WEBVTT - Second Date Update: It's No Picnic

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. When you see an attractive person online, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your best move to start the conversation. I know for

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<v Speaker 1>our technical director Ashton, he starts with two words, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is true. He opens with, hey, trouble. The success

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<v Speaker 1>raid is probably under twenty percent, maybe even under two percent,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know it's not going to stop him from trying.

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<v Speaker 1>Worked on one of our listeners, Spence says he connected

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<v Speaker 1>with a very attractive woman on a dating app and

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<v Speaker 1>it was purely coincidental. So let's talk to him and

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<v Speaker 1>hear about it. Hey, a troublemaker. Welcome to the trouble bubble. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>trouble happens on this show. Okay, I took the right

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<v Speaker 1>dating fall, that's for sure. Yeah. I think it's so

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<v Speaker 1>weird that you're saying you coincidentally met somebody online. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>it all purposeful when you're online dating? Tell us what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So I met Robin on a dating app, and the

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<v Speaker 1>whole reason that we met is because under hobbies she

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<v Speaker 1>had listed glass blowing, which coincidentally, I've actually taken a

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<v Speaker 1>glass blowing class, and so I thought that I would

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<v Speaker 1>strike up a conversation about that. Oh, I took one

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<v Speaker 1>of those two, did you make a little dish to

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<v Speaker 1>put your like paper clips in, because that's what I made.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds really fun, you know. I made like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>those glass balls you can buy it like pier One,

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<v Speaker 1>those kinds of well they used to, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I made stuff like that. Okay, your item was even

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<v Speaker 1>more useless than mine. Yeah, and here's a weird thing

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<v Speaker 1>about it. So I messaged her about the glass blowing

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<v Speaker 1>and she tells me that she doesn't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. She's never done glass bowing, and chat's

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<v Speaker 1>not in the profile, and I realized that we're chatting.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was talking about like a different girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but she wrote you back, which means she thinks

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<v Speaker 1>he had a cute picture. Yeah. I'm just glad we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking at this point, you know what I mean, because

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<v Speaker 1>like half the battle of online dating is getting them

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<v Speaker 1>to respond, and that's tough. So what did you do

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<v Speaker 1>like rush over to robaio and be like, ha ha,

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<v Speaker 1>what a Joe car That was funny. We just kept

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<v Speaker 1>chatting and uh, we're getting along pretty well. And I decided, well,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to meet up? And she said sure,

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<v Speaker 1>she would love to all right, good work. So what'd

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<v Speaker 1>you end up doing for the date? Well, we did

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<v Speaker 1>a picnic in the park. And I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a picnic is kind of a cheap date. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I was literally thinking in my head. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not negative cheap, but I'm just, you know, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to save a little money. Yeah, but you could still

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<v Speaker 1>make it cute even if it's not that expensive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was. It was kind of cute, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I also brought like a frisbee so we could play

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<v Speaker 1>frisbee a little that I played the ukulele, so I

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<v Speaker 1>brought back. I went to the like there's a comedian store,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know how they have like food prepared noo.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were talking like a shortcootery board or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, And they had like top with potata

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<v Speaker 1>salad spoons. And that's a date. It's funny that you

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<v Speaker 1>should bust me in the potato salad because actually I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot to pack forks and knives and stuff. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a problem. Scoop it with your hair at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, just straight in, just air dropping it from

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<v Speaker 1>the top. Yeah, that was a little awkward. So we

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<v Speaker 1>had to actually like scoop some of that out using

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<v Speaker 1>like the lid of the container and then put it

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<v Speaker 1>on each the plates. And did she do that or

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<v Speaker 1>was it just you that did that? I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>both did it, but it was my idea. Yeah, creative.

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<v Speaker 1>She was down with it. And you know, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>she had a good sense of humor too, because at

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<v Speaker 1>one point, like I pretended to feed her like with

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<v Speaker 1>them slid from my hand, but it was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she knew I was joking. She laughed, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>actually in your hand. This sounds like a disaster. The

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you just said she was laughing all time

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<v Speaker 1>is actually good. I mean, is that the vibe that

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<v Speaker 1>you were getting that you and Robin were connecting during

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<v Speaker 1>this entire day? So yeah, I mean overall it felt

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<v Speaker 1>really good. We especially started to connect, I think too

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<v Speaker 1>when I broke out the wine. It sounds like everything's

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<v Speaker 1>going pretty well. How did the night end? Oh man?

