fanatical, and y'all drive the interests.

1162
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 1: It's fun being a fan. I'm a fan of the

1163
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 1: Chargers because I get to see him and go to

1164
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: the games. I'm a season ticket older. It's fun. I

1165
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 1: get lit, I'll be hydrating, I'll be chilling, I'll be yelling,

1166
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: running side to side when we score. I really feel

1167
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: it like a fan. I ain't thrown the meat cleaver

1168
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 1: when we lose to the Chiefs because if so, I

1169
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 1: would be throwing a lot of meat cleaver. We'd be

1170
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: losing to the Chiefs. Boy, it could be thirty eighth

1171
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,840
Speaker 1: to zero. I'll be like, all right, give me another one,

1172
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 1: like you ain't going home beat the traffic. Hell, no

1173
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: Chiefs coming back. We gotta get right against them. But

1174
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 1: the point is, psycho fans, slow down. I haven't experienced

1175
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: any psycho fans to the negative like that. It was

1176
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: one lady should always try to kiss me, and it's

1177
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 1: it was for the lists. I was like, whoa, that's

1178
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: when I'm old up. Hit her with that naked off

1179
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 1: old up um. Then she hit me on the cheek

1180
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'd have made her day. So

1181
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 1: I said, let her kiss me, like on the cheek,

1182
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 1: ear like right here, that little soft but that party

1183
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: you rub with your your jaw hurt. She hit me

1184
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: right there like old lady, Keep kissing me. But it

1185
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: made her day. So I ain't tripped. Um. In college,

1186
01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:25,640
Speaker 1: it was a girl who liked me. She was real

1187
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 1: pretty though, so I ain't mine a little Puerto Rican girl. Um,

1188
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 1: hell man, boy, it was fun going to college New York. Oh,

1189
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 1: you know you In La we had Mexicans, then you

1190
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 1: get the New York got Dominicans and Puerto Ricans, and

1191
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 1: I was like, god, dang, I never not on Puerto

1192
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: Rican in La. None nineteen out of two where that

1193
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 1: boy I got out there? Long story short, I bawled

1194
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: out of control. This girl showed up one time. Pretty

1195
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: girl hopefully showed up to my dorm room, knocked on

1196
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: the door. That on the black trench coat. I've seen movies.

1197
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: I think boomerang was out by the inn. Yeah, I

1198
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: knew what that was. Wait a minute, opened up the

1199
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 1: trench coat. All she had on was number five on

1200
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 1: her flesh jersey. That's right, her jersey was her flesh

1201
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 1: number five, all right out man, I'm going pro. We

1202
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:21,000
Speaker 1: made but I told her to go home and gave

1203
01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 1: her some girl Scott cookies and render some scriptures. So then, um,

1204
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:30,000
Speaker 1: the only other crazy story I got is stupid. Um. Yeah,

1205
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 1: I threw a big party in San Diego. Everybody knew

1206
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:38,360
Speaker 1: about this party. This party was stupid, silly, and this dude, well,

1207
01:07:38,400 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 1: I say, dude, it could have been a girl. But

1208
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 1: I swear it was a dude because somebody told me

1209
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: that actually was. And I know actually, but I keep

1210
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: forgetting just kicking in my head Trump and kicking in

1211
01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 1: but um, he slashed my tires at the party I

1212
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 1: was hosted at my house. I had everybody shut her up.

1213
01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: So you had a part down where in the hell

1214
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: They had them park some canyon then they shuttled you up.

1215
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: But I had so many cars and so many vps

1216
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:10,600
Speaker 1: Key Shans and Curtis Conways on these cats Rodney Harrison

1217
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:14,040
Speaker 1: that they wanted to drive and parking my driveway, and

1218
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, that's real because they are the

1219
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 1: VP's dudes I looked up to and they had them whips.

1220
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 1: I'm big boys, So I was like yeah, and I

1221
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:25,920
Speaker 1: put my excursion down there y'all like, damn, that's a

1222
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:27,680
Speaker 1: big boy too, that's a bigger than theirs, right, but

1223
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: didn't cost as much. So I was like, all right,

1224
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:33,839
Speaker 1: I put this cursion down here. Man, they flattened my tires.

1225
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 1: I say, you hate mother oh motherfuckers. Oh. I got

1226
01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 1: Samuel Jackson up in that party, I remember, and grinding

1227
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: was out. All I remember is being the hottest I've

1228
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: ever been, lit out of my mind and playing grinding

1229
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 1: twenty seven times in a row. Boom boom boom, Play

1230
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 1: it again, Dot, play it again. Because I was mad.

1231
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: See I'm not a fighter. Out finished something, but I

1232
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 1: ain't gonna start nothing. And since I didn't know who

1233
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 1: to take it out on exactly at that time, I

1234
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: was like, I just had all that frustration in me,

1235
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: So I took it out on that music and everybody listening,

1236
01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:14,679
Speaker 1: and nobody could turn it off because it was my party,

1237
01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 1: my flat tire having an ass. Oh man, let's talk,

1238
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:22,640
Speaker 1: let's talk, let's talk. Okay. I saw this story that

1239
01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 1: I want to get to it. Um. Chris Brown name

1240
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: drops white celebrities who have been accused of domestic violence.

1241
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 1: He obviously had his incident with Rihanna two thousand and nine,

1242
01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:38,760
Speaker 1: So he's still living through the torture of that is

1243
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 1: certainly in headline, certainly in conversation. I'm sure there's not

1244
01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 1: a Chris Brown post that doesn't have somebody saying something

1245
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: about Rihanna and that incident that night. Right, Yeah, it's haunting.

1246
01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: So he points out because he got a song coming out,

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01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 1: His song is coming out with is it Chloe Bailey

1248
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: is everything? Yeah, Chloe Bailey and the song's coming out.

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01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: She getting attacked woman doing a song with him, and

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01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, you're doing a song with that woman

1251
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: beating blah blah blah. Right, So he points out Ozzie Osbourne,

1252
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 1: Charlie Sheen, and Mel Gibson entertainers, white entertainers. It's kind

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01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: of weaponized race who have been accused of being violent

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01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: with women. Where the headlines that he basically saying. Osbourne

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01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 1: publicly admitted to choking his wife Sharon Osborne, so she

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01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:30,759
Speaker 1: got a name. Charlie Sheen played guilty the misdemeanor software

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01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: incident involving his ex wife in two thousand and nine.

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01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't know who that is, and Mel gets them

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01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:37,080
Speaker 1: played no contest to batter against his ex in two

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01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 1: thousand and eleven. I don't know who that is one

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01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:45,679
Speaker 1: of them we know, So why is Chris Brown still

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01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: in the news for Rihanna and these others aren't in

1263
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 1: the same in terms of scrutiny, terms of headline news

1264
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 1: with their indiscretion? Is it racial? All right? Let's talk Well,

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01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 1: I do know one thing. Let's start off with this.

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01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,360
Speaker 1: Criticism is the cost of praise. That's what why leads

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01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 1: them for you, right, Criticism is the cost to praise.

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01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: You get praised the game, You're gonna get criticized the game.

