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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions?

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Speaker 1: What the motherfuck is uh? Pitch the hole and ho

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Speaker 1: and tricks. Welcome to the motherfucking Horrible Decisions podcast, bitches.

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Speaker 1: So I really tried to make it sound different. You

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Speaker 1: don't like, that's not telling that he is now an actress.

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Speaker 1: Let me stop. That's this is what we do. Bitch

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Speaker 1: for giving me a p a. Because when that nigga

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Speaker 1: want to give me macha every day, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is a life I need. I will hold you, macha.

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Speaker 1: It'd be baking my mouth drying. Bitch, is this supposed

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Speaker 1: to do that? Well? Let me feeling like I'm drinking weed.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, why is my mouth? So? I know

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Speaker 1: it's a t but I drink Earl good bit, Mr

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Speaker 1: Earl Gray, I'm feeling good. To the show, y'all, this

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Speaker 1: is horrible decision. So you I didn't just say that.

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Speaker 1: And I was going to say, my name is Wheezy

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Speaker 1: and I'm Mandy and he has a red cup in

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Speaker 1: her hand. For those of you are not watching on YouTube, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I came WTF Studios and I'm like, y'all, rich right,

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Speaker 1: what a look at, bitch, I'm drinking fucking Bacardi gold.

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Speaker 1: What the fuck listen? It's giving Caribbean vacations now, panu coloda.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, bitch, but this Riccarti is not you know,

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Speaker 1: put it back up. That is Dave's I'm making tan

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Speaker 1: baby and the bitches at the oil up because I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling that's my that's my white side. I say you

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Speaker 1: got oil cis because I didn't want you to see

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Speaker 1: my skin feeling like a repettalion. Repettalion, I don't looking

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Speaker 1: fuck is wrong. I'll take the cup and can we

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Speaker 1: get a sap for hills? Let's get a wall? Is

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Speaker 1: that for hills? You don't want it's not Avian? Bitch?

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Speaker 1: What is it? Your goddamn alcoholic brain? It's heavy on tequila. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you want a damn bro Okay, what ya a dope?

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Speaker 1: Announcement today is the release of sex Sell on FUSA TV.

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Speaker 1: If you don't have FUSE, please figure out how to

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Speaker 1: get it because they gave your girl TV show and

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Speaker 1: I need a season two beach. Listen. This show is

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Speaker 1: the first show ever hosted by a black girl about business.

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Speaker 1: It is about the entrepreneurs that make money from sex

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Speaker 1: without having it. I know you may have seen previews

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Speaker 1: and it looks super skanky, and it does. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie it is, but you filmed in a sex club.

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Speaker 1: We took the sex out of sex, sexiness out of it.

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Speaker 1: That's literally in my logline when writing the Episodic Bible,

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Speaker 1: I said take the sex out of it because I

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Speaker 1: there's a girl we interview that does like a querk

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Speaker 1: O in Google searches. Like, every single person that you watch,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna really respect their business acumen, not to mention

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Speaker 1: like every episode is themed on how these people make

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Speaker 1: money from sex. And before anyone could even like cast

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Speaker 1: somebody that was like whack, I was really going through

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Speaker 1: horrible decisions and I was like, who has in my brain?

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Speaker 1: You had pretty much all of horrible decisions on there.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie, but you and I have

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Speaker 1: sat here and been like, what you don't fuck dick? Like,

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Speaker 1: there's been so many guests on horrible decisions where we're like,

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Speaker 1: We would like, say, you're telling me this Nil paid

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Speaker 1: almost insane. Like the first episode you guys will see tonight.

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Speaker 1: You've seen my mom in the trailer Young Maze and

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Speaker 1: the trailer I basically connected with women. Almost everybody in

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Speaker 1: but no, because honestly, like I barely like they barely

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Speaker 1: It is like I really wanted this to almost connect

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Speaker 1: I hope I'm not spilling this secret, but I asked

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Speaker 1: You'll you'll take away the the acumen that they have

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Speaker 1: Fucking Mandy was supposed to do a twork class with me,

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Speaker 1: substance and sexual practices, including casual sex with a friend

425
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Speaker 1: and anal and b D s M. The normalization of

426
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 1: drugs and liberal liberalization of consensual sex practices is actually related,

427
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: and the higher the drug use, the more the leisurely

428
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: actually at ease. Our study revisited the well worn phrase

429
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: of sex, drugs and rock and roll, and basically fact,

430
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: sex hip hop who report to taking to illicit drugs

431
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: a year or um sorry a month are more likely

432
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 1: to engage in non traditional sex, including the sucking dick

433
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: if they snored coke. But no, no, I don't know.

434
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 1: That's what I know. I don't think. But what are

435
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: the doing that I drew a connection with? Like think

436
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: about anal and like poppers? Those are drugs. It's illegal. Um,

437
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 1: it's a substance that it's leather cleaner, that's what you

438
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: have to ask for it for it to be illegal.

439
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: It's leather clean. It's a substance that will like make

440
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: your body warmer, make your head a little lighter, so

441
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: that you can take a dick. But also I just

442
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: had I ain't gonna hold you. Okay, this ain't even

443
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: a part of motherfucking vanilla ship. But bitch, I just

444
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 1: use this desensitizing lube for my ask. And let me

445
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: tell you, not only did I not feel my ass

446
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: for two days, my lips because somehow it got on

447
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: my mouth. Don't ask me how, bitch, I felt like

448
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: I had fellers. I was like, babe, does my face

449
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 1: looked funny? But it's just because I could not feel

450
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,360
Speaker 1: my lips in the middle of kind of sex, I said, babe,

451
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 1: we go use that ship no more. Because he wanted

452
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 1: to sun my ass, I said, cool, We'll use this

453
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 1: little desenthetizing jail. And I don't know where it ended up.

454
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: Maybe I sucked the dick after I asked him out.

455
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, Maybe I ate his ass. It got

456
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 1: somewhere else that My lips were numb, but I felt

457
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 1: like they were balloons, but they weren't. I was like, babe,

458
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: I don't like I literally had to go and like

459
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: scrub my no no, bro, so I don't know what

460
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: type of drugs this is. But also uh de synthetizing loup,

461
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: Let's not do it? How about that? Sorry, that's my

462
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: sex ship for today. Synthesizing loube. Don't do it. Don't

463
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: buy that on the next sex story, bro, I probably

464
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: give you. The hard nerve for the week is about

465
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: the meadest, the whole the tip of your penis the mushroom,

466
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: which is the worst name, the mushroom? No, the whole,

467
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 1: little a little split thing. Was it the po not youreath?

468
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 1: Was the actual like line like the stream? What are

469
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: you talking about? The whole at the top of the dick? Why?

470
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say the thing from xenon penis

471
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,919
Speaker 1: the latest metest, Like when when she is this what

472
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 1: we're doing? Anyway? Can we not talk about sex in

473
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: the Disney Channel? That's kind of when the meadest is

474
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: the whole, the tip of your dick, it's very sensitive

475
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 1: during the arousal. But the po, yes, it is the peo? Right?

