WEBVTT - Ep 221: Sex Sells on Fuse! 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:08.120 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions? 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:13.720 What the motherfuck is uh? Pitch the hole and ho 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:20.439 and tricks. Welcome to the motherfucking Horrible Decisions podcast, bitches. 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:23.759 So I really tried to make it sound different. You 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:28.360 don't like, that's not telling that he is now an actress. 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:31.440 Let me stop. That's this is what we do. Bitch 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.200 for giving me a p a. Because when that nigga 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:37.000 want to give me macha every day, I was like, oh, 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:39.879 this is a life I need. I will hold you, macha. 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:43.680 It'd be baking my mouth drying. Bitch, is this supposed 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:47.680 to do that? Well? Let me feeling like I'm drinking weed. 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:51.640 I'd be like, why is my mouth? So? I know 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:59.160 it's a t but I drink Earl good bit, Mr 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:02.440 Earl Gray, I'm feeling good. To the show, y'all, this 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:05.080 is horrible decision. So you I didn't just say that. 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:08.680 And I was going to say, my name is Wheezy 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:11.160 and I'm Mandy and he has a red cup in 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:14.520 her hand. For those of you are not watching on YouTube, bitch, 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:20.000 I came WTF Studios and I'm like, y'all, rich right, 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:23.080 what a look at, bitch, I'm drinking fucking Bacardi gold. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:32.440 What the fuck listen? It's giving Caribbean vacations now, panu coloda. 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.200 I don't know, bitch, but this Riccarti is not you know, 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:38.679 put it back up. That is Dave's I'm making tan 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.600 baby and the bitches at the oil up because I'm 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:44.280 feeling that's my that's my white side. I say you 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.039 got oil cis because I didn't want you to see 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:51.040 my skin feeling like a repettalion. Repettalion, I don't looking 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:53.680 fuck is wrong. I'll take the cup and can we 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:56.760 get a sap for hills? Let's get a wall? Is 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:59.960 that for hills? You don't want it's not Avian? Bitch? 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:06.720 What is it? Your goddamn alcoholic brain? It's heavy on tequila. Wow, 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:14.240 you want a damn bro Okay, what ya a dope? 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:20.519 Announcement today is the release of sex Sell on FUSA TV. 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.160 If you don't have FUSE, please figure out how to 0:02:23.200 --> 0:02:24.959 get it because they gave your girl TV show and 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:28.600 I need a season two beach. Listen. This show is 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:32.000 the first show ever hosted by a black girl about business. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:35.600 It is about the entrepreneurs that make money from sex 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:38.440 without having it. I know you may have seen previews 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:41.320 and it looks super skanky, and it does. I'm not 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:44.520 gonna lie it is, but you filmed in a sex club. 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.920 We took the sex out of sex, sexiness out of it. 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:49.920 That's literally in my logline when writing the Episodic Bible, 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:52.440 I said take the sex out of it because I 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:54.919 really wanted people to forget they were watching a sex show. Bro, 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:57.720 there's a girl we interview that does like a querk 0:02:57.760 --> 0:02:59.639 class who does a full un lesson about s c 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:02.960 O in Google searches. Like, every single person that you watch, 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:05.560 you're gonna really respect their business acumen, not to mention 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.760 like every episode is themed on how these people make 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:12.480 money from sex. And before anyone could even like cast 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:15.320 somebody that was like whack, I was really going through 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:18.520 horrible decisions and I was like, who has in my brain? 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:21.280 You had pretty much all of horrible decisions on there. 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.839 But I'm not gonna lie, but you and I have 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:29.120 sat here and been like, what you don't fuck dick? Like, 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.840 there's been so many guests on horrible decisions where we're like, 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:35.760 you are the epitome of a sex worker. You make 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:40.240 money engaging in sex work without having sex, and I 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:42.320 think that for a long time, it took us like 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.800 so that you you don't this client at all? We 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.760 questioned a lot of people don't realize that, and we did. 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:50.920 We would like, say, you're telling me this Nil paid 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:54.160 you how much? And he didn't put his dick. It's 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:57.880 almost insane. Like the first episode you guys will see tonight. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:00.360 You've seen my mom in the trailer Young Maze and 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:05.000 the trailer I basically connected with women. Almost everybody in 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.680 the show is black, And I said, I really thought 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:09.800 Fuse was gonna be like, we gotta get this ship BT, 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:14.960 but no, because honestly, like I barely like they barely 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:19.080 chose ABT also is only playing baby boy currently. I 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:23.800 don't know what what to me was so special about. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:27.000 It is like I really wanted this to almost connect 0:04:27.040 --> 0:04:29.560 with horrible decisions and new people in a way, and 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:32.040 like you will see some of the people that we've 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:35.920 interviewed and now really learned about like their money and 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:39.280 how they have created their business. UM, shout out to Dash. 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:42.320 I hope I'm not spilling this secret, but I asked 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:46.800 Dash to come on, and one has been He's like 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.080 and I'm not I don't remember even you've reached out 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:51.719 to me and was like, hey, what's Dash his contact 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:54.680 or but the fact that he traveled in the way 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:57.680 he did for our touring Dash has been that was 0:04:57.760 --> 0:05:00.920 part of his explaining his business. One of the really 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.960 one of my greatest gems I think from the show 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.240 and learning what he does, and so many of our 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:09.839 listeners go to Dash. I mean, bro, he said on 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:11.599 when we were filming the show. I don't know if 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:13.080 you will leave it in there, but he was like, bro, 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:17.520 like what horrible decisions did. And for me, it was like, 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.839 this show is so much about the Kinks, but these 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:24.960 people really make their living, Like Dash has not only 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:28.120 just done like rope bondage and clients like he's branched 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:31.320 into making boxes and product and creating ship like and 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.400 he talked about that. He talked about growing his brand, 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.960 traveling for even shows with us, like each person like 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.120 I looked at totally different. They taught me so much 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.640 and like, granted, you know, we threw some people y'all 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:43.560 may not know in it, and no shade to them, 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:46.279 they were great businesses too, but like it just was 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:50.160 so dope to be able to have black people explaining 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:53.640 their entrepreneurship and it no matter what you do, there's 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:55.640 a lesson learned from each one about their business. And 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.600 at the end of every episode their businesses are highlighted. 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.600 You'll you'll take away the the acumen that they have 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:03.800 how to implement it on your own way. Like I 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:06.760 learned something from everybody. Lisa splips in shout out to 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:08.760 her when she came on. She was saying to me, 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.040 like bro as far as like video conferencing platforms and 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:15.720 electronic payment, like how those work, like all of those things. 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:18.640 And it was just such a big deal to finally 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.240 really validate what we do and what these people do. 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:23.760 And I'm just so glad that most of men were black. 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:28.239 But I will say, um, you know there's an Asian 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:32.839 owned business. My wax lady. She was you did her penny. 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:35.280 I was like this, okay, I was telling the caravan 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:39.120 spread my pussy open. And she was so grateful. She 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.960 taught us about group on and percentages, about how much 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.279 they take from you, like the ship was lit. People 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:46.440 really teach you how to market, how to make sure 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.320 that you're not doing some illegal ship. But yeah, nobody 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:51.159 on there is fucking for money, or at least doesn't 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.960 know what they explained to us. Maybe, but they have 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:58.040 ways of which they're making very few. I would say 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:01.400 maybe one or two people could have possibly fun for money, 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.560 but for the most part, no. I mean, you'll learn 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.839 about products, deal dough makers, and you'll see some ancillary 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:10.000 characters that you may know from my life or whoever. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.120 Fucking Mandy was supposed to do a twork class with me, 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:15.600 but we couldn't get the time right at all. Why 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:17.800 it was because I did not do well and I 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:22.280 just ass but you know what, now, I'm gonna hold you. 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:25.200 I feel like I could do it on a dick. 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:29.400 That's it. I cannot. Yeah, I mean it's like and 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:33.120 why and and shake your ass. I was like, oh no, 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:36.560 But you know, like people that don't want to feel 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:40.200 the pressure of going to the gym, they do like 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:43.400 dance classes and stuff like T work classes are really special, Cardia. 