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<v Speaker 1>So we're at the park right and we're just having

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. The sun starts going down, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's getting kind of romantic, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>I invited her to come over to my place. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I told her, it's like looking I only live like

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<v Speaker 1>eleven blocks away, you know, I mean, like we could

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<v Speaker 1>we could totally walk. Whoa eleven block walks a little far?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why why not just get into Uber? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because again it's like I trying to save a little money,

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<v Speaker 1>Plus it's a nice night. We could walk and it it

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<v Speaker 1>only takes like about maybe a half hour at the

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<v Speaker 1>most for you know, forty five minutest. Those are big

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<v Speaker 1>blocks or not? Well, no, I mean, and I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to push anything or other. But the

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<v Speaker 1>date ended like on a really positive tip though. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like we hugged, we said goodbye, we totally talked

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<v Speaker 1>about getting together again, and uh, and then we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of left it out there. But I ever spent I've

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<v Speaker 1>texted her a few times and I I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from her, Okay, so a lot to process there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and we need to think about this a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more too. We're going to play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Robin for you and we'll ask her what

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<v Speaker 1>she thought about your picnic date in the park with

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<v Speaker 1>the potato salad and no forks. All right, sounds great, Alan, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it right after this whole onment. Second, we're

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date up date with Spence,

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<v Speaker 1>and he made a point of telling us about his

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<v Speaker 1>relatively inexpensive picnic experience with Robin. He emphasized the inexpensive

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<v Speaker 1>a lot where he brought reasonably priced wine, a ukulele

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<v Speaker 1>convenience store sandwiches, and a tub of potato salad without

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<v Speaker 1>any eating utensils whatsoever. Yeah, and right there, I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm out with this guy, there's no way I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back. Are you thinking right? For some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin is hesitant to accept love when it's being hand

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<v Speaker 1>fed to her with a creamy mayonnaise soaked potato And

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<v Speaker 1>all she had to do was going to forty five

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<v Speaker 1>minute walk back to his play. Is that so much

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<v Speaker 1>to ask? What's going on? So we're about to call

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<v Speaker 1>and find out what's wrong with her, isn't that right, Spencial? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to know, what's wrong with her.

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<v Speaker 1>You may get a little bit of truth back when

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<v Speaker 1>we call her. That may hurt your feelings a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want you to prepare you for that. It

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is. I don't know what could possibly

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<v Speaker 1>hurt your feelings that she could say, because I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I've just tried to help him, Like, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>set yourself up with a thick skin right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully we find just a really normal reason she's calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Okay, Well, I'm more optimistic than is. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you sound thoughtful, You sound frugal. How is he thoughtful? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>not completely thoughtful, I brought. Yeah, I think there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of positive qualities you have and hopefully Robin can

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<v Speaker 1>see them. But we're going to call her right now

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<v Speaker 1>and see what she has to say. You ready, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, I'm ready. All right, man, We're gonna do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello. Hey, this is jeff from Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm looking for Robin. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Robin. Hey, Robin, Robin r. Wait where did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>We're from? Again? From Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and we are calling you with a once in a

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<v Speaker 1>lifetime opportunity here that I think is actually true. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity I'm talking about is for you to be

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<v Speaker 1>featured on a mid to low tier morning radio show,

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<v Speaker 1>and as a bonus, we can't and won't pay you anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You realize this sounds a scam. Does that sound fun

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<v Speaker 1>to you? I guess sounds amazing. Yeah, Rob, you do

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a good time because you went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with one of our listeners recently named Spence.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I did. Yeah. So Spence has asked us

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<v Speaker 1>to reach out to you on his behalf. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>guys just tell him that I have a boyfriend or something? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>unless you actually have one, then we can't really say

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<v Speaker 1>that to him. But we'd like to tell him something

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<v Speaker 1>because he told us a little bit about the date

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys went on with the picnic in the park,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'd like to hear what it was like from

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<v Speaker 1>your perspective. Well. I thought he didn't want to spend

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money on the date first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I saw when he opened the food. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I hope I'm not going to regret this

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<v Speaker 1>one later on because it looked like he was from

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<v Speaker 1>a convenience store. And can't confirm or deny that fact, buddy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked to Spence about this and he feels bad

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<v Speaker 1>about that. He has some regret, he does. He understands

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe he could have done a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>or made some different decisions. But at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, he said, you guys still laughed about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I was kind of laughing with him when

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<v Speaker 1>although like quirky and you know, all the stop happened

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<v Speaker 1>during the date and the ukulele when he brought it out,

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<v Speaker 1>but something happened something else. I'm not even sure if

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<v Speaker 1>he knows about it. Oh yeah, he definitely needs to know,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think. Well, I don't know. It's kind of embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't seem like a guy who gets embarrassed very easily.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good point. And part of being on our

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<v Speaker 1>show here is that you agree, you're willing to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe some things you you wouldn't necessarily want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's ready to accept whatever it is that he