476
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: Why are you calling it the meades? She's teaching people things.

477
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 1: It's really called the m E A t U S

478
00:25:52,800 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: I swear to God. Yeah, okay, carry on car okay.

479
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 1: So the meet us, if you apply pressure to it,

480
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: medium pressure on and off, it'll actually be good. Now.

481
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: Not to be confused with the front of them, that's

482
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: like a little we know you talk about the front

483
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: of them all go, I'll be working. She'd be talking

484
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: about the goddamn friend of them. She she's the front

485
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: of them, queen he k. That's what we're gonna give

486
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 1: every other episode. We know what the front of them is,

487
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: do we do? It's a little it's a little thing

488
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: on the mushroom that lead from the head to the chef,

489
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: a little vain part and what's the pole called the

490
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: meetest bit. That's an easy word. Though front of them

491
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: is real like extra meet us makes sense because well

492
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: we call it meat and it's for us, the meet us,

493
00:26:54,920 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: for us, by us, the food dick in honor of

494
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 1: sex Cells being the first business show hus by black girl.

495
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 1: What else they set these two black girls? They let

496
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: you get off get that off? Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely.

497
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 1: Do you think I'm not about to tell everybody of

498
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: that because it is ma'am. Okay, just make a show,

499
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: you know, they don't really want to get that to us,

500
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 1: although we are for us by us. You know, I'm

501
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: saying the sex Cell shows the first business show. But

502
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: I know, but they let you get off that you're

503
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: a black woman. Oh, I'm just playing only because we

504
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: get all the hell from it, bro, We get the

505
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: hell from it. That's all. Well, we see bit me

506
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:46,959
Speaker 1: today now speaking of business, A lot of people right

507
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: in asking about how to trick on nigga don't know

508
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: how to get me get a trick on them, Sugar,

509
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: your daddy's all that stuff. I want to take a

510
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: different time of this episode, and it actually was my

511
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 1: I've had this idea for a few weeks. How to

512
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: branch off into making money with niggas, take money for niggas,

513
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: how to structure the conversation around it, things for them

514
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: to invest in and fellas. If you read a meet

515
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,479
Speaker 1: a rich bitch, ladies, gays, whoever, and you have somebody

516
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: in your life that's wealthy, follow these steps with their steps.

517
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: Bitch about to give it to you. Now, wait steps.

518
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: I just want to be clear what you're about to

519
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 1: teach the people? We we we we, But you just

520
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: sent me the outline. I just learned this is a

521
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: free flowing company. You have a lot of experience with

522
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 1: here you go, here you go. Now you're about to

523
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: just say you've been prostituting. I did it. I felt

524
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: like she was going there at It's one of a

525
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: lot of experience with getting in large sum of money.

526
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: At one point in time, we're going to talk about

527
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: how to bitch because it was africans and athletes. Are

528
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: these gonna be tips for like the average people? Or

529
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: they got a bag a millionaire first? So there's a

530
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: few different types of spenders. Tell me which ones I'm wrong.

531
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: Let's know it. Here's the ones I listed that I

532
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: could come up with. Men who will buy you things,

533
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: that's what, okay. Men who will buy you vacations, Men

534
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: who will only take it eat. Wait what was that one?

535
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: Take it to eat? Oh? Oh god, Oh we're going

536
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: really low, okay. Men who will invest or a partner

537
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: with you. And I already said vacations right now. The

538
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: men that will buy these are the different type of

539
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: spenders things, gifts, vacations, food, and no, that's not it.

540
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: So so let me add to this. Then you have

541
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: those who want to feel like they are your night

542
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: in shining armor savior for livelihood. So you have men

543
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: who will not gift you things or take you anywhere.

544
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: They will only pay for necessities such as rents, such

545
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: as school tuition, degree such as such as those things.

546
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: So your rent can be say your dollars. That same

547
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: man will never give you just two thousand dollars cash.

548
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: It has to specifically go to something for your life life.

549
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: When I said men who would invest, that wasn't what

550
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: I meant. That was a good point. Yeah, I was

551
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: talking about men that be like, well, what do you

552
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: want me to pust? What do you want to do?

553
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: Because I've had many men asked me that when I

554
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. Oh bitch, same I apparently

555
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: wanted to say fucking iPhone accessories at one point. Let's

556
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: not talk about that question like niggas be like, oh,

557
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: if you want to put your money towards something, so

558
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it like that too, because some

559
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: men do want to partner with you on time because

560
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 1: they don't want to just hand you cat. But wait,

561
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: can I also add one more to that, men who

562
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: will be with you for a good time and spend

563
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: money on everything, but you so I've been with men

564
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: who will want to show me a great time and

565
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: they feel like because they just spent two racks in

566
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: the strip club on other women, I have pockets strip

567
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: club money anything, So there's so there's that. But I

568
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: mean a lot of times like I've had friends get

569
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: caught pocketing strip club money and nigga that ship look

570
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: bad on me, and niggas was like never again. But

571
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying I've also been out with a nigga to

572
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: a strip club that would was only tipping twenties nigga.

573
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: So I'm getting like, I'm at the strip club, I ate,

574
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 1: I had a great time and the bitch I went

575
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: home with nothing. But I realized there were dancers that

576
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: just went home. So with this isn't you know what

577
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: I mean? Right? Because I've had men that if I've

578
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: ever been out with a nigga and they'll like go

579
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: to the mall with you and only buy themselves. They

580
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: want to show you they spending money. Who when I

581
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: was when I was sixty, We're going to the mall together?

582
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: What am I getting? I When I was about like eighteen,

583
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I remember niggas would like take me to eat. We

584
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 1: go to Millennia or some ship that's shout a seven

585
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: shop of city, and they would buy themselves something expensive,

586
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: and I didn't know what to do, how to ask.

587
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: And I think that the asking in particular is something

588
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: that we're all kind of uncomfortable with. Uncomfortable with. Hold

589
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: on for everyone listening to this right now. If you're

590
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: with a man and you're going out and he's like, yo,

591
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: I gotta go pick this up real quick, y'all together,

592
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: and he stopped at the Louis Store and think it's

593
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: like it's okay for him to just buy himself something.

594
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: He's trying to show you that he got money their

595
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: significant other. If we're working with each other and I'm

596
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: with you, I'm spending my time with you, I'm sending

597
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,959
Speaker 1: my day with you, and you gotta go pick something up.

598
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 1: You go to the Louis store and just buy shoes

599
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: for the evening, let me tell you how they mean nothing.

600
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: You just trying to flex that you got that buying

601
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: a fucking bottle and telling your friend they can't drink

602
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: out of it. I swear to go. That is buying

603
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: a bottle at the club and saying, oh, this is

604
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: for me. That is I didn't you genuinely came to

605
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: want me to see you flex? Bro? Have you ever

606
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: taken out one of your friends that just ain't making

607
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: as much red as you? And like you think I'm

608
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: about to eat this ship in front of your face

609
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 1: and not share my ship with you, I'm not inviting you.

