WEBVTT - DWTS Did Me Dirty: Hilaria Baldwin Sets the Record Straight

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<v Speaker 1>Miss Spelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to Misspelling. I'm me Laria Baldwin and I'm filling

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<v Speaker 1>in for my friend Toy this week. So I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>excited to be here with you guys, and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait to answer all of these questions.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll start with some Dancing with the Stars questions. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>what made you want to join Dancing with the Stars.

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars was a really fast, last minute,

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<v Speaker 1>wild whirlwind of universe coming together.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I love to dance.

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<v Speaker 1>I danced when I was much younger, and I broke

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<v Speaker 1>my hip, so I stopped dancing. I couldn't walk for

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<v Speaker 1>the better part of a year, and I was I

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<v Speaker 1>was new to TikTok. I am new to TikTok, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to figure out what TikTok is about.

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<v Speaker 1>Only people dance. So I started dancing on TikTok and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dancing with my husband, and people start writing in

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>Dancing with the Stars called me and they're like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to jump on a plane in a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days and come here and I was like, looked

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<v Speaker 1>over my.

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<v Speaker 3>Husband and I looked at my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, and then we went on this

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<v Speaker 1>like wild, fun adventure. So it was really a really

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<v Speaker 1>exciting universe coming together experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, did your whole family move out to LA for

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<v Speaker 2>the time you were on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Alec was back and forth because he I mean again,

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<v Speaker 1>this was not something that we had planned. Some people,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they know that they're going to do this

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<v Speaker 1>like a year before. I mean mine was like days before.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was a you know, we pivoted. We took

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<v Speaker 1>the kids out of their normal school and we put

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<v Speaker 1>them in homeschool when they were out there. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was just a lot of pivoting and rallying and sort

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<v Speaker 1>of being like, all right, mommy's going on this adventure,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's go with them with her.

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<v Speaker 2>And were the kids excited for you?

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<v Speaker 3>So excited? And they loved when it was show day.

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<v Speaker 1>They loved when it was showday and they'd come and

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<v Speaker 1>they'd think about what they're wearing and where they're sitting.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the little ones would come in just for

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<v Speaker 1>my performance because they were a little bit too small

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<v Speaker 1>to watch. Have the attention span for the whole thing, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they were so cute sitting in the audience. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you have any hesitations about joining after your your hip issues?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that it's not just the hip.

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<v Speaker 1>I broke my foot a year ago. I've broken my

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<v Speaker 1>ankle a few years ago. I mean, I and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not you know, I don't have weak bones. I just

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<v Speaker 1>have I'm just insane and I do crazy physical things

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<v Speaker 1>like I broke my inkle almost getting hit by a car.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's like it's always there's a story to each

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<v Speaker 1>one of them. But I you know, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was more am I being crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, I'm a mom and I have seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Kids, and I believe very much in Reugene, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it was more that. But my kids

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<v Speaker 1>and my husband, even you know, not my very younger kids,

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<v Speaker 1>but my older kids were being able to articulate. Mom,

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<v Speaker 1>you always support us everything that we're doing, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we want to be there to cheer you on. And

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<v Speaker 1>even you know, said to my daughter, I was scared

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<v Speaker 1>when I go out there, my oldest I said, what

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<v Speaker 1>if I and the first week and I'd made this

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<v Speaker 1>big deal and we all flew out there, And she

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<v Speaker 1>said mommy, at least you tried. And I love that

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<v Speaker 1>my kids know that, and I just I was I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know other parents out there, but like when your

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<v Speaker 1>kids says something that just like you know, it knocks

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<v Speaker 1>the wind.

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<v Speaker 3>Out of you because it is just so beautiful. That

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<v Speaker 3>was one of those moments for me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. That's awesome. All right, So getting to this show,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you balance for her soul, mommy life everything

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<v Speaker 2>like that? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>It was hard. And actually one of my best friends

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<v Speaker 1>came out with me and helped me with the kids

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<v Speaker 1>because Alec again was back and forth.