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:45.760 I was I needed an inhaler in the middle of 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:48.640 the ship, but I'm convinced you need one for sex 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:52.480 to like you. I'll watch to watch this as a 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:54.920 family with me every Monday. It's going to come on 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:59.400 at eleven PM. I like really, am just so excited 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:01.520 and proud, Like you guys have seen us do HBO, 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:05.160 you've seen us do Vice. We've worked really hard to 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:07.880 get to where we are and just on some real ship. 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:11.160 Like something I was just thinking about when doing the show, 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.240 Like I had to write my intros and out shows 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:15.960 and they're long, like you really got to write them 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:17.800 and craft them and get my jokes. And when I 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:20.520 was sitting in front of there like the vout, like 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:23.640 why I'm able to do this, Like it's not only 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:27.080 just because I have a business background, but like as podcasters, 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:30.480 we have truly grown as entrepreneurs. And I know you 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:33.000 guys may be sick of hearing it, but we're just 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:36.280 so proud of it. Like I think it's just such 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:39.000 a big deal to have come from and started this 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:41.360 from a corporate world to like really making our own 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.800 money in different ways together and separately, Like when I 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:46.320 counted the streams of income when I was writing one 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.760 of my intros about like, oh, this is how I've 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:50.840 learned how to do this, like all from a podcast, 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:54.320 all from Stuggy Deep. But I mean, but you know 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:56.480 what you're saying that, And again, I know a lot 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.600 of you guys. UM want to hear like I'm not 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:03.080 gonna TV. Is like we've been trying to get us 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:04.520 to do TV, and I was just like, match, I 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:07.520 didn't president. I'm sure people are probably like, why is 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.680 Manny not a part of it? Um? I think that 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.040 through our ups and downs and learning each other and 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.960 I mean honestly horrible to still horrible decisions, is still 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:19.600 both of our babies. And trust me, we have definitely 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:23.240 been offered the TV too. Yeah, but we've we've both 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:26.120 tried to see what more we want to do outside 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:28.680 of horrible, how much we want to do with each other. 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:31.960 And like, I'm in the e commerce space, so even 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:36.080 you're talking about uh having someone on your show to 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:39.080 talk about s c O and stuff. I literally was 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.840 not able to get Google search ads because of the 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:45.480 artwork in my box. They wrote back and said, you're 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:49.400 not able to show on Google because here show me out. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:53.880 This is the reason they wrote back butt talks because 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:58.120 one of the drawings in my box shows a butt talks. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:00.280 This is why I was not able to show up 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.480 on fucking Google. So I love. I mean, I also 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.520 just recently partnered with a black artist and do you 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:10.439 know that certain artists get shadow band just like sex 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:14.520 workers for having art that showcases women's vaginas and women's 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:17.280 bodies and women's tits. And we've talked about this with 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:18.800 a lot of people, so for you to be able 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:22.439 to go on TV, there's so many heels to climb 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:25.640 in this space. I go back to say, Weezy and 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.679 Iron are in space where I know the lane I 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:31.760 want to be in, and Weezy has excelled in the 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.719 lane that she wants to be in. But I'm still 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.400 glad that we're able to come back here and do 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:38.800 horrible decisions and still continue with what this show started 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:41.160 off of, which was our hole asses, even though you 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:42.400 don't think I'm a whole no more because I got 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:45.640 a niggad, but like to be able to grow from. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:49.640 Like if they go back to Wei was talking about 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:51.640 eat the net and ship that I don't know what 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:54.480 that is, and I was talking about a fucking final 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:57.920 exam that I had and we were, oh my god, 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.440 if you go to our YouTube, we look disgusting. We're 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.800 coming in with sucking pants and card again. It's okay, 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:05.640 we said, but I will tell y'all one thing I 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.720 have learned from doing TV. Oh am I a podcast? Maybe? 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:11.880 What does that mean? These niggas cut me? Excuse me. 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:13.840 By niggas, I mean the people I worked with. Shout 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.680 out to Beery and Hidi and John and Brandon, everybody 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:19.439 at FUSED, who's Ryan sell, everyone who's helped me make 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:24.200 this show, particularly Brandon. Um. Brandon came to Mandy and 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:28.400 I to do a show. He ended up leaving that network. Um, 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:30.120 we didn't end up doing it. They Oh we did 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.120 talk to one network. Remember they want to go twelve 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:34.600 box the show like some I don't even know if 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.839 we got to the money per show. We did, got 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:40.720 through development and it just wasn't But Brandon told me 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:43.480 two years ago at max Fish that he was going 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.080 to give me a TV show, and he did. And 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:47.080 we had to really work to be able to put 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:49.959 sex on TV in this way and honor people. So 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:54.320 fun fact about this show. Talk to me the company 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:55.640 I told you that I was supposed to do with me. 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:58.480 I wanted to call it sex it and how people 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:02.080 left the sex industry. But this isn't this, This isn't 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:03.800 them leaving it. And I said, I do like that 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:09.600 name though. That gotta be an episode well, I said, 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:15.720 I cannot be sex positive and save people because also 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:21.280 there's a pride. There's pridefulness in saying this is what 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:23.560 I did and I don't do it no more. There's 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:26.439 almost like a shame in what you used to do 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.640 and you being able to leave it. So I'm so 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.160 glad because which we would have looked like hypocrites. No, 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:34.800 there's no way. I'm so glad, Brandon, and I can 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:40.600 see I should have said a splash a coake, nigga, Mandy, 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:42.680 we have another two hours in here, like this looks 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:46.160 like pure coke, not not that Coca cola. I can't 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:49.200 wait for you to sip that. And you're like, thanks Eddin, Okay, 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:55.360 thanks at it, y'all. But Ray cup shot it. First off, wheezy. 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:57.960 If you're watching us on YouTube, by the way, shout 0:12:57.960 --> 0:12:59.880 out to all of you guys who watch us on YouTube. 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:03.920 Search horrible decisions on YouTube. We zeed. This episode for 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:09.359 sure is the stud Dike and I am the Femi lesbian. 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:16.719 Um it's giving bisexual you were giving you don't know, 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:23.480 but the only dick shape anything is that banana. The 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.280 show was called sex sell That didn't suck up with 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:27.600 this outfit. But Mitch Right, I thought she was gonna 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:34.120 give me sex you were giving me. Yeahs were so 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:36.360 crazy on that show that like in sexy and over 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.120 the top, that like I needed address like a little 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.800 less today. But no, the show is honoring people. And 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:43.440 I will say this for anyone who has thought maybe 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:45.520 you will see a repetitive guest on from Horrible, there's 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:48.360 a reason for that. There is no room where I 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:52.800 could have done something on TV without honoring how I 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.320 got in the space to even talk about those people, 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:58.640 and that includes dropping Horrible on every episode using the 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:02.240 butts on set. Okay, Like I do not believe that 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:05.320 you don't um lift those up and show love to 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.960 those who have been around. And I felt like it 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:09.679 just didn't make sense if I'm gonna talk to a 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:11.719 Finn Doom and want to write that episode out, that 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:15.400 it shouldn't be someone that people know from Horrible. But 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:17.800 I also but I also want to make it clear 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.040 while I was, while I was not a part of 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:24.960 this project, I love that through this four years of 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:29.760 this journey with us figuring out ourselves sexually, growing sexually 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:32.000 and being in the space and really meeting good people, 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.200 I love that you reach back out to a lot 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:38.200 of those people. Like I said, Dad showed up when 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:43.280 we really had like we've had great sex, and you 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.400 knew you had to cast people. What the fund do 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:50.000 I look like? Right? Like? That's really what I was like, 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:53.280 I can't My waxing lady was so in shock that, 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:55.320 like I used, she couldn't even believe it. And I 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:57.680 was like, bro, like if I'm gonna talk about like 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.640 the episode is particularly about just taking care of your 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:01.800 vaginant that and I was like, how could I not 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:05.600 that you ain't hit me on there official box owner base. 