1269
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 1: You get criticized a lot, probably because they're praising you

1270
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: a lot. Right, Lebron James comes to mind? What is

1271
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: Lebron James? Every done? Wrong? For real? Nothing? Not I know,

1272
01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: but like wrong for real? I ain't talk about you've

1273
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 1: got a difference of opinion or you're talking about all

1274
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: that other stuff I'll talk about, like illegal, like what

1275
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:35,920
Speaker 1: don't somebody asks nothing right? But he gets praised a lot,

1276
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 1: gets criticized a lot. Chris Brown. First level of response

1277
01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 1: to this is you get praised more than those other

1278
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:46,679
Speaker 1: three names, I would say, And let's be real, Charlie

1279
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 1: Sheena mel gives them to cost them hell for other

1280
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:54,320
Speaker 1: reasons too, and all y'all born just maybe by prisona

1281
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 1: is just so random and wild and crazy that they

1282
01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 1: just let some of that slide kind of like got

1283
01:11:58,920 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 1: mars Shawn Linz could do what ever, because Marshawn Lynch,

1284
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: they just perceived you as that like just this wide

1285
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 1: open brand. Or Dennis Robin is probably a better example

1286
01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:11,439
Speaker 1: of that. That's Dennis. You know, that's aussy. They're gonna

1287
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 1: say that's Chris. They come in at your head man,

1288
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 1: because you get praised a lot. You still top of

1289
01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: the game, you're still like killing it. You're at Michael

1290
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 1: Jackson conversation and dog. So you get praised, you're gonna

1291
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 1: get criticized. But that intense limelight comes that intense scrutiny basically.

1292
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: But there's more to it than that, right pun intended.

1293
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: You didn't hit an X, You didn't hit an X,

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01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: you didn't hit even Sharon Osbourne. You had Rihanna and

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01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,439
Speaker 1: you hit Rihanna. And it played out a real time

1296
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:47,760
Speaker 1: like I swear you know how old Jay when the

1297
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: Bronco chase and it just played out in real time

1298
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 1: like we got beat by beat by beat of all

1299
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 1: of it, which got us all invested in it. Unfortunately,

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01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: that's what happened with you and Rihanna, you know, because

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01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 1: we saw the images. We saw where the car was

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01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: and where it happened. I remember seeing that like the

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01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 1: night of them the car, empty cards, just right there,

1304
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:10,760
Speaker 1: just where they had to fight. Really, that's what we're doing, huh.

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01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:13,639
Speaker 1: All right? Then we saw the images of her god Lee,

1306
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 1: and then y'all both still on top. She's just done

1307
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: the super Bowl and you still doing whatever. But it's

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01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 1: big and it's major. That ain't the same as Charlie

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01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: Sheen's X, mel Gibson's X, or even Sharon Osbourne. That's Rihanna.

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01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 1: Y'all stand on their own. So it's tough. But what

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01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:37,600
Speaker 1: is the racial component? I'm picking my brain forward, and

1312
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 1: I think it's just because it plays into a stereotype

1313
01:13:41,640 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 1: young black male violent, right, young black male violent? Oh,

1314
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:50,799
Speaker 1: trust me, the wheels are properly greased for the media

1315
01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 1: to run with that. Pass that one on them and

1316
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 1: let that one fly, let that one roll. If you're

1317
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 1: Chris Brown, can't play into their hands. Whatever society at

1318
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 1: large thinks of you. They're all old incidents. Sharon Osborne

1319
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:10,839
Speaker 1: and Ozzie that's to nineteen eighty nine, Public Enemy nineteen

1320
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: eighty nine, Gibson and and Charlie sheen Is two thousand nine,

1321
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 1: two eleven, Chris Brown's two thousand and nine All on incidents, right,

1322
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 1: But Chris Brown seems more haunted by it, at least

1323
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:27,679
Speaker 1: in headline. Why. I think simply for all the reasons

1324
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: I said, you played into a stereotype, you obviously did it.

1325
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 1: You're still on top. And criticisms to cost to praise.

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01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: Oh man, let's talk about somebody we should praise. Did

1327
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:46,679
Speaker 1: y'all see this little dude studying at a basketball game.

1328
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 1: I saw it doing work at a rival game. I

1329
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: saw his name is Jalen Wiggins four point three GPA.

1330
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 1: How y'all get these fakes as GPAs we're having a

1331
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:57,679
Speaker 1: four point off now, that means he's taking them AP

1332
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 1: classes and getting a smart dude. Twelve ships, six D

1333
01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:04,439
Speaker 1: and tight end. Hit your boy up if you want

1334
01:15:04,479 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 1: some of them tips, I got some of them. Get recruited,

1335
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 1: Go d one. Such a great story, such a great story.

1336
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 1: Like you see this guy at a rival game, basketball gym,

1337
01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 1: sitting there getting his study on. Now he's still stunting, though,

1338
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,640
Speaker 1: let'ten not lock because sucking could have went to the

1339
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 1: library right next door to the gym instead of being

1340
01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 1: in there watching like, oh okay, that's the fire, I

1341
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 1: don't kay, I mean, oh, come on, this is a

1342
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 1: periodic table. Oh oh go and one? Okay, what's night?

1343
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, you can be somewhere

1344
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:36,680
Speaker 1: a little more focused than that. But it was a

1345
01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 1: great stunt. I like it. Shoot, bringing attention to yourself

1346
01:15:39,320 --> 01:15:41,880
Speaker 1: that you're doing the right things. I like that reminded

1347
01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 1: me of me in high school. Um, not because I

1348
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: did that, but I used to put it at work

1349
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: because I used to get to high school, like at

1350
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:51,960
Speaker 1: six in the morning before the custolians and janitors. Study, study,

1351
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 1: then play my radio, play my songs, play my public kid,

1352
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: and you play my criss Cross. Yeah, I remember criss

1353
01:15:57,880 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 1: Cross hit y'all in the la y'all ain't trying to

1354
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 1: turn y'all jeans around backwards. And then that night my

1355
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 1: dad had to pick us up after practice eight o'clock.

1356
01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:08,160
Speaker 1: I was at school from six to eight, y'all that part,

1357
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: and I wasn't wasting time. I would study, study, study,

1358
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 1: then I would clown clown clown play music, play music,

1359
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 1: play music, study, study, study, clown clown clown play music.

1360
01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 1: I'll add somebody go to Numero Uno, give me one

1361
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: of them individuals, fold dollar pieces and go to war.

1362
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 1: That was my life. But in our basketball games at

1363
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 1: our school, we used to play a game called Ghosts.

1364
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,720
Speaker 1: I remember Ghosts. I'll tell you about that another time.

1365
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:36,880
Speaker 1: Ghost was a game. Let's just say when I went

1366
01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:39,320
Speaker 1: to the basketball games, I wasn't studying. I was playing Ghosts,

1367
01:16:39,680 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 1: and y'all got to ask me what is ghost Oh?

1368
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:45,360
Speaker 1: It was a good game, all right. I gotta bring

1369
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 1: up this because I was watching the game my son, MJ.

1370
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 1: We're watching the Solo versus Vanda Griff. I hope I

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01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: say y'all name right, Vanda Griff two thousand and twenty

1372
01:16:55,880 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 1: three Texas High School six A Division two state championship. Damn,

1373
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:04,559
Speaker 1: I'll doing too much, just say champs championship games. Shit. Um.

1374
01:17:04,880 --> 01:17:10,240
Speaker 1: MJ says this quote. Dad. I noticed that everyone on

1375
01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 1: DeSoto was black and everyone on Vnder Grift is white.

1376
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 1: Now what I'm supposed to say to that, I mean,

1377
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:19,880
Speaker 1: other than you write, I didn't pay any attention to us.

1378
01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 1: He said it because I wasn't. I was in there

1379
01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 1: studying in the studio and my son was watching football.

1380
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 1: This food loves football. This little dude here like daddy.

