Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions?
Speaker 1: What the motherfuck is uh? Pitch the hole and ho
Speaker 1: and tricks. Welcome to the motherfucking Horrible Decisions podcast, bitches.
Speaker 1: So I really tried to make it sound different. You
Speaker 1: don't like, that's not telling that he is now an actress.
Speaker 1: Let me stop. That's this is what we do. Bitch
Speaker 1: for giving me a p a. Because when that nigga
Speaker 1: want to give me macha every day, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is a life I need. I will hold you, macha.
Speaker 1: It'd be baking my mouth drying. Bitch, is this supposed
Speaker 1: to do that? Well? Let me feeling like I'm drinking weed.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, why is my mouth? So? I know
Speaker 1: it's a t but I drink Earl good bit, Mr
Speaker 1: Earl Gray, I'm feeling good. To the show, y'all, this
Speaker 1: is horrible decision. So you I didn't just say that.
Speaker 1: And I was going to say, my name is Wheezy
Speaker 1: and I'm Mandy and he has a red cup in
Speaker 1: her hand. For those of you are not watching on YouTube, bitch,
Speaker 1: I came WTF Studios and I'm like, y'all, rich right,
Speaker 1: what a look at, bitch, I'm drinking fucking Bacardi gold.
Speaker 1: What the fuck listen? It's giving Caribbean vacations now, panu coloda.
Speaker 1: I don't know, bitch, but this Riccarti is not you know,
Speaker 1: put it back up. That is Dave's I'm making tan
Speaker 1: baby and the bitches at the oil up because I'm
Speaker 1: feeling that's my that's my white side. I say you
Speaker 1: got oil cis because I didn't want you to see
Speaker 1: my skin feeling like a repettalion. Repettalion, I don't looking
Speaker 1: fuck is wrong. I'll take the cup and can we
Speaker 1: get a sap for hills? Let's get a wall? Is
Speaker 1: that for hills? You don't want it's not Avian? Bitch?
Speaker 1: What is it? Your goddamn alcoholic brain? It's heavy on tequila. Wow,
Speaker 1: you want a damn bro Okay, what ya a dope?
Speaker 1: Announcement today is the release of sex Sell on FUSA TV.
Speaker 1: If you don't have FUSE, please figure out how to
Speaker 1: get it because they gave your girl TV show and
Speaker 1: I need a season two beach. Listen. This show is
Speaker 1: the first show ever hosted by a black girl about business.
Speaker 1: It is about the entrepreneurs that make money from sex
Speaker 1: without having it. I know you may have seen previews
Speaker 1: and it looks super skanky, and it does. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie it is, but you filmed in a sex club.
Speaker 1: We took the sex out of sex, sexiness out of it.
Speaker 1: That's literally in my logline when writing the Episodic Bible,
Speaker 1: I said take the sex out of it because I
Speaker 1: really wanted people to forget they were watching a sex show. Bro,
Speaker 1: there's a girl we interview that does like a querk
Speaker 1: class who does a full un lesson about s c
Speaker 1: O in Google searches. Like, every single person that you watch,
Speaker 1: you're gonna really respect their business acumen, not to mention
Speaker 1: like every episode is themed on how these people make
Speaker 1: money from sex. And before anyone could even like cast
Speaker 1: somebody that was like whack, I was really going through
Speaker 1: horrible decisions and I was like, who has in my brain?
Speaker 1: You had pretty much all of horrible decisions on there.
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie, but you and I have
Speaker 1: sat here and been like, what you don't fuck dick? Like,
Speaker 1: there's been so many guests on horrible decisions where we're like,
Speaker 1: you are the epitome of a sex worker. You make
Speaker 1: money engaging in sex work without having sex, and I
Speaker 1: think that for a long time, it took us like
Speaker 1: so that you you don't this client at all? We
Speaker 1: questioned a lot of people don't realize that, and we did.
Speaker 1: We would like, say, you're telling me this Nil paid
Speaker 1: you how much? And he didn't put his dick. It's
Speaker 1: almost insane. Like the first episode you guys will see tonight.
Speaker 1: You've seen my mom in the trailer Young Maze and
Speaker 1: the trailer I basically connected with women. Almost everybody in
Speaker 1: the show is black, And I said, I really thought
Speaker 1: Fuse was gonna be like, we gotta get this ship BT,
Speaker 1: but no, because honestly, like I barely like they barely
Speaker 1: chose ABT also is only playing baby boy currently. I
Speaker 1: don't know what what to me was so special about.
Speaker 1: It is like I really wanted this to almost connect
Speaker 1: with horrible decisions and new people in a way, and
Speaker 1: like you will see some of the people that we've
Speaker 1: interviewed and now really learned about like their money and
Speaker 1: how they have created their business. UM, shout out to Dash.
Speaker 1: I hope I'm not spilling this secret, but I asked
Speaker 1: Dash to come on, and one has been He's like
Speaker 1: and I'm not I don't remember even you've reached out
Speaker 1: to me and was like, hey, what's Dash his contact
Speaker 1: or but the fact that he traveled in the way
Speaker 1: he did for our touring Dash has been that was
Speaker 1: part of his explaining his business. One of the really
Speaker 1: one of my greatest gems I think from the show
Speaker 1: and learning what he does, and so many of our
Speaker 1: listeners go to Dash. I mean, bro, he said on
Speaker 1: when we were filming the show. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you will leave it in there, but he was like, bro,
Speaker 1: like what horrible decisions did. And for me, it was like,
Speaker 1: this show is so much about the Kinks, but these
Speaker 1: people really make their living, Like Dash has not only
Speaker 1: just done like rope bondage and clients like he's branched
Speaker 1: into making boxes and product and creating ship like and
Speaker 1: he talked about that. He talked about growing his brand,
Speaker 1: traveling for even shows with us, like each person like
Speaker 1: I looked at totally different. They taught me so much
Speaker 1: and like, granted, you know, we threw some people y'all
Speaker 1: may not know in it, and no shade to them,
Speaker 1: they were great businesses too, but like it just was
Speaker 1: so dope to be able to have black people explaining
Speaker 1: their entrepreneurship and it no matter what you do, there's
Speaker 1: a lesson learned from each one about their business. And
Speaker 1: at the end of every episode their businesses are highlighted.
Speaker 1: You'll you'll take away the the acumen that they have
Speaker 1: how to implement it on your own way. Like I
Speaker 1: learned something from everybody. Lisa splips in shout out to
Speaker 1: her when she came on. She was saying to me,
Speaker 1: like bro as far as like video conferencing platforms and
Speaker 1: electronic payment, like how those work, like all of those things.
Speaker 1: And it was just such a big deal to finally
Speaker 1: really validate what we do and what these people do.
Speaker 1: And I'm just so glad that most of men were black.
Speaker 1: But I will say, um, you know there's an Asian
Speaker 1: owned business. My wax lady. She was you did her penny.
Speaker 1: I was like this, okay, I was telling the caravan
Speaker 1: spread my pussy open. And she was so grateful. She
Speaker 1: taught us about group on and percentages, about how much
Speaker 1: they take from you, like the ship was lit. People
Speaker 1: really teach you how to market, how to make sure
Speaker 1: that you're not doing some illegal ship. But yeah, nobody
Speaker 1: on there is fucking for money, or at least doesn't
Speaker 1: know what they explained to us. Maybe, but they have
Speaker 1: ways of which they're making very few. I would say
Speaker 1: maybe one or two people could have possibly fun for money,
Speaker 1: but for the most part, no. I mean, you'll learn
Speaker 1: about products, deal dough makers, and you'll see some ancillary
Speaker 1: characters that you may know from my life or whoever.
Speaker 1: Fucking Mandy was supposed to do a twork class with me,
Speaker 1: but we couldn't get the time right at all. Why
Speaker 1: it was because I did not do well and I
Speaker 1: just ass but you know what, now, I'm gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: I feel like I could do it on a dick.
Speaker 1: That's it. I cannot. Yeah, I mean it's like and
Speaker 1: why and and shake your ass. I was like, oh no,
Speaker 1: But you know, like people that don't want to feel
Speaker 1: the pressure of going to the gym, they do like
Speaker 1: dance classes and stuff like T work classes are really special, Cardia.
Speaker 1: I was I needed an inhaler in the middle of
Speaker 1: the ship, but I'm convinced you need one for sex
Speaker 1: to like you. I'll watch to watch this as a
Speaker 1: family with me every Monday. It's going to come on
Speaker 1: at eleven PM. I like really, am just so excited
Speaker 1: and proud, Like you guys have seen us do HBO,
Speaker 1: you've seen us do Vice. We've worked really hard to
Speaker 1: get to where we are and just on some real ship.
Speaker 1: Like something I was just thinking about when doing the show,
Speaker 1: Like I had to write my intros and out shows
Speaker 1: and they're long, like you really got to write them
Speaker 1: and craft them and get my jokes. And when I
Speaker 1: was sitting in front of there like the vout, like
Speaker 1: why I'm able to do this, Like it's not only
Speaker 1: just because I have a business background, but like as podcasters,
Speaker 1: we have truly grown as entrepreneurs. And I know you
Speaker 1: guys may be sick of hearing it, but we're just
Speaker 1: so proud of it. Like I think it's just such
Speaker 1: a big deal to have come from and started this
Speaker 1: from a corporate world to like really making our own
Speaker 1: money in different ways together and separately, Like when I
Speaker 1: counted the streams of income when I was writing one
Speaker 1: of my intros about like, oh, this is how I've
Speaker 1: learned how to do this, like all from a podcast,
Speaker 1: all from Stuggy Deep. But I mean, but you know
Speaker 1: what you're saying that, And again, I know a lot
Speaker 1: of you guys. UM want to hear like I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna TV. Is like we've been trying to get us
Speaker 1: to do TV, and I was just like, match, I
Speaker 1: didn't president. I'm sure people are probably like, why is
Speaker 1: Manny not a part of it? Um? I think that
Speaker 1: through our ups and downs and learning each other and
Speaker 1: I mean honestly horrible to still horrible decisions, is still
Speaker 1: both of our babies. And trust me, we have definitely
Speaker 1: been offered the TV too. Yeah, but we've we've both
Speaker 1: tried to see what more we want to do outside
Speaker 1: of horrible, how much we want to do with each other.