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:13.120 I didn't do a health episode yet by the episode, Ok, yeah, 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:16.200 there ain't no spot, but bitch, that's like so you 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:17.800 know what it I'll be I'll be very honest with 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.400 you too, like I said, with us doing different things now, 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.440 a medical episode, well one of the well I ain't 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.760 no doctor, bitch, you know, I don't even believe science really. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.800 But one of the things that I've found through this 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:35.520 show to me was the importance of feminine feminine health 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:40.280 and hygiene, only because I have friends who I've we 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.520 laugh but their pussies are always broken. So much happens. 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:47.720 But not only that, like I have friends that like 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:50.120 my best friend at thirty four has been diagnosed with 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:54.080 breast cancer. The opening of Honestly Now. Also being with 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:57.480 a partner where I can share at a different time 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.120 of the month, I might be a little dry, let's 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.640 use lube, or I might smell different this like right now, 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.360 I just drank this is how my vagina is gonna react. 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:08.040 Also to have a partner over the last year where 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:12.560 I can communicate why my pussy may smell, taste, look 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:15.000 at whatever, different and any time of the month. But 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:16.600 being able to open up with my friends about that, 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.960 that's so important and so I love that you're being 0:16:20.000 --> 0:16:24.720 able to showcase like this show has brought us through 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:28.320 so many different avenues to still educate and show and 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:31.280 support the people in our lives. If there's no way, 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:32.760 and I think, like you know, when you gotta you 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.680 say you gotta put people on like or like you 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:37.480 you really do have to do that, because people have 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:40.200 done that for us. But we have put on more 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:44.400 podcast It is okay. Many seek you see how she 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:48.680 was trying. June this month is coming and we have 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:51.560 no room to do this. We don't. We just did 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:55.480 African American April. We did melon in May. This is 0:16:55.640 --> 0:17:01.080 Mother's Day, June bug June. Okay, hold on, let let's dance. 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:04.879 Come on the click? Can you hit the little music? 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:06.119 But I don't want to make sure my arial and 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:09.959 don't pop out. But yeah, no, anyways, I say all 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:12.399 of that to say, I think, to be very fair, 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:15.960 you and I have done nothing but support all of 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:18.480 the people we've come across. So I love that in 0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:22.040 different ways we're still able to push that forward. Um 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:26.359 season two because y'all better give me one. Um, I 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:28.880 could do an e commerce episode or I really want 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:30.440 to do a health one, but man, do you can't 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:33.480 say anything about the science if we do this? Because 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:36.840 do not let a health episode? Why did you bring 0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:41.600 your black ass up a healthy series? What are you 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:44.800 talking to? Bit? You've been talking about a sad nigga's 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:47.520 out here doing two parts of ship. I'm just saying, 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.160 give me two, three, four parts. Okay, there's two businesses 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:54.199 highlighted each episode. Relax. What I'm saying is you're not 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:56.280 about to get on there with these goddamn gummies on 0:17:56.359 --> 0:17:59.560 TV and be like, yeah, I can compton a formula 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:03.240 but saw it? Okay, Well, actually guys, look up the 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:06.320 health benefits. You know what, Before I even put my 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:10.439 little plug in here, we'll tell them sex cells, what 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:13.560 channels station before we get to the gun damn house ship, 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:16.840 because we're gonna get to it, bitch. Oh yes, tonight 0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:20.800 eleven PM and every Monday after that, um, the series premiere. 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:23.000 I hope I'm in Atlanta watching it with you all, niggas. 0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:24.760 I really do, because I have to be. I really 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.160 hope I'm watching it with some niggas in Atlanta. Damn 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:28.920 beat you on TV. That's the ship. I don't want 0:18:28.920 --> 0:18:31.280 to hear it, but yeah, do you think you're gonna 0:18:31.280 --> 0:18:34.320 get offered multiple dicks because you're on TV? Like? 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A little trash bitches that you're 0:20:31.000 --> 0:20:33.720 leaving one right, Be says we love edd and I 0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:36.960 think he has a funny perspective more edding. Um wow, 0:20:37.040 --> 0:20:43.880 that's I haven't seen many of those ed He needs 0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:46.320 to get his own part. If he wants, you know 0:20:46.359 --> 0:20:49.080 what I will like let me just say do you want? 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:51.840 Do you want to talk about it? When you're podcasting 0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:54.960 in a room, you really do need a little gratification, 0:20:55.040 --> 0:20:57.240 especially for people that entertain. Do you bet I know what? 0:20:57.280 --> 0:20:59.840 I'm funny? I don't need eddings laughing and no, no no. 0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:04.200 To direct things to the person like another person is 0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:07.920 a lot easier, Like it's so much easier when there's 0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:11.120 someone to look at or like nod to, like behind 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:13.840 this screen, behind this mike, whatever you're listening to, Like, 0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:15.840 it's not that easy to just look at each other. 0:21:15.920 --> 0:21:17.719 When Mandy and I disagree, you have to turn like, 0:21:18.200 --> 0:21:20.480 not only disagree. I'll tell you right now, Wheezy and 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:24.800 I can talk to each other, so when we cannot 0:21:25.320 --> 0:21:29.639 eddin is our what's sex? But I thought that was 0:21:29.640 --> 0:21:31.480 really great. And the next one is the one said 0:21:31.480 --> 0:21:32.959 I love this podcast that helped me with being more 0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:34.840 comfortable in my skin and my sex life. Love you both, 0:21:34.840 --> 0:21:42.479 We love you back, bitch Now Vanilla ship boy? Are 0:21:42.480 --> 0:21:44.359 they talking about me? In this New York Post article 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:47.359 people who are into kinky sex most more likely to 0:21:47.400 --> 0:21:52.000 do a list at drugs? Oh? Is that one my boyfriend? Okay, 0:21:52.040 --> 0:21:55.080 never mind, go ahead, Oh, we're not going to talk 0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:59.320 about it. Is he my kind of people? Um, he's experimentive. 0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:03.159 That's so much drug users spend less time in missionary. 0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:06.919 So they did a poll of a thousand attendees at 0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:09.560 a music festival about their drugs and sex habits and 0:22:09.600 --> 0:22:12.560 the anonymous Data music festival where they were already of 0:22:12.640 --> 0:22:14.639 course they're already going to be on drugs. But no, no, 0:22:15.080 --> 0:22:18.159 basically saying for the people that were like basically testing 0:22:18.200 --> 0:22:21.240 the sex they have and the drug use at the festival, Like, 0:22:21.280 --> 0:22:23.359 what are these people into? But we've also read an 0:22:23.440 --> 0:22:27.679 article about at these festivals, there's a high rate of 0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:31.439 herpies that is transmitted and all these other things. So 0:22:31.480 --> 0:22:34.040 of course you're on drugs, you're having sex, and you're 0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:37.560 transmitting STDs. That's what happens at festivals. Well, someone I 0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:40.440 don't like, I don't like this pool. The anonymous data 0:22:40.440 --> 0:22:43.439 they acquired linked that there was a strong connection between 0:22:43.480 --> 0:22:47.280 substance and sexual practices, including casual sex with a friend 0:22:47.320 --> 0:22:50.720 and anal and b D s M. The normalization of 0:22:50.760 --> 0:22:56.119 drugs and liberal liberalization of consensual sex practices is actually related, 0:22:56.640 --> 0:22:59.520 and the higher the drug use, the more the leisurely 0:22:59.600 --> 0:23:02.840 actually at ease. Our study revisited the well worn phrase 0:23:02.920 --> 0:23:06.240 of sex, drugs and rock and roll, and basically fact, 0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:10.960 sex hip hop who report to taking to illicit drugs 0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:15.000 a year or um sorry a month are more likely 0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:19.560 to engage in non traditional sex, including the sucking dick 0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:22.800 if they snored coke. But no, no, I don't know. 0:23:23.080 --> 0:23:26.399 That's what I know. I don't think. But what are 0:23:26.400 --> 0:23:28.720 the doing that I drew a connection with? Like think 0:23:28.720 --> 0:23:34.840 about anal and like poppers? Those are drugs. It's illegal. Um, 0:23:34.920 --> 0:23:37.680 it's a substance that it's leather cleaner, that's what you 0:23:37.720 --> 0:23:39.000 have to ask for it for it to be illegal. 0:23:39.240 --> 0:23:41.720 It's leather clean. It's a substance that will like make 0:23:41.760 --> 0:23:44.119 your body warmer, make your head a little lighter, so 0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:46.600 that you can take a dick. But also I just 0:23:46.680 --> 0:23:49.840 had I ain't gonna hold you. Okay, this ain't even 0:23:49.840 --> 0:23:53.840 a part of motherfucking vanilla ship. But bitch, I just 0:23:54.000 --> 0:23:59.399 use this desensitizing lube for my ask. And let me 0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:01.920 tell you, not only did I not feel my ass 0:24:01.960 --> 0:24:05.080 for two days, my lips because somehow it got on 0:24:05.200 --> 0:24:09.359 my mouth. Don't ask me how, bitch, I felt like 0:24:09.440 --> 0:24:14.120 I had fellers. I was like, babe, does my face 0:24:14.200 --> 0:24:16.160 looked funny? But it's just because I could not feel 0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:19.360 my lips in the middle of kind of sex, I said, babe, 0:24:19.359 --> 0:24:22.160 we go use that ship no more. Because he wanted 0:24:22.200 --> 0:24:23.720 to sun my ass, I said, cool, We'll use this 0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:27.159 little desenthetizing jail. And I don't know where it ended up. 0:24:27.160 --> 0:24:28.800 Maybe I sucked the dick after I asked him out. 0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:31.920 I don't know, Maybe I ate his ass. It got 0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:36.960 somewhere else that My lips were numb, but I felt 0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:40.879 like they were balloons, but they weren't. I was like, babe, 0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:44.040 I don't like I literally had to go and like 0:24:44.080 --> 0:24:47.359 scrub my no no, bro, so I don't know what 0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:51.320 type of drugs this is. But also uh de synthetizing loup, 0:24:51.800 --> 0:24:54.840 Let's not do it? How about that? Sorry, that's my 0:24:54.880 --> 0:24:58.720 sex ship for today. Synthesizing loube. Don't do it. Don't 0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:00.359 buy that on the next sex story, bro, I probably 0:25:00.400 --> 0:25:04.520 give you. The hard nerve for the week is about 0:25:04.560 --> 0:25:09.040 the meadest, the whole the tip of your penis the mushroom, 0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:11.040 which is the worst name, the mushroom? No, the whole, 0:25:11.040 --> 0:25:20.919 little a little split thing. Was it the po not youreath? 0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:24.120 Was the actual like line like the stream? What are 0:25:24.119 --> 0:25:27.560 you talking about? The whole at the top of the dick? Why? 0:25:27.600 --> 0:25:29.879 I just wanted to say the thing from xenon penis 0:25:29.920 --> 0:25:32.919 the latest metest, Like when when she is this what 0:25:32.960 --> 0:25:34.639 we're doing? Anyway? Can we not talk about sex in 0:25:34.680 --> 0:25:37.720 the Disney Channel? That's kind of when the meadest is 0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:39.560 the whole, the tip of your dick, it's very sensitive 0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:43.680 during the arousal. But the po, yes, it is the peo? Right? 