1381
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 1: I was like, you want to watch the NBA? No,

1382
01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 1: you want to All Star rewind No, you want to

1383
01:17:32,160 --> 01:17:35,680
Speaker 1: watch tennis? No? Every sport that I was. He's like,

1384
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,200
Speaker 1: is there any football? Own? Some more preseason football? Is

1385
01:17:38,200 --> 01:17:40,679
Speaker 1: like no, And then I scrolled through them six hundreds

1386
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:43,639
Speaker 1: some direct TV. Bam, there it is high school football

1387
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 1: watching the sixth A Division Two's championship. And he said that,

1388
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:53,080
Speaker 1: and I was like, damn, He's noticing race more and more.

1389
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:56,680
Speaker 1: But he doesn't color in the lines. He doesn't define it.

1390
01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:02,680
Speaker 1: No stereotypes associated, no descriptions, just observations, which made me

1391
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:06,600
Speaker 1: think about how important it is as a parent to

1392
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 1: fill in those lines properly. So when I see racist kids,

1393
01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 1: I look at the racist ass parents. When I see

1394
01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 1: badass kids, I look at their badass parents. I really

1395
01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 1: look at him like that. No bad students, just bad teachers, right, Nyagi,

1396
01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:26,599
Speaker 1: Because I'm knowing right now, this is the time we're starting.

1397
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:30,880
Speaker 1: We're clear for takeoff, We're about to take a flight

1398
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:34,599
Speaker 1: on race relations and he's gonna, sooner or later start

1399
01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 1: coming back with not just asking questions but telling me stuff.

1400
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: He's gonna start coming back and not just asking and

1401
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,920
Speaker 1: telling me stuff, but thinking he knows. And it's so

1402
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 1: important in this moment that I grabbed him and let

1403
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:50,560
Speaker 1: him know what's important, what's not, what's real, what's not,

1404
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:54,760
Speaker 1: And let him know that that is a judgment that

1405
01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 1: may be placed on you based on race, but that's

1406
01:18:57,560 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 1: not a definition. That is not a just scription of

1407
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 1: who you are. You know who you are, nobody fully

1408
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: sees because your character, it's who you are, who you

1409
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 1: think you are, who you're gonna make yourself be. Like

1410
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:12,960
Speaker 1: I tell them kids all the time, it's not just

1411
01:19:13,320 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 1: how good you are, so how well you play in football,

1412
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 1: basketball and the game of life. So I'm not gonna

1413
01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 1: let anybody tell my son who he is or who

1414
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 1: he's not. The only box he's gonna be in is

1415
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 1: the same box as Dad is in. No box. But

1416
01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 1: boy caught me off guard. Oh, by the way, the

1417
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:34,599
Speaker 1: solo the black team won forty two seventeen. Stereotypes exist

1418
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:38,479
Speaker 1: for a reason. That was hilarious. But I saw that

1419
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:44,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my Okay, let me get

1420
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 1: out on this because I'm making headlines right now for

1421
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 1: some of the comments I'm making. I don't mind headlines.

1422
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:54,560
Speaker 1: I don't mind people amplifying what I'm saying. I just

1423
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 1: want to make sure that you guys understand where I'm

1424
01:19:56,520 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 1: coming from the transgend ender issue, which to me shouldn't

1425
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:06,280
Speaker 1: be an issue, but it is an issue. And right now,

1426
01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 1: I know that I put up a post about my

1427
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 1: daughter's not playing against transgenders, and they're not simple as that,

1428
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 1: like sport will continue without my daughters, and that event

1429
01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 1: will continue without my daughters. Simple is that I'm a man.

1430
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,599
Speaker 1: I know. If you're transition into me, you can tell

1431
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 1: me all that you've done and changing your hormones, and

1432
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,479
Speaker 1: I understand and respect them, But you didn't change your

1433
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:32,479
Speaker 1: bones and the bone density. You didn't change your muscle mass.

1434
01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:34,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You didn't change your big

1435
01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:37,320
Speaker 1: ass heart, big lunge or whatever it may be. Strong

1436
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 1: like just okay, so I'm not getting it down. I'm

1437
01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:43,200
Speaker 1: not going down that lane, going down this lane. A

1438
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,839
Speaker 1: couple of people that I love and respect, Jamil Hill, Melanie,

1439
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:50,160
Speaker 1: you know, from my gym to homie They were like,

1440
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:53,200
Speaker 1: not putting me in this category, but saying, hey, you

1441
01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 1: guys are really hating on transgenders and trying to act

1442
01:20:57,240 --> 01:21:00,880
Speaker 1: like you care about women's sports in the sky. I

1443
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 1: was like, oh, oh, I'd like to switch through what

1444
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 1: we're really doing because we don't really give a damn

1445
01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:10,760
Speaker 1: about women's sports. It's beating up on transgenders, but trying

1446
01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: to disguise it like we care about women's sports. Well,

1447
01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:15,360
Speaker 1: let me hear here. Let me let me be the

1448
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 1: one to tell you I do care about women's sports,

1449
01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:22,120
Speaker 1: because Mary, I have three daughters. That's one. Now, are

1450
01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:24,679
Speaker 1: women's sports better than men's sports? Depends on the sport.

1451
01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:27,120
Speaker 1: Tennis you got out a great argument. Yeah, I'll watch

1452
01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:32,200
Speaker 1: me some women's tennis. But basketball, Hey, w NBA ain't good.

1453
01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 1: We know that, the girls say that, the women say

1454
01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 1: that they're more popular in college than they are in

1455
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:42,439
Speaker 1: the pro. Stop playing what saftball? Footballs? No, no, stop,

1456
01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 1: it's not gender basis. How good the product is and

1457
01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 1: it's not as good. So here we go. They made

1458
01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:51,679
Speaker 1: some interesting points. I like that point, except it doesn't

1459
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 1: apply to me, and I had to respond. I had

1460
01:21:55,439 --> 01:22:00,120
Speaker 1: to respond because Jamaal challenged me. She's like Marcellus the

1461
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 1: transgender ever played against your daughter, and I think she

1462
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,320
Speaker 1: felt like she probably hits sayings that got you, you

1463
01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 1: didn't get me. Google two thousand and seventeen, Connecticut Glastonbury

1464
01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 1: High School. Guess who graduated in twenty seventeen from Connecticut

1465
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:20,400
Speaker 1: Glastonbury High School? My daughter. I know y'all see that

1466
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 1: one coming up. And I actually made a statement without

1467
01:22:25,320 --> 01:22:27,640
Speaker 1: even thinking of that, without even feeling that, because I

1468
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 1: already knew this. So when people say, oh, this only

1469
01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:35,000
Speaker 1: happens to point zero zero zero zero zero zero one percent,

1470
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:38,519
Speaker 1: I think it happened in one time is enough. I

1471
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:42,479
Speaker 1: think that my experience makes it my expertise to talk

1472
01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:49,600
Speaker 1: on this long story short to two males transgender and

1473
01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 1: transitioned into being a woman and one fifteen state championships

1474
01:22:56,280 --> 01:23:01,360
Speaker 1: something crazy that part. So if that mean yes, but

1475
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:03,840
Speaker 1: even without being effective, there's somebody else's kid, It could

1476
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 1: be your kid. I just think right is right and

1477
01:23:06,200 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: fair is fair, and I don't think that's right fair. Well,

1478
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:13,519
Speaker 1: I do believe let's start a transgender category transgender divisions.

1479
01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:16,679
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you want that? Oh? I know why? Because

1480
01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 1: you are a fully a woman, maybe socially, but competitively.

1481
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 1: I don't think that's the case. So that's where we're

1482
01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:26,680
Speaker 1: gonna talk about. But let's talk about it through love.

1483
01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 1: I do not have an issue. I will discuss this.

1484
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 1: I know that, like any minority group, you feel attacked

1485
01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:39,040
Speaker 1: at times, right, and people get killed just because they're trans?