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<v Speaker 3>My nannies came out with me.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's that. But you know, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was hard because my kids are used to me

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<v Speaker 1>being around a lot. I'm a very you know, physically

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<v Speaker 1>present mom, and so it was you know, and they

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<v Speaker 1>knew that when I got home, your body hurts and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired, and I you know, don't have as much

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<v Speaker 1>energy to run around with them. But they also, again

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<v Speaker 1>especially the older ones, really understood that no matter how

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<v Speaker 1>long I was gonna be on the show, was a

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<v Speaker 1>short period of time. This was just for now, and

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted they you know, they fell in love with

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<v Speaker 1>glev my dance partner. They fell in love with so

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<v Speaker 1>many of the other pros. And my daughter Carmen is

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with Danielle Fischel and to paying gay and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my.

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<v Speaker 3>God, I love to paying.

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<v Speaker 1>So they just say they really knew that this was

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<v Speaker 1>a once in a lifetime adventure.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, What were you hoping to get out of dancing

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<v Speaker 2>with the stars. Were you hoping to show like another

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<v Speaker 2>side of yourself or just kind of a personal you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've been asked a question, the questions like

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<v Speaker 1>that is like, you know, everybody's always wanting let me,

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<v Speaker 1>let me try to prove myself to you guys. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>let me show you something different about me. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm calculated enough to know how to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think things through obviously most of the time.

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<v Speaker 3>I really feel that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I love to move my body, and I

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<v Speaker 1>love to dance and to put those dance shoes on again.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, after the very first dance we were

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<v Speaker 1>finishing in about it was our idea and I just

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<v Speaker 1>kept on, We're just not even thinking and I kept

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<v Speaker 1>on bending over and I touched the ground and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like this, you know that that dance floor that

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<v Speaker 1>I knew so well that I you know, I, I

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<v Speaker 1>said goodbye to you a long time ago, and it

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<v Speaker 1>just to have that emotional connection. And you know, moms,

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<v Speaker 1>we like, you know, especially when we're in our forties,

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<v Speaker 1>everything is about Okay, where's what's my kids need to do?

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<v Speaker 3>And what does my work need to do?

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<v Speaker 1>And so we lose so much of our own identity

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<v Speaker 1>and so this was just such a beautiful reconnection, reconnecting

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<v Speaker 1>with something that had was very meaningful to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, yeah, are you excited to go back for the finale?

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<v Speaker 1>You cannot? I can noway, No, I'm not nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>Nerves.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like maybe good nerves, but not bad nerves.

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<v Speaker 1>It was such I loved everybody on that show, every

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<v Speaker 1>single person, from the hair and the makeup, to the justices,

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<v Speaker 1>to the the producers, to the big you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>big people with all of their power on the way top,

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<v Speaker 1>to the pros, to the to my you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>my fellow castmates, everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Just I'm so magical.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't meet one person that I didn't absolutely adore

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<v Speaker 1>on that show, and so I'm just excited to see

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<v Speaker 1>everybody again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so many people say that. They said everyone it's

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<v Speaker 2>just always so much like a family and everyone supports

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<v Speaker 2>each other.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of really weird. Like you get looking around you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, nah, no, this can't be.

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<v Speaker 1>So good, and you look like, how have you guys

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<v Speaker 1>created something that's just so positive? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So when you got eliminated, the next dance was

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<v Speaker 2>dedication week, and we're going to dedicate it to Alec.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you share what dance you were going to do

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<v Speaker 2>was a part of it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, he was gonna be a part of it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna can I tell you the internet did me

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<v Speaker 1>dirty that one because it would have been so funny,

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<v Speaker 1>would have been iconic, you know, Alec. He was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to do our dance to our first wedding dance,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was going to be like SNL meets Dancing

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<v Speaker 1>with the Stars meets like Blackpool Dancing meets just like

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous Baldwinville. So it's like it was gonna be really

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<v Speaker 1>really funny, and you know, who know, it was down

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<v Speaker 1>the line if there's gonna be an opportunity for us

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<v Speaker 1>to create that or not.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, do you know what you're doing? For the finale.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. I have to I have to

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<v Speaker 1>call Gleb and ask him. I hope it'll be something fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't really know that much about about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't you know, I should watch the finales of

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<v Speaker 1>other seasons. But I hope it'll be like One Last

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<v Speaker 1>Dance would be so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Absolutely. Are you still in touch with Gleb or

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<v Speaker 2>anyone else with the show or is it hard right

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<v Speaker 2>now because the show's still no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>No no. Glev and I are going to be like

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<v Speaker 1>lifelong friends. We became like buddies right away. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I feel that he's another person I feel

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<v Speaker 1>so lucky to have connected with. You know, he really

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<v Speaker 1>is a special, special person. And I do believe in

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<v Speaker 1>people coming into each other's lives at certain time times.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we send each other memes all day

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<v Speaker 1>and text and we'll have a phone call. And you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, we stayed in LA for about two weeks

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<v Speaker 1>after the show, and we hung out a ton of times,

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<v Speaker 1>and he hung out with Alex. So it's it's he's

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<v Speaker 1>a really special person.