0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.640 Why are you calling it the meades? She's teaching people things. 0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:52.679 It's really called the m E A t U S 0:25:52.800 --> 0:26:08.680 I swear to God. Yeah, okay, carry on car okay. 0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:11.040 So the meet us, if you apply pressure to it, 0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:14.880 medium pressure on and off, it'll actually be good. Now. 0:26:15.080 --> 0:26:17.200 Not to be confused with the front of them, that's 0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:18.760 like a little we know you talk about the front 0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:22.600 of them all go, I'll be working. She'd be talking 0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:24.840 about the goddamn friend of them. She she's the front 0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:27.760 of them, queen he k. That's what we're gonna give 0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:31.679 every other episode. We know what the front of them is, 0:26:31.960 --> 0:26:35.080 do we do? It's a little it's a little thing 0:26:35.160 --> 0:26:37.280 on the mushroom that lead from the head to the chef, 0:26:39.000 --> 0:26:42.240 a little vain part and what's the pole called the 0:26:42.280 --> 0:26:45.800 meetest bit. That's an easy word. Though front of them 0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:49.240 is real like extra meet us makes sense because well 0:26:49.760 --> 0:26:53.480 we call it meat and it's for us, the meet us, 0:26:54.920 --> 0:27:02.560 for us, by us, the food dick in honor of 0:27:02.920 --> 0:27:06.120 sex Cells being the first business show hus by black girl. 0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:08.880 What else they set these two black girls? They let 0:27:08.880 --> 0:27:13.520 you get off get that off? Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely. 0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:15.439 Do you think I'm not about to tell everybody of 0:27:15.440 --> 0:27:17.800 that because it is ma'am. Okay, just make a show, 0:27:18.200 --> 0:27:20.080 you know, they don't really want to get that to us, 0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:24.160 although we are for us by us. You know, I'm 0:27:24.160 --> 0:27:26.600 saying the sex Cell shows the first business show. But 0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:28.440 I know, but they let you get off that you're 0:27:28.560 --> 0:27:34.600 a black woman. Oh, I'm just playing only because we 0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:37.159 get all the hell from it, bro, We get the 0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:41.720 hell from it. That's all. Well, we see bit me 0:27:41.880 --> 0:27:46.959 today now speaking of business, A lot of people right 0:27:47.000 --> 0:27:48.840 in asking about how to trick on nigga don't know 0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:50.320 how to get me get a trick on them, Sugar, 0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:52.399 your daddy's all that stuff. I want to take a 0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:54.240 different time of this episode, and it actually was my 0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:57.199 I've had this idea for a few weeks. How to 0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:01.080 branch off into making money with niggas, take money for niggas, 0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:03.760 how to structure the conversation around it, things for them 0:28:03.760 --> 0:28:07.080 to invest in and fellas. If you read a meet 0:28:07.240 --> 0:28:11.479 a rich bitch, ladies, gays, whoever, and you have somebody 0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:17.600 in your life that's wealthy, follow these steps with their steps. 0:28:17.800 --> 0:28:21.600 Bitch about to give it to you. Now, wait steps. 0:28:23.000 --> 0:28:24.960 I just want to be clear what you're about to 0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:29.159 teach the people? We we we we, But you just 0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:31.800 sent me the outline. I just learned this is a 0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:34.040 free flowing company. You have a lot of experience with 0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:36.679 here you go, here you go. Now you're about to 0:28:36.720 --> 0:28:42.600 just say you've been prostituting. I did it. I felt 0:28:42.640 --> 0:28:46.800 like she was going there at It's one of a 0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:48.720 lot of experience with getting in large sum of money. 0:28:48.760 --> 0:28:50.200 At one point in time, we're going to talk about 0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:52.760 how to bitch because it was africans and athletes. Are 0:28:52.800 --> 0:28:56.560 these gonna be tips for like the average people? Or 0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:59.200 they got a bag a millionaire first? So there's a 0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:01.640 few different types of spenders. Tell me which ones I'm wrong. 0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:03.520 Let's know it. Here's the ones I listed that I 0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:06.200 could come up with. Men who will buy you things, 0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:10.640 that's what, okay. Men who will buy you vacations, Men 0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:13.840 who will only take it eat. Wait what was that one? 0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:17.360 Take it to eat? Oh? Oh god, Oh we're going 0:29:17.520 --> 0:29:22.320 really low, okay. Men who will invest or a partner 0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:28.000 with you. And I already said vacations right now. The 0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:30.800 men that will buy these are the different type of 0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:36.600 spenders things, gifts, vacations, food, and no, that's not it. 0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:40.560 So so let me add to this. Then you have 0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:43.080 those who want to feel like they are your night 0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:46.680 in shining armor savior for livelihood. So you have men 0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:49.760 who will not gift you things or take you anywhere. 0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:53.400 They will only pay for necessities such as rents, such 0:29:53.440 --> 0:29:56.840 as school tuition, degree such as such as those things. 0:29:56.920 --> 0:30:01.800 So your rent can be say your dollars. That same 0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:04.640 man will never give you just two thousand dollars cash. 0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:07.840 It has to specifically go to something for your life life. 0:30:08.000 --> 0:30:10.440 When I said men who would invest, that wasn't what 0:30:10.480 --> 0:30:11.800 I meant. That was a good point. Yeah, I was 0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:13.680 talking about men that be like, well, what do you 0:30:13.680 --> 0:30:14.800 want me to pust? What do you want to do? 0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:16.520 Because I've had many men asked me that when I 0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:18.840 didn't know what to do. Oh bitch, same I apparently 0:30:18.880 --> 0:30:22.120 wanted to say fucking iPhone accessories at one point. Let's 0:30:22.120 --> 0:30:24.520 not talk about that question like niggas be like, oh, 0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:25.880 if you want to put your money towards something, so 0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:27.680 we're gonna talk about it like that too, because some 0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:30.080 men do want to partner with you on time because 0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:31.720 they don't want to just hand you cat. But wait, 0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:36.120 can I also add one more to that, men who 0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:39.200 will be with you for a good time and spend 0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:42.200 money on everything, but you so I've been with men 0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.640 who will want to show me a great time and 0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:48.960 they feel like because they just spent two racks in 0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:52.240 the strip club on other women, I have pockets strip 0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:54.800 club money anything, So there's so there's that. But I 0:30:54.840 --> 0:30:57.600 mean a lot of times like I've had friends get 0:30:57.600 --> 0:31:00.840 caught pocketing strip club money and nigga that ship look 0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:04.040 bad on me, and niggas was like never again. But 0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:06.520 I'm saying I've also been out with a nigga to 0:31:06.640 --> 0:31:09.680 a strip club that would was only tipping twenties nigga. 0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:18.640 So I'm getting like, I'm at the strip club, I ate, 0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:21.000 I had a great time and the bitch I went 0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.440 home with nothing. But I realized there were dancers that 0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:25.840 just went home. So with this isn't you know what 0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:28.640 I mean? Right? Because I've had men that if I've 0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:30.320 ever been out with a nigga and they'll like go 0:31:30.400 --> 0:31:32.080 to the mall with you and only buy themselves. They 0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:34.040 want to show you they spending money. Who when I 0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:37.920 was when I was sixty, We're going to the mall together? 0:31:38.440 --> 0:31:41.800 What am I getting? I When I was about like eighteen, 0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:44.360 I remember niggas would like take me to eat. We 0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:47.360 go to Millennia or some ship that's shout a seven 0:31:47.360 --> 0:31:49.560 shop of city, and they would buy themselves something expensive, 0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:51.200 and I didn't know what to do, how to ask. 0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:55.000 And I think that the asking in particular is something 0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:57.720 that we're all kind of uncomfortable with. Uncomfortable with. Hold 0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:00.720 on for everyone listening to this right now. If you're 0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:03.800 with a man and you're going out and he's like, yo, 0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.640 I gotta go pick this up real quick, y'all together, 0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:08.880 and he stopped at the Louis Store and think it's 0:32:08.880 --> 0:32:12.000 like it's okay for him to just buy himself something. 0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:16.000 He's trying to show you that he got money their 0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:20.760 significant other. If we're working with each other and I'm 0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:22.520 with you, I'm spending my time with you, I'm sending 0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:24.959 my day with you, and you gotta go pick something up. 0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:27.520 You go to the Louis store and just buy shoes 0:32:27.640 --> 0:32:30.160 for the evening, let me tell you how they mean nothing. 0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:32.920 You just trying to flex that you got that buying 0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:35.560 a fucking bottle and telling your friend they can't drink 0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:38.560 out of it. I swear to go. That is buying 0:32:38.560 --> 0:32:40.400 a bottle at the club and saying, oh, this is 0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:45.240 for me. That is I didn't you genuinely came to 0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:48.480 want me to see you flex? Bro? Have you ever 0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:50.440 taken out one of your friends that just ain't making 0:32:50.440 --> 0:32:51.800 as much red as you? And like you think I'm 0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:53.680 about to eat this ship in front of your face 0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.440 and not share my ship with you, I'm not inviting you. 0:32:56.800 --> 0:32:59.080 Oh yeah, you know what I mean. I'm gonna roll 0:32:59.120 --> 0:33:01.040 with people that you agree. If I know you ain't 0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:03.200 got it, I'm gonna I got you. Or if I'm 0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.360 rolling with someone they on the same ship like that 0:33:05.520 --> 0:33:08.239 is some disrespectful ship. Niggas have done that to me 0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:12.720 and we go No. Um, I mean I think that 0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:14.920 now we can speak to it from a position. I 0:33:14.920 --> 0:33:16.760 know you don't want to be called an untie or anything. Oh, 0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:18.880 but we are our thirties now and I think we 0:33:18.880 --> 0:33:22.520 can now reflect on ship differently. You don't think it's 0:33:22.560 --> 0:33:26.760 that that I'm at now. Okay, you're not auntie because 0:33:27.000 --> 0:33:30.960 you have no siblings, but we're in the anti age era. No, 0:33:31.080 --> 0:33:37.479 we're not. My sister has a child. I'm literally an 0:33:37.520 --> 0:33:39.680 aunt I will not call you onto. We are not 0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:42.760 at the auntie age. I believe auntie age is thirty 0:33:42.760 --> 0:33:46.920 five and up. We are thirty. Man, you think Auntie 0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:50.520 is what me because I didn't learn my life. But 0:33:50.560 --> 0:33:52.960 it's because I got a man now. I'm not y'all 0:33:53.000 --> 0:33:54.959 really