1486
01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 1: Will people get killed just because they're whoever? You are, black, white,

1487
01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:48,240
Speaker 1: trans like people. Hell exists because there are evil people

1488
01:23:48,280 --> 01:23:53,000
Speaker 1: in this world, right, So that doesn't mean since you're

1489
01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:56,720
Speaker 1: under attack and scrutiny and fire, doesn't mean that I

1490
01:23:56,840 --> 01:24:00,599
Speaker 1: can't be empathetic for you, but also still say yes,

1491
01:24:00,680 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: it's yes and no it's no in terms of what

1492
01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 1: the things that I think should be allowed and I

1493
01:24:05,760 --> 01:24:08,160
Speaker 1: don't think that should be allowed. Or if they do

1494
01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 1: allow it, that's fine. Moroccarrey went through it. You won't

1495
01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: see your riot out there, and you won't see Olivia

1496
01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:23,599
Speaker 1: oh Man. All right, let's get into a renamed segment,

1497
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:28,680
Speaker 1: not a new segment, but renamed. Y'all know, they called

1498
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:31,080
Speaker 1: me dad dude. I called myself dad dude. Act like

1499
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:34,880
Speaker 1: putting it on them. My teammates named me that in

1500
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:37,919
Speaker 1: San Diego. Loved it. I thought it was the dopest

1501
01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:41,240
Speaker 1: nickname in the world. I guess I'm being a little selfish.

1502
01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:44,240
Speaker 1: But a lot of y'all out there loved me. A

1503
01:24:44,320 --> 01:24:46,680
Speaker 1: lot of y'all out there say positive things, a lot

1504
01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:50,320
Speaker 1: of y'all out there say supporting things, all the stuff

1505
01:24:50,360 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: that you know you want to hear, the egos getting

1506
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 1: struckd right. But then there are those who don't fuck

1507
01:24:56,680 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 1: with me, don't like me, becau they disagree with me.

1508
01:25:01,479 --> 01:25:04,200
Speaker 1: And I'm like, all right, I'm not a debater. I'm

1509
01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 1: a discusser, so I like to talk through things. So

1510
01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you your platform as well, because it

1511
01:25:09,960 --> 01:25:12,680
Speaker 1: doesn't bother me. It's actually enlightening to talk through not

1512
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:16,200
Speaker 1: only the good things, but the bad things, right, or

1513
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:18,360
Speaker 1: as you say to the kids nowadays, the things we

1514
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:21,720
Speaker 1: need to work on. So we're gonna call ask that

1515
01:25:21,920 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 1: dude now either dear that dude y'all know, like dear Abby,

1516
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 1: dear dad dude, or damn that dude. Let's get it

1517
01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:33,320
Speaker 1: started with damn that dude. Quote on Twitter. Of course,

1518
01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:35,519
Speaker 1: always Twitter, We always gotta go to hell, We always

1519
01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:39,200
Speaker 1: got to go down to the hood. This bullishit bothers

1520
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 1: me so bad. When black people become anti black to

1521
01:25:42,439 --> 01:25:46,120
Speaker 1: make money at Marcel sh they're calling me out. This

1522
01:25:46,320 --> 01:25:49,040
Speaker 1: has become a bad look on you. Oh well, enjoy

1523
01:25:49,160 --> 01:25:54,880
Speaker 1: your cash. I thought this was funny because my experience

1524
01:25:54,960 --> 01:25:59,759
Speaker 1: tells me just the opposite, especially nowadays. If you pander,

1525
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,360
Speaker 1: if you go with the wave, oh you're gonna surf

1526
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:07,120
Speaker 1: in today's world, in today's society. And because of me

1527
01:26:07,960 --> 01:26:11,639
Speaker 1: and my upbringing, the way I was raised by my family,

1528
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:16,519
Speaker 1: that we never cared about the waves, we never cared

1529
01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:18,800
Speaker 1: about what was crashing on us, because it always felt

1530
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:22,840
Speaker 1: that way. Like that became norm So me going against

1531
01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:25,720
Speaker 1: the grain, me being a contrarian, me just being a

1532
01:26:25,800 --> 01:26:28,800
Speaker 1: guy who is going to express his opinion and do

1533
01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:31,960
Speaker 1: it respectfully, but don't give a damn if you're feeling it.

1534
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:34,600
Speaker 1: I've always been that way. Y'all act like this is

1535
01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:38,439
Speaker 1: something new. I've always been that way. So this is

1536
01:26:38,479 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 1: how I became me, my mentality. So it's funny to

1537
01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 1: hear people say that, oh, man, you anti, when I'm

1538
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 1: not anti anything but antibs like if you bullshit and

1539
01:26:50,160 --> 01:26:53,320
Speaker 1: I can't mess with you if you're lying, I can't

1540
01:26:53,560 --> 01:26:55,679
Speaker 1: mess with you if you're a fraud. I can't mess

1541
01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 1: with you. Now, look who I don't mess with it.

1542
01:26:58,479 --> 01:27:01,599
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just real like that. But I'll always

1543
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 1: have love for you, like in this global sense, I

1544
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:07,479
Speaker 1: love everybody like I really do. Like it's some ship

1545
01:27:07,640 --> 01:27:10,240
Speaker 1: that people I don't like, but I got a love

1546
01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:12,560
Speaker 1: for him. Right, There's things that people do that I

1547
01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:14,800
Speaker 1: don't like, but I got a love for him. And

1548
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:16,800
Speaker 1: I can give y'all list of names. But why I

1549
01:27:16,880 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 1: call him out unnecessarily? But long story short, man, you

1550
01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:25,200
Speaker 1: make way more money brother doing whatever the wave is

1551
01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:28,800
Speaker 1: right now, you know, so I don't pay uder brou

1552
01:27:29,360 --> 01:27:33,040
Speaker 1: That could be seemed as anti black. But it's weird

1553
01:27:33,080 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 1: when I'm condemning Baker Mayfield, Like that's what everybody used

1554
01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:38,360
Speaker 1: to say. March says, you hate Baker Mayfield, you're racist,

1555
01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:39,800
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I don't. I just don't

1556
01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:41,639
Speaker 1: think he's good. What do you mean? I don't think

1557
01:27:41,640 --> 01:27:43,000
Speaker 1: he's a good leader. And I don't think he's really

1558
01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:46,040
Speaker 1: that good at quarterback. And because he's not a great leader,

1559
01:27:46,439 --> 01:27:48,960
Speaker 1: it won't bring out the great quarterback in him because

1560
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:52,120
Speaker 1: he's not that talented, like uber talented, like we all

1561
01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:56,200
Speaker 1: black belts in the NFL, but uber talented like next level,

1562
01:27:56,960 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 1: that's where the assholes are and some of the great people.

1563
01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 1: But you can didn't askhole up there. But boy, if

1564
01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:06,639
Speaker 1: you marginal or just above average, you better ask some character.

1565
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you how I go. So it's just

1566
01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:14,000
Speaker 1: funny that I'm anti racist when I'm condemning Baker Mayfield,

1567
01:28:14,120 --> 01:28:17,200
Speaker 1: but then I'm anti black when I'm condemning Deshaun Watson.