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<v Speaker 1>messed up on. Okay, wow, what did you see? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is what happened. Like at some point throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the date, he gets a phone call. Okay, so, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you didn't want to take it in front

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<v Speaker 1>of me. So he goes around, like where a tree

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<v Speaker 1>that was near us and soundproof tree? Real, we're pretty

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<v Speaker 1>close with a tree. Well yeah, it's kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>rude to take a phone call during the date. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was actually nice about it, like he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I really have to take this call. So

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was like a really important call, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, sure, yeah, okay, so what's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But that what happened is that I heard him saying, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm gonna make it tonight because I

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<v Speaker 1>have a good chance of getting laid. No, it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like he was talking to one of his buddies, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And after that it was like over for me, like

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely a little presumptuous, totally like what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>I am like gas station potato salad girls or else?

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<v Speaker 1>Give it up after you exactly what I think? That's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly like we didn't know that that had happened on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Spence didn't tell us about that. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't him. Yeah, And actually it's a great question

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<v Speaker 1>to ask because Spence is on the other line right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's on the other side of this tree wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you, Spence. We don't think you're getting laid Spence.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Man? I am so embarrassed, Robin. I

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<v Speaker 1>was so embarrassed that you heard that that I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that I was behind the tree. You couldn't hear with

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<v Speaker 1>my conversation. Why would you even say it, Spence? Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you even say that? Well, I mean I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hoping, you know, I mean you were cute

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<v Speaker 1>and we had a good time. I mean, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with that, right, Like, there's nothing wrong with hoping

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<v Speaker 1>it'll go further. Well, I don't think there's nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with hoping, but like talking to your buddies about it, like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a few feet away, it feels yeah, yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get one thing wrong about that though. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>talking to one of my buddy Oh, okay, I was

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<v Speaker 1>actually talking to my mom. No, how is that? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>close to my mom? You know? Isn't that like a

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<v Speaker 1>good trait that you want? Are you serious? You tell

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<v Speaker 1>your mom, Hey, I think I'm gonna get it in tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna make it home for dinner. Not that explicit,

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<v Speaker 1>but mom wants me to be happy. You know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>your mom does sound kind of sweet, so at least

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<v Speaker 1>she cares about you in your love life. What are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? Jeff and a conversation you have with

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<v Speaker 1>your mother. Everybody has a different relationship with their parents.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't judge them for that. That's also true Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you judging him? I am judging him. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do spence. I'm sorry. You're gonna take a

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<v Speaker 1>forty five minute walk home and then you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>gonna ye get home. Is this a situation where you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to be taking Robin home to your mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that where you live? Well, she lives next door,

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<v Speaker 1>but okay, I don't know. That wasn't I wasn't planning

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<v Speaker 1>on coming over to mom. That's why I was talking

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<v Speaker 1>to her on the phone because usually I go have

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<v Speaker 1>dinner at my mom's house, and she wanted to know

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<v Speaker 1>if I was on my way okay, so that she

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<v Speaker 1>could look through the window and wave to you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>This is weird then what I thought before, And it

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<v Speaker 1>was already kind of weird. I don't understand what it's

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<v Speaker 1>so weird. We had a nice time. I thought we connected. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird to know that that was your plans with

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<v Speaker 1>me right even throughout the day, Like it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's horrible, like I wouldn't even if you're taking me

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<v Speaker 1>to a really expensive restaurant. If I hear you say that,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just respectful. How about this, Robin, If we hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again and I won't tell my mom about anything

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<v Speaker 1>about relationship, Okay, if we can go out another time,

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<v Speaker 1>mom doesn't have to know anything like a big promise

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Man. Yeah, she's gonna be upset, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know it's just what I'm gonna do. Yeah, come on

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<v Speaker 1>me to get her own life. I know. Usually he

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<v Speaker 1>high fives his mom after he's done with every date,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is going to be a big deal. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're willing to go out with him one more time,

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<v Speaker 1>then we would pay for that date. Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>think I called you? Guys? Wow? It's a smart man.

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<v Speaker 1>Smart man his mother raised him, right, his mother did

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<v Speaker 1>not raise him. Okay, that is the opposite. Okay, at

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<v Speaker 1>least he's smart. But Robin, what do you say? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry for him and I want set for him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can't. I can't wait with him. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Have we learned anything here, Spence? Good question. Well let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you this. Next time I do a pictic state,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm bringing corn in a cob and forget the potato salad.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you can eat corn in a cop with your hands?

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<v Speaker 1>And there's a lesson. I don't get a girl home

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Yeah. Mom raised him right. Seek and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.