hate me. It's because I have a man now. 0:33:55.080 --> 0:33:58.560 I've learned my lesson. I think Auntie is learned from 0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:02.480 the mistakes they've made in their You and I repent 0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:10.799 everything I didn't. Oh lord, this is okay, go ahead, Um, 0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:12.840 I found this list. I thought it was pretty cute, 0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:17.080 but I want to uh go over what the internet 0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:19.120 says are great times to ask men for money. Let's 0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:22.400 start with that, then we'll go look at how to 0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:23.960 use this is the fact that you laugh is so 0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:26.560 hard and you can guess what as soon as you 0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:30.399 ask so pissed about that ship online, if you ask 0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:32.360 me for pussy, I can ask you for money and 0:34:33.640 --> 0:34:36.680 I will. Yeah, and I will Smart lazy hustler dot 0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:43.080 com your resource. I swear to god this is not 0:34:43.160 --> 0:34:45.920 the Washington Post. But say that again, smart lazy hustler 0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:50.640 dot com, because that's what we're about to be. Okay, Now, honestly, 0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:52.960 that's the battle of this. Can we do that? No, 0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:56.279 it has to be sex? Oh ship, never mind? Sorry, Yeah, 0:34:56.280 --> 0:35:02.360 have a smart lazy hustler maybe, and the factors to 0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:04.200 consider before you ask the money, because you can't just 0:35:04.200 --> 0:35:06.680 always ask the money. One are they happy? Make sure 0:35:06.719 --> 0:35:09.400 they're in a good space there, n ask what they 0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:12.480 paying me because they unhappy and they marriage. So let's 0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:16.560 go past this one. Nig's happy they paying you? Now? 0:35:16.680 --> 0:35:22.520 This is the unhappy niggas next do you? But she's 0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:28.279 about to give Do you understand now? If happy? Is 0:35:28.280 --> 0:35:32.040 it maybe like after they come or something. Damn Now, 0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:34.440 this is one I really love. Anytime that it hurts 0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:37.680 you and apologize this This is a great time to 0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:40.120 getting what you want. You should know it should be 0:35:40.160 --> 0:35:43.520 something serious like a forgotten birth, forgotten birthday, a cancelation 0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:46.239 of a date. Promises to call whenever they fail to 0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:49.600 do something you make their request because they know they 0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:54.839 have to famil you something. I'm about to stay here 0:35:54.840 --> 0:36:00.319 and be Devil's advocate. Straight up. Cutty got flamed. She 0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:03.680 came on see the thing is and said that when 0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:07.399 her nigga sucks up, it's okay when he sucks up 0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:09.440 as long as she gets something in return for the 0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:12.840 funk up. I say that for a woman who really 0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:16.839 likes the man, don't accept a gift as a consolations 0:36:16.920 --> 0:36:22.919 side for them. Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie I wait, wait, wait, wait, Yeah, 0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:25.040 but I've dipped out with tricks. If you want your 0:36:25.080 --> 0:36:28.280 trick to behave in a certain way where he doesn't 0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:31.560 like funk up with your time and and really funk 0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:35.560 with you, know, you gotta get your disagree tricks have 0:36:35.680 --> 0:36:38.399 to be in line. Because my tricks, trick niggas I've had, 0:36:38.440 --> 0:36:40.759 I don't give a funk about what fucking feelings are hurt. 0:36:40.800 --> 0:36:43.080 I'm gonna pretend I'm sad and you're gonna buy anything. 0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:46.759 No trick niggas. Yeah, I really thought you were Like, 0:36:46.840 --> 0:36:48.560 I just can't believe we're not spending a week. Yeah, 0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:50.960 but trick niggas. At the same time, I have to 0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:53.719 know that they can't play with you, bro, Like a 0:36:53.760 --> 0:36:56.319 trick nigga can't be like, yeah, we're doing dinner, then 0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:58.360 we're gonna do this, then we're gonna do that, and 0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:02.080 then last minute they cancel on you. Trick niggas, you 0:37:02.600 --> 0:37:05.320 still have to hold them accountable to the same regard 0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:07.839 and you should be getting gifts and money from them, 0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:10.680 whether they funk up or not. So so you sucking 0:37:10.760 --> 0:37:13.040 up isn't why I'm getting a gift. You should be 0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.239 giving me a gift and ship. I mean, yes, they 0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:17.200 should be giving. But I do think it's a good 0:37:17.239 --> 0:37:18.719 if you have to put a time place and asking, 0:37:18.760 --> 0:37:20.279 I do think that's a good one. I will say, 0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:22.839 I try. Don't don't wait to ask for something when 0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:25.160 they sunk up. You should already be asking for something 0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:27.480 that you could bitch. This is one of the options. Damn. 0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:29.920 And I'm telling you, I'm telling you, we got to 0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:36.240 rewrite this article. That's what I'm saying now. The passive 0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:40.040 aggressive asker, which this happened in my let me tell 0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:44.040 you how do not like? They'll be like that could 0:37:44.040 --> 0:37:45.759 not be amount. So this is how I come on 0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:49.160 passive love. Her boy saw the clip about where we 0:37:49.160 --> 0:37:51.240 made the tip of the dick of your ass whatever, 0:37:51.280 --> 0:37:53.200 we made a joke, so we were in the same 0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:56.080 was the joke? What was the joke? Something Ibo'm giving 0:37:56.120 --> 0:37:57.560 a tip and you said, here s your tip, like 0:37:57.600 --> 0:38:01.839 the tip of the dicktive. He loved that. So I'm 0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:03.799 on FaceTime with him. I'm about to be in the 0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:07.080 same city. I haven't seen him in years, and I'm 0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:08.440 in the car with my home girl and her and 0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:11.279 I was shopping and I said on FaceTime I could 0:38:11.280 --> 0:38:13.759 not believe he ended up doing it. I was like, 0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:15.960 I shouldn't even be spending my money. This doesn't even 0:38:16.040 --> 0:38:18.000 feel right. I was like, I've had a birthday that's 0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:20.759 past Christmas. I was like, when you see me, I 0:38:20.800 --> 0:38:22.840 know you're one of those something. I was like, I 0:38:22.840 --> 0:38:25.080 should be getting shoes or something. He was like really. 0:38:25.200 --> 0:38:27.640 I was like, yeah, you wear Gucci. I should have Gucci. 0:38:27.680 --> 0:38:29.279 I should have nice things. I need a new pair 0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:33.640 of shoes. Bitch, don't you know you sent him the shoes. 0:38:33.760 --> 0:38:39.359 I didn't send him anything. Literally showed up. He had 0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:43.719 the Gucci bag ready, beautiful fucking Gucci. Luckily you like 0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:47.760 them anytime normally a man came with a gift. Okay, 0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:52.160 good ladies, there's a tip right there. Make sure you 0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:54.680 get the gift for seat, because a lot of these 0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:57.239 men in their styles is just a little question. There 0:38:57.360 --> 0:38:59.600 is something I said that I realized it was a 0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:01.759 little bit different. Then you get, bitch, just cant and 0:39:01.800 --> 0:39:03.640 heels and ship they do. We don't want that ship. 0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:06.480 He was making jokes about like I gotta buy you this, 0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:09.000 and I said, listen to me. I said, I buy 0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:11.200 myself these things. You buy yourself these things, and you 0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:12.880 know how I roll out like if I do what 0:39:12.960 --> 0:39:15.479 you need to be doing it facts And he did 0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:17.759 not saying he's never brought me nice things. He's definitely 0:39:17.800 --> 0:39:20.279 brought me Gucci when we were dating. But I was 0:39:20.320 --> 0:39:23.200 just so impressed and he was very much like, you 0:39:23.239 --> 0:39:26.680 deserve it. And I did pussy drip when you got 0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:31.120 that gift? Did you pussy start throbbing? Damn? How a 0:39:31.120 --> 0:39:33.920 man just put it? Fucking like, don't get me wrong. Oh, 0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:35.560 BI gets me things all the time, but like I 0:39:35.640 --> 0:39:38.000 know they're happening, like it's a birthday, it's Valentine's Day 0:39:38.000 --> 0:39:40.319 and he'll ask me, I'm gonna buy you something. Someone 0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:42.040 just puts a Gucci back in my face like that's 0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:45.440 for you. You know what's crazy? And you know I've 0:39:45.440 --> 0:39:47.880 been on my Black Lives Matter ship, bro, so I 0:39:47.920 --> 0:39:52.160 could believe. And what's crazy is I get boy was 0:39:52.160 --> 0:39:54.759 white for those sin sumit that it's so different now, 0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:57.600 Like yeah, y'all can fast forward. I'm about to talk 0:39:57.640 --> 0:40:03.440 about my man in terms of gifts though, um my 0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:07.760 dorm I have packages downstairs I'm like, I didn't order anything. 0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:11.920 My man sends things to my house constantly from if 0:40:11.920 --> 0:40:15.799 he just notices I'm out of something, or he's at 0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:17.279 the house and he feels like there's something that can 0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:19.880 make my life easier, he buys it for me, and 0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:23.120 I'm like, Nick, you haven't asked him. And I only 0:40:23.120 --> 0:40:25.240 know because he spelled He spelled my last name wrong, 0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:27.799 so I know when I get shipped from him. He 0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:30.520 actually he adds the actual letter, don't add the don't 0:40:30.560 --> 0:40:33.120 don't say here, but he adds an actual letter, So 0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:35.759 I normally know when things are from him because he 0:40:35.760 --> 0:40:38.319 speolls my last name was an extra letter. And then 0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:42.520 it'll literally be all household items, like things that he 0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:46.839 just realized that, which is right he and not just 0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:49.560 feminize him at all, but he does stuff like that, 0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:52.839 Like when I was in Jamaica, I came home two 0:40:52.880 --> 0:40:56.600 hooks and everything being hung around my house because he's like, 0:40:56.640 --> 0:40:58.919 you put a lot of things on the floor, hang 0:40:58.960 --> 0:41:00.920 it up now, bitch a sweet. But I'll tell you 0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:04.160 how Old Bay does his will. He's such a fucking 0:41:04.360 --> 0:41:06.920 bougie ass nigga, and I love him for it. But 0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:09.680 he'll come to my house and be like, what is 0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:14.040 this mark? What are these candles from bed bath and beyond? Wait? 0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:17.920 What la labo margella. He's not working around. He likes 0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:20.800 all candles, No, bitch, I'll be right there at Burlington. 0:41:21.239 --> 0:41:27.400 Give me my seven dollar candle. When I tell you, 0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:29.759 I'd be feeling like I'm doing something when I spin 0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.239 above eleven dollars on the candle and I'd be getting 0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:33.960 the ships. That'd be like this big would be like 0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:36.600 the side of my head. I'd be like, damn, like 0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:38.160 I'm not gonna line. You want to talk about things 0:41:38.200 --> 0:41:41.320 that make you come. I don't know, but this makes 0:41:41.320 --> 0:41:43.880 me come right here. I took the sticker off. But 0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:49.120 when I tell you, as an adult, honey, give me 0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:53.720 a twenty dollar candle for eight Oh I'm orgasm, Oh 0:41:53.800 --> 0:42:00.520 my yahnd wash? You think I have regular lab under soap? 0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:03.560 Now it has to be a sop geranium like he's 0:42:03.600 --> 0:42:08.799 not fucking around, okay, Burgermont like it has for what hands? 