1568
01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 1: And They've done two different things, but they both deserve

1569
01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:23,320
Speaker 1: some criticism, right, because criticism is the cost to praise,

1570
01:28:23,400 --> 01:28:26,719
Speaker 1: as we say, right, So just funny to me, doesn't

1571
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:28,400
Speaker 1: bother me. I like to bring those things to like,

1572
01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:30,680
Speaker 1: and I know people like don't give it attention. Well

1573
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:33,599
Speaker 1: I won't give them attention, but I'll give the idea

1574
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 1: and the thought attention because that's how we learn that

1575
01:28:36,120 --> 01:28:39,400
Speaker 1: layer conversation. So don't y'all start tweeting me all kind

1576
01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:42,720
Speaker 1: of bullshit, everybody, But oh oh, we get on, and

1577
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: we get on a lot if we just say something hateful. Nah,

1578
01:28:45,560 --> 01:28:48,000
Speaker 1: because I'm about to balance it out right now and

1579
01:28:48,240 --> 01:28:51,240
Speaker 1: give some love. But before I give some love, let

1580
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:54,920
Speaker 1: me make sure I addressed everything in that damn dad

1581
01:28:55,080 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 1: dude tweet half tag damn dad dude on Twitter. Let's

1582
01:28:58,400 --> 01:29:00,920
Speaker 1: get it bothers me so bad when black people become

1583
01:29:00,960 --> 01:29:04,840
Speaker 1: anti black to make money. Sound broke with your program

1584
01:29:05,160 --> 01:29:07,640
Speaker 1: and Marcellus, well, this has become a bad look on you,

1585
01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:10,320
Speaker 1: Like why do you care how I look? Dude from

1586
01:29:10,400 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 1: with you? Oh, well, enjoy your cash, doesn't enjoy their cash?

1587
01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:17,439
Speaker 1: Like all this misery, all this money, What shall I do?

1588
01:29:17,560 --> 01:29:20,120
Speaker 1: More money? More problems, puppy, Lie to y'all you got

1589
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 1: more problems in the sense more things coming at you

1590
01:29:24,200 --> 01:29:26,679
Speaker 1: that are a problem, But you ain't got more problems.

1591
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:29,639
Speaker 1: Like they're not deeper problems, they're not grander problems. There's

1592
01:29:29,680 --> 01:29:32,559
Speaker 1: just more of them. Right, So I guess he didn't lie,

1593
01:29:32,680 --> 01:29:36,200
Speaker 1: but I think y'all took it the wrong way. Whoever

1594
01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:37,880
Speaker 1: this dude is, and I know who you are on

1595
01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:41,679
Speaker 1: Twitter when I see your handle. Whatever. All right, let's

1596
01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:45,760
Speaker 1: get to dear dad dude. Do today's athletes? Man, I

1597
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 1: gotta do some proof reading this with spell check. To do,

1598
01:29:48,479 --> 01:29:51,720
Speaker 1: today's athletes have to go as hard in training. If

1599
01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 1: their natural athletical talents are supposed to be better than

1600
01:29:56,240 --> 01:30:00,360
Speaker 1: yester year's athlete, well, over workouts costs muscle for tige.

1601
01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:05,360
Speaker 1: Oh that's interesting. Today's athletes have to adapt their training

1602
01:30:05,479 --> 01:30:11,000
Speaker 1: methods to the advancements in technology and the advancements in physiology. Like,

1603
01:30:11,160 --> 01:30:14,880
Speaker 1: dudes are bigger, faster, strongert please stop doing the same

1604
01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:18,439
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy nine meet and potato work out. Oh yeah,

1605
01:30:18,760 --> 01:30:22,559
Speaker 1: let me just two legga squad and dingle plea. Baby,

1606
01:30:23,600 --> 01:30:25,920
Speaker 1: that's how my old white coach is to sound love

1607
01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:28,840
Speaker 1: coach mac um. Now you can't do that. You gotta

1608
01:30:28,880 --> 01:30:32,240
Speaker 1: get on them single leg the multiplex movements, like you

1609
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:36,920
Speaker 1: gotta get all of your body parts involved. Complex movement

1610
01:30:36,960 --> 01:30:39,160
Speaker 1: they call it. When you're working out. Let me give

1611
01:30:39,160 --> 01:30:41,200
Speaker 1: it to you like this, I tell my kids all

1612
01:30:41,240 --> 01:30:43,680
Speaker 1: the time, because I coached seventy year olds, And I

1613
01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:47,160
Speaker 1: remember when I was seven, like I could move. Not

1614
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 1: only could I move, but I felt no pain at seven,

1615
01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:53,519
Speaker 1: like and I felt no fatigue, like I was just run.

1616
01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't remember ever in my life seven years old

1617
01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:02,439
Speaker 1: putting my hands on my knees like because I was seven.

1618
01:31:02,800 --> 01:31:05,160
Speaker 1: But I coached seven year olds now and I see

1619
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:06,880
Speaker 1: it a little bit, some of them, some of them,

1620
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 1: the little husky ones, and the thing is. I always

1621
01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:12,880
Speaker 1: tell them to bend, and it's amazing to me how

1622
01:31:12,920 --> 01:31:17,040
Speaker 1: many people don't know where bending starts. It starts with

1623
01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 1: your ankle, m ankle, flesh, and like you gotta bend

1624
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:23,599
Speaker 1: starting with the ankle, ankle, gotta gotta move right there,

1625
01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:27,519
Speaker 1: shan's gotta go forward, then the knees and then the hips.

1626
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:30,880
Speaker 1: But you know, most people, most people, I would say

1627
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:33,960
Speaker 1: most athletes even gotta get coached out of it. They've

1628
01:31:34,000 --> 01:31:35,840
Speaker 1: been with their back first. We all do it like

1629
01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:39,839
Speaker 1: we start, did we start here? Nah? If you really

1630
01:31:40,040 --> 01:31:42,680
Speaker 1: in gear, if you really in shape, it starts with

1631
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:46,920
Speaker 1: those ankles, then those knees, then the butt. Hips. Oh

1632
01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 1: you do it that way? Oh yeah, man, you could

1633
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:52,160
Speaker 1: do some bending and you could play some sports, because

1634
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:56,040
Speaker 1: I swear out there's so much L movement, but they

1635
01:31:56,080 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 1: call it you know, your ankle and then up here

1636
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:03,920
Speaker 1: and sha L movement, but L movements, man, the cat.

1637
01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 1: Just watch a real athlete and watch the flesh shit

1638
01:32:08,160 --> 01:32:10,839
Speaker 1: from their ankle to their hip. Watch how much is bending.

1639
01:32:11,600 --> 01:32:13,519
Speaker 1: Watch how low they are and they can still keep

1640
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:16,400
Speaker 1: their butt underneath them. That's the most powerful muscle we have.

1641
01:32:16,640 --> 01:32:19,920
Speaker 1: So I think today's athletes are doing a good job

1642
01:32:20,000 --> 01:32:22,680
Speaker 1: of it. It's hard to keep pace with this right now,

1643
01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:26,800
Speaker 1: Like these dudes are huge, these dudes are fast, They

1644
01:32:26,880 --> 01:32:31,200
Speaker 1: dudes are moving, and then sometimes they run across some

1645
01:32:31,320 --> 01:32:34,880
Speaker 1: of the old guard in terms of strength coaches and conditioning,

1646
01:32:35,040 --> 01:32:39,840
Speaker 1: and yeah, let's run six one hundreds. It's like, all right,

1647
01:32:40,280 --> 01:32:43,439
Speaker 1: you got anything a little more genius than that, because

1648
01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm not running a hundred yards in the football game ever. Um.

1649
01:32:47,240 --> 01:32:51,439
Speaker 1: You know, so you gotta train like you play, and

1650
01:32:51,720 --> 01:32:55,559
Speaker 1: you have to train the brain while you're training. Always

1651
01:32:55,600 --> 01:32:58,719
Speaker 1: train your brain. Right, A lot of times I see cats,

1652
01:32:58,880 --> 01:33:01,320
Speaker 1: you know, basketball drill, lay up drill, same old lay

1653
01:33:01,360 --> 01:33:05,320
Speaker 1: up drill. Nah, throw the ball somewhere that they're going

1654
01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:07,400
Speaker 1: to have to chase it and then make the layup.