610
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know what I mean. I'm gonna roll

611
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: with people that you agree. If I know you ain't

612
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: got it, I'm gonna I got you. Or if I'm

613
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: rolling with someone they on the same ship like that

614
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,239
Speaker 1: is some disrespectful ship. Niggas have done that to me

615
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: and we go No. Um, I mean I think that

616
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: now we can speak to it from a position. I

617
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: know you don't want to be called an untie or anything. Oh,

618
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: but we are our thirties now and I think we

619
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: can now reflect on ship differently. You don't think it's

620
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: that that I'm at now. Okay, you're not auntie because

621
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: you have no siblings, but we're in the anti age era. No,

622
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:37,479
Speaker 1: we're not. My sister has a child. I'm literally an

623
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: aunt I will not call you onto. We are not

624
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: at the auntie age. I believe auntie age is thirty

625
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: five and up. We are thirty. Man, you think Auntie

626
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: is what me because I didn't learn my life. But

627
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: it's because I got a man now. I'm not y'all

628
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,959
Speaker 1: really hate me. It's because I have a man now.

629
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: I've learned my lesson. I think Auntie is learned from

630
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: the mistakes they've made in their You and I repent

631
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: everything I didn't. Oh lord, this is okay, go ahead, Um,

632
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: I found this list. I thought it was pretty cute,

633
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: but I want to uh go over what the internet

634
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: says are great times to ask men for money. Let's

635
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 1: start with that, then we'll go look at how to

636
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: use this is the fact that you laugh is so

637
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: hard and you can guess what as soon as you

638
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 1: ask so pissed about that ship online, if you ask

639
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,360
Speaker 1: me for pussy, I can ask you for money and

640
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: I will. Yeah, and I will Smart lazy hustler dot

641
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: com your resource. I swear to god this is not

642
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: the Washington Post. But say that again, smart lazy hustler

643
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: dot com, because that's what we're about to be. Okay, Now, honestly,

644
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: that's the battle of this. Can we do that? No,

645
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 1: it has to be sex? Oh ship, never mind? Sorry, Yeah,

646
00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 1: have a smart lazy hustler maybe, and the factors to

647
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: consider before you ask the money, because you can't just

648
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: always ask the money. One are they happy? Make sure

649
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 1: they're in a good space there, n ask what they

650
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: paying me because they unhappy and they marriage. So let's

651
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: go past this one. Nig's happy they paying you? Now?

652
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: This is the unhappy niggas next do you? But she's

653
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: about to give Do you understand now? If happy? Is

654
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: it maybe like after they come or something. Damn Now,

655
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: this is one I really love. Anytime that it hurts

656
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: you and apologize this This is a great time to

657
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: getting what you want. You should know it should be

658
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: something serious like a forgotten birth, forgotten birthday, a cancelation

659
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: of a date. Promises to call whenever they fail to

660
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: do something you make their request because they know they

661
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: have to famil you something. I'm about to stay here

662
00:35:54,840 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 1: and be Devil's advocate. Straight up. Cutty got flamed. She

663
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: came on see the thing is and said that when

664
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: her nigga sucks up, it's okay when he sucks up

665
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: as long as she gets something in return for the

666
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 1: funk up. I say that for a woman who really

667
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: likes the man, don't accept a gift as a consolations

668
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:22,919
Speaker 1: side for them. Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie I wait, wait, wait, wait, Yeah,

669
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: but I've dipped out with tricks. If you want your

670
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,280
Speaker 1: trick to behave in a certain way where he doesn't

671
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: like funk up with your time and and really funk

672
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: with you, know, you gotta get your disagree tricks have

673
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 1: to be in line. Because my tricks, trick niggas I've had,

674
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about what fucking feelings are hurt.

675
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pretend I'm sad and you're gonna buy anything.

676
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: No trick niggas. Yeah, I really thought you were Like,

677
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: I just can't believe we're not spending a week. Yeah,

678
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: but trick niggas. At the same time, I have to

679
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: know that they can't play with you, bro, Like a

680
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 1: trick nigga can't be like, yeah, we're doing dinner, then

681
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna do this, then we're gonna do that, and

682
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: then last minute they cancel on you. Trick niggas, you

683
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: still have to hold them accountable to the same regard

684
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: and you should be getting gifts and money from them,

685
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: whether they funk up or not. So so you sucking

686
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: up isn't why I'm getting a gift. You should be

687
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: giving me a gift and ship. I mean, yes, they

688
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: should be giving. But I do think it's a good

689
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: if you have to put a time place and asking,

690
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 1: I do think that's a good one. I will say,

691
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 1: I try. Don't don't wait to ask for something when

692
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: they sunk up. You should already be asking for something

693
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: that you could bitch. This is one of the options. Damn.

694
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, I'm telling you, we got to

695
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: rewrite this article. That's what I'm saying now. The passive

696
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: aggressive asker, which this happened in my let me tell

697
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: you how do not like? They'll be like that could

698
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: not be amount. So this is how I come on

699
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: passive love. Her boy saw the clip about where we

700
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 1: made the tip of the dick of your ass whatever,

701
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: we made a joke, so we were in the same

702
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: was the joke? What was the joke? Something Ibo'm giving

703
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: a tip and you said, here s your tip, like

704
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 1: the tip of the dicktive. He loved that. So I'm

705
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: on FaceTime with him. I'm about to be in the

706
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: same city. I haven't seen him in years, and I'm

707
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: in the car with my home girl and her and

708
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: I was shopping and I said on FaceTime I could

709
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: not believe he ended up doing it. I was like,

710
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: I shouldn't even be spending my money. This doesn't even

711
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: feel right. I was like, I've had a birthday that's

712
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: past Christmas. I was like, when you see me, I

713
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 1: know you're one of those something. I was like, I

714
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: should be getting shoes or something. He was like really.

715
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, you wear Gucci. I should have Gucci.

716
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: I should have nice things. I need a new pair

717
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: of shoes. Bitch, don't you know you sent him the shoes.

718
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 1: I didn't send him anything. Literally showed up. He had

719
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: the Gucci bag ready, beautiful fucking Gucci. Luckily you like

720
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 1: them anytime normally a man came with a gift. Okay,

721
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: good ladies, there's a tip right there. Make sure you

722
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: get the gift for seat, because a lot of these

723
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: men in their styles is just a little question. There

724
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: is something I said that I realized it was a

725
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 1: little bit different. Then you get, bitch, just cant and

726
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: heels and ship they do. We don't want that ship.