Speaker 1: And like, I'm in the e commerce space, so even
Speaker 1: you're talking about uh having someone on your show to
Speaker 1: talk about s c O and stuff. I literally was
Speaker 1: not able to get Google search ads because of the
Speaker 1: artwork in my box. They wrote back and said, you're
Speaker 1: not able to show on Google because here show me out.
Speaker 1: This is the reason they wrote back butt talks because
Speaker 1: one of the drawings in my box shows a butt talks.
Speaker 1: This is why I was not able to show up
Speaker 1: on fucking Google. So I love. I mean, I also
Speaker 1: just recently partnered with a black artist and do you
Speaker 1: know that certain artists get shadow band just like sex
Speaker 1: workers for having art that showcases women's vaginas and women's
Speaker 1: bodies and women's tits. And we've talked about this with
Speaker 1: a lot of people, so for you to be able
Speaker 1: to go on TV, there's so many heels to climb
Speaker 1: in this space. I go back to say, Weezy and
Speaker 1: Iron are in space where I know the lane I
Speaker 1: want to be in, and Weezy has excelled in the
Speaker 1: lane that she wants to be in. But I'm still
Speaker 1: glad that we're able to come back here and do
Speaker 1: horrible decisions and still continue with what this show started
Speaker 1: off of, which was our hole asses, even though you
Speaker 1: don't think I'm a whole no more because I got
Speaker 1: a niggad, but like to be able to grow from.
Speaker 1: Like if they go back to Wei was talking about
Speaker 1: eat the net and ship that I don't know what
Speaker 1: that is, and I was talking about a fucking final
Speaker 1: exam that I had and we were, oh my god,
Speaker 1: if you go to our YouTube, we look disgusting. We're
Speaker 1: coming in with sucking pants and card again. It's okay,
Speaker 1: we said, but I will tell y'all one thing I
Speaker 1: have learned from doing TV. Oh am I a podcast? Maybe?
Speaker 1: What does that mean? These niggas cut me? Excuse me.
Speaker 1: By niggas, I mean the people I worked with. Shout
Speaker 1: out to Beery and Hidi and John and Brandon, everybody
Speaker 1: at FUSED, who's Ryan sell, everyone who's helped me make
Speaker 1: this show, particularly Brandon. Um. Brandon came to Mandy and
Speaker 1: I to do a show. He ended up leaving that network. Um,
Speaker 1: we didn't end up doing it. They Oh we did
Speaker 1: talk to one network. Remember they want to go twelve
Speaker 1: box the show like some I don't even know if
Speaker 1: we got to the money per show. We did, got
Speaker 1: through development and it just wasn't But Brandon told me
Speaker 1: two years ago at max Fish that he was going
Speaker 1: to give me a TV show, and he did. And
Speaker 1: we had to really work to be able to put
Speaker 1: sex on TV in this way and honor people. So
Speaker 1: fun fact about this show. Talk to me the company
Speaker 1: I told you that I was supposed to do with me.
Speaker 1: I wanted to call it sex it and how people
Speaker 1: left the sex industry. But this isn't this, This isn't
Speaker 1: them leaving it. And I said, I do like that
Speaker 1: name though. That gotta be an episode well, I said,
Speaker 1: I cannot be sex positive and save people because also
Speaker 1: there's a pride. There's pridefulness in saying this is what
Speaker 1: I did and I don't do it no more. There's
Speaker 1: almost like a shame in what you used to do
Speaker 1: and you being able to leave it. So I'm so
Speaker 1: glad because which we would have looked like hypocrites. No,
Speaker 1: there's no way. I'm so glad, Brandon, and I can
Speaker 1: see I should have said a splash a coake, nigga, Mandy,
Speaker 1: we have another two hours in here, like this looks
Speaker 1: like pure coke, not not that Coca cola. I can't
Speaker 1: wait for you to sip that. And you're like, thanks Eddin, Okay,
Speaker 1: thanks at it, y'all. But Ray cup shot it. First off, wheezy.
Speaker 1: If you're watching us on YouTube, by the way, shout
Speaker 1: out to all of you guys who watch us on YouTube.
Speaker 1: Search horrible decisions on YouTube. We zeed. This episode for
Speaker 1: sure is the stud Dike and I am the Femi lesbian.
Speaker 1: Um it's giving bisexual you were giving you don't know,
Speaker 1: but the only dick shape anything is that banana. The
Speaker 1: show was called sex sell That didn't suck up with
Speaker 1: this outfit. But Mitch Right, I thought she was gonna
Speaker 1: give me sex you were giving me. Yeahs were so
Speaker 1: crazy on that show that like in sexy and over
Speaker 1: the top, that like I needed address like a little
Speaker 1: less today. But no, the show is honoring people. And
Speaker 1: I will say this for anyone who has thought maybe
Speaker 1: you will see a repetitive guest on from Horrible, there's
Speaker 1: a reason for that. There is no room where I
Speaker 1: could have done something on TV without honoring how I
Speaker 1: got in the space to even talk about those people,
Speaker 1: and that includes dropping Horrible on every episode using the
Speaker 1: butts on set. Okay, Like I do not believe that
Speaker 1: you don't um lift those up and show love to
Speaker 1: those who have been around. And I felt like it
Speaker 1: just didn't make sense if I'm gonna talk to a
Speaker 1: Finn Doom and want to write that episode out, that
Speaker 1: it shouldn't be someone that people know from Horrible. But
Speaker 1: I also but I also want to make it clear
Speaker 1: while I was, while I was not a part of
Speaker 1: this project, I love that through this four years of
Speaker 1: this journey with us figuring out ourselves sexually, growing sexually
Speaker 1: and being in the space and really meeting good people,
Speaker 1: I love that you reach back out to a lot
Speaker 1: of those people. Like I said, Dad showed up when
Speaker 1: we really had like we've had great sex, and you
Speaker 1: knew you had to cast people. What the fund do
Speaker 1: I look like? Right? Like? That's really what I was like,
Speaker 1: I can't My waxing lady was so in shock that,
Speaker 1: like I used, she couldn't even believe it. And I
Speaker 1: was like, bro, like if I'm gonna talk about like
Speaker 1: the episode is particularly about just taking care of your
Speaker 1: vaginant that and I was like, how could I not
Speaker 1: that you ain't hit me on there official box owner base.
Speaker 1: I didn't do a health episode yet by the episode, Ok, yeah,
Speaker 1: there ain't no spot, but bitch, that's like so you
Speaker 1: know what it I'll be I'll be very honest with
Speaker 1: you too, like I said, with us doing different things now,
Speaker 1: a medical episode, well one of the well I ain't
Speaker 1: no doctor, bitch, you know, I don't even believe science really.
Speaker 1: But one of the things that I've found through this
Speaker 1: show to me was the importance of feminine feminine health
Speaker 1: and hygiene, only because I have friends who I've we
Speaker 1: laugh but their pussies are always broken. So much happens.
Speaker 1: But not only that, like I have friends that like
Speaker 1: my best friend at thirty four has been diagnosed with
Speaker 1: breast cancer. The opening of Honestly Now. Also being with
Speaker 1: a partner where I can share at a different time
Speaker 1: of the month, I might be a little dry, let's
Speaker 1: use lube, or I might smell different this like right now,
Speaker 1: I just drank this is how my vagina is gonna react.
Speaker 1: Also to have a partner over the last year where
Speaker 1: I can communicate why my pussy may smell, taste, look
Speaker 1: at whatever, different and any time of the month. But
Speaker 1: being able to open up with my friends about that,
Speaker 1: that's so important and so I love that you're being
Speaker 1: able to showcase like this show has brought us through
Speaker 1: so many different avenues to still educate and show and
Speaker 1: support the people in our lives. If there's no way,
Speaker 1: and I think, like you know, when you gotta you
Speaker 1: say you gotta put people on like or like you
Speaker 1: you really do have to do that, because people have
Speaker 1: done that for us. But we have put on more
Speaker 1: podcast It is okay. Many seek you see how she
Speaker 1: was trying. June this month is coming and we have
Speaker 1: no room to do this. We don't. We just did
Speaker 1: African American April. We did melon in May. This is
Speaker 1: Mother's Day, June bug June. Okay, hold on, let let's dance.
Speaker 1: Come on the click? Can you hit the little music?