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome. Do you think that any of the issues or

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<v Speaker 2>the like backlash that Gleb had from last season affected

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<v Speaker 2>anything on your season.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I think it's a combination of a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a reality show, right, and that's it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>reality show. Now, it's a fun reality show. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's warm and fuzzy on the inside reality show. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's a reality show. And so I look, I met him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right away, and obviously this is the show

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<v Speaker 1>came out, the Dancing Stars came out when everything was

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<v Speaker 1>coming out about you know, what was what had happened

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<v Speaker 1>with him in the pastor has not happened with him? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. I don't like commenting on other

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<v Speaker 1>people's relationships, but you know, I told him we're partnership.

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<v Speaker 1>We go through things together in every single way, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really think that. I think that we are a package.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course people are going to vote for certain reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's going to be people who are going to

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<v Speaker 1>try to influence people. But all we could do was

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<v Speaker 1>do our best dancing and have the most fun, and

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<v Speaker 1>we did. We did that, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think you guys are unfairly cut from the competition?

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<v Speaker 2>Should other people have gone home before you?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really hard question because I love everybody on

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<v Speaker 1>the show, and if you know me, I'm like peace

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<v Speaker 1>and love and I'm a Samles wull dance together forever.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I cried every single time somebody was eliminated.

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<v Speaker 1>I like really had a very hard time afterwards and

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot to process. And it's like a weird

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<v Speaker 1>mixed feeling of like, Okay, I get to go to

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<v Speaker 1>dance tomorrow, but it's painful because everybody worked so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, dancing wise, we're very we're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're very good together at glebinin dancing wise, we are

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<v Speaker 1>very good together.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that because I have a background in dance do.

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<v Speaker 1>I love watching Andy Richter like improve and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>a joy to watch. Absolutely, So every single partner on there,

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<v Speaker 1>whether they got eliminated first or they are going to win,

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<v Speaker 1>is valid because dancing is about entertainment and enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyone can dance, and so you know, again this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>who's the best dancer, This is you know, whose journey

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<v Speaker 1>are we watching? And you know what music choice was it?

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<v Speaker 1>And what does that resonate with people? And what are

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<v Speaker 1>the online campaigns to support people and to tear people down.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all a big part of the reality show. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean what, I've continued, loved to continue

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<v Speaker 1>to dance, absolutely, But at the same time, I said

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<v Speaker 1>to my kids. My kids were there and they were crying,

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<v Speaker 1>and I kneeled down with them on the ballroom floor.

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<v Speaker 1>After the cameras were often, I said, I know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really and I'm crying too, So I'm really really sad.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want you to look at my castmates and

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<v Speaker 1>you see how happy they are. And part of this

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<v Speaker 1>experience is being happy for the people who get to

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<v Speaker 1>dance tomorrow, and so I really never want to lose that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I'm reminding myself and teaching them. So

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like it's a it's a mixed bag.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And speaking of internet chatter, do you agree with

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<v Speaker 2>the heat that Yan is getting.

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<v Speaker 1>I've only seen like headlines. First of all, I love Yon,

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<v Speaker 1>I love Yon. I was I've been laughing a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit because there was some really like funny, like obviously

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<v Speaker 1>bullshit trash article about me that I was having like

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<v Speaker 1>a fit that I wasn't dancing with Yon when I

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like and I was like, and at that

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<v Speaker 1>point it was so funny because I hadn't actually been

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<v Speaker 1>to I went to LA for the promos, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I was back rehearsing in New York for a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit because the dancing the stars are so supportive and

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<v Speaker 1>they helped me have some extra time in New York

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<v Speaker 1>to transition my family. But I was like reading this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and I'm like, who's Yan like? And apparently I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like throwing things it mad that I'm not dancing with

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<v Speaker 1>Yan and something about like I needed a certain lighting

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<v Speaker 1>in my dressing room that doesn't exist. You don't get

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<v Speaker 1>a dressing room dancing with You do get a trailer,

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<v Speaker 1>But trailer lighting, I think is just pretty fluorescent. It's

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<v Speaker 1>my first trailer I ever had, but I think that

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<v Speaker 1>they just across the bad fluorescent. Maybe if you're like

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<v Speaker 1>a super stud you get a special lighting. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was like all these like obviously just who I also

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<v Speaker 1>wonder who are these people who just like write this stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I'm not even physically present to

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<v Speaker 1>be doing any of these things, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who Yan is. So that was my first introduction to

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<v Speaker 1>Yan was apparently I was really mad that I.