727
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 1: He was making jokes about like I gotta buy you this,

728
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: and I said, listen to me. I said, I buy

729
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: myself these things. You buy yourself these things, and you

730
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 1: know how I roll out like if I do what

731
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,479
Speaker 1: you need to be doing it facts And he did

732
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: not saying he's never brought me nice things. He's definitely

733
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: brought me Gucci when we were dating. But I was

734
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: just so impressed and he was very much like, you

735
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: deserve it. And I did pussy drip when you got

736
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: that gift? Did you pussy start throbbing? Damn? How a

737
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: man just put it? Fucking like, don't get me wrong. Oh,

738
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: BI gets me things all the time, but like I

739
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: know they're happening, like it's a birthday, it's Valentine's Day

740
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: and he'll ask me, I'm gonna buy you something. Someone

741
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: just puts a Gucci back in my face like that's

742
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: for you. You know what's crazy? And you know I've

743
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: been on my Black Lives Matter ship, bro, so I

744
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: could believe. And what's crazy is I get boy was

745
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: white for those sin sumit that it's so different now,

746
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: Like yeah, y'all can fast forward. I'm about to talk

747
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: about my man in terms of gifts though, um my

748
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 1: dorm I have packages downstairs I'm like, I didn't order anything.

749
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: My man sends things to my house constantly from if

750
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 1: he just notices I'm out of something, or he's at

751
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: the house and he feels like there's something that can

752
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: make my life easier, he buys it for me, and

753
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, Nick, you haven't asked him. And I only

754
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 1: know because he spelled He spelled my last name wrong,

755
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: so I know when I get shipped from him. He

756
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: actually he adds the actual letter, don't add the don't

757
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: don't say here, but he adds an actual letter, So

758
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: I normally know when things are from him because he

759
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 1: speolls my last name was an extra letter. And then

760
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 1: it'll literally be all household items, like things that he

761
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: just realized that, which is right he and not just

762
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: feminize him at all, but he does stuff like that,

763
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 1: Like when I was in Jamaica, I came home two

764
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: hooks and everything being hung around my house because he's like,

765
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,919
Speaker 1: you put a lot of things on the floor, hang

766
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 1: it up now, bitch a sweet. But I'll tell you

767
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: how Old Bay does his will. He's such a fucking

768
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: bougie ass nigga, and I love him for it. But

769
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: he'll come to my house and be like, what is

770
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: this mark? What are these candles from bed bath and beyond? Wait?

771
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: What la labo margella. He's not working around. He likes

772
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: all candles, No, bitch, I'll be right there at Burlington.

773
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: Give me my seven dollar candle. When I tell you,

774
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: I'd be feeling like I'm doing something when I spin

775
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: above eleven dollars on the candle and I'd be getting

776
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: the ships. That'd be like this big would be like

777
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: the side of my head. I'd be like, damn, like

778
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna line. You want to talk about things

779
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: that make you come. I don't know, but this makes

780
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 1: me come right here. I took the sticker off. But

781
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: when I tell you, as an adult, honey, give me

782
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:53,720
Speaker 1: a twenty dollar candle for eight Oh I'm orgasm, Oh

783
00:41:53,800 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: my yahnd wash? You think I have regular lab under soap?

784
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: Now it has to be a sop geranium like he's

785
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: not fucking around, okay, Burgermont like it has for what hands?

786
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: So asp like body wash Like that's cute, but you're

787
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: gonna wash your hands with soft soap and you know that.

788
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: And I got so I got six bottles for twelve,

789
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: nine and nine off Amazon officers shout out to the

790
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: soft soap. Also, if you like it, you love you

791
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: buy it for me anyway. Come So that's my type.

792
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: What do you do once you get the money now

793
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: there is you spend it. The men that want to

794
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 1: just invest, I want to talk about some of the

795
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: women that I've met and the things they've invested their

796
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: bread into it, niggas. I thought it would be cool

797
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: for us to talk about things that, maybe in a

798
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: good way, that we flipped with a man's cash. One

799
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: of my home girls, um, you know who she is,

800
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: but she used to get mad bread from these scammer niggas,

801
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: And one particular dude was like, oh, you ain't doing

802
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: shape of buying clothes and holding around it up. You

803
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: better come up with a business. And she fucking started

804
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 1: selling hair a bit made him fly here to China,

805
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: picked out the weave herself, like, started a whole company

806
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: from it. And I think that when men would give

807
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: me money or would ask me what I was doing

808
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: with it, I didn't really have a plan. So I

809
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: did think a great thing and a great way to start.

810
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: Mandy even does. E commerce is one figuring out drop ship,

811
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: whether it be candles or whatever like have that nigga.

812
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: Just put the money into it because at the end

813
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: of they guess what if you're not going to spend

814
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: it on yourself, it's literally like free capital, like just

815
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: take it, make it and if it fucking fails, whatever,

816
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 1: but at least you didn't fucking So I'll be honest

817
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: with you, coming from when I was really getting money

818
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: out of these niggas. Um if I'm talking to the

819
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 1: women in college or the women pursuing degrees, um. The

820
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 1: capital that I was given went towards my bills because

821
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 1: it allowed me the freedom not to have to work.

822
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: That's smart. And so when I look back at it,

823
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: even my African I told you I got like thirty

824
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: grands on them twice, but I got like thirty thousand

825
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: in a year. And it was the first year that

826
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 1: I decided to go back to school. And at that

827
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: time I had worked only retail bartending things like that

828
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: was like my yearly income. So the fact that I

829
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: got thirty thousand tax free off of a nigga, I

830
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: was able to take seven classes a semester, I was

831
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: able to lead up. It was twenty one credits a semester.

832
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: You know, at Leman, I was able to speed up

833
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: my process in obtaining two degrees, and so I looked

834
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: back now loans a little bit because so I've never

835
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: taken a student and then I took student loans just

836
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: also live. So between loans, I will say, when you

837
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: get a lot of cash from a dude, whatever it

838
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: may be, I'm a firm believer. If the loan is

839
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 1: fixed rate, I am not. I'm sorry if it does

840
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: not take me like give me any advantage for paying

841
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: it down, you cannot um what do you mean you

842
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: fixed rate? As in it won't change like there's it's

843
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: just this is what it is like if it's not

844
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: really gonna like accrue more interesting whether you paid off

845
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: or not. For example, like a lot of PPP loans,

846
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: whether you pay them off early like they're gonna kind

847
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: of be the same. Do not waste your capital by

848
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: fucking spending all of the cash paying off a loan

849
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: so you're debt free, because I know that's where I

850
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: may not even help you in the hold you the

851
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: s B a loan that I'm able to get last

852
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: year only three percent. That's a very low interest rate.

853
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: And right now I'll also say, with my e commerce business. Um,

854
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: we need a lot of inventory. Inventory costs money. Like

855
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: even just my first run I spent over. I spent

856
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 1: over inventory just my first run of inventory, and we

857
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: need more. And so even looking at inventory, that fixed

858
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: interest rate of of loans is the only thing I'm doing, Like,

859
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: you can't do do that a pr Yeah, like something

860
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: is over sent or or they're able to change with

861
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 1: the market fluctuation of what interest rates can be. That

862
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: ends up. Now for sure, you can like do some

863
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 1: refi on your own a little bit like one of

864
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: the smartest things I was able to do so and

865
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: this wasn't smartly also real quick for those of you

866
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: listening who like are like, what then are these but

867
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: just talking about? But also also here the breakdown. Say

868
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: you take out a tenth that I'm going to make

869
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,919
Speaker 1: the numbers super easy. Fixed interest rate what she's talking

870
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: about because it's also what I'm going through right now.