Speaker 1: But I don't want to make sure my arial and
Speaker 1: don't pop out. But yeah, no, anyways, I say all
Speaker 1: of that to say, I think, to be very fair,
Speaker 1: you and I have done nothing but support all of
Speaker 1: the people we've come across. So I love that in
Speaker 1: different ways we're still able to push that forward. Um
Speaker 1: season two because y'all better give me one. Um, I
Speaker 1: could do an e commerce episode or I really want
Speaker 1: to do a health one, but man, do you can't
Speaker 1: say anything about the science if we do this? Because
Speaker 1: do not let a health episode? Why did you bring
Speaker 1: your black ass up a healthy series? What are you
Speaker 1: talking to? Bit? You've been talking about a sad nigga's
Speaker 1: out here doing two parts of ship. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: give me two, three, four parts. Okay, there's two businesses
Speaker 1: highlighted each episode. Relax. What I'm saying is you're not
Speaker 1: about to get on there with these goddamn gummies on
Speaker 1: TV and be like, yeah, I can compton a formula
Speaker 1: but saw it? Okay, Well, actually guys, look up the
Speaker 1: health benefits. You know what, Before I even put my
Speaker 1: little plug in here, we'll tell them sex cells, what
Speaker 1: channels station before we get to the gun damn house ship,
Speaker 1: because we're gonna get to it, bitch. Oh yes, tonight
Speaker 1: eleven PM and every Monday after that, um, the series premiere.
Speaker 1: I hope I'm in Atlanta watching it with you all, niggas.
Speaker 1: I really do, because I have to be. I really
Speaker 1: hope I'm watching it with some niggas in Atlanta. Damn
Speaker 1: beat you on TV. That's the ship. I don't want
Speaker 1: to hear it, but yeah, do you think you're gonna
Speaker 1: get offered multiple dicks because you're on TV? Like? You
Speaker 1: know how, I'm sure niggas would be like, I never
Speaker 1: really want to fund no other nigga, but if they
Speaker 1: get the opportunity to Rihanna, they might take a backseat
Speaker 1: to another name. People that don't know me. When when
Speaker 1: I posted the trailer, they were like I was a
Speaker 1: listener first, I was like, oh, y'all love putting the
Speaker 1: claim they do just like the same niggas they want
Speaker 1: to play. Oh my god, we went to middle school together. Bitch. Alright, alright,
Speaker 1: alright download, all right, well, and before we get to
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Speaker 1: That's it. Let's get the Vanilla ship. Say, I just
Speaker 1: want to read a review, real quack, we read a
Speaker 1: review that be This one is so cute. The caption
Speaker 1: is say bye and he says, we love say bye
Speaker 1: because many of you saying say bye edding, Oh like
Speaker 1: not like say bye like you look not even have
Speaker 1: But what what review say bye? You mean? Like? What
Speaker 1: how many stars? Five from? We're reading five stars? We
Speaker 1: ain't reading like them? A little trash bitches that you're
Speaker 1: leaving one right, Be says we love edd and I
Speaker 1: think he has a funny perspective more edding. Um wow,
Speaker 1: that's I haven't seen many of those ed He needs
Speaker 1: to get his own part. If he wants, you know
Speaker 1: what I will like let me just say do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about it? When you're podcasting
Speaker 1: in a room, you really do need a little gratification,
Speaker 1: especially for people that entertain. Do you bet I know what?
Speaker 1: I'm funny? I don't need eddings laughing and no, no no.
Speaker 1: To direct things to the person like another person is
Speaker 1: a lot easier, Like it's so much easier when there's
Speaker 1: someone to look at or like nod to, like behind
Speaker 1: this screen, behind this mike, whatever you're listening to, Like,
Speaker 1: it's not that easy to just look at each other.
Speaker 1: When Mandy and I disagree, you have to turn like,
Speaker 1: not only disagree. I'll tell you right now, Wheezy and
Speaker 1: I can talk to each other, so when we cannot
Speaker 1: eddin is our what's sex? But I thought that was
Speaker 1: really great. And the next one is the one said
Speaker 1: I love this podcast that helped me with being more
Speaker 1: comfortable in my skin and my sex life. Love you both,
Speaker 1: We love you back, bitch Now Vanilla ship boy? Are
Speaker 1: they talking about me? In this New York Post article
Speaker 1: people who are into kinky sex most more likely to
Speaker 1: do a list at drugs? Oh? Is that one my boyfriend? Okay,
Speaker 1: never mind, go ahead, Oh, we're not going to talk
Speaker 1: about it. Is he my kind of people? Um, he's experimentive.
Speaker 1: That's so much drug users spend less time in missionary.
Speaker 1: So they did a poll of a thousand attendees at
Speaker 1: a music festival about their drugs and sex habits and
Speaker 1: the anonymous Data music festival where they were already of
Speaker 1: course they're already going to be on drugs. But no, no,
Speaker 1: basically saying for the people that were like basically testing
Speaker 1: the sex they have and the drug use at the festival, Like,
Speaker 1: what are these people into? But we've also read an
Speaker 1: article about at these festivals, there's a high rate of
Speaker 1: herpies that is transmitted and all these other things. So
Speaker 1: of course you're on drugs, you're having sex, and you're
Speaker 1: transmitting STDs. That's what happens at festivals. Well, someone I
Speaker 1: don't like, I don't like this pool. The anonymous data
Speaker 1: they acquired linked that there was a strong connection between
Speaker 1: substance and sexual practices, including casual sex with a friend
Speaker 1: and anal and b D s M. The normalization of
Speaker 1: drugs and liberal liberalization of consensual sex practices is actually related,
Speaker 1: and the higher the drug use, the more the leisurely
Speaker 1: actually at ease. Our study revisited the well worn phrase
Speaker 1: of sex, drugs and rock and roll, and basically fact,
Speaker 1: sex hip hop who report to taking to illicit drugs
Speaker 1: a year or um sorry a month are more likely
Speaker 1: to engage in non traditional sex, including the sucking dick
Speaker 1: if they snored coke. But no, no, I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's what I know. I don't think. But what are
Speaker 1: the doing that I drew a connection with? Like think
Speaker 1: about anal and like poppers? Those are drugs. It's illegal. Um,
Speaker 1: it's a substance that it's leather cleaner, that's what you
Speaker 1: have to ask for it for it to be illegal.
Speaker 1: It's leather clean. It's a substance that will like make
Speaker 1: your body warmer, make your head a little lighter, so
Speaker 1: that you can take a dick. But also I just
Speaker 1: had I ain't gonna hold you. Okay, this ain't even
Speaker 1: a part of motherfucking vanilla ship. But bitch, I just
Speaker 1: use this desensitizing lube for my ask. And let me
Speaker 1: tell you, not only did I not feel my ass
Speaker 1: for two days, my lips because somehow it got on
Speaker 1: my mouth. Don't ask me how, bitch, I felt like
Speaker 1: I had fellers. I was like, babe, does my face
Speaker 1: looked funny? But it's just because I could not feel
Speaker 1: my lips in the middle of kind of sex, I said, babe,
Speaker 1: we go use that ship no more. Because he wanted
Speaker 1: to sun my ass, I said, cool, We'll use this
Speaker 1: little desenthetizing jail. And I don't know where it ended up.
Speaker 1: Maybe I sucked the dick after I asked him out.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Maybe I ate his ass. It got
Speaker 1: somewhere else that My lips were numb, but I felt
Speaker 1: like they were balloons, but they weren't. I was like, babe,
Speaker 1: I don't like I literally had to go and like
Speaker 1: scrub my no no, bro, so I don't know what
Speaker 1: type of drugs this is. But also uh de synthetizing loup,
Speaker 1: Let's not do it? How about that? Sorry, that's my
Speaker 1: sex ship for today. Synthesizing loube. Don't do it. Don't
Speaker 1: buy that on the next sex story, bro, I probably
Speaker 1: give you. The hard nerve for the week is about
Speaker 1: the meadest, the whole the tip of your penis the mushroom,
Speaker 1: which is the worst name, the mushroom? No, the whole,
Speaker 1: little a little split thing. Was it the po not youreath?
Speaker 1: Was the actual like line like the stream? What are
Speaker 1: you talking about? The whole at the top of the dick? Why?
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say the thing from xenon penis
Speaker 1: the latest metest, Like when when she is this what
Speaker 1: we're doing? Anyway? Can we not talk about sex in
Speaker 1: the Disney Channel? That's kind of when the meadest is
Speaker 1: the whole, the tip of your dick, it's very sensitive
Speaker 1: during the arousal. But the po, yes, it is the peo? Right?
Speaker 1: Why are you calling it the meades? She's teaching people things.
Speaker 1: It's really called the m E A t U S
Speaker 1: I swear to God. Yeah, okay, carry on car okay.
Speaker 1: So the meet us, if you apply pressure to it,
Speaker 1: medium pressure on and off, it'll actually be good. Now.
Speaker 1: Not to be confused with the front of them, that's
Speaker 1: like a little we know you talk about the front
Speaker 1: of them all go, I'll be working. She'd be talking
Speaker 1: about the goddamn friend of them. She she's the front
Speaker 1: of them, queen he k. That's what we're gonna give
Speaker 1: every other episode. We know what the front of them is,
Speaker 1: do we do? It's a little it's a little thing
Speaker 1: on the mushroom that lead from the head to the chef,
Speaker 1: a little vain part and what's the pole called the
Speaker 1: meetest bit. That's an easy word. Though front of them
Speaker 1: is real like extra meet us makes sense because well
Speaker 1: we call it meat and it's for us, the meet us,
Speaker 1: for us, by us, the food dick in honor of
Speaker 1: sex Cells being the first business show hus by black girl.