0:42:08.800 --> 0:42:11.319 So asp like body wash Like that's cute, but you're 0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:13.719 gonna wash your hands with soft soap and you know that. 0:42:14.239 --> 0:42:17.680 And I got so I got six bottles for twelve, 0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:21.520 nine and nine off Amazon officers shout out to the 0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:23.719 soft soap. Also, if you like it, you love you 0:42:23.840 --> 0:42:28.000 buy it for me anyway. Come So that's my type. 0:42:28.040 --> 0:42:30.600 What do you do once you get the money now 0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:33.799 there is you spend it. The men that want to 0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:35.799 just invest, I want to talk about some of the 0:42:35.800 --> 0:42:37.560 women that I've met and the things they've invested their 0:42:37.600 --> 0:42:39.759 bread into it, niggas. I thought it would be cool 0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:41.680 for us to talk about things that, maybe in a 0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:44.680 good way, that we flipped with a man's cash. One 0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:48.200 of my home girls, um, you know who she is, 0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:51.600 but she used to get mad bread from these scammer niggas, 0:42:51.800 --> 0:42:53.640 And one particular dude was like, oh, you ain't doing 0:42:53.640 --> 0:42:56.160 shape of buying clothes and holding around it up. You 0:42:56.239 --> 0:42:59.000 better come up with a business. And she fucking started 0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:01.320 selling hair a bit made him fly here to China, 0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:05.200 picked out the weave herself, like, started a whole company 0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:07.319 from it. And I think that when men would give 0:43:07.320 --> 0:43:08.759 me money or would ask me what I was doing 0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:11.080 with it, I didn't really have a plan. So I 0:43:11.120 --> 0:43:14.080 did think a great thing and a great way to start. 0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:17.600 Mandy even does. E commerce is one figuring out drop ship, 0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:21.400 whether it be candles or whatever like have that nigga. 0:43:21.400 --> 0:43:22.640 Just put the money into it because at the end 0:43:22.640 --> 0:43:25.080 of they guess what if you're not going to spend 0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:30.279 it on yourself, it's literally like free capital, like just 0:43:30.760 --> 0:43:33.080 take it, make it and if it fucking fails, whatever, 0:43:33.120 --> 0:43:36.840 but at least you didn't fucking So I'll be honest 0:43:36.880 --> 0:43:41.799 with you, coming from when I was really getting money 0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:45.799 out of these niggas. Um if I'm talking to the 0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:52.399 women in college or the women pursuing degrees, um. The 0:43:52.440 --> 0:43:55.320 capital that I was given went towards my bills because 0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:57.720 it allowed me the freedom not to have to work. 0:43:57.960 --> 0:44:00.880 That's smart. And so when I look back at it, 0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:02.920 even my African I told you I got like thirty 0:44:02.920 --> 0:44:05.120 grands on them twice, but I got like thirty thousand 0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:07.160 in a year. And it was the first year that 0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:11.399 I decided to go back to school. And at that 0:44:11.480 --> 0:44:16.200 time I had worked only retail bartending things like that 0:44:18.440 --> 0:44:20.960 was like my yearly income. So the fact that I 0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:24.680 got thirty thousand tax free off of a nigga, I 0:44:24.719 --> 0:44:27.239 was able to take seven classes a semester, I was 0:44:27.320 --> 0:44:30.880 able to lead up. It was twenty one credits a semester. 0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:33.440 You know, at Leman, I was able to speed up 0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:36.239 my process in obtaining two degrees, and so I looked 0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:38.520 back now loans a little bit because so I've never 0:44:38.520 --> 0:44:42.040 taken a student and then I took student loans just 0:44:42.160 --> 0:44:45.920 also live. So between loans, I will say, when you 0:44:45.960 --> 0:44:48.239 get a lot of cash from a dude, whatever it 0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:52.040 may be, I'm a firm believer. If the loan is 0:44:52.120 --> 0:44:56.520 fixed rate, I am not. I'm sorry if it does 0:44:56.560 --> 0:44:59.160 not take me like give me any advantage for paying 0:44:59.160 --> 0:45:01.719 it down, you cannot um what do you mean you 0:45:03.040 --> 0:45:05.799 fixed rate? As in it won't change like there's it's 0:45:05.840 --> 0:45:08.120 just this is what it is like if it's not 0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:11.759 really gonna like accrue more interesting whether you paid off 0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:13.840 or not. For example, like a lot of PPP loans, 0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:16.080 whether you pay them off early like they're gonna kind 0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:19.000 of be the same. Do not waste your capital by 0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:20.839 fucking spending all of the cash paying off a loan 0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:23.560 so you're debt free, because I know that's where I 0:45:23.880 --> 0:45:25.880 may not even help you in the hold you the 0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:28.640 s B a loan that I'm able to get last 0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:31.759 year only three percent. That's a very low interest rate. 0:45:31.800 --> 0:45:36.680 And right now I'll also say, with my e commerce business. Um, 0:45:36.719 --> 0:45:39.920 we need a lot of inventory. Inventory costs money. Like 0:45:40.040 --> 0:45:42.120 even just my first run I spent over. I spent 0:45:42.120 --> 0:45:45.440 over inventory just my first run of inventory, and we 0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:49.360 need more. And so even looking at inventory, that fixed 0:45:49.480 --> 0:45:53.480 interest rate of of loans is the only thing I'm doing, Like, 0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:59.040 you can't do do that a pr Yeah, like something 0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:02.719 is over sent or or they're able to change with 0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:05.400 the market fluctuation of what interest rates can be. That 0:46:05.480 --> 0:46:07.920 ends up. Now for sure, you can like do some 0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:09.960 refi on your own a little bit like one of 0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:12.719 the smartest things I was able to do so and 0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:15.480 this wasn't smartly also real quick for those of you 0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:17.719 listening who like are like, what then are these but 0:46:17.840 --> 0:46:22.239 just talking about? But also also here the breakdown. Say 0:46:22.320 --> 0:46:24.880 you take out a tenth that I'm going to make 0:46:24.920 --> 0:46:27.919 the numbers super easy. Fixed interest rate what she's talking 0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:29.640 about because it's also what I'm going through right now. 0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:36.680 Say you get a ten thousand dollar business loan, they say, hey, 0:46:36.840 --> 0:46:41.080 out of this ten thousand dollar business loan, we want 0:46:41.200 --> 0:46:46.760 ten percent interests, you know, to this company, you only 0:46:46.880 --> 0:46:51.279 owe them eleven thousand dollars. That is what they want back. 0:46:51.280 --> 0:46:54.560 And when it's fixed. That means that it's not gonna 0:46:54.680 --> 0:46:57.319 keep growing. It take longer to pay it off. Now 0:46:57.320 --> 0:47:01.200 a lot of school loans do, however, for there's a 0:47:01.280 --> 0:47:07.760 lot in the parnament right now happening. The loans are deferred. 0:47:08.280 --> 0:47:10.520 They've been deferred for like the last year. Here's my 0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:13.360 advice for anyone that's got a large sum of money 0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:15.640 and and and loans and all that. Ship. One thing 0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:19.520 I did for myself was I only rid myself of 0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:22.680 debt that would immediately change my credit score in order 0:47:22.680 --> 0:47:24.640 to do certain things that I needed. For example, when 0:47:24.680 --> 0:47:27.000 I first moved to New York, de greated the sugar 0:47:27.080 --> 0:47:29.600 Daddy got me the apartment, but my credit was maybe 0:47:29.640 --> 0:47:32.919 like a six fifteen. I had to put down first, last, 0:47:32.960 --> 0:47:35.359 and two months rent, which was like twelve fifteen thousand 0:47:35.400 --> 0:47:40.440 whatever the help. So when your credit is higher, you 0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:43.120 can actually spend less because they're requiring less and you 0:47:43.120 --> 0:47:44.720 can keep some in the bank. So what you should 0:47:44.719 --> 0:47:48.280 be doing, if you really have go on your credit 0:47:48.360 --> 0:47:52.480 Carma look and see like, okay, hard inquiries is my highest, 0:47:52.480 --> 0:47:54.320 They're gonna fall off in two years. The debt to 0:47:54.400 --> 0:47:58.399 income ratio hard your cards lower than spread them out 0:47:58.560 --> 0:48:01.120 if you have one card that's ten thousand dollars and 0:48:01.160 --> 0:48:03.520 another one that's five, it's thirty of each. Don't just 0:48:03.600 --> 0:48:06.160 fill up one card and keep the other one zero. 0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:08.960 Because they really watch those ships. So make sure you're 0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:12.399 paying towards what's gonna change your life immediately. And that's 0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:14.280 why I say, do not be paying off them loans 0:48:14.320 --> 0:48:18.240 that quick if they're fucking fixed. Hell no, Now another 0:48:18.280 --> 0:48:21.600 thing I think that's smart to do. No, we're talking 0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:24.120 about how to trick on these. Okay, let's just say 0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:25.960 you have a nigga that wants to take you on vacation. 0:48:26.280 --> 0:48:30.359 That's what he wants to do. Okay, I think I'm 0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:32.879 cool with that. Wait, I have a tip on this. 0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:35.239 Can I give a tip on this real quick? If 0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:39.759 you got niggas that are flying you out build miserably 0:48:39.800 --> 0:48:45.520 in this, get show as a fucking uh frequent flyer 0:48:45.680 --> 0:48:49.440 program on one airline and tell whoever is flying you 0:48:49.480 --> 0:48:52.040 out that you will only fly out on this airline. 0:48:52.080 --> 0:48:55.000 There's nothing wrong with that, because when I tell you, 0:48:55.120 --> 0:48:59.719 even being gold medallion right now on Delta is amazing. 0:48:59.800 --> 0:49:02.839 It takes so much like pressure off of whether you 0:49:02.880 --> 0:49:05.440 want the nega to pay for extra check luggage and 0:49:05.480 --> 0:49:10.919 all this other stuff you out tell him you will 0:49:10.960 --> 0:49:13.839 only fly out on one airline and rack up those 0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:19.759 miles and points, because even if you're fighting, yeah now, yeah, 0:49:20.040 --> 0:49:23.839 making money on your own trips is a big fucking deal. 0:49:23.880 --> 0:49:26.120 That's what I was gonna say. If you're doing vacations, 0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:29.080 let them pay yourself back. And I have a firm 0:49:29.200 --> 0:49:32.160 believer in that going on even a free vacation costs 0:49:32.200 --> 0:49:35.520 me money. Like, don't you spend more money getting ready 0:49:35.560 --> 0:49:38.439 for the vacation than you do want a god da vacation? Um, 0:49:38.520 --> 0:49:40.640 yes to no. I gotta give my hair, go give 0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:42.840 my ship. We do. And that's the thing too. A 0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:44.560 lot of times we not only have to get our 0:49:44.600 --> 0:49:46.799 hair and makeup, nails toes done, we do like to 0:49:46.800 --> 0:49:49.520 buy outfits because we know we're going on vacations. And 0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:52.640 to be fair to when you're traveling, especially if you're 0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:55.520 coming from like a metropolitan area, you have to also 0:49:55.760 --> 0:49:58.799 take into consideration you're either paying for uber or you're 0:49:58.800 --> 0:50:00.640 paying for your car to be parked at the airport, 0:50:00.880 --> 0:50:03.840 You're paying for food at the airport. This it's never 0:50:03.880 --> 0:50:05.640 a free trip for the woman. I know. The men 0:50:05.719 --> 0:50:07.399 listening are like, oh my god, but you got there 0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:11.440 for free. It still comes out to be a fucking 0:50:11.480 --> 0:50:14.120 flight is not that expensive anymore, not anymore. I mean 0:50:14.280 --> 0:50:17.960 they're going back up like for real, like people like 0:50:18.000 --> 0:50:24.200 we just can't afford flights. I don't know why. The 0:50:24.239 --> 0:50:25.680 person that I had a meeting with in l A 0:50:25.719 --> 0:50:27.560 that I was talking about, he wanted to schedule our 0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:28.920 meeting for the next day. I said, I have to leave. 