871
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: Say you get a ten thousand dollar business loan, they say, hey,

872
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: out of this ten thousand dollar business loan, we want

873
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 1: ten percent interests, you know, to this company, you only

874
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 1: owe them eleven thousand dollars. That is what they want back.

875
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: And when it's fixed. That means that it's not gonna

876
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: keep growing. It take longer to pay it off. Now

877
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: a lot of school loans do, however, for there's a

878
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 1: lot in the parnament right now happening. The loans are deferred.

879
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: They've been deferred for like the last year. Here's my

880
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 1: advice for anyone that's got a large sum of money

881
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: and and and loans and all that. Ship. One thing

882
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: I did for myself was I only rid myself of

883
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: debt that would immediately change my credit score in order

884
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: to do certain things that I needed. For example, when

885
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: I first moved to New York, de greated the sugar

886
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: Daddy got me the apartment, but my credit was maybe

887
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 1: like a six fifteen. I had to put down first, last,

888
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 1: and two months rent, which was like twelve fifteen thousand

889
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: whatever the help. So when your credit is higher, you

890
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: can actually spend less because they're requiring less and you

891
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 1: can keep some in the bank. So what you should

892
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 1: be doing, if you really have go on your credit

893
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: Carma look and see like, okay, hard inquiries is my highest,

894
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 1: They're gonna fall off in two years. The debt to

895
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 1: income ratio hard your cards lower than spread them out

896
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: if you have one card that's ten thousand dollars and

897
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: another one that's five, it's thirty of each. Don't just

898
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: fill up one card and keep the other one zero.

899
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: Because they really watch those ships. So make sure you're

900
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 1: paying towards what's gonna change your life immediately. And that's

901
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 1: why I say, do not be paying off them loans

902
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 1: that quick if they're fucking fixed. Hell no, Now another

903
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: thing I think that's smart to do. No, we're talking

904
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: about how to trick on these. Okay, let's just say

905
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: you have a nigga that wants to take you on vacation.

906
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 1: That's what he wants to do. Okay, I think I'm

907
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 1: cool with that. Wait, I have a tip on this.

908
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: Can I give a tip on this real quick? If

909
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 1: you got niggas that are flying you out build miserably

910
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: in this, get show as a fucking uh frequent flyer

911
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: program on one airline and tell whoever is flying you

912
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: out that you will only fly out on this airline.

913
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that, because when I tell you,

914
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: even being gold medallion right now on Delta is amazing.

915
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 1: It takes so much like pressure off of whether you

916
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 1: want the nega to pay for extra check luggage and

917
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:10,919
Speaker 1: all this other stuff you out tell him you will

918
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: only fly out on one airline and rack up those

919
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: miles and points, because even if you're fighting, yeah now, yeah,

920
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 1: making money on your own trips is a big fucking deal.

921
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. If you're doing vacations,

922
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: let them pay yourself back. And I have a firm

923
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: believer in that going on even a free vacation costs

924
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: me money. Like, don't you spend more money getting ready

925
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,439
Speaker 1: for the vacation than you do want a god da vacation? Um,

926
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: yes to no. I gotta give my hair, go give

927
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 1: my ship. We do. And that's the thing too. A

928
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: lot of times we not only have to get our

929
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 1: hair and makeup, nails toes done, we do like to

930
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: buy outfits because we know we're going on vacations. And

931
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: to be fair to when you're traveling, especially if you're

932
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: coming from like a metropolitan area, you have to also

933
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 1: take into consideration you're either paying for uber or you're

934
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: paying for your car to be parked at the airport,

935
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: You're paying for food at the airport. This it's never

936
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: a free trip for the woman. I know. The men

937
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 1: listening are like, oh my god, but you got there

938
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: for free. It still comes out to be a fucking

939
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: flight is not that expensive anymore, not anymore. I mean

940
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: they're going back up like for real, like people like

941
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: we just can't afford flights. I don't know why. The

942
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: person that I had a meeting with in l A

943
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: that I was talking about, he wanted to schedule our

944
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: meeting for the next day. I said, I have to leave.

945
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 1: I have to go back to New York towards. He's like,

946
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: I'll pay your change fee. I looked at him and said,

947
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 1: there are no change flight fees right now. I said, one,

948
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 1: there's no change fees too. Do you think I was

949
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: going to cancel my plans for a hundred or two

950
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: hundred dollars? Don't nig You've got me fucked up. Niggas

951
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: really be talking a bit, just like we ain't got

952
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: money and I don't know how to do so because

953
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 1: black women got all the money. When it comes to

954
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: those vacation things, making sure if you sincerely cannot afford

955
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: the prep that it takes to go on this vacation,

956
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: be very clear in saying, because they're gonna offer it

957
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: to you, anyway, bitch. They're like, Yo, I'm gonna take

958
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: you to Miami. We're gonna do three days today. I'd

959
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: be like, look, I would love to go with you.

960
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,720
Speaker 1: Should I really want to suck your dick on that balcony.

961
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna be real, I need to get my

962
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 1: outfite together, like it's just kind of stressing me out

963
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: to work, Like I just have a lot of things

964
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: to buy. Use that word. Use that word. Don't say

965
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: you have a lot of things to get together. Don't

966
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 1: say you've got things to prepare. Say I have a

967
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: lot of things that I need to buy to make

968
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: this trip happen, to make this trip happen. Because you

969
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 1: need to kind of be clear with those words. If

970
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 1: asking for direct money is kind of scary, but this

971
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 1: that means you can't show up with your lashes falling out,

972
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 1: your nail is not done, in your hair not done

973
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:43,439
Speaker 1: because nick is no nowaday because niggas be no way now.

974
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 1: As far as buying you things, um, I'll be real.

975
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: I never really said no to gifts. Um, immend I

976
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: told you I was. I was so poor it one

977
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 1: time I returned gifts. Oh, I was gonna say I

978
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: never really said no. Two gifts I returned. Trappers was

979
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,359
Speaker 1: buying me gifts you could they buy him with cash,

980
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,359
Speaker 1: I'd return them. I feel like based on the comfortability

981
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:12,359
Speaker 1: is how forward you can be about not being able

982
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: to have a two thousand dollar bag, a thousand dollar bag,

983
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: whatever it might be in saying I actually really need

984
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: this cash like kind of watch your words with this,

985
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 1: I think, watch your But also to me, just know

986
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: the type of nigga you don't look. That's the thing.

987
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,320
Speaker 1: There are men that don't want to feel like tricks

988
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: paying and getting cash they're gonna have a problem with.

989
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: But gifts, if they're materialistic type of nigga, a gift

990
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: is nothing to them because this is what they enjoy buying.