1655
01:33:07,680 --> 01:33:10,680
Speaker 1: To me, that's not only a complex movement because now

1656
01:33:10,760 --> 01:33:13,120
Speaker 1: I have to locate the ball, then get back in

1657
01:33:13,200 --> 01:33:16,840
Speaker 1: position and still make the layoup. But more importantly, you're

1658
01:33:16,880 --> 01:33:19,800
Speaker 1: training the brain, like, oh okay, there's always going to

1659
01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:22,920
Speaker 1: be adversity and obstacles in the way. Nothing smooth. I

1660
01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:27,040
Speaker 1: hate smooth training, like just closy training. Oh here you go,

1661
01:33:27,280 --> 01:33:30,479
Speaker 1: set shots, you know, like you gotta have somebody flash

1662
01:33:30,520 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 1: in front of them not to just a set shot

1663
01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:36,080
Speaker 1: pretty you do make it happen, so great question, Dear

1664
01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:38,600
Speaker 1: that dude go back to school and work on their

1665
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:42,479
Speaker 1: grandmar There, that's spelling. I'm playing with you, all right.

1666
01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:46,960
Speaker 1: It's hid fortune time, my sister og Heneylow. What's been

1667
01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:50,519
Speaker 1: the most memorable moment of your career so far? These

1668
01:33:50,560 --> 01:33:52,880
Speaker 1: are the best and the worst questions because it's like

1669
01:33:53,040 --> 01:33:56,600
Speaker 1: pink one, and I get mad when someone can't answer it,

1670
01:33:56,760 --> 01:33:58,320
Speaker 1: So I know you're gonna get mad if I can't

1671
01:33:58,360 --> 01:34:05,559
Speaker 1: answer it. My best moment in this career broadcasting. Something

1672
01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:08,479
Speaker 1: just keeps yelling Sports Nation, and I'm like why, I

1673
01:34:08,560 --> 01:34:16,240
Speaker 1: guess because it was so fun. They're two answers, but

1674
01:34:16,439 --> 01:34:19,880
Speaker 1: one is like easy to digest. It's like Sports Nation

1675
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:26,559
Speaker 1: being on the road, you know, Michelle Bato, Max Kellerman

1676
01:34:26,760 --> 01:34:30,320
Speaker 1: or Chris and Thompson whatever, whatever dynamic it was. We

1677
01:34:30,439 --> 01:34:33,960
Speaker 1: had so many different sets and so many different lineups

1678
01:34:36,320 --> 01:34:38,479
Speaker 1: just hitting the road and clown it. I think when

1679
01:34:38,640 --> 01:34:40,840
Speaker 1: we went to Dallas that was fun. We were riding

1680
01:34:40,880 --> 01:34:44,680
Speaker 1: mechanical bulls. Yeah whatever that wasn't me actually was, but

1681
01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:46,760
Speaker 1: I ain't had him a fun on the bull. The

1682
01:34:46,920 --> 01:34:49,600
Speaker 1: rivers were banging and the people were cool. I just

1683
01:34:49,720 --> 01:34:51,760
Speaker 1: like being on the road having a fun show, Like

1684
01:34:51,840 --> 01:34:54,639
Speaker 1: I showed where people could yell while we're talking shot

1685
01:34:55,000 --> 01:34:57,840
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, that's not like time out, that's

1686
01:34:57,920 --> 01:35:01,360
Speaker 1: not like I'm working right now. It was like do

1687
01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:04,360
Speaker 1: you I'm gonna do me. And we had to prepare

1688
01:35:04,400 --> 01:35:06,120
Speaker 1: for that show. As fun as it was, as lucy

1689
01:35:06,120 --> 01:35:09,479
Speaker 1: as it was, it didn't always look that way. But

1690
01:35:09,680 --> 01:35:12,040
Speaker 1: it was a fun show. Man. I would say that,

1691
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:15,760
Speaker 1: but my heart lights up and I get inspired. My

1692
01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:20,240
Speaker 1: brain lights up when I think of my Golick. Mike

1693
01:35:20,360 --> 01:35:24,840
Speaker 1: Golick is the big brother, the vet that grabs you

1694
01:35:25,400 --> 01:35:29,040
Speaker 1: when you're young, when you're a rookie and kind of

1695
01:35:29,120 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 1: just taps you on the head like hey, you're gonna

1696
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 1: be all right, You're gonna be good at this right.

1697
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 1: Bruce Smith did it for me in football. Just the

1698
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:39,479
Speaker 1: fact that we had a real relationship and he took

1699
01:35:39,520 --> 01:35:41,679
Speaker 1: me under his wing. Was like, yeah, I watched film

1700
01:35:41,760 --> 01:35:43,880
Speaker 1: with you, come over to my house or we would

1701
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,360
Speaker 1: hang out. I mean, I was in a limo with

1702
01:35:46,400 --> 01:35:48,720
Speaker 1: Bruce Smith. Dog that's life, you know what I mean?

1703
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:51,040
Speaker 1: Like I was I used to pick up Bruce Smith

1704
01:35:51,120 --> 01:35:53,880
Speaker 1: and my limo. What Yeah, I wish y'all would try

1705
01:35:53,920 --> 01:35:57,599
Speaker 1: to hit on me. I love life. That was sick, sick.

1706
01:35:57,720 --> 01:35:59,679
Speaker 1: The same dude was in the did this half a conversial?

1707
01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:01,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, what I know? I got distracted. I'm back

1708
01:36:01,760 --> 01:36:04,960
Speaker 1: on my Goale. I got a lot of favorite memories.

1709
01:36:05,040 --> 01:36:09,400
Speaker 1: That's why m my Goali. All right. I was on

1710
01:36:09,520 --> 01:36:13,240
Speaker 1: Mike and Mike really early, like super early, like week one.

1711
01:36:13,320 --> 01:36:17,080
Speaker 1: It felt like I wasn't even an official hire at ESPN.

1712
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:19,479
Speaker 1: I was an independent contract of them. I guess that's

1713
01:36:19,520 --> 01:36:23,040
Speaker 1: a higherough sort. But I wasn't an employee. I wasn't

1714
01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:26,479
Speaker 1: on salary blah blah blah. And I did to show

1715
01:36:26,520 --> 01:36:29,360
Speaker 1: what myke Goali, not knowing how big Mike and Mike was.

1716
01:36:30,000 --> 01:36:33,479
Speaker 1: This is like two thousand and seven, so right, and

1717
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:36,599
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, I just saw all my phone blew up.

1718
01:36:36,680 --> 01:36:39,360
Speaker 1: And then you know, everybody was just like, dog, you

1719
01:36:39,479 --> 01:36:41,840
Speaker 1: were great, that was fun. Oh that was major blah

1720
01:36:41,840 --> 01:36:44,280
Speaker 1: blah blah. But none of that mattered because I also like,

1721
01:36:44,640 --> 01:36:46,320
Speaker 1: if you got my number, you my homie, and if

1722
01:36:46,320 --> 01:36:48,439
Speaker 1: you're my homie, you're gonna say some flattering stuff, not

1723
01:36:48,640 --> 01:36:51,040
Speaker 1: just because you believe it maybe, but because you know

1724
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:53,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hook you up at the club like bottles

1725
01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:56,080
Speaker 1: on me as long as y'all drank it. I used

1726
01:36:56,080 --> 01:36:58,479
Speaker 1: to look out for my people, so I don't know.