Speaker 1: What else they set these two black girls? They let
Speaker 1: you get off get that off? Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 1: Do you think I'm not about to tell everybody of
Speaker 1: that because it is ma'am. Okay, just make a show,
Speaker 1: you know, they don't really want to get that to us,
Speaker 1: although we are for us by us. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: saying the sex Cell shows the first business show. But
Speaker 1: I know, but they let you get off that you're
Speaker 1: a black woman. Oh, I'm just playing only because we
Speaker 1: get all the hell from it, bro, We get the
Speaker 1: hell from it. That's all. Well, we see bit me
Speaker 1: today now speaking of business, A lot of people right
Speaker 1: in asking about how to trick on nigga don't know
Speaker 1: how to get me get a trick on them, Sugar,
Speaker 1: your daddy's all that stuff. I want to take a
Speaker 1: different time of this episode, and it actually was my
Speaker 1: I've had this idea for a few weeks. How to
Speaker 1: branch off into making money with niggas, take money for niggas,
Speaker 1: how to structure the conversation around it, things for them
Speaker 1: to invest in and fellas. If you read a meet
Speaker 1: a rich bitch, ladies, gays, whoever, and you have somebody
Speaker 1: in your life that's wealthy, follow these steps with their steps.
Speaker 1: Bitch about to give it to you. Now, wait steps.
Speaker 1: I just want to be clear what you're about to
Speaker 1: teach the people? We we we we, But you just
Speaker 1: sent me the outline. I just learned this is a
Speaker 1: free flowing company. You have a lot of experience with
Speaker 1: here you go, here you go. Now you're about to
Speaker 1: just say you've been prostituting. I did it. I felt
Speaker 1: like she was going there at It's one of a
Speaker 1: lot of experience with getting in large sum of money.
Speaker 1: At one point in time, we're going to talk about
Speaker 1: how to bitch because it was africans and athletes. Are
Speaker 1: these gonna be tips for like the average people? Or
Speaker 1: they got a bag a millionaire first? So there's a
Speaker 1: few different types of spenders. Tell me which ones I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: Let's know it. Here's the ones I listed that I
Speaker 1: could come up with. Men who will buy you things,
Speaker 1: that's what, okay. Men who will buy you vacations, Men
Speaker 1: who will only take it eat. Wait what was that one?
Speaker 1: Take it to eat? Oh? Oh god, Oh we're going
Speaker 1: really low, okay. Men who will invest or a partner
Speaker 1: with you. And I already said vacations right now. The
Speaker 1: men that will buy these are the different type of
Speaker 1: spenders things, gifts, vacations, food, and no, that's not it.
Speaker 1: So so let me add to this. Then you have
Speaker 1: those who want to feel like they are your night
Speaker 1: in shining armor savior for livelihood. So you have men
Speaker 1: who will not gift you things or take you anywhere.
Speaker 1: They will only pay for necessities such as rents, such
Speaker 1: as school tuition, degree such as such as those things.
Speaker 1: So your rent can be say your dollars. That same
Speaker 1: man will never give you just two thousand dollars cash.
Speaker 1: It has to specifically go to something for your life life.
Speaker 1: When I said men who would invest, that wasn't what
Speaker 1: I meant. That was a good point. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: talking about men that be like, well, what do you
Speaker 1: want me to pust? What do you want to do?
Speaker 1: Because I've had many men asked me that when I
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. Oh bitch, same I apparently
Speaker 1: wanted to say fucking iPhone accessories at one point. Let's
Speaker 1: not talk about that question like niggas be like, oh,
Speaker 1: if you want to put your money towards something, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it like that too, because some
Speaker 1: men do want to partner with you on time because
Speaker 1: they don't want to just hand you cat. But wait,
Speaker 1: can I also add one more to that, men who
Speaker 1: will be with you for a good time and spend
Speaker 1: money on everything, but you so I've been with men
Speaker 1: who will want to show me a great time and
Speaker 1: they feel like because they just spent two racks in
Speaker 1: the strip club on other women, I have pockets strip
Speaker 1: club money anything, So there's so there's that. But I
Speaker 1: mean a lot of times like I've had friends get
Speaker 1: caught pocketing strip club money and nigga that ship look
Speaker 1: bad on me, and niggas was like never again. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying I've also been out with a nigga to
Speaker 1: a strip club that would was only tipping twenties nigga.
Speaker 1: So I'm getting like, I'm at the strip club, I ate,
Speaker 1: I had a great time and the bitch I went
Speaker 1: home with nothing. But I realized there were dancers that
Speaker 1: just went home. So with this isn't you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Right? Because I've had men that if I've
Speaker 1: ever been out with a nigga and they'll like go
Speaker 1: to the mall with you and only buy themselves. They
Speaker 1: want to show you they spending money. Who when I
Speaker 1: was when I was sixty, We're going to the mall together?
Speaker 1: What am I getting? I When I was about like eighteen,
Speaker 1: I remember niggas would like take me to eat. We
Speaker 1: go to Millennia or some ship that's shout a seven
Speaker 1: shop of city, and they would buy themselves something expensive,
Speaker 1: and I didn't know what to do, how to ask.
Speaker 1: And I think that the asking in particular is something
Speaker 1: that we're all kind of uncomfortable with. Uncomfortable with. Hold
Speaker 1: on for everyone listening to this right now. If you're
Speaker 1: with a man and you're going out and he's like, yo,
Speaker 1: I gotta go pick this up real quick, y'all together,
Speaker 1: and he stopped at the Louis Store and think it's
Speaker 1: like it's okay for him to just buy himself something.
Speaker 1: He's trying to show you that he got money their
Speaker 1: significant other. If we're working with each other and I'm
Speaker 1: with you, I'm spending my time with you, I'm sending
Speaker 1: my day with you, and you gotta go pick something up.
Speaker 1: You go to the Louis store and just buy shoes
Speaker 1: for the evening, let me tell you how they mean nothing.
Speaker 1: You just trying to flex that you got that buying
Speaker 1: a fucking bottle and telling your friend they can't drink
Speaker 1: out of it. I swear to go. That is buying
Speaker 1: a bottle at the club and saying, oh, this is
Speaker 1: for me. That is I didn't you genuinely came to
Speaker 1: want me to see you flex? Bro? Have you ever
Speaker 1: taken out one of your friends that just ain't making
Speaker 1: as much red as you? And like you think I'm
Speaker 1: about to eat this ship in front of your face
Speaker 1: and not share my ship with you, I'm not inviting you.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know what I mean. I'm gonna roll
Speaker 1: with people that you agree. If I know you ain't
Speaker 1: got it, I'm gonna I got you. Or if I'm
Speaker 1: rolling with someone they on the same ship like that
Speaker 1: is some disrespectful ship. Niggas have done that to me
Speaker 1: and we go No. Um, I mean I think that
Speaker 1: now we can speak to it from a position. I
Speaker 1: know you don't want to be called an untie or anything. Oh,
Speaker 1: but we are our thirties now and I think we
Speaker 1: can now reflect on ship differently. You don't think it's
Speaker 1: that that I'm at now. Okay, you're not auntie because
Speaker 1: you have no siblings, but we're in the anti age era. No,
Speaker 1: we're not. My sister has a child. I'm literally an
Speaker 1: aunt I will not call you onto. We are not
Speaker 1: at the auntie age. I believe auntie age is thirty
Speaker 1: five and up. We are thirty. Man, you think Auntie
Speaker 1: is what me because I didn't learn my life. But
Speaker 1: it's because I got a man now. I'm not y'all
Speaker 1: really hate me. It's because I have a man now.
Speaker 1: I've learned my lesson. I think Auntie is learned from
Speaker 1: the mistakes they've made in their You and I repent
Speaker 1: everything I didn't. Oh lord, this is okay, go ahead, Um,
Speaker 1: I found this list. I thought it was pretty cute,
Speaker 1: but I want to uh go over what the internet
Speaker 1: says are great times to ask men for money. Let's
Speaker 1: start with that, then we'll go look at how to
Speaker 1: use this is the fact that you laugh is so
Speaker 1: hard and you can guess what as soon as you
Speaker 1: ask so pissed about that ship online, if you ask
Speaker 1: me for pussy, I can ask you for money and
Speaker 1: I will. Yeah, and I will Smart lazy hustler dot
Speaker 1: com your resource. I swear to god this is not
Speaker 1: the Washington Post. But say that again, smart lazy hustler
Speaker 1: dot com, because that's what we're about to be. Okay, Now, honestly,
Speaker 1: that's the battle of this. Can we do that? No,
Speaker 1: it has to be sex? Oh ship, never mind? Sorry, Yeah,
Speaker 1: have a smart lazy hustler maybe, and the factors to
Speaker 1: consider before you ask the money, because you can't just
Speaker 1: always ask the money. One are they happy? Make sure
Speaker 1: they're in a good space there, n ask what they
Speaker 1: paying me because they unhappy and they marriage. So let's
Speaker 1: go past this one. Nig's happy they paying you? Now?
Speaker 1: This is the unhappy niggas next do you? But she's
Speaker 1: about to give Do you understand now? If happy? Is
Speaker 1: it maybe like after they come or something. Damn Now,
Speaker 1: this is one I really love. Anytime that it hurts
Speaker 1: you and apologize this This is a great time to
Speaker 1: getting what you want. You should know it should be
Speaker 1: something serious like a forgotten birth, forgotten birthday, a cancelation
Speaker 1: of a date. Promises to call whenever they fail to
Speaker 1: do something you make their request because they know they
Speaker 1: have to famil you something. I'm about to stay here
Speaker 1: and be Devil's advocate. Straight up. Cutty got flamed. She
Speaker 1: came on see the thing is and said that when
Speaker 1: her nigga sucks up, it's okay when he sucks up
Speaker 1: as long as she gets something in return for the
Speaker 1: funk up. I say that for a woman who really
Speaker 1: likes the man, don't accept a gift as a consolations
Speaker 1: side for them. Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie I wait, wait, wait, wait, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I've dipped out with tricks. If you want your
Speaker 1: trick to behave in a certain way where he doesn't
Speaker 1: like funk up with your time and and really funk
Speaker 1: with you, know, you gotta get your disagree tricks have
Speaker 1: to be in line. Because my tricks, trick niggas I've had,
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about what fucking feelings are hurt.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pretend I'm sad and you're gonna buy anything.