991
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 1: So I would say, be be careful with that. If

992
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: you got a materialistic type of guy, don't say you

993
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: need ran our bills paid and said because you may

994
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: you may get nothing. So when I had my sugar Daddy,

995
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 1: like granted he was super lit and he's the one

996
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: I've talked about who had a plane and all that

997
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: and bought me my first and buy me the apartment,

998
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 1: so you paid for the rent for year. When I

999
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 1: moved to New York. But I genuinely needed cash, bro

1000
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: like seriously, it just needed a few racks before the move,

1001
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 1: like and I didn't want to tell him. After he

1002
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 1: did the whole apartment, I was like, you still need

1003
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: a few thousand a move. It's just you really do

1004
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 1: moving your stuff, the flights, like all that stuff, getting

1005
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: my ship together, buying little things for the place, like

1006
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 1: I needed like maybe three or four grand that I

1007
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: didn't have, and we went shopping in Miami. Well, I

1008
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: told him because I was like, um, I really like,

1009
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 1: I know you want to buy me this stuff, like

1010
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: I feel really bad to take it because like I

1011
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:36,399
Speaker 1: have a lot of stuff to do with this move.

1012
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:38,839
Speaker 1: He got very irritated with me. He was like, this

1013
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: is our day to have a good time, Like we're

1014
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 1: not thinking about moving like you want. We want to

1015
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: have fun, we want to enjoy this. It was like

1016
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 1: I ruined it for him. And I remember that feeling

1017
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: in his face like, oh, now I'm gonna shop all

1018
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 1: day with her, and she thinking about how she can't

1019
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And when she's talking about

1020
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 1: materialistic men with Mandy just said I know that person

1021
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: to know they just enjoyed. He flew. We flew to

1022
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: Miami on the jet for a day to shop, and

1023
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 1: inside I was dying when he was trying to buy

1024
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: me these expensive shoes because I was like, bro, I

1025
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: need the Miami, but he was crazy. I have friends

1026
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,280
Speaker 1: that always got the red bottoms, the persons, the gifts,

1027
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: the men that I bonded and connected to, Like you know,

1028
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: I got put on payroll for almost a year. I

1029
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: gotta check every two weeks for nigga that I saw

1030
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: once a quarter. Um my other really good friend who

1031
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: got me my MacBook and who paid for my summer

1032
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 1: school classes and who helped me through school. I could

1033
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: never hit him up like, oh my god, there's these

1034
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: twelve shoes they want. If if I hit him up,

1035
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: it was because I needed it. And you have to

1036
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 1: know what type of man you're dealing with, because yeah,

1037
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: there's a there's a huge difference, and you'll have men

1038
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: that'll be like, bitch, aren't paying your bills. But then

1039
00:54:56,120 --> 00:55:00,439
Speaker 1: you'll have another guy that'll be like, what do you need? Well,

1040
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: I want to be here to help. I will say,

1041
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: if you're fucking win And this lastly, hood nigga that's

1042
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: making cash pass, which I never dealt with. My men

1043
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 1: made money legally. I know you like the trap stars

1044
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: like that one thing they would go in like I'm

1045
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 1: here for the tr aps. They are no get another water,

1046
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 1: big shoes and the car. She likes it. She likes

1047
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: the trap sharing water. So you don't know the GZ song?

1048
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 1: Now is that game? Are we going to act my

1049
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: shoes on a car she likes? Okay, I'm just making sure.

1050
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm on TV now as remember Jean seven.

1051
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: If you don't want hood niggas, one thing I did

1052
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: not do the last week pointer. Seriously, who many? That's

1053
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 1: what you said? He bleep that? Then damn? But wait

1054
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, this is really like a demo. This

1055
00:55:56,440 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: is a tip. Can I ask what is the niggah?

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00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:02,919
Speaker 1: A hood nigga is somebody that doesn't have a regular job.

1057
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Speaker 1: You may not know how they' getting their cash. It

1058
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: could be scam and trapping. It could it's just niggas

1059
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 1: that got cash that like spending in weird ways like fast.

1060
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: They could still drive a fucking focus, but they take

1061
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,839
Speaker 1: you to a five hundred dollar dinner. Bro, you gotta chill,

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00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: not the focus on a like I had a nigga

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00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 1: that lived in a bro the trap car dog like

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Speaker 1: I like the car is the Chrysler three D. No, Bro,

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00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 1: niggas have a fucking car to do runs. And I'm

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00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: telling you row like I knew nigga had a Porsche

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00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: and a fucking focus. And then y'all went to find

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00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: if he had to make a run and some ship

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00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: because he's spending the bread by life. But I didn't.

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00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: I never met a nigga would a with a with

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00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 1: a portion of focus? Not gonna I'm not gonna hold

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00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: am I fucking around with? Like? Okay, do y'all know

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00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: people like this? They have portions and focuses. I mean

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00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: it was like not focused. Maybe it was like a Sonata,

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00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: don't that was the first car. I'm not kidding. He

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00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: had a two daughter. It's a charger, a Chrysler, and

1077
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: then the luxury chargers. I was on to say. And Paula,

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00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: what did she talking about a focus? She had trapping

1079
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: in volkswagons out. I'm telling you I had a niggad.

1080
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: It wasn't a focus. It was Sonata. He did not

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00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: call him me a trade and no, fucking no, My

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00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: Sonata was Polo is a nigga cars. They're not fucking

1083
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: moving away and the ships anymore. You gotta be smart.

1084
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: Oh this is like new age trappers. Okay, So anyway, sorry,

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00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 1: I when I was young, I never knew how to

1086
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: really get more like a larger investment from them. And today,

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00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 1: if I was still working with them niggers, I would

1088
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:48,480
Speaker 1: have told them to put their money in someplace they

1089
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: can grow it. And this is just being a bit

1090
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 1: that sounds like you're on your investorship. He was not here,

1091
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: one was not here at one. We can't That's what

1092
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell the girls them, Tell these men

1093
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: that you're gonna put their money in someplace safe and

1094
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: grow it. And I'm telling you they got money stashed

1095
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: at some bitch house or their mama house. They have

1096
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: cash that they can't spend quickly, and if they can

1097
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 1: just put it somewhere and know that it may grow

1098
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 1: or have the potential to grow, bitch, do all that

1099
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 1: motherfucking little street talk. I'm telling you, I'll do that

1100
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: ship with niggas. Now, Okay, do you think that a

1101
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: lot of this ship in the studio? Look, are you

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00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: suck dick for the couch? I don't have to suck

1103
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 1: dick for anything. You have a food job. There was

1104
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: a pod I didn't give aud job. But what I'm

1105
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: telling you is we have a second studio space that

1106
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: we're trying to trying to grow. Did you spit on

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00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: the meat? No, but I'll tell you what I had

1108
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 1: to do ship for that meat. The niggas want to

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00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: sunk with me, and I told them my ship's already

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00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: grown in ninety days. I have a second space coming,

1111
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: and I think that you should invest in some of

1112
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 1: it and just gain a little cash back on it

1113
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: instead of me taking out Why would I work through

1114
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: the government when I could work through you. I'll pay

1115
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: you back in like a year and a half. Equipment.