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<v Speaker 3>Wasn't dancing with him, and I like laughed about it

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<v Speaker 3>so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Where we finally did meet, I was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know that apparently I have through a tantrum that I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't dancing with you.

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<v Speaker 3>But so, first of all, Yan is a beautiful dancer.

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<v Speaker 3>He's no.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he a ballroom dancer? No, but not everybody on

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<v Speaker 1>there is a ballroom dancer. You know, they've learned some ballroom,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're not a ballroom dancer. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>he brings something completely unique. He's one of the loveliest

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<v Speaker 1>people you'll ever meet. He's such a good person, and

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<v Speaker 1>so is Jen, and they're so cute together. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>every single time I watched them, I have a great

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<v Speaker 1>time watching them. So I feel like everybody, look again,

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<v Speaker 1>it goes back to it's a reality show and people

0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:19.000
<v Speaker 1>are trying to create drama about it. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>really know the people, you know, just let people dance.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. Let people dance and enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>If they did a redemption season to bring back contestants,

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<v Speaker 2>would you do with it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm obsessed with Dancing with the Stars. I like,

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<v Speaker 3>I had the best time at the time in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone says that when they come off the show, they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I just want to dance. That's all

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, it's again. It is such a positive experience

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<v Speaker 1>and it's hard on your nervous system to like just

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<v Speaker 1>stop because like every every day, no days off, every day,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you wake up the next day and you're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I do with myself today? And of course

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<v Speaker 1>I have seven kids, so I know what I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>with myself. And it is you get into this routine

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<v Speaker 1>of just like, Okay, this is what I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be, and now it's over. You just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get you get off the train. So it

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<v Speaker 1>is that is a painful side to it. But truly, truly, truly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's only been a positive experience. I would say that

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing is like when you go and you

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<v Speaker 1>do the podcast right afterwards, where I.

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<v Speaker 3>Like bald my eyes out. I think a lot of

0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:27.600
<v Speaker 3>people bother their eyes out afterwards because.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just so emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>I had my kids outside the room and.

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<v Speaker 1>They were crying, so I'm having to act try out

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<v Speaker 1>like a logical conversation. I'm like hearing my kids crying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dressed up like Princess Leah, Like I'm seeing the

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculousness of myself doing this, and you just get up

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, all right, I don't know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to say. I'm just I guess I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>the new meme tomorrow, which I watched.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, they're always looking for that. So

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<v Speaker 2>going back to the show, did you have any say

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<v Speaker 2>in your song or picking your wardrobe or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely in the songs we had a ton of say

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<v Speaker 1>they really dancing the stories really wants your personality to shine,

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<v Speaker 1>so they listen to you a lot, and they really care.

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<v Speaker 1>There's lots of teams having meetings. I also am the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of person where I come on to this and

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I'm you know, I'm not the pro

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<v Speaker 1>on it, neither in dance or in costuming or in

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<v Speaker 1>what's gonna sound the best or the camera angles. So

0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:30.960
<v Speaker 1>you do see like I'd be sitting next to my

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<v Speaker 1>castmates and they're in like the make out, hair and

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<v Speaker 1>makeup chair and they're actively telling people who what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I sometimes wonder if it's an endearing quality about me

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<v Speaker 1>or it just makes me you know, kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>pushover where I'm like, do what you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I am here to enjoy your enjoy your expertise. So

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<v Speaker 1>I really, for the most part, like costume wise, hair wise,

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<v Speaker 1>makeup wise, I just enjoyed being around these people who

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<v Speaker 1>are very good at what they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever have any wardrobe mount functions right before show?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? And yes I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see, I had my first costume there was so

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, like you want to you wear this

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<v Speaker 1>costume for a while, like a really long while, because