0:50:28.920 --> 0:50:30.319 I have to go back to New York towards. He's like, 0:50:30.320 --> 0:50:32.200 I'll pay your change fee. I looked at him and said, 0:50:32.200 --> 0:50:34.839 there are no change flight fees right now. I said, one, 0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:37.840 there's no change fees too. Do you think I was 0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:40.239 going to cancel my plans for a hundred or two 0:50:40.280 --> 0:50:45.000 hundred dollars? Don't nig You've got me fucked up. Niggas 0:50:45.040 --> 0:50:46.520 really be talking a bit, just like we ain't got 0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:49.680 money and I don't know how to do so because 0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:52.080 black women got all the money. When it comes to 0:50:52.440 --> 0:50:57.000 those vacation things, making sure if you sincerely cannot afford 0:50:57.239 --> 0:50:59.120 the prep that it takes to go on this vacation, 0:50:59.680 --> 0:51:02.120 be very clear in saying, because they're gonna offer it 0:51:02.120 --> 0:51:05.000 to you, anyway, bitch. They're like, Yo, I'm gonna take 0:51:05.040 --> 0:51:06.759 you to Miami. We're gonna do three days today. I'd 0:51:06.760 --> 0:51:08.200 be like, look, I would love to go with you. 0:51:08.239 --> 0:51:10.720 Should I really want to suck your dick on that balcony. 0:51:10.840 --> 0:51:12.319 But I'm gonna be real, I need to get my 0:51:12.360 --> 0:51:14.319 outfite together, like it's just kind of stressing me out 0:51:14.360 --> 0:51:15.520 to work, Like I just have a lot of things 0:51:15.560 --> 0:51:19.520 to buy. Use that word. Use that word. Don't say 0:51:19.520 --> 0:51:21.279 you have a lot of things to get together. Don't 0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:23.160 say you've got things to prepare. Say I have a 0:51:23.200 --> 0:51:25.759 lot of things that I need to buy to make 0:51:25.800 --> 0:51:28.520 this trip happen, to make this trip happen. Because you 0:51:28.600 --> 0:51:30.520 need to kind of be clear with those words. If 0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:33.080 asking for direct money is kind of scary, but this 0:51:33.160 --> 0:51:35.520 that means you can't show up with your lashes falling out, 0:51:35.560 --> 0:51:37.399 your nail is not done, in your hair not done 0:51:37.520 --> 0:51:43.439 because nick is no nowaday because niggas be no way now. 0:51:43.440 --> 0:51:47.760 As far as buying you things, um, I'll be real. 0:51:48.760 --> 0:51:55.960 I never really said no to gifts. Um, immend I 0:51:56.040 --> 0:51:58.520 told you I was. I was so poor it one 0:51:58.560 --> 0:52:00.799 time I returned gifts. Oh, I was gonna say I 0:52:00.840 --> 0:52:03.480 never really said no. Two gifts I returned. Trappers was 0:52:03.520 --> 0:52:05.359 buying me gifts you could they buy him with cash, 0:52:05.360 --> 0:52:08.359 I'd return them. I feel like based on the comfortability 0:52:08.640 --> 0:52:12.359 is how forward you can be about not being able 0:52:12.360 --> 0:52:14.759 to have a two thousand dollar bag, a thousand dollar bag, 0:52:14.960 --> 0:52:16.759 whatever it might be in saying I actually really need 0:52:16.800 --> 0:52:20.000 this cash like kind of watch your words with this, 0:52:20.600 --> 0:52:23.239 I think, watch your But also to me, just know 0:52:23.360 --> 0:52:24.960 the type of nigga you don't look. That's the thing. 0:52:25.440 --> 0:52:28.320 There are men that don't want to feel like tricks 0:52:29.000 --> 0:52:32.640 paying and getting cash they're gonna have a problem with. 0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:37.680 But gifts, if they're materialistic type of nigga, a gift 0:52:37.840 --> 0:52:40.280 is nothing to them because this is what they enjoy buying. 0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:44.719 So I would say, be be careful with that. If 0:52:44.760 --> 0:52:48.040 you got a materialistic type of guy, don't say you 0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:50.440 need ran our bills paid and said because you may 0:52:50.760 --> 0:52:53.440 you may get nothing. So when I had my sugar Daddy, 0:52:53.640 --> 0:52:55.440 like granted he was super lit and he's the one 0:52:55.480 --> 0:52:57.040 I've talked about who had a plane and all that 0:52:57.080 --> 0:52:59.000 and bought me my first and buy me the apartment, 0:52:59.000 --> 0:53:00.400 so you paid for the rent for year. When I 0:53:00.440 --> 0:53:03.640 moved to New York. But I genuinely needed cash, bro 0:53:03.800 --> 0:53:06.640 like seriously, it just needed a few racks before the move, 0:53:06.760 --> 0:53:08.239 like and I didn't want to tell him. After he 0:53:08.280 --> 0:53:10.239 did the whole apartment, I was like, you still need 0:53:10.280 --> 0:53:13.440 a few thousand a move. It's just you really do 0:53:13.800 --> 0:53:16.680 moving your stuff, the flights, like all that stuff, getting 0:53:16.680 --> 0:53:18.640 my ship together, buying little things for the place, like 0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:20.920 I needed like maybe three or four grand that I 0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:27.799 didn't have, and we went shopping in Miami. Well, I 0:53:27.960 --> 0:53:31.960 told him because I was like, um, I really like, 0:53:32.000 --> 0:53:33.279 I know you want to buy me this stuff, like 0:53:33.280 --> 0:53:35.040 I feel really bad to take it because like I 0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:36.399 have a lot of stuff to do with this move. 0:53:36.840 --> 0:53:38.839 He got very irritated with me. He was like, this 0:53:38.880 --> 0:53:41.239 is our day to have a good time, Like we're 0:53:41.280 --> 0:53:43.360 not thinking about moving like you want. We want to 0:53:43.360 --> 0:53:45.160 have fun, we want to enjoy this. It was like 0:53:45.200 --> 0:53:47.800 I ruined it for him. And I remember that feeling 0:53:47.800 --> 0:53:49.680 in his face like, oh, now I'm gonna shop all 0:53:49.719 --> 0:53:51.840 day with her, and she thinking about how she can't 0:53:52.400 --> 0:53:56.080 you know what I'm saying. And when she's talking about 0:53:56.200 --> 0:53:59.720 materialistic men with Mandy just said I know that person 0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:03.279 to know they just enjoyed. He flew. We flew to 0:54:03.320 --> 0:54:06.080 Miami on the jet for a day to shop, and 0:54:06.160 --> 0:54:08.920 inside I was dying when he was trying to buy 0:54:09.000 --> 0:54:10.920 me these expensive shoes because I was like, bro, I 0:54:10.960 --> 0:54:14.400 need the Miami, but he was crazy. I have friends 0:54:14.800 --> 0:54:18.280 that always got the red bottoms, the persons, the gifts, 0:54:19.120 --> 0:54:23.799 the men that I bonded and connected to, Like you know, 0:54:23.880 --> 0:54:26.080 I got put on payroll for almost a year. I 0:54:26.080 --> 0:54:28.279 gotta check every two weeks for nigga that I saw 0:54:28.560 --> 0:54:33.000 once a quarter. Um my other really good friend who 0:54:33.040 --> 0:54:35.480 got me my MacBook and who paid for my summer 0:54:35.520 --> 0:54:39.520 school classes and who helped me through school. I could 0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:41.640 never hit him up like, oh my god, there's these 0:54:41.640 --> 0:54:45.640 twelve shoes they want. If if I hit him up, 0:54:45.680 --> 0:54:49.279 it was because I needed it. And you have to 0:54:49.320 --> 0:54:51.040 know what type of man you're dealing with, because yeah, 0:54:51.040 --> 0:54:53.080 there's a there's a huge difference, and you'll have men 0:54:53.120 --> 0:54:56.080 that'll be like, bitch, aren't paying your bills. But then 0:54:56.120 --> 0:55:00.439 you'll have another guy that'll be like, what do you need? Well, 0:55:00.520 --> 0:55:02.000 I want to be here to help. I will say, 0:55:02.040 --> 0:55:04.680 if you're fucking win And this lastly, hood nigga that's 0:55:04.680 --> 0:55:07.600 making cash pass, which I never dealt with. My men 0:55:07.719 --> 0:55:12.000 made money legally. I know you like the trap stars 0:55:12.560 --> 0:55:16.319 like that one thing they would go in like I'm 0:55:16.360 --> 0:55:21.879 here for the tr aps. They are no get another water, 0:55:21.960 --> 0:55:25.319 big shoes and the car. She likes it. She likes 0:55:25.360 --> 0:55:28.560 the trap sharing water. So you don't know the GZ song? 0:55:28.600 --> 0:55:31.200 Now is that game? Are we going to act my 0:55:31.320 --> 0:55:34.960 shoes on a car she likes? Okay, I'm just making sure. 0:55:35.000 --> 0:55:36.839 I'm just saying I'm on TV now as remember Jean seven. 0:55:39.680 --> 0:55:42.680 If you don't want hood niggas, one thing I did 0:55:43.239 --> 0:55:48.960 not do the last week pointer. Seriously, who many? That's 0:55:48.960 --> 0:55:52.839 what you said? He bleep that? Then damn? But wait 0:55:52.840 --> 0:55:56.359 wait wait wait, this is really like a demo. This 0:55:56.440 --> 0:56:00.200 is a tip. Can I ask what is the niggah? 0:56:00.440 --> 0:56:02.919 A hood nigga is somebody that doesn't have a regular job. 0:56:03.160 --> 0:56:04.600 You may not know how they' getting their cash. It 0:56:04.640 --> 0:56:07.600 could be scam and trapping. It could it's just niggas 0:56:07.640 --> 0:56:11.440 that got cash that like spending in weird ways like fast. 0:56:11.680 --> 0:56:13.680 They could still drive a fucking focus, but they take 0:56:13.680 --> 0:56:15.839 you to a five hundred dollar dinner. Bro, you gotta chill, 0:56:15.960 --> 0:56:18.640 not the focus on a like I had a nigga 0:56:18.719 --> 0:56:21.759 that lived in a bro the trap car dog like 0:56:21.800 --> 0:56:26.400 I like the car is the Chrysler three D. No, Bro, 0:56:26.480 --> 0:56:28.319 niggas have a fucking car to do runs. And I'm 0:56:28.360 --> 0:56:30.600 telling you row like I knew nigga had a Porsche 0:56:30.600 --> 0:56:34.759 and a fucking focus. And then y'all went to find 0:56:34.760 --> 0:56:36.080 if he had to make a run and some ship 0:56:36.360 --> 0:56:41.920 because he's spending the bread by life. But I didn't. 0:56:42.239 --> 0:56:44.080 I never met a nigga would a with a with 0:56:44.200 --> 0:56:46.879 a portion of focus? Not gonna I'm not gonna hold 0:56:46.960 --> 0:56:49.960 am I fucking around with? Like? Okay, do y'all know 0:56:50.120 --> 0:56:55.160 people like this? They have portions and focuses. I mean 0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:58.520 it was like not focused. Maybe it was like a Sonata, 0:56:59.640 --> 0:57:05.239 don't that was the first car. I'm not kidding. He 0:57:05.280 --> 0:57:08.279 had a two daughter. It's a charger, a Chrysler, and 0:57:08.320 --> 0:57:11.480 then the luxury chargers. I was on to say. And Paula, 0:57:11.800 --> 0:57:15.000 what did she talking about a focus? She had trapping 0:57:15.040 --> 0:57:17.720 in volkswagons out. I'm telling you I had a niggad. 0:57:18.200 --> 0:57:20.840 It wasn't a focus. It was Sonata. He did not 0:57:20.840 --> 0:57:23.480 call him me a trade and no, fucking no, My 0:57:23.600 --> 0:57:27.480 Sonata was Polo is a nigga cars. They're not fucking 0:57:27.480 --> 0:57:29.560 moving away and the ships anymore. You gotta be smart. 0:57:30.000 --> 0:57:35.480 Oh this is like new age trappers. Okay, So anyway, sorry, 0:57:35.640 --> 0:57:39.360 I when I was young, I never knew how to 0:57:39.440 --> 0:57:44.000 really get more like a larger investment from them. And today, 0:57:44.080 --> 0:57:46.560 if I was still working with them niggers, I would 0:57:46.560 --> 0:57:48.480 have told them to put their money in someplace they 0:57:48.520 --> 0:57:51.000 can grow it. And this is just being a bit 0:57:51.160 --> 0:57:54.040 that sounds like you're on your investorship. He was not here, 0:57:54.240 --> 0:57:56.280 one was not here at one. We can't That's what 0:57:56.280 --> 0:57:59.520 I'm trying to tell the girls them, Tell these men 0:58:00.080 --> 0:58:02.000 that you're gonna put their money in someplace safe and 0:58:02.000 --> 0:58:04.960 grow it. And I'm telling you they got money stashed 0:58:05.000 --> 0:58:06.880 at some bitch house or their mama house. They have 0:58:07.000 --> 0:58:09.880 cash that they can't spend quickly, and if they can 0:58:09.920 --> 0:58:11.920 just put it somewhere and know that it may grow 0:58:12.000 --> 0:58:14.120 or have the potential to grow, bitch, do all that 0:58:14.200 --> 0:58:16.320 motherfucking little street talk. I'm telling you, I'll do that 0:58:16.320 --> 0:58:18.640 ship with niggas. Now, Okay, do you think that a 0:58:18.680 --> 0:58:21.720 lot of this ship in the studio? Look, are you 0:58:21.760 --> 0:58:23.400 suck dick for the couch? I don't have to suck 0:58:23.440 --> 0:58:27.800 dick for anything. You have a food job. There was 0:58:27.840 --> 0:58:30.680 a pod I didn't give aud job. But what I'm 0:58:30.720 --> 0:58:33.440 telling you is we have a second studio space that 0:58:33.480 --> 0:58:36.840 we're trying to trying to grow. Did you spit on 0:58:36.880 --> 0:58:39.080 the meat? No, but I'll tell you what I had 0:58:39.120 --> 0:58:41.120 to do ship for that meat. The niggas want to 0:58:41.160 --> 0:58:43.360 sunk with me, and I told them my ship's already 0:58:43.360 --> 0:58:45.560 grown in ninety days. I have a second space coming, 0:58:45.720 --> 0:58:47.280 and I think that you should invest in some of 0:58:47.280 --> 0:58:48.880 it and just gain a little cash back on it 0:58:48.920 --> 0:58:50.840 instead of me taking out Why would I work through 0:58:50.840 --> 0:58:52.800 the government when I could work through you. I'll pay 0:58:52.800 --> 0:58:57.800 you back in like a year and a half. Equipment. 0:58:57.880 --> 0:59:01.280 You're gonna let them get the head passed so the 0:59:01.440 --> 0:59:04.439 cheft can experience the boodio. Let's get onto the home mail. 0:59:06.800 --> 0:59:08.800 I hope you guys liked this type of episode many 0:59:08.800 --> 0:59:10.600 and I made talk about stuff like this on Patreon 0:59:10.680 --> 0:59:16.440 at some of the But trick, no, let the nigga 0:59:16.520 --> 0:59:19.200 trick on you. What are you talking about? Trick on 0:59:19.240 --> 0:59:21.960 these calling them my tricks and just use the word free. 0:59:22.400 --> 0:59:27.120 Get tricks on stocks, drop ship futures, reinvesting it into 0:59:27.160 --> 0:59:30.720 your business, all of it. Home mail hole confession. Here 0:59:30.760 --> 0:59:35.000 we go, let's go. Not real crazy, but kind of hoey. 0:59:35.080 --> 0:59:36.960 I love how short this is. I love it. I 0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:40.000 recently learned about grinders. Y'all. Being in the South, homosexuality 0:59:40.040 --> 0:59:42.320 is frowned upon. Well, last weekend I went to a 0:59:42.320 --> 0:59:44.000 guy's house to funk. We started on the couch and 0:59:44.080 --> 0:59:46.200 ended up in the shower. Lots of fun, but quite enough. 