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00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna let them get the head passed so the

1117
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,439
Speaker 1: cheft can experience the boodio. Let's get onto the home mail.

1118
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: I hope you guys liked this type of episode many

1119
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 1: and I made talk about stuff like this on Patreon

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Speaker 1: at some of the But trick, no, let the nigga

1121
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: trick on you. What are you talking about? Trick on

1122
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: these calling them my tricks and just use the word free.

1123
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: Get tricks on stocks, drop ship futures, reinvesting it into

1124
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: your business, all of it. Home mail hole confession. Here

1125
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 1: we go, let's go. Not real crazy, but kind of hoey.

1126
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: I love how short this is. I love it. I

1127
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 1: recently learned about grinders. Y'all. Being in the South, homosexuality

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00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: is frowned upon. Well, last weekend I went to a

1129
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: guy's house to funk. We started on the couch and

1130
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 1: ended up in the shower. Lots of fun, but quite enough.

1131
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Speaker 1: So I drove back into my town and found another one.

1132
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: He wasn't able to host, so we met at a

1133
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: gas station and we messed around in the back seat,

1134
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: just kept using grinder. He seemed super nervous and I

1135
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: had trouble standing up, so we just quit. I had

1136
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 1: home for the night, kind of disappointed, but the next

1137
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: morning I hit up my regular finally got what I

1138
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 1: was looking for it, and then I came home and

1139
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: fucked my wife. I mean, well, not nice, but no,

1140
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,959
Speaker 1: we don't condone the d L here. I don't care

1141
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: about DL. I care about cheating. I well know, well,

1142
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 1: I the thing about this show, yeah yeah, but if

1143
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: we're speaking of if we're if we are two women

1144
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: who have sat here and wanted to uplift people in

1145
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: their sexual cravings, their sexual endeavors, their partners, and them

1146
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 1: being their true selves as women. I would like to

1147
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 1: think we've had enough guests to feel as though you

1148
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: can do that as a man. And so while you're

1149
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: sitting here saying that you don't condone cheating, I think

1150
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: we've only fairly touched on the d L community and

1151
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 1: with me, even with the partners that I've dated who

1152
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: have either let me peg them, who have been curious

1153
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 1: about and aging in sex with trans women or slight

1154
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 1: engagement with men, my very, very main main point in

1155
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 1: talking to them was I love how honest you are

1156
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 1: with me. You should be honest with every other sexual

1157
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 1: partner that you have. No d L men a lot

1158
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: of it. We shouldn't get into this hot We don't

1159
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 1: have to, but you know, but I get that it's

1160
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: not easy. But to me, if you can be your

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01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: full self with somebody, period, you should be able to

1162
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: let someone else know that you're engaging in sex with

1163
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: that this is what you're into, this is what you

1164
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: like the things that you do, period. So here's what

1165
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: I was gonna say. I was gonna say, crazy ass

1166
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 1: hotel that you shared with that confessional. We appreciate you

1167
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: for sharing it. We do. The cheating is what I

1168
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: don't like about it. The thing he said, I don't

1169
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: know what southern town he lives in. Her homosexuality is

1170
01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: brown upon So I understand why you can't necessarily come out,

1171
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 1: but I would semi start by sharing slight fantasies with

1172
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 1: your wife, seeing how she feels about videos and stuff

1173
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: like that, only because maybe you won't have to cheat

1174
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: and lie if she's she's like, wheez your eye Like

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01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: that's the thing that I will say, Yes, women in general,

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01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: I won't even make this a black women thing. Women

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01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: in general are just as homophobic as men are. However,

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01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: there are there's a huge community of women. I've met them,

1179
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm friends with them. We've had a podcast for four

1180
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: years where we have different women who have come on

1181
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: and been like, it doesn't bother them. They just want

1182
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 1: their partner to be a upfront and honest and honestly

1183
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: if a woman will leave you for you being your

1184
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 1: true selves as people, we need to be okay with

1185
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: someone just not being for us. That's the problem. Whether

1186
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: like I've had male partners that didn't like me being bisexual,

1187
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: or fearing that every time I was hanging with a

1188
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: homegirl was probably having sex with them. I've had men

1189
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: intimidated by that, but I've let them know up front, well,

1190
01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: this is who I am. If that's not what you like,

1191
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: then maybe we shouldn't funk with each other. And so

1192
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 1: I think that men need to allow that same grace.

1193
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: If you feel like a woman is not going to

1194
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: fully accept you and who you are, that woman is

1195
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: just not for you. But there are women out there

1196
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 1: who is who are accepting of that. It's difficult because

1197
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,600
Speaker 1: I think that once you get to the point where

1198
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: you're married to someone, you have no idea what to do.

1199
01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 1: They said they married has to happen because you're only

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01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 1: gonna want to But not only that. If if and

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01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what the prenup is, I don't know

1202
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 1: what y'all uh, you know what what type of arrangements

1203
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: y'all made. But if you're out here fucking with with

1204
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 1: with with with other men, I don't know what the

1205
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 1: stipulations of divorce would be. But there is something aware

1206
01:03:57,040 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 1: if you went against the vows, she could rape yours

1207
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 1: as far as economically and in firms in terms of

1208
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 1: taking the money that you've built up in in in

1209
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,439
Speaker 1: your job and everything else. Like I will say, there

1210
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 1: is an unfair treatment and divorce and child support and

1211
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: all these other things we've talked about in terms of

1212
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: it being on the woman's side. So whether you're being

1213
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 1: unfaithful with a man or woman, you're being unfaithful to

1214
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 1: your partner and that will probably lead them to be

1215
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: more spif there there's a way, there's that too. Aside

1216
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Speaker 1: from hotels, you can check us out on Patreon and

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Speaker 1: get for a bonus episode. You just said any more advice, Well, yeah,

1218
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 1: it got a little deep, but I will say I

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01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 1: will say before we wrap up this episode, anyone listening

1220
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 1: to this podcast now, if for whatever reason, you feel

1221
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: as though the person you are engaging in sex with,

1222
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 1: the person you're in a relationship with, the person who

1223
01:04:55,200 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 1: you're pursuing, will not fully accept you for who you are,

1224
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: it is okay with knowing that that may not be

1225
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 1: the person for you. And I'm just I'm just frustrated

1226
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 1: in this dating pool of us trying to change ourselves

1227
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: to get into relationships and have have someone accept us

1228
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 1: for the people that we truly aren't. And if we're

1229
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 1: dating and trying to find someone that is our soul mate,

1230
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 1: our partners, someone that we can grow and build with.