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<v Speaker 1>we do a dress rehearsal and then we have a

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<v Speaker 1>quick break and then we go into the live show

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<v Speaker 1>and and and then you've done a rehearsal and practice

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<v Speaker 1>close before, so you've you've done this dance many many times.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, i'd get to the studio, I'd I get

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<v Speaker 1>to air and make up between six thirty and seven thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know sometimes we weren't out until I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, like nine thirty ten, after doing press and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the first one. So trying to like pee

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<v Speaker 1>in these outfits right before you're going to go on

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<v Speaker 1>is a feat in itself, especially like I like feathers

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like pulling to one side. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not it's not a graceful situation. And as I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking down, I see this string, hey, from like the

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<v Speaker 1>crotch of my of my dress. So I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>thank god like I went to pee before, because like

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<v Speaker 1>it would have been extraordinarily embarrassing to be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>why is there this string hanging out from the cratch

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<v Speaker 1>of her So we.

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<v Speaker 3>Found that one out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was actually really really tight on my They made

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit too tight on my neck, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was bruised to the next day all my collar

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<v Speaker 1>bones the back of my neck because of how tight

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<v Speaker 1>the dress was. And I mean, they want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that there are no wardrobe those kinds of wardrobe malfunctions.

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<v Speaker 3>The week afterwards, we did.

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<v Speaker 1>Tangle and my elbows like we had to tape them

0:17:36.640 --> 0:17:39.480
<v Speaker 1>because it was like getting like this awful pain in

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<v Speaker 1>my elbows from that. You know, he sort of threw

0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:46.639
<v Speaker 1>me around into a trick towards the end. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the other ones it was, you know, not

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<v Speaker 1>as not as much. The last outfit was probably my

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<v Speaker 1>least favorite because it was just like so much fabric

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like we kept on catching each other

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<v Speaker 1>on it and made it hard to dance.

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<v Speaker 3>But so yeah, that was that was that nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you guys have a costume plan for the Halloween episode?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we were playing around with different ideas. I like

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of doing Fantom of the Opera. That's what's

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<v Speaker 1>been super fun. But we were kind of like you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of plan on two weeks ahead because you don't

0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:20.879
<v Speaker 1>want to count your chickens too what you want to

0:18:20.880 --> 0:18:24.280
<v Speaker 1>be prepared, but right not overly prepared, because any heart

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<v Speaker 1>gets broken more.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been said that once you've spent seven days a

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<v Speaker 2>week training for Dancing with the Stars, even though it's

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<v Speaker 2>really hard, it gives you that confidence that I can

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<v Speaker 2>do anything. You feel that And is there anything that

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<v Speaker 2>you want to do now that maybe like you were

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<v Speaker 2>afraid to do before?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I always feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids is right?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just I just enjoyed the experience so

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<v Speaker 1>much so I feel like, you know, are we going

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<v Speaker 1>to spend more time in La Probably. I think we've

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<v Speaker 1>had some very serious conversations in terms of that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that's given me the confidence into making

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<v Speaker 1>a potentially bigger move than I thought we would. Again,

0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:10.719
<v Speaker 1>we'll see we are. We are really people who pivot

0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:13.280
<v Speaker 1>and see in our life, as you know, is constantly

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<v Speaker 1>wild and changing. I kind of like the idea this

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<v Speaker 1>is completely like out of blue. I kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of like getting out of soap opera or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it would be so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like playing, you know what I mean, anything

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<v Speaker 1>where you get to play and have fun and interact

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<v Speaker 1>with other people.

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<v Speaker 3>I very much. I very much like that. So we'll see,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I have some fun projects in the work,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have a lot of fun meetings in the

0:19:38.720 --> 0:19:41.600
<v Speaker 1>works of just like dreaming, like a lot of dreaming

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<v Speaker 1>right now, which is a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome. I heard soap operas are a lot of hard

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<v Speaker 2>work too, so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like to love it? Yeah, just make yourself busy, you know. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that without any experience or anything, and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I would see it and like I try it out

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, no, not for me. This is literally

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<v Speaker 1>like Ilaria doesn't think they through and is saying on

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, that's like that's the best way to go

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<v Speaker 2>through life. Maybe it's go with it, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, guys, that's it for today.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for listening with me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>am so happy, Tori, that you gave me this opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, and I can't wait to see you soon.