Speaker 1: No trick niggas. Yeah, I really thought you were Like,
Speaker 1: I just can't believe we're not spending a week. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but trick niggas. At the same time, I have to
Speaker 1: know that they can't play with you, bro, Like a
Speaker 1: trick nigga can't be like, yeah, we're doing dinner, then
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this, then we're gonna do that, and
Speaker 1: then last minute they cancel on you. Trick niggas, you
Speaker 1: still have to hold them accountable to the same regard
Speaker 1: and you should be getting gifts and money from them,
Speaker 1: whether they funk up or not. So so you sucking
Speaker 1: up isn't why I'm getting a gift. You should be
Speaker 1: giving me a gift and ship. I mean, yes, they
Speaker 1: should be giving. But I do think it's a good
Speaker 1: if you have to put a time place and asking,
Speaker 1: I do think that's a good one. I will say,
Speaker 1: I try. Don't don't wait to ask for something when
Speaker 1: they sunk up. You should already be asking for something
Speaker 1: that you could bitch. This is one of the options. Damn.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, I'm telling you, we got to
Speaker 1: rewrite this article. That's what I'm saying now. The passive
Speaker 1: aggressive asker, which this happened in my let me tell
Speaker 1: you how do not like? They'll be like that could
Speaker 1: not be amount. So this is how I come on
Speaker 1: passive love. Her boy saw the clip about where we
Speaker 1: made the tip of the dick of your ass whatever,
Speaker 1: we made a joke, so we were in the same
Speaker 1: was the joke? What was the joke? Something Ibo'm giving
Speaker 1: a tip and you said, here s your tip, like
Speaker 1: the tip of the dicktive. He loved that. So I'm
Speaker 1: on FaceTime with him. I'm about to be in the
Speaker 1: same city. I haven't seen him in years, and I'm
Speaker 1: in the car with my home girl and her and
Speaker 1: I was shopping and I said on FaceTime I could
Speaker 1: not believe he ended up doing it. I was like,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't even be spending my money. This doesn't even
Speaker 1: feel right. I was like, I've had a birthday that's
Speaker 1: past Christmas. I was like, when you see me, I
Speaker 1: know you're one of those something. I was like, I
Speaker 1: should be getting shoes or something. He was like really.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, you wear Gucci. I should have Gucci.
Speaker 1: I should have nice things. I need a new pair
Speaker 1: of shoes. Bitch, don't you know you sent him the shoes.
Speaker 1: I didn't send him anything. Literally showed up. He had
Speaker 1: the Gucci bag ready, beautiful fucking Gucci. Luckily you like
Speaker 1: them anytime normally a man came with a gift. Okay,
Speaker 1: good ladies, there's a tip right there. Make sure you
Speaker 1: get the gift for seat, because a lot of these
Speaker 1: men in their styles is just a little question. There
Speaker 1: is something I said that I realized it was a
Speaker 1: little bit different. Then you get, bitch, just cant and
Speaker 1: heels and ship they do. We don't want that ship.
Speaker 1: He was making jokes about like I gotta buy you this,
Speaker 1: and I said, listen to me. I said, I buy
Speaker 1: myself these things. You buy yourself these things, and you
Speaker 1: know how I roll out like if I do what
Speaker 1: you need to be doing it facts And he did
Speaker 1: not saying he's never brought me nice things. He's definitely
Speaker 1: brought me Gucci when we were dating. But I was
Speaker 1: just so impressed and he was very much like, you
Speaker 1: deserve it. And I did pussy drip when you got
Speaker 1: that gift? Did you pussy start throbbing? Damn? How a
Speaker 1: man just put it? Fucking like, don't get me wrong. Oh,
Speaker 1: BI gets me things all the time, but like I
Speaker 1: know they're happening, like it's a birthday, it's Valentine's Day
Speaker 1: and he'll ask me, I'm gonna buy you something. Someone
Speaker 1: just puts a Gucci back in my face like that's
Speaker 1: for you. You know what's crazy? And you know I've
Speaker 1: been on my Black Lives Matter ship, bro, so I
Speaker 1: could believe. And what's crazy is I get boy was
Speaker 1: white for those sin sumit that it's so different now,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, y'all can fast forward. I'm about to talk
Speaker 1: about my man in terms of gifts though, um my
Speaker 1: dorm I have packages downstairs I'm like, I didn't order anything.
Speaker 1: My man sends things to my house constantly from if
Speaker 1: he just notices I'm out of something, or he's at
Speaker 1: the house and he feels like there's something that can
Speaker 1: make my life easier, he buys it for me, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, Nick, you haven't asked him. And I only
Speaker 1: know because he spelled He spelled my last name wrong,
Speaker 1: so I know when I get shipped from him. He
Speaker 1: actually he adds the actual letter, don't add the don't
Speaker 1: don't say here, but he adds an actual letter, So
Speaker 1: I normally know when things are from him because he
Speaker 1: speolls my last name was an extra letter. And then
Speaker 1: it'll literally be all household items, like things that he
Speaker 1: just realized that, which is right he and not just
Speaker 1: feminize him at all, but he does stuff like that,
Speaker 1: Like when I was in Jamaica, I came home two
Speaker 1: hooks and everything being hung around my house because he's like,
Speaker 1: you put a lot of things on the floor, hang
Speaker 1: it up now, bitch a sweet. But I'll tell you
Speaker 1: how Old Bay does his will. He's such a fucking
Speaker 1: bougie ass nigga, and I love him for it. But
Speaker 1: he'll come to my house and be like, what is
Speaker 1: this mark? What are these candles from bed bath and beyond? Wait?
Speaker 1: What la labo margella. He's not working around. He likes
Speaker 1: all candles, No, bitch, I'll be right there at Burlington.
Speaker 1: Give me my seven dollar candle. When I tell you,
Speaker 1: I'd be feeling like I'm doing something when I spin
Speaker 1: above eleven dollars on the candle and I'd be getting
Speaker 1: the ships. That'd be like this big would be like
Speaker 1: the side of my head. I'd be like, damn, like
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna line. You want to talk about things
Speaker 1: that make you come. I don't know, but this makes
Speaker 1: me come right here. I took the sticker off. But
Speaker 1: when I tell you, as an adult, honey, give me
Speaker 1: a twenty dollar candle for eight Oh I'm orgasm, Oh
Speaker 1: my yahnd wash? You think I have regular lab under soap?
Speaker 1: Now it has to be a sop geranium like he's
Speaker 1: not fucking around, okay, Burgermont like it has for what hands?
Speaker 1: So asp like body wash Like that's cute, but you're
Speaker 1: gonna wash your hands with soft soap and you know that.
Speaker 1: And I got so I got six bottles for twelve,
Speaker 1: nine and nine off Amazon officers shout out to the
Speaker 1: soft soap. Also, if you like it, you love you
Speaker 1: buy it for me anyway. Come So that's my type.
Speaker 1: What do you do once you get the money now
Speaker 1: there is you spend it. The men that want to
Speaker 1: just invest, I want to talk about some of the
Speaker 1: women that I've met and the things they've invested their
Speaker 1: bread into it, niggas. I thought it would be cool
Speaker 1: for us to talk about things that, maybe in a
Speaker 1: good way, that we flipped with a man's cash. One
Speaker 1: of my home girls, um, you know who she is,
Speaker 1: but she used to get mad bread from these scammer niggas,
Speaker 1: And one particular dude was like, oh, you ain't doing
Speaker 1: shape of buying clothes and holding around it up. You
Speaker 1: better come up with a business. And she fucking started
Speaker 1: selling hair a bit made him fly here to China,
Speaker 1: picked out the weave herself, like, started a whole company
Speaker 1: from it. And I think that when men would give
Speaker 1: me money or would ask me what I was doing
Speaker 1: with it, I didn't really have a plan. So I
Speaker 1: did think a great thing and a great way to start.
Speaker 1: Mandy even does. E commerce is one figuring out drop ship,
Speaker 1: whether it be candles or whatever like have that nigga.
Speaker 1: Just put the money into it because at the end
Speaker 1: of they guess what if you're not going to spend
Speaker 1: it on yourself, it's literally like free capital, like just
Speaker 1: take it, make it and if it fucking fails, whatever,
Speaker 1: but at least you didn't fucking So I'll be honest
Speaker 1: with you, coming from when I was really getting money
Speaker 1: out of these niggas. Um if I'm talking to the
Speaker 1: women in college or the women pursuing degrees, um. The
Speaker 1: capital that I was given went towards my bills because
Speaker 1: it allowed me the freedom not to have to work.
Speaker 1: That's smart. And so when I look back at it,
Speaker 1: even my African I told you I got like thirty
Speaker 1: grands on them twice, but I got like thirty thousand
Speaker 1: in a year. And it was the first year that
Speaker 1: I decided to go back to school. And at that
Speaker 1: time I had worked only retail bartending things like that
Speaker 1: was like my yearly income. So the fact that I
Speaker 1: got thirty thousand tax free off of a nigga, I
Speaker 1: was able to take seven classes a semester, I was
Speaker 1: able to lead up. It was twenty one credits a semester.