0:59:46.880 --> 0:59:50.200 So I drove back into my town and found another one. 0:59:50.840 --> 0:59:52.800 He wasn't able to host, so we met at a 0:59:52.840 --> 0:59:54.720 gas station and we messed around in the back seat, 0:59:54.800 --> 0:59:57.280 just kept using grinder. He seemed super nervous and I 0:59:57.320 --> 0:59:59.600 had trouble standing up, so we just quit. I had 0:59:59.640 --> 1:00:01.480 home for the night, kind of disappointed, but the next 1:00:01.520 --> 1:00:03.800 morning I hit up my regular finally got what I 1:00:03.840 --> 1:00:05.880 was looking for it, and then I came home and 1:00:05.960 --> 1:00:09.960 fucked my wife. I mean, well, not nice, but no, 1:00:11.040 --> 1:00:13.959 we don't condone the d L here. I don't care 1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:17.400 about DL. I care about cheating. I well know, well, 1:00:17.440 --> 1:00:22.960 I the thing about this show, yeah yeah, but if 1:00:22.960 --> 1:00:26.360 we're speaking of if we're if we are two women 1:00:26.400 --> 1:00:30.560 who have sat here and wanted to uplift people in 1:00:30.600 --> 1:00:35.720 their sexual cravings, their sexual endeavors, their partners, and them 1:00:35.840 --> 1:00:40.240 being their true selves as women. I would like to 1:00:40.280 --> 1:00:43.600 think we've had enough guests to feel as though you 1:00:43.600 --> 1:00:46.240 can do that as a man. And so while you're 1:00:46.280 --> 1:00:50.200 sitting here saying that you don't condone cheating, I think 1:00:50.200 --> 1:00:53.800 we've only fairly touched on the d L community and 1:00:53.920 --> 1:00:56.200 with me, even with the partners that I've dated who 1:00:56.280 --> 1:00:59.000 have either let me peg them, who have been curious 1:00:59.040 --> 1:01:02.800 about and aging in sex with trans women or slight 1:01:02.920 --> 1:01:09.120 engagement with men, my very, very main main point in 1:01:09.200 --> 1:01:12.440 talking to them was I love how honest you are 1:01:12.480 --> 1:01:14.560 with me. You should be honest with every other sexual 1:01:14.600 --> 1:01:19.520 partner that you have. No d L men a lot 1:01:19.560 --> 1:01:21.400 of it. We shouldn't get into this hot We don't 1:01:21.440 --> 1:01:27.440 have to, but you know, but I get that it's 1:01:27.480 --> 1:01:30.560 not easy. But to me, if you can be your 1:01:30.600 --> 1:01:35.040 full self with somebody, period, you should be able to 1:01:36.120 --> 1:01:39.480 let someone else know that you're engaging in sex with 1:01:39.840 --> 1:01:41.520 that this is what you're into, this is what you 1:01:41.640 --> 1:01:44.640 like the things that you do, period. So here's what 1:01:44.680 --> 1:01:47.240 I was gonna say. I was gonna say, crazy ass 1:01:47.240 --> 1:01:49.520 hotel that you shared with that confessional. We appreciate you 1:01:49.600 --> 1:01:52.800 for sharing it. We do. The cheating is what I 1:01:52.840 --> 1:01:55.680 don't like about it. The thing he said, I don't 1:01:55.720 --> 1:01:57.600 know what southern town he lives in. Her homosexuality is 1:01:57.600 --> 1:01:59.840 brown upon So I understand why you can't necessarily come out, 1:02:00.040 --> 1:02:05.880 but I would semi start by sharing slight fantasies with 1:02:05.920 --> 1:02:08.600 your wife, seeing how she feels about videos and stuff 1:02:08.640 --> 1:02:11.480 like that, only because maybe you won't have to cheat 1:02:11.520 --> 1:02:16.280 and lie if she's she's like, wheez your eye Like 1:02:17.040 --> 1:02:22.440 that's the thing that I will say, Yes, women in general, 1:02:22.520 --> 1:02:25.160 I won't even make this a black women thing. Women 1:02:25.160 --> 1:02:29.920 in general are just as homophobic as men are. However, 1:02:30.560 --> 1:02:34.520 there are there's a huge community of women. I've met them, 1:02:34.600 --> 1:02:37.080 I'm friends with them. We've had a podcast for four 1:02:37.160 --> 1:02:39.120 years where we have different women who have come on 1:02:39.680 --> 1:02:42.960 and been like, it doesn't bother them. They just want 1:02:42.960 --> 1:02:47.360 their partner to be a upfront and honest and honestly 1:02:48.040 --> 1:02:50.160 if a woman will leave you for you being your 1:02:50.200 --> 1:02:54.440 true selves as people, we need to be okay with 1:02:54.480 --> 1:02:58.640 someone just not being for us. That's the problem. Whether 1:02:59.000 --> 1:03:02.080 like I've had male partners that didn't like me being bisexual, 1:03:02.480 --> 1:03:04.400 or fearing that every time I was hanging with a 1:03:04.440 --> 1:03:07.120 homegirl was probably having sex with them. I've had men 1:03:07.120 --> 1:03:10.400 intimidated by that, but I've let them know up front, well, 1:03:10.440 --> 1:03:12.200 this is who I am. If that's not what you like, 1:03:12.280 --> 1:03:14.560 then maybe we shouldn't funk with each other. And so 1:03:14.600 --> 1:03:16.800 I think that men need to allow that same grace. 1:03:17.160 --> 1:03:18.920 If you feel like a woman is not going to 1:03:18.960 --> 1:03:22.440 fully accept you and who you are, that woman is 1:03:22.480 --> 1:03:24.240 just not for you. But there are women out there 1:03:24.240 --> 1:03:27.280 who is who are accepting of that. It's difficult because 1:03:27.680 --> 1:03:29.600 I think that once you get to the point where 1:03:29.600 --> 1:03:31.760 you're married to someone, you have no idea what to do. 1:03:31.760 --> 1:03:37.880 They said they married has to happen because you're only 1:03:37.880 --> 1:03:41.360 gonna want to But not only that. If if and 1:03:41.400 --> 1:03:43.120 I don't know what the prenup is, I don't know 1:03:43.120 --> 1:03:46.120 what y'all uh, you know what what type of arrangements 1:03:46.200 --> 1:03:50.720 y'all made. But if you're out here fucking with with 1:03:50.720 --> 1:03:53.000 with with with other men, I don't know what the 1:03:53.080 --> 1:03:56.920 stipulations of divorce would be. But there is something aware 1:03:57.040 --> 1:04:00.160 if you went against the vows, she could rape yours 1:04:00.280 --> 1:04:03.440 as far as economically and in firms in terms of 1:04:03.480 --> 1:04:07.480 taking the money that you've built up in in in 1:04:07.560 --> 1:04:10.439 your job and everything else. Like I will say, there 1:04:10.520 --> 1:04:14.320 is an unfair treatment and divorce and child support and 1:04:14.360 --> 1:04:16.640 all these other things we've talked about in terms of 1:04:16.640 --> 1:04:19.240 it being on the woman's side. So whether you're being 1:04:19.360 --> 1:04:23.080 unfaithful with a man or woman, you're being unfaithful to 1:04:23.160 --> 1:04:26.040 your partner and that will probably lead them to be 1:04:26.120 --> 1:04:32.000 more spif there there's a way, there's that too. Aside 1:04:32.000 --> 1:04:34.440 from hotels, you can check us out on Patreon and 1:04:34.480 --> 1:04:37.560 get for a bonus episode. You just said any more advice, Well, yeah, 1:04:37.560 --> 1:04:40.280 it got a little deep, but I will say I 1:04:40.320 --> 1:04:43.960 will say before we wrap up this episode, anyone listening 1:04:44.040 --> 1:04:50.200 to this podcast now, if for whatever reason, you feel 1:04:50.200 --> 1:04:52.520 as though the person you are engaging in sex with, 1:04:52.640 --> 1:04:55.120 the person you're in a relationship with, the person who 1:04:55.200 --> 1:05:00.160 you're pursuing, will not fully accept you for who you are, 1:05:01.640 --> 1:05:03.360 it is okay with knowing that that may not be 1:05:03.440 --> 1:05:07.080 the person for you. And I'm just I'm just frustrated 1:05:07.160 --> 1:05:10.920 in this dating pool of us trying to change ourselves 1:05:11.640 --> 1:05:15.520 to get into relationships and have have someone accept us 1:05:15.800 --> 1:05:18.240 for the people that we truly aren't. And if we're 1:05:18.320 --> 1:05:22.960 dating and trying to find someone that is our soul mate, 1:05:22.960 --> 1:05:25.160 our partners, someone that we can grow and build with. 1:05:25.680 --> 1:05:28.959 You need to show your full self to them as 1:05:29.000 --> 1:05:33.120 early as possible to not waste your time, not waste 1:05:33.120 --> 1:05:36.960 their time, and also allow that person to choose if 1:05:37.080 --> 1:05:39.800 you are the person for them, and it's okay for 1:05:39.840 --> 1:05:42.320 that person not to be for you. We need to 1:05:42.360 --> 1:05:45.000 be We need to be cognizant in the fact that 1:05:45.400 --> 1:05:48.360 who we may want may not be for us, and 1:05:48.400 --> 1:05:52.760 that is okay. Cognizant Mandy, Yes, bitch, Okay, do the 1:05:52.800 --> 1:05:57.440 little patrons patreon dot com backslash horrible decisions if you 1:05:57.480 --> 1:05:59.440 want more of Mandy and I and you enjoy these 1:05:59.440 --> 1:06:01.960 solo episod We actually pump out most of our solo 1:06:02.040 --> 1:06:05.440 content on page behind the scenes footage. We have live 1:06:05.480 --> 1:06:07.360 town halls where you can talk and chat with us 1:06:07.400 --> 1:06:10.160 every once a month. And um, we give merch on there, 1:06:10.160 --> 1:06:12.080 so yeah, check us out on there. Check us out 1:06:12.080 --> 1:06:15.120 on our other podcast for facts take every Tuesday. Um, 1:06:15.120 --> 1:06:17.600 and he has tumor podcasts. Yes, so you guys can 1:06:17.720 --> 1:06:19.840 check me out right after this episode if you have 1:06:19.880 --> 1:06:23.520 it yet. Periods this it is the official podcast brought 1:06:23.560 --> 1:06:26.480 to you by official box owner. UM. 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By tonight watch 1:07:05.200 --> 1:07:10.640 Sex Get You Refused, and also again stay tuned for 1:07:10.640 --> 1:07:15.160 a five minute bonus clip for our bonus Patreon content. 1:07:15.480 --> 1:07:17.960 If you like what you here, going over to patreon 1:07:18.520 --> 1:07:23.120 dot com backslash Horrible Bowl Decisions. All right, by guys, 1:07:23.560 --> 1:07:29.080 this has been another episode of Hormon Decisions. It's bonus bitches. 1:07:29.720 --> 1:07:34.800 Hi guys, we are here for another bonus episode of 1:07:34.840 --> 1:07:39.200 Horrible Decisions, and I am here with two people that you, guys, 1:07:39.560 --> 1:07:42.600 are already familiar with. So I am here with Shade 1:07:42.720 --> 1:07:48.120 and Chelsea from the Black Girls texting podcast. Hey guys, 1:07:49.680 --> 1:07:52.280 sweaty girl, go ahead, go ahead and tell on me. 1:07:52.360 --> 1:07:54.560 Go ahead and tell them that I made y'all record 1:07:54.600 --> 1:07:56.280 this at eight thirty in the morning on a Friday, 1:07:56.720 --> 1:07:59.760 Daring Memorial Day weekend, on a Friday, a word Day 1:07:59.760 --> 1:08:03.439 week and she proceeded to purchase us round. I'll take 1:08:03.480 --> 1:08:05.840 just one round. I won't say round, the round of 1:08:05.920 --> 1:08:12.720 shots last night, and then I went out and had 1:08:12.720 --> 1:08:16.200 more drinks. So that's who you need to blame, is 1:08:16.240 --> 1:08:20.320 the guy. It is the guys. So, guys, um, this 1:08:20.400 --> 1:08:24.559 is of course a bonus episode, and we really wanted 1:08:24.600 --> 1:08:27.680 to share with you. Guys are experienced because I did 1:08:27.920 --> 1:08:31.280 bring these two ladies um to the sex club for 1:08:31.320 --> 1:08:33.519 the first time. So for any of you who have 1:08:33.560 --> 1:08:36.360 just wondered what someone's first experience was like at a 1:08:36.360 --> 1:08:39.120 sex club, I know we normally bring the freaks on 1:08:39.520 --> 1:08:41.880 and while these bitches be talking like they are and 1:08:43.080 --> 1:08:46.320 they're there baby towing their ways there. But before we start, 1:08:47.560 --> 1:08:49.759 I know a lot of you guys have seen what's 1:08:49.800 --> 1:08:53.200 been going on with the other network that I'm a 1:08:53.240 --> 1:08:57.560 part of um, with everything that's happened with my other podcasting. 1:08:57.680 --> 1:09:00.640 The thing is, and the crazy part is, I'm not 1:09:00.680 --> 1:09:02.360 gonna sit here and talk about it like you think 1:09:02.400 --> 1:09:06.639 I am, Um, but with with what happened and what 1:09:06.680 --> 1:09:11.360 was said and what was um what transpired as far 1:09:11.439 --> 1:09:18.480 as how people felt, and then of course the titles 1:09:18.520 --> 1:09:24.960 and labels of sexual harassment, sexual assault, assault, and also 1:09:25.479 --> 1:09:28.720 simply being uncomfortable. Those were a lot of conversations that 1:09:28.760 --> 1:09:30.479 were being had, and I know that we talked about 1:09:30.479 --> 1:09:34.240 those things a lot as well. Um. But what's crazy 1:09:34.360 --> 1:09:37.640 is the very weak that that happened. Our episode with 1:09:37.800 --> 1:09:45.439 Black Girls texting dropped, and immediately my heart kind of 1:09:45.479 --> 1:09:49.000 went to it just sank as I started reading everyone's 1:09:49.040 --> 1:09:53.160 comments regarding it being a workplace you can't say certain 1:09:53.200 --> 1:09:57.160 things to certain people. My defense also to why I 1:09:57.200 --> 1:10:01.320 wasn't uncomfortable is because I had buil up overpport. I've 1:10:01.360 --> 1:10:04.960 known Joe for over ten years, so I'm hearing I'm 1:10:05.000 --> 1:10:08.920 seeing all these think pieces on what happened, and drunk 1:10:08.920 --> 1:10:11.880 as funk, I did hit you drunk, Chelsea, but I 1:10:11.320 --> 1:10:14.880 I hit Chelsea up and I said, hey, when you 1:10:14.960 --> 1:10:18.760 came onto horrible decisions, I didn't make you uncomfortable, did I? 1:10:19.240 --> 1:10:21.280 And I said that because if you go and listen 1:10:21.280 --> 1:10:24.679 back to the episode, I was clearly flirting with Chelsea 1:10:24.720 --> 1:10:27.760 and also said multiple times I wanted to funk you 1:10:27.800 --> 1:10:30.960 when I saw you, you'll be playing I've been trying 1:10:31.000 --> 1:10:33.599 to fuck you. Those are the things that I said 1:10:33.600 --> 1:10:37.200 to Chelsea, which is what has Joe and hot boiling water. 1:10:37.880 --> 1:10:42.479 And what's crazy about that is, Chelsea, you told me 1:10:42.560 --> 1:10:45.960 you were not uncomfortable with my by my advances. However, 1:10:46.080 --> 1:10:48.679 we don't have that strong rapport. I met you about 1:10:48.680 --> 1:10:50.479 three years ago, but I think I've seen you more 1:10:50.600 --> 1:10:55.200 in the last month that I have our entire lives. Yeah, 1:10:55.240 --> 1:10:59.000 it's such like a gray area, especially like in the 1:10:59.040 --> 1:11:02.160 world of podcast messing, right, because it's not like a 1:11:02.240 --> 1:11:07.400 corporate setting. Um, and like you know, people are very 1:11:07.439 --> 1:11:10.000 like loosey goosey, you're talking. I mean, you can talk 1:11:10.040 --> 1:11:14.040 about sex on horrible decisions, so I wouldn't go on. 1:11:14.160 --> 1:11:19.000 They're not expecting to talk about sex if that okay. 1:11:19.000 --> 1:11:21.840 So that is what people were saying, and it made 1:11:21.880 --> 1:11:25.120 me so uncomfortable. So a lot of people that I 1:11:25.160 --> 1:11:28.400 spoke to was like, yeah, we'll see the thing is 1:11:28.400 --> 1:11:32.160 isn't Horrible Decisions, And so people were like, when you 1:11:32.240 --> 1:11:35.040 go on Horrible Decisions, you would expect that type of stuff, 1:11:35.120 --> 1:11:38.920 And it immediately made me uncomfortable because I shot back 1:11:38.920 --> 1:11:41.840 and was like, Horrible Decisions is still not a space 1:11:41.880 --> 1:11:44.559 that I created to make people uncomfortable or to sexually 1:11:44.560 --> 1:11:47.000 assault them and for them to feel like they have 1:11:47.200 --> 1:11:49.639 to endure that type of behavior from Wheezy or Eye. 1:11:50.080 --> 1:11:53.360 So when that was the response, I was like, Na, 1:11:53.800 --> 1:11:58.479 potting is potting. But I hated that people thought that, Well, 1:11:58.520 --> 1:12:00.400 if that was said on a Horrible Decisions, I think 1:12:00.400 --> 1:12:03.000 it would have just been fine, because you know, they 1:12:03.040 --> 1:12:04.920 know what they're signing up when they go over there, 1:12:05.240 --> 1:12:08.760 And I'm like, no, And that's why I hit you 1:12:08.920 --> 1:12:11.920 because I was like, if if Chelsea was uncomfortable with 1:12:11.960 --> 1:12:14.680 my advances just because of my show, that doesn't mean 1:12:14.720 --> 1:12:17.519 she signed up to be sexually harassed, you know what 1:12:17.520 --> 1:12:20.360 I mean? Yeah? And I didn't mean like Horrible Decisions 1:12:20.360 --> 1:12:23.080 you signed to get sexually harassed. I mean more like 1:12:23.360 --> 1:12:26.160 it's a podcast and it's not necessarily