1727
01:36:58,520 --> 01:36:59,960
Speaker 1: I just just take it with a grain and saw.

1728
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:03,639
Speaker 1: You know me, if you're my friend, you gotta say

1729
01:37:03,680 --> 01:37:06,439
Speaker 1: something bad about me, and then I know you're real. Right.

1730
01:37:06,680 --> 01:37:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm raised that way, but that's

1731
01:37:09,040 --> 01:37:11,120
Speaker 1: the way it is. But my Goala came up to

1732
01:37:11,200 --> 01:37:15,480
Speaker 1: me after four hours or radio with him, and he's like, Marcellus,

1733
01:37:16,320 --> 01:37:18,720
Speaker 1: you're really gonna do well in this, and that meant

1734
01:37:18,800 --> 01:37:22,080
Speaker 1: the world to me because you work with guys. And

1735
01:37:22,120 --> 01:37:23,880
Speaker 1: they were like, and this is what it always is.

1736
01:37:23,920 --> 01:37:26,479
Speaker 1: After a segment or after a show, good job, good job,

1737
01:37:26,560 --> 01:37:28,640
Speaker 1: that was good. That was good. Like I think the

1738
01:37:29,040 --> 01:37:34,160
Speaker 1: fragility of an entertainer's ego always makes you say good job.

1739
01:37:34,320 --> 01:37:36,160
Speaker 1: Then you go home and really look at him be like,

1740
01:37:37,360 --> 01:37:39,960
Speaker 1: I could do better at that job, right, But I

1741
01:37:40,080 --> 01:37:41,760
Speaker 1: did the same thing, good job, good job, the job.

1742
01:37:41,880 --> 01:37:45,599
Speaker 1: But Mike took time exception brought me to the side.

1743
01:37:45,640 --> 01:37:47,840
Speaker 1: It was like, Marcellus, it's gonna be good at this,

1744
01:37:48,240 --> 01:37:51,280
Speaker 1: but let me tell you one thing. He's like, always

1745
01:37:51,360 --> 01:37:54,800
Speaker 1: tells stories. He's like, you're a storyteller. Do not let

1746
01:37:54,840 --> 01:37:57,600
Speaker 1: him bog you down with x's and those. Don't let

1747
01:37:57,680 --> 01:38:00,479
Speaker 1: him bog you down and make you talk about the

1748
01:38:00,600 --> 01:38:04,680
Speaker 1: game explicitly tell your stories. He's like, they're amazing. He

1749
01:38:04,840 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 1: said that week one, And now this is what I

1750
01:38:09,320 --> 01:38:11,800
Speaker 1: love so much about this platform and the freedom. I

1751
01:38:11,880 --> 01:38:14,960
Speaker 1: half I could tell stories, and I used to try

1752
01:38:15,000 --> 01:38:17,679
Speaker 1: to lay some into all the conversations when I had

1753
01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:20,840
Speaker 1: to talk NFL Live or when I had to talk Hey,

1754
01:38:20,920 --> 01:38:26,519
Speaker 1: we're talking about Tom Brady and Peyton Manning, right, I

1755
01:38:26,640 --> 01:38:28,160
Speaker 1: want to know what they're gonna do when they're in

1756
01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:32,360
Speaker 1: the left hash third down an NFC Championship game. I'm

1757
01:38:32,360 --> 01:38:36,439
Speaker 1: like that interested, but I'll tell you what I think.

1758
01:38:37,240 --> 01:38:39,760
Speaker 1: But now I just love the freedom of just telling

1759
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:44,120
Speaker 1: y'all forty eight years of experiences back in the limo

1760
01:38:44,160 --> 01:38:46,000
Speaker 1: with Bruce Smith stories. I want to hear what I'm saying.

1761
01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:50,720
Speaker 1: Just life, man. So that's probably my most memorable moment.

1762
01:38:50,920 --> 01:38:52,600
Speaker 1: Might goal They're grabbing me and pulling me to the

1763
01:38:52,680 --> 01:38:55,680
Speaker 1: side and give me that encouragement. I already had the confidence,

1764
01:38:55,720 --> 01:38:58,720
Speaker 1: but boy, when you get encouraged with confidence, then you

1765
01:38:58,800 --> 01:39:02,320
Speaker 1: start to light it up. Let's end it with a wileyism.

1766
01:39:02,560 --> 01:39:09,080
Speaker 1: All respect to my track coach, coach James Man. This

1767
01:39:09,280 --> 01:39:11,360
Speaker 1: dude used to scare the living hell out of me,

1768
01:39:11,840 --> 01:39:14,519
Speaker 1: not even because of how he was as a coach.

1769
01:39:14,560 --> 01:39:17,360
Speaker 1: He wasn't a mean coach. He was a demanding coach.

1770
01:39:17,439 --> 01:39:21,559
Speaker 1: Oh you saw coach James no games. Uh, I can't

1771
01:39:21,560 --> 01:39:24,479
Speaker 1: call him stocky buff, but not like over buff, just

1772
01:39:24,640 --> 01:39:28,040
Speaker 1: like cool buff. Like. Oh, he in shape shape, had

1773
01:39:28,040 --> 01:39:31,040
Speaker 1: a nice little round curl, always had his glasses on.

1774
01:39:31,240 --> 01:39:33,240
Speaker 1: Every MoMA on the team thought he was the finest.

1775
01:39:34,320 --> 01:39:37,960
Speaker 1: It was hilarious. Even my mama like, Mama, damn, coach

1776
01:39:38,040 --> 01:39:40,120
Speaker 1: James ain't that nice and she's like he nice looking

1777
01:39:40,560 --> 01:39:43,400
Speaker 1: so um. But he used to pick me up to

1778
01:39:43,439 --> 01:39:46,000
Speaker 1: go to track practice. Oh when I used to see

1779
01:39:46,040 --> 01:39:48,800
Speaker 1: his truck and this truck has sounds like sound for

1780
01:39:48,920 --> 01:39:52,920
Speaker 1: real buffs. Um. I used to just dread and it

1781
01:39:53,000 --> 01:39:56,200
Speaker 1: wasn't Coach James. Track is hell. I love me some track.

1782
01:39:56,360 --> 01:39:58,639
Speaker 1: That's my favorite sport. But boy, going to track practice

1783
01:39:58,680 --> 01:40:04,040
Speaker 1: when you're and gotta run two eight hundreds to four

1784
01:40:04,120 --> 01:40:09,400
Speaker 1: hundreds to two hundreds after school, you ain't even had

1785
01:40:09,479 --> 01:40:11,960
Speaker 1: dinner yet. Oh. It used to be like, oh this dude,

1786
01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:14,719
Speaker 1: go make me go through it. But there's no greater

1787
01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:18,439
Speaker 1: feeling than when you line up on their mark gets said,

1788
01:40:19,200 --> 01:40:23,559
Speaker 1: and you are running your hardest and you know for fact,

1789
01:40:24,040 --> 01:40:26,320
Speaker 1: like in any other sport, I don't even know. I mean,

1790
01:40:26,360 --> 01:40:29,240
Speaker 1: I guess like one on one sports, tennis, boxing, but

1791
01:40:29,360 --> 01:40:31,719
Speaker 1: not even that. It doesn't feel like like in boxing

1792
01:40:31,800 --> 01:40:34,600
Speaker 1: you chill, rope a dope whatever my you know it

1793
01:40:34,720 --> 01:40:37,960
Speaker 1: might be. You know, you talk about tennis, these guys

1794
01:40:38,120 --> 01:40:41,200
Speaker 1: sometimes just take chances and it's not like the smartest

1795
01:40:41,240 --> 01:40:45,160
Speaker 1: play for him. But in track, it ain't no thought.