Speaker 1: You know, at Leman, I was able to speed up
Speaker 1: my process in obtaining two degrees, and so I looked
Speaker 1: back now loans a little bit because so I've never
Speaker 1: taken a student and then I took student loans just
Speaker 1: also live. So between loans, I will say, when you
Speaker 1: get a lot of cash from a dude, whatever it
Speaker 1: may be, I'm a firm believer. If the loan is
Speaker 1: fixed rate, I am not. I'm sorry if it does
Speaker 1: not take me like give me any advantage for paying
Speaker 1: it down, you cannot um what do you mean you
Speaker 1: fixed rate? As in it won't change like there's it's
Speaker 1: just this is what it is like if it's not
Speaker 1: really gonna like accrue more interesting whether you paid off
Speaker 1: or not. For example, like a lot of PPP loans,
Speaker 1: whether you pay them off early like they're gonna kind
Speaker 1: of be the same. Do not waste your capital by
Speaker 1: fucking spending all of the cash paying off a loan
Speaker 1: so you're debt free, because I know that's where I
Speaker 1: may not even help you in the hold you the
Speaker 1: s B a loan that I'm able to get last
Speaker 1: year only three percent. That's a very low interest rate.
Speaker 1: And right now I'll also say, with my e commerce business. Um,
Speaker 1: we need a lot of inventory. Inventory costs money. Like
Speaker 1: even just my first run I spent over. I spent
Speaker 1: over inventory just my first run of inventory, and we
Speaker 1: need more. And so even looking at inventory, that fixed
Speaker 1: interest rate of of loans is the only thing I'm doing, Like,
Speaker 1: you can't do do that a pr Yeah, like something
Speaker 1: is over sent or or they're able to change with
Speaker 1: the market fluctuation of what interest rates can be. That
Speaker 1: ends up. Now for sure, you can like do some
Speaker 1: refi on your own a little bit like one of
Speaker 1: the smartest things I was able to do so and
Speaker 1: this wasn't smartly also real quick for those of you
Speaker 1: listening who like are like, what then are these but
Speaker 1: just talking about? But also also here the breakdown. Say
Speaker 1: you take out a tenth that I'm going to make
Speaker 1: the numbers super easy. Fixed interest rate what she's talking
Speaker 1: about because it's also what I'm going through right now.
Speaker 1: Say you get a ten thousand dollar business loan, they say, hey,
Speaker 1: out of this ten thousand dollar business loan, we want
Speaker 1: ten percent interests, you know, to this company, you only
Speaker 1: owe them eleven thousand dollars. That is what they want back.
Speaker 1: And when it's fixed. That means that it's not gonna
Speaker 1: keep growing. It take longer to pay it off. Now
Speaker 1: a lot of school loans do, however, for there's a
Speaker 1: lot in the parnament right now happening. The loans are deferred.
Speaker 1: They've been deferred for like the last year. Here's my
Speaker 1: advice for anyone that's got a large sum of money
Speaker 1: and and and loans and all that. Ship. One thing
Speaker 1: I did for myself was I only rid myself of
Speaker 1: debt that would immediately change my credit score in order
Speaker 1: to do certain things that I needed. For example, when
Speaker 1: I first moved to New York, de greated the sugar
Speaker 1: Daddy got me the apartment, but my credit was maybe
Speaker 1: like a six fifteen. I had to put down first, last,
Speaker 1: and two months rent, which was like twelve fifteen thousand
Speaker 1: whatever the help. So when your credit is higher, you
Speaker 1: can actually spend less because they're requiring less and you
Speaker 1: can keep some in the bank. So what you should
Speaker 1: be doing, if you really have go on your credit
Speaker 1: Carma look and see like, okay, hard inquiries is my highest,
Speaker 1: They're gonna fall off in two years. The debt to
Speaker 1: income ratio hard your cards lower than spread them out
Speaker 1: if you have one card that's ten thousand dollars and
Speaker 1: another one that's five, it's thirty of each. Don't just
Speaker 1: fill up one card and keep the other one zero.
Speaker 1: Because they really watch those ships. So make sure you're
Speaker 1: paying towards what's gonna change your life immediately. And that's
Speaker 1: why I say, do not be paying off them loans
Speaker 1: that quick if they're fucking fixed. Hell no, Now another
Speaker 1: thing I think that's smart to do. No, we're talking
Speaker 1: about how to trick on these. Okay, let's just say
Speaker 1: you have a nigga that wants to take you on vacation.
Speaker 1: That's what he wants to do. Okay, I think I'm
Speaker 1: cool with that. Wait, I have a tip on this.
Speaker 1: Can I give a tip on this real quick? If
Speaker 1: you got niggas that are flying you out build miserably
Speaker 1: in this, get show as a fucking uh frequent flyer
Speaker 1: program on one airline and tell whoever is flying you
Speaker 1: out that you will only fly out on this airline.
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that, because when I tell you,
Speaker 1: even being gold medallion right now on Delta is amazing.
Speaker 1: It takes so much like pressure off of whether you
Speaker 1: want the nega to pay for extra check luggage and
Speaker 1: all this other stuff you out tell him you will
Speaker 1: only fly out on one airline and rack up those
Speaker 1: miles and points, because even if you're fighting, yeah now, yeah,
Speaker 1: making money on your own trips is a big fucking deal.
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. If you're doing vacations,
Speaker 1: let them pay yourself back. And I have a firm
Speaker 1: believer in that going on even a free vacation costs
Speaker 1: me money. Like, don't you spend more money getting ready
Speaker 1: for the vacation than you do want a god da vacation? Um,
Speaker 1: yes to no. I gotta give my hair, go give
Speaker 1: my ship. We do. And that's the thing too. A
Speaker 1: lot of times we not only have to get our
Speaker 1: hair and makeup, nails toes done, we do like to
Speaker 1: buy outfits because we know we're going on vacations. And
Speaker 1: to be fair to when you're traveling, especially if you're
Speaker 1: coming from like a metropolitan area, you have to also
Speaker 1: take into consideration you're either paying for uber or you're
Speaker 1: paying for your car to be parked at the airport,
Speaker 1: You're paying for food at the airport. This it's never
Speaker 1: a free trip for the woman. I know. The men
Speaker 1: listening are like, oh my god, but you got there
Speaker 1: for free. It still comes out to be a fucking
Speaker 1: flight is not that expensive anymore, not anymore. I mean
Speaker 1: they're going back up like for real, like people like
Speaker 1: we just can't afford flights. I don't know why. The
Speaker 1: person that I had a meeting with in l A
Speaker 1: that I was talking about, he wanted to schedule our
Speaker 1: meeting for the next day. I said, I have to leave.
Speaker 1: I have to go back to New York towards. He's like,
Speaker 1: I'll pay your change fee. I looked at him and said,
Speaker 1: there are no change flight fees right now. I said, one,
Speaker 1: there's no change fees too. Do you think I was
Speaker 1: going to cancel my plans for a hundred or two
Speaker 1: hundred dollars? Don't nig You've got me fucked up. Niggas
Speaker 1: really be talking a bit, just like we ain't got
Speaker 1: money and I don't know how to do so because
Speaker 1: black women got all the money. When it comes to
Speaker 1: those vacation things, making sure if you sincerely cannot afford
Speaker 1: the prep that it takes to go on this vacation,
Speaker 1: be very clear in saying, because they're gonna offer it
Speaker 1: to you, anyway, bitch. They're like, Yo, I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: you to Miami. We're gonna do three days today. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, look, I would love to go with you.
Speaker 1: Should I really want to suck your dick on that balcony.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna be real, I need to get my
Speaker 1: outfite together, like it's just kind of stressing me out
Speaker 1: to work, Like I just have a lot of things
Speaker 1: to buy. Use that word. Use that word. Don't say
Speaker 1: you have a lot of things to get together. Don't
Speaker 1: say you've got things to prepare. Say I have a
Speaker 1: lot of things that I need to buy to make
Speaker 1: this trip happen, to make this trip happen. Because you
Speaker 1: need to kind of be clear with those words. If
Speaker 1: asking for direct money is kind of scary, but this
Speaker 1: that means you can't show up with your lashes falling out,
Speaker 1: your nail is not done, in your hair not done
Speaker 1: because nick is no nowaday because niggas be no way now.
Speaker 1: As far as buying you things, um, I'll be real.
Speaker 1: I never really said no to gifts. Um, immend I
Speaker 1: told you I was. I was so poor it one
Speaker 1: time I returned gifts. Oh, I was gonna say I
Speaker 1: never really said no. Two gifts I returned. Trappers was
Speaker 1: buying me gifts you could they buy him with cash,
Speaker 1: I'd return them. I feel like based on the comfortability
Speaker 1: is how forward you can be about not being able
Speaker 1: to have a two thousand dollar bag, a thousand dollar bag,
Speaker 1: whatever it might be in saying I actually really need
Speaker 1: this cash like kind of watch your words with this,
Speaker 1: I think, watch your But also to me, just know
Speaker 1: the type of nigga you don't look. That's the thing.
Speaker 1: There are men that don't want to feel like tricks
Speaker 1: paying and getting cash they're gonna have a problem with.
Speaker 1: But gifts, if they're materialistic type of nigga, a gift
Speaker 1: is nothing to them because this is what they enjoy buying.