1231
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,959
Speaker 1: You need to show your full self to them as

1232
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: early as possible to not waste your time, not waste

1233
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: their time, and also allow that person to choose if

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01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 1: you are the person for them, and it's okay for

1235
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 1: that person not to be for you. We need to

1236
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: be We need to be cognizant in the fact that

1237
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 1: who we may want may not be for us, and

1238
01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: that is okay. Cognizant Mandy, Yes, bitch, Okay, do the

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Speaker 1: solo episod We actually pump out most of our solo

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Speaker 1: content on page behind the scenes footage. We have live

1243
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: town halls where you can talk and chat with us

1244
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,160
Speaker 1: every once a month. And um, we give merch on there,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, check us out on there. Check us out

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Speaker 1: on our other podcast for facts take every Tuesday. Um,

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Speaker 1: and he has tumor podcasts. Yes, so you guys can

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Speaker 1: check me out right after this episode if you have

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Speaker 1: it yet. Periods this it is the official podcast brought

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Speaker 1: to you by official box owner. UM. And so there

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Speaker 1: I go into a lot of the tales of womanhood.

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Speaker 1: So women who have o variances, fibroids, cancer, really heavy periods,

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Speaker 1: So that's every Monday. They're very short, anywhere from twenty

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Speaker 1: to forty five minutes. And then you can also catch

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Speaker 1: me every Tuesday on See the Thing Is with my

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Speaker 1: co host Bridget Kelly. That is on the Joe Button Network.

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Speaker 1: And from time to time we have our friends with

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Speaker 1: benefits join us on the couch. So check that out

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Speaker 1: on YouTube, Apple Podcasts and uh SoundCloud. By tonight watch

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Speaker 1: Sex Get You Refused, and also again stay tuned for

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Speaker 1: a five minute bonus clip for our bonus Patreon content.

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Speaker 1: If you like what you here, going over to patreon

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Speaker 1: dot com backslash Horrible Bowl Decisions. All right, by guys,

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Speaker 1: this has been another episode of Hormon Decisions. It's bonus bitches.

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Speaker 1: Hi guys, we are here for another bonus episode of

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions, and I am here with two people that you, guys,

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Speaker 1: are already familiar with. So I am here with Shade

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Speaker 1: and Chelsea from the Black Girls texting podcast. Hey guys,

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Speaker 1: sweaty girl, go ahead, go ahead and tell on me.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead and tell them that I made y'all record

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Speaker 1: this at eight thirty in the morning on a Friday,

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Speaker 1: Daring Memorial Day weekend, on a Friday, a word Day

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Speaker 1: week and she proceeded to purchase us round. I'll take

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Speaker 1: just one round. I won't say round, the round of

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Speaker 1: shots last night, and then I went out and had

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Speaker 1: more drinks. So that's who you need to blame, is

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Speaker 1: the guy. It is the guys. So, guys, um, this

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Speaker 1: is of course a bonus episode, and we really wanted

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Speaker 1: to share with you. Guys are experienced because I did

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Speaker 1: bring these two ladies um to the sex club for

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Speaker 1: the first time. So for any of you who have

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Speaker 1: just wondered what someone's first experience was like at a

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Speaker 1: sex club, I know we normally bring the freaks on

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Speaker 1: and while these bitches be talking like they are and

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Speaker 1: they're there baby towing their ways there. But before we start,

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of you guys have seen what's

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Speaker 1: been going on with the other network that I'm a

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Speaker 1: part of um, with everything that's happened with my other podcasting.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, and the crazy part is, I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna sit here and talk about it like you think

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Speaker 1: I am, Um, but with with what happened and what

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Speaker 1: was said and what was um what transpired as far

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Speaker 1: as how people felt, and then of course the titles

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Speaker 1: and labels of sexual harassment, sexual assault, assault, and also

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Speaker 1: simply being uncomfortable. Those were a lot of conversations that

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Speaker 1: were being had, and I know that we talked about

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Speaker 1: those things a lot as well. Um. But what's crazy

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Speaker 1: is the very weak that that happened. Our episode with

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Speaker 1: Black Girls texting dropped, and immediately my heart kind of

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Speaker 1: went to it just sank as I started reading everyone's

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Speaker 1: comments regarding it being a workplace you can't say certain

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Speaker 1: things to certain people. My defense also to why I

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Speaker 1: wasn't uncomfortable is because I had buil up overpport. I've

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Speaker 1: known Joe for over ten years, so I'm hearing I'm

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Speaker 1: seeing all these think pieces on what happened, and drunk

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Speaker 1: as funk, I did hit you drunk, Chelsea, but I

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Speaker 1: I hit Chelsea up and I said, hey, when you

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Speaker 1: came onto horrible decisions, I didn't make you uncomfortable, did I?

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Speaker 1: And I said that because if you go and listen

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Speaker 1: back to the episode, I was clearly flirting with Chelsea

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Speaker 1: and also said multiple times I wanted to funk you

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Speaker 1: when I saw you, you'll be playing I've been trying

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Speaker 1: to fuck you. Those are the things that I said

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Speaker 1: to Chelsea, which is what has Joe and hot boiling water.

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Speaker 1: And what's crazy about that is, Chelsea, you told me

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Speaker 1: you were not uncomfortable with my by my advances. However,

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Speaker 1: we don't have that strong rapport. I met you about

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Speaker 1: three years ago, but I think I've seen you more

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Speaker 1: in the last month that I have our entire lives. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's such like a gray area, especially like in the

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Speaker 1: world of podcast messing, right, because it's not like a

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Speaker 1: corporate setting. Um, and like you know, people are very

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Speaker 1: like loosey goosey, you're talking. I mean, you can talk

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Speaker 1: about sex on horrible decisions, so I wouldn't go on.

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Speaker 1: They're not expecting to talk about sex if that okay.

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Speaker 1: So that is what people were saying, and it made

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Speaker 1: me so uncomfortable. So a lot of people that I

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Speaker 1: spoke to was like, yeah, we'll see the thing is

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Speaker 1: isn't Horrible Decisions, And so people were like, when you

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Speaker 1: go on Horrible Decisions, you would expect that type of stuff,

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Speaker 1: And it immediately made me uncomfortable because I shot back

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Speaker 1: and was like, Horrible Decisions is still not a space

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Speaker 1: that I created to make people uncomfortable or to sexually

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Speaker 1: assault them and for them to feel like they have

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Speaker 1: to endure that type of behavior from Wheezy or Eye.

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Speaker 1: So when that was the response, I was like, Na,

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Speaker 1: potting is potting. But I hated that people thought that, Well,

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Speaker 1: if that was said on a Horrible Decisions, I think

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Speaker 1: it would have just been fine, because you know, they

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Speaker 1: know what they're signing up when they go over there,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, And that's why I hit you

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Speaker 1: because I was like, if if Chelsea was uncomfortable with

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Speaker 1: my advances just because of my show, that doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: she signed up to be sexually harassed, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah? And I didn't mean like Horrible Decisions

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Speaker 1: you signed to get sexually harassed. I mean more like

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Speaker 1: it's a podcast and it's not necessarily