1796
01:40:45,880 --> 01:40:48,679
Speaker 1: I gotta go the events I ran, I should saying,

1797
01:40:50,400 --> 01:40:53,800
Speaker 1: and damn it, there's no better feeling when you cross

1798
01:40:53,880 --> 01:40:55,720
Speaker 1: that finish line in the first place and you know

1799
01:40:55,960 --> 01:41:01,599
Speaker 1: you beat everybody else at their best effort. God, that's

1800
01:41:01,640 --> 01:41:03,759
Speaker 1: a That's why I did it, That's why I practiced.

1801
01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:08,160
Speaker 1: I was like, this is it, But that said coach James.

1802
01:41:08,439 --> 01:41:10,760
Speaker 1: I walked up to him after I got drafted. I

1803
01:41:10,880 --> 01:41:13,240
Speaker 1: was like, Yo, they're on my head, coach. Everybody acting different.

1804
01:41:13,800 --> 01:41:16,760
Speaker 1: You know, everybody the girls think I'm cute are way

1805
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:19,559
Speaker 1: too cute girls that broke up with me at college,

1806
01:41:19,600 --> 01:41:21,640
Speaker 1: at high school, wherever my draft party, or trying to

1807
01:41:21,680 --> 01:41:24,680
Speaker 1: come to my draft when they were filming me and

1808
01:41:24,800 --> 01:41:27,560
Speaker 1: CNN and everything like that, we booted up again. I

1809
01:41:27,680 --> 01:41:30,439
Speaker 1: was like, damn that fast. Of course I took advantage

1810
01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:33,920
Speaker 1: of it, because whynot, But you know, your mind's eye

1811
01:41:34,080 --> 01:41:37,080
Speaker 1: was like, damn everybody tripping people at the mall. Now

1812
01:41:37,120 --> 01:41:39,360
Speaker 1: I want to autographs, say people who used to look

1813
01:41:39,400 --> 01:41:40,760
Speaker 1: at me like, man, hurry up and get out of

1814
01:41:40,760 --> 01:41:43,280
Speaker 1: the store. You know what I mean? It just flipped.

1815
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:46,040
Speaker 1: So I was like, Coach James, how am I gonna

1816
01:41:46,040 --> 01:41:49,040
Speaker 1: know who's real from fake? And he was like, man,

1817
01:41:49,400 --> 01:41:53,440
Speaker 1: here's the white liism. Listen to people, they'll tell on themselves.

1818
01:41:53,840 --> 01:41:59,880
Speaker 1: WHOA Listen to people they will tell on themselves. Ain't

1819
01:42:00,000 --> 01:42:03,439
Speaker 1: that the truth? If you take rooting routine out of

1820
01:42:04,080 --> 01:42:08,000
Speaker 1: any relationship, like when you first meet somebody, infatuation stays.

1821
01:42:08,160 --> 01:42:11,400
Speaker 1: Don't rule it. Don't root for a defined girl to

1822
01:42:11,479 --> 01:42:14,280
Speaker 1: be the one. Don't root for that mister handsome guy,

1823
01:42:14,479 --> 01:42:16,600
Speaker 1: rich guy, or whatever it may be guy to be

1824
01:42:16,680 --> 01:42:20,840
Speaker 1: the one. Don't rule. Just listen they're telling themselves. And

1825
01:42:20,920 --> 01:42:23,679
Speaker 1: then when I look back the times I took this advice,

1826
01:42:24,600 --> 01:42:26,519
Speaker 1: I was dead on in terms of reading who I

1827
01:42:26,680 --> 01:42:30,439
Speaker 1: was with the times I was rooting, I ran past

1828
01:42:30,560 --> 01:42:36,719
Speaker 1: every stop something like whatever, I mean, super fun, super fun?

1829
01:42:37,400 --> 01:42:41,599
Speaker 1: Does every red light red stop sign? Right? I shouldn't

1830
01:42:41,600 --> 01:42:44,080
Speaker 1: have done it, But then I think that's how you learn, right,

1831
01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:47,240
Speaker 1: You learn by making mistakes, even fast mistakes like in sports,

1832
01:42:47,479 --> 01:42:49,840
Speaker 1: make a mistakes, just make it fast and then recover

1833
01:42:50,040 --> 01:42:53,560
Speaker 1: next play. And Coach told me that and then just

1834
01:42:53,760 --> 01:42:57,479
Speaker 1: opened my mind to like, yo, when I sit down,

1835
01:42:57,600 --> 01:43:01,879
Speaker 1: business means now or even back then, people I was meeting, girls, hollering,

1836
01:43:01,960 --> 01:43:04,560
Speaker 1: dudes trying to kick it. I'll just be listening and

1837
01:43:04,720 --> 01:43:08,120
Speaker 1: I'll figure out, Oh oh oh he trying to push

1838
01:43:08,240 --> 01:43:09,840
Speaker 1: up to get some money. Oh oh he want me

1839
01:43:09,880 --> 01:43:12,360
Speaker 1: to open up a business. Oh he trying to make

1840
01:43:12,400 --> 01:43:14,200
Speaker 1: me check in. Yeah, they try to make me check

1841
01:43:14,280 --> 01:43:18,759
Speaker 1: in before, now, sir, not me. I was protected, thankfully,

1842
01:43:20,680 --> 01:43:23,479
Speaker 1: just all the silliness that comes with whatever this is

1843
01:43:24,200 --> 01:43:27,120
Speaker 1: dressed up as success. Right, It was just like that,

1844
01:43:27,400 --> 01:43:30,479
Speaker 1: So Coach James hit me with that nugget. Listen to

1845
01:43:30,560 --> 01:43:34,320
Speaker 1: people they're telling themselves. Now, challenge y'all to listen to people.

1846
01:43:34,640 --> 01:43:38,200
Speaker 1: The new relationships, especially because it's easy to blank canvas.

1847
01:43:38,520 --> 01:43:41,360
Speaker 1: See what they're talking about, Listen to people they're telling themselves.

1848
01:43:41,880 --> 01:43:44,000
Speaker 1: All right, that's gonna do it. For more to It,

1849
01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:46,240
Speaker 1: check the show notes for all the information on our

1850
01:43:46,320 --> 01:43:49,400
Speaker 1: topics two days. You want to keep the conversation going,

1851
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:51,400
Speaker 1: I know y'all do. Let's talk. You find me on

1852
01:43:51,479 --> 01:43:53,960
Speaker 1: all socials at march sell Us while it buy ain't.

1853
01:43:54,640 --> 01:43:56,919
Speaker 1: More to It as a production of Dan Patrick Productions,

1854
01:43:57,000 --> 01:44:00,639
Speaker 1: Dad Dude Entertainment and Workouts and Media Shows, Executive produced

1855
01:44:00,640 --> 01:44:03,920
Speaker 1: by Dan Patrick, Marcela Swaite. That's me, Why, Paul Anderson

1856
01:44:03,960 --> 01:44:07,439
Speaker 1: and Nick Panella. I'm Marcella Swatty. Thanks for listening, and

1857
01:44:07,520 --> 01:44:14,200
Speaker 1: thanks for those reviews. More reviews, more, more reviews on me,

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Speaker 1: so more reviews, keep them coming. That's more. There's more

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Speaker 1: coming from More to It. I don't even know how

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Speaker 1: to say it. There's more coming from this show, More

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Speaker 1: to It. Talk to y'all next week. I want your peace. Peace. Peace,

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Speaker 1: Got