Speaker 1: So I would say, be be careful with that. If
Speaker 1: you got a materialistic type of guy, don't say you
Speaker 1: need ran our bills paid and said because you may
Speaker 1: you may get nothing. So when I had my sugar Daddy,
Speaker 1: like granted he was super lit and he's the one
Speaker 1: I've talked about who had a plane and all that
Speaker 1: and bought me my first and buy me the apartment,
Speaker 1: so you paid for the rent for year. When I
Speaker 1: moved to New York. But I genuinely needed cash, bro
Speaker 1: like seriously, it just needed a few racks before the move,
Speaker 1: like and I didn't want to tell him. After he
Speaker 1: did the whole apartment, I was like, you still need
Speaker 1: a few thousand a move. It's just you really do
Speaker 1: moving your stuff, the flights, like all that stuff, getting
Speaker 1: my ship together, buying little things for the place, like
Speaker 1: I needed like maybe three or four grand that I
Speaker 1: didn't have, and we went shopping in Miami. Well, I
Speaker 1: told him because I was like, um, I really like,
Speaker 1: I know you want to buy me this stuff, like
Speaker 1: I feel really bad to take it because like I
Speaker 1: have a lot of stuff to do with this move.
Speaker 1: He got very irritated with me. He was like, this
Speaker 1: is our day to have a good time, Like we're
Speaker 1: not thinking about moving like you want. We want to
Speaker 1: have fun, we want to enjoy this. It was like
Speaker 1: I ruined it for him. And I remember that feeling
Speaker 1: in his face like, oh, now I'm gonna shop all
Speaker 1: day with her, and she thinking about how she can't
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And when she's talking about
Speaker 1: materialistic men with Mandy just said I know that person
Speaker 1: to know they just enjoyed. He flew. We flew to
Speaker 1: Miami on the jet for a day to shop, and
Speaker 1: inside I was dying when he was trying to buy
Speaker 1: me these expensive shoes because I was like, bro, I
Speaker 1: need the Miami, but he was crazy. I have friends
Speaker 1: that always got the red bottoms, the persons, the gifts,
Speaker 1: the men that I bonded and connected to, Like you know,
Speaker 1: I got put on payroll for almost a year. I
Speaker 1: gotta check every two weeks for nigga that I saw
Speaker 1: once a quarter. Um my other really good friend who
Speaker 1: got me my MacBook and who paid for my summer
Speaker 1: school classes and who helped me through school. I could
Speaker 1: never hit him up like, oh my god, there's these
Speaker 1: twelve shoes they want. If if I hit him up,
Speaker 1: it was because I needed it. And you have to
Speaker 1: know what type of man you're dealing with, because yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a there's a huge difference, and you'll have men
Speaker 1: that'll be like, bitch, aren't paying your bills. But then
Speaker 1: you'll have another guy that'll be like, what do you need? Well,
Speaker 1: I want to be here to help. I will say,
Speaker 1: if you're fucking win And this lastly, hood nigga that's
Speaker 1: making cash pass, which I never dealt with. My men
Speaker 1: made money legally. I know you like the trap stars
Speaker 1: like that one thing they would go in like I'm
Speaker 1: here for the tr aps. They are no get another water,
Speaker 1: big shoes and the car. She likes it. She likes
Speaker 1: the trap sharing water. So you don't know the GZ song?
Speaker 1: Now is that game? Are we going to act my
Speaker 1: shoes on a car she likes? Okay, I'm just making sure.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm on TV now as remember Jean seven.
Speaker 1: If you don't want hood niggas, one thing I did
Speaker 1: not do the last week pointer. Seriously, who many? That's
Speaker 1: what you said? He bleep that? Then damn? But wait
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, this is really like a demo. This
Speaker 1: is a tip. Can I ask what is the niggah?
Speaker 1: A hood nigga is somebody that doesn't have a regular job.
Speaker 1: You may not know how they' getting their cash. It
Speaker 1: could be scam and trapping. It could it's just niggas
Speaker 1: that got cash that like spending in weird ways like fast.
Speaker 1: They could still drive a fucking focus, but they take
Speaker 1: you to a five hundred dollar dinner. Bro, you gotta chill,
Speaker 1: not the focus on a like I had a nigga
Speaker 1: that lived in a bro the trap car dog like
Speaker 1: I like the car is the Chrysler three D. No, Bro,
Speaker 1: niggas have a fucking car to do runs. And I'm
Speaker 1: telling you row like I knew nigga had a Porsche
Speaker 1: and a fucking focus. And then y'all went to find
Speaker 1: if he had to make a run and some ship
Speaker 1: because he's spending the bread by life. But I didn't.
Speaker 1: I never met a nigga would a with a with
Speaker 1: a portion of focus? Not gonna I'm not gonna hold
Speaker 1: am I fucking around with? Like? Okay, do y'all know
Speaker 1: people like this? They have portions and focuses. I mean
Speaker 1: it was like not focused. Maybe it was like a Sonata,
Speaker 1: don't that was the first car. I'm not kidding. He
Speaker 1: had a two daughter. It's a charger, a Chrysler, and
Speaker 1: then the luxury chargers. I was on to say. And Paula,
Speaker 1: what did she talking about a focus? She had trapping
Speaker 1: in volkswagons out. I'm telling you I had a niggad.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a focus. It was Sonata. He did not
Speaker 1: call him me a trade and no, fucking no, My
Speaker 1: Sonata was Polo is a nigga cars. They're not fucking
Speaker 1: moving away and the ships anymore. You gotta be smart.
Speaker 1: Oh this is like new age trappers. Okay, So anyway, sorry,
Speaker 1: I when I was young, I never knew how to
Speaker 1: really get more like a larger investment from them. And today,
Speaker 1: if I was still working with them niggers, I would
Speaker 1: have told them to put their money in someplace they
Speaker 1: can grow it. And this is just being a bit
Speaker 1: that sounds like you're on your investorship. He was not here,
Speaker 1: one was not here at one. We can't That's what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell the girls them, Tell these men
Speaker 1: that you're gonna put their money in someplace safe and
Speaker 1: grow it. And I'm telling you they got money stashed
Speaker 1: at some bitch house or their mama house. They have
Speaker 1: cash that they can't spend quickly, and if they can
Speaker 1: just put it somewhere and know that it may grow
Speaker 1: or have the potential to grow, bitch, do all that
Speaker 1: motherfucking little street talk. I'm telling you, I'll do that
Speaker 1: ship with niggas. Now, Okay, do you think that a
Speaker 1: lot of this ship in the studio? Look, are you
Speaker 1: suck dick for the couch? I don't have to suck
Speaker 1: dick for anything. You have a food job. There was
Speaker 1: a pod I didn't give aud job. But what I'm
Speaker 1: telling you is we have a second studio space that
Speaker 1: we're trying to trying to grow. Did you spit on
Speaker 1: the meat? No, but I'll tell you what I had
Speaker 1: to do ship for that meat. The niggas want to
Speaker 1: sunk with me, and I told them my ship's already
Speaker 1: grown in ninety days. I have a second space coming,
Speaker 1: and I think that you should invest in some of
Speaker 1: it and just gain a little cash back on it
Speaker 1: instead of me taking out Why would I work through
Speaker 1: the government when I could work through you. I'll pay
Speaker 1: you back in like a year and a half. Equipment.
Speaker 1: You're gonna let them get the head passed so the
Speaker 1: cheft can experience the boodio. Let's get onto the home mail.
Speaker 1: I hope you guys liked this type of episode many
Speaker 1: and I made talk about stuff like this on Patreon
Speaker 1: at some of the But trick, no, let the nigga
Speaker 1: trick on you. What are you talking about? Trick on
Speaker 1: these calling them my tricks and just use the word free.
Speaker 1: Get tricks on stocks, drop ship futures, reinvesting it into
Speaker 1: your business, all of it. Home mail hole confession. Here
Speaker 1: we go, let's go. Not real crazy, but kind of hoey.
Speaker 1: I love how short this is. I love it. I
Speaker 1: recently learned about grinders. Y'all. Being in the South, homosexuality
Speaker 1: is frowned upon. Well, last weekend I went to a
Speaker 1: guy's house to funk. We started on the couch and
Speaker 1: ended up in the shower. Lots of fun, but quite enough.
Speaker 1: So I drove back into my town and found another one.
Speaker 1: He wasn't able to host, so we met at a
Speaker 1: gas station and we messed around in the back seat,
Speaker 1: just kept using grinder. He seemed super nervous and I
Speaker 1: had trouble standing up, so we just quit. I had
Speaker 1: home for the night, kind of disappointed, but the next
Speaker 1: morning I hit up my regular finally got what I
Speaker 1: was looking for it, and then I came home and
Speaker 1: fucked my wife. I mean, well, not nice, but no,
Speaker 1: we don't condone the d L here. I don't care
Speaker 1: about DL. I care about cheating. I well know, well,
Speaker 1: I the thing about this show, yeah yeah, but if
Speaker 1: we're speaking of if we're if we are two women
Speaker 1: who have sat here and wanted to uplift people in
Speaker 1: their sexual cravings, their sexual endeavors, their partners, and them
Speaker 1: being their true selves as women. I would like to
Speaker 1: think we've had enough guests to feel as though you
Speaker 1: can do that as a man. And so while you're
Speaker 1: sitting here saying that you don't condone cheating, I think
Speaker 1: we've only fairly touched on the d L community and
Speaker 1: with me, even with the partners that I've dated who
Speaker 1: have either let me peg them, who have been curious
Speaker 1: about and aging in sex with trans women or slight
Speaker 1: engagement with men, my very, very main main point in
Speaker 1: talking to them was I love how honest you are
Speaker 1: with me. You should be honest with every other sexual
Speaker 1: partner that you have. No d L men a lot
Speaker 1: of it. We shouldn't get into this hot We don't
Speaker 1: have to, but you know, but I get that it's
Speaker 1: not easy. But to me, if you can be your
Speaker 1: full self with somebody, period, you should be able to
Speaker 1: let someone else know that you're engaging in sex with
Speaker 1: that this is what you're into, this is what you
Speaker 1: like the things that you do, period. So here's what
Speaker 1: I was gonna say. I was gonna say, crazy ass
Speaker 1: hotel that you shared with that confessional. We appreciate you
Speaker 1: for sharing it. We do. The cheating is what I
Speaker 1: don't like about it. The thing he said, I don't
Speaker 1: know what southern town he lives in. Her homosexuality is
Speaker 1: brown upon So I understand why you can't necessarily come out,
Speaker 1: but I would semi start by sharing slight fantasies with
Speaker 1: your wife, seeing how she feels about videos and stuff
Speaker 1: like that, only because maybe you won't have to cheat
Speaker 1: and lie if she's she's like, wheez your eye Like
Speaker 1: that's the thing that I will say, Yes, women in general,
Speaker 1: I won't even make this a black women thing. Women
Speaker 1: in general are just as homophobic as men are. However,
Speaker 1: there are there's a huge community of women. I've met them,
Speaker 1: I'm friends with them. We've had a podcast for four
Speaker 1: years where we have different women who have come on
Speaker 1: and been like, it doesn't bother them. They just want
Speaker 1: their partner to be a upfront and honest and honestly
Speaker 1: if a woman will leave you for you being your
Speaker 1: true selves as people, we need to be okay with
Speaker 1: someone just not being for us. That's the problem. Whether
Speaker 1: like I've had male partners that didn't like me being bisexual,
Speaker 1: or fearing that every time I was hanging with a
Speaker 1: homegirl was probably having sex with them. I've had men
Speaker 1: intimidated by that, but I've let them know up front, well,
Speaker 1: this is who I am. If that's not what you like,
Speaker 1: then maybe we shouldn't funk with each other. And so
Speaker 1: I think that men need to allow that same grace.
Speaker 1: If you feel like a woman is not going to
Speaker 1: fully accept you and who you are, that woman is
Speaker 1: just not for you. But there are women out there
Speaker 1: who is who are accepting of that. It's difficult because
Speaker 1: I think that once you get to the point where
Speaker 1: you're married to someone, you have no idea what to do.
Speaker 1: They said they married has to happen because you're only
Speaker 1: gonna want to But not only that. If if and
Speaker 1: I don't know what the prenup is, I don't know
Speaker 1: what y'all uh, you know what what type of arrangements
Speaker 1: y'all made. But if you're out here fucking with with
Speaker 1: with with with other men, I don't know what the
Speaker 1: stipulations of divorce would be. But there is something aware
Speaker 1: if you went against the vows, she could rape yours
Speaker 1: as far as economically and in firms in terms of
Speaker 1: taking the money that you've built up in in in
Speaker 1: your job and everything else. Like I will say, there
Speaker 1: is an unfair treatment and divorce and child support and
Speaker 1: all these other things we've talked about in terms of
Speaker 1: it being on the woman's side. So whether you're being
Speaker 1: unfaithful with a man or woman, you're being unfaithful to
Speaker 1: your partner and that will probably lead them to be
Speaker 1: more spif there there's a way, there's that too. Aside
Speaker 1: from hotels, you can check us out on Patreon and
Speaker 1: get for a bonus episode. You just said any more advice, Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: it got a little deep, but I will say I
Speaker 1: will say before we wrap up this episode, anyone listening
Speaker 1: to this podcast now, if for whatever reason, you feel
Speaker 1: as though the person you are engaging in sex with,
Speaker 1: the person you're in a relationship with, the person who
Speaker 1: you're pursuing, will not fully accept you for who you are,
Speaker 1: it is okay with knowing that that may not be
Speaker 1: the person for you. And I'm just I'm just frustrated
Speaker 1: in this dating pool of us trying to change ourselves
Speaker 1: to get into relationships and have have someone accept us
Speaker 1: for the people that we truly aren't. And if we're
Speaker 1: dating and trying to find someone that is our soul mate,
Speaker 1: our partners, someone that we can grow and build with.
Speaker 1: You need to show your full self to them as
Speaker 1: early as possible to not waste your time, not waste
Speaker 1: their time, and also allow that person to choose if
Speaker 1: you are the person for them, and it's okay for
Speaker 1: that person not to be for you. We need to
Speaker 1: be We need to be cognizant in the fact that
Speaker 1: who we may want may not be for us, and
Speaker 1: that is okay. Cognizant Mandy, Yes, bitch, Okay, do the
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Speaker 1: this has been another episode of Hormon Decisions. It's bonus bitches.
Speaker 1: Hi guys, we are here for another bonus episode of
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions, and I am here with two people that you, guys,
Speaker 1: are already familiar with. So I am here with Shade
Speaker 1: and Chelsea from the Black Girls texting podcast. Hey guys,
Speaker 1: sweaty girl, go ahead, go ahead and tell on me.
Speaker 1: Go ahead and tell them that I made y'all record
Speaker 1: this at eight thirty in the morning on a Friday,
Speaker 1: Daring Memorial Day weekend, on a Friday, a word Day
Speaker 1: week and she proceeded to purchase us round. I'll take
Speaker 1: just one round. I won't say round, the round of
Speaker 1: shots last night, and then I went out and had
Speaker 1: more drinks. So that's who you need to blame, is
Speaker 1: the guy. It is the guys. So, guys, um, this
Speaker 1: is of course a bonus episode, and we really wanted
Speaker 1: to share with you. Guys are experienced because I did
Speaker 1: bring these two ladies um to the sex club for
Speaker 1: the first time. So for any of you who have
Speaker 1: just wondered what someone's first experience was like at a
Speaker 1: sex club, I know we normally bring the freaks on
Speaker 1: and while these bitches be talking like they are and
Speaker 1: they're there baby towing their ways there. But before we start,
Speaker 1: I know a lot of you guys have seen what's
Speaker 1: been going on with the other network that I'm a
Speaker 1: part of um, with everything that's happened with my other podcasting.
Speaker 1: The thing is, and the crazy part is, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna sit here and talk about it like you think
Speaker 1: I am, Um, but with with what happened and what
Speaker 1: was said and what was um what transpired as far
Speaker 1: as how people felt, and then of course the titles
Speaker 1: and labels of sexual harassment, sexual assault, assault, and also
Speaker 1: simply being uncomfortable. Those were a lot of conversations that
Speaker 1: were being had, and I know that we talked about
Speaker 1: those things a lot as well. Um. But what's crazy
Speaker 1: is the very weak that that happened. Our episode with
Speaker 1: Black Girls texting dropped, and immediately my heart kind of
Speaker 1: went to it just sank as I started reading everyone's
Speaker 1: comments regarding it being a workplace you can't say certain
Speaker 1: things to certain people. My defense also to why I
Speaker 1: wasn't uncomfortable is because I had buil up overpport. I've
Speaker 1: known Joe for over ten years, so I'm hearing I'm
Speaker 1: seeing all these think pieces on what happened, and drunk
Speaker 1: as funk, I did hit you drunk, Chelsea, but I
Speaker 1: I hit Chelsea up and I said, hey, when you
Speaker 1: came onto horrible decisions, I didn't make you uncomfortable, did I?
Speaker 1: And I said that because if you go and listen
Speaker 1: back to the episode, I was clearly flirting with Chelsea
Speaker 1: and also said multiple times I wanted to funk you
Speaker 1: when I saw you, you'll be playing I've been trying
Speaker 1: to fuck you. Those are the things that I said
Speaker 1: to Chelsea, which is what has Joe and hot boiling water.
Speaker 1: And what's crazy about that is, Chelsea, you told me
Speaker 1: you were not uncomfortable with my by my advances. However,
Speaker 1: we don't have that strong rapport. I met you about
Speaker 1: three years ago, but I think I've seen you more
Speaker 1: in the last month that I have our entire lives. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's such like a gray area, especially like in the
Speaker 1: world of podcast messing, right, because it's not like a
Speaker 1: corporate setting. Um, and like you know, people are very
Speaker 1: like loosey goosey, you're talking. I mean, you can talk
Speaker 1: about sex on horrible decisions, so I wouldn't go on.
Speaker 1: They're not expecting to talk about sex if that okay.
Speaker 1: So that is what people were saying, and it made
Speaker 1: me so uncomfortable. So a lot of people that I
Speaker 1: spoke to was like, yeah, we'll see the thing is
Speaker 1: isn't Horrible Decisions, And so people were like, when you
Speaker 1: go on Horrible Decisions, you would expect that type of stuff,
Speaker 1: And it immediately made me uncomfortable because I shot back
Speaker 1: and was like, Horrible Decisions is still not a space
Speaker 1: that I created to make people uncomfortable or to sexually
Speaker 1: assault them and for them to feel like they have
Speaker 1: to endure that type of behavior from Wheezy or Eye.
Speaker 1: So when that was the response, I was like, Na,
Speaker 1: potting is potting. But I hated that people thought that, Well,
Speaker 1: if that was said on a Horrible Decisions, I think
Speaker 1: it would have just been fine, because you know, they
Speaker 1: know what they're signing up when they go over there,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, And that's why I hit you
Speaker 1: because I was like, if if Chelsea was uncomfortable with
Speaker 1: my advances just because of my show, that doesn't mean
Speaker 1: she signed up to be sexually harassed, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah? And I didn't mean like Horrible Decisions
Speaker 1: you signed to get sexually harassed. I mean more like
Speaker 1: it's